Beginners series:10 of swords

Is there a reason any card needs to be a positive or a negative? listen to this episode for the ten of swords in broaden your horizon.

Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:02):
Hey everyone, Well, welcome to Taro Crazy. I'm a Dorothy
and today we're looking at the Ten of Swords and
the tendency to read these cards, any Tarot cards, as
if you're choosing a positive or a negative around them,
rather than looking at them as information and part of

(00:23):
a story. If you're drawing a layout, if you're drawing
a few cards together, reading them as independent from each
other doesn't really make a lot of sense. But it
also leads to really bad readings, and I mean really
bad readings. If you've got the Ten of Swords, say
with the Lovers, you might decide that if you're reading

(00:45):
the cards narrowly, you might decide that that means relationships
going to come to an end. But that doesn't make
sense either. There's finality with the Ten of Swords. There
can be endings, but there can be beginnings as well.
Looking at a particular type of question, it could be
with those two cards with the Lovers being about choice,

(01:08):
decision making, making good choices for the right reasons. It's
a major arcana the development, and that if the Tin
of Swords follows that, you're probably looking at maybe well,
there's a few possibilities, but you could be looking at
an end to end decision, or you're finally going to
make better choices, you understand things better than you did before.

(01:29):
To assume that it means anything so narrow, especially when
the major arcana are involved, which are not narrow and
definitely not circumstantial, probably isn't helping your case if you're
reading for yourself. And one of the bigger problems with
reading for yourself, and especially if you post those on

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social media, is people will talk crep to you. You know,
if you are looking at any social media environment and
you're seeing all of the those bullet points and you're
seeing these beautifully set up paragraphs in her comments, they're
not built for that. That means they are a chat
GPT copy paste, done and dusted, or they're copy pasted

(02:12):
from somebody else's article on the internet too common for words.
As soon as I see bullet points in any comment,
then I just know that's not their work that you're
looking at, and it's not their advice, and it's not
their understanding. They've just nabbed it, grabbed it, and pasted it.
So let's move on to interpret interpretation of the Ten

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of Swords in various situations, the idea that it must
be painful really isn't a great thing. And the Victorian terror,
I've actually got the swords on the wall and a
sum along the dais that she's this woman is laying
on but she's more like a statue and her back
is to the viewer, the viewer being whoever's looking at

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the card. She's turned her back on whatever the problems are.
She's over it. That's a big part of that card.
By the way, I'm just over it. I just want
it to be over, making it a positive card if
it becomes if it's not a query of what do
I need to do? What do I need to think?
What's my best next step? If you drew the ten

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of swords for that, you would be needing to look
along those lines. If it's time to let not so
much let it go, but it's time for it to
be over. Whether it's a behavior, whether it's an attitude,
whether it's yearning for something, whether it's running a line
or a story, it's time for it to be over.
And think about that in any tumbs. If you're not

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enjoying your job, the job being over and gives you
an opportunity to start another job, and that's a good thing, right.
So while leaving a job has its own little challenges,
the chances are pretty good that it's not necessarily the
end of the world, right, the biggest problem in the

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world for anybody when they're changing a job, but that
job's over. You can be a teen of swords drawer
as well. And I think it's important to look at
the word finality. It's just final, it's just done. And
when you get there, sometimes if you're into a relationship
and you're still emotionally charged or trying to connect to it,
or you're you're crying in your beer, or you know

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you're going on and on stalking the other person, it
could be six months or a year, and sometimes even
two years before it's actually over. So reading that into
a car drawer might matter. And if you're reading for yourself,
you will know if you've been doing this. I've had
many clients that have come after they've read and read

(04:45):
and read or been read and told yes, the guy's
coming back, Yes, the girl's coming back, Yes you'll reunite,
which is really just stringing a person along. Ninety nine
point nine percent of the time that's not going to happen.
Ninety nine point nine percent is just a guesstimate on
my part, But it's also a life of experience, not
just terror readings, not just psychic readings, but in life.

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You look around and how many people that have split
up have actually got back together and stayed back together.
I don't mean got back together for a few months
and then broken up again. That's not that uncommon if
a relationship is longer. So this isn't about relationships that
it's understanding the nature of this card. In the first instance,
there might be cards that indicate that they'll touch base again,

(05:29):
that they'll cross paths again. As a reader, I would
read beyond that, and I would say, you know, you
might get another opportunity, but I still see it failing
at some point in the future, and I might give
a period of time. And that's really important to understand
rather than just going, yeah, there's a reunion here. A
reunion isn't an attempt. It is a genuine thing, and
it's rare, as I mean seriously rare for X's to

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get back together so and be happy and long term
and all of that stuff. I'm not talking about the
make and break and make and break and make them
because they're not good relationships anyway, And often the Teen
of Swords isn't necessarily going to be in that unless
you ask what's the best thing to do about that?
And if you drew the Teen of Swords, you'd be saying,
it's time to finalize where we are here, and that

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could be being together, it could be let's commit to
being together. It's very deconstructive to break a relationship, to
threaten a relationship, and to use another person's feelings against them, right,
So it's never going to improve while it's in that mode.
But one person might be quite comfortable with that. They

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might be comfortable with the fights and being single for
a while so they can go and bonk whoever they
want to bonk, but they're single, they're not breaking any rules.
So there are some individuals who do have a disconcerting
ways of getting what they want, and conflict is a
great way for a cheater to cheat. Just so as

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you understand that if you think it's a power play,
it's not the power play you might think it is.
The Teen of Swords brings it to your mind that
you need if you're reading into the future and a
lot of people reading for themselves don't and I don't
get that unless you're doing self development readings. You know
where your life is at right now. So any reading
that involves a future event is divination. It is reading

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into the future, and it will require intuitive response to cards.
It will require to take on information that you might
not like, it may not be aware of. So if
you are asking about the future of something and the
teen of Swords comes up, the chances are that where
you are now is the finality of it. It's finally here,
and if that's together, then you're together for a time.

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In a modern world, fifteen percent of marriage is breaking down.
It's not necessarily guaranteed that it means forever or the
rest of your life. It could mean for a few years,
it could mean for six months, or it could mean
for ten years, depending on where you are at and
how well equipped you are to create relationships. But if
it comes up as an archetype, and any card can

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be archetypal reference, the tenis Swords comes up as an archetype.
It's a person who makes sudden and final decisions. Once
they've made the decision, they're done, and it could take
them a long time to make that decision, but once
it's done, it's done. They don't go back on that.
Or it could be that you're being asked to look
at the fact that when that person finalizes a deal
or they're very swift in finalizing anything, that's it. That's

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where they are as an archetype. That tells you to
take note of the sort of things that they're saying,
the sort of inferences that they're making, and what their
suggestions are for themselves or for you, or for their
job or for their future. It's for example, if a
person that you're interested in says I'm going overseas and

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I'm going to do that for a year, and you
want to know, are they really going to do that?
And you get this, it's like, yeah, they're going to
do that because the tenis swords is that finality. If
you're asking about what they're going to do, not what
they're thinking, not what they're feeling, very unreliable readings, they
have no merit because they could change their mind, don't
you know in a week's time. When you ask about
what somebody's going to do, what a future looks like,

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then the parameters get a lot less in fact that
was something else too. Very recently, a person had said
to a woman asking a question on read it now,
hang on a minute, that's right. She had asked about
can you change your future? And of course the answer

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is yes, you can. But and I've always got a
big butt that sounds different to what it's meant to
sound like. Sorry about that, I don't have a big butt.
One of the fun things about choice and free will,
which you here trotted out all the time, is it
isn't really true. Can you yes? Or will you probably not?

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That's as simple as I can put it. Even if
a person heres a negative or a short term view,
amount of times I have read no future in a
particular relationship, and I don't do relationship prognosis at the
beginning unless it's just going nowhere and somebody's living in
la la land, or it's a crush and it's never
going to go anywhere, or they're at the other end
and it's coming down. But if it's a flush and

(10:14):
everybody's happy, why ask about it? What are you looking for? Seriously,
be honest in your attempt to create something with somebody,
rather than trying to experience and explore your own insecurities
and put that on another person. Just a really good
thing to take note of. If you're in good space
with a person, enjoy it. That's it. Just enjoy it,

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don't read it, don't ask about it, just enjoy it.
If you're worried that you're going to give more than
you should to somebody because they're not going to give
you something back, don't go there. Don't give them anything
you wouldn't give them knowing you're getting nothing back. Sex
is not a tradable commodity, that's it. All it is
is people being free. That's what contraceptive is all about,
isn't that right? You know they were created law before

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the average person here was born, like they were created
before I was even using in my teenage years. So
understand that they've been around for a really long time.
When they serve a single purpose, and that is so
people can interact sexually and the girl doesn't get pregnant.
That's it. So if you don't trust a person and

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yet you're willing to have intimacies with them, you may
need to think about what your commitment is. We're still
on the teen of swords here. What is my commitment
to a person I don't know very well, and what
can I expect from that. I'm not trading anything if
they can get it, and they don't have to show

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that they trustworthy, they don't have to show that they're
the right kind of person for me. You're not wasting
any time. But you can use the Teen of Swords
if you're asking about your own actions and behaviors and
having a better life. If the Teen of Swords comes up,
it's pretty much just saying, we'll just stop. Stop what
you're doing there, don't do that anymore, and then you
can start on a new path. Okay, so if you

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get the Tin of Swords in your ass. And why
do I, for example, always seem to meet people that
don't want to get into a relationship with me? Another
very recent question, why do these guys sort of get
what they want from me and then leave and it's
like all of these guys was how she wrote it.
My response is, well, why aren't you inspiring them to stay?

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What are you doing so early that you are not
checking in with yourself and checking in with them that
they are looking for a relationship, not just a bonk,
so a final ending. Even if I'm not using the cards.
That's essentially the card that would be drawn in that situation.
Stop that behavior, make it final, and decide to do

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something different. It can be used in the air of
quitting smoking, stopping drinking, stopping gambling, making a final making
a final agreement with yourself to alter dietary habits, or
get into exercise. It can lead. It can explain an
end to a period of time that might have been bothersome,

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but it could also be the end of a period
of time that is enjoyable. It can be either or
it's not good. It's not bad. If you've been struggling
with something, then that period of time coming to an
end is a blessing. Right. So if you've been having
a really good time, that really good time coming to
an end doesn't necessarily mean the relationship ends. It doesn't

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really mean necessarily mean that the job ins. It could
mean that things just get worse for a time. It
could get harder for a time. There might be more
demand or more pressure or other things going on that
take away that sort of sunshiny feeling. Finally you've come
down to earth. Right, So keep thinking of that word
final and not just endings, and think of how final

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can be a positive thing. If you're not enjoying a
part of your life, if somebody's arresting you, if they're
bullying you, if things aren't going too well with a boss,
that could come to an end. Their problem could come
to an end. A high period of pressure at work
could come to an end. We could finally get to
a point where things calm down and settle in. The

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Tin of Swords is actually a highly productive card. And
when we look at all of the tens, the tens
tend to be the idea that if you get, say
the ten of Pentacles, it means everything's happy. Families, Oh no,
it doesn't. So again there's that tendency to look at
something because of the way the card's depicted and think
it's all sunshine and roses with this card, and it's

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all stabby stabby with that card, when really, if you
wanted to look at the tin of Pentacoles, you would
be looking at that everything's sort of complete, whether you're
happy or not. That's another story. You could have the
house of the family, the home. You could see the
teen and it say, well, I've got what I wanted.
Now am I enjoying it? It could be highly pressured

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as in the teen of Once, I've got what I wanted,
but now I've got all these obligations to fulfill. I've
got my family around me with the teen of ones,
I've got married, and I've built a home, and I've
got kids, and now I've got all of the responsibilities
that go with that. So we can find that we
are happy sort of, and then find that there are

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new problems, new pressures, because that's what life's like. It's
never a full stop anywhere, is it. You have the
baby and the next minute it's crying, and you've got
to wake up every four hours, and then every two
hours you might get postpartum depression. I mean, there's all
manner of things put stress on a relationship. So there's
a whole gamut of emotions and thoughts and feelings that

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we go through in every circumstance, whether it's a positive
circumstance or not, in our lives. And so when we
come back to that chain of swords and think, okay,
if I was just thinking of the tein of swords,
if I sought back to something that I didn't really enjoy,
and what happened when it ended? A final ending? Can
be somebody finally relinquishing life after a very long time

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of illness, and a lot of people feel relieved about that,
and then they feel guilty because they feel relieved that
the other person isn't suffering. The confusion comes with the
thought or the idea that I might have been wishing
for them to die, but they weren't wishing for them
to die. They were just wishing for an end to
the suffering, to the pain, to their own emotional distress,

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not just the other persons. The whole idea of that
is a Teen of Swords idea. A person who is
depressed that's on medication for a long period of time
often will come to a person like me because I
do energy therapy, and they're looking for when will this
all end? Not death, but when will this all end?
When will the procedures stop? When will I get better

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at any point in the future. The Teen of Swords
will deal with that kind of stuff as well. But
there's an end to this cycle, for example, and some
people live there life in cycles. I've got clients who
have relationships that last about two years, spend half of
that time with that relationship being unhappy and fraught with

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arguments and distressful, and then they spend a couple of
years on their own and they're fine, and then they
do it all again. And so that's the cycle. A
couple of years with somebody, and that couple of years
it turns bad because they haven't developed an ideology or
a way to have a good relationship. They're not equipped
to have a good relationship, or maybe they just didn't

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really want one. They're like the idea of one when
they haven't got one, and then when they have got one,
they spend a few bit of time trying to get
out of it because it's not what they want. Now
that will be tuned against the person. So we have
then we've got a cycle of ending. So when we're
talking about cycles, I could see the chain of swords
as we have a cycle of ending. So we go

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around here and we end up back where we started,
and then we go around the next trap we end
up back where we started. So if you've got a
two year on cycle and in a two year off cycle,
it's a four year cycle, right, So a four year
cycle and four year cycle, you go through three cycles
in twelve years. When you start looking at that, it
becomes I'd really like to end the cycle, and I

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get as set a lot. How do I end the
cycles that I'm in, whether it's relationships, whether it's career,
whether it's not being able to settle, not being able
to commit, all sorts of things, And so those are
all in the realm of the ten of swords. When
somebody wants to end something, when they want to finalize something,
you might want to finalize a negotiation. The ten of
Swords doesn't mean a negotiation. It isn't going to go well.

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But again, if you're looking at a layout and a spread,
other cards will inform so we're not talking about clarifying cards,
which is really I get sick of seeing that, to
be honest. You'll see a person or lay out three
cards and then lay out another three quote unquote clarifying
cards and they can't read the first three, and so
they're just adding to the mix and it means nothing.

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But if you drew a single card, say with a
specific query, you don't need a clarifying card. If you
don't understand that card, then another card isn't going to
make that happen. So if you drew it as a
general card or it was a part of a larger
reading that was an aspect of your life. If you go,
I'm asking about love, then you know what area it's

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going to be in because it clarified pretty much does
that where's the influence in which part of my life?
Or how is that going to impact me? So a
clarifying card has a question applied to it. You could
see this ten of swords and then think, okay, I
want to clarify that. You shuffle the deck and you
only ever do one card. I've never, ever until recently,

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seen people drawing two or three clarifying cards or just
at the end. I don't get this, so I thought
I drew a clarifier. None of that is good practice,
and it's just going to confuse you if you're learning,
but worse, if you're reading for yourself. You're just laying
out cards and cards and cards. I recently saw somebody
talking about, oh, you could lay up to fifteen cards. No,
you're just being indecisive. Now. The more cards you lay out,

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the more random or likely take your perck. Either way
the combinations are going to be is likely if you've
got a habit of drawing the same cards again and again,
you're more likely to pick up those cards. With a
large draw there's no reason to have more than ten cards,
except if you're doing a twelve month like a clock,
where you have one card for each month, and there's

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no value in those draws if you don't keep a journal,
because you're going to get two months down the track
and you're not going to remember what they are, so
it's not helping you. The idea that you are doing
a practice reading. If you can't get the feedback, you
can never know if you were right. A book meaning
isn't going to make you right. Certainly, a chat meeting.

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I've seen a few of the chat shevts. Honestly, they
just make me roll my eyes. And now is a
Duck Duck Go and a couple of the other search engines.
They are using paid websites, so be aware of that
money is going to come into it, right, that's how
it always goes. So if you ask a tero question
about a card, they will show you the sites that

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they're using to scrape the information of because those sites
have copyright and they're going to get paid for that usage.
So you don't have to go to their site anymore.
You just have to use a search engine and it
will feed you what it wants to feed you. So
you haven't got the broadness of scope. You haven't got
the broadness of choice. And probably the worst thing about
the Internet in the last five years is reducing your choice.

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You're reducing it all the time, funneling you into particular
spaces that are paying the most. So be aware of that.
But they're not good answers because you can't have a
meaning for a card. So if you are drawing that
card and a variety of different circumstances, you can't read
that same meaning for every circumstance and every part of
your life or every time of your life over a

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period of time. And so if you've got any draw
that's over a period of time, you are going to
want to keep that draw so you can go and
look at it, because that's the only way you are
going to learn and get the feedback to know if
your interpretation was appropriate and correct and where it wasn't.
By the way, so a person jumping in and saying, look,

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I've drawn the chain of Swords, I think it means this,
and they're really just rounding out or personalizing a card
meaning the chances are most of the time I'm looking
at that and thinking it doesn't mean that I might
just scroll straight on past it, because I can't be
bothered these days. But at the same time, if somebody's
got a serious and genuine query and they get a
lot of junkie feedback, then I might pop in. It

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happened recently where a girl had asked about what her
therapist and a her boyfriend, no doubt significant other, what
the therapist told this person about her, and she had
some cards there. One was the teen of Swords and
the cards there were three cards, and all of these
people jumped in and said, well that the therapist has told

(23:06):
them to get distance from you. The therapist is none
of this is true. It's just making it up. There's
no way they could know that from tarort cards one two.
She shouldn't even ask. It's his privacy, it's his business.
But they mightn't even talk about her. Why would she
assume that they do. If a person seeing a therapist
is seeing them for their own betterment or because they've

(23:27):
been traumatized, they've got a problem that they want to resolve,
they may discuss a partnership. At some point of it's problematic,
or they may even mentioned that they've got one, but
it's not necessarily the charge. My problem was all of
these people were giving really, really bad and unethical responses
to that, and most of them were just straight out

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of the check GBT or straight out of a search
engine meaning, or straight out of a book meaning. And
it's just like shaking my head stuff. Firstly, the questions bad,
but secondly there is just no way that you could
confirm it. Now. I think you need to understand that
when you say I'm just drawing the cards to get
to know the cards, you're not really when you look

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at the cards and you're identifying, when you're looking at
the image, when you're getting a sense for yourself, you
can read them in your own way, with your own style.
There's no two ways about that. But the picture is
your grounding force and what it makes you feel. It
will always make you feel, But as soon as you
decide that feeling is negative, then it will always be
that you've now narrowed the card down so it can't

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be read in any other way. And as soon as
you move past that mentality, as soon as you move
past the idea that a card has a meaning. It
doesn't have a meaning, it has a directive. A directive
means it's pointing you in a direction. But you can
take that in a number of different ways, depending on
your situation, the type of query. I could draw the

(24:56):
Ten of Swords five times over a day with different
readings and read it slightly differently, or read nuance until
it or read it as a start of something, or
read it as the end of a cycle, depending on
where I am. You know, one of the most interesting
things about doing psychic fares and doing readings in general,
and you could do thirteen or fourteen a day. More

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fifteen is nobody asks a question. That's a social media thing,
for sure. Nobody asks a question. In fact, when I
say to somebody, we've got a question you'd like to ask,
the most you're going to get usually, and this is
nineteen nineties I started full time. The most you're going
to get if you're going to get an answer to

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that is an area of life. Well, I'd really interested
in my career. And then I'll say, well, look, I'll
do a general draw this is how I do it.
I'll do a general drawer, but I'll pay particular attention
to your career sector as I'm looking at the cars,
because they get cross reference. So we don't go this
is your career and this is the layout. You can
do that. It's not a bad but I don't do that.

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I cross reference the whole reading looking at the cards.
Where do they where do the pairings come, and where
do the commonalities come in. I can read this through
from here to there from like a story, or I
can read it, I can go back, and then I
can look and think, you know, this is you, This
is the core of who you are in the context
of this, because you're the common denominator in all aspects

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of your life. Don't you think you know your career
isn't a part of your life that's completely separate from
your personal life. You might interact between the two, but
most people do. But even if you don't, you're the
same person moving between them all, and there will be
traits that you have aspects of your personality that are
present in them all in some way, shape or form.

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So the idea that I'm this person in a relationship
and I'm this person at home is only partially true
because the different challenges that challenge parts of your personality.
The parts of your character and development not necessarily the
same at each part of your life, but you are.
And so if you have jealousies, for example, in your

(27:07):
personal life. You have jealousies in general. We know this,
there's not a question about that. But you may admit
it in your personal life or it's more challenged in
your personal life, so you get to see the results
of that more significantly in that part of your life.
But if you're competitive with people, then you are going
to be jealous of their achievements. It's that simple. I

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want to be better than you, is what competitiveness is, right,
I want to be It's not I want to be
as good as you or I want to learn from you.
A lot of competitiveness is the ten of swords card
in play, So it becomes a matter of it decides
where things cycle around and around and around. If you
have the ten of swords in a position at the foundation,

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for example, if you're doing a Celtic Cross still the
most popular spread in the world, still I see it
with all experienced readers using that. I use a nine
card progressive and I also use nine card rolling spread.
So if a person and I'll tell you what the
nine card rolling spread. These are the choices I offer

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to clients, whether they're online or whether they're in person
at a fear or wherever at the office. When they
come to ask, I'll ask them, you know, would you
like a progressive spread and I'll explain what it is?
Or would you like a rolling spread where you get
to ask three questions but they come together and then

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I bring it all together, And almost always I'll choose
the progressive spread where they don't have to ask the questions.
So when you're looking at reading for yourself, you narrow
down options by the question you ask. So if you say,
is this something I meant to look out for, you've
already made it a negative reading impact. That's it. You

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can't take that. If you've got to watch out for something,
it means it's a warning. It's something you've got to
be aware of or things could go wrong. And that's
not necessarily the way to go. But if you drew
the teen of Swords for that, your first thought is
going to be, oh no, this is going to be terrible.
You're going to wander around with that emotional state for
a while, and you may even cause it, or you

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may see something and think, oh, that's it, when it's
got nothing to do with it at all. So when
you ask your questions and you stack them when they're
a biased question and a positive or a negative, you
can't really take that information. That ten of Swords could
simply be you're going to miss your bus by the way,
you know, tin of swords. You get all anxious about that.

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But the teen isn't the anxious card. That's your nine.
Your nine of swords isn't about bad happenings. It's about anxiety.
And so when you get to the ten of Swords,
it's like, well that's over. If you get the nine
and the teen together, it's like, thank goodness, I don't
have to feel anxious anymore because they sacked me already.
It's done. And you might have been anxious for months
because you're late all the time, keep missing your bus.

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So you might be that for the first time in ages,
you get there early and you realize, actually, I feel
much better being here early, knowing I'm not going to
miss bodbus, and not able to rush down and watch
the bus sail off into the distance. The ten of
Swords can be finalizing that behavior in favor of something better.
This is all the potential, or part of the potential

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of that tent. There's way more when you start putting
it into a story with other cards, then you start
to see where this ten is going to take care.
It's a lot more difficult when you draw a single card.
Daily draws have wasted time. You don't learn from them.
You're just making it up as you go along. And
I see this on Reddit and le Norman. They've got

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this little thing at the top because I repeatedly put
in there that daily draws are a waste of time,
so they've put in there. I like to have impact
that the moderators are put in there that actually, daily
draws are the best way to learn your cards. No,
they're not, because the moderators come in and don't understand
their cards and post for interpretations. Anyway, why are they
doing that If they understand their cards, they're not in

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a position to teach. They are in a position to moderate.
So think about that as well. Moderators are not necessarily
experienced operators, experienced card readers. They have often never sat
in front of a client who's paid them money, good money,
and sat right in front of them and then sat
in front of fifteen and one day doing those readings

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and just think about that. If you've got a person
and it's not just me, you can check out dreada
Marshall and Canada at Dreadamarshall dot com, Dorothyholder dot com.
You can check in. You can have live readings online
and see what the process is like and then you
can take that into yourself, or you can check in
on ter about bites. One of the things that is

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for sure is a retrospective reading. That's where I would
read into the past. That works for a reader. It
doesn't work when you're reading for yourself and you're thinking
what went wrong because you know what went wrong on
your end of it, and you will edit and self
edit that to make yourself either a victim. That's not
me being rude, that's what we do. Or you will

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edit it to make the other person seem like not
so nice, or you will edit it to ignore what
part you had to play in it, even if you
are kind of honest about how it went down. The
question becomes what the value is in reading into the
past as a reader? Then I would use that information
to inform you of something you don't need to be
doing in the future. That's the only purpose of it.

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If I understand this is the thing that I was
doing there, and I want to have something more successful
in the future, then it's something I don't need to
be doing in the future. That could be for work
being laid all the time. It could be being slow,
it could be being snarky when asked to do stuff
instead of helpful. All of these things are real and
proper and still part of the tin of swords, by

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the way, you know, so we could say right now,
I don't need to be doing that behavior anymore. I'm
going to stop now. And if you are using the
normal on the size is in that same bracket. The
size is sudden, it's cutting, and it can be damaged,
but it can also be the end, a swift end
to a long standing problem. I'm Dorothy. This is Taro

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Crazy Beginner series. Tarry up now.