July 2, 2025 • 45 mins
Are all the remainig singles freaks? That was apparently the case in 1999 but is it still the case in 2025? We break it down. We made it to The Freak Show. Take a listen.
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Speaker 1 (00:01):
This is Sex in the City of Angels podcast.
Speaker 2 (00:20):
Welcome back to Sex in the City of angel Yes, yes,
so we made it to episode three. I'm Kayla, I'm Aliah.
Speaker 1 (00:34):
Kay I'm Dana, I'm norm saha An.
Speaker 2 (00:38):
Episode three was all about the Freak Show. It starts
off after the classic intro with Carrie talking about Manhattan
and how it used to be where the forefathers went
for hope and opportunity and happiness and now that hope
is found in first dates. Women want the first date
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to end the matrimony or at least a hot meal.
According to Carry and Sam, she's on the first date
with a man named Harrison, a very successful litigator who
took steam baths with Ron Pearlman. Does anybody know who
that is? No, ma'am me anyway, And he owned an
apartment on the thirty ninth floor of the Museum Tower,
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so his money was long if you're doing that in Manhattan.
After dinner, he invited Sam up to see his view
and they're making out dirty talking more or less. I
just really want to know who writes these conversations for
the dirty talk, because they are so bad.
Speaker 1 (01:37):
I think you should know.
Speaker 3 (01:38):
My specialty of soxual harassment.
Speaker 4 (01:40):
Really, this is a classic case, a classic case of entrapment.
Speaker 3 (01:50):
Beautiful woman, mine altering wine.
Speaker 2 (01:53):
I could claim temporary insanity.
Speaker 4 (01:55):
Well, I do have a prior record of driving men
a little crazy.
Speaker 3 (02:00):
You fit the profile. Most sexual harassment cases are brought
by older women.
Speaker 2 (02:06):
Oh shit, well how did he even response? I'm dry,
you fit the profile. Your old ass is exactly what
I thought.
Speaker 3 (02:20):
Ouch.
Speaker 2 (02:21):
So Sam stops kissing him. Obviously he's like, oh, no offense,
But come on, you're like forty forty one. Damn, damn, damn.
I've never gotten that I was older. Thank god. A
young boy joked and said that my fortieth birthday was
coming up recently. Really, I said, fuck.
Speaker 5 (02:41):
You like you said a young boy.
Speaker 2 (02:44):
I mean he's not a boy that I'm dating or anything,
but a twenty maybe twenty eight, twenty nine year old
little baby forty And I said, wow, you never talked.
Speaker 3 (02:52):
To me again. It hurt me.
Speaker 1 (02:53):
He just randomly said that.
Speaker 2 (02:55):
Well, I'm a I do give him a lip every
now and again. So he finally gave me some lip back,
and I didn't like it. I didn't like it.
Speaker 3 (03:02):
So there's that.
Speaker 2 (03:03):
Don't talk to me like that.
Speaker 5 (03:04):
First of all, why did I automatically think when you
said lip I don't know. It just took me somewhere else.
Speaker 2 (03:08):
It's not a romantic a little bit, no, ma'am, No, ma'am.
I will say that there was one time I was
absolutely not carded, though it was like, no, ma'am, you're good,
not yours.
Speaker 1 (03:23):
W I yeah. I don't make it a habit to
ask people what age I look like, because no, why
give them the chance.
Speaker 5 (03:32):
Immediately put yourself in that position, and you know on TikTok,
it's just like a known thing not to say your
age or say like, oh I look good for my age,
because they will humble.
Speaker 2 (03:41):
You would hold your hand while I tell you love
them say napkin in between. See how she excuses herself.
She has to go freshen up. You'll collect herself, all right,
I just got you know, hit got shot. Let me
go get myself together real quick. So she goes into
the mirror, she stares at herself. She's adjusting herself, and
(04:04):
she finally pulls herself back together and he's not in
the room because he is tied up or handcuffed up
or chained up or whatever, pinned up in his closet
is a little sex closet that he has there, slapping.
Speaker 3 (04:20):
Come on, slap hard.
Speaker 2 (04:24):
Slap me hard. Would you have slap him after you
call me forty? I would have took him up on
that immediately, if not sooner, It'll be something new to me. Okay,
I guess I punch him. I was waiting for you
to ask me to do that.
Speaker 1 (04:38):
You know, with this scene, I feel like for this
particular king or you know, sexual practices, like you should
bring it up before. Don't just fucking do it.
Speaker 3 (04:51):
Bring it up on me.
Speaker 1 (04:52):
Yeah, yeah, I talk about it.
Speaker 2 (04:54):
Yeah, talk about that mm hmm.
Speaker 5 (04:56):
Talk about the spanking.
Speaker 2 (04:58):
Yeah, like chained up in your closet right now that
I had.
Speaker 3 (05:02):
No idea where you went.
Speaker 2 (05:03):
That is a conversation for sure, Like whoa, okay, all right,
this is what we're doing.
Speaker 3 (05:07):
You want me to.
Speaker 2 (05:07):
Smack you smack your card?
Speaker 3 (05:09):
Do you? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (05:10):
Just let me know.
Speaker 2 (05:11):
The next day, Same invites the girls to a party
that she's throwing for a new coffee table book Book
du Jour, and the girls are telling Sam to give
the guy some credit. It takes a lot of hard
work to, you know, pin yourself up in the closet
in the bathroom for five minutes.
Speaker 3 (05:26):
You know, he puts some effort into that.
Speaker 2 (05:28):
And Miranda's like, guys, don't even open the door for
me when I'm getting into the cab, Like he's more
than the average dude, and that's your friend's telling you
to accept the bare minimum. If ever did hear it, Like,
that's not something I'm going to give him credit. I'm sorry.
Miranda says, this is exactly why I don't date. All
the men are freaks, and Carrie is like, that's unfair,
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but Miranda has a rebuttal.
Speaker 3 (05:51):
I'm sorry, if a man is over thirty and single,
there's something wrong with him. In still went in.
Speaker 4 (05:55):
They're being weeded out from propagating the species. Okay, what
about us, We're just choo, I'm.
Speaker 5 (06:00):
Getting more shrimp. I don't agree with that. I mean,
it didn't land, it didn't age well. I feel like
we had the conversation before where it's just like men
in their thirties now have that power flip, and now
she's saying that if they're single in their thirties and
something's wrong with them, but they're just I feel like
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thirty is still so young.
Speaker 2 (06:24):
And it's like us, if we're saying something wrong with them,
you gotta say something wrong with yourself.
Speaker 3 (06:27):
But we're just choosy.
Speaker 2 (06:28):
The men have something wrong with that because the men
have all the options. And then she walked away. I
need some shrimp, like having the conversation right, she doesn't.
Speaker 1 (06:36):
Yeah, And I feel like if you constantly say men
are freaks, that's what you're going to keep on attracting.
Speaker 5 (06:42):
But I got freaks coming crazy, but being a freak,
I don't know if it was a thing then, like
to be a freak, Oh my god, you're a freak.
Like now, it's like you want that, you want.
Speaker 3 (06:52):
Someone I think sexual free.
Speaker 2 (06:54):
Yeah, I think she makes like a freak show type
freak headed snakes. Something wrong with you?
Speaker 5 (07:00):
Three d okay? Maybe because later on.
Speaker 1 (07:04):
Double I guess two dicks.
Speaker 5 (07:06):
Yeah, we use the word differently.
Speaker 2 (07:09):
I guess, yeah, yeah, exactly. Sam's like the worst part
he actually thought I was forty?
Speaker 3 (07:17):
Do you think I look forty?
Speaker 4 (07:19):
If Samantha's passed four birthdays taught me anything, It was
that there is only one answer to a question like that.
You don't look at day over thirty five.
Speaker 2 (07:27):
I love that line because she said her last four
birthdays or five birthdays she was thirty five. Yeah, I
love that too. Carrie was being a good friend in
the moment. And to be fair, Samantha looks great, okay,
like stop it, stop it. I don't have this man,
I make you feel like you don't definitely looks forty. No,
she does not stop it.
Speaker 5 (07:44):
If your friend is asking you for some like exactly that,
and you know like, okay, maybe you do look forty,
but you don't want to hurt her feelings and you
want to feed her ego. That's that's been a good friend, right, I.
Speaker 2 (07:58):
Think, so saying otherwise, you know, like that's just my opinion.
Speaker 3 (08:05):
You know, and don't be I'm gonna let you have that.
Speaker 2 (08:10):
Yeah, no, that's very nice. Well, And to be honest
about I.
Speaker 5 (08:13):
Don't think it out if you really don't want the answer,
sometimes just don't ask.
Speaker 2 (08:18):
I mean it's more reassurance, like and you know, I
mean I don't think I think she.
Speaker 5 (08:22):
Should own it, like, yeah, I'm a bad bee at
forty and I look amazing like.
Speaker 3 (08:26):
That has forty.
Speaker 2 (08:28):
She's gonna ask for a birthday at least nine she is.
Speaker 5 (08:31):
I never knew what age she was to this day.
Speaker 1 (08:34):
She is in her forties. At the end of season six,
remember they don't they celebrate her fiftieth They did thirty,
so she's in her well into her forties.
Speaker 2 (08:44):
Oh well, Charlotte walks up talking about the new guy
that she's dating. She met Mitch Sailor. And Charlotte always
says the full name of a guy when she likes them,
and Sam's like, you're dating Mitch Sailor, Like, oh, yeah,
you heard of them or you know them. Sam's like, oh,
I've heard of him. Come to the bathroom and let
me give you the t word for word.
Speaker 3 (09:06):
Mister who.
Speaker 4 (09:07):
Suddenly Charlotte's monogram towels were looking very different. He's for
now and he loves going down on women. He's so
cute to be so nasty.
Speaker 5 (09:15):
That's disgusting. I told you there'd be something.
Speaker 2 (09:18):
Charlott's really uncomfortable with the girls telling her about her
interests being mister pussy and they're like, you do that though, right,
She's like, of course, I just don't like to talk
about it. But truth be told. According to Carrie, the
only thing that frequently goes down on Charlotte states is
an Amex gold card. Which is nothing to sneeze at.
These men are treating Charlotte, although they aren't going down
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on her.
Speaker 1 (09:41):
She has said she doesn't really enjoy it before.
Speaker 2 (09:45):
You did say that when she didn't want to give it.
She's like, I don't really like to get it, and
I don't really like to give it. I personally would
be so upset. If I really like this guy and
my friends are telling me how he's known for eating
pussy around town, I wouldn't love it. What may be
comfortable indulging, I don't know about that. It's exactly community dick.
(10:07):
I've been in a situation before it was.
Speaker 3 (10:09):
Like, yeah, you should get that.
Speaker 2 (10:10):
He's good dick.
Speaker 1 (10:11):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (10:12):
I was okay, all right, well I'll go ahead and.
Speaker 3 (10:14):
Give it a try.
Speaker 5 (10:15):
He was generous.
Speaker 3 (10:17):
Oh it was good. No lies were told.
Speaker 2 (10:20):
See.
Speaker 1 (10:21):
I think I would switch it in Charlotte's situation, you
know she's seriously dating. I would just switch it to
let's let me just have a little fun with this
guy and then move it, you know, keep it going,
keep it moving.
Speaker 2 (10:33):
Maybe fun, yeah, but I'm just not a fan of
community dick. Like when I know that you're for everybody
and everybody's had you. I'm just like, I don't like that.
I feel like I don't feel special. I feel like
your dick is dirty. I feel like it throws off
my pH balance, same with your tongue. I just I
can't see myself kissing you like how many women have
came in your mouth that you're a legend. I love that. Yeah, no, no,
(10:57):
not not not not for me. It reminds me Ofperhead.
It's like the superhead of sex and the City. Well,
it's a real thing, you know, you know, I mean,
it's it's skills. It doesn't have to be a terrible thing.
It doesn't you know. He's just really good at given heead.
It's just like the rumor that's attached to him.
Speaker 5 (11:12):
And everybody should experience.
Speaker 2 (11:13):
I don't know. I think there's you could be good, right,
but not everybody needs to know you're good. Like I
consider myself one of the best. But you guys, ever
heard anything about me about you?
Speaker 3 (11:25):
Don't share you don't share it.
Speaker 2 (11:27):
Nobody's gonna tell us about what I'm saying. I don't
think that he should be known for what he does.
You can be talented, but once the world knows about it,
you're just doing it to every and anybody, and it's
not no, not necessarily. I mean, I think in this
case it could be that, but I think women talk,
men talk. So if you're in certain circles and a
certain word gets out, people are going to talk about it.
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You can choose to make it the end all, be
all definition of who that person is. But it's real
that people are gonna talk about, especially when the dick
is good or whatever.
Speaker 1 (11:56):
I wouldn't judge him. I wouldn't judge him for it.
Speaker 2 (11:59):
I would yay.
Speaker 1 (12:01):
The decision is whether you want to interact with him
or not.
Speaker 3 (12:04):
Is he a husband? Probably not? But is it the
end of end I'll be all.
Speaker 2 (12:08):
I don't think so.
Speaker 1 (12:09):
Well.
Speaker 2 (12:09):
Charlie declares that she can't date anybody known as mister Pussy,
and Sam's like why. Charlie's like, because I want more
than the girls, say, Sweetie, if a.
Speaker 3 (12:20):
Man is good at that, there is nothing.
Speaker 2 (12:22):
More just than a woman emerges from the bathroom stall
and she's like, oh, you gotta be talking about Mitch
sailor obviously mister Pussy. That's mich Sailor. Let me tell you, girl,
he did it so well. I actually passed out while
I was.
Speaker 3 (12:38):
Coming in your man's mouth, So enjoy him.
Speaker 2 (12:41):
I'm enjoying him, girl, because lord knows I did, like
fuck no, fuck no, that's just the immediately.
Speaker 3 (12:48):
No for me.
Speaker 2 (12:49):
No, yeah, thank you though, thank you though your heart passed.
Probably yeah, I'm.
Speaker 1 (12:55):
You leave the party with him immediately.
Speaker 5 (12:58):
Yeah, he highly recommended.
Speaker 3 (13:00):
And I'm gonna have to find out for myself.
Speaker 2 (13:03):
So they all walk out of the bathroom and mister
Pussy is right there, eating an oyster very suggestively and
making eye contact right at Charlotte.
Speaker 3 (13:11):
All the girl, I was so turned off.
Speaker 2 (13:15):
Like I just I don't, I don't, I don't know,
I would they say, a woman like a lady in
the streets, but a freaking and she's like I also
expected of my man, Like I just want you to
carry yourself very classically in the streets, be a man
about your business, a man about your money, a man
about your you know, your brand, and then come home
and break my back. But what we're not going to
do is have the whole city talking about you and
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how good you are.
Speaker 5 (13:36):
Like that's just right, breaking everybody's back.
Speaker 2 (13:39):
Right, and everybody's pussy Noah came out.
Speaker 1 (13:45):
Yeah, No, that was too much.
Speaker 2 (13:47):
So Carrie doesn't want to believe that all single men
are freaks, and she decides to go on her first
blind date in two years with PJ, a very successful
independ movie director. His documentary about endangered seagulls just aired
on PBS with excellent reviews.
Speaker 4 (14:07):
Documentary films that must be fun. Look, let's be realistic.
Speaker 2 (14:11):
I'm only doing this docu bullshit to earn a rep,
you know.
Speaker 1 (14:14):
I mean, ultimately, I want to parlay it into the
action movie or being. I want to make money.
Speaker 3 (14:18):
I'm not afraid to say it. Okay, I love money.
Speaker 2 (14:20):
I would sell toilet bolts if it would make me
a millionaire.
Speaker 4 (14:22):
What about the seagulls?
Speaker 3 (14:24):
Fuck the seagulls.
Speaker 2 (14:25):
Wow, Honestly, I didn't think he was the worst of dates.
Speaker 3 (14:27):
I do.
Speaker 2 (14:28):
I do understand somebody not being about their word, But hey,
I want to make money too.
Speaker 3 (14:33):
I feel you. I still troll the bulls to it.
It made me rich.
Speaker 2 (14:35):
Oh, don't be full of crap. Though that's true, it's
gonna be a completely hypocrite. Now she's with bachelor number
two and they go to a movie. They're having some
cute banter about popcorn versus junior mints, and how she
likes one, he likes the other.
Speaker 5 (14:49):
This relationship is probably too.
Speaker 1 (14:52):
You want to lean a little closer.
Speaker 4 (14:53):
Maybe here are our entire conversation. Hey, here's a better idea.
Why don't you in your fucking girlfriend just sit him
on lobster in the movie.
Speaker 3 (14:59):
Then you want to a fucking word, dick.
Speaker 4 (15:05):
Ladies and gentlemen stand far away from the man with
two faces.
Speaker 2 (15:10):
Really speaks to her, turned around and snapped at the
couple behind them. And I personally would hate that as well, Like,
I'm so embarrassed right now, I would have to apologize
for him. Kind of reminded me of my hot headed X.
He would just snap and fight so randomly. I just
wasn't ready for it. A lot of the times we
were at the mall, he got into a fight, knock
somebody out, Like what are we doing here?
Speaker 3 (15:28):
What are we doing?
Speaker 1 (15:30):
Like?
Speaker 5 (15:30):
What did you do in that moment? What were you doing?
Speaker 2 (15:33):
I'm pretty sure I was trying to break it up,
but you're like, really, girl, No, that's so embarrassing.
Speaker 3 (15:38):
I don't play that.
Speaker 2 (15:40):
I was completely uncalled for. He was just embarrassing. He
was like an animal. That's just attacking people like it's
like when your dog attack somebody. It's like, oh my god,
sorry for this freaking animal. The third date was with Max,
a broker who made two million dollars on bombs last year,
and they had a great time at Little Italy and
now they're shot. Think for some books, but he starts stealing.
Speaker 4 (16:03):
Not only did Max have two million, he also appeared
to have a lending library and his parts. Parents, Please
keep the kiddies away from the cage of the man
who steals cheap used books for no reason.
Speaker 2 (16:17):
It's getting scary out there in the dating streets. Date
number two is definitely the worst, but date number three
isn't far behind him. A thief for no reason. That's terrible.
They were too old for that. I definitely can't date
a thief a crypto, oh.
Speaker 3 (16:30):
Especially actually one.
Speaker 2 (16:32):
Truthfully, yeah, I can't date a thief. It wouldn't be right.
Speaker 5 (16:37):
What if he stole a gift for you but you
don't know that was stolen, Like, well, what I.
Speaker 2 (16:43):
Don't know, won't hurt me. I will love that gift.
I will o receive it. But at the end of
the day, someone who steals it is just not good.
There's no there's no excuse. Yeah, I can make excuses.
I could accept something, but that's not good.
Speaker 5 (16:57):
It's like a I think when people steal, it comes
from a mindset of lack, lack of abundance, thinking that
you have to still in order to obtain whatever. And
it's just like that is true Itellian where their mind is.
Speaker 2 (17:10):
You gotta go to a therapist about that bro. In
the meantime, I ain't got time for you. That's first
of all. Now Carrie's afraid to date.
Speaker 3 (17:15):
She says.
Speaker 2 (17:15):
The men of the Dating Girl have devolved since she
was last there. I guess mister Big and her one way.
Four years she came back, the men were trash. So
she states freak shows shouldn't have actually been outlawed because
at least all the freaks were in one place. Now
they're roaming around us, and are all the men freaks?
She asks, I thought we would go to the streets,
but this is the first episode where we did not
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go to the streets at all. The scene changes and
Charlotte is with Miss the Pulse.
Speaker 4 (17:41):
Charlotte came harder than she ever had before. That is
until Tuesday. Oh yes, oh yes, Wednesdays.
Speaker 3 (17:51):
Oh yes, oh yes, Thursday.
Speaker 2 (17:58):
Friday, God, oh god, Charlotte apparently saw God seven times
on that Friday. I really enjoyed that sequence of scenes.
Happy for Charlotte.
Speaker 1 (18:12):
That's great, that's great.
Speaker 5 (18:13):
Monday through Friday.
Speaker 3 (18:14):
Three on Friday, Yes, that's amazing. That's a good time.
Speaker 2 (18:17):
It's a good moment in time. If Mitch was a freak,
Charlotte was ready to run away with this circus. And
I do love it. Whatever. I'm not going to be
all stiff and taking myself seriously or whatever. But you know,
just it's a twenty something thing. If you if you're
just having fun, cool, but you can't build with a
man like that. Just you just can't.
Speaker 3 (18:37):
You just can't.
Speaker 2 (18:38):
Or you could, I mean, you could worry about what
other people think, or you could just meet the person
and get your own opinion of what they are. It's
what I think, it's not what other people think. No, yeah,
I know, And I'm just giving a different perspective to that. Like,
you know, there's nothing wrong with getting head, there's nothing
wrong with engageing someone for sexual you know, and that's
all it's going to be. I don't think Charlotte was
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wanting to take him too seriously after she heard about it.
Speaker 3 (19:02):
But I don't know.
Speaker 2 (19:03):
I mean, she definitely says she wanted more from him,
and then she tried to get more from him, so
I think that she was definitely taking them seriously.
Speaker 3 (19:08):
Yeah, okay, you're right she did.
Speaker 2 (19:09):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (19:10):
Carrie.
Speaker 2 (19:11):
She is in the park just reading or sitting there,
you know, by herself, chilling, and a man sits next
to her reading a book and he starts a conversation
with her, like, oh, you had a rough night. She
was like, bad date. He was a klepto. And he's like, oh, man, yeah,
I dated a woman who slept with her shoes on
the freaks of the world. This is why I'm not dating.
She's like, yeah, I'm not dating either. His name was Ben,
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and she was instantly attracted to him. She asked, when
did men become freaks? He's like, women are freaks. They're bizarre.
This is why I don't date. Then Carrie shares a
story about seeing the world's fattest twins and how they
were both married to single women, I mean to skinny women,
and he looked at Carrie and asked her on a
non date since he's not dating, and she gives him
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a non no. She's like maybe, so I thought that
little band swerrisk back and forth, but they get their date. Yeah,
it was a cute little meet.
Speaker 3 (20:03):
Cute.
Speaker 2 (20:04):
Yeah it was. It was like random, like he sat
way too close to her next door on the fountain.
I would have been a little creeped out. And then
you're just staring at me, and you know who really
meets like that back in the nineties.
Speaker 1 (20:14):
So it was. But the little the banter was to me,
it was a turn off. It was weird.
Speaker 2 (20:19):
I liked it.
Speaker 1 (20:20):
A little fat phobic too, but.
Speaker 2 (20:22):
Yeah, that part and the freak show thing is probably
not appropriate either.
Speaker 3 (20:24):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (20:25):
I just Sam is on the street and she runs
into a woman who looks fabulous. She's like, oh my god,
you look great. Then I was like, yes, I got
the fat from my ass injected into my face and
I could eat whatever I wanted, got as big as
I wanted to get, and then they took it right
out and put it in my face. Now I look great,
So saam. She went and got herself a big mac
and made an amportment appointment with her plastic surgeon. It's
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so funny how fat asses were just so unaccepted back then,
and now it's like everybody wants a fat ass.
Speaker 5 (20:52):
It's funny because now the wave is going back to
removing your ass, Like there's a whole trend where it's
just like, granted, there's always been skinny people, but I
think it's going back to people are removing it their
bbls and of course there's people that are actually transferring
their fat. It's just like a trend. Yeah, and I
see that even then, it impacted the women, but it
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wasn't a thing like we didn't see big booty girls
in Texas City.
Speaker 3 (21:19):
No, not fake butts.
Speaker 2 (21:20):
I mean, you know, Jayla was the original big booty
girl as far as I know, she was natural. But
I feel like white women didn't want big butts. Yeah,
I think the black community. I always loved voluptuous bodies,
like they've always loved that. Yeah me, white people, white
culture didn't like that. They always wanted to. But it
wasn't fake, it was real. You know, you have had
one or you didn't, right, right.
Speaker 1 (21:41):
Right, But I'm glad you mentioned Natalie. I think this
is more of a white woman trend, which white woman trend.
Speaker 2 (21:46):
Ben was an editor at a hip political magazine. He
made carry laugh. He walks home after their date. He
doesn't try anything, or he doesn't try to go upstairs
with her, being as though it's a non date. So
she's like, I guess that means no kiss either, maybe
a non kiss, but there was nothing non about it.
Those two made out right in front of her apartment
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and it was crazy. Those kids are getting crazy down there,
so Sam, yeah, it was hot. And the next day
Sam is telling the girls about her fat transplant and
the girls aren't disbelieve because again, fat asses weren't in
back then, so they're like, we usually try to hide
our ass. What are you trying to show it in
your face for? That's craziness. And Charlotte's engaged. She's like,
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you know, I gotta leave. I gotta go see my boat.
They're like, mister pussy, you're not supposed to keep him, girl.
Speaker 1 (22:35):
Hang on, honey, you don't fall in love with mister pussy.
Speaker 3 (22:37):
You enjoy him and then set him free.
Speaker 4 (22:40):
To Samantha, Charlotte had committed the ultimate sin. She was
boo guarding mister pussy.
Speaker 2 (22:45):
First of all, I want to say, Samantha is really
feeling good. About herself too. Now she's help with a
Calvin Clime model. So after the guy called her forty,
she started to invest in herself, importance, herself and de
Wish needed to make herself feel good. And I love
Sammy Joe for that because no, we don't stay down
for long. Okay, you go to the Calvin Clime models
an insecure place, I mean wherever she was coming from.
She feels better about herself now. But Carrie asks, are
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you even talking to mister pussy? Like, do y'all have
any conversation? And Sam's like, do you guys even have
sex or do you just get your pussy eight all
the time. I mean, she didn't say it like that,
but that's what she was saying. And Carrie, she made
a real good point. This really to be happening. She's like, Charlotte,
I think that I think.
Speaker 4 (23:24):
You've fallen into the sex, says, you know where the
sex is really great, and then you start acting like
a crazy person. Then you start to imagine the relationship
is something it's not's.
Speaker 5 (23:32):
Not having a relationship. She's having multiple orgasms.
Speaker 1 (23:36):
Dangerous, man, be sure, speaking from experience.
Speaker 5 (23:39):
I think from the examples that we were shown. I
think the women going there sleeping with them, hoping that
it turns out to be something, and they fantasize about
and romanticize it like the relationship, and then they're like,
the men are still going to be met and they're like, hey,
I don't I'm just having fun. And then the women
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are the ones. The girls are the ones like, oh
my god, no, it could be he could be different,
he could be and so I think that's where the
disappointment comes.
Speaker 1 (24:09):
You know.
Speaker 2 (24:10):
Well, Charlotte declares, I'm happy. I don't care what you
guys say. He makes me happy, he makes her come.
So Carrie and Miranda the next Thceinge go on a
double date because if Carrie found herself a non freak, obviously, Miranda,
you're wrong. I can find you a non freak too, right.
So she introduces Miranda to Ben's friend Luke, and things
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seem to be going really well. Carrie and Ben are
I mean carry and yeah. Carrie and Ben are proud
of themselves until it goes left and they find out
that this guy Luke doesn't leave Manhattan. He's never left.
Everything is here, I don't need to go anywhere. Miranda's
like Okay, well you're a freak because that's some weird
stuff that you're doing. She's like, I'm going to implement
our exit line, which I believe is I had to
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feed my cat. And Carrie is so disrespectful. She's like, wait,
hold on, hold on, didn't you already fiedja catsful? You
notice is our safe word.
Speaker 3 (25:01):
And I'm leaving.
Speaker 2 (25:02):
That's it, that's it, that's it. But Miranda held her
held her own you know, she's a lawyer. I feed
my cat again pretty much, well, I'm out of here.
And Carrie and had never about it of that, but
Miranda left her with some parting words. She said, the
man has not.
Speaker 5 (25:19):
Left Manhattan in a decade, Carrie, he's obviously a freak.
Speaker 2 (25:21):
And by the way, if lucas a freak, then is
bound to be a freak too.
Speaker 5 (25:25):
You can tell everything about a person by who their
friends are.
Speaker 2 (25:28):
Was it worth it for Miranda to cut him? Like
like like that based on that information? I like the
strong boundaries, and I think also it's not it's not
only the fact that he didn't leave Manhattan, but he
tried to make her feel bad, like for wanting to
leave or having a life outside in Manhattan. You know,
like I think, because you're going to the country, you're
a freak. And then she had to go feed her cat.
He's like, oh, cat people, they're all freaks. So I
think that feeling was mutual about them not really vibing
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with each other.
Speaker 5 (25:52):
I mean, some people to this day believe that cat
women women with cats are a little weird and crazy,
that there's a stair type.
Speaker 1 (26:00):
I know.
Speaker 2 (26:00):
That's why Taylor Swift even posted during this past election,
like coming from a single cat lady and it's like, yeah, Taylor, yeah,
I mean I don't know, she could be girl Tellors
got a man.
Speaker 5 (26:13):
I'm just saying like it doesn't have to be, you know,
because she's in a relationship. But the whole thing with
you know, she's like Lively, you know, the.
Speaker 3 (26:25):
Right crazy cat.
Speaker 1 (26:29):
Well, I have a cat. You are crazy crazy.
Speaker 5 (26:32):
But it's not your main cat. I mean, it's not
your main animal. Support animal. Yeah, it's not chall Yeah.
Speaker 1 (26:39):
Shout out to Nacho. He's listening to us right now.
Speaker 2 (26:43):
Cho Okay. So the next scene, Carrie and Ben there
in bed, and she asked if there's anything that she
should know about him that's just odd. He's like, actually, yeah,
I got this tweety bird tattoo. She's like, oh my god,
it's like cute rest in pieces of ted bird like
theere he go, you know, bless, that was a great
part of your ever. Ever, He's like, what about you?
You got anything that I need to know about? And
(27:05):
Carrie had a lot of things she could have listed.
You know, I'm crazy. I don't have any sanity whatsoever.
You tell me something, I'm going to freak out. I'm
gonna go to my friends. I'm gonna fest her.
Speaker 3 (27:25):
Crazy.
Speaker 2 (27:25):
I don't know if Carrie realizes she's crazy.
Speaker 3 (27:27):
I don't think.
Speaker 1 (27:29):
Lack of self awareness.
Speaker 2 (27:31):
Because she decided to show him a scar on her
knee from her third.
Speaker 3 (27:36):
Grade bully.
Speaker 2 (27:39):
Carrie crazy. You gotta love her. Yes, he liked that scar.
He's like, oh, you're scrappy like that. So then they
have sex and apparently it was great. There was nothing
freaky about she said freaky or weird about it anyway.
Either way, I should have been freaky stuff about it,
you know. You know she said freaky because you know
that's the theme of episode. Yeah, yeah, there was nothing
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weird about it. It didn't feel weird. It didn't feel freaky.
So Charlotte must have heard her girlfriends because she's in
the next scene trying to make a relationship with Miss
the Pussy. And I told you from the beginning of
this episode, like, don't do that, don't even date him
because you're begging. But anyway, Charlie trying to make a
relationship happen, and he doesn't seem interested in any of
the conversation she's trying to throw his way. She's asking
(28:21):
why he's so quiet, what are you thinking about? So
then he again unattractively eats a fig, very suggestively, staring
her in her face, drawing all the audience's pussies as
we watch it, because ew ew, you're so unattractive right now,
I can't even take it. So she was grossed out
by him like I was from the first time we
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met him, and she couldn't be in the same fig.
I'm saying, she couldn't be in the same room with
a fig after that for a very long time, if
not indefinitely, because he was traumas heising that's what happens.
That's what happens when you try to give the freaks
a chance. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 3 (28:58):
Just make all right. Whatever.
Speaker 2 (29:00):
So now Sam, she's meeting her surgeon and he's talking
about all the work that she needs. As he's talking
about it, he's drawing going there and showing her, Oh,
you need this, you need that, you need this and this,
and we could do this, we could do that. So
he gets caught out of the room after that and
he has to excuse himself. She looks in the mirror
and the way he drew on her, she looked like
a legit clown and she became part of the circus.
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And then she cried, looking at herself, like what.
Speaker 3 (29:24):
Am I doing? The same thing? Wake up call.
Speaker 2 (29:28):
After Sam is crying, we go back to carry in
the apartment with the new man, and he's like, I
gotta go to my soccer game. But you say, you
get comfortable, I'll be back or whatever.
Speaker 4 (29:37):
There had to be something sick and off about him.
If the rest of the species had evolved, then would
have to be a freak to survive. I had to
find out what was wrong before I wasted the next
six months.
Speaker 2 (29:49):
And I was actually left to a guy's apartment, you know,
while he went to the gym. This was so long ago,
and I just couldn't think going through his stuff. It's
so not okay, Like I made his bed and I quote,
I gotten that car and I left, Like I text him,
make sure you lock your door.
Speaker 3 (30:06):
I didn't.
Speaker 2 (30:07):
I didn't lock it because he you know, has the
app or you can lock it from it from a
far away place. But that's just so an invasion of privacy.
I just can't imagine doing that to somebody, or having
somebody do that to me. Yeah, yeah, you know how
I feel about that. It reminds me of the episode
where Miranda took that guy's porn tape, you know, after
searching his stuff. I just think it's so disrespectful, like
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such an invasion of privacy.
Speaker 1 (30:29):
It is. If Carrie had a therapist, she would have
saved her saved herself so many of these crazy fucking
episodes because we we look through like at the episode,
she's very influenced by her crazy ass friends. She lets them, you.
Speaker 2 (30:45):
Know, like Miranda specifically and Neatly and the Saint. The
first time Miranda got at the last time I Renda got.
Speaker 1 (30:50):
Her caught up, yeah, and it, and then she goes
down on a spiral and acts on her crazy It's
like if she would have had a therapist where she
can you know, talk things through.
Speaker 2 (30:59):
With or chat GB to it chat gbt is data
likes you.
Speaker 1 (31:03):
Yeah, maybe she wouldn't have you know, she would have
understood that that was fucking crazy whatever she's thinking.
Speaker 5 (31:09):
You know, do you ever feel like someone snooped and
into your your stuff?
Speaker 3 (31:13):
I do.
Speaker 2 (31:14):
I feel like people have checked receipts. I've had a
boyfriend who was very intrusive, like I ll him borrow
a notebook for class. You really went through it and
like ask me questions about it, looking at receipts, like
why did you buy this? And my friend I got
to say her name, and my friend would come over
and like just help herself to information, Like I don't
want to leave you here by yourself.
Speaker 3 (31:32):
What gives you the right? Like, what gives you the right?
Speaker 5 (31:35):
I remember leaving my bag open and I have my
journal in there, and just like if you read my journal,
you're going to think I'm crazy because I believe in
writing affirmations and manifesting, and you know, so I look
crazy the things that I probably put on there, and
I feel like it was slightly open. I'm like, did
he go in there? I get it, like you want
(31:58):
to know I don't have anything crazy in there, like
where I feel like, oh my gosh, like let's get
a yeah, you know, take her. But I just feel
like it's so like I would never read someone's journal.
Speaker 2 (32:13):
And I will say the intrusive thoughts while I'm in
this man's apartment, did like come in, like, you know,
let me should I? But I just like I would
just hurt my own feelings, like I don't want to
know anything that that I don't know.
Speaker 3 (32:24):
You know what, I don't know? Ignorance is bliss.
Speaker 2 (32:26):
I'm good. But Carrie had Cary gave into the intrusive thoughts.
Speaker 1 (32:30):
Okay, the only thing I feel like I've ever snooped at.
It's just like the ITF you go into the restroom
and you know the drawer. I just want to know
what the mirror drawer.
Speaker 3 (32:43):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (32:44):
I might look around the floor. There's the long hair,
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (32:47):
Yeah, I just want to just because it's so there
and you're in the restroom in the clothes, right, But
that's like going into your room and really snooping around.
Speaker 5 (32:56):
Never is this early on or are you doing these
these things early on? Or like already when you're in
a relationship.
Speaker 2 (33:04):
Pretty early on.
Speaker 5 (33:05):
Okay, that's good to know early on, so you can
like move on and.
Speaker 2 (33:09):
Just and younger, Kayla did go through phones.
Speaker 1 (33:12):
Yeah what, No, I was just since I haven't really
been in relationships, it's mostly like situationships still like the boundaries,
I wouldn't be snooping, And no, I wouldn't.
Speaker 3 (33:24):
Do that again.
Speaker 2 (33:25):
When I was younger, I did go through phones. And
I don't know if that counts a snooping, but oh
for sure, I went to sleep you texting, calling Humber
his back.
Speaker 5 (33:35):
Just sending myself some money, just doing the little face.
Speaker 3 (33:39):
That's terrible. Day.
Speaker 2 (33:43):
Well, Carrie got crazy and she started going through his things.
She was just trying to find something freaky about him.
At first I started innocent, you know what little things
she's going through, and then all of a sudden it
got a mind of its own. Next thing, you know,
she's tearing apart things, going through his closet. She finds
a locked box and she knows this is it, this
is what's gonna let me know the freakingness that this
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man is the freak like the rest of them. And
she's trying everything in her power to get into this
box and all of a sudden.
Speaker 3 (34:11):
What the hell are you doing? What the helly?
Speaker 2 (34:16):
I don't know, I can't explain it.
Speaker 3 (34:20):
I guess I was.
Speaker 5 (34:25):
Looking for something, get.
Speaker 2 (34:28):
Out, Like, what the hell looking for something?
Speaker 3 (34:30):
How dare you?
Speaker 2 (34:31):
How?
Speaker 3 (34:33):
What the hell? What the hell? Yan say? Right?
Speaker 5 (34:40):
The fact that he's she is the capital f freak
freaks And it's just like.
Speaker 2 (34:47):
You have the nerve to show him your third grade
freaking star.
Speaker 3 (34:50):
Were you not have the type of ship and she
still has that trauma?
Speaker 2 (34:53):
This just shows you like it wasn't even isolated to
bid you nuts and you oh nut okay.
Speaker 1 (35:01):
I also wanted to bring that up because it's like,
is he too much of a saying adult? Because I
feel like this was a cute me cute. He seemed safe,
he seemed like, you know, like an adult, Yeah, a
normal adult. And then here she comes with her crazy
(35:21):
so it's like it was it going too healthy for her?
Speaker 2 (35:25):
Is that the anxious attached style? And she was easily
influenced by Miranda?
Speaker 1 (35:30):
She so who was a problem in this situation?
Speaker 3 (35:34):
Carrie?
Speaker 2 (35:34):
Yes, thank you, thank you Norms. But he's like something
something like what she's like at a nutt something freaky.
Speaker 3 (35:41):
I'm calling the cops, bro charges got leave you okay?
Speaker 2 (35:48):
And then on top of that, girl you know, opened
a box for her because he's like, oh, you're looking
for something, I got you. It's just his cup Scout
badge collection, literally nothing, and it wasn't even a locked.
Speaker 3 (36:00):
I think she just had to slide.
Speaker 2 (36:01):
It's not only crazy.
Speaker 3 (36:06):
Are you dumb too?
Speaker 2 (36:07):
Ah?
Speaker 3 (36:07):
God, let you know.
Speaker 2 (36:09):
That's what I would be thinking if I was.
Speaker 5 (36:11):
But it's so early on. I feel like they just
painted out. She slept with him one time, right? Is
that the first time media like hanging out and she's
already crazy. How do you get attached to someone like
within the first week you sleep with them? Now you
want to you're so obsessed with trying to find them,
you know, freaky and trying to get like is she
if she finds out he's a freak? Is she gonna
leave him? Is she gonna stay? Is she gonna what
(36:33):
her friends?
Speaker 3 (36:34):
Got in her head?
Speaker 5 (36:34):
Though?
Speaker 2 (36:35):
Honestly, I felt like Miranda got in her head and
she's just like these many normal He's too normal, and
she just she she fed into the lesser wolf, the
lesser in her wolf. She did sleep with him now
and acknowledge that sleeping with her. Sleeping with him got
her into a haze, like she she did like him.
After that, she was more attached to him. Been there yeah,
but not there, like I'm not doing that. I'm just
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crazy lminating.
Speaker 1 (36:59):
Day.
Speaker 2 (37:00):
I love you back, you know whatever, Judge, if you
had to anyway, he like, he like, I loved you too.
What he was like, I actually wasn'to you too, And
I was going to skip the game to be with you.
But now you can get the hell out.
Speaker 3 (37:15):
Yeah, freak, you can go scream. I don't want to
talk to you. I'm just going to skip the game
to be with you. I thought you were actually a
normal one.
Speaker 4 (37:26):
I was I'm gonna good idea.
Speaker 2 (37:32):
Like what she expected me like, no, please, like I'm
gonna go. I had a good idea. Bye. Reminded me
of the shower scene where he was like, I don't
want you here when I get out of the shower. Randa,
she was accepting her feet. Yeah, her feet. She muffed up.
She muffed up, man, Yeah, muffed up big time. But
you know what she said A real thing. Right at
the end of this episode, she Suort died. Carrie's quote
(37:54):
and it was that.
Speaker 4 (37:56):
Was a day I came face to face with my freak,
frightening woman whose fear a her sanity.
Speaker 5 (38:02):
The truth is, it isn't just the men.
Speaker 4 (38:05):
It's all of us. Anyone who's single in Manhattan gets
a little freaked out from time to time, but we
keep trying because you have to figure If the world's
fattest twins can find love, there's hope for.
Speaker 3 (38:18):
All of us.
Speaker 4 (38:19):
Somewhere out there is another little freak who will love us,
understand us, and kiss our three heads and make it
all better.
Speaker 2 (38:28):
And then she says something about my hand and which
we can't relate to because we're in the city of angels,
but in the city that kiss my three heads make
me feel better. I do hear the fatophobic language and
not good in twenty twenty five, like girl, calm down.
Speaker 1 (38:44):
Yeah, maybe it's.
Speaker 2 (38:47):
Back in the day that was.
Speaker 3 (38:48):
All the reach.
Speaker 2 (38:49):
I really just love the message though, because I feel
like it was basically saying there's someone for everybody, and
someone who's going to love you exactly as you are,
flaws and all. You don't have to change yourself to
be something that you're not.
Speaker 5 (39:00):
And I think the one for you. Yeah, And I
think it's a good reflection, self reflection with her like
she was.
Speaker 3 (39:05):
I think that.
Speaker 5 (39:05):
I don't know if that was her first time being
self aware, but at least she finally took some accountability.
Speaker 2 (39:10):
She did her own free Yep, I realized I was
crazy for the first time.
Speaker 1 (39:15):
That's it all, right.
Speaker 2 (39:17):
Time to get into the cringiest moments.
Speaker 1 (39:19):
Of the episode.
Speaker 2 (39:20):
So the first one is mister Pussy eating food in
a sexual manner while making eyes with Charlotte at the bar,
and then he did it again when they were at
the restaurant when she was trying to get to know him,
and there was just nothing appealing or sexy about it.
Can we say turned.
Speaker 3 (39:35):
All the way off?
Speaker 2 (39:36):
Like a way a little Wait? The next one is
Charlotte making out with mister Pussy knowing that he ate
everybody's cat in Manhattan. That was mine, that was mine.
I that one.
Speaker 3 (39:49):
Y'all couldn't tell that all.
Speaker 2 (39:52):
But I feel like you're not wrong, but you're probably
also kissing men who are out there eating a lot
of cat in general.
Speaker 3 (40:00):
Yeah, good at it.
Speaker 2 (40:02):
And don't mean that I was just good at it.
Speaker 5 (40:05):
I mean they eat asked now so good enough to.
Speaker 2 (40:07):
Have a reputation in the community for it.
Speaker 5 (40:09):
They do.
Speaker 2 (40:11):
So that's who if you're eating good pussy and girls
was talking about it, girls talk about it. I did
date a man like mister Pussy back in my early twenties.
I will say he learned from eating a eating reading
a lesbian magazine. That was that was a twenty something mistake.
Speaker 3 (40:25):
I wouldn't.
Speaker 2 (40:25):
I would not do him today.
Speaker 3 (40:26):
Yes, for the record.
Speaker 2 (40:28):
The next one is Carrie Freaky Carrie's freaky dates, specifically
the guy who got aggressive in line at the movies.
It was just totally unwarranted, uncalled for. Maybe you consider
on our fucking lot. He could have put carry in
a dangerous situation with that attitude. People didn't even do anything.
It was totally just, you know, unnecessary. Right. The next
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one Carrie getting into her head and frantically searching her
new Boods apartment. Such a violation of privacy, and she
got caught red handed, looking like the biggest freak of
the entire episode, worse than everybody. Yeah, I'm gonna go
ahead and vote for you know how I feel mister
Pussy doing miss the pussy things. I mean, actually, I'm
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had to vote for him eating the thing and staring
at them because that's like the physical cringe in my body. Ironically,
I did maybe want some oysters.
Speaker 1 (41:29):
I don't like you're going to say it made you
want to have Oh yeah, that's it.
Speaker 5 (41:34):
I mean you want to call him huh?
Speaker 3 (41:37):
I miss him.
Speaker 1 (41:38):
I love you.
Speaker 5 (41:42):
I would vote for putting Carrie in that uncomfortable situation
when he was going off on those people, because I
can imagine being there and I'm just like, oh my gosh,
I am just so embarrassed, like how do I get
out of this? Yeah, and imagine that's your man, like
he's doing that all the time.
Speaker 1 (41:59):
Like I know, yeah, I'm gonna have to go with
Carrie's crazy scene trying you know, when he walks in
on her trying to open up his box.
Speaker 3 (42:10):
No.
Speaker 2 (42:11):
Yeah, watching that, it was like I really wanted her
to stop, just like stop now, quit while you're ahead.
Speaker 3 (42:15):
You got a good thing going. I just didn't want
her to start.
Speaker 2 (42:18):
Why are you doing that?
Speaker 3 (42:19):
Why?
Speaker 2 (42:20):
It's weird? So I think the winner is mister pussy
eating the food because Olya and I were on the
same page and you girls, but the all moments are cringey.
We have to pick a winner, the cringiest moment of
the episode.
Speaker 1 (42:38):
Now, let's get into sex and the social media at Maria,
I got the d Sex in the City season two
Capitomo Temple, Darren Star, Thejo Notamo carries.
Speaker 2 (43:03):
What.
Speaker 1 (43:04):
I don't know. It's a little confusing at the end,
but she's basically saying that she had found the perfect
guy and she sucked it up. Yes, Yes, she was
a problem.
Speaker 2 (43:15):
Yes, had a tweety bird tattoo. And it was only
one date and one sex, one.
Speaker 3 (43:21):
Friends.
Speaker 2 (43:21):
It was really a safe space.
Speaker 3 (43:23):
Yeah. Oh oh.
Speaker 1 (43:25):
Darren Stars, he like the creator something I'm saying, like.
Speaker 5 (43:31):
Yeah, all right, but I think like with and.
Speaker 1 (43:35):
That he does. He basically described Carrie as and suffer.
Speaker 5 (43:40):
I feel like with Carrie and the guy that she
was dating, Carrie has to find a little a man
that is a little crazy for her, like he's too normal,
and I feel like she's gonna spaz out. I mean,
she's going to have more moments later on where she
has those reactions and she's just like, oh my gosh,
you know so I think that he would break up
with her even if she didn't do this.
Speaker 1 (44:04):
Oh yeah, Carrie is toxic. She needs toxic and that's why.
Speaker 2 (44:08):
And Big laughed at her crazy. He seemed entertained by it.
You know, he had banter for it.
Speaker 5 (44:14):
Yeah, exactly.
Speaker 2 (44:14):
You knew not to give her what she wanted. Oh
you searching my stuff? He'll he'll say something like, you're
gonna have to dig forever forish treasure, baby, exactly, and
she's gonna love it.
Speaker 3 (44:24):
I don't think that I was.
Speaker 2 (44:29):
I really I'm sorry.
Speaker 1 (44:30):
That Big doesn't really take her that seriously. That's why
he's able to.
Speaker 5 (44:34):
Just I think he doesn't take life too seriously, like
he has a sense of humor, so she takes it
way too literal and serious, and that's why she's reacting
every time with him. And he's just like laid back
and he knows how to control the dynamic of the relationship.
And so I think that's why I worked.
Speaker 2 (44:52):
I have a close friend who acts a little bit
like Carrie, and when she has her crazy moments, there's
nothing better than somebody who doesn't make her feel crazy,
and just like you know, has great banter with her
and gives her the security and the reassurance that she needs.
Speaker 3 (45:06):
Yes, we're saying that's what she needs.
Speaker 2 (45:08):
Yeah, so I'm agreeing that you know you need somebody
like that, you just as my close friend would know.
Speaker 3 (45:15):
To make sure you join.
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Bye,
This is Sex in the City of Angels podcast.
Speaker 2 (00:20):
Welcome back to Sex in the City of angel Yes, yes,
so we made it to episode three. I'm Kayla, I'm Aliah.
Speaker 1 (00:34):
Kay I'm Dana, I'm norm saha An.
Speaker 2 (00:38):
Episode three was all about the Freak Show. It starts
off after the classic intro with Carrie talking about Manhattan
and how it used to be where the forefathers went
for hope and opportunity and happiness and now that hope
is found in first dates. Women want the first date
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to end the matrimony or at least a hot meal.
According to Carry and Sam, she's on the first date
with a man named Harrison, a very successful litigator who
took steam baths with Ron Pearlman. Does anybody know who
that is? No, ma'am me anyway, And he owned an
apartment on the thirty ninth floor of the Museum Tower,
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so his money was long if you're doing that in Manhattan.
After dinner, he invited Sam up to see his view
and they're making out dirty talking more or less. I
just really want to know who writes these conversations for
the dirty talk, because they are so bad.
Speaker 1 (01:37):
I think you should know.
Speaker 3 (01:38):
My specialty of soxual harassment.
Speaker 4 (01:40):
Really, this is a classic case, a classic case of entrapment.
Speaker 3 (01:50):
Beautiful woman, mine altering wine.
Speaker 2 (01:53):
I could claim temporary insanity.
Speaker 4 (01:55):
Well, I do have a prior record of driving men
a little crazy.
Speaker 3 (02:00):
You fit the profile. Most sexual harassment cases are brought
by older women.
Speaker 2 (02:06):
Oh shit, well how did he even response? I'm dry,
you fit the profile. Your old ass is exactly what
I thought.
Speaker 3 (02:20):
Ouch.
Speaker 2 (02:21):
So Sam stops kissing him. Obviously he's like, oh, no offense,
But come on, you're like forty forty one. Damn, damn, damn.
I've never gotten that I was older. Thank god. A
young boy joked and said that my fortieth birthday was
coming up recently. Really, I said, fuck.
Speaker 5 (02:41):
You like you said a young boy.
Speaker 2 (02:44):
I mean he's not a boy that I'm dating or anything,
but a twenty maybe twenty eight, twenty nine year old
little baby forty And I said, wow, you never talked.
Speaker 3 (02:52):
To me again. It hurt me.
Speaker 1 (02:53):
He just randomly said that.
Speaker 2 (02:55):
Well, I'm a I do give him a lip every
now and again. So he finally gave me some lip back,
and I didn't like it. I didn't like it.
Speaker 3 (03:02):
So there's that.
Speaker 2 (03:03):
Don't talk to me like that.
Speaker 5 (03:04):
First of all, why did I automatically think when you
said lip I don't know. It just took me somewhere else.
Speaker 2 (03:08):
It's not a romantic a little bit, no, ma'am, No, ma'am.
I will say that there was one time I was
absolutely not carded, though it was like, no, ma'am, you're good,
not yours.
Speaker 1 (03:23):
W I yeah. I don't make it a habit to
ask people what age I look like, because no, why
give them the chance.
Speaker 5 (03:32):
Immediately put yourself in that position, and you know on TikTok,
it's just like a known thing not to say your
age or say like, oh I look good for my age,
because they will humble.
Speaker 2 (03:41):
You would hold your hand while I tell you love
them say napkin in between. See how she excuses herself.
She has to go freshen up. You'll collect herself, all right,
I just got you know, hit got shot. Let me
go get myself together real quick. So she goes into
the mirror, she stares at herself. She's adjusting herself, and
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she finally pulls herself back together and he's not in
the room because he is tied up or handcuffed up
or chained up or whatever, pinned up in his closet
is a little sex closet that he has there, slapping.
Speaker 3 (04:20):
Come on, slap hard.
Speaker 2 (04:24):
Slap me hard. Would you have slap him after you
call me forty? I would have took him up on
that immediately, if not sooner, It'll be something new to me. Okay,
I guess I punch him. I was waiting for you
to ask me to do that.
Speaker 1 (04:38):
You know, with this scene, I feel like for this
particular king or you know, sexual practices, like you should
bring it up before. Don't just fucking do it.
Speaker 3 (04:51):
Bring it up on me.
Speaker 1 (04:52):
Yeah, yeah, I talk about it.
Speaker 2 (04:54):
Yeah, talk about that mm hmm.
Speaker 5 (04:56):
Talk about the spanking.
Speaker 2 (04:58):
Yeah, like chained up in your closet right now that
I had.
Speaker 3 (05:02):
No idea where you went.
Speaker 2 (05:03):
That is a conversation for sure, Like whoa, okay, all right,
this is what we're doing.
Speaker 3 (05:07):
You want me to.
Speaker 2 (05:07):
Smack you smack your card?
Speaker 3 (05:09):
Do you? Yeah?
Speaker 1 (05:10):
Just let me know.
Speaker 2 (05:11):
The next day, Same invites the girls to a party
that she's throwing for a new coffee table book Book
du Jour, and the girls are telling Sam to give
the guy some credit. It takes a lot of hard
work to, you know, pin yourself up in the closet
in the bathroom for five minutes.
Speaker 3 (05:26):
You know, he puts some effort into that.
Speaker 2 (05:28):
And Miranda's like, guys, don't even open the door for
me when I'm getting into the cab, Like he's more
than the average dude, and that's your friend's telling you
to accept the bare minimum. If ever did hear it, Like,
that's not something I'm going to give him credit. I'm sorry.
Miranda says, this is exactly why I don't date. All
the men are freaks, and Carrie is like, that's unfair,
(05:50):
but Miranda has a rebuttal.
Speaker 3 (05:51):
I'm sorry, if a man is over thirty and single,
there's something wrong with him. In still went in.
Speaker 4 (05:55):
They're being weeded out from propagating the species. Okay, what
about us, We're just choo, I'm.
Speaker 5 (06:00):
Getting more shrimp. I don't agree with that. I mean,
it didn't land, it didn't age well. I feel like
we had the conversation before where it's just like men
in their thirties now have that power flip, and now
she's saying that if they're single in their thirties and
something's wrong with them, but they're just I feel like
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thirty is still so young.
Speaker 2 (06:24):
And it's like us, if we're saying something wrong with them,
you gotta say something wrong with yourself.
Speaker 3 (06:27):
But we're just choosy.
Speaker 2 (06:28):
The men have something wrong with that because the men
have all the options. And then she walked away. I
need some shrimp, like having the conversation right, she doesn't.
Speaker 1 (06:36):
Yeah, And I feel like if you constantly say men
are freaks, that's what you're going to keep on attracting.
Speaker 5 (06:42):
But I got freaks coming crazy, but being a freak,
I don't know if it was a thing then, like
to be a freak, Oh my god, you're a freak.
Like now, it's like you want that, you want.
Speaker 3 (06:52):
Someone I think sexual free.
Speaker 2 (06:54):
Yeah, I think she makes like a freak show type
freak headed snakes. Something wrong with you?
Speaker 5 (07:00):
Three d okay? Maybe because later on.
Speaker 1 (07:04):
Double I guess two dicks.
Speaker 5 (07:06):
Yeah, we use the word differently.
Speaker 2 (07:09):
I guess, yeah, yeah, exactly. Sam's like the worst part
he actually thought I was forty?
Speaker 3 (07:17):
Do you think I look forty?
Speaker 4 (07:19):
If Samantha's passed four birthdays taught me anything, It was
that there is only one answer to a question like that.
You don't look at day over thirty five.
Speaker 2 (07:27):
I love that line because she said her last four
birthdays or five birthdays she was thirty five. Yeah, I
love that too. Carrie was being a good friend in
the moment. And to be fair, Samantha looks great, okay,
like stop it, stop it. I don't have this man,
I make you feel like you don't definitely looks forty. No,
she does not stop it.
Speaker 5 (07:44):
If your friend is asking you for some like exactly that,
and you know like, okay, maybe you do look forty,
but you don't want to hurt her feelings and you
want to feed her ego. That's that's been a good friend, right, I.
Speaker 2 (07:58):
Think, so saying otherwise, you know, like that's just my opinion.
Speaker 3 (08:05):
You know, and don't be I'm gonna let you have that.
Speaker 2 (08:10):
Yeah, no, that's very nice. Well, And to be honest
about I.
Speaker 5 (08:13):
Don't think it out if you really don't want the answer,
sometimes just don't ask.
Speaker 2 (08:18):
I mean it's more reassurance, like and you know, I
mean I don't think I think she.
Speaker 5 (08:22):
Should own it, like, yeah, I'm a bad bee at
forty and I look amazing like.
Speaker 3 (08:26):
That has forty.
Speaker 2 (08:28):
She's gonna ask for a birthday at least nine she is.
Speaker 5 (08:31):
I never knew what age she was to this day.
Speaker 1 (08:34):
She is in her forties. At the end of season six,
remember they don't they celebrate her fiftieth They did thirty,
so she's in her well into her forties.
Speaker 2 (08:44):
Oh well, Charlotte walks up talking about the new guy
that she's dating. She met Mitch Sailor. And Charlotte always
says the full name of a guy when she likes them,
and Sam's like, you're dating Mitch Sailor, Like, oh, yeah,
you heard of them or you know them. Sam's like, oh,
I've heard of him. Come to the bathroom and let
me give you the t word for word.
Speaker 3 (09:06):
Mister who.
Speaker 4 (09:07):
Suddenly Charlotte's monogram towels were looking very different. He's for
now and he loves going down on women. He's so
cute to be so nasty.
Speaker 5 (09:15):
That's disgusting. I told you there'd be something.
Speaker 2 (09:18):
Charlott's really uncomfortable with the girls telling her about her
interests being mister pussy and they're like, you do that though, right,
She's like, of course, I just don't like to talk
about it. But truth be told. According to Carrie, the
only thing that frequently goes down on Charlotte states is
an Amex gold card. Which is nothing to sneeze at.
These men are treating Charlotte, although they aren't going down
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on her.
Speaker 1 (09:41):
She has said she doesn't really enjoy it before.
Speaker 2 (09:45):
You did say that when she didn't want to give it.
She's like, I don't really like to get it, and
I don't really like to give it. I personally would
be so upset. If I really like this guy and
my friends are telling me how he's known for eating
pussy around town, I wouldn't love it. What may be
comfortable indulging, I don't know about that. It's exactly community dick.
(10:07):
I've been in a situation before it was.
Speaker 3 (10:09):
Like, yeah, you should get that.
Speaker 2 (10:10):
He's good dick.
Speaker 1 (10:11):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (10:12):
I was okay, all right, well I'll go ahead and.
Speaker 3 (10:14):
Give it a try.
Speaker 5 (10:15):
He was generous.
Speaker 3 (10:17):
Oh it was good. No lies were told.
Speaker 2 (10:20):
See.
Speaker 1 (10:21):
I think I would switch it in Charlotte's situation, you
know she's seriously dating. I would just switch it to
let's let me just have a little fun with this
guy and then move it, you know, keep it going,
keep it moving.
Speaker 2 (10:33):
Maybe fun, yeah, but I'm just not a fan of
community dick. Like when I know that you're for everybody
and everybody's had you. I'm just like, I don't like that.
I feel like I don't feel special. I feel like
your dick is dirty. I feel like it throws off
my pH balance, same with your tongue. I just I
can't see myself kissing you like how many women have
came in your mouth that you're a legend. I love that. Yeah, no, no,
(10:57):
not not not not for me. It reminds me Ofperhead.
It's like the superhead of sex and the City. Well,
it's a real thing, you know, you know, I mean,
it's it's skills. It doesn't have to be a terrible thing.
It doesn't you know. He's just really good at given heead.
It's just like the rumor that's attached to him.
Speaker 5 (11:12):
And everybody should experience.
Speaker 2 (11:13):
I don't know. I think there's you could be good, right,
but not everybody needs to know you're good. Like I
consider myself one of the best. But you guys, ever
heard anything about me about you?
Speaker 3 (11:25):
Don't share you don't share it.
Speaker 2 (11:27):
Nobody's gonna tell us about what I'm saying. I don't
think that he should be known for what he does.
You can be talented, but once the world knows about it,
you're just doing it to every and anybody, and it's
not no, not necessarily. I mean, I think in this
case it could be that, but I think women talk,
men talk. So if you're in certain circles and a
certain word gets out, people are going to talk about it.
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You can choose to make it the end all, be
all definition of who that person is. But it's real
that people are gonna talk about, especially when the dick
is good or whatever.
Speaker 1 (11:56):
I wouldn't judge him. I wouldn't judge him for it.
Speaker 2 (11:59):
I would yay.
Speaker 1 (12:01):
The decision is whether you want to interact with him
or not.
Speaker 3 (12:04):
Is he a husband? Probably not? But is it the
end of end I'll be all.
Speaker 2 (12:08):
I don't think so.
Speaker 1 (12:09):
Well.
Speaker 2 (12:09):
Charlie declares that she can't date anybody known as mister Pussy,
and Sam's like why. Charlie's like, because I want more
than the girls, say, Sweetie, if a.
Speaker 3 (12:20):
Man is good at that, there is nothing.
Speaker 2 (12:22):
More just than a woman emerges from the bathroom stall
and she's like, oh, you gotta be talking about Mitch
sailor obviously mister Pussy. That's mich Sailor. Let me tell you, girl,
he did it so well. I actually passed out while
I was.
Speaker 3 (12:38):
Coming in your man's mouth, So enjoy him.
Speaker 2 (12:41):
I'm enjoying him, girl, because lord knows I did, like
fuck no, fuck no, that's just the immediately.
Speaker 3 (12:48):
No for me.
Speaker 2 (12:49):
No, yeah, thank you though, thank you though your heart passed.
Probably yeah, I'm.
Speaker 1 (12:55):
You leave the party with him immediately.
Speaker 5 (12:58):
Yeah, he highly recommended.
Speaker 3 (13:00):
And I'm gonna have to find out for myself.
Speaker 2 (13:03):
So they all walk out of the bathroom and mister
Pussy is right there, eating an oyster very suggestively and
making eye contact right at Charlotte.
Speaker 3 (13:11):
All the girl, I was so turned off.
Speaker 2 (13:15):
Like I just I don't, I don't, I don't know,
I would they say, a woman like a lady in
the streets, but a freaking and she's like I also
expected of my man, Like I just want you to
carry yourself very classically in the streets, be a man
about your business, a man about your money, a man
about your you know, your brand, and then come home
and break my back. But what we're not going to
do is have the whole city talking about you and
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how good you are.
Speaker 5 (13:36):
Like that's just right, breaking everybody's back.
Speaker 2 (13:39):
Right, and everybody's pussy Noah came out.
Speaker 1 (13:45):
Yeah, No, that was too much.
Speaker 2 (13:47):
So Carrie doesn't want to believe that all single men
are freaks, and she decides to go on her first
blind date in two years with PJ, a very successful
independ movie director. His documentary about endangered seagulls just aired
on PBS with excellent reviews.
Speaker 4 (14:07):
Documentary films that must be fun. Look, let's be realistic.
Speaker 2 (14:11):
I'm only doing this docu bullshit to earn a rep,
you know.
Speaker 1 (14:14):
I mean, ultimately, I want to parlay it into the
action movie or being. I want to make money.
Speaker 3 (14:18):
I'm not afraid to say it. Okay, I love money.
Speaker 2 (14:20):
I would sell toilet bolts if it would make me
a millionaire.
Speaker 4 (14:22):
What about the seagulls?
Speaker 3 (14:24):
Fuck the seagulls.
Speaker 2 (14:25):
Wow, Honestly, I didn't think he was the worst of dates.
Speaker 3 (14:27):
I do.
Speaker 2 (14:28):
I do understand somebody not being about their word, But hey,
I want to make money too.
Speaker 3 (14:33):
I feel you. I still troll the bulls to it.
It made me rich.
Speaker 2 (14:35):
Oh, don't be full of crap. Though that's true, it's
gonna be a completely hypocrite. Now she's with bachelor number
two and they go to a movie. They're having some
cute banter about popcorn versus junior mints, and how she
likes one, he likes the other.
Speaker 5 (14:49):
This relationship is probably too.
Speaker 1 (14:52):
You want to lean a little closer.
Speaker 4 (14:53):
Maybe here are our entire conversation. Hey, here's a better idea.
Why don't you in your fucking girlfriend just sit him
on lobster in the movie.
Speaker 3 (14:59):
Then you want to a fucking word, dick.
Speaker 4 (15:05):
Ladies and gentlemen stand far away from the man with
two faces.
Speaker 2 (15:10):
Really speaks to her, turned around and snapped at the
couple behind them. And I personally would hate that as well, Like,
I'm so embarrassed right now, I would have to apologize
for him. Kind of reminded me of my hot headed X.
He would just snap and fight so randomly. I just
wasn't ready for it. A lot of the times we
were at the mall, he got into a fight, knock
somebody out, Like what are we doing here?
Speaker 3 (15:28):
What are we doing?
Speaker 1 (15:30):
Like?
Speaker 5 (15:30):
What did you do in that moment? What were you doing?
Speaker 2 (15:33):
I'm pretty sure I was trying to break it up,
but you're like, really, girl, No, that's so embarrassing.
Speaker 3 (15:38):
I don't play that.
Speaker 2 (15:40):
I was completely uncalled for. He was just embarrassing. He
was like an animal. That's just attacking people like it's
like when your dog attack somebody. It's like, oh my god,
sorry for this freaking animal. The third date was with Max,
a broker who made two million dollars on bombs last year,
and they had a great time at Little Italy and
now they're shot. Think for some books, but he starts stealing.
Speaker 4 (16:03):
Not only did Max have two million, he also appeared
to have a lending library and his parts. Parents, Please
keep the kiddies away from the cage of the man
who steals cheap used books for no reason.
Speaker 2 (16:17):
It's getting scary out there in the dating streets. Date
number two is definitely the worst, but date number three
isn't far behind him. A thief for no reason. That's terrible.
They were too old for that. I definitely can't date
a thief a crypto, oh.
Speaker 3 (16:30):
Especially actually one.
Speaker 2 (16:32):
Truthfully, yeah, I can't date a thief. It wouldn't be right.
Speaker 5 (16:37):
What if he stole a gift for you but you
don't know that was stolen, Like, well, what I.
Speaker 2 (16:43):
Don't know, won't hurt me. I will love that gift.
I will o receive it. But at the end of
the day, someone who steals it is just not good.
There's no there's no excuse. Yeah, I can make excuses.
I could accept something, but that's not good.
Speaker 5 (16:57):
It's like a I think when people steal, it comes
from a mindset of lack, lack of abundance, thinking that
you have to still in order to obtain whatever. And
it's just like that is true Itellian where their mind is.
Speaker 2 (17:10):
You gotta go to a therapist about that bro. In
the meantime, I ain't got time for you. That's first
of all. Now Carrie's afraid to date.
Speaker 3 (17:15):
She says.
Speaker 2 (17:15):
The men of the Dating Girl have devolved since she
was last there. I guess mister Big and her one way.
Four years she came back, the men were trash. So
she states freak shows shouldn't have actually been outlawed because
at least all the freaks were in one place. Now
they're roaming around us, and are all the men freaks?
She asks, I thought we would go to the streets,
but this is the first episode where we did not
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go to the streets at all. The scene changes and
Charlotte is with Miss the Pulse.
Speaker 4 (17:41):
Charlotte came harder than she ever had before. That is
until Tuesday. Oh yes, oh yes, Wednesdays.
Speaker 3 (17:51):
Oh yes, oh yes, Thursday.
Speaker 2 (17:58):
Friday, God, oh god, Charlotte apparently saw God seven times
on that Friday. I really enjoyed that sequence of scenes.
Happy for Charlotte.
Speaker 1 (18:12):
That's great, that's great.
Speaker 5 (18:13):
Monday through Friday.
Speaker 3 (18:14):
Three on Friday, Yes, that's amazing. That's a good time.
Speaker 2 (18:17):
It's a good moment in time. If Mitch was a freak,
Charlotte was ready to run away with this circus. And
I do love it. Whatever. I'm not going to be
all stiff and taking myself seriously or whatever. But you know,
just it's a twenty something thing. If you if you're
just having fun, cool, but you can't build with a
man like that. Just you just can't.
Speaker 3 (18:37):
You just can't.
Speaker 2 (18:38):
Or you could, I mean, you could worry about what
other people think, or you could just meet the person
and get your own opinion of what they are. It's
what I think, it's not what other people think. No, yeah,
I know, And I'm just giving a different perspective to that. Like,
you know, there's nothing wrong with getting head, there's nothing
wrong with engageing someone for sexual you know, and that's
all it's going to be. I don't think Charlotte was
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wanting to take him too seriously after she heard about it.
Speaker 3 (19:02):
But I don't know.
Speaker 2 (19:03):
I mean, she definitely says she wanted more from him,
and then she tried to get more from him, so
I think that she was definitely taking them seriously.
Speaker 3 (19:08):
Yeah, okay, you're right she did.
Speaker 2 (19:09):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (19:10):
Carrie.
Speaker 2 (19:11):
She is in the park just reading or sitting there,
you know, by herself, chilling, and a man sits next
to her reading a book and he starts a conversation
with her, like, oh, you had a rough night. She
was like, bad date. He was a klepto. And he's like, oh, man, yeah,
I dated a woman who slept with her shoes on
the freaks of the world. This is why I'm not dating.
She's like, yeah, I'm not dating either. His name was Ben,
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and she was instantly attracted to him. She asked, when
did men become freaks? He's like, women are freaks. They're bizarre.
This is why I don't date. Then Carrie shares a
story about seeing the world's fattest twins and how they
were both married to single women, I mean to skinny women,
and he looked at Carrie and asked her on a
non date since he's not dating, and she gives him
(19:56):
a non no. She's like maybe, so I thought that
little band swerrisk back and forth, but they get their date. Yeah,
it was a cute little meet.
Speaker 3 (20:03):
Cute.
Speaker 2 (20:04):
Yeah it was. It was like random, like he sat
way too close to her next door on the fountain.
I would have been a little creeped out. And then
you're just staring at me, and you know who really
meets like that back in the nineties.
Speaker 1 (20:14):
So it was. But the little the banter was to me,
it was a turn off. It was weird.
Speaker 2 (20:19):
I liked it.
Speaker 1 (20:20):
A little fat phobic too, but.
Speaker 2 (20:22):
Yeah, that part and the freak show thing is probably
not appropriate either.
Speaker 3 (20:24):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (20:25):
I just Sam is on the street and she runs
into a woman who looks fabulous. She's like, oh my god,
you look great. Then I was like, yes, I got
the fat from my ass injected into my face and
I could eat whatever I wanted, got as big as
I wanted to get, and then they took it right
out and put it in my face. Now I look great,
So saam. She went and got herself a big mac
and made an amportment appointment with her plastic surgeon. It's
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so funny how fat asses were just so unaccepted back then,
and now it's like everybody wants a fat ass.
Speaker 5 (20:52):
It's funny because now the wave is going back to
removing your ass, Like there's a whole trend where it's
just like, granted, there's always been skinny people, but I
think it's going back to people are removing it their
bbls and of course there's people that are actually transferring
their fat. It's just like a trend. Yeah, and I
see that even then, it impacted the women, but it
(21:14):
wasn't a thing like we didn't see big booty girls
in Texas City.
Speaker 3 (21:19):
No, not fake butts.
Speaker 2 (21:20):
I mean, you know, Jayla was the original big booty
girl as far as I know, she was natural. But
I feel like white women didn't want big butts. Yeah,
I think the black community. I always loved voluptuous bodies,
like they've always loved that. Yeah me, white people, white
culture didn't like that. They always wanted to. But it
wasn't fake, it was real. You know, you have had
one or you didn't, right, right.
Speaker 1 (21:41):
Right, But I'm glad you mentioned Natalie. I think this
is more of a white woman trend, which white woman trend.
Speaker 2 (21:46):
Ben was an editor at a hip political magazine. He
made carry laugh. He walks home after their date. He
doesn't try anything, or he doesn't try to go upstairs
with her, being as though it's a non date. So
she's like, I guess that means no kiss either, maybe
a non kiss, but there was nothing non about it.
Those two made out right in front of her apartment
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and it was crazy. Those kids are getting crazy down there,
so Sam, yeah, it was hot. And the next day
Sam is telling the girls about her fat transplant and
the girls aren't disbelieve because again, fat asses weren't in
back then, so they're like, we usually try to hide
our ass. What are you trying to show it in
your face for? That's craziness. And Charlotte's engaged. She's like,
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you know, I gotta leave. I gotta go see my boat.
They're like, mister pussy, you're not supposed to keep him, girl.
Speaker 1 (22:35):
Hang on, honey, you don't fall in love with mister pussy.
Speaker 3 (22:37):
You enjoy him and then set him free.
Speaker 4 (22:40):
To Samantha, Charlotte had committed the ultimate sin. She was
boo guarding mister pussy.
Speaker 2 (22:45):
First of all, I want to say, Samantha is really
feeling good. About herself too. Now she's help with a
Calvin Clime model. So after the guy called her forty,
she started to invest in herself, importance, herself and de
Wish needed to make herself feel good. And I love
Sammy Joe for that because no, we don't stay down
for long. Okay, you go to the Calvin Clime models
an insecure place, I mean wherever she was coming from.
She feels better about herself now. But Carrie asks, are
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you even talking to mister pussy? Like, do y'all have
any conversation? And Sam's like, do you guys even have
sex or do you just get your pussy eight all
the time. I mean, she didn't say it like that,
but that's what she was saying. And Carrie, she made
a real good point. This really to be happening. She's like, Charlotte,
I think that I think.
Speaker 4 (23:24):
You've fallen into the sex, says, you know where the
sex is really great, and then you start acting like
a crazy person. Then you start to imagine the relationship
is something it's not's.
Speaker 5 (23:32):
Not having a relationship. She's having multiple orgasms.
Speaker 1 (23:36):
Dangerous, man, be sure, speaking from experience.
Speaker 5 (23:39):
I think from the examples that we were shown. I
think the women going there sleeping with them, hoping that
it turns out to be something, and they fantasize about
and romanticize it like the relationship, and then they're like,
the men are still going to be met and they're like, hey,
I don't I'm just having fun. And then the women
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are the ones. The girls are the ones like, oh
my god, no, it could be he could be different,
he could be and so I think that's where the
disappointment comes.
Speaker 1 (24:09):
You know.
Speaker 2 (24:10):
Well, Charlotte declares, I'm happy. I don't care what you
guys say. He makes me happy, he makes her come.
So Carrie and Miranda the next Thceinge go on a
double date because if Carrie found herself a non freak, obviously, Miranda,
you're wrong. I can find you a non freak too, right.
So she introduces Miranda to Ben's friend Luke, and things
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seem to be going really well. Carrie and Ben are
I mean carry and yeah. Carrie and Ben are proud
of themselves until it goes left and they find out
that this guy Luke doesn't leave Manhattan. He's never left.
Everything is here, I don't need to go anywhere. Miranda's
like Okay, well you're a freak because that's some weird
stuff that you're doing. She's like, I'm going to implement
our exit line, which I believe is I had to
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feed my cat. And Carrie is so disrespectful. She's like, wait,
hold on, hold on, didn't you already fiedja catsful? You
notice is our safe word.
Speaker 3 (25:01):
And I'm leaving.
Speaker 2 (25:02):
That's it, that's it, that's it. But Miranda held her
held her own you know, she's a lawyer. I feed
my cat again pretty much, well, I'm out of here.
And Carrie and had never about it of that, but
Miranda left her with some parting words. She said, the
man has not.
Speaker 5 (25:19):
Left Manhattan in a decade, Carrie, he's obviously a freak.
Speaker 2 (25:21):
And by the way, if lucas a freak, then is
bound to be a freak too.
Speaker 5 (25:25):
You can tell everything about a person by who their
friends are.
Speaker 2 (25:28):
Was it worth it for Miranda to cut him? Like
like like that based on that information? I like the
strong boundaries, and I think also it's not it's not
only the fact that he didn't leave Manhattan, but he
tried to make her feel bad, like for wanting to
leave or having a life outside in Manhattan. You know,
like I think, because you're going to the country, you're
a freak. And then she had to go feed her cat.
He's like, oh, cat people, they're all freaks. So I
think that feeling was mutual about them not really vibing
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with each other.
Speaker 5 (25:52):
I mean, some people to this day believe that cat
women women with cats are a little weird and crazy,
that there's a stair type.
Speaker 1 (26:00):
I know.
Speaker 2 (26:00):
That's why Taylor Swift even posted during this past election,
like coming from a single cat lady and it's like, yeah, Taylor, yeah,
I mean I don't know, she could be girl Tellors
got a man.
Speaker 5 (26:13):
I'm just saying like it doesn't have to be, you know,
because she's in a relationship. But the whole thing with
you know, she's like Lively, you know, the.
Speaker 3 (26:25):
Right crazy cat.
Speaker 1 (26:29):
Well, I have a cat. You are crazy crazy.
Speaker 5 (26:32):
But it's not your main cat. I mean, it's not
your main animal. Support animal. Yeah, it's not chall Yeah.
Speaker 1 (26:39):
Shout out to Nacho. He's listening to us right now.
Speaker 2 (26:43):
Cho Okay. So the next scene, Carrie and Ben there
in bed, and she asked if there's anything that she
should know about him that's just odd. He's like, actually, yeah,
I got this tweety bird tattoo. She's like, oh my god,
it's like cute rest in pieces of ted bird like
theere he go, you know, bless, that was a great
part of your ever. Ever, He's like, what about you?
You got anything that I need to know about? And
(27:05):
Carrie had a lot of things she could have listed.
You know, I'm crazy. I don't have any sanity whatsoever.
You tell me something, I'm going to freak out. I'm
gonna go to my friends. I'm gonna fest her.
Speaker 3 (27:25):
Crazy.
Speaker 2 (27:25):
I don't know if Carrie realizes she's crazy.
Speaker 3 (27:27):
I don't think.
Speaker 1 (27:29):
Lack of self awareness.
Speaker 2 (27:31):
Because she decided to show him a scar on her
knee from her third.
Speaker 3 (27:36):
Grade bully.
Speaker 2 (27:39):
Carrie crazy. You gotta love her. Yes, he liked that scar.
He's like, oh, you're scrappy like that. So then they
have sex and apparently it was great. There was nothing
freaky about she said freaky or weird about it anyway.
Either way, I should have been freaky stuff about it,
you know. You know she said freaky because you know
that's the theme of episode. Yeah, yeah, there was nothing
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weird about it. It didn't feel weird. It didn't feel freaky.
So Charlotte must have heard her girlfriends because she's in
the next scene trying to make a relationship with Miss
the Pussy. And I told you from the beginning of
this episode, like, don't do that, don't even date him
because you're begging. But anyway, Charlie trying to make a
relationship happen, and he doesn't seem interested in any of
the conversation she's trying to throw his way. She's asking
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why he's so quiet, what are you thinking about? So
then he again unattractively eats a fig, very suggestively, staring
her in her face, drawing all the audience's pussies as
we watch it, because ew ew, you're so unattractive right now,
I can't even take it. So she was grossed out
by him like I was from the first time we
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met him, and she couldn't be in the same fig.
I'm saying, she couldn't be in the same room with
a fig after that for a very long time, if
not indefinitely, because he was traumas heising that's what happens.
That's what happens when you try to give the freaks
a chance. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 3 (28:58):
Just make all right. Whatever.
Speaker 2 (29:00):
So now Sam, she's meeting her surgeon and he's talking
about all the work that she needs. As he's talking
about it, he's drawing going there and showing her, Oh,
you need this, you need that, you need this and this,
and we could do this, we could do that. So
he gets caught out of the room after that and
he has to excuse himself. She looks in the mirror
and the way he drew on her, she looked like
a legit clown and she became part of the circus.
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And then she cried, looking at herself, like what.
Speaker 3 (29:24):
Am I doing? The same thing? Wake up call.
Speaker 2 (29:28):
After Sam is crying, we go back to carry in
the apartment with the new man, and he's like, I
gotta go to my soccer game. But you say, you
get comfortable, I'll be back or whatever.
Speaker 4 (29:37):
There had to be something sick and off about him.
If the rest of the species had evolved, then would
have to be a freak to survive. I had to
find out what was wrong before I wasted the next
six months.
Speaker 2 (29:49):
And I was actually left to a guy's apartment, you know,
while he went to the gym. This was so long ago,
and I just couldn't think going through his stuff. It's
so not okay, Like I made his bed and I quote,
I gotten that car and I left, Like I text him,
make sure you lock your door.
Speaker 3 (30:06):
I didn't.
Speaker 2 (30:07):
I didn't lock it because he you know, has the
app or you can lock it from it from a
far away place. But that's just so an invasion of privacy.
I just can't imagine doing that to somebody, or having
somebody do that to me. Yeah, yeah, you know how
I feel about that. It reminds me of the episode
where Miranda took that guy's porn tape, you know, after
searching his stuff. I just think it's so disrespectful, like
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such an invasion of privacy.
Speaker 1 (30:29):
It is. If Carrie had a therapist, she would have
saved her saved herself so many of these crazy fucking
episodes because we we look through like at the episode,
she's very influenced by her crazy ass friends. She lets them, you.
Speaker 2 (30:45):
Know, like Miranda specifically and Neatly and the Saint. The
first time Miranda got at the last time I Renda got.
Speaker 1 (30:50):
Her caught up, yeah, and it, and then she goes
down on a spiral and acts on her crazy It's
like if she would have had a therapist where she
can you know, talk things through.
Speaker 2 (30:59):
With or chat GB to it chat gbt is data
likes you.
Speaker 1 (31:03):
Yeah, maybe she wouldn't have you know, she would have
understood that that was fucking crazy whatever she's thinking.
Speaker 5 (31:09):
You know, do you ever feel like someone snooped and
into your your stuff?
Speaker 3 (31:13):
I do.
Speaker 2 (31:14):
I feel like people have checked receipts. I've had a
boyfriend who was very intrusive, like I ll him borrow
a notebook for class. You really went through it and
like ask me questions about it, looking at receipts, like
why did you buy this? And my friend I got
to say her name, and my friend would come over
and like just help herself to information, Like I don't
want to leave you here by yourself.
Speaker 3 (31:32):
What gives you the right? Like, what gives you the right?
Speaker 5 (31:35):
I remember leaving my bag open and I have my
journal in there, and just like if you read my journal,
you're going to think I'm crazy because I believe in
writing affirmations and manifesting, and you know, so I look
crazy the things that I probably put on there, and
I feel like it was slightly open. I'm like, did
he go in there? I get it, like you want
(31:58):
to know I don't have anything crazy in there, like
where I feel like, oh my gosh, like let's get
a yeah, you know, take her. But I just feel
like it's so like I would never read someone's journal.
Speaker 2 (32:13):
And I will say the intrusive thoughts while I'm in
this man's apartment, did like come in, like, you know,
let me should I? But I just like I would
just hurt my own feelings, like I don't want to
know anything that that I don't know.
Speaker 3 (32:24):
You know what, I don't know? Ignorance is bliss.
Speaker 2 (32:26):
I'm good. But Carrie had Cary gave into the intrusive thoughts.
Speaker 1 (32:30):
Okay, the only thing I feel like I've ever snooped at.
It's just like the ITF you go into the restroom
and you know the drawer. I just want to know
what the mirror drawer.
Speaker 3 (32:43):
I don't know.
Speaker 2 (32:44):
I might look around the floor. There's the long hair,
I don't know.
Speaker 1 (32:47):
Yeah, I just want to just because it's so there
and you're in the restroom in the clothes, right, But
that's like going into your room and really snooping around.
Speaker 5 (32:56):
Never is this early on or are you doing these
these things early on? Or like already when you're in
a relationship.
Speaker 2 (33:04):
Pretty early on.
Speaker 5 (33:05):
Okay, that's good to know early on, so you can
like move on and.
Speaker 2 (33:09):
Just and younger, Kayla did go through phones.
Speaker 1 (33:12):
Yeah what, No, I was just since I haven't really
been in relationships, it's mostly like situationships still like the boundaries,
I wouldn't be snooping, And no, I wouldn't.
Speaker 3 (33:24):
Do that again.
Speaker 2 (33:25):
When I was younger, I did go through phones. And
I don't know if that counts a snooping, but oh
for sure, I went to sleep you texting, calling Humber
his back.
Speaker 5 (33:35):
Just sending myself some money, just doing the little face.
Speaker 3 (33:39):
That's terrible. Day.
Speaker 2 (33:43):
Well, Carrie got crazy and she started going through his things.
She was just trying to find something freaky about him.
At first I started innocent, you know what little things
she's going through, and then all of a sudden it
got a mind of its own. Next thing, you know,
she's tearing apart things, going through his closet. She finds
a locked box and she knows this is it, this
is what's gonna let me know the freakingness that this
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man is the freak like the rest of them. And
she's trying everything in her power to get into this
box and all of a sudden.
Speaker 3 (34:11):
What the hell are you doing? What the helly?
Speaker 2 (34:16):
I don't know, I can't explain it.
Speaker 3 (34:20):
I guess I was.
Speaker 5 (34:25):
Looking for something, get.
Speaker 2 (34:28):
Out, Like, what the hell looking for something?
Speaker 3 (34:30):
How dare you?
Speaker 2 (34:31):
How?
Speaker 3 (34:33):
What the hell? What the hell? Yan say? Right?
Speaker 5 (34:40):
The fact that he's she is the capital f freak
freaks And it's just like.
Speaker 2 (34:47):
You have the nerve to show him your third grade
freaking star.
Speaker 3 (34:50):
Were you not have the type of ship and she
still has that trauma?
Speaker 2 (34:53):
This just shows you like it wasn't even isolated to
bid you nuts and you oh nut okay.
Speaker 1 (35:01):
I also wanted to bring that up because it's like,
is he too much of a saying adult? Because I
feel like this was a cute me cute. He seemed safe,
he seemed like, you know, like an adult, Yeah, a
normal adult. And then here she comes with her crazy
(35:21):
so it's like it was it going too healthy for her?
Speaker 2 (35:25):
Is that the anxious attached style? And she was easily
influenced by Miranda?
Speaker 1 (35:30):
She so who was a problem in this situation?
Speaker 3 (35:34):
Carrie?
Speaker 2 (35:34):
Yes, thank you, thank you Norms. But he's like something
something like what she's like at a nutt something freaky.
Speaker 3 (35:41):
I'm calling the cops, bro charges got leave you okay?
Speaker 2 (35:48):
And then on top of that, girl you know, opened
a box for her because he's like, oh, you're looking
for something, I got you. It's just his cup Scout
badge collection, literally nothing, and it wasn't even a locked.
Speaker 3 (36:00):
I think she just had to slide.
Speaker 2 (36:01):
It's not only crazy.
Speaker 3 (36:06):
Are you dumb too?
Speaker 2 (36:07):
Ah?
Speaker 3 (36:07):
God, let you know.
Speaker 2 (36:09):
That's what I would be thinking if I was.
Speaker 5 (36:11):
But it's so early on. I feel like they just
painted out. She slept with him one time, right? Is
that the first time media like hanging out and she's
already crazy. How do you get attached to someone like
within the first week you sleep with them? Now you
want to you're so obsessed with trying to find them,
you know, freaky and trying to get like is she
if she finds out he's a freak? Is she gonna
leave him? Is she gonna stay? Is she gonna what
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her friends?
Speaker 3 (36:34):
Got in her head?
Speaker 5 (36:34):
Though?
Speaker 2 (36:35):
Honestly, I felt like Miranda got in her head and
she's just like these many normal He's too normal, and
she just she she fed into the lesser wolf, the
lesser in her wolf. She did sleep with him now
and acknowledge that sleeping with her. Sleeping with him got
her into a haze, like she she did like him.
After that, she was more attached to him. Been there yeah,
but not there, like I'm not doing that. I'm just
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crazy lminating.
Speaker 1 (36:59):
Day.
Speaker 2 (37:00):
I love you back, you know whatever, Judge, if you
had to anyway, he like, he like, I loved you too.
What he was like, I actually wasn'to you too, And
I was going to skip the game to be with you.
But now you can get the hell out.
Speaker 3 (37:15):
Yeah, freak, you can go scream. I don't want to
talk to you. I'm just going to skip the game
to be with you. I thought you were actually a
normal one.
Speaker 4 (37:26):
I was I'm gonna good idea.
Speaker 2 (37:32):
Like what she expected me like, no, please, like I'm
gonna go. I had a good idea. Bye. Reminded me
of the shower scene where he was like, I don't
want you here when I get out of the shower. Randa,
she was accepting her feet. Yeah, her feet. She muffed up.
She muffed up, man, Yeah, muffed up big time. But
you know what she said A real thing. Right at
the end of this episode, she Suort died. Carrie's quote
(37:54):
and it was that.
Speaker 4 (37:56):
Was a day I came face to face with my freak,
frightening woman whose fear a her sanity.
Speaker 5 (38:02):
The truth is, it isn't just the men.
Speaker 4 (38:05):
It's all of us. Anyone who's single in Manhattan gets
a little freaked out from time to time, but we
keep trying because you have to figure If the world's
fattest twins can find love, there's hope for.
Speaker 3 (38:18):
All of us.
Speaker 4 (38:19):
Somewhere out there is another little freak who will love us,
understand us, and kiss our three heads and make it
all better.
Speaker 2 (38:28):
And then she says something about my hand and which
we can't relate to because we're in the city of angels,
but in the city that kiss my three heads make
me feel better. I do hear the fatophobic language and
not good in twenty twenty five, like girl, calm down.
Speaker 1 (38:44):
Yeah, maybe it's.
Speaker 2 (38:47):
Back in the day that was.
Speaker 3 (38:48):
All the reach.
Speaker 2 (38:49):
I really just love the message though, because I feel
like it was basically saying there's someone for everybody, and
someone who's going to love you exactly as you are,
flaws and all. You don't have to change yourself to
be something that you're not.
Speaker 5 (39:00):
And I think the one for you. Yeah, And I
think it's a good reflection, self reflection with her like
she was.
Speaker 3 (39:05):
I think that.
Speaker 5 (39:05):
I don't know if that was her first time being
self aware, but at least she finally took some accountability.
Speaker 2 (39:10):
She did her own free Yep, I realized I was
crazy for the first time.
Speaker 1 (39:15):
That's it all, right.
Speaker 2 (39:17):
Time to get into the cringiest moments.
Speaker 1 (39:19):
Of the episode.
Speaker 2 (39:20):
So the first one is mister Pussy eating food in
a sexual manner while making eyes with Charlotte at the bar,
and then he did it again when they were at
the restaurant when she was trying to get to know him,
and there was just nothing appealing or sexy about it.
Can we say turned.
Speaker 3 (39:35):
All the way off?
Speaker 2 (39:36):
Like a way a little Wait? The next one is
Charlotte making out with mister Pussy knowing that he ate
everybody's cat in Manhattan. That was mine, that was mine.
I that one.
Speaker 3 (39:49):
Y'all couldn't tell that all.
Speaker 2 (39:52):
But I feel like you're not wrong, but you're probably
also kissing men who are out there eating a lot
of cat in general.
Speaker 3 (40:00):
Yeah, good at it.
Speaker 2 (40:02):
And don't mean that I was just good at it.
Speaker 5 (40:05):
I mean they eat asked now so good enough to.
Speaker 2 (40:07):
Have a reputation in the community for it.
Speaker 5 (40:09):
They do.
Speaker 2 (40:11):
So that's who if you're eating good pussy and girls
was talking about it, girls talk about it. I did
date a man like mister Pussy back in my early twenties.
I will say he learned from eating a eating reading
a lesbian magazine. That was that was a twenty something mistake.
Speaker 3 (40:25):
I wouldn't.
Speaker 2 (40:25):
I would not do him today.
Speaker 3 (40:26):
Yes, for the record.
Speaker 2 (40:28):
The next one is Carrie Freaky Carrie's freaky dates, specifically
the guy who got aggressive in line at the movies.
It was just totally unwarranted, uncalled for. Maybe you consider
on our fucking lot. He could have put carry in
a dangerous situation with that attitude. People didn't even do anything.
It was totally just, you know, unnecessary. Right. The next
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one Carrie getting into her head and frantically searching her
new Boods apartment. Such a violation of privacy, and she
got caught red handed, looking like the biggest freak of
the entire episode, worse than everybody. Yeah, I'm gonna go
ahead and vote for you know how I feel mister
Pussy doing miss the pussy things. I mean, actually, I'm
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had to vote for him eating the thing and staring
at them because that's like the physical cringe in my body. Ironically,
I did maybe want some oysters.
Speaker 1 (41:29):
I don't like you're going to say it made you
want to have Oh yeah, that's it.
Speaker 5 (41:34):
I mean you want to call him huh?
Speaker 3 (41:37):
I miss him.
Speaker 1 (41:38):
I love you.
Speaker 5 (41:42):
I would vote for putting Carrie in that uncomfortable situation
when he was going off on those people, because I
can imagine being there and I'm just like, oh my gosh,
I am just so embarrassed, like how do I get
out of this? Yeah, and imagine that's your man, like
he's doing that all the time.
Speaker 1 (41:59):
Like I know, yeah, I'm gonna have to go with
Carrie's crazy scene trying you know, when he walks in
on her trying to open up his box.
Speaker 3 (42:10):
No.
Speaker 2 (42:11):
Yeah, watching that, it was like I really wanted her
to stop, just like stop now, quit while you're ahead.
Speaker 3 (42:15):
You got a good thing going. I just didn't want
her to start.
Speaker 2 (42:18):
Why are you doing that?
Speaker 3 (42:19):
Why?
Speaker 2 (42:20):
It's weird? So I think the winner is mister pussy
eating the food because Olya and I were on the
same page and you girls, but the all moments are cringey.
We have to pick a winner, the cringiest moment of
the episode.
Speaker 1 (42:38):
Now, let's get into sex and the social media at Maria,
I got the d Sex in the City season two
Capitomo Temple, Darren Star, Thejo Notamo carries.
Speaker 2 (43:03):
What.
Speaker 1 (43:04):
I don't know. It's a little confusing at the end,
but she's basically saying that she had found the perfect
guy and she sucked it up. Yes, Yes, she was
a problem.
Speaker 2 (43:15):
Yes, had a tweety bird tattoo. And it was only
one date and one sex, one.
Speaker 3 (43:21):
Friends.
Speaker 2 (43:21):
It was really a safe space.
Speaker 3 (43:23):
Yeah. Oh oh.
Speaker 1 (43:25):
Darren Stars, he like the creator something I'm saying, like.
Speaker 5 (43:31):
Yeah, all right, but I think like with and.
Speaker 1 (43:35):
That he does. He basically described Carrie as and suffer.
Speaker 5 (43:40):
I feel like with Carrie and the guy that she
was dating, Carrie has to find a little a man
that is a little crazy for her, like he's too normal,
and I feel like she's gonna spaz out. I mean,
she's going to have more moments later on where she
has those reactions and she's just like, oh my gosh,
you know so I think that he would break up
with her even if she didn't do this.
Speaker 1 (44:04):
Oh yeah, Carrie is toxic. She needs toxic and that's why.
Speaker 2 (44:08):
And Big laughed at her crazy. He seemed entertained by it.
You know, he had banter for it.
Speaker 5 (44:14):
Yeah, exactly.
Speaker 2 (44:14):
You knew not to give her what she wanted. Oh
you searching my stuff? He'll he'll say something like, you're
gonna have to dig forever forish treasure, baby, exactly, and
she's gonna love it.
Speaker 3 (44:24):
I don't think that I was.
Speaker 2 (44:29):
I really I'm sorry.
Speaker 1 (44:30):
That Big doesn't really take her that seriously. That's why
he's able to.
Speaker 5 (44:34):
Just I think he doesn't take life too seriously, like
he has a sense of humor, so she takes it
way too literal and serious, and that's why she's reacting
every time with him. And he's just like laid back
and he knows how to control the dynamic of the relationship.
And so I think that's why I worked.
Speaker 2 (44:52):
I have a close friend who acts a little bit
like Carrie, and when she has her crazy moments, there's
nothing better than somebody who doesn't make her feel crazy,
and just like you know, has great banter with her
and gives her the security and the reassurance that she needs.
Speaker 3 (45:06):
Yes, we're saying that's what she needs.
Speaker 2 (45:08):
Yeah, so I'm agreeing that you know you need somebody
like that, you just as my close friend would know.
Speaker 3 (45:15):
To make sure you join.
Speaker 2 (45:16):
The conversation, follow us at Sex and the City of Angels,
and make sure you follow me at the Kayla, Austin
at Yogi, Underscore, Elia at Zaana.
Speaker 1 (45:26):
At norm So, how can you and we'll see you
next week.
Speaker 3 (45:29):
Bye,
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