June 8, 2025 • 19 mins
What up Heros! Join us on this ep as we eliminate the thief of Joy….😤
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Speaker 1 (00:02):
Ao ao Ao, What up, everybody. Look, today's podcast is
being sponsored by the good people over at ben hated
dot Com. Again, the good people over at ben hated
dot com. Yeah, that's a play on words. B E
N h A I T E D. Ben hated stands
for anybody that's trying to better themselves against the hate
(00:25):
of society. If you got haters, they got you. These
guys have beanies, hoodies, T shirts, sweatshirt units, scarves. My goodness,
I heard they got kids apparel on the way. Again,
that is ben hated dot Com. Look you out there
moving and grooving like you say you are. You out
there hustling and all about your business like you say
(00:47):
you are. I'm pretty sure you got haters, because I know,
I do. I know I do. Check out ben hated
dot com. Ladies, jentlemen, that it is ben hated dot com.
Speaker 2 (00:59):
Hey, what heroes?
Speaker 1 (01:00):
What up?
Speaker 2 (01:01):
What up? What up?
Speaker 1 (01:01):
Look guys, we have a brand new book that we're
about to talk about for you, guys, a brand new book,
And I'm talking about a book that if you are
in love with service vehicles, I'm talking about ambulances, I'm
talking about excavators, I'm talking about trash trucks. I'm talking
about you, guys, even school buses. This book, this book,
(01:22):
trash Truck, trash Truck, What do you See is by
far the best book out right now, okay, right now.
If you have anyone in your life that loves service vehicles,
that loves to see people helping people, things going on
in the community, and just gets excited about that type
of thing, trash truck, trash truck, What do you See
(01:44):
is the perfect gift. Okay, Now, we're talking about large
font that helps you read. It's perfect for bedtime stories,
it's perfect for interactive reading, it's perfect for just honestly, anyone,
anyone that love service vehicles. There's all types of equality
(02:04):
being shown in this book. There's all types of of
just different services that are being produced in this book.
Trash Truck, trash Truck. What do you see on Amazon
dot Com? You guys, go check it out?
Speaker 2 (02:18):
Ao Ao Ao? What up? Heroes?
Speaker 1 (02:22):
And welcome back to yet another episode of the Hated
Heroes podcast where people hate to love us, love to
hate us, And of course I'm your host LB L
Capitne he himself and look, look, you may be having
a slow day. You may be having a fast day.
But either way it goes, it's your day. It's your day,
(02:43):
so please please make the most of it. And if
it's your first time tuning in to the Hated Heroes podcast,
if this is your first time, we have a slight
disclaimer that we like to get out the way. We
like to make sure that people are on the same page. Okay,
that's what we like to make sure people are on
the same understanding. Okay, And what we like to do
(03:03):
is wait and get up. The disclaimer and the disclaimer
is sensitivity does not live here, but understanding does. Once again,
sensitivity does not live here, but understanding does, ladies.
Speaker 2 (03:21):
And gentlemen, heroes and he rents. Is that even the thing?
Speaker 1 (03:26):
It is going to be a thing because I just
said it. What a week, man, what a week?
Speaker 2 (03:32):
Like?
Speaker 1 (03:32):
So this is what this is why I'm thankful when
we come to the close of another week, because it
always seems to end on a positive note. It always
seems to end on on on on some happiness, something joyful,
something beneficial. Okay, So so that that's what again, this
energy is this whole week, no matter what's going on,
(03:55):
no matter what didn't go right, no matter what, what
all fell apart, no matter what didn't come through like
it was supposed to come through, other things did, other
things did work out, Lessons were learned, things were gained, Happiness.
Speaker 2 (04:14):
Was felt, joy was felt experienced. However you want to
put it.
Speaker 1 (04:19):
No matter again, no matter what went on, no matter,
no matter what, the tug of war, because I mean
every week is like a little bit of a tug
of war. Tug of war is like it's like a
give and take. It's a give and take every single week.
But hopefully, hopefully, especially listening to this podcast, man, I
hope and I pray that on that give and take
(04:42):
tug of war, I hope the things that you have
given allow you to take away the positive things that
happened over your week. Just to take away the positive
things that have happened over the week.
Speaker 2 (05:00):
That's what I hope and pray for you.
Speaker 1 (05:02):
Okay, what I like to talk to you guys about
on today is you know, because then we're still.
Speaker 2 (05:08):
In a series of you. We're still in the series
of you that that's gonna.
Speaker 1 (05:10):
Probably go on for actually know what, I'm not gonna
give it a time spend. It's gonna go on until
it doesn't need to go on.
Speaker 2 (05:16):
Okay, the power of you.
Speaker 1 (05:20):
Okay, So we touched on it a little bit, a
little bit not too long ago, about the whole comparison aspect,
the comparison aspect, and so I want to go a
little bit broader with the comparison aspect, not just want
to drop some I just want to drop some things
on you guys. So all all my life, okay, all
(05:42):
my life, it's been preached to me, and it is
and it's come across also just just to me just
my personal experiences that you know, the whole comparison thing
is really just in in one in one culture, just
in one culture. The whole comparison thing is just in
in one type of entertainment, just just one the whole
comparison thing. And it's not like over these actually over
(06:06):
the like almost the last six to seven months, the
more and more that I dig off into YouTube and
the more and more I experience different channels on YouTube,
I continue to see certain things in the whole comparison
aspect that is so deadly and so toxic. Comparison is
so deadly and so toxic. It can take something that's
(06:28):
positive and truly just make it negative, make it worthless,
make it make it unattractive.
Speaker 2 (06:35):
That's what I'm gonna say.
Speaker 1 (06:36):
Comparison makes things unattractive when it's not used in a
beneficial way. When it's not used in a positive way,
Comparison is by far the most unattractive thing you can do.
And I'm gonna go ahead and let you guys know
what it is I'm talking about. I'm talking about in religion.
I'm talking about in religion.
Speaker 2 (06:55):
So a lot of.
Speaker 1 (06:56):
People shun away from church because they don't trust it.
A lot of people, uh, shune away from church because
it's just it's not as joyful as it comes across.
People are coming across a little hypocritical, Okay. So there's
a lot of negativity surrounding churches to why people are
really not fooling with church.
Speaker 2 (07:15):
That's why. So I mean, don't say it's something going.
Speaker 1 (07:17):
On in the world and all this that, and no,
it's literally the church that's making the church unattractive. It's
people in the church that are making the church unattractive, Okay,
And they're doing that by comparison. Look, if somebody is
giving you a positive message, I don't care if their
hair is purple, pink, black, if they ain't even got
(07:39):
no hair. If they're giving you a positive message, that's
the only thing you usuld to take away from a situation,
the positive message. That was the gift that they were
bringing to you. If you are stuck in the way
that the gift is in the presentation of the gift,
the presentation of the message. That's why people say, oh,
(08:00):
you gotta you gotta dress up in a three piece
suit with a tie, and you gotta look a certain
way to give me business information, to give me some
type of business advice. You gotta man whatever, whatever. I
don't care what you're wearing. If I want to respect you,
I'm gonna respect you.
Speaker 3 (08:16):
If I don't want to respect you, I don't care
what you got on, I don't care what your background is.
Speaker 1 (08:21):
I don't that does not matter. I'm gonna go off
of your energy. That's what I'm gonna go off of.
I don't care what you pull up in. I don't
care where you live, I don't care where you went
to school. I don't care how many doctorates you have.
None of that Like when I tell you that none
of that matters to me.
Speaker 3 (08:37):
None of that matters to me. Bruh, None of that matters.
None of that matters. What is your energy like? And
are you providing me some positivity? Are you providing me
something that's gonna help me? Is that what you're doing?
Speaker 2 (08:52):
Okay?
Speaker 1 (08:52):
Well, I could care less about the presentation. Well, Unfortunately, unfortunately,
when it comes to religion, people want to compare what
the pastors look like. People want to compare how the
pastors are giving out their message. I'm gonna tell y'all
one more time. If somebody is giving you some positive energy,
(09:15):
if somebody is giving you some beneficial information, if somebody
is taking the time out to find a way to
try to relate to you, relate to the current times.
Speaker 2 (09:27):
I suggest that's where you go. I suggest that's who
you fall for.
Speaker 1 (09:31):
I suggest that's that's where you put your focus at
everything else, man, y'all listen, Church used to be so traumatic,
so much trauma surrounded with church, so much trauma surrounded
with religion so much, so much. A pastor has to
look a certain way, church has to perform a certain way.
(09:52):
Things have to be a certain way, Everything has to
be a certain way. Then that's if that's your thing. Awesome,
let that be your thing. But please, don't knock somebody.
Do not knock somebody who doesn't have the traditional way
of learning church, who doesn't have the traditional heart, the
traditional heart around church, who doesn't have the traditional mindsets
(10:14):
around church. Don't don't stop judging that man. You're supposed
You're supposed to be a Christian. We are supposed to
be leading by example. I mean now, we're not supposed
to be the most judgmental people in the world, and unfortunately,
Christians are the most judgmental people in the world.
Speaker 2 (10:28):
Make that make sense. Make that make sense. Come as
you are.
Speaker 1 (10:34):
That's the biggest, strongest message that church provides out to people.
Speaker 2 (10:39):
Come as you are. Then you come as you are
and people are talking about you. Make that make sense.
Speaker 3 (10:46):
You come as you are and people are talking about you.
You you preach your natural way of preaching and people
are talking about you.
Speaker 2 (10:55):
That just goes.
Speaker 1 (10:55):
Let y'all know, just like I said before, if they
headed on Jesus, what do you think they'll do to you.
Maybe listen, y'all have Christians talking negative about other Christians
and then call themselves godly. Get out of here, dude,
Get out of here with that nonsense. Get out of
here with that nonsense. No, don't fall for that, don't
(11:17):
fall for that, Do not fall. It's almost like a
pastor's out there preaching you positivity. Are positivity preaching to
you about how not to judge people, preaching to you
about having to.
Speaker 2 (11:29):
Live right in that same exact pastor.
Speaker 1 (11:32):
It's not they're talking negative about the church that's next
door because because they're because they're not in the same church.
Talk about the pastor next door, because that pastor don't
look like he looks.
Speaker 3 (11:42):
Talk about the congregation across the street because the congregation don't.
Speaker 1 (11:46):
Look away that this pastor's congregation looks. Man, y'all are silly.
Y'all are silly. That is nonsense. Get you somewhere where
you're gonna get a positive message, where you're gonna be
able to feel comfortable receiving the positive message.
Speaker 2 (12:02):
And you're trying to grow closer to God in your
own way. Get somewhere will where they will allow you.
Speaker 1 (12:09):
To get closer to God in your own way, where
you can get to religion in your own way, versus
being told you're supposed to do this, you're supposed to
pray like this you're supposed to wear this, You're supposed
to stand like this, You're supposed to you're supposed to
all that you're supposed to do. Man, No, that's that's trauma.
Those people are traumatized. Those people do not know what
(12:32):
else to do if they don't see things a certain way. Okay,
stay away from those people. Stay away from people that
think stuff has to be a certain way in order
to receive it. Stay away from that, like like, like
that is the biggest hindrance that's going to be in
your life.
Speaker 2 (12:47):
Stay away from that that. Just stay away from that. Okay.
Speaker 1 (12:51):
Tradition is not always it. We have plenty of things
that are traditional that are negative, and in certain cultures,
we have plenty of things that that that considered the
norm that again do not work with everybody. Okay, And
right now, what the world.
Speaker 2 (13:07):
Needs is for as many people as possible to.
Speaker 1 (13:11):
Come together to feel more encouragement, to feel more positivity,
to feel like we're actually getting ahead again, versus.
Speaker 2 (13:21):
More people feeling lost.
Speaker 1 (13:22):
Man, More people afraid to talk about God, more people
afraid to say that they want to know God, more
people afraid to do things.
Speaker 2 (13:28):
Man.
Speaker 1 (13:28):
People are more in fear of doing things, and we're
letting the system control us. We're letting, unfortunately, we're letting
certain religions control us. Like there's so much control out
there it's ridiculous, and there's more of us than there
are of them. So I'm guessing what it's gonna take
is just more leaders, more leaders. I don't mind taking
(13:50):
on this role. I don't mind taking on the If
I'm gonna be looked at as the bad guy because
I'm telling you not to go.
Speaker 2 (13:55):
On tradition, well then so be it, man, So be it.
Speaker 1 (13:58):
If me being the bad guy is gonna lead to
you feeling free, lead to you feeling not so much,
I don't wanna say oppressed, feeling like you're under a
rock and you can only consume what you're told to consume,
and you can only be how you're told to be.
Speaker 3 (14:16):
I'm not with that.
Speaker 1 (14:17):
So if I'm gonna be the bad guy that tells
you to ignore that nonsense and to go the opposite direction,
will then so be it.
Speaker 2 (14:23):
I'll be that guy. I'll be that guy because again, it's.
Speaker 1 (14:26):
More important I refuse to just continue to let the
world go the way that it's going, knowing what I
know I refuse to let the world continue to go
the way that it's doing, experiencing the things that I've
experienced in life, and and and and overcoming the things
that I've overcome. Okay, I refuse. I refuse. It's not
(14:49):
gonna happen. And I'm not gonna let people fail. I'm
not gonna let people continue to let years pass by,
weeks pass by, months past by days past. I'm not
gonna continue to let life passed people by when there's
much more life that people can be living. Okay, but
yet they're up here worried, worried about standards. They're up
(15:11):
here worried about god lea tradition, Okay, an outdated tradition.
People setup are still wanting you to abide by how
people lived thousands of years ago.
Speaker 2 (15:23):
That ain't that ain't reality. That ain't it. That ain't
it that? That ain't it, y'all, That ain't it.
Speaker 1 (15:29):
So here's to the heroes that get up every single day,
every single day.
Speaker 2 (15:38):
Here's to you, guys. You battle the nonsense.
Speaker 1 (15:42):
You continue to go to your jobs, you continue to
to listen to stuff that's on the TVs. You continue
to deal with the nonsense as being in the music.
You continue to just experience the world the way that
it is. But yet you don't break. You don't break.
Speaker 2 (15:58):
So here's to you. That's why you're my hero. That's
why we're all heroes. Because to make it in this current.
Speaker 1 (16:06):
World, this current world, to make it, you got to
have a completely different type of skin, a completely different
type of mindset, a completely different type of heart, a
completely different type of way of just living. You got
to have a different way of living in tradition. I mean,
if you want to build off of that, or if
you want to use tradition as what not to do.
Speaker 2 (16:29):
That's what I suggest you do. Use tradition so that
you can learn what not to do. That's what tradition
is good for, to learn what not to do. That's
what it's good for. That's what it's good for.
Speaker 1 (16:41):
So be yourself, because the power of you is more
powerful than anything else.
Speaker 2 (16:47):
So be yourself. Please, please, please, please make.
Speaker 1 (16:53):
Sure that you're not comparing how you're living or how
somebody else is living, or how somebody else else is learning,
or how somebody else is growing. Leave that comparison stuff alone, man,
leave it alone. It's not beneficial. It's not beneficial. It
doesn't let you allow comparison, doesn't allow you to gauge
(17:16):
where you're at in life. Gauging where you're at in
life comes from your growth. Okay, that's how you can
gauge where you're at in life. Things that don't make
you mad, that used to make you mad, you don't
need to compare.
Speaker 2 (17:27):
Just that's you.
Speaker 1 (17:29):
That, that's your personal journey. Oh you don't get mad
at those things no more. It's not because you don't care.
It's because you learned. Okay, you don't need comparison with that.
You don't need comparison with that. Oh, you used to
drive this type of car. Now you're driving something a
little bit better. You don't need to compare what somebody
else is driving. You just did that. You got that done. Dude,
you're winning on your own. You used to weigh a
(17:52):
certain weight, Now you weigh this way. You don't need
to compare. You don't need to compare. You don't need
no ashton holes like you don't. You don't need to compare.
You don't need to compare at all. You're get with God, okay,
get with God. Get in your quiet space, Get to
(18:12):
your purpose. Eliminate comparison, so we can go ahead and
conquer these days, Conquer these weeks, conquer these months, conquer
these years. Let let's eliminate the comparison. Eliminate the comparison. Okay,
I appreciate it. Look, you know, I told y'all, I
(18:33):
told y'all, sensitivity does not live here, but understanding does.
I truly hope y'all understand that I am here one
hundred percent for y'all, one hundred percent for y'all, and
by me being here for y'all, I'm also being here
for myself. We're working and growing together, y'all. We're working
and growing together only if you allow it, only if
(18:55):
you allow it. I hope you found joy in this podcast.
I hope you found ubstance in today's episode. I hope
you found something in today's episode. As always, I appreciate y'all.
I appreciate all the shares, the comments, I appreciate everything.
I appreciate it all. We're continuing to.
Speaker 2 (19:14):
Go, y'all.
Speaker 1 (19:15):
It's happening. Man, it's happening. It's been happening. I'm prayed up.
I hope you are too. Now, y'all be great. Let
them make
Ao ao Ao, What up, everybody. Look, today's podcast is
being sponsored by the good people over at ben hated
dot Com. Again, the good people over at ben hated
dot com. Yeah, that's a play on words. B E
N h A I T E D. Ben hated stands
for anybody that's trying to better themselves against the hate
(00:25):
of society. If you got haters, they got you. These
guys have beanies, hoodies, T shirts, sweatshirt units, scarves. My goodness,
I heard they got kids apparel on the way. Again,
that is ben hated dot Com. Look you out there
moving and grooving like you say you are. You out
there hustling and all about your business like you say
(00:47):
you are. I'm pretty sure you got haters, because I know,
I do. I know I do. Check out ben hated
dot com. Ladies, jentlemen, that it is ben hated dot com.
Speaker 2 (00:59):
Hey, what heroes?
Speaker 1 (01:00):
What up?
Speaker 2 (01:01):
What up? What up?
Speaker 1 (01:01):
Look guys, we have a brand new book that we're
about to talk about for you, guys, a brand new book,
And I'm talking about a book that if you are
in love with service vehicles, I'm talking about ambulances, I'm
talking about excavators, I'm talking about trash trucks. I'm talking
about you, guys, even school buses. This book, this book,
(01:22):
trash Truck, trash Truck, What do you See is by
far the best book out right now, okay, right now.
If you have anyone in your life that loves service vehicles,
that loves to see people helping people, things going on
in the community, and just gets excited about that type
of thing, trash truck, trash truck, What do you See
(01:44):
is the perfect gift. Okay, Now, we're talking about large
font that helps you read. It's perfect for bedtime stories,
it's perfect for interactive reading, it's perfect for just honestly, anyone,
anyone that love service vehicles. There's all types of equality
(02:04):
being shown in this book. There's all types of of
just different services that are being produced in this book.
Trash Truck, trash Truck. What do you see on Amazon
dot Com? You guys, go check it out?
Speaker 2 (02:18):
Ao Ao Ao? What up? Heroes?
Speaker 1 (02:22):
And welcome back to yet another episode of the Hated
Heroes podcast where people hate to love us, love to
hate us, And of course I'm your host LB L
Capitne he himself and look, look, you may be having
a slow day. You may be having a fast day.
But either way it goes, it's your day. It's your day,
(02:43):
so please please make the most of it. And if
it's your first time tuning in to the Hated Heroes podcast,
if this is your first time, we have a slight
disclaimer that we like to get out the way. We
like to make sure that people are on the same page. Okay,
that's what we like to make sure people are on
the same understanding. Okay, And what we like to do
(03:03):
is wait and get up. The disclaimer and the disclaimer
is sensitivity does not live here, but understanding does. Once again,
sensitivity does not live here, but understanding does, ladies.
Speaker 2 (03:21):
And gentlemen, heroes and he rents. Is that even the thing?
Speaker 1 (03:26):
It is going to be a thing because I just
said it. What a week, man, what a week?
Speaker 2 (03:32):
Like?
Speaker 1 (03:32):
So this is what this is why I'm thankful when
we come to the close of another week, because it
always seems to end on a positive note. It always
seems to end on on on on some happiness, something joyful,
something beneficial. Okay, So so that that's what again, this
energy is this whole week, no matter what's going on,
(03:55):
no matter what didn't go right, no matter what, what
all fell apart, no matter what didn't come through like
it was supposed to come through, other things did, other
things did work out, Lessons were learned, things were gained, Happiness.
Speaker 2 (04:14):
Was felt, joy was felt experienced. However you want to
put it.
Speaker 1 (04:19):
No matter again, no matter what went on, no matter,
no matter what, the tug of war, because I mean
every week is like a little bit of a tug
of war. Tug of war is like it's like a
give and take. It's a give and take every single week.
But hopefully, hopefully, especially listening to this podcast, man, I
hope and I pray that on that give and take
(04:42):
tug of war, I hope the things that you have
given allow you to take away the positive things that
happened over your week. Just to take away the positive
things that have happened over the week.
Speaker 2 (05:00):
That's what I hope and pray for you.
Speaker 1 (05:02):
Okay, what I like to talk to you guys about
on today is you know, because then we're still.
Speaker 2 (05:08):
In a series of you. We're still in the series
of you that that's gonna.
Speaker 1 (05:10):
Probably go on for actually know what, I'm not gonna
give it a time spend. It's gonna go on until
it doesn't need to go on.
Speaker 2 (05:16):
Okay, the power of you.
Speaker 1 (05:20):
Okay, So we touched on it a little bit, a
little bit not too long ago, about the whole comparison aspect,
the comparison aspect, and so I want to go a
little bit broader with the comparison aspect, not just want
to drop some I just want to drop some things
on you guys. So all all my life, okay, all
(05:42):
my life, it's been preached to me, and it is
and it's come across also just just to me just
my personal experiences that you know, the whole comparison thing
is really just in in one in one culture, just
in one culture. The whole comparison thing is just in
in one type of entertainment, just just one the whole
comparison thing. And it's not like over these actually over
(06:06):
the like almost the last six to seven months, the
more and more that I dig off into YouTube and
the more and more I experience different channels on YouTube,
I continue to see certain things in the whole comparison
aspect that is so deadly and so toxic. Comparison is
so deadly and so toxic. It can take something that's
(06:28):
positive and truly just make it negative, make it worthless,
make it make it unattractive.
Speaker 2 (06:35):
That's what I'm gonna say.
Speaker 1 (06:36):
Comparison makes things unattractive when it's not used in a
beneficial way. When it's not used in a positive way,
Comparison is by far the most unattractive thing you can do.
And I'm gonna go ahead and let you guys know
what it is I'm talking about. I'm talking about in religion.
I'm talking about in religion.
Speaker 2 (06:55):
So a lot of.
Speaker 1 (06:56):
People shun away from church because they don't trust it.
A lot of people, uh, shune away from church because
it's just it's not as joyful as it comes across.
People are coming across a little hypocritical, Okay. So there's
a lot of negativity surrounding churches to why people are
really not fooling with church.
Speaker 2 (07:15):
That's why. So I mean, don't say it's something going.
Speaker 1 (07:17):
On in the world and all this that, and no,
it's literally the church that's making the church unattractive. It's
people in the church that are making the church unattractive, Okay,
And they're doing that by comparison. Look, if somebody is
giving you a positive message, I don't care if their
hair is purple, pink, black, if they ain't even got
(07:39):
no hair. If they're giving you a positive message, that's
the only thing you usuld to take away from a situation,
the positive message. That was the gift that they were
bringing to you. If you are stuck in the way
that the gift is in the presentation of the gift,
the presentation of the message. That's why people say, oh,
(08:00):
you gotta you gotta dress up in a three piece
suit with a tie, and you gotta look a certain
way to give me business information, to give me some
type of business advice. You gotta man whatever, whatever. I
don't care what you're wearing. If I want to respect you,
I'm gonna respect you.
Speaker 3 (08:16):
If I don't want to respect you, I don't care
what you got on, I don't care what your background is.
Speaker 1 (08:21):
I don't that does not matter. I'm gonna go off
of your energy. That's what I'm gonna go off of.
I don't care what you pull up in. I don't
care where you live, I don't care where you went
to school. I don't care how many doctorates you have.
None of that Like when I tell you that none
of that matters to me.
Speaker 3 (08:37):
None of that matters to me. Bruh, None of that matters.
None of that matters. What is your energy like? And
are you providing me some positivity? Are you providing me
something that's gonna help me? Is that what you're doing?
Speaker 2 (08:52):
Okay?
Speaker 1 (08:52):
Well, I could care less about the presentation. Well, Unfortunately, unfortunately,
when it comes to religion, people want to compare what
the pastors look like. People want to compare how the
pastors are giving out their message. I'm gonna tell y'all
one more time. If somebody is giving you some positive energy,
(09:15):
if somebody is giving you some beneficial information, if somebody
is taking the time out to find a way to
try to relate to you, relate to the current times.
Speaker 2 (09:27):
I suggest that's where you go. I suggest that's who
you fall for.
Speaker 1 (09:31):
I suggest that's that's where you put your focus at
everything else, man, y'all listen, Church used to be so traumatic,
so much trauma surrounded with church, so much trauma surrounded
with religion so much, so much. A pastor has to
look a certain way, church has to perform a certain way.
(09:52):
Things have to be a certain way, Everything has to
be a certain way. Then that's if that's your thing. Awesome,
let that be your thing. But please, don't knock somebody.
Do not knock somebody who doesn't have the traditional way
of learning church, who doesn't have the traditional heart, the
traditional heart around church, who doesn't have the traditional mindsets
(10:14):
around church. Don't don't stop judging that man. You're supposed
You're supposed to be a Christian. We are supposed to
be leading by example. I mean now, we're not supposed
to be the most judgmental people in the world, and unfortunately,
Christians are the most judgmental people in the world.
Speaker 2 (10:28):
Make that make sense. Make that make sense. Come as
you are.
Speaker 1 (10:34):
That's the biggest, strongest message that church provides out to people.
Speaker 2 (10:39):
Come as you are. Then you come as you are
and people are talking about you. Make that make sense.
Speaker 3 (10:46):
You come as you are and people are talking about you.
You you preach your natural way of preaching and people
are talking about you.
Speaker 2 (10:55):
That just goes.
Speaker 1 (10:55):
Let y'all know, just like I said before, if they
headed on Jesus, what do you think they'll do to you.
Maybe listen, y'all have Christians talking negative about other Christians
and then call themselves godly. Get out of here, dude,
Get out of here with that nonsense. Get out of
here with that nonsense. No, don't fall for that, don't
(11:17):
fall for that, Do not fall. It's almost like a
pastor's out there preaching you positivity. Are positivity preaching to
you about how not to judge people, preaching to you
about having to.
Speaker 2 (11:29):
Live right in that same exact pastor.
Speaker 1 (11:32):
It's not they're talking negative about the church that's next
door because because they're because they're not in the same church.
Talk about the pastor next door, because that pastor don't
look like he looks.
Speaker 3 (11:42):
Talk about the congregation across the street because the congregation don't.
Speaker 1 (11:46):
Look away that this pastor's congregation looks. Man, y'all are silly.
Y'all are silly. That is nonsense. Get you somewhere where
you're gonna get a positive message, where you're gonna be
able to feel comfortable receiving the positive message.
Speaker 2 (12:02):
And you're trying to grow closer to God in your
own way. Get somewhere will where they will allow you.
Speaker 1 (12:09):
To get closer to God in your own way, where
you can get to religion in your own way, versus
being told you're supposed to do this, you're supposed to
pray like this you're supposed to wear this, You're supposed
to stand like this, You're supposed to you're supposed to
all that you're supposed to do. Man, No, that's that's trauma.
Those people are traumatized. Those people do not know what
(12:32):
else to do if they don't see things a certain way. Okay,
stay away from those people. Stay away from people that
think stuff has to be a certain way in order
to receive it. Stay away from that, like like, like
that is the biggest hindrance that's going to be in
your life.
Speaker 2 (12:47):
Stay away from that that. Just stay away from that. Okay.
Speaker 1 (12:51):
Tradition is not always it. We have plenty of things
that are traditional that are negative, and in certain cultures,
we have plenty of things that that that considered the
norm that again do not work with everybody. Okay, And
right now, what the world.
Speaker 2 (13:07):
Needs is for as many people as possible to.
Speaker 1 (13:11):
Come together to feel more encouragement, to feel more positivity,
to feel like we're actually getting ahead again, versus.
Speaker 2 (13:21):
More people feeling lost.
Speaker 1 (13:22):
Man, More people afraid to talk about God, more people
afraid to say that they want to know God, more
people afraid to do things.
Speaker 2 (13:28):
Man.
Speaker 1 (13:28):
People are more in fear of doing things, and we're
letting the system control us. We're letting, unfortunately, we're letting
certain religions control us. Like there's so much control out
there it's ridiculous, and there's more of us than there
are of them. So I'm guessing what it's gonna take
is just more leaders, more leaders. I don't mind taking
(13:50):
on this role. I don't mind taking on the If
I'm gonna be looked at as the bad guy because
I'm telling you not to go.
Speaker 2 (13:55):
On tradition, well then so be it, man, So be it.
Speaker 1 (13:58):
If me being the bad guy is gonna lead to
you feeling free, lead to you feeling not so much,
I don't wanna say oppressed, feeling like you're under a
rock and you can only consume what you're told to consume,
and you can only be how you're told to be.
Speaker 3 (14:16):
I'm not with that.
Speaker 1 (14:17):
So if I'm gonna be the bad guy that tells
you to ignore that nonsense and to go the opposite direction,
will then so be it.
Speaker 2 (14:23):
I'll be that guy. I'll be that guy because again, it's.
Speaker 1 (14:26):
More important I refuse to just continue to let the
world go the way that it's going, knowing what I
know I refuse to let the world continue to go
the way that it's doing, experiencing the things that I've
experienced in life, and and and and overcoming the things
that I've overcome. Okay, I refuse. I refuse. It's not
(14:49):
gonna happen. And I'm not gonna let people fail. I'm
not gonna let people continue to let years pass by,
weeks pass by, months past by days past. I'm not
gonna continue to let life passed people by when there's
much more life that people can be living. Okay, but
yet they're up here worried, worried about standards. They're up
(15:11):
here worried about god lea tradition, Okay, an outdated tradition.
People setup are still wanting you to abide by how
people lived thousands of years ago.
Speaker 2 (15:23):
That ain't that ain't reality. That ain't it. That ain't
it that? That ain't it, y'all, That ain't it.
Speaker 1 (15:29):
So here's to the heroes that get up every single day,
every single day.
Speaker 2 (15:38):
Here's to you, guys. You battle the nonsense.
Speaker 1 (15:42):
You continue to go to your jobs, you continue to
to listen to stuff that's on the TVs. You continue
to deal with the nonsense as being in the music.
You continue to just experience the world the way that
it is. But yet you don't break. You don't break.
Speaker 2 (15:58):
So here's to you. That's why you're my hero. That's
why we're all heroes. Because to make it in this current.
Speaker 1 (16:06):
World, this current world, to make it, you got to
have a completely different type of skin, a completely different
type of mindset, a completely different type of heart, a
completely different type of way of just living. You got
to have a different way of living in tradition. I mean,
if you want to build off of that, or if
you want to use tradition as what not to do.
Speaker 2 (16:29):
That's what I suggest you do. Use tradition so that
you can learn what not to do. That's what tradition
is good for, to learn what not to do. That's
what it's good for. That's what it's good for.
Speaker 1 (16:41):
So be yourself, because the power of you is more
powerful than anything else.
Speaker 2 (16:47):
So be yourself. Please, please, please, please make.
Speaker 1 (16:53):
Sure that you're not comparing how you're living or how
somebody else is living, or how somebody else else is learning,
or how somebody else is growing. Leave that comparison stuff alone, man,
leave it alone. It's not beneficial. It's not beneficial. It
doesn't let you allow comparison, doesn't allow you to gauge
(17:16):
where you're at in life. Gauging where you're at in
life comes from your growth. Okay, that's how you can
gauge where you're at in life. Things that don't make
you mad, that used to make you mad, you don't
need to compare.
Speaker 2 (17:27):
Just that's you.
Speaker 1 (17:29):
That, that's your personal journey. Oh you don't get mad
at those things no more. It's not because you don't care.
It's because you learned. Okay, you don't need comparison with that.
You don't need comparison with that. Oh, you used to
drive this type of car. Now you're driving something a
little bit better. You don't need to compare what somebody
else is driving. You just did that. You got that done. Dude,
you're winning on your own. You used to weigh a
(17:52):
certain weight, Now you weigh this way. You don't need
to compare. You don't need to compare. You don't need
no ashton holes like you don't. You don't need to compare.
You don't need to compare at all. You're get with God, okay,
get with God. Get in your quiet space, Get to
(18:12):
your purpose. Eliminate comparison, so we can go ahead and
conquer these days, Conquer these weeks, conquer these months, conquer
these years. Let let's eliminate the comparison. Eliminate the comparison. Okay,
I appreciate it. Look, you know, I told y'all, I
(18:33):
told y'all, sensitivity does not live here, but understanding does.
I truly hope y'all understand that I am here one
hundred percent for y'all, one hundred percent for y'all, and
by me being here for y'all, I'm also being here
for myself. We're working and growing together, y'all. We're working
and growing together only if you allow it, only if
(18:55):
you allow it. I hope you found joy in this podcast.
I hope you found ubstance in today's episode. I hope
you found something in today's episode. As always, I appreciate y'all.
I appreciate all the shares, the comments, I appreciate everything.
I appreciate it all. We're continuing to.
Speaker 2 (19:14):
Go, y'all.
Speaker 1 (19:15):
It's happening. Man, it's happening. It's been happening. I'm prayed up.
I hope you are too. Now, y'all be great. Let
them make
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