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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Hey everyone, Logan creuz here and welcome back to the
dopamine grind to day. We're diving into something powerful, something
that can truly transform your mental well being. Forgiveness. Yeah,
I know it might sound a little preachy at first.
We've all heard forgive and forget, but let's be real.
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Holding on to grudges, resentment, even anger feels good in
the moment, right. It's like our brains are wired to
seek revenge, a tiny primal urge whispering get em back.
But here's the catch. That sweet fleeting satisfaction is often
followed by a whole lot of baggage. Stress, anxiety, even
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depression can become your unwelcome house guests when you refuse
to let go. So why is forgiveness so important for
our mental health. It's not about condoning hurtful actions. It's
about freeing yourself from the prison of those negative emotions.
Think of it like this. Carrying around anger and resentment
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is like walking around with a heavy backpack full of rocks.
It weighs you down, makes every step harder, and steals
your energy. Forgiveness, that's like dumping those rocks, feeling lighter
and finally being able to move forward. Here are five
key takeaways that will help you understand the power of forgiveness. One.
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Forgiveness is a gift you give yourself. It's not about
saying what someone did was okay. It's about choosing to
release the hold it has on you. You're not excusing
their behavior, but you are choosing peace for your own mind. Two.
Holding on to anger hurts you more than them ever.
Notice how those negative emotions tend to linger and fester.
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They can eat away at your self esteem, make you cynical,
even impact your physical health. Meanwhile, the person who hurts
you might be moving on without a second thought. Forgiveness
doesn't mean they get off scott free. It means you
take back your power. Three. Forgiveness is a process, not
an event. Don't expect to go from harboring deep resentment
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to feeling bliss overnight. It takes time, self reflection and
often some serious soul searching. Be patient with yourself, acknowledge
the hurt, and remember that each step towards forgiveness is
a victory. Four it's okay to seek help if you're
struggling to forgive. Don't hesitate to reach out to a therapist.
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Or counselor. They can provide guidance, tools and support as
you navigate this journey. Remember, asking for help isn't a
sign of weakness, it's a sign of strength and self awareness. Five.
Forgiveness doesn't mean forgetting. You can forgive someone without condoning
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their actions or pretending they didn't happen. It's simply choosing
not to let their pass define your present or future.
Think about it. Haven't you felt the weight of holding
onto a grudge ever? Notice how your body tenses up,
your mind racees with thoughts, and that nagging feeling just
won't go away. Now, imagine letting go of that burden,
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allowing yourself to feel lighter, freer, more at peace. That's
the power of forgiveness. It's not about them, It's about
you taking back control of your emotional well being. Let
me tell you a quick story. A friend of mine
went through a brutal breakup years ago. She held on
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to the anger and resentment for so long it started
to affect her relationships with other people. She was constantly suspicious, guarded,
and afraid of getting hurt again. But then she decided
to try something different forgiveness. It wasn't easy, but as
she let go of that bitterness, she felt a sense
of liberation hadn't experienced before. She started to trust again,
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open her heart, and build healthy relationships. You see, the
path to mental well being often involves some tough choices.
Sometimes the hardest thing to do is also the most rewarding,
letting go of the past, forgiving ourselves and others, and
moving forward with lightness and hope. The key takeaways today
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are simple but powerful. Forgiveness is a gift you give yourself.
It's a process, not an event, and seeking help is
a sign of strength. Now, I want to hear from you.
Have you ever struggled with forgiveness? What helped you on
your journey? Share your thoughts in the comments below. Let's
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keep this conversation going, and remember, if this episode resonated
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with anyone who could benefit from hearing these words. See
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