August 25, 2025 • 27 mins
(00:00:00) We read Reddit r/AITA stories: Language, Lasagna, and Life's Surprises
(00:00:16) Intro
(00:02:35) AITA for telling my friend to stop policing my language?
(00:07:35) AITA for drinking a 6 pack of O'Doul's every morning?
(00:15:50) AITA for taking my girlfriend's lasagna home when she said I could?
(00:20:05) AITA for clearing out my ex-boyfriend’s childhood room in the home where he grew up?
(00:26:50) Ending
On the 4th episode of The Joevelocity Show, Joe is joined by Hubba and we discuss some stories from the r/AITA Subreddit:
• AITA for telling my friend to stop policing my language?
We start off with a Reddit story where we explore the dilemma of whether it's right to allow a friend to police one's language, particularly when it comes to using mild curse words or expressions like "oh my God." We share personal experiences with similar situations, highlighting the importance of allowing friends to express themselves freely without unwarranted corrections, while balancing respect for each other's boundaries. Through this discussion, we examine the dynamics of friendship and the nuances of respecting individual language preferences.
• AITA for drinking a 6 pack of O'Doul's every morning?
Next, the conversation shifts to a story about a recovering alcoholic who brings non-alcoholic beer to work as part of his sobriety routine, sparking complaints from colleagues and a meeting with HR. The debate highlights differing perceptions of non-alcoholic beer in a professional setting and raises questions about fairness and workplace norms.
• AITA for taking my girlfriend's lasagna home when she said I could?
We explore the tale of a college student who took his girlfriend's entire tray of homemade lasagna home to his family, only to discover she had planned to eat it throughout the week due to her tight food budget. Listeners weigh in on the ethical implications and offer their judgments, largely siding against the student's actions and labeling him as inconsiderate. The narrative highlights the importance of communication and consideration in relationships.
• And in the Moment of Conclusion, AITA for clearing out my ex-boyfriend’s childhood room in the home where he grew up?
Finally, we examine a more intricate scenario involving a woman who moved in with her ex-boyfriend's father, who is now her significant other. The story promises a complex dynamic, teasing us with the potential drama and ethical considerations of cleaning out the childhood room of her ex-boyfriend. This chapter engages with themes of responsibility, respect, and the unexpected twists of personal relationships.
Subscribe to The Joevelocity Show in your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss an episode! New episodes drop every Monday.
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(00:00:16) Intro
(00:02:35) AITA for telling my friend to stop policing my language?
(00:07:35) AITA for drinking a 6 pack of O'Doul's every morning?
(00:15:50) AITA for taking my girlfriend's lasagna home when she said I could?
(00:20:05) AITA for clearing out my ex-boyfriend’s childhood room in the home where he grew up?
(00:26:50) Ending
On the 4th episode of The Joevelocity Show, Joe is joined by Hubba and we discuss some stories from the r/AITA Subreddit:
• AITA for telling my friend to stop policing my language?
We start off with a Reddit story where we explore the dilemma of whether it's right to allow a friend to police one's language, particularly when it comes to using mild curse words or expressions like "oh my God." We share personal experiences with similar situations, highlighting the importance of allowing friends to express themselves freely without unwarranted corrections, while balancing respect for each other's boundaries. Through this discussion, we examine the dynamics of friendship and the nuances of respecting individual language preferences.
• AITA for drinking a 6 pack of O'Doul's every morning?
Next, the conversation shifts to a story about a recovering alcoholic who brings non-alcoholic beer to work as part of his sobriety routine, sparking complaints from colleagues and a meeting with HR. The debate highlights differing perceptions of non-alcoholic beer in a professional setting and raises questions about fairness and workplace norms.
• AITA for taking my girlfriend's lasagna home when she said I could?
We explore the tale of a college student who took his girlfriend's entire tray of homemade lasagna home to his family, only to discover she had planned to eat it throughout the week due to her tight food budget. Listeners weigh in on the ethical implications and offer their judgments, largely siding against the student's actions and labeling him as inconsiderate. The narrative highlights the importance of communication and consideration in relationships.
• And in the Moment of Conclusion, AITA for clearing out my ex-boyfriend’s childhood room in the home where he grew up?
Finally, we examine a more intricate scenario involving a woman who moved in with her ex-boyfriend's father, who is now her significant other. The story promises a complex dynamic, teasing us with the potential drama and ethical considerations of cleaning out the childhood room of her ex-boyfriend. This chapter engages with themes of responsibility, respect, and the unexpected twists of personal relationships.
Subscribe to The Joevelocity Show in your favorite podcast app so you don’t miss an episode! New episodes drop every Monday.
Need more Joevelocity in your life? Visit joevelocity.com for access to all our sites and content.
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Speaker 1 (00:08):
Like a group chat meltdown, but with better audio. This
is the Joe Velocity Show.
Speaker 2 (00:16):
And welcome to yet another episode of the Joe Velossit Show.
I'm here with my friend Hibbah. Hey, hey, hey, how
you doing.
Speaker 3 (00:25):
I'm good. How are you?
Speaker 2 (00:27):
I'm doing well. I'm doing well enough outside for you
right now?
Speaker 3 (00:31):
Hot in the.
Speaker 2 (00:33):
So yeah, while we're recording this here, yeah, it's like
ninety degrees outside, but thankfully for the next ten days
after this, it's not going to be ninety anymore.
Speaker 4 (00:40):
So I just feel like I'm melting right, you know,
not in here. Though it feels really nice.
Speaker 2 (00:47):
Well that's good, I'm glad, but my poor AC is
trying to keep up with us here, and it's just
kind of like, yeah, I feel like you need a
third a C or you know, more fans or something
like that, because I've my best my acs on full
blast at the fans running in both my living room
and my bedroom and stuff, and it's just kind of
like just trying to keep it cold.
Speaker 3 (01:06):
Maybe during the like a fan near it.
Speaker 2 (01:10):
But here's the weird part about it. Once the temperature
goes back into the low eighties, it'll be cold in
here to the point where I need a blanket, right,
So it's kind of like there's no happy meeting. Basically
is what it boils down to. It's either too hot
or too cold, you know, But I'd rather deal with
it being too cold because I can always turn these
(01:30):
down then at that point raise the temperature in here,
so I don't need a blanket that so, right, But yeah,
I much prefer to have the blanket there because at
this point there, it's getting to the point where I think, actually,
what even affects me more than the heat is the humidity,
because I swear it's been two hundred percent of humidity
here on western Pennsylvania for god knows how long now,
(01:51):
And I imagine you you work outside.
Speaker 4 (01:54):
Oh god, I don't even want about It's just like
I just feel like I'll be melting on.
Speaker 2 (02:02):
The corner, melting into the pavement.
Speaker 4 (02:05):
I'm about to be the same color as charcoal. You know,
I'm already born brown.
Speaker 2 (02:12):
Oh man, man, just melt right into the ground. Time
really I'll be there, will be the stop sign and
the yield sign right there.
Speaker 4 (02:20):
Go have again, melt into the ground, looking like the asspholk.
Speaker 2 (02:24):
Could be peeling me up with one of those statulations.
Oh man man, So let's go ahead here and let's
get started with our first Reddit story. And by the
asshover telling my friends to stop pleasing my language, well, now,
shit right. My friend Jana's twenty five male and I
(02:46):
twenty three female, have only been friends for a few months,
but I've already noticed that she's super weird about certain things.
One of her boundaries is that she doesn't tolerate curse
words or phrases, including common and my one's like oh
my god. If your friend with her and happen to
utter and oh my god or something similar, she will
boldly and publicly correct you as though she's in charge,
(03:07):
which is her right, but it makes her insoverable to
be around. I've already tried explaining that it's read the
police her friend's language. Janis insists that she's not trying
to control or disrespect me at all. She's just expressing herself,
and I'm the one trying to control her self expression.
I can't help but feel like this is classic Darva.
She is literally trying to speak for me, like if
(03:28):
I say holy crap, she'll say, you mean holy corn
in an annoying parential tone. I feel like she means well,
but I also feel like if I tolerate her corrections
in alternate language, I'm reinforcing the idea that Boston people
around gets you what you want? So am I the
asshole over? Tell my friends to stop policing my language?
Speaker 3 (03:51):
I want to say, no, not the asshole, No, not
at all, No.
Speaker 4 (03:58):
Because it's just like, come, want to let her be herself,
you know what I mean?
Speaker 3 (04:03):
Isn't that what your friend?
Speaker 4 (04:04):
Why your friends with her because you'd like to like
how she hit the kind of person she is.
Speaker 2 (04:09):
I had this happened to me one time, actually, and
it was with my stepbrother, And it's because my stepbrother
was real into church and everything there. And if I
edited oh shit, or you know, use the F word
or something by accident, which everybody else in her family
did perfectly fine. You know, he's like, oh, he didn't
mean that, he meant oh crap word. Yeah, he would
(04:32):
go to try correct to me. It's kind of like, no,
I said the F word, and you're gonna be okay
with that, you know, lead me the fuck you know
me be damn.
Speaker 4 (04:46):
You know, I get it through or people that you
know that are very much church, like, yeah, don't like
to be around that language, and so well, then don't
be around people that use that language.
Speaker 2 (04:57):
Well, hold on, they're usually the biggest curses of them all.
Speaker 3 (05:01):
They're the biggest hip.
Speaker 2 (05:03):
There I get out of church. What the fuck was that?
Speaker 4 (05:06):
Why exactly, they'd be the biggest hypocrite. Yeah right, they're
sitting up eating seafood.
Speaker 2 (05:21):
Anyways. Yeah, the comments were quite interesting in this one.
Here not the asshole, no genis. I definitely meant crap.
Now think you not to correct me when you don't
know what the fuck you're talking about? Right, It's the
most polite response I would accept. At this point, another
person said, yeah, every time she corrected, do you see
something worse and be like, can't control me, right, but
(05:43):
you can't control not making it worse by opening your
mouth in the first place. So when you stop at
your behavior, all, stop saying the worst word and stick
to my mould curse, Thank you very much. And the
third one was great. I know a guy who says
cheese and rice instead of Jesus Christ. I confess I
find it rather endearing, but it has a lot to
do with the fact that he says what he says
(06:05):
and everyone else says what they say, and there's an
end to it. He doesn't try to police what other
people say. Janis needs to learn from my friend exactly.
Speaker 3 (06:13):
Yeah, mind's your business. Okay, let me do me and
you do you. Right, that's it.
Speaker 4 (06:20):
You know, love them for who they are, you know,
Isn't that that's the point.
Speaker 3 (06:24):
That's the thing.
Speaker 4 (06:25):
Isn't that the point You're not supposed to judge in
the first place.
Speaker 2 (06:31):
Yeah. The only thing I can think of there is
is that she's very religious there, and she's trying to,
you know, try to get her friend the curse less.
But in this case then it's having the opposite effect
there where it's pissing off her friend to the point
where she's just like, you know, I'm just gonna say
worse and worse stuff the more and more you do
this here, so.
Speaker 4 (06:51):
And then this isn't like she's dealing with her grandmother.
This isn't like you dealing with your family member. This
is supposed to be your friend. Yeah, conversation about this here, right,
someone you should be able to talk to about anything.
Speaker 3 (07:05):
That's the point of friends.
Speaker 2 (07:07):
And if they can't come to any agreements there, maybe
they shouldn't be friends. I don't know.
Speaker 4 (07:11):
Yeah, I mean we could be cordial, but maybe we
shouldn't be friends because I shouldn't have to sit up
and watch how.
Speaker 2 (07:17):
I talk, especially tell me how I can fucking speak,
you know, if I can't say this or that or
that or that.
Speaker 3 (07:26):
Yeah, it's just my girl, you know what? Back, Yeah,
I don't want to be your friend at this point exactly.
Speaker 2 (07:33):
Anyways, let's go and move on to the second story here, right,
Am I the asshole for drinking a six pack of
A Duels every morning?
Speaker 3 (07:41):
You know, you're just a drunk?
Speaker 2 (07:43):
Whoa? Anyways, we just wait for quick context purposes. I'm
a recovering alcoholic. I've been sober for four years. I
used to love day drinking, basically waking up in the
morning and drinking right away. One thing that really helped
me kick the juice is drinking the Dules in the morning.
It's a habit I haven't really broken. And with that
being said, I bring a six pack of Aduls into
work every morning and drink them at my cubicle. For
(08:06):
those un awhere, A Duels is a non alcoholic bring
the beer.
Speaker 3 (08:09):
Oh okay, okay, okay, okay.
Speaker 2 (08:11):
I feel why what do you think a duels was?
Speaker 3 (08:15):
I thought it was beer?
Speaker 2 (08:16):
Well, it kind of is beer, but it's not. They
call it near beer. It has zero point five percent alcohol, so.
Speaker 3 (08:28):
There's still alcohol in it. Then yeah, but he's drinking beer.
Speaker 2 (08:32):
But that's kind of the same amount that you would
have in like mouth wash or.
Speaker 3 (08:36):
Well, well then shit that will have it. Damn.
Speaker 2 (08:40):
Hold on. I have a handful of coworkers to find
this offensive. I won't call anyone individually, but I've heard
comments like I wish I could crush a six pack
of beers at work, or I guess it's five o'clock
in the National Arts World, which is the poster of
this here, or the rest of us are working hard
while international arts are they're drinking this, treating us like
(09:01):
some sort of front house party drinking us. Yeah. I've
also been told I reek liket beer, and I've even
heard people undermine my sobriety by saying I solve a
problem and that drinking non alcoholic beer doesn't make it
any better. I was roosting brought into a meeting with
HR and notified that some employees had issue complaints against
my behavior. I was frustrated because no one yells at
(09:22):
Diane for drinking eight die cokes that day. Yet here
I am in HR's office. I was putably asked by
my employer to leave the aduls at home. I'm having
an issue understanding why this is a problem. Am I
the asshole for drinking aduls at work? I would say?
Still in this case, yeah, yeah, this.
Speaker 3 (09:40):
Is this is the workplace.
Speaker 4 (09:42):
This ain't no where do you need to be drinking
zero point five alcohol?
Speaker 3 (09:46):
You shouldn't be drinking no kind of alcohol at all.
Speaker 4 (09:49):
Right, I don't care if it does have the same
amount of alcohol in mouthwash.
Speaker 3 (09:54):
You can get drunk off of mouthwatch.
Speaker 2 (09:56):
I mean also like kibucha, you know it hascohols. Father,
I don't think I'd be drinking that at work. No,
I wannestly. I think it tastes like shit too.
Speaker 3 (10:06):
Me too, me too.
Speaker 2 (10:08):
Yeah, they're like, oh, this is supposed to be good.
Speaker 4 (10:11):
Yeah, I don't like it. No, I don't like it.
But at the same time, it's just like, no, that's
not a place. That's not a place you should be
drinking that at all. And you're downing them. You're drinking
like six a day, like six of them early in
the morning. Yeah, like it's like you're chasing after alcohol.
That's not helping with your sobriety at all.
Speaker 2 (10:34):
I think the commenters agree with you there. One of
them said, you're the asshole if you continue. If your
workers are saying you smell like beer, then I place
this in a similar category as a coworker who microwaves
fish every day. I don't never had this coworkers. I
don't know what it was. Maybe maybe I had ones
actually cared.
Speaker 3 (10:52):
Yeah, I never had that before.
Speaker 2 (10:55):
Even so alcoholic, and you're not a customer facing position.
It's more of a point and professional. It's like if
someone's drinking greepe juice, I have a wine glass all day,
or Diana's drinking her eight I cooks. I't of a
pint glass. M Additionally, is mildly alcoholic, very slightly. People
here in recovery in AA, for example, strongly recommend that
you do not drink it, both for that reason and
(11:17):
because it normalizes drinking in your life. And the last
one really hited home. I recently learned about the term
dry drunk when you stop drinking, but you maintaining the
habits and attitude you did while drinking. I think drinking
six of duels at work indicates he hasn't broken the habit.
Speaker 3 (11:35):
No, not at all.
Speaker 2 (11:37):
So I would think probably, you know, it's just like
literally like one step forward and then he's back to
drinking beer again, you.
Speaker 3 (11:44):
Know, Right, that's all it takes.
Speaker 4 (11:46):
It's you know, he's not helping himself at all all,
you know, and and and to me, it makes no
it's just he's just not helping himself.
Speaker 3 (11:55):
Let me know.
Speaker 2 (11:57):
It's like seriously, I mean, it's kind of like I
used to smoke cirruts and then I started vaping instead
of smoking. But honestly, I don't think I really really
quit because I actually vaped more than I smoked. So
literally it was like I replaced smoking with vaping, right.
It wasn't until you know, I ended up, you know,
(12:18):
with my life ordering an event where I had to
stop smoking completely. That it was a situation, you know,
that I just stopped vading. Plus, when you're in the
hospital for a month like I was, you can't vaping there.
It just kind of made sense, you know what, I'm
just gonna be done with this, and ever since then,
I've been done with it. Yeah, good for you, but
(12:42):
good for my goodness.
Speaker 4 (12:44):
Yeah, so now if only I can listen to damnself.
Speaker 2 (12:50):
Put yourself in the hospital for a month. Yeah, you
do it, right, I'm telling you.
Speaker 4 (12:54):
But see, I don't really vape that much now, you don't,
you know, Yeah, you used.
Speaker 3 (12:59):
To have them big is is. Yeah, I did not
a big one, big old happy ass one. You had
to blowing all that smoke.
Speaker 2 (13:07):
Out, but you knew me smoked. I smoked a lot,
making clouds, yeah, blowing rings, you know. Anyways, Uh, yeah,
it's just kind of like, you know, he is just
one of those cases where it's kind of like he's
really replaced his beer with a duels And yeah, well
he may be quote unquote server, you know, I don't
(13:30):
think he's really kicked the habit, you know, right, So
that you gave me that look like I'm like, what
the hell did you just do?
Speaker 3 (13:42):
I'm like, speaking of vaper.
Speaker 2 (13:47):
No, but you know what, I would rather have you
vape than the smoke any day.
Speaker 3 (13:50):
Yeah, me too.
Speaker 2 (13:52):
That's why I look at it there. So yeah, it's
a lot cleaner, you know. And that's the nice thing
about don smoke anymore. I don't worry about going outside
in the middle of winter. Right. Oh, I hated that
my skin was so freaking dry whenever I used to
smoke outside during the winter. And now the fact that
I have to be going outside, inside, inside, outside, out there,
(14:12):
back and forth all the time.
Speaker 3 (14:14):
Yeah, me find out if you put on a losion.
Speaker 2 (14:19):
I ran myself with my blanket. I'm like, I'm nice
and warm.
Speaker 3 (14:22):
No death.
Speaker 2 (14:23):
Right anyways, where you go ahead here, We're going to
take a break and we'll be back with more stories
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Welcome back to the Joe Velossiti Show. We're and you
go ahead and get into the third story. Now you
just love this music is dancing away anyways. The third
story is am I the asshole for taking my girlfriend's
lazogna home when she said I could. My girlfriend and
I are both college students. She lives in an apartment
on our own and I live with my parents. On Sunday,
(16:16):
my girlfriend made homemade lasogna for a date night. She
made everything from scratch, including the noodles. It was really good,
so after we finished, I asked so I could take
some lazogna home for my family to try. She said yes.
When I left that night, I took the trail lazogna
with me. My girlfriend didn't walk me out, so she
didn't see me to take the tray. On Monday, I
(16:36):
got a text with my girlfriend asking where her lazogna was.
I told her I had taken it home for my family.
She said, I thought you were going to take some,
not the whole thing. I spent messing my food budget
that week on it with the intention he leftovers for
the rest of the week. Now I don't know what
I'm going to eat. I felt bad and apologized, but
I pointed out that I had asked her if I
(16:57):
could take it home and she didn't tell me that
I could didn't take the whole tray. She said it
should have been obvious that I should not have taken
the whole thing since the tray was so big. To
be fair to her, it was a really big tray.
My family five only just finished the tray yesterday after
eating it for dinner both nights. But I don't think
the size of the tray makes it obvious that I
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shouldn't take it. Monday night and last night, my girlfriend
complained that she had to eat instant noodles for dinner
and so that she wouldn't blow her food budget. Today,
she's asked me if I could buy her a sandwich
since I took her leftovers for the week. It sucks
that she's spent her food budget on lazagna, but I
think this is her fault for not being cleared that
I shouldn't take the whole entire thing. I don't think
(17:41):
she has justified it has me to buy her lunch
because of it. She called me an asshole for not
being willing to help her out. Am I the asshole?
Speaker 3 (17:49):
Absolutely? You are an ass you or an ass whole?
Speaker 4 (17:55):
You mean to tell me you took a whole motherfucking
tray a whole tray?
Speaker 3 (18:00):
Go ahead, Joe? So he pissed me off.
Speaker 2 (18:03):
I know, No, this pisses me off there too, because
it's just kind of like, you know, I think the
first thing I would have said to her is like,
you know, let me get you something. I'm so sorry.
Let me get you something to help get you through
this here, especially if it blew your feud budget for
the week there. I don't want you to go hungry,
you know, let me get you some something. MA can
(18:24):
learn a little sogna. I love this so much. You know,
I'll get you enough to make two of them, you know, yeah, yeah,
And then that way you give me a trey. You
can have a tray. You know, it won't cost you anything,
you know, So there's many ways that he could have
made this up to her. But I don't think, you know,
he was like, oh you know, I don't think I
was the askho for taking the tray. Fuck you, yeah,
(18:44):
you were, you know.
Speaker 4 (18:45):
Just the fuck you work. You mean to tell me
you took the whole damn tray. But listen, I'm not
even mad about him taking the tray, right, It's not
even about taking the tray.
Speaker 3 (18:53):
It's a simple fact that you were not willing.
Speaker 4 (18:55):
To help this woman out, knowing that she had a
budget of food budget and you're literally going home to
your family of five, right. Yeah, if you didn't really
have it, you could have asked somebody there like, hey,
I just want to help her back out because she
didn't expect me to take the whole tray of food.
Speaker 2 (19:11):
The commenters agree with us completely utterly. Who the hell
sees a giant meal that's almost prepared to think, damn
I should asked for ninety percent. It makes sense she
would assumed that she only meant a small bit of it.
That's like being invited to a party with a buffet
and assuming the guests get first crowds that what's left over?
Speaker 3 (19:28):
Like, holy hell, what an ass?
Speaker 2 (19:31):
So oh yeah, oops, didn't realize you wanted the rest
of the leftovers. So now you have now dinner. Sorry,
too bad you can't come to my house with dinner.
Oh my whole family is having a lasagna. Wow? Why
could you imagine?
Speaker 4 (19:47):
That was so selfish? I know that was so selfish.
I hope she left your ass right?
Speaker 2 (19:55):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (19:55):
Was it worth that trait of lasagna? Ah?
Speaker 2 (20:01):
Oh? Man man? But anyways, guess what time it is?
Speaker 3 (20:07):
Oh? What's it?
Speaker 2 (20:10):
The moment of conclusion, that's what it's called. So the
moment of conclusion today and the asshole for cleaning out
my ex boyfriend's childhood room in the home where he
grew up. I moved in with my significant other of
two years after my pay was reduced in February due
to everything that's been happening and didn't make financial sense
(20:32):
for me to live in my own apartment anymore. My
significant other asked me to move in with him, so
I took him up on his offer. My significant other
is my ex'es boyfriend's dad. Okay, so basically, yeah, her
ex boyfriend. This is her dad that's now her boyfriend
(20:53):
or her significant other in this case. So I'm now
living with the home where my ex boyfriend grew up.
My ex doesn't at the house at all. I suggested
to my significant other that we should move everything out
of my excess childhood room, let me use the store
some of my stuff, and let me use it as
my personal office slash launching room. My significant other agreed,
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so I boxed up everything in my ex boyfriend's childhood
room and moved them to the garage, including the furniture.
I've redecorated the room and made it mine before I
even moved his things. I emailed my ex about this
and told him that he should come by and take
a look at what he wants to keep and or
sell in or donate. After not hearing from him for
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three weeks, today he texts me, calling me all sorts
of names for clearing out and taking his room. I'm
really trying to be sensitive and nice here, but he
is making this very difficult with his rage filled outburst
and texts. My significant other and I are giving him
a gear to clear out his childhood stuff from the
garage Before I donate everything. Neither my significant other or
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I feel that cleaning out his room was inappropriate. But
my ex is just melting down a tantrum filled rage.
Why does my ex feel like he owns his childhood
riom he doesn't even visit. It's very sad and bizarre.
Speaker 4 (22:11):
Well, first of all, you order asshole.
Speaker 3 (22:14):
For one, you're up there messing with his father. Okay,
you're messing with his.
Speaker 2 (22:21):
That was the first comment. The way you just lost
to the fact that your significant other is your dad's
you know, is your excess dad. It's pure and my
asshole gold exactly.
Speaker 3 (22:31):
You already instantly became the asshole.
Speaker 4 (22:35):
But for second, you're literally clearing out his room, his
childhood room that he grew up in.
Speaker 3 (22:43):
Like, you're clearing his shit out? And how do you like?
I just don't understand.
Speaker 2 (22:49):
Imagine if the roles were reversed there, Yeah, I mean,
I would think that she would have an issue with it.
There is like he was in her childhood hum and
doing the same thing. Yeah to her, you know, I yeah,
taking an issue with the absolutely.
Speaker 4 (23:03):
What the hell was this? Uh? The song what's her name?
Halsley Blue? The colors, that song Everything is Blue?
Speaker 3 (23:16):
She's literally like she was literally dating a guy.
Speaker 4 (23:20):
Yeah, and she's in high school and she's, you know,
with this guy whatever.
Speaker 3 (23:25):
She's going to tennis practices and stuff with him. Kind
of find.
Speaker 4 (23:28):
Out she wasn't even taking pictures of film. She was
taking pictures of his father. Oh god, and he found
the pictures and he got like kind of discussing.
Speaker 3 (23:36):
Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying that.
Speaker 4 (23:38):
You know, everybody is attracted who they're attracted to, But
at the same time, you literally broke your axis heart
and and went and got in the whole relationship with
his father, and now you're trying to clear out his
childhood room. It's or the asshole you are, the donkey
of forever.
Speaker 2 (24:00):
The next comer said, she took the phrase f his
dad literally he doesn't visit anymore. Honey, your brainsman out
of jarling and cookie crowmbs. If you can't figure that
one out, Why would.
Speaker 4 (24:09):
He want to visit you fucking his dad?
Speaker 3 (24:12):
Yeah, Like why would you? I wouldn't want to be
I wouldn't even want to be around.
Speaker 4 (24:17):
My dad or you, which is yeah, when he wants
to visit, you selfish bitch, Exactly, You're selfish as hell.
Oh he doesn't come and visit and girl back, what
you went to? What are you gonna come visit? You
probably gonna star fucking him again to?
Speaker 2 (24:34):
Yeah, watch you be his step mom?
Speaker 3 (24:35):
Yeah, you're literally his step mom now.
Speaker 2 (24:39):
Yeah, it's like, what are you respecting?
Speaker 4 (24:42):
Like, you're gonna be his step mom now after you
used to guzzle them that girl back, Yeah, we don't
like you.
Speaker 3 (24:50):
You or the donkey of the day.
Speaker 2 (24:52):
The last coming, I think takes the case. You're the asshole.
This is a new twist on evil step mom. And
then some of you responds to that, It's like, I
look over to the inevitable point of adaptation.
Speaker 4 (25:09):
Wow, I'm sorry, you are self fish.
Speaker 2 (25:15):
You are selfish so much, so so much, su or
can I even imagine?
Speaker 4 (25:21):
I don't blame him for going off on you. I
don't blame him for going off on you.
Speaker 3 (25:25):
You know, I'm.
Speaker 4 (25:26):
Always the one to sit up there like, well, there's
always a way to talk to people and things like that.
Speaker 3 (25:30):
I'm so glad he ass al Colt and they did whatever.
Speaker 2 (25:35):
Right.
Speaker 3 (25:35):
You are dead wrong. You are dead wrong. Soon as
she said that, like she was messing with her ex's father.
Speaker 2 (25:42):
Yeah, that was the that was that was that was.
Speaker 3 (25:46):
The you know, you know the record scratch her right, Yeah, yeah,
that was it.
Speaker 2 (25:53):
Ain't got that but well we had it in that
commercial for Drivelosity.
Speaker 4 (25:58):
Yeah yeah, that's crazy. Oh I just lost so much
respect for you.
Speaker 2 (26:07):
Respect.
Speaker 3 (26:08):
I hope she heard it is.
Speaker 2 (26:09):
Yeah, she should take that air for it.
Speaker 4 (26:11):
Since you want to sit up there and be with
that man, don't ever try to contact her his son
if he ever comes back around and decide like, hey,
he let him have figured it out on his own
because you didn't.
Speaker 3 (26:28):
I don't like you. I don't like you.
Speaker 2 (26:31):
I don't like oh man a man a man a
man a man this.
Speaker 3 (26:38):
Now you know I wouldn't like her that I wouldn't
like her.
Speaker 2 (26:43):
I knew you loved the story, right, but anyway, it's
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Like a group chat meltdown, but with better audio. This
is the Joe Velocity Show.
Speaker 2 (00:16):
And welcome to yet another episode of the Joe Velossit Show.
I'm here with my friend Hibbah. Hey, hey, hey, how
you doing.
Speaker 3 (00:25):
I'm good. How are you?
Speaker 2 (00:27):
I'm doing well. I'm doing well enough outside for you
right now?
Speaker 3 (00:31):
Hot in the.
Speaker 2 (00:33):
So yeah, while we're recording this here, yeah, it's like
ninety degrees outside, but thankfully for the next ten days
after this, it's not going to be ninety anymore.
Speaker 4 (00:40):
So I just feel like I'm melting right, you know,
not in here. Though it feels really nice.
Speaker 2 (00:47):
Well that's good, I'm glad, but my poor AC is
trying to keep up with us here, and it's just
kind of like, yeah, I feel like you need a
third a C or you know, more fans or something
like that, because I've my best my acs on full
blast at the fans running in both my living room
and my bedroom and stuff, and it's just kind of
like just trying to keep it cold.
Speaker 3 (01:06):
Maybe during the like a fan near it.
Speaker 2 (01:10):
But here's the weird part about it. Once the temperature
goes back into the low eighties, it'll be cold in
here to the point where I need a blanket, right,
So it's kind of like there's no happy meeting. Basically
is what it boils down to. It's either too hot
or too cold, you know, But I'd rather deal with
it being too cold because I can always turn these
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down then at that point raise the temperature in here,
so I don't need a blanket that so, right, But yeah,
I much prefer to have the blanket there because at
this point there, it's getting to the point where I think, actually,
what even affects me more than the heat is the humidity,
because I swear it's been two hundred percent of humidity
here on western Pennsylvania for god knows how long now,
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And I imagine you you work outside.
Speaker 4 (01:54):
Oh god, I don't even want about It's just like
I just feel like I'll be melting on.
Speaker 2 (02:02):
The corner, melting into the pavement.
Speaker 4 (02:05):
I'm about to be the same color as charcoal. You know,
I'm already born brown.
Speaker 2 (02:12):
Oh man, man, just melt right into the ground. Time
really I'll be there, will be the stop sign and
the yield sign right there.
Speaker 4 (02:20):
Go have again, melt into the ground, looking like the asspholk.
Speaker 2 (02:24):
Could be peeling me up with one of those statulations.
Oh man man, So let's go ahead here and let's
get started with our first Reddit story. And by the
asshover telling my friends to stop pleasing my language, well, now,
shit right. My friend Jana's twenty five male and I
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twenty three female, have only been friends for a few months,
but I've already noticed that she's super weird about certain things.
One of her boundaries is that she doesn't tolerate curse
words or phrases, including common and my one's like oh
my god. If your friend with her and happen to
utter and oh my god or something similar, she will
boldly and publicly correct you as though she's in charge,
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which is her right, but it makes her insoverable to
be around. I've already tried explaining that it's read the
police her friend's language. Janis insists that she's not trying
to control or disrespect me at all. She's just expressing herself,
and I'm the one trying to control her self expression.
I can't help but feel like this is classic Darva.
She is literally trying to speak for me, like if
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I say holy crap, she'll say, you mean holy corn
in an annoying parential tone. I feel like she means well,
but I also feel like if I tolerate her corrections
in alternate language, I'm reinforcing the idea that Boston people
around gets you what you want? So am I the
asshole over? Tell my friends to stop policing my language?
Speaker 3 (03:51):
I want to say, no, not the asshole, No, not
at all, No.
Speaker 4 (03:58):
Because it's just like, come, want to let her be herself,
you know what I mean?
Speaker 3 (04:03):
Isn't that what your friend?
Speaker 4 (04:04):
Why your friends with her because you'd like to like
how she hit the kind of person she is.
Speaker 2 (04:09):
I had this happened to me one time, actually, and
it was with my stepbrother, And it's because my stepbrother
was real into church and everything there. And if I
edited oh shit, or you know, use the F word
or something by accident, which everybody else in her family
did perfectly fine. You know, he's like, oh, he didn't
mean that, he meant oh crap word. Yeah, he would
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go to try correct to me. It's kind of like, no,
I said the F word, and you're gonna be okay
with that, you know, lead me the fuck you know
me be damn.
Speaker 4 (04:46):
You know, I get it through or people that you
know that are very much church, like, yeah, don't like
to be around that language, and so well, then don't
be around people that use that language.
Speaker 2 (04:57):
Well, hold on, they're usually the biggest curses of them all.
Speaker 3 (05:01):
They're the biggest hip.
Speaker 2 (05:03):
There I get out of church. What the fuck was that?
Speaker 4 (05:06):
Why exactly, they'd be the biggest hypocrite. Yeah right, they're
sitting up eating seafood.
Speaker 2 (05:21):
Anyways. Yeah, the comments were quite interesting in this one.
Here not the asshole, no genis. I definitely meant crap.
Now think you not to correct me when you don't
know what the fuck you're talking about? Right, It's the
most polite response I would accept. At this point, another
person said, yeah, every time she corrected, do you see
something worse and be like, can't control me, right, but
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you can't control not making it worse by opening your
mouth in the first place. So when you stop at
your behavior, all, stop saying the worst word and stick
to my mould curse, Thank you very much. And the
third one was great. I know a guy who says
cheese and rice instead of Jesus Christ. I confess I
find it rather endearing, but it has a lot to
do with the fact that he says what he says
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and everyone else says what they say, and there's an
end to it. He doesn't try to police what other
people say. Janis needs to learn from my friend exactly.
Speaker 3 (06:13):
Yeah, mind's your business. Okay, let me do me and
you do you. Right, that's it.
Speaker 4 (06:20):
You know, love them for who they are, you know,
Isn't that that's the point.
Speaker 3 (06:24):
That's the thing.
Speaker 4 (06:25):
Isn't that the point You're not supposed to judge in
the first place.
Speaker 2 (06:31):
Yeah. The only thing I can think of there is
is that she's very religious there, and she's trying to,
you know, try to get her friend the curse less.
But in this case then it's having the opposite effect
there where it's pissing off her friend to the point
where she's just like, you know, I'm just gonna say
worse and worse stuff the more and more you do
this here, so.
Speaker 4 (06:51):
And then this isn't like she's dealing with her grandmother.
This isn't like you dealing with your family member. This
is supposed to be your friend. Yeah, conversation about this here, right,
someone you should be able to talk to about anything.
Speaker 3 (07:05):
That's the point of friends.
Speaker 2 (07:07):
And if they can't come to any agreements there, maybe
they shouldn't be friends. I don't know.
Speaker 4 (07:11):
Yeah, I mean we could be cordial, but maybe we
shouldn't be friends because I shouldn't have to sit up
and watch how.
Speaker 2 (07:17):
I talk, especially tell me how I can fucking speak,
you know, if I can't say this or that or
that or that.
Speaker 3 (07:26):
Yeah, it's just my girl, you know what? Back, Yeah,
I don't want to be your friend at this point exactly.
Speaker 2 (07:33):
Anyways, let's go and move on to the second story here, right,
Am I the asshole for drinking a six pack of
A Duels every morning?
Speaker 3 (07:41):
You know, you're just a drunk?
Speaker 2 (07:43):
Whoa? Anyways, we just wait for quick context purposes. I'm
a recovering alcoholic. I've been sober for four years. I
used to love day drinking, basically waking up in the
morning and drinking right away. One thing that really helped
me kick the juice is drinking the Dules in the morning.
It's a habit I haven't really broken. And with that
being said, I bring a six pack of Aduls into
work every morning and drink them at my cubicle. For
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those un awhere, A Duels is a non alcoholic bring
the beer.
Speaker 3 (08:09):
Oh okay, okay, okay, okay.
Speaker 2 (08:11):
I feel why what do you think a duels was?
Speaker 3 (08:15):
I thought it was beer?
Speaker 2 (08:16):
Well, it kind of is beer, but it's not. They
call it near beer. It has zero point five percent alcohol, so.
Speaker 3 (08:28):
There's still alcohol in it. Then yeah, but he's drinking beer.
Speaker 2 (08:32):
But that's kind of the same amount that you would
have in like mouth wash or.
Speaker 3 (08:36):
Well, well then shit that will have it. Damn.
Speaker 2 (08:40):
Hold on. I have a handful of coworkers to find
this offensive. I won't call anyone individually, but I've heard
comments like I wish I could crush a six pack
of beers at work, or I guess it's five o'clock
in the National Arts World, which is the poster of
this here, or the rest of us are working hard
while international arts are they're drinking this, treating us like
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some sort of front house party drinking us. Yeah. I've
also been told I reek liket beer, and I've even
heard people undermine my sobriety by saying I solve a
problem and that drinking non alcoholic beer doesn't make it
any better. I was roosting brought into a meeting with
HR and notified that some employees had issue complaints against
my behavior. I was frustrated because no one yells at
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Diane for drinking eight die cokes that day. Yet here
I am in HR's office. I was putably asked by
my employer to leave the aduls at home. I'm having
an issue understanding why this is a problem. Am I
the asshole for drinking aduls at work? I would say?
Still in this case, yeah, yeah, this.
Speaker 3 (09:40):
Is this is the workplace.
Speaker 4 (09:42):
This ain't no where do you need to be drinking
zero point five alcohol?
Speaker 3 (09:46):
You shouldn't be drinking no kind of alcohol at all.
Speaker 4 (09:49):
Right, I don't care if it does have the same
amount of alcohol in mouthwash.
Speaker 3 (09:54):
You can get drunk off of mouthwatch.
Speaker 2 (09:56):
I mean also like kibucha, you know it hascohols. Father,
I don't think I'd be drinking that at work. No,
I wannestly. I think it tastes like shit too.
Speaker 3 (10:06):
Me too, me too.
Speaker 2 (10:08):
Yeah, they're like, oh, this is supposed to be good.
Speaker 4 (10:11):
Yeah, I don't like it. No, I don't like it.
But at the same time, it's just like, no, that's
not a place. That's not a place you should be
drinking that at all. And you're downing them. You're drinking
like six a day, like six of them early in
the morning. Yeah, like it's like you're chasing after alcohol.
That's not helping with your sobriety at all.
Speaker 2 (10:34):
I think the commenters agree with you there. One of
them said, you're the asshole if you continue. If your
workers are saying you smell like beer, then I place
this in a similar category as a coworker who microwaves
fish every day. I don't never had this coworkers. I
don't know what it was. Maybe maybe I had ones
actually cared.
Speaker 3 (10:52):
Yeah, I never had that before.
Speaker 2 (10:55):
Even so alcoholic, and you're not a customer facing position.
It's more of a point and professional. It's like if
someone's drinking greepe juice, I have a wine glass all day,
or Diana's drinking her eight I cooks. I't of a
pint glass. M Additionally, is mildly alcoholic, very slightly. People
here in recovery in AA, for example, strongly recommend that
you do not drink it, both for that reason and
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because it normalizes drinking in your life. And the last
one really hited home. I recently learned about the term
dry drunk when you stop drinking, but you maintaining the
habits and attitude you did while drinking. I think drinking
six of duels at work indicates he hasn't broken the habit.
Speaker 3 (11:35):
No, not at all.
Speaker 2 (11:37):
So I would think probably, you know, it's just like
literally like one step forward and then he's back to
drinking beer again, you.
Speaker 3 (11:44):
Know, Right, that's all it takes.
Speaker 4 (11:46):
It's you know, he's not helping himself at all all,
you know, and and and to me, it makes no
it's just he's just not helping himself.
Speaker 3 (11:55):
Let me know.
Speaker 2 (11:57):
It's like seriously, I mean, it's kind of like I
used to smoke cirruts and then I started vaping instead
of smoking. But honestly, I don't think I really really
quit because I actually vaped more than I smoked. So
literally it was like I replaced smoking with vaping, right.
It wasn't until you know, I ended up, you know,
(12:18):
with my life ordering an event where I had to
stop smoking completely. That it was a situation, you know,
that I just stopped vading. Plus, when you're in the
hospital for a month like I was, you can't vaping there.
It just kind of made sense, you know what, I'm
just gonna be done with this, and ever since then,
I've been done with it. Yeah, good for you, but
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good for my goodness.
Speaker 4 (12:44):
Yeah, so now if only I can listen to damnself.
Speaker 2 (12:50):
Put yourself in the hospital for a month. Yeah, you
do it, right, I'm telling you.
Speaker 4 (12:54):
But see, I don't really vape that much now, you don't,
you know, Yeah, you used.
Speaker 3 (12:59):
To have them big is is. Yeah, I did not
a big one, big old happy ass one. You had
to blowing all that smoke.
Speaker 2 (13:07):
Out, but you knew me smoked. I smoked a lot,
making clouds, yeah, blowing rings, you know. Anyways, Uh, yeah,
it's just kind of like, you know, he is just
one of those cases where it's kind of like he's
really replaced his beer with a duels And yeah, well
he may be quote unquote server, you know, I don't
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think he's really kicked the habit, you know, right, So
that you gave me that look like I'm like, what
the hell did you just do?
Speaker 3 (13:42):
I'm like, speaking of vaper.
Speaker 2 (13:47):
No, but you know what, I would rather have you
vape than the smoke any day.
Speaker 3 (13:50):
Yeah, me too.
Speaker 2 (13:52):
That's why I look at it there. So yeah, it's
a lot cleaner, you know. And that's the nice thing
about don smoke anymore. I don't worry about going outside
in the middle of winter. Right. Oh, I hated that
my skin was so freaking dry whenever I used to
smoke outside during the winter. And now the fact that
I have to be going outside, inside, inside, outside, out there,
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back and forth all the time.
Speaker 3 (14:14):
Yeah, me find out if you put on a losion.
Speaker 2 (14:19):
I ran myself with my blanket. I'm like, I'm nice
and warm.
Speaker 3 (14:22):
No death.
Speaker 2 (14:23):
Right anyways, where you go ahead here, We're going to
take a break and we'll be back with more stories
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Welcome back to the Joe Velossiti Show. We're and you
go ahead and get into the third story. Now you
just love this music is dancing away anyways. The third
story is am I the asshole for taking my girlfriend's
lazogna home when she said I could. My girlfriend and
I are both college students. She lives in an apartment
on our own and I live with my parents. On Sunday,
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my girlfriend made homemade lasogna for a date night. She
made everything from scratch, including the noodles. It was really good,
so after we finished, I asked so I could take
some lazogna home for my family to try. She said yes.
When I left that night, I took the trail lazogna
with me. My girlfriend didn't walk me out, so she
didn't see me to take the tray. On Monday, I
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got a text with my girlfriend asking where her lazogna was.
I told her I had taken it home for my family.
She said, I thought you were going to take some,
not the whole thing. I spent messing my food budget
that week on it with the intention he leftovers for
the rest of the week. Now I don't know what
I'm going to eat. I felt bad and apologized, but
I pointed out that I had asked her if I
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could take it home and she didn't tell me that
I could didn't take the whole tray. She said it
should have been obvious that I should not have taken
the whole thing since the tray was so big. To
be fair to her, it was a really big tray.
My family five only just finished the tray yesterday after
eating it for dinner both nights. But I don't think
the size of the tray makes it obvious that I
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shouldn't take it. Monday night and last night, my girlfriend
complained that she had to eat instant noodles for dinner
and so that she wouldn't blow her food budget. Today,
she's asked me if I could buy her a sandwich
since I took her leftovers for the week. It sucks
that she's spent her food budget on lazagna, but I
think this is her fault for not being cleared that
I shouldn't take the whole entire thing. I don't think
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she has justified it has me to buy her lunch
because of it. She called me an asshole for not
being willing to help her out. Am I the asshole?
Speaker 3 (17:49):
Absolutely? You are an ass you or an ass whole?
Speaker 4 (17:55):
You mean to tell me you took a whole motherfucking
tray a whole tray?
Speaker 3 (18:00):
Go ahead, Joe? So he pissed me off.
Speaker 2 (18:03):
I know, No, this pisses me off there too, because
it's just kind of like, you know, I think the
first thing I would have said to her is like,
you know, let me get you something. I'm so sorry.
Let me get you something to help get you through
this here, especially if it blew your feud budget for
the week there. I don't want you to go hungry,
you know, let me get you some something. MA can
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learn a little sogna. I love this so much. You know,
I'll get you enough to make two of them, you know, yeah, yeah,
And then that way you give me a trey. You
can have a tray. You know, it won't cost you anything,
you know, So there's many ways that he could have
made this up to her. But I don't think, you know,
he was like, oh you know, I don't think I
was the askho for taking the tray. Fuck you, yeah,
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you were, you know.
Speaker 4 (18:45):
Just the fuck you work. You mean to tell me
you took the whole damn tray. But listen, I'm not
even mad about him taking the tray, right, It's not
even about taking the tray.
Speaker 3 (18:53):
It's a simple fact that you were not willing.
Speaker 4 (18:55):
To help this woman out, knowing that she had a
budget of food budget and you're literally going home to
your family of five, right. Yeah, if you didn't really
have it, you could have asked somebody there like, hey,
I just want to help her back out because she
didn't expect me to take the whole tray of food.
Speaker 2 (19:11):
The commenters agree with us completely utterly. Who the hell
sees a giant meal that's almost prepared to think, damn
I should asked for ninety percent. It makes sense she
would assumed that she only meant a small bit of it.
That's like being invited to a party with a buffet
and assuming the guests get first crowds that what's left over?
Speaker 3 (19:28):
Like, holy hell, what an ass?
Speaker 2 (19:31):
So oh yeah, oops, didn't realize you wanted the rest
of the leftovers. So now you have now dinner. Sorry,
too bad you can't come to my house with dinner.
Oh my whole family is having a lasagna. Wow? Why
could you imagine?
Speaker 4 (19:47):
That was so selfish? I know that was so selfish.
I hope she left your ass right?
Speaker 2 (19:55):
Yeah?
Speaker 3 (19:55):
Was it worth that trait of lasagna? Ah?
Speaker 2 (20:01):
Oh? Man man? But anyways, guess what time it is?
Speaker 3 (20:07):
Oh? What's it?
Speaker 2 (20:10):
The moment of conclusion, that's what it's called. So the
moment of conclusion today and the asshole for cleaning out
my ex boyfriend's childhood room in the home where he
grew up. I moved in with my significant other of
two years after my pay was reduced in February due
to everything that's been happening and didn't make financial sense
(20:32):
for me to live in my own apartment anymore. My
significant other asked me to move in with him, so
I took him up on his offer. My significant other
is my ex'es boyfriend's dad. Okay, so basically, yeah, her
ex boyfriend. This is her dad that's now her boyfriend
(20:53):
or her significant other in this case. So I'm now
living with the home where my ex boyfriend grew up.
My ex doesn't at the house at all. I suggested
to my significant other that we should move everything out
of my excess childhood room, let me use the store
some of my stuff, and let me use it as
my personal office slash launching room. My significant other agreed,
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so I boxed up everything in my ex boyfriend's childhood
room and moved them to the garage, including the furniture.
I've redecorated the room and made it mine before I
even moved his things. I emailed my ex about this
and told him that he should come by and take
a look at what he wants to keep and or
sell in or donate. After not hearing from him for
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three weeks, today he texts me, calling me all sorts
of names for clearing out and taking his room. I'm
really trying to be sensitive and nice here, but he
is making this very difficult with his rage filled outburst
and texts. My significant other and I are giving him
a gear to clear out his childhood stuff from the
garage Before I donate everything. Neither my significant other or
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I feel that cleaning out his room was inappropriate. But
my ex is just melting down a tantrum filled rage.
Why does my ex feel like he owns his childhood
riom he doesn't even visit. It's very sad and bizarre.
Speaker 4 (22:11):
Well, first of all, you order asshole.
Speaker 3 (22:14):
For one, you're up there messing with his father. Okay,
you're messing with his.
Speaker 2 (22:21):
That was the first comment. The way you just lost
to the fact that your significant other is your dad's
you know, is your excess dad. It's pure and my
asshole gold exactly.
Speaker 3 (22:31):
You already instantly became the asshole.
Speaker 4 (22:35):
But for second, you're literally clearing out his room, his
childhood room that he grew up in.
Speaker 3 (22:43):
Like, you're clearing his shit out? And how do you like?
I just don't understand.
Speaker 2 (22:49):
Imagine if the roles were reversed there, Yeah, I mean,
I would think that she would have an issue with it.
There is like he was in her childhood hum and
doing the same thing. Yeah to her, you know, I yeah,
taking an issue with the absolutely.
Speaker 4 (23:03):
What the hell was this? Uh? The song what's her name?
Halsley Blue? The colors, that song Everything is Blue?
Speaker 3 (23:16):
She's literally like she was literally dating a guy.
Speaker 4 (23:20):
Yeah, and she's in high school and she's, you know,
with this guy whatever.
Speaker 3 (23:25):
She's going to tennis practices and stuff with him. Kind
of find.
Speaker 4 (23:28):
Out she wasn't even taking pictures of film. She was
taking pictures of his father. Oh god, and he found
the pictures and he got like kind of discussing.
Speaker 3 (23:36):
Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying that.
Speaker 4 (23:38):
You know, everybody is attracted who they're attracted to, But
at the same time, you literally broke your axis heart
and and went and got in the whole relationship with
his father, and now you're trying to clear out his
childhood room. It's or the asshole you are, the donkey
of forever.
Speaker 2 (24:00):
The next comer said, she took the phrase f his
dad literally he doesn't visit anymore. Honey, your brainsman out
of jarling and cookie crowmbs. If you can't figure that
one out, Why would.
Speaker 4 (24:09):
He want to visit you fucking his dad?
Speaker 3 (24:12):
Yeah, Like why would you? I wouldn't want to be
I wouldn't even want to be around.
Speaker 4 (24:17):
My dad or you, which is yeah, when he wants
to visit, you selfish bitch, Exactly, You're selfish as hell.
Oh he doesn't come and visit and girl back, what
you went to? What are you gonna come visit? You
probably gonna star fucking him again to?
Speaker 2 (24:34):
Yeah, watch you be his step mom?
Speaker 3 (24:35):
Yeah, you're literally his step mom now.
Speaker 2 (24:39):
Yeah, it's like, what are you respecting?
Speaker 4 (24:42):
Like, you're gonna be his step mom now after you
used to guzzle them that girl back, Yeah, we don't
like you.
Speaker 3 (24:50):
You or the donkey of the day.
Speaker 2 (24:52):
The last coming, I think takes the case. You're the asshole.
This is a new twist on evil step mom. And
then some of you responds to that, It's like, I
look over to the inevitable point of adaptation.
Speaker 4 (25:09):
Wow, I'm sorry, you are self fish.
Speaker 2 (25:15):
You are selfish so much, so so much, su or
can I even imagine?
Speaker 4 (25:21):
I don't blame him for going off on you. I
don't blame him for going off on you.
Speaker 3 (25:25):
You know, I'm.
Speaker 4 (25:26):
Always the one to sit up there like, well, there's
always a way to talk to people and things like that.
Speaker 3 (25:30):
I'm so glad he ass al Colt and they did whatever.
Speaker 2 (25:35):
Right.
Speaker 3 (25:35):
You are dead wrong. You are dead wrong. Soon as
she said that, like she was messing with her ex's father.
Speaker 2 (25:42):
Yeah, that was the that was that was that was.
Speaker 3 (25:46):
The you know, you know the record scratch her right, Yeah, yeah,
that was it.
Speaker 2 (25:53):
Ain't got that but well we had it in that
commercial for Drivelosity.
Speaker 4 (25:58):
Yeah yeah, that's crazy. Oh I just lost so much
respect for you.
Speaker 2 (26:07):
Respect.
Speaker 3 (26:08):
I hope she heard it is.
Speaker 2 (26:09):
Yeah, she should take that air for it.
Speaker 4 (26:11):
Since you want to sit up there and be with
that man, don't ever try to contact her his son
if he ever comes back around and decide like, hey,
he let him have figured it out on his own
because you didn't.
Speaker 3 (26:28):
I don't like you. I don't like you.
Speaker 2 (26:31):
I don't like oh man a man a man a
man a man this.
Speaker 3 (26:38):
Now you know I wouldn't like her that I wouldn't
like her.
Speaker 2 (26:43):
I knew you loved the story, right, but anyway, it's
guess what time it is the ending of the show.
Think away. Thanks for checking out The Jabosi. Should should
have subscribed to us in your favorite podcast app, so
don't miss an episode. New episodes drop every Monday. For
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access from our websites, visit us at joe velocity dot com.
Thanks for listening. We'll see you next week. Have a
good one. Bye bye.
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