August 5, 2025 • 46 mins
In this episode, the Good Ole Boys delve into the evolving nature of chivalry. Join the guys as they debate whether chivalry is truly dead or simply transformed. They discuss the expectations surrounding dating, who should pay on the first date, and how societal norms have shifted. Tune in for a lively conversation filled with personal anecdotes, humor, and insights on modern relationships!
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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Pushplaypods dot Com from fair Fact, South Carolina to be
for North Mortle Beach, New York City, Florence, Columbia, back
here in Rock Hills, South Carolina and the Charlotte, North
(00:21):
Carolina Metropolitan Every year we are the good Old Boys
on the Forecast Media Radio Network with thee Mario Washington.
Speaker 2 (00:28):
Ju Kittles, Black Trump, Grand Wiz.
Speaker 3 (00:31):
Yes back in the house once more talking about that
actual factional.
Speaker 4 (00:33):
There's only the good old boys know how to bring
it to you.
Speaker 3 (00:36):
Yeah, whiz yo, I heard you had something to say
about some competition or something this weekend.
Speaker 5 (00:47):
I did what the w NBA All Star Game.
Speaker 4 (00:50):
No, that takes you a cent.
Speaker 5 (00:53):
Refresh my memory. I don't remember you.
Speaker 4 (00:55):
Said something about something being two point five.
Speaker 5 (00:58):
Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah it was.
Speaker 6 (01:02):
It was a it was a comedy competition of a
pretty nice comedy club, and it looked like and one
of the dude with two black dudes clearly made it.
And then there was another dude who uh, I'm not
one hundred percent sure if he's black because he looks
rather light skinned, but he got that weird face like
like he's mixed. Like you know how when the jeans
(01:24):
get mixed up and you get the wrong end of
the jeans and it's like you don't come out looking
like like yeah, like.
Speaker 5 (01:30):
Halle Berry or Alicia Keys.
Speaker 6 (01:32):
There was a chick at winter Man who looked like
she got the leftover jeans from the mixed brew. I
forgot her name, that's what he kind of looked like,
like like an alien and you're like, you know it's human,
but you're not sure.
Speaker 7 (01:44):
Talk air on that. I know who you're talking about.
Speaker 3 (01:51):
Yeah, horrible, because I think to taste some shit about
possible right right, right right.
Speaker 6 (02:00):
The picture looks like a head like black comment you
got in the finals possible.
Speaker 4 (02:10):
Lord? Man? Yeah, man, But all your boys doing all right.
Speaker 2 (02:13):
Man, And it's trying to meet this heat, bro, Like
it's it's stupid scorching out here man, everywhere. That's about it.
Staying hydrated, bro, it's all anybody can do out here.
Speaker 7 (02:24):
Yeah.
Speaker 8 (02:24):
Man, I'm good too. I'm good, trying to just trying
to stay alive, stay alive.
Speaker 3 (02:30):
And let me tell you something, man, this is that
heat that you know you feel, you feel disrespected when
you walk out outside, like.
Speaker 4 (02:38):
You know, it just jumps on top of you.
Speaker 3 (02:39):
I don't know in other parts of the country and
you're in the southeast. A hundred degrees in the southeast,
it feels like a blanket is on top of you.
Speaker 4 (02:50):
Now, I know if people tell me out west, if
it's one hundred degrees, it don't feel like this.
Speaker 7 (02:55):
It's that humidity is missing, right, it feel heavier.
Speaker 8 (03:00):
Dumb ass, the dumb ass baby lizard. It was like,
let me, let me hide in the crack of your
door from the heat. Of course he got smashed up.
Speaker 5 (03:08):
Damn.
Speaker 8 (03:08):
I open the door the next day. He just laying
there like like raising damn. Because I'll be trying to
kill kill lizards and stuff. I try to escort them
out the house. Joy be wanting them, wanting them out asap,
kill them. I'm not killing the lizard.
Speaker 2 (03:23):
Yeah, Like it's touching, like eighty plus degrees man before
like eight thirty nine, right, bro, Like, yes, you got
to go to the check your mailbox and come back
in and take another shower type hot.
Speaker 5 (03:35):
Yea man's night.
Speaker 6 (03:37):
I've been breathing yesterday and I noticed it felt like
it was harder for me to breathe.
Speaker 5 (03:41):
The air felt heavy.
Speaker 3 (03:43):
Yeah, That's what I'm saying, man, Like it's like a
it's like a weight to that bad boy man, like
you know.
Speaker 4 (03:48):
What I'm saying.
Speaker 3 (03:49):
But you know it's been it's been good though, man,
like I've been Like you know, I'm still like the
country boy man.
Speaker 4 (03:53):
I'd be outside to the cloud looking up at the
stars and stuff. Man, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 8 (03:57):
I ain't going I did, yeahday when you would you
would run around outside and your further the looms.
Speaker 4 (04:03):
Yeah. Well, I don't know about food of the lulo,
but I had the Hanes, some of them. I rock
food of the looms now though.
Speaker 5 (04:16):
You had name bread though.
Speaker 9 (04:17):
I had hand me down, hand me down draws though, yeah,
from my grand.
Speaker 10 (04:22):
Your daddy draws. I hate to see how this man
I would have And.
Speaker 5 (04:27):
Then I would hand stuff down.
Speaker 6 (04:29):
And then when my brother got bigger than me, when
he got fat, he would hand me draws up.
Speaker 5 (04:34):
And so I had a bunch.
Speaker 3 (04:35):
Of Hey, listen, I wore a lot of hand me downs.
I ain't never want nobody draws though.
Speaker 10 (04:41):
How did you receive them?
Speaker 8 (04:42):
You receive them in like a grocery bag or wrapped
it up in the present, and he just had like.
Speaker 6 (04:48):
My granddad would give them to our mom and then
our mom would give them to us, but then my
brother would just give them to me because we shared
the same room.
Speaker 5 (04:55):
You were just like, yo, you could use these. I
wore my brothers hand me up draws all through college. Man,
it was crazy.
Speaker 10 (05:02):
Sham, no wonder, no wonder.
Speaker 5 (05:09):
Why do you look like you want to smack?
Speaker 6 (05:10):
Like you want to tell Mario to sit his five
dollar butt down?
Speaker 5 (05:14):
If you.
Speaker 6 (05:18):
Like you put in a CND right now, like you
want to drag a fake dog around the room and
find out what broken CD player?
Speaker 4 (05:28):
All black, all everything right?
Speaker 5 (05:33):
Skin thinks he is.
Speaker 3 (05:37):
Uh. This week we're talking about chivalry and uh uh
did chivalry die or did chivalry evolve? We're gonna we're
gonna address that on this week's show because I know
some years ago, I think it was like twenty twelve,
we did a show where we said chivalry is dead.
I think that we may have been preemptively wrong, because
(05:59):
I don't think that it's dead. I think it may
have turned into something different that we now don't even
call chivalry.
Speaker 7 (06:07):
It's not appreciated though, so while we don't do it.
Speaker 3 (06:10):
Yeah, yeah, what it is? Back on to go to
Old Boys. Four Gas Media Radio Network. We're talking about chivalry.
Did it die or did it evolve? So let's let's
get a little bit into this, because I wonder how
we're thinking about this these days.
Speaker 4 (06:26):
You're on a first date.
Speaker 3 (06:27):
With and.
Speaker 4 (06:30):
I know what the answer is about to be. Who
pays first date is likely?
Speaker 5 (06:36):
Most likely?
Speaker 6 (06:38):
Most likely I would pay because I asked her out,
and I would expect to pay because that's just my
that's my that's courtesy because I'm asking the person out.
I feel like, in general, the person who asks the
other person to go out of their way to go
out is the one that should be paying, right, especially
if it's a romantic intent. If it's just people hanging out,
(06:59):
then they both pay their own way. But what usually
happens is women abuse that and because they understand that
men are conditioned to pay, and what they do is
they use that hesitation technique.
Speaker 5 (07:11):
When the bill comes.
Speaker 6 (07:12):
They hesitate because they know a man's gonna start feeling
nervous and the hair will stand up on the back
of his neck and he thinks, oh, I better grab
this bill because I look bad.
Speaker 5 (07:20):
And then they take advantage of that and weaponize it.
Speaker 2 (07:24):
I don't care what it looked like like, I agree
with you, though, one hundred percent. Like it's if it's
a first date and you ask that individual out, yes,
it's on you to take care of that bill. Like again,
everything you just said, one hundred percent agree. Man, if
we just hanging out or they say, hey, it's a
group coming to the part, would you like to go?
(07:44):
You know, even in that point, she's inviting me to go,
and if I like her, I'm gonna go. I'm willing
to pay for my own if she If she takes
the lead and be like, yo, don't worry about that,
I got you, then I'm gonna accept that.
Speaker 7 (07:54):
I'm fall back and let her do her thing.
Speaker 2 (07:56):
Be like, okay, that's something to gauge your on as
far as moving in that relationship further.
Speaker 7 (08:00):
But for the most part, like you say, even if they.
Speaker 2 (08:02):
Invite me out and I think she a cool chick,
I'm still gonna want to pay my portion unless she
jumps and takes that lead. You know, just being me,
I don't want you to think I owe you something.
Speaker 10 (08:13):
Well for me, like I wait for g Money's girl
unique for to.
Speaker 8 (08:19):
Get your a little free time, and then I invite
her over and get her to dance to I want
to sex you up. So there's really no chivalry there,
there's no there's absolutely no rules to this game, you
know what I'm saying. But yeah, I think that in
most cases, yeah, the guy is gonna pay, Like if
(08:42):
it's as long as it's not a situation where like
you're going to like going on a date per se,
but you're you're hanging around with other people, so it's.
Speaker 10 (08:53):
Like a group out in a group date.
Speaker 8 (08:55):
I think in those situations a lot of times it's
it's every person for themselves. But if you're doing a
one on one date, then I said, odds are that
the guy is going to be paying for it.
Speaker 4 (09:04):
Yeah.
Speaker 7 (09:05):
So like I think that.
Speaker 3 (09:08):
If I talk to people who are under the age
of twenty five, they don't say not one of them
would have said what you just what you guys just said,
because I totally agree that, like, if I ask you out,
it's my responsibility to take care of this period. And
you know, even if you with somebody who you know,
like make more money than you or anything like that. Man,
Like it's I think that I'm an old fashioned dude man,
(09:29):
and I think that like in that fashion.
Speaker 4 (09:32):
Yeah, let me do it now.
Speaker 3 (09:33):
It's cool if the woman decides to pick it up,
but that usually doesn't happen on the first date.
Speaker 4 (09:38):
True, you know, like fix it up.
Speaker 2 (09:40):
Like like whre Wiz was saying, like how some of
the women have taken advantage of it, some of these
dudes have taken advantage of the whole situation and thinking
also in the evolution or downfall of chivalry or whatnot,
in that you think, just because you pay for the meal,
you're about to get some action at the end of
the night. And it's like that ain't always the case,
Like you should be doing it as you like the
chick and you want to build and grow with it
(10:02):
and hopefully you get to some action. But it shouldn't
be you know, the tip for the tap. You know
what I'm saying, So no pun intended.
Speaker 3 (10:10):
I will say that I've heard people say that instead
of going to like some high end restaurant or something
like that on a first date, do ice cream or
the coffee, something smaller, you know what I mean.
Speaker 2 (10:25):
But see, we always want to impress though I've done
I've done the steakhouse on the first date just because
I was like, yo, I really like this chick.
Speaker 7 (10:32):
You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (10:33):
I've done that, and I've done the pizza parlor. Let's
go to Starbucks. I've done those two because you want
to get to know people and stuff, and it's just so,
I guess it's just a feel man, the vibe.
Speaker 5 (10:44):
I've done. Whatever has a group on, typically that's where
we're gonna eat.
Speaker 6 (10:51):
And if I don't have a group on, it definitely
won't be a restaurant, it won't be a movie theater,
it won't be anything expensive. It's going to be a
walk up shots or we're going to go Nah, not
even that, because we're gonna go to a museum or
we're gonna go to a.
Speaker 10 (11:06):
Pot Okay, I'm gonna say I think.
Speaker 8 (11:11):
The woman paying for the first date could potentially be
a red flag as far as how that relationship could shape.
Speaker 10 (11:19):
Out long long term. Whats up being controlling? Yeah? Controlling?
Speaker 4 (11:24):
Controlling?
Speaker 10 (11:26):
Yeah.
Speaker 8 (11:26):
I've never gone on a date with a person that
paid for it and it ended well.
Speaker 5 (11:30):
I'll say that.
Speaker 6 (11:32):
I've never I'm never going on a date with a
woman paid for it. I'm like to know what that
feels like.
Speaker 2 (11:38):
I like to get abused, like it just it just
lets you know sometimes like to shorting that y'all say,
y'all couldn't look at man like she paid for stuff before,
and you know, you know that was a decent relationship
in that sense, you know, Like so I guess it
just depends on like it could be a controlling thing,
but it's just it could also, you.
Speaker 7 (11:56):
Know, we looked too we look too much in the thing.
Sometimes it could very well to be he likes you as.
Speaker 2 (12:00):
Much as you like her. She want to show you
that it ain't all about just money. I enjoy hanging
out with you, and whatever I gotta do to hang
out with you again, you got to vet the situation.
Come on with you the master vetter man, I'm learning
from you, bro.
Speaker 6 (12:14):
Yeah, but I just which is why I wouldn't That
wouldn't be a problem because I would never let a
woman control me.
Speaker 5 (12:21):
So I'm not worried about that.
Speaker 6 (12:23):
I just don't even know what it feels like to
have a woman paid for the date, because I never
had one.
Speaker 5 (12:28):
Step up. Now, yesterday it wasn't a date.
Speaker 6 (12:30):
It was a writing session, and the woman actually bought
me a coffee and a bagel with some cream, cheese
and eggs, but that wasn't a date. But I've never
gone on a date where the woman said, you know what,
I'll pay for it.
Speaker 8 (12:43):
I'm saying the first date. I'm not talking about later on. Yeah, obviously,
I've had plenty of dates after the first one where
you know, the person I'm seeing is paying for it,
and I'm like, damn, I like this. I like this
equal opportunity, you know, chivalry. But I think the first
date it showed that, like the person was going way
(13:05):
too hard down the road, and then it just gave
me reason to pause.
Speaker 3 (13:09):
Yeah, I probably would be intimidated by a woman paying
on the first date. I think that because it would
be unusual for me, like, because I'm used to, like,
like I said, I'm an old fashioned guy, and if
I end up dating somebody and they want to do
it that way, that means they're not an old fashioned woman.
And I don't know if I'll be able to like
have that throughout the rest of the time.
Speaker 2 (13:29):
If you're looking at it this deep, and y'all looking
at it that deep, then on the first day, on
the first date, and not not even that, if you
into it that deep and you you're upset because a
woman paying, then look into it deeper. If she's paying,
she really probably not into you like that, and you're
probably going to just get one night.
Speaker 7 (13:44):
Out of it.
Speaker 2 (13:45):
Anyway, Either take advantage of that part and get the
scatterling like like like excuse me, like Trump said, you
know red flag like this probably ain't no long distance thing,
or she may not even like you, and calling the
date short. She's saying, hey, I want to pay for
it to get rid of you. I'm not dig gold right, yeah,
get the hell on.
Speaker 4 (14:03):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (14:03):
But you know what bothers me is the way women
weaponize this.
Speaker 6 (14:08):
Like I've always believed that the person who asked the
other person out of their way should be to want
to pay right. Or if it's a situation where you
tube are coworkers, maybe you just have mutual friends and
the person mentions, hey, this is going on, there's a festival,
let's go.
Speaker 5 (14:24):
We should meet up at the festival. To me, that
sounds so canigibal. I feel like everybody would pay their
own way.
Speaker 6 (14:30):
But I've had a woman call me up. This was
two thousand and sixteen. She called me up and she said, hey,
are you hungry? And I'm thinking to myself, not really.
I actually just ate, but I just said, I mean,
I'm good, and she was like, well, I'm hungry. We
should go get something to week and I was like,
all right, cool. So I meet her at the Carolina
Lhouse and when the bill comes. You know what she
(14:50):
said to me, She said, do you think I should pay?
And at that moment, it's a high leverage point. It's
like high leverage, it's bottom of the ninth. Anything can happen.
But I know how to I know how to handle
myself in that situation. So what I do is I
asked people questions to get them to justify themselves rather
than give my opinion.
Speaker 5 (15:09):
So I said, what do you think? Right?
Speaker 6 (15:11):
So that's gonna get her to play her cards. And
she said, well, I don't think I should pay. And
then I play it cool. I don't say well I
disagree or agree. I say why and she said, because.
Speaker 5 (15:20):
I'm a girl. Now, this is a grown woman.
Speaker 1 (15:23):
Now.
Speaker 6 (15:23):
At that point I knew she was full of bs
and I and I had to restrain myself from completely
flaming her up. So I just played a cool but
I took note and I noticed that women want to
be women when it's time to take credit because you
were the same woman who was screaming when the Little
Boozy song came on. Independent woman, you were singing along
with them, right, But when it's time to take responsibility
(15:47):
or accountability, they want to be helpless girls who don't
know which way is up.
Speaker 7 (15:51):
Fact, that's weird.
Speaker 3 (15:52):
Get all that, man, We're gonna come back and we're
gonna talk about the types of women that usually end
up getting chivalry from guys. Back on the Little Boys
Forecast Media Radio Network. We're talking about chivalry. Did it
die or did it evolve?
Speaker 4 (16:10):
Now?
Speaker 3 (16:10):
There are some women out there that are just dropped
dead gorgeous, and they are used to do is opening
the door, giving them the coat when it's a little
chilly outside, paying for all the meals on the first date.
Do you think that some women get chivalry while others
don't simply because they got the pretty privilege.
Speaker 2 (16:28):
Yes, But beauty is in the eye of the beholder, though,
So you know what, what what Wiz may consider a
Manhattan three, you know, somebody else may consider a Cali eight,
you know.
Speaker 4 (16:38):
What I'm saying.
Speaker 7 (16:39):
So it's just, you know, it's just it's in the
eye to beholder.
Speaker 2 (16:43):
And it's what you are willing to do for somebody
that you're attracted to.
Speaker 7 (16:47):
And certain people bring that out of us because it's.
Speaker 2 (16:49):
Where that generation who who were we were taught to
do that for women. So if you catch my eye,
I'm gonna want to do it for you, you know, like
it's simple things, you know.
Speaker 6 (16:59):
Yeah, And it was a time when even I would
do that. I would give pretty girls special privileges. But
over time I've learned not to do that. I've learned
to treat every woman with the same level of disrespect,
so that way they know where they stand and there's
a level being set right.
Speaker 7 (17:15):
And said happen to be disrespect.
Speaker 6 (17:18):
Uh maybe not disrespect, but I can't really curse on
this show, so I can't say, think of another word.
Speaker 5 (17:24):
But I treat them all.
Speaker 3 (17:25):
Like like like like somebody was nineteen years old and
that you remember for the rest of your life.
Speaker 6 (17:32):
I treat them all like like right, like like they
don't matter, and I mean different, that's like right, and.
Speaker 3 (17:40):
That way, I don't believe that anymore, you know, well
that's you.
Speaker 6 (17:43):
I still do, so I treat them. I treat them
all with indifference, like they don't matter. And that way,
the ones that do matter make themselves known, and I
don't get taken advantage of because they realize they can't
take advantage of someone who doesn't care.
Speaker 7 (17:56):
You got to let me know that you're into me
as something.
Speaker 2 (17:59):
So it's like I heard this somewhere where the guy
was like, you know, you you if you treat a
woman like a like a celebrity, she gonna treat you
like a fan.
Speaker 7 (18:07):
You know, you put her on a pedestal, she gonna
let down on you. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (18:11):
So it's like like you were saying, you gotta be indifferent,
and you know, because we gonna like it because you're
a woman, and if you got what it takes, we're gonna.
Speaker 7 (18:18):
Like you and shoot shoot our shot.
Speaker 2 (18:19):
But you're not gonna sit back and this act like
I gotta keep chasing you.
Speaker 7 (18:22):
Because another brother said this for me. He said men
as men.
Speaker 2 (18:25):
I know you know, if you want to break it
down in religion, it's against the religious law. But we
chase LUs. You never once heard anybody, man or female, say,
oh man, I'm so in love with this person. I
hope they make me chase them. We ain't round here
chasing love, bro. You know, like real talk, even even
in the sense of chasing us, is a reward at the.
Speaker 7 (18:44):
End of that.
Speaker 2 (18:45):
And if all I'm looking for is love from you
and you can't give me that, I'm not chasing you
for that. Like that's ridiculous from Trump, both sides of
the spectrum.
Speaker 3 (18:53):
Trump, have you have you given like more chivalry to
pretty girls than like sixes?
Speaker 8 (19:01):
Well, I mean your six is like as like an
aide or something from to me. I mean that's obviously
for another show. Yeah, I'm still trying to figure out
what your sixes are because that was.
Speaker 3 (19:13):
A whole different conversation that we'll talk about someone in time,
and that was about a celebrity.
Speaker 8 (19:19):
Still but still, I mean you you had the audacity
to say she was a six.
Speaker 4 (19:25):
Then I throw out.
Speaker 3 (19:25):
We talked about joy Tail, about him and I throw
other people. And then you'd be like, oh, well, she's
not famous adjustable six. I said adjustable, But I shouldn't
be a six. She should be like a seven or
a half. Yeah.
Speaker 5 (19:43):
I was on the fence until I saw a full
body I was.
Speaker 4 (19:46):
I thought Wiz was crazy. Whiz was righting the whole time.
Speaker 7 (19:49):
Nah, Bro back to her.
Speaker 2 (19:51):
Listen, she's a true woman before these girls started getting
bbls and stuff.
Speaker 7 (19:55):
Back in the day.
Speaker 2 (19:56):
You had big bread, you had a big but and
no breast. That's how I work, period, Bro, that's a
that's a natural.
Speaker 7 (20:03):
Woman, period. And me Trump, I'm with you, bro, at
least a seven and a half eight.
Speaker 10 (20:09):
It's nothing wrong with a flat flat ass sometimes.
Speaker 8 (20:12):
Nah, I mean you're not, bro, I mean, are you
on parade her around?
Speaker 5 (20:18):
I know?
Speaker 3 (20:19):
And y'all remember this, This was a cuble a. I
can't remember the girl's name, but she had worked with
y'all at uh Uh, you were working at Vanguard, and
she walked there and everybody turned around and looked at her.
And I was already standing at the bar, and I
called over that as to what she wanted. I ain't
talked to her no more that night, obviously, but like
I was just trying to Like she worked with u
(20:41):
Q when you was working at Vanguard. I can't remember
her name, man, real pretty girl and uh And she
walked there and I bought her a drink.
Speaker 7 (20:49):
Is dreads or no?
Speaker 10 (20:50):
Nah?
Speaker 4 (20:50):
Like pretty like skinning girl.
Speaker 3 (20:53):
This was like this was like it was that same
weekend that that Wiz had the Sugar Love game going.
Speaker 7 (21:00):
Okay, yeah, I don't remember who that was.
Speaker 3 (21:03):
I think I think I don't want to say the
name about I'll tell you later, Okay.
Speaker 8 (21:09):
I'm just saying, though, how can you how can you
panealize somebody four four points because they don't have an I'm.
Speaker 3 (21:15):
Talking about I think the face is a six?
Speaker 7 (21:23):
Oh my god, Joe, that's why.
Speaker 5 (21:25):
You know what tho.
Speaker 6 (21:26):
In all seriousness, man, I'm actually now I am the opposite.
Speaker 5 (21:30):
Of this segment.
Speaker 6 (21:30):
Right, we're talking about pretty girls getting privileged, right, I
actually make a point to treat pretty girls worse than
arms the girls.
Speaker 5 (21:38):
Right, And let me tell me to run into Jorge
Tyllen because and I tell you why, because.
Speaker 6 (21:45):
You need to break them down because they have sense.
Speaker 3 (21:50):
As much as I agree with you about like the rating, Uh,
you ain't gonna have to break her down to nothing because.
Speaker 4 (21:55):
She ain't gonna tell you.
Speaker 6 (21:56):
Know, that's what you're wrong average one's mindset that you
think she won't do that.
Speaker 5 (22:04):
See, I'm already I think about nothing but what can go?
Speaker 7 (22:07):
Right?
Speaker 6 (22:07):
I don't even see failure, right, but I go out
of my way to break pretty women down.
Speaker 2 (22:13):
Look at that situation and look at him and say, dang,
why he not talking to me.
Speaker 7 (22:16):
He's only due to here that come saying that to me.
Speaker 5 (22:21):
Example, this is the real world, sir.
Speaker 6 (22:22):
I give you one example was Larry p who said,
tell a woman you look like something from the Disney
Channel and she's now confused. That's what you want to do.
You want to always throw the women off base. You
got to keep them off base and confused. And the
second example was Bill Bird telling a story about Patrise O'Neill.
He said, this dude was brilliant when it came to
handling women, right, because this was a fat, black dude
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with gab teeth. He said they were in a bar
and three women came in, and he said they were
Manhattan eights.
Speaker 5 (22:52):
Which in the rest of the country is like a ten. Right.
He said, people were intimidated by him.
Speaker 6 (22:57):
Paterse O'Neill was it came over with a dream and
went up to the finest one and said, yo, he said.
Speaker 5 (23:03):
He pointed at this like a mole or something.
Speaker 8 (23:06):
She had.
Speaker 6 (23:06):
He was like, yo, I like that moles type situation
you got going on your face.
Speaker 5 (23:09):
It's kind of like gargamel.
Speaker 6 (23:11):
But I like that, and then he said, this is
what he did. He said, the woman was mortified. She
instantly looked like she was gonna cry. But what he
did was he broke away that confidence that she had,
like I'm fine and you have to bow before me.
And she immediately became self conscious of this and that
allowed that took her, that eliminated. It's not confidence, it's
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a conceitedness, right, destroyed all of that.
Speaker 5 (23:35):
And she instantly became aware of Patrice.
Speaker 6 (23:38):
And now they were on the same level, and she
began to look up at him because he was clearly
not intimidated, and he destroyed her conceitedness.
Speaker 5 (23:45):
That's what you got to do.
Speaker 6 (23:46):
Man.
Speaker 4 (23:47):
All right, we're gonna come back.
Speaker 3 (23:49):
We're going to talk about whether or not chivalry actually
still exists in all fours. Back on the Little Boys
(24:18):
Forecast Media Radio Network de Mario watching the Ki Kittos,
Black Trump and Grand Wiz. We got a little derailed because,
like Trump be bringing up stuff that we be arguing about.
Speaker 8 (24:28):
I mean, trust me, I mean I wented I was
gonna bring up how on King's Court with Tyson Beer
and Titus O'Neil. Now, I was gonna say, like there's
a lot of fine women in there, and one of
them is leaving the show because she's not getting the
attention from Tyson Beckford that she got on the first
(24:50):
episode because other fine women came into the house. So
she felt like she was being neglected. And she's used
to men chasing her, so like just the thought that
she was gonna be second fiddle play second fiddle just
was too much for her to bear, and.
Speaker 10 (25:07):
She left the house.
Speaker 4 (25:07):
It's a TV show.
Speaker 10 (25:12):
We created episodes off the TV shows all the time.
Speaker 3 (25:15):
And it's Tyson Beckford. Why Tyson Beckford ain't ain't got
no wife? And he about sixty years old. She's a playboy,
right boy? And why call those booze eye here on
a on a dating show with that drawn on beard?
Speaker 4 (25:31):
I know, man like whose beard is drawn worse him
on Big Meach?
Speaker 10 (25:38):
I thought you did say fan Joe.
Speaker 3 (25:40):
Him too, But Big Meach said, you see the dude
imitating Big Meach. He got like a little piscol in
beard and he just be smiling and he won't talk
if people ask him question, You just be smiling.
Speaker 10 (25:53):
I feel like they've ruined they've kind of ruined their legacy.
Speaker 3 (25:55):
They hundred percent. Man, he should have stayed in the background.
Man stayed in jail.
Speaker 4 (26:06):
Somebody saying that little misteak.
Speaker 10 (26:09):
Yeah, I think it was.
Speaker 3 (26:18):
That pus stake, all right, So, uh, when's the last
time you open a door for somebody?
Speaker 10 (26:27):
Yesterday?
Speaker 5 (26:29):
Yesterday for the person I had a writing session.
Speaker 4 (26:32):
With the person that I do that brought you.
Speaker 5 (26:35):
Yeah, when we got to the coffee shop. That's just
what I do.
Speaker 6 (26:38):
So I treat everybody with a level of respect that's
not given to them because of who they are. It's
because of what I think is the way it should be.
I believe in gender roles and I believe that we
all have a duty right. So because of that, nobody
gets special treatment, and it can throw people off that
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why aren't you doing this because I'm fine now, or
why are you doing that? I'm not doing it. I'm
not paying for this meal because you're fine. I'm paying
for it because I feel like it's what I should do.
I asked you to come out. I'm not going to
pay for this meal because you're fine. I want you
to tell me why I should pay for it. And
if you can't give me a good reason, then that's
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more proof why you're stupid?
Speaker 4 (27:21):
Good reason other than fine.
Speaker 5 (27:23):
Yeah, yeah, you need it justin right, because I don't
go for that anymore. The high school me did.
Speaker 10 (27:27):
But I don't do that.
Speaker 6 (27:30):
My mom is you know, she's she she agrees with
some of it, but she can't relate to it because
she's from a different era.
Speaker 5 (27:36):
She's from an era where this wasn't necessary.
Speaker 4 (27:40):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (27:41):
Well I opened the door recently as well, Like I don't.
It's just it's just something. I'm a country boy, so
you know. It was a lady at a gas station.
I just you know, she's right behind me, so I
held the door for it.
Speaker 3 (27:50):
That's just let's rephrase, not like this is a date.
Like if you go pick this.
Speaker 4 (27:58):
Girl up or whatever, and you going on a date
or whatever, do you open the door for.
Speaker 7 (28:03):
If I'm digging her?
Speaker 10 (28:04):
Yeah?
Speaker 8 (28:06):
Yeah, well I wouldn't be going out on a day
with her if that wasn't like digging her.
Speaker 3 (28:10):
But is that something that you do when you keep
up like forever, because I do see like older couples
they be opening the door.
Speaker 4 (28:19):
Or the car door or whatever.
Speaker 2 (28:22):
Ye I haven't done that since early college days. Man,
I just see like nah nah nah. Chivalry ain't dead, bro.
Car keys evolved. Bro, Why I gotta walk over here
without open all the doors when I hit the button
on my joint like.
Speaker 6 (28:39):
And see, and I say, I disagree with you kiddles
on this one, because I would open the door whether
I like you or not, because I feel like it
is the baseline courtesy of what I'm supposed to do right,
And that can throw people.
Speaker 7 (28:55):
It's carrying the food from the direction.
Speaker 3 (28:57):
That's that's different. But to Q's point, I never did
you keep up, But opening the door was because you
had to go, and like you had to, like it
was hard to open the door, you know what I'm saying.
That was different.
Speaker 8 (29:15):
Even when even when I'm not driving, I'll go open
the driver's side door for her to get in. Then
I'll walk back around and sit in the passenger seat.
Speaker 4 (29:24):
More more on that and that happened.
Speaker 3 (29:26):
That happened last Night's crazy.
Speaker 2 (29:29):
That's kind The only thing I'm doing in the passage
seat if she driving, is I'm pumping the gas.
Speaker 4 (29:35):
That's all. I was about to say that.
Speaker 10 (29:37):
The gas.
Speaker 4 (29:39):
I ate nothing. Nothing drives me crazier.
Speaker 3 (29:42):
Bro. Then when I see a dude, grown ass dude
sitting in the passage the seat in the car and
the woman is out there pumping the gas.
Speaker 4 (29:49):
Like, what are you doing?
Speaker 6 (29:52):
This stuff is basic to me. Walking on the outside
of the curve, right, that's another one. I pushed her
to the inside of the curb and I hold open
the door. And when she's walking when we were leaving,
I walked into a car and she's constantly saying, why
you doing that.
Speaker 5 (30:09):
I'm right there and I tell her, Oh, I'm not
doing this for you.
Speaker 6 (30:13):
I'm not doing this because I like you, because we
are We're not gonna do anything. I'm doing it because
I believe it's the right thing to do. And then
I just walk away and that leaves them confused.
Speaker 10 (30:23):
Chivalry died. When it's pouring.
Speaker 8 (30:26):
Down rain, you you open up the umbrella, put her
underneath the umbrella. She sees you getting freaking drenched, and
she doesn't be like, come on, get on the air
with me. Yeah, that's when chivalry died. It's like, it
has to be it has to be a two way street.
Speaker 10 (30:45):
In my opinion.
Speaker 6 (30:46):
Well, if I hear one more woman say another one
of these stupid young girls who are busted and discussed
it says it's a lame.
Speaker 5 (30:54):
It's the G word. Like they try to say it's
gay for a man. They have an umbrella and they
want and they get the ick.
Speaker 7 (30:59):
From like like so hold on they saying that now, Like.
Speaker 3 (31:05):
I don't like women because I got an umbrella, I
don't want to get with the.
Speaker 6 (31:10):
They was like, oh, that gives me a second day.
Speaker 3 (31:14):
You know, I was about to get into this man
because like I wanted to say that, like partially, like
a lot of stuff that has died is because I
feel like I feel like I feel like I feel
like men are expecting a lot more out of women,
and like they they they're expecting women to do certain
things for them now, but they're not expected to do
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anything in return for the women.
Speaker 4 (31:36):
I think that, like you know, like like there's been
a lot of praise.
Speaker 3 (31:39):
In that over over over the last few years and stuff,
and I think that this new generation is very different
from what we were, and like, like I feel like
it's supposed to be a two week street.
Speaker 4 (31:50):
I take care of all this stuff over here, You
take care of all this stuff over here. We take
care of each other, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 6 (31:56):
Dame Chappelle said it in two thousand and one, Chivalry
is Dead and Women Killed It.
Speaker 10 (32:02):
Love Island USA. In the final episode, what.
Speaker 4 (32:09):
Like talking about that, Joe, like we knew what it
was about. It was like, I ain't watching that.
Speaker 8 (32:17):
Love Island USA and Christian Hudda was having their final
dinner and Hodder broke up with him. They had dinner
like going out like an elevated area where it required
him to carry her to the dining area because there
was a bunch of water. So after he broke she
broke up with him. He just got up and was
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going to walk off, and she was like, wait, you're
not going to carry me back and he was like nah,
So she had to take off her shoes and walk
through the damn nah and go back Nah.
Speaker 4 (32:48):
Like this this is out of control. Man.
Speaker 3 (32:50):
We're going to come back and we're going to talk
about whether or not it's chivalry or is simping back
on the Little Wood Forecast Video Radio Depth where we're
talking about.
Speaker 4 (33:02):
Chivalry, is it dead or did it evolve? Now?
Speaker 10 (33:07):
Uh?
Speaker 3 (33:08):
I hear a lot of this from from youngsters where
they say that you're simping if you're doing anything.
Speaker 4 (33:14):
Oh, I paid.
Speaker 3 (33:17):
My girlfriend of four years, light Bil I paid the
light bill last week.
Speaker 4 (33:23):
Man, you was simp.
Speaker 2 (33:25):
How That's why I say this's a third line. Man,
Like if he's a simp, if he's paying his girlfriend
for four years, he paid her light bill, but the
other dude that she went on a date with two
days ago didn't pay for nothing and getting the same
action he getting.
Speaker 3 (33:42):
He a simple say, that's your girl for four years?
I said, I preface it with your girl years. I'm
not saying it. But again I'm not saying that.
Speaker 2 (33:50):
I'm saying if she, if somebody else is getting the
action that you getting, but you're paying a light bill
to get Okay.
Speaker 4 (33:57):
Okay, let's assume in that. Let's assume that if.
Speaker 3 (34:00):
Your girl you're the only person getting the action, that's
not that's not simping it.
Speaker 6 (34:08):
These dudes don't understand the difference between manhood and sainhood.
Speaker 5 (34:12):
So I'll explain it for you.
Speaker 6 (34:14):
The Great Iceberg Slim said in one of his books,
he said, it's called a trick because the whore tricks
a john into paying for what a real man can
get for free.
Speaker 5 (34:29):
That's why it's called a trick.
Speaker 6 (34:31):
So when what you are doing, yeah, so when what
you were doing causes you to be unhappy and damping
who you are. In order to be with that person,
you are simping. So it's not simping for me if
I hold the door open for this woman or I
pay for her meal, because it doesn't make me unhappy
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and it doesn't make damping who I am. But if
I say, you know what, in order to be with
this curl, I need to make her believe I'm something
I'm not. So I'm going to buy this I'm going
to get her nails done, get her hair done, take
her out on this trip, even though it makes me unhappy.
Speaker 2 (35:11):
And you're going into credit to her about who I
really am. I agree one hundred percent with that. When
you're going out of your way to do stuff and
it's hurting your pockets and you like, hey, what what
what Deacon fab say? Y'all know I still call them
Deacon Fab? He said, let them faces you show will
be the same face as you stash. You know what
I'm saying, Like, you just can't y'all here stunting like
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you got it like that just to impress a woman
like man.
Speaker 7 (35:37):
That's crazy to me.
Speaker 8 (35:40):
Well, I mean, if you're if you're in a relationship
with somebody for four years. I mean, there's some sort
of expectation that, yeah, you're you're put money in, you're
gonna be taking care of something, right.
Speaker 2 (35:53):
But even he bro if we've been, if we've been
in that relationship for four years, you like you were
taking care of your bills and stuff before I came
into the picture. Why is it my responsibility to even
pay your bill for you? I shouldn't have to pay
it if you're coming up short or something that's happened.
I'm your man, and I don't mind helping you out.
(36:13):
But if we're living together, we're doing things together, then
that's what it is. But if you got your own
place and I got my own place, why the hell
am I paying your bill?
Speaker 7 (36:22):
I got my bills over here too. We can do
things together.
Speaker 2 (36:25):
And if I fall short one day, if I'm mismanaging funds,
which I got, I look at all of that too.
Why are you mismanaging your funds because you ain't mismanaging them.
You're managing your funds and you think you got extra
funds because you're dating me, and that ain't how it
should be.
Speaker 8 (36:39):
Well, I think it's their way of trying to gauge
whether or not you're serious about the relationship, you really
want to marry this person or not, because you were
thinking about the transition, transitioning into being together.
Speaker 10 (36:53):
And I don't want to marriage guy and you.
Speaker 2 (36:56):
And your money right and your bills properly it is
marriage ain't even in the question if you can't manage
your own bills accordingly without having somebody like I'm not
trying to be your daddy. I can take care of
you once we get together. And you can see that
by the way I manage my household. And when I
look at your household, whether it's your bills and how
clean your house is, you ain't gonna get no ring
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on your finger if you can't maintain that.
Speaker 9 (37:19):
So and that's what yeah, facts, here's where I think
Q Kittles may disagree with me, because so I got
a theory on that these the women that you're speaking of,
think the man should pay for their bills and stuff
like that because they are expecting him to give husband privileges.
(37:41):
And that's what that is, because they're giving him wifely privileges.
And the wifely privilege would be access to her vagina anytime, which.
Speaker 4 (37:49):
Is garbage because I didn't even finish.
Speaker 6 (37:52):
Because they're giving him wifely privileges, which is sex, her
mind and her body anytime.
Speaker 5 (37:59):
So she expects to get those husbandly privileges.
Speaker 6 (38:01):
But I think where they're messing up, they're forgetting the
part in the middle that Black Trump just said, which
is marriage.
Speaker 5 (38:08):
Those things are privileges of a.
Speaker 6 (38:10):
Husband and wife. I will gladly pay these bills as
your husband, but I don't feel like I have to
do that when I'm not your husband, And you shouldn't
be giving me wife me privileges when you're not mother. No.
Speaker 2 (38:24):
My thing is a woman is if you look at
if you maintaining yourself before you met me.
Speaker 7 (38:30):
Again, is she paying for you to go get your
beard trimmed up.
Speaker 2 (38:33):
No, because you're a man and you taking care of
that because that's your appearance. If you want to go
get wings and do all of that, that's what you're
doing before I came in. If you want to continue
to look good and have your face, and that's your
pr for you, I shouldn't be paying for that. Again,
if we're about to go out on a trip or vacation,
I'd be like, Babe, I like when you get your
hair like this and I suggest something, Yo, go get
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that jug done like this, He go two hundred. You
know what I'm saying, you need to maintain yourself. That's
not in nobody's positions. I have to pay for that.
Speaker 3 (39:02):
I just say dating is auditioning for the next step.
And if how you date is how you're going to
be in the marriage. So if if you are a
type of dude that is going to like be the
person that's taking care of stuff financially and stuff, it's
okay to do that when you're dating. That's not simping.
That's taking care of your woman if that's what you
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want to do.
Speaker 2 (39:25):
I mean when wiz joint with his point of view, Hey,
from what I've heard, these cats they get the action
before the marriage and then when the ring get on
the finger, all of that stuff starts, like get on it.
Speaker 5 (39:38):
They were lying and they were simping.
Speaker 7 (39:41):
The wife.
Speaker 8 (39:45):
The people that are broken society, what simping or not,
are the ones that aren't in any situation at all
most times, so they don't need to be worried about
what's sipping or what another man is doing with their money.
Speaker 2 (39:57):
Yeah, I can't be mad because they ain't gotten the
lady that you've gotten stuff.
Speaker 3 (40:03):
So that's right, all right, we're gonna come back and
we're gonna talk about whether or not women still want gentlemen.
This was something babyface soon as I get home, So
the Good Old Boys Radio Shows.
Speaker 6 (40:15):
That's definitely saying I wanted to smack the dude in
the face with this on.
Speaker 3 (40:20):
Or the full length version of The Good Old Boys
Radio Show. Follow us on bigs Clown or check us
out on pushplaypods dot com. Back on the Good Old
Boys Forecast Radio Radio Network, we're talking about chivalry. Do
women want to be with gentlemen trump or do they
just want what they want?
Speaker 8 (40:39):
I think I think women want to be in situations
that give them the best position to put them in
the best position to prosper. Whether that's with a gentleman
or with a thug or with a Pro Bowl quarterback,
it doesn't matter. I mean yeah, I mean we could
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take Sea Era for example. I mean, she's been in
relationships with them all, the football player, the rapper, the singer,
but she ended up settling down with the football player.
That's also a gentleman that people define a lot of
times as a sim but and then at the end
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of the day, he was the person that provided her
with the lifestyle that she wanted, and probably the odds
of him going out there and cheating and breaking her
heart or slim to none so to me. In her case, yeah,
she wanted a rich gentleman. Other people want just somebody
rich or other ones. Other people just want somebody that
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are total assholes or have the viewpoints of grand wizes.
Speaker 5 (41:48):
What does that mean?
Speaker 7 (41:49):
All women don't know what they won't.
Speaker 6 (41:52):
Yeah, I agree with Q kittles until they reach a
certain level of maturity, So he is the answer right here.
Mature women want gentlemen, they want husbands. Immature women and
girls don't want those things.
Speaker 5 (42:12):
They want to play around.
Speaker 6 (42:13):
Because it's the stupid girls that are saying it's it
gives them the ick when a man has an umbrella,
a man shouldn't have an umbrella.
Speaker 5 (42:20):
That's gay, right. It's the stupid immature women that say things.
Speaker 6 (42:25):
Like I'm a feminist, I'm a super liberal, or you're
trying to oppress me by being a man. The patriarchy
is the enemy and it's hurting us all right. Mature
women realize those battles aren't even worth fighting because they
don't move any needles. I take you something so profound,
(42:46):
my mother said to me. I told her, well, Mom,
the women today say they don't want a man to
be they want to go out and work.
Speaker 5 (42:56):
They don't want the man to pay for the.
Speaker 6 (42:57):
Bills and stuff like that, and stuff like that, and
they call that misogyny and other stuff. And my mother,
she was maybe in her fifties at the time, this
is a woman who raised three kids mostly by herself.
And she said, I wish a man would come in
here and take care of this. And she said that
because I realized she was tired. This is a woman
who had been doing everything by herself, and she realized
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fighting against the natural order of a man coming in
and being a man and taking that responsibility.
Speaker 5 (43:26):
It's stupid because it's designed to help her.
Speaker 6 (43:29):
And I posted something a year ago, a picture of
it was like a diagram explaining the ideals set up.
It had like a cup within another cup and a
big cup on the outside.
Speaker 5 (43:40):
Maybe it was an umbrella.
Speaker 6 (43:41):
It was the man, the husband, and then right under
him was an umbrella with the wife, and then the
umbrella of the kids was within that, and I just said,
what do you anna think about this? All these women
jumping in all that's evil patriarchy, that's patriarchy, right.
Speaker 5 (43:54):
That's so misogynistic.
Speaker 6 (43:56):
But then I started getting DMS and text messages from
women who didn't want to comment public, who said, Hey,
I don't know what they're talking about, but I want
that patriarch.
Speaker 4 (44:07):
That's right, because I'm tired.
Speaker 5 (44:09):
And I had a woman say.
Speaker 6 (44:10):
I finally got married and we got kids. I like
this patriarchy.
Speaker 4 (44:15):
I like that that man, well, I.
Speaker 3 (44:18):
Think that as we close, man like, man like, if you,
if you care about a woman, take care of her,
man like. You know, women shouldn't have to fight and
claw the way that men do. That's that's what we
were built for. And and her job is to make
sure that you are able to get up and fight
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tomorrow for her.
Speaker 4 (44:41):
That's all it is. Man, if you can.
Speaker 7 (44:43):
Figure, they got to allow that too, right, But but.
Speaker 3 (44:46):
But but but what I'm saying is that like women
have to you, right, they have to allow us to
take care of them, and then we have to get
them to take care of us.
Speaker 4 (44:56):
Yeah, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 3 (44:57):
And by taking care of I'm not talking about like
you all like the old gender role crap, like oh,
she should be having my meal.
Speaker 4 (45:06):
Cooked and all this stuff. No, I'm talking about emotional.
Speaker 3 (45:09):
I'm talking about when that man is down, you pick
that man up and tell him that he's all right,
and then you appreciate what he does for your family.
Speaker 10 (45:18):
Not but lett on him right, wearing that down.
Speaker 7 (45:21):
That's right.
Speaker 2 (45:22):
So to do that, it's just a genuine appreciation. That's
all we have went at the end of the day.
Speaker 4 (45:27):
Yeah, so we're gonna close the cloth for nothing, and
we'll sit you on the radio next week.
Speaker 6 (45:34):
And every girl is a B word until she proves otherwise,
and we out this funky thing.
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on the Forecast Media Radio Network with thee Mario Washington.
Speaker 2 (00:28):
Ju Kittles, Black Trump, Grand Wiz.
Speaker 3 (00:31):
Yes back in the house once more talking about that
actual factional.
Speaker 4 (00:33):
There's only the good old boys know how to bring
it to you.
Speaker 3 (00:36):
Yeah, whiz yo, I heard you had something to say
about some competition or something this weekend.
Speaker 5 (00:47):
I did what the w NBA All Star Game.
Speaker 4 (00:50):
No, that takes you a cent.
Speaker 5 (00:53):
Refresh my memory. I don't remember you.
Speaker 4 (00:55):
Said something about something being two point five.
Speaker 5 (00:58):
Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah it was.
Speaker 6 (01:02):
It was a it was a comedy competition of a
pretty nice comedy club, and it looked like and one
of the dude with two black dudes clearly made it.
And then there was another dude who uh, I'm not
one hundred percent sure if he's black because he looks
rather light skinned, but he got that weird face like
like he's mixed. Like you know how when the jeans
(01:24):
get mixed up and you get the wrong end of
the jeans and it's like you don't come out looking
like like yeah, like.
Speaker 5 (01:30):
Halle Berry or Alicia Keys.
Speaker 6 (01:32):
There was a chick at winter Man who looked like
she got the leftover jeans from the mixed brew. I
forgot her name, that's what he kind of looked like,
like like an alien and you're like, you know it's human,
but you're not sure.
Speaker 7 (01:44):
Talk air on that. I know who you're talking about.
Speaker 3 (01:51):
Yeah, horrible, because I think to taste some shit about
possible right right, right right.
Speaker 6 (02:00):
The picture looks like a head like black comment you
got in the finals possible.
Speaker 4 (02:10):
Lord? Man? Yeah, man, But all your boys doing all right.
Speaker 2 (02:13):
Man, And it's trying to meet this heat, bro, Like
it's it's stupid scorching out here man, everywhere. That's about it.
Staying hydrated, bro, it's all anybody can do out here.
Speaker 7 (02:24):
Yeah.
Speaker 8 (02:24):
Man, I'm good too. I'm good, trying to just trying
to stay alive, stay alive.
Speaker 3 (02:30):
And let me tell you something, man, this is that
heat that you know you feel, you feel disrespected when
you walk out outside, like.
Speaker 4 (02:38):
You know, it just jumps on top of you.
Speaker 3 (02:39):
I don't know in other parts of the country and
you're in the southeast. A hundred degrees in the southeast,
it feels like a blanket is on top of you.
Speaker 4 (02:50):
Now, I know if people tell me out west, if
it's one hundred degrees, it don't feel like this.
Speaker 7 (02:55):
It's that humidity is missing, right, it feel heavier.
Speaker 8 (03:00):
Dumb ass, the dumb ass baby lizard. It was like,
let me, let me hide in the crack of your
door from the heat. Of course he got smashed up.
Speaker 5 (03:08):
Damn.
Speaker 8 (03:08):
I open the door the next day. He just laying
there like like raising damn. Because I'll be trying to
kill kill lizards and stuff. I try to escort them
out the house. Joy be wanting them, wanting them out asap,
kill them. I'm not killing the lizard.
Speaker 2 (03:23):
Yeah, Like it's touching, like eighty plus degrees man before
like eight thirty nine, right, bro, Like, yes, you got
to go to the check your mailbox and come back
in and take another shower type hot.
Speaker 5 (03:35):
Yea man's night.
Speaker 6 (03:37):
I've been breathing yesterday and I noticed it felt like
it was harder for me to breathe.
Speaker 5 (03:41):
The air felt heavy.
Speaker 3 (03:43):
Yeah, That's what I'm saying, man, Like it's like a
it's like a weight to that bad boy man, like
you know.
Speaker 4 (03:48):
What I'm saying.
Speaker 3 (03:49):
But you know it's been it's been good though, man,
like I've been Like you know, I'm still like the
country boy man.
Speaker 4 (03:53):
I'd be outside to the cloud looking up at the
stars and stuff. Man, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 8 (03:57):
I ain't going I did, yeahday when you would you
would run around outside and your further the looms.
Speaker 4 (04:03):
Yeah. Well, I don't know about food of the lulo,
but I had the Hanes, some of them. I rock
food of the looms now though.
Speaker 5 (04:16):
You had name bread though.
Speaker 9 (04:17):
I had hand me down, hand me down draws though, yeah,
from my grand.
Speaker 10 (04:22):
Your daddy draws. I hate to see how this man
I would have And.
Speaker 5 (04:27):
Then I would hand stuff down.
Speaker 6 (04:29):
And then when my brother got bigger than me, when
he got fat, he would hand me draws up.
Speaker 5 (04:34):
And so I had a bunch.
Speaker 3 (04:35):
Of Hey, listen, I wore a lot of hand me downs.
I ain't never want nobody draws though.
Speaker 10 (04:41):
How did you receive them?
Speaker 8 (04:42):
You receive them in like a grocery bag or wrapped
it up in the present, and he just had like.
Speaker 6 (04:48):
My granddad would give them to our mom and then
our mom would give them to us, but then my
brother would just give them to me because we shared
the same room.
Speaker 5 (04:55):
You were just like, yo, you could use these. I
wore my brothers hand me up draws all through college. Man,
it was crazy.
Speaker 10 (05:02):
Sham, no wonder, no wonder.
Speaker 5 (05:09):
Why do you look like you want to smack?
Speaker 6 (05:10):
Like you want to tell Mario to sit his five
dollar butt down?
Speaker 5 (05:14):
If you.
Speaker 6 (05:18):
Like you put in a CND right now, like you
want to drag a fake dog around the room and
find out what broken CD player?
Speaker 4 (05:28):
All black, all everything right?
Speaker 5 (05:33):
Skin thinks he is.
Speaker 3 (05:37):
Uh. This week we're talking about chivalry and uh uh
did chivalry die or did chivalry evolve? We're gonna we're
gonna address that on this week's show because I know
some years ago, I think it was like twenty twelve,
we did a show where we said chivalry is dead.
I think that we may have been preemptively wrong, because
(05:59):
I don't think that it's dead. I think it may
have turned into something different that we now don't even
call chivalry.
Speaker 7 (06:07):
It's not appreciated though, so while we don't do it.
Speaker 3 (06:10):
Yeah, yeah, what it is? Back on to go to
Old Boys. Four Gas Media Radio Network. We're talking about chivalry.
Did it die or did it evolve? So let's let's
get a little bit into this, because I wonder how
we're thinking about this these days.
Speaker 4 (06:26):
You're on a first date.
Speaker 3 (06:27):
With and.
Speaker 4 (06:30):
I know what the answer is about to be. Who
pays first date is likely?
Speaker 5 (06:36):
Most likely?
Speaker 6 (06:38):
Most likely I would pay because I asked her out,
and I would expect to pay because that's just my
that's my that's courtesy because I'm asking the person out.
I feel like, in general, the person who asks the
other person to go out of their way to go
out is the one that should be paying, right, especially
if it's a romantic intent. If it's just people hanging out,
(06:59):
then they both pay their own way. But what usually
happens is women abuse that and because they understand that
men are conditioned to pay, and what they do is
they use that hesitation technique.
Speaker 5 (07:11):
When the bill comes.
Speaker 6 (07:12):
They hesitate because they know a man's gonna start feeling
nervous and the hair will stand up on the back
of his neck and he thinks, oh, I better grab
this bill because I look bad.
Speaker 5 (07:20):
And then they take advantage of that and weaponize it.
Speaker 2 (07:24):
I don't care what it looked like like, I agree
with you, though, one hundred percent. Like it's if it's
a first date and you ask that individual out, yes,
it's on you to take care of that bill. Like again,
everything you just said, one hundred percent agree. Man, if
we just hanging out or they say, hey, it's a
group coming to the part, would you like to go?
(07:44):
You know, even in that point, she's inviting me to go,
and if I like her, I'm gonna go. I'm willing
to pay for my own if she If she takes
the lead and be like, yo, don't worry about that,
I got you, then I'm gonna accept that.
Speaker 7 (07:54):
I'm fall back and let her do her thing.
Speaker 2 (07:56):
Be like, okay, that's something to gauge your on as
far as moving in that relationship further.
Speaker 7 (08:00):
But for the most part, like you say, even if they.
Speaker 2 (08:02):
Invite me out and I think she a cool chick,
I'm still gonna want to pay my portion unless she
jumps and takes that lead. You know, just being me,
I don't want you to think I owe you something.
Speaker 10 (08:13):
Well for me, like I wait for g Money's girl
unique for to.
Speaker 8 (08:19):
Get your a little free time, and then I invite
her over and get her to dance to I want
to sex you up. So there's really no chivalry there,
there's no there's absolutely no rules to this game, you
know what I'm saying. But yeah, I think that in
most cases, yeah, the guy is gonna pay, Like if
(08:42):
it's as long as it's not a situation where like
you're going to like going on a date per se,
but you're you're hanging around with other people, so it's.
Speaker 10 (08:53):
Like a group out in a group date.
Speaker 8 (08:55):
I think in those situations a lot of times it's
it's every person for themselves. But if you're doing a
one on one date, then I said, odds are that
the guy is going to be paying for it.
Speaker 4 (09:04):
Yeah.
Speaker 7 (09:05):
So like I think that.
Speaker 3 (09:08):
If I talk to people who are under the age
of twenty five, they don't say not one of them
would have said what you just what you guys just said,
because I totally agree that, like, if I ask you out,
it's my responsibility to take care of this period. And
you know, even if you with somebody who you know,
like make more money than you or anything like that. Man,
Like it's I think that I'm an old fashioned dude man,
(09:29):
and I think that like in that fashion.
Speaker 4 (09:32):
Yeah, let me do it now.
Speaker 3 (09:33):
It's cool if the woman decides to pick it up,
but that usually doesn't happen on the first date.
Speaker 4 (09:38):
True, you know, like fix it up.
Speaker 2 (09:40):
Like like whre Wiz was saying, like how some of
the women have taken advantage of it, some of these
dudes have taken advantage of the whole situation and thinking
also in the evolution or downfall of chivalry or whatnot,
in that you think, just because you pay for the meal,
you're about to get some action at the end of
the night. And it's like that ain't always the case,
Like you should be doing it as you like the
chick and you want to build and grow with it
(10:02):
and hopefully you get to some action. But it shouldn't
be you know, the tip for the tap. You know
what I'm saying, So no pun intended.
Speaker 3 (10:10):
I will say that I've heard people say that instead
of going to like some high end restaurant or something
like that on a first date, do ice cream or
the coffee, something smaller, you know what I mean.
Speaker 2 (10:25):
But see, we always want to impress though I've done
I've done the steakhouse on the first date just because
I was like, yo, I really like this chick.
Speaker 7 (10:32):
You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (10:33):
I've done that, and I've done the pizza parlor. Let's
go to Starbucks. I've done those two because you want
to get to know people and stuff, and it's just so,
I guess it's just a feel man, the vibe.
Speaker 5 (10:44):
I've done. Whatever has a group on, typically that's where
we're gonna eat.
Speaker 6 (10:51):
And if I don't have a group on, it definitely
won't be a restaurant, it won't be a movie theater,
it won't be anything expensive. It's going to be a
walk up shots or we're going to go Nah, not
even that, because we're gonna go to a museum or
we're gonna go to a.
Speaker 10 (11:06):
Pot Okay, I'm gonna say I think.
Speaker 8 (11:11):
The woman paying for the first date could potentially be
a red flag as far as how that relationship could shape.
Speaker 10 (11:19):
Out long long term. Whats up being controlling? Yeah? Controlling?
Speaker 4 (11:24):
Controlling?
Speaker 10 (11:26):
Yeah.
Speaker 8 (11:26):
I've never gone on a date with a person that
paid for it and it ended well.
Speaker 5 (11:30):
I'll say that.
Speaker 6 (11:32):
I've never I'm never going on a date with a
woman paid for it. I'm like to know what that
feels like.
Speaker 2 (11:38):
I like to get abused, like it just it just
lets you know sometimes like to shorting that y'all say,
y'all couldn't look at man like she paid for stuff before,
and you know, you know that was a decent relationship
in that sense, you know, Like so I guess it
just depends on like it could be a controlling thing,
but it's just it could also, you.
Speaker 7 (11:56):
Know, we looked too we look too much in the thing.
Sometimes it could very well to be he likes you as.
Speaker 2 (12:00):
Much as you like her. She want to show you
that it ain't all about just money. I enjoy hanging
out with you, and whatever I gotta do to hang
out with you again, you got to vet the situation.
Come on with you the master vetter man, I'm learning
from you, bro.
Speaker 6 (12:14):
Yeah, but I just which is why I wouldn't That
wouldn't be a problem because I would never let a
woman control me.
Speaker 5 (12:21):
So I'm not worried about that.
Speaker 6 (12:23):
I just don't even know what it feels like to
have a woman paid for the date, because I never
had one.
Speaker 5 (12:28):
Step up. Now, yesterday it wasn't a date.
Speaker 6 (12:30):
It was a writing session, and the woman actually bought
me a coffee and a bagel with some cream, cheese
and eggs, but that wasn't a date. But I've never
gone on a date where the woman said, you know what,
I'll pay for it.
Speaker 8 (12:43):
I'm saying the first date. I'm not talking about later on. Yeah, obviously,
I've had plenty of dates after the first one where
you know, the person I'm seeing is paying for it,
and I'm like, damn, I like this. I like this
equal opportunity, you know, chivalry. But I think the first
date it showed that, like the person was going way
(13:05):
too hard down the road, and then it just gave
me reason to pause.
Speaker 3 (13:09):
Yeah, I probably would be intimidated by a woman paying
on the first date. I think that because it would
be unusual for me, like, because I'm used to, like,
like I said, I'm an old fashioned guy, and if
I end up dating somebody and they want to do
it that way, that means they're not an old fashioned woman.
And I don't know if I'll be able to like
have that throughout the rest of the time.
Speaker 2 (13:29):
If you're looking at it this deep, and y'all looking
at it that deep, then on the first day, on
the first date, and not not even that, if you
into it that deep and you you're upset because a
woman paying, then look into it deeper. If she's paying,
she really probably not into you like that, and you're
probably going to just get one night.
Speaker 7 (13:44):
Out of it.
Speaker 2 (13:45):
Anyway, Either take advantage of that part and get the
scatterling like like like excuse me, like Trump said, you
know red flag like this probably ain't no long distance thing,
or she may not even like you, and calling the
date short. She's saying, hey, I want to pay for
it to get rid of you. I'm not dig gold right, yeah,
get the hell on.
Speaker 4 (14:03):
Yeah.
Speaker 5 (14:03):
But you know what bothers me is the way women
weaponize this.
Speaker 6 (14:08):
Like I've always believed that the person who asked the
other person out of their way should be to want
to pay right. Or if it's a situation where you
tube are coworkers, maybe you just have mutual friends and
the person mentions, hey, this is going on, there's a festival,
let's go.
Speaker 5 (14:24):
We should meet up at the festival. To me, that
sounds so canigibal. I feel like everybody would pay their
own way.
Speaker 6 (14:30):
But I've had a woman call me up. This was
two thousand and sixteen. She called me up and she said, hey,
are you hungry? And I'm thinking to myself, not really.
I actually just ate, but I just said, I mean,
I'm good, and she was like, well, I'm hungry. We
should go get something to week and I was like,
all right, cool. So I meet her at the Carolina
Lhouse and when the bill comes. You know what she
(14:50):
said to me, She said, do you think I should pay?
And at that moment, it's a high leverage point. It's
like high leverage, it's bottom of the ninth. Anything can happen.
But I know how to I know how to handle
myself in that situation. So what I do is I
asked people questions to get them to justify themselves rather
than give my opinion.
Speaker 5 (15:09):
So I said, what do you think? Right?
Speaker 6 (15:11):
So that's gonna get her to play her cards. And
she said, well, I don't think I should pay. And
then I play it cool. I don't say well I
disagree or agree. I say why and she said, because.
Speaker 5 (15:20):
I'm a girl. Now, this is a grown woman.
Speaker 1 (15:23):
Now.
Speaker 6 (15:23):
At that point I knew she was full of bs
and I and I had to restrain myself from completely
flaming her up. So I just played a cool but
I took note and I noticed that women want to
be women when it's time to take credit because you
were the same woman who was screaming when the Little
Boozy song came on. Independent woman, you were singing along
with them, right, But when it's time to take responsibility
(15:47):
or accountability, they want to be helpless girls who don't
know which way is up.
Speaker 7 (15:51):
Fact, that's weird.
Speaker 3 (15:52):
Get all that, man, We're gonna come back and we're
gonna talk about the types of women that usually end
up getting chivalry from guys. Back on the Little Boys
Forecast Media Radio Network. We're talking about chivalry. Did it
die or did it evolve?
Speaker 4 (16:10):
Now?
Speaker 3 (16:10):
There are some women out there that are just dropped
dead gorgeous, and they are used to do is opening
the door, giving them the coat when it's a little
chilly outside, paying for all the meals on the first date.
Do you think that some women get chivalry while others
don't simply because they got the pretty privilege.
Speaker 2 (16:28):
Yes, But beauty is in the eye of the beholder, though,
So you know what, what what Wiz may consider a
Manhattan three, you know, somebody else may consider a Cali eight,
you know.
Speaker 4 (16:38):
What I'm saying.
Speaker 7 (16:39):
So it's just, you know, it's just it's in the
eye to beholder.
Speaker 2 (16:43):
And it's what you are willing to do for somebody
that you're attracted to.
Speaker 7 (16:47):
And certain people bring that out of us because it's.
Speaker 2 (16:49):
Where that generation who who were we were taught to
do that for women. So if you catch my eye,
I'm gonna want to do it for you, you know, like
it's simple things, you know.
Speaker 6 (16:59):
Yeah, And it was a time when even I would
do that. I would give pretty girls special privileges. But
over time I've learned not to do that. I've learned
to treat every woman with the same level of disrespect,
so that way they know where they stand and there's
a level being set right.
Speaker 7 (17:15):
And said happen to be disrespect.
Speaker 6 (17:18):
Uh maybe not disrespect, but I can't really curse on
this show, so I can't say, think of another word.
Speaker 5 (17:24):
But I treat them all.
Speaker 3 (17:25):
Like like like like somebody was nineteen years old and
that you remember for the rest of your life.
Speaker 6 (17:32):
I treat them all like like right, like like they
don't matter, and I mean different, that's like right, and.
Speaker 3 (17:40):
That way, I don't believe that anymore, you know, well
that's you.
Speaker 6 (17:43):
I still do, so I treat them. I treat them
all with indifference, like they don't matter. And that way,
the ones that do matter make themselves known, and I
don't get taken advantage of because they realize they can't
take advantage of someone who doesn't care.
Speaker 7 (17:56):
You got to let me know that you're into me
as something.
Speaker 2 (17:59):
So it's like I heard this somewhere where the guy
was like, you know, you you if you treat a
woman like a like a celebrity, she gonna treat you
like a fan.
Speaker 7 (18:07):
You know, you put her on a pedestal, she gonna
let down on you. You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 2 (18:11):
So it's like like you were saying, you gotta be indifferent,
and you know, because we gonna like it because you're
a woman, and if you got what it takes, we're gonna.
Speaker 7 (18:18):
Like you and shoot shoot our shot.
Speaker 2 (18:19):
But you're not gonna sit back and this act like
I gotta keep chasing you.
Speaker 7 (18:22):
Because another brother said this for me. He said men
as men.
Speaker 2 (18:25):
I know you know, if you want to break it
down in religion, it's against the religious law. But we
chase LUs. You never once heard anybody, man or female, say,
oh man, I'm so in love with this person. I
hope they make me chase them. We ain't round here
chasing love, bro. You know, like real talk, even even
in the sense of chasing us, is a reward at the.
Speaker 7 (18:44):
End of that.
Speaker 2 (18:45):
And if all I'm looking for is love from you
and you can't give me that, I'm not chasing you
for that. Like that's ridiculous from Trump, both sides of
the spectrum.
Speaker 3 (18:53):
Trump, have you have you given like more chivalry to
pretty girls than like sixes?
Speaker 8 (19:01):
Well, I mean your six is like as like an
aide or something from to me. I mean that's obviously
for another show. Yeah, I'm still trying to figure out
what your sixes are because that was.
Speaker 3 (19:13):
A whole different conversation that we'll talk about someone in time,
and that was about a celebrity.
Speaker 8 (19:19):
Still but still, I mean you you had the audacity
to say she was a six.
Speaker 4 (19:25):
Then I throw out.
Speaker 3 (19:25):
We talked about joy Tail, about him and I throw
other people. And then you'd be like, oh, well, she's
not famous adjustable six. I said adjustable, But I shouldn't
be a six. She should be like a seven or
a half. Yeah.
Speaker 5 (19:43):
I was on the fence until I saw a full
body I was.
Speaker 4 (19:46):
I thought Wiz was crazy. Whiz was righting the whole time.
Speaker 7 (19:49):
Nah, Bro back to her.
Speaker 2 (19:51):
Listen, she's a true woman before these girls started getting
bbls and stuff.
Speaker 7 (19:55):
Back in the day.
Speaker 2 (19:56):
You had big bread, you had a big but and
no breast. That's how I work, period, Bro, that's a
that's a natural.
Speaker 7 (20:03):
Woman, period. And me Trump, I'm with you, bro, at
least a seven and a half eight.
Speaker 10 (20:09):
It's nothing wrong with a flat flat ass sometimes.
Speaker 8 (20:12):
Nah, I mean you're not, bro, I mean, are you
on parade her around?
Speaker 5 (20:18):
I know?
Speaker 3 (20:19):
And y'all remember this, This was a cuble a. I
can't remember the girl's name, but she had worked with
y'all at uh Uh, you were working at Vanguard, and
she walked there and everybody turned around and looked at her.
And I was already standing at the bar, and I
called over that as to what she wanted. I ain't
talked to her no more that night, obviously, but like
I was just trying to Like she worked with u
(20:41):
Q when you was working at Vanguard. I can't remember
her name, man, real pretty girl and uh And she
walked there and I bought her a drink.
Speaker 7 (20:49):
Is dreads or no?
Speaker 10 (20:50):
Nah?
Speaker 4 (20:50):
Like pretty like skinning girl.
Speaker 3 (20:53):
This was like this was like it was that same
weekend that that Wiz had the Sugar Love game going.
Speaker 7 (21:00):
Okay, yeah, I don't remember who that was.
Speaker 3 (21:03):
I think I think I don't want to say the
name about I'll tell you later, Okay.
Speaker 8 (21:09):
I'm just saying, though, how can you how can you
panealize somebody four four points because they don't have an I'm.
Speaker 3 (21:15):
Talking about I think the face is a six?
Speaker 7 (21:23):
Oh my god, Joe, that's why.
Speaker 5 (21:25):
You know what tho.
Speaker 6 (21:26):
In all seriousness, man, I'm actually now I am the opposite.
Speaker 5 (21:30):
Of this segment.
Speaker 6 (21:30):
Right, we're talking about pretty girls getting privileged, right, I
actually make a point to treat pretty girls worse than
arms the girls.
Speaker 5 (21:38):
Right, And let me tell me to run into Jorge
Tyllen because and I tell you why, because.
Speaker 6 (21:45):
You need to break them down because they have sense.
Speaker 3 (21:50):
As much as I agree with you about like the rating, Uh,
you ain't gonna have to break her down to nothing because.
Speaker 4 (21:55):
She ain't gonna tell you.
Speaker 6 (21:56):
Know, that's what you're wrong average one's mindset that you
think she won't do that.
Speaker 5 (22:04):
See, I'm already I think about nothing but what can go?
Speaker 7 (22:07):
Right?
Speaker 6 (22:07):
I don't even see failure, right, but I go out
of my way to break pretty women down.
Speaker 2 (22:13):
Look at that situation and look at him and say, dang,
why he not talking to me.
Speaker 7 (22:16):
He's only due to here that come saying that to me.
Speaker 5 (22:21):
Example, this is the real world, sir.
Speaker 6 (22:22):
I give you one example was Larry p who said,
tell a woman you look like something from the Disney
Channel and she's now confused. That's what you want to do.
You want to always throw the women off base. You
got to keep them off base and confused. And the
second example was Bill Bird telling a story about Patrise O'Neill.
He said, this dude was brilliant when it came to
handling women, right, because this was a fat, black dude
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with gab teeth. He said they were in a bar
and three women came in, and he said they were
Manhattan eights.
Speaker 5 (22:52):
Which in the rest of the country is like a ten. Right.
He said, people were intimidated by him.
Speaker 6 (22:57):
Paterse O'Neill was it came over with a dream and
went up to the finest one and said, yo, he said.
Speaker 5 (23:03):
He pointed at this like a mole or something.
Speaker 8 (23:06):
She had.
Speaker 6 (23:06):
He was like, yo, I like that moles type situation
you got going on your face.
Speaker 5 (23:09):
It's kind of like gargamel.
Speaker 6 (23:11):
But I like that, and then he said, this is
what he did. He said, the woman was mortified. She
instantly looked like she was gonna cry. But what he
did was he broke away that confidence that she had,
like I'm fine and you have to bow before me.
And she immediately became self conscious of this and that
allowed that took her, that eliminated. It's not confidence, it's
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a conceitedness, right, destroyed all of that.
Speaker 5 (23:35):
And she instantly became aware of Patrice.
Speaker 6 (23:38):
And now they were on the same level, and she
began to look up at him because he was clearly
not intimidated, and he destroyed her conceitedness.
Speaker 5 (23:45):
That's what you got to do.
Speaker 6 (23:46):
Man.
Speaker 4 (23:47):
All right, we're gonna come back.
Speaker 3 (23:49):
We're going to talk about whether or not chivalry actually
still exists in all fours. Back on the Little Boys
(24:18):
Forecast Media Radio Network de Mario watching the Ki Kittos,
Black Trump and Grand Wiz. We got a little derailed because,
like Trump be bringing up stuff that we be arguing about.
Speaker 8 (24:28):
I mean, trust me, I mean I wented I was
gonna bring up how on King's Court with Tyson Beer
and Titus O'Neil. Now, I was gonna say, like there's
a lot of fine women in there, and one of
them is leaving the show because she's not getting the
attention from Tyson Beckford that she got on the first
(24:50):
episode because other fine women came into the house. So
she felt like she was being neglected. And she's used
to men chasing her, so like just the thought that
she was gonna be second fiddle play second fiddle just
was too much for her to bear, and.
Speaker 10 (25:07):
She left the house.
Speaker 4 (25:07):
It's a TV show.
Speaker 10 (25:12):
We created episodes off the TV shows all the time.
Speaker 3 (25:15):
And it's Tyson Beckford. Why Tyson Beckford ain't ain't got
no wife? And he about sixty years old. She's a playboy,
right boy? And why call those booze eye here on
a on a dating show with that drawn on beard?
Speaker 4 (25:31):
I know, man like whose beard is drawn worse him
on Big Meach?
Speaker 10 (25:38):
I thought you did say fan Joe.
Speaker 3 (25:40):
Him too, But Big Meach said, you see the dude
imitating Big Meach. He got like a little piscol in
beard and he just be smiling and he won't talk
if people ask him question, You just be smiling.
Speaker 10 (25:53):
I feel like they've ruined they've kind of ruined their legacy.
Speaker 3 (25:55):
They hundred percent. Man, he should have stayed in the background.
Man stayed in jail.
Speaker 4 (26:06):
Somebody saying that little misteak.
Speaker 10 (26:09):
Yeah, I think it was.
Speaker 3 (26:18):
That pus stake, all right, So, uh, when's the last
time you open a door for somebody?
Speaker 10 (26:27):
Yesterday?
Speaker 5 (26:29):
Yesterday for the person I had a writing session.
Speaker 4 (26:32):
With the person that I do that brought you.
Speaker 5 (26:35):
Yeah, when we got to the coffee shop. That's just
what I do.
Speaker 6 (26:38):
So I treat everybody with a level of respect that's
not given to them because of who they are. It's
because of what I think is the way it should be.
I believe in gender roles and I believe that we
all have a duty right. So because of that, nobody
gets special treatment, and it can throw people off that
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why aren't you doing this because I'm fine now, or
why are you doing that? I'm not doing it. I'm
not paying for this meal because you're fine. I'm paying
for it because I feel like it's what I should do.
I asked you to come out. I'm not going to
pay for this meal because you're fine. I want you
to tell me why I should pay for it. And
if you can't give me a good reason, then that's
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more proof why you're stupid?
Speaker 4 (27:21):
Good reason other than fine.
Speaker 5 (27:23):
Yeah, yeah, you need it justin right, because I don't
go for that anymore. The high school me did.
Speaker 10 (27:27):
But I don't do that.
Speaker 6 (27:30):
My mom is you know, she's she she agrees with
some of it, but she can't relate to it because
she's from a different era.
Speaker 5 (27:36):
She's from an era where this wasn't necessary.
Speaker 4 (27:40):
Yeah.
Speaker 2 (27:41):
Well I opened the door recently as well, Like I don't.
It's just it's just something. I'm a country boy, so
you know. It was a lady at a gas station.
I just you know, she's right behind me, so I
held the door for it.
Speaker 3 (27:50):
That's just let's rephrase, not like this is a date.
Like if you go pick this.
Speaker 4 (27:58):
Girl up or whatever, and you going on a date
or whatever, do you open the door for.
Speaker 7 (28:03):
If I'm digging her?
Speaker 10 (28:04):
Yeah?
Speaker 8 (28:06):
Yeah, well I wouldn't be going out on a day
with her if that wasn't like digging her.
Speaker 3 (28:10):
But is that something that you do when you keep
up like forever, because I do see like older couples
they be opening the door.
Speaker 4 (28:19):
Or the car door or whatever.
Speaker 2 (28:22):
Ye I haven't done that since early college days. Man,
I just see like nah nah nah. Chivalry ain't dead, bro.
Car keys evolved. Bro, Why I gotta walk over here
without open all the doors when I hit the button
on my joint like.
Speaker 6 (28:39):
And see, and I say, I disagree with you kiddles
on this one, because I would open the door whether
I like you or not, because I feel like it
is the baseline courtesy of what I'm supposed to do right,
And that can throw people.
Speaker 7 (28:55):
It's carrying the food from the direction.
Speaker 3 (28:57):
That's that's different. But to Q's point, I never did
you keep up, But opening the door was because you
had to go, and like you had to, like it
was hard to open the door, you know what I'm saying.
That was different.
Speaker 8 (29:15):
Even when even when I'm not driving, I'll go open
the driver's side door for her to get in. Then
I'll walk back around and sit in the passenger seat.
Speaker 4 (29:24):
More more on that and that happened.
Speaker 3 (29:26):
That happened last Night's crazy.
Speaker 2 (29:29):
That's kind The only thing I'm doing in the passage
seat if she driving, is I'm pumping the gas.
Speaker 4 (29:35):
That's all. I was about to say that.
Speaker 10 (29:37):
The gas.
Speaker 4 (29:39):
I ate nothing. Nothing drives me crazier.
Speaker 3 (29:42):
Bro. Then when I see a dude, grown ass dude
sitting in the passage the seat in the car and
the woman is out there pumping the gas.
Speaker 4 (29:49):
Like, what are you doing?
Speaker 6 (29:52):
This stuff is basic to me. Walking on the outside
of the curve, right, that's another one. I pushed her
to the inside of the curb and I hold open
the door. And when she's walking when we were leaving,
I walked into a car and she's constantly saying, why
you doing that.
Speaker 5 (30:09):
I'm right there and I tell her, Oh, I'm not
doing this for you.
Speaker 6 (30:13):
I'm not doing this because I like you, because we
are We're not gonna do anything. I'm doing it because
I believe it's the right thing to do. And then
I just walk away and that leaves them confused.
Speaker 10 (30:23):
Chivalry died. When it's pouring.
Speaker 8 (30:26):
Down rain, you you open up the umbrella, put her
underneath the umbrella. She sees you getting freaking drenched, and
she doesn't be like, come on, get on the air
with me. Yeah, that's when chivalry died. It's like, it
has to be it has to be a two way street.
Speaker 10 (30:45):
In my opinion.
Speaker 6 (30:46):
Well, if I hear one more woman say another one
of these stupid young girls who are busted and discussed
it says it's a lame.
Speaker 5 (30:54):
It's the G word. Like they try to say it's
gay for a man. They have an umbrella and they
want and they get the ick.
Speaker 7 (30:59):
From like like so hold on they saying that now, Like.
Speaker 3 (31:05):
I don't like women because I got an umbrella, I
don't want to get with the.
Speaker 6 (31:10):
They was like, oh, that gives me a second day.
Speaker 3 (31:14):
You know, I was about to get into this man
because like I wanted to say that, like partially, like
a lot of stuff that has died is because I
feel like I feel like I feel like I feel
like men are expecting a lot more out of women,
and like they they they're expecting women to do certain
things for them now, but they're not expected to do
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anything in return for the women.
Speaker 4 (31:36):
I think that, like you know, like like there's been
a lot of praise.
Speaker 3 (31:39):
In that over over over the last few years and stuff,
and I think that this new generation is very different
from what we were, and like, like I feel like
it's supposed to be a two week street.
Speaker 4 (31:50):
I take care of all this stuff over here, You
take care of all this stuff over here. We take
care of each other, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 6 (31:56):
Dame Chappelle said it in two thousand and one, Chivalry
is Dead and Women Killed It.
Speaker 10 (32:02):
Love Island USA. In the final episode, what.
Speaker 4 (32:09):
Like talking about that, Joe, like we knew what it
was about. It was like, I ain't watching that.
Speaker 8 (32:17):
Love Island USA and Christian Hudda was having their final
dinner and Hodder broke up with him. They had dinner
like going out like an elevated area where it required
him to carry her to the dining area because there
was a bunch of water. So after he broke she
broke up with him. He just got up and was
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going to walk off, and she was like, wait, you're
not going to carry me back and he was like nah,
So she had to take off her shoes and walk
through the damn nah and go back Nah.
Speaker 4 (32:48):
Like this this is out of control. Man.
Speaker 3 (32:50):
We're going to come back and we're going to talk
about whether or not it's chivalry or is simping back
on the Little Wood Forecast Video Radio Depth where we're
talking about.
Speaker 4 (33:02):
Chivalry, is it dead or did it evolve? Now?
Speaker 10 (33:07):
Uh?
Speaker 3 (33:08):
I hear a lot of this from from youngsters where
they say that you're simping if you're doing anything.
Speaker 4 (33:14):
Oh, I paid.
Speaker 3 (33:17):
My girlfriend of four years, light Bil I paid the
light bill last week.
Speaker 4 (33:23):
Man, you was simp.
Speaker 2 (33:25):
How That's why I say this's a third line. Man,
Like if he's a simp, if he's paying his girlfriend
for four years, he paid her light bill, but the
other dude that she went on a date with two
days ago didn't pay for nothing and getting the same
action he getting.
Speaker 3 (33:42):
He a simple say, that's your girl for four years?
I said, I preface it with your girl years. I'm
not saying it. But again I'm not saying that.
Speaker 2 (33:50):
I'm saying if she, if somebody else is getting the
action that you getting, but you're paying a light bill
to get Okay.
Speaker 4 (33:57):
Okay, let's assume in that. Let's assume that if.
Speaker 3 (34:00):
Your girl you're the only person getting the action, that's
not that's not simping it.
Speaker 6 (34:08):
These dudes don't understand the difference between manhood and sainhood.
Speaker 5 (34:12):
So I'll explain it for you.
Speaker 6 (34:14):
The Great Iceberg Slim said in one of his books,
he said, it's called a trick because the whore tricks
a john into paying for what a real man can
get for free.
Speaker 5 (34:29):
That's why it's called a trick.
Speaker 6 (34:31):
So when what you are doing, yeah, so when what
you were doing causes you to be unhappy and damping
who you are. In order to be with that person,
you are simping. So it's not simping for me if
I hold the door open for this woman or I
pay for her meal, because it doesn't make me unhappy
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and it doesn't make damping who I am. But if
I say, you know what, in order to be with
this curl, I need to make her believe I'm something
I'm not. So I'm going to buy this I'm going
to get her nails done, get her hair done, take
her out on this trip, even though it makes me unhappy.
Speaker 2 (35:11):
And you're going into credit to her about who I
really am. I agree one hundred percent with that. When
you're going out of your way to do stuff and
it's hurting your pockets and you like, hey, what what
what Deacon fab say? Y'all know I still call them
Deacon Fab? He said, let them faces you show will
be the same face as you stash. You know what
I'm saying, Like, you just can't y'all here stunting like
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you got it like that just to impress a woman
like man.
Speaker 7 (35:37):
That's crazy to me.
Speaker 8 (35:40):
Well, I mean, if you're if you're in a relationship
with somebody for four years. I mean, there's some sort
of expectation that, yeah, you're you're put money in, you're
gonna be taking care of something, right.
Speaker 2 (35:53):
But even he bro if we've been, if we've been
in that relationship for four years, you like you were
taking care of your bills and stuff before I came
into the picture. Why is it my responsibility to even
pay your bill for you? I shouldn't have to pay
it if you're coming up short or something that's happened.
I'm your man, and I don't mind helping you out.
(36:13):
But if we're living together, we're doing things together, then
that's what it is. But if you got your own
place and I got my own place, why the hell
am I paying your bill?
Speaker 7 (36:22):
I got my bills over here too. We can do
things together.
Speaker 2 (36:25):
And if I fall short one day, if I'm mismanaging funds,
which I got, I look at all of that too.
Why are you mismanaging your funds because you ain't mismanaging them.
You're managing your funds and you think you got extra
funds because you're dating me, and that ain't how it
should be.
Speaker 8 (36:39):
Well, I think it's their way of trying to gauge
whether or not you're serious about the relationship, you really
want to marry this person or not, because you were
thinking about the transition, transitioning into being together.
Speaker 10 (36:53):
And I don't want to marriage guy and you.
Speaker 2 (36:56):
And your money right and your bills properly it is
marriage ain't even in the question if you can't manage
your own bills accordingly without having somebody like I'm not
trying to be your daddy. I can take care of
you once we get together. And you can see that
by the way I manage my household. And when I
look at your household, whether it's your bills and how
clean your house is, you ain't gonna get no ring
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on your finger if you can't maintain that.
Speaker 9 (37:19):
So and that's what yeah, facts, here's where I think
Q Kittles may disagree with me, because so I got
a theory on that these the women that you're speaking of,
think the man should pay for their bills and stuff
like that because they are expecting him to give husband privileges.
(37:41):
And that's what that is, because they're giving him wifely privileges.
And the wifely privilege would be access to her vagina anytime, which.
Speaker 4 (37:49):
Is garbage because I didn't even finish.
Speaker 6 (37:52):
Because they're giving him wifely privileges, which is sex, her
mind and her body anytime.
Speaker 5 (37:59):
So she expects to get those husbandly privileges.
Speaker 6 (38:01):
But I think where they're messing up, they're forgetting the
part in the middle that Black Trump just said, which
is marriage.
Speaker 5 (38:08):
Those things are privileges of a.
Speaker 6 (38:10):
Husband and wife. I will gladly pay these bills as
your husband, but I don't feel like I have to
do that when I'm not your husband, And you shouldn't
be giving me wife me privileges when you're not mother. No.
Speaker 2 (38:24):
My thing is a woman is if you look at
if you maintaining yourself before you met me.
Speaker 7 (38:30):
Again, is she paying for you to go get your
beard trimmed up.
Speaker 2 (38:33):
No, because you're a man and you taking care of
that because that's your appearance. If you want to go
get wings and do all of that, that's what you're
doing before I came in. If you want to continue
to look good and have your face, and that's your
pr for you, I shouldn't be paying for that. Again,
if we're about to go out on a trip or vacation,
I'd be like, Babe, I like when you get your
hair like this and I suggest something, Yo, go get
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that jug done like this, He go two hundred. You
know what I'm saying, you need to maintain yourself. That's
not in nobody's positions. I have to pay for that.
Speaker 3 (39:02):
I just say dating is auditioning for the next step.
And if how you date is how you're going to
be in the marriage. So if if you are a
type of dude that is going to like be the
person that's taking care of stuff financially and stuff, it's
okay to do that when you're dating. That's not simping.
That's taking care of your woman if that's what you
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want to do.
Speaker 2 (39:25):
I mean when wiz joint with his point of view, Hey,
from what I've heard, these cats they get the action
before the marriage and then when the ring get on
the finger, all of that stuff starts, like get on it.
Speaker 5 (39:38):
They were lying and they were simping.
Speaker 7 (39:41):
The wife.
Speaker 8 (39:45):
The people that are broken society, what simping or not,
are the ones that aren't in any situation at all
most times, so they don't need to be worried about
what's sipping or what another man is doing with their money.
Speaker 2 (39:57):
Yeah, I can't be mad because they ain't gotten the
lady that you've gotten stuff.
Speaker 3 (40:03):
So that's right, all right, we're gonna come back and
we're gonna talk about whether or not women still want gentlemen.
This was something babyface soon as I get home, So
the Good Old Boys Radio Shows.
Speaker 6 (40:15):
That's definitely saying I wanted to smack the dude in
the face with this on.
Speaker 3 (40:20):
Or the full length version of The Good Old Boys
Radio Show. Follow us on bigs Clown or check us
out on pushplaypods dot com. Back on the Good Old
Boys Forecast Radio Radio Network, we're talking about chivalry. Do
women want to be with gentlemen trump or do they
just want what they want?
Speaker 8 (40:39):
I think I think women want to be in situations
that give them the best position to put them in
the best position to prosper. Whether that's with a gentleman
or with a thug or with a Pro Bowl quarterback,
it doesn't matter. I mean yeah, I mean we could
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take Sea Era for example. I mean, she's been in
relationships with them all, the football player, the rapper, the singer,
but she ended up settling down with the football player.
That's also a gentleman that people define a lot of
times as a sim but and then at the end
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of the day, he was the person that provided her
with the lifestyle that she wanted, and probably the odds
of him going out there and cheating and breaking her
heart or slim to none so to me. In her case, yeah,
she wanted a rich gentleman. Other people want just somebody
rich or other ones. Other people just want somebody that
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are total assholes or have the viewpoints of grand wizes.
Speaker 5 (41:48):
What does that mean?
Speaker 7 (41:49):
All women don't know what they won't.
Speaker 6 (41:52):
Yeah, I agree with Q kittles until they reach a
certain level of maturity, So he is the answer right here.
Mature women want gentlemen, they want husbands. Immature women and
girls don't want those things.
Speaker 5 (42:12):
They want to play around.
Speaker 6 (42:13):
Because it's the stupid girls that are saying it's it
gives them the ick when a man has an umbrella,
a man shouldn't have an umbrella.
Speaker 5 (42:20):
That's gay, right. It's the stupid immature women that say things.
Speaker 6 (42:25):
Like I'm a feminist, I'm a super liberal, or you're
trying to oppress me by being a man. The patriarchy
is the enemy and it's hurting us all right. Mature
women realize those battles aren't even worth fighting because they
don't move any needles. I take you something so profound,
(42:46):
my mother said to me. I told her, well, Mom,
the women today say they don't want a man to
be they want to go out and work.
Speaker 5 (42:56):
They don't want the man to pay for the.
Speaker 6 (42:57):
Bills and stuff like that, and stuff like that, and
they call that misogyny and other stuff. And my mother,
she was maybe in her fifties at the time, this
is a woman who raised three kids mostly by herself.
And she said, I wish a man would come in
here and take care of this. And she said that
because I realized she was tired. This is a woman
who had been doing everything by herself, and she realized
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fighting against the natural order of a man coming in
and being a man and taking that responsibility.
Speaker 5 (43:26):
It's stupid because it's designed to help her.
Speaker 6 (43:29):
And I posted something a year ago, a picture of
it was like a diagram explaining the ideals set up.
It had like a cup within another cup and a
big cup on the outside.
Speaker 5 (43:40):
Maybe it was an umbrella.
Speaker 6 (43:41):
It was the man, the husband, and then right under
him was an umbrella with the wife, and then the
umbrella of the kids was within that, and I just said,
what do you anna think about this? All these women
jumping in all that's evil patriarchy, that's patriarchy, right.
Speaker 5 (43:54):
That's so misogynistic.
Speaker 6 (43:56):
But then I started getting DMS and text messages from
women who didn't want to comment public, who said, Hey,
I don't know what they're talking about, but I want
that patriarch.
Speaker 4 (44:07):
That's right, because I'm tired.
Speaker 5 (44:09):
And I had a woman say.
Speaker 6 (44:10):
I finally got married and we got kids. I like
this patriarchy.
Speaker 4 (44:15):
I like that that man, well, I.
Speaker 3 (44:18):
Think that as we close, man like, man like, if you,
if you care about a woman, take care of her,
man like. You know, women shouldn't have to fight and
claw the way that men do. That's that's what we
were built for. And and her job is to make
sure that you are able to get up and fight
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tomorrow for her.
Speaker 4 (44:41):
That's all it is. Man, if you can.
Speaker 7 (44:43):
Figure, they got to allow that too, right, But but.
Speaker 3 (44:46):
But but but what I'm saying is that like women
have to you, right, they have to allow us to
take care of them, and then we have to get
them to take care of us.
Speaker 4 (44:56):
Yeah, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 3 (44:57):
And by taking care of I'm not talking about like
you all like the old gender role crap, like oh,
she should be having my meal.
Speaker 4 (45:06):
Cooked and all this stuff. No, I'm talking about emotional.
Speaker 3 (45:09):
I'm talking about when that man is down, you pick
that man up and tell him that he's all right,
and then you appreciate what he does for your family.
Speaker 10 (45:18):
Not but lett on him right, wearing that down.
Speaker 7 (45:21):
That's right.
Speaker 2 (45:22):
So to do that, it's just a genuine appreciation. That's
all we have went at the end of the day.
Speaker 4 (45:27):
Yeah, so we're gonna close the cloth for nothing, and
we'll sit you on the radio next week.
Speaker 6 (45:34):
And every girl is a B word until she proves otherwise,
and we out this funky thing.
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