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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Hey everyone, Jake Carter here and welcome back to Tap
Out of Overthinking. Today, we're diving deep into something that's
been buzzing around lately, positive thinking. It's not just some
fluffy self help mantra, folks, there's actual science behind it
and it can have a seriously profound impact on your
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mental health. Ever, feel like you're stuck in a cycle
of negativity, like every little thing is just throwing you off, Well,
guess what, you're not alone. But the good news is
we can actually rewire our brains to be more positive,
and that's exactly what we're going to explore today. Let's
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get real for a second. We all experience negative thoughts.
It's part of being human. But when those negative thoughts
start to dominate our minds, that's when things can get tricky. Anxiety, stress,
even depression can creep in when we get stuck in
this loop of negativity. But here's the kicker. Science shows
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us that our thoughts directly influence our feelings and behaviors.
So if we want to feel better, we need to
start changing the way we think. Think of your brain
like a muscle, guys, the more you use certain pathways,
the stronger they become so. When you constantly dwell on
negative stuff, those neural connections get super strong. But here's
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the amazing part. You can build new positive pathways too.
By focusing on the good things, practicing gratitude, and challenging
those negative thoughts, you're literally changing your brain chemistry for
the better. Now, I know what you're thinking. Easier said
than done, right, trust me, I get it. It takes
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conscious effort to shift our mindset. But that's where these
five key takeaways come in handy One practice gratitude seriously,
this one is huge. Take a few minutes each day
to think about the things you're grateful for, big or small.
It doesn't matter a warm cup of coffee, a funny
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text from a friend, even just a beautiful sunrise. Focusing
on these positive aspects of your life can have a
ripple effect on your overall well being. Two. Challenge negative thoughts.
Don't just accept those negative thoughts as fact. When that
inner critic starts to chime in, ask yourself, is this
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really true? What evidence do I have to support this thought?
Often we find that our negative thoughts are based on
assumptions or distortions rather than reality. Three. Focus on solutions.
Instead of dwelling on problems, try to shift your energy
towards finding solutions. This doesn't mean you need to have
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all the answers immediately, but even brainstorming possible options can
help reduce feelings of overwhelm and helplessness. Four. Surround yourself
with positivity. The people we spend time with influence our outlook.
Surround yourself with positive, supportive individuals who lift you up
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and encourage your growth. You know that. Saying you are
the average of the five people you spend the most
time with, it's true. Five Practice self compassion. Be kind
to yourself. Guys, everyone makes mistakes, everyone has bad days.
Treat yourself with the same understanding and compassion that you
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would offer a close friend. Remember you're human and it's
okay to not be perfect all the time. Now, let's
bring this whole thing down to earth with a real
world example. Picture this. You're preparing for a big presentation
network Your mind starts racing with thoughts like what if
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I mess up? What if people think I'm incompetent? You
start feeling anxious and stressed. Instead of letting those negative
thoughts take over, try using our five key takeaways gratitude.
Take a moment to appreciate the opportunity to share your ideas.
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Challenge negative thoughts. Ask yourself, is there concrete evidence that
I'll mess up? What's the worst that could happen? Reframe
those thoughts as I've prepared well and have valuable insights
to share. Focus on solutions. Practice your presentation beforehand, visualize success,
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prepare for potential questions positivity. Surround yourself with supportive colleagues
who can offer encouragement, self compassion. Remember that everyone feels nervous, sometimes,
even see and professionals. By applying these strategies, you can
turn those anxious thoughts into confidence and deliver a great presentation. Remember,
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shifting your mindset isn't about becoming a Pollyanna or ignoring
the challenges in life. It's about cultivating a more balanced perspective,
focusing on the good, and equipping yourself with tools to
navigate the inevitable ups and downs with resilience. So go
out there, guys, challenge those negative thoughts, practice some gratitude,
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and watch how much brighter your world becomes. Remember you've
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