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January 8, 2023 2 mins

•Family comes first.
•Blood is thicker than water.
•I’m your mother/Father (which means I’m your superior to always be referenced even when I’m wrong or abusive.).
•You don’t abandon family 

If I were an abuser, wouldn’t it benefit me to get you to believe that I come before everyone or everything else?? Even your safety and well being.

These sayings which are messages have an ability to condition you to believe family is the only source of abuse that should always be tolerated and excused.

The issue with this conditioning is you will tolerate and excuse abuse from others, because most if not all our conditioning begins in the home and is mirrored back to us in our worldly encounters.

This is why a man who has a poor relationship with his mother often times will have a poor relationship with his girlfriend, wife, or women. 

This is why women who have daddy issues often times have relationship issues with men. 

The cycle of abuse ends when you decide it will not be tolerated any longer.

It begins with you. #changethenarrative 
#selfhealingjourney #lettinggoofthepast #familydynamics #dysfunctionalfamily #toxicfamily #abusers #emotionalabuse #emotionaldamage #childhoodtraumarecovery 


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