June 5, 2025 • 13 mins
In this laugh-out-loud, thought-provoking episode of The Bama Brown Experience, Bama and his co-host, the ever-insightful Big Puma, take listeners on a whirlwind tour of absurd headlines, cultural commentary, and surprisingly heartfelt relationship wisdom.
From a kid bringing a live WWII grenade to show-and-tell in England, to a French woman caught smuggling $57 million worth of ketamine, to Elon Musk allegedly trying to “buy Memphis” after locals push back on his supercomputer’s pollution—this episode is packed with jaw-dropping stories and razor-sharp banter.
But it’s not all wild news and witty takes. The duo dives deep into five common relationship myths, debunking them with honesty, humor, and personal experience. Big Puma drops a gem that might just change how you view self-respect in relationships: “No one’s attracted to a slob. If you don’t respect yourself, why would they?”
Whether you're here for the bonehead criminals, the Silicon Valley satire, or the surprisingly solid relationship advice, this episode delivers. Memorable Moments:
From a kid bringing a live WWII grenade to show-and-tell in England, to a French woman caught smuggling $57 million worth of ketamine, to Elon Musk allegedly trying to “buy Memphis” after locals push back on his supercomputer’s pollution—this episode is packed with jaw-dropping stories and razor-sharp banter.
But it’s not all wild news and witty takes. The duo dives deep into five common relationship myths, debunking them with honesty, humor, and personal experience. Big Puma drops a gem that might just change how you view self-respect in relationships: “No one’s attracted to a slob. If you don’t respect yourself, why would they?”
Whether you're here for the bonehead criminals, the Silicon Valley satire, or the surprisingly solid relationship advice, this episode delivers. Memorable Moments:
- The $200 dinner that turned into a $100K lawsuit.
- A grenade that shut down a school.
- Elon Musk’s Memphis meltdown.
- The myth-busting list that might just save your next relationship.
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Speaker 1 (00:03):
Hey, folks, Bama Brown here on the Bama Brown Experience.
The podcasts through the iHeart podcast Network, over three hundred
thousand podcasts, Thank you for choosing us. We've got over
one hundred to have at least a million listeners. We
got some very successful podcasts in our company. One of
the most successful, the sports podcast, is my co host
(00:24):
and partner from San Antonio, The Big Puma, the Big Cat. Hey, buddy,
how are you.
Speaker 2 (00:29):
I'm doing well.
Speaker 3 (00:30):
I'm not quite doing as well as the million download
club as well as they're doing, but we're building.
Speaker 2 (00:38):
We're getting there.
Speaker 1 (00:40):
There's a huge amount of I know the podcast guy
with our company, and he was telling me there's a
huge majority of our stuff is murder type deals, you know,
real murders, not made up leads. Leads. Yeah, that did exactly.
So I don't know anybody, Thank god, I owe anything
about murder or anything.
Speaker 3 (00:59):
If you get tired of hearing about husbands killing their
wives and vice versa, yeah you need a little sports fix.
You can always just search for the Sports Cave with
Biggest Puma.
Speaker 1 (01:10):
Absolutely, And of course the show we do here is
nothing basilly.
Speaker 3 (01:13):
Uh.
Speaker 1 (01:13):
I always like to point out criminals and have a
great time with that. I do the Boneheads, but I'm
gonna start doing the Boneheads here on the podcast, So
if you like the Boneheads. Uh, Peter and Ann McGirr.
They were at the Horse and Jockey restaurant. I don't
know the town where this is, but it sounds like
it's a ritzy deal. Anyway, they walked out on their
(01:33):
two hundred dollars dinner and they got they got their
bill got put on social media from the restaurant, the
Horse and Jockey restaurant. Uh. They came back with, yeah,
we paid it and we have the receipt and they
sued the Horse and Jockey restaurant for slander. Oh and
they won one hundred off than dollars on that lawsuit. Yeah.
(02:01):
I mean it was like they said, you know, they
went on there trying to embarrass them, but hey, you
want to check make sure. My other favorite story from
the week was from England, Derbyshire, England. They had show
and tell their little kid, I want to say his
name was Jacob. Jacob showed up. I'm not sure how
old he is. Little kid, Well, they're having show and tell,
so you know, he showed up with a World War
(02:22):
two grenade. The whole the whole school and neighborhood had
to be evacuated. Nobody knew how strong it was, if
it was real or not. And the bombs card came
and they detonated it. It was still a live grenade. Now, Lord,
he kicked ass and showing Dell. I mean he was
(02:42):
like number one in showing Dell.
Speaker 2 (02:44):
But yeah, you're not eating that.
Speaker 1 (02:46):
Yeah, you're messing with that. Uh, since it's Thursday, I'll
do one more. This was in Tokyo. Do you know
what catamine?
Speaker 2 (02:53):
Uh?
Speaker 1 (02:54):
The catamine drug.
Speaker 3 (02:56):
Is okay for for purpose of protecting my own habits.
Speaker 2 (03:03):
And I've heard of it. I'm familiar. It's I believe
it's some kind of.
Speaker 1 (03:08):
I don't have a subpoena. We're not.
Speaker 2 (03:13):
You know. It's similar to a bit of you know,
molly or ecstasy.
Speaker 1 (03:18):
He thinks thou defendst too much or something.
Speaker 3 (03:22):
You know, it's really big with all of these tech
guys like Elon, all of the venture capital, all the
tech silicon guys.
Speaker 2 (03:32):
They're real big on ketamine.
Speaker 1 (03:33):
Well, it's illegal to sell and distribute apparently, I don't
know what it does. But a woman in France who's
twenty one years old. She was hauling eighty eight pounds
of it in her suitcase. Yeah, that's a heavy suitcase
to begin with.
Speaker 2 (03:47):
Yeah, I did get you flagged to begin with.
Speaker 1 (03:51):
The freaking dog just fell over dead. It was so
much in this suitcase. It was value street value. Ready
it is fifty seven million dollars is what this eighty
eight pounds of ketamine. Ketamine is? And if you have ketamine,
go ahead and send it to Bamma Brown. Yeah, twenty
hard lane. I'll get it tested.
Speaker 3 (04:11):
For you, show show research purpose exactly.
Speaker 1 (04:16):
But fifty seven million dollars of you know, you were
talking about Elon. Elon's in big trouble in Memphis. He
has a well Boxtown, Tennessee. If you've ever been to Memphis, Well,
Memphis is lost. There's like one neighborhood left. You don't
want to go to Memphis. Uh.
Speaker 3 (04:35):
But they still got the they still got the best
pro shop in the pyramid at least.
Speaker 1 (04:39):
Yeah. And then I mean you can go, you know,
FedEx's there to airport, but I wouldn't venture much past.
I wouldn't get out of the airport grounds. If you want,
you want to get your ass kick, that's a good
place to do it. Elvis's you better take an armored
car if you're going to go to see Graceland anyway,
and Elon said, you know this place is shithold. I'm
gonna put my big super puter here. Nobody's gonna complain. Well,
(05:02):
it's smogging up the sky so bad. He uses so
much energy for a supercomputer that they're complaining about Elon
doing that, and they're so they're wanting him to move it,
and he goes, I'm not moving this. I'm Elon Musk.
I'll buy Memphis and move y'all. It'd be cheaper, you know.
Speaker 2 (05:19):
Yeah, that was my next question.
Speaker 3 (05:20):
I mean, what outside of you're not just going to
be able to demand him do that. I mean I
think it would take some form of local legislation or
something of the sort. And then it's just I get
fought in the court system and it.
Speaker 1 (05:38):
And you know it wasn't built there without Elon greasing
everybody in town. You know, it would say anything. So
they're they're not. That's going nowhere. And by the way,
you are nothing. You have no pull whatsoever. You're you
live in Memphis and next to the supercomputer so yeah,
I guess what, you don't have any money, you're gonna
probably die from smelling at smoke all your life.
Speaker 3 (05:59):
That we've seen something similar to this in rural Texas lately,
with all of these uh you know bitcoin uh operations
that are popping up in small rural Texas towns and
then all the residents complaining of headaches.
Speaker 2 (06:16):
And uh you know what it was.
Speaker 3 (06:19):
Uh what's it called when you're when you've got the
ringing in your ears constantly. Yeah, So it feels like
there's this is only going to get worse as the
war is start popping up.
Speaker 2 (06:32):
So absolutely to do something is now.
Speaker 1 (06:35):
But they're going to put them in towns in cities
where there's nothing there that anybody's going to complain about.
Speaker 2 (06:41):
You know.
Speaker 3 (06:43):
It's I mean, it's no different from the reason every
industrial plant in a major city is in the park
town that used to be redlined for minorities to right.
I mean, it's it's a prime example of that.
Speaker 2 (06:56):
You know, San Antonio the same way here.
Speaker 3 (06:59):
I mean I live on the east side, the predominantly
redlined part of the city here, and it's all I've
got multiple metal shops on my street here, right, next
to residential houses. And this is randomly, you know, when
liberals throw out a lot of you know, university terms
to describe something very simple. This is like when they
(07:19):
say it's environmental racism, where it's like, Okay, I get
what you're saying, but instead of coming up with some
trendy term for you to talk above everybody else, just say, literally,
there's a reason all of the industrial parts of town
are built in the historic poverty stricken parts of town,
(07:40):
or the parts of town where people don't have the
power or the ability to stand up for themselves and
do anything about it.
Speaker 1 (07:46):
They've only been doing that two hundred and fifty years,
you know, sinceactly country started. I don't know about that anyway.
I was looking at some of the things that I
thought this was interesting. Relationship myths. If you're a single person,
you're a younger person, and you you've heard these myths
and it's not they're not always true. And I think
(08:08):
this is interesting. And I don't know why I've got
five here. I always end up with just five of
the stuff. Uh. A lot of people say when someone
breaks up they'll end up back with their ex. That
happens sometimes, but it's almost always a temporary thing. I've
known a lot of people that have divorced, but they
ended up giving a try to their ex. You know,
(08:29):
they go and see a then they realize why they left.
You know.
Speaker 3 (08:32):
It's just like that's a comfort thing. Like immediately you
just got out of it, you just broke up. Now
I'm looking for something comfortable to retreat back to. And
then you go and you're like, oh god, no, this
is awful. This is worse than what I just broke
up with.
Speaker 2 (08:46):
What the hell am I doing?
Speaker 1 (08:48):
And that was number four. It was like, you're going
to settle for someone, just the first one that comes
along because you're lonely, and that's not necessarily the truth.
You may you may never marry again. And uh and
because you find some you find life pretty nice, or
you find a better person, you know, but that's a myth.
(09:08):
You don't always end up with someone less than what
you had. Number three, they are gonna hold you back,
you know, if you're a professional and you get somebody
that's not they're gonna hold you back in your career.
That's not true at all, you know, at all.
Speaker 2 (09:22):
So you should have your own legs to stand on
at all times.
Speaker 1 (09:26):
Absolutely, And we're talking to women more than we are
men here for sure, Ladies you need to have where
you don't need a man. And that I've told my
daughter that from day one. Let's see I get a little.
Speaker 2 (09:40):
More than that. Mrs Degree.
Speaker 1 (09:42):
Yeah, yeah, that you'll have to give up friends if
you get in a relationship you do not that's a
big one. You don't have to give up your friends.
If you're in the right relationship, you can go do
stuff with your friends. And your wife's not gonna her
husband's not gonna be jealous. He may want or she
may want the alone time themselves, you know, think about that.
Speaker 3 (10:02):
I think a lot of people underestimate is you know,
like I've got a buddy who I'd love him to death.
He's my high school buddy, but he still is well
I don't I don't know. I got to talk to
my wife about that, and it's like, you do you
not think that your wife might also appreciate some time
away from.
Speaker 2 (10:22):
Right that such such a foreign concept to him. It's like,
oh no, I'm so great. There's no way she would
want time away from me.
Speaker 1 (10:31):
Probably wouldn't mind it, you know, a little bit, you know, anyway,
give it a try, but honestly be honest with him.
And then the final one, number one, not everybody cheats,
So just because you know yours did, you're gonna be
always got a little bit guarded always, but not everyone does.
(10:52):
In fact, it's not that common. You know. Most people
get in a relationship, they're happy with that relationship. They're
not looking for or anything, you know. And but I
will point this out because I said this on the
air for a year and I think this is the
smartest thing I have ever said in my life. You
take care of business at home. Business will take care
(11:12):
of you. So you you just you from both sides.
That way, you can just call in and go, ah,
you're sexes. No, you do. You take care of business
at home, and you will not be losing that person
to someone else.
Speaker 3 (11:27):
Look, this is where I've never I don't like, I've
never one time thought of myself as some kind of
relationship grand master or anything. But every time we do
one of these lists, I walk away just thinking like,
how how is this not obvious to most people to
(11:49):
begin with? No, wonder, relationships are so difficult for you because.
Speaker 2 (11:55):
You can't you can't see the obvious parts of them.
Speaker 3 (12:01):
It really should be a lot easier than you're making
it most of the time. If if you think that's
probably a good sign to you.
Speaker 1 (12:11):
Know, let me say this because I went through this
before at first. If you're I'm just gonna say it
because this is was me. If you let yourself go,
if you get fat, whatever the reason, you know, and
you don't take care of yourself, there's nothing more insulting
to your partner. Not that you're not attractive, they're attracted
to you for so many reasons, but there's nothing more
(12:35):
insulting to them that you don't care enough about them
or you're to take care of yourself. And I'm talking
about just do some kind of exercise, e right, do
do the thing. Not everything, but i mean just it
says to them that you don't care, and then that's
when they start going, Okay, well they don't care, then
I'm gonna find somebody who does. Or same with the women.
(12:56):
You know. That's another one goes both ways. My first one,
I can't care, got overweight, you know, and then I
went through that with Jamie and my second one, I
got overweight, but I lost it because I cared him
I wanted to keep her, you know.
Speaker 3 (13:09):
So, Yeah, it feels like the again, the things that
should be filed under common sense. No one's attracted to
a slob exactly affecting yourself. Why would they respect you
to begin?
Speaker 1 (13:23):
Well, you nailed it right there, buddy. The big advice,
the great advice coming from Puma. That's almost better to
take care of business yourself. So you did it. You
said it right there. We'll end on that. Thank you
for listening to the Pama Brown experience with the Big Puma,
the expert on relationships
Hey, folks, Bama Brown here on the Bama Brown Experience.
The podcasts through the iHeart podcast Network, over three hundred
thousand podcasts, Thank you for choosing us. We've got over
one hundred to have at least a million listeners. We
got some very successful podcasts in our company. One of
the most successful, the sports podcast, is my co host
(00:24):
and partner from San Antonio, The Big Puma, the Big Cat. Hey, buddy,
how are you.
Speaker 2 (00:29):
I'm doing well.
Speaker 3 (00:30):
I'm not quite doing as well as the million download
club as well as they're doing, but we're building.
Speaker 2 (00:38):
We're getting there.
Speaker 1 (00:40):
There's a huge amount of I know the podcast guy
with our company, and he was telling me there's a
huge majority of our stuff is murder type deals, you know,
real murders, not made up leads. Leads. Yeah, that did exactly.
So I don't know anybody, Thank god, I owe anything
about murder or anything.
Speaker 3 (00:59):
If you get tired of hearing about husbands killing their
wives and vice versa, yeah you need a little sports fix.
You can always just search for the Sports Cave with
Biggest Puma.
Speaker 1 (01:10):
Absolutely, And of course the show we do here is
nothing basilly.
Speaker 3 (01:13):
Uh.
Speaker 1 (01:13):
I always like to point out criminals and have a
great time with that. I do the Boneheads, but I'm
gonna start doing the Boneheads here on the podcast, So
if you like the Boneheads. Uh, Peter and Ann McGirr.
They were at the Horse and Jockey restaurant. I don't
know the town where this is, but it sounds like
it's a ritzy deal. Anyway, they walked out on their
(01:33):
two hundred dollars dinner and they got they got their
bill got put on social media from the restaurant, the
Horse and Jockey restaurant. Uh. They came back with, yeah,
we paid it and we have the receipt and they
sued the Horse and Jockey restaurant for slander. Oh and
they won one hundred off than dollars on that lawsuit. Yeah.
(02:01):
I mean it was like they said, you know, they
went on there trying to embarrass them, but hey, you
want to check make sure. My other favorite story from
the week was from England, Derbyshire, England. They had show
and tell their little kid, I want to say his
name was Jacob. Jacob showed up. I'm not sure how
old he is. Little kid, Well, they're having show and tell,
so you know, he showed up with a World War
(02:22):
two grenade. The whole the whole school and neighborhood had
to be evacuated. Nobody knew how strong it was, if
it was real or not. And the bombs card came
and they detonated it. It was still a live grenade. Now, Lord,
he kicked ass and showing Dell. I mean he was
(02:42):
like number one in showing Dell.
Speaker 2 (02:44):
But yeah, you're not eating that.
Speaker 1 (02:46):
Yeah, you're messing with that. Uh, since it's Thursday, I'll
do one more. This was in Tokyo. Do you know
what catamine?
Speaker 2 (02:53):
Uh?
Speaker 1 (02:54):
The catamine drug.
Speaker 3 (02:56):
Is okay for for purpose of protecting my own habits.
Speaker 2 (03:03):
And I've heard of it. I'm familiar. It's I believe
it's some kind of.
Speaker 1 (03:08):
I don't have a subpoena. We're not.
Speaker 2 (03:13):
You know. It's similar to a bit of you know,
molly or ecstasy.
Speaker 1 (03:18):
He thinks thou defendst too much or something.
Speaker 3 (03:22):
You know, it's really big with all of these tech
guys like Elon, all of the venture capital, all the
tech silicon guys.
Speaker 2 (03:32):
They're real big on ketamine.
Speaker 1 (03:33):
Well, it's illegal to sell and distribute apparently, I don't
know what it does. But a woman in France who's
twenty one years old. She was hauling eighty eight pounds
of it in her suitcase. Yeah, that's a heavy suitcase
to begin with.
Speaker 2 (03:47):
Yeah, I did get you flagged to begin with.
Speaker 1 (03:51):
The freaking dog just fell over dead. It was so
much in this suitcase. It was value street value. Ready
it is fifty seven million dollars is what this eighty
eight pounds of ketamine. Ketamine is? And if you have ketamine,
go ahead and send it to Bamma Brown. Yeah, twenty
hard lane. I'll get it tested.
Speaker 3 (04:11):
For you, show show research purpose exactly.
Speaker 1 (04:16):
But fifty seven million dollars of you know, you were
talking about Elon. Elon's in big trouble in Memphis. He
has a well Boxtown, Tennessee. If you've ever been to Memphis, Well,
Memphis is lost. There's like one neighborhood left. You don't
want to go to Memphis. Uh.
Speaker 3 (04:35):
But they still got the they still got the best
pro shop in the pyramid at least.
Speaker 1 (04:39):
Yeah. And then I mean you can go, you know,
FedEx's there to airport, but I wouldn't venture much past.
I wouldn't get out of the airport grounds. If you want,
you want to get your ass kick, that's a good
place to do it. Elvis's you better take an armored
car if you're going to go to see Graceland anyway,
and Elon said, you know this place is shithold. I'm
gonna put my big super puter here. Nobody's gonna complain. Well,
(05:02):
it's smogging up the sky so bad. He uses so
much energy for a supercomputer that they're complaining about Elon
doing that, and they're so they're wanting him to move it,
and he goes, I'm not moving this. I'm Elon Musk.
I'll buy Memphis and move y'all. It'd be cheaper, you know.
Speaker 2 (05:19):
Yeah, that was my next question.
Speaker 3 (05:20):
I mean, what outside of you're not just going to
be able to demand him do that. I mean I
think it would take some form of local legislation or
something of the sort. And then it's just I get
fought in the court system and it.
Speaker 1 (05:38):
And you know it wasn't built there without Elon greasing
everybody in town. You know, it would say anything. So
they're they're not. That's going nowhere. And by the way,
you are nothing. You have no pull whatsoever. You're you
live in Memphis and next to the supercomputer so yeah,
I guess what, you don't have any money, you're gonna
probably die from smelling at smoke all your life.
Speaker 3 (05:59):
That we've seen something similar to this in rural Texas lately,
with all of these uh you know bitcoin uh operations
that are popping up in small rural Texas towns and
then all the residents complaining of headaches.
Speaker 2 (06:16):
And uh you know what it was.
Speaker 3 (06:19):
Uh what's it called when you're when you've got the
ringing in your ears constantly. Yeah, So it feels like
there's this is only going to get worse as the
war is start popping up.
Speaker 2 (06:32):
So absolutely to do something is now.
Speaker 1 (06:35):
But they're going to put them in towns in cities
where there's nothing there that anybody's going to complain about.
Speaker 2 (06:41):
You know.
Speaker 3 (06:43):
It's I mean, it's no different from the reason every
industrial plant in a major city is in the park
town that used to be redlined for minorities to right.
I mean, it's it's a prime example of that.
Speaker 2 (06:56):
You know, San Antonio the same way here.
Speaker 3 (06:59):
I mean I live on the east side, the predominantly
redlined part of the city here, and it's all I've
got multiple metal shops on my street here, right, next
to residential houses. And this is randomly, you know, when
liberals throw out a lot of you know, university terms
to describe something very simple. This is like when they
(07:19):
say it's environmental racism, where it's like, Okay, I get
what you're saying, but instead of coming up with some
trendy term for you to talk above everybody else, just say, literally,
there's a reason all of the industrial parts of town
are built in the historic poverty stricken parts of town,
(07:40):
or the parts of town where people don't have the
power or the ability to stand up for themselves and
do anything about it.
Speaker 1 (07:46):
They've only been doing that two hundred and fifty years,
you know, sinceactly country started. I don't know about that anyway.
I was looking at some of the things that I
thought this was interesting. Relationship myths. If you're a single person,
you're a younger person, and you you've heard these myths
and it's not they're not always true. And I think
(08:08):
this is interesting. And I don't know why I've got
five here. I always end up with just five of
the stuff. Uh. A lot of people say when someone
breaks up they'll end up back with their ex. That
happens sometimes, but it's almost always a temporary thing. I've
known a lot of people that have divorced, but they
ended up giving a try to their ex. You know,
(08:29):
they go and see a then they realize why they left.
You know.
Speaker 3 (08:32):
It's just like that's a comfort thing. Like immediately you
just got out of it, you just broke up. Now
I'm looking for something comfortable to retreat back to. And
then you go and you're like, oh god, no, this
is awful. This is worse than what I just broke
up with.
Speaker 2 (08:46):
What the hell am I doing?
Speaker 1 (08:48):
And that was number four. It was like, you're going
to settle for someone, just the first one that comes
along because you're lonely, and that's not necessarily the truth.
You may you may never marry again. And uh and
because you find some you find life pretty nice, or
you find a better person, you know, but that's a myth.
(09:08):
You don't always end up with someone less than what
you had. Number three, they are gonna hold you back,
you know, if you're a professional and you get somebody
that's not they're gonna hold you back in your career.
That's not true at all, you know, at all.
Speaker 2 (09:22):
So you should have your own legs to stand on
at all times.
Speaker 1 (09:26):
Absolutely, And we're talking to women more than we are
men here for sure, Ladies you need to have where
you don't need a man. And that I've told my
daughter that from day one. Let's see I get a little.
Speaker 2 (09:40):
More than that. Mrs Degree.
Speaker 1 (09:42):
Yeah, yeah, that you'll have to give up friends if
you get in a relationship you do not that's a
big one. You don't have to give up your friends.
If you're in the right relationship, you can go do
stuff with your friends. And your wife's not gonna her
husband's not gonna be jealous. He may want or she
may want the alone time themselves, you know, think about that.
Speaker 3 (10:02):
I think a lot of people underestimate is you know,
like I've got a buddy who I'd love him to death.
He's my high school buddy, but he still is well
I don't I don't know. I got to talk to
my wife about that, and it's like, you do you
not think that your wife might also appreciate some time
away from.
Speaker 2 (10:22):
Right that such such a foreign concept to him. It's like,
oh no, I'm so great. There's no way she would
want time away from me.
Speaker 1 (10:31):
Probably wouldn't mind it, you know, a little bit, you know, anyway,
give it a try, but honestly be honest with him.
And then the final one, number one, not everybody cheats,
So just because you know yours did, you're gonna be
always got a little bit guarded always, but not everyone does.
(10:52):
In fact, it's not that common. You know. Most people
get in a relationship, they're happy with that relationship. They're
not looking for or anything, you know. And but I
will point this out because I said this on the
air for a year and I think this is the
smartest thing I have ever said in my life. You
take care of business at home. Business will take care
(11:12):
of you. So you you just you from both sides.
That way, you can just call in and go, ah,
you're sexes. No, you do. You take care of business
at home, and you will not be losing that person
to someone else.
Speaker 3 (11:27):
Look, this is where I've never I don't like, I've
never one time thought of myself as some kind of
relationship grand master or anything. But every time we do
one of these lists, I walk away just thinking like,
how how is this not obvious to most people to
(11:49):
begin with? No, wonder, relationships are so difficult for you because.
Speaker 2 (11:55):
You can't you can't see the obvious parts of them.
Speaker 3 (12:01):
It really should be a lot easier than you're making
it most of the time. If if you think that's
probably a good sign to you.
Speaker 1 (12:11):
Know, let me say this because I went through this
before at first. If you're I'm just gonna say it
because this is was me. If you let yourself go,
if you get fat, whatever the reason, you know, and
you don't take care of yourself, there's nothing more insulting
to your partner. Not that you're not attractive, they're attracted
to you for so many reasons, but there's nothing more
(12:35):
insulting to them that you don't care enough about them
or you're to take care of yourself. And I'm talking
about just do some kind of exercise, e right, do
do the thing. Not everything, but i mean just it
says to them that you don't care, and then that's
when they start going, Okay, well they don't care, then
I'm gonna find somebody who does. Or same with the women.
(12:56):
You know. That's another one goes both ways. My first one,
I can't care, got overweight, you know, and then I
went through that with Jamie and my second one, I
got overweight, but I lost it because I cared him
I wanted to keep her, you know.
Speaker 3 (13:09):
So, Yeah, it feels like the again, the things that
should be filed under common sense. No one's attracted to
a slob exactly affecting yourself. Why would they respect you
to begin?
Speaker 1 (13:23):
Well, you nailed it right there, buddy. The big advice,
the great advice coming from Puma. That's almost better to
take care of business yourself. So you did it. You
said it right there. We'll end on that. Thank you
for listening to the Pama Brown experience with the Big Puma,
the expert on relationships
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