@ShaqC & @Dr.MotherLove Share their Love for @ForgiveorForget

Shaq C and Mother Love share  their love for this Forgive or Forget that is so viable today. They share the passion, the heartbreak, and the power of forgiveness and the strength to say I will forget the pain of this relationship and for of these guests.

Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
Yes, I know I'm live, but I ain't touching the buttons. Hey,
everybody worked. I mean it's like every weekend we had
some kind of technical difference. I'm I can't see it.
It's right there. For what can't you see? Okay? Forget, Hey, everybody,
I see, this is why you shouldn't be working with
your relatives. Okay, I love mind side of the babies. Hey,

(00:23):
shack see, mother love and mister shack see, and we
women this about the fun, wonderful show that we had
twenty fix years ago called skins or forget that you
guys did not forget. And I forget you for anything
that you had said nasty about me. But I am
so grateful to shack see right there in New York

(00:44):
City for us, you know, bring the memories up and
talk about this because it's all the same. People got
to understand you can't keep doing the same thing over
and over and they can get a different different reactions.
This doesn't work like that refinition of Spanish not right then?

(01:04):
You know what that means. The majority of us are insane.
I owe my pecause they gonna drive you crazing, like
what out They'll be in my drive boys, because it's
why I am the owner of crazy Town. And I
tell people, listen, I've been in therapy since I was
fourteen years old. They told me about she's crazy, she'sad
be acting like that. I'm like, don't treat me like that,

(01:26):
and we'll have a have an issue before we get
started into forgive and forget the reminiscing, and I slam
and always forever grade Folks. I am on the West
coast in Los Angeles, California. You are on the East
coast in New York. I buy them Dodger. Oh my god, God,
by them Dodger. But but yeah, that's right now, right,

(01:53):
it seems like it's gonna be. But you know, you
cannot underestimate the Yankees. I mean the Yankees and the Doeries,
Dodgers and the Yankees. This is what baseball leave for.
Not to say that anybody or any other team is
not relevent. I'm the problem. Listen. I'm from Cleveland, Ohio. Yes,
my heart is broken, and I'm just saying I am

(02:14):
grateful that I live in California and still have a
team to root for, even I'll be a Cleveland native Indian.
Oh look, we're the Cleveland Indian. I don't understanding of that,
So I'm gonna be the Cleveland I'm a Cleveland Indian saying,
and if y'all give me some of them shirts hours
and the commanders know the Guardian. You know where the
Guardians came from? This is what and it's my hometown.

(02:36):
I get to come. You know where they got that
team named from? Off a bridge? You got a bridge
across the east side of the west side, not even
a really long bridge, and it is it is, it's
a Guardian bridge. And I'm like, y'all picked it for
a bridge that's kind of key. You know, Wow, that's
a lot that's the same thing. And I said, I
don't care what you call them. They were swinging them bathroom.

(02:58):
One of the teams came up there than them, but
they they gave him a run for their money, like
they said, you might have whooped my behind, but it
ain't gonna be no easy winking. Okay, So when we
got up but that I can't very very chatty right now,
don't I? And I'm not anything because they're making me
on captain.

Speaker 2 (03:16):
I wur I wur hope though, because you know, you
were just talk someone hosts.

Speaker 1 (03:19):
I mean you worked very tiny giving one born shows. Okay,
oh you know, I'm I'm just watching some of them
we did. We had some crazy guests on that show.
We have some really poignant people on that show and
some One of my favorites is this guy said, or
see mother love you don't understand. I accident definitely slept

(03:40):
with her with her wait and I act just fella
to her vagina. I said, so you're gonna hid on me.

Speaker 2 (03:49):
You were sleep, You didn't know what was going on.

Speaker 1 (03:52):
You an accent and somehow, some way, you just know
your your body parks to her body parks and you
and you didn't know what was going on. I told her,
I said, you really need to leave his stupid behind right,
run quickly quickly, And he was this was his sister,
This was his girlfriend's sister. And he accidentally I have

(04:13):
accidented sell it to If you ever come up with
that word, I'll tell you. I was like some sometimes
and even today when as we've been these on Saturday,
I am just some of them just needed to because
they said, and y'all said, no, I was a very
self uh when you with self self control, I would

(04:35):
go I had to be a self control and they
would say, Okay, I'm gonna get the look out the eye,
get that look after your eye. It kept not growing
up on the guests like that. I'm like, y'all don't
want to book the moke. So don y'all the one's
gonna go on to the bus if there's suffer side way,
because you know, I'm just gonna go straight there. So
what can I say? That's what people need right now?

(04:56):
They need. Okay, we got enough helsing you know, left
you this beautiful things that yep, they need to start
here and listen, all of y'all are not gonna go
to the beauty paston show. What's the one in the
drag Queen Show? Y'all are not gonna make it to
the NBA. Y'all not gonna make it to the Basketball League.

(05:17):
So let's just keep it real. Yeah, I understand that
because inside of me, I'm a I'm gonna I'm a
world winning basketball player. But like the the wid the
ones that are vertical, I'm vertically challenged.

Speaker 3 (05:31):
That's all.

Speaker 1 (05:31):
I'm not sure. So what you gotta have for us today?

Speaker 4 (05:35):
Well, speaking of Crazy Day, no but episode Okay, well
we are five days away from Halloween, and so we're
gonna watch the Halloween shows that y'all did, and I
love it.

Speaker 1 (05:52):
So you know you're easily entertained too, well ahead, I'm thinking, okay,
y well, that was okay. I'm even kind of scared
to look. Okay, I'm good, I'm all okay, let's go.

Speaker 3 (06:10):
Right.

Speaker 5 (06:12):
On today's special Halloween show. This woman moved in with
her man, but never mentioned she was already married. She
says things got ugly with her friend after they became wingmates.
She cursed out her friend and called her cruel names.
Now she's afraid her friend will never speak to her again,
and she says her sister stole from her. Today she

(06:36):
was an apology and a confession plus a special Halloween surprise.
Our guests has come here today not knowing if the
person there will becausey will say I forgive you or
forget it. Welcome to a special Halloween edition of Forgins
or Forget, And now the host to forgive or Forget.

Speaker 1 (07:02):
I'm scared to you, okay, I could look am I
am I the Angel ever? Oh yeah, we got to
a touch.

Speaker 2 (07:08):
Off Halloween editions.

Speaker 6 (07:09):
Oh Forgive or Forget I'm dressing ready for Halloween in
the costume I should be wearing every day, because, after all,
I'm as perfect as an angel.

Speaker 1 (07:18):
Yeah, okay, God.

Speaker 2 (07:20):
I'm sorry.

Speaker 7 (07:21):
Our audience is in the Halloween mood.

Speaker 8 (07:23):
Head waity man, I open the door.

Speaker 6 (07:28):
Hello, Briddy, come right on that. I've got cheap for you.

Speaker 3 (07:33):
Come alone.

Speaker 8 (07:35):
No, not a wait, I'm not firing.

Speaker 6 (07:39):
Hello, you can't have the od bucket.

Speaker 1 (07:41):
Just take somebody goes you.

Speaker 8 (07:44):
That's the Angel of Love.

Speaker 2 (07:46):
He you some candy, Thank you, beautiful bread. Thank you
brought you last.

Speaker 1 (07:50):
I still got that.

Speaker 9 (07:53):
We gotta cat back.

Speaker 6 (07:54):
Hello, Princess, how are you?

Speaker 9 (07:58):
And hello?

Speaker 6 (07:59):
You like to be a big life, My big bumblebee happy.

Speaker 8 (08:02):
On a week?

Speaker 2 (08:03):
That right, baby?

Speaker 1 (08:04):
Get you candy?

Speaker 5 (08:06):
Thank you?

Speaker 6 (08:07):
Baby's in joining the candy.

Speaker 2 (08:09):
Now let's get back to the show and meet our
first gut.

Speaker 9 (08:12):
My name is Shelley Garner. My sister Jenny stold.

Speaker 10 (08:15):
My cell phone and ran up a T hundred and
twenty five dollars bill.

Speaker 9 (08:19):
I know Jenny was the one who took it, but
when I confronted.

Speaker 10 (08:22):
Her she denied.

Speaker 9 (08:24):
I want her to confess and give me an apology.

Speaker 2 (08:28):
Hi, Shelley, what makes you so sure that Jenny stole
yourself off?

Speaker 10 (08:34):
Well, mother, Love, I bought my younger sister, Jesse a
self pen GE's for only emergency purposes. So when Jesse's
not even a cell phone.

Speaker 9 (08:43):
She leaves it in her closets.

Speaker 2 (08:45):
Well, in July, I received a.

Speaker 10 (08:47):
Cel phone bill for two hundred and twenty five dollars,
and when I asked the cell phone company for a
record of the calls that were made, they were made
to all of Jenny's friends.

Speaker 2 (08:58):
So when I confronted.

Speaker 10 (08:59):
Jenny, she denied selling the cell phone out of the
closet and making the call.

Speaker 2 (09:05):
So I'm here.

Speaker 10 (09:06):
Today to demand that Jenny gives me an apology.

Speaker 2 (09:11):
So you're just so you know that she took the
phone twenty minutes.

Speaker 6 (09:15):
Okay, don't make me come back there.

Speaker 2 (09:21):
What makes I mean did your sister know that Jenny
had the phone?

Speaker 10 (09:25):
No, Jess was at the beach, and Jenny's told it
out of the closet.

Speaker 6 (09:29):
And she just flat out and deny the whole thing. Yeah,
So have you ever tried to help this particular sister.

Speaker 10 (09:36):
I've helped the sister Minnie Tom's mother was.

Speaker 2 (09:38):
When she had a baby.

Speaker 8 (09:39):
I love her baby clothes.

Speaker 6 (09:41):
Wait a minute, I want to hear the story of
her hat's coming off. You know, Hey, the WIT's gotta
be corrected to That's all right, I pick she had
been said, Okay, I'll catch the spell on the next
person that last.

Speaker 5 (09:59):
You get it.

Speaker 2 (10:00):
Now be quiet, let me get h the story.

Speaker 6 (10:03):
Okay, now go ahead and finish.

Speaker 8 (10:05):
So, I mean, it makes.

Speaker 10 (10:07):
Common sense that a perfect frange is not going to
walk into your house.

Speaker 2 (10:09):
Is still a cell phone.

Speaker 6 (10:10):
I would go for more valuable itams than a cell phone,
especially if it's kids in the club that they usually
go for the VCR, the color TV, the mother love.

Speaker 10 (10:18):
The thing that makes me mess upset is that, after
all I've done for Jinnie, all she would have had to.

Speaker 11 (10:23):
Do was apologize, pay the bill or.

Speaker 10 (10:25):
Make arrangements to pay the bill, and I would have
forgave him.

Speaker 6 (10:28):
That would have been the end of it. It would
have been will you so upset about that she can
betray me that way and lie to me?

Speaker 2 (10:34):
And you said you've helped her in the past.

Speaker 10 (10:36):
I've helped her anyways. We gave her money clothed when
the house burned down, her house, I said, her baby
all the time for nothing. I never charge her any money.

Speaker 2 (10:45):
Whim in her house burned down.

Speaker 10 (10:47):
Her house burned down, and they need to South Carolina.

Speaker 6 (10:50):
And I gave her my old clothes to.

Speaker 8 (10:52):
Wear because she didn't have clothes.

Speaker 10 (10:53):
When they first came here. Mother, Love, I've done so
much for her, And if she would just apologize today
and they arrangements to pay the bill, I will forgive her.

Speaker 6 (11:02):
Really from a twenty five dollars phone bill.

Speaker 2 (11:06):
So do you have your phone?

Speaker 8 (11:08):
No, she still has the phone.

Speaker 2 (11:10):
I mean she needs to return the phone.

Speaker 6 (11:14):
It's okay, Now, this is your cell phone. Is the
phone still on?

Speaker 1 (11:19):
No?

Speaker 10 (11:19):
I just connected the phone and the phone is no
longer activated.

Speaker 6 (11:24):
Well, we got together with Shelley to help her put
a message on a videotape for her sister Jenny. Let's
take a look at that message as we see.

Speaker 2 (11:30):
Her watching it for the first time.

Speaker 10 (11:33):
Jenny, you are my sister, and it hurts me that
you betrayed me. You and me a big apology. When
I got my cell phone bill four months again, it
was two hundred and twenty five dollars, and all the
calls were made by you to your friends. When I
went to look for the cell phone in the closet
it was missing. I know you took the phone, but
yet you deny it. It's tom that you come clean

(11:54):
and tell the truth that you took the cell phone.
You and me a big apology.

Speaker 2 (12:01):
I'm Shelly. It was up to Jenny to decide if.

Speaker 6 (12:03):
She was willing to get to the apology you're demanding.

Speaker 2 (12:06):
We'll find out when we come back.

Speaker 1 (12:11):
How did I let them tell them?

Speaker 3 (12:14):
Know?

Speaker 1 (12:14):
How them people thought I wasn't gun home for the show,
and I'm just just for you are the person. Let
me make it clear. I hate Halloween. I have hated
it since I was a child. I will not dress
up and be something that I'm not to pretend. And
I don't want all that candy because I don't know
what you did for the candy. One time, when everybody

(12:36):
was trick or treating out there, some guys started putting
raisor blades and apples and then orange that they gave
to the kids. People were giving them babies, rocks and
what have you. And I just have never been I've
never been one for Halloween. And my family they go
all out. They some of them met their own costumnd No,
I'll stay home and pass out the candy or that
I didn't eat. So by the time they got home

(12:58):
today said they had a sugar us And by the
time triple treating started at our house, I was having
a sugar roar. So I never liked Halloween. I take
that I don't like Halloween and what is and what
it means? When I can get my amber life at
the Halloween times, that's the only time I can see him,
you know, for my my African Christmas tree, and I

(13:19):
make ninety percent of the ornaments. So let's go back
to the big angel. They didn't talk me into putting
I feel that the ginger wings and I don't have
that hair because if I did, I but I didn't
have a white woods like that that blowed in the dark.
Oh it was awesome and I it said, why is that?

(13:43):
That's the wiser hair grown glow? And then when they
urged the lights, you know, living the this that was like,
why would we not know that's mother? Only she would
wear glowing a dark for Okay, so let's see what Jenny,
what Jenny has to say, and yeah, whether Jimmy and
Jesse right, Yeah, Jinny, let's do Jinny have to say

(14:04):
about herself, and that's a kid. What's n you know?

Speaker 3 (14:08):
Your relatives stole Kelley Garner.

Speaker 6 (14:11):
Kelley says she doesn't mean to act like a witch,
but she is really mad because she said her sister
Jenny's stole her cell phone and won't admit it. Shelley,
if Ginny is willing to give you the apology that
you're demanding for stealing your.

Speaker 5 (14:23):
Cell phone and running up your bill, she's.

Speaker 6 (14:25):
Gonna be sitting on the other side of that door.

Speaker 2 (14:28):
But please be prepared. She might not feel like, why
should I give you an apology? What's the big deal?
And she won't do that, and she won't be there.
Are you ready to find another sheet behind the door. Yeah?
Go take your pay some.

Speaker 9 (14:40):
Hundred and this.

Speaker 1 (14:45):
They just writing.

Speaker 2 (14:50):
Okay, Kelly Sarner, let's open that door.

Speaker 1 (14:52):
She ain't there, you know what? But so everybody white,
even me, I pay month to take even me. I
played until I thought it good. They made him to
turn back.

Speaker 6 (15:11):
Okay, Jenny, don't make me come back.

Speaker 2 (15:15):
Then separate you off here. I've warned you once too.

Speaker 1 (15:19):
Then I got back up.

Speaker 6 (15:21):
Quiet, get okay, now, everybody, come on, Calm down, now,
clm down, Jenny your.

Speaker 2 (15:28):
Sister wants an apology from you. Shelley. I just wanted
to say I'm sorry.

Speaker 9 (15:32):
I know what I've done was wrong, and I bought
the throne back.

Speaker 10 (15:34):
And I want to thank you all the nice things
you done for me in the path, and hopefully you
can work and arrangement for me to pay us back.

Speaker 8 (15:40):
Hebe hurts that I am sometimes apology this time, but
you are nineteen years old and you need to learn.

Speaker 10 (15:54):
That it is time that you faced responsibilities and not
keep using people.

Speaker 1 (15:58):
You need to blow up.

Speaker 10 (16:00):
But I accept your apology this time, but please.

Speaker 2 (16:02):
Don't let it happen again in the future.

Speaker 10 (16:03):
We are sisters, NOI genie to remain friends.

Speaker 2 (16:07):
Also, thanks you mother in law. You are very you are.

Speaker 9 (16:19):
So you you wait.

Speaker 6 (16:22):
I'm down, everybody. So what made you tell your sisters
alive by taking the phone?

Speaker 9 (16:29):
Well, I didn't want her mad.

Speaker 6 (16:30):
At me, and so I just thought it was very
tell her alive.

Speaker 2 (16:33):
But I got caught in it, says now it was
time for me to pay some for what I did,
A big one. So you got a little carrie to
wear on the cell phone?

Speaker 10 (16:40):
Friends say, what do you mean your friends did too?

Speaker 9 (16:44):
Well?

Speaker 11 (16:44):
People, I was staying with we didn't have a fair
and say things from here.

Speaker 6 (16:48):
Let's just use let's bet your cell phone. We're not
saying the bill, yes, ma'am.

Speaker 2 (16:53):
Send up with me.

Speaker 6 (16:55):
I'm are you willing to pay the bill now? Yes,
I'm going to pay the bill and you can pay
the bill. Yes, Well that's a good thing. And your
sister said that she's helped you with a lot of
other things.

Speaker 11 (17:07):
Yes, she helped me out when I was in the
hospital and bother the baby clothes and pitcher.

Speaker 6 (17:13):
So you have a baby, yes, And she said because
she said she babysat for you, set for me plenty
of times that I have paid her, or some of
the times she had favorite shot.

Speaker 10 (17:21):
Yes, man, even though your sister used to sell your phone.

Speaker 2 (17:26):
I'm sorry even you just sell your phone.

Speaker 7 (17:29):
Yes, bloody sticking in water and the phone don't mean
very much.

Speaker 2 (17:33):
But just sister me more on through you than that phone.

Speaker 6 (17:36):
Oh about all that I've been trying to pick up
the rent on myself phone. She's gonna still be her existive.
But she'd had to give me my two and a
quarter for the phone bill. Yes, ma'am, give me this tie, no,
give me this hand.

Speaker 2 (17:52):
I'm gonna stop you off from points. Why did you
take coming on National Intellivision to you know, like I
did you work when you had your cell phone?

Speaker 1 (17:59):
Now not time?

Speaker 10 (18:00):
So you couldn't make me pean arrangement to a name
we hadn't even talked.

Speaker 6 (18:04):
This was fighting the first time in a long time
since we could even talk.

Speaker 8 (18:06):
Jenny's talk no longer at home.

Speaker 10 (18:08):
She's moved out of the home and she I don't
always know where Jenny's at to.

Speaker 8 (18:12):
Call or talk to her.

Speaker 10 (18:13):
And when I asked her if she would pay the
phone bill, she did, not having the phone or even
making arrangements to pay for it.

Speaker 2 (18:22):
You know what I'd like to know, Shelley. Are you
worried about Jenny at all? I'm losing the hat, yes,
for kid, the hat is still hanging on. Are you
worried a bunch of sisters?

Speaker 5 (18:33):
Though?

Speaker 10 (18:34):
I am worried that she nineteen years old and will
not face respond No, don't tell me, tell her Jenny
or nineteen. And the part that worries me the most
is that she watched me. And you don't accept any responsibility,
not even for Caylea. At times, you know, with taking
responsibly with her and the phone means nothing.

Speaker 2 (18:52):
You know, excuse me, where're you going?

Speaker 5 (18:59):
Which?

Speaker 1 (19:00):
You know?

Speaker 2 (19:00):
Wait a minute, they can't be changing the stuff of
the show.

Speaker 1 (19:03):
I'm grow with your baby. Can wait?

Speaker 2 (19:08):
It's the matter you listen, none of us they got missing.
You have done a great thing.

Speaker 5 (19:17):
Listen.

Speaker 6 (19:17):
You've taken responsibility for your actions. And it's all right
to cry.

Speaker 1 (19:21):
I know, I know, and it's really really hard.

Speaker 2 (19:25):
I do the same thing every day. It hurts me,
and I understand what you're going through.

Speaker 5 (19:31):
This is your sister.

Speaker 6 (19:32):
Do you honestly think if she didn't care about what.

Speaker 5 (19:35):
Happens about I'm not gonna think out that was her.

Speaker 2 (19:37):
That's your sister.

Speaker 9 (19:38):
I want to talk about.

Speaker 6 (19:39):
I think you know everybody comes on this show and cry.
I cry almost every day on here, every single day.
Do you think I'm not embarrassed when I cry. I'm
trying to be miss tough mother, love to.

Speaker 2 (19:51):
Talk to your host, and my feelings.

Speaker 10 (19:52):
Get hurt because I see sisters like you and your sister.

Speaker 9 (19:56):
Not wanting to pack things up.

Speaker 1 (19:58):
You've come this far.

Speaker 6 (20:01):
You're a fabulous You're a fabulous I thought you can
not Black Street or something. Come on, baby, come on,
come on, hold on to me, hold on to the
angel under the other, hold over.

Speaker 1 (20:17):
Who does that?

Speaker 2 (20:19):
Who did that?

Speaker 1 (20:20):
Show?

Speaker 6 (20:26):
There you go. I told you it won't be that
bad at all. It's hard for a lot of us,
and this is a very good thing.

Speaker 1 (20:35):
That you've done.

Speaker 2 (20:36):
You are taking responsibility for your.

Speaker 6 (20:38):
Actions, and it's a great sign that you have grown up.
Nobody said being an adult was easy. I don't particularly
care for adulthood myself, but it's great when we can
take responsibility for our actions. I thank you for sharing
your story with us. I really do.

Speaker 2 (20:55):
We will be back after them.

Speaker 1 (20:58):
I mean, who was a lovely and I didn't get
the arm baby? Come up? No, no, you don't get that.

Speaker 5 (21:05):
I agree what TiO Pandas said.

Speaker 1 (21:08):
When she first came out of the door, she didn't
hog her, sister.

Speaker 9 (21:11):
I'm like, where's the harn you know?

Speaker 1 (21:13):
She didn't she didn't hog her when she first came out.
I'm like, what's going on there? Oh? Why? This is
so cute? Timo, Patsy, look at that, y'all and angel
dressed as an angel? That is so sweezy. Thank you
very much. I know sometimes my halo get the lightly
going out like they hit it. You know, sometimes you
got to hit the radio. You got to hit the

(21:34):
TV to get it to got to hit the timber
light on. Okay, And so she wasn't there. She I
think she wasn't there. I said, you know, once you
come on forgive and forget her any talk show, it's
gonna be out there forever. And I'm like, no, no,
you're not gonna let this this on this dust and

(21:54):
there be you know, be between you and your sister.
You know, I wish I could talk to my sister. Well,
I got said I wanted to the left. It's here
and nine and we are. We talk and that's important
because we're gonna always be fishes. What is the lady say?
Blood is thicker than water, Blood is thicker than mud.
Sometimes you got tomorrow. We got to go through the
mud to get to the other side of your boot

(22:16):
to be clean. Okay, husband, man, I'm ready to have
to go patty' all rady to and read her husband.

Speaker 3 (22:24):
And she said with a her goes, oh yeah, I'll
get residents from.

Speaker 2 (22:40):
The wrong road.

Speaker 5 (22:41):
When she cursed out her friend, she's here. Then my
friend man, she's sorry. And later un special.

Speaker 1 (22:48):
Hour, Oh it's your part.

Speaker 12 (22:49):
Oh you know they did out? Oh lord, I forgot
about that part, the.

Speaker 3 (23:00):
One I'm like a coolist day, I'm let's commit her
next yet.

Speaker 9 (23:05):
My name is Michelle Outlaw. My friend Canetta was supposed
to come over for dinner. When she blew me off,
I got so mad.

Speaker 7 (23:12):
I cursed her out and said cruel things to her
about being a prostitute.

Speaker 9 (23:15):
To day, I want to tell her I'm sorry.

Speaker 2 (23:18):
I'm Michelle, alright.

Speaker 6 (23:20):
Why'd you get so angry at Canetta over canceling the
dinner plans?

Speaker 1 (23:24):
Because she did it.

Speaker 7 (23:25):
On five different occasions, and I got set up and
sick and tired of it. So when I stay home
from work and I make dinner for you and make
you all your favorite foods, and I go out and
spend my money, I expect you to be there.

Speaker 2 (23:37):
Oh I will be.

Speaker 6 (23:38):
There, dear, I will ask her head.

Speaker 2 (23:42):
Me, I'm so there.

Speaker 6 (23:45):
And she did it on five different.

Speaker 1 (23:47):
Occasions, and then she will call me.

Speaker 6 (23:49):
Like three days later after each Ok, after.

Speaker 9 (23:52):
Each occasion she did it, three she did it, she.

Speaker 7 (23:54):
Would call me like three days later. When I got
set up, So I was like, you know why, I'm
sick and tired of this.

Speaker 2 (23:58):
You know you're a slut.

Speaker 1 (23:59):
Your your goodness.

Speaker 2 (24:01):
I was like, I not carried away.

Speaker 9 (24:03):
I was very upset.

Speaker 6 (24:05):
Decoil, those are very harsh word for Dorothy and the
Ruby Slippers to say. So now you're cussing her out
and calling her all.

Speaker 2 (24:12):
Out of her name and everything.

Speaker 7 (24:14):
I was like, you know, I want you to lose
my phone number, and I don't want you to call
me again. And I don't even know why I'm dealing
with somebody like you because me and you have a
totally different background anyway, So I was like down in
her saying, you're looking on your friend anyway.

Speaker 2 (24:27):
Oh, you just got real. I was just very upset.

Speaker 10 (24:31):
So then you cuss her out and.

Speaker 2 (24:33):
You bring up her but was she a prostitute.

Speaker 6 (24:36):
Before while you were upstairs calling.

Speaker 7 (24:38):
Up these Yes, easy name, Yes he was a prostitutor.

Speaker 2 (24:41):
Extra friend.

Speaker 6 (24:42):
Oh wait a minute, but wait a minite, hold up,
Hold up, hold up.

Speaker 2 (24:52):
She feels confident enough with you else.

Speaker 7 (24:55):
She has no problem with anybody knowing her past.

Speaker 2 (24:57):
It was the past, so the path.

Speaker 6 (25:00):
She was confident enough with you being her friend that
she shared that with you. If she hadn't told you
what you would have known. No, Okay, So she was
confident enough with you as friends.

Speaker 1 (25:10):
To tell you this.

Speaker 6 (25:12):
You know whether or not she wants the whole world
to note, because they know not. But she was confident enough,
and you said you would that she would.

Speaker 2 (25:20):
Tell you this, and then you just threw it up
in her face.

Speaker 1 (25:23):
Yeah I did.

Speaker 2 (25:24):
So Now you want to say you're sorry, yea, And
I'm surely sorry.

Speaker 9 (25:26):
I miss her.

Speaker 10 (25:27):
Friendship and I am sorry.

Speaker 6 (25:28):
Well, we got together with Michelle to help her put
a message on videotape for her friend Knetta.

Speaker 2 (25:32):
Cannetta has agreed to be here today to at least.

Speaker 6 (25:35):
Listen to Michelle's message. She's joining us live backstage. Hi, Canetta,
all right, thanks.

Speaker 2 (25:40):
For joining us to dare.

Speaker 6 (25:41):
Are you ready to watch Michelle's message?

Speaker 2 (25:44):
Yeah, okay, let's all watch it.

Speaker 10 (25:46):
To Jeri Canda, I owe you a big apology. Two
months ago, I destroyed our friendship by calling you hard
means and throwing your pastor that's the prostitute in your face.
She's been friends for four years, and I just felt
like you were taking me for granted.

Speaker 2 (26:03):
Every time we made plans.

Speaker 9 (26:04):
To do things, we blew me off.

Speaker 10 (26:06):
And I was just mad and I took it out
on you because of my own problems I had, which
had nothing to do with you.

Speaker 2 (26:13):
And I just want you to know I love you
like a sister, and I need you to forgive me,
and I.

Speaker 10 (26:17):
Meet it from the part of you my heart, So
please forgive me.

Speaker 2 (26:23):
Michelle.

Speaker 6 (26:23):
If Kaneta's willing to accept your apology, then she's standing on.

Speaker 1 (26:26):
The other side of that door. But she might not
be with her.

Speaker 6 (26:29):
She might be so hurt by what you said and
throwing her pass up in her face that she's not.

Speaker 5 (26:34):
Willing to accept your apology.

Speaker 2 (26:35):
Are you ready to find out?

Speaker 5 (26:38):
What do you think before she goes to the door.

Speaker 1 (26:42):
I think she should have thought about the friendship the
first time. You know, you could understand because things do
happen like us getting your way of plans.

Speaker 5 (26:50):
Uh.

Speaker 1 (26:50):
The second time, I probably said, okay, well, hey you
move whenever you get this doing what you're doing, come over.
You know you could have the you could have the
uh leftovers y l what else you could the revisiting
of the meal. I don't want to call her left
shober and or because I think by the second time
she did, I wouldn't be calling her anymore, you know,
And sometimes, and I know that's why I have a

(27:12):
hand for the girlfriends that will understand and my sister girlfriends,
they understand that sometimes, you know, you have to change
the plans with the call. Three days after you made
you she was planning your cooking you dinner, and then
you didn't call her that night. The second night, the
third night, she hadn't about the sift. She probably got
the food in the refrigerator to grandma. So on the

(27:33):
boy now, because she went for three days and she
did it five times, that's a fifteen times, I think
on for man, I learn and save. At the end
of the second time, I've been okay, don't invite her
anymore because she doesn't value your time. You know, she
doesn't value your energy and effort that you put in
because she said, you know she would well, she said

(27:54):
she went about the food and everything, and then you
just throw off on her. That's kind of petty too,
but it could have done something else. And even if
I want something else, pick up the phone and call
pick us up on a call. I would tell people
all the time. You know, they be scared to talk
to the bill collectors and you know, and can you

(28:14):
go talk to the bill collectives for me, because you
know you could do it better than I can. You know,
you got that high pollup and sounds of voice, which
I didn't know what that meant. Or they would say, well,
you know how to sound white. So they they're not
gonna be be you won't. I won't be in trouble
because they'll help you. I'm gonna do. Say the same
thing to them people, and they and A do all
the electronics and everything. You don't have to be scared

(28:37):
of anybody you owe money, call them up and tell
you own money. I owe people a lot of money,
you know, because I was, I'd be on guard and
I'd be said, oh god, I gotta do this and
tell and if I don't own you no money you could.
I'm just teasing, but just you. People have to respect friends,
have to expect respect us each other's time. In any
kind of relationship, girlfriends, god, friend married. You know, you

(29:00):
gotta respect people's tongue and respect children's you know, uh time.
Don't just leave the baby up there and don't give
the mother, just gat him a gadget. Can games with people,
And I say, after the second visit, out of that
kills and I guess that he wouldn't have been able
to do this, I plead me.

Speaker 10 (29:17):
So, I mean.

Speaker 1 (29:20):
That's the old up it.

Speaker 2 (29:21):
I gonna take you play some fun at the door.

Speaker 1 (29:29):
Her fan favorite. Uh judge, judge, Uh that door don't
had left the smoke coming out? See I got winnow, okay,

(29:51):
let me real excuse one, good woman? No, No, we
ain'tbody here. No that's my repon go Who is.

Speaker 2 (30:00):
All right?

Speaker 5 (30:00):
Michelle?

Speaker 2 (30:02):
You should apologize to you know why? Well, I just
wanted to do it.

Speaker 7 (30:07):
I didn't mean you throw your half up in your faith.

Speaker 1 (30:10):
And you know I love you like us and stuff,
and we always.

Speaker 9 (30:14):
Been there for each other and we do everything together.

Speaker 1 (30:19):
And I'm sorry.

Speaker 2 (30:22):
You wanna take something tour, did you?

Speaker 1 (30:30):
Water head?

Speaker 2 (30:37):
I I took your apology cause you miss your friendship
as well. But what you did to me, I felt
that you was wrong because it's a.

Speaker 9 (30:47):
Lot of things you have told me.

Speaker 6 (30:49):
I didn't throw it in your faith, Okay, but I'm
willing to let by gones be by gone.

Speaker 1 (31:04):
And that's what she would snow wife. That was good man?

Speaker 2 (31:07):
Your where I mean, where would you stand her up again?
I mean she was fixing steak and everything for you.

Speaker 6 (31:16):
I thank you both for sharing your story, and I'm
glad that.

Speaker 2 (31:19):
You've had things and made up up one another.

Speaker 6 (31:21):
We'll be right back.

Speaker 1 (31:26):
Well, it's good to see that they forgive each other,
you know, so you can move on, because just having
that weight on you, on your heart, on your spirit,
you know, and and when you see it, you you
just don't know what to do, you know. That's that
is one of the biggest reasons why I knew mother
love was the best hope for forgive and forget, because
sometimes you had to step off and you know, step

(31:48):
away from them. Some people should not be in your
life and you should not be in their lives. Like
that guy who asks really fell into is a girlfriend's sisters, Lagina.

Speaker 8 (31:57):
I mean.

Speaker 1 (32:00):
We left so hard. We I mean, this was a
whole everybody was under set that day, and he was
trying to like, oh, you gotta understand, Like, no, please
make me understand, Please make me understand how this happened.
Little it's not.

Speaker 2 (32:16):
Funny, like dud, you don't even know how I left
you just.

Speaker 1 (32:23):
And people think the think, you know, that's the one
I hate about when we come to say, well I
slept for her. I slept with you, ain't slept nowhere.
He was wide awake the whole time.

Speaker 2 (32:33):
I think that white and if you sleep more, how
are you sleeping and getting at taking care of him?

Speaker 1 (32:46):
One day when the universe is in line perfectly, we
were ready to answer. By the time we get to
answer me, ask us some new questions. And I've always
been fascinated about this show because they don't. Sometimes they
forget the dinner, the national television, and I would tell
them to get about the audience, to get about the camera.

(33:08):
Just talk to me. You and I will have this conversation,
and by the time we get to that part, I'd
have broke them down because sometimes they act like are
a manly man and I are a woman woman. I
put on my big girl pattues and you got on
the big boy drawers and we're not learning it all emotions.
Oh shut up. That's the problem right there, because hold
so much stuff inside is starting to eat you alive.

(33:29):
And life is too short to hold a grudge, you know,
even if you've been doing wrong, even if you you
know they've been doing wrong. It's like it's too short.
Just say I'm sorry. One of the games I know
it's not now, but they still say it though. My
bad because we used to get watching night clubs. Get
shut up because somebody stepped on somebody who penned shoes.

(33:51):
Oh we know you got a lieutenant shoe and you
the white we're in a night club. I just don't
understand it. And when you're having sex with other people,
it's not sleeping too together. I just wanted to make
that bet. Kid, Yeah I'm a sleeping Okay, we did.
I just make that yet, Well we're going on people

(34:13):
that go ahead off. It's Saturday, and I'm still just
with their walker.

Speaker 5 (34:26):
Coming up now, she says. Her roommate frigged her. Bad
lady and in the school, sure, she said, had an apologies.

Speaker 8 (34:33):
When we come back, they were really good and they
all got into the US rooms and mother staff.

Speaker 1 (34:42):
They look down. Don't never look it up.

Speaker 3 (34:46):
That's why I take you to the meetin.

Speaker 1 (34:49):
I will take you to the Hope Progress.

Speaker 5 (34:51):
He yet, guest, my name is Sarah Sader.

Speaker 9 (34:57):
I thought my friend Sally would be a great roommate,
but I was wrong. First, we got into this fight
on my birthday, so she walked me out of her
apartment in the middle of the night.

Speaker 6 (35:06):
Then we got into another fight and she ripped off my.

Speaker 2 (35:09):
Clothes in the middle of the street.

Speaker 1 (35:10):
She ows me a big apology.

Speaker 6 (35:12):
Hi, sir, why didn't you decide to become roomeded with Tally?

Speaker 5 (35:19):
Well?

Speaker 11 (35:19):
I find me and her have been friends since we've
been like in seventh grade.

Speaker 10 (35:22):
We've been great friends together.

Speaker 2 (35:25):
We have a lot of stuff in common.

Speaker 6 (35:26):
We like to go out and hang out together.

Speaker 2 (35:28):
When we first moved in, everything was really cool.

Speaker 11 (35:31):
We got along grade and then we began to argue
about little things.

Speaker 2 (35:35):
At first, I mean, when any kind of big deal.

Speaker 11 (35:38):
And then on my birthday, we'd gone out to a
club that was in town and we've been drinking.

Speaker 2 (35:44):
And stuff, and it was like it was starting to
get late.

Speaker 11 (35:46):
So I found somebody to give us a ride home
and sitting back, maybe six day sit up there.

Speaker 2 (35:57):
So I found somebody give us.

Speaker 11 (35:58):
A ride home, and I said, you know, come on,
let's go, and she wasn't ready to go, and then
so we started getting an argument about it, and so
I ended up throwing.

Speaker 7 (36:08):
A drink in her face.

Speaker 2 (36:10):
This is your friend, This is like, yeah, you woke
her afay.

Speaker 10 (36:13):
Wow. So we end up getting like in a physical
fight with each other.

Speaker 6 (36:18):
What are you yelling and screaming at one another on
your birthday night?

Speaker 11 (36:22):
Because we've just gotten upset, you know that one of
us wasn't ready to go.

Speaker 6 (36:27):
We've been drinking, and you know, it just turned into a.

Speaker 11 (36:30):
Big thing where everything's getting romatic or drunken brawl kind.

Speaker 10 (36:36):
Of, and so, you know, we get inside and we
get in a fight, and we never and the.

Speaker 11 (36:40):
Next day we don't ever really talk about it. We
act like it didn't happen. You know, we just kind of,
you know, kind of laugh about it and act like,
you know, no big deal. We're gonna forget about this
and we're gonna go on with things. And so I
guess about two weeks ago everything had been fine in
between there, and I guess about two weeks.

Speaker 7 (36:58):
Ago, we go to just a little bar, little home
in Wall Bar and we go and I go with
my boyfriend and her we all driving her car.

Speaker 11 (37:07):
And so we get there and we you know, it's
blast call, and so we're all leaving, and.

Speaker 2 (37:11):
My boyfriend was supposed to come home with.

Speaker 1 (37:13):
Me, and so.

Speaker 6 (37:16):
She get says all right home, and she.

Speaker 11 (37:17):
Ends up going towards his house and says, no he's
not staying there.

Speaker 2 (37:21):
And so look, you're a boyfriend.

Speaker 7 (37:22):
Yeah, so you and he were going home after you're.

Speaker 11 (37:25):
Out, and she says, no, he's not coming over there.
I'm taking him home hus him.

Speaker 6 (37:30):
See what happens when you don't have a car, you're
no control wor friend's not coming we're.

Speaker 2 (37:36):
Taking him home, okay. So she's driving.

Speaker 11 (37:38):
Before okay, and we're about a block from his house
and I'm like, well, just let us out. We'll go
walk back to his house together.

Speaker 2 (37:44):
And so we get out of the car.

Speaker 7 (37:46):
And she starts screaming at me.

Speaker 11 (37:48):
And I had on an outfit of hers that she
said I could wear before we left the house.

Speaker 6 (37:52):
You know, she told me it was okay to wear
the outfit.

Speaker 11 (37:55):
And it was just a semerl shirt and some pants
and what what what so.

Speaker 2 (38:00):
Say, little shirt and in some vans.

Speaker 1 (38:01):
Yeah, cause you know where I'm going with it?

Speaker 9 (38:06):
Are you getting ready to take me there? There?

Speaker 2 (38:09):
Come on, take me there?

Speaker 5 (38:10):
Baby?

Speaker 8 (38:11):
Then the shirt in the van?

Speaker 11 (38:12):
Yeah, and so and so she starts yelling about how
I got clothes on, and she comes running.

Speaker 1 (38:17):
At me and rips off the shirt.

Speaker 6 (38:21):
And this isn't then all the street, this is and the.

Speaker 11 (38:23):
Road runs like the main strip in our town, but
there wasn't a whole lot of people out.

Speaker 2 (38:28):
Well, you guys got a whole new terms to the
means stripping.

Speaker 1 (38:32):
And so.

Speaker 11 (38:35):
And so it's you out and then you know, she
gangs down my pants and my boyfriend's standing there and
taking off his clothes, giving him to me to put on.

Speaker 6 (38:41):
So you send in my hand your brods in the
middle of the string, and so you like saying out there,
your bron pan, come on, dear the truth.

Speaker 2 (38:50):
Would you have all the girls?

Speaker 1 (38:52):
I didn't have on any clothes.

Speaker 2 (38:59):
So you on more clothes now than he had in
the middle of the draft, and you know you are
barely dressed. This is our belly dancers for the day.

Speaker 6 (39:07):
And so you know, so you're studying in the middle
of the striprip.

Speaker 11 (39:11):
Yeah, and my boyfriend's handed me, you know, his clothes
off him.

Speaker 6 (39:15):
So no, he's naked in the middle of He's sitting there.

Speaker 1 (39:17):
In his boster.

Speaker 11 (39:19):
You got to walk back to his house and I'm
wearing his clothes and he's walking in his boxter's down
and on the street.

Speaker 1 (39:25):
And so I'm pretty mad.

Speaker 7 (39:26):
About that, and I want to say I want us
to continue.

Speaker 2 (39:29):
To be friends.

Speaker 10 (39:29):
I love her his death.

Speaker 11 (39:30):
That is my best friend.

Speaker 2 (39:32):
You want to be friends with somebody who would stripped?
You want to strip?

Speaker 1 (39:36):
Okay, but tell what I know her like?

Speaker 11 (39:38):
You know, that's my bestest friend.

Speaker 10 (39:39):
And you want her to say she's as you want
her to say.

Speaker 1 (39:42):
And she owes you an apology for dress.

Speaker 6 (39:46):
But we got together with the strip Sarah to help
me put a message on videotape for her.

Speaker 2 (39:51):
Friend, Sally.

Speaker 6 (39:52):
Sally has agreed to be here today.

Speaker 2 (39:53):
To at least listen to Sarah's message. She's joining us
live backstage.

Speaker 6 (39:57):
Hi, Sally, Hi, thanks for joining yes today. Are you
ready to watch Sarah's message? Yeah, alright, let's all.

Speaker 1 (40:03):
Watch it together.

Speaker 13 (40:05):
Sally mean he has been friends for a long time,
but ever since we became remaxe, things.

Speaker 2 (40:09):
Just haven't been the same.

Speaker 10 (40:10):
You've been treating me Bally, and I went an apology.

Speaker 13 (40:13):
First off, was the night of my birthday, The night
that you walk me out of the apartment after we've
got in an argument. Second office, the night that we
left the bar and he ran after me and ripped
off my clothes in the middle of the street and
left me standing their naked You're my best friend and
I love you, but we need to work out.

Speaker 9 (40:30):
Some things and I want an apology and I.

Speaker 2 (40:32):
Want things to also go back to where they used
to be.

Speaker 6 (40:36):
Sally the is Sarah's willing to apologize to you, and
she's standing on the other side.

Speaker 10 (40:40):
Of that door, but she might not be there.

Speaker 8 (40:43):
She might not be She owed you.

Speaker 2 (40:44):
An apology for stripping you on the strip? Are you
ready to find out? Yeah?

Speaker 1 (40:49):
What do you think.

Speaker 5 (40:55):
There?

Speaker 1 (40:55):
Crazy? I can so relate to that young lady.

Speaker 2 (41:01):
I want to.

Speaker 1 (41:02):
I went with this delegation, this woman's delegation. We went
to the Bahamas, and this was like a like Thursday, Friday,
seventy Sunday.

Speaker 10 (41:09):
You know.

Speaker 1 (41:10):
We went there in the Bahamas and you know, enjoying
the beef and everything. And so the lady who run
Randy Show that I went with, she said to me,
and this is the pastor's wife. Okay, it's the pastor's wife.
So it was supposed to be that kind of event,
but you'd be surprising after you see in the casino.

(41:30):
You know, I thought I want to buy deekonnesses in
the cassinas. She like, don't tell Bossa, don't care. I'm like,
why I'm gonna tell a basta bar that what you do?
You wanna get your money away? So that the pastor's
wife that I was in the Bahamas with, she comes
to me and she said, okay, mother, love, I really
need to do do me a favor. And I said,
okay it what she said, I need you to keep

(41:51):
this money. It was it was a fact about like
yeah big you know she she was. I didn't know
she was such an avid gambler. So I said, okay, fine.
She said, no matter what you whatever I said, you
would whatever I come, tell me, no, you're not giving
me the money. Tell me no, you know. She came
to me, she said, give me that money I gave
you together. I said, you told me not to give
the money. No matter what you said, she.

Speaker 2 (42:12):
Said, give me that money time.

Speaker 1 (42:13):
I'm not gotta do it. I turned the way, turned
around to walk away. That she turned tased what I
want to They chased it. But she came after me.
Not play on the ground, strip my blouse off and
behind from behind, but with flying everywhere. Bra was tall.

Speaker 9 (42:30):
I mean, how you temp a bra?

Speaker 1 (42:31):
I mean I was. The people literally came to pick
me up, to step me up. She snacked the money
off my braw as when play play did whatever she
was gonna do with it. Yeah, she's with everybody's money
that was supposed to come fly back with them. I said,
I wanted to rock the tip ticket till he got
she gonna she got a shelf out everybody in one
way ticket. She says, go, we gonna make them. This

(42:52):
is before nine and eleven, and we're gonna make a grangement.
So everybody get home safe. Thro what you have to do.
So I'm the last one because I'm thinking, you know,
she oh, she'da knocked me down, strip or bra up
in the in the middle of it. A darn because
seeing that, I'm like, literally I'm laying there with my
pits hanging out, and I'm like, I cannot believe it, chick.

Speaker 3 (43:10):
So I was done.

Speaker 1 (43:11):
I called my husband. I said, she didn't spend up
all the money for the gambling, and I knew didn't
send me the ticket of the money for the ticket.
He said, Okay, had a ticket the next day. I
didn't know anything about fat Feller expect too much, and
so she I said, well, will you just give me
a ride to the airport. She said the airport. I
told her I had no money for you know, fly
everybody back. She didn't got to worry about flying me back.

(43:32):
My husband is coming to get me. And she said, well,
you think he will give you the money and give
me back. I told her, hell to the note and
that wasn't even that wasn't even the cuss word of
the of the day. I told her, no, no the fire,
no turn around, walked away. They said it took her.
She told it, told me it took her three days
to get home. She's co she didn't wait on me. Uh.

(43:52):
I never never did another event with her again. Wow
mm hmm, that's tsing. So we didn't have a show
like this, you know, and her being the past's wife, Oh,
talk to me while she apologized for it. She said
she was wrong. She apologized for it, and I said, okay,
and you owe me for a new blouse and she bought.
She didn't buy me what she brought me two new blousers.

(44:14):
Loved the blousers. And I was like, if I got
to get knocked down to get this, I don't think
I need to be knocked down. I don't need them
that bad. But I the fever pit, you know, and
the girlfriend was angry, but I want this one. I
don't understand who was she angry with and why was
she angry at her girlfriend or was she ain't angry
at the at the girlfriend's boyfriend, or that she was

(44:36):
being really disrespectful to her girlfriend's our relationship, cause that's
what I'd have been quisoning. And you want to rip
my clothes off, I'm glory and I spunk said. I
wouldn't have been there. I would not even calling. No,
I'm not doing it. I don't even know how that worked.
But who I would have did? She's a boy bother
because I wouldn't want to be friends with somebody like
that to feel like he was just snap my clothes

(44:57):
off on me and we getting in the fights and
carrying on and you know, lift and arguments do not
next when you get drunk, you start bringing up stuff
from twenty years ago. So that's why some people you
should not drink with.

Speaker 5 (45:10):
So what do you think.

Speaker 1 (45:14):
That this fine situation? Is just crazy?

Speaker 5 (45:16):
To me?

Speaker 2 (45:17):
I appreciate your perspective because.

Speaker 1 (45:21):
I've never been through this type of thing. So you know, well, man, goodness,
you won't have to be anywhere work to keep hanging out.
And men have different resolved issues in different ways than
women doing. When a woman gets into with another grown woman,
you start fighting. Okay, no, because I'm not going through

(45:44):
that again. And I tell people, if you got to
be mindful who's in your life, who you surround yourself with.
People don't come into your in and out of your
life for no reason for season and no reason to
be in your life. You gotta realise when back season
and that reason means Okay, I've got or I could
get for this relationship. I don't mean you, Bill ill Will.
I got you right there, and I'm going I'm good.

(46:07):
I'm a good nigh come up. So what you been doing?
I saw you on TV? What you been doing? I said,
you know what I've been doing? What can I do
for you? I'm glad.

Speaker 9 (46:15):
I just wanted people to know that you was my friend.

Speaker 1 (46:17):
I'm like, we have never been friends, and I'm not
gonna ready tell that lie about you. Oh cause you
see me on TV or you see me in a movie,
that's gonna make me me wanna get it with rude
as she could be. She was rude in college. I
didn't like her in college and she didn't like me,
and she I said, what would be the reason why
you would call me? Well, I just wanted to chat
about what And that's what happened in the room. The

(46:40):
phone fell side and I was like, all right, talk
to you. No, I will not talk to you later.
Don't call me by and I tell him in a
minute before I used to be like oh, and my
husband said, I would be so mean. Come I'm make
that have waited all of our time and don't take
them out to dinner. They order everything on the menu.
But thank you call again. So you got to be mindful. I,
like I said, wouldn't be. I forgave her for myself.

(47:02):
But if you didn't, you know, get me in a
positive okay, love piece and handy that's what you want
to do with your life. See, I'm gonna have a
lot of girlfriends. You know, I have a lot of
female acquaintances, but I don't have I could kind of
my my, my, uh my ride and got chicks. I'd

(47:23):
count on maybe two hands if that many, because some
of them passed away. And I don't replace people when
they passed away. But you never know what's going to
come into your life and you don't know who wants
to be friends with you. And you know, we hear
all the crazy tales about oh analyze my life and

(47:45):
my relationships. And this is what's funny. Everybody black that
I know think that I know everybody black in Hollywood,
and I can pick the roll across up. I mean,
it doesn't work like that. Mike, one of my business
off me when after the first Prince of bel Air
right and so he said, he called me up the
day it's air.

Speaker 2 (48:05):
She said, Hue, I love Will Smith.

Speaker 1 (48:08):
Can you give this whole another guy? I got a
call a boy to come to yob Hey coach you say, man,
say Will Smith. I was like, it doesn't work like.

Speaker 7 (48:16):
It, but to be on TV.

Speaker 1 (48:20):
Okay, let me explain this, and they still don't get it.
My grandson one of them doesn't even realize. He keeps going,
why are you in this on the TV? And you
sit him right here? You know you'll mess up you know,
that's Hollywood will mess up your mind if you let it.
And that's that's some of the things that you see,
you know, with somebody who's really not comfortable in their
own skin. For you to get that angry and that drunk,

(48:42):
so I stout your girlfriend. I'm done, deep done. Let's
see what she has the same, nipping.

Speaker 2 (48:50):
Front of the door.

Speaker 1 (48:52):
Oh, yes, you got the best chance out on cool.

Speaker 3 (48:56):
I got.

Speaker 2 (48:59):
What's up that door?

Speaker 8 (49:22):
I mean, Sammy?

Speaker 2 (49:24):
Okay, give her what she wants.

Speaker 9 (49:28):
Yes, I do think that I owe you an apology
for the night that I just.

Speaker 2 (49:33):
Tripped off your clothes.

Speaker 10 (49:34):
But I also think that you're not telling the whole
story and the night of your birthday.

Speaker 2 (49:37):
I think that you owe me an apology.

Speaker 8 (49:42):
She loves me, Okay, she left me.

Speaker 6 (49:45):
Wait, cleo, I think you know we're in a fresh
same basis. Cleo, MoMA, Cleo, what's the real story? What's
the rest of the store?

Speaker 10 (49:52):
She left me at the bar, She got mad at me,
smashed a drink over my head, left me at the bar.

Speaker 2 (49:58):
I went home. We had try doors. You know, it's
not my fault.

Speaker 10 (50:01):
She didn't bring her keys, and she broke into my
car to get my keys in the first place, to
get her keys out of my car, and then she
comes in the apartment screaming, pretty.

Speaker 2 (50:12):
Much attacked me.

Speaker 6 (50:12):
We got into a street physical fight.

Speaker 2 (50:16):
So I think she owns me an apology for that. Well,
do you think you are an apology for that? Madam
blood everywhere? Okay, yeah, what are you willing to apologize her?
I thought you wanted to be friends with your best friends?

Speaker 10 (50:31):
Do you want any friends with her?

Speaker 2 (50:33):
Ideas? We'll tak So I am willing.

Speaker 10 (50:34):
To apologize slack to you because I know that was
kind of like both as dream trying.

Speaker 1 (50:40):
Am sorry, thank you?

Speaker 6 (50:43):
So now do we get like a diva hug, you
know from the dance Queen Clear Pietro friend.

Speaker 8 (50:49):
Please tell me you have on clothes?

Speaker 5 (50:57):
Please tell me you have on clothes.

Speaker 2 (50:59):
I have on clothe? Yeah, clothes, I see you did.

Speaker 5 (51:01):
That's clothes right, yeah?

Speaker 2 (51:05):
Checking?

Speaker 1 (51:06):
You know, you just never know.

Speaker 6 (51:09):
We're gonna take a few questions here right at the
Angel of Forgiveness to come to you, darling.

Speaker 2 (51:15):
Yes, what would you like to know?

Speaker 14 (51:16):
I'd like to know if you realize the fact that
both instance, alcohol was involved in balls and negative behavior
and attitudes, and that possibly if you weren't involved in that,
this wouldn't happened in the first place.

Speaker 2 (51:28):
Now, see I didn't even go there.

Speaker 10 (51:36):
Definitely true.

Speaker 11 (51:37):
If we hadn't been drinking, I don't think now that
would have happened and we have got chilled out a
whole lot with that was hanging out.

Speaker 10 (51:44):
If you stud like as you, I think.

Speaker 1 (51:46):
I just thought to know, are you both old enough
to drink?

Speaker 2 (51:50):
I knew it. I knew it. I knew it.

Speaker 6 (51:53):
When I get my police friends around here, there's gonna
be busting places open.

Speaker 5 (51:57):
Come get the yes.

Speaker 2 (51:58):
I'd like to know if either of you have a
history of final behavior.

Speaker 11 (52:03):
I've been been in one fight my whole life now.

Speaker 2 (52:08):
It was when I was sixteen years old. Thank you
very much for sharing your story.

Speaker 1 (52:11):
We'll be very d I like it.

Speaker 2 (52:16):
They got U.

Speaker 1 (52:18):
Everybody got on a piece of Halloween. That's the only
way I have to do. I've done was only. I'm like,
I've got a line of some stuff, some stuff I
will let you do. We don't have to talk me
into it. But I was working on this one TV
show and we had an Olympic an Olympic swimmer. It's
the Olympic Championship swimmer. Okay, I said, my love, this

(52:40):
is what we want you to do. We want you
to put on a wet suit. This is still when
I was really heavy. We want to put you on
a wet suit, and we want you, and that's his name.
You will Gary race in the in the swimming pool.
I said, okay, easily realize you're like nineteen feet tall
and by the time we get in the water, I'm
just off from the wall. You do realize that. So

(53:02):
then he goes, I'll spot you.

Speaker 6 (53:04):
I'm like, what is this?

Speaker 1 (53:06):
So this is my comeback? I said, okay, I'll do it,
but you gotta find me one of the baby caps
with the strap up or that day. Have all the
days beg on it. You couldn't gone, well, they weren't
gonna find no, No, they wasn't gonna find that.

Speaker 2 (53:18):
No place.

Speaker 1 (53:19):
Please. This was in the in the year two thousand,
you know they came back. This was just be careful
what you wish for people. So I was like, I
ain't gonna find that. So they come into my dressing room.
There he wet to Gringway super yellow, started down the path.
I'm like, okay, do I get to keep my underwear
on them? They were like no, it said, you can

(53:41):
only have this, uh what baby suit on this wet suit?
So then they come in, Oh, we got the wet suit.
And then the other lady picked it up. She said
and we got choke bathing cap with the flowers on it.
I said, so I had to step up. He gave me.
He fired me like two bodyless and he let me
touch the wall before he did. Okay, I like do it.

(54:03):
He cheated. I ain't he peated. I was waiting for
his kids. So it did make me looking so crazy
and I was like putting on wait wait too in
public on the TV. Yeah whatever, I did that. Okay,
but what's itever? All right up?

Speaker 5 (54:23):
Having enough time?

Speaker 1 (54:28):
We just bulled right it up? Name with all the
other thing.

Speaker 6 (54:44):
And welcome back.

Speaker 1 (54:45):
Let's hear our next gap.

Speaker 9 (54:46):
My name is Cornelia Ronald, and I to my husband,
I got back together with my heart tool sweetheart. We
moved in together, but I never told him I was
still married. He was so upset when he found out
that we stopped speaking. Teachers Today, I went to Apolo
Jarze I caught.

Speaker 6 (55:07):
Now, how did you and your high school sweetheart ended
up getting back together again? Well, one day I was
at work. I worked at a Mexican restaurant making Britos.
He walked in when I was stick to the berdo
and I.

Speaker 9 (55:20):
Turned around the farm.

Speaker 6 (55:21):
I turned around to my friend. I said, I can.
I let him leave because I had to see him because.

Speaker 9 (55:26):
He was my high schools sweetheart. Well, we started seeing each.

Speaker 1 (55:30):
Other again and.

Speaker 6 (55:32):
We talked for about a month and I moved in
with him. Then one day he told me he said,
I don't need any more friends and he had enough
friends he and a girlfriend. So I was like, at first,
I was upset when he's in any any more friends,
But then when he said he had.

Speaker 10 (55:47):
A meeting a girlfriend, I was like, okay, Prettia.

Speaker 11 (55:51):
But at the same time, did you have a hood?

Speaker 9 (55:53):
Yeah? I had.

Speaker 6 (55:54):
I the we're telling him about kay just I had
a husband, but I didn't tell him.

Speaker 2 (55:57):
I was scared.

Speaker 6 (55:58):
If I would have told him, said, he would have
stopped talking to me and I would have lost him.

Speaker 2 (56:02):
So I didn't tell him.

Speaker 1 (56:03):
I kept him a secret.

Speaker 6 (56:05):
So one day I got real sick. I had a fever,
and he sent me to the hospital. I told him
he could leave. He didn't have to wait on me
because I didn't want him to know my last name
was different.

Speaker 10 (56:15):
So he came back to get her.

Speaker 2 (56:17):
Excuse me, you are sick, you have to go to
the hospital. You're at the doctor's office or in the
emergency room.

Speaker 6 (56:22):
I'm in the emergency room, you on your death bed,
and you tell him go away because I'm I'm I
don't want you to know what my real name is. Yeah,
I didn't, So he came bck to get me. He
couldn't find me, and uh, finally when he did find wall,
why couldn't he find you? Well, he was looking for
my maiden name.

Speaker 2 (56:42):
He said he didn't know where I was.

Speaker 6 (56:45):
They didn't, They said they didn't have me, But I
was there.

Speaker 1 (56:48):
What did you say to him?

Speaker 6 (56:49):
I just told him that I was married.

Speaker 9 (56:52):
This wife didn't find me because I was in a
different name.

Speaker 2 (56:55):
Just like that, Just like I said, why are you apologizing?
It was that I bot for him.

Speaker 6 (57:01):
I owe him an apology because I felt that he
really cared for me, and I didn't. I mean, I
didn't apologize when I told him the truth, and I
think I should have.

Speaker 2 (57:12):
And I still have feelings for him, the strong feelings. Ah,
And I don't think he knows who can about it?

Speaker 1 (57:18):
That's what it is.

Speaker 5 (57:20):
Well, we got together with Kio C b WB.

Speaker 2 (57:23):
Thirty four in Oklahoma City.

Speaker 6 (57:24):
Oklahoma to help Quint Niggia put a message on videotapes
for her ex boyfriend Alson.

Speaker 2 (57:29):
Let's take a look at that messages.

Speaker 6 (57:31):
We see Alton watching it for the first time.

Speaker 9 (57:35):
I ask him, you know you're my true love and
always have been. It hurts me to know that I
betrayed you in the past. I know I should have
told you that I was married to another man even though.

Speaker 2 (57:45):
I was separated.

Speaker 9 (57:46):
I know I was still wrong, but I was afraid
if I would have told you, I would have lost you.
We had a very wonderful relationship. Maybe one day we
can pick up when we ended, if you could ever
find in your heart to forgive.

Speaker 6 (57:59):
Me, Cornelia out and is willing to accept your apology
for just oh keeping the truth for him? He's going
to be standing on the other side of that door.

Speaker 2 (58:09):
Or please be prepared, Cornelia.

Speaker 6 (58:11):
He might have felt so betrayed that the light that
you kept.

Speaker 1 (58:14):
Was so great.

Speaker 2 (58:16):
He might feel like he can't forgive you.

Speaker 1 (58:17):
Now.

Speaker 2 (58:18):
Are you ready to find out?

Speaker 1 (58:24):
Are you once? You're going?

Speaker 14 (58:25):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (58:26):
All right, Well take your place in front of the door.
Whish pink money grabbing it, just going going go to
the door, all right, pink.

Speaker 6 (58:40):
Money of Cornelia runaldspen that door.

Speaker 2 (59:06):
What had no yo Highness, How you doing? That's Prince charmy?

Speaker 6 (59:10):
All right, miss pink bunny Rabbit, Cornelia.

Speaker 9 (59:12):
Tell him what you wanna tell him. Comple poems and policize.

Speaker 6 (59:16):
I didn't wanna let you know how I feel.

Speaker 2 (59:17):
For one, it was just so hard, plint you know that?

Speaker 1 (59:21):
Are alright? My girl?

Speaker 9 (59:23):
That tea?

Speaker 2 (59:26):
I just I don't know.

Speaker 5 (59:28):
It's just that, you know, if you'ld have told me
from the start, I guess we could have saved a lot.

Speaker 1 (59:32):
Yeah, yeah, cause you know I don't really believe in it.

Speaker 5 (59:35):
No, no, I love that, That's the only thing.

Speaker 2 (59:41):
Then would you would have left if she had have
told you the truth? Would you not have connected with
her to the point that you two would have been
living together?

Speaker 1 (59:48):
Yea, had she told you the truth? Actually yes, you
would not have moved in with him? Oh yeah, she
wouldn't have. It would have deceased from that point.

Speaker 2 (59:57):
So what about now?

Speaker 6 (59:58):
Ye are you wait?

Speaker 2 (59:59):
Please tell me you're not still married?

Speaker 6 (01:00:01):
You know I'm married, but he said the piper he
didn't want the phone.

Speaker 2 (01:00:07):
Would you take her back once her divorce is final?

Speaker 4 (01:00:11):
Well, yeah, I wouldn't have any problem with that, but
we would have to start all over because you know,
and I'm telling what's happening, you know, between men, you
just that time.

Speaker 2 (01:00:20):
And just think they're so good Jude jous.

Speaker 6 (01:00:24):
Wait so you're not missus married though, before you go
carrying on and keep boarding, promise M I can't. Well,
I think you want for sharing your story with us,
Thank you for being in the spirit of.

Speaker 1 (01:00:36):
The holiday with us, with me right back. You know,
I appreciate what he said, you know, because if he
had to, didn't sad anything else, you know other than yeah,
I s'll like her, you know. But we're gonna have
to stop him, you know, have to start all over,
because I'm not the high school see high.

Speaker 13 (01:00:53):
You know.

Speaker 1 (01:00:54):
And so it's back Toga. You can't start a relationship
on a lie, you you just because it's gonna ride
unrather like you always used to stay on the show.
Every relationship stunt is trust. You don't have anything and
you and we want to trust our mates, We want
to trust our fears, we want to trust our children,

(01:01:15):
we want to trust ourselves because oftentimes, you know, we
get involved in relationships and and you after a while
you go, oh, this was a bad mistake. No, but
I'm gonna stay with him for the kids. Your kids
know you miserable. You ain't saying yes. And I've seen
people do it. As soon as the last kid got
eighteen years old, like that's gonna constitute them being an adult.

(01:01:37):
He packed up and moved out. He packed up and
moved out. And you know after we see its turn eighteen,
they're all in college.

Speaker 3 (01:01:45):
You feel on your own.

Speaker 1 (01:01:46):
Baby, And she never had to have a job, and
she just went to act them buck wow. And he
was like and I talked to him personally and he
was like, mother, love you know, I love her, but
I can't deal with the live all the time. You
know she's coming in on hours of the night. She no,
he went the kids wake up and go to school.
You know she's doing something at night. And she was

(01:02:06):
not sleeping with somebody. They was the way, I thank
you so.

Speaker 2 (01:02:14):
Much, and he just ring it back like it like.

Speaker 1 (01:02:16):
It like I'm like right there, like right, I remember that.
I remember they did that to tell them shack how
they get in touch steal.

Speaker 5 (01:02:23):
I'm in shock see on YouTube watching all these episodes,
see your Hearts seem.

Speaker 1 (01:02:31):
I had drum my Malipui sticking. You know, Wellpui sits
on there. It was wine. Then I can't do that
on TV. Okay, we're cleaning it up in post or
just so you know, hopefully we'll cause the well when
the Kreek don't help Pully, I can't even think of
what it is. But I'm always grateful.

Speaker 3 (01:02:51):
And honor that you do this with me.

Speaker 1 (01:02:53):
And I do this sweet you on Saturday from five
pm U till fifty and Pacific Standard time. And I
want to Amice, I love, and I am just just
hoping that the Dodgers keep tapping on the Yankees bops. Okay,
you the harder you got, favorite Yankee player.

Speaker 8 (01:03:13):
Oh it's.

Speaker 1 (01:03:16):
I grew I grew up.

Speaker 3 (01:03:17):
That was my error around there by.

Speaker 4 (01:03:20):
The way, the Yankees the championship with during the two
years that to give us forget for doing so just.

Speaker 1 (01:03:25):
See, I'm gonna have it all that. I remember that
remembody as all that you the one remember. See you
got me saying that I remember. Oh they was on
there with uh for two years ago when you was
on the TV. You know that's what us I'm sending
that bringing that uju back from New York and put

(01:03:46):
it on doctors when they had a game with the
Doctor Stadium. That's say, when they go to the rolls boat,
don't go outside. Don't go outside if you don't have to.
I don't go outside on New Year's Day because they
had roll for road right right down the street. Pretty more.
But and and people sleep out there on the street,
bring their cameras, bring their babies. They buy pouches and
take an old pouch. Sit out there when the when

(01:04:08):
the when they're parade and everything is over, the homeless
people be coming to get them some new furniture. But
they little tense things I'm saying. I'm just saying, we
know that we love it. Then remember this, babies, no
matter how big, titar short or small, they can say,
matters now what's in your inn? Everybody needs to much
to dout now and then come and get your dove babies.

(01:04:28):
Take what you need. I got you. You gotta figure
out that you do that.