“Be Patient with You” ep85 (season 2)

Pep talk to help you walk the walk!!

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:02):
Ao ao Ao, What up, everybody. Look, today's podcast is
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What Up? Heroes? And Welcome back to yet another episode

(02:25):
of the Hated Heroes podcast where people will hate to
love us and love to hate us. And of course
I'm your host LB L. Capitone, he himself and y'all
know what we say. Look, you might be having a
slow day, you might be having a fast day. But
either way it goes, it's your day, so please please

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make the most of it. And of course, if this
is your first time tuning in to the podcast, we
have a slight disclaimer we'd like to get out the way,
Just a little small disclaimer we'd like to get on
out the way. Make sure we remain on the same page. Okay,
just always want to remain on the same page. That's
the most important thing in the world, most important thing
in the world. And just let you know what that is.

(03:08):
That sensitivity does not live here, but understanding does. Once again,
for the people in the back, sensitivity does not live here,
but understanding does. Ladies and gentlemen, gentlemen and ladies, heroes
of all shapes and sizes, all colors. Just just what's up, everybody?

(03:34):
What's going on? Man? How has everything been going? Y'all
know we've been in this series lately, you know, we've
been in the series of you. Okay, the power of you,
the uniqueness of you, the swagger of you, the elevation
of you. We've been in this U series. So how
are you doing in this U series? How have you
been doing over the last couple of weeks. Have you

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have you been noticing any changes? Have you been making
actual changes? Have you been putting action to whatever it
is that we're talking about. Have you been putting action
to it? Have you put an action to your life?
Have you stepped outside of your normal day to day
and started doing a little extra, a little something different.
Have you have you changed up? Have you started truly
working on you? Okay, because today today we're gonna be

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focusing on We're gonna be focusing on, Oh, you guessed it.
You Okay, Guys, Once our vessels, once what we have,
once who we are is in a line with who
we're supposed to be. There's no stopping us. There's no
stopping line. Like we're unstoppable, like like nothing can come

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in and interrupt what it is that God has already
stitched into the Plan's forest, has already mapped out in
the world for us, has already sat there and paved
the road for us. Nobody can mess with it. And
that's all I'm trying to get people to understand. That's
all I'm trying to get you to understand. Okay, And again,

(05:02):
sensitivity does not live here, but understanding does. So That's
why this is so important to me. That's why this
is so important to me. That's why I continue. It's
not dwelling. I'm literally literally passionate. I'm passionate about making
sure that you know who you are. That's what I'm

(05:22):
here for, to make sure that you know who you are. Okay, listen, listen, people.
You cannot expect yourself out of anybody else. You cannot
expect for people to maneuver the way you maneuver. You
cannot expect people to respect the changes that you're trying

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to make in life. You cannot expect anything from anyone
else but for them to be who they are. That
is it. And since we'd all don't know who each
other are, then just let people be, Let people be,
and make sure you focus on you, because that's what
you do have control over, is you. You have control
over you. And please please make sure you listen to this.

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Please please please hear me. Hear me. People, be patient
with yourself because you're a work in progress. I'm gonna
say one more time, be patient with yourself because you
are a work in progress. Do not do not let

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the internet or society rush you into anything, anything that
you're still developing. Okay, nobody, nobody should have that power
over you to make you feel like you need to
hurry up and get something done. No, the only thing
you need to do is make sure that you're working
on yourself on a daily basis, working on yourself on

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a weekly basis, working on yourself on a monthly basis.
Don't give up on your self. That's all that matters.
Don't give up on yourself. And in turn of you
not getting giving up on yourself, you're gonna automatically exube
the energy that other people need to gain confidence. They're
gonna see what it is that you're doing. And doesn't

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mean that you you have to be a billionaire, doesn't
mean that you have to have everything in the world,
all the riches and all that. That's not what that means.
What that means is that you found a place to
live on this earth where you know you have purpose.
You're living in purpose, and therefore you found happiness. You
found happiness, you found the secret to life. The secrets
life is happiness or you found it by living within

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your purpose. And there's no telling what your purpose may be.
It may be with children, it may be with adults.
It may be with with with with going to college.
It may be with with with going after that promotion
on your job. It may be with with with with
new artwork. It may be with a new song, it
may be with with with new fashion. There's no telling

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what your purpose is, but you will never know. And
if you're continuing to look at everybody else's purpose, if
you're continuing to look at what everybody else is doing,
if you're continuing to focus on and worry about what
other people may think of what you are doing, how
you are living what it is that's meant for you.

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There's no them in you, okay, Like they can't fit
anywhere in the word to you. You cannot fit them.
You can't fit they. You can't like like that does
not fit into that three letter word you. Okay, keep
your faith, remain your authentic self, because once you're your
authentic self. We've said this before. Once you are your

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authentic self and you are living within your authentic self,
that's when you'll truly be free. That's when you'll truly
be free. And when you're truly free, that purpose just
starts to flow. That purpose just starts to flow because
you're you're so happy and and you're so you're so
content and not content the fact that you've get You're
content in knowing that God's got you. No matter what's

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going on, God has got you. You continue to do
your part, You exup that that that positive energy and
your willingness to be able to help somebody if you're
able to help them, and God will one percent take
care of the rest. He always does and always will.
He always has. Okay, he always has. Man like ahh man,

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He always has, he always has. So I'm gonna say
this one more time. Be patient with yourself because you
are a work in progress. And again, do not let society,
the internet, or anything else try to rush you into
something that is still being developed. Keep your faith, continue

(09:49):
to trust in God. Trust He's already made a promise. Again,
you just have to get to it. You just have
to get to the promise versus seeing what somebody else
is doing. Now you you gotta get to your promise.
It's out there. It's out there, and it's waiting one
for you. Your life, that that life, that lifestyle, that

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that thing that it that you're trying to obtain before
you leave this Earth is waiting for you, and it's
really waiting for you to stop looking at everybody else
and stop focusing I'm sorry, and start to focus on you.
That's what it's waiting for. It's waiting for you to
stop looking at everything and everyone else and start focusing

(10:33):
on you. Thank you, guys, so very much for continuing
to tune in to this platform, continuing to tune in
to this brand, continuing to tune in he wrotes. Thank you,
thank you, thank you, thank you. Until next time, you, guys,
until next time. I definitely hope that this word gets

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you through your week. I hope this word continues to
elevate you and move you and and just just get
you into the right mindset of finding that bitter version
of yourself. All I can do is continue to say
thank you, very grateful, continue to be great. Let them
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