May 20, 2025 • 46 mins
There’s a whole internet full of tools, resources, and opportunities to turn what you already do for free—advice, gossiping, storytelling, planning—into a business. But when your focus is always on chasing men, well... how could you ever tap into that? This episode is your reminder: Leave these men ALONE and focus on yourself the REAL way.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
So I was recording this morning from my other podcast,
the Sis Use Your Intuition podcast, that's where we use
tarot and oracle cards to help us build or rebuild
the relationships that we have with our intuitions. And I
was talking about something, and I can't remember what I
said verbatim, but it was talking about the fact that
we use the Internet for stupidity a lot of the times,
(00:22):
right when we can really be honing in and really
accessing the wealth of knowledge that exists on the Internet.
And it made me think of this video that I
had saved some time ago on TikTok. This woman she
was talking about She's basically like, if you're good at this,
then you can do this. If you like this, if
you like doing this, then you can be this. Right,
(00:42):
talking about what you can use your skills for, right,
your regular everyday skills in order to be in a
job a career that you actually enjoy, or create one
for yourself, right, create a lane for yourself that you
actually enjoy. And I had said that I was gonna
because it reminded me of it, and I said, oh, yes,
(01:03):
I want to do that episode today. So this is
what we're doing today. If it's your first time here. Hi,
my name is CCB, but most people just call me B.
I'm your internet big sis out in these internet streets.
I'm forty years young. Thank you very much. I've been
through some shit. I've also put myself through a lot
of shit, and I have learned from all the shit
and now I help women get through their shit. You
(01:27):
see what I'm saying. This is full circle, It's given,
pay it forward, right. I'm very honest. So if you're
sensitive to honesty, this is not the place for you
to be. I do not sugar koshit for myself, so
I'm not doing it for anybody else. Okay, honesty is important.
We have a saying around here, we have a motto
and it goes like this, put your triggers to the side,
so you've got room to open up your mind. Okay.
(01:49):
I'm not for everybody, and that is okay, all right,
So I'm gonna play the video and then we'll talk. Okay,
So here it is. This is by a woman on
TikTok by the name of Lasha la Um. Okay, here
we go.
Speaker 2 (02:08):
And I don't know to hear this, but if you
like to argue, be a lawyer if he takes back
paragraphs to be an author. If you always trying to
tell somebody what to do, be a director. If you
stay booked in.
Speaker 1 (02:17):
Bc B a CEO.
Speaker 2 (02:18):
If you take bomb picture of your friends, be a photographer.
If you love spilling tea and gossip and be a
podcast host. If you got main character energy, be an actor.
If you love give an advice, be a life coach.
If you always fixing drama, be a therapist. If you
always the first to do something, be an innovator. You
always remixing stuff and getting shit mixed up, be a DJ.
If you always planning trips, be a travel agent. If
(02:40):
you always loud as fucking you just love being loud,
be a hype man. People get paid to do this.
Speaker 1 (02:45):
Be a hype man.
Speaker 2 (02:46):
If you got a crazy memory, be a historian. If
you stay correcting grammar talking about astridch there, be a
fucking editor. If you always decorated, be an interior designer.
If you love the tension, be an influencer. If you
stay cooking, be a private shit you love to talk
and you just talk to that.
Speaker 1 (03:06):
Much, be a radio host.
Speaker 2 (03:07):
If you love being nosy, be an investigator and in
my favorite one. If you hate working for people, be
an entrepreneur all right by and I.
Speaker 1 (03:15):
Don't know, so you might want to run back back again,
right so you can hear everything that she said. But
I think so. One of the reasons why I loved
it was because I you know, I in the line
(03:35):
of work that I do. I watch women every day
just focused on shit that like, I'm my girl who
gives a fuck about these dudes, Like y'all be focusing
on the worst of the worst men, and I'm just like,
what for why? And I know for why right at
the end of the day. I know for why because
I've been there too, so it's not even you know,
(03:56):
I've been there as well, and I know for why.
And the reason why is because, like I always say,
you need to heal your shit, right, you need to
heal your shit. You need to get the ball rolling
on healing your shit. When you are focused on why
a man does what he does. Some of y'all study
the fucking brain of men so much that I'm like,
why aren't you getting paid for this? This is crazy work, bro,
(04:19):
It's crazy work, right, And my brain is always set
up in a way where if I'm going to be
doing something, all right, If I'm going to be spending
a lot of my time doing something, then I should
be compensated for it. Because we live in a world
where nothing is nothing nothing, nothing is free, okay, Like
(04:46):
you can't even go to some parks nowadays without paying
five I'll just cover a charge, like the nerve of
you guys to be charged to touch our own trees.
This is crazy, right, So you know there's very limited
things that are free o here, right, and we need
money to survive. It is what it is, y'all know,
(05:07):
the right. And I look at so many women and
I think to myself and I always see a business
opportunity of everything. That's one of my gifts, right, every everything.
I could talk to you for ten minutes and already
know that you are in the wrong type of job
for yourself that you are and what you need to
be doing for yourself, right, like where you would thrive,
where you would kill it, where you would make bank. Okay,
(05:31):
it's one of my really really good gifts. But so
many women have so many insecurities and so many with
the self doubt wounds right where they don't actualize, they
don't even recognize their own potential. And when they do
recognize their own potential, all of their wounds start talking
(05:52):
at the same time. Oh girl, little what if you
feel you're not gonna be able to do that? Little whatever?
Think right? All this talking at the same time your
wounds talk you out of living your best freaking life. Right,
There is so much more to healing than just being
able to get over a man or not caring about
(06:13):
these men. It is really about being able to live
your best life. Do you understand what I'm saying? Right,
My life's work, my mission is trying to get y'all
to see man, open your eyes and heal your shit.
Do your inner work, do your shadow work, tap into
(06:34):
yourself so you can live your best life. Sometimes I
see women who go down these like rabbit holes, Like
I see women who all they need is a picture man,
a picture of somebody's man with the girl, with the
girl beside them. All they need is her arm in
(06:56):
the picture, and they can find who that woman is.
I don't they can find. They'll zoom in on her hands,
on the way her manicure was. I've seen women be like, Okay,
I actually know this, this work on this girl's nails.
It's this girl. There's only one woman that does it,
and she's based out of Atlanta and da dah dah. Okay,
I could trace it back to this and then I
can find the shop that she got a nails, and
then if I can find the shot that she get
(07:16):
on nails, and I'm going to look back at the
picture and realize like her nails are fresh. That means
there was no this not grown out. That means it
was a freshly set done of nails. That means this
picture was taken on May eighteenth at ten pm. Okay,
that means it had to be in the in the area.
She must have got it done between the day before
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the day before that. No, no sooner. So if I
could go back and I can ask them and to
call them and ask if the Da da da who
did this set of nails, and I can get to
the nail tech blah blah blah, and then boom, I
found the girl. What the fuck? Some of y'all are
literal FBI agents in this motherfucket And you can be
(07:57):
making so much you can you do? You do you
know how many women will pay for this type of information.
It just is what it is, man, It just is
what it is, right. You know, many women will pay
for this information who need this information, who whatever the
case may be, they're trying to they know that their
man is cheating on them, but their man has been
lying about it for whatever the case to me, and
they don't have no solid proof, but they can they
(08:18):
just know it, right. Do you know how many women
would be like, yeah, I'm gonna hire myself a private investigator.
And you know how many women would prefer to have
a woman, another woman who speaks their language, not some old, dusty,
crusty man, right, who's like, yo, I can uh, who's
wearing a fucking suit from you know, nineteen oh long?
And you know it's not what I'm saying. Like, you
(08:38):
know how many women would appreciate having another woman who
could be like, yeah, I got you say, let's we'll
tell me a story, sit down in my virtual office.
What's good? Okay? Cool? Got you? You guys are wasting
your talents, wasting your talents because you're so they're focused
on what man is gonna choose you? Does he like me?
I hope he likes me? Why is being this way?
(09:00):
Why can't men just this. Why can't men just that
who care? Cares? But you have these wounds in you
that over and over again, women other women who have
been where you are, man, and who's made it through
the other side, who are like yo, you need to
(09:21):
check those hey, you the life that you want for
yourself is on the other side of the wounds. Who
are telling you that you can't have it? Who are
distracting you? Who are who are who are taking you
somewhere that you don't need to be, who are shifting
your direction, who are clouding your judgment? Who are bleeding
(09:43):
all over the place? And is that what I'm saying? Right,
Sit down with yourself, men, sit down with yourself. Get
off of a dick, right, Who are who's literally just
depositing all their nastiness inside you? Anyways, this is why
I wrote that book, the you Know you'r Puss. He
is a portal and he was lucky to be let in.
There's a section in that book that's about soul ties.
(10:05):
And I'm literally explaining to y'all that men deposit into
you everything that got in them to give, and a
lot of men don't have nothing good to give. Right,
Men who have not worked on themselves. Men who are
not intentional, Men who will you know, the good intentional, Right,
(10:25):
someone are very intentional about the fact that they want
to snatch your soul, all right, But like men who
are not intentional with their own inner work, men who
are not intentional with their own accountability, men who are
not doing the work, no self reflection, no type of healing,
no type of nothing. What do you think that they
have in them to give nothing but but but but
but but but emotional baggage? Right? They're depositing into you
(10:49):
their own trauma. They're depositing into you their own unhealed wounds.
They're depositing over and over, and you your womb, who
is a sponge, who is a very wise sponge, but
she knows that her job is to absorb. She absorbs
it all. That's what your womb does, absorbs. And then
(11:10):
you now carrying your ship plus his shit. Hello, And
then we're wondering why how this so tied? It's so tied, baby,
This is the ship. This is what we're talking about, right.
And men, whether they are consciousness of it or not,
they know that you are a portal that between your
(11:32):
legs is magical that they can plug into you and
receive healing, because that's also what your womb does, right,
Your woman's like, what is the cycle? Absorbent heel absorbing,
he absorbent hell right, Like it's magic and everybody men
know this. Again, whether it's on a subconscious or a
conscious level, Why do you think they beg for the pussy,
fight for the pussy, start watse for the pussy, chase
(11:55):
after the pussy, bag for the pussy. They always trying
to do some pussy and try to impress for the pussy,
pay for the pussy. Think think right, we go crazy
for the pussy. You know. That's why when I see
these girls on TikTok who are like trying to teach
y'all how to do obsession spells, I'm like, steps y'all
(12:18):
fuck around and get women killed out here by doing
shit like that. It is not cute to have a
man obsessed with you. It is not cute, It is
not cool. It is not oh my god, he's obsessed
with me. That man can kill you, you see. Anyways,
that's for a whole other episode, a whole another day.
But I digress them again. Whoo, I digress right, But
(12:42):
at the end of the day. What I'm saying is
they know how magical you are. A lot of women
are the only ones who are out of touch with
how magical you are because you use everything that you
have inside of you, not even for yourself, use it
for other people. You give it away, you give it away,
You give it away, give it away, give it away,
give it away now, right, you give it away. If
you're older, you knew that was coming. Come on, it's
(13:03):
me right. And then what you take in return is
not balanced. You're not bothering here. It's not even I'll
give you this for this. No, you're like, I'll give
you all of this, and yeah, go ahead. I could
be your emotional dumping ground, no problem. Put your garbage
into me. Yeah, no problem. As long as you beat
the pussy up. That's another thing, too, beat the pussy up.
What the fuck? No, you'd be nice to my kitty cat.
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God damn it, you be gentle. Be so gentle, bitch.
And it's what I'm saying, And it's so what I'm saying.
So like all of this stuff combined, you're out here
and again, you know I'm gonna say this again in
(13:44):
case you're new listening. To this. I am not judging you, Okay,
I'm not chitting on you. This is not a personal attack.
I have been you. Okay, cool. Right, there has to
get to a point where you make an active decision
for yourself to learn to learn better from what you
weren't taught. I know that so many women on my
(14:06):
podcast have never been taught, who don't have other women
around them to teach them, so on and so forth. Right, So,
how can you do better if you don't know better?
But what I'm saying is when women who are coming
around who do know better because they have they have
acquired the wisdom through their own very difficult journey and
are giving it to you, Please take it. Please take it.
(14:31):
Another woman saying, hey, do your inner work? How is
that in your mind? Translate too, she's out to get me. Nah,
she don't know what she's talking about. Nah, she ain't
got no good intentions for me. What like, hey, do
your inner work so you can heal Nah. Nah, she
don't know what she's talking about. Okay, okay, right, do
(14:53):
your inner work so you can heal your shit so
you can go live your best life. Nah. It sounds
like a trap. What do you know what I mean,
And instead I'm saying I know a lot of women
who have these big ideas and these big dreams, and
they're so dope. They're such like I'm like, yo, do that.
(15:15):
But then again they let themselves, their wounds, their whatever,
you know, talk themselves out of it. Right. They are like,
oh my god, it's going to be so much work.
How do I don't know what to do with? Da?
Da da? Maybe who's gonna let maybe people are gonna
laugh at me. What are my parents gonna think? What
is that gonna think? What is that gonna think? Girl?
This is your life, right, this is your life? And
I say this all the time. You know, one thing
(15:40):
about me is that I realized that the majority of
our life is spent at work. It just is what
it is, right. And I said to myself, if I'm
going to be doing something, if I have to work
for to earn a living, right, then it's going to
be something that is what I like to do. Right.
And that doesn't mean that every day I'm going to
(16:03):
enjoy it, because some days there's going to be hard
days at work. Just like in a relationship, I could
have the healthy I doing and I have an amazing
relationship and sometimes it gets on my motherfucker nerves and
vice versa. Right, Sometimes we have days moments in our
relationship where we're not seeing eye to eye. Right, we
have moments in our relationship where they are hard, and
we got to sit down together and have hard conversations.
(16:25):
We have to have hard moments. We have to have
Sometimes we have conversations and both of us end up crying, right,
and that's hard, but that's the work, right, and then
we get it out, we talk about it, whatever the
case I be, we understand each other better, Okay, we
make the appropriate adjustments and that is it, and then
we move forward and all is well again. Right. Work
(16:47):
is no different, right live. Working a job that you
enjoy doesn't mean that every day you're like la la
la la la la la la la la la la la. Right,
You're not Phoebe from friends. Okay, You're gonna have so
days where you love what you do and sometimes it's
hard at the same time, or sometimes you have a
bad day at work. Sometimes you have several bad days
(17:09):
at work. Right, But the point is is that the
what you enjoy overrides your enjoyment of what you do. Overrides. Right,
you enjoy what you do more than you have shitty, hard,
difficult moments, whatever the case may be. You understand what
I'm saying. That's that's the balance, that it's more good
(17:30):
than Wow, what the fuck is this day? Days? You
see what I'm saying. So I said to myself, I
I I can't. I'm not set up for certain things right.
I want to be first of all, I don't like
people telling me what the fuck to do. That's like
in the sense where you know, I'm not fit for
(17:54):
a traditional nine to five situate at nine to seven,
nine to ten, I'm not fit for a boss. I
am not fit all right, I'm not equipped because the
minute you tell me, the minute I'm like, yeah, I'm
gonna take this PTO, and you're like, oh, you can't
excuse me. I'm sorry. I almost it. Almost thought you
(18:15):
said I can't take the PTO, yeah, because we needed
to excuse me. PTO stands if I'm not I thought
it standard I heard on the streets. It stands for
prepare the others. So do what you need to do
because me, I'm taking the PEO, I mean the PTO.
Whatever the kiss me be right, the minute you tell me,
I'm like, yeah, I'm gonna take these vacation my vacation
time from this. Oh you can't because Molly had already
(18:36):
requested a vacation. I don't give a fuck about Molly,
Like I don't give a fuck about what Molly do.
I'm telling you that I have this matched vacation time
in my bank, if my vacation bank, my work, whatever bank,
and I'm taking it, and you won't tell me no,
like quit now look now, look moment permanent vacation.
Speaker 2 (19:01):
Right.
Speaker 1 (19:01):
I know myself, right, I know that I'm not set
up for other people's time. Right. I got to be
here at this time every day. Da da da, that's it,
that's all. No, no, no, no, no no, right I
had to And again, I don't do well in that
(19:22):
type of structure, right, that's my I don't do well
in that type of structure. Other people do very well
in that type of structure, like, for example, I'll give
you an example, right, like Duayna and I are the
opposites of that. Right. I need to be able to
dictate how I do things on my own, right. I'm
but I'm also very motivated. I'm very not motivated all
the time. Sometimes I'm not motivated, I motherfucking all. But
I'm very disciplined. That's what it is, right, I'm very disciplined.
(19:45):
So I create my own structure that supports the type
of discipline that I am. Right, But that's not for everybody.
Duyne is disciplined, but in a different way. Right. He
needs tasks left to his own, you know. Devices He's like, well,
I'm I'm not gonna do nothing. Then, like, he needs
(20:07):
tasks and if you give him a task, he will
fucking knock that shit out, right. So Duayne does better
in an environment where he has a specific job to do, right,
and every day, like he starts today and someone's like,
here's the list, knock it out. He's like, but say less,
let me roll up my sleep. Right. He thrives in
(20:29):
that environment, right. So you know, my thing is to
be honest about who you are and which environments you
thrive in, right, and then accommodate yourself.
Speaker 2 (20:45):
Right.
Speaker 1 (20:45):
There are so many other jobs that exist, right, And
that's the thing, you know. I think, like I said
in the beginning, we use our internet, our phone for
sometimes like the like for dumb shit instead of really
looking up jobs, careers, whatever that maybe we didn't know
that existed. Right, think about think about your pipeline from school,
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from high school to work right to where you are now. Right,
think about the job fairs you have. I don't know
how old you guys are, but in my day, we
had job fairs. I came to school. Okay, they told
us about what you can do after you're done if
you don't whatever the right, So right, think about the
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same jobs that were repeated to you over and over
and over again. Yeah, you get to thinking like, okay,
this is what's out there, right, and then you do that,
and now here you are twenty years later, and you
still you're like, well, this is all I can do,
or this is this or this is that, right, when
there's actually so much more. There's so much more out
there for you, so much more ground for you to
cover that you haven't even scratched the surface yet. You
(21:56):
haven't even scratched the surface yet. Right, as women, there's
so many things that we can do and be successful in.
And success ps, by the way, is defined by your
own definition. The definition of my success is not the
same definition of your success, and so on and so
on and so forth. Okay, So whatever success means to you,
For one woman's success could mean that, you know, from
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I have a roof over my head and I'm not
stressed about money. I can get my groceries, I can
feed my dog, I can you know, whatever he has
may be, and I have like a look a work
life balance. Success for another woman, excuse me, success is
you know, I'm in my higher rise pentose I have
enough money to I bought it right outright. I was like,
(22:41):
here's here's half a million dollars cash. Give me my
motherfucking keys, bitch, right right, Like you know, I have
my doorman downstairs dog. No, I have maybe a small
light cat that I got from some place I don't know, right,
whatever the case, you know, success looks different to every woman,
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every woman, So figure out what success looks like to you, right,
ask yourself what type of what type of money you
would need per month, per whatever case A need to
be comfortable right for it to be six, for you
to be successful, right, for you to be comfortable, for
you to be good with every case a B. And
then think of like what you're good at? What are
(23:23):
you good at? And if you're listening to this right now,
and you're like, I'm not good at anything? Say this
is this shit? Sometimes? What is why you need to
heal your shit? Because everybody is good at something. That's
lady here on TikTok when I just shared whatever went
down a listed? Some of you guys are really good
at gossiping. Every all you guys do is sit down
on the phone and bump your gums. Right, you know
everybody's business? How do you know everybody's business? I don't know,
(23:45):
I don't know, but you are in everybody's business except
for your own. Why aren't you getting paid for that?
Why aren't you getting paid for that? You know? Like, hello,
get start you a YouTube channel, start you a podcast,
Start you with TikTok where you like today ordering the court?
(24:06):
We're gonna be in I don't know? Can Jlo's business? Right?
And and spill the tea everything you know about j Lo?
What you doing when you got going on Da da da?
Spilled the tea? People love tea channels. These tea channels,
you know, be careful to some of them get sued.
And shit, don't be spreading rumors. You gotta say alleged,
(24:27):
don't become what's that girl's name, what's her name? The
one that Cardi B sued? Anyways, of one of them,
party be sued her m said because she was gone.
You're gotten too far man for a million dollars. But anyways,
I digress a million something man she wanted to. But yeah,
it's what I'm saying. Right. Some of y'all are on
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the internet in every five minutes you want to. Okay, ever,
really love the post, but it's it's actually spelt this
way right, or the punctuations behind the right place. It
should have been a comma, or you needed an m
dash here or the cool post, but you've messed your period.
Be an editor, what the fuck is going on here?
Be an editor? Be a proof reader. People need those hallo.
(25:13):
I'm an author. I need that, and I'm the author
who misses punctuations sometimes, right, so I need that. Right.
Put yourself out there. You know you're thinking to yourself like,
I don't know where to start. Just start, man, I
don't have it out together. I need to be perfect
before I put it bro. Just start. Just start hop
(25:34):
on your social media one day and be like yo.
If you are an indie author, if you are a
self published author, whatever, and you need somebody to help
you proof reade your shit. You know, shoot me a DM.
That's how easy. That's like, ah, that's literally how easy. Sorry,
because I'm just like, come on please, that's how easy
(25:55):
it could be. Right to TUESA. You get a DM
from somebody, you're like, yo, I need to prove how
much you charge? Right, and maybe you charge on to
get your foot in the door. Right, maybe you're like, okay,
how long is the book? All right, it's one hundred
and twenty pages? How many words? Whatever the case A?
Be all right, you know, and you set your local price,
whatever the case AB, and that's how you get your
foot in the door. Boom. You just had one client.
Now that girl she's an indie author. She knows other
(26:17):
indie authors. And now she's like, yo, if you need
a proof reader, and you know, as an indie author,
we don't got it like that right now, whatever the
ksemb hit up. This girl. She did my work for
me for you know, on the lo low whatever the
case A and B. Boom, Now you have two new
clients right after you start building up your shit. Now
you can be like, all right, as you're doing that.
(26:37):
Now you can you know, you're in a little bit
of money. You can use some of that money to
put put to also invest in yourself. So now you
hire yourself a business coach or somebody that can help you.
You know, Okay, let's help you get a logo up.
Let's help you set up your website. Let's build you
out a website so people can choose whichever options, so
you can have more options to choose from, so on
(26:58):
and so forth. That is how this works, right. You
started from the bottom. Now you hear when I first
started doing calls, Oh my god, I used to undercharge
myself so much, so much, but I started out with
doing coaching calls. Start out with doing coaching calls, and
(27:19):
I think they were sixty dollars for forty five minutes.
And the amount of work I was doing in those
coaching calls, I realized at a certain point it made sense, right,
(27:39):
I wasn't getting the the what I was getting paid
was not matching the amount of work I was doing.
It just wasn't. And that's what was that was really
starting to drain me. And I didn't correlate it until
later on, and then I upped the price a little
bit because I had more experience, right, I had a
lot of then I had a lot more experience, and
then you know, and so now or at a point
(28:00):
where five years later, whatever the case they being, where
what I'm still You know, I have other coaches who
hit me up on the side and they're like, girl,
you should be changing more still, right for everything that
you're doing, And but I'm like, nah, I'm good, Right,
I'm a I'm at a point right now where for
one person it looks like a lot for another person
(28:21):
is not a girl, it's up your prices, right, But
I'm at a point where I'm comfortable with the amount
of experience that i have, the amount of knowledge I have,
and what I know that I do for my clients. Right,
I'm at a good price point for myself. For three months,
you you go, you gon geal them, right, And again,
(28:41):
you know that's something that speaks my clients who don't
leave me, right, my clients who have been with me
for for in renewals for year, two years, the quality
of my works beas for myself. Right. But like these
are things that I had to I started I started shaky,
I started uncertain, I started nervous, I started you know,
(29:02):
underpricing myself, short changing myself, and I had to work
my way up and I did and you can too.
You can too. Every time I say canto, I think
about the the cant to line for hair. I really
hate that line. Anyways, I digress. Sorry, sorry, sorry, See
(29:25):
this is why don't get sponsors, because why did I
say that? That's whatever? Okay, The point is, is it
going to be an overnight thing? No? No, it's not right.
It's not. Are you're going to be some overnight success
you know, maybe you know what I'm saying, let me know,
but for the most part, No, you're gonna have to
(29:48):
start and build yourself up. But if you are. For
what happens with so many women is it's the recognizing
how much they have to do right in order to
get to where they want to be, and that thoughts
like they just they give up on them. So they're like,
oh my god, it's so much work, and da da
da right because they are aware in desperate energy, right,
(30:08):
I want it now, I need it now, I need
this money now, I need this now. I need things
to pop off for myself right now, so on and
so forth. And it's no different than the same thing
that y'all do in dating. I need a man now,
I need to be picked now, I need to be
chosen now. I need to hurry up because I need
to have some kids. Now, I need to get married now,
I need to whatever the case I need be. And
so both ends of the spectrum, you you sabotage yourself
(30:28):
because you end up choosing the road that doesn't lead
to your full fulfillment. It doesn't lead to you having
a full, rich life. And by rich, I mean, you
know it could also mean money, but I mean I
mean inner richness. I mean true experiencing true happiness, experiencing
true fulfillment, experiencing true joy, experience happiness, enjoy the same
(30:48):
thing good for me right, experiencing true peace of mind, right,
true connections, true healthy relationships right like and the most
important help relationship with yourself. Right. So, through your desperation,
which is caused by your wounds, you end up robbing
yourself of actually living your best life. And I today
(31:11):
just wanted to tell you guys to please stop doing that.
Sit down with yourself, get a pen and a piece
of do right now. If you're driving, don't do that.
Come back, do it again, right, come back and you
know whatever, But sit down with yourself, get a pin
and a piece of paper, and ask yourself, what do
you spend the majority of your time when you're not
at work? Right? What do you do? What do you
(31:33):
spend the most of your time doing? What are you
watching a lot of the times? Right? What are you
listening to a lot? Where are you called to write?
In your friend group, you're the go to person for what? Right?
In your friend group, you are the go to person
for what? Are you the go to person for picking
out furniture? Right? Because everybody's like, yo, your house is
(31:56):
so nice, litter case? Maybe can you help me please
figure out how to rearrange my living whatever? Right? Are
you the go to person for cleaning?
Speaker 2 (32:07):
No?
Speaker 1 (32:07):
Hear me out right? Like, are you go to girl?
What product should I use for this? Or what product
is that? What's the best product to do this? Or
what's the best vacuum for this? Or what's the best right?
Do you see I'm going with this? You can start
a cleaning business, you know many people want like it's
a real thing. It's a very very very real, very
real thing. Right, And you set your pace, you set
your tone you set your hours, you set your situation.
(32:28):
You know what I mean, whatever the case a be, right,
are you the go to advice giver? Okay, so let
me tell you something about advice. Let me explain something
to y'all. If you're the type of person who in
your friend group, you are the go to advice giver.
You are the wise one of your friend group. You
are the wise woman of your friend group. Everybody comes
to you, whatever the case am be, and the reason
(32:48):
why they come to you is for whatever. Maybe you're
the balanced one, libra. Maybe you are the one who's
gonna say it like it is. You know, maybe you
are the one who's going to be fair. Whatever the
case may be, right, but you are the person that
people go to to it for advice. You don't have
to be a like a certified life coach. I'm telling
(33:09):
you right now. You can literally set up some advice calls, right,
You can set up on some of the vice calls.
You can, you know, whatever the case.
Speaker 2 (33:17):
Name.
Speaker 1 (33:17):
There's a girl on Instagram again. Me and her are
really cool. We've been walking to following each other. We're
cool man for years. Her name is Passport Cuddy. She
started Alex Stagram is Alex, but on Instagram it's Passport Cutty,
Passport Cuddy. I have been following this lady since Twitter,
back in Twitter times, right in Twitter, and I want
(33:37):
to say, like two thousand and oh my god, nine
twenty ten maybe right. And so she wrote a book
called The m in Mann Is for Money, But it
wasn't called that before. Originally it was called something else.
I don't know, I don't remember what it was called
(33:58):
it before, but it was something else. And then she
changed the name and she changed the cover. But her
original cover was trash love, I love you Alex, but
the right and it's no different for me my first
self published book. My original cover was terribly it was
but but anyways, and then she rebranded and whatever the
case they be, and now like her, the cover is
(34:21):
like pink and anyways, right. She she she she learned right,
trial and learning, trial and learning right, like what I've
been talking about. But she used to get on Twitter
and she would She was the original man drag on Twitter.
I don't care what anybody says, mad like got he
(34:43):
paved the way you got he crawled to a yaka
run right like. She would get on Twitter and be
like she was probably the original share of seven, but
not like that. It's not that to that degree. I think,
you know whatever, right, And she used to talk about zodiacs,
and she used to talk about like a whole moshposh
(35:06):
of things. And she used to write about a lot
of member and Twitter before back in the day, you know,
it wasn't this long. You only had a certain amount
of characters to write. And so she would do these continuations, right,
these continuations part one, part two, part three, part four,
remember in Twitter. So she would bring you along on
this story, these stories every day about you know what
(35:28):
she's what she's learned by some man, samandada, she did
whatever the case I be. And one day she sat
down with herself and she's like, yo, like what am
I doing? This is this is a book? Like these books? Right,
and she basically wrote I think she wrote half of
or the majority of the M in money is the
(35:49):
M and man is for Money on her notes app
Like she was just writing writing writing on her notes
app understand. Fast forward to today, right, and she's you know,
she she kicks it. She gets on live all the time.
She she's like, you know how I used to always
do Instagram lives like every single day for a long time, right,
(36:09):
she is that every morning. You can probably catch her
on Live early though, like because I think it's a
different time but I see her on Live would be
like six in the morning. I'm a girl, it's six am, right,
but I think it's a different time zone where she lives. Anyways,
I digress. And she has these things called Cuddy calls
right where you can book a call. She lets you know.
She's like, I'm not a life coach, I'm not a therapist,
but I will give you a listening ear right, or
would give you some advice, and that's it. And people
(36:33):
book calls all the time, all the time. People book calls, right.
So I tell you that very long, kind of drawn
out story, but because you know, I like context to
say this, right, Like, you think you you can only
do something one way, but that's not true. There's so
many ways that you can do things. But you just
(36:54):
have to allow yourself to think outside the box, right,
and to heal your fucking wounds so they stop getting
in the way of you. You and the life that
you want to live, you and the potential business you
could have for yourself. You and even if it's some
extra money on the side, you and whatever the case
may be, right where you can set yourself up in
a way where you can do something that you actually enjoy.
(37:16):
Cutt he enjoys helping women, right, I enjoy helping women, right.
And granted some of y'all get on a motherfucking nerves,
but that's part of the job, right. It doesn't mean
that I don't enjoy it, right. It doesn't mean just
because I have some bad experience a lot of mercy, huh, right,
(37:36):
some bad experiences with a few bad eggs. It don't
mean that I, you know, I'm like, oh fuck all
these women. No, man, I'm still my still love to
help women, you know, is what I'm saying. So all
that to say, please think outside the box. You know,
if you are in a position right now where you're
(38:01):
just think, I'll have the box heal your shit, you know,
really focus on yourself. It is twenty twenty five. The
world is really changing in a very very strange way.
But it also depends on how you look at it, right,
Like it could be changing in a strange way on
when other spectrum. But on the other end of the spectrum,
this can mean really good things for depending on how
(38:22):
you look at it, for yourself and for the people
around you, and for what you're trying to do. It
just depends on how you look at it. Right, everybody's
what's going on in the world right now is you know,
is viewed as has a viewpoint of many different lenses.
But one thing I think that we can all agree
on as women is that now more than ever, women
period need to fend for themselves. Right. That's enough of
(38:46):
the people pleasing, the overgiving, the but I just want
him to do That's enough. That's enough. That's enough. That's enough.
That's enough of letting men into your orbit, into your energy,
into your womb, into any part of you. A man
who cannot add value you to your life, they have
the nerd to be talking about us adding value. Motherfuckers.
You come into people with a black toenail, a PlayStation,
(39:07):
a toothbrush that you haven't changed into motherfucking years, and
a flat pillow in bed sheets that God forbid, you
know somebody else is fucking on them and you haven't
washed them shits either. You have a nerve to tell
us then, or what do you bring to the table bitch,
do you even have a table in your house? You
want to ask people what they bring to a table?
Do you have a table? You don't even have a table? Please? Right?
(39:33):
Talking about something? Oh you need to women need to
bring me peace? WHOA? What kind of value do you
add to a man's shut? Shut up right? And granted
(39:58):
you know if we're talking about good men out there,
all the healthy good men that do it in fact exist, yes,
like obviously you know they have the right to be
like you, I need a woman who's gonna add value
to my life because they add value to their own life.
First of all, their their lives are valuable. They've made
it such on their own and when they come into
a woman's life, they add value into hers. So yes,
(40:18):
they can say that and want some reciprocess bibbs one
hundred percent. But you just see what I'm saying, right,
So you need to fuck out that shit, right and
you be value in your own life. You fuck out
out of the shit. Fuck what these men are doing.
Fuck content about what men need to this or why
(40:41):
do men this? And this is why men? And fuck
the narcissist content. You have had enough content about narcissists
Jesus Christ, you've learned about them, You've you've been in comments,
you've trauma bonded with other women about them. You, whatever
the case may be, it's time to cut the cord now,
my love. I love y'all so much, but like cut
them motherfucking cord, because the more you surround yourself with
that is the more you stay in that energy. Did
(41:02):
you learn what you need to learn about a narciss
You know what it is, you know what to look for,
you know what not to do, you know, whatever the
case they be. Okay, cool, you understood why your exo
is the way that he was. Okay, move on now,
move on right, Let's like get you around some content
that can help you level up now, because this is
(41:22):
only keeping you stuck, stuck in that energy, still surrounded
by women who are only talking about that only to
whatever the case may be. No, get you around women
who are talking about other shit. Shit that's going to
inspire you to move up in life. Shit that's going
to inspire you to protect your space. Shit that's going
to inspire you to heal your shit. Shit that's going
to inspire you to step into a version of yourself
(41:46):
who is in love with herself and in her life.
And it's that what I'm saying. All right here it
comes some women in black m the one that to
bemember just that with just okay, all right, that's my
message for today. So I hope that today helped you
(42:09):
in so many shaper I hope that today helped you
in so many shape or form and inspired you to,
you know, put on your thinking caps. And there's so
much There's so much more to life than than men.
I'm promising that there really are. There's so much more
(42:30):
to life than shitty relationships. There's so much more to
life than constant heartbreak, and and you know, there's so
much more to life than Mary Jay's I'm not Gonna
cry era. Okay, see Bentley just shook asad and said
the same, right, There's so much more to life than
just you love you love and your sacret work in
every day. There's more, Okay, please go go. Sometimes I
(42:58):
wish I could play music on this podcast, actual songs,
but you know copyright because Matt, I'll play some good tunes. Anyways,
I'm out of here. If you need to help, right,
I have wake up calls available now, right, So if you,
you know you for whatever reason, this is one of
my business right where you're like, fuck, I need some coaching,
but I can't do three months right now, I can't
(43:19):
commit to three months whatever the case may be. Then
you can book one off sessions. They are called wake
up calls. You can find them through I'll leave the
link in the show notes as always, right, And you
know these wake up calls are for everything under the sun.
Well no, no that's not true. Read what it's about, right,
But from dating to relationships, to helping you get your
(43:44):
your ideas out of your head and onto paper, some
action going, right, you know, so on and so forth.
You know that what I'm saying. So again, if you
need it, it is there, all right. The link is
in the show notes. And then of course if you
are like, yeah, no, I'm ready for some for some
(44:05):
for a three month deep dive, then I got you
there too. That exists as well, right, you know, the
three month is called dating with dignity. But what we
do there really and truly is we we unpack you shit. Man,
We unpack you shit. So that moving forward, right, whether
you date again later or not, I'll at least you've
(44:26):
unpacked some shit and we've helped he'll work through some
wounds there. Okay, so that's what I got, and obviously
you know I have again. Also, if those neither of
those are are viable for you at the moment, please
use the library that I have as well. There's work
books there for you. There's actual books there for you.
(44:46):
So you know I got something for everybody. Okay, so
you know that's it all right? Do you have any
random life news? We haven't done that in a long
time because I don't have my pimpin primtpeme anymore. Do
you have any random life news? No, I don't think.
Oh no, no, no, I do have some. I do
have want to have a joke. It doesn't random life news.
(45:09):
It's nothing like whatever. It's just fun. Lately, I've been
doing some really fun stuff. I've just been having fun.
That's literally. I've been creating for fun on my other
Instagram page, if we're being honest here, and I've just
been having fun with zodiacs and like foolishness with zodiacs,
(45:30):
and I've really been living my best life doing it.
So okay, that's my cue. I gotta go. Bentley needs
this medication. But Anyways, if you're into zodiac fun and
stuff like that, you can go check it out and
again on Instagram. The page name the handle is If
we're being honest, here the profile pictures cartoon because I'm
(45:51):
not put my face no more anywhere, none of my
profile pages. So she got rollers in her hair. It's
black and white. It's me with a brown background. It's me.
M okay, that's it man, all right, ladies, I appreciate y'all.
I'm always rooting for y'all, always, always, always. You gotta
root for yourself too. I hope that you guys have
a good rest of your morning's evenings afternoons where the
(46:12):
bick y'all are in the world. Please be safe, use condoms,
trust your intuition, and use your discernment, and I will
catch y'all on the next episode. Much love, y'all, go
be great.
So I was recording this morning from my other podcast,
the Sis Use Your Intuition podcast, that's where we use
tarot and oracle cards to help us build or rebuild
the relationships that we have with our intuitions. And I
was talking about something, and I can't remember what I
said verbatim, but it was talking about the fact that
we use the Internet for stupidity a lot of the times,
(00:22):
right when we can really be honing in and really
accessing the wealth of knowledge that exists on the Internet.
And it made me think of this video that I
had saved some time ago on TikTok. This woman she
was talking about She's basically like, if you're good at this,
then you can do this. If you like this, if
you like doing this, then you can be this. Right,
(00:42):
talking about what you can use your skills for, right,
your regular everyday skills in order to be in a
job a career that you actually enjoy, or create one
for yourself, right, create a lane for yourself that you
actually enjoy. And I had said that I was gonna
because it reminded me of it, and I said, oh, yes,
(01:03):
I want to do that episode today. So this is
what we're doing today. If it's your first time here. Hi,
my name is CCB, but most people just call me B.
I'm your internet big sis out in these internet streets.
I'm forty years young. Thank you very much. I've been
through some shit. I've also put myself through a lot
of shit, and I have learned from all the shit
and now I help women get through their shit. You
(01:27):
see what I'm saying. This is full circle, It's given,
pay it forward, right. I'm very honest. So if you're
sensitive to honesty, this is not the place for you
to be. I do not sugar koshit for myself, so
I'm not doing it for anybody else. Okay, honesty is important.
We have a saying around here, we have a motto
and it goes like this, put your triggers to the side,
so you've got room to open up your mind. Okay.
(01:49):
I'm not for everybody, and that is okay, all right,
So I'm gonna play the video and then we'll talk. Okay,
So here it is. This is by a woman on
TikTok by the name of Lasha la Um. Okay, here
we go.
Speaker 2 (02:08):
And I don't know to hear this, but if you
like to argue, be a lawyer if he takes back
paragraphs to be an author. If you always trying to
tell somebody what to do, be a director. If you
stay booked in.
Speaker 1 (02:17):
Bc B a CEO.
Speaker 2 (02:18):
If you take bomb picture of your friends, be a photographer.
If you love spilling tea and gossip and be a
podcast host. If you got main character energy, be an actor.
If you love give an advice, be a life coach.
If you always fixing drama, be a therapist. If you
always the first to do something, be an innovator. You
always remixing stuff and getting shit mixed up, be a DJ.
If you always planning trips, be a travel agent. If
(02:40):
you always loud as fucking you just love being loud,
be a hype man. People get paid to do this.
Speaker 1 (02:45):
Be a hype man.
Speaker 2 (02:46):
If you got a crazy memory, be a historian. If
you stay correcting grammar talking about astridch there, be a
fucking editor. If you always decorated, be an interior designer.
If you love the tension, be an influencer. If you
stay cooking, be a private shit you love to talk
and you just talk to that.
Speaker 1 (03:06):
Much, be a radio host.
Speaker 2 (03:07):
If you love being nosy, be an investigator and in
my favorite one. If you hate working for people, be
an entrepreneur all right by and I.
Speaker 1 (03:15):
Don't know, so you might want to run back back again,
right so you can hear everything that she said. But
I think so. One of the reasons why I loved
it was because I you know, I in the line
(03:35):
of work that I do. I watch women every day
just focused on shit that like, I'm my girl who
gives a fuck about these dudes, Like y'all be focusing
on the worst of the worst men, and I'm just like,
what for why? And I know for why right at
the end of the day. I know for why because
I've been there too, so it's not even you know,
(03:56):
I've been there as well, and I know for why.
And the reason why is because, like I always say,
you need to heal your shit, right, you need to
heal your shit. You need to get the ball rolling
on healing your shit. When you are focused on why
a man does what he does. Some of y'all study
the fucking brain of men so much that I'm like,
why aren't you getting paid for this? This is crazy work, bro,
(04:19):
It's crazy work, right, And my brain is always set
up in a way where if I'm going to be
doing something, all right, If I'm going to be spending
a lot of my time doing something, then I should
be compensated for it. Because we live in a world
where nothing is nothing nothing, nothing is free, okay, Like
(04:46):
you can't even go to some parks nowadays without paying
five I'll just cover a charge, like the nerve of
you guys to be charged to touch our own trees.
This is crazy, right, So you know there's very limited
things that are free o here, right, and we need
money to survive. It is what it is, y'all know,
(05:07):
the right. And I look at so many women and
I think to myself and I always see a business
opportunity of everything. That's one of my gifts, right, every everything.
I could talk to you for ten minutes and already
know that you are in the wrong type of job
for yourself that you are and what you need to
be doing for yourself, right, like where you would thrive,
where you would kill it, where you would make bank. Okay,
(05:31):
it's one of my really really good gifts. But so
many women have so many insecurities and so many with
the self doubt wounds right where they don't actualize, they
don't even recognize their own potential. And when they do
recognize their own potential, all of their wounds start talking
(05:52):
at the same time. Oh girl, little what if you
feel you're not gonna be able to do that? Little whatever?
Think right? All this talking at the same time your
wounds talk you out of living your best freaking life. Right,
There is so much more to healing than just being
able to get over a man or not caring about
(06:13):
these men. It is really about being able to live
your best life. Do you understand what I'm saying? Right,
My life's work, my mission is trying to get y'all
to see man, open your eyes and heal your shit.
Do your inner work, do your shadow work, tap into
(06:34):
yourself so you can live your best life. Sometimes I
see women who go down these like rabbit holes, Like
I see women who all they need is a picture man,
a picture of somebody's man with the girl, with the
girl beside them. All they need is her arm in
(06:56):
the picture, and they can find who that woman is.
I don't they can find. They'll zoom in on her hands,
on the way her manicure was. I've seen women be like, Okay,
I actually know this, this work on this girl's nails.
It's this girl. There's only one woman that does it,
and she's based out of Atlanta and da dah dah. Okay,
I could trace it back to this and then I
can find the shop that she got a nails, and
then if I can find the shot that she get
(07:16):
on nails, and I'm going to look back at the
picture and realize like her nails are fresh. That means
there was no this not grown out. That means it
was a freshly set done of nails. That means this
picture was taken on May eighteenth at ten pm. Okay,
that means it had to be in the in the area.
She must have got it done between the day before
(07:36):
the day before that. No, no sooner. So if I
could go back and I can ask them and to
call them and ask if the Da da da who
did this set of nails, and I can get to
the nail tech blah blah blah, and then boom, I
found the girl. What the fuck? Some of y'all are
literal FBI agents in this motherfucket And you can be
(07:57):
making so much you can you do? You do you
know how many women will pay for this type of information.
It just is what it is, man, It just is
what it is, right. You know, many women will pay
for this information who need this information, who whatever the
case may be, they're trying to they know that their
man is cheating on them, but their man has been
lying about it for whatever the case to me, and
they don't have no solid proof, but they can they
(08:18):
just know it, right. Do you know how many women
would be like, yeah, I'm gonna hire myself a private investigator.
And you know how many women would prefer to have
a woman, another woman who speaks their language, not some old, dusty,
crusty man, right, who's like, yo, I can uh, who's
wearing a fucking suit from you know, nineteen oh long?
And you know it's not what I'm saying. Like, you
(08:38):
know how many women would appreciate having another woman who
could be like, yeah, I got you say, let's we'll
tell me a story, sit down in my virtual office.
What's good? Okay? Cool? Got you? You guys are wasting
your talents, wasting your talents because you're so they're focused
on what man is gonna choose you? Does he like me?
I hope he likes me? Why is being this way?
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Why can't men just this. Why can't men just that
who care? Cares? But you have these wounds in you
that over and over again, women other women who have
been where you are, man, and who's made it through
the other side, who are like yo, you need to
(09:21):
check those hey, you the life that you want for
yourself is on the other side of the wounds. Who
are telling you that you can't have it? Who are
distracting you? Who are who are who are taking you
somewhere that you don't need to be, who are shifting
your direction, who are clouding your judgment? Who are bleeding
(09:43):
all over the place? And is that what I'm saying? Right,
Sit down with yourself, men, sit down with yourself. Get
off of a dick, right, Who are who's literally just
depositing all their nastiness inside you? Anyways, this is why
I wrote that book, the you Know you'r Puss. He
is a portal and he was lucky to be let in.
There's a section in that book that's about soul ties.
(10:05):
And I'm literally explaining to y'all that men deposit into
you everything that got in them to give, and a
lot of men don't have nothing good to give. Right,
Men who have not worked on themselves. Men who are
not intentional, Men who will you know, the good intentional, Right,
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someone are very intentional about the fact that they want
to snatch your soul, all right, But like men who
are not intentional with their own inner work, men who
are not intentional with their own accountability, men who are
not doing the work, no self reflection, no type of healing,
no type of nothing. What do you think that they
have in them to give nothing but but but but
but but but emotional baggage? Right? They're depositing into you
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their own trauma. They're depositing into you their own unhealed wounds.
They're depositing over and over, and you your womb, who
is a sponge, who is a very wise sponge, but
she knows that her job is to absorb. She absorbs
it all. That's what your womb does, absorbs. And then
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you now carrying your ship plus his shit. Hello, And
then we're wondering why how this so tied? It's so tied, baby,
This is the ship. This is what we're talking about, right.
And men, whether they are consciousness of it or not,
they know that you are a portal that between your
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legs is magical that they can plug into you and
receive healing, because that's also what your womb does, right,
Your woman's like, what is the cycle? Absorbent heel absorbing,
he absorbent hell right, Like it's magic and everybody men
know this. Again, whether it's on a subconscious or a
conscious level, Why do you think they beg for the pussy,
fight for the pussy, start watse for the pussy, chase
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after the pussy, bag for the pussy. They always trying
to do some pussy and try to impress for the pussy,
pay for the pussy. Think think right, we go crazy
for the pussy. You know. That's why when I see
these girls on TikTok who are like trying to teach
y'all how to do obsession spells, I'm like, steps y'all
(12:18):
fuck around and get women killed out here by doing
shit like that. It is not cute to have a
man obsessed with you. It is not cute, It is
not cool. It is not oh my god, he's obsessed
with me. That man can kill you, you see. Anyways,
that's for a whole other episode, a whole another day.
But I digress them again. Whoo, I digress right, But
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at the end of the day. What I'm saying is
they know how magical you are. A lot of women
are the only ones who are out of touch with
how magical you are because you use everything that you
have inside of you, not even for yourself, use it
for other people. You give it away, you give it away,
You give it away, give it away, give it away,
give it away now, right, you give it away. If
you're older, you knew that was coming. Come on, it's
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me right. And then what you take in return is
not balanced. You're not bothering here. It's not even I'll
give you this for this. No, you're like, I'll give
you all of this, and yeah, go ahead. I could
be your emotional dumping ground, no problem. Put your garbage
into me. Yeah, no problem. As long as you beat
the pussy up. That's another thing, too, beat the pussy up.
What the fuck? No, you'd be nice to my kitty cat.
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God damn it, you be gentle. Be so gentle, bitch.
And it's what I'm saying, And it's so what I'm saying.
So like all of this stuff combined, you're out here
and again, you know I'm gonna say this again in
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case you're new listening. To this. I am not judging you, Okay,
I'm not chitting on you. This is not a personal attack.
I have been you. Okay, cool. Right, there has to
get to a point where you make an active decision
for yourself to learn to learn better from what you
weren't taught. I know that so many women on my
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podcast have never been taught, who don't have other women
around them to teach them, so on and so forth. Right, So,
how can you do better if you don't know better?
But what I'm saying is when women who are coming
around who do know better because they have they have
acquired the wisdom through their own very difficult journey and
are giving it to you, Please take it. Please take it.
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Another woman saying, hey, do your inner work? How is
that in your mind? Translate too, she's out to get me. Nah,
she don't know what she's talking about. Nah, she ain't
got no good intentions for me. What like, hey, do
your inner work so you can heal Nah. Nah, she
don't know what she's talking about. Okay, okay, right, do
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your inner work so you can heal your shit so
you can go live your best life. Nah. It sounds
like a trap. What do you know what I mean,
And instead I'm saying I know a lot of women
who have these big ideas and these big dreams, and
they're so dope. They're such like I'm like, yo, do that.
(15:15):
But then again they let themselves, their wounds, their whatever,
you know, talk themselves out of it. Right. They are like,
oh my god, it's going to be so much work.
How do I don't know what to do with? Da?
Da da? Maybe who's gonna let maybe people are gonna
laugh at me. What are my parents gonna think? What
is that gonna think? What is that gonna think? Girl?
This is your life, right, this is your life? And
I say this all the time. You know, one thing
(15:40):
about me is that I realized that the majority of
our life is spent at work. It just is what
it is, right. And I said to myself, if I'm
going to be doing something, if I have to work
for to earn a living, right, then it's going to
be something that is what I like to do. Right.
And that doesn't mean that every day I'm going to
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enjoy it, because some days there's going to be hard
days at work. Just like in a relationship, I could
have the healthy I doing and I have an amazing
relationship and sometimes it gets on my motherfucker nerves and
vice versa. Right, Sometimes we have days moments in our
relationship where we're not seeing eye to eye. Right, we
have moments in our relationship where they are hard, and
we got to sit down together and have hard conversations.
(16:25):
We have to have hard moments. We have to have
Sometimes we have conversations and both of us end up crying, right,
and that's hard, but that's the work, right, and then
we get it out, we talk about it, whatever the
case I be, we understand each other better, Okay, we
make the appropriate adjustments and that is it, and then
we move forward and all is well again. Right. Work
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is no different, right live. Working a job that you
enjoy doesn't mean that every day you're like la la
la la la la la la la la la la la. Right,
You're not Phoebe from friends. Okay, You're gonna have so
days where you love what you do and sometimes it's
hard at the same time, or sometimes you have a
bad day at work. Sometimes you have several bad days
(17:09):
at work. Right, But the point is is that the
what you enjoy overrides your enjoyment of what you do. Overrides. Right,
you enjoy what you do more than you have shitty, hard,
difficult moments, whatever the case may be. You understand what
I'm saying. That's that's the balance, that it's more good
(17:30):
than Wow, what the fuck is this day? Days? You
see what I'm saying. So I said to myself, I
I I can't. I'm not set up for certain things right.
I want to be first of all, I don't like
people telling me what the fuck to do. That's like
in the sense where you know, I'm not fit for
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a traditional nine to five situate at nine to seven,
nine to ten, I'm not fit for a boss. I
am not fit all right, I'm not equipped because the
minute you tell me, the minute I'm like, yeah, I'm
gonna take this PTO, and you're like, oh, you can't
excuse me. I'm sorry. I almost it. Almost thought you
(18:15):
said I can't take the PTO, yeah, because we needed
to excuse me. PTO stands if I'm not I thought
it standard I heard on the streets. It stands for
prepare the others. So do what you need to do
because me, I'm taking the PEO, I mean the PTO.
Whatever the kiss me be right, the minute you tell me,
I'm like, yeah, I'm gonna take these vacation my vacation
time from this. Oh you can't because Molly had already
(18:36):
requested a vacation. I don't give a fuck about Molly,
Like I don't give a fuck about what Molly do.
I'm telling you that I have this matched vacation time
in my bank, if my vacation bank, my work, whatever bank,
and I'm taking it, and you won't tell me no,
like quit now look now, look moment permanent vacation.
Speaker 2 (19:01):
Right.
Speaker 1 (19:01):
I know myself, right, I know that I'm not set
up for other people's time. Right. I got to be
here at this time every day. Da da da, that's it,
that's all. No, no, no, no, no no, right I
had to And again, I don't do well in that
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type of structure, right, that's my I don't do well
in that type of structure. Other people do very well
in that type of structure, like, for example, I'll give
you an example, right, like Duayna and I are the
opposites of that. Right. I need to be able to
dictate how I do things on my own, right. I'm
but I'm also very motivated. I'm very not motivated all
the time. Sometimes I'm not motivated, I motherfucking all. But
I'm very disciplined. That's what it is, right, I'm very disciplined.
(19:45):
So I create my own structure that supports the type
of discipline that I am. Right, But that's not for everybody.
Duyne is disciplined, but in a different way. Right. He
needs tasks left to his own, you know. Devices He's like, well,
I'm I'm not gonna do nothing. Then, like, he needs
(20:07):
tasks and if you give him a task, he will
fucking knock that shit out, right. So Duayne does better
in an environment where he has a specific job to do, right,
and every day, like he starts today and someone's like,
here's the list, knock it out. He's like, but say less,
let me roll up my sleep. Right. He thrives in
(20:29):
that environment, right. So you know, my thing is to
be honest about who you are and which environments you
thrive in, right, and then accommodate yourself.
Speaker 2 (20:45):
Right.
Speaker 1 (20:45):
There are so many other jobs that exist, right, And
that's the thing, you know. I think, like I said
in the beginning, we use our internet, our phone for
sometimes like the like for dumb shit instead of really
looking up jobs, careers, whatever that maybe we didn't know
that existed. Right, think about think about your pipeline from school,
(21:09):
from high school to work right to where you are now. Right,
think about the job fairs you have. I don't know
how old you guys are, but in my day, we
had job fairs. I came to school. Okay, they told
us about what you can do after you're done if
you don't whatever the right, So right, think about the
(21:32):
same jobs that were repeated to you over and over
and over again. Yeah, you get to thinking like, okay,
this is what's out there, right, and then you do that,
and now here you are twenty years later, and you
still you're like, well, this is all I can do,
or this is this or this is that, right, when
there's actually so much more. There's so much more out
there for you, so much more ground for you to
cover that you haven't even scratched the surface yet. You
(21:56):
haven't even scratched the surface yet. Right, as women, there's
so many things that we can do and be successful in.
And success ps, by the way, is defined by your
own definition. The definition of my success is not the
same definition of your success, and so on and so
on and so forth. Okay, So whatever success means to you,
For one woman's success could mean that, you know, from
(22:18):
I have a roof over my head and I'm not
stressed about money. I can get my groceries, I can
feed my dog, I can you know, whatever he has
may be, and I have like a look a work
life balance. Success for another woman, excuse me, success is
you know, I'm in my higher rise pentose I have
enough money to I bought it right outright. I was like,
(22:41):
here's here's half a million dollars cash. Give me my
motherfucking keys, bitch, right right, Like you know, I have
my doorman downstairs dog. No, I have maybe a small
light cat that I got from some place I don't know, right,
whatever the case, you know, success looks different to every woman,
(23:02):
every woman, So figure out what success looks like to you, right,
ask yourself what type of what type of money you
would need per month, per whatever case A need to
be comfortable right for it to be six, for you
to be successful, right, for you to be comfortable, for
you to be good with every case a B. And
then think of like what you're good at? What are
(23:23):
you good at? And if you're listening to this right now,
and you're like, I'm not good at anything? Say this
is this shit? Sometimes? What is why you need to
heal your shit? Because everybody is good at something. That's
lady here on TikTok when I just shared whatever went
down a listed? Some of you guys are really good
at gossiping. Every all you guys do is sit down
on the phone and bump your gums. Right, you know
everybody's business? How do you know everybody's business? I don't know,
(23:45):
I don't know, but you are in everybody's business except
for your own. Why aren't you getting paid for that?
Why aren't you getting paid for that? You know? Like, hello,
get start you a YouTube channel, start you a podcast,
Start you with TikTok where you like today ordering the court?
(24:06):
We're gonna be in I don't know? Can Jlo's business? Right?
And and spill the tea everything you know about j Lo?
What you doing when you got going on Da da da?
Spilled the tea? People love tea channels. These tea channels,
you know, be careful to some of them get sued.
And shit, don't be spreading rumors. You gotta say alleged,
(24:27):
don't become what's that girl's name, what's her name? The
one that Cardi B sued? Anyways, of one of them,
party be sued her m said because she was gone.
You're gotten too far man for a million dollars. But anyways,
I digress a million something man she wanted to. But yeah,
it's what I'm saying. Right. Some of y'all are on
(24:48):
the internet in every five minutes you want to. Okay, ever,
really love the post, but it's it's actually spelt this
way right, or the punctuations behind the right place. It
should have been a comma, or you needed an m
dash here or the cool post, but you've messed your period.
Be an editor, what the fuck is going on here?
Be an editor? Be a proof reader. People need those hallo.
(25:13):
I'm an author. I need that, and I'm the author
who misses punctuations sometimes, right, so I need that. Right.
Put yourself out there. You know you're thinking to yourself like,
I don't know where to start. Just start, man, I
don't have it out together. I need to be perfect
before I put it bro. Just start. Just start hop
(25:34):
on your social media one day and be like yo.
If you are an indie author, if you are a
self published author, whatever, and you need somebody to help
you proof reade your shit. You know, shoot me a DM.
That's how easy. That's like, ah, that's literally how easy. Sorry,
because I'm just like, come on please, that's how easy
(25:55):
it could be. Right to TUESA. You get a DM
from somebody, you're like, yo, I need to prove how
much you charge? Right, and maybe you charge on to
get your foot in the door. Right, maybe you're like, okay,
how long is the book? All right, it's one hundred
and twenty pages? How many words? Whatever the case A?
Be all right, you know, and you set your local price,
whatever the case AB, and that's how you get your
foot in the door. Boom. You just had one client.
Now that girl she's an indie author. She knows other
(26:17):
indie authors. And now she's like, yo, if you need
a proof reader, and you know, as an indie author,
we don't got it like that right now, whatever the
ksemb hit up. This girl. She did my work for
me for you know, on the lo low whatever the
case A and B. Boom, Now you have two new
clients right after you start building up your shit. Now
you can be like, all right, as you're doing that.
(26:37):
Now you can you know, you're in a little bit
of money. You can use some of that money to
put put to also invest in yourself. So now you
hire yourself a business coach or somebody that can help you.
You know, Okay, let's help you get a logo up.
Let's help you set up your website. Let's build you
out a website so people can choose whichever options, so
you can have more options to choose from, so on
(26:58):
and so forth. That is how this works, right. You
started from the bottom. Now you hear when I first
started doing calls, Oh my god, I used to undercharge
myself so much, so much, but I started out with
doing coaching calls. Start out with doing coaching calls, and
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I think they were sixty dollars for forty five minutes.
And the amount of work I was doing in those
coaching calls, I realized at a certain point it made sense, right,
(27:39):
I wasn't getting the the what I was getting paid
was not matching the amount of work I was doing.
It just wasn't. And that's what was that was really
starting to drain me. And I didn't correlate it until
later on, and then I upped the price a little
bit because I had more experience, right, I had a
lot of then I had a lot more experience, and
then you know, and so now or at a point
(28:00):
where five years later, whatever the case they being, where
what I'm still You know, I have other coaches who
hit me up on the side and they're like, girl,
you should be changing more still, right for everything that
you're doing, And but I'm like, nah, I'm good, Right,
I'm a I'm at a point right now where for
one person it looks like a lot for another person
(28:21):
is not a girl, it's up your prices, right, But
I'm at a point where I'm comfortable with the amount
of experience that i have, the amount of knowledge I have,
and what I know that I do for my clients. Right,
I'm at a good price point for myself. For three months,
you you go, you gon geal them, right, And again,
(28:41):
you know that's something that speaks my clients who don't
leave me, right, my clients who have been with me
for for in renewals for year, two years, the quality
of my works beas for myself. Right. But like these
are things that I had to I started I started shaky,
I started uncertain, I started nervous, I started you know,
(29:02):
underpricing myself, short changing myself, and I had to work
my way up and I did and you can too.
You can too. Every time I say canto, I think
about the the cant to line for hair. I really
hate that line. Anyways, I digress. Sorry, sorry, sorry, See
(29:25):
this is why don't get sponsors, because why did I
say that? That's whatever? Okay, The point is, is it
going to be an overnight thing? No? No, it's not right.
It's not. Are you're going to be some overnight success
you know, maybe you know what I'm saying, let me know,
but for the most part, No, you're gonna have to
(29:48):
start and build yourself up. But if you are. For
what happens with so many women is it's the recognizing
how much they have to do right in order to
get to where they want to be, and that thoughts
like they just they give up on them. So they're like,
oh my god, it's so much work, and da da
da right because they are aware in desperate energy, right,
(30:08):
I want it now, I need it now, I need
this money now, I need this now. I need things
to pop off for myself right now, so on and
so forth. And it's no different than the same thing
that y'all do in dating. I need a man now,
I need to be picked now, I need to be
chosen now. I need to hurry up because I need
to have some kids. Now, I need to get married now,
I need to whatever the case I need be. And
so both ends of the spectrum, you you sabotage yourself
(30:28):
because you end up choosing the road that doesn't lead
to your full fulfillment. It doesn't lead to you having
a full, rich life. And by rich, I mean, you
know it could also mean money, but I mean I
mean inner richness. I mean true experiencing true happiness, experiencing
true fulfillment, experiencing true joy, experience happiness, enjoy the same
(30:48):
thing good for me right, experiencing true peace of mind, right,
true connections, true healthy relationships right like and the most
important help relationship with yourself. Right. So, through your desperation,
which is caused by your wounds, you end up robbing
yourself of actually living your best life. And I today
(31:11):
just wanted to tell you guys to please stop doing that.
Sit down with yourself, get a pen and a piece
of do right now. If you're driving, don't do that.
Come back, do it again, right, come back and you
know whatever, But sit down with yourself, get a pin
and a piece of paper, and ask yourself, what do
you spend the majority of your time when you're not
at work? Right? What do you do? What do you
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spend the most of your time doing? What are you
watching a lot of the times? Right? What are you
listening to a lot? Where are you called to write?
In your friend group, you're the go to person for what? Right?
In your friend group, you are the go to person
for what? Are you the go to person for picking
out furniture? Right? Because everybody's like, yo, your house is
(31:56):
so nice, litter case? Maybe can you help me please
figure out how to rearrange my living whatever? Right? Are
you the go to person for cleaning?
Speaker 2 (32:07):
No?
Speaker 1 (32:07):
Hear me out right? Like, are you go to girl?
What product should I use for this? Or what product
is that? What's the best product to do this? Or
what's the best vacuum for this? Or what's the best right?
Do you see I'm going with this? You can start
a cleaning business, you know many people want like it's
a real thing. It's a very very very real, very
real thing. Right, And you set your pace, you set
your tone you set your hours, you set your situation.
(32:28):
You know what I mean, whatever the case a be, right,
are you the go to advice giver? Okay, so let
me tell you something about advice. Let me explain something
to y'all. If you're the type of person who in
your friend group, you are the go to advice giver.
You are the wise one of your friend group. You
are the wise woman of your friend group. Everybody comes
to you, whatever the case am be, and the reason
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why they come to you is for whatever. Maybe you're
the balanced one, libra. Maybe you are the one who's
gonna say it like it is. You know, maybe you
are the one who's going to be fair. Whatever the
case may be, right, but you are the person that
people go to to it for advice. You don't have
to be a like a certified life coach. I'm telling
(33:09):
you right now. You can literally set up some advice calls, right,
You can set up on some of the vice calls.
You can, you know, whatever the case.
Speaker 2 (33:17):
Name.
Speaker 1 (33:17):
There's a girl on Instagram again. Me and her are
really cool. We've been walking to following each other. We're
cool man for years. Her name is Passport Cuddy. She
started Alex Stagram is Alex, but on Instagram it's Passport Cutty,
Passport Cuddy. I have been following this lady since Twitter,
back in Twitter times, right in Twitter, and I want
(33:37):
to say, like two thousand and oh my god, nine
twenty ten maybe right. And so she wrote a book
called The m in Mann Is for Money, But it
wasn't called that before. Originally it was called something else.
I don't know, I don't remember what it was called
(33:58):
it before, but it was something else. And then she
changed the name and she changed the cover. But her
original cover was trash love, I love you Alex, but
the right and it's no different for me my first
self published book. My original cover was terribly it was
but but anyways, and then she rebranded and whatever the
case they be, and now like her, the cover is
(34:21):
like pink and anyways, right. She she she she learned right,
trial and learning, trial and learning right, like what I've
been talking about. But she used to get on Twitter
and she would She was the original man drag on Twitter.
I don't care what anybody says, mad like got he
(34:43):
paved the way you got he crawled to a yaka
run right like. She would get on Twitter and be
like she was probably the original share of seven, but
not like that. It's not that to that degree. I think,
you know whatever, right, And she used to talk about zodiacs,
and she used to talk about like a whole moshposh
(35:06):
of things. And she used to write about a lot
of member and Twitter before back in the day, you know,
it wasn't this long. You only had a certain amount
of characters to write. And so she would do these continuations, right,
these continuations part one, part two, part three, part four,
remember in Twitter. So she would bring you along on
this story, these stories every day about you know what
(35:28):
she's what she's learned by some man, samandada, she did
whatever the case I be. And one day she sat
down with herself and she's like, yo, like what am
I doing? This is this is a book? Like these books? Right,
and she basically wrote I think she wrote half of
or the majority of the M in money is the
(35:49):
M and man is for Money on her notes app
Like she was just writing writing writing on her notes
app understand. Fast forward to today, right, and she's you know,
she she kicks it. She gets on live all the time.
She she's like, you know how I used to always
do Instagram lives like every single day for a long time, right,
(36:09):
she is that every morning. You can probably catch her
on Live early though, like because I think it's a
different time but I see her on Live would be
like six in the morning. I'm a girl, it's six am, right,
but I think it's a different time zone where she lives. Anyways,
I digress. And she has these things called Cuddy calls
right where you can book a call. She lets you know.
She's like, I'm not a life coach, I'm not a therapist,
but I will give you a listening ear right, or
would give you some advice, and that's it. And people
(36:33):
book calls all the time, all the time. People book calls, right.
So I tell you that very long, kind of drawn
out story, but because you know, I like context to
say this, right, Like, you think you you can only
do something one way, but that's not true. There's so
many ways that you can do things. But you just
(36:54):
have to allow yourself to think outside the box, right,
and to heal your fucking wounds so they stop getting
in the way of you. You and the life that
you want to live, you and the potential business you
could have for yourself. You and even if it's some
extra money on the side, you and whatever the case
may be, right where you can set yourself up in
a way where you can do something that you actually enjoy.
(37:16):
Cutt he enjoys helping women, right, I enjoy helping women, right.
And granted some of y'all get on a motherfucking nerves,
but that's part of the job, right. It doesn't mean
that I don't enjoy it, right. It doesn't mean just
because I have some bad experience a lot of mercy, huh, right,
(37:36):
some bad experiences with a few bad eggs. It don't
mean that I, you know, I'm like, oh fuck all
these women. No, man, I'm still my still love to
help women, you know, is what I'm saying. So all
that to say, please think outside the box. You know,
if you are in a position right now where you're
(38:01):
just think, I'll have the box heal your shit, you know,
really focus on yourself. It is twenty twenty five. The
world is really changing in a very very strange way.
But it also depends on how you look at it, right,
Like it could be changing in a strange way on
when other spectrum. But on the other end of the spectrum,
this can mean really good things for depending on how
(38:22):
you look at it, for yourself and for the people
around you, and for what you're trying to do. It
just depends on how you look at it. Right, everybody's
what's going on in the world right now is you know,
is viewed as has a viewpoint of many different lenses.
But one thing I think that we can all agree
on as women is that now more than ever, women
period need to fend for themselves. Right. That's enough of
(38:46):
the people pleasing, the overgiving, the but I just want
him to do That's enough. That's enough. That's enough. That's enough.
That's enough of letting men into your orbit, into your energy,
into your womb, into any part of you. A man
who cannot add value you to your life, they have
the nerd to be talking about us adding value. Motherfuckers.
You come into people with a black toenail, a PlayStation,
(39:07):
a toothbrush that you haven't changed into motherfucking years, and
a flat pillow in bed sheets that God forbid, you
know somebody else is fucking on them and you haven't
washed them shits either. You have a nerve to tell
us then, or what do you bring to the table bitch,
do you even have a table in your house? You
want to ask people what they bring to a table?
Do you have a table? You don't even have a table? Please? Right?
(39:33):
Talking about something? Oh you need to women need to
bring me peace? WHOA? What kind of value do you
add to a man's shut? Shut up right? And granted
(39:58):
you know if we're talking about good men out there,
all the healthy good men that do it in fact exist, yes,
like obviously you know they have the right to be
like you, I need a woman who's gonna add value
to my life because they add value to their own life.
First of all, their their lives are valuable. They've made
it such on their own and when they come into
a woman's life, they add value into hers. So yes,
(40:18):
they can say that and want some reciprocess bibbs one
hundred percent. But you just see what I'm saying, right,
So you need to fuck out that shit, right and
you be value in your own life. You fuck out
out of the shit. Fuck what these men are doing.
Fuck content about what men need to this or why
(40:41):
do men this? And this is why men? And fuck
the narcissist content. You have had enough content about narcissists
Jesus Christ, you've learned about them, You've you've been in comments,
you've trauma bonded with other women about them. You, whatever
the case may be, it's time to cut the cord now,
my love. I love y'all so much, but like cut
them motherfucking cord, because the more you surround yourself with
that is the more you stay in that energy. Did
(41:02):
you learn what you need to learn about a narciss
You know what it is, you know what to look for,
you know what not to do, you know, whatever the
case they be. Okay, cool, you understood why your exo
is the way that he was. Okay, move on now,
move on right, Let's like get you around some content
that can help you level up now, because this is
(41:22):
only keeping you stuck, stuck in that energy, still surrounded
by women who are only talking about that only to
whatever the case may be. No, get you around women
who are talking about other shit. Shit that's going to
inspire you to move up in life. Shit that's going
to inspire you to protect your space. Shit that's going
to inspire you to heal your shit. Shit that's going
to inspire you to step into a version of yourself
(41:46):
who is in love with herself and in her life.
And it's that what I'm saying. All right here it
comes some women in black m the one that to
bemember just that with just okay, all right, that's my
message for today. So I hope that today helped you
(42:09):
in so many shaper I hope that today helped you
in so many shape or form and inspired you to,
you know, put on your thinking caps. And there's so
much There's so much more to life than than men.
I'm promising that there really are. There's so much more
(42:30):
to life than shitty relationships. There's so much more to
life than constant heartbreak, and and you know, there's so
much more to life than Mary Jay's I'm not Gonna
cry era. Okay, see Bentley just shook asad and said
the same, right, There's so much more to life than
just you love you love and your sacret work in
every day. There's more, Okay, please go go. Sometimes I
(42:58):
wish I could play music on this podcast, actual songs,
but you know copyright because Matt, I'll play some good tunes. Anyways,
I'm out of here. If you need to help, right,
I have wake up calls available now, right, So if you,
you know you for whatever reason, this is one of
my business right where you're like, fuck, I need some coaching,
but I can't do three months right now, I can't
(43:19):
commit to three months whatever the case may be. Then
you can book one off sessions. They are called wake
up calls. You can find them through I'll leave the
link in the show notes as always, right, And you
know these wake up calls are for everything under the sun.
Well no, no that's not true. Read what it's about, right,
But from dating to relationships, to helping you get your
(43:44):
your ideas out of your head and onto paper, some
action going, right, you know, so on and so forth.
You know that what I'm saying. So again, if you
need it, it is there, all right. The link is
in the show notes. And then of course if you
are like, yeah, no, I'm ready for some for some
(44:05):
for a three month deep dive, then I got you
there too. That exists as well, right, you know, the
three month is called dating with dignity. But what we
do there really and truly is we we unpack you shit. Man,
We unpack you shit. So that moving forward, right, whether
you date again later or not, I'll at least you've
(44:26):
unpacked some shit and we've helped he'll work through some
wounds there. Okay, so that's what I got, and obviously
you know I have again. Also, if those neither of
those are are viable for you at the moment, please
use the library that I have as well. There's work
books there for you. There's actual books there for you.
(44:46):
So you know I got something for everybody. Okay, so
you know that's it all right? Do you have any
random life news? We haven't done that in a long
time because I don't have my pimpin primtpeme anymore. Do
you have any random life news? No, I don't think.
Oh no, no, no, I do have some. I do
have want to have a joke. It doesn't random life news.
(45:09):
It's nothing like whatever. It's just fun. Lately, I've been
doing some really fun stuff. I've just been having fun.
That's literally. I've been creating for fun on my other
Instagram page, if we're being honest here, and I've just
been having fun with zodiacs and like foolishness with zodiacs,
(45:30):
and I've really been living my best life doing it.
So okay, that's my cue. I gotta go. Bentley needs
this medication. But Anyways, if you're into zodiac fun and
stuff like that, you can go check it out and
again on Instagram. The page name the handle is If
we're being honest, here the profile pictures cartoon because I'm
(45:51):
not put my face no more anywhere, none of my
profile pages. So she got rollers in her hair. It's
black and white. It's me with a brown background. It's me.
M okay, that's it man, all right, ladies, I appreciate y'all.
I'm always rooting for y'all, always, always, always. You gotta
root for yourself too. I hope that you guys have
a good rest of your morning's evenings afternoons where the
(46:12):
bick y'all are in the world. Please be safe, use condoms,
trust your intuition, and use your discernment, and I will
catch y'all on the next episode. Much love, y'all, go
be great.
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