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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Hey, everybody, welcome back to stoic state of mind. I'm
your hoes Brandon Cole, and today we're diving into something
super important, building emotional intelligence and self awareness. Ever felt
like you're just reacting to life instead of truly living
a like you're on autopilot, caught in a whirlwin of
emotions without a map. You know that feeling when you
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snap at someone for something minor, or your anxiety's virals
out of control over a simple task. Yeah, we've all
been there, But the good news is we can change that.
This isn't about becoming some emotionists robe but far from it.
Stoicism isn't about suppressing your feelings. It's about understanding them,
managing them, and using them to fuel your growth. Think
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of it like this. You wouldn't drive a car without
knowing how the engine works, right, same goes for our emotions.
While developing emotional intelligence and self awareness, we become the
drivers of our own lives, navigating the road with clarity
and purpose. So what are the key takeaways? Let's break
it down. First, acknowledge your emotions. Don't try to push
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them away or pretend they don't exist. Take a moment
to truly feel what your feeling sadness, anger, joy, fear,
name it ower. This simple act of recognition is the
first step towards understanding and managing your emotional landscape. Think
of it like checking the weather report before heading out
the door. You need to know what conditions you are
facing to plan accordingly. Next up, identify your triggers. What
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situations or people tend to bring out strong emotions in you.
Recognizing these patterns can be a game changer. Once you
know your triggers, you can start developing strategies to manage
them effectively. Maybe it's certain conversations with specific people, deadlines
at work, or even just being stuck in traffic. Whatever
it is, awareness is the key to breaking free from
reactive patterns. Third, practice mindfulness. This means paying attention to
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the present moment without judgment. Notice your thoughts, feelings, and
physical sensations as their rise. When you get caught up
in negative thought spirals, jenny, bring your attention back to
the present. Think of it light training a muscle. The
more you practice mindfulness, the stronger your ability to stay rounded.
Incentive becomes fallward, develop empathy, try to understand other people's
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perspectives and emotions, even if you don't agree with them.
Active listening is crucial here, really paying attention to what
someone is saying, both verbally and nonverbally. Empathy allows us
to build stronger relationships, resolve conflicts more effectively, and navigate
the complexities of human interaction with greater ease. Finally, be
kind to yourself. Remember that emotional intelligence is a journey,
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not a destination. There will be ups and downs, moments
of progress and setbacks. Don't beat yourself up over mistakes,
learn from them, and keep moving forward. You are doing great.
Let me tell you a quick story. I remember this.
One time I was presenting to a huge crowd and
my palms were sweating like crazy. My heart was racing,
my mind was racing, and I could feel myself spiraling
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into anxiety. But instead of letting fear take over it,
I took a deep breath, focused on the message I
wanted to deliver, and remind them that it was okay
to feel nervous. Everyone gets butterflied sometimes. I channeled that
nervous energy into passion for what I was talking about
and ended up giving one of my best presentations ever.
See by acknowledging my emotions, understanding my triggers, and practicing
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self compassion, I was able to turn a potentially disastrous
situation into a positive experience. So remember, building emotional intelligence
is an ongoing process. It takes time, effort, and practice,
but the rewards are immeasurable. You'll find yourself navigating life
with greater clarity, resilience, and peace of mind. And that,
my friends, is priceless. What are your biggest takeaways from
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today's episode. Let me know in the comments below. I
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