Ep. 11 What I Want is to Get Laid, What I Need is to Get Laid

We are covering episode 11, The Drought. Is lack of sex indicative of relationship trouble? Did Carrie overreact about farting in front of Mr. Big? We get into it. Join the conversation @SexInTheCityOfAngels

Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:01):
This is Sex in the City of Angels podcast.

Speaker 2 (00:16):
Welcome back to Sex in This City of Angels. We'll
almost have the season finale. We're on episode eleven, The Drought.

Speaker 3 (00:27):
I'm Kyla, I'm.

Speaker 1 (00:28):
Aliah Kai, I'm norm So why can't you?

Speaker 2 (00:31):
And our girl Dana is still on her eat, left
prey living vicariously through her She has living her best
life and we're here living What are four girls these?

Speaker 3 (00:40):
This episode The Drought?

Speaker 2 (00:42):
Hmmm, I liked it. I always do me too.

Speaker 3 (00:46):
It's a good show. It's a great show.

Speaker 2 (00:48):
It's a great show. But our girls, man, they make
me feel like I got it easy sometimes and then
it's like, I see myself and I hate that.

Speaker 1 (00:56):
Now?

Speaker 2 (00:57):
Whatdy put themselves out there a week now? It face
a lot when you do that.

Speaker 3 (01:02):
Okay.

Speaker 2 (01:03):
After the classic intro, Carrie talks about how New York
City it's all about sex and when you finally get
somebody in bed, the real fun begins. She's cuddling with
mister Big eating ice cream, and she said, if you're
sleeping together for many weeks, mister Big and I had
gotten comfortable enough to really sleep together. It was nice.

(01:24):
It was the way I'd always dreamed it could be.
It's very sweet.

Speaker 3 (01:28):
It's like officially in a relationship.

Speaker 2 (01:31):
Yeah, I guess more or less. I mean, I feel
like y'all didn't show y'allselves anywhere but in bed, but
the past, you know whatever. A few weeks I was
hanging out, but we know they've been out before, so
I mean I did go through a thought process of
is it just a sexual relationship, but I had to
remind myself, like, no, they've been out, they've been out,
but how often do they go out versus being in bed? Well,
I think it's it's they're not only sleeping together, you know,

(01:52):
they're they're being intimate where they're laying together, they're resting together,
they're waking up together. There's another level of comfortability. There
have been people that I was sleeping with, spending the
night with, but we're not like really like sleeping together,
you know, like we're having sex and fall asleep, waking
up and going our separate days, our separate ways. But
theirs was next level intimacy. Yeah, and it's a comfortable

(02:15):
sleep that's nice.

Speaker 3 (02:17):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (02:17):
In these scenes, I definitely thought they looked really cute
and bad.

Speaker 3 (02:22):
They did.

Speaker 2 (02:23):
They did. It was happy for her. Yeah. The next
morning they wake up, they give each other a kiss,
good morning, and then a fart slips out, so worse.

Speaker 3 (02:37):
He's like, was that you.

Speaker 2 (02:41):
Right?

Speaker 3 (02:41):
I'd've been like, no, what was that? That was the big.

Speaker 2 (02:46):
And then she gets undercovers and he's like, it might
be worse under there. Shut up, gets to run, runs
into the door, just keeps getting worse and worse, and
he's just cracking up at her.

Speaker 3 (02:58):
It was the funniest thing.

Speaker 2 (02:59):
She was super embarrassed. I don't know how I would
have handled it, but probably not like that. I feel
like it was the end of the damn world. You know,
you're thirty, Like he's been around some I'm sure he
started before, like we started before.

Speaker 1 (03:11):
You know what. You're right, I don't know how I
would have reacted, but not like that, for sure.

Speaker 2 (03:15):
No, No, I probably would have been what you said earlier. Now,
what was that you heard that? I think I might
have been my phone. Actually, actually I have a story.
I was in Dominican Republic of my last relationship. It
was our first vacation together, and I remember I was
talking to on the phone to my best friend, like
it's working out, Like every time I have to go
to the bathroom. He just happens to be maybe somewhere

(03:36):
else where I could just have like some freedom or whatever.
But then one night he was you know, we were
both in the room and I went to the bathroom
and it was just so loud, so terrible. So and
then when I came out, we just both started cracking up.
You need to say anything. I was like, what was

(03:57):
the problem. We just never talked about it. But yeah,
that's how I hear that.

Speaker 1 (04:03):
Okay, I feel like partying is one thing, but for
it to smell that I would be really embarrassed.

Speaker 2 (04:12):
I have a couple of too quick ones one time.
Well my ex like hated that. And I also I
am not really the types of the past guys in
front of people anyway, but not on purpose.

Speaker 3 (04:24):
Not yeah, not on purpose exactly.

Speaker 1 (04:28):
That's why I love living alone, because no I can
part forever whenever, not.

Speaker 2 (04:36):
Whatever. So I was sleep one time and I had
a dream that I passed gas and it was like
a loud, long one in my dream, And next thing
I know, he was waking me up, like why would
you do that? Like, holy shit, I'm so sorry not
say it was like I'm sorry, I'm human. Then he

(05:04):
did fuck that fool the next time or later in
the relationship whatever. We were in the car and I
saw a garbage truck and I tried to time it.
No anyway, by the time the smell actually came, the

(05:25):
garbage truck was long gone. I just had nothing to
blame it on.

Speaker 3 (05:28):
He was like, was that you? That was the garbage
truck from two blocks? It was terrible. It was so embarrassing.

Speaker 2 (05:36):
So I didn't handle it like carry But I also
didn't handle it the best. Definitely embarrassing in one way
or an And it wasn't a man I thought was
so perfect either. It was like a man that can
kiss my ass, you know, f you. She thinks mister
big is perfect. So doing it in front of somebody
who doesn't do that, wouldn't do that, probably never farts,
probably doesn't even have a butt cracker or a buttole. No,

(05:57):
but men, maybe she thinks that about him. But I
feel like men are so comfortable have the privilege of
being able to fart in front of you. No, no, no, no,
are these men now that I'm dating, Like I haven't
been farted in front of it a very long time.
One guy farted in his sleep. I loved him, though,
and I never bought it up. The next morning, he
asked her if she wanted to have coffee. He was

(06:19):
over it, and he's like, and she's like, I'm late
for a thing. I gotta go. Oh my god. I
was mortified. She tried to bury herself and work for
the rest of the day. She didn't call him. She
I don't think she answered his cause I don't know
if he called her, but she said. She didn't call
him for the rest of the day and buried herself
in work, and every time she stopped for a second

(06:40):
to think, the fart would play in her mind and
she'd have to relive her hell over and over again.

Speaker 3 (06:48):
It wasn't even a bad one.

Speaker 2 (06:50):
It was like a little cute one, like yeah, yeah,
it sounded like a little trumpet. The next day she
realized she was being childish, so she can acknowledge that
her reaction was a little bit less than She decided
to see him later and take the growing up approach,
which was complete and utter denial.

Speaker 3 (07:08):
Yeah, why bring it up again, It happened exactly.

Speaker 2 (07:09):
Just gotta keep it moving. What's done is done, Like, yeah,
that's not what happens to you, it's how you bounce
back from it.

Speaker 3 (07:15):
They're eating. He asked her for duck sauce.

Speaker 2 (07:17):
When she gets up to get it, he put a
whoope cushion in her seat. She sat in it, the
fart sound came out and they just both laughed like
cute little light joke. And she said romance had given
way to reality, which happens at some point in a relationship.
And I think that that's a pivotal point in a
relationship because we can only be perfect for so long. Yeah,
I mean, you shouldn't have to hide your authentic self

(07:38):
the whole time, you.

Speaker 3 (07:40):
Know, exactly.

Speaker 2 (07:42):
In the next scene, she's dressed in a very tex
scene neglige, and she crawled in bed with it with
a sleeping mister Beg. He was already knocked out. She's
kissing all over him, and he says, exhausted, we just call.

Speaker 3 (08:02):
Shit, And yeah, that's that.

Speaker 2 (08:06):
That's a little hurtful when you're trying to be sexy
with your man and he's too tired to have sex
with you, like excuse me, yes, Like next level of
rejection when you have the neglige on y, when you
got the neglige on. You know, after I'm just feeling
a little bit bad about myself because I fought it
for the first time in front of you. I understand
people probably think that's childish and carry being carry but

(08:27):
these are real feelings.

Speaker 3 (08:29):
Man, I don't feel sexy.

Speaker 2 (08:30):
You've never seen me in this light, and now you
won't even have sex when me you're too tired to
have sex with my little fort and ass. Well, that's
all in her head and it's it's logical, Yeah, it's logical.

Speaker 1 (08:39):
Yeah, but like you mentioned, the poor guy was already sleeping.

Speaker 3 (08:43):
He has a job, and.

Speaker 1 (08:44):
Plus you're I feel like you're you're dating an older man,
like I don't think you know, you gotta you gotta
take that into account.

Speaker 2 (08:52):
I mean, if you don't wake up for me, I
I take it personal. I mean rejection sucks. Yeah, I mean,
you're never not gonna feel great about it, especially again
when you got the negligent on. Yeah, but she just
did too much when she, like the fart is all
within her. He laughed it off, he made jokes like
he was not mad at it, you know, like she's

(09:13):
all in her head with it the whole time. Whole episode. Yeah, yeah,
Carry looks uncomfortable and narrorates that it was the first
time that they slept together without making love, so that
this is also something they don't do, like we sleep
together all the time, you have sex all the time.
This is the first time you're not having sex with
me after the first time I farted in front of you.
I get it in her head, but it's very easy
to make logical, Carrie, I see you in this episode. Okay,

(09:36):
the next week it was three times in a row.
She was beginning to worry. He's trying three times in
a row to have sex with this man and he
keeps rejecting her. We don't know what the other two
reasons were, but bruh, what we going to do? I mean, yeah,
the evidence is there, for sure, but I think it's
bound to happen in a relationship where you're going to
start sleeping together and I have sex every single time,

(09:57):
at one point or another is going to happen. And
at least you're still coming over and sleeping there, like
you're choosing to take it there, which is understandablecause again,
the evidence is there when you look for it. But
she could try to lean into a higher mindset. But
I mean, yeah, I'm not gonna act holier than ourself righteous.
I understand how you can go down that wormhole of
why is what's what's changing? What's causing this change?

Speaker 3 (10:18):
So I think it's natural. I think of what's causing
this change?

Speaker 2 (10:21):
If this is just something our relationship isn't accustomed to,
what is it? Is it far? Because that's the only
thing I could think of. It'd be the only thing
I could think of. To Carrie, I get you girl.

Speaker 1 (10:32):
Fine, I understand sex. Yeah, I feel for Carrie.

Speaker 2 (10:36):
Yeah, she's talking to Mi random. Randa's like three times,
try three months. Carrie looks shocked and horrified, like what,
I is your vagina even still open? Or you reviginized
three months? Like she looked at her like it's so unbelievable.

(10:57):
Randa is like, now would be a time to look
that look off your face, to wipe that look off
your face, Carrie. Carrie apologizes. It's like, I'm sorry, I
just didn't know. I just don't know where I've been.
I can't realize. I didn't realize that it's been so long.
And Miranda's like, well, you've been having sex I've been
renting Blockbuster movies, which I just love the timeframe.

Speaker 3 (11:16):
That was a good time.

Speaker 2 (11:18):
Today's kids will never know the magic of Blockbusters. You
will never know the magic of Blockbuster anyway. She's like,
it's tragic. I'm like two rentals away from a free
kind of Gummy Bears.

Speaker 3 (11:32):
I love that. So she's like, she lives at Blockbuster.
They're about to reward on the Gummy Bears movie.

Speaker 2 (11:37):
Okay, yes, ma'am. Carrie is like, relax, it's just a
dry spell. Miranda's like, I can't believe you're going to
say that when you're freaking out. About three times. Carrie says, yeah,
but that's different.

Speaker 4 (11:48):
Not doing it when you're with someone means much more
than not doing it when you're not with.

Speaker 2 (11:52):
Someone, which is true. Which is true, right, Yeah, it's
not a comparisons. Carrie made a valid point.

Speaker 1 (11:59):
Yeah, but she was also dismissive of Miranda's feelings, and
I'm glad Miranda called her out on it.

Speaker 2 (12:05):
That's true, that's true. She was dismissing Carrie's feelings. Wait, Miranda,
I mean Miranda was dismissing.

Speaker 1 (12:13):
Wait did I mess up?

Speaker 3 (12:14):
I was dismissing Miranda's feelings.

Speaker 1 (12:17):
Yeah, she's like, get over it. I'm like, bitch, you're
complain about three little daysier. She's going crazy. She's freaking
the fuck out. Why is she reacting to Miranda as
if she's crazy.

Speaker 2 (12:30):
Miranda was trying to compare where there's no comparison, So
it's some separate issues. So I don't know if her
intention was to be dismissive, but if you're trying to
compare your situation to mine, it's no comparison. Since I
got a man in the bed three times, Okay, I
mean I wouldn't have said that.

Speaker 3 (12:48):
But you remind me never talk to you about my.

Speaker 2 (12:52):
Carrie is like I thought everything felt really comfortable and great,
and then she got too comfortable. He tells her about
the fart in front of her boyfriend, and Miranda's like okay,
and Carry's like, we're no longer having sex, he thinks
as he thinks of me as one of the boys,
and I'm gonna have to move to another city where
the shame won't follow me. And that's where that's what. Yeah,

(13:15):
she just you know, she's just talking to her girlfriend. Yeah,
it's yeah, let me just hide under this rock. And
never come up. That's kind of things I'll say. Miranda's like,
you farted, You're a human. She's like, I don't want
him to know that I'm human. He's the perfect guy
with the perfect apartment and the perfect suit, and I'm
the girl who farts. No wonder you won't have sex

(13:36):
with me. That's not I'll be like, all right, Chexas,
you gotta figure this out. Talk to your journal because
I don't even have to tell you right now. But
Miranda's like, you're insane. It's just been three times, that's normal,
says who carries Like. She's like, if it's not the fart,
then what else is going on?

Speaker 3 (13:53):
And it's normal to be in the same bed and
not do it.

Speaker 2 (13:57):
Is it normal to be in the same bed not
do it? I mean, I think it's more normal when
you're in a relationship versus a situationship. But maybe it's
also telling that of their comfort level. Long story short, Yeah,
it's normal. Are analyzed, but yeah, at the end of
the day, is normal.

Speaker 3 (14:16):
It is normal.

Speaker 2 (14:16):
It is normal, which you think norms.

Speaker 1 (14:18):
No, I again, I don't sometimes I don't feel comfortable
because I've never really been in such a long committed relationship, right,
But you just gave Miranda hell for complaining about three
months and not and it not being comparable to U
carries three days. But you're saying it's normal than it
is normal? Is it normal?

Speaker 2 (14:39):
I'm gonna giving Miranda hell for comparing her situation to Carrie.
Both of their situations are normal, for sure, but Carrie's
complained about I got a man, I got a situation.
We have sex every night we sleep together, and for
the past three nights we didn't have sex. Miranda, It's like, oh,
for three months and have sex? All right, Well, that's
like a little differences like that doesn't help me solve
my problem. It's kind of like in the last episode

(15:01):
where where Kara was like, you know, I'm a week
late on my period and she's like why, I was like,
you know, ten days late before She's like, well, were
you at sex.

Speaker 3 (15:08):
It's kind of like that exactly.

Speaker 1 (15:13):
South.

Speaker 2 (15:13):
You can't relate to everything. Stop just listen.

Speaker 1 (15:16):
Yeah, yeah, I do foresee that as your relationship develops.
I'm sure that you're not having sex every single night,
right or every single like three times a day, every
minute you get a chance, especially if you're spending so
much time together, right, you're building intimacy. I feel like
sleeping together is building intimacy. And if you don't have sex,

(15:38):
it's I feel like it's not like the end of
the world.

Speaker 2 (15:41):
It might be even more comfortable, Like I'm even more
comfortable with you that I just want to lay here
with you, and I just want you in my presence,
and I don't even want that from you.

Speaker 3 (15:47):
I just want your company exactly.

Speaker 2 (15:49):
That's why feel I should have been grateful or not grateful,
but like you're still there, You're still invite it over,
You're still in the bed.

Speaker 1 (15:55):
But on the other hand, if I want sex and
he doesn't want to give it to me, I would
have a congressation with him, as opposed to her going
crazy and telling everybody and telling everybody about this damn
fart talk to your man, to him.

Speaker 2 (16:09):
And I feel conversation and communication. But what does that
conversation look like?

Speaker 4 (16:13):
Like?

Speaker 2 (16:13):
Sometimes people don't want to have sex, like girls turn
guys down too, Like are the supposed to what was
that about? I mean if it becomes a problem, because
if you're in a relationship and you're not having sex
for three months, that's a problem, Like, if carry and
Beg were together and it's been three months, that's more
of a concern, that's worth the conversation. Well, I think
if it's been a change in the relationship and we're
used to having sex every single time we sleep together
three times, it's enough for a conversation like, yo, we yeah,

(16:35):
we have reassurance. Just check checking. I've tried to have
sex with you a couple of times, Like what's up?
You good?

Speaker 3 (16:41):
You know, like you never not have sex with me as.

Speaker 2 (16:44):
Opposed to because like something like that.

Speaker 1 (16:49):
And she's also a little delulue because she's describing him
as a perfect guy.

Speaker 3 (16:53):
Girl, calm down, he is perfect to her.

Speaker 2 (16:54):
I dated man, I thought we're perfect. I mean in hindsight,
when you get over them, you realize that they're not.
But in the moment, oh my god, god, they are
so perfect. But then you see them later and it's like, actually,
kind of short, you're ugly.

Speaker 3 (17:05):
You're better than queen. You were queen anyway.

Speaker 1 (17:11):
Yeah, yeah, I think she's just really enamored by him
right now. And you know, I've been in this situation,
but girl, like talk to him.

Speaker 2 (17:19):
Miranda is like, it depends on what's normal for you,
and Carrie says, who am I to know what's normal?
I've been dating for one hundred years and I still
don't have a clue. Randon is like, well, three months
is it normal for her? One month interesting? Two months
was numbing. In three months, she's going out of her mind,
which you know, I do say as somebody who you

(17:40):
know went a long time, it's hard the first three months.
Once you make it through, it is smooth sailing after that.
Before your first long time, how long did you ever go?

Speaker 3 (17:50):
I don't even know. Not not that long time, not
not that long of a time.

Speaker 2 (17:54):
Yeah, I mean there's been several times throughout my adult
hoood that I've gone at least a year.

Speaker 3 (18:00):
I've never reached a year.

Speaker 2 (18:01):
I feel like the longest I've gone was like a
year and three months, and then even then I only
had sex one time, and I'm back on my path
to another year. So I feel like I've only had
sex one time since February twenty twenty three. Very transparent
shoutouts to me, But I'm okay with it, Like I
do consider it normal for me when I was youthful,
like am I in college and early twenties it was

(18:23):
like a thing like, oh, it's been one month, it's
been two months, it's been three months. Like I was
literally counting because I was out of a relationship where
I guess it was happening all the time. But but yeah,
like now that I'm a single woman, I'm the opposite
of these girls. I'm not fucking a Tom Dick and
Harry every yeah, every yeah.

Speaker 1 (18:40):
Personally, I mentioned this before, and I am celibate. It
wasn't planned. It's not like I said one day or
I woke up one day and I said I didn't
want to have sex, right, But it wasn't planned. And
one year turn into two and so on and so on,
and you know, like during this time, you just have
a lot of time to think and like reflect on

(19:01):
your past dating history and all like the silly little
man that you've you know, had sex with. And it
just made me realize that I've feel like I've been
doing it all wrong, and so when I get back
to it, I want to do it differently.

Speaker 3 (19:14):
Yeah that's the goal.

Speaker 2 (19:16):
I agree. Yeah, you get that time to self reflect
and I think about that meme where you're like where
the person's like sleeping in bed, like me sleep and
knowing that nobody's son is out there kissing me off,
annoying me to it on me. So I do value that,
like when it is time to connect with someone again,
doing it the right way, not doing it like.

Speaker 1 (19:33):
Carrie exactly, not doing it like carry because I have
been you know, yes, I probably criticized Carrie for being crazy,
but I've also been there. But the thing is that,
you know, like, as you're watching the series, learn from
Carrie on not what to do. Yes, that's the yeah.

Speaker 2 (19:54):
And I just want to go back to one of
our earlier episodes in the podcast where y'all said Carrie
was an example for not and bills. It goes as
far as that too. Anyway, I didn't say that.

Speaker 3 (20:09):
I just said, I mean, you know, use my credit
card here and there thankfully.

Speaker 2 (20:15):
Anyway, shut up, Oldia. Anyway, Carrie's like, there's millions of
people in New York, and about twelve people think that
they're having enough sex.

Speaker 3 (20:24):
How often is normal we go to the street.

Speaker 4 (20:28):
I have to.

Speaker 5 (20:29):
Masturbate three times today just to make it through.

Speaker 1 (20:32):
Some people think coffee breaks.

Speaker 5 (20:33):
I think jer cof breaks.

Speaker 1 (20:35):
They say the average thirty three year old woman has
sex three point five times a week.

Speaker 2 (20:39):
I like to know who that woman is. You know,
my wife and I haven't had six since the baby
was born.

Speaker 1 (20:44):
The babies are flying again next four.

Speaker 6 (20:47):
One one time a day, but two times on the
verty's special day.

Speaker 2 (20:54):
So it's a range, you know, a range of people.
Whatever works for you. I think everybody's drive is different,
and I think normal in every aspect. The definition changes
from person to person. There's no such thing as normal. Yeah,
every person is different, every situation is different. I will
say that first guy masturbating three times a day just
to make it through red flex away from me. He
needs say that person never find me judgmental? Well, no,

(21:17):
he mud like a problem. But I agree with the
last girl, like I hope to have a situation when
I'm in a relationship to to do it once a day,
if not at least three or four times a week.
I just like, that's a healthy sex life. I haven't
done the research, but that's just what I feel.

Speaker 1 (21:34):
Oh yeah, so.

Speaker 3 (21:35):
Yeah, that'd be that's ideal.

Speaker 1 (21:37):
I mean, if I find myself in a relationship with
the man, I'm gonna want to make up for all
the years that I've been celibate.

Speaker 2 (21:43):
I'm just saying hollow crew. No, Yeah, I don't describe
myself as celibate, because what does that mean? Does that
mean until marriage?

Speaker 1 (21:56):
No, you're just substaining from sex because you can. You
can still totally date without just having sex.

Speaker 2 (22:02):
Is there a difference between celibacy and abstinence, because I
feel like abstinence is like I'm not having sex right now,
But I thought celibate that's just my perception of it,
neither here nor there. I just wanted to properly define myself,
like I'm not definitely waiting until marriage, but I do
want to make sure that I'm locked in with somebody.
I don't want to be in a big and carry situation. Yeah,
even having sex. We have a really good situation ship,

(22:23):
but I want more from you, and I don't know
if you'll ever want more from me. Well, I think
they are in a relationship. That's his girlfriend. Nah, Yeah,
I mean I don't know. I feel like he's never
asked her out in front of us on camera, and
when she asked him to stand still with her or
to stop see well, she never asked him directly to
stop seeing other woman. I've just never seen them have
a conversation about commitment or exclusivity. So I don't want

(22:46):
to assume that that's the case.

Speaker 1 (22:47):
But you know what, we also don't see him dating
anyone else anymore anymore.

Speaker 2 (22:51):
But that'll mean it's not happening. And in the finale
we'll get to it next week. Please stick with us
and make sure you wait for the drop. He does
refer to as his girlfriend does he he does, We'll
get to the next episode. And by the way, celibacy
is a lifestyle choice to abstain from sex and romantic relationships,
while abstinence can refer to a leave or absence from work.

Speaker 3 (23:15):
Thank you AI for that.

Speaker 2 (23:17):
Yeah, all right, sorry to interrupt that anyway. Samantha, they're
in their yoga class, and Samantha is like normal is
half what is the halfway point between what you want
and what you can get? Samantha is also very attracted

(23:38):
to the male yoga teacher during the class and what
she says what you can get. I do feel like
sex is so gettable for women, especially women who don't care,
you know, like these women, especially Samantha, Like any woman
could have sex like you just these men are so disgusting,
They are so easy, They are such floozies. All you
have to do is lay in a yoga class and

(23:59):
say want to then somebody yes, yeah, but so what
you can get?

Speaker 3 (24:06):
All right, all right, Samantha.

Speaker 2 (24:07):
Anyway, Carrie asks, is it normal that Big and her
sleeping together and not having sex. Samantha's like, yeah, I
think it's a problem. I think it's trouble. Sex is
the barometer for what's going on in a relationship. I
really appreciate this part of Samantha just shows that she
keeps it real because she's that friend that's rooting for you,
building up your self esteem. Not to say she's putting

(24:29):
like she's not putting carried down. She's just keeping it
real and something. It's a problem. Yeah, yeah, I agree,
And I don't know if I agree that sex is
the barometer for what's going on in a relationship. I
think there are plenty of other reasons why people don't
have sex. I could be stressed from work, I could
have a yeast infection. I could you know, just be
completely turned off because of whatever other stress is. It's

(24:52):
not necessarily a reflection of how somebody feels about you.
I don't think that sex is a sex is not
a direct reflection of the health of a relationship. I
learned that from doctor Wendy. But if you're not having
sex for three months, that might be a probably, probably
to a certain extent, is a barometer. Carrie's being a
little dramatic, but it just depends on the situation. Fair

(25:12):
Carrie tells Samantha about the fart in front of mister
Big and Samantha's like, what, that was a huge mistake.
Carrie's like, she didn't do it on purpose. I'm Humanamsa.

Speaker 1 (25:23):
Samantha's like nothing, No, honey, you're a woman, and men
don't like women to be human.

Speaker 2 (25:30):
We aren't supposed to fart, dou she used tampons or
have hair in places we shouldn't help. A guy once
broke up with me, because like mister bikini wise, I mean,
every guy's different. I think I know girls who have
fart in front of their man. I can't say I'm
talking to friends today, but I know girls who are
very comfortable from their boyfriends and have done that. Neither
here nor there. I did have a guy also who

(25:51):
was like, your under arms aren't saved, like something like
where I was starting to talk about something and he
like stopped me right away, Like, don't tell me on
dharmasy shape right now. I do think guys have a
certain I know guys who also don't want women to part.

Speaker 3 (26:03):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (26:03):
I had the same situation with my legs one time.
He was like, you know, that's unfortunate that.

Speaker 1 (26:09):
I feel like all a little spun are shitty.

Speaker 2 (26:11):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (26:12):
I mean I think everybody has that preference.

Speaker 2 (26:13):
I don't think it makes them shit, but you know
some people like that, that that allure that a woman
is and it's very nice to be in your feminine comminity.

Speaker 1 (26:23):
Yeah, everyone has their preferences, but I think it's depending
on how they say it to you. Was he an
asshole when he said it?

Speaker 2 (26:32):
He didn't make me feel bad about it personally. I
was just gonna keep my shirt on for the situation
or that. But but it was also a while ago,
so I can't even remember. Possibly he was ashole. Yeah,
you're right.

Speaker 1 (26:47):
I feel like when a guy you know has feelings
for you, I don't think those things really matter.

Speaker 2 (26:53):
I agree, Nah, I me and him was in a
situation it was not going to be anything, and that
was understood for sure. And for my situation about my legs.
I wasn't kicked out or thrown on the street or
spit on. It was more just like, oh, that's unfortunate.

Speaker 4 (27:06):
You know.

Speaker 3 (27:07):
When the night still went on, the conversation still happened,
the banter, the hook up, then what happened.

Speaker 1 (27:12):
I feel like I've been in the situation where they
want me to shave down there and I'm like, no,
yes or no, take it or leave it, bominos.

Speaker 3 (27:23):
I'm a laser girl. That's how I like my I.

Speaker 1 (27:26):
Like having hair down there. I do. I don't have
a bush, but like I trim, but I like my hair.

Speaker 3 (27:32):
All right, Yeah it's not a bush.

Speaker 2 (27:33):
It's cute, all right, all right, Well to each his own.
Carrie's like, I knew it. This is a watershed relationship moment.
She's never going to be able to erase it. Samantha's like,
just go over there. Fuck his rein's out. He'll forget
all about it. Men are like plants. Samantha and the
yoga teacher flirt that moment, and she asked him out
for coffee.

Speaker 3 (27:53):
She asked him out on a date.

Speaker 2 (27:54):
Forty five minutes later, they're having coffee together and she
feels amazing her body feels so alive. The teacher tells
her he's celibate. He gave up sex three years ago,
shouts to the celibate crib. She asks why. She's like,

(28:15):
why didn't you like it? He says he loved it
all the time. Sometimes he would do multiple girls in
one day. He's like, I had sex a lot, but
it was all ego, and you know, us much better
than sex.

Speaker 3 (28:29):
Samantha's like, there's nothing better than sex.

Speaker 2 (28:32):
I really appreciate the scene just because I'm all into
yoga and I like someone practicing discipline and recognizing the ego,
because I do think when it comes to sex, maybe
men are coming from a place that's egocentric or insecurity.
So I just I appreciated this episode with restraint, discipline.
I just appreciate the yeah, and I also appreciate the

(28:52):
power of not having sex and how the energy runs
all through you and how it could be used for
powerful things. He says, so much better than sex.

Speaker 6 (29:02):
Think about really good for sexual energy is just starting
to awaken. Now, imagine a three year or four player
where all that sexual energy is coursing through your body.

Speaker 4 (29:13):
It never gets released, It just recycles filled rises until
your entire being is humming with that an electric sexual energy.

Speaker 2 (29:24):
Which is very powerful, and that energy could be used
for some powerful things career, creativity, investments, and self. It
could just be you were such a powerful being when
you use that energy for self. Yeah. I mean three
years without an orgasm wasn't what I initially was getting
from the situation until there was a later scene where
Samantha said, at least you can, you know, work on
yourself or something like that. But so that's an interesting

(29:45):
perspective to come from to just really have never released
anything and with that energy would feel like flowing through
the body. Can't speak to that me neither. Samantha is
like her apartments right around the corner. She's so turned
on by his restraint. But I will say these girls
really suck at respecting people's boundaries and what they're saying
about themselves.

Speaker 3 (30:04):
They are the worst for that.

Speaker 2 (30:05):
It seems like they like challenges. Yeah, but they think
they could change a man.

Speaker 7 (30:08):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (30:09):
I think are guilty of thinking that, or people in general,
or thinking that you could change someone or someone's going
to do different for you because we think the marble
ros around.

Speaker 1 (30:16):
Us are their sick sex fiends.

Speaker 3 (30:21):
Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Speaker 2 (30:23):
He says the only thing hotter than sex is not
having sex. Carry narrates that talking dirty about not having
sex was the most sexually deviant a Samantha had participated
in for months, which is taking a lot, because Samantha
has a lot of sex. And the next scene carries
out with Charlotte talking to her about how mister Big
won't have sex.

Speaker 3 (30:42):
So she already talks to Miranda.

Speaker 2 (30:44):
Then Samantha now Charlotte, which I can understand because I
talk to my friends and have to get different opinions
in different views about things that I'm stressed about. And
she acknowledges that Big was a full blown obsession right now,
it's all she could think about, so is how they
haven't sex. But she can't tell Charlotte about the fart
because Charlotte, Charlotte.

Speaker 3 (31:06):
Know Charlotte's perspective. I wish she told her.

Speaker 2 (31:08):
Yeah, me too, me too, But Charlotte says sex isn't
the most important thing in a relationship. Kevin her current boom.
They've been going out for weeks and they haven't done
it at all. They cuddle, they touch, but he's sweet
and he respects her boundaries. Unlike any of these other girls,
and they're men. Kevin then walks in and it's Carrie's
first time meeting Kevin. She's super excited to meet Charlotte's

(31:32):
new boyfriend when she realizes this is my good friend Carrie.

Speaker 4 (31:37):
Hey, Carrie, what if you've already slept with him?

Speaker 2 (31:41):
You two know each other well kind of we used
to go out. So yeah, they had sex before and
they used to go out. Charlotte says, you two used
to go with hell, that's so funny. She's awkward about it,
and Kevin gets a call from his office. He kisses
Charlotte and then he walks out to take the call.
Charlotte takes the opportunity to get the scoop from carry.
When did you go out? Carrie's like, it was three

(32:02):
years ago. Charlie's like, okay, all right, three years ago.
I can live with that.

Speaker 3 (32:07):
I don't know. I've been going out with this guy
for weeks.

Speaker 2 (32:09):
I really really like him, and I find out that
my friend used to date him three years ago. I
don't know. I don't know.

Speaker 3 (32:17):
I hate it.

Speaker 2 (32:17):
I hate it all because I don't know if I
could live with that. I don't know if I could
live that you had sex with my husband. Those things
for sure, but these four women can do it. They've
done it before.

Speaker 1 (32:30):
Yeah. I think three years is a little too frush
for me.

Speaker 3 (32:33):
Yeah. Yeah.

Speaker 2 (32:35):
So Charlotte gets to scoop. She's like, why did you
break up? Carrie's trying to be all, you know, diplomatic.
She's like, you know, we were in different places, Like, Charlotte,
cut the bullshit when you got time.

Speaker 3 (32:47):
He's on a quick call.

Speaker 2 (32:48):
Why you break up? Carrie's like he was a sex maniac.
And then Charlotte realizes, like, oh my god, he's tucked
away his libido from my comfortability. She was even more intrigued.
And in the next scene, they're kissing and she's saying
how much she appreciates his patience.

Speaker 3 (33:05):
He's like huh.

Speaker 2 (33:06):
She's like, all that waiting is gonna make it all
the more special for them now. And then they begin
to kiss more and she tells the cab, we'll only
need one stop. I think I need time to process.
If I found out that you used to have sex
with one of my best friends, I definite probably woudn't
want to have sex with you that night. But again,
more turned on closed the deal right away. These girls different,

(33:27):
and she just automatically thought it was about her, like
Carrie did him three whole years ago. He was a
sex made they had three whole years ago. And you're
going to assume that y'all aren't having sex specifically because
he's withholding his libido or suppressing his libido for you
self centered.

Speaker 3 (33:48):
I don't think this is gonna work.

Speaker 2 (33:50):
Why is it me?

Speaker 4 (33:51):
No, you're great, I'm.

Speaker 3 (33:53):
Just not that sexual.

Speaker 2 (33:54):
A guy rejection again, both our girls getting rejected. Try
to throw that I ain't got These guys are like, nah,
I'm good. Charlotte's like, I know it's me. Carrie says,
you're very sexual. In fact, she used the word maniac like.
He's like, that was before prozac. Bro Like, back before

(34:15):
I was on prozac, I was mister mood swing. Prozac
changed my life and saved my life, but it took
all the air out my tire. I can barely get hard.
That's essentially what he was saying. Charlotte's like, it's okay,
don't worry about it.

Speaker 3 (34:28):
He's like, I don't worry about it. I'm good.

Speaker 2 (34:33):
I wish I could care more. I tell you truth,
these days I don't really care about nothing. Nothing really
gets me down. I want to watch a movie. Yeah,
I mean, I feel like prozac means he has yeah,
mood swings, mental health issues, so there's something. Well, he's
on medication, so he's stable. But that's just yeah, like

(34:53):
respect that, you know. I don't know if there's another
medication that could balance his libido better. But even going
through the journey of figuring out different medications that work
for you is not good for a person. So he
found something that worked for him, and it just seems
like there's something deeper there that she didn't know about
him as well. Yeah, And the next scene carries pacing
her apartment, scared to go over mister Bigg's house for

(35:13):
another platonic sleepover, and she looks over and sees her
neighbor having some great sex. So she watches for a
little bit and then she's like, you know what, ring ring,
mister big Hey, can I come over? And then she
heads over mister Bigg's house. Now, Samantha, she's with the
yoga teacher. His name is said Arthur, and he's helping

(35:33):
her along her new path.

Speaker 3 (35:35):
I guess she wants to try celibacy.

Speaker 2 (35:36):
Too manipulatively, because it's not because that's what she wants
to do. Because girl, no, she wants to have sex
with that man. She wants him to break his celibacy.
So she's doing this journey with him to build up
so he can break it with her.

Speaker 1 (35:51):
Yeah. I feel like she'd do anything to have sex
with the guy that she sets her eyes on.

Speaker 3 (35:57):
Yeah. Yeah.

Speaker 2 (35:59):
Anyway, they're inst I'm sort of reading meditation and she
notices his erection, gord, I know. He continues to read
and all she does is stare at his erection. He
assures her like it'll go down, and then she tries
to go down on him and he's like stop.

Speaker 3 (36:16):
He just shakes his head numb, Like are right now?

Speaker 2 (36:18):
I really really love the discipline and self control. Like
I've never been a man, and I haven't spoken to
every man in the world, but I just feel like
they're kind of weak to that second head as we know.
So yeah, I just love someone who can control that.
I'm attracted to a doctor myself.

Speaker 3 (36:33):
Chop, I get it.

Speaker 2 (36:37):
So Carrie shows up to mister Bigg's house and she's
wearing an outfit that accentuates her body. She says he
didn't have a chance. The second opens the door, he
looks at her a little surprise, and because she's so
dressed up and she looks so nice, she goes in
and she starts making out with them, and he's like,
come on in, I'm watching the fight, and she's still

(36:57):
trying to kiss him. He's like, watching the fight, really
into it. He tells her to stop.

Speaker 3 (37:02):
She doesn't. He's like, please let me watch the fight.

Speaker 2 (37:05):
Like stop, she doesn't listen, and she keeps trying to
make moves, and then mister big had enough.

Speaker 1 (37:10):
He's like, Jesus, Carrie, come on, did you not get
the fuck off? I'm trying to watch his fight?

Speaker 2 (37:15):
Damn that. You know, I get it. I get him
being annoyed. She didn't respect his boundaries. But to we
talked to like that some hurt, he said, not get
the fuck off or like a child she's trying to
give herself to you. He's just like completely dismissive. I mean,
I don't want to blame carry, because again she did
not respect his boundaries. And you know, it's also not

(37:37):
okay to talk to someone like that.

Speaker 3 (37:38):
So I don't know.

Speaker 2 (37:38):
Both can yeah, yeah, both can be true. I also
think it was a reaction. It wasn't like you know,
he usually talks her like that, but he was really annoyed.
Lord knows it was back in the nineties. I mean
even today, he probably paid.

Speaker 3 (37:50):
For that fight.

Speaker 2 (37:52):
She's sitting there all being annoying, and I'm trying to
watch this fight carry out. You I just pay, you know,
ten ninety nine, everybody watches the fight. Okay, the next
day at the office is gonna be all to talk
and you want to be all to our face. Not
get the fuck off, Carrie. Anyway, she gets up and
she's like, sign and leave. He's like, what's wrong with you?
Why are you acting so crazy? And there she goes projecting, Oh,

(38:13):
maybe I'm not perfect.

Speaker 1 (38:14):
Maybe I don't fit into your perfect you know life,
with your perfect apartment and your perfect pay per view fight.
Maybe I should leave.

Speaker 2 (38:21):
So she leaves. She walked out. Then she waited from
to stop her. And guess what he didn't do after her?
Not at all, not at all. But when she got
home she checked her voicepell just knowing he was gonna
leave at one, And guess what he didn't do. He didn't, No, girl,
No he did that. He did not leave it a
palace you or her voicepell do? What did he call her?

Speaker 6 (38:37):
Is?

Speaker 2 (38:37):
I mean like that's all sucks? That all sucks for Candy.
You definitely want your man's to chase you, like you
know how it is when you throw your tempertation trump
and walk out the room. You definitely want to be
chased and at least give me a call when I
get home. So it just double triples up and I
can't call you because I got to stand on business.

Speaker 3 (38:56):
Sucks man, Sorry, Carrie hate the had to be you.

Speaker 2 (38:59):
She put herself in that position. Though, y'all couldn't have
sex after the fight, like being real demanding right.

Speaker 3 (39:05):
Now, I mean we had sex last three times I've been.

Speaker 2 (39:07):
Here, and you hear right now, Like we'll go to
bed later and.

Speaker 3 (39:10):
I have sex again another place.

Speaker 2 (39:12):
Maybe maybe not, but let's watch this fight first. Like man,
I don't want to speak for a man. I'm not
a man, but yeah, like they're very focused, like he
told you what it was like it's.

Speaker 1 (39:20):
Sports, yeah, and you know, I'm not excusing his behavior,
but he did tell her to stop like three times.
And if it was a child, she was acting like
a child.

Speaker 2 (39:30):
If there was a woman who told a man to
stop three times and he kept doing that, He'd be exactly,
he'd be a didy And.

Speaker 1 (39:36):
I'm like, he's obviously watching the fight. You invited yourself
over like and he said to stop three times. I
mean she she really she had it coming.

Speaker 3 (39:47):
She had she did, she did.

Speaker 2 (39:48):
I will say also, and this this may be a
little bit of a different situation, but there have been
times where you know, I'm with my interest and he
may have something to do, he may have to lea,
he might have something he wants to prioritize over me,
and I'll test the boundaries just to make sure that
to see if you know, you don't put that over me.

Speaker 3 (40:06):
And sometimes they don't.

Speaker 2 (40:08):
And I like that. It makes you feel powerful, you know. Yeah,
you thought you was gonna watch this fight. You thought
she was gonna go downtown. You thought you was gonna
go to that party. Not you in the house with it.
You know, you know, it's very very nice, but when
it goes the other way. She ain't sleep well that night. Yeah,
Samantha didn't either, though. She was so turned one from
the day that she was going to have a session

(40:30):
with herself, but she decided not to after all, she'd
come this far, she continued to not come at all
or whatever, and Miranda's still trying to get her mind
off of sex. So she rented a five hour documentary
and she's returning the movie when she's walking past some
construction site and the guy starts to hit on her.
I got what you want, I got what you need.

(40:50):
That line lives in my mind rent free till this day.
I just say that sometimes, but I want we'll get
to it anyway. She shows up to Carrie's house saying,
it's been three months in one week. Like, bro, they
are so pressed for penis, Like it's crazy, it's a
little bit obsessed. Like I get it, But at the
same time, there are you're a lawyer, child, and you
got so much you work seventy two hours a week. Girl,

(41:13):
you got better things to do it, Like sex was
never necessarious. I mean, they're very sexual beings.

Speaker 3 (41:18):
I get it, but I get it.

Speaker 2 (41:20):
It just seems like it's a driving force when they
have so much other things to react, like they got
blue balls, right, it was never.

Speaker 1 (41:27):
Necessarious, Like y'all don't have social lives. That's like for friends,
Like you don't have hobbies, like It honestly speaks to
how they just need to have men in their lives. Yeah,
their lives revolve around men.

Speaker 2 (41:42):
Yeah, And it just seems kind of immature, Like it
reminds me when I was in college. Like when I
was in college, I knew because sex was so new
to me. So I was just like, oh, it's been
three months, like it's been seven months, like I would
know these things. But at this age, even though I
do know how long it's been, I'm not counting it
by the week. Yeah that I'm counting about a muff.

Speaker 1 (42:06):
I feel like sometimes you're so busy that you just
don't have time to think about that too. So it
just makes me wonder, Yeah, don't know if I'm not busy, no, no, no, okay,
maybe no. Like I'm not saying like you're so busy
you're not thinking about sex, But for you to be
obsessively thinking about sex, I'm like that.

Speaker 2 (42:24):
I feel like, yeah, girl.

Speaker 3 (42:25):
A little bit much.

Speaker 2 (42:26):
And maybe when it's a new drought, because the episode
is called the Drought and it's like, you know, they're
in the you know there in the beginning phases, Maybe
after a while you get used to it and she's
just not there yet.

Speaker 3 (42:35):
Yeah, yeah, true.

Speaker 2 (42:38):
She's like the big call you and she's like, no,
and it's been two days. God damn it, that's what
I'm in I had.

Speaker 6 (42:44):
I know.

Speaker 2 (42:44):
I'm muffed up. I lost mister perfect acting a damn fool.
She's staying busy though. She's painting her apartment ache shall
you know, you know the DIY projects when you're fighting
with your boot I make a trip to Michaels, you know,
home depot, see what's going on. I've definitely been there,
honest and true. She tells Miranda that she thinks it's
over and she never should have farted. Miranda's like, it's

(43:05):
not about the fucking fart, and Carrien is like, he know,
I know, it's that about the fucking part. But I
think I'm in love with him and I'm terrified to
leave me because I'm not perfect. B When have you
ever been perfect? All the stuff that she did before
this episode?

Speaker 1 (43:22):
He was never If he hasn't yes, if he didn't
leave you for all the other crazy shit you did,
what makes you think the fart is gonna be.

Speaker 2 (43:32):
Exactly? She puts the roller down and they go into
the other room to talk Carrie's like, the sex stopped.
He hasn't called what if I read the New York
Times and seeing that he's married the perfect woman dunk
Dunda who never farts under his five hundred dollars sheets?
Don dun?

Speaker 3 (43:49):
Do we know who that is?

Speaker 2 (43:53):
You know, the universe always listenings knew what they was doing.

Speaker 3 (43:56):
Oh when I saw that, I was.

Speaker 2 (43:57):
Like wow, wow, okay, no spoilers anyway. Miranda asked, when
did you get obsessed with being this perfect person? And
She's like, I'm not myself around him. I'm like together, Carrie,
I wear these little sexy outfits and sometimes I actually
catch myself posing. And Miranda's like, well, stop be yourself.

(44:18):
I think you're pretty great. And Carrie is like, well
what if he does it? And again the point you
made earlier girl, Okay, yeah, I feel like if a
man makes you feel like you can't be yourself, he's
not for you exactly. You're not in flow right now,
You're not comfortable. I've had guys who made me feel
that I had to and not because anything they said.
It's kind of like just assuming things. I have to
dress a certain way, I have to carry myself away.

(44:40):
I have to be a certain way, and very quickly
I realized that they're not for me. They're not good guys.

Speaker 1 (44:46):
She's also I feel like she's also losing herself in
that relationship. Again it's all about him, him, him, the
perfect guy, which she's a little delulu, but like she
also needs to give herself that respect, that that importance.

Speaker 2 (45:01):
Right, Yeah, have your boundaries.

Speaker 1 (45:04):
He's not perfect.

Speaker 3 (45:05):
No he's not. No, he's not.

Speaker 2 (45:08):
He probably will tell you he's not. But she just has.
She's so fixated on this idea and I and I
can relate to that. When I'm into somebody and it's
like the new early phases, I think that that person
is perfect, could do no wrong, the most beautiful being,
even if I didn't think they were that beautiful or
attractive before I met them. When that gloss comes over
my eyes and I am in love. You're my little
feet five faux FuMB You're the most beautiful man in

(45:35):
the world. Anyway, Rand looks over and then he's carries
sexy neighbor and they're giving them an afternoon show, so
they have to invite Samantha and Charlotte over to watch
as well.

Speaker 3 (45:45):
These freaking perverts I probably watched you.

Speaker 2 (45:48):
Honestly, Oh my god, they make a little TikTok, not
like recording them, but recording myself and maybe their sounds
in the background.

Speaker 1 (45:58):
It's like that forty year old virgin at a scene
where like he sets the mood lights the candles so
you can watch some porn and back off.

Speaker 3 (46:08):
I do the same. I'm not jacket. There was a time,
just kidding, just kidding, you're not.

Speaker 2 (46:16):
At Atlantic City on the boardwalk. Uh, there was just
like a whole bunch of people. You know, there's causinos
and hotels on the boardwalk, So there was these people
like up on like let's say, let's just say like
the thirty four the fifteen floor, literally having sex against
the window. And there was like a whole crowd of
people on the boardwalk looking up and watching them. And
then when they realized that they were like flashing and mooning,
and it was just like a whole show wow for them. Yeah,

(46:39):
watching watch We're all humane.

Speaker 1 (46:42):
Mm hmm.

Speaker 2 (46:43):
When a show is good, word gets around, Samantha. I
cannot believe that you would give this up on the
Purpuss Actually, I hardly miss it. How long is it
been one hundred years.

Speaker 7 (46:53):
It never goes down, does it.

Speaker 1 (46:55):
Okay, it's still.

Speaker 2 (46:57):
Hard, Yeah, gonna be bare. Please give me the fucking candy.
Carrie says, maybe snapping over candy means celibacy isn't for you,
and Samantha's.

Speaker 3 (47:07):
Like, whatever the payoff, that'll be worth it.

Speaker 2 (47:09):
Bro, he's been celibate for three years. He ain't trying
to have sexes. There's plenty of men in New York
that want to have sex, Like, why ruin this man's journey?

Speaker 3 (47:16):
But whatever.

Speaker 2 (47:18):
Miranda's like, you're fasting when I'm starving out here, you're
starving by choice.

Speaker 3 (47:22):
To Miranda, let's be roll. Let's be real. You know
you can call if rhyme's a skipper, mean it's skipper.

Speaker 2 (47:31):
Samantha tells Miranda to stop complaining. At least you can masturbate,
and Miranda's like, I'm beyond that point. I'm starting to
give myself carpal tunnel. She must have lost her rabbit
because how anyway, And Carrie is like, oh, sure, it's
all fun and games, so you really get to know
each other. And that's just carry car typical carry. I mean,
I guess they're all making it about their situations. But

(47:53):
they're talking about a lack of sex. I mean, you
got a man sis, but whatever, I'm a sex technically.

Speaker 3 (47:58):
Yeah, they know each other. The couple's been going for
an hour.

Speaker 2 (48:04):
When Charlotte says, I gotta try this with Kevin again.
She's like, we really like each other and that's gotta
be stronger than any.

Speaker 3 (48:14):
Drug, right, Typical Charlotte. Typical Charlotte.

Speaker 2 (48:17):
Miranda is like, if I make it four months, I'm
humping one of you girls. There's plenty of men out there.
Maybe there's plenty of men out there. You don't have
to hump us. But whatever. They look really impressed by
one of the moves their neighbor did. They all make
this face, and after the second show they all went
on about their Saturday separately.

Speaker 3 (48:34):
I love these girls.

Speaker 2 (48:35):
Miranda wants to get a movie and a pound of
gummies when the construction workers are shooting their shot with
her again, you're looking good, baby, good enough days.

Speaker 7 (48:43):
So where you go go?

Speaker 2 (48:45):
I got what you want, I got.

Speaker 1 (48:47):
What you need.

Speaker 2 (48:48):
You're talking to me, Oh boys, you got what I want?
You got what I need? Well, what I want is
to get laid. What I need is to get laid.
I need to get laid. Take it the easy lady
of my ill.

Speaker 6 (49:03):
Huh.

Speaker 2 (49:04):
What a one of my favorite Miranda scenes in the
history of life. That's something that lives in my mind.
Rent Free. What I want is to get lead, what
I need is to get lead.

Speaker 3 (49:13):
I love that part.

Speaker 2 (49:14):
I really do. More rejection. I'm here.

Speaker 3 (49:25):
These guys are crazy anyway.

Speaker 2 (49:28):
Samantha channels her frustration at yoga when Siddartha touches her
and she's like, what's you're planning to move those hands down?
Get them off me.

Speaker 3 (49:37):
She is dumb with Sir Arthur and she don't want
to play with him no more.

Speaker 2 (49:40):
She reached the end of her patients and then she
looks around the class at a couple of guys and
she's like, hey, you want to fuck? First guy another rejection,
He's like, no, I'm good after a little.

Speaker 3 (49:51):
This man ain't worried about it.

Speaker 2 (49:53):
She looked at the guy on the other side, you
want fuck, and guys like hell yeah. They get out
and they run out of class together, and then there
was sweat running down his face. But I think that
was symbolic of him being a little bit sad and
disappointed that you know they weren't growing together, but that
could be me reaching. No, I think it was more
so the temptation and the pressure of the lifestyle that
he lives and just kind of having to maybe take

(50:13):
a deep breath and reset and get back to his
whatever his intention. The sweat looked like a tear. I
think that that was sim I don't think he was
coming from his eye. It was coming down was sweat, No,
it was it was I mean, it was coming down
his forehead.

Speaker 3 (50:27):
But oh wait, yeah, I know you're right.

Speaker 1 (50:29):
I think there was some sort of like hurt, m right.

Speaker 3 (50:34):
Any whatever.

Speaker 2 (50:35):
I looked at it like more like pressure more than pain.
But yeah, I could have been hurt, maybe.

Speaker 1 (50:41):
Hurt frustration.

Speaker 3 (50:43):
Yeah, I think he was hurt.

Speaker 2 (50:45):
Charlotte's giving Kevin a hand job, trying to prove that
she's better than any medicine, is stronger than any medicine,
and uh, He's like, hey girl, this ain't working and
I'm beginning to chafe.

Speaker 3 (50:56):
More rejection.

Speaker 2 (50:57):
She asked if he'll ever get off prozac, and he's
like nope. She asks even for her, He's like nope.

Speaker 6 (51:05):
Come on, wouldn't you rather be with a guy who's
kind and giving and not that interested in sex, and
an unstable over six prick who only wants to get laid.

Speaker 3 (51:14):
No, Kevin strucked. He didn't give a damn.

Speaker 2 (51:16):
So she broke up with him, and she got dressed
and left. Maybe he got dressed up, I can't remember anyway.
Proud of Charlotte for setting her boundaries there, once again
another example of just Charlotte having a conversation after some
time and not getting what she wants from it and
unapologetically moving on. Charlotte, Yeah, that's true, that's true. Harry
still hasn't been called by Big and that's when he

(51:40):
comes over her apartment. She's painting. The apartment looks a mess.
She looks a mess, there's pain on her face. And
I guess just laying on how imperfect she is and
him just surprising her. I think that's what that was
a writer's intention. In that moment she lets him in.
He's walking around our apartment and he's like, so this
is where you live. It's about time you invite me

(52:00):
up and he's like, your place is nice. She's like, oh,
I went, there's so much wrong with it, and I
want to fix this. Senate gaming, you know, carry any now,
and he finally gets to why he's really there.

Speaker 3 (52:09):
He's like, almos head, all.

Speaker 2 (52:11):
About the other night that was me having a melt time. Okay,
he don't care. You're like, all right, you know, it
is what it is, that's what you do.

Speaker 3 (52:20):
Sometimes.

Speaker 2 (52:21):
I don't know why he acts like she ain never
had a meltdown or freak out in front of him,
or project her and her thoughts onto him. But you know,
he's just there. He likes her apartment, he likes Carrie.
You know, he likes Carrie anyway. He wipes the paint
off of her face. He's like achshell. She's like yes.
And then he notices the neighbors having sex and he
says hell. He goes in and kisses her, and she

(52:45):
says inside how normal can feel uncomfortable?

Speaker 3 (52:49):
And that's how the episode ends.

Speaker 2 (52:51):
Why she lying act like she was never watching the
neighbor's side, She's still trying to be something she's not true.

Speaker 3 (52:57):
Maybe she don't want seem more to prevert like her
in her prevert from.

Speaker 2 (53:00):
I'm glad that you know, And just like that, you
know they're back to themselves having sexagon all that drama
for nothing.

Speaker 1 (53:06):
Yeah, I do appreciate that Big Ticket took the initiative
to see her at her apartment and you know, make
things better.

Speaker 2 (53:15):
Yeah, he cares about Carrie, he really does, he does.

Speaker 1 (53:18):
But I think he can handle her crazy sometimes.

Speaker 2 (53:22):
Yeah, he takes a step back or whatever, But I
think this is symbolic that he's letting her know it's
okay to be yourself, you know, at the end of
it all. And even in that moment by not admitting
she's been watching the neighbors, she still can't be herself,
but he's like letting her know she can. All right,
So now let's get into the cringiest moments of the episode. Ruh.

(53:44):
So the first cringe moment we have is Carrie far
in front of her means as normal as it is,
and you know, as much as it happens, it sucks
every time.

Speaker 3 (53:54):
I hate for it to happen to me.

Speaker 2 (53:57):
Me too, Me too. The net moment is when Carrie
goes over to Biggs's apartment dressed in her what does
she say, her sneak attack outfit that shows off her hips. Yeah,
just ready to get it in. And even a couple
of times when she was in bed with her neglige ae,
just trying to get at him again, and she just
keeps being rejected by Beg. It's never easy to put
yourself out there sexually only to be rejected, but I

(54:19):
guess men do it all the time. And the third
member we have here is Samantha yelling in the middle
of the yoga class. You want to fuck to some
random ass dude and then get up and literally walk
out in front of the yoga class. I mean, it's
probably laughable if you're really in the situation, but you
can have a little bit more decorum. If I was
taking that class, I'd be like, what the fuck? What

(54:40):
the hell? I'd be like a story, an Instagram post.
I have to call my best friend after. Would you
believe what happened to yoga Massa? David like that was crazy,
Samantha crazy. H I'm gonna have to vote for Carrie
farting in front of mister Beg.

Speaker 3 (54:54):
It just a yep, yikes, yikes.

Speaker 1 (55:00):
I think for me, it's more the carry going over
to Bigg's apartment and getting rejected.

Speaker 2 (55:06):
He did cuss her out, yeah, two days, three days that, Yeah,
I probably feel worse after them. So you changed, Nana
fart's cry as the greadiest woman of the episode.

Speaker 7 (55:21):
Buh.

Speaker 1 (55:23):
Now let's get into sex and the social media starting
with this TikTok by millennious opinions.

Speaker 7 (55:30):
I thought this whole episode was just so silly because
it's all based around Carrie farting in front of Big
for the first time and her just not being able
to get over it. So Big obviously takes it well
and he pranks her up with because she's on her
chair the day after, just to make a joke out
of it. But that same night, Big then just wants
to go straight to sleep instead of anything else, and
Carry's just convinced that one fart has ruined everything between

(55:52):
them and that it wasn't just because Big was tired
and just wanted to go to see So she spends
the whole episode trying to get him.

Speaker 5 (55:59):
To warn her again because she's she's ruined for that,
and she picks the day that he paid torture again
to go over Big did Walter. He is watching again
and because he paid for the game, that's his priority.
That night, she decides to try and get him to
want her during this game, to the point that Big
hospatility get off because she was bothering him so much,
and she storms off and plays the victim, and there's

(56:19):
a line in it where she says, I was sure
that he was going to come after me, but he
never did, like acting as though because he was interested
in one game that everything's.

Speaker 3 (56:28):
Ruined between them.

Speaker 2 (56:30):
Well, it was a fight, Elainya, not a game. But uh,
everything he said was yes. By on some of the
comments like carries Forever twenty one, she's so exhausting. How
is she ever a sex and relationship expert. I'm consistently
surprised watching Sex and the City that the character is
in their earn their thirties and not their twenties, considering
all the things they do with themselves.

Speaker 3 (56:50):
She's constantly doing this.

Speaker 2 (56:52):
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Speaker 7 (57:13):
Bye.