“Don’t Give Up Your Blessing” ep89 (season 2)

Ayooooo Heros let’s talk giving up vs giving in!!!!

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:03):
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Speaker 1 (02:20):
Ao Ao Ao? What Up?

Speaker 2 (02:23):
Heroes? And Welcome back to yet another episode of a
Hated Heroes podcast where people hate to love us and
love to hate us. And of course I'm your host.
I'm your host. LB L. Capitone he himself in Look
you may be having a fast day. You may be
having a slow day, but either way it goes.

Speaker 1 (02:42):
It's your day.

Speaker 2 (02:43):
It's your day, so please please make the most of it.
And if this is your first time, if this just
so happens to be your first time tuning into the
Hated Heroes podcast, we have a slight disclaimer that we'd
like to get out of the way. Okay, just make
sure you remain on the same page. Okay, Sensitivity does

(03:05):
not live here, but understanding does. Once again, sensitivity does
not live here, but understanding does. Heroes and he Rats,
he rose and he rats. Listen. If you don't think
that that's that it's me that you're that you're listening

(03:27):
to right now. If you don't think that this is
LB that you're listening to right now, that's because I
got something crazy going on, something crazy going on with
my sinuses, slash my throat, like I don't know in
my ear, hurts like it's I don't know what's going on.
I don't know what's going on. Feels like I'm losing
my voice, feel like I have like there's this there's

(03:48):
a lot going on right now. There's a lot going on.
It's I don't like it. I don't care for it.
I don't care for it at all.

Speaker 1 (03:56):
Guys.

Speaker 2 (03:56):
I refuse to give up. I refuse to give up.
I refuse to just continue like, ah, you know what
I'm I'm I'll just wait another week and wait till
my voice is stronger to do the podcast. I just
wait another week to wait till my voice is strong,
wait till I'm stronger to go ahead and and and
be me, put myself out there, encourage the people. I'll

(04:20):
just I'll just wait. No, no, I couldn't. I couldn't
wait any longer, could wait any longer. So you guys
are gonna bear with me until this is over with
You guys are gonna bear with me. I just today's
message about giving in versus giving up, giving in versus
giving up and no, no, it's it's not gonna be long.

(04:40):
I'm not gonna hold y'all long. I'm not gonna hold
y'all long, Okay, giving in versus giving up. Giving in
means that that you if you fully understood or you
fully understand, Okay, you fully well, you might not. Maybe

(05:02):
you don't fully understand, but you have you've grabbed some
type of understanding of the situation, okay, and you have
now realized that you need to work with the situation
versus working against the situation. Okay, And then that's that's
giving in. You're working with the situation. And eventually you're

(05:23):
gonna be able to build yourself out of the situation.
You're gonna be able to climb yourself up out of
the situation. You're gonna be able to to to gain enough,
to gain enough of what it is that you need
to make it up out of the situation. Because you
gave in, but you didn't give up. Giving up means
that you're just completely You're you're done.

Speaker 1 (05:42):
You're done.

Speaker 2 (05:43):
You gave something to try, and now you're done. You know,
you don't feel like anymore. Giving up usually gives birth
to regret. I'ma say that one more time. When you
when you give up, that usually gives birth to regret.
And it might not be regret right now, it might
not be regret tomorrow, But the regret it's it's it's
in you and it will come out at some time,

(06:04):
at some point in your future. The regret will come
once you give up. Because when you give up, that
means that you're you're done.

Speaker 1 (06:10):
Trying.

Speaker 2 (06:11):
You're done trying. You're you're done trying to do better.
You're you're done growing, You're you're done expanding, You've you've
given up, and you're you're over it. You're over it.
That's not beneficial. It may seem beneficial because the frustrations
that that you no longer have to deal with, the
tug of war that you no longer have to deal with.

Speaker 1 (06:33):
The the the the.

Speaker 2 (06:35):
Feeling overwhelmed that you no longer have to deal with.
So just giving up may seem easier. But regret is horrible.
Regret causes misery, and and when you give up, you're
literally planting the seeds of regret and misery. Okay, I'm
just letting you know that, because there's things that you're

(06:56):
gonna miss out on that you you were just right there,
Like if you would have just stayed at whatever it
is that you were doing, if you just stayed at
it for a few more days or a few more weeks,
or just a few more months, or or even just
you might not want to hear this, but even a
few more years, if you would have just stayed at
it and just continue to chip away and chip away,
and and and and and and beat away at it

(07:18):
and not give up, and not listen to the negativity,
and not deal with people's nonsense, and and just and
just continue to believe in yourself and and have a
great relationship with God, your own personal relationship with God.
If you just continue to go, you would have leveled up.
You would have leveled up at at some point in time,
you would have leveled up. You would have started to

(07:40):
obtain the things that you were going for. But instead
you gave up, and and and and and let's really
break down just just you gave up, meaning that you
gave up whatever good was coming your way. You gave
up on whatever benefits you might have received, You gave

(08:01):
up whatever blessings were entitled for you. You gave up
on yourself. You gave up. Okay, it's like pretty much
like if you were if this were in sports. Everybody
in sports, you want to be the number one person,
the starter person. You want to be the starter. You
want to start the games. You want to be the

(08:22):
person that people look at. You want to be the starter.
That's what you want to be. That's what you want
to be. Okay, So when you give up, when you
give up you're basically saying that I don't want to
be the starter. I don't want to lead anything. I
don't want to be at the top of my game.

(08:45):
I'm done with that. I'd much rather give that to
somebody else. Okay, I'm gonna give that up to somebody else.

Speaker 1 (08:53):
I'm done.

Speaker 2 (08:54):
I'm gonna go over here, and I'm gonna again just
start building up this regret and misery slowly but surely,
while I still have to pay attention to people not
giving up. I still have to pay attention to people
not giving in because I don't just get to disappear
from it all. It's still gonna be there. There's still
gonna be evidence of people that didn't give up and
people that actually took what I gave. There's gonna be

(09:15):
evidence of people that took what it was that I gave,
and that I have nobody to blame but myself. I
have nobody to blame but myself because I'm the one
that gave it up. I'm the one that didn't want
to go through it. I'm the person that that just
refused to deal with everything. It's gonna I'm telling you,

(09:36):
it's gonna cause misery and regret, and that's horrible. That's
a horrible way to live on this earth. That's a
horrible way to live, live out life, live out days.
It's a horrible way when really all you have to
do is just give in, give in, understand that, Okay,
this is what it's gonna take. Rather it be with
social media, since everybody understands the whole social media thing,

(09:58):
it's gonna take you putting out the right type of content,
which means just a good quality content, clear content, content
with the message, content that fits your niche, content that
that that it's going to help people. Mostly as long
as it's helping people, that's where you're gonna grow. So
it's gonna take you to constantly be there for people,

(10:21):
constantly be present, giving in to what it is that
you have to do. It's not gonna be the way
that you see it. It's not gonna be. You can't
lead life off your own site. You just can't do it.
It doesn't work that way. And if you feel like
it works that way, then you're going to how can
I put this? You're gonna reap what you sew and

(10:41):
it's not gonna be in a good way. I'm gonna
say that one more time. You're gonna reap what you
sew and it's not in a good way. So if
you want to see things by your own site, then
you're going to reap exactly what you sew and everything's
gonna catch up with you. E've beentually things that the random,
weird things are gonna start happening. Okay, Uh, always gonna
find yourself around somebody with bad energy, or people that

(11:03):
you can't trust, or or there's always gonna be some random,
some random thing going on. That's literally because you are
leading by your own site, you are are doing things
on your own, You're you're you're not doing what you
were called to do. Okay, period, And even if you're
making money at going to opposite direction, even if you're

(11:24):
you're finding yourself to be famous going to opposite direction,
your life one hundred percent is not going in the
exact way that it should be going in. I promise
you that you're not in the type of peace that
you could be in. I promise you that that you're
you're not moving around the way that you could be
able to move around. You have situations going on that

(11:46):
that you feel like, why does this continue to happen
to me. It's because you're not doing things the right way.
You're leading your life by your own site versus God's side.
You you you've gave up on when something the quote
unquote hard way to do it your way. Okay, that's
what you did, So give in, put in the work.

(12:10):
You will see the results. It's gonna take time. Just
don't give up. Don't give up your blessings. How about
I say that, don't give up your blessings. That's gonna
be the title of this podcast. I'm sorry of this episode.
My apologizz told it. I don't feel well, but I'm
still delivering. I'm still hitting. I'm still hitting. I'm still hitting, baby,

(12:32):
I'm still hitting, y'all. I can't stress enough again, don't
give up your blessings to lead life based on your
own site, based on based on you don't don't again.
I want to thank everybody for continuing to tune in.
Told y'all wasn't gonna hold y'all along. I'm gonna go

(12:54):
in and I'm gonna try and get this better. I'm
gonna try and get this better. Whatever it is, I'm
gonna try and get this better until next time, y'all
be great. Let 'em hate, let's go God,