March 1, 2025 • 56 mins
The topic discussing will be how using positive psychology towards influencing one’s behavior regarding Mental Illness, Depression and Anxiety
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Speaker 1 (00:17):
It was an interesting moment for me at the time
because I really wasn't seeking someone or anyone I should say,
I just hope if I did meet someone that they
would be a positive person to meet.
Speaker 2 (00:37):
Everything he was saying and doing was making me fall
in love with him.
Speaker 3 (00:54):
Fighting over custody a lot of people quit, but when
that's just how we got to be.
Speaker 4 (00:58):
But she keeps on fighting night.
Speaker 5 (01:00):
It takes a lot of out.
Speaker 3 (01:01):
Got that dollar, Bay, you do like you in mature
cards the characters objections, where's any of this evidence of
this warner?
Speaker 6 (01:12):
I say to you for dict ten thousand dollars to
see myself.
Speaker 4 (01:16):
This is all about a child, a poor point born
into about five.
Speaker 3 (01:23):
You know what you're lies like the God support God
supply you know what your lies? God supply got a
surply said him.
Speaker 6 (01:34):
Not Jack that feel dollar.
Speaker 4 (01:39):
Y'all pay no jock yet say.
Speaker 6 (01:43):
You're trying to have a judge for I'll shake you
from birth for thousands of dollars four coming to.
Speaker 3 (01:51):
Quote how much money since you came in is to
get paying you and your fellow judges.
Speaker 4 (01:58):
Child said, it's kind of sun But.
Speaker 3 (02:00):
God I survived, you know with your lies. I'm going.
I'm supplied with.
Speaker 6 (02:15):
Welcome to the Doctor Malika Clary Show on the Bold
and Brave TV network. Well we'll come in life. Yes,
I am so happy about that. So I have to
say thank you me up this morning. Thank you Jesus.
You know, I'm telling you I have to get praise.
He got me up this morning. I'm able to say
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I love you, tell my children. So that was a
wonderful thing to do. And you know, just to be
able to do things I want to do. You never
know what's going on with somebody, you know, so you
always have to be thankful because one day at a time,
I step out of time. You never know. It's just interesting.
I don't know. I think my windows open a little bit.
(02:57):
You know, I'm going to move that over so make
that crazy crazy sound, so you're going to hear that sound.
So I don't want you to hear that sound. Yeah,
things happen. You know. It's like snowing out here. We
actually is not snowing right now, but I did snow
this morning. So that's what we have today. You know,
I want to give some acknowledgements because I always have
to thank my fans. Thank you. I appreciate you guys
(03:20):
and all your support. Thank you for tuning in to
the Doctor Milika Clearly show and watching a movie Three
Coins Reception still available on Prime Video. I appreciate you.
I always have to give thanks in my family and
anyone else who's you know, tuning in to my social
media's and everything like that. Thank you, Thank you thinking
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when you share things. Thank you so much. You know,
I have to be grateful for that because you know
I'm helping you guys. You know there's things that I
like to do, but I like when you utilize, you know,
my advice and I see it because people they always,
you know, they send me acknowledgements, and I just love it.
(04:04):
I mean, I'm pro bono here, but my love and
the feeling I get that's so warm and fuzzy is
when I know you're doing something better with your life
and it's helping you. No matter what I'm sharing on
this platform, whatever guess I bring and they share information,
I just know it's helping you and I love that.
And that's one folk now also not that it's helping you,
(04:27):
it's almost help with me too, because I'm a human
being as well, just like you. Like I state this
over and over and over to you. I'm utilizing my
own advice as well. So it's not like I'm just
giving you this advice. I'm not just teaching you, you
know what I mean. I'm also listening to my own advice.
I'm also listening to my guests and things that I
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hear from them, and I'm just like, wow, you know
that makes me think about my life. You know, what's
going on with my life? Well? Should I check out
certain things? And when you speak to people, you listen
to them and you're like, wow, how did you get
through that? And how did that happen? When did you
(05:09):
find out that? So when I hear like last time,
I believe it was like a week ago. Another guest
of mine, you know, she has chronic kidney disease. That
to me was like how does this happen? And so
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my advice to people is that she didn't say it
was from like drinking or smoking anything like that. It's
like physical and she caught it, you know, but still
and she's getting well. I guess somewhat she caught it.
She's got to get a transplant. But what it is
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is that she knew about it for some time. I
think that's what I should say. And I always got
to mention this to you. How do you know about something? Well,
you got to go for your physicals people, And if
you don't go for a physical how would you know anything.
I mean, well, I guess if something fallen out. Just
like a car, if it breaks down, that's when you're
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gonna go to the to the mechanic. When your car
breaks down, you should be getting your regular tuneups. That's
just like your body people, you should be getting your
regular tuneups. See check your vision, you know, make sure
your heart's intact, make sure your organs intact. Make sure
things are working properly for you, not at the last
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minute when something's like, oh my gosh, how does this happen?
You know, that's part of self care people, you know
that can't neglect yourself and going to your medical appointments
or doing your regular checkups mam. And grants for women,
you know. Men, you know what you have to do.
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You got to do that exam you don't like to do,
but you need to. Mm hmm. You have to go
ahead and get that checked out. Y'all know what I'm
talking about. Mm hmm. Yeah, but you still need to
have it done. After a certain age, you gotta have
it done. And women, we know what we gotta do now.
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Even knowing what we have to do and doing what
we should do is two different things. People, Take care
of your body. Take care not just your mind, but
your body. That those two things connect with each other
not the last minute, especially if you're getting older. I
know we probably thought, oh, we don't need to do this.
Were young and dumb. Hey we having fun, We enjoy
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ourselves and get my age, things just start going downhill.
Sometimes sometimes they go go uphill too, like oh my gosh,
you find out something You're like, oh really, you find
at a little bit more about yourself than you didn't
even know. But taking care of yourself, doing your exit emanations,
going for that, you know it's important. So I gonna
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come back and talk about you what you should do
for yourself, but also some other things is up in
the win here. But we're gonna take a brief commercial
and we'll be right back with the Doctor Malika Claire's
show on the Bold and Brave TV Network. Don't go
to where from We'll be right back. Hello. Three Corners
of Deception movie is now available on Prime video. How
(08:28):
about that October fourteen, twenty twenty three, on my fiftieth birthday,
I am going to release this, and you guys could
go ahead and help me do just that.
Speaker 2 (08:42):
Go see that movie.
Speaker 6 (08:44):
Thank you for all the support and not giving up
on me. Go see that Three Corners of Deception release
me from all the pain and everything I've been through.
Go see the movie. Thank you, I love you. Thank
you for all of the support. Go see that movie
(09:05):
prime video, Prime video.
Speaker 2 (09:08):
How about that?
Speaker 6 (09:11):
God bless you all. I love you all. It was
really hard for me to do that movie sometimes because
at that time, because ten years ago is what I
went through. It wasn't then, So I had to take
even they say you play yourself, it's not really always
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easy to play yourself. You have to play yourself ten
years ago when your mind was just comboblated and you
felt betrayed, you know what I mean. You felt like,
you know, life was just not it and you know,
not in my situation. And it is based on true events,
and you know, unfortunately it's about judicial deception, but it's
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also about romance and drama and divorced. It's something that
just went to a different way, but as I changed
it and went into a movie. But what's interesting about
this situation people don't understand. It's a flow technique for me.
That was my release to finish this movie. I think
(10:13):
I froze the freeze. Welcome back to the Doctor Malika
Claire Show on the Bolt and Brave TV Network. We'll
going live for a few seconds. I froze, so I
wasn't even sure if I was back or not. So
forgive me because I'm like, are you back? Are we there?
But we are here? You know, before we went on break,
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I was talking about, you know, taking care of yourself.
I mean there's different tests people take to take care
of themselves. Examinations, you got colons, you know, stuff like
that that you have to make sure everything is working properly.
And I think it's important for me to stress that
because part of self care is going to your physical appointments,
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not just your mental health, that's your physical because that
is so important. And if you don't if you don't
get those done, and you know, that's part of not
taking care of yourself. People you don't want to go
ahead and do that at the last minute, and then
it's like, oh, it's too late. Then you find out something.
Come on, stay up on your stuff, and it's important
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to make sure. I know, people don't like to go
to the hospital. I don't anyone who jumps and hops
and skips and says say, I'm going to the hospital.
It's great, I know, I get it. But let's don't
go and take our body to the hospital at the
last minute. Just like you wouldn't take your car at
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the mechanic at the last minute. Well you probably will.
You probably would do that if it's breaking down, but
let's don't do that. Let's don't do that to our
body either, because that's breaking down as well. And especially
as you get older, it's really important to stay up on,
you know, your examinations and stuff like that. And then
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your eyesight. You know, you need to take your you know,
have your exams regularly, make sure you're you know, because
after forty years old, your eyes stop changing. And it
doesn't matter if you have twenty twenty vision. I mean,
you're still gonna just need reading glasses. And now I
had a laser and still like, I'm like, I have
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to have reading glasses regardless, even if that doesn't even
do it doesn't secure that, you know what I mean.
So basically that's a biological thing that's just going to
happen over time. So with that being said, I think
it is very important for you to try to take
care of yourself. I can stress that so many ways,
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and that will help you take care of your mind
as well. If you take care of your physical then
you will take care of your mind. Both are very
important to make sure you are doing that. Now. You know,
I'm not really political and I don't try to get
into this politics thing. And the reason I say that
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is because I don't really like to bring up things
that's so debatable. But I want to bring up because
I have some emails from other people about the topic
and they was asking advice. I'm not gonna mention their names,
nothing like that, because it's more than one person. And
I think I have the solution for this ticular topic
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and you with you, you could do whatever you want
to do with it. That is my opinion because that's
how I feel about it. And if you were sitting
in my chair, I would say the same thing to you.
Trans When we talk about this topic transgender, I understand
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that people feel like you're not being accepted or there's
no acceptance in that area. Let me play maybe some
things that you're feeling. There is a thing called choice,
and it's a decision that one would make for themselves
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and they it's also preferences. You have a preference to
change something on yourself if you don't like it. That's
what that is. That's for you, it's not for it.
It's a preference. If you don't like your lips. Oh
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years ago, you weren't able to change certain things on
your body. Time has progress and people do a lot
of things with technology and science. So now you can
change your lips if you don't like them. You can
change your eyebrows if you don't like them. You can
change your nose if you don't like it. You can
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add some butt if you want some more. But you
don't want no more, but you could take the butt out.
So you could change all these things about yourself. Because
at the end of the day, it's what you don't
like about yourself you want to change it. But let
me explain to you how that works. That's a preference
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for yourself, and that doesn't mean that I have to
like what you did. I don't really think it's my
business to like what you did. I think as long
as you're happy and content with your decision, why does
it matter. So I bring this up because you know,
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we're in this situation with politics and how people feel.
What the presence said or as doing. He only respects
to genders male and female. It's a true fact. There's
only two genders, male and female. When you say that,
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it doesn't really respect or you feel violated because he's
not accepting you. I think that's a preference that you've
got to accept yourself and it doesn't matter what he thinks.
Maybe because and here's the confusion. This is what I say.
I don't get into politics or you know, things that
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will make it difficult for a person to feel at
peace with himself or content. If you're born as a female,
if they're going by your birth certificate you're born, then
that's probably what they're looking at. If that's the label
that we have on social Security. A birthdate shows that
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we were born in this world as a female or male.
That I could see what they're doing, that's the only
thing I could see. But if you have changed something
in between all of that, I don't want to say
that is it right for somebody that accept your change.
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What I'm saying to you is that is it important
for them to accept your change or is it important
for you to accept your change? And maybe you won't
feel so depressed because someone's not accepting you. You can
just accept yourself and be around people who do accept
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your change. It's like not socializing with people who are
not about change with what's going on with you. And
I think that's important because I want you to understand
how important that is for you to understand that you
should not care that much what other people are saying
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and doing. On that note, we're going to take a
brief commerci show. We'll be right back with the Doctor
Malica Claire's show and the voter Bral TV Network will
be right back then. I don't go nowhere because of
me having a voice and saying something about what had
happened to me, because I can't believe it. I can't
believe that these individuals put their good name and their
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reputation on the line just to hurt somebody because they
spoke up. Yes see, that's what happens when you speak up.
I get it, but I'm not fearful because of that
even though I went through a lot and still go
through a lot of things, I got God on my side,
and I feel like if that is not enough, then
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I don't know what it is, because I'm still standing
and I'm still telling my story and I'm gonna keep
on telling stories. And that is why I like film,
because film you're be able to express things that you
went through and experiences and people. You know, you'd be
amazed what you can do. It was really hard for
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me to do that movie sometimes because at that time,
because ten years ago is what I went through, it
wasn't then. So I had to take Even they say
you play yourself, it's not really always easy to play yourself.
You have to play yourself ten years ago when your
mind was just comboblated and you felt betrayed, you know
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what I mean. You felt like, you know, life was
just not it and you know not in my situation.
And it's based on true events and you know, unfortunately
it's about judicial deception, but it's also about romance and
drama and divorced. It's something that just went to a
different way, but as I changed it and went into
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a movie. But what's interesting about this situation people don't understand.
It's a flow technique for me. That was my release
to finish this movie. Welcome back to the Doctor Malika
Clary Show on the Built and Brave TV Network. Well
come in Love, Yes we are. Before I went on break,
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I was talking about something that's very sensitive. And I
have to say that because I feel like it's very sensitive,
like I try to express, because when you feel like
someone's not accepting you for who you are, you feel
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violated and it does make you feel sad and alone.
And I get it. But what I'm trying to explain
to you is that with that feeling, you can feel
empowered in ways that you made a decision for yourself.
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And it doesn't matter what that person or what our
president or whoever care like, as long as you feel
good about yourself and you're able to do the things
you want to do. Now, I understand when it comes
to they start talking about activities, I see reasoning for that.
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I get it. I mean, I'm not picking any sides
and what's right, what's wrong. Men aren't developed differently than women,
and women aren't developed differently than men. That's all I
can say. So if someone would to say, is this
sport fair? Is it fair to have a man play
on a women's sport? M I know when I'm up
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against some men, they're stronger, more masculine, and they could
do things I can't do. I always want a man
to do something for me, you know, pick this up
because they can do it. I don't know. We just
wasn't built like that. Now, don't get me wrong. There's
some women that could. There's some powerhouse women. I get it.
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But you know, so when you look at it in
that sense, I can see reasoning being hiring some of
this stuff. But I do want to kind I really
want to express to you. I don't think that it's
being done maliciously. That's just my personal opinion. I mean,
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I will hope it's not done. Maybe I should paraphrase
that I hope it's not done maliciously. But when you
start thinking about what's reasonable, what's preferences of somebody's sexual orientation, like,
you start thinking, these are things that you want to
do to yourself. It's something that you want to do.
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If you chose not to be a female no more,
you want to be a male. These are things that
you wanted to do. You want to change that process,
So it's not really like important, only as important to you.
Reason why it's important to you is because you're looking
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for acceptance. Why what worry about acceptance when you're the
one making the change. Just care about you and your
acceptance and the people that love you that you care
that they are on board. And why should it matter
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about this person of that person. I don't know you.
They don't sit with you, they don't come to your house,
they don't visit, you, don't talk to you. I get it.
You want to walk in there, you know, I have
to say like racism, you want to be accepted. You know,
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you want to be discriminated against. I will hope that's
not happening, just because because as I recall, even on
applications and all this other stuff, that you have a
question that you don't even have to explain that you
don't have to disclose it. So the label theory shouldn't
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be that important because you don't have to disclose your
sexual orientation or even your race, and a lot of
applications you don't have to. And so that's only if
you want to, you know, so you think about it
the only it's only important to you because you want
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people that love you or accept a new change. If
I've changed into a male, I want my loved ones
to accept my change. That's why it's so important. But
what I'm really saying to you is that should you
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really worry about that acceptance when you're the one that
really want to make the change, and you're the one
that I got to look at yourself in the mirror,
and you're the one that have to love yourself and
you're the one that has to wake up with yourself.
I think that's so important because that's the biggest issue
I see. And I'm explain this as clear as I
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can because I don't have any biases against changing doing things.
I mean, heck, I've done things myself. When you add
hair to your own hair, that's a change, right, But
that's my change. That's something I want to do, you know,
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And I don't expect people to like it or not.
I really don't care. I know we're in a world
that we try not to judge. But I think because
we care so much, it hinders you for living life.
It depresses you, and it makes you're not you know,
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want to be here. And I think that that is
something that don't let that be the focus of you
not enjoying your life. Okay, No, you made a change
because you wanted to do it, happy with your decision.
That's why I have to stress. Love yourself, and if
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you love yourself, it doesn't matter what anybody else say.
I know it's easy said than done because we've got
some cool people out there, but you don't have to
express that with other people. You can just keep it
to yourself. Do whatever you want to do to make
you happy. Your loved ones, I know they're going to
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notice a change, but okay, as long as you love
who you are, nothing should matter. Now that note, we're
going to take a brief commercial. Will be right back
with the Doctor Malika Claire Show on The Bold and
Brave TV Network. Don't go nowhere, fam will be right.
I'm a human being, but I'm not perfect and I
have my own flaws, but I'm working in progress. And
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if you're trying to change something, you're able to do it.
You have the power, you have the key to your
own success. And with that being said, I'm just glad
that I'm able to do this and share other people's testimonies,
and I'm so glad that. There's many guests that I've
already had on the show that have expressed their challenges
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or what they've been going through or went through in
their life, and I say that it's because they're not perfect.
So it's good that they express that. It was really
hard for me to do that movie sometimes because at
that time, because ten years ago is what I went through,
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it wasn't then, so I had to take Even they
say you play yourself, it's not really always easy to
play yourself. You have to play your so ten years
ago when your mind was just combobulated and you felt betrayed,
you know what I mean, you felt like, you know,
life was just not it and you know not in
my situation. And it's based on true events and you know,
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unfortunately it's about judicial deception, but it's also about romance
and drama and divorced. It's something that just went to
a different way, but as I changed it and went
into a movie. But what's interesting about this situation people
don't understand. It's a flow technique for me. That was
my release to finish this movie. Welcome back to the DOCTU.
(28:38):
Milika Clary's show on The Bold and Brave TV network
will come in live all right, Welcome back, Welcome back.
So before I I was still talking about transgender sexual irritation, preferences, choices,
and you know, I'm gonna that's my opinion. So I'm
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not sure if I answered you know, the mini that
had some questions, you know, regarding this topic. Hopefully I
did because I think I answered it well enough to
say it's your choice. And at the end of the day,
that is your choice. Now here's another thing that goes
with that. Even if it's your choice, people still don't
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have a right to treat you badly. No'll bully you.
Now if that's what's happening, that's a no, no. Now,
that's not right. That's discriminating. That means if you're going
to fill our application for a job and you put
transgender on there, they shouldn't discriminate you because of that.
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That'll be wrong. That's why I said, you don't have
to disclose certain information. You know, they say on application,
what do you describe yourself as? I think they're just
being nice to say, hey, we're recognizing that they could
be a change within this individual. But you don't have
to you don't have to answer that question. You know,
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you can just go ahead. I mean, I don't see
nothing wrong. Unless it's something that you know, it really
needs to be disclosed that is prevent you to do
the job responsibilities, then I get it. But if it's not,
you don't have to do that. See, that's a choice.
Just like a race. You don't have to sit up
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there and disclose your race, you know. And I mentioned
racism because that's something that I see all the time.
Even being a female, I'm discriminate against.
Speaker 4 (30:40):
You know.
Speaker 6 (30:40):
Unfortunately it still exists. But those are bad people that
do taken advantage. You know, that's not everyone. You have
some bad people that believe that black people should be
slaves always, white people should be king castle always, minorities
should be in their place, whatever you want to look
at it. You got some people that really believe that.
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But are you saying everybody else is like that? No? See,
we meet bad people that do things that's bad, and
we think everybody else is like that. Not everyone's like that.
That's why I said, you know, racism is never going
to change. Judging is always going to be there. But
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what can you do to add to this situation in
a positive outlook? Do you add to the problem, or
can you add to a solution the solution. Don't let
it affect you as much as you shouldn't. I mean,
don't do it, because you could try to change it
with you, starting with you first. And what I mean
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by that being nice to others and don't judge others.
You know, you could start with that, caring about all
the people's feelings. And I think that's so important because
I think that's what we're missing too, not caring about
other people's feelings, even if you're a transgender or even
if you are a different race. Caring about maybe how
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you're feeling because not everybody's being treated the same, not
waving it off or dismiss it and say, hey, it
doesn't exist. It does. There's people that take advantage of
me because of my quote quote notability, and they take
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advantage of people like me because of that want to
do bad things. And you know those people are not
right just because they do that. That's a person that's
a personality issue. But that doesn't mean I'm going to
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fire back and just be mad at them all the time.
I look at it. That's your proble back and do
what I gotta do. But at the end of the day,
what are we really doing here? You're you know what
I mean, that's a person's decision. People not liking you
for whatever reason, because you speak up, you fight back,
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get in line. Because there's a whole many, whole lot
of people that far back or did something somebody didn't like.
Because that's why we have changed today because people did something.
But you know why, here's the thing. Do something towards
a positive that's gonna bring positive outcomes and now it's
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gonna it's not going to bring war. Who wants war?
Want war? I mean, where's the piece here? And I
believe that's what we need. And even if I'm talking
to people that are not transgenders or people with just
people and you know, male know female, whatever, if you
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are that person that are treating somebody bad just because
there's sexual orientation preference, that's not good. You shouldn't do that.
It's still a choice. You may not like it, but
that's you. You don't have a right to sit up
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there and make somebody feel bad because that's their choice.
So that's still a formal bullion and it's not right.
It's just not right. You know, there's people that's not
gonna accept everything. Okay, I don't need you accept it,
(34:45):
and that's how I look at it. I don't need
you accept it, and that's how you should look at it.
You don't need no one to accept it. You just
need them to be to be nice and not hateful.
That's what we need. And I will say love and
compassion goes with it. But you don't need hate. And
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I think that is the most important. So when people
start doing things to their selves and it has nothing
to do with you, then you shouldn't hate the person
because they did. Now, going back to how transgender could
take things, Okay, they're not allowing certain things. Don't feel
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bad about that. That's just somebody else's preference as somebody
else's understanding. And you know, none of us presidents, we
got one president here, you know, we gotta go ahead
and roll with whatever until another president. You know how
this goes? President? One present get for you is another
present get enough for you? Sometime they get eight, So
(35:56):
how goes? You know? And you got to look at
it in that sense, like you know, but as long
as in your circle people are not treating you bad,
disrespecting you, bullying you, there's laws for that type of
stuff violations, you know what I mean, so that you're
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not supposed to do. So if something like that is happening,
then you gotta do something about that because that's not right.
But remember that's a personality issue. That's a person to
a person issue. And don't get me wrong, there might
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be a group of them like that. Nope, I will
always say this, and I'm going to continue to say
we've got bad people and got good people. That's all
I can say about that. Really. On that note, we're
going to take a brief commercial. We'll be right back
with the doctor Miliou Claires showing the Volle and Braid
TV Network. Don't go down with him. We'll be right back.
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It was because of me having a voice and saying
something about what had happened to me, because I can't
believe it. I can't believe that these individuals put their
good name and their reputation on the line just to
hurt somebody because they spoke up. Yes see, that's what
(37:23):
happens when you speak up. I get it, but I'm
not fearful because of that. Even though I went through
a lot and still go through a lot of things.
I got God on my side, and I feel like
if that is not enough, then I don't know what
it is. Because I'm still standing and I'm still telling
my story and I'm gonna keep on telling stories. And
that is why I like film, Because film you're being
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able to express things that you went through and experiences
and people you know, you'd be amazed what you can do.
I'm a human being, but I'm not perfect, and I
have my own flow, but I'm working in progress. And
if you're trying to change something, you're able to do it.
You have the power, you have the key to your
(38:08):
own success. And with that being said, I'm just glad
that I'm able to do this and share other people's testimonies.
And I'm so glad that there's many guests that I've
already had on the show that have expressed their you know,
challenges or what they've been going through or went through
in their life. And I say that it's because they're
(38:28):
not perfect, so it's good that they express that. Welcome
back to Doctor Belika Cleared show on the Bullet Frave
TV network. We would come in live. That's my engineer
talking about go next. I don't even know if I'm
following basketball as munch, you might got me on that one.
(38:50):
I have to tell you might get me on that one. Yeah,
So back of what I was saying, so hopefully, like
I said, I answered your questions about the transgender and
my advice is it is a preference to you, so
try not to care what other people say about it.
You should get you're doing and that's important, and feel free.
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Like I said, reach out to me still if I
didn't answer, you want some more comfort, no problem, It's
good to talk to people. You know. I'm not against you.
I just want you to be peaceful and be content
with your decision and not really care about who's in
the room with you, because at the end of the day,
(39:38):
are those people in the room with you when you
made your decision? Mm hmm. So it's up to you.
So you really shouldn't and I get it. You can
fight for the rights and keep doing it. Isn't wrong
with that. I'm all about that too. But are you
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fi fighting for acceptance or you already got the acceptance
from you? Are you fighting a battle that may happen,
may not And the only thing that you really need
to know that's really, really important is that you love
yourself and you accept yourself and your loved ones around you,
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and that's all that matters. And that's just something to
think about, you know. I get it. I get it,
and I'm just trying to help you have a peaceful
life and more content and to not try to worry
about all this because some things we can change and
(40:42):
some things we may have to just accept and move on,
you know, because the lifespan that we have in this
world is not a long one, and some people can
make try to beat that change, beat that change the
day they die, and you could keep on. Trust me,
(41:03):
Don't get me wrong, I don't believe in not giving
up on something. But is it something you're giving up
on or is it just something that you want to
convince people to accept your decision When they didn't have
anything to do with your decision. It was just your
decision or your family or your parents or whoever the
(41:24):
case may be. It's still somebody loved you to support
you in that decision or they contribute to that decision
to help you out. And I think that's all the
people that really matters in your circle. Now, I already
said what I said about people bullying. I have no
nonsense for that. I'll have no tolerance for the pullion.
(41:48):
That's not acceptable in my book, and it shouldn't be
acceptable anywhere. It's not right, okay, because we have a
choice to do whatever we want to do. That's the
way it goes. We have a choice. They don't like it,
or we have a choice. Okay. So with that being said,
(42:08):
you know, hopefully, like I said, I answer your question.
You know, I talk about a lot of things on
my platform and I try to help many people with depression, fear, anxiety,
just loving yourself and living your day a better day
or having a better day, and look at the positive.
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I look at a positive life. I look at God
when he gives me another day, and I say, what
can I do with that day? There's some things he
put in my day that I'd be so surprised, and
I say to myself, what do I do with that surprise?
I can accept it, and I could just rote with
(42:50):
it and just enjoy it, because that's what life is
all about. Right. God has the power at the end
of the day. And I believe that so heartily, and
I put my faith in God because I know whatever
He's doing for me, He's going to get me through
if it's something that I need to go through it,
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I gotta understand the journey of the process. But he
opens my eyes to certain things, and I do know
he does that. I know we have to go through things.
Makes it stronger when we do, wiser as well, and
I'm okay with that. But my flow technique, my belief
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mechanism is within Jesus Christ, God, Holy Spirit. That's what
I believe in. That's my gnome to me. So when
my outlet, that's my outlet, that's what I deal with.
That's how I get peace. People. I try to help
you with your peace. You know. People can meditate, they
(43:52):
can pray, you know, you take walks out in the park,
go walking, talk to people, get therapy, stuff like that.
I try to educate you on so many different areas.
I try to educate people on accountability, and I think
that is very important because many people don't want to
(44:13):
be accountable for their actions. If something happened. You know,
A is the first letter of the alphabets, people B
come second. So when you talk about cause and effect,
you start talking about accountability. Are we being accountable for
(44:33):
our actions? People? Oh, we just saying, hey, I did this,
and that didn't matter why I did this, But you
had a reason why you did something, and if somebody
do something back at you, it's only because you did something. First.
Who ran the race first? Now I don't know who's
(44:56):
gonna finish the race, but who ran the race first?
And that's with life. If like you have an argument,
if you have a disagreement with someone, why are you
arguing and why are you disagreeing? There's a reason why.
Let's get to the reason, then we can get to
the solution. Is it supposed to be just one way
(45:21):
I'm gonna do this and you stay here? Or are
we supposed to compromise? How do we compromise?
Speaker 2 (45:29):
Oh?
Speaker 6 (45:30):
Or do we both just say no, Well, I'm not
going to do anything. So if neither one is doing anything,
there's no compromise, there's no solution. There's nothing. If you're
going to do something, it takes two. That's accountability for
everyone takes two. So you can't ask somebody to do
(45:52):
something you're not willing to do something too. That got
to be looked at as a selfish Oh I'm not
gonna do this, but they can do it. Come on people.
What are we doing? I mean, really is that what
we're doing. You're not allowing you know, change, but only
(46:17):
one side change. That's not changed people. That's self centered
and not being accountable for your actions. So if you're
doing something to somebody and you're not taking the consequences
of that, or you're not dealing with the consequences, then
you're not being accountable for your actions. Because I always
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believe it is a cause and effect, and people just
don't do nothing for nothing. They have a reason. I've
sad people sat in my chair and they always had
a reason why they did something, including myself. If I
did something, I had a reason why. Now you may
(46:59):
don't like that reason, but I had a reason. I
think people when you deal with accountability, you have to
understand a reason why somebody's doing something to you. It's
not just the targeting you, it's because you probably did
something to them. Be accountable for your actions so important.
(47:20):
On that note, we're gonna take a brief commercial. We'll
be right back with the Doctor Malica Claire Show on
the Bold and Brave TV network to go to with him.
Will be right back.
Speaker 1 (47:32):
It was an interesting moment for me at the time,
because I really wasn't seeking someone or anyone I should say,
I just hope if I did meet someone that they
would be a positive person to meet.
Speaker 2 (47:52):
Everything he would sing and doing was making me fall
in love with him.
Speaker 3 (48:09):
Fighting over custody a lot of people quit, but when
that's just how we got to be.
Speaker 4 (48:13):
But she keeps on fighting nothing.
Speaker 5 (48:15):
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Speaker 6 (48:18):
Like you in your departure of the characters objection. Where's
any of this evidence of this? Barn, I say she
you fortecteen thousand dollars eight to see myself.
Speaker 4 (48:31):
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into about five.
Speaker 3 (48:38):
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you know.
Speaker 4 (48:45):
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Speaker 6 (48:58):
You're trying to have a judge dream. I'll send you
herb for thousands of dollars for coming to court.
Speaker 3 (49:08):
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you and your fellows. Jesus on time said I'm gone
to survive. But God, I'm survid, you know what your lies.
I'm going surp God surprise, saying I'm going to surprise,
but God surpled. You know what your lies of God is, supplies.
Speaker 6 (49:28):
You lie, don't sun t Welcome back to the dotly
(49:54):
Can Clary Show on the Boat and Brave TV never
We're coming live. Let me see that that was for
my engineer Cala Celtics. Thank you for educating me. You know,
I always have to throw that in there because he's
a knickspan. I told you I go both ways.
Speaker 3 (50:14):
You know.
Speaker 6 (50:16):
Ways. Dad is from the York So there you go. Anyway.
He's laughing at me right now. He's like Trader, Trader,
I don't want to hear you anyway. So what I
was saying before, we want to break accountability. I think
I'm always going to stress about accountability people. You know,
(50:36):
you shouldn't be mad at people just because they had
reaction to your action. And that's life. Some people just
don't understand that it takes two to dance, and you dancing,
somebody's gonna dance back. And that's at the end of
the day. That's how people are me, that's how we operate.
Speaker 4 (51:00):
You know.
Speaker 6 (51:00):
It's not like I don't wake up want to do
something bad. A somebody that's just not me. I don't
wake and you know, make up things about people. I
don't do that. That's not my style, you know, doctor
Maliki Cleary, don't do stuff like that. I'm gonna take
accountability for my actions what I do. I want to
make sure what I'm doing is correct. And that's something
(51:22):
I do have to tell people. When you start doing
things to people, messing up their reputation, make sure that
you it's true, because you shouldn't be doing that if
it's not true. And I don't care who you are.
I don't care how many titles, prefits, accolades, you have,
how many degrees. You don't have a right to hurt
(51:43):
people just for the heck of it. You shouldn't do that.
People should not do that, and that's because you don't
like your life. And if you don't like your life,
to go get you into the life.
Speaker 2 (51:56):
That's on you.
Speaker 6 (51:58):
But stop messing with somebody else's life who loved it life,
because they're not doing nothing to you. Now, I know
people gott to defend their actions, and they got to
defend their character. Why should we put people in a
situation to have to defend themselves. Don't start nohing won't
be none, and that's the way it goes. So be
accountable for your actions, what you did to contribute to
(52:20):
the mess. That's that's really how I have to say.
I really need to say that to people, because, believe
it or not, we are all running around here at
times not being accountable for our actions. Don't go and
say this happened and you don't know how it happened,
(52:42):
You didn't have something to do with it. Come on,
you had something to do with it. It's just how
much did you have to do with it? What did
you do to contribute? So I have to really stress
(53:03):
that out because I have so many people I speak
to and the first thing they always say, oh, this
is happening to me, I don't know why, and why
let's get to the core of the why. I know why,
because maybe people don't like other people fighting back and
they want to bully you and they want to make
you feel weak. Well, there's things out here, you know,
(53:29):
we all have rights here with all the people, and
the difference. The difference is male and female. Maybe color
and all that other stuff could go into play the race,
the card, ethnic all that stuff. Yeah, yeah, I get it.
At the end of the day, the thing that's really
(53:52):
similar and you can't get out of it. We're all
human beings. Remember that we are all human beings. We cry,
we get depressed, we hurt, we love, we get sad,
we have anxiety, depression and fear, we develop all these things.
(54:16):
We're people. That's what we are. No one's perfect, and
if you are, I don't know who you are because
you're not. Jesus Christ is perfect. You ain't perfect. So
I never met a perfect person and I don't think
in my time I will. Unless God's coming down soon.
(54:38):
Then yeah, the Father's that, you know, Jesus Christ coming
down here. We're good. But none of these human beings
run around here is perfect. So don't act like you're
perfect because you're not. But you could make a change
to Its a positive and that's what it's all about.
They can change and positivity. So remember that I said that.
I'm gonna leave you with that. The change is with
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the new people. Stop fighting, get the loving, have compassion
because communication is important. Once you do that, things will
work a lot better. Trust me, they will. I do
know that. Prayer, people, prayer, it's important because I do that.
(55:21):
It works. Thank you for tuning in to the Doctor
Milika Clary Show. Please on Boldenberg TV. Continue check me
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All the social media's thank you continue in doctor Milika
(55:42):
claary dot com website. Thank you for tuning in. Have
a wonderful, blessed day for the rest of the day
and a weekend to come. Oh God bless you or
I love you. If no one said I love you,
I love you and I care about you, So do
better today. I love you and take care of yourself.
God bless you all. Thank you again for tune in
(56:03):
to Doctor Melika Claire's show on the Bold and Brave
TV network. All right, take care of yourself.
Speaker 5 (56:08):
Not you've been watching the Doctor Melika Clari Show, tune
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She'll provide helpful tips regarding surviving the entertainment industry and
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It was an interesting moment for me at the time
because I really wasn't seeking someone or anyone I should say,
I just hope if I did meet someone that they
would be a positive person to meet.
Speaker 2 (00:37):
Everything he was saying and doing was making me fall
in love with him.
Speaker 3 (00:54):
Fighting over custody a lot of people quit, but when
that's just how we got to be.
Speaker 4 (00:58):
But she keeps on fighting night.
Speaker 5 (01:00):
It takes a lot of out.
Speaker 3 (01:01):
Got that dollar, Bay, you do like you in mature
cards the characters objections, where's any of this evidence of
this warner?
Speaker 6 (01:12):
I say to you for dict ten thousand dollars to
see myself.
Speaker 4 (01:16):
This is all about a child, a poor point born
into about five.
Speaker 3 (01:23):
You know what you're lies like the God support God
supply you know what your lies? God supply got a
surply said him.
Speaker 6 (01:34):
Not Jack that feel dollar.
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Y'all pay no jock yet say.
Speaker 6 (01:43):
You're trying to have a judge for I'll shake you
from birth for thousands of dollars four coming to.
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Quote how much money since you came in is to
get paying you and your fellow judges.
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Child said, it's kind of sun But.
Speaker 3 (02:00):
God I survived, you know with your lies. I'm going.
I'm supplied with.
Speaker 6 (02:15):
Welcome to the Doctor Malika Clary Show on the Bold
and Brave TV network. Well we'll come in life. Yes,
I am so happy about that. So I have to
say thank you me up this morning. Thank you Jesus.
You know, I'm telling you I have to get praise.
He got me up this morning. I'm able to say
(02:37):
I love you, tell my children. So that was a
wonderful thing to do. And you know, just to be
able to do things I want to do. You never
know what's going on with somebody, you know, so you
always have to be thankful because one day at a time,
I step out of time. You never know. It's just interesting.
I don't know. I think my windows open a little bit.
(02:57):
You know, I'm going to move that over so make
that crazy crazy sound, so you're going to hear that sound.
So I don't want you to hear that sound. Yeah,
things happen. You know. It's like snowing out here. We
actually is not snowing right now, but I did snow
this morning. So that's what we have today. You know,
I want to give some acknowledgements because I always have
to thank my fans. Thank you. I appreciate you guys
(03:20):
and all your support. Thank you for tuning in to
the Doctor Milika Clearly show and watching a movie Three
Coins Reception still available on Prime Video. I appreciate you.
I always have to give thanks in my family and
anyone else who's you know, tuning in to my social
media's and everything like that. Thank you, Thank you thinking
(03:41):
when you share things. Thank you so much. You know,
I have to be grateful for that because you know
I'm helping you guys. You know there's things that I
like to do, but I like when you utilize, you know,
my advice and I see it because people they always,
you know, they send me acknowledgements, and I just love it.
(04:04):
I mean, I'm pro bono here, but my love and
the feeling I get that's so warm and fuzzy is
when I know you're doing something better with your life
and it's helping you. No matter what I'm sharing on
this platform, whatever guess I bring and they share information,
I just know it's helping you and I love that.
And that's one folk now also not that it's helping you,
(04:27):
it's almost help with me too, because I'm a human
being as well, just like you. Like I state this
over and over and over to you. I'm utilizing my
own advice as well. So it's not like I'm just
giving you this advice. I'm not just teaching you, you
know what I mean. I'm also listening to my own advice.
I'm also listening to my guests and things that I
(04:48):
hear from them, and I'm just like, wow, you know
that makes me think about my life. You know, what's
going on with my life? Well? Should I check out
certain things? And when you speak to people, you listen
to them and you're like, wow, how did you get
through that? And how did that happen? When did you
(05:09):
find out that? So when I hear like last time,
I believe it was like a week ago. Another guest
of mine, you know, she has chronic kidney disease. That
to me was like how does this happen? And so
(05:29):
my advice to people is that she didn't say it
was from like drinking or smoking anything like that. It's
like physical and she caught it, you know, but still
and she's getting well. I guess somewhat she caught it.
She's got to get a transplant. But what it is
(05:52):
is that she knew about it for some time. I
think that's what I should say. And I always got
to mention this to you. How do you know about something? Well,
you got to go for your physicals people, And if
you don't go for a physical how would you know anything.
I mean, well, I guess if something fallen out. Just
like a car, if it breaks down, that's when you're
(06:13):
gonna go to the to the mechanic. When your car
breaks down, you should be getting your regular tuneups. That's
just like your body people, you should be getting your
regular tuneups. See check your vision, you know, make sure
your heart's intact, make sure your organs intact. Make sure
things are working properly for you, not at the last
(06:36):
minute when something's like, oh my gosh, how does this happen?
You know, that's part of self care people, you know
that can't neglect yourself and going to your medical appointments
or doing your regular checkups mam. And grants for women,
you know. Men, you know what you have to do.
(06:57):
You got to do that exam you don't like to do,
but you need to. Mm hmm. You have to go
ahead and get that checked out. Y'all know what I'm
talking about. Mm hmm. Yeah, but you still need to
have it done. After a certain age, you gotta have
it done. And women, we know what we gotta do now.
(07:19):
Even knowing what we have to do and doing what
we should do is two different things. People, Take care
of your body. Take care not just your mind, but
your body. That those two things connect with each other
not the last minute, especially if you're getting older. I
know we probably thought, oh, we don't need to do this.
Were young and dumb. Hey we having fun, We enjoy
(07:41):
ourselves and get my age, things just start going downhill.
Sometimes sometimes they go go uphill too, like oh my gosh,
you find out something You're like, oh really, you find
at a little bit more about yourself than you didn't
even know. But taking care of yourself, doing your exit emanations,
going for that, you know it's important. So I gonna
(08:05):
come back and talk about you what you should do
for yourself, but also some other things is up in
the win here. But we're gonna take a brief commercial
and we'll be right back with the Doctor Malika Claire's
show on the Bold and Brave TV Network. Don't go
to where from We'll be right back. Hello. Three Corners
of Deception movie is now available on Prime video. How
(08:28):
about that October fourteen, twenty twenty three, on my fiftieth birthday,
I am going to release this, and you guys could
go ahead and help me do just that.
Speaker 2 (08:42):
Go see that movie.
Speaker 6 (08:44):
Thank you for all the support and not giving up
on me. Go see that Three Corners of Deception release
me from all the pain and everything I've been through.
Go see the movie. Thank you, I love you. Thank
you for all of the support. Go see that movie
(09:05):
prime video, Prime video.
Speaker 2 (09:08):
How about that?
Speaker 6 (09:11):
God bless you all. I love you all. It was
really hard for me to do that movie sometimes because
at that time, because ten years ago is what I
went through. It wasn't then, So I had to take
even they say you play yourself, it's not really always
(09:32):
easy to play yourself. You have to play yourself ten
years ago when your mind was just comboblated and you
felt betrayed, you know what I mean. You felt like,
you know, life was just not it and you know,
not in my situation. And it is based on true events,
and you know, unfortunately it's about judicial deception, but it's
(09:52):
also about romance and drama and divorced. It's something that
just went to a different way, but as I changed
it and went into a movie. But what's interesting about
this situation people don't understand. It's a flow technique for me.
That was my release to finish this movie. I think
(10:13):
I froze the freeze. Welcome back to the Doctor Malika
Claire Show on the Bolt and Brave TV Network. We'll
going live for a few seconds. I froze, so I
wasn't even sure if I was back or not. So
forgive me because I'm like, are you back? Are we there?
But we are here? You know, before we went on break,
(10:33):
I was talking about, you know, taking care of yourself.
I mean there's different tests people take to take care
of themselves. Examinations, you got colons, you know, stuff like
that that you have to make sure everything is working properly.
And I think it's important for me to stress that
because part of self care is going to your physical appointments,
(10:58):
not just your mental health, that's your physical because that
is so important. And if you don't if you don't
get those done, and you know, that's part of not
taking care of yourself. People you don't want to go
ahead and do that at the last minute, and then
it's like, oh, it's too late. Then you find out something.
Come on, stay up on your stuff, and it's important
(11:20):
to make sure. I know, people don't like to go
to the hospital. I don't anyone who jumps and hops
and skips and says say, I'm going to the hospital.
It's great, I know, I get it. But let's don't
go and take our body to the hospital at the
last minute. Just like you wouldn't take your car at
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the mechanic at the last minute. Well you probably will.
You probably would do that if it's breaking down, but
let's don't do that. Let's don't do that to our
body either, because that's breaking down as well. And especially
as you get older, it's really important to stay up on,
you know, your examinations and stuff like that. And then
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your eyesight. You know, you need to take your you know,
have your exams regularly, make sure you're you know, because
after forty years old, your eyes stop changing. And it
doesn't matter if you have twenty twenty vision. I mean,
you're still gonna just need reading glasses. And now I
had a laser and still like, I'm like, I have
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to have reading glasses regardless, even if that doesn't even
do it doesn't secure that, you know what I mean.
So basically that's a biological thing that's just going to
happen over time. So with that being said, I think
it is very important for you to try to take
care of yourself. I can stress that so many ways,
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and that will help you take care of your mind
as well. If you take care of your physical then
you will take care of your mind. Both are very
important to make sure you are doing that. Now. You know,
I'm not really political and I don't try to get
into this politics thing. And the reason I say that
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is because I don't really like to bring up things
that's so debatable. But I want to bring up because
I have some emails from other people about the topic
and they was asking advice. I'm not gonna mention their names,
nothing like that, because it's more than one person. And
I think I have the solution for this ticular topic
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and you with you, you could do whatever you want
to do with it. That is my opinion because that's
how I feel about it. And if you were sitting
in my chair, I would say the same thing to you.
Trans When we talk about this topic transgender, I understand
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that people feel like you're not being accepted or there's
no acceptance in that area. Let me play maybe some
things that you're feeling. There is a thing called choice,
and it's a decision that one would make for themselves
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and they it's also preferences. You have a preference to
change something on yourself if you don't like it. That's
what that is. That's for you, it's not for it.
It's a preference. If you don't like your lips. Oh
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years ago, you weren't able to change certain things on
your body. Time has progress and people do a lot
of things with technology and science. So now you can
change your lips if you don't like them. You can
change your eyebrows if you don't like them. You can
change your nose if you don't like it. You can
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add some butt if you want some more. But you
don't want no more, but you could take the butt out.
So you could change all these things about yourself. Because
at the end of the day, it's what you don't
like about yourself you want to change it. But let
me explain to you how that works. That's a preference
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for yourself, and that doesn't mean that I have to
like what you did. I don't really think it's my
business to like what you did. I think as long
as you're happy and content with your decision, why does
it matter. So I bring this up because you know,
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we're in this situation with politics and how people feel.
What the presence said or as doing. He only respects
to genders male and female. It's a true fact. There's
only two genders, male and female. When you say that,
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it doesn't really respect or you feel violated because he's
not accepting you. I think that's a preference that you've
got to accept yourself and it doesn't matter what he thinks.
Maybe because and here's the confusion. This is what I say.
I don't get into politics or you know, things that
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will make it difficult for a person to feel at
peace with himself or content. If you're born as a female,
if they're going by your birth certificate you're born, then
that's probably what they're looking at. If that's the label
that we have on social Security. A birthdate shows that
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we were born in this world as a female or male.
That I could see what they're doing, that's the only
thing I could see. But if you have changed something
in between all of that, I don't want to say
that is it right for somebody that accept your change.
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What I'm saying to you is that is it important
for them to accept your change or is it important
for you to accept your change? And maybe you won't
feel so depressed because someone's not accepting you. You can
just accept yourself and be around people who do accept
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your change. It's like not socializing with people who are
not about change with what's going on with you. And
I think that's important because I want you to understand
how important that is for you to understand that you
should not care that much what other people are saying
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and doing. On that note, we're going to take a
brief commerci show. We'll be right back with the Doctor
Malica Claire's show and the voter Bral TV Network will
be right back then. I don't go nowhere because of
me having a voice and saying something about what had
happened to me, because I can't believe it. I can't
believe that these individuals put their good name and their
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reputation on the line just to hurt somebody because they
spoke up. Yes see, that's what happens when you speak up.
I get it, but I'm not fearful because of that
even though I went through a lot and still go
through a lot of things, I got God on my side,
and I feel like if that is not enough, then
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I don't know what it is, because I'm still standing
and I'm still telling my story and I'm gonna keep
on telling stories. And that is why I like film,
because film you're be able to express things that you
went through and experiences and people. You know, you'd be
amazed what you can do. It was really hard for
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me to do that movie sometimes because at that time,
because ten years ago is what I went through, it
wasn't then. So I had to take Even they say
you play yourself, it's not really always easy to play yourself.
You have to play yourself ten years ago when your
mind was just comboblated and you felt betrayed, you know
(19:17):
what I mean. You felt like, you know, life was
just not it and you know not in my situation.
And it's based on true events and you know, unfortunately
it's about judicial deception, but it's also about romance and
drama and divorced. It's something that just went to a
different way, but as I changed it and went into
(19:37):
a movie. But what's interesting about this situation people don't understand.
It's a flow technique for me. That was my release
to finish this movie. Welcome back to the Doctor Malika
Clary Show on the Built and Brave TV Network. Well
come in Love, Yes we are. Before I went on break,
(20:00):
I was talking about something that's very sensitive. And I
have to say that because I feel like it's very sensitive,
like I try to express, because when you feel like
someone's not accepting you for who you are, you feel
(20:20):
violated and it does make you feel sad and alone.
And I get it. But what I'm trying to explain
to you is that with that feeling, you can feel
empowered in ways that you made a decision for yourself.
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And it doesn't matter what that person or what our
president or whoever care like, as long as you feel
good about yourself and you're able to do the things
you want to do. Now, I understand when it comes
to they start talking about activities, I see reasoning for that.
(21:08):
I get it. I mean, I'm not picking any sides
and what's right, what's wrong. Men aren't developed differently than women,
and women aren't developed differently than men. That's all I
can say. So if someone would to say, is this
sport fair? Is it fair to have a man play
on a women's sport? M I know when I'm up
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against some men, they're stronger, more masculine, and they could
do things I can't do. I always want a man
to do something for me, you know, pick this up
because they can do it. I don't know. We just
wasn't built like that. Now, don't get me wrong. There's
some women that could. There's some powerhouse women. I get it.
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But you know, so when you look at it in
that sense, I can see reasoning being hiring some of
this stuff. But I do want to kind I really
want to express to you. I don't think that it's
being done maliciously. That's just my personal opinion. I mean,
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I will hope it's not done. Maybe I should paraphrase
that I hope it's not done maliciously. But when you
start thinking about what's reasonable, what's preferences of somebody's sexual orientation, like,
you start thinking, these are things that you want to
do to yourself. It's something that you want to do.
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If you chose not to be a female no more,
you want to be a male. These are things that
you wanted to do. You want to change that process,
So it's not really like important, only as important to you.
Reason why it's important to you is because you're looking
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for acceptance. Why what worry about acceptance when you're the
one making the change. Just care about you and your
acceptance and the people that love you that you care
that they are on board. And why should it matter
(23:24):
about this person of that person. I don't know you.
They don't sit with you, they don't come to your house,
they don't visit, you, don't talk to you. I get it.
You want to walk in there, you know, I have
to say like racism, you want to be accepted. You know,
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you want to be discriminated against. I will hope that's
not happening, just because because as I recall, even on
applications and all this other stuff, that you have a
question that you don't even have to explain that you
don't have to disclose it. So the label theory shouldn't
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be that important because you don't have to disclose your
sexual orientation or even your race, and a lot of
applications you don't have to. And so that's only if
you want to, you know, so you think about it
the only it's only important to you because you want
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people that love you or accept a new change. If
I've changed into a male, I want my loved ones
to accept my change. That's why it's so important. But
what I'm really saying to you is that should you
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really worry about that acceptance when you're the one that
really want to make the change, and you're the one
that I got to look at yourself in the mirror,
and you're the one that have to love yourself and
you're the one that has to wake up with yourself.
I think that's so important because that's the biggest issue
I see. And I'm explain this as clear as I
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can because I don't have any biases against changing doing things.
I mean, heck, I've done things myself. When you add
hair to your own hair, that's a change, right, But
that's my change. That's something I want to do, you know,
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And I don't expect people to like it or not.
I really don't care. I know we're in a world
that we try not to judge. But I think because
we care so much, it hinders you for living life.
It depresses you, and it makes you're not you know,
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want to be here. And I think that that is
something that don't let that be the focus of you
not enjoying your life. Okay, No, you made a change
because you wanted to do it, happy with your decision.
That's why I have to stress. Love yourself, and if
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you love yourself, it doesn't matter what anybody else say.
I know it's easy said than done because we've got
some cool people out there, but you don't have to
express that with other people. You can just keep it
to yourself. Do whatever you want to do to make
you happy. Your loved ones, I know they're going to
(26:46):
notice a change, but okay, as long as you love
who you are, nothing should matter. Now that note, we're
going to take a brief commercial. Will be right back
with the Doctor Malika Claire Show on The Bold and
Brave TV Network. Don't go nowhere, fam will be right.
I'm a human being, but I'm not perfect and I
have my own flaws, but I'm working in progress. And
(27:09):
if you're trying to change something, you're able to do it.
You have the power, you have the key to your
own success. And with that being said, I'm just glad
that I'm able to do this and share other people's testimonies,
and I'm so glad that. There's many guests that I've
already had on the show that have expressed their challenges
(27:30):
or what they've been going through or went through in
their life, and I say that it's because they're not perfect.
So it's good that they express that. It was really
hard for me to do that movie sometimes because at
that time, because ten years ago is what I went through,
(27:52):
it wasn't then, so I had to take Even they
say you play yourself, it's not really always easy to
play yourself. You have to play your so ten years
ago when your mind was just combobulated and you felt betrayed,
you know what I mean, you felt like, you know,
life was just not it and you know not in
my situation. And it's based on true events and you know,
(28:15):
unfortunately it's about judicial deception, but it's also about romance
and drama and divorced. It's something that just went to
a different way, but as I changed it and went
into a movie. But what's interesting about this situation people
don't understand. It's a flow technique for me. That was
my release to finish this movie. Welcome back to the DOCTU.
(28:38):
Milika Clary's show on The Bold and Brave TV network
will come in live all right, Welcome back, Welcome back.
So before I I was still talking about transgender sexual irritation, preferences, choices,
and you know, I'm gonna that's my opinion. So I'm
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not sure if I answered you know, the mini that
had some questions, you know, regarding this topic. Hopefully I
did because I think I answered it well enough to
say it's your choice. And at the end of the day,
that is your choice. Now here's another thing that goes
with that. Even if it's your choice, people still don't
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have a right to treat you badly. No'll bully you.
Now if that's what's happening, that's a no, no. Now,
that's not right. That's discriminating. That means if you're going
to fill our application for a job and you put
transgender on there, they shouldn't discriminate you because of that.
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That'll be wrong. That's why I said, you don't have
to disclose certain information. You know, they say on application,
what do you describe yourself as? I think they're just
being nice to say, hey, we're recognizing that they could
be a change within this individual. But you don't have
to you don't have to answer that question. You know,
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you can just go ahead. I mean, I don't see
nothing wrong. Unless it's something that you know, it really
needs to be disclosed that is prevent you to do
the job responsibilities, then I get it. But if it's not,
you don't have to do that. See, that's a choice.
Just like a race. You don't have to sit up
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there and disclose your race, you know. And I mentioned
racism because that's something that I see all the time.
Even being a female, I'm discriminate against.
Speaker 4 (30:40):
You know.
Speaker 6 (30:40):
Unfortunately it still exists. But those are bad people that
do taken advantage. You know, that's not everyone. You have
some bad people that believe that black people should be
slaves always, white people should be king castle always, minorities
should be in their place, whatever you want to look
at it. You got some people that really believe that.
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But are you saying everybody else is like that? No? See,
we meet bad people that do things that's bad, and
we think everybody else is like that. Not everyone's like that.
That's why I said, you know, racism is never going
to change. Judging is always going to be there. But
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what can you do to add to this situation in
a positive outlook? Do you add to the problem, or
can you add to a solution the solution. Don't let
it affect you as much as you shouldn't. I mean,
don't do it, because you could try to change it
with you, starting with you first. And what I mean
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by that being nice to others and don't judge others.
You know, you could start with that, caring about all
the people's feelings. And I think that's so important because
I think that's what we're missing too, not caring about
other people's feelings, even if you're a transgender or even
if you are a different race. Caring about maybe how
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you're feeling because not everybody's being treated the same, not
waving it off or dismiss it and say, hey, it
doesn't exist. It does. There's people that take advantage of
me because of my quote quote notability, and they take
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advantage of people like me because of that want to
do bad things. And you know those people are not
right just because they do that. That's a person that's
a personality issue. But that doesn't mean I'm going to
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fire back and just be mad at them all the time.
I look at it. That's your proble back and do
what I gotta do. But at the end of the day,
what are we really doing here? You're you know what
I mean, that's a person's decision. People not liking you
for whatever reason, because you speak up, you fight back,
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get in line. Because there's a whole many, whole lot
of people that far back or did something somebody didn't like.
Because that's why we have changed today because people did something.
But you know why, here's the thing. Do something towards
a positive that's gonna bring positive outcomes and now it's
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gonna it's not going to bring war. Who wants war?
Want war? I mean, where's the piece here? And I
believe that's what we need. And even if I'm talking
to people that are not transgenders or people with just
people and you know, male know female, whatever, if you
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are that person that are treating somebody bad just because
there's sexual orientation preference, that's not good. You shouldn't do that.
It's still a choice. You may not like it, but
that's you. You don't have a right to sit up
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there and make somebody feel bad because that's their choice.
So that's still a formal bullion and it's not right.
It's just not right. You know, there's people that's not
gonna accept everything. Okay, I don't need you accept it,
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and that's how I look at it. I don't need
you accept it, and that's how you should look at it.
You don't need no one to accept it. You just
need them to be to be nice and not hateful.
That's what we need. And I will say love and
compassion goes with it. But you don't need hate. And
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I think that is the most important. So when people
start doing things to their selves and it has nothing
to do with you, then you shouldn't hate the person
because they did. Now, going back to how transgender could
take things, Okay, they're not allowing certain things. Don't feel
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bad about that. That's just somebody else's preference as somebody
else's understanding. And you know, none of us presidents, we
got one president here, you know, we gotta go ahead
and roll with whatever until another president. You know how
this goes? President? One present get for you is another
present get enough for you? Sometime they get eight, So
(35:56):
how goes? You know? And you got to look at
it in that sense, like you know, but as long
as in your circle people are not treating you bad,
disrespecting you, bullying you, there's laws for that type of
stuff violations, you know what I mean, so that you're
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not supposed to do. So if something like that is happening,
then you gotta do something about that because that's not right.
But remember that's a personality issue. That's a person to
a person issue. And don't get me wrong, there might
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be a group of them like that. Nope, I will
always say this, and I'm going to continue to say
we've got bad people and got good people. That's all
I can say about that. Really. On that note, we're
going to take a brief commercial. We'll be right back
with the doctor Miliou Claires showing the Volle and Braid
TV Network. Don't go down with him. We'll be right back.
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It was because of me having a voice and saying
something about what had happened to me, because I can't
believe it. I can't believe that these individuals put their
good name and their reputation on the line just to
hurt somebody because they spoke up. Yes see, that's what
(37:23):
happens when you speak up. I get it, but I'm
not fearful because of that. Even though I went through
a lot and still go through a lot of things.
I got God on my side, and I feel like
if that is not enough, then I don't know what
it is. Because I'm still standing and I'm still telling
my story and I'm gonna keep on telling stories. And
that is why I like film, Because film you're being
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able to express things that you went through and experiences
and people you know, you'd be amazed what you can do.
I'm a human being, but I'm not perfect, and I
have my own flow, but I'm working in progress. And
if you're trying to change something, you're able to do it.
You have the power, you have the key to your
(38:08):
own success. And with that being said, I'm just glad
that I'm able to do this and share other people's testimonies.
And I'm so glad that there's many guests that I've
already had on the show that have expressed their you know,
challenges or what they've been going through or went through
in their life. And I say that it's because they're
(38:28):
not perfect, so it's good that they express that. Welcome
back to Doctor Belika Cleared show on the Bullet Frave
TV network. We would come in live. That's my engineer
talking about go next. I don't even know if I'm
following basketball as munch, you might got me on that one.
(38:50):
I have to tell you might get me on that one. Yeah,
So back of what I was saying, so hopefully, like
I said, I answered your questions about the transgender and
my advice is it is a preference to you, so
try not to care what other people say about it.
You should get you're doing and that's important, and feel free.
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Like I said, reach out to me still if I
didn't answer, you want some more comfort, no problem, It's
good to talk to people. You know. I'm not against you.
I just want you to be peaceful and be content
with your decision and not really care about who's in
the room with you, because at the end of the day,
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are those people in the room with you when you
made your decision? Mm hmm. So it's up to you.
So you really shouldn't and I get it. You can
fight for the rights and keep doing it. Isn't wrong
with that. I'm all about that too. But are you
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fi fighting for acceptance or you already got the acceptance
from you? Are you fighting a battle that may happen,
may not And the only thing that you really need
to know that's really, really important is that you love
yourself and you accept yourself and your loved ones around you,
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and that's all that matters. And that's just something to
think about, you know. I get it. I get it,
and I'm just trying to help you have a peaceful
life and more content and to not try to worry
about all this because some things we can change and
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some things we may have to just accept and move on,
you know, because the lifespan that we have in this
world is not a long one, and some people can
make try to beat that change, beat that change the
day they die, and you could keep on. Trust me,
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Don't get me wrong, I don't believe in not giving
up on something. But is it something you're giving up
on or is it just something that you want to
convince people to accept your decision When they didn't have
anything to do with your decision. It was just your
decision or your family or your parents or whoever the
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case may be. It's still somebody loved you to support
you in that decision or they contribute to that decision
to help you out. And I think that's all the
people that really matters in your circle. Now, I already
said what I said about people bullying. I have no
nonsense for that. I'll have no tolerance for the pullion.
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That's not acceptable in my book, and it shouldn't be
acceptable anywhere. It's not right, okay, because we have a
choice to do whatever we want to do. That's the
way it goes. We have a choice. They don't like it,
or we have a choice. Okay. So with that being said,
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you know, hopefully, like I said, I answer your question.
You know, I talk about a lot of things on
my platform and I try to help many people with depression, fear, anxiety,
just loving yourself and living your day a better day
or having a better day, and look at the positive.
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I look at a positive life. I look at God
when he gives me another day, and I say, what
can I do with that day? There's some things he
put in my day that I'd be so surprised, and
I say to myself, what do I do with that surprise?
I can accept it, and I could just rote with
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it and just enjoy it, because that's what life is
all about. Right. God has the power at the end
of the day. And I believe that so heartily, and
I put my faith in God because I know whatever
He's doing for me, He's going to get me through
if it's something that I need to go through it,
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I gotta understand the journey of the process. But he
opens my eyes to certain things, and I do know
he does that. I know we have to go through things.
Makes it stronger when we do, wiser as well, and
I'm okay with that. But my flow technique, my belief
(43:31):
mechanism is within Jesus Christ, God, Holy Spirit. That's what
I believe in. That's my gnome to me. So when
my outlet, that's my outlet, that's what I deal with.
That's how I get peace. People. I try to help
you with your peace. You know. People can meditate, they
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can pray, you know, you take walks out in the park,
go walking, talk to people, get therapy, stuff like that.
I try to educate you on so many different areas.
I try to educate people on accountability, and I think
that is very important because many people don't want to
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be accountable for their actions. If something happened. You know,
A is the first letter of the alphabets, people B
come second. So when you talk about cause and effect,
you start talking about accountability. Are we being accountable for
(44:33):
our actions? People? Oh, we just saying, hey, I did this,
and that didn't matter why I did this, But you
had a reason why you did something, and if somebody
do something back at you, it's only because you did something. First.
Who ran the race first? Now I don't know who's
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gonna finish the race, but who ran the race first?
And that's with life. If like you have an argument,
if you have a disagreement with someone, why are you
arguing and why are you disagreeing? There's a reason why.
Let's get to the reason, then we can get to
the solution. Is it supposed to be just one way
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I'm gonna do this and you stay here? Or are
we supposed to compromise? How do we compromise?
Speaker 2 (45:29):
Oh?
Speaker 6 (45:30):
Or do we both just say no, Well, I'm not
going to do anything. So if neither one is doing anything,
there's no compromise, there's no solution. There's nothing. If you're
going to do something, it takes two. That's accountability for
everyone takes two. So you can't ask somebody to do
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something you're not willing to do something too. That got
to be looked at as a selfish Oh I'm not
gonna do this, but they can do it. Come on people.
What are we doing? I mean, really is that what
we're doing. You're not allowing you know, change, but only
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one side change. That's not changed people. That's self centered
and not being accountable for your actions. So if you're
doing something to somebody and you're not taking the consequences
of that, or you're not dealing with the consequences, then
you're not being accountable for your actions. Because I always
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believe it is a cause and effect, and people just
don't do nothing for nothing. They have a reason. I've
sad people sat in my chair and they always had
a reason why they did something, including myself. If I
did something, I had a reason why. Now you may
(46:59):
don't like that reason, but I had a reason. I
think people when you deal with accountability, you have to
understand a reason why somebody's doing something to you. It's
not just the targeting you, it's because you probably did
something to them. Be accountable for your actions so important.
(47:20):
On that note, we're gonna take a brief commercial. We'll
be right back with the Doctor Malica Claire Show on
the Bold and Brave TV network to go to with him.
Will be right back.
Speaker 1 (47:32):
It was an interesting moment for me at the time,
because I really wasn't seeking someone or anyone I should say,
I just hope if I did meet someone that they
would be a positive person to meet.
Speaker 2 (47:52):
Everything he would sing and doing was making me fall
in love with him.
Speaker 3 (48:09):
Fighting over custody a lot of people quit, but when
that's just how we got to be.
Speaker 4 (48:13):
But she keeps on fighting nothing.
Speaker 5 (48:15):
It takes a lot of out yot that bay you.
Speaker 6 (48:18):
Like you in your departure of the characters objection. Where's
any of this evidence of this? Barn, I say she
you fortecteen thousand dollars eight to see myself.
Speaker 4 (48:31):
This is all about a child, a poor boy born
into about five.
Speaker 3 (48:38):
You know what you're lies? Like the god support said spind,
you know.
Speaker 4 (48:45):
What your lies?
Speaker 3 (48:45):
A god surply God is surpack.
Speaker 2 (48:51):
Feels no dollar y'all pay no jocky, I say.
Speaker 6 (48:58):
You're trying to have a judge dream. I'll send you
herb for thousands of dollars for coming to court.
Speaker 3 (49:08):
How much money since we can't mags to get paying
you and your fellows. Jesus on time said I'm gone
to survive. But God, I'm survid, you know what your lies.
I'm going surp God surprise, saying I'm going to surprise,
but God surpled. You know what your lies of God is, supplies.
Speaker 6 (49:28):
You lie, don't sun t Welcome back to the dotly
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Can Clary Show on the Boat and Brave TV never
We're coming live. Let me see that that was for
my engineer Cala Celtics. Thank you for educating me. You know,
I always have to throw that in there because he's
a knickspan. I told you I go both ways.
Speaker 3 (50:14):
You know.
Speaker 6 (50:16):
Ways. Dad is from the York So there you go. Anyway.
He's laughing at me right now. He's like Trader, Trader,
I don't want to hear you anyway. So what I
was saying before, we want to break accountability. I think
I'm always going to stress about accountability people. You know,
(50:36):
you shouldn't be mad at people just because they had
reaction to your action. And that's life. Some people just
don't understand that it takes two to dance, and you dancing,
somebody's gonna dance back. And that's at the end of
the day. That's how people are me, that's how we operate.
Speaker 4 (51:00):
You know.
Speaker 6 (51:00):
It's not like I don't wake up want to do
something bad. A somebody that's just not me. I don't
wake and you know, make up things about people. I
don't do that. That's not my style, you know, doctor
Maliki Cleary, don't do stuff like that. I'm gonna take
accountability for my actions what I do. I want to
make sure what I'm doing is correct. And that's something
(51:22):
I do have to tell people. When you start doing
things to people, messing up their reputation, make sure that
you it's true, because you shouldn't be doing that if
it's not true. And I don't care who you are.
I don't care how many titles, prefits, accolades, you have,
how many degrees. You don't have a right to hurt
(51:43):
people just for the heck of it. You shouldn't do that.
People should not do that, and that's because you don't
like your life. And if you don't like your life,
to go get you into the life.
Speaker 2 (51:56):
That's on you.
Speaker 6 (51:58):
But stop messing with somebody else's life who loved it life,
because they're not doing nothing to you. Now, I know
people gott to defend their actions, and they got to
defend their character. Why should we put people in a
situation to have to defend themselves. Don't start nohing won't
be none, and that's the way it goes. So be
accountable for your actions, what you did to contribute to
(52:20):
the mess. That's that's really how I have to say.
I really need to say that to people, because, believe
it or not, we are all running around here at
times not being accountable for our actions. Don't go and
say this happened and you don't know how it happened,
(52:42):
You didn't have something to do with it. Come on,
you had something to do with it. It's just how
much did you have to do with it? What did
you do to contribute? So I have to really stress
(53:03):
that out because I have so many people I speak
to and the first thing they always say, oh, this
is happening to me, I don't know why, and why
let's get to the core of the why. I know why,
because maybe people don't like other people fighting back and
they want to bully you and they want to make
you feel weak. Well, there's things out here, you know,
(53:29):
we all have rights here with all the people, and
the difference. The difference is male and female. Maybe color
and all that other stuff could go into play the race,
the card, ethnic all that stuff. Yeah, yeah, I get it.
At the end of the day, the thing that's really
(53:52):
similar and you can't get out of it. We're all
human beings. Remember that we are all human beings. We cry,
we get depressed, we hurt, we love, we get sad,
we have anxiety, depression and fear, we develop all these things.
(54:16):
We're people. That's what we are. No one's perfect, and
if you are, I don't know who you are because
you're not. Jesus Christ is perfect. You ain't perfect. So
I never met a perfect person and I don't think
in my time I will. Unless God's coming down soon.
(54:38):
Then yeah, the Father's that, you know, Jesus Christ coming
down here. We're good. But none of these human beings
run around here is perfect. So don't act like you're
perfect because you're not. But you could make a change
to Its a positive and that's what it's all about.
They can change and positivity. So remember that I said that.
I'm gonna leave you with that. The change is with
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the new people. Stop fighting, get the loving, have compassion
because communication is important. Once you do that, things will
work a lot better. Trust me, they will. I do
know that. Prayer, people, prayer, it's important because I do that.
(55:21):
It works. Thank you for tuning in to the Doctor
Milika Clary Show. Please on Boldenberg TV. Continue check me
out Facebook, Instagram, TikTok, Snapchat and Google me Yeah, Google Lincoln.
All the social media's thank you continue in doctor Milika
(55:42):
claary dot com website. Thank you for tuning in. Have
a wonderful, blessed day for the rest of the day
and a weekend to come. Oh God bless you or
I love you. If no one said I love you,
I love you and I care about you, So do
better today. I love you and take care of yourself.
God bless you all. Thank you again for tune in
(56:03):
to Doctor Melika Claire's show on the Bold and Brave
TV network. All right, take care of yourself.
Speaker 5 (56:08):
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