November 4, 2025 • 46 mins
In this episode of The Good Ole Boys Radio Show, the guys get real about toxic relationship dynamics—the ones folks rarely say out loud. Mario, Q, Trump, and Wiz trade war stories (phones cut off, flights with no Wi-Fi, payday loans and pride), then unpack the playbook: the reverse breakup (make you leave so she can play victim), unrealistic expectations (boyfriend vs. “be my daddy/therapist/ATM”), failure to support ambition (late nights on the grind), weaponizing intimacy, and the silent killer—lack of appreciation.They draw lines between social media fairy tales and real love, shout out partners who truly ride, and debate whether Disney dreams, daddy issues, and “finished product” dating are ruining grown-folk relationships. Humor? Always. Accountability? For everybody. If you’ve ever asked, “Am I crazy, or is this toxic?”—this one’s for you.
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Speaker 1 (00:00):
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(00:20):
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Speaker 2 (00:35):
From Fairfact, South Carolina to bu for North Myrtle Beach,
New York City, Flores Columbia. Back here in rock Hill,
South Carolina and Charlotte, North Carolina metropolitan Area. We are
the Good Old Boys on the Forecast Media Radio Network
with the Mario Washington, U Kittles, Black Trump.
Speaker 3 (00:51):
Grand Wiz.
Speaker 2 (00:52):
Yes, back in the house once more, talking about that
actual factual as only the good Old Boys know how
to bring it to you.
Speaker 4 (00:58):
And he's a lot.
Speaker 5 (01:03):
I can call off the wellness checks.
Speaker 3 (01:07):
Yeah, I appreciate it. Yeah, I'm here.
Speaker 4 (01:10):
We really thought that you was up out of the
paint though.
Speaker 6 (01:14):
I thought the car broke down, or you was sleeping
in a tent in the homeless shelter with with the
bony girl.
Speaker 5 (01:23):
We were sitting out Moy's codes trying to reach your
Mama and them.
Speaker 6 (01:29):
Went overseas unannounced, and we didn't let us know.
Speaker 2 (01:34):
You literally talked about that on Saturday. Man like yo,
like yo, you got his mom contact man.
Speaker 6 (01:43):
Nah nah.
Speaker 3 (01:43):
This phone broke, this Google Pixel six, which I got repaired.
It broke about a week and a half ago. The
motherboard broke, and uh, I had to do a lot
of traveling across three states, do a lot of traveling.
I took a couple of flights, did a lot of
road trips using directions I wrote down from maps in
gas stations. And yeah, I didn't even have the internet.
(02:09):
That was a crazy thing. The Internet was not working either,
So I couldn't.
Speaker 5 (02:14):
You from a time where that existed. We know how
to move like that.
Speaker 7 (02:18):
And next time you out for a week, you had
enough time to send all three of us a letter.
You could have put them joints in the blue box
and let us know what was going on. So we
weren't out here worried about you.
Speaker 5 (02:28):
Brother.
Speaker 6 (02:29):
Yeah, I appreciate that they're on it. They're actually on
a Google Pixel ten right now.
Speaker 3 (02:39):
I probably should upgrade. I think I'm gonna do that,
probably get that ten. I like the camera in the pixel.
I was sitting right here at my desk while you
all were recording. I just couldn't contact anybody.
Speaker 4 (02:51):
H Well, how is that? How how did you not
have internet?
Speaker 3 (02:56):
Okay, so the Spectrum Internet went out because of lack
of payment, so.
Speaker 6 (03:03):
I had Okay, he kept it real. That's actually what
Mario was suspecting.
Speaker 3 (03:13):
Yeah, so I forgot to pay the bill. So I'm
like two months past due. So I called him and
I was like, yo, I'm gonna pay it, just like
turn it back on. So they turned it off for
a lack of payment.
Speaker 2 (03:27):
Yeah, I found that. Listen, let me tell you something, man.
I can't imagine being able to plane like completely rolled
dog like. I can't imagine taking a flight with like no,
you ain't got no tablet, you ain't got no, you
can't do nothing.
Speaker 4 (03:46):
You're just sitting there.
Speaker 6 (03:48):
It's embarrassing when you're like when something you have gets
cut off, like your water bill or electricity and you
have to walk in physically to get it turned back on,
and then you're like, yeah, I'm here to restore my service,
and then they collecting the money and you're just you're
just trying to quietly sneak the money over to make
(04:10):
the payment so it doesn't get announced that you're you
can't even pay a forty dollar bill.
Speaker 2 (04:15):
Hey, no, hold on, I remember I remember a while
back when uh trump, you was living in a fair
lawn and your your your cell phone was off and
uh this is this is in our early days of life,
right like when we just got out of school and
ain't got no money, but your cell phone was off.
(04:36):
And I can't remember who it was. Somebody came in
and pointed at you in front of everybody and your
cell phone.
Speaker 3 (04:42):
On why why do that?
Speaker 4 (04:47):
You was like, well, really, I can't.
Speaker 2 (04:51):
I got like in a memory kind of fuzzy, man,
And this is like over twenty years ago probably, But
that jump was hilarious.
Speaker 4 (04:57):
Man.
Speaker 5 (04:58):
That sounded like something I do. But I don't think
that that was me.
Speaker 4 (05:02):
Yo.
Speaker 5 (05:05):
You know your phone off, man, I tried to call you.
Speaker 6 (05:09):
That's back when I was going from one payday loan
service to the next, using like three of them at
the same time.
Speaker 4 (05:17):
You gotta rob you fall, man, I had right.
Speaker 2 (05:20):
I go to real though, then, Like, you know how
you get out of that though, lifetip close your bank account.
Speaker 3 (05:30):
That's how you get out of a predatory payday loan.
You got to close. The whole bank account.
Speaker 4 (05:35):
Goes the bank account of never pay.
Speaker 6 (05:39):
It never showed up on like any of your future
credit checks or you know, your credit.
Speaker 4 (05:46):
That ain't real credit.
Speaker 6 (05:47):
I don't I mean, I don't know if they's like
how they could track it.
Speaker 4 (05:52):
That is like three APR.
Speaker 6 (05:55):
It's robbery at the at the highest extreme.
Speaker 2 (05:59):
Hey, listen, if wait car title along, we could go
down the rabbit hole on showing you how to survive
poor on the real dog.
Speaker 4 (06:08):
It's like all four of us got some experience doing that.
Speaker 5 (06:11):
Bad boys, buddy. You know.
Speaker 3 (06:13):
The hardest part was when I was in the airport
in Memphis. I had to borrow people's phones to get
on Wi Fi. And that was rough because I was
sending emails to the people picking me up for the
show and the internet would not The internet wouldn't work outside,
so when I got off the plane, I had to
walk outside to see if the rider was there, then
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go back inside and borrow somebody's phone to log into
the airport's Wi Fi, send an email, wait ten minutes,
then go outside and then it disconnect while I checked
to see if they were there, Then go back inside
and send another email to say, what are you wearing?
It was crazy?
Speaker 6 (06:51):
Did you feel like life hit a new low for you?
Speaker 3 (06:55):
No, it was great. The hotel was amazing.
Speaker 6 (06:58):
Oh so, what what's in your lowest point? Ever? Because
you have a lot of them.
Speaker 4 (07:04):
He's got the book from the lowest point.
Speaker 3 (07:09):
That was a creation of mystery. I never felt like
I was doing low.
Speaker 5 (07:13):
Right.
Speaker 4 (07:14):
It's so many he can't even, he can't even.
Speaker 5 (07:17):
It's not that brother, I was just surviving. I don't even.
I couldn't even.
Speaker 4 (07:24):
Now.
Speaker 2 (07:25):
I've told the story before, probably man, But uh uh.
When I was like going into my senior year in
high school and my brother was living in Charleston, Man,
we survived for like two weeks, for like two weeks
with no lights.
Speaker 3 (07:37):
Yeah, that's crazy.
Speaker 2 (07:39):
But in the summer, and I still was pulling girls.
I don't want to hear nothing about you can't like
go talk to a girl. Man, I ain't had no lights,
I couldn't like washing, and you know, get right, and
I still was getting them.
Speaker 3 (07:55):
You were pulling, brought them over there?
Speaker 4 (07:58):
Oh no, hell no, I.
Speaker 5 (08:04):
Say, when confidence meets realization.
Speaker 2 (08:10):
Uh, speaking up pulling the women? Sometimes we get the
wrong one. And today we're talking about the toxic woman,
and uh uh, I don't think that because I think
that people talk about how toxic men are. I don't
think that we've properly addressed as a society just how toxic,
how toxic women can be. Man and talking about that
(08:34):
this week, Man back on the Little Wars Forecast Media
Radio Network, we're talking about the toxic woman. Have y'all
ever been in a reverse breakup?
Speaker 4 (08:49):
It's like a super cold tactic, right.
Speaker 2 (08:52):
It's like they don't ask you to break up, but
they make your life miserable, so you break up with
them and then they go out and they start telling everybody.
Speaker 4 (09:00):
You see how he did me.
Speaker 5 (09:05):
I think, so I do all these so.
Speaker 3 (09:08):
We know you have you. I mean, I was expecting
you to go first.
Speaker 7 (09:16):
It's kind of weird, man, Like you know, like you said,
it's just I think rio you and I spoke about
this before as well off there and uh it's like,
as men, we just do our thing. You know, think
you were doing the right thing sometimes and it's all
you're getting blamed for stuff and it's like we already
know how the story ends. So it's like if you're
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already on those those lines of accusing me of doing
something when you think, you know, just because you think
I'm doing or you had a dream about some stuff
and it's not really actually happening. Then we tend to
be like, okay, listen, I ain't got time for this.
I don't even want to explain logically to you, So
let me just play out this storyline you have in
(09:56):
your head, because in our head, it's like it's easier
instead of having a conversation with somebody who's already having
dreams about something you did, you know, not saying that's
what happened, but you know, you get the accused, the
accusatory type of woman, and it's just like, well, dang,
what else can I do? I don't know what else
to do to make you feel reassured in this, So
(10:18):
it's like okay, whatever.
Speaker 4 (10:21):
So then you actually go and do all the things
that you were.
Speaker 7 (10:24):
Infused it not necessarily do just those things, but it's
like whatever, whatever, whatever helps you sleep at night in
a sense like okay, but but yeah, at the end
of the day, like that's what you think, then cool,
Then go tell everybody what I did because you didn't
want to believe otherwise.
Speaker 3 (10:39):
Now do you think you may have done something to
make her feel that way.
Speaker 7 (10:45):
No, I mean just like anybody, we all have, you know,
triggers or something of that nature. But just because and
that's when adults have to come in with you know,
when you're a child or you you know, you dated
it when you was a teenager, your early teens, twenties, whatever.
You you come across situations and you might date somebody
else later on in your life and something may trigger something,
(11:06):
but just because it's triggered doesn't mean it's happening. And
it's like, hey, that's when you need to have a
conversation with your partner, like, Yo, so I noticed boom
boom boom or this this and that happened, like, you know,
can we speak about it instead of you just assuming Yeah,
that's just like Craig right there.
Speaker 5 (11:23):
Yeah, I don't trust him no more. And it's like the.
Speaker 7 (11:25):
Whole time, you as a partner don't even realize you've
done anything. But this person is thinking this whole the
strategic thing in their head. So it's like, yo, nobody
got time for that. I don't know what Craig did.
Speaker 2 (11:39):
Now, I've had it happen before, I've actually kind of
done it myself also, but like, uh, I think that
when when men do it, we just stopped being what
they're expecting out of us a little bit and then
they grow tired of us or whatever to that. But
with it's like like a manipulation tag that I feeled
(12:02):
when when women do it, because you don't know that
it's happening. And then and then when you be like,
you know, well, I guess it's time to step away
and stuff, and then they'll they'll be like, well, you
didn't you didn't fight for this relationship, you like.
Speaker 4 (12:15):
Put it all on on you. And I'm like, where
were you? You know what I'm saying. And I'm like,
and you don't even know that this has happened.
Speaker 2 (12:26):
Like I found out about this stuff years later that
like they were pushing me away because they mature and
then tell me, yeah, that's that's what I was doing,
because like I was, I was done with the relationship.
Speaker 4 (12:37):
And I didn't want to say I didn't want to
break up with you.
Speaker 2 (12:40):
I wanted you to break up with me so I
could like not like basically I want to play the victim, yeah,
you know, And I think that's what it all boils
down to they want to look a certain way as
opposed to like being the person to like say, oh,
I'm throw this good Man back.
Speaker 4 (12:56):
You know what I mean?
Speaker 7 (12:57):
Because all the Disney books in with the Prince is
getting the Prince, and Lord knows that if it don't
happen the way it was written and the way they
were told to get this storyline ending, then you know, again,
like you said, they played a victim role, and it's like, yo,
get out of here.
Speaker 5 (13:13):
You had something to do with this too. Let's be
an adult, kittles.
Speaker 3 (13:17):
The reason I ask you if you felt like you
did something to cause her to feel that way is
because when this was happening to me, I found the
person that I was with to be ridiculously jealous and
insecure about every little thing. And I thought about it
and I asked myself, is something I'm doing to make
her feel this way? And I realized, yeah, I was,
(13:38):
because she found my phone. I stupidly left it on
the table and she went through my phone and saw
a bunch of text messages I had with other women
because I had like I didn't want to cut, you know,
like all the other ones off, just in case and
I'm wondering. So I'm wondering, is it something that we're doing,
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under some underlying thing that we're actually doing to make
them feel this way?
Speaker 7 (14:04):
But let me ask you this. Let me ask you this.
So in your text messages, were you were you like
pursuing these other women or were you just having cordial
conversation with them?
Speaker 3 (14:15):
I was having flirtatious conversation every now and then, And
I think when she read enough of the text, she
kind of put it all together to equal, all right,
this is too flirtatious. Why is he talking to this person?
Speaker 7 (14:30):
But that's that's the thing as a society, though, like
with us, like what what is what is too flirtatious?
Like again, to me, there's a difference in being flirtatious
and pursuing somebody in my in my.
Speaker 2 (14:42):
That's right, because I think that like sometimes like some
of us are what can be quote unquote flirtatous when
we're just being ourselves and you may perceive that as
be cirtatious when really you just being a nice person
and being you know, your normal self, the same thing
that got you. I guess, like you know what I'm saying, But.
Speaker 7 (15:05):
I know trump sometimes that flirt can get you a
discount at the bar. You know, it can get you
some fries for free. We ain't trying to take her
out to eat it that you know.
Speaker 2 (15:14):
Like but but Trump, I know, I know that you
like try to go to more adult route, and when
and it never gets to that point, you you will
like tell people that you ain't interested.
Speaker 6 (15:25):
No more, go to more adult route. I think it's
just just going to the peaceful route. I like, I
want peace in my life. I don't want to I
don't want to play the games. I don't want the
Keith sweat merry go round and around, you know where,
where it's like one week everything's good and then you know,
(15:46):
you have a disagreement over something minor. And it's usually
the case it's something petty, it's something stupid that you
know triggers the anarchy and the relationship and and it's
an inability to just fix those things. And nah, I
just I just don't have much time for it. But
of course I've had personal experience being with somebody that
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wanted me to break up with them because they didn't
want to look bad on social media or whatever.
Speaker 4 (16:15):
But still, you know, looking.
Speaker 3 (16:17):
Bad stuff is making so much more sense.
Speaker 2 (16:20):
Now, now we're gonna we're gonna come back and uh,
we're gonna talk about those unrealistic expectations that they try
to throw at you. Not on to Good Old Boys
Forecast Media Radio Network. We're talking about the toxic woman,
all right. So some relationships end up feeling like a
(16:43):
job that you never applied for, right, and.
Speaker 4 (16:49):
Whatever you're providing just ain't enough for that job.
Speaker 5 (16:52):
Right.
Speaker 2 (16:52):
So you be working, you're showing that love, you staying faithful.
But she want you to be her therapist, she wants
you to be her stylist, she wants you to be
her at M and it's.
Speaker 7 (17:05):
Just everything yeah, yeah, tularly travel agent helping them move
those stuff.
Speaker 4 (17:15):
Why isn't that like they try to hit, make us
hit every single note, and then if we are not
able to knock out every single note and we're hitting
out eight out of nine, they still feel unsatisfied in
the relationship and then they push us away.
Speaker 6 (17:32):
That's the makeup because they're looking for their they're looking
for someone to be their daddy.
Speaker 4 (17:38):
Oh so so looking for a father figure, yeah, or
their father was doing all of that stuff, and then
they have expectations that you're gonna step into their place,
into the father's place, and you know, fill that gap
and do what he was doing before.
Speaker 6 (17:54):
And then you have to remind them, I'm not your daddy,
I'm I'm your partner, and the partner has a different
role than the father.
Speaker 7 (18:03):
What they don't realize is that they just they daddy
ain't come home and tell him about the three side
chicks he got by, how the other household he was managing.
Speaker 5 (18:12):
That's half of these women's problems right there.
Speaker 7 (18:15):
Like they don't really like you're saying, when we hitting
a out of those ten marks or seven out of
those ten marks, they're not satisfied.
Speaker 5 (18:22):
They always wanted more.
Speaker 7 (18:24):
And it's like, at the end of the day, we
as men, we love who we love, and we love
them unconditionally, don't we.
Speaker 5 (18:30):
Ain't we met you with makeup on?
Speaker 7 (18:32):
You know, we met you with that bad outfit, with
your girlfriends out doing your thing, And then when we
see you.
Speaker 5 (18:38):
The night after, we don't run away. We stay there.
Speaker 7 (18:41):
We see that those eyelashes ain't real. We see that
that foundation was foundation. And you know what I'm saying,
We stick with you because we in love and we
like what we saw, we see the potential, and we
stick with that. But women always want a nitpick because
it's something else that they have in their mind that
we're not measuring up to touch.
Speaker 3 (19:01):
Go ahead.
Speaker 2 (19:02):
No Yah touched on in the last segment about this, Uh,
how the princess always ends up with the prince at
the end. Do you think that, like our society has
kind of created like this fairy tale of what a
relationship is supposed to be and that's what's causing most
of the problems.
Speaker 3 (19:22):
I think so, And I think it's that answers your question.
I think that a lot of women have an unrealistic well,
I would say a lot of young women and girls
have an unrealistic idea of what to expect out of
a man in their relationship. You know. I see a
lot of women. I know a lot of very far
left leaning feminist women, right, and they love to talk
(19:45):
about how independent and feministic they are, and they seem
to be fighting battles unnecessarily from attackers who aren't even
attacking them, right. And I remember something my mother said,
she said, I wish a man would come in here
and take care of all of this so I can
sit down and relax and I realize this idea that
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you have to fight this battle or you'll be a
oppressed and you have to go and work and stuff
like that. That seems to be a young woman's mentality,
because older women who get some more maturity on them
have a better understanding of their role in their place
and a man's role in this place, and how to
how to coexist with a man in their relationship. So
I think it's a young women's folly that they have
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an unrealistic expectation of a man in a relationship.
Speaker 7 (20:31):
They don't want to use that to get me in
where they where they They want to do these things
where it doesn't feel like a task or a honey
do list. It's like when you when you get that
feminine energy instead of feeling like you combattan with a dude.
Speaker 5 (20:49):
You know what I'm saying, Pauls.
Speaker 7 (20:50):
But when you get that feminine energy at the end
of the day, it makes you want to do things.
It makes you want to be better as a man
because you have that energy to It's like your like
your nest egg, your pillow of your comfort or relaxation
mode and stuff.
Speaker 5 (21:04):
You know.
Speaker 7 (21:04):
So it just when you're getting that on a regular basis,
it just makes you want to continue to be better
and do better for that woman that you're into.
Speaker 3 (21:14):
I give you an example.
Speaker 4 (21:15):
Troubles about to say something.
Speaker 6 (21:17):
Yeah, I think a lot of the situations that I've
dealt with, it's like the ones that should have a
lot of expectations or you know, a lot of needs
are the ones that don't ask for as much as
those that are that don't really need as much. But
they're the ones that have that laundry list or a
(21:39):
lot of needs that are unrealistic.
Speaker 3 (21:42):
Yeah, and I don't understand why we're in a condom
is not one of those needs. That's why you got
four baby daddies. It's crazy to me. But I give
you another example, man, my sister and her husband. Right,
my sister has a degree and she's a housewife because
her husband has three businesses and he works. He takes
(22:04):
care of all the bills and all of that, and
he's set up an environment where she can afford not
to work, right, she can just take care of the
four kids. He's even got her a maid, so she
got somebody who comes in and cleans the house and
does all the cooking. Right, and despite what my brother
in law does, my sister still finds time to complain
(22:26):
about him not picking up a couple things around the house,
Like he might leave his shoes out because he just
came home from working. He's got three businesses, and he's
trying to make ends meet, right, and so he'll leave
a few things around the house, and she'll be on
him about that. And I remember my mother was talking
to her saying, hey, look, you need to let some
of that stuff go, because you have to understand, this
(22:49):
man is working a lot so that you don't have
to work. So there's a compromise that needs to take place.
If it was back home where we live we grew up, no,
that wouldn't be allowed, right. My mother said she wouldn't
allow that from us, leaving our stuff around because we're kids, right.
But for a man who's working three businesses, he's an
(23:11):
entrepreneur and bringing it all the money, you know, some
of that stuff you're gonna have to let slide.
Speaker 4 (23:16):
Correct, man, We're gonna come back. We're gonna talk.
Speaker 2 (23:20):
About the failure to support your ambition in the relationship.
Back on the Go to Boys Forecast Media Radio Network,
(23:42):
watching the two Kittles, Black Trump and Eddie King Junior,
the third Grand Wiz.
Speaker 4 (23:47):
Back with us this week.
Speaker 3 (23:52):
I haven't been saved, though I'm not going to church.
Speaker 2 (23:55):
Oh uh so, I know that we've all been here.
We've been with people who don't believe in our dreams
and our ambition ends up sometimes feeling like it's an
inconvenience to them. And you're out here grind then you're
(24:15):
trying to build something, and instead of cheering.
Speaker 4 (24:18):
You on, she's complaining you're too busy. So, since Liz,
you was just.
Speaker 2 (24:23):
Talking about how your brother in law is out here
on the grind and everything, and sometimes you feel like
your sister might not be showing him the support that
he needs. I want to go back to what you
said that your mother told her. Do you think that
you need that type of advice is what preserves their
(24:44):
relationship properly, because I feel like a lot of women
don't have somebody that is going to call them out
on their bs the way that it sounds like your
mother called your sister out on hers.
Speaker 3 (24:56):
Yeah, because you have to learn your partner right, and
you got to learn your partner and learn your environment.
You got to learn to play your position, So she
was approaching it from a different type. She was approaching
it with a different game plan. That's not the team
that they were running. So my mother just had to
step in and say, the team that you all got
set up is going to be more conducive when you
run it this way, and you're gonna have to compromise
(25:18):
on this. And my sister has and you know, she said,
I just had to go ahead and eat that and
learn this is how it's gonna be. And considering what
he's bringing to the table, I shouldn't be bothering him.
I can understand why he would be too tired and
put his shoes on the rack or something like that.
For me personally, I've dealt with several at least two
women who I knew were not supportive of my ambitions
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in my career, Like the last one I had. You know,
she was telling me, look, you can't be coming in
late at night like this, And I told her, look,
after I finished a show, I just can't come straight
home because I have to stay there and I have
to talk to the other comics. And we got to
talk about the show. We got to talk about comedy,
we got to chop it up because this is like
school for us, and we learned so much from sitting
(26:03):
around just talking about comedy. Right, So I know the
show might start at eight, and it might be done
by nine thirty, but I'm gonna need to be there
until ten eleven o'clock, just chopping it up with my
pios so I can get better at my craft. And
she was very resistant to that, and I told her,
and I knew that would be a big problem for us,
because I can't have that.
Speaker 6 (26:26):
Women are attracted to the finished products, like they're not.
They're not interested in seeing you grind it out, pay
your They want you, Yeah, they want you once you've
already become an all star, become established, already have the
bread coming in. They're not trying to struggle with you.
Speaker 3 (26:51):
Is why?
Speaker 2 (26:52):
Is that why James Harden's new baby mama used to
be with Lou Williams and I think somebody else before
getting with James Harden because she like finally got her
an MVP.
Speaker 3 (27:05):
Yeah, yeah, that's what all of these stupid people probably.
I mean, it's really dumb, it's really and I've always thought,
you know, I want to find somebody who's with me
on the come up like ice Cube did, like Denzel
Washington did, LL Cooj did, because they got with these
women when they were just started. And I think that's
a rare thing to find. It's a lot harder to
find than I thought it would be because a lot
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of women that I come in contact with, they don't
really understand the game. They don't really understand what it
takes to get to that point. And I found it
even more disturbing. With a little bit of success that
I've gotten, I've gotten more women coming up to me
now than I had a year ago.
Speaker 5 (27:44):
Hey, because that's the one you're look at for.
Speaker 7 (27:47):
They see the potential, they understand what it probably taken
for you to get to where you're going, and they
see that you're already going there. So but then you
got to kind of, you know, paying through that one
to say, to see who's real, who was really wanting
to know you versus who's wanting to see if you
really make it to the top, you know.
Speaker 5 (28:04):
What I'm saying. So it's a constant job for us on.
Speaker 7 (28:08):
This end when we're looking at it from that aspect,
and those what Ll and Denzel got, those are true
diamonds and the rough Man and women, you know, was
willing to put up with a lot and deal with
a lot, and they spoke and communicated on things before
it got out of control.
Speaker 2 (28:24):
Let's speak on some support though, because I've been seeing
some back and forth about this and and I'm stunned
by the back and forth about it.
Speaker 4 (28:33):
But people out here.
Speaker 2 (28:35):
Not liking the way that Gucci's wife is taking care
of him and all this type of stuff. Like, to me,
I don't want a woman that ain't gonna be like
how she is, you know what I'm saying. The fact that,
like you know, he obviously was cool with her talking
about his mental health struggles and stuff. He wouldn't have
had her on the show talking about it because I
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think that he's trying to impart wisdom on other people,
and people was trying to like go at her for
like talking about that stuff. Man, when I think that
is healthy for other people to know that somebody is
going through this type of stuff so they can go and.
Speaker 4 (29:12):
Try to seek the help that they need.
Speaker 2 (29:14):
But to me, I don't think that if people have
a problem, if women have a problem with that woman
doing what she does for him, and if men have
a problem with her talking about it. Then that's why
y'all ain't got the right people with y'all now bad Yo?
Speaker 3 (29:29):
What was this specific criticism because I didn't see any
criticism of her. What are they saying, So she's putting
that business in the street or what?
Speaker 2 (29:36):
Yeah, trying to say that, like she's emasculating him by saying,
but he wrote, that's what I'm saying. This is the
dumbest stuff I've ever seen.
Speaker 4 (29:46):
Man.
Speaker 2 (29:47):
But a lot of these people are Nicki Minaj fans,
apparently because she don't like her.
Speaker 4 (29:53):
But Nicki don't like no woman, So I don't I
don't know, but like, but I just think that, like,
I can't you with somebody who don't like have that
level of support for me? Man? Like what's happened?
Speaker 3 (30:04):
And it's emasculating to take care of your partner when
they're in need. I would hate to see what they
what they think is gonna happen when they get into
their late eighties in their early nineties, because it's usually
one of the spouses is treat is taking care of
the other one, wiping their button everything.
Speaker 2 (30:21):
I hear that think that it's sassy for you to
know how to Cook. So I mean like we we
we living in a lost generation, bro, Like, yeah.
Speaker 3 (30:30):
You use an umbrella, they call it that sassy, right,
I don't want to get right. Meanwhile, we don't say
anything about that weave helmet you got on protecting your
ball scalp. So what we're talking about.
Speaker 2 (30:47):
We're gonna come back and we're gonna talk about when
they start neglecting the physical back on the Good Old
Boys Forecast Media Radio Network.
Speaker 4 (30:59):
We're talking about the toxic woman.
Speaker 2 (31:01):
And this is something that I think that we've all
dealt with throughout time. Because I don't know if y'all
remember the movie House Party three because I only watched
it maybe once, and I don't know if I finished.
Speaker 4 (31:16):
It because it was so bad.
Speaker 3 (31:18):
But uh, because Mick Lowry said that's the best one.
Speaker 4 (31:21):
Big Lowry said that.
Speaker 3 (31:23):
That's the one with and everybody right that im.
Speaker 4 (31:28):
Mature is in it.
Speaker 2 (31:30):
But I just I just bought it up because TLC's
that they weren't TLC in the movie they would call
sex as a weapon.
Speaker 6 (31:38):
They should have kept that name. That was a dope name.
Speaker 2 (31:42):
So but but it feels like women take that to
heart and like it feels like they feel like.
Speaker 4 (31:49):
They control it.
Speaker 6 (31:50):
That's a damn lie control.
Speaker 4 (31:57):
Yeah, they control when it happens. And what the reality
is is that you don't control when it happens because if.
Speaker 2 (32:04):
I want it, I'm gonna get it either from you
or elsewhere.
Speaker 7 (32:09):
Yeah, you control what happens with your box. But either
at the end of the day, well you know, we
own spectrum. There are other boxes out here to be
tended to. You control what happens in wars.
Speaker 4 (32:22):
So why don't you do that? Do they?
Speaker 2 (32:24):
I mean, do they think that that truly gives them
some type of advantage in the relationship, because I think
it's stupid as hell when they do it.
Speaker 6 (32:32):
They just have a false sense of thinking that nobody
else wants you just because you're you're ticked off at me.
You just think I'm like at the bottom of the
barrel in that moment, and I'm not capable of picking
myself up and and scouring the masses to pull something
(32:54):
with the ease. So, I mean, I just think they
they underestimate, like you said, said, how easy it is
to get it from elsewhere. It is.
Speaker 3 (33:06):
Yeah, and who's fault is this? Though? I think this
is our fault once again, as men because we empower
them to do that. I just saw a video yesterday
of a dude talking to women on the street and
the women said, you have to pay to talk to me.
If you want my number, it's going to be forty dollars.
And he was like, oh, yeah, I got that. I
got that. That's no problem. So we're empowering these women
(33:28):
to feel like sex truly is a weapon.
Speaker 7 (33:31):
We're too desk to say we those are sense because
they feel that's what they need to do to be
able to talk to you. Then I'd be like, word, well,
enjoy the rest of your day's sweetheart, and I keep
it moving.
Speaker 2 (33:42):
Listen though, But honestly, money ain't like nothing like and
I think that like women who try to utilize that
like like okay, so like let's say you asking for
like money and you and that that gets your rocks
off and stuff like that, right right, if it depends
(34:02):
on the value of the dollar, if somebody has money,
it ain't gonna matter if they give it to you,
They're not gonna miss it, you know what I'm saying.
So you still not like you're not like he's not
showing you that he cares about you more. Just because
he's giving you money. That's stupid too.
Speaker 7 (34:19):
At the end of the day, you prostitute in two
and don't even realize it, like you just set a
price on your conversation and then you want to get
upset with that man when when he doesn't want to
do something later. But it's like, yo, okay, I don't
want to spend time with you.
Speaker 5 (34:32):
I didn't pay you. Why are you in my face? Like,
get up out of here? Why you still here? Now?
Speaker 7 (34:36):
You're mad because he's treating you like like what you
wanted to be treated like that? Ain't at a song guy,
somebody treat him like they want to be treated no
father ing. See you know, but y'all y'all lead with that.
I ain't gonna say all women, but they'll lead with
that type of mentality and then get upset when it's
really played out because that's what you that's what you
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ask for.
Speaker 5 (34:58):
But you, like you said, you're absolutely right if you.
Speaker 7 (35:00):
Got it, Like, well, you know me, I'm always with
a rap quote Weezy said, if you tricking, it, ain't
tricking if you got it. But you know again, I'm
just a brother that I ain't got time to be
wasting it on you. Like when there's other women out
here that you know you could talk to and don't
have to give your money to talk to them. You
can actually get to know them and build a relationship
with them period, whether whether it's you know, whether you're
(35:22):
trying to build a relationship with him, or it's just
you know, just somebody you know and you networking with.
But nah, you're not getting no cash from me, Mom,
I'm sorry.
Speaker 4 (35:30):
What if it's something that you've done to create the issue.
Speaker 3 (35:36):
Of them holding withholding sex? Yeah, well, if it's a marriage,
the woman should not be withholding sex. That's against the marriage.
If it is not a marriage, then you know, you
all are engaging in a situation without a contract. So
I mean, whatever happens is, whatever happens, anything goes.
Speaker 7 (36:00):
But that's crazy, like with with throw without a contract
as adults, and you're you're in that that situation, it's foolish,
Like if you don't, if you're not providing something for
your woman, you foolish to think that she's not gonna
at least want to.
Speaker 5 (36:13):
Seek that from someone else. Yeah, you know, and if.
Speaker 3 (36:17):
It's your fault, I mean I can kind of understand
it holding.
Speaker 7 (36:19):
The selves, not pointing thing? Is it in just pointing
the scenario out there? Like if it's you know, so
it's the same for us, Like you know, like if
you don't cook, then you know my mother taught me
how to cook. I'm from the South. You don't want
to clean. I know how to clean. If they ain't
gonna provide that, then it's out there.
Speaker 2 (36:37):
And to all the women out there, man like if
you want your man to live alone, prosperous life, man like,
one thing to prevent having prostate cancer?
Speaker 4 (36:50):
Okay, so it helps you know what I'm saying all that?
Speaker 3 (36:53):
Man, So is this ain't no reference? What is this.
Speaker 4 (36:58):
Prostate cancer?
Speaker 3 (37:00):
Is?
Speaker 2 (37:00):
Uh?
Speaker 4 (37:01):
Prevents it by.
Speaker 6 (37:04):
Letting letting them go?
Speaker 4 (37:06):
Yes?
Speaker 3 (37:07):
Oh really I should be good then, because I've been
concerned because they'd be like, you gotta you gotta get tested,
and I'm like, I don't want to get that test.
But if that's prevented by that, yeah, I'm good. I
think I'm all right. Speaking of which too, I came
to the conclusion last week that had Andre Herral not fired,
Puff Daddy Uptown Records would have been the greatest boutique
(37:28):
record label of all time.
Speaker 4 (37:29):
And Puffy probably wouldn't be in jail right now.
Speaker 3 (37:32):
Because they would have signed Biggie and Craig Mac and
Total and one twelve.
Speaker 2 (37:39):
Uh we're gonna come back and uh We're going to
talk about that lack of appreciation that they have or
the full.
Speaker 8 (37:47):
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Radio Network talking about the Toxic Woman.
Speaker 2 (38:00):
Now, it all balls down to this at the end
of the day for me, and this is if you want.
Speaker 4 (38:06):
If you want to get dumped by me, then don't
appreciate me.
Speaker 2 (38:13):
Show me that what I've done for you don't matter
to you, because I will walk in a heartbeat man.
And it's a quiet killer of a relationship in my opinion,
because I know that I'm not alone with that feeling
that Like, if if I'm doing everything in my power
to make life easier for you and you can't show
(38:34):
me no love back, you know what I'm saying, You can't.
You can't do the like I'm not asking you to
duplicate what I do for you because I don't know
if you probably can that doesn't matter, though, show me
that you give a damn that I've done it for you.
That's all that matters, you know what I'm saying. And
that's that's all that matter. Ain't even a simple thank you,
you know what I'm saying. It's it's sometimes enough, you
(38:56):
know what I mean. Some of y'all don't want to
say that like you have. Are you supposed to be
doing this stuff for you?
Speaker 8 (39:02):
No?
Speaker 2 (39:02):
No, no, I choose to do this good stuff for you,
you know what I'm saying, Like I choose to because
I care about you. But I can take that away
from you quickly and give it to somebody who actually
appreciates it.
Speaker 7 (39:16):
But like we were saying in the earlier in the
earlier Slot Man segment, there it's like, yo, you can
do those things, and they can do it, but it's
always it's where they needed more of it, like or
they feel like it's not you can say thank you all,
I appreciate that, you can show that you appreciate it,
but they still they feel like you don't don't. I
(39:39):
don't think you understand this, so I don't. Okay, Well,
the conversation should be there, Well, why why do you
feel this way instead of you just running that into
the ground when it's clear that you appreciate it. It's
clear that I show the appreciation. So so what the
what's the riff about that? It's like, it's that's crazy
to me.
Speaker 2 (39:58):
Yeah, And I don't know, man, Like I grew up,
you know, like my grandmother she died really young. She
was sixty five years old, man, and I was like
nine years old. But my life as a child, like
I'm the youngest in my generation and stuff.
Speaker 5 (40:15):
Man.
Speaker 2 (40:16):
So my grandparents, my grandfather was retired. When I tell you,
a meal was cooked for breakfast, lunch, and dinner at
their house, and she did all three of them and
he got to eat all three times a day. I
ain't never seen that from nobody else in my life ever.
(40:38):
And I think that we've like lost the plot a
little bit. And the reason why she did that is
because she ain't never had the work. And this is
during a time period where you know, you didn't have
a lot of money and stuff, man. But my grandfather
went out there and he got that money and stuff, man,
and he did a lot of nice things people around
town and stuff.
Speaker 4 (40:57):
And when he got home, she took care of him.
Speaker 2 (41:00):
I think that some women feel like that's beneath them
to like take care of the man.
Speaker 1 (41:06):
Now.
Speaker 2 (41:07):
I'm not saying that things are set up that same
way anymore because everybody is working outside of the home
now and all of that type of stuff, But there
are certain things that a man provided that I think
that you can show him that you care because he's
taking care of the things for you because of his
appreciation for you.
Speaker 4 (41:26):
And I don't think that women pay it forward as
much as they probably should in today's's side.
Speaker 5 (41:32):
Yo, my grandmother did the same thing man.
Speaker 7 (41:34):
Even up to the point after my grandfather passed away,
it was still breakfast, lunch, and dinner cooked at that
household for the kids and people coming by.
Speaker 5 (41:43):
It was like it was such a routine for her.
And as I've gotten.
Speaker 7 (41:47):
Older and you know, before she passed, like you know,
some of my uncles and aunts they mom, I'm gonna
come over and cook for Sunday, you know, after church
or whatever. So she wouldn't have to do it to
help out and back to you know, within the relationship again,
like you said, it's not set up like that so
much nowadays because that both parties are working and everybody
might be tired.
Speaker 5 (42:06):
So again, if.
Speaker 7 (42:08):
If your lady's role is to come in and cook
or whatever and do what she's doing, if she doesn't
feel like it that day, then again, I ain't saying
you gotta cook as a man. I mean, but if
you know how to, then do it. But if not,
then say lady, hey, lady, speak up, open your mouth.
Speaker 5 (42:23):
Your man can't read your mind.
Speaker 7 (42:25):
Like like say say say that, hey, like I'm tired today, Like, hey,
you mind picking up something or doing something else?
Speaker 2 (42:31):
You know, I'm jusu cooking as an example, but I'm
not saying that man like I'm saying, like, if you
went to the store and you know, he like Eminem's,
bring him a back of Eminem's. If you went to
the store just like he's doing for you, I'm sure you.
Speaker 5 (42:44):
Know what I mean.
Speaker 7 (42:46):
That was crazy with crazy New Orleans, Yo. It was
like she would do that all the time, right. But
I don't go to the store like that, So why
are you expecting me to be you? If I know
what you're into, then cool, But I don't. I don't
stop at the store every day after work, that's what
you do. I don't eat a lot of sweets like that.
But yes, I appreciate what you're doing. But just if
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I go somewhere and do something, I shouldn't have to
be forced or in this in this box to have
to do it because you've done it for two weeks
and just because I haven't gone to the store or
stop for myself, you know what I'm saying, Oh, I
better stop by the store because I know she liked twigs.
That's crazy to me. You know, if you're into something,
then I cater to that. But why should I have
to do it because that's what you do.
Speaker 6 (43:31):
Yeah, I'll just I'll just circle back to what I
said in the earlier segment about them expecting us to
be their daddy's And you know, in that role, it's
a thankless job where you can do something and they'll
be happy for a short amount of time. It's almost
(43:54):
like selective amnesia. So an hour later they're wanting something else.
And if you're you feel like you've gotten like a
hall pass and you're good for like the rest of
the day after you do something. But nah, like if
you don't do that next thing, then they're moping around
or not speaking or withholding the the the cha cha,
(44:17):
and you know, just showing no appreciation for you, and
you're just like, damn, I just I just did this
for you, Like is it not enough? It's a never
ending cycle where you have to please them or else
you're gonna be in the doghouse.
Speaker 7 (44:30):
I love the analogy because it's like you met out
well all of us don't have daughters and that, but
when your daughter cut Oh, daddy, thank you, and you
got us something. But a few hours later.
Speaker 5 (44:41):
Daddy, can we? Hey daddy, you want to watch this?
Hey daddy?
Speaker 1 (44:44):
Can we?
Speaker 5 (44:44):
Daddy? Can we?
Speaker 7 (44:46):
It's just it makes so much sense when you when
you say it like that, that's what they're looking for,
and it's just crazy. They're constantly on that that search
for that daddy roll. That's crazy.
Speaker 3 (44:56):
What are we doing about this? Because it sounds like
a very unhappy situation that we've been letting slide for decades.
What are we doing about this? I mean cause I
feel like we can have that set up like your
grandparents had. But that's the setup that my brother in
law and my sister have. It's possible if you want that,
you just have to do a little extra work for me,
(45:17):
especially in my culture, the woman doesn't have to spend
any of her money. Whatever money she makes is hers.
It's the man's responsibility to take care of all of that.
Speaker 7 (45:26):
Yeah, I ain't out here trying to pick up no
dependence though, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 5 (45:29):
So it's like you got to put your work in and.
Speaker 7 (45:32):
Have aspirations to do something and be something as well.
Speaker 5 (45:36):
So it's like, yeah, that's cool.
Speaker 7 (45:38):
But what we're doing to answer your question, oh, bro,
brothers are here trying to understand it and maneuver through
a move through the room full of vultures, you know,
and just understand how to get to the other side.
Speaker 5 (45:48):
You know.
Speaker 2 (45:50):
We're going to wrap it up there, man, and we're
going to close with milestone. I care thout shoot, So
why don't you care out me like I care about you.
Speaker 5 (46:02):
Because I was with your cousin in the studio.
Speaker 3 (46:08):
Well, I'll see you and we out this funky thing.
Mm hmm. Would you say forget the family because the
family and my man. Yeah,
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Speaker 3 (00:51):
Grand Wiz.
Speaker 2 (00:52):
Yes, back in the house once more, talking about that
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Speaker 4 (00:58):
And he's a lot.
Speaker 5 (01:03):
I can call off the wellness checks.
Speaker 3 (01:07):
Yeah, I appreciate it. Yeah, I'm here.
Speaker 4 (01:10):
We really thought that you was up out of the
paint though.
Speaker 6 (01:14):
I thought the car broke down, or you was sleeping
in a tent in the homeless shelter with with the
bony girl.
Speaker 5 (01:23):
We were sitting out Moy's codes trying to reach your
Mama and them.
Speaker 6 (01:29):
Went overseas unannounced, and we didn't let us know.
Speaker 2 (01:34):
You literally talked about that on Saturday. Man like yo,
like yo, you got his mom contact man.
Speaker 6 (01:43):
Nah nah.
Speaker 3 (01:43):
This phone broke, this Google Pixel six, which I got repaired.
It broke about a week and a half ago. The
motherboard broke, and uh, I had to do a lot
of traveling across three states, do a lot of traveling.
I took a couple of flights, did a lot of
road trips using directions I wrote down from maps in
gas stations. And yeah, I didn't even have the internet.
(02:09):
That was a crazy thing. The Internet was not working either,
So I couldn't.
Speaker 5 (02:14):
You from a time where that existed. We know how
to move like that.
Speaker 7 (02:18):
And next time you out for a week, you had
enough time to send all three of us a letter.
You could have put them joints in the blue box
and let us know what was going on. So we
weren't out here worried about you.
Speaker 5 (02:28):
Brother.
Speaker 6 (02:29):
Yeah, I appreciate that they're on it. They're actually on
a Google Pixel ten right now.
Speaker 3 (02:39):
I probably should upgrade. I think I'm gonna do that,
probably get that ten. I like the camera in the pixel.
I was sitting right here at my desk while you
all were recording. I just couldn't contact anybody.
Speaker 4 (02:51):
H Well, how is that? How how did you not
have internet?
Speaker 3 (02:56):
Okay, so the Spectrum Internet went out because of lack
of payment, so.
Speaker 6 (03:03):
I had Okay, he kept it real. That's actually what
Mario was suspecting.
Speaker 3 (03:13):
Yeah, so I forgot to pay the bill. So I'm
like two months past due. So I called him and
I was like, yo, I'm gonna pay it, just like
turn it back on. So they turned it off for
a lack of payment.
Speaker 2 (03:27):
Yeah, I found that. Listen, let me tell you something, man.
I can't imagine being able to plane like completely rolled
dog like. I can't imagine taking a flight with like no,
you ain't got no tablet, you ain't got no, you
can't do nothing.
Speaker 4 (03:46):
You're just sitting there.
Speaker 6 (03:48):
It's embarrassing when you're like when something you have gets
cut off, like your water bill or electricity and you
have to walk in physically to get it turned back on,
and then you're like, yeah, I'm here to restore my service,
and then they collecting the money and you're just you're
just trying to quietly sneak the money over to make
(04:10):
the payment so it doesn't get announced that you're you
can't even pay a forty dollar bill.
Speaker 2 (04:15):
Hey, no, hold on, I remember I remember a while
back when uh trump, you was living in a fair
lawn and your your your cell phone was off and
uh this is this is in our early days of life,
right like when we just got out of school and
ain't got no money, but your cell phone was off.
(04:36):
And I can't remember who it was. Somebody came in
and pointed at you in front of everybody and your
cell phone.
Speaker 3 (04:42):
On why why do that?
Speaker 4 (04:47):
You was like, well, really, I can't.
Speaker 2 (04:51):
I got like in a memory kind of fuzzy, man,
And this is like over twenty years ago probably, But
that jump was hilarious.
Speaker 4 (04:57):
Man.
Speaker 5 (04:58):
That sounded like something I do. But I don't think
that that was me.
Speaker 4 (05:02):
Yo.
Speaker 5 (05:05):
You know your phone off, man, I tried to call you.
Speaker 6 (05:09):
That's back when I was going from one payday loan
service to the next, using like three of them at
the same time.
Speaker 4 (05:17):
You gotta rob you fall, man, I had right.
Speaker 2 (05:20):
I go to real though, then, Like, you know how
you get out of that though, lifetip close your bank account.
Speaker 3 (05:30):
That's how you get out of a predatory payday loan.
You got to close. The whole bank account.
Speaker 4 (05:35):
Goes the bank account of never pay.
Speaker 6 (05:39):
It never showed up on like any of your future
credit checks or you know, your credit.
Speaker 4 (05:46):
That ain't real credit.
Speaker 6 (05:47):
I don't I mean, I don't know if they's like
how they could track it.
Speaker 4 (05:52):
That is like three APR.
Speaker 6 (05:55):
It's robbery at the at the highest extreme.
Speaker 2 (05:59):
Hey, listen, if wait car title along, we could go
down the rabbit hole on showing you how to survive
poor on the real dog.
Speaker 4 (06:08):
It's like all four of us got some experience doing that.
Speaker 5 (06:11):
Bad boys, buddy. You know.
Speaker 3 (06:13):
The hardest part was when I was in the airport
in Memphis. I had to borrow people's phones to get
on Wi Fi. And that was rough because I was
sending emails to the people picking me up for the
show and the internet would not The internet wouldn't work outside,
so when I got off the plane, I had to
walk outside to see if the rider was there, then
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go back inside and borrow somebody's phone to log into
the airport's Wi Fi, send an email, wait ten minutes,
then go outside and then it disconnect while I checked
to see if they were there, Then go back inside
and send another email to say, what are you wearing?
It was crazy?
Speaker 6 (06:51):
Did you feel like life hit a new low for you?
Speaker 3 (06:55):
No, it was great. The hotel was amazing.
Speaker 6 (06:58):
Oh so, what what's in your lowest point? Ever? Because
you have a lot of them.
Speaker 4 (07:04):
He's got the book from the lowest point.
Speaker 3 (07:09):
That was a creation of mystery. I never felt like
I was doing low.
Speaker 5 (07:13):
Right.
Speaker 4 (07:14):
It's so many he can't even, he can't even.
Speaker 5 (07:17):
It's not that brother, I was just surviving. I don't even.
I couldn't even.
Speaker 4 (07:24):
Now.
Speaker 2 (07:25):
I've told the story before, probably man, But uh uh.
When I was like going into my senior year in
high school and my brother was living in Charleston, Man,
we survived for like two weeks, for like two weeks
with no lights.
Speaker 3 (07:37):
Yeah, that's crazy.
Speaker 2 (07:39):
But in the summer, and I still was pulling girls.
I don't want to hear nothing about you can't like
go talk to a girl. Man, I ain't had no lights,
I couldn't like washing, and you know, get right, and
I still was getting them.
Speaker 3 (07:55):
You were pulling, brought them over there?
Speaker 4 (07:58):
Oh no, hell no, I.
Speaker 5 (08:04):
Say, when confidence meets realization.
Speaker 2 (08:10):
Uh, speaking up pulling the women? Sometimes we get the
wrong one. And today we're talking about the toxic woman,
and uh uh, I don't think that because I think
that people talk about how toxic men are. I don't
think that we've properly addressed as a society just how toxic,
how toxic women can be. Man and talking about that
(08:34):
this week, Man back on the Little Wars Forecast Media
Radio Network, we're talking about the toxic woman. Have y'all
ever been in a reverse breakup?
Speaker 4 (08:49):
It's like a super cold tactic, right.
Speaker 2 (08:52):
It's like they don't ask you to break up, but
they make your life miserable, so you break up with
them and then they go out and they start telling everybody.
Speaker 4 (09:00):
You see how he did me.
Speaker 5 (09:05):
I think, so I do all these so.
Speaker 3 (09:08):
We know you have you. I mean, I was expecting
you to go first.
Speaker 7 (09:16):
It's kind of weird, man, Like you know, like you said,
it's just I think rio you and I spoke about
this before as well off there and uh it's like,
as men, we just do our thing. You know, think
you were doing the right thing sometimes and it's all
you're getting blamed for stuff and it's like we already
know how the story ends. So it's like if you're
(09:36):
already on those those lines of accusing me of doing
something when you think, you know, just because you think
I'm doing or you had a dream about some stuff
and it's not really actually happening. Then we tend to
be like, okay, listen, I ain't got time for this.
I don't even want to explain logically to you, So
let me just play out this storyline you have in
(09:56):
your head, because in our head, it's like it's easier
instead of having a conversation with somebody who's already having
dreams about something you did, you know, not saying that's
what happened, but you know, you get the accused, the
accusatory type of woman, and it's just like, well, dang,
what else can I do? I don't know what else
to do to make you feel reassured in this, So
(10:18):
it's like okay, whatever.
Speaker 4 (10:21):
So then you actually go and do all the things
that you were.
Speaker 7 (10:24):
Infused it not necessarily do just those things, but it's
like whatever, whatever, whatever helps you sleep at night in
a sense like okay, but but yeah, at the end
of the day, like that's what you think, then cool,
Then go tell everybody what I did because you didn't
want to believe otherwise.
Speaker 3 (10:39):
Now do you think you may have done something to
make her feel that way.
Speaker 7 (10:45):
No, I mean just like anybody, we all have, you know,
triggers or something of that nature. But just because and
that's when adults have to come in with you know,
when you're a child or you you know, you dated
it when you was a teenager, your early teens, twenties, whatever.
You you come across situations and you might date somebody
else later on in your life and something may trigger something,
(11:06):
but just because it's triggered doesn't mean it's happening. And
it's like, hey, that's when you need to have a
conversation with your partner, like, Yo, so I noticed boom
boom boom or this this and that happened, like, you know,
can we speak about it instead of you just assuming Yeah,
that's just like Craig right there.
Speaker 5 (11:23):
Yeah, I don't trust him no more. And it's like the.
Speaker 7 (11:25):
Whole time, you as a partner don't even realize you've
done anything. But this person is thinking this whole the
strategic thing in their head. So it's like, yo, nobody
got time for that. I don't know what Craig did.
Speaker 2 (11:39):
Now, I've had it happen before, I've actually kind of
done it myself also, but like, uh, I think that
when when men do it, we just stopped being what
they're expecting out of us a little bit and then
they grow tired of us or whatever to that. But
with it's like like a manipulation tag that I feeled
(12:02):
when when women do it, because you don't know that
it's happening. And then and then when you be like,
you know, well, I guess it's time to step away
and stuff, and then they'll they'll be like, well, you
didn't you didn't fight for this relationship, you like.
Speaker 4 (12:15):
Put it all on on you. And I'm like, where
were you? You know what I'm saying. And I'm like,
and you don't even know that this has happened.
Speaker 2 (12:26):
Like I found out about this stuff years later that
like they were pushing me away because they mature and
then tell me, yeah, that's that's what I was doing,
because like I was, I was done with the relationship.
Speaker 4 (12:37):
And I didn't want to say I didn't want to
break up with you.
Speaker 2 (12:40):
I wanted you to break up with me so I
could like not like basically I want to play the victim, yeah,
you know, And I think that's what it all boils
down to they want to look a certain way as
opposed to like being the person to like say, oh,
I'm throw this good Man back.
Speaker 4 (12:56):
You know what I mean?
Speaker 7 (12:57):
Because all the Disney books in with the Prince is
getting the Prince, and Lord knows that if it don't
happen the way it was written and the way they
were told to get this storyline ending, then you know, again,
like you said, they played a victim role, and it's like, yo,
get out of here.
Speaker 5 (13:13):
You had something to do with this too. Let's be
an adult, kittles.
Speaker 3 (13:17):
The reason I ask you if you felt like you
did something to cause her to feel that way is
because when this was happening to me, I found the
person that I was with to be ridiculously jealous and
insecure about every little thing. And I thought about it
and I asked myself, is something I'm doing to make
her feel this way? And I realized, yeah, I was,
(13:38):
because she found my phone. I stupidly left it on
the table and she went through my phone and saw
a bunch of text messages I had with other women
because I had like I didn't want to cut, you know,
like all the other ones off, just in case and
I'm wondering. So I'm wondering, is it something that we're doing,
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under some underlying thing that we're actually doing to make
them feel this way?
Speaker 7 (14:04):
But let me ask you this. Let me ask you this.
So in your text messages, were you were you like
pursuing these other women or were you just having cordial
conversation with them?
Speaker 3 (14:15):
I was having flirtatious conversation every now and then, And
I think when she read enough of the text, she
kind of put it all together to equal, all right,
this is too flirtatious. Why is he talking to this person?
Speaker 7 (14:30):
But that's that's the thing as a society, though, like
with us, like what what is what is too flirtatious?
Like again, to me, there's a difference in being flirtatious
and pursuing somebody in my in my.
Speaker 2 (14:42):
That's right, because I think that like sometimes like some
of us are what can be quote unquote flirtatous when
we're just being ourselves and you may perceive that as
be cirtatious when really you just being a nice person
and being you know, your normal self, the same thing
that got you. I guess, like you know what I'm saying, But.
Speaker 7 (15:05):
I know trump sometimes that flirt can get you a
discount at the bar. You know, it can get you
some fries for free. We ain't trying to take her
out to eat it that you know.
Speaker 2 (15:14):
Like but but Trump, I know, I know that you
like try to go to more adult route, and when
and it never gets to that point, you you will
like tell people that you ain't interested.
Speaker 6 (15:25):
No more, go to more adult route. I think it's
just just going to the peaceful route. I like, I
want peace in my life. I don't want to I
don't want to play the games. I don't want the
Keith sweat merry go round and around, you know where,
where it's like one week everything's good and then you know,
(15:46):
you have a disagreement over something minor. And it's usually
the case it's something petty, it's something stupid that you
know triggers the anarchy and the relationship and and it's
an inability to just fix those things. And nah, I
just I just don't have much time for it. But
of course I've had personal experience being with somebody that
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wanted me to break up with them because they didn't
want to look bad on social media or whatever.
Speaker 4 (16:15):
But still, you know, looking.
Speaker 3 (16:17):
Bad stuff is making so much more sense.
Speaker 2 (16:20):
Now, now we're gonna we're gonna come back and uh,
we're gonna talk about those unrealistic expectations that they try
to throw at you. Not on to Good Old Boys
Forecast Media Radio Network. We're talking about the toxic woman,
all right. So some relationships end up feeling like a
(16:43):
job that you never applied for, right, and.
Speaker 4 (16:49):
Whatever you're providing just ain't enough for that job.
Speaker 5 (16:52):
Right.
Speaker 2 (16:52):
So you be working, you're showing that love, you staying faithful.
But she want you to be her therapist, she wants
you to be her stylist, she wants you to be
her at M and it's.
Speaker 7 (17:05):
Just everything yeah, yeah, tularly travel agent helping them move
those stuff.
Speaker 4 (17:15):
Why isn't that like they try to hit, make us
hit every single note, and then if we are not
able to knock out every single note and we're hitting
out eight out of nine, they still feel unsatisfied in
the relationship and then they push us away.
Speaker 6 (17:32):
That's the makeup because they're looking for their they're looking
for someone to be their daddy.
Speaker 4 (17:38):
Oh so so looking for a father figure, yeah, or
their father was doing all of that stuff, and then
they have expectations that you're gonna step into their place,
into the father's place, and you know, fill that gap
and do what he was doing before.
Speaker 6 (17:54):
And then you have to remind them, I'm not your daddy,
I'm I'm your partner, and the partner has a different
role than the father.
Speaker 7 (18:03):
What they don't realize is that they just they daddy
ain't come home and tell him about the three side
chicks he got by, how the other household he was managing.
Speaker 5 (18:12):
That's half of these women's problems right there.
Speaker 7 (18:15):
Like they don't really like you're saying, when we hitting
a out of those ten marks or seven out of
those ten marks, they're not satisfied.
Speaker 5 (18:22):
They always wanted more.
Speaker 7 (18:24):
And it's like, at the end of the day, we
as men, we love who we love, and we love
them unconditionally, don't we.
Speaker 5 (18:30):
Ain't we met you with makeup on?
Speaker 7 (18:32):
You know, we met you with that bad outfit, with
your girlfriends out doing your thing, And then when we
see you.
Speaker 5 (18:38):
The night after, we don't run away. We stay there.
Speaker 7 (18:41):
We see that those eyelashes ain't real. We see that
that foundation was foundation. And you know what I'm saying,
We stick with you because we in love and we
like what we saw, we see the potential, and we
stick with that. But women always want a nitpick because
it's something else that they have in their mind that
we're not measuring up to touch.
Speaker 3 (19:01):
Go ahead.
Speaker 2 (19:02):
No Yah touched on in the last segment about this, Uh,
how the princess always ends up with the prince at
the end. Do you think that, like our society has
kind of created like this fairy tale of what a
relationship is supposed to be and that's what's causing most
of the problems.
Speaker 3 (19:22):
I think so, And I think it's that answers your question.
I think that a lot of women have an unrealistic well,
I would say a lot of young women and girls
have an unrealistic idea of what to expect out of
a man in their relationship. You know. I see a
lot of women. I know a lot of very far
left leaning feminist women, right, and they love to talk
(19:45):
about how independent and feministic they are, and they seem
to be fighting battles unnecessarily from attackers who aren't even
attacking them, right. And I remember something my mother said,
she said, I wish a man would come in here
and take care of all of this so I can
sit down and relax and I realize this idea that
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you have to fight this battle or you'll be a
oppressed and you have to go and work and stuff
like that. That seems to be a young woman's mentality,
because older women who get some more maturity on them
have a better understanding of their role in their place
and a man's role in this place, and how to
how to coexist with a man in their relationship. So
I think it's a young women's folly that they have
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an unrealistic expectation of a man in a relationship.
Speaker 7 (20:31):
They don't want to use that to get me in
where they where they They want to do these things
where it doesn't feel like a task or a honey
do list. It's like when you when you get that
feminine energy instead of feeling like you combattan with a dude.
Speaker 5 (20:49):
You know what I'm saying, Pauls.
Speaker 7 (20:50):
But when you get that feminine energy at the end
of the day, it makes you want to do things.
It makes you want to be better as a man
because you have that energy to It's like your like
your nest egg, your pillow of your comfort or relaxation
mode and stuff.
Speaker 5 (21:04):
You know.
Speaker 7 (21:04):
So it just when you're getting that on a regular basis,
it just makes you want to continue to be better
and do better for that woman that you're into.
Speaker 3 (21:14):
I give you an example.
Speaker 4 (21:15):
Troubles about to say something.
Speaker 6 (21:17):
Yeah, I think a lot of the situations that I've
dealt with, it's like the ones that should have a
lot of expectations or you know, a lot of needs
are the ones that don't ask for as much as
those that are that don't really need as much. But
they're the ones that have that laundry list or a
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lot of needs that are unrealistic.
Speaker 3 (21:42):
Yeah, and I don't understand why we're in a condom
is not one of those needs. That's why you got
four baby daddies. It's crazy to me. But I give
you another example, man, my sister and her husband. Right,
my sister has a degree and she's a housewife because
her husband has three businesses and he works. He takes
(22:04):
care of all the bills and all of that, and
he's set up an environment where she can afford not
to work, right, she can just take care of the
four kids. He's even got her a maid, so she
got somebody who comes in and cleans the house and
does all the cooking. Right, and despite what my brother
in law does, my sister still finds time to complain
(22:26):
about him not picking up a couple things around the house,
Like he might leave his shoes out because he just
came home from working. He's got three businesses, and he's
trying to make ends meet, right, and so he'll leave
a few things around the house, and she'll be on
him about that. And I remember my mother was talking
to her saying, hey, look, you need to let some
of that stuff go, because you have to understand, this
(22:49):
man is working a lot so that you don't have
to work. So there's a compromise that needs to take place.
If it was back home where we live we grew up, no,
that wouldn't be allowed, right. My mother said she wouldn't
allow that from us, leaving our stuff around because we're kids, right.
But for a man who's working three businesses, he's an
(23:11):
entrepreneur and bringing it all the money, you know, some
of that stuff you're gonna have to let slide.
Speaker 4 (23:16):
Correct, man, We're gonna come back. We're gonna talk.
Speaker 2 (23:20):
About the failure to support your ambition in the relationship.
Back on the Go to Boys Forecast Media Radio Network,
(23:42):
watching the two Kittles, Black Trump and Eddie King Junior,
the third Grand Wiz.
Speaker 4 (23:47):
Back with us this week.
Speaker 3 (23:52):
I haven't been saved, though I'm not going to church.
Speaker 2 (23:55):
Oh uh so, I know that we've all been here.
We've been with people who don't believe in our dreams
and our ambition ends up sometimes feeling like it's an
inconvenience to them. And you're out here grind then you're
(24:15):
trying to build something, and instead of cheering.
Speaker 4 (24:18):
You on, she's complaining you're too busy. So, since Liz,
you was just.
Speaker 2 (24:23):
Talking about how your brother in law is out here
on the grind and everything, and sometimes you feel like
your sister might not be showing him the support that
he needs. I want to go back to what you
said that your mother told her. Do you think that
you need that type of advice is what preserves their
(24:44):
relationship properly, because I feel like a lot of women
don't have somebody that is going to call them out
on their bs the way that it sounds like your
mother called your sister out on hers.
Speaker 3 (24:56):
Yeah, because you have to learn your partner right, and
you got to learn your partner and learn your environment.
You got to learn to play your position, So she
was approaching it from a different type. She was approaching
it with a different game plan. That's not the team
that they were running. So my mother just had to
step in and say, the team that you all got
set up is going to be more conducive when you
run it this way, and you're gonna have to compromise
(25:18):
on this. And my sister has and you know, she said,
I just had to go ahead and eat that and
learn this is how it's gonna be. And considering what
he's bringing to the table, I shouldn't be bothering him.
I can understand why he would be too tired and
put his shoes on the rack or something like that.
For me personally, I've dealt with several at least two
women who I knew were not supportive of my ambitions
(25:41):
in my career, Like the last one I had. You know,
she was telling me, look, you can't be coming in
late at night like this, And I told her, look,
after I finished a show, I just can't come straight
home because I have to stay there and I have
to talk to the other comics. And we got to
talk about the show. We got to talk about comedy,
we got to chop it up because this is like
school for us, and we learned so much from sitting
(26:03):
around just talking about comedy. Right, So I know the
show might start at eight, and it might be done
by nine thirty, but I'm gonna need to be there
until ten eleven o'clock, just chopping it up with my
pios so I can get better at my craft. And
she was very resistant to that, and I told her,
and I knew that would be a big problem for us,
because I can't have that.
Speaker 6 (26:26):
Women are attracted to the finished products, like they're not.
They're not interested in seeing you grind it out, pay
your They want you, Yeah, they want you once you've
already become an all star, become established, already have the
bread coming in. They're not trying to struggle with you.
Speaker 3 (26:51):
Is why?
Speaker 2 (26:52):
Is that why James Harden's new baby mama used to
be with Lou Williams and I think somebody else before
getting with James Harden because she like finally got her
an MVP.
Speaker 3 (27:05):
Yeah, yeah, that's what all of these stupid people probably.
I mean, it's really dumb, it's really and I've always thought,
you know, I want to find somebody who's with me
on the come up like ice Cube did, like Denzel
Washington did, LL Cooj did, because they got with these
women when they were just started. And I think that's
a rare thing to find. It's a lot harder to
find than I thought it would be because a lot
(27:27):
of women that I come in contact with, they don't
really understand the game. They don't really understand what it
takes to get to that point. And I found it
even more disturbing. With a little bit of success that
I've gotten, I've gotten more women coming up to me
now than I had a year ago.
Speaker 5 (27:44):
Hey, because that's the one you're look at for.
Speaker 7 (27:47):
They see the potential, they understand what it probably taken
for you to get to where you're going, and they
see that you're already going there. So but then you
got to kind of, you know, paying through that one
to say, to see who's real, who was really wanting
to know you versus who's wanting to see if you
really make it to the top, you know.
Speaker 5 (28:04):
What I'm saying. So it's a constant job for us on.
Speaker 7 (28:08):
This end when we're looking at it from that aspect,
and those what Ll and Denzel got, those are true
diamonds and the rough Man and women, you know, was
willing to put up with a lot and deal with
a lot, and they spoke and communicated on things before
it got out of control.
Speaker 2 (28:24):
Let's speak on some support though, because I've been seeing
some back and forth about this and and I'm stunned
by the back and forth about it.
Speaker 4 (28:33):
But people out here.
Speaker 2 (28:35):
Not liking the way that Gucci's wife is taking care
of him and all this type of stuff. Like, to me,
I don't want a woman that ain't gonna be like
how she is, you know what I'm saying. The fact that,
like you know, he obviously was cool with her talking
about his mental health struggles and stuff. He wouldn't have
had her on the show talking about it because I
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think that he's trying to impart wisdom on other people,
and people was trying to like go at her for
like talking about that stuff. Man, when I think that
is healthy for other people to know that somebody is
going through this type of stuff so they can go and.
Speaker 4 (29:12):
Try to seek the help that they need.
Speaker 2 (29:14):
But to me, I don't think that if people have
a problem, if women have a problem with that woman
doing what she does for him, and if men have
a problem with her talking about it. Then that's why
y'all ain't got the right people with y'all now bad Yo?
Speaker 3 (29:29):
What was this specific criticism because I didn't see any
criticism of her. What are they saying, So she's putting
that business in the street or what?
Speaker 2 (29:36):
Yeah, trying to say that, like she's emasculating him by saying,
but he wrote, that's what I'm saying. This is the
dumbest stuff I've ever seen.
Speaker 4 (29:46):
Man.
Speaker 2 (29:47):
But a lot of these people are Nicki Minaj fans,
apparently because she don't like her.
Speaker 4 (29:53):
But Nicki don't like no woman, So I don't I
don't know, but like, but I just think that, like,
I can't you with somebody who don't like have that
level of support for me? Man? Like what's happened?
Speaker 3 (30:04):
And it's emasculating to take care of your partner when
they're in need. I would hate to see what they
what they think is gonna happen when they get into
their late eighties in their early nineties, because it's usually
one of the spouses is treat is taking care of
the other one, wiping their button everything.
Speaker 2 (30:21):
I hear that think that it's sassy for you to
know how to Cook. So I mean like we we
we living in a lost generation, bro, Like, yeah.
Speaker 3 (30:30):
You use an umbrella, they call it that sassy, right,
I don't want to get right. Meanwhile, we don't say
anything about that weave helmet you got on protecting your
ball scalp. So what we're talking about.
Speaker 2 (30:47):
We're gonna come back and we're gonna talk about when
they start neglecting the physical back on the Good Old
Boys Forecast Media Radio Network.
Speaker 4 (30:59):
We're talking about the toxic woman.
Speaker 2 (31:01):
And this is something that I think that we've all
dealt with throughout time. Because I don't know if y'all
remember the movie House Party three because I only watched
it maybe once, and I don't know if I finished.
Speaker 4 (31:16):
It because it was so bad.
Speaker 3 (31:18):
But uh, because Mick Lowry said that's the best one.
Speaker 4 (31:21):
Big Lowry said that.
Speaker 3 (31:23):
That's the one with and everybody right that im.
Speaker 4 (31:28):
Mature is in it.
Speaker 2 (31:30):
But I just I just bought it up because TLC's
that they weren't TLC in the movie they would call
sex as a weapon.
Speaker 6 (31:38):
They should have kept that name. That was a dope name.
Speaker 2 (31:42):
So but but it feels like women take that to
heart and like it feels like they feel like.
Speaker 4 (31:49):
They control it.
Speaker 6 (31:50):
That's a damn lie control.
Speaker 4 (31:57):
Yeah, they control when it happens. And what the reality
is is that you don't control when it happens because if.
Speaker 2 (32:04):
I want it, I'm gonna get it either from you
or elsewhere.
Speaker 7 (32:09):
Yeah, you control what happens with your box. But either
at the end of the day, well you know, we
own spectrum. There are other boxes out here to be
tended to. You control what happens in wars.
Speaker 4 (32:22):
So why don't you do that? Do they?
Speaker 2 (32:24):
I mean, do they think that that truly gives them
some type of advantage in the relationship, because I think
it's stupid as hell when they do it.
Speaker 6 (32:32):
They just have a false sense of thinking that nobody
else wants you just because you're you're ticked off at me.
You just think I'm like at the bottom of the
barrel in that moment, and I'm not capable of picking
myself up and and scouring the masses to pull something
(32:54):
with the ease. So, I mean, I just think they
they underestimate, like you said, said, how easy it is
to get it from elsewhere. It is.
Speaker 3 (33:06):
Yeah, and who's fault is this? Though? I think this
is our fault once again, as men because we empower
them to do that. I just saw a video yesterday
of a dude talking to women on the street and
the women said, you have to pay to talk to me.
If you want my number, it's going to be forty dollars.
And he was like, oh, yeah, I got that. I
got that. That's no problem. So we're empowering these women
(33:28):
to feel like sex truly is a weapon.
Speaker 7 (33:31):
We're too desk to say we those are sense because
they feel that's what they need to do to be
able to talk to you. Then I'd be like, word, well,
enjoy the rest of your day's sweetheart, and I keep
it moving.
Speaker 2 (33:42):
Listen though, But honestly, money ain't like nothing like and
I think that like women who try to utilize that
like like okay, so like let's say you asking for
like money and you and that that gets your rocks
off and stuff like that, right right, if it depends
(34:02):
on the value of the dollar, if somebody has money,
it ain't gonna matter if they give it to you,
They're not gonna miss it, you know what I'm saying.
So you still not like you're not like he's not
showing you that he cares about you more. Just because
he's giving you money. That's stupid too.
Speaker 7 (34:19):
At the end of the day, you prostitute in two
and don't even realize it, like you just set a
price on your conversation and then you want to get
upset with that man when when he doesn't want to
do something later. But it's like, yo, okay, I don't
want to spend time with you.
Speaker 5 (34:32):
I didn't pay you. Why are you in my face? Like,
get up out of here? Why you still here? Now?
Speaker 7 (34:36):
You're mad because he's treating you like like what you
wanted to be treated like that? Ain't at a song guy,
somebody treat him like they want to be treated no
father ing. See you know, but y'all y'all lead with that.
I ain't gonna say all women, but they'll lead with
that type of mentality and then get upset when it's
really played out because that's what you that's what you
(34:57):
ask for.
Speaker 5 (34:58):
But you, like you said, you're absolutely right if you.
Speaker 7 (35:00):
Got it, Like, well, you know me, I'm always with
a rap quote Weezy said, if you tricking, it, ain't
tricking if you got it. But you know again, I'm
just a brother that I ain't got time to be
wasting it on you. Like when there's other women out
here that you know you could talk to and don't
have to give your money to talk to them. You
can actually get to know them and build a relationship
with them period, whether whether it's you know, whether you're
(35:22):
trying to build a relationship with him, or it's just
you know, just somebody you know and you networking with.
But nah, you're not getting no cash from me, Mom,
I'm sorry.
Speaker 4 (35:30):
What if it's something that you've done to create the issue.
Speaker 3 (35:36):
Of them holding withholding sex? Yeah, well, if it's a marriage,
the woman should not be withholding sex. That's against the marriage.
If it is not a marriage, then you know, you
all are engaging in a situation without a contract. So
I mean, whatever happens is, whatever happens, anything goes.
Speaker 7 (36:00):
But that's crazy, like with with throw without a contract
as adults, and you're you're in that that situation, it's foolish,
Like if you don't, if you're not providing something for
your woman, you foolish to think that she's not gonna
at least want to.
Speaker 5 (36:13):
Seek that from someone else. Yeah, you know, and if.
Speaker 3 (36:17):
It's your fault, I mean I can kind of understand
it holding.
Speaker 7 (36:19):
The selves, not pointing thing? Is it in just pointing
the scenario out there? Like if it's you know, so
it's the same for us, Like you know, like if
you don't cook, then you know my mother taught me
how to cook. I'm from the South. You don't want
to clean. I know how to clean. If they ain't
gonna provide that, then it's out there.
Speaker 2 (36:37):
And to all the women out there, man like if
you want your man to live alone, prosperous life, man like,
one thing to prevent having prostate cancer?
Speaker 4 (36:50):
Okay, so it helps you know what I'm saying all that?
Speaker 3 (36:53):
Man, So is this ain't no reference? What is this.
Speaker 4 (36:58):
Prostate cancer?
Speaker 3 (37:00):
Is?
Speaker 2 (37:00):
Uh?
Speaker 4 (37:01):
Prevents it by.
Speaker 6 (37:04):
Letting letting them go?
Speaker 4 (37:06):
Yes?
Speaker 3 (37:07):
Oh really I should be good then, because I've been
concerned because they'd be like, you gotta you gotta get tested,
and I'm like, I don't want to get that test.
But if that's prevented by that, yeah, I'm good. I
think I'm all right. Speaking of which too, I came
to the conclusion last week that had Andre Herral not fired,
Puff Daddy Uptown Records would have been the greatest boutique
(37:28):
record label of all time.
Speaker 4 (37:29):
And Puffy probably wouldn't be in jail right now.
Speaker 3 (37:32):
Because they would have signed Biggie and Craig Mac and
Total and one twelve.
Speaker 2 (37:39):
Uh we're gonna come back and uh We're going to
talk about that lack of appreciation that they have or
the full.
Speaker 8 (37:47):
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Radio Network talking about the Toxic Woman.
Speaker 2 (38:00):
Now, it all balls down to this at the end
of the day for me, and this is if you want.
Speaker 4 (38:06):
If you want to get dumped by me, then don't
appreciate me.
Speaker 2 (38:13):
Show me that what I've done for you don't matter
to you, because I will walk in a heartbeat man.
And it's a quiet killer of a relationship in my opinion,
because I know that I'm not alone with that feeling
that Like, if if I'm doing everything in my power
to make life easier for you and you can't show
(38:34):
me no love back, you know what I'm saying, You can't.
You can't do the like I'm not asking you to
duplicate what I do for you because I don't know
if you probably can that doesn't matter, though, show me
that you give a damn that I've done it for you.
That's all that matters, you know what I'm saying. And
that's that's all that matter. Ain't even a simple thank you,
you know what I'm saying. It's it's sometimes enough, you
(38:56):
know what I mean. Some of y'all don't want to
say that like you have. Are you supposed to be
doing this stuff for you?
Speaker 8 (39:02):
No?
Speaker 2 (39:02):
No, no, I choose to do this good stuff for you,
you know what I'm saying, Like I choose to because
I care about you. But I can take that away
from you quickly and give it to somebody who actually
appreciates it.
Speaker 7 (39:16):
But like we were saying in the earlier in the
earlier Slot Man segment, there it's like, yo, you can
do those things, and they can do it, but it's
always it's where they needed more of it, like or
they feel like it's not you can say thank you all,
I appreciate that, you can show that you appreciate it,
but they still they feel like you don't don't. I
(39:39):
don't think you understand this, so I don't. Okay, Well,
the conversation should be there, Well, why why do you
feel this way instead of you just running that into
the ground when it's clear that you appreciate it. It's
clear that I show the appreciation. So so what the
what's the riff about that? It's like, it's that's crazy
to me.
Speaker 2 (39:58):
Yeah, And I don't know, man, Like I grew up,
you know, like my grandmother she died really young. She
was sixty five years old, man, and I was like
nine years old. But my life as a child, like
I'm the youngest in my generation and stuff.
Speaker 5 (40:15):
Man.
Speaker 2 (40:16):
So my grandparents, my grandfather was retired. When I tell you,
a meal was cooked for breakfast, lunch, and dinner at
their house, and she did all three of them and
he got to eat all three times a day. I
ain't never seen that from nobody else in my life ever.
(40:38):
And I think that we've like lost the plot a
little bit. And the reason why she did that is
because she ain't never had the work. And this is
during a time period where you know, you didn't have
a lot of money and stuff, man. But my grandfather
went out there and he got that money and stuff, man,
and he did a lot of nice things people around
town and stuff.
Speaker 4 (40:57):
And when he got home, she took care of him.
Speaker 2 (41:00):
I think that some women feel like that's beneath them
to like take care of the man.
Speaker 1 (41:06):
Now.
Speaker 2 (41:07):
I'm not saying that things are set up that same
way anymore because everybody is working outside of the home
now and all of that type of stuff, But there
are certain things that a man provided that I think
that you can show him that you care because he's
taking care of the things for you because of his
appreciation for you.
Speaker 4 (41:26):
And I don't think that women pay it forward as
much as they probably should in today's's side.
Speaker 5 (41:32):
Yo, my grandmother did the same thing man.
Speaker 7 (41:34):
Even up to the point after my grandfather passed away,
it was still breakfast, lunch, and dinner cooked at that
household for the kids and people coming by.
Speaker 5 (41:43):
It was like it was such a routine for her.
And as I've gotten.
Speaker 7 (41:47):
Older and you know, before she passed, like you know,
some of my uncles and aunts they mom, I'm gonna
come over and cook for Sunday, you know, after church
or whatever. So she wouldn't have to do it to
help out and back to you know, within the relationship again,
like you said, it's not set up like that so
much nowadays because that both parties are working and everybody
might be tired.
Speaker 5 (42:06):
So again, if.
Speaker 7 (42:08):
If your lady's role is to come in and cook
or whatever and do what she's doing, if she doesn't
feel like it that day, then again, I ain't saying
you gotta cook as a man. I mean, but if
you know how to, then do it. But if not,
then say lady, hey, lady, speak up, open your mouth.
Speaker 5 (42:23):
Your man can't read your mind.
Speaker 7 (42:25):
Like like say say say that, hey, like I'm tired today, Like, hey,
you mind picking up something or doing something else?
Speaker 2 (42:31):
You know, I'm jusu cooking as an example, but I'm
not saying that man like I'm saying, like, if you
went to the store and you know, he like Eminem's,
bring him a back of Eminem's. If you went to
the store just like he's doing for you, I'm sure you.
Speaker 5 (42:44):
Know what I mean.
Speaker 7 (42:46):
That was crazy with crazy New Orleans, Yo. It was
like she would do that all the time, right. But
I don't go to the store like that, So why
are you expecting me to be you? If I know
what you're into, then cool, But I don't. I don't
stop at the store every day after work, that's what
you do. I don't eat a lot of sweets like that.
But yes, I appreciate what you're doing. But just if
(43:07):
I go somewhere and do something, I shouldn't have to
be forced or in this in this box to have
to do it because you've done it for two weeks
and just because I haven't gone to the store or
stop for myself, you know what I'm saying, Oh, I
better stop by the store because I know she liked twigs.
That's crazy to me. You know, if you're into something,
then I cater to that. But why should I have
to do it because that's what you do.
Speaker 6 (43:31):
Yeah, I'll just I'll just circle back to what I
said in the earlier segment about them expecting us to
be their daddy's And you know, in that role, it's
a thankless job where you can do something and they'll
be happy for a short amount of time. It's almost
(43:54):
like selective amnesia. So an hour later they're wanting something else.
And if you're you feel like you've gotten like a
hall pass and you're good for like the rest of
the day after you do something. But nah, like if
you don't do that next thing, then they're moping around
or not speaking or withholding the the the cha cha,
(44:17):
and you know, just showing no appreciation for you, and
you're just like, damn, I just I just did this
for you, Like is it not enough? It's a never
ending cycle where you have to please them or else
you're gonna be in the doghouse.
Speaker 7 (44:30):
I love the analogy because it's like you met out
well all of us don't have daughters and that, but
when your daughter cut Oh, daddy, thank you, and you
got us something. But a few hours later.
Speaker 5 (44:41):
Daddy, can we? Hey daddy, you want to watch this?
Hey daddy?
Speaker 1 (44:44):
Can we?
Speaker 5 (44:44):
Daddy? Can we?
Speaker 7 (44:46):
It's just it makes so much sense when you when
you say it like that, that's what they're looking for,
and it's just crazy. They're constantly on that that search
for that daddy roll. That's crazy.
Speaker 3 (44:56):
What are we doing about this? Because it sounds like
a very unhappy situation that we've been letting slide for decades.
What are we doing about this? I mean cause I
feel like we can have that set up like your
grandparents had. But that's the setup that my brother in
law and my sister have. It's possible if you want that,
you just have to do a little extra work for me,
(45:17):
especially in my culture, the woman doesn't have to spend
any of her money. Whatever money she makes is hers.
It's the man's responsibility to take care of all of that.
Speaker 7 (45:26):
Yeah, I ain't out here trying to pick up no
dependence though, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 5 (45:29):
So it's like you got to put your work in and.
Speaker 7 (45:32):
Have aspirations to do something and be something as well.
Speaker 5 (45:36):
So it's like, yeah, that's cool.
Speaker 7 (45:38):
But what we're doing to answer your question, oh, bro,
brothers are here trying to understand it and maneuver through
a move through the room full of vultures, you know,
and just understand how to get to the other side.
Speaker 5 (45:48):
You know.
Speaker 2 (45:50):
We're going to wrap it up there, man, and we're
going to close with milestone. I care thout shoot, So
why don't you care out me like I care about you.
Speaker 5 (46:02):
Because I was with your cousin in the studio.
Speaker 3 (46:08):
Well, I'll see you and we out this funky thing.
Mm hmm. Would you say forget the family because the
family and my man. Yeah,
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