“Who Are You” ep75 (season 2)

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Speaker 1 (00:02):
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How's it going? Heroes? And welcome back to yet another
episode of the Hated Heroes podcast where people hate to
love us, love to hate us, And of course I'm
your host LB L. Capitone he himself and look, you
may be having a slow day, You may be having

(02:38):
a fast day. Either way it goes. It's your day,
so please please make the most of it. And if
this is your first time tuning into the podcast, your
first time tuning in to the heroes, we have a
small disclaimer to get out the way, just to make
sure everybody remains on the same page and we can
continue to move forward. How about that, sensitivity does not

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live here, but understanding does. One more time for the
people in the back, sensitivity does not live here, but
understanding does. You guys, you guys. Today, today we're gonna cover,
let me go to cover in a very short amount
of time. We're gonna talk about you being you and

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not letting anybody take that away from you. That's what
we're gonna focus on today. That's today's focus. That's today's energy.
That's that's honestly, the energy of this year should be
just that very thing. Don't let anybody, anybody allow you
to not be you. How about that? Okay? Do not

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do not get in the realm of changing your confidence
to make other people comfortable. I'll say that one more time.
Do not allow your confidence to be changed because it
makes somebody else uncomfortable, if you're not hurting someone, if

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you're not being malicious, if your intense are nothing but
good and and and just you're you're just being yourself,
and that makes someone else uncomfortable. That is not your problem,
never has been, and never will be. And if you're
letting it be your problem, I suggest you stop that,
because again, you'll never know who you are and you'll

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never fully enjoy life. If you're worried about who you
are making other people unhappy, if you're worried about who
you are making other people uncomfortable, if you're worried about
who you are making other people not like you, because
that really matters, right, that matters. No, it doesn't. Remain confident,

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continue to be upfront, continue to be honest with not
only yourself, with everybody else. Continue to be you. Okay again,
and if you are not hurting someone, if your intentions
are not ill, if you're not trying to be malicious
in any way, shape or form, do not change who

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you are. Do not displace your comfort. I'm sorry, said
that completely wrong. Do not displace your confidence for somebody
else's comfort. Okay, it's not worth it. It's not worth it.
You'll never live life. You'll never live life. And if
you've been doing that, you haven't been living life. No
matter if you feel like you have or not, you

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have not been living life because you've been living for
somebody else. You've been living for other people. You've been
allowing other people to lead who you are. God made
us all individuals for a reason. There's a reason why
we don't all walk around with identical twins. There's a
reason why even identical twins okay, have differences. There's a

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reason for that, because everyone is unique. Everyone is their
own person. Okay, And I'm gonna repeat this as much
as possible. As long as you are not hurting anyone,
being malicious or have ill intent, do not change who
you are. Do not change what you are, Do not

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change why you are for anybody ever. Okay, Be who
God made you to be. Live the life that God
wants you to live. Okay, And you can only do that.
You can only do that once you realize that, oh,
you are who you are. You are who you are,

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that's when you'll start to live life. That's whenever you'll
start to start gaining more traction on your purpose. Once
you truly accept the fact of that's who you are. Okay,
in people not being comfortable, it is not up to
you to make everybody comfortable at all at all. I
suggest if people have an issue with you being you,

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tell me go pray about it. Tell me go pray
about it, because that's their problem, that's their problem. Tell
them to go pray about it, and you continue to be.
You do not lose your confidence for somebody else's comfort.
Stop that. Stop that. You're you're, you're, you're, you're you're
stepping backwards. Okay, you're you're going backwards. You're you're you're

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looking backwards and trying to walk forward, and that that
usually doesn't end up very well. That usually doesn't end
up very well. You continue just to run into things
that you don't want to run into. Okay, that's just
the honest truth about it. Pay attention, Understand who you are,
Understand what you are, understand why you are, and then

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live your life. Live your life, live your life. Too
many times do do do we come across people that
are it's like you, you don't even recognize them, You
don't recognize them, and you don't recognize them because they're
trying to be something that they're not. And that's just
the honest truth. People trying to be something that they're not,
you'll never recognize who they are ever like it's it's impossible.

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But once a person, once a person becomes who they
are and they realize and they accept and they start
loving who they are, that's when you'll truly see, oh,
that's just how they are. And if that's not what
you like, then you move on, move on, go pray
about it. I mean that again, that's your personal problem.
If you don't like who somebody is, okay, because they

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don't make you comfortable, that's your personal problem. If you
don't like the way somebody moves, because it's not the
way that you prefer somebody to move. It's somebody else's life.
Is not up to you to determine, Okay, determine your
own life, determine your own steps, determine your own dreams,
determine your own your own capabilities, you determine your own Okay,
do not put that else, Do not put that off

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on somebody else. Let's stop that. Let's stop that. For
all my heroes out there that are displacing their confidence
due to somebody else's comfort, I need today to be
the last day that that happens. I need for today
to be the last day that that that that you
bend because somebody's told you to bend. You break because
somebody told you to break. You stop doing the thing

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that you know you should be doing, feel that you
should be doing. We're made to do. We're not. We're not.
We're not doing that. We're not doing that. We're not.
It's February. There's still time left in this year. There's
still time. It's February. Let's get that confidence in the

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right place. Okay, let's let's get that confidence in the
right place. Let's put it in its place and keep
it there, and keep it there. So I want you to,
for the rest of this day, the rest of this evening,
whatever it may be, I want you to sit down
and think about who makes you feel like your confidence

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is an issue. Who makes you feel like you aren't
able to be yourself? Who makes you feel that way,
and that that is where you can start seeing where
the problem's at. Because as long as you're not able
to be yourself, who are you? Then? Who are you?
That's a real question, who are you? And maybe you

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need to answer that put that down on the paper too.
If you're not able to be yourself, who are you being?
And how beneficial is that for your personal life? How
beneficial is that for your personal journey? How beneficial is
that for you moving forward the way that God intended
for you to move forward? How beneficial is it? Okay,

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I told you guys, this wasn't going to be a
long cast. I just want to make sure I got
on here and make sure. I want to just put that.
I want to just put that in your ear. I
want to just go ahead and sit that on your spirit,
as some people may say. I'm gonna sit that on
your spirit and let you think about when is the
last time you had real confidence in anything that you
were doing versus how somebody else wanted you to move

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and or be indoor act in the moment, and if
not the moment, just in life general. Okay, that's even
that work at home, at at at just anywhere anywhere anywhere.
Are you able to be yourself or do people have

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an issue with you being yourself? And that is the
real issue, that's the real issue. Thank you, guys so
very much for continuing to tune into the hated heroes podcast,
it's gonna be an amazing week. Okay, it's gonna be
an amazing week. You guys be great. Let them hate