“Understanding” - ep78 (season 2)

Ayo Heros let’s dig into the power of understanding!!

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(02:21):
What up everybody? And welcome back to yet another episode
of the Hated Heroes podcast where people hate to love us,
love to hate us. And of course I'm your host
LB L. Capitone he himself and look, look, you may
be having a fast day. You may be having a
slow day, but either way it goes, it's your day,

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so please please make the most of it. And of course,
if this is your first time tuning in to the
Heroes podcast, of course we have a small disclaimer that
we like to get out of the way. Okay, a
small disclaimer that we like to get out of the way. No,
just again, to remain on the same page. Okay, to
remain on the same page. And so sensitivity does not

(03:03):
live here, but understanding does. Once again, sensitivity does not
live here, but understanding does. And so that, of course
that's a perfect segue, perfect segue into today's podcast. We're
actually gonna keep the series of of having experienced the
the power of experience, just just the the the confidence

(03:28):
that experience gives. Just we're gonna continue on this series
of experience and how having experience will separate you from
all the foolishness. It'll it'll, it'll save you time, it'll
it'll it'll help you get to levels that that you

(03:48):
didn't know were obtainable. It will help you mentally, it
will help you physically experience experience what we can we
can let's give it a name that other people may
may understand bit easier and understanding. Okay. When you hear
the word experience, I want you to make sure you

(04:09):
also hear the word understanding, okay, because that's really what
experience is. Experience gives you the level of understanding to
Let's say, if you were having an issue with someone
that didn't have as much experience with something, okay, didn't
have they weren't as people say, they weren't as verse

(04:30):
as verse in a topic, okay as you are. Instead
of getting frustrated, and instead of dismissing that person, instead
of getting instead of the conversation going the complete wrong way,
instead of the conversation going left, your experience and understanding
will help the conversation get right. It will help you

(04:52):
get right, It'll help the whole situation get right. Take
it from the left and get it right. That's what
the experience this is going to do. That's what having
understanding will do. Because once you have the understanding that
that everyone hasn't experienced things like you've experienced, Once you
have the understanding that everybody doesn't have the knowledge that

(05:13):
you have, once you have the understanding that everybody doesn't
move the way that you move, everybody doesn't have the
level of confidence that you have. Everybody, everybody are their
own person. Okay, but you have to experience that in

(05:33):
order to understand that. You have to experience the foolishness
in order to understand where people are coming from, in
order to understand where you're coming from. In a situation,
let's just take an argument. Okay, let's take an argument.
Just per se if someone is arguing with you, Okay,

(05:54):
someone is bringing up a topic that you on. No,
the topic is. It doesn't make sense the things they're saying,
just it doesn't make sense. They're not using anything factual,
they're they're not using anything tangible. The person's not using
what you would consider the correct rhetoric. Okay, for the situation,

(06:15):
for the conversation. What that usually causes is for people
to get frustrated, and it usually causes one person in
the conversation to be dismissive or argumentative. That's usually what happens.
But once you have the understanding that, wait a minute,
let me take a step back. This person, this person
may not know what I know. This person may not

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have experienced what I've experienced. That's whenever you take the
time Okay, you take the time to explain your point
of view from your experience. Okay, that's how you control
that conversation and not control what the person's saying, but
you control your actions, you control your feelings, you control

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the conversation from going left because you're yourself getting it right. Okay,
that's how you do it. Okay, And that's just in
an argument sake. Let's let's take it from from a
technology standpoint. Okay, you don't always know where technology or

(07:20):
or or or where where where the where information is
coming from. Okay, So instead of getting frustrated, instead of
getting angry, instead of being dismissive, instead of just ignoring
and not trying to figure something out, gain that gain
that understanding, grab that experience, go through whatever it is

(07:42):
that you need to go through so that you can
gain the experience for that situation, so that you can
gain an understanding and fix that situation. It's gonna help
you in the long run. It's gonna help you gain
so much more peace. It's gonna help you gain so
much more clarity. It's gonna help you gain so much
more in life than having to worry about or focusing
on the foolishness or what you're deeming as foolishness, because again,

(08:06):
you can't expect you out of other people. That's the
main thing to take away from this. You can't expect
you from other people. You have to use your experience
in life, the experience that you've gone through in life
to you to have an understanding of where people are
coming from, where something is coming from. That understanding is

(08:29):
so major. Again, it will help you navigate a more
peaceful life. It will help you navigate situations in a
more peaceful way. It'll help you navigate and again it's
not downplaying anything. Literally navigating and you're gonna gain so

(08:49):
much more because now instead of dismissing something now, instead
of ignoring something now, instead of not even taking the
time to deal with something, you now have have the
opportunity and the clarity and the understanding that, man, you're
gonna listen to what's going on. You'll be able to
absorb what's going on, and you may even possibly be

(09:12):
able to add in your own two cents. You may
even possibly be able to add in your experience with
this other person's experience. That's what you'll gain from that.
Like I said, it's not a lose situation at all,
because you're gaining something from it and they're gaining something
from it as well. It's a two way street, as
people say, two way street, but that can't happen, and

(09:36):
that won't happen without experience. In the absence of experience,
you can't understand anything. Like, it's impossible to understand anything.
It's impossible to expect someone to act or perform a
certain way when they don't have the experience to do so.
It's absolutely impossible. You can't expect so I want to

(10:00):
do something that they don't know how to do. Okay,
That comes down to understanding a person. That comes down
to understanding a situation. That comes down to understanding what's
really going on, and you can only gain that through experience. Okay,
And so I really hope this podcast has opened up
somebody's eyes. I really hope this podcast has really helped

(10:23):
somebody just transcend into Okay, I'm gonna start approaching situations
completely different. It doesn't mean that you have to sit
there and waste time. It doesn't mean that you have
to sit there and be fake. That's not what this
is about. This is literally literally about using experience to
elevate yourself, using experience to possibly elevate somebody else, Using

(10:48):
experience to get yourself to a level of clarity, a
level of understanding, a level of peace, to where you
can navigate this earth no matter where you're at on
this earth, you'll be able to navigate this earth in
a much more positive way, a much more peaceful way.
And again, gaining the experience in life will translate into

(11:15):
understanding where you're at, where somebody else is at, where
life is at. In general, experience, experience that's gonna keep
you from making foolish decisions. It's gonna keep you from
just lashing out when or whenever something doesn't go right, okay,

(11:38):
whenever something just is going wrong, Okay, it's the experience
and understanding will take you to a completely different, tranquil
level of Okay. It's not even you turn any other cheek,
it's not that. What it is is that you truly
just get you get it, You get it. You get that.

(12:00):
You can't get grape juice from an apple? You get that. Now,
can you get juice from the apple? Absolutely? Can you
get grape juice from the apple? Not at all, Not
at all, not at all, and please know the difference. Yes,
you can get juice from that apple, but you cannot
get grape juice from that apple. Please pick up what

(12:22):
I'm putting down. Okay, Please pick up what I'm putting
down right now, Okay, people, people, it's time. It's time
for people to grasp and gain a completely different level
of understanding, especially with where the world is going right now,

(12:43):
and especially with people just receiving half portions of information,
people just trying to take shortcuts to get ahead. There's
a lot of things going on. People seeing things, you know, visually,
seeing things on media or magazines or whatever. They're seeing
things visually and not taking the time to understand the

(13:03):
work that was put in and or not taking the
time to understand that that's just an advertisement. They're not
taking the time to realize what advertisement is that they're
just they're just jumping They're just jumping at information, just
jumping at information. You taking your experience and understanding that

(13:25):
that's where the world is at now, more than ever,
is gonna put you at such more of a peaceful
level in life, gonna gonna help you progress a little
bit more in life now? Will it be a struggle
absolutely absolutely, because again, you cannot expect you out of
other people. You cannot, you can't not like you just

(13:45):
don't do that. Don't do that. You're gonna spend more
wasted time expecting somebody to be you. Whenever, God only
made one of you, He only made one of you.
So like like you're you're that's insane, that's insane to
expect yourself out of someone else, expect yourself out of you,

(14:06):
expecting it. So that's why working on you is beneficial.
Understanding who you are is beneficial. Understanding how you move
is beneficial. Understanding you. It is beneficial. Okay, it's beneficial. Again.
I hope this podcast has helped somebody out. I hope
I've reached somebody out. I hope somebody. I hope this

(14:26):
has opened up somebody's eyes. Okay, Like guys, I'm trying.
I'm trying to get us all on a much more
peaceful level, a much more peaceful way of walking on
this earth, a much more productive and progressive way of
walking on this earth. And again, we don't have to
start over backwards, because there's actually help, there's actually support,

(14:53):
there's actually someone here that's trying to help get the
right things done the right way. Okay, thank you guys
so very much for continuing to tune in to the
Hated Heroes podcast until next week. And again, I hope
you guys have an amazing week this week, but until
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