A Gentleman's Guide

Turns out, dating apps don’t lie—and neither do the cold, hard stats. In this episode, Alexandre uncovers what really makes you swipe-right material: hotness helps, height matters, and your job title might beat your salary. From sexy names to firefighter fantasies, it’s a data-driven reality check with a side of sarcasm. Spoiler: Your vibe still beats your bank account.

Got a hot take on dating or relationships? Or a quest...

This second episode with dating coach Danny Very touches on essential elements of personal development and dating success. Danny emphasizes the importance of operating at a higher frequency by eliminating low-frequency habits and adopting healthier daily routines. They explore the significance of filtering potential partners, recognizing red flags in texting, and analysing post-date behaviours to gauge interest. The conversation al...

In this episode, Alexandre welcomes dating coach Danny Vera to discuss the challenges young men face in today's dating landscape. They explore the decline of traditional masculinity, and common pitfalls in communication and first dates. Danny shares insights from his coaching experience, emphasizing the importance of understanding male-female dynamics and the need for self-development in navigating modern relationships.

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Listen to Alex dive into some harsh truths about modern dating. Some of the things revealed are timeless truths, others have to do with recent changes we've seen in society. Listen to the episode and make up your own mind. Do you agree with most points?

Do you have a question about dating or relationships? Do you have interesting insights into the subject? Why not become a guest on my podcast? Get in touch at: alex@po...

When it comes to dating and relationships, a lot of advice centres around creating attraction and how to spark positive emotions. But there's another important force at play that could move the needle just as much, if not more. Listen to Alex talk about how you can increase your dating success by changing your circumstances.

Do you have a question about dating or relationships? Do you have interesting insights into the sub...

Ever wondered what happens to your dating profile after you match with someone? Turns out, women have entire Facebook groups where they share profiles, swap stories, and warn each other about red flags. In this episode, Justine returns to break down how these groups work, what behaviour gets called out, and whether guys should be worried. If you’re dating online, your reputation might be traveling faster than you think!

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Paul Janka didn’t just play the dating game, he basically wrote the cheat codes! Back in the mid-2000s, Paul Janka shook things up with his bold, no-BS approach to meeting women in New York City — an approach so wild it landed him on The Today Show and Dr. Phil.
In this follow-on episode we talk about why he finally let go of his player lifestyle, and what made him commit to his now wife.

Paul's book 'Attraction Formul...

Paul Janka didn’t just play the dating game, he basically wrote the cheat codes! Back in the mid-2000s, Paul Janka shook things up with his bold, no-BS approach to meeting women in New York City — an approach so wild it landed him on The Today Show and Dr. Phil.
In this episode, we’re going behind the scenes. If you’ve ever wondered what separates the guys who ‘get it’ from those who don’t—this one’s for you.

Paul's bo...

Recent studies have shown a decline of all kinds of romantic relationships, and it seems to be a worldwide trend. More alarmingly, people also seem to engage in less casual sex than they did before. In this episode, Alex offers an explanation for this phenomenon.

Link to Spotify (please rate): https://open.spotify.com/show/0dkJAQmtJzMfondNqEhXnz?si=9537e66f8919481d

Do you have a question about dating or relat...

In this episode, Alex dives deeper into the reasons why men and women tend to have different communication styles. In the second part of the episode, he gives examples and ideas on how to improve how you engage with women to get better outcomes.

Link to Spotify (please rate): https://open.spotify.com/show/0dkJAQmtJzMfondNqEhXnz?si=9537e66f8919481d

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In this episode, Alex takes a semi-humorous, semi-serious jab at understanding female expressions. Gentlemen, if you've ever been left scratching your head after talking to your girlfriend or date, this episode's for you.

Link to Spotify (please rate): https://open.spotify.com/show/0dkJAQmtJzMfondNqEhXnz?si=9537e66f8919481d

Do you have a question about dating or relationships? Do you have interesting insights...

Seriously guys! 2025 is going to be an amazing year, full of new possibilities and exciting dates. In the first episode of the year, I go over some lessons that I learnt over the past 12 months, and share an ancient tale of zen wisdom with you at the end. Please dive in!

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The city of Medellin in Colombia has become very popular in the last few years, not least amongst men looking to meet Latinas and have a good time. But looking for love in this city can potentially be dangerous. Let my story be a cautionary tale of what can happen if you're not careful enough.

Do you have a question about dating or relationships? Do you have interesting insights into the subject? Why not become a gues...

What do you do if a girl doesn't respond to your first text or doesn't agree to go out on a date? In this episode, we'll go into some troubleshooting and show a fun and playful way to help you recover the interaction.

This is the last episode in our series on texting (started with episode Nr. 26).
Here's the link to the podcast on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/0dkJAQmtJzMfondNqEhXnz?si=d7ebc6534835437d

In this episode, Alex offers some examples of good initial text messages to send her, and how to ask her out in an attractive way. It builds on the previous episode (Nr 28), so make sure to check it out! Here's the Spotify link to it:
https://open.spotify.com/episode/0niMzCDi55z6RGMne0lnJe?si=e50e8af877f34075

You've been texting this girl for a couple of days now, but suddenly she stops responding? You went out last we...

You've been texting this girl for a couple of days now, but suddenly she stops responding? You went out last weekend, got 3 promising phone numbers, but for some reason you can't seem to get any of the girls out on a date? It's time to take a step back and look at the basics of good texting. It's become a vital tool in modern dating, and you can stand out from the crowd if you observe a couple of principles and rules. This series o...

You've been texting this girl for a couple of days now, but suddenly she stops responding? You went out last weekend, got 3 promising phone numbers, but for some reason you can't seem to get any of the girls out on a date? It's time to take a step back and look at the basics of good texting. It's become a vital tool in modern dating, and you can stand out from the crowd if you observe a couple of principles and rules. This series o...

You've been texting this girl for a couple of days now, but suddenly she stops responding? You went out last weekend, got 3 promising phone numbers, but for some reason you can't seem to get any of the girls out on a date? It's time to take a step back and look at the basics of good texting. It's become a vital tool in modern dating, and you can stand out from the crowd if you observe a couple of principles and rules. This series o...

You've met this woman a couple of weeks ago, and things got off to a great start. But there's only one issue: you're always the one initiating contact. Somehow, this doesn't feel right. What should you do? Is there a way to get her to pursue you more? Listen in and find out.

Are you facing an issue in your dating life or relationship? Feel free to send in your questions to alex@polyglotradio.com

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