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May 28, 2024 77 mins
Welcome to this month’s listener Q&A on how to allow more love into our lives! For this conversation, I brought in my dear friend, actor, producer, and lawyer, Braden Paes to help me in answering some of your biggest questions about love and relationships. 

We answer 5 of our listener submissions by discussing the importance of opening oneself up to love, with personal stories and insights on how to heal from heartbreak, believe in love again, and become more comfortable with vulnerability in relationships. We dive into the need to let go of expectations, understand the role fear plays in our lives, and approach vulnerability as an opportunity for growth and connection.
 
The conversation provides valuable tools and perspectives for navigating the complexities of love and relationships. The conversation explores the themes of growth, vulnerability, and the influence of media on our perception of love and relationships. It emphasizes the importance of believing in one's worthiness of love and affection and offers steps to open up to receiving more.
 
To stay connected with Braden after this episode, follow him on social media! www.instagram.com/bradenpaes www.instagram.com/paesartsentertainmentsports
Listen to my interview on Braden’s podcast, The Braden Paes Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/episode/0AolUXsZfQBIQOTL6RXbWU?si=LVHkPgmsS6WzMlp8XNbAAA&preview=coverart
 

Keywords: vulnerability, love, healing, heartbreak, fear, relationships, growth, vulnerability, media influence, love, relationships, worthiness, affection, self-love, self-acceptance, worthiness, relationships, depth, vulnerability, friendships
 
Takeaways:
  • Healing from heartbreak and believing in love again requires getting honest with oneself and examining one's role in the relationship.
  • Opening oneself up to love means giving love and understanding that love is always present in various forms.
  • Combating the fear of vulnerability involves reframing fear as an opportunity for growth
  • Approaching vulnerability in relationships involves letting go of expectations, reading between the lines, and understanding that love can be expressed in different ways.
  • Believing in your worthiness of love and affection requires self-reflection, challenging limiting beliefs, and opening yourself up to receiving love.
  • Staying true to yourself and setting your own standards in love is crucial for finding genuine connections.
  • Creating a culture of depth and vulnerability in our relationships attracts deeper connections.
  • Focus on becoming the person you want to be and attracting people who align with your values.
  • Accept that not everyone can meet all of your needs, and that's okay.

Want to work with me more intimately to allow more love into your life? Book a free, first discovery call: https://commitmenttogrowth.com/coaching-services
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