“Atmosphere” ep79 (season 2)

Ayooooo! Fresh off the Bronchitis with that necessary energy! Let’s make sure you know the importance of being in the right atmosphere in order to tap in to your next level!!

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:03):
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Ao ao ao? What up? Everybody? What up? Heroes? And
welcome back to you another episode of the Hated Heroes

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podcast where people hate to love us, love to hate us.
And I'm your host LB L. Capitone he himself And
if you can't tell, I'm I'm getting over a little
something I I have bronchitis, have bronchitas. I mean it
was touch and go there for a little bit. But baby,
hey we back, We're back. And look, this is your

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first time tuning in. We got a slight disclaimer, a
slight disclaimer. Okay, sensitivity does not live here, but understanding does.
Once again, that is, sensitivity does not live here, but
understanding does. And look, depending on how your day is going, Okay,

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you may be having a fast day, you may be
having a slow day. But either way it goes. It's
your day to your day, so please please make the
most of it. Today's podcast, today's podcast. It's gonna encompass
a little bit of of of of self belief. It's

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gonna encompass a little bit of of of of being
self driven, a little bit of submission, a little bit
of self awareness. Uh is, it's gonna encompass. Just wanna
make sure I'm putting this out there for you guys
there the right way. It's gonna encompass you knowing who

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you are and why you are, to make sure you
put yourself in the right place. Okay, to go as
far as you're supposed to go. Okay, to go as
far as you're supposed to be the the best version
of you that you could possibly ever be. Okay, and

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and and and so we're gonna we're gonna come down
to that that whole submission part. Let's touch on that
submission part just a little bit. You have to submit
the fact that you cannot you cannot do everything without help. Okay,
you cannot do everything without some type of help. Okay,

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you may have all these skills and all these gifts,
and and you're gonna ca You're gonna go in circles.
You're gonna go in circles trying to accomplish all these
things and all these these visions that you're having, You're
gonna go in circles because you haven't submitted the fact
that it's not that you don't have the ability to
do these things. You need help. You need help, You

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need help, and there's only one person, only one person
that can provide that type of guidance, that type of
help that you truly need to go ahead and hit
every single level all the different things that you that
you can do while you're on this. Okay, and once
you submit, you got to start understanding. You now need

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to put yourself in the right place, in the right position.
You need to start moving completely different. Putting a little
bit more respect, a little bit more respect on your abilities,
putting a little bit more focus, okay, a little bit
more goodness. I can't, I can't even put the word

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to it. Like that. You gotta be in it. You
gotta be in it. You gotta be in like be
who you're supposed to be, and make sure that you
do not steer away from that. Okay. Your surroundings are
so important for that growth. Your confidence is so important
for that growth. You need both of those things to excel. Okay,

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you need both those things excel. So once God provides
you all these visions and letting you know that you
can do all these things, and letting you know that
you will need help, you will need his help, then
it's up to now. The action's up to you. The
action's up to you putting yourself in the atmosphere that
you need to be put in. Okay, Rather be with cooking,

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you need to go hang out with cooks. Okay, Rather
be drawing, you need to go hang out with artists.
Rather it be a music you need to go hang
out with singers and musicians. Put yourself there, okay, not
people that like that stuff, people that are that stuff.
And there's a big difference. There's a big difference in
somebody that likes something versus somebody that's actually living something. Okay,

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So you have consumer versus connoisseur, consumer versus connoisseur. A
consumer is gonna go purchase something because they like the
way that it looks. A connoisseur is gonna go purchase
something because of its essence, because of what it actually is,
what it can produce, what somebody went through to make it.

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That's a huge difference, a huge difference, and that plays
the same toll in your growth and who you are
and what you're supposed to be it. It doesn't matter,
it doesn't matter. What ends up happening is that a
lot of us will go and and and and and

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and share what it is that we're trying to do
with the wrong crowd. Will will will will share something
so major, so important, so so incredible with people that
like things. Okay, because they like something, will will share
it with them. We're not gonna get the same response.
You're not gonna get the same response. You're not gonna

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get the response. Okay, that you need to get. Okay,
you're not gonna get the focus and attention and adherence
to your gift. Okay. And it's not that you're you're
you're you're chasing affirmation. No, it's that you're trying to grow.
You're trying to and so again, you sharing something so

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important with somebody that only likes things versus lives things,
you're not gonna get the same energy. So this is
let you know, right here, right now, put yourself in
the right atmosphere. I'm gonna say it again. If you're cooking,
go hang out with cooks. Be around shifts. That's the like,
actual shifts. Okay, not not your auntie that likes to

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throw down ever so often. Not not your friend that
they can make that one dish. No, no, go put
yourself around cooks. If you are trying to sing or
be a musician, you need to go be around musicians.
That's it. Go be around musicians. Go be around people
that are living your art, that are living what it

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is that you're doing, versus just liking what you're doing.
It's complete difference. You're trying to grow, You're trying to grow,
You're not just trying to conversate. You're trying to compensate. Okay,
you're trying to grow. Okay, let's trying to If you
like to draw, if drawing is your thing, if art
is your thing, you need to go put yourself around artists. Okay,
not people that just want to purchase a picture, people

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that are the picture. Okay, that's a big difference. Okay,
you're trying to grow. Okay, that's what this is for.
That's what this is for. So to whomever, to whoever,
this may help change your atmosphere. First, submit, know that
you all these beautiful gifts that you have. Submit knowing

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that you cannot do that by yourself. You can't do
it by yourself. And then once you submit, you're gonna
be given a completely different type of piece on this
journey that you're on, because it is a journey. You're
gonna be given a complete different type of piece on
this journey. Yeah, you might have spurts here and there
where you question things. You're only human. You're only human.

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Your goal is to stay focused, stay focused, knowing that, oh,
the hiccup may happen, But get right back on it, man,
get right back on and get right back into it. Okay,
get right back to where you need to be, Right
back to where you need to be, getting that atmosphere
so that you can grow again. It's not about conversating,
it's about compensating. Okay. You're giving a gift to be

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able to live off of your gift. That's what that's for.
I hope that really resonates the right way with you.
Your gift is for you to live off of. Okay.
So you don't want to have any regret. You don't
want to have any guilt. You don't want to have
any shame or self shame or self blame or whatever.
You don't want to have that. You want to go

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ahead and make sure that you are respecting your gift.
Respect that grow your gift. You can only grow your
gift if you if you put yourself in the right garden. Okay.
Not just any dirt can grow a plant. Okay, And
if you think that it can, give it a try.

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Give it a try, and you'll see different qualities of
dirt will give you different qualities. You know what, We're
not even gonna go there, We're not even just just
try it. Try, try, try putting yourself in the wrong
atmosphere and see how well you grow. How about that? Okay,

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how about that? All I can do is just just
preach from experience. That's all I can do. All I
can do is just preach from the multiple people that
I speak to about this very thing. All I can
do is just tell you, hey, just look around. Just
look around. I mean, if what you've been doing is working,
then you don't even even listen to me. You don't
even listen to this podcast. I don't need to influence

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you in any way, shape or form. I don't. But
if you feel like something is off, then I'm here
to help you put it on. Okay. Appreciate you so
very much for tuning in to another episode of the
Hate the Heroes podcast. I just want to go ahead
and touch on that to whom it may concern. I

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hope this helps you get there. I hope this helps
you get there. Peace and blessings on your journey until
next time. Until next week, y'all be great. Let them
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