July 30, 2025 • 56 mins
It's the 8th annual Real Weird Crossover with the Real Weird Sisters, Alice and Martha! In part one, Amanda, Shandy, Colleen, Martha, and Alice read a very NSFW post from the r/marriage subreddit, which elicits a visceral reaction from Shandy and Amanda. They also start to talk about the NY Times' list of "Best Movies of the 21st Century." Stay tuned for part two!
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Speaker 1 (00:01):
May I have your attention? Please? May I have your attention?
Speaker 2 (00:12):
Please welco you well, the real Weird Sisters.
Speaker 3 (00:22):
Please stand up. We're gonna have a problem. Here were
the Weird Sisters.
Speaker 2 (00:27):
We're the real Weird Sisters.
Speaker 1 (00:28):
All you are the Weird Sisters, have fine.
Speaker 3 (00:29):
Man of the Vikers.
Speaker 2 (00:30):
Well, the real Weird Sisters.
Speaker 3 (00:32):
Please stand up, please stand up, please stand up.
Speaker 4 (00:40):
Hello and welcome to the broadcast with Mana, Shandy and Colleen.
Speaker 5 (00:43):
My name is Colleen, my name is Amanda, and I'm Shandy.
Speaker 4 (00:47):
Welcome to the show, everybody. This is season ten, episode three,
and it is our eighth annual Real Weird Crossover.
Speaker 5 (00:55):
Welcome Martha and Elisay.
Speaker 3 (01:00):
I can't believe it's been eight times that we've done this.
Speaker 1 (01:02):
It's crazy.
Speaker 5 (01:03):
It's been more than eight times. It's eight years.
Speaker 3 (01:07):
Oh even crazier.
Speaker 6 (01:08):
Yeah, because we've done a couple of some years, right,
or a couple of them.
Speaker 4 (01:13):
Yeah, a couple of years we did actual like intros
like as broken down ones, and a couple of other years.
Speaker 5 (01:20):
I just did it that. I separated them myself.
Speaker 4 (01:23):
But right, yeah, right here we are. Last year it
was okay, so this is this is funny. I think
Shanny man I told you guys, but Shanny had brought up,
oh my god, we didn't do our real weird crossover
this year for season nine, and I was like, oh
my god, that's right. And this was in like May,
and then I totally forgot to message you guys, like
(01:46):
the next day. And then literally one month later, it
was the last week of school and Alex was like, Mommy,
can I tell you a joke?
Speaker 5 (01:54):
You know what this joke is? I see Martha's laughing,
you know what this joke is?
Speaker 4 (01:58):
And he's like, what did Dell aware a joke?
Speaker 3 (02:05):
That's a classic? Truly a classic.
Speaker 5 (02:08):
It was like, oh, it's a sign I need to
make sure I reach out.
Speaker 4 (02:12):
But of course that was you know, eight forty five
for drop off, So then I forgot until a week I.
Speaker 5 (02:17):
Was gonna say.
Speaker 6 (02:17):
I thought you were gonna say, like, the end of
the school year is so busy that you just figured
it probably wouldn't work anyway.
Speaker 5 (02:23):
Because that would have been true.
Speaker 6 (02:24):
So this is a preferred time to record for us
then May or June.
Speaker 3 (02:29):
Usually in like February or something.
Speaker 7 (02:31):
I was saying to Allas earlier, I think this is
the first time we've ever done one that's not during
the school year, and it's pretty nice.
Speaker 3 (02:36):
Doing it not during the school year. So maybe this
is our regular time now.
Speaker 1 (02:40):
I don't know.
Speaker 5 (02:40):
That is very good to know.
Speaker 8 (02:43):
You're also back in a better time zone.
Speaker 3 (02:44):
That's true too.
Speaker 7 (02:45):
Yes, I'm now on the west side of things, not
quite as far as you, Shandy, but in Mountain time
is a lot more easy to do a show than
thin gig.
Speaker 3 (02:57):
Back to nine pm until about midnight.
Speaker 8 (03:00):
I am.
Speaker 1 (03:03):
You know, we all have our crosses to.
Speaker 4 (03:06):
It's funny because over the last year or so, it's
it's nary an episode where all three of us will
be drinking at one time. So we've actually had a
really good track record for you know, when everything goes
smoothly for recording in a reasonable time. But then we
did our season finale party and all three of us drink,
(03:27):
and the next morning I was like, guys, I don't remember.
Speaker 5 (03:30):
What we talked about. I'm sure it was great, but
I'm sure it was super fun. Yeah. Anyway, yeah, good times.
So how have you ladies been. Martha is in a
new time zone?
Speaker 7 (03:49):
Yes, I moved out to Billings where Alice lives Billings,
Montana last week that's where we grew up, right, No,
we actually both grew up in Bozeman, which is two
hours here. But Bozeman's basically like on a it's impossible
to live there now unless you make unless you've like
you're never left.
Speaker 3 (04:07):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah years ago.
Speaker 5 (04:10):
Yeah exactly, yeah really right.
Speaker 7 (04:13):
Also, it's like they're I don't know, I don't know
if i'd want to live in the same place I
grew up, but yeah, we've been here for the last
year over a year now exactly.
Speaker 3 (04:22):
So like July second that we got here.
Speaker 5 (04:26):
Happy anniversary, thanks and Alice.
Speaker 3 (04:28):
Alice and I live at ten minute walk from each other.
Speaker 4 (04:30):
So do you record in the same place now or
do you still I didn't think so.
Speaker 7 (04:36):
We still record from the comfort of our own homes,
but we are in the same time zone, which makes
a big difference.
Speaker 1 (04:41):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (04:41):
A lot of people, especially I think you guys would
get it, like being podcasters, but a lot of people
who aren't podcasters will ask us that they're like, do
you record together now? And I'm like, it's so much
easier to record separate places.
Speaker 5 (04:53):
Like even technology wise, right, I think it's just like,
you know.
Speaker 6 (04:56):
It's nice to be able to like mute yourself for
a second to like, you know, if you needed to
take a drink or something like that, whereas when you're
together in the studio it's.
Speaker 3 (05:05):
Not very pleasant.
Speaker 8 (05:06):
Yeah.
Speaker 7 (05:07):
Well, I lived with Alice for about a year before
I moved out to Baltimore, and we had to record
in person together. Well sometimes, actually we figured out ways
for well, I guess I don't think we did it
very often, but like I would go in one room
and she would go to another room or something. But
we did have a mixer that worked. Okay, it just
was a lot less comfortable than it is just each
(05:27):
been our own homes.
Speaker 1 (05:29):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (05:29):
Yeah, but it's really nice being in the same time zone.
Speaker 5 (05:32):
Yeah, that's better.
Speaker 1 (05:36):
Yep.
Speaker 6 (05:36):
And yeah, we're just living our best teacher summer life.
You know, not having to work for like two and
a half months is pretty awesome.
Speaker 3 (05:44):
So it is really really nice.
Speaker 7 (05:46):
And last last summer I didn't really experience summer break
as much, and Alice as well for different reasons. But
I was focused on moving last summer, so I spent
like the first few weeks of summer packing and then
the next few weeks of summer unpacking, and then it
was like school started, so this time we have a
lot of time to just do whatever else. And I
have been playing a lot of spades, which is really fun.
Speaker 5 (06:08):
Oh that's awesome.
Speaker 4 (06:09):
Yeah, Jay and I have been back on a playing
a lot of like Mancala nonclah.
Speaker 5 (06:16):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (06:16):
Oh yeah.
Speaker 4 (06:17):
We got into it, like yeah, we got into it
like a year or so ago, and then just kind
of fell off of it for a little while.
Speaker 5 (06:25):
And then I don't know, over the last month or
not even months, just last few weeks.
Speaker 4 (06:31):
And it's funny because we were both in our rhythms
of like strategies and whatever, and it kind of like
it was one of those things like with Tic tac toe,
where unless yeah, somebody like super fucked up, you know,
whoever went first basically always won, right right.
Speaker 5 (06:47):
But it was weird coming back.
Speaker 4 (06:48):
Because I had forgotten all of my strategy, so I
was trying some crazy new shit and I lost poorly,
like three times in a row.
Speaker 5 (06:58):
Before I was like, all right, well, you know, don't
try things new.
Speaker 7 (07:03):
We had some of our cousins visited a few weeks ago,
and they like were staying at our parents' house, and
so they went into the like old game's cabinet and
found men calla so we were also well, Alice, wasn't
I don't think that I played a few rounds of
man Call recently as well.
Speaker 3 (07:18):
Yeah, I mean I was playing. It's very fun.
Speaker 7 (07:20):
I was playing against a twelve year old, so I
was kind of like, didn't necessarily try about just strategy.
Speaker 3 (07:24):
But it definitely is a fun game.
Speaker 5 (07:28):
It is a fun game.
Speaker 4 (07:29):
But yeah, I maintained that my original the original strategy,
unfortunately was yeah.
Speaker 5 (07:37):
Whatever, whatever, I got my group back. That's the moral
of the story.
Speaker 3 (07:39):
Good.
Speaker 4 (07:42):
What's awesome, Alice? How are things with you? I saw
Paul was in China, did you?
Speaker 5 (07:48):
Yeah or no?
Speaker 6 (07:50):
He went to China for a kind of for a
conference he was presenting there, and so I kind of
opted not to go this time because I just thought,
like I wasn't sure what the schedule would be. Yeah,
so yeah, I had a relaxing week at home, which
was nice.
Speaker 5 (08:05):
But yeah, he had a great trip. So that's awesome.
Speaker 1 (08:08):
So cool.
Speaker 7 (08:09):
The night that he came back, Alice told me the
next day she was like, unfortunately he did stay in
the bed. She had gotten so used to not sharing.
Speaker 6 (08:19):
Yeah, I like when I get to have the room
to myself, which is actually kind of a lot because
like if Paul gets uncomfortable or anything, he'll go sleep
on the couch and he doesn't mind, Like he likes
sleeping on the couch.
Speaker 8 (08:29):
Yeah, so it's kind of amazing. Yeah that separate rooms,
like they went onto something.
Speaker 4 (08:35):
Jay Jay will come down and sleep down here and
he'll get a lot better because it's quiet, excep everyone
Zachary wakes up because yeah's literally right above us.
Speaker 5 (08:45):
But yeah, sorry, uh, separate rooms. Well yeah, I just
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (08:50):
I kind of had got it was She was like
it was sad. He did say the night, the whole
night in the bed.
Speaker 6 (08:56):
Hot with like a second person and like both the
cats sleep with us. Yeah, you know, it just gets
really warm and I'm like sweating all night.
Speaker 7 (09:06):
Like, Paul, it must be so nice to return home
to your loving wife couch.
Speaker 5 (09:14):
You like it, You like it?
Speaker 6 (09:16):
Right, But truly, like I don't feel bad when he
sleeps on the couch because he actually really does like it,
because yeah, he could sleep anywhere, uh, which I'm not
really I mean I kind of can, but I wouldn't
want to spend the whole night on a couch, but yeah,
he doesn't mind.
Speaker 5 (09:33):
Yeah, I don't mind like some couches. My I don't.
Speaker 4 (09:38):
I don't have blinds in my living room. So although
I have slept on my couch before, just because I've
fallen asleep there, I always wake up as soon as
like the sunrises, and I.
Speaker 5 (09:51):
I hate I hate waking up early, So.
Speaker 7 (09:55):
I like waking up early naturally like that, though, if
I had to choose a way to.
Speaker 3 (09:58):
Wake up, like my couch.
Speaker 7 (10:01):
I have blackout curtains in my bedroom, and I really
like like sleeping in the dark, and like, yeah, sleeping
in in the dark, but in the winter, and well,
I guess when it's when when I'm going to work,
and I it still feels so dark in my room.
It's not easy to get out of bed that way.
So I kind of prefer to have the natural light.
Speaker 3 (10:19):
But then you have to kind of find the balance.
Speaker 4 (10:20):
Yeah, yeah, I agree, if you so, if you have
blackout curtains or whatever, you know, they have those alarm
clocks that will naturally.
Speaker 3 (10:28):
Ask Scot one of those, right, Yeah.
Speaker 6 (10:30):
I got one for my birthday, which my birthday is
in May, so it's not like the best time of
year to try it out, you know, because like, are
you may second?
Speaker 5 (10:38):
May third close? Yeah? Okah, good memory.
Speaker 3 (10:42):
You remember it, but I may the third be with you.
Speaker 5 (10:47):
Exactly.
Speaker 6 (10:48):
It's very handy little pnmonic avice and and.
Speaker 5 (10:51):
Martha is June twelfth.
Speaker 3 (10:52):
Yes, of course it's easy for you to remember that one. Yeah,
it is.
Speaker 7 (10:57):
So.
Speaker 6 (10:57):
I have the alarm clock and I was like, oh,
this is gonna be so great, and I plugged it
in and like set it and it goes off every day.
It does, I mean, it does naturally get light right
now anyway in our bedroom.
Speaker 5 (11:08):
Because we don't we don't have blackout curtains.
Speaker 3 (11:10):
But you don't have curtains at all, do you.
Speaker 6 (11:12):
Like on the one set of windows we don't. We
have like windows up high above our bedroom right Oh yeah, yeah,
we have curtains over the regular windows. But anyway, long
story short, the alarm clock does absolutely nothing for me.
It goes off every morning between five thirty and six,
and the only time I ever noticed it is when
I'm already awake, and then I'm like, oh, it must
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be between five thirty and six.
Speaker 3 (11:36):
But I think in the school year, yeah, it'll help.
Speaker 6 (11:40):
And when it gets dark, like when it's really dark
in the mornings.
Speaker 5 (11:43):
I'm looking forward to trying it.
Speaker 6 (11:45):
Then, but so far it does not wake me at all.
Speaker 3 (11:48):
I was really.
Speaker 7 (11:48):
Annoyed that Alice got one, though, because I have heard
of these alarm clocks literally since I was like a
college student, so like at least five years ago, like
six years ago for me, and I a little humble.
Speaker 5 (12:03):
Brag there, Okay, it doesn't mean it like that.
Speaker 7 (12:06):
What I meant is that I've like for many years,
had that on my Birthday and Christmas list as like
a suggestion of like something I would like for my
birthday or for Christmas. And Alice suddenly put it on
her list this year for the first time ever. I
just gets it immediately and I literally have never gotten it,
and that all the years that I've had it on
my list.
Speaker 5 (12:25):
Oh, I'm sorry, and that is frustrating.
Speaker 7 (12:28):
Yes, and Alice, remember you ever having That's what she's
I think I stopped because I was like, oh, this
is the kind of thing that I'll just have to
buy for myself.
Speaker 3 (12:35):
I guess that I just haven't done it.
Speaker 6 (12:38):
Yeah, they are like thirty dollars, so I think you
probably could splurge.
Speaker 5 (12:45):
You have put well Okay, which one is it?
Speaker 1 (12:48):
That is?
Speaker 5 (12:49):
What does it do that it's more expensive then.
Speaker 7 (12:51):
I think that they I don't know, they have different
settings or something like more variety, and like.
Speaker 6 (12:56):
The one I got is a sound machine too.
Speaker 5 (12:58):
I haven't really played with that.
Speaker 6 (13:00):
And it also I love that it does have different colors,
so like you could choose the one I have is
kind of a natural sun looking color.
Speaker 5 (13:09):
You can do different colors if you want to.
Speaker 3 (13:12):
Now you're sure it was thirty dollars. I think it
was like at least forty.
Speaker 6 (13:15):
Yeah, I don't know, maybe it was more, but your
snow Okay, no it was. It's yeah, and it's not
like any right, it's not part it's not connected to
your phone or anything, so that I don't know.
Speaker 5 (13:32):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (13:33):
Yeah, speaking of tariffs, I was in fabletics today and
they were like, you can order what you need because
there wasn't a lot of sizes left.
Speaker 5 (13:44):
And they're like, if you need different size, you can.
Speaker 4 (13:46):
Order it from our website, but like, let us know first,
because with tariffs or whatever, you'll pay for it if
you order it through our website, but you won't pay
a tariff if we order it ourselves.
Speaker 7 (13:57):
Wow.
Speaker 5 (13:58):
I was like, damn. I think it's because they can
order it from other stores.
Speaker 4 (14:04):
In the area, so they Yeah, they can be like,
oh this store in Fayetteville has it, let me have.
Speaker 5 (14:12):
It sent here. Yeah, I don't know if yeah, yeah,
you know what. I was using fatte because it was recognizable.
Speaker 8 (14:21):
You believe I used to live there. That's so weird.
Speaker 5 (14:23):
It is weird.
Speaker 3 (14:24):
I don't think that. I don't think that happened, like
it did happen. Are you sure?
Speaker 5 (14:32):
I mean you could still live there again, you still
want a house there?
Speaker 4 (14:35):
True, you don't know, you don't know what's Yeah, what's
about to happen?
Speaker 8 (14:45):
Yeah? Good times on a different now, I'm pretty sure.
Speaker 5 (14:49):
Cod good thing. We're all good thing. We're all online
and we're not.
Speaker 4 (14:59):
You have COVID tell us about this because yesterday, yeah,
I mean yesterday too.
Speaker 8 (15:06):
I was a little bit tired yesterday and I was like,
I got a pretty good night's sleep, So I like
that felt weird. But we had some friends come to
visit us from France and they on Wednesday, and then
one of our friends was like feeling a little bit
under the weather and like coughing and stuff. And I
didn't really think of it honestly, but like, yeah, makes
(15:27):
a lot of sense. And then they left on Monday morning,
and then Frank had started getting like a kind of
a sore throat type thing, probably on like Sunday, Monday,
and so yesterday was like more or less fine. This morning,
(15:47):
I had physical therapy, so sorry you didn't know.
Speaker 7 (15:52):
I don't know.
Speaker 8 (15:52):
I did not know. And I got home from that
and I was like, I can take my shower, getting
ready to go to work, and then I get this
text message from Frank and he was at work, and
so he went to work today and he was like,
I should probably just take it, like Frank is one
hundred percent like any doubt, Like, let's just take a
COVID test, which I appreciate, and but he didn't have,
(16:13):
like he didn't take it before he left for work.
So he was at work in his office like, oh,
I should take this COVID test. And then it was
fucking positive. Oh yeah, So he texted me that yeah,
and then I was like, so like, wait, what should
I do? I took two tests of two different brands
because also I'm like how long have we had these tests?
Speaker 1 (16:32):
Are they still good?
Speaker 8 (16:33):
I don't know. Brian will tell us. I almost texted him.
I was like, this closed, I could tell you yes, yes,
but anyway, I took him a few weeks ago.
Speaker 5 (16:45):
Actually anyway, thanks.
Speaker 8 (16:46):
Yeah, I took two COVID tests, two different brands from negative,
but like I have the same symptoms as Frank, like
a day or two behind.
Speaker 3 (16:54):
Yeah, maybe you'll get a positive test.
Speaker 8 (16:56):
Or yeah, it's like yeah, So I called my boss
and I was like, I'm just gonna take sickly today
and I just did home.
Speaker 5 (17:04):
Yeah I'm sorry.
Speaker 7 (17:05):
So yeah, it's kind of weird now in twenty twenty five.
I feel like we don't immediately think of it when
we're sick, so like, yeah, the same thing with Frank,
like not taking the test right away.
Speaker 3 (17:15):
That's how I would be too.
Speaker 7 (17:16):
My parents did the same thing recently when they got
COVID and oh no, it's like.
Speaker 8 (17:21):
Really going around again because I've heard like multiple.
Speaker 5 (17:23):
People are like I have too, but anything is like and.
Speaker 8 (17:26):
This time we're not ready and that's not gonna be
a vaccine and like it's but.
Speaker 4 (17:31):
It's okay in a way, And don't say I'm not
dismissing a river like that. Frank didn't mean to think
of it because we are all so assimilated back into society.
That last week, I had to pick up Alex from
uh his camp one morning because he uh he didn't
have a fever, but he was shivering. He was so cold.
He said he was cold inside. He is head hurt
(17:54):
on the top of his head and his leg's hurt.
And I didn't think COVID and he I don't think
he had COVID, but like, you know, I was like, oh, well,
you know, in the past, you could be like either
covid or flu, but now it's like we're back to
having all of the things in society. That what I
took him to the doctor. I tested negative for COVID
(18:17):
and flu. I think he had an enterovirus based on
because whenever we've taken Zachary to the urgent care, they
will test for every single thing, like any kind of virus.
It's like an extra like forty dollars, and it's like
worth it for peace of mind if you have anxiety.
If you don't have anxiety, it's fine, like you don't
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need to do it. But if you're like, oh my god,
is my kid have meningitis? And they're like, do you
want to test for everything, and I'm like, yes, I do,
then it is worth it. But whatever with Alex, we
just took him to the regular doctor, and I do
think he just had some kind of enterovirus because he
was better within twenty four hours, but like he definitely
had something and he's never sick. But like again, you're
(19:01):
like in this point where're like, oh, it's a guessing
game because all the viruses are back on the table now.
Speaker 1 (19:06):
Yeah, for sure.
Speaker 8 (19:07):
Yeah, although I will say like because just speaking of
like other people having COVID, I was texting with a friend, yeah,
who texted this was just like unrelated out of the blue,
and she's like running this class this week and it's
for people from not not the US and from a
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country that like we might think we're more advanced then
let's just say, And she was saying, like, it's been
really intense. Somebody tested positive for COVID and we had
to figure out the stupid medical system here, which is
so inhumane. And then it's embarrassing to explain to a
stic foreigner why he can't get medical care or why
he has to pay for it, or why the drugs
(19:48):
the doctor prescribed him are one seven hundred and seventy dollars.
Speaker 3 (19:52):
Oh my gosh.
Speaker 8 (19:53):
Yeah, I was like, yeah, that's like welcome. She's embarrassing.
Speaker 3 (19:58):
Yeah that.
Speaker 8 (20:00):
Oh my god. But yeah, like and so there's definitely
like other people here and other people, other people everywhere.
But again, like you said, like I just didn't even
think of COVID at first, which is feel.
Speaker 6 (20:13):
So dumb, but well, and it does though being the
summer too, I feel like it's I had COVID last
summer when we got back from our trip to Germany,
and it was like just not on people's minds, you know,
just being the middle of the summer.
Speaker 5 (20:28):
But it does seem to actually really circulate a lot.
Speaker 1 (20:31):
In these months for some reason. Well it's because contagious
and people are out warmed.
Speaker 8 (20:36):
Well exactly, because that's the thing. Like we definitely got
it from our friend who was sick, who like may
or may not have gotten it on the plane on
the way over here, but then like we both definitely
have it. One of our other friends tested positive. Somebody
else has a sort of threat. So it's just like
it's still like very infectious and yeah it's not great.
Speaker 3 (20:57):
Yeah, well feel better.
Speaker 1 (21:03):
And hopefully your symptoms hopefully.
Speaker 7 (21:05):
This is a he likes podcast for you and not
something that exacerbates the illness.
Speaker 5 (21:11):
Exactly.
Speaker 4 (21:12):
You're sitting upright, and I feel like that's a good sign.
Speaker 8 (21:16):
I mean, I stayed home to I'm gonna stay home to.
Like the thing is, like, it's fine. I love a
legitimate ex used to take.
Speaker 7 (21:23):
I've heard the podcasting as the past for everything, so.
Speaker 4 (21:28):
The way, yeah, I heard that five days is perfectly
reasonable for COVID totally.
Speaker 8 (21:35):
I mean, I don't want to like blow through all
my sickle. That's the other thing that's so frustrating is
like I can't tell. It's like, you know, policy specific
to everybody's workplace is different, but like I can't I
can't telework because I had a negative test. But I
could maybe be approved for telework if I had a
(21:55):
positive test but felt well enough to like actually work
from home, right, you know, because it's like they realize
that they don't want you to come to work and
affect everyone.
Speaker 5 (22:04):
Right, But also it's Trump's America. They don't give a ship,
and it's.
Speaker 8 (22:12):
Like it's on the employer to do something about that
and just like have a fucking like logical policy. But anyway,
it's pretty.
Speaker 1 (22:23):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (22:24):
Am I allowed to bring up the fact that the
do OE is officially allowed to be disbanded?
Speaker 5 (22:29):
Just disbanded? Or is this a no bueno subject?
Speaker 3 (22:34):
I mean it is a no bueno subject.
Speaker 1 (22:39):
About it.
Speaker 5 (22:39):
There's no questions about that.
Speaker 3 (22:45):
Yeah, I mean do we want to talk about that?
Speaker 7 (22:47):
That sounds like a big downer for a podcast topic.
Speaker 5 (22:52):
Well, that's fine.
Speaker 4 (22:52):
I had some great stuff for the middle sections.
Speaker 5 (22:56):
Back up.
Speaker 1 (22:59):
Great singer is about the de being just Spanish jokes
all day?
Speaker 7 (23:08):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (23:10):
Did you sorry?
Speaker 5 (23:17):
The best thing would if I made the joke in Spanish?
Speaker 3 (23:20):
Right, Yeah, Well.
Speaker 7 (23:22):
Soon we won't be able to because we won't be
allowing Spanish classes.
Speaker 5 (23:31):
What is to hear in Spanish?
Speaker 7 (23:32):
Is it?
Speaker 5 (23:32):
It's like scar right? Yeah, listen to listen?
Speaker 4 (23:38):
So is it like tennis, escuchar, scu charies, schares, i'll
uh deportment the education, I don't know, cuche.
Speaker 8 (23:52):
Our Spanish is collectively very good?
Speaker 5 (23:59):
Well maybe it. Maybe I should call the show i'lla
real weird crossover.
Speaker 3 (24:10):
Will workshop for other titles.
Speaker 5 (24:16):
The night is still young.
Speaker 6 (24:17):
I think there's an opportunity for possibly something better.
Speaker 1 (24:22):
Let's not go with the first idea, you know, no
bad idea.
Speaker 8 (24:29):
I do have to say, because I keep looking at her.
I love that I can see a little amber over there,
like camouflage. I know.
Speaker 6 (24:39):
I'm sorry to I'm sorry to the listeners who can't
see her, but I did.
Speaker 5 (24:43):
I did turn the camera so you would all.
Speaker 3 (24:45):
Have a view of her. Yeah, isn't she sweet?
Speaker 6 (24:49):
She has gotten into the cutest habit of every time
I podcast, she knows that I'm about to podcast, so
she comes like running into this room and then she
just sits on that bench and then when I'm finished,
she just gets up and goes to the door.
Speaker 5 (25:04):
Isn't that so sweet?
Speaker 6 (25:06):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (25:07):
I wish she would sit on my lap during the show,
but yeah, she doesn't want to right here.
Speaker 4 (25:13):
But it's very hot in this room because the a
C Is still up and she's sitting on the floor
over there.
Speaker 5 (25:19):
How long has a year?
Speaker 3 (25:22):
So we said still, like so I was assumed since last.
Speaker 4 (25:28):
Summer, but like it kind of briefly worked and then
it like died out again. But it's just down here
because we have two of h vax. You know, a
guy that renovated our house with a crackhead.
Speaker 3 (25:38):
And you do have it in the rest of the house,
so we have it upstairs.
Speaker 5 (25:42):
It's fine.
Speaker 4 (25:43):
We usually have a zillion fans going on down here
so you can't notice it. But I actually I shut
them all off before because we had a thunderstorm and
I didn't turn the neck on.
Speaker 5 (25:55):
But Tim the realtor, it happened up stairs like two
years ago.
Speaker 4 (26:01):
Tim the riltor came over like because we were just
texting him like, hey, you know something that can help
us fix this hvac, and he came over.
Speaker 5 (26:07):
He fixed it. And then the same thing happened with
this one.
Speaker 4 (26:11):
Jay Surmises, and I texted him like a week ago
and he's like, oh, yeah, you can just buy that
part for twenty dollars on Amazon.
Speaker 5 (26:18):
Here's what it's called.
Speaker 4 (26:20):
He gave it the name to me, but not a link,
and I looked up the name and he is correct.
It is twenty dollars that you can just swap it
out really easily. But there's like seventy five different things
and I need to like go outside and look at
the actual HVAC like you know, serial number unit, and
I feel like we could easily fix it ourselves. But
(26:41):
then I got lazy and was like, oh, I don't
want to walk all the way outside and fix it.
Speaker 1 (26:45):
I'd rather be sorry.
Speaker 3 (26:48):
Yeah, it's I don't know.
Speaker 7 (26:50):
It's kind of like fixing your car too, Like the
parts that you're going to use usually you can get
it for like twenty dollars on the Amazon.
Speaker 3 (26:57):
Then it's like you have to know how to do it,
and then you have to go through doing it.
Speaker 8 (27:02):
And exactly, like.
Speaker 4 (27:05):
Can I realistically wait until Tim is here for Jay's
birthday next March?
Speaker 3 (27:13):
I was expectingly like September.
Speaker 1 (27:18):
You're kind of at the height of the summer.
Speaker 9 (27:19):
Anyway, you get into October, your smooth salindar exactly.
Speaker 4 (27:24):
But I could have before everybody comes for the podcast
meet up weekend whenever we do it in the fall.
I could also just invite him, which he'll show up
because Tim is the motherfucking greatest.
Speaker 10 (27:35):
While he's there, you know what, I like, Oh, hey,
while you're at it, this is still in the Amazon packaging.
Speaker 3 (27:48):
I think it's the perfect plan. I think so too.
Speaker 4 (27:51):
And you know, it's like a sauna down here, so
it's also I'm like losing water weight, so it's like
a wind wind for everybody.
Speaker 5 (28:00):
That's one approach. Exactly.
Speaker 9 (28:02):
We do have to.
Speaker 4 (28:05):
Like I said, I turned the fans off. Yesterday we
had a pretty big thunderstorm. And then yesterday morning did
I say this When we recorded the previous episode where
the thunder storm started at like one o'clock in the morning,
I went to sleep, and then at like I fell
sleep at like one point thirty, and then at five
(28:26):
o'clock it woke me up and I was awake. I
swear to God, NonStop thunder from five o'clock till like
seven fifteen when it finally started raining, and the rain
put me to sleep because it was like white noise.
But like, oh my god, the thunderstorms have just been
insane here and we're lucky because there's been horrific flooding
in Durham and Chapel Hill, like it's.
Speaker 5 (28:46):
Been really really bad.
Speaker 4 (28:47):
Like neighborhoods are like, you know, up to whatever, and
we've been so lucky here in Raleigh. That is literally
the band has just missed us every time.
Speaker 5 (28:57):
Yeah, thunder thought. Anyway, let's let's let's move on. Okay,
I got a couple of things. One we can do now, this.
Speaker 1 (29:10):
Is in uh am. I the asshole is the asshole?
Speaker 4 (29:14):
Oh no, it's a it's a subredded marriage, and it's
husband doesn't like when I orgasm and tries to stop
it when it's happening.
Speaker 1 (29:21):
What, I'm sorry?
Speaker 5 (29:25):
What the next one is?
Speaker 4 (29:28):
Am I the asshole for taking back my tip after
the waitress humiliated me in front of everybody.
Speaker 5 (29:36):
You know, Let's just go with the orgasm one because
that got that got a response?
Speaker 3 (29:43):
Great? All right? So what subreddit is this in?
Speaker 5 (29:49):
This is in the r slash marriage? Oh okay, I
thought that was the am I the asshole?
Speaker 4 (29:54):
Was like, no, it was so you know how you
can share share them like you can share the best
of Reddit or whatever, like you can share them.
Speaker 5 (30:06):
I just assumed this wasn't as Yeah, yeah, but it's not.
It's from marriage.
Speaker 4 (30:12):
Okay, okay, husband's husband doesn't like when I orgasm.
Speaker 5 (30:16):
And tries to stop it when it's happening. Right.
Speaker 2 (30:22):
I really wish the listeners could see Shaddy's face.
Speaker 8 (30:26):
I have like a full body reaction.
Speaker 5 (30:29):
I thought you were going to take your sweatshirt off
to stop that. Shandy's full body reaction.
Speaker 11 (30:42):
Hey, I'm hoping some I have to zoom in, sorry,
like Martha now, and I am at the point where
I zoom in sorry, No.
Speaker 8 (30:54):
I got chills. If it was the covid or or
or the.
Speaker 5 (31:00):
Having to stop the orgasms.
Speaker 1 (31:04):
Cod literally affecting her health.
Speaker 5 (31:09):
Aka things that happen in Texas.
Speaker 4 (31:14):
Hey, I'm hoping someone can help me figure out what
to do in this situation. Basically, when I start to
orgasm during sex, my husband will physically restrain my reflective
reflexive movements so I can no longer finish.
Speaker 5 (31:27):
For example, if my.
Speaker 4 (31:28):
Back reflexively starts arching the wrong way, he will use
his forearm to straighten out my back so I can't
move it. If I'm on top and starting an orgasm,
he will lift me up off of him until the feeling.
Speaker 5 (31:42):
Passes, and then we'll keep going.
Speaker 4 (31:44):
When I no longer have the urge to move the
way he doesn't like. He has even stopped altogether because he.
Speaker 5 (31:51):
Said I'm hurting him. What I am doing doesn't feel
good to go back to the other way. Last week,
I was.
Speaker 4 (32:01):
On top when the main event started and he interrupted
saying Nope, not like that, and physically lift.
Speaker 5 (32:09):
I can't with The face.
Speaker 3 (32:14):
Has not moved.
Speaker 5 (32:17):
Like did her screen phase or is she just.
Speaker 4 (32:22):
All this sounds like the fucking worst, Like this isn't andrewyet.
Speaker 3 (32:28):
Any like I twenty four f or like do we
know how old these people are?
Speaker 7 (32:33):
Or no?
Speaker 5 (32:34):
Actually no they haven't actually, which is weird because usually
you have to do that.
Speaker 4 (32:41):
Yeah, so I'm gonna go with husband. I'm gonna go
with evangelical M twenty.
Speaker 5 (32:50):
F eighteen, Like do you think that they're just married?
Speaker 3 (32:54):
Like that they just got married and that they did
not have premarital sex.
Speaker 4 (32:58):
I just say this is why should always Yeah, you
know you have to take the car for a drive,
you always have to deestrip the car.
Speaker 5 (33:07):
Did you did you finish reading the whole point?
Speaker 7 (33:09):
No? I have it.
Speaker 5 (33:10):
Let me finish, Okay, I didn't.
Speaker 3 (33:12):
No, I stop there. I'm going to stop you before
you finish there.
Speaker 5 (33:18):
Okay stop.
Speaker 4 (33:22):
Uh.
Speaker 5 (33:23):
I apologize left and right because I didn't mean to
hurt him.
Speaker 4 (33:25):
I told him my hips, my hips move like that
when I orgasm as a reflex and I wasn't meant
to do it meaning to do it.
Speaker 5 (33:32):
He said it was okay and that I did a
much I did much better.
Speaker 4 (33:36):
At the end, I was like, oh, but I had
to completely stop mid orgasm to turn myself off in order.
Speaker 5 (33:41):
To do it, and wasn't able to finish because of it.
Then last night we were lying, we were a side
lying spooning position. I'm sorry.
Speaker 4 (33:50):
Then last night we were in the side lying spooning
position when my orgasm started.
Speaker 5 (33:55):
I guess I arched my back the wrong way for
a second.
Speaker 4 (33:58):
He said, I was doing that weird thing with my back,
and he moved my body back to where he wanted it.
He then said he was just trying to help. He
even said, haven't you seen the way girls twerk on Instagram?
They do it like this, and you are doing it
like this with where he's looking.
Speaker 5 (34:16):
I'm sorry.
Speaker 1 (34:16):
I don't think.
Speaker 4 (34:21):
Honestly, I don't think this guy knows what an orgasm
is for women.
Speaker 3 (34:25):
Like that's what it sounds like.
Speaker 1 (34:26):
He doesn't care exactly.
Speaker 5 (34:29):
He said the way that I was doing wasn't attractive.
I told him that once again. I wasn't doing it intentionally.
It was just an orgasm. It's just the way my
body moves.
Speaker 4 (34:38):
He brought it up again today, saying that I arched
my back just fine up until the very end, so
he knows I can do it.
Speaker 5 (34:45):
It's totally invalidating.
Speaker 4 (34:47):
He isn't hearing me, and even worse, he keeps stopping
me mid orgasm over and over. The only reason I
didn't say something sooner was because I thought him restraining
me and holding me down was him trying to put
effort into being dominant.
Speaker 1 (34:59):
In the bed dream.
Speaker 8 (35:00):
Lol.
Speaker 5 (35:01):
Now I know he was seriously trying to correct me
all this time. I'm like, what the hell?
Speaker 4 (35:06):
My issue is that he says I am physically hurting
him when it happens. What am I supposed to say
to that?
Speaker 3 (35:11):
You know?
Speaker 5 (35:12):
It's fucking hilarious.
Speaker 4 (35:13):
About this to me is that so many men out there,
like will complain about like, you know, women can't orgasm
because they're woke or because they're.
Speaker 7 (35:21):
This or that.
Speaker 5 (35:22):
Like this motherfucker his lady is clearly orgasm at the touch.
Speaker 1 (35:27):
Seriously, I'm not getting it.
Speaker 3 (35:31):
Yeah, is there a question to this post or she
just over showed?
Speaker 7 (35:35):
No?
Speaker 5 (35:36):
No, no, it's just our marriage, so there's no share.
Speaker 3 (35:41):
He wants to know.
Speaker 5 (35:41):
Yeah, like, what can I do to stop?
Speaker 8 (35:44):
How could you correctly?
Speaker 5 (35:46):
Yeah?
Speaker 7 (35:48):
Watching videos of women on Instagram talking beful and educational,
I actually recommend that.
Speaker 5 (35:55):
And she's finished by consulting a divorced layer.
Speaker 3 (35:58):
Yeah, I just yeah, it's terrible.
Speaker 5 (36:07):
Can you imagine that's that's really strange.
Speaker 4 (36:12):
How many men get blue balls because you're like, no,
I'm not into it, and they get really pissed off.
Speaker 5 (36:17):
And this guy is literally he has what I assume.
Speaker 8 (36:24):
Wants.
Speaker 5 (36:25):
Yeah, I don't know. He doesn't like wet as.
Speaker 8 (36:30):
That's true. He has what Ben Shapiro doesn't know he wants. Yeah,
he doesn't know what it doesn't.
Speaker 5 (36:37):
Know, Yeah, exactly.
Speaker 4 (36:40):
I wish let me see if there's more information. Uh,
this is just a screen cap of like best of
or whatever.
Speaker 5 (36:47):
But like I it is like this is just like
so disrespectful and just so insane, right.
Speaker 9 (36:55):
Means to have like continued for like a long time,
like yeah, yeah, that happens once you talk about it
and like you forgure how to move forward continually happening.
Speaker 1 (37:07):
It's like sounds like he.
Speaker 5 (37:08):
Gave his input that you know, she should watch her
video and Instagram.
Speaker 1 (37:13):
I have a solved, just stop this stop.
Speaker 3 (37:16):
Yeah, or maybe he just needs to be less good
at that.
Speaker 7 (37:21):
I like, I don't know, like the problem if the
problem is that that like he doesn't need to I
don't I don't know, like maybe just brainstorming, like yeah,
it should he should be taking it as a copple
bed right like that he's giving her this full body reaction,
like like what he what the post game candy?
Speaker 1 (37:46):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (37:46):
I think most of the time the answer is communication.
Speaker 5 (37:49):
So yeah, I found I found the full post, but
I think that I don't know. I feel like maybe
they have communicated. He's just selfish.
Speaker 9 (38:00):
It does like just hearing her read that, it does
sound like she has said they have talked about it,
and like and keep stopping.
Speaker 8 (38:09):
Her a complex. Oh sure, your own like natural physical reaction.
Speaker 1 (38:13):
That's terrible.
Speaker 4 (38:15):
Yeah, maybe just tell her husband to like go fuck himself,
like go have self with sex to yourself.
Speaker 5 (38:20):
Like God, I was gonna say, like having sex with me,
then maybe you should just.
Speaker 1 (38:24):
Go yeah, just with yourself.
Speaker 3 (38:26):
Yeah, oh boy, it's.
Speaker 1 (38:31):
A two way street.
Speaker 8 (38:35):
Was there any follow up? I want to know what happened.
Speaker 5 (38:38):
Yeah, so, okay, here's a follow up.
Speaker 4 (38:41):
I just thought he was trying to take charge in
the bedroom and that he was putting an extra effort.
We all make mistakes sometimes. I'm sure I mess up
an orgasm for him once in a while. So I
just didn't want to shame him for something that already feels.
Speaker 5 (38:57):
Yeah, I think he's still finished. That's all he cares about.
He doesn't you can tell.
Speaker 3 (39:03):
She'll be able to tell if it's not working for him.
Speaker 5 (39:06):
Oh, don't you worry.
Speaker 4 (39:08):
An overwhelming amount of responses were like no, sweet, yeah, craziness.
Speaker 5 (39:18):
My favorite response is though this is horrific, leave run
did she say? Like she didn't say anything else, like
she didn't think that he's weird that I see in
the comments of the thread.
Speaker 4 (39:33):
But somebody is commenting that he referenced Instagram porn, which
must have been one of her responses that wasn't up voted,
voted at least Yeah, Instagram.
Speaker 1 (39:45):
Instagram porn thing.
Speaker 5 (39:47):
Yeah.
Speaker 8 (39:47):
I was like, yeah, I is it like talking dirty?
Speaker 5 (39:55):
Oh no, no, any baby girl.
Speaker 8 (40:00):
I went on Twitter once in like the last like
five years, and it was mad.
Speaker 1 (40:05):
I went on Twitter once period.
Speaker 3 (40:13):
Today and I don't remember what the tweet was.
Speaker 7 (40:15):
It was not about sex at all, and literally all
replies were like, like, I bet you would like my
free only fans and like a video that it was
like a link because I was like trying to.
Speaker 5 (40:29):
Made that.
Speaker 7 (40:30):
They literally are, yeah, I mean you could get Twitter
porn before that too, which where to go but which
I mean, to be fair.
Speaker 4 (40:38):
Twitter was doing bad because Elon was doing bad, And
to be fair to him, he does know that the
one thing that makes money is sex, and the one
thing that makes super money is sex and nerds.
Speaker 3 (40:49):
So yeah, I don't think there's any world where we
have to be fair to him though, So.
Speaker 5 (40:55):
Yeah, we don't have to.
Speaker 1 (41:01):
Anyway.
Speaker 4 (41:01):
Yeah, I think I think the over agreement as I'm
scrolling through is you know, uh, he's just trying to
physically control her orgasms, which is disgusting.
Speaker 3 (41:11):
And yeah, I mean maybe he's not maybe he doesn't
like women.
Speaker 4 (41:17):
I also thought of that too, like maybe the fact
the like idea of like women orgasming orgasming is disgusting
to him, Yeah, which is also fine, but then just
you know, but yeah, but then you're married to a
woman exactly, or you know, get with the program and
stop sucking her, like whichever comes first for you.
Speaker 7 (41:41):
Yeah, I don't know, like that, it seems like a
red flag that he is that like turned off by that,
like yeah, for sure, for sure.
Speaker 5 (41:50):
I yeah, I just I do wish that we had
had more information in general.
Speaker 7 (41:53):
About how old they are and how long they've been married,
especially yes, but I'm like, if they're less than a
less than five years, I'm like, I think you just gotta.
Speaker 8 (42:03):
Yeah, yeah, get out.
Speaker 3 (42:05):
Yeah. So I was like a new thing after like
a fifteen year marriage. Maybe work through it.
Speaker 5 (42:11):
Yeah, yeah, I don't think so. Though.
Speaker 3 (42:14):
It definitely sounds like the first long history together.
Speaker 5 (42:20):
No, yeah, I'll say it.
Speaker 4 (42:22):
It sounds like they are like something Christian Christian where
they had sex after marriage and just don't understand.
Speaker 1 (42:31):
Like what it is.
Speaker 5 (42:33):
All right, Uh, let's see a quick break. We come back,
We'll do some feedback.
Speaker 1 (42:37):
Here we go.
Speaker 5 (42:41):
All right, we're back. We're already get into some feedback.
Speaker 4 (42:43):
The first minute feedback is from the facey Back, and
this from Matt and Matt says you may not want
to form a last minute list a list last minute,
but New York Times recently put out a list of
the best movies of the twenty first century, and a
lot of nerd film nerds are sharing their ballots. It
could be fun to discuss your picks. And I said,
oh my god, I'm pretty sure Martha did this.
Speaker 5 (43:06):
I did.
Speaker 3 (43:07):
I did my own ballot.
Speaker 6 (43:09):
Did I tweet it or something I don't even putt it?
Speaker 5 (43:12):
Yeah, or Instagram something.
Speaker 3 (43:13):
Yeah, right, did anybody else do theirs?
Speaker 5 (43:17):
Well, I look, I looked at it.
Speaker 6 (43:19):
But this, this will surprise nobody who knows me that
I had hardly seen any of the movies, so I
don't know.
Speaker 3 (43:27):
What I had, she says, But she says the movies.
She means any movies.
Speaker 7 (43:31):
Well, I know, I like literally literally like you would
just type the name of a movie and it would
populate it. Yeah.
Speaker 5 (43:37):
Yeah, so I could come.
Speaker 6 (43:39):
Up with like a couple that I would say, but
I had. I guess what I meant is that I
had looked at the list that New York Times is
putting out, and they'd only released through like the top
fifty sorry, like fifty through one hundred or something at
that point. I don't know what's out by now. But yeah, yeah,
so I looked at it and I had hardly seen
any of those. Yes, you're right, I think I could.
(44:02):
I could come up with a few.
Speaker 7 (44:04):
You could come up with ten movies that you've seen
that came out between twenty twenty twenty five.
Speaker 5 (44:09):
I think, Okay, I have the list here.
Speaker 3 (44:13):
How do I do this, Martha, Well, I don't have
a New York Times account, so I can't see that. Actually, well,
how did you do it?
Speaker 1 (44:21):
Yeah?
Speaker 9 (44:22):
Oh I can.
Speaker 7 (44:22):
I submitted my own ballot like with a free but
I can't access the list.
Speaker 5 (44:28):
You should do it.
Speaker 4 (44:29):
Because I have gotten it for four dollars a month
for the last like four years.
Speaker 3 (44:33):
Yeah I should. Alice also was kind of talking to
me about that earlier.
Speaker 4 (44:37):
Today, I do it, then they raise it, I disue
the charge, I cancel it, and then I resigned.
Speaker 5 (44:44):
I should do that. Yeah, it has worked every time. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (44:48):
Sorry, Well, how many have they released so far? Or
have they done releasing them?
Speaker 5 (44:54):
I don't know.
Speaker 6 (44:55):
It was a few weeks ago when everybody was doing
the ballots. I feel like they had only released like
like I said, like fifty to one hundred or something
until like there was at least a few more weeks left.
Speaker 5 (45:04):
But I could look now.
Speaker 3 (45:05):
Well, Alice, I know that you've seen a total on
my list.
Speaker 8 (45:10):
Oh okay, I'm gonna share this article.
Speaker 1 (45:13):
Okay.
Speaker 4 (45:13):
I found the reader top one hundred list. Parasite, Mulholland Drive,
No Country or Old Men, There will be Blood, Interstellar,
The Dark Knight, Mad Max, Fury Road.
Speaker 5 (45:25):
Which I hated, so whatever.
Speaker 4 (45:28):
Sphered Away, Eternal Sunshet, The Spotless Mind, and the Social
Network in the top ten in terms of a spotlight mine.
Spotless Mind is in my top five favorite movies of
all time. I actually I don't even know why this
came up, but I over the weekend like went on
a spree of watching clips from it, like it's so good.
It's also like, as you like move into like more
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AI or whatever, you're like, oh, this is kind of
scary because it probably could happen in real life.
Speaker 5 (45:56):
But yeah, sorry, I'm at a.
Speaker 1 (45:58):
Oh no, I was, uh, I forget what.
Speaker 5 (46:01):
I forget what I was gonna say something about movies.
Speaker 1 (46:04):
Oh yeah, I don't know. Oh my gosh. This website
is nuts.
Speaker 5 (46:09):
It is nuts.
Speaker 1 (46:10):
I like tried to pull it up on my computer.
My computer was like hard, no, hard, no.
Speaker 3 (46:15):
So I will I will say the ten that I sent, Yeah,
the ten that I posted.
Speaker 7 (46:22):
I kind of like I waffled so much between like
I had like five, actually I had like fifteen, and
I was like, what do I make the ten and
a couple of them, like a couple from the that
are in the top ten on New York or on
the actual New York Times, like there will be blood
and then it's not on the top ten. But Moonlight's
another one that I was like, I love that movie,
but I've only seen it once. So it was kind
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of like, these are movies that I was like, most
of them I've seen multiple times and like recommended to
people and stuff and like had a big like reaction
to when I saw it. So mine were and this
was not an order. I'll do a bin alphabetical order.
Are you there, God, it's me Margaret from twenty Time
Avatar The Way of Water because I loved it, it
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was amazing before Sunset, Black Swan, Broke Back Mountain, Get Out,
Knives Out, Parasite and Promising Young Woman, and Ratituy. So
Alice has seen five of those ten? Yeah, al Alice
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has seen Promising Young Woman, Parasite, Knives Out, Ratitu, and
get Out.
Speaker 1 (47:31):
Ye.
Speaker 3 (47:31):
So yeah, you haven't seen Broke Back Mountain, right, Alice?
Speaker 6 (47:35):
No, I will say at least two of those also
are in my top ten for sure. The Ratitude and
Promising Young Woman two of my faves.
Speaker 5 (47:43):
What do we call it, angry white chick movie?
Speaker 1 (47:49):
Like, we liked it.
Speaker 4 (47:51):
The soundtrack is amazing, but we could for the longest
time Matt would recommend it.
Speaker 1 (47:55):
We'd be like angry White woman movie.
Speaker 5 (48:00):
Well, it's accurate, but I will agree.
Speaker 4 (48:02):
I'm looking at the official New York Times list, so
not the voters one, right.
Speaker 5 (48:08):
Because there's That's what I was going to say too.
There's a couple of different ones. There's definitely to ten.
So the dig has parasite, which I haven't seen.
Speaker 4 (48:19):
Oh you've gotta yeah, apparently obviously, but yeah, I've There
will be blood.
Speaker 5 (48:27):
That's the I drink your milkshakes.
Speaker 7 (48:28):
I love There will be Blood. I watched it last
year for the first time. I thought it was so good.
Speaker 5 (48:32):
It in the mood for love.
Speaker 7 (48:36):
Moonlight, that's the one that I'm like, I kind of
wish it was on there, but I just have only
seen it the one time.
Speaker 4 (48:43):
Yeah, No Country for Olden Eternal Sunshine. It's about this Mine,
which I can't speak highly enough of that movie. I
love that movie so much. Get Out, which is also
very scary and good spirited away and social network and
maybe the social network is that high.
Speaker 7 (49:07):
Too.
Speaker 4 (49:08):
Actually done, it's well done, but I don't know if
it's like life changing. But you know something, guys, We
will continue this next week when we do this some
more so if you're very interested and a whole week
has gone by and you don't feel like looking it
up yourselves, stay tuned.
Speaker 5 (49:32):
But yes, I am willing so parasite. What is it
even about.
Speaker 7 (49:37):
About social class? And well, who else who here's seen
up besides me at Alice?
Speaker 8 (49:45):
I started it and I have for some reason, I
got interrupted and never went back in front, Like every
single time, I was like, I can't believe you haven't
finished it.
Speaker 7 (49:53):
Okay, Well, it's a commentary on social class, and it's
like I can't really say too much about it, but
basically it's about a really really rich family and a
really really poor family and like, and this is I'm
gonna sound dumb because I only saw it the one time,
but like some of them are like workers for the
rich family, right, Like yeah, so it's like the rich
family and then the like hired help is part of
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the other family.
Speaker 3 (50:16):
But there's more to it than that, way, more to
it than that.
Speaker 5 (50:18):
Okay, but it's kind of like.
Speaker 3 (50:20):
It's got like it's scary. It's scary. It's less scary
than get.
Speaker 5 (50:24):
Out, okay, because okay, get Out was suspenseful scary.
Speaker 3 (50:28):
Yeah, I mean Parasite is kind of a simil.
Speaker 5 (50:30):
I'd say it's a similar ye.
Speaker 7 (50:32):
Scary, there's I don't even think that. I feel like
get Out has a few more jump scares than Parasite does.
Parasite maybe has like one jump scare in it, if
I remember, But mostly it's just like there's kind of
a tense feeling the whole time. But there's also quite
a bit of humor in it too, kind of like
get Out, but sort of different level. Like there's just
a lot of like ironic, like you know, like the
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rich people not really understanding how out of touch they seem,
that kind of thing, and it's really good. I really
so it's like, yeah, kind of I think. I think
all the accolades that got were like extremely deserved. Like
when I saw it, it was super I thought it
was incredible.
Speaker 4 (51:12):
And this does make me more likely because I just
always thought it was like a horror movie, So this
actually does make me more likely.
Speaker 1 (51:18):
To give it.
Speaker 7 (51:19):
I'm not a horror person, and I really liked it.
I would say again, like get Out as scarier, and
it's it's it's it's as important to watch as get
Out is. I think, so yeah, I will I'll check
it out for real, And I mean, I don't know
if they have a I hope that they don't, but
I mean, obviously it's not in English, but it's worth
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watching with subtitles, like I think, I don't know. I
don't think that there is a dubbed version, but I
would not watch it if, yeah, if there is a
dubbed version, which I don't even know if there is.
Speaker 5 (51:56):
Before we wrap this up, Martha, he can we get
your word that the next.
Speaker 4 (52:02):
Unofficial real weird crossover could be if Shandy Aman and
I all watch Parasite and talking.
Speaker 5 (52:10):
Yeah, well watch it too, Yeah, yeah, it would just
be talking about that.
Speaker 3 (52:14):
Yeah.
Speaker 7 (52:15):
Alice and I were literally talking about how it would
be fun to have that be, like the next crossover
would be not Parasite, but we were saying, like to
have us all watch one movie or one show or.
Speaker 3 (52:23):
Something's do and have that be our topic.
Speaker 5 (52:25):
We did broad little lies once.
Speaker 3 (52:27):
Oh that's right, Oh that's right.
Speaker 4 (52:29):
I only know because I had to count how many
years we've done this, because I knew we did it
since Alex was born, but I didn't know we skipped
any years.
Speaker 5 (52:39):
And when I was going through it, I was like, Oh,
look at that. We did a broad little lies together
for all about that.
Speaker 3 (52:44):
I don't think I was on that was I.
Speaker 1 (52:46):
I think you were.
Speaker 3 (52:47):
No, I don't think so, because I didn't watch Pickle Eyes.
Speaker 5 (52:49):
Oh okay, well then.
Speaker 1 (52:50):
I guess it was just me.
Speaker 8 (52:51):
You have not seen my cinematic though.
Speaker 5 (52:54):
I watched you Never'sion.
Speaker 3 (52:58):
Watch the clip of it.
Speaker 5 (53:01):
She's like three credits away from second.
Speaker 7 (53:05):
Her line was cut. That was why I didn't watch it.
If I had, if the line had been and I watched.
But the thing with the Little Eyes. I read the
book and I loved the book, and then I started
watching the show, and I was like, it felt so
different from the book. Not to be like a purist
about that or anything, but I think now that it's
been so long since I've read the book, I definitely
could watch the show and enjoy it.
Speaker 5 (53:26):
The first season is The second season is terrible.
Speaker 3 (53:29):
But the first well, I just it was like.
Speaker 5 (53:32):
It was like, there's a great ass on TV.
Speaker 3 (53:36):
It was like, I read the book and then.
Speaker 7 (53:38):
The next day I started watching the show, and so
I should have waited a while instead of going straight
to it.
Speaker 5 (53:44):
The second season, he's not The second season is not terrible.
It's that one storyline with Meryl Street that they really
could have done better. Yeah, that's where they dropt the ball.
Everything else was fine.
Speaker 3 (53:57):
The next crossover, we will watch Parasite and talk about it.
Speaker 1 (54:02):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (54:03):
Perfect. Then after that I will watch Picklet.
Speaker 5 (54:06):
How about this is we we're gonna lock you down
for October.
Speaker 4 (54:11):
We're gonna talk about horror movies and we're gonna talk
about Parasite.
Speaker 3 (54:16):
Okay, there you go. So that we're doing two and
twenty twenty five.
Speaker 5 (54:21):
Donezo. We could also do just do Halloween in February two.
Speaker 3 (54:28):
Well, a lot of horror movies come out for Found
Time's Day.
Speaker 5 (54:31):
That's true. All right, we'll figure it out. We'll figure
it out. All right.
Speaker 4 (54:34):
On that note, everybody, let's finish this first part of
the Real Red Crossover twenty twenty five edition, Season ten.
Speaker 5 (54:43):
Thank you, Alison, Martha. We really appreciate it. Thank you
to everybody gave us some feedback. Greg.
Speaker 4 (54:48):
Next week, it's your feedback. You're the main attraction. Uh,
but yeah, thanks everybody. You've any feedback. The broadcasts through
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You know what to do?
Speaker 5 (55:12):
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Thanks guys, We will talk to you soon. My name
is Colleen, my name is Amanda, I'm Shandy, I'm.
Speaker 3 (55:56):
Alice, and I'm Martha.
Speaker 7 (55:58):
We did it.
Speaker 6 (56:01):
It's always like my most stressful part of coming on.
Speaker 5 (56:04):
So I'm like.
Speaker 7 (56:07):
My heart started racing when you did at the beginning
of the show, and I was like, oh, I didn't
have to do it.
Speaker 4 (56:11):
Yeah, so yeah, what I did at the beginning the show,
I was like, Okay, I gotta prep them when we
do on break, like what are we going to do
at the end, And then we didn't really take a break,
but I'm we all got there. Eight years is a charm. Okay,
peace said everybody.
Speaker 3 (56:26):
Bye.
May I have your attention? Please? May I have your attention?
Speaker 2 (00:12):
Please welco you well, the real Weird Sisters.
Speaker 3 (00:22):
Please stand up. We're gonna have a problem. Here were
the Weird Sisters.
Speaker 2 (00:27):
We're the real Weird Sisters.
Speaker 1 (00:28):
All you are the Weird Sisters, have fine.
Speaker 3 (00:29):
Man of the Vikers.
Speaker 2 (00:30):
Well, the real Weird Sisters.
Speaker 3 (00:32):
Please stand up, please stand up, please stand up.
Speaker 4 (00:40):
Hello and welcome to the broadcast with Mana, Shandy and Colleen.
Speaker 5 (00:43):
My name is Colleen, my name is Amanda, and I'm Shandy.
Speaker 4 (00:47):
Welcome to the show, everybody. This is season ten, episode three,
and it is our eighth annual Real Weird Crossover.
Speaker 5 (00:55):
Welcome Martha and Elisay.
Speaker 3 (01:00):
I can't believe it's been eight times that we've done this.
Speaker 1 (01:02):
It's crazy.
Speaker 5 (01:03):
It's been more than eight times. It's eight years.
Speaker 3 (01:07):
Oh even crazier.
Speaker 6 (01:08):
Yeah, because we've done a couple of some years, right,
or a couple of them.
Speaker 4 (01:13):
Yeah, a couple of years we did actual like intros
like as broken down ones, and a couple of other years.
Speaker 5 (01:20):
I just did it that. I separated them myself.
Speaker 4 (01:23):
But right, yeah, right here we are. Last year it
was okay, so this is this is funny. I think
Shanny man I told you guys, but Shanny had brought up,
oh my god, we didn't do our real weird crossover
this year for season nine, and I was like, oh
my god, that's right. And this was in like May,
and then I totally forgot to message you guys, like
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the next day. And then literally one month later, it
was the last week of school and Alex was like, Mommy,
can I tell you a joke?
Speaker 5 (01:54):
You know what this joke is? I see Martha's laughing,
you know what this joke is?
Speaker 4 (01:58):
And he's like, what did Dell aware a joke?
Speaker 3 (02:05):
That's a classic? Truly a classic.
Speaker 5 (02:08):
It was like, oh, it's a sign I need to
make sure I reach out.
Speaker 4 (02:12):
But of course that was you know, eight forty five
for drop off, So then I forgot until a week I.
Speaker 5 (02:17):
Was gonna say.
Speaker 6 (02:17):
I thought you were gonna say, like, the end of
the school year is so busy that you just figured
it probably wouldn't work anyway.
Speaker 5 (02:23):
Because that would have been true.
Speaker 6 (02:24):
So this is a preferred time to record for us
then May or June.
Speaker 3 (02:29):
Usually in like February or something.
Speaker 7 (02:31):
I was saying to Allas earlier, I think this is
the first time we've ever done one that's not during
the school year, and it's pretty nice.
Speaker 3 (02:36):
Doing it not during the school year. So maybe this
is our regular time now.
Speaker 1 (02:40):
I don't know.
Speaker 5 (02:40):
That is very good to know.
Speaker 8 (02:43):
You're also back in a better time zone.
Speaker 3 (02:44):
That's true too.
Speaker 7 (02:45):
Yes, I'm now on the west side of things, not
quite as far as you, Shandy, but in Mountain time
is a lot more easy to do a show than
thin gig.
Speaker 3 (02:57):
Back to nine pm until about midnight.
Speaker 8 (03:00):
I am.
Speaker 1 (03:03):
You know, we all have our crosses to.
Speaker 4 (03:06):
It's funny because over the last year or so, it's
it's nary an episode where all three of us will
be drinking at one time. So we've actually had a
really good track record for you know, when everything goes
smoothly for recording in a reasonable time. But then we
did our season finale party and all three of us drink,
(03:27):
and the next morning I was like, guys, I don't remember.
Speaker 5 (03:30):
What we talked about. I'm sure it was great, but
I'm sure it was super fun. Yeah. Anyway, yeah, good times.
So how have you ladies been. Martha is in a
new time zone?
Speaker 7 (03:49):
Yes, I moved out to Billings where Alice lives Billings,
Montana last week that's where we grew up, right, No,
we actually both grew up in Bozeman, which is two
hours here. But Bozeman's basically like on a it's impossible
to live there now unless you make unless you've like
you're never left.
Speaker 3 (04:07):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah years ago.
Speaker 5 (04:10):
Yeah exactly, yeah really right.
Speaker 7 (04:13):
Also, it's like they're I don't know, I don't know
if i'd want to live in the same place I
grew up, but yeah, we've been here for the last
year over a year now exactly.
Speaker 3 (04:22):
So like July second that we got here.
Speaker 5 (04:26):
Happy anniversary, thanks and Alice.
Speaker 3 (04:28):
Alice and I live at ten minute walk from each other.
Speaker 4 (04:30):
So do you record in the same place now or
do you still I didn't think so.
Speaker 7 (04:36):
We still record from the comfort of our own homes,
but we are in the same time zone, which makes
a big difference.
Speaker 1 (04:41):
Yeah.
Speaker 6 (04:41):
A lot of people, especially I think you guys would
get it, like being podcasters, but a lot of people
who aren't podcasters will ask us that they're like, do
you record together now? And I'm like, it's so much
easier to record separate places.
Speaker 5 (04:53):
Like even technology wise, right, I think it's just like,
you know.
Speaker 6 (04:56):
It's nice to be able to like mute yourself for
a second to like, you know, if you needed to
take a drink or something like that, whereas when you're
together in the studio it's.
Speaker 3 (05:05):
Not very pleasant.
Speaker 8 (05:06):
Yeah.
Speaker 7 (05:07):
Well, I lived with Alice for about a year before
I moved out to Baltimore, and we had to record
in person together. Well sometimes, actually we figured out ways
for well, I guess I don't think we did it
very often, but like I would go in one room
and she would go to another room or something. But
we did have a mixer that worked. Okay, it just
was a lot less comfortable than it is just each
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been our own homes.
Speaker 1 (05:29):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (05:29):
Yeah, but it's really nice being in the same time zone.
Speaker 5 (05:32):
Yeah, that's better.
Speaker 1 (05:36):
Yep.
Speaker 6 (05:36):
And yeah, we're just living our best teacher summer life.
You know, not having to work for like two and
a half months is pretty awesome.
Speaker 3 (05:44):
So it is really really nice.
Speaker 7 (05:46):
And last last summer I didn't really experience summer break
as much, and Alice as well for different reasons. But
I was focused on moving last summer, so I spent
like the first few weeks of summer packing and then
the next few weeks of summer unpacking, and then it
was like school started, so this time we have a
lot of time to just do whatever else. And I
have been playing a lot of spades, which is really fun.
Speaker 5 (06:08):
Oh that's awesome.
Speaker 4 (06:09):
Yeah, Jay and I have been back on a playing
a lot of like Mancala nonclah.
Speaker 5 (06:16):
Yeah.
Speaker 1 (06:16):
Oh yeah.
Speaker 4 (06:17):
We got into it, like yeah, we got into it
like a year or so ago, and then just kind
of fell off of it for a little while.
Speaker 5 (06:25):
And then I don't know, over the last month or
not even months, just last few weeks.
Speaker 4 (06:31):
And it's funny because we were both in our rhythms
of like strategies and whatever, and it kind of like
it was one of those things like with Tic tac toe,
where unless yeah, somebody like super fucked up, you know,
whoever went first basically always won, right right.
Speaker 5 (06:47):
But it was weird coming back.
Speaker 4 (06:48):
Because I had forgotten all of my strategy, so I
was trying some crazy new shit and I lost poorly,
like three times in a row.
Speaker 5 (06:58):
Before I was like, all right, well, you know, don't
try things new.
Speaker 7 (07:03):
We had some of our cousins visited a few weeks ago,
and they like were staying at our parents' house, and
so they went into the like old game's cabinet and
found men calla so we were also well, Alice, wasn't
I don't think that I played a few rounds of
man Call recently as well.
Speaker 3 (07:18):
Yeah, I mean I was playing. It's very fun.
Speaker 7 (07:20):
I was playing against a twelve year old, so I
was kind of like, didn't necessarily try about just strategy.
Speaker 3 (07:24):
But it definitely is a fun game.
Speaker 5 (07:28):
It is a fun game.
Speaker 4 (07:29):
But yeah, I maintained that my original the original strategy,
unfortunately was yeah.
Speaker 5 (07:37):
Whatever, whatever, I got my group back. That's the moral
of the story.
Speaker 3 (07:39):
Good.
Speaker 4 (07:42):
What's awesome, Alice? How are things with you? I saw
Paul was in China, did you?
Speaker 5 (07:48):
Yeah or no?
Speaker 6 (07:50):
He went to China for a kind of for a
conference he was presenting there, and so I kind of
opted not to go this time because I just thought,
like I wasn't sure what the schedule would be. Yeah,
so yeah, I had a relaxing week at home, which
was nice.
Speaker 5 (08:05):
But yeah, he had a great trip. So that's awesome.
Speaker 1 (08:08):
So cool.
Speaker 7 (08:09):
The night that he came back, Alice told me the
next day she was like, unfortunately he did stay in
the bed. She had gotten so used to not sharing.
Speaker 6 (08:19):
Yeah, I like when I get to have the room
to myself, which is actually kind of a lot because
like if Paul gets uncomfortable or anything, he'll go sleep
on the couch and he doesn't mind, Like he likes
sleeping on the couch.
Speaker 8 (08:29):
Yeah, so it's kind of amazing. Yeah that separate rooms,
like they went onto something.
Speaker 4 (08:35):
Jay Jay will come down and sleep down here and
he'll get a lot better because it's quiet, excep everyone
Zachary wakes up because yeah's literally right above us.
Speaker 5 (08:45):
But yeah, sorry, uh, separate rooms. Well yeah, I just
I don't know.
Speaker 3 (08:50):
I kind of had got it was She was like
it was sad. He did say the night, the whole
night in the bed.
Speaker 6 (08:56):
Hot with like a second person and like both the
cats sleep with us. Yeah, you know, it just gets
really warm and I'm like sweating all night.
Speaker 7 (09:06):
Like, Paul, it must be so nice to return home
to your loving wife couch.
Speaker 5 (09:14):
You like it, You like it?
Speaker 6 (09:16):
Right, But truly, like I don't feel bad when he
sleeps on the couch because he actually really does like it,
because yeah, he could sleep anywhere, uh, which I'm not
really I mean I kind of can, but I wouldn't
want to spend the whole night on a couch, but yeah,
he doesn't mind.
Speaker 5 (09:33):
Yeah, I don't mind like some couches. My I don't.
Speaker 4 (09:38):
I don't have blinds in my living room. So although
I have slept on my couch before, just because I've
fallen asleep there, I always wake up as soon as
like the sunrises, and I.
Speaker 5 (09:51):
I hate I hate waking up early, So.
Speaker 7 (09:55):
I like waking up early naturally like that, though, if
I had to choose a way to.
Speaker 3 (09:58):
Wake up, like my couch.
Speaker 7 (10:01):
I have blackout curtains in my bedroom, and I really
like like sleeping in the dark, and like, yeah, sleeping
in in the dark, but in the winter, and well,
I guess when it's when when I'm going to work,
and I it still feels so dark in my room.
It's not easy to get out of bed that way.
So I kind of prefer to have the natural light.
Speaker 3 (10:19):
But then you have to kind of find the balance.
Speaker 4 (10:20):
Yeah, yeah, I agree, if you so, if you have
blackout curtains or whatever, you know, they have those alarm
clocks that will naturally.
Speaker 3 (10:28):
Ask Scot one of those, right, Yeah.
Speaker 6 (10:30):
I got one for my birthday, which my birthday is
in May, so it's not like the best time of
year to try it out, you know, because like, are
you may second?
Speaker 5 (10:38):
May third close? Yeah? Okah, good memory.
Speaker 3 (10:42):
You remember it, but I may the third be with you.
Speaker 5 (10:47):
Exactly.
Speaker 6 (10:48):
It's very handy little pnmonic avice and and.
Speaker 5 (10:51):
Martha is June twelfth.
Speaker 3 (10:52):
Yes, of course it's easy for you to remember that one. Yeah,
it is.
Speaker 7 (10:57):
So.
Speaker 6 (10:57):
I have the alarm clock and I was like, oh,
this is gonna be so great, and I plugged it
in and like set it and it goes off every day.
It does, I mean, it does naturally get light right
now anyway in our bedroom.
Speaker 5 (11:08):
Because we don't we don't have blackout curtains.
Speaker 3 (11:10):
But you don't have curtains at all, do you.
Speaker 6 (11:12):
Like on the one set of windows we don't. We
have like windows up high above our bedroom right Oh yeah, yeah,
we have curtains over the regular windows. But anyway, long
story short, the alarm clock does absolutely nothing for me.
It goes off every morning between five thirty and six,
and the only time I ever noticed it is when
I'm already awake, and then I'm like, oh, it must
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be between five thirty and six.
Speaker 3 (11:36):
But I think in the school year, yeah, it'll help.
Speaker 6 (11:40):
And when it gets dark, like when it's really dark
in the mornings.
Speaker 5 (11:43):
I'm looking forward to trying it.
Speaker 6 (11:45):
Then, but so far it does not wake me at all.
Speaker 3 (11:48):
I was really.
Speaker 7 (11:48):
Annoyed that Alice got one, though, because I have heard
of these alarm clocks literally since I was like a
college student, so like at least five years ago, like
six years ago for me, and I a little humble.
Speaker 5 (12:03):
Brag there, Okay, it doesn't mean it like that.
Speaker 7 (12:06):
What I meant is that I've like for many years,
had that on my Birthday and Christmas list as like
a suggestion of like something I would like for my
birthday or for Christmas. And Alice suddenly put it on
her list this year for the first time ever. I
just gets it immediately and I literally have never gotten it,
and that all the years that I've had it on
my list.
Speaker 5 (12:25):
Oh, I'm sorry, and that is frustrating.
Speaker 7 (12:28):
Yes, and Alice, remember you ever having That's what she's
I think I stopped because I was like, oh, this
is the kind of thing that I'll just have to
buy for myself.
Speaker 3 (12:35):
I guess that I just haven't done it.
Speaker 6 (12:38):
Yeah, they are like thirty dollars, so I think you
probably could splurge.
Speaker 5 (12:45):
You have put well Okay, which one is it?
Speaker 1 (12:48):
That is?
Speaker 5 (12:49):
What does it do that it's more expensive then.
Speaker 7 (12:51):
I think that they I don't know, they have different
settings or something like more variety, and like.
Speaker 6 (12:56):
The one I got is a sound machine too.
Speaker 5 (12:58):
I haven't really played with that.
Speaker 6 (13:00):
And it also I love that it does have different colors,
so like you could choose the one I have is
kind of a natural sun looking color.
Speaker 5 (13:09):
You can do different colors if you want to.
Speaker 3 (13:12):
Now you're sure it was thirty dollars. I think it
was like at least forty.
Speaker 6 (13:15):
Yeah, I don't know, maybe it was more, but your
snow Okay, no it was. It's yeah, and it's not
like any right, it's not part it's not connected to
your phone or anything, so that I don't know.
Speaker 5 (13:32):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (13:33):
Yeah, speaking of tariffs, I was in fabletics today and
they were like, you can order what you need because
there wasn't a lot of sizes left.
Speaker 5 (13:44):
And they're like, if you need different size, you can.
Speaker 4 (13:46):
Order it from our website, but like, let us know first,
because with tariffs or whatever, you'll pay for it if
you order it through our website, but you won't pay
a tariff if we order it ourselves.
Speaker 7 (13:57):
Wow.
Speaker 5 (13:58):
I was like, damn. I think it's because they can
order it from other stores.
Speaker 4 (14:04):
In the area, so they Yeah, they can be like,
oh this store in Fayetteville has it, let me have.
Speaker 5 (14:12):
It sent here. Yeah, I don't know if yeah, yeah,
you know what. I was using fatte because it was recognizable.
Speaker 8 (14:21):
You believe I used to live there. That's so weird.
Speaker 5 (14:23):
It is weird.
Speaker 3 (14:24):
I don't think that. I don't think that happened, like
it did happen. Are you sure?
Speaker 5 (14:32):
I mean you could still live there again, you still
want a house there?
Speaker 4 (14:35):
True, you don't know, you don't know what's Yeah, what's
about to happen?
Speaker 8 (14:45):
Yeah? Good times on a different now, I'm pretty sure.
Speaker 5 (14:49):
Cod good thing. We're all good thing. We're all online
and we're not.
Speaker 4 (14:59):
You have COVID tell us about this because yesterday, yeah,
I mean yesterday too.
Speaker 8 (15:06):
I was a little bit tired yesterday and I was like,
I got a pretty good night's sleep, So I like
that felt weird. But we had some friends come to
visit us from France and they on Wednesday, and then
one of our friends was like feeling a little bit
under the weather and like coughing and stuff. And I
didn't really think of it honestly, but like, yeah, makes
(15:27):
a lot of sense. And then they left on Monday morning,
and then Frank had started getting like a kind of
a sore throat type thing, probably on like Sunday, Monday,
and so yesterday was like more or less fine. This morning,
(15:47):
I had physical therapy, so sorry you didn't know.
Speaker 7 (15:52):
I don't know.
Speaker 8 (15:52):
I did not know. And I got home from that
and I was like, I can take my shower, getting
ready to go to work, and then I get this
text message from Frank and he was at work, and
so he went to work today and he was like,
I should probably just take it, like Frank is one
hundred percent like any doubt, Like, let's just take a
COVID test, which I appreciate, and but he didn't have,
(16:13):
like he didn't take it before he left for work.
So he was at work in his office like, oh,
I should take this COVID test. And then it was
fucking positive. Oh yeah, So he texted me that yeah,
and then I was like, so like, wait, what should
I do? I took two tests of two different brands
because also I'm like how long have we had these tests?
Speaker 1 (16:32):
Are they still good?
Speaker 8 (16:33):
I don't know. Brian will tell us. I almost texted him.
I was like, this closed, I could tell you yes, yes,
but anyway, I took him a few weeks ago.
Speaker 5 (16:45):
Actually anyway, thanks.
Speaker 8 (16:46):
Yeah, I took two COVID tests, two different brands from negative,
but like I have the same symptoms as Frank, like
a day or two behind.
Speaker 3 (16:54):
Yeah, maybe you'll get a positive test.
Speaker 8 (16:56):
Or yeah, it's like yeah, So I called my boss
and I was like, I'm just gonna take sickly today
and I just did home.
Speaker 5 (17:04):
Yeah I'm sorry.
Speaker 7 (17:05):
So yeah, it's kind of weird now in twenty twenty five.
I feel like we don't immediately think of it when
we're sick, so like, yeah, the same thing with Frank,
like not taking the test right away.
Speaker 3 (17:15):
That's how I would be too.
Speaker 7 (17:16):
My parents did the same thing recently when they got
COVID and oh no, it's like.
Speaker 8 (17:21):
Really going around again because I've heard like multiple.
Speaker 5 (17:23):
People are like I have too, but anything is like and.
Speaker 8 (17:26):
This time we're not ready and that's not gonna be
a vaccine and like it's but.
Speaker 4 (17:31):
It's okay in a way, And don't say I'm not
dismissing a river like that. Frank didn't mean to think
of it because we are all so assimilated back into society.
That last week, I had to pick up Alex from
uh his camp one morning because he uh he didn't
have a fever, but he was shivering. He was so cold.
He said he was cold inside. He is head hurt
(17:54):
on the top of his head and his leg's hurt.
And I didn't think COVID and he I don't think
he had COVID, but like, you know, I was like, oh, well,
you know, in the past, you could be like either
covid or flu, but now it's like we're back to
having all of the things in society. That what I
took him to the doctor. I tested negative for COVID
(18:17):
and flu. I think he had an enterovirus based on
because whenever we've taken Zachary to the urgent care, they
will test for every single thing, like any kind of virus.
It's like an extra like forty dollars, and it's like
worth it for peace of mind if you have anxiety.
If you don't have anxiety, it's fine, like you don't
(18:38):
need to do it. But if you're like, oh my god,
is my kid have meningitis? And they're like, do you
want to test for everything, and I'm like, yes, I do,
then it is worth it. But whatever with Alex, we
just took him to the regular doctor, and I do
think he just had some kind of enterovirus because he
was better within twenty four hours, but like he definitely
had something and he's never sick. But like again, you're
(19:01):
like in this point where're like, oh, it's a guessing
game because all the viruses are back on the table now.
Speaker 1 (19:06):
Yeah, for sure.
Speaker 8 (19:07):
Yeah, although I will say like because just speaking of
like other people having COVID, I was texting with a friend, yeah,
who texted this was just like unrelated out of the blue,
and she's like running this class this week and it's
for people from not not the US and from a
(19:27):
country that like we might think we're more advanced then
let's just say, And she was saying, like, it's been
really intense. Somebody tested positive for COVID and we had
to figure out the stupid medical system here, which is
so inhumane. And then it's embarrassing to explain to a
stic foreigner why he can't get medical care or why
he has to pay for it, or why the drugs
(19:48):
the doctor prescribed him are one seven hundred and seventy dollars.
Speaker 3 (19:52):
Oh my gosh.
Speaker 8 (19:53):
Yeah, I was like, yeah, that's like welcome. She's embarrassing.
Speaker 3 (19:58):
Yeah that.
Speaker 8 (20:00):
Oh my god. But yeah, like and so there's definitely
like other people here and other people, other people everywhere.
But again, like you said, like I just didn't even
think of COVID at first, which is feel.
Speaker 6 (20:13):
So dumb, but well, and it does though being the
summer too, I feel like it's I had COVID last
summer when we got back from our trip to Germany,
and it was like just not on people's minds, you know,
just being the middle of the summer.
Speaker 5 (20:28):
But it does seem to actually really circulate a lot.
Speaker 1 (20:31):
In these months for some reason. Well it's because contagious
and people are out warmed.
Speaker 8 (20:36):
Well exactly, because that's the thing. Like we definitely got
it from our friend who was sick, who like may
or may not have gotten it on the plane on
the way over here, but then like we both definitely
have it. One of our other friends tested positive. Somebody
else has a sort of threat. So it's just like
it's still like very infectious and yeah it's not great.
Speaker 3 (20:57):
Yeah, well feel better.
Speaker 1 (21:03):
And hopefully your symptoms hopefully.
Speaker 7 (21:05):
This is a he likes podcast for you and not
something that exacerbates the illness.
Speaker 5 (21:11):
Exactly.
Speaker 4 (21:12):
You're sitting upright, and I feel like that's a good sign.
Speaker 8 (21:16):
I mean, I stayed home to I'm gonna stay home to.
Like the thing is, like, it's fine. I love a
legitimate ex used to take.
Speaker 7 (21:23):
I've heard the podcasting as the past for everything, so.
Speaker 4 (21:28):
The way, yeah, I heard that five days is perfectly
reasonable for COVID totally.
Speaker 8 (21:35):
I mean, I don't want to like blow through all
my sickle. That's the other thing that's so frustrating is
like I can't tell. It's like, you know, policy specific
to everybody's workplace is different, but like I can't I
can't telework because I had a negative test. But I
could maybe be approved for telework if I had a
(21:55):
positive test but felt well enough to like actually work
from home, right, you know, because it's like they realize
that they don't want you to come to work and
affect everyone.
Speaker 5 (22:04):
Right, But also it's Trump's America. They don't give a ship,
and it's.
Speaker 8 (22:12):
Like it's on the employer to do something about that
and just like have a fucking like logical policy. But anyway,
it's pretty.
Speaker 1 (22:23):
Yeah.
Speaker 4 (22:24):
Am I allowed to bring up the fact that the
do OE is officially allowed to be disbanded?
Speaker 5 (22:29):
Just disbanded? Or is this a no bueno subject?
Speaker 3 (22:34):
I mean it is a no bueno subject.
Speaker 1 (22:39):
About it.
Speaker 5 (22:39):
There's no questions about that.
Speaker 3 (22:45):
Yeah, I mean do we want to talk about that?
Speaker 7 (22:47):
That sounds like a big downer for a podcast topic.
Speaker 5 (22:52):
Well, that's fine.
Speaker 4 (22:52):
I had some great stuff for the middle sections.
Speaker 5 (22:56):
Back up.
Speaker 1 (22:59):
Great singer is about the de being just Spanish jokes
all day?
Speaker 7 (23:08):
Yeah?
Speaker 4 (23:10):
Did you sorry?
Speaker 5 (23:17):
The best thing would if I made the joke in Spanish?
Speaker 3 (23:20):
Right, Yeah, Well.
Speaker 7 (23:22):
Soon we won't be able to because we won't be
allowing Spanish classes.
Speaker 5 (23:31):
What is to hear in Spanish?
Speaker 7 (23:32):
Is it?
Speaker 5 (23:32):
It's like scar right? Yeah, listen to listen?
Speaker 4 (23:38):
So is it like tennis, escuchar, scu charies, schares, i'll
uh deportment the education, I don't know, cuche.
Speaker 8 (23:52):
Our Spanish is collectively very good?
Speaker 5 (23:59):
Well maybe it. Maybe I should call the show i'lla
real weird crossover.
Speaker 3 (24:10):
Will workshop for other titles.
Speaker 5 (24:16):
The night is still young.
Speaker 6 (24:17):
I think there's an opportunity for possibly something better.
Speaker 1 (24:22):
Let's not go with the first idea, you know, no
bad idea.
Speaker 8 (24:29):
I do have to say, because I keep looking at her.
I love that I can see a little amber over there,
like camouflage. I know.
Speaker 6 (24:39):
I'm sorry to I'm sorry to the listeners who can't
see her, but I did.
Speaker 5 (24:43):
I did turn the camera so you would all.
Speaker 3 (24:45):
Have a view of her. Yeah, isn't she sweet?
Speaker 6 (24:49):
She has gotten into the cutest habit of every time
I podcast, she knows that I'm about to podcast, so
she comes like running into this room and then she
just sits on that bench and then when I'm finished,
she just gets up and goes to the door.
Speaker 5 (25:04):
Isn't that so sweet?
Speaker 6 (25:06):
Yeah?
Speaker 5 (25:07):
I wish she would sit on my lap during the show,
but yeah, she doesn't want to right here.
Speaker 4 (25:13):
But it's very hot in this room because the a
C Is still up and she's sitting on the floor
over there.
Speaker 5 (25:19):
How long has a year?
Speaker 3 (25:22):
So we said still, like so I was assumed since last.
Speaker 4 (25:28):
Summer, but like it kind of briefly worked and then
it like died out again. But it's just down here
because we have two of h vax. You know, a
guy that renovated our house with a crackhead.
Speaker 3 (25:38):
And you do have it in the rest of the house,
so we have it upstairs.
Speaker 5 (25:42):
It's fine.
Speaker 4 (25:43):
We usually have a zillion fans going on down here
so you can't notice it. But I actually I shut
them all off before because we had a thunderstorm and
I didn't turn the neck on.
Speaker 5 (25:55):
But Tim the realtor, it happened up stairs like two
years ago.
Speaker 4 (26:01):
Tim the riltor came over like because we were just
texting him like, hey, you know something that can help
us fix this hvac, and he came over.
Speaker 5 (26:07):
He fixed it. And then the same thing happened with
this one.
Speaker 4 (26:11):
Jay Surmises, and I texted him like a week ago
and he's like, oh, yeah, you can just buy that
part for twenty dollars on Amazon.
Speaker 5 (26:18):
Here's what it's called.
Speaker 4 (26:20):
He gave it the name to me, but not a link,
and I looked up the name and he is correct.
It is twenty dollars that you can just swap it
out really easily. But there's like seventy five different things
and I need to like go outside and look at
the actual HVAC like you know, serial number unit, and
I feel like we could easily fix it ourselves. But
(26:41):
then I got lazy and was like, oh, I don't
want to walk all the way outside and fix it.
Speaker 1 (26:45):
I'd rather be sorry.
Speaker 3 (26:48):
Yeah, it's I don't know.
Speaker 7 (26:50):
It's kind of like fixing your car too, Like the
parts that you're going to use usually you can get
it for like twenty dollars on the Amazon.
Speaker 3 (26:57):
Then it's like you have to know how to do it,
and then you have to go through doing it.
Speaker 8 (27:02):
And exactly, like.
Speaker 4 (27:05):
Can I realistically wait until Tim is here for Jay's
birthday next March?
Speaker 3 (27:13):
I was expectingly like September.
Speaker 1 (27:18):
You're kind of at the height of the summer.
Speaker 9 (27:19):
Anyway, you get into October, your smooth salindar exactly.
Speaker 4 (27:24):
But I could have before everybody comes for the podcast
meet up weekend whenever we do it in the fall.
I could also just invite him, which he'll show up
because Tim is the motherfucking greatest.
Speaker 10 (27:35):
While he's there, you know what, I like, Oh, hey,
while you're at it, this is still in the Amazon packaging.
Speaker 3 (27:48):
I think it's the perfect plan. I think so too.
Speaker 4 (27:51):
And you know, it's like a sauna down here, so
it's also I'm like losing water weight, so it's like
a wind wind for everybody.
Speaker 5 (28:00):
That's one approach. Exactly.
Speaker 9 (28:02):
We do have to.
Speaker 4 (28:05):
Like I said, I turned the fans off. Yesterday we
had a pretty big thunderstorm. And then yesterday morning did
I say this When we recorded the previous episode where
the thunder storm started at like one o'clock in the morning,
I went to sleep, and then at like I fell
sleep at like one point thirty, and then at five
(28:26):
o'clock it woke me up and I was awake. I
swear to God, NonStop thunder from five o'clock till like
seven fifteen when it finally started raining, and the rain
put me to sleep because it was like white noise.
But like, oh my god, the thunderstorms have just been
insane here and we're lucky because there's been horrific flooding
in Durham and Chapel Hill, like it's.
Speaker 5 (28:46):
Been really really bad.
Speaker 4 (28:47):
Like neighborhoods are like, you know, up to whatever, and
we've been so lucky here in Raleigh. That is literally
the band has just missed us every time.
Speaker 5 (28:57):
Yeah, thunder thought. Anyway, let's let's let's move on. Okay,
I got a couple of things. One we can do now, this.
Speaker 1 (29:10):
Is in uh am. I the asshole is the asshole?
Speaker 4 (29:14):
Oh no, it's a it's a subredded marriage, and it's
husband doesn't like when I orgasm and tries to stop
it when it's happening.
Speaker 1 (29:21):
What, I'm sorry?
Speaker 5 (29:25):
What the next one is?
Speaker 4 (29:28):
Am I the asshole for taking back my tip after
the waitress humiliated me in front of everybody.
Speaker 5 (29:36):
You know, Let's just go with the orgasm one because
that got that got a response?
Speaker 3 (29:43):
Great? All right? So what subreddit is this in?
Speaker 5 (29:49):
This is in the r slash marriage? Oh okay, I
thought that was the am I the asshole?
Speaker 4 (29:54):
Was like, no, it was so you know how you
can share share them like you can share the best
of Reddit or whatever, like you can share them.
Speaker 5 (30:06):
I just assumed this wasn't as Yeah, yeah, but it's not.
It's from marriage.
Speaker 4 (30:12):
Okay, okay, husband's husband doesn't like when I orgasm.
Speaker 5 (30:16):
And tries to stop it when it's happening. Right.
Speaker 2 (30:22):
I really wish the listeners could see Shaddy's face.
Speaker 8 (30:26):
I have like a full body reaction.
Speaker 5 (30:29):
I thought you were going to take your sweatshirt off
to stop that. Shandy's full body reaction.
Speaker 11 (30:42):
Hey, I'm hoping some I have to zoom in, sorry,
like Martha now, and I am at the point where
I zoom in sorry, No.
Speaker 8 (30:54):
I got chills. If it was the covid or or
or the.
Speaker 5 (31:00):
Having to stop the orgasms.
Speaker 1 (31:04):
Cod literally affecting her health.
Speaker 5 (31:09):
Aka things that happen in Texas.
Speaker 4 (31:14):
Hey, I'm hoping someone can help me figure out what
to do in this situation. Basically, when I start to
orgasm during sex, my husband will physically restrain my reflective
reflexive movements so I can no longer finish.
Speaker 5 (31:27):
For example, if my.
Speaker 4 (31:28):
Back reflexively starts arching the wrong way, he will use
his forearm to straighten out my back so I can't
move it. If I'm on top and starting an orgasm,
he will lift me up off of him until the feeling.
Speaker 5 (31:42):
Passes, and then we'll keep going.
Speaker 4 (31:44):
When I no longer have the urge to move the
way he doesn't like. He has even stopped altogether because he.
Speaker 5 (31:51):
Said I'm hurting him. What I am doing doesn't feel
good to go back to the other way. Last week,
I was.
Speaker 4 (32:01):
On top when the main event started and he interrupted
saying Nope, not like that, and physically lift.
Speaker 5 (32:09):
I can't with The face.
Speaker 3 (32:14):
Has not moved.
Speaker 5 (32:17):
Like did her screen phase or is she just.
Speaker 4 (32:22):
All this sounds like the fucking worst, Like this isn't andrewyet.
Speaker 3 (32:28):
Any like I twenty four f or like do we
know how old these people are?
Speaker 7 (32:33):
Or no?
Speaker 5 (32:34):
Actually no they haven't actually, which is weird because usually
you have to do that.
Speaker 4 (32:41):
Yeah, so I'm gonna go with husband. I'm gonna go
with evangelical M twenty.
Speaker 5 (32:50):
F eighteen, Like do you think that they're just married?
Speaker 3 (32:54):
Like that they just got married and that they did
not have premarital sex.
Speaker 4 (32:58):
I just say this is why should always Yeah, you
know you have to take the car for a drive,
you always have to deestrip the car.
Speaker 5 (33:07):
Did you did you finish reading the whole point?
Speaker 7 (33:09):
No? I have it.
Speaker 5 (33:10):
Let me finish, Okay, I didn't.
Speaker 3 (33:12):
No, I stop there. I'm going to stop you before
you finish there.
Speaker 5 (33:18):
Okay stop.
Speaker 4 (33:22):
Uh.
Speaker 5 (33:23):
I apologize left and right because I didn't mean to
hurt him.
Speaker 4 (33:25):
I told him my hips, my hips move like that
when I orgasm as a reflex and I wasn't meant
to do it meaning to do it.
Speaker 5 (33:32):
He said it was okay and that I did a
much I did much better.
Speaker 4 (33:36):
At the end, I was like, oh, but I had
to completely stop mid orgasm to turn myself off in order.
Speaker 5 (33:41):
To do it, and wasn't able to finish because of it.
Then last night we were lying, we were a side
lying spooning position. I'm sorry.
Speaker 4 (33:50):
Then last night we were in the side lying spooning
position when my orgasm started.
Speaker 5 (33:55):
I guess I arched my back the wrong way for
a second.
Speaker 4 (33:58):
He said, I was doing that weird thing with my back,
and he moved my body back to where he wanted it.
He then said he was just trying to help. He
even said, haven't you seen the way girls twerk on Instagram?
They do it like this, and you are doing it
like this with where he's looking.
Speaker 5 (34:16):
I'm sorry.
Speaker 1 (34:16):
I don't think.
Speaker 4 (34:21):
Honestly, I don't think this guy knows what an orgasm
is for women.
Speaker 3 (34:25):
Like that's what it sounds like.
Speaker 1 (34:26):
He doesn't care exactly.
Speaker 5 (34:29):
He said the way that I was doing wasn't attractive.
I told him that once again. I wasn't doing it intentionally.
It was just an orgasm. It's just the way my
body moves.
Speaker 4 (34:38):
He brought it up again today, saying that I arched
my back just fine up until the very end, so
he knows I can do it.
Speaker 5 (34:45):
It's totally invalidating.
Speaker 4 (34:47):
He isn't hearing me, and even worse, he keeps stopping
me mid orgasm over and over. The only reason I
didn't say something sooner was because I thought him restraining
me and holding me down was him trying to put
effort into being dominant.
Speaker 1 (34:59):
In the bed dream.
Speaker 8 (35:00):
Lol.
Speaker 5 (35:01):
Now I know he was seriously trying to correct me
all this time. I'm like, what the hell?
Speaker 4 (35:06):
My issue is that he says I am physically hurting
him when it happens. What am I supposed to say
to that?
Speaker 3 (35:11):
You know?
Speaker 5 (35:12):
It's fucking hilarious.
Speaker 4 (35:13):
About this to me is that so many men out there,
like will complain about like, you know, women can't orgasm
because they're woke or because they're.
Speaker 7 (35:21):
This or that.
Speaker 5 (35:22):
Like this motherfucker his lady is clearly orgasm at the touch.
Speaker 1 (35:27):
Seriously, I'm not getting it.
Speaker 3 (35:31):
Yeah, is there a question to this post or she
just over showed?
Speaker 7 (35:35):
No?
Speaker 5 (35:36):
No, no, it's just our marriage, so there's no share.
Speaker 3 (35:41):
He wants to know.
Speaker 5 (35:41):
Yeah, like, what can I do to stop?
Speaker 8 (35:44):
How could you correctly?
Speaker 5 (35:46):
Yeah?
Speaker 7 (35:48):
Watching videos of women on Instagram talking beful and educational,
I actually recommend that.
Speaker 5 (35:55):
And she's finished by consulting a divorced layer.
Speaker 3 (35:58):
Yeah, I just yeah, it's terrible.
Speaker 5 (36:07):
Can you imagine that's that's really strange.
Speaker 4 (36:12):
How many men get blue balls because you're like, no,
I'm not into it, and they get really pissed off.
Speaker 5 (36:17):
And this guy is literally he has what I assume.
Speaker 8 (36:24):
Wants.
Speaker 5 (36:25):
Yeah, I don't know. He doesn't like wet as.
Speaker 8 (36:30):
That's true. He has what Ben Shapiro doesn't know he wants. Yeah,
he doesn't know what it doesn't.
Speaker 5 (36:37):
Know, Yeah, exactly.
Speaker 4 (36:40):
I wish let me see if there's more information. Uh,
this is just a screen cap of like best of
or whatever.
Speaker 5 (36:47):
But like I it is like this is just like
so disrespectful and just so insane, right.
Speaker 9 (36:55):
Means to have like continued for like a long time,
like yeah, yeah, that happens once you talk about it
and like you forgure how to move forward continually happening.
Speaker 1 (37:07):
It's like sounds like he.
Speaker 5 (37:08):
Gave his input that you know, she should watch her
video and Instagram.
Speaker 1 (37:13):
I have a solved, just stop this stop.
Speaker 3 (37:16):
Yeah, or maybe he just needs to be less good
at that.
Speaker 7 (37:21):
I like, I don't know, like the problem if the
problem is that that like he doesn't need to I
don't I don't know, like maybe just brainstorming, like yeah,
it should he should be taking it as a copple
bed right like that he's giving her this full body reaction,
like like what he what the post game candy?
Speaker 1 (37:46):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (37:46):
I think most of the time the answer is communication.
Speaker 5 (37:49):
So yeah, I found I found the full post, but
I think that I don't know. I feel like maybe
they have communicated. He's just selfish.
Speaker 9 (38:00):
It does like just hearing her read that, it does
sound like she has said they have talked about it,
and like and keep stopping.
Speaker 8 (38:09):
Her a complex. Oh sure, your own like natural physical reaction.
Speaker 1 (38:13):
That's terrible.
Speaker 4 (38:15):
Yeah, maybe just tell her husband to like go fuck himself,
like go have self with sex to yourself.
Speaker 5 (38:20):
Like God, I was gonna say, like having sex with me,
then maybe you should just.
Speaker 1 (38:24):
Go yeah, just with yourself.
Speaker 3 (38:26):
Yeah, oh boy, it's.
Speaker 1 (38:31):
A two way street.
Speaker 8 (38:35):
Was there any follow up? I want to know what happened.
Speaker 5 (38:38):
Yeah, so, okay, here's a follow up.
Speaker 4 (38:41):
I just thought he was trying to take charge in
the bedroom and that he was putting an extra effort.
We all make mistakes sometimes. I'm sure I mess up
an orgasm for him once in a while. So I
just didn't want to shame him for something that already feels.
Speaker 5 (38:57):
Yeah, I think he's still finished. That's all he cares about.
He doesn't you can tell.
Speaker 3 (39:03):
She'll be able to tell if it's not working for him.
Speaker 5 (39:06):
Oh, don't you worry.
Speaker 4 (39:08):
An overwhelming amount of responses were like no, sweet, yeah, craziness.
Speaker 5 (39:18):
My favorite response is though this is horrific, leave run
did she say? Like she didn't say anything else, like
she didn't think that he's weird that I see in
the comments of the thread.
Speaker 4 (39:33):
But somebody is commenting that he referenced Instagram porn, which
must have been one of her responses that wasn't up voted,
voted at least Yeah, Instagram.
Speaker 1 (39:45):
Instagram porn thing.
Speaker 5 (39:47):
Yeah.
Speaker 8 (39:47):
I was like, yeah, I is it like talking dirty?
Speaker 5 (39:55):
Oh no, no, any baby girl.
Speaker 8 (40:00):
I went on Twitter once in like the last like
five years, and it was mad.
Speaker 1 (40:05):
I went on Twitter once period.
Speaker 3 (40:13):
Today and I don't remember what the tweet was.
Speaker 7 (40:15):
It was not about sex at all, and literally all
replies were like, like, I bet you would like my
free only fans and like a video that it was
like a link because I was like trying to.
Speaker 5 (40:29):
Made that.
Speaker 7 (40:30):
They literally are, yeah, I mean you could get Twitter
porn before that too, which where to go but which
I mean, to be fair.
Speaker 4 (40:38):
Twitter was doing bad because Elon was doing bad, And
to be fair to him, he does know that the
one thing that makes money is sex, and the one
thing that makes super money is sex and nerds.
Speaker 3 (40:49):
So yeah, I don't think there's any world where we
have to be fair to him though, So.
Speaker 5 (40:55):
Yeah, we don't have to.
Speaker 1 (41:01):
Anyway.
Speaker 4 (41:01):
Yeah, I think I think the over agreement as I'm
scrolling through is you know, uh, he's just trying to
physically control her orgasms, which is disgusting.
Speaker 3 (41:11):
And yeah, I mean maybe he's not maybe he doesn't
like women.
Speaker 4 (41:17):
I also thought of that too, like maybe the fact
the like idea of like women orgasming orgasming is disgusting
to him, Yeah, which is also fine, but then just
you know, but yeah, but then you're married to a
woman exactly, or you know, get with the program and
stop sucking her, like whichever comes first for you.
Speaker 7 (41:41):
Yeah, I don't know, like that, it seems like a
red flag that he is that like turned off by that,
like yeah, for sure, for sure.
Speaker 5 (41:50):
I yeah, I just I do wish that we had
had more information in general.
Speaker 7 (41:53):
About how old they are and how long they've been married,
especially yes, but I'm like, if they're less than a
less than five years, I'm like, I think you just gotta.
Speaker 8 (42:03):
Yeah, yeah, get out.
Speaker 3 (42:05):
Yeah. So I was like a new thing after like
a fifteen year marriage. Maybe work through it.
Speaker 5 (42:11):
Yeah, yeah, I don't think so. Though.
Speaker 3 (42:14):
It definitely sounds like the first long history together.
Speaker 5 (42:20):
No, yeah, I'll say it.
Speaker 4 (42:22):
It sounds like they are like something Christian Christian where
they had sex after marriage and just don't understand.
Speaker 1 (42:31):
Like what it is.
Speaker 5 (42:33):
All right, Uh, let's see a quick break. We come back,
We'll do some feedback.
Speaker 1 (42:37):
Here we go.
Speaker 5 (42:41):
All right, we're back. We're already get into some feedback.
Speaker 4 (42:43):
The first minute feedback is from the facey Back, and
this from Matt and Matt says you may not want
to form a last minute list a list last minute,
but New York Times recently put out a list of
the best movies of the twenty first century, and a
lot of nerd film nerds are sharing their ballots. It
could be fun to discuss your picks. And I said,
oh my god, I'm pretty sure Martha did this.
Speaker 5 (43:06):
I did.
Speaker 3 (43:07):
I did my own ballot.
Speaker 6 (43:09):
Did I tweet it or something I don't even putt it?
Speaker 5 (43:12):
Yeah, or Instagram something.
Speaker 3 (43:13):
Yeah, right, did anybody else do theirs?
Speaker 5 (43:17):
Well, I look, I looked at it.
Speaker 6 (43:19):
But this, this will surprise nobody who knows me that
I had hardly seen any of the movies, so I
don't know.
Speaker 3 (43:27):
What I had, she says, But she says the movies.
She means any movies.
Speaker 7 (43:31):
Well, I know, I like literally literally like you would
just type the name of a movie and it would
populate it. Yeah.
Speaker 5 (43:37):
Yeah, so I could come.
Speaker 6 (43:39):
Up with like a couple that I would say, but
I had. I guess what I meant is that I
had looked at the list that New York Times is
putting out, and they'd only released through like the top
fifty sorry, like fifty through one hundred or something at
that point. I don't know what's out by now. But yeah, yeah,
so I looked at it and I had hardly seen
any of those. Yes, you're right, I think I could.
(44:02):
I could come up with a few.
Speaker 7 (44:04):
You could come up with ten movies that you've seen
that came out between twenty twenty twenty five.
Speaker 5 (44:09):
I think, Okay, I have the list here.
Speaker 3 (44:13):
How do I do this, Martha, Well, I don't have
a New York Times account, so I can't see that. Actually, well,
how did you do it?
Speaker 1 (44:21):
Yeah?
Speaker 9 (44:22):
Oh I can.
Speaker 7 (44:22):
I submitted my own ballot like with a free but
I can't access the list.
Speaker 5 (44:28):
You should do it.
Speaker 4 (44:29):
Because I have gotten it for four dollars a month
for the last like four years.
Speaker 3 (44:33):
Yeah I should. Alice also was kind of talking to
me about that earlier.
Speaker 4 (44:37):
Today, I do it, then they raise it, I disue
the charge, I cancel it, and then I resigned.
Speaker 5 (44:44):
I should do that. Yeah, it has worked every time. Yeah.
Speaker 3 (44:48):
Sorry, Well, how many have they released so far? Or
have they done releasing them?
Speaker 5 (44:54):
I don't know.
Speaker 6 (44:55):
It was a few weeks ago when everybody was doing
the ballots. I feel like they had only released like
like I said, like fifty to one hundred or something
until like there was at least a few more weeks left.
Speaker 5 (45:04):
But I could look now.
Speaker 3 (45:05):
Well, Alice, I know that you've seen a total on
my list.
Speaker 8 (45:10):
Oh okay, I'm gonna share this article.
Speaker 1 (45:13):
Okay.
Speaker 4 (45:13):
I found the reader top one hundred list. Parasite, Mulholland Drive,
No Country or Old Men, There will be Blood, Interstellar,
The Dark Knight, Mad Max, Fury Road.
Speaker 5 (45:25):
Which I hated, so whatever.
Speaker 4 (45:28):
Sphered Away, Eternal Sunshet, The Spotless Mind, and the Social
Network in the top ten in terms of a spotlight mine.
Spotless Mind is in my top five favorite movies of
all time. I actually I don't even know why this
came up, but I over the weekend like went on
a spree of watching clips from it, like it's so good.
It's also like, as you like move into like more
(45:52):
AI or whatever, you're like, oh, this is kind of
scary because it probably could happen in real life.
Speaker 5 (45:56):
But yeah, sorry, I'm at a.
Speaker 1 (45:58):
Oh no, I was, uh, I forget what.
Speaker 5 (46:01):
I forget what I was gonna say something about movies.
Speaker 1 (46:04):
Oh yeah, I don't know. Oh my gosh. This website
is nuts.
Speaker 5 (46:09):
It is nuts.
Speaker 1 (46:10):
I like tried to pull it up on my computer.
My computer was like hard, no, hard, no.
Speaker 3 (46:15):
So I will I will say the ten that I sent, Yeah,
the ten that I posted.
Speaker 7 (46:22):
I kind of like I waffled so much between like
I had like five, actually I had like fifteen, and
I was like, what do I make the ten and
a couple of them, like a couple from the that
are in the top ten on New York or on
the actual New York Times, like there will be blood
and then it's not on the top ten. But Moonlight's
another one that I was like, I love that movie,
but I've only seen it once. So it was kind
(46:42):
of like, these are movies that I was like, most
of them I've seen multiple times and like recommended to
people and stuff and like had a big like reaction
to when I saw it. So mine were and this
was not an order. I'll do a bin alphabetical order.
Are you there, God, it's me Margaret from twenty Time
Avatar The Way of Water because I loved it, it
(47:05):
was amazing before Sunset, Black Swan, Broke Back Mountain, Get Out,
Knives Out, Parasite and Promising Young Woman, and Ratituy. So
Alice has seen five of those ten? Yeah, al Alice
(47:26):
has seen Promising Young Woman, Parasite, Knives Out, Ratitu, and
get Out.
Speaker 1 (47:31):
Ye.
Speaker 3 (47:31):
So yeah, you haven't seen Broke Back Mountain, right, Alice?
Speaker 6 (47:35):
No, I will say at least two of those also
are in my top ten for sure. The Ratitude and
Promising Young Woman two of my faves.
Speaker 5 (47:43):
What do we call it, angry white chick movie?
Speaker 1 (47:49):
Like, we liked it.
Speaker 4 (47:51):
The soundtrack is amazing, but we could for the longest
time Matt would recommend it.
Speaker 1 (47:55):
We'd be like angry White woman movie.
Speaker 5 (48:00):
Well, it's accurate, but I will agree.
Speaker 4 (48:02):
I'm looking at the official New York Times list, so
not the voters one, right.
Speaker 5 (48:08):
Because there's That's what I was going to say too.
There's a couple of different ones. There's definitely to ten.
So the dig has parasite, which I haven't seen.
Speaker 4 (48:19):
Oh you've gotta yeah, apparently obviously, but yeah, I've There
will be blood.
Speaker 5 (48:27):
That's the I drink your milkshakes.
Speaker 7 (48:28):
I love There will be Blood. I watched it last
year for the first time. I thought it was so good.
Speaker 5 (48:32):
It in the mood for love.
Speaker 7 (48:36):
Moonlight, that's the one that I'm like, I kind of
wish it was on there, but I just have only
seen it the one time.
Speaker 4 (48:43):
Yeah, No Country for Olden Eternal Sunshine. It's about this Mine,
which I can't speak highly enough of that movie. I
love that movie so much. Get Out, which is also
very scary and good spirited away and social network and
maybe the social network is that high.
Speaker 7 (49:07):
Too.
Speaker 4 (49:08):
Actually done, it's well done, but I don't know if
it's like life changing. But you know something, guys, We
will continue this next week when we do this some
more so if you're very interested and a whole week
has gone by and you don't feel like looking it
up yourselves, stay tuned.
Speaker 5 (49:32):
But yes, I am willing so parasite. What is it
even about.
Speaker 7 (49:37):
About social class? And well, who else who here's seen
up besides me at Alice?
Speaker 8 (49:45):
I started it and I have for some reason, I
got interrupted and never went back in front, Like every
single time, I was like, I can't believe you haven't
finished it.
Speaker 7 (49:53):
Okay, Well, it's a commentary on social class, and it's
like I can't really say too much about it, but
basically it's about a really really rich family and a
really really poor family and like, and this is I'm
gonna sound dumb because I only saw it the one time,
but like some of them are like workers for the
rich family, right, Like yeah, so it's like the rich
family and then the like hired help is part of
(50:15):
the other family.
Speaker 3 (50:16):
But there's more to it than that, way, more to
it than that.
Speaker 5 (50:18):
Okay, but it's kind of like.
Speaker 3 (50:20):
It's got like it's scary. It's scary. It's less scary
than get.
Speaker 5 (50:24):
Out, okay, because okay, get Out was suspenseful scary.
Speaker 3 (50:28):
Yeah, I mean Parasite is kind of a simil.
Speaker 5 (50:30):
I'd say it's a similar ye.
Speaker 7 (50:32):
Scary, there's I don't even think that. I feel like
get Out has a few more jump scares than Parasite does.
Parasite maybe has like one jump scare in it, if
I remember, But mostly it's just like there's kind of
a tense feeling the whole time. But there's also quite
a bit of humor in it too, kind of like
get Out, but sort of different level. Like there's just
a lot of like ironic, like you know, like the
(50:54):
rich people not really understanding how out of touch they seem,
that kind of thing, and it's really good. I really
so it's like, yeah, kind of I think. I think
all the accolades that got were like extremely deserved. Like
when I saw it, it was super I thought it
was incredible.
Speaker 4 (51:12):
And this does make me more likely because I just
always thought it was like a horror movie, So this
actually does make me more likely.
Speaker 1 (51:18):
To give it.
Speaker 7 (51:19):
I'm not a horror person, and I really liked it.
I would say again, like get Out as scarier, and
it's it's it's it's as important to watch as get
Out is. I think, so yeah, I will I'll check
it out for real, And I mean, I don't know
if they have a I hope that they don't, but
I mean, obviously it's not in English, but it's worth
(51:42):
watching with subtitles, like I think, I don't know. I
don't think that there is a dubbed version, but I
would not watch it if, yeah, if there is a
dubbed version, which I don't even know if there is.
Speaker 5 (51:56):
Before we wrap this up, Martha, he can we get
your word that the next.
Speaker 4 (52:02):
Unofficial real weird crossover could be if Shandy Aman and
I all watch Parasite and talking.
Speaker 5 (52:10):
Yeah, well watch it too, Yeah, yeah, it would just
be talking about that.
Speaker 3 (52:14):
Yeah.
Speaker 7 (52:15):
Alice and I were literally talking about how it would
be fun to have that be, like the next crossover
would be not Parasite, but we were saying, like to
have us all watch one movie or one show or.
Speaker 3 (52:23):
Something's do and have that be our topic.
Speaker 5 (52:25):
We did broad little lies once.
Speaker 3 (52:27):
Oh that's right, Oh that's right.
Speaker 4 (52:29):
I only know because I had to count how many
years we've done this, because I knew we did it
since Alex was born, but I didn't know we skipped
any years.
Speaker 5 (52:39):
And when I was going through it, I was like, Oh,
look at that. We did a broad little lies together
for all about that.
Speaker 3 (52:44):
I don't think I was on that was I.
Speaker 1 (52:46):
I think you were.
Speaker 3 (52:47):
No, I don't think so, because I didn't watch Pickle Eyes.
Speaker 5 (52:49):
Oh okay, well then.
Speaker 1 (52:50):
I guess it was just me.
Speaker 8 (52:51):
You have not seen my cinematic though.
Speaker 5 (52:54):
I watched you Never'sion.
Speaker 3 (52:58):
Watch the clip of it.
Speaker 5 (53:01):
She's like three credits away from second.
Speaker 7 (53:05):
Her line was cut. That was why I didn't watch it.
If I had, if the line had been and I watched.
But the thing with the Little Eyes. I read the
book and I loved the book, and then I started
watching the show, and I was like, it felt so
different from the book. Not to be like a purist
about that or anything, but I think now that it's
been so long since I've read the book, I definitely
could watch the show and enjoy it.
Speaker 5 (53:26):
The first season is The second season is terrible.
Speaker 3 (53:29):
But the first well, I just it was like.
Speaker 5 (53:32):
It was like, there's a great ass on TV.
Speaker 3 (53:36):
It was like, I read the book and then.
Speaker 7 (53:38):
The next day I started watching the show, and so
I should have waited a while instead of going straight
to it.
Speaker 5 (53:44):
The second season, he's not The second season is not terrible.
It's that one storyline with Meryl Street that they really
could have done better. Yeah, that's where they dropt the ball.
Everything else was fine.
Speaker 3 (53:57):
The next crossover, we will watch Parasite and talk about it.
Speaker 1 (54:02):
Yeah.
Speaker 3 (54:03):
Perfect. Then after that I will watch Picklet.
Speaker 5 (54:06):
How about this is we we're gonna lock you down
for October.
Speaker 4 (54:11):
We're gonna talk about horror movies and we're gonna talk
about Parasite.
Speaker 3 (54:16):
Okay, there you go. So that we're doing two and
twenty twenty five.
Speaker 5 (54:21):
Donezo. We could also do just do Halloween in February two.
Speaker 3 (54:28):
Well, a lot of horror movies come out for Found
Time's Day.
Speaker 5 (54:31):
That's true. All right, we'll figure it out. We'll figure
it out. All right.
Speaker 4 (54:34):
On that note, everybody, let's finish this first part of
the Real Red Crossover twenty twenty five edition, Season ten.
Speaker 5 (54:43):
Thank you, Alison, Martha. We really appreciate it. Thank you
to everybody gave us some feedback. Greg.
Speaker 4 (54:48):
Next week, it's your feedback. You're the main attraction. Uh,
but yeah, thanks everybody. You've any feedback. The broadcasts through
at three at gmail dot com. Give us a call
three through one two seven six two three seven three.
I don't know if you have any feedback about the
other horror story that we told today, which was the
(55:08):
lady that wasn't allowed to have an orgasm.
Speaker 1 (55:11):
You know what to do?
Speaker 5 (55:12):
Okay. Out of that note, everybody, thank.
Speaker 4 (55:14):
You to the patients who contribute a certain level and
maybe at cartwork, your Maggie the Magnetane Juanna, Joan Bent
at the Koopy Poop Vietnam Man.
Speaker 5 (55:20):
Thanks guys so much.
Speaker 4 (55:21):
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Speaker 5 (55:35):
They'll be doing that simultaneously.
Speaker 4 (55:37):
It's gonna be super fun for me to adjust the
album art artwork twice a week, but I am up
to the challenge. And yeah, all right on that note,
Thanks guys, We will talk to you soon. My name
is Colleen, my name is Amanda, I'm Shandy, I'm.
Speaker 3 (55:56):
Alice, and I'm Martha.
Speaker 7 (55:58):
We did it.
Speaker 6 (56:01):
It's always like my most stressful part of coming on.
Speaker 5 (56:04):
So I'm like.
Speaker 7 (56:07):
My heart started racing when you did at the beginning
of the show, and I was like, oh, I didn't
have to do it.
Speaker 4 (56:11):
Yeah, so yeah, what I did at the beginning the show,
I was like, Okay, I gotta prep them when we
do on break, like what are we going to do
at the end, And then we didn't really take a break,
but I'm we all got there. Eight years is a charm. Okay,
peace said everybody.
Speaker 3 (56:26):
Bye.
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