Episode 11 | Your Relationships Aren’t Failing—You Are (But You Can Fix It)

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Some of us are praying for better relationships while protecting the same beliefs that keep sabotaging them. Let’s talk about it.

What if the real problem in your relationships… is you?

In this raw and revealing episode, Courtney and Erica dive into why so many relationships feel stuck, strained, or broken—and why the answer isn’t “them,” but the beliefs we’ve been carrying since childhood. Most of us are showing up in love based on what we’ve seen, not what we’ve healed. Relationships are often grounded in childhood patterns and unspoken rules we never questioned, while the terms are silently defined by a victim mindset.

But it doesn’t have to stay that way. This conversation unpacks how limiting beliefs and emotional triggers silently sabotage connection—and why true accountability is the secret to making relationships stronger, not more painful. You’ll learn why cycles repeat, why blame never leads to growth, and how taking ownership of your healing can redefine how you love and relate. If you’re ready to outgrow the beliefs that keep love hard, this episode is the mirror you didn’t know you needed.

Key Topics Discussed:

1. How childhood patterns shape your relationships: "We often mimic what we've seen, not what we've evaluated."
2. The hidden danger of limiting beliefs: "Thoughts formed from trauma or programming that feel like truth but block growth."
3. Accountability vs. Blame: "True accountability means owning your impact, not assigning guilt."
4. The cost of one-sided growth: "When only one person is doing the work, resentment builds."

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