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Speaker 1 (00:02):
Ao ao Ao, What up, everybody. Look, today's podcast is
being sponsored by the good people over at ben hated
dot Com. Again, the good people over at ben hated
dot com. Yeah, that's a play on words. B E
N h A I T E D. Ben hated stands
for anybody that's trying to better themselves against the hate
(00:25):
of society. If you got haters, they got you. These
guys have beanies, hoodies, T shirts, sweatshirt units, the scarves.
My goodness, I heard they got kids apparel on the way.
Speaker 2 (00:38):
Again.
Speaker 1 (00:39):
That is ben hated dot Com. Look you out there
moving and grooving like you say you are. You out
there hustling and all about your business like you say
you are. I'm pretty sure you got haters, because I know,
I do. I know I do. Check out ben hated
dot Com. Ladies, gentlemen, that is ben hated dot Com.
Speaker 2 (00:59):
Hey, what up, heroes? What up? What up? What up?
Speaker 1 (01:02):
Look guys, we have a brand new book that we're
about to talk about for you, guys, a brand new book,
and I'm talking about a book that if you are
in love with service vehicles, I'm talking about ambulances, I'm
talking about excavators, I'm talking about trash trucks. I'm talking
about you guys, even school buses. This book, this book,
(01:22):
trash Truck, trash Truck, What do you See is by
far the best book out right now, okay, right now.
If you have anyone in your life that loves service vehicles,
that loves to see people helping people, things going on
in the community, and just gets excited about that type
of thing, trash Truck, trash truck, What do you See
(01:44):
is the perfect gift. Okay, Now we're talking about large
font that helps you read. It's perfect for bedtime stories,
it's perfect for interactive reading, it's perfect for just honestly,
anyone anyone that love service vehicles. There's there's all types
of equality being shown in this book. There's all types
(02:07):
of of just different services that are being produced in
this book. Trash Truck, trash Truck. What do you see
on Amazon dot Com? You guys, go check it out?
Speaker 2 (02:20):
Ao Ao Ao? What up? Everybody?
Speaker 1 (02:24):
And welcome back to yet another episode of the Hated
Heroes podcast where people hate to love us, love to
hate us. And of course I'm your host LB L.
Capitone he himself and look, look, you may be having
a fast day you may be having a slow day,
but either way it goes.
Speaker 2 (02:44):
It's your day.
Speaker 1 (02:45):
It's your day, so please please make the most of
it and look the first time. If this is your
first time tuning in to the Hated Heroes podcast, we
have a small disclaim.
Speaker 2 (03:00):
We like to get out the way.
Speaker 1 (03:01):
Small just something real, slight, real slight. Get I'm not
gonna say it's for the legality purpose or anything like that.
Speaker 2 (03:07):
We just want to get get it out of the way.
Speaker 1 (03:09):
Sensitivity does not live here, but understanding does. Once again,
I don't know if you need to get a pen, paper,
but uh, write this down. I said that sensitivity does
not live here, but understanding does. Ladies and gentlemen, boys
and girls, heroes and he wrets. We're back with yet
(03:31):
another one. We're back with yet another one. We have
made it through another week. We are continuing to thrive.
We are continuing to do a little bit more than
just survive. We have made it. We have made it
last week. Last week we spoke on dropping bombs, okay,
(03:52):
dropping bombs, dropping dropping things out of nowhere okay, And
how ready you were for that?
Speaker 2 (04:03):
How ready you.
Speaker 1 (04:04):
Are in your life for just chaos to happen. I mean,
how ready is anybody? How ready is anybody? Well, we
know it's very possible to make sure that you can
have your house in order, make sure that you have
your own personal life in order. It doesn't mean that
that you've checked everything off your bucket list. It doesn't
(04:24):
mean that you you're the richest person in the world.
Don't mean that you live in the biggest house. Doesn't
that you're driving the fastest car. That's not what that means.
That's not what that means. What it means to have
your own personal life in order means that you know
exactly who you are, you know why you are, and
you know for what you are. Okay, that's what we
(04:47):
spoke on last week as the bombs were being dropped
in and the world was going into chaos, not knowing
what was next. But again, if you have been focused
on just getting right, just getting right, I mean, I
don't mean, you know, just parking a little bit further
(05:07):
away from from the front door of your job so
you're getting in a few extra steff. No, I'm not
talking about that. I'm not talking about taking the stairs
instead of taking the elevator. Yeah, No, I've said that before.
But no, we're talking about doing just a bit more.
We're talking about doing.
Speaker 2 (05:21):
Just a bit more.
Speaker 1 (05:22):
We're talking about being ready, so therefore you don't have
to get ready.
Speaker 2 (05:27):
Okay, that's what we're talking about.
Speaker 1 (05:28):
We're talking about truly taking things a day at a time,
a day at a time, not bringing in extra worry,
not bringing in extra stress, not bringing in the unknowns,
not bringing in any.
Speaker 2 (05:41):
Of that stuff.
Speaker 1 (05:43):
Truly giving your life over to God, giving giving your
stress and all those issues and all your problems, like
giving that away and truly dealing with the things that
you're able to deal with. That's what we're talking about,
getting in order, having your ear ear, having your issue together.
As some may say, okay right now, because I understand
(06:11):
that you know, when you're hearing, you're hearing certain things,
you're you're you're hearing that that.
Speaker 2 (06:15):
You you still have to go through a struggle.
Speaker 1 (06:17):
And a lot of people want the big house, fast car,
and they want the money and they want to be
the richest.
Speaker 2 (06:21):
Okay, I understand you might want all that, you might
want all that.
Speaker 1 (06:23):
But let me let you know, let me let you
know that your misery, your misery is the gateway to
your ministry. Okay, your misery is the gateway to your ministry.
And what I mean by that, What I mean by
that is the things that you go through, the things
(06:44):
that that that you're gonna continue to go through, the
things that that you that you're gonna witness in life. Okay,
as bad as it may come across and as bad
as it may seem, you going through that, You going
through that is going to automatically.
Speaker 2 (06:59):
Do two things.
Speaker 1 (07:03):
You will have accomplished whatever it may have been that
you were going through. That that is an accomplishment on
its own, because a lot of people don't make it
through things. You just making it through whatever the struggle was.
That's number one. Number Two, you talking about the struggle,
you being living proof of somebody being able to go
through something bad and still living to speak about it.
(07:26):
Somebody going through something horrible, somebody going through something that's
supposed to been life ending or detrimental and they went
through it and they're still standing here today to be
able to speak about it. The second thing that it
does is give hope. So it gives you the confidence
that you can get through something. You might not have
(07:47):
liked it, but you got through it.
Speaker 2 (07:49):
Okay. Again, sensitivity does not live here, but understanding he does.
So understand. Yeah, you might have not.
Speaker 1 (07:54):
Liked it, but you got through it, and you automatically
inherited some hope. The power of hope is what you
and you inherited the power of hope. So now you
get to take that hope and speak about it, speak
about what you went through, and speak about the fact
that you're still here today, and and and just watch
what that does for somebody else.
Speaker 2 (08:15):
Watch what that does for somebody else.
Speaker 1 (08:16):
It's gonna come back full circle for you because again
your misery, your misery.
Speaker 2 (08:21):
Will lead to your ministry.
Speaker 1 (08:23):
Okay, that doesn't always mean that that that you're gonna
minister in church, don't always mean that you're gonna, you know,
minister at at some some religious event.
Speaker 2 (08:31):
It just means that you get to speak.
Speaker 1 (08:34):
You get to now be in the realm of people
that can speak and testify about life, Okay, And that
that's an awesome place to be. Once you're able to
testify about the things that that you've gone through and
in the goodness, the goodness that you were able to
see from it, that's a major place in life to
(08:56):
be because without that, people feeling loss. Without that, people
are feeling just just wandering and then just feeling like
just complete chaos. Just complete chaos is what it's feeling like.
So take it for what it is. Doesn't mean that
you're giving up. When we continue to speak on that,
it's not that you're giving up your giving in and
just realizing you cannot do it alone. You've been brought
(09:19):
through some situations, you're about to You're gonna deal with
some more situations, but you're not gonna deal with them
the same because you've already made it through other situations. Okay,
that's the confidence are You automatically get confidence from making
When you make it through a situation, you automatically gain
the confidence to be able to make it through another situation.
(09:41):
Rather you want to or not, that's not up to you.
You just gain that confidence. And then when you speak
on it, when you testify about what you've gone through,
don't turn it into a rant.
Speaker 2 (09:52):
Don't turn it into a complaint that you had to
go through X y Z. No, deliver it like this.
Deliver it just like this.
Speaker 1 (10:02):
I got to go through X y Z and it
got me to where I'm at right now, I was
able to go through X y Z. So the keywords
or or got to allowed to versus if you want to,
(10:23):
if you want to, if you want.
Speaker 2 (10:25):
To dwell on the whole had complex of it. If
you want to go ahead and it just dwell on
the whole, Oh I had to do that, then you're not.
Speaker 1 (10:37):
You won't receive as much of the blessing, and and
and in what you're trying to land really won't hit
the way that you really wanted to land. Change it,
Switch up the switch up the narrative, Switch up the narrative.
I was allowed to go through X y Z. I
(10:59):
was able to go through X y Z. And now
I stand here today before you. Okay, am I perfect? No,
but am I continuing to strive and not giving up
in life? Absolutely? Absolutely absolutely can you possibly do the
same exact thing?
Speaker 2 (11:19):
Absolutely?
Speaker 1 (11:19):
Are you feeling like you can't, Well, I'm here to
let you know that you can. That's again, you just
inherited the power of hope. Okay, So let your misery
be your ministry. Let it, let it stop fighting it
because the more you fight it, the more you're gonna
(11:41):
continue to just remain in the realm of just chaos.
The more you're gonna just continue to be and just
just shaking about what you're supposed to do, how you're
supposed to do it, and or why you're supposed to
do it. Stop fighting it, you know, and that just
might be what we're talking about on the next podcast. Okay,
that might be. That might be what we talked about
on the next one. To stop fighting it. Stop fighting it,
(12:04):
stop fighting it. It is what it is, and not
in a lazy way. No, it is what it is
because it's already been written. It's already been decided. That's
why it is what it is. Okay, that's why it
is what it is. And again, like I told you
guys before, sensitivity does not live here, but understanding does.
So please again understand it has already been written. Problems
(12:26):
that you think that you're going through and turning it
from a season into a cycle. Okay, stop fighting it.
The outcome has already been written. But you're fighting it.
You're you're fighting it and making the outcome extended. Okay,
your fight and you being rebellious and you're not you're
not surrendering to what's going on. It's gonna make the
(12:50):
situation prolong itself. Okay, okay, look, I'm just trying to
help somebody. I'm just trying to help somebody. Okay, that's
all I'm trying to do. If you don't like leave it, it's
just that simple. You don't like it, leave it in.
Whatever you were doing before that was working, do that,
Continue to do that. But for everybody else that actually
wants to see some difference, wants to see a.
Speaker 2 (13:12):
Change, come on, people, come on people, let's get it.
Let's get it.
Speaker 1 (13:17):
Hey, look until next time, until next time. You know again,
I can't say it enough. I appreciate y'all so very much.
Thank y'all for continuing to just grow this entire movement.
Speaker 2 (13:27):
Thank y'all, Thank y'all. Thank y'all.
Speaker 1 (13:29):
You can find us, of course, if you haven't already
on social media platforms. It's the hated heroes. Okay, some
of it's hated heroes. Pod it's me, it's me. Until
next time, y'all be great. Let them hate
Ao ao Ao, What up, everybody. Look, today's podcast is
being sponsored by the good people over at ben hated
dot Com. Again, the good people over at ben hated
dot com. Yeah, that's a play on words. B E
N h A I T E D. Ben hated stands
for anybody that's trying to better themselves against the hate
(00:25):
of society. If you got haters, they got you. These
guys have beanies, hoodies, T shirts, sweatshirt units, the scarves.
My goodness, I heard they got kids apparel on the way.
Speaker 2 (00:38):
Again.
Speaker 1 (00:39):
That is ben hated dot Com. Look you out there
moving and grooving like you say you are. You out
there hustling and all about your business like you say
you are. I'm pretty sure you got haters, because I know,
I do. I know I do. Check out ben hated
dot Com. Ladies, gentlemen, that is ben hated dot Com.
Speaker 2 (00:59):
Hey, what up, heroes? What up? What up? What up?
Speaker 1 (01:02):
Look guys, we have a brand new book that we're
about to talk about for you, guys, a brand new book,
and I'm talking about a book that if you are
in love with service vehicles, I'm talking about ambulances, I'm
talking about excavators, I'm talking about trash trucks. I'm talking
about you guys, even school buses. This book, this book,
(01:22):
trash Truck, trash Truck, What do you See is by
far the best book out right now, okay, right now.
If you have anyone in your life that loves service vehicles,
that loves to see people helping people, things going on
in the community, and just gets excited about that type
of thing, trash Truck, trash truck, What do you See
(01:44):
is the perfect gift. Okay, Now we're talking about large
font that helps you read. It's perfect for bedtime stories,
it's perfect for interactive reading, it's perfect for just honestly,
anyone anyone that love service vehicles. There's there's all types
of equality being shown in this book. There's all types
(02:07):
of of just different services that are being produced in
this book. Trash Truck, trash Truck. What do you see
on Amazon dot Com? You guys, go check it out?
Speaker 2 (02:20):
Ao Ao Ao? What up? Everybody?
Speaker 1 (02:24):
And welcome back to yet another episode of the Hated
Heroes podcast where people hate to love us, love to
hate us. And of course I'm your host LB L.
Capitone he himself and look, look, you may be having
a fast day you may be having a slow day,
but either way it goes.
Speaker 2 (02:44):
It's your day.
Speaker 1 (02:45):
It's your day, so please please make the most of
it and look the first time. If this is your
first time tuning in to the Hated Heroes podcast, we
have a small disclaim.
Speaker 2 (03:00):
We like to get out the way.
Speaker 1 (03:01):
Small just something real, slight, real slight. Get I'm not
gonna say it's for the legality purpose or anything like that.
Speaker 2 (03:07):
We just want to get get it out of the way.
Speaker 1 (03:09):
Sensitivity does not live here, but understanding does. Once again,
I don't know if you need to get a pen, paper,
but uh, write this down. I said that sensitivity does
not live here, but understanding does. Ladies and gentlemen, boys
and girls, heroes and he wrets. We're back with yet
(03:31):
another one. We're back with yet another one. We have
made it through another week. We are continuing to thrive.
We are continuing to do a little bit more than
just survive. We have made it. We have made it
last week. Last week we spoke on dropping bombs, okay,
(03:52):
dropping bombs, dropping dropping things out of nowhere okay, And
how ready you were for that?
Speaker 2 (04:03):
How ready you.
Speaker 1 (04:04):
Are in your life for just chaos to happen. I mean,
how ready is anybody? How ready is anybody? Well, we
know it's very possible to make sure that you can
have your house in order, make sure that you have
your own personal life in order. It doesn't mean that
that you've checked everything off your bucket list. It doesn't
(04:24):
mean that you you're the richest person in the world.
Don't mean that you live in the biggest house. Doesn't
that you're driving the fastest car. That's not what that means.
That's not what that means. What it means to have
your own personal life in order means that you know
exactly who you are, you know why you are, and
you know for what you are. Okay, that's what we
(04:47):
spoke on last week as the bombs were being dropped
in and the world was going into chaos, not knowing
what was next. But again, if you have been focused
on just getting right, just getting right, I mean, I
don't mean, you know, just parking a little bit further
(05:07):
away from from the front door of your job so
you're getting in a few extra steff. No, I'm not
talking about that. I'm not talking about taking the stairs
instead of taking the elevator. Yeah, No, I've said that before.
But no, we're talking about doing just a bit more.
We're talking about doing.
Speaker 2 (05:21):
Just a bit more.
Speaker 1 (05:22):
We're talking about being ready, so therefore you don't have
to get ready.
Speaker 2 (05:27):
Okay, that's what we're talking about.
Speaker 1 (05:28):
We're talking about truly taking things a day at a time,
a day at a time, not bringing in extra worry,
not bringing in extra stress, not bringing in the unknowns,
not bringing in any.
Speaker 2 (05:41):
Of that stuff.
Speaker 1 (05:43):
Truly giving your life over to God, giving giving your
stress and all those issues and all your problems, like
giving that away and truly dealing with the things that
you're able to deal with. That's what we're talking about,
getting in order, having your ear ear, having your issue together.
As some may say, okay right now, because I understand
(06:11):
that you know, when you're hearing, you're hearing certain things,
you're you're you're hearing that that.
Speaker 2 (06:15):
You you still have to go through a struggle.
Speaker 1 (06:17):
And a lot of people want the big house, fast car,
and they want the money and they want to be
the richest.
Speaker 2 (06:21):
Okay, I understand you might want all that, you might
want all that.
Speaker 1 (06:23):
But let me let you know, let me let you
know that your misery, your misery is the gateway to
your ministry. Okay, your misery is the gateway to your ministry.
And what I mean by that, What I mean by
that is the things that you go through, the things
(06:44):
that that that you're gonna continue to go through, the
things that that you that you're gonna witness in life. Okay,
as bad as it may come across and as bad
as it may seem, you going through that, You going
through that is going to automatically.
Speaker 2 (06:59):
Do two things.
Speaker 1 (07:03):
You will have accomplished whatever it may have been that
you were going through. That that is an accomplishment on
its own, because a lot of people don't make it
through things. You just making it through whatever the struggle was.
That's number one. Number Two, you talking about the struggle,
you being living proof of somebody being able to go
through something bad and still living to speak about it.
(07:26):
Somebody going through something horrible, somebody going through something that's
supposed to been life ending or detrimental and they went
through it and they're still standing here today to be
able to speak about it. The second thing that it
does is give hope. So it gives you the confidence
that you can get through something. You might not have
(07:47):
liked it, but you got through it.
Speaker 2 (07:49):
Okay. Again, sensitivity does not live here, but understanding he does.
So understand. Yeah, you might have not.
Speaker 1 (07:54):
Liked it, but you got through it, and you automatically
inherited some hope. The power of hope is what you
and you inherited the power of hope. So now you
get to take that hope and speak about it, speak
about what you went through, and speak about the fact
that you're still here today, and and and just watch
what that does for somebody else.
Speaker 2 (08:15):
Watch what that does for somebody else.
Speaker 1 (08:16):
It's gonna come back full circle for you because again
your misery, your misery.
Speaker 2 (08:21):
Will lead to your ministry.
Speaker 1 (08:23):
Okay, that doesn't always mean that that that you're gonna
minister in church, don't always mean that you're gonna, you know,
minister at at some some religious event.
Speaker 2 (08:31):
It just means that you get to speak.
Speaker 1 (08:34):
You get to now be in the realm of people
that can speak and testify about life, Okay, And that
that's an awesome place to be. Once you're able to
testify about the things that that you've gone through and
in the goodness, the goodness that you were able to
see from it, that's a major place in life to
(08:56):
be because without that, people feeling loss. Without that, people
are feeling just just wandering and then just feeling like
just complete chaos. Just complete chaos is what it's feeling like.
So take it for what it is. Doesn't mean that
you're giving up. When we continue to speak on that,
it's not that you're giving up your giving in and
just realizing you cannot do it alone. You've been brought
(09:19):
through some situations, you're about to You're gonna deal with
some more situations, but you're not gonna deal with them
the same because you've already made it through other situations. Okay,
that's the confidence are You automatically get confidence from making
When you make it through a situation, you automatically gain
the confidence to be able to make it through another situation.
(09:41):
Rather you want to or not, that's not up to you.
You just gain that confidence. And then when you speak
on it, when you testify about what you've gone through,
don't turn it into a rant.
Speaker 2 (09:52):
Don't turn it into a complaint that you had to
go through X y Z. No, deliver it like this.
Deliver it just like this.
Speaker 1 (10:02):
I got to go through X y Z and it
got me to where I'm at right now, I was
able to go through X y Z. So the keywords
or or got to allowed to versus if you want to,
(10:23):
if you want to, if you want.
Speaker 2 (10:25):
To dwell on the whole had complex of it. If
you want to go ahead and it just dwell on
the whole, Oh I had to do that, then you're not.
Speaker 1 (10:37):
You won't receive as much of the blessing, and and
and in what you're trying to land really won't hit
the way that you really wanted to land. Change it,
Switch up the switch up the narrative, Switch up the narrative.
I was allowed to go through X y Z. I
(10:59):
was able to go through X y Z. And now
I stand here today before you. Okay, am I perfect? No,
but am I continuing to strive and not giving up
in life? Absolutely? Absolutely absolutely can you possibly do the
same exact thing?
Speaker 2 (11:19):
Absolutely?
Speaker 1 (11:19):
Are you feeling like you can't, Well, I'm here to
let you know that you can. That's again, you just
inherited the power of hope. Okay, So let your misery
be your ministry. Let it, let it stop fighting it
because the more you fight it, the more you're gonna
(11:41):
continue to just remain in the realm of just chaos.
The more you're gonna just continue to be and just
just shaking about what you're supposed to do, how you're
supposed to do it, and or why you're supposed to
do it. Stop fighting it, you know, and that just
might be what we're talking about on the next podcast. Okay,
that might be. That might be what we talked about
on the next one. To stop fighting it. Stop fighting it,
(12:04):
stop fighting it. It is what it is, and not
in a lazy way. No, it is what it is
because it's already been written. It's already been decided. That's
why it is what it is. Okay, that's why it
is what it is. And again, like I told you
guys before, sensitivity does not live here, but understanding does.
So please again understand it has already been written. Problems
(12:26):
that you think that you're going through and turning it
from a season into a cycle. Okay, stop fighting it.
The outcome has already been written. But you're fighting it.
You're you're fighting it and making the outcome extended. Okay,
your fight and you being rebellious and you're not you're
not surrendering to what's going on. It's gonna make the
(12:50):
situation prolong itself. Okay, okay, look, I'm just trying to
help somebody. I'm just trying to help somebody. Okay, that's
all I'm trying to do. If you don't like leave it, it's
just that simple. You don't like it, leave it in.
Whatever you were doing before that was working, do that,
Continue to do that. But for everybody else that actually
wants to see some difference, wants to see a.
Speaker 2 (13:12):
Change, come on, people, come on people, let's get it.
Let's get it.
Speaker 1 (13:17):
Hey, look until next time, until next time. You know again,
I can't say it enough. I appreciate y'all so very much.
Thank y'all for continuing to just grow this entire movement.
Speaker 2 (13:27):
Thank y'all, Thank y'all. Thank y'all.
Speaker 1 (13:29):
You can find us, of course, if you haven't already
on social media platforms. It's the hated heroes. Okay, some
of it's hated heroes. Pod it's me, it's me. Until
next time, y'all be great. Let them hate
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