Gender Warz World Wide Episode 18- "Who Hurts Deeper After a Break Up?"

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Speaker 1 (00:02):
No, I cannot stop, man, I ain't know my mother.

Speaker 2 (00:05):
I'm I'm gonna throw these ones. I'm gonna throw some more,
throw some more, hid in on the rock, get in
on the floor. But that gonna minds when I'm selling alone,
But that gon mins I'm alone.

Speaker 3 (00:23):
Said she's d T effort tickets to the show.

Speaker 1 (00:26):
Yeah, I have it my way when I am on
the roll.

Speaker 3 (00:28):
She know that I get the bless so she's gonna
come this way.

Speaker 1 (00:32):
We got a lot of fun.

Speaker 3 (00:34):
Way, we got all the woe shaky this way.

Speaker 4 (00:39):
You know that I get the blessing.

Speaker 5 (00:41):
You we all.

Speaker 3 (00:46):
Shaky it sway we got all the guns.

Speaker 1 (00:49):
Don't come this way. Can't get me on my show.
Better watch your girl.

Speaker 3 (00:57):
Better keep her close because what she would mean ever
saying no when I get the stands out, Oh my god?

Speaker 5 (01:04):
What those what we're doing?

Speaker 1 (01:09):
No, I cannot stop, man, I'm in my mom. I'm
gonna study it off.

Speaker 6 (01:13):
I'm you don't drop it long.

Speaker 4 (01:17):
She's gonna these ones.

Speaker 1 (01:18):
I'm gonna I'm gonna throw these ones.

Speaker 2 (01:21):
I'm gonna hit in on the rock, hid in on
the floor, but.

Speaker 3 (01:31):
Said she's d D effort tickets to the show. Yeah,
I have to my way when I'm on the roll.
She know that I get the guss and she's gonna
come this way. We got a lot of fun this way.
We got a little wah shaky.

Speaker 1 (01:43):
This way, bitch, dam in some of my Yeah.

Speaker 7 (01:46):
My firstrate.

Speaker 1 (01:47):
You know that I get to bussle.

Speaker 3 (01:48):
She's gonna come this way.

Speaker 8 (01:50):
We had a little fun this way.

Speaker 3 (01:53):
We had a shake its way, We got all the guns.
Don't come this way. I'm gonna drop it real low,
for real, drop it real low.

Speaker 9 (02:02):
Fall around.

Speaker 1 (02:03):
Come on, baby, I'm as Manny's males with you know
you're fucking.

Speaker 9 (02:07):
With him with stem mother.

Speaker 6 (02:11):
Damn, hold on.

Speaker 10 (02:14):
You know we had to come into the wall floor
right Listen. Do men and women get unfairly labeled as toxic?

Speaker 5 (02:25):
Anytime?

Speaker 10 (02:26):
You know, when I was coming up in my younger years,
anytime I've had communication with someone and told someone what
I really wanted, they called me toxic. Oh, you trying
to control or you being top. Don't label me as
that just because you don't know structure. Yeah, I laid
some structure down. Now I'm toxic? What kind of bullshit

(02:50):
is this?

Speaker 11 (02:53):
So?

Speaker 10 (02:53):
I want to hear from men and women both sides.
Do you guys get fairly unlabeled as toxic? Maybe when
you're trying to communicate in a situation with different people.
Welcome to the war floor. If you guys haven't checked
out the podcast, do so you know, if you haven't
checked out the four hundred club, do that. I got
my irl ladies with me and my brother, Magvard, Laila,
everybody on the stage. I appreciate you guys. We in

(03:13):
the goddamn building. And I'm gonna say this one time.
If you don't see in your war, I don't you
understand do men and women? I don't get unfairly labeled
A's toxic? Go ahead, s donn let's go.

Speaker 12 (03:26):
Let's Oh no, I'm not going first on this one.

Speaker 13 (03:29):
I was just saying I don't fuck with you.

Speaker 10 (03:34):
Because she don't want to be toxic. She knows she toxic,
so she don't want to be labeled that, right Andrea,
she hold up, I already know I'm kind of toxic,
so let me not go first.

Speaker 5 (03:44):
Go ahead.

Speaker 14 (03:44):
I think I think we all can be it sometimes
what others may consider toxic, because some people could consider
being toxic and when you don't agree with them, So yes,
I do believe that you're wrongly labeled as being toxic.
Some are not all, but some are wrongly labeled as
being toxic just because they have an opposing opinion than

(04:05):
what you have. It could, in some cases be the
way that it is is given, the way that you
get dish it out, that could be deemed as toxic.
But I'm in the belief that if it's true and
it's coming from someone that is loving, then you receive it.

Speaker 7 (04:23):
But I often also.

Speaker 15 (04:24):
Tell you hello, I am from Germany.

Speaker 11 (04:34):
But well, should that one left.

Speaker 14 (04:36):
I'm in the belief that if you want someone to
receive it, then you got to say it to them
the way that they will receive it, because the truth
can still be the truth either way. But I can
take it myself either way. I'm just like, okay, well,
you know, especially if it's coming from someone that I
know loves me, like my husband or something.

Speaker 12 (04:54):
I just receive it the way that he gives it
out to me.

Speaker 7 (04:57):
But just don't be disrespectful coming at my name.

Speaker 4 (05:00):
So that's what it is.

Speaker 14 (05:02):
So, yes, I do think people are wrongfully label as toxic.

Speaker 7 (05:05):
It could be that they're allowed.

Speaker 14 (05:06):
I see a couple of different people on the app
that are loud and when they're speaking and they're very
direct or sharp with their tongue, quick and witty, and
it has them perceived as being toxic when they're really
not because I'm listening to what they're saying a lot
of times, I'm quite I'm listening to what they're saying,
and what they're saying is fact.

Speaker 10 (05:31):
But you guys are just joining we've been talking about
do men and women get unfairly labeled as toxic? Anybody's
welcome to jump in the podcast.

Speaker 5 (05:39):
I know what it is.

Speaker 6 (05:40):
Gender wolfloor, Mac Welcome to.

Speaker 10 (05:43):
The stage, Harriet, Welcome to the stage, Kim, Welcome to
the state.

Speaker 15 (05:47):
Yo.

Speaker 10 (05:48):
Yeah, we were about to turn this shit up. Y'all
jump in. Let's take this conversation anyway you want to.
If you catch a bullet, don't feel bad.

Speaker 16 (05:55):
We on the.

Speaker 17 (06:01):
This is kindie, y'all. I'm trying to respond to Ahead,
don'trect attractive women.

Speaker 5 (06:12):
That's why that's wow.

Speaker 18 (06:15):
Man, Floyd, You're gonna have to fight for it when
I get.

Speaker 5 (06:23):
Out the way.

Speaker 19 (06:25):
Okay, you can go ahead, our our.

Speaker 20 (06:31):
I think y'all harder on the prettier women because it's because.

Speaker 21 (06:35):
It's like, y'all, society, niggas is killing people, niggas is
going to jail, niggas is is crashing out because of y'all.

Speaker 5 (06:44):
They're not doing. Y'all want to ruining these good men.

Speaker 22 (06:48):
Y'all want to control the social capital called femininity. Y'all
want access to femininity, and y'all want to wrangle leading
control it.

Speaker 20 (06:56):
We know, so y'all harder on the pretty grood?

Speaker 5 (07:00):
Do we not hard on pretty women? In reality, he
is right.

Speaker 21 (07:08):
Pretty all the life that she feels like she could
she could talk over a two percent nigga. That is
what I'm talking about. You don't talk over a skim
milk nigga. You talk over these weak niggas. You don't
talk over a two percent skim milk niggas like they
hit the The reality of this shit is this man.
People get called toxic because even people hate because they

(07:32):
can't relate or they actually are that type of person.

Speaker 5 (07:36):
That's why people get taught. They call me toxic, and
I hate black women.

Speaker 21 (07:39):
All I've done is send four hundred and eighty four
of their kids to college for free. But I hate
them right because I tell them when you got kids
to be responsible with your pussy. Stop fucking men when
your kids is under two years old. Use condoms and
the world is yours like you get the choos who
nigga kids you being in? That makes me hate women, right,
But when they say they want tall, you know what

(08:01):
I'm saying that that make a million dollars a day.
Nobody percent fat, father, married, mother, married, sisters, aunts, uncles, cousins,
side bitches, everybody married. Everybody say yes, girl that self esteem?
No bitch, who the fuck was you fucking in your twenties?
Why y'all don't never show me these niggas that when
y'all had everything going on, wh y'all was fucking, y'all

(08:22):
gonna start paying y'all one hundred dollars a picture to
show me these niggas that. Why while y'all y'all won't
fuck me when y'all on y'all down slob, but y'all
fucked him when y'all had everything.

Speaker 5 (08:32):
Cause I want to get better. I want to see
what I need to become to get next to average women.

Speaker 21 (08:37):
Please, any of y'all that's not married, show me the
nigga that's shown your twenties so I could be like
him because now the price is going up.

Speaker 5 (08:46):
I'm tied.

Speaker 21 (08:46):
The price going up and the production is going down.
You gotta pay more. You can't even fitch, can't even
boil water. The fuck is spaghetti noodles is stuck together.
The shit is a shit show, man, It's a real
shit show. And it's like, Okay, your label toxic. He's toxic.
He's controlling. Why I told you don't dress like a whole,

(09:07):
so niggas don't disrespectful, disrespect you, and I gotta go
to jail, Like is that controlling?

Speaker 5 (09:14):
Listen man, y'all niggas keep listening to this bullshit.

Speaker 21 (09:17):
These women only got one thing man too access today
pussy in mouth, And if you let one of those
two things break you down, you're gonna be like the
beat of males. They raising niggas to be man captain cuffing.
I ain't listening to none of that shit because I
know whatever they say on this app, they're doing the
total opposite in life, the total opposite in real life.

(09:39):
They're not dating good men. They don't want men that
have expectations. They're dating the worst niggas they can find.
They're sharing baby daddies with another broke bitch. This is
the reality of a sex So, like the next woman
that come over and say something about Captain Cuff, please
show me who you was giving your pussy to on
your twenty so I can shut up and I could
know what I need to become the.

Speaker 16 (09:59):
Fucker average girl, average crazy man sixty.

Speaker 21 (10:06):
Yeah, that's what I'm saying. Like they average attitude. Okay,
let's go. Let's let's unpack the average Black women. Two
baby daddies, two children, fifty three thousand a year. That's
the average woman. So if you're in shape, you got
an attitude like diego, you understand what I'm saying.

Speaker 5 (10:25):
You got some motherfucking fire ass looks, and you shut
the fuck up. You're not average.

Speaker 21 (10:30):
So which one of y'all is in shape, no best
of kids and got a good attitude? Y'all above average?

Speaker 5 (10:35):
Speak?

Speaker 12 (10:36):
Now, there are a lot of women on this stage.

Speaker 20 (10:41):
Let me tell you something.

Speaker 5 (10:43):
That guy's five.

Speaker 21 (10:45):
It's seven highly attractive women on the stage. Which one
of them is married to? All the niggas they got
their kids with, in shape and respectful?

Speaker 20 (10:53):
Listen, let me tell you something. All you need to
do is be yourselves.

Speaker 5 (11:03):
No, no, no, that's cat be and yourself.

Speaker 15 (11:09):
Woman.

Speaker 12 (11:09):
You can get a good woman.

Speaker 13 (11:11):
You you have to work hard.

Speaker 11 (11:14):
I mean you have to work.

Speaker 4 (11:15):
Women.

Speaker 7 (11:17):
I don't gotta work hard, you just have to have
cooigas gotta work.

Speaker 12 (11:21):
Those are basic girls I'm talking about.

Speaker 5 (11:24):
They're not basic.

Speaker 21 (11:26):
The basic girls is the ones trying to convince me
they're not fucking nobody but rich niggas. Every girl's pulling
that scam. I know that ship is cap because girls
that have successful men. I give you an example, right,
I'm a I'm a short, overweight African American. Right, My
bitch will never get on this app and be talking
to y'all all day. She respect me too much. That's
what I'm trying to say.

Speaker 20 (11:46):
What's the correlation.

Speaker 21 (11:48):
The correlation is women that's got successful men in real
life would never be up here talking to a bunch.

Speaker 5 (11:52):
Of strange men.

Speaker 23 (11:54):
I mean, I I do what I do.

Speaker 12 (11:56):
Hear, I hear that.

Speaker 4 (12:00):
You have some real money.

Speaker 17 (12:00):
You agree to that to a certain extent. But this
app could definitely be like an outlet of some sort
because maybe maybe hold on, captain, maybe it's because your
man at home is busy making money and you don't
want to nag him and bother him.

Speaker 5 (12:18):
Are you not helping that nigga make money?

Speaker 9 (12:21):
Oh?

Speaker 16 (12:21):
Man, what do you mean why.

Speaker 11 (12:24):
Making money?

Speaker 23 (12:25):
What are you talking?

Speaker 22 (12:26):
The same thing with the men that's on the app though?
But what about the same thing about the men that's
on the app all day.

Speaker 16 (12:33):
To that?

Speaker 17 (12:35):
Why do you want help from a woman being a whoever?

Speaker 5 (12:39):
Get out the way? Hold on?

Speaker 11 (12:40):
Hold on?

Speaker 9 (12:41):
You ask what the men we know?

Speaker 22 (12:44):
Because and the women and the women and the women
and the women are and the women.

Speaker 5 (12:53):
The women, but different we got.

Speaker 22 (13:00):
I'm not saying I'm not saying saying what he's saying,
but I just feel like you judge you making it
seem like women on this app are not able to
access the same dingling and as you are able to.

Speaker 5 (13:15):
All you can do is get though. I could create
a life with the bitch on.

Speaker 22 (13:19):
Being able to access that's not ax one mic on
the Mad Woman?

Speaker 5 (13:24):
Would you say, Katie?

Speaker 12 (13:25):
No, I said, that's not a flex is what I said?

Speaker 21 (13:30):
I Hold hold on, Katy, Katie. I want you to
do me a favor so I can really see if
what you're saying is true.

Speaker 5 (13:36):
Right when your.

Speaker 21 (13:37):
Husband about to come home, right, I want you to
start yelling at the top top of your lungs. Man,
fuck you, Captain Cuffum. I got the man that pail
the bills. I don't gotta do ship.

Speaker 13 (13:46):
I don't, I don't.

Speaker 12 (13:47):
I don't talk like that in jail.

Speaker 24 (13:49):
Why not?

Speaker 5 (13:49):
Why not?

Speaker 21 (13:50):
I want to see if this nigga know you be
talking to some nigga named Captain Cuffham every day.

Speaker 16 (13:54):
I don't talk to you at all.

Speaker 21 (13:57):
I told you that for that ship.

Speaker 5 (14:01):
These niggas on this.

Speaker 11 (14:09):
I got a question.

Speaker 22 (14:10):
So that means so you assuming that women on this
app in secret and secrecy or something like.

Speaker 5 (14:19):
I don't want to.

Speaker 4 (14:19):
I don't want to.

Speaker 21 (14:20):
I don't want to talk about this brother. But this
is my man, right like, And let me hurry up
before he come back in his room. Y'all ever seen
a nigga who ptr is Legacy TV? You'll ever seen
his ship before that nigga like, before he comes back.
You know what I'm saying, before he come back, let
me talk, don't interrupt me, right right, y'all don't.

Speaker 5 (14:38):
Know niggas like that in real life.

Speaker 21 (14:40):
But he shit up here every day because he not
Ni Jerry and is stealing from banks and he ain't
got eight baby mothers.

Speaker 5 (14:47):
All over the way.

Speaker 21 (14:47):
Y'all missed the boat every day. Y'all don't even know
what the fuck to look for this ship I'm talking about?
Oh captain this now you put men. Wives are not
on the internet talking to strange because that want to
fuck them.

Speaker 5 (15:01):
You're not doing that.

Speaker 25 (15:02):
Sure what you're doing right now?

Speaker 21 (15:05):
I can give you a website right now so you
can research how to get a real estate license and
help your husband.

Speaker 17 (15:10):
Would my my, My man is one of the top
fifty under fifty under forty in the United States attorneys,
so he doesn't need your assistance.

Speaker 5 (15:21):
This is crazy.

Speaker 15 (15:23):
He doesn't need.

Speaker 22 (15:24):
Also, just want to point out that aren't we the
same women that men want them to have something to
do outside of them?

Speaker 16 (15:31):
No?

Speaker 22 (15:31):
No, wait, wait, wait wait, because when women actually find
you know, platform to get into to invent and express
themselves or they have a hobby here, they do this
and they they have an identity outside of their men.
Now that's all.

Speaker 5 (15:48):
Let me explain something beautiful.

Speaker 21 (15:49):
Don't tell nobody I told you this right, and let
me hurry up before this Nigga Legacy TV come back.
Valuable men's women are not easily accessible. But nigga could
just talk to my room and on women randomly. I'm
I'm in jeopardy. I'm vulnerable, nigga. You cannot just access
and call no valuable man's wife or have a conversation.

Speaker 18 (16:12):
You can't.

Speaker 5 (16:12):
But Katie, I'm not talking about one of these bump
ass niggas out here.

Speaker 12 (16:21):
No, I'm just saying, Okay, what I'm saying is right.

Speaker 5 (16:28):
Valuable men's women are not easily accessible.

Speaker 21 (16:32):
You cannot just go up and have random conversations with
a valuable man's woman that respect him because we protect
our families.

Speaker 5 (16:40):
Y'all up here running y'all mouth to a bunch of strangers.
Women don't think.

Speaker 21 (16:43):
Sometimes before they talk, they'll say some ship that they
shouldn't be saying. This is why men are protective of
their women, to keep them out of certain shit. Y'all
come on this app and get this ship because y'all
boughed and don't respect the niggas you're married to.

Speaker 5 (16:57):
Now, there's two percent of these wives on this stage
that carry themself in a dignified minute. You ain't gonna
stay on the mic.

Speaker 21 (17:04):
It's a couple of you women here that's respectable wives
that come and carry yourself in the dignified man on
the stage.

Speaker 5 (17:10):
But any woman that will argue.

Speaker 16 (17:11):
With me, baby, are you married?

Speaker 4 (17:17):
Brothers?

Speaker 5 (17:24):
There? You argue with some nigganation, Captain Kuffle, like you
gotta deal with a nation.

Speaker 20 (17:37):
Don't buy into at least an inoculate yourself, like.

Speaker 12 (17:40):
You're just trying to respond to this to the topic
and there.

Speaker 22 (17:43):
Trying to drive a widge in y'all relationships so that
he can give one of the low hanging fruit later on.

Speaker 21 (17:50):
So don't That's why I told y'all, y'all, y'all need
to go and pay in but Dad to come talk
to y'all are about about man ship because y'all women
is clueless.

Speaker 5 (18:04):
Y'all really think that valuable men wives are gonna.

Speaker 21 (18:06):
Be sitting up here talking to some rich nigga named
Stacked this nigga man, Like you think my b's gonna
be here listening to these niggas.

Speaker 5 (18:14):
Get the fuck out of here, man, y'all listen.

Speaker 21 (18:20):
Man Stax starts talking about crypto currency and all this
other bullshit, and then he starts saying he'd been in
a committed relationship.

Speaker 5 (18:27):
What do you think my bitch is gonna start thinking
I went the wrong nigga.

Speaker 11 (18:32):
You gotta have stax is.

Speaker 21 (18:36):
Gonna take the average nigga. Bitch, you live in a
fairy tale world. I live in reality.

Speaker 5 (18:42):
I know what's going on.

Speaker 20 (18:46):
I've only seen a nice Christian young man.

Speaker 18 (18:51):
Thank you.

Speaker 5 (18:55):
That's working.

Speaker 21 (18:57):
That nigga Stack sent you two eyeballs and your back
down and right now you will put yourself security number.

Speaker 11 (19:03):
And respectreaming.

Speaker 21 (19:13):
And most and most importantly, he meet all your standards.
He got a lot of money, he's respectful, he gets fresh,
and he got a.

Speaker 11 (19:20):
Woman, so that makes it respect that.

Speaker 12 (19:23):
I don't sexualize him having a woman making him better.

Speaker 16 (19:27):
Women women want to definitely will fall You got a
girl already. Definitely.

Speaker 21 (19:34):
Women want to be the macaroni and cheese. They don't
want to be living. They don't want to do the
heavy lifting. They just want to be seen next to him.
They want his money, they want his guidance, and they
want his friends and say, yes, bit you fucking that nigga.

Speaker 16 (19:46):
That's it.

Speaker 5 (19:47):
They don't care. This nigga has no interest in being with.

Speaker 4 (19:50):
The long term.

Speaker 5 (19:50):
He has a wife.

Speaker 18 (19:51):
They don't care about that.

Speaker 21 (19:58):
You just know what the I'm talking about that nigga eat.
You don't need to see that nigga get upset. He
got the same politics for years. He got somewhere to live.
His name is on his crib.

Speaker 5 (20:07):
He gets a little bit of money. Y'all want me
to believe that. These man look at this nigga, won't give.

Speaker 11 (20:14):
Him no, give him time. We're on the war floor.

Speaker 4 (20:22):
We're on the warl floor. We're on the wolf flow.

Speaker 26 (20:24):
Were talking about, hey, mad, can you hear me?

Speaker 16 (20:36):
No?

Speaker 26 (20:36):
But these women do mana.

Speaker 19 (20:42):
Y'all, y'all better pulling y'all, y'all little ash, y'all better
pulled in, y'all better pulling a woman that's gonna help y'all.

Speaker 16 (20:49):
Cause this man right now, we all fifty dollars.

Speaker 5 (20:55):
For no.

Speaker 11 (20:59):
Hierarchy.

Speaker 26 (21:01):
He dropped some gyms.

Speaker 16 (21:04):
I'm going go ahead.

Speaker 27 (21:06):
I didn't knock out.

Speaker 22 (21:08):
That was an alpha mal in his room. This is
the first time I'm hearing this. I don't engage in
male social hierarchy in that way. I just thought it
was a nice Christian meaning.

Speaker 19 (21:19):
And you know that I don't bite the baby move,
don't bite the bait moo.

Speaker 9 (21:26):
We don't do that.

Speaker 5 (21:27):
Do that get out my way. I got this, Harriet.

Speaker 21 (21:30):
See what you just said is so great, beautiful, right,
and other than your face, I want to find something
else beautiful.

Speaker 5 (21:36):
But let me tell you a secret, though, right, don't tell.

Speaker 21 (21:38):
Nobody I told you this, right, This is why society
was better when men picked the men for the women.
Right because the fact that you don't know he's an
autpha and y'all come and listen to him talk every day.
Let me know you're gonna pick a bozo. So the
next time you're thinking about giving your pussy to somebody,
called me and let me talk to.

Speaker 28 (21:55):
The nigga STREETE need a body man.

Speaker 22 (22:06):
Yeah, I'm just not attracted to the same niggas you
attracted to that.

Speaker 5 (22:09):
No, that doesn't.

Speaker 27 (22:20):
That's how he acted.

Speaker 5 (22:21):
He acting like that.

Speaker 29 (22:23):
Sure, Yeah, I'm god damn.

Speaker 5 (22:27):
He can't the bump. Nothing I'm saying that.

Speaker 21 (22:29):
She says she can't identify Alpha mal, but she could
have dide about fucking bump.

Speaker 5 (22:34):
She can identify. She can identify them.

Speaker 11 (22:38):
We just got different.

Speaker 21 (22:39):
This is what I'm trying to tell y'all. Right, they
don't have nothing but mouth. You see how when she
ain't have nothing else to say, she said some gay ship.

Speaker 5 (22:51):
Yeah, because she don't even know the na.

Speaker 11 (22:53):
Look do you think like you?

Speaker 16 (22:55):
I don't know.

Speaker 11 (22:57):
Let's get the top of the road.

Speaker 22 (23:00):
Let's get to speaking on it.

Speaker 11 (23:02):
Let's do that.

Speaker 16 (23:03):
We're talking.

Speaker 24 (23:04):
You know that.

Speaker 19 (23:08):
We need we need to give award to to to
the people that that wins the floor cryptot to give
some ship give y'all.

Speaker 17 (23:21):
I mean, Max Dog does have a point, though I
do agree to a certain extent. If you're constantly in
these rooms all day, every day, definitely facts like where's
your man?

Speaker 12 (23:34):
What are you doing?

Speaker 16 (23:34):
Maybe?

Speaker 12 (23:35):
Why do you have so much time?

Speaker 17 (23:37):
Like what's what's c so Max with you, I definitely
agree with you, but I will say that that's not everyone.

Speaker 12 (23:46):
Like everyone doesn't fall within that category.

Speaker 5 (23:48):
People just four percent of y'all that got a good man, bro.

Speaker 12 (23:51):
You see, like, no matter what I say that the
sweetheart no no no, no.

Speaker 21 (23:56):
No no no, represents her fucking husband. So she's gonna
she's a favery woman by how she carry herself. Controlling
her right now, She's not gonna give.

Speaker 5 (24:06):
Me that energy because she respects her last name.

Speaker 21 (24:10):
That's why I tell her to stay on me when
I'm arguing, because she she's a lottery winner. She's she's
in the three percent of smart one. I why you
think they hate yo? Why you think the I R
L girls are.

Speaker 5 (24:28):
The most hated on? In private? Women?

Speaker 21 (24:30):
On this because when everybody mad, everybody mad that Amber
had a father right everybody.

Speaker 11 (24:36):
Else about that ship?

Speaker 26 (24:37):
Because I can't find you.

Speaker 21 (24:41):
No, no, no, she had a real father, not a
nigga that affirmed on her. She had a nigga that
provided leadership. At the end, Amba never told me none
of the ship her father bought her. All she talked
about is the ship.

Speaker 5 (24:52):
He taught her.

Speaker 21 (24:52):
She that's the difference between y'all. But Dirty gave me
everything except what the fuck you didn't know? He didn't
give you that, so he was lacking.

Speaker 5 (25:01):
She is talking about you know how to be quiet?

Speaker 9 (25:05):
Smart.

Speaker 21 (25:06):
I ain't talking about your fuck. I don't know what
I'm saying is she's smart. She knows we're not to talk,
and she could get you together without being disrespectful. That
comes from under the leadership of a competent man. See,
I know you're gonna get.

Speaker 5 (25:22):
On these ladies.

Speaker 16 (25:23):
Man, they got enough already.

Speaker 5 (25:25):
Bro, you said that hate what I just said?

Speaker 16 (25:28):
No, no, no, you highlighten them, they gonna start hating.

Speaker 15 (25:30):
He said, you're bringing more attention to him.

Speaker 5 (25:32):
Matt Oh, I'm sorry. They I love them, I love
all for of them. I'm sorry. I am apologize.

Speaker 21 (25:41):
They were dating the NBA player and I was highlighting them,
and they was getting mistreated and and cheated on and
all that.

Speaker 5 (25:48):
That'll be fine.

Speaker 21 (25:49):
But since they making the great choices and I'm highlighting
the stuff that you, nigga should be looking for in
black women.

Speaker 5 (25:55):
Now y'all sitting there telling me I'm highlighting them, you
gotta get them on a podcast.

Speaker 21 (26:10):
They hate married women, the women that they hold, and
they hate women that had good, functional daddies.

Speaker 5 (26:17):
I'm telling you the women hate them the most.

Speaker 21 (26:19):
The women hate women that have functional daddies that told
them stop begging, take care of your They want them
daddies that say, yeah, niggas sposed.

Speaker 5 (26:28):
To give you everything.

Speaker 21 (26:29):
He's supposed to give your comming sons too. Like, what
the fuck are we talking about? I love y'all, man,
I'm a chilling up.

Speaker 5 (26:37):
Damn we on the motherfucking world floor.

Speaker 11 (26:39):
Can we respond?

Speaker 15 (26:43):
Yes, yes, yes, it's about to switch.

Speaker 17 (26:45):
Wil Let me just address the money in the I
don't know you are, but please don't ever disrespect me.
You don't know me, Jehovah, don't you and you don't
want to take it there with me. So that's first
and foremost. Do men and get unfairly labeled as toxic?
I would say, if your conflict resolution skills are flawed,

(27:10):
you know, some people are just actually toxic. They don't
know how to resolve conflict without you know, fighting or
name calling or et cetera, et cetera. You know what
I'm saying, Like they're not okay with just allowing people
to have their own viewpoints and all of that. Some
people are genuinely toxic. Like you can still get your

(27:32):
your points across and set your boundaries without resulting to like,
you know, being disrespectful or fighting or all of that
extra stuff.

Speaker 16 (27:48):
You know who.

Speaker 5 (27:49):
My first question was on this app stock.

Speaker 15 (27:53):
Talk to me Mac.

Speaker 5 (27:56):
That's absolutely you know what.

Speaker 21 (28:02):
She got integrity, man, she got integrat she had watch
your mouth don't play well?

Speaker 6 (28:10):
Hey, y yeah, what'd you say?

Speaker 22 (28:13):
Man?

Speaker 11 (28:13):
What would you?

Speaker 5 (28:18):
And yo? And yo?

Speaker 21 (28:19):
You know you know I didn't gave I didn't I
didn't say the time though, not not joking me.

Speaker 5 (28:26):
Take some real ship.

Speaker 21 (28:27):
I didn't pay fucking girls light bill, like, made sure
their kids went to summer camp, basketball games, fucking gave
them money for food, water, everything in this world?

Speaker 5 (28:40):
Do you know who the one.

Speaker 21 (28:41):
Person that I never did shift for, that said that
sent me something for my birthday, that never never asked me,
but never did ship for. You don't send me something
for my birthday, Andrea? You know why because we had
a genuine relationship. Never asked me for shot, never gave
her a dollar. I got mad girls in this room

(29:02):
right now, money for themselves, for the kids, all type
of ship.

Speaker 5 (29:05):
She shent me some money. She said this to me
without even be as that's real ship.

Speaker 16 (29:14):
Woul.

Speaker 5 (29:14):
Y'all thiggas to sit here and be thinking these women
with these fat asses and no occupations is the god rid.

Speaker 10 (29:21):
Yo, Mac, I got a question for you and the
rest of the floor too.

Speaker 30 (29:24):
Because Max's cooking right now.

Speaker 10 (29:25):
Shout out to you guys, gender wars right.

Speaker 11 (29:28):
He's still gonna put.

Speaker 10 (29:35):
Yeah yeah, yeah yeah, real quick, real quick, let me
do a quick research gender wars. If you guys are
just now joining, let's continue this conversation, but I want
to switch it up a little bit. Are people choosing
type over truth. And I see a lot of people
always doing this.

Speaker 5 (29:47):
Oh yeah, that's my type.

Speaker 10 (29:48):
But what about the truth. They don't really connect with you.
You're not really supposed to be with that person. I
want to get into a new dynamic of the conversation.
Switch it up a little bit, bitcoin debit card.

Speaker 15 (30:03):
Do that at the top.

Speaker 10 (30:03):
Let's continue this gender war floor conversation on the podcast. Right,
are people choosing type overtruth?

Speaker 5 (30:11):
Tell me what's going on?

Speaker 16 (30:12):
Man?

Speaker 5 (30:12):
How y'all feeling floor open for now?

Speaker 15 (30:13):
Let's continue.

Speaker 31 (30:14):
A lot of people are making their type someone who's
not compatible with them. So they have like an ideal type,
but they aren't the type that matches that type.

Speaker 16 (30:31):
Real crickety.

Speaker 21 (30:34):
Yo, man, we need an etiquette class on this goddamn
app man, that's what it is. So are people choosing
type over truth? Absolutely? People gonna choose the keyboard. They
gonna definitely choose the type. They gonna choose that keyboard, bro,
because the type is what creates comfort. Right, success is uncomfortable.

(30:55):
You know what I'm saying. Sex You ever looked in
your bank account and needed to invest some money and
you so oh that is only gonna be a little
bit left.

Speaker 5 (31:02):
That before you sign that there and you started thinking
about it. Yeah, Bro, it's uncomfortable on that journey up
the letter. You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 21 (31:09):
It's the same thing with dayton Bro, It's uncomfortable to
get the right type of person because it's gonna stretch
you who you thought you was into who you need
to be become. So like, yeah, man like type is
what gets us in trouble. My type, My type is
thought provoking horse. That's what I IDEA intellectual whore like

(31:35):
I love them right, but I know in order for
me to be a full best version of Captain, I
gotta get a wholesome woman that's gonna hold me accountable.
I'm running from it, you know what I'm saying. But
I realized I have to do this, you know what
I'm saying. If I want to be who I really
want to be. But if I want to stay where
I'm at right now, I can keep Daytony thought provoking horse.

Speaker 5 (31:56):
And going on vacations with him.

Speaker 15 (31:59):
I believe he and mag.

Speaker 16 (32:02):
Provoking.

Speaker 32 (32:04):
Well you never had you never had a horror intellectual
horror manthicking better women since you like thought provoking horse.

Speaker 22 (32:14):
You are you piking better women?

Speaker 15 (32:16):
Now?

Speaker 5 (32:16):
I got a good woman right now. She been she
been staying in my apartment for the last four months.
She she's great.

Speaker 21 (32:22):
And that's what I'm saying, like the thought provoking horror,
Like she gets my attention though, You see what I'm saying,
Because like when a woman like could get you and
cook for you and suck a nuclear missile from Korea
and then talk to.

Speaker 13 (32:33):
You about.

Speaker 21 (32:36):
She could talk to me about my coin and and
politics and stuff like that, and and and and you
know what I'm saying, It suck you into a coma.
She's addictive, but eventually you're gonna realize I can't police her.

Speaker 5 (32:48):
She too powerful. You know what I'm saying. I can't police.
I gotta let her go. She's too smart.

Speaker 21 (32:53):
A smart woman know how powerful ninety eight point six
degrees hot water in her mouth is on a penis,
understand it? Like they know like this niggas gonna lose
his mind if I create the right motion on his dick.

Speaker 18 (33:07):
So they know that.

Speaker 5 (33:08):
And they know things about a little bit about a lot.

Speaker 21 (33:12):
I'm telling you, nigga, intellectual dick suckers get an intellectual
dick sucker.

Speaker 5 (33:24):
For your heads.

Speaker 22 (33:26):
Okay, So my thing is if that's if that's your
type and you find the truth, Like clearly she showed
her her true colors after four months, so I mean,
that's not to be shady, but if that's what she's offering,
then you digging.

Speaker 21 (33:42):
No no, no, no, a thought provoking hord. The woman,
the woman that's in my crib, she's the opposite of that.
That's why it's a struggle for me. But Yo, let
me tell you something. Being up and the men in
here know this, right, you cannot correct and hold a
woman accountable that sucks amazing dick like.

Speaker 5 (34:00):
You can't.

Speaker 21 (34:00):
That's why they gotta be sadjects, like because you'll come
in the house after she spends twenty thousand unauthorized and
she'll meet you at the door and blow you like
a motherfucking blow dryer door, a straight perm hit like,
and then you forgot that you were supposed to give
excruits on being responsible.

Speaker 22 (34:29):
I do think that people fall for their type before
they you know, really accept the truth of what they need,
because that's just kind of the facet of lust and desire,
and that's just what put people in the situation of
following for the same oakie dog over and over again.
We have to really break from that, have to practice

(34:52):
that discipline and that accountability and recognize what it takes
to actually go a different level with our love interests
and with our romantic life and partners. We can't keep
on following for the things that doesn't work for you.
So it's a true thing. I think I can agree.

Speaker 21 (35:11):
He Yo being her think about dating a woman that
could send Cardi B outside work and then at the
same time recite Shakespeare.

Speaker 5 (35:20):
See a Bad Man.

Speaker 26 (35:24):
That's a lot of black women.

Speaker 22 (35:25):
I think that's a normal, average black lady because we
went to we all went to high schooling.

Speaker 5 (35:29):
She said, you think that the average black woman know
Cardi B And Shakespeare. That's what you're telling me.

Speaker 7 (35:34):
I mean, we are high school.

Speaker 13 (35:35):
And then we got ready.

Speaker 25 (35:36):
I got ready.

Speaker 5 (35:37):
I got called shakes Field right now, Harriet, to be
not to be a nigga?

Speaker 13 (35:42):
What are you talking about?

Speaker 5 (35:57):
And I realized, why you call yourself Harriet?

Speaker 21 (36:00):
If you done let a lot of niggas to hell,
Harry and Tubman, let niggas the freedom.

Speaker 5 (36:04):
You let them the hell. All these high earning, good
looking women in here man, and this ship is sad man?

Speaker 16 (36:17):
All right, all right, so let's move it around. Let's
move it around. Are people choosing their type choosing type
of the truth? Let's move it around. Let's have some conversation.

Speaker 18 (36:27):
Man.

Speaker 15 (36:28):
Yeah, yeah, the answer the title.

Speaker 33 (36:32):
I think most people subconstantly sleep choose the type over
the truth, even including me.

Speaker 16 (36:43):
That's not only Jamie Fight, Jimmy Fight, Jamie Fox. Fall
for your type? Does it go to that?

Speaker 15 (36:51):
I'm sorry, yeah, hey what you say?

Speaker 16 (36:52):
Bro? Fall for your type? Jamie Fox?

Speaker 9 (36:55):
Does that?

Speaker 16 (36:56):
Does this title go to that? Always fall for your type?
M whom?

Speaker 15 (37:03):
I got a point? Then I ain't.

Speaker 16 (37:07):
Mm hmm.

Speaker 19 (37:09):
I was just thinking about that, you know, sitting here
and driving and listening to Crazy you have to floor'll
so look through.

Speaker 16 (37:22):
This title is interesting.

Speaker 34 (37:24):
It's interesting because I thought about this about a couple
of months ago, about about this kind of how this
I'm going to explain this from my view, So on
clubhouse and off clubhouse. On clubhouse, the type is is
you know women, and oh yeah, my type, blah blah blah.

(37:46):
I get my type, my type, you know, I get this.

Speaker 16 (37:48):
I know, yeah, I ain't selling that.

Speaker 34 (37:51):
But the truth comes when they closed the yet and
what's in front of them, or the invisibility that they
have when they go outside when they are type doesn't
even see them. Their type walks right past them. Their
type finds them repulsive, Their type doesn't want to be

(38:15):
around them because I won't see. Because that's the truth.
The type online is different from the type offline because
people can be anything and say anything on.

Speaker 5 (38:25):
A voice ade.

Speaker 34 (38:27):
So that's how I look at clubhouse because I've seen
this with my own.

Speaker 16 (38:30):
Two eyes, how this how this works out.

Speaker 34 (38:32):
How women will say one thing, but they're what they
represent visually says something else, and so when they go outside.

Speaker 26 (38:41):
The truth is the proof is in the pudding.

Speaker 34 (38:44):
The proof is in what is in the reality that
we all have because we can all say anything.

Speaker 16 (38:50):
On the side.

Speaker 34 (38:51):
I can say I can be cabin. The pictures in
the Instagram that I have that's wide open to the world.

Speaker 18 (38:57):
They can be capped too.

Speaker 34 (38:58):
It's not until you see somebody in personally you realize
who is what they say is true or not. So
your type on clubhouse typically isn't the truth off clubhouse
For a lot of people.

Speaker 16 (39:13):
I'm done.

Speaker 10 (39:19):
If you guys are just now joining we've been talking about.
Are people choosing type.

Speaker 15 (39:25):
Or truth?

Speaker 10 (39:26):
You guys just stressing me the fuck out. What the
fuck is going on? Okay, let's continue this shit. We
can have this floor open right, popcorn style? Anybody can
jump in. Are people choosing type or truth? What do
you guys think? It's an open style popcorn style for now,
anybody can jump in.

Speaker 15 (39:44):
Let's continue.

Speaker 16 (39:46):
Grant said it was irrational.

Speaker 15 (39:47):
What do you mean by that?

Speaker 16 (39:48):
Come on, you might let's say let's say this.

Speaker 19 (39:53):
Yeah, you're on the stage, you know, gonna be on
the stage, might as well speak right, Hey Jack?

Speaker 35 (40:00):
All right, y'all say what your name.

Speaker 16 (40:04):
Like? I get the.

Speaker 23 (40:08):
The reality of who they are?

Speaker 17 (40:12):
Like, are you overlooking red flags? Are you choosing to
just be with people based off of, you know, like
what you like?

Speaker 25 (40:23):
You know what I mean?

Speaker 12 (40:24):
Like, you know, a woman is not good for you,
but she.

Speaker 17 (40:27):
Has the look that you desire, which is your type.
But the truth is she doesn't care about you. She
is not a supportive woman, She's not loving. So that's
what the title means.

Speaker 36 (40:46):
I feel like a lot of people choose type overtruth
and I just see this with a lot of people, So,
you know, you have the guys that they you know,
what they normally like to day, and sometimes they might
end up, you know, having a kid or something the
same thing with a cheek. You know, you might end
up dating your type, and you know, things get blurry,

(41:09):
things start to happen, and then you tend to make mistakes,
and then you realize, Okay, maybe this type of person
isn't what I'm looking for. But with me, I don't
even have a type. As long as you can make
me laugh and I find you attractive, we're pretty much okay.
But it takes me a long time for me to
even like break down my walls and let a certain
person in because I have to make sure that you

(41:32):
are a truthful person and that you hold yourself in
a certain type of light, a certain type of way.
So I choose to they might be a type my type,
but I try to use discernment and try to get
to know the person, and I eventually I end up
falling for the truth over the type, if that makes sense.

Speaker 33 (41:56):
A stacks you see, and a submission, right, this is
a good thing that this topic is going to point out.
Most people don't even realize they have a type.

Speaker 13 (42:10):
I don't think either. I think you like what you
like until you had different.

Speaker 33 (42:18):
Most people say, like she said, if you could make
me laugh and blah blah blah, you get my attention.

Speaker 15 (42:28):
She don't even realize.

Speaker 33 (42:31):
That there's underlying shit in each of those people that
are the same that would make them her type.

Speaker 15 (42:39):
I don't care if they all look different.

Speaker 16 (42:44):
Nah you like.

Speaker 36 (42:45):
I think that's the humor. I think that's the humor
part because all of if you look at all the guys,
they definitely no one looks at me. But the one
thing that every single one of them have in common
that I like, we have a humor, we have a connection.
We can laugh, we can high we can kick he
and that right there, that's what I like. So that

(43:11):
I see that as a trait, because you want someone
that you can laugh with, or you want someone that is,
you know, like, I don't know. I think that's a trait.
But yeah, my type, nobody looks the same. But when
it comes down to what do I want, I want
a gentleman, I want a nice man. I want a
funny man. I want a man that can cook because
I can cook. So I I think it's the traits.

(43:32):
But yeah, I when it comes down the type, I
can't care less what you really look like.

Speaker 37 (43:37):
Well, I think me and chat are on the same
thing though it's type just physical.

Speaker 4 (43:44):
No, I think the same thing.

Speaker 37 (43:47):
Get what animal is saying. It's like you keep saying
you don't have a type, but your type is humor.
Your type is X, Y and Z. So type isn't
just physical. They can look different. You can have one
they got a gap, and you can have one it
got that's missing aside too, But they're still.

Speaker 25 (44:00):
A type in what you're looking for.

Speaker 37 (44:02):
It just doesn't have to look the same physically.

Speaker 13 (44:07):
I think type versus truth. Yeah, most people are not
perceived how they.

Speaker 38 (44:17):
Let me put my thoughts together like people, Uh, they
don't realize. People think they won't weigh in head. I
can't put my works together. They think they won't wait
in head.

Speaker 13 (44:28):
They don't know that they appear to others as a
another way.

Speaker 17 (44:34):
I would say, I think are people choosing type over truth?
I think for the general public, most people are choosing
type versus the truth of just who people are, just
because of like the outcomes that we're having, Like in
the black community, obviously there's like a big proportion of

(44:56):
black women, for an example, who are single moms or
who have multiple baby fathers. So are you, like, how
are you getting to that point? Are you avoiding red flags?
Are you just going based off of the fact that
he is tall and handsome versus how he treats you?

(45:17):
Are you okay with being a side chick, et cetera,
et cetera. Yeah, So I think like the outcomes that
we have in the community of just people being unmarried
shows that people are choosing type versus just the truthive people.

Speaker 31 (45:39):
I think they could dig into the language a little
bit deeper to Animal's point, right, Like, as human beings
were always drawn to that which is familiar, whether that's
men that are familiar from your childhood or your teenage cheers,
or how you've interacted with men over the years. So
you're the type of person that you're drawn to is

(46:02):
going to be someone that's familiar to, like energy one.
So we're always drawn to that.

Speaker 11 (46:08):
We just have to be aware that that may not
be good for us.

Speaker 31 (46:11):
And I don't think people have looked into that deep
enough to say, oh, this feels really familiar and be
like yeah, I'm good and want to walk away.

Speaker 23 (46:24):
Yeah, I totally agree. I do think that people. Let
me say this, right, if I want someone that's serious,
is that a type? Is that a type of person
that I'm looking for, A type of man I'm looking for.

Speaker 15 (46:42):
If he's serious, yeah, that's the type.

Speaker 9 (46:45):
Yeah?

Speaker 4 (46:47):
Or you just just serious?

Speaker 13 (46:48):
Like what do you mean when just a serious.

Speaker 33 (46:52):
Kind of person, A person that's about his business, a
type personality.

Speaker 23 (46:59):
The opposite of of a comedic person, a funny guest.

Speaker 12 (47:02):
Yes, to answer your question, yes, that's the type.

Speaker 25 (47:04):
Yeah.

Speaker 23 (47:05):
So like when when we when we only keep type
to physical, I think we overlook other things that we
actually desire in a partner, right in our manner and
our woman like, we overlooked that because we subject ourselves
to to the physicality of a person. And by doing that,

(47:26):
to me, I think that's why people are also getting
what they don't want. Because if my type is only physical,
that's the only thing that I'm looking to confirm because
my mindset wise, I'm only thinking type type, my type, right,
But if my type is a man that is a

(47:47):
a giver, right, or an intellectual man, like, that's my type.
I don't care. What's that song about? Was that sweetie?

Speaker 14 (47:59):
Uh?

Speaker 23 (47:59):
She would just talk about physical She was talking about
a man with money.

Speaker 21 (48:03):
So, you know, I don't know.

Speaker 23 (48:05):
I think that a lot of times, you know women,
I'll say, men and women are demonised or maybe shamed
for their type, right, Like, I don't know. I don't
think that we should shame people for their type. Now,
my thing is, if you have to degrade or to
mean somebody else because of your type, then to me,

(48:26):
your motives are wrong. You're just trying to get the
anti the antithesis of what you actually like. That's how
you're driven. And I think that's done.

Speaker 16 (48:37):
It's just me.

Speaker 5 (48:41):
I think that what happens is.

Speaker 18 (48:44):
People choose their type.

Speaker 39 (48:48):
It's not wrong with having a type, but your type
isn't necessarily the person for you. That's the truth. And
so when you choose your type and you get locked
in either physical, mental, or whatever, you locked into this person.
But this person ain't no good for.

Speaker 15 (49:08):
You, So then having the type would be bad, right, and.

Speaker 5 (49:15):
Not being able to tell a difference.

Speaker 35 (49:21):
Negative like why are you choosing him being with somebody
that's not beneficial?

Speaker 15 (49:28):
All right, get out of the way real quick. Hey,
I A.

Speaker 33 (49:32):
You just said having the type is not a bad thing, right,
but then they're not using their discernment with choosing their type, right,
so they choose people.

Speaker 15 (49:43):
That's bathroom correct, that's what you said, yep? All right?
So then how would type having a type be a
good thing.

Speaker 5 (49:53):
Because you like what you like.

Speaker 16 (49:55):
I give you an example.

Speaker 39 (49:56):
I'm saying I like girls with big butts and big times, right,
and I'm out and not chooser just you know, I'm
attracted to it because she has a big button, big dies,
but she could be hell on earth. But if I
go in and I'm bumping hips and not paying attention
to the other things and just you know, focusing on
what I see and what I like, it's best shame

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on me.

Speaker 13 (50:22):
Right.

Speaker 33 (50:22):
So then so then that that would negate the fact
that your type would be a good thing, right, Because
if you're focusing more on type and that's not getting
the results you want or keeps leading you down the
same negative path, then.

Speaker 15 (50:38):
You would that wouldn't be positive or successful for you.

Speaker 16 (50:42):
Right.

Speaker 5 (50:44):
Exactly.

Speaker 39 (50:45):
And so that's why you know when you choose your type,
I e. Big digs, big butt, don't jump in so
quick to see the whole person. Does that make sense?
You got to see the whole see how you know
the whole person as opposed to that one thing that
that that can make you, you know, make you jump

(51:09):
out the window. Just like the sister says she likes
a guy is serious or or a comedian. Now he
could be a comedian maker life, but in other areas
he could all f's failing, failing, failing, failing.

Speaker 5 (51:22):
But he's funny.

Speaker 9 (51:22):
Though.

Speaker 39 (51:24):
Now if you don't jumped in, jumped in and got
locked in with somebody a funny dude, but didn't pay
attention to the other stuff, then shame on you. So
that's why it's so important to look at the big picture,
the whole picture standing one part of the picture. And
I think that's where a lot of relationships fail is

(51:44):
because they attracted to a certain type. But that type
isn't every that particular person isn't good for him. Not
saying that their type is bad for him, but that
particular person is not good for him. But they just
stopped at the type. They didn't keep going front of this.
Look at the moral compass, uh, you know, the honesty

(52:06):
and integrity and all the other things that we look
for and to make.

Speaker 40 (52:09):
But I will say that people, uh, most people don't
know they're tight, you know or whatever that is?

Speaker 5 (52:17):
Right, People just know the things that they like.

Speaker 40 (52:23):
People don't know themselves well enough to know what the
fuck they're tight the is you feel me?

Speaker 5 (52:28):
People don't know.

Speaker 40 (52:30):
People don't don't know what really attracts them to people like,
they just know the like Okay, Like someone may say,
you know, to the example give it right, you know
someone who is, uh, I don't know, hard working?

Speaker 5 (52:46):
Was that the example that was given? Someone who was
hard working?

Speaker 16 (52:49):
Right?

Speaker 5 (52:51):
And uh, what'd you say?

Speaker 22 (52:55):
Man?

Speaker 5 (52:55):
Hold on?

Speaker 40 (52:58):
Okay, So so people might say that that, you know,
they're attracted to someone who's hard working, right, But that's
just the that's just the superficial part that they see
that they like.

Speaker 5 (53:10):
They don't understand.

Speaker 40 (53:12):
Hell, how the unresolved bullshit that they have in them
really attracts them to someone who is uh, who is
noncommittal because they are attracted to that on a on
a on a on an unconscious level. Hell, because they're
fearful of commitment, they goddamn selves. But they haven't they

(53:34):
haven't vetted that part out. Though they haven't, they haven't
really dove in or or dealt with that part of themselves.
So they'll just say, you know what I'm saying. They'll
just identify the things that they are attracted to on
the surface, but they can't identify all the things that
they are unconsciously attracted to because they have it that

(53:56):
that don't serve them, because they haven't figured out that
shit in themselves yet. They haven't dealt with the things
that produce those feelings or that particular thing and them.

Speaker 5 (54:07):
That's what happens a lot of times, man.

Speaker 40 (54:09):
Motherfuckers are attracted to a whole bunch of different shit
that don't serve them, toxic shit that motherfuckers complain about
because they don't understand.

Speaker 5 (54:17):
They don't even they don't even see it.

Speaker 35 (54:21):
But big me, I think that a lot of those
problem is they think that your type is gonna work.

Speaker 23 (54:26):
Do y'all think that?

Speaker 41 (54:27):
Because if your type is physical, that means it's very
service level.

Speaker 35 (54:32):
You don't get your type as many time as.

Speaker 4 (54:34):
You walk to you, that don't mean it's gonna work.

Speaker 41 (54:37):
Just like if you find somebody with all the correct
head to traits that you look for on a person
that don't guarantee su.

Speaker 35 (54:43):
Fit, like you can date your type all the time that.

Speaker 16 (54:47):
Don't mean that the shit is gonna last or won't work,
And I.

Speaker 4 (54:50):
Think a lot of people do that.

Speaker 41 (54:51):
I think a lot of people ate people that they
are at trating to me because they fit the type
of people that they like.

Speaker 35 (54:57):
We just don't work because.

Speaker 41 (54:58):
Relationships are like that life, because nothing in life is
guaranteed to work. So just because the relationship doesn't work,
or as y'all said, it's not good for you, don't
mean that you didn't get your type. A lot of
niggas has got the surface level ass tight because I
only look at the physicals, Like if I ask you
what you're type, and are you telling me is big,
beooty in thive?

Speaker 35 (55:16):
I know what you're looking for.

Speaker 41 (55:17):
You ain't looking for them withs mad because where's the
relationship with God? And where's the good characteristics of a
human being that where are these things that they shared interest?
Where are those things that when you describe in type.
The majority of the shit we're talking about with type
is just time was for the look, and that's why
it's like you can get that. But even if you

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got a person who's perfectly your type, that don't mean
that shit gonna work.

Speaker 13 (55:45):
Next time you do a relationship. I don't know what
this is podcast.

Speaker 38 (55:49):
Can we open up with some like icebreakers that you
should do in the relationship? I think extend to know
what I'm talking about, where I'm going, but what I
want this to say, I'm about, Oh to the ladies
and or the men. Do you think like the closest
person to you, like your brother or your sister, could

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pick your partner better than you. They would pick a
little bit of your type as well as the truth.

Speaker 16 (56:17):
No, I think.

Speaker 17 (56:22):
Like for women, I think like the males in their
lives can help with picking a good partner. So like
if you're you know, obviously your father, if you have
older brothers or just brothers in general, uncles, I think
they could help with, you know, figuring out some red
flags when they see your partners.

Speaker 12 (56:42):
So I do think your family can help.

Speaker 11 (56:47):
I definitely disagree with you.

Speaker 42 (56:48):
Your family don't even really know you kind of like
to a certain extent, they know the part of you
that you show them, how you show up. They don't
see you in the club, they don't see you know,
they're not on the phone calls with anything like that.

Speaker 7 (57:04):
They don't know you like, So I just don't.

Speaker 42 (57:10):
Personally believe that's, you know, an end all be all,
but I'm pretty sure in some cases it could work
out for certain people.

Speaker 17 (57:21):
Yeah, my family for the most part knows me. They
know like what I like, how my response would be
in certain things. They know my personality, so I mean
I would trust them, you know, Like I have two older.

Speaker 12 (57:35):
Brothers my dad.

Speaker 17 (57:38):
My dad has like brothers, like ten brothers, so I
have a crap old of uncles and cousins set or males.
So I've been surrounded by mainly men, which is part
of the reason why I tend to get along better
with men, I guess. But I would trust my family

(58:00):
for making certain decisions for me, not necessarily decisions whole
heartily like where they're choosing everything, but having like a
big input on just like, Okay, no, we see the
red flags this man, you know, because they've actually helped
help me in a before in the past, So I

(58:22):
think it really is the relationship you have. Go ahead,
I'm sorry, No, I just want to ask you a question.
Keep your Michael.

Speaker 23 (58:29):
So, do you think that like the men in your life,
like they would put like character above like your physical type?

Speaker 18 (58:38):
All right?

Speaker 23 (58:39):
Like that would that be okay? You give it on
a mask.

Speaker 12 (58:42):
Yes, definitely, definitely, And it's.

Speaker 31 (58:46):
Really for the men to evaluate him as a man exactly.
It's not really necessarily to tell you how you interest good.
It's more just the things that men like that men
do around O they know so they don't behave the
same right, so characteristics that only men would see. So

(59:06):
I think it's important, like choosing It's not necessarily about
choosing your partner, right, but it's like, hey, this is
the type of man we see him as. So when
you have good family members to be able to do that,
it really is helpful as long as you do it
as early on as possible.

Speaker 42 (59:23):
Yeah, I just strongly disagree. Been there done that, can
write a book horror story about it. Hell Na, I'm good,
y'all can have that.

Speaker 9 (59:34):
I know that's the point.

Speaker 13 (59:36):
One second, hold on one second.

Speaker 33 (59:40):
I'm trying to tell you you in the matrix, and
we can't hear you tell me hold on one second.

Speaker 37 (59:45):
Okay, okay, but.

Speaker 42 (59:46):
You heard me say hold on one second, so I
must not be too much in the matrix. So like,
this is the thing I just personally think. I think
that's some club house something. I think that of course,
you're supposed to bring the person, your significant other, somebody
that you're dating.

Speaker 11 (01:00:01):
Family.

Speaker 42 (01:00:02):
That's why you bring them to Thanksgiving so that your
family can fill them out and everything like that. But
as far as anything else, I just don't agree.

Speaker 23 (01:00:16):
So do y'all think that? And that was a great question,
by the way, who asked that question? That was a
great question. What happens when your type is keeping you single?

Speaker 9 (01:00:26):
Then?

Speaker 23 (01:00:27):
Like, what happens if your type is no longer getting
or has never gotten you the results that you want it?
Do you do like I did and pivot to white men?

Speaker 15 (01:00:38):
What?

Speaker 23 (01:00:38):
What what happened?

Speaker 9 (01:00:39):
I told you about that white man?

Speaker 11 (01:00:42):
My bad?

Speaker 25 (01:00:43):
My bad?

Speaker 19 (01:00:45):
Why I was kind of dozing off and I heard
that ship right there with the white guy.

Speaker 5 (01:00:53):
Why do you always do that to us?

Speaker 23 (01:00:55):
Y'all sound like y'all was a sleep So I know
if I say a white man, white man, y'all wake up?

Speaker 29 (01:01:02):
A king?

Speaker 11 (01:01:06):
Not a white king? What is it?

Speaker 23 (01:01:14):
DJ?

Speaker 35 (01:01:16):
If everything you don't work, you the problem?

Speaker 11 (01:01:22):
Because it's it could be it could be a person
that you're choosing.

Speaker 9 (01:01:30):
Exactly your type.

Speaker 12 (01:01:32):
You're choosing the wrong type. You're picking the wrong type
of person. But to answer your question, chat.

Speaker 17 (01:01:40):
I think that, you know, involves like you have to
do some self reflection and be real with yourself and
just have that honest conversation, like, Okay, I keep picking
drug dealers, Like what's the problem?

Speaker 11 (01:01:55):
Like you know what I mean?

Speaker 12 (01:01:56):
Like maybe I don't.

Speaker 17 (01:01:58):
Maybe that's the reason why you know, relationships aren't working. Well,
it's because I keep picking the same type of man,
you know, So until you're ready to do that self
reflection and have that honest conversation with yourself. You see
women in the thirties, forties, fifties, sixties choosing the same

(01:02:18):
you know, deadbeat type of man. So but I do agree,
like I think it's insanity to keep making the same
decision or choice over and over again expecting a different response.

Speaker 23 (01:02:32):
So the problem, Yeah, you are the problem, that's what
That's what I was saying, though. I was saying that
this and that's what's keeping you single because that is
not working. Who thinks all the type huh, that's what
I'm saying, Hollywood, So you are the problem. That's fine,

(01:02:57):
but that that was the point.

Speaker 16 (01:03:00):
That was the point.

Speaker 12 (01:03:01):
That's why I'm asking.

Speaker 9 (01:03:04):
You.

Speaker 35 (01:03:04):
Can you can put it as an escape to say,
my type is, but it's actually you. People just don't
want to accept blame for why they in.

Speaker 30 (01:03:11):
The situation they.

Speaker 35 (01:03:17):
I literally answered her question. I'm not saying she didn't.

Speaker 23 (01:03:20):
Say that, Yeah, because I feel like people like if
the the thing I have though about that, like sometimes
we are so gung ho and I add maybe this this,
you know, a little caveat or little point to it.

(01:03:41):
You know, some people don't pivot until you know they
hit forty and it's not gonna shoot, my type has
not been serving me right, and then you know, you
do what you do, You get a man well cause
you leave black men alone, or you get your you know, okay.
My thing though, is sometimes with sometimes with with the type, right,

(01:04:01):
what happens if you're type, if you've never been able
to pull what your type is? Is that really your
type or are you wishfully thinking? I guess that what
you hope for kind of reminds me of the whole
you know, high earning or what is it called what
they call the man that every black man think they are,
but they're not high value man?

Speaker 11 (01:04:24):
There it is you know what if you get.

Speaker 23 (01:04:28):
What if you came pulled? You know what I'm saying
a high value man or a high value that's not true.
That's your type, but that's not your type.

Speaker 17 (01:04:37):
Like you have to you have to meet the requirement
of what your requirement is? So again, like you want
a millionaire? Are you millionaire wife worthy?

Speaker 8 (01:04:49):
Like?

Speaker 17 (01:04:50):
Are you what successful men would want?

Speaker 5 (01:04:53):
You have to?

Speaker 17 (01:04:54):
Like do you have to work on yourself? Do you
have to lose some weight or gain some weight or whatever?

Speaker 25 (01:04:58):
I don't know.

Speaker 17 (01:05:00):
Do you have to clear up your skin? You know,
learn some better characteristics?

Speaker 12 (01:05:07):
Have you know, whatever? But you have to be their
type as well.

Speaker 17 (01:05:12):
You can admire people and say, oh my gosh, she's
so pretty, he's so handsome, but he's looking past you
or she's looking past you.

Speaker 12 (01:05:21):
So yeah, you got to be their type too, yea.

Speaker 43 (01:05:27):
And I asked this question so to the men, are
y'all willing to let women in your life take your mate?

Speaker 15 (01:05:36):
That's not how it works.

Speaker 43 (01:05:38):
I mean, how why not? Like can't women still? No,
because Matt, you with other women that like your mother,
your grandmother, can't they be like, you know, this is
a good woman. I think that you should date this woman?
Like is that not go both ways?

Speaker 33 (01:05:55):
Because women don't deal in logic. They deal with the emotion. Caddy,
I had that happen to me before. Shit don't work.
It don't work in reverse.

Speaker 43 (01:06:05):
So I don't have logical women in y'all, grandmother's auntie,
nobody that could help. Y'all see that some of the
women that y'all dat ain't right or whles. That's interesting.

Speaker 15 (01:06:16):
No, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on. No,
this is crazy.

Speaker 33 (01:06:21):
So if you let my grandmother tell it, all you
motherfuckers is holes. See that's what I'm saying. Don't work.
You under saying what I'm saying. She's ninety years old.
She don't believe in promiscuity like y'all do. She don't
believe in fucking multiple people without being married like y'all do.
She don't believe in all these things. So nobody fits

(01:06:45):
for my grandmother.

Speaker 24 (01:06:48):
Well, I think that I love my mom's death, but
I'm not letting my mom my grandmother pick my my
mate from me. I feel like that decision should be
up to me, like my mother or my sister could
feel like this woman is the right one. But I
gotta feel that way, you know what I'm saying. I
gotta make that decision like I'm not letting nobody pick

(01:07:08):
my meat from me.

Speaker 41 (01:07:10):
Well, I think let your brothers and your daddy.

Speaker 11 (01:07:16):
Talking so like.

Speaker 43 (01:07:19):
But the question was to men, so the men was
answering the questions. So can we let the men finish
answering the question because I would like to ask their
point of views real quick if we could just let
the men answer the questions because they it was to them.

Speaker 39 (01:07:33):
But I think you should bring your your potential wife
around your your people because they tell you, you know,
because women can see stuff that you can't see because
you are mostly invested, because you know you got something
that shint the one and then you know and.

Speaker 18 (01:07:51):
Then if you ask why, they'll tell you.

Speaker 39 (01:07:54):
So yes, I do think that you know, if you
get to somebody, consider somebody as a wife greggor around
your your females.

Speaker 15 (01:08:01):
The key word is the women pick the woman for you.

Speaker 39 (01:08:05):
That's the key well, you know they can get their
opinion right, She's The keyword is picked.

Speaker 23 (01:08:10):
Oh, I think she was just asking you the same
question they were asked.

Speaker 15 (01:08:15):
Yeah.

Speaker 37 (01:08:17):
Picked.

Speaker 11 (01:08:17):
But if.

Speaker 41 (01:08:20):
I don't think people should let their relatives plans and
put the person for them, I think you should date
without blinders on and find what works for you because
some things that your folks are not gonna go for,
that that they don't want.

Speaker 4 (01:08:34):
To deal with, you might be fool it.

Speaker 41 (01:08:36):
So you might be crossing people off who are good
for you because of what somebody else seeing them that
you don't see, or they don't know them like you
know them.

Speaker 35 (01:08:45):
So I think like a lot of.

Speaker 41 (01:08:46):
People make mistakes by involving people who aren't there in
their relationships.

Speaker 35 (01:08:50):
Relationship figure it up themselves.

Speaker 16 (01:08:52):
Just don't have a blinders.

Speaker 35 (01:08:54):
Painting the red flags.

Speaker 41 (01:08:55):
You know what you like, you don't like stoping knowing
your feelings because you want to stay with them. I
think that works better than you asking your mom or
your grandmam and your dad or your brother, which I'll
think about this person. I think it's great to get advice,
but the ultimate decision should be up to you and
that's your family.

Speaker 23 (01:09:09):
Yeah, that's definitely what we were saying. Nobody was saying
let the family pick for you.

Speaker 31 (01:09:14):
We were just saying, get input for things that they
may see that you haven't seen. So for men, women
can see things in women. Hopefully you have trustworthy women
in your life right And for women, men can definitely
see something in women in men that women won't see.
So it's just a second set of eyes, not necessarily.

Speaker 4 (01:09:37):
Because women that I can't see.

Speaker 35 (01:09:40):
There's nothing, There's nothing I'm doing.

Speaker 41 (01:09:42):
There's nothing while I'm dating a woman that I can
see or that I can't see that my mama can't.

Speaker 35 (01:09:48):
My mom don't even notice one.

Speaker 16 (01:09:50):
She don't know how you really are.

Speaker 35 (01:09:51):
You know, the character that you put on when.

Speaker 22 (01:09:53):
Around your mama can probably read thro.

Speaker 24 (01:10:00):
Make an input or just an opinion. She can have that,
but that's that soul is gonna be. It's just an
opinion of input. Like she's not gonna finalize that when
it comes to that decision.

Speaker 9 (01:10:10):
She could just have that. Soul is gonna be as
an input or in the well.

Speaker 11 (01:10:13):
I can just say this.

Speaker 42 (01:10:17):
And your sisters and your auntie, they can run your
mate off like some women. When you bring women like
the you're you know, somebody you're dating around them, they
will be purposely mean to that person, just to gauge
how they react to different instances, different stresses and everything
like that. And it's like I've been in that situation

(01:10:39):
before and it's just be like, nah, I ain't trying
to be in no family that's.

Speaker 11 (01:10:43):
Out here doing this shit.

Speaker 42 (01:10:44):
Y'all are way too old.

Speaker 12 (01:10:45):
It is weird ass shit.

Speaker 42 (01:10:46):
So like, I think that y'all got to take that
with a grain of salt because some people your family
can be like m uh uh, we about to run
her off, and you don't want to deal with that
shit all the fucking time, like you just being weir.

Speaker 44 (01:11:00):
Well, That's how my question was, if you're bringing bringing
around a partner to a single parent, would they be
a good judge anyway, because I mean, yeah, I'm not
saying it's impossible, but I'm also not gonna act like
I'm not bringing a man around my family. You know,
back in the day that was well for people that
claim their family oriented. I couldn't imagine me bringing around

(01:11:24):
a partner that does not getting along with my family.

Speaker 37 (01:11:26):
I don't care what anybody says, I don't care for
me personally because I actually am family oriented, which means
you're going to be around my family. Maybe not every day.

Speaker 44 (01:11:35):
Right, but there's gonna be a lot of instances where
I want you around the family functions or you know
what I'm saying. I bought a guy around before, and
they still ask about them to this day. My uncles
got along with them, my dad got along with them,
my brothers loved them.

Speaker 37 (01:11:47):
So I do think that I hear a lot in
this room, particularly I'm family oriented. I'm family oriented.

Speaker 44 (01:11:53):
But then in the same breath we say we're not
bringing our partners around our family. Kinda sounds confusing to
me because I wouldn't imagine where your whole family hate
this guy.

Speaker 37 (01:12:03):
Why personally would you even want to date them.

Speaker 44 (01:12:05):
I'm not saying that they don't see they can determine
anything for you, but I think there would be a
reason why your whole family doesn't like your partner, as
opposed to just your mom saying I don't know, or
Grandma saying, I you know, I think all the women
are little sluts.

Speaker 37 (01:12:19):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 25 (01:12:20):
So I don't know.

Speaker 37 (01:12:21):
That's why I asked, are we not considering family at all?

Speaker 11 (01:12:25):
Or the question?

Speaker 43 (01:12:26):
If you asked to the question, you ask right, it
can be a good thing. Like I could have a cousin,
a male cousin who was a whole and bring my
man around and my male cousin, could I absolutely see
himself and this man and be like yoo, I played
the same games look, hey, he ain't the one I

(01:12:47):
could bring or you could as a woman, you could
bring a woman around, you know what I'm saying, and
that woman have ways about her and it's a single
mother or whatever whatever, or you just not be a
good woman. And she could add absolutely see herself and
that woman like yo, something not right with her? Like
why because I used to play the same game. So

(01:13:08):
at the end of the day, I don't think she's
a good person. But it should be your aunt, like
your decision and Ethlee, but the fact that good or bad,
you know what I'm saying. If your family is real,
it sounded like some of y'all don't have very good
family members. Your family should definitely be able to point
out themselves and the people that be bringing around and

(01:13:29):
saying this might not be the person for you or
whatever whatever, but you're supposed to make your own decision.

Speaker 45 (01:13:35):
Hold on, hold on, hold on, before we go any further,
hold on, wait a minute, going crazy.

Speaker 10 (01:13:46):
Yes, this conversation is very good, but I need y'all
to ping this up. Everybody that's contributed in the conversation
going a ping party for me. I'm about to switch
this conversation up. Yes, y'all are going in with this
conversation and you can, you know, finish it up. But
right after y'all finish up a few submissions, we got
a new topic up here, and this is what the
fuck I want to talk about. Starts the most drama

(01:14:12):
in these relationships. Most often it's the first one, the bicker.
Who's the first one to Wait a minute, I'm gonna
let y'all go, what's the first one the bicker, who's
the first one to do all this ship? I know
it's not the man waiting, No, it's not. No, I
want to hear from y'all. Wait a minute, y'all got
a ping this ship up? Though, I'm going on a
ping party real quick. Yeah, I'm about to hit this

(01:14:34):
list up. Let's go on the ping party real quickly. Up,
Let's go out, yep, hey, king this ship up the
whole fucking list. I don't give a fuck who's been
pinging bringing the whole.

Speaker 1 (01:14:50):
Litt Come on, you canna have it go. Ye'll take
this take its part, take it back.

Speaker 46 (01:15:05):
So let's go open up a little for bread and
spread it out. I remember I almost ain't make it
out with you, too old, you're trying.

Speaker 5 (01:15:11):
To burn it out.

Speaker 1 (01:15:11):
She said, little Lucie, please get you eat me out.

Speaker 8 (01:15:13):
I said, no, I cannot.

Speaker 46 (01:15:14):
I could beat it out to put it in, And
there she's screaming like take it out. There's no feelings,
with no unrelationious.

Speaker 1 (01:15:18):
Now I had got money, just took the paper rout.

Speaker 46 (01:15:20):
I deposit it looks you'll like my saving now get ahead,
way to charge my boy, gonna take it out, but
don't worry because we're gonna break them out, putting the
crack like a shelf. So I based it out with Okay,
my mama mine, that's my baby. Now, keeping on a
low because that's your lady. Now, I just made me
one hundred and eighty out.

Speaker 5 (01:15:33):
That's how much the promoter be paying out.

Speaker 4 (01:15:35):
What's gonna do?

Speaker 3 (01:15:36):
Yeah?

Speaker 9 (01:15:36):
Time when it come for you kid?

Speaker 5 (01:15:38):
What's gonna do? Yeah, time when it come for you?

Speaker 9 (01:15:41):
Up.

Speaker 3 (01:15:42):
I don't wear boots, yeah, but I'm up the boot.

Speaker 47 (01:15:44):
Yeah.

Speaker 5 (01:15:45):
I don't never lose.

Speaker 46 (01:15:46):
I don't never snooze because I just popped me to blues.

Speaker 4 (01:15:48):
Yes, no, I no fun.

Speaker 10 (01:15:50):
I want to know who's been winning this battle too,
because the topic switched like twice, So whoever's been winning
the battle, y'all tell me because I want yo. Yeah,
you know, we need to start doing We need to
start keeping track men or women who's been winning in
the gender warld Remember somebody told us to start doing that.
We need to start keeping the tally in the in
the board, in the score. But I want to know

(01:16:12):
about this one.

Speaker 9 (01:16:12):
How you fail?

Speaker 16 (01:16:13):
Yeah?

Speaker 10 (01:16:13):
Who starts the most drama? Who starts bickering first? Who
starts getting on whose nerves?

Speaker 48 (01:16:19):
First move?

Speaker 5 (01:16:20):
Conversation? Switch it up, let's go.

Speaker 19 (01:16:23):
I ain't gonna lie, bro I was sitting thinking this
while I was picking up like a lot of niggas
that Patty, So I can't really I don't like niggas
change change from back in the days, you know what
I'm saying.

Speaker 16 (01:16:34):
So I'm gonna have to go with the fellas.

Speaker 9 (01:16:37):
Man.

Speaker 6 (01:16:38):
Oh, you're saying the fellas complain more. Yeah, you're saying
they getting on people?

Speaker 5 (01:16:43):
Hold on?

Speaker 9 (01:16:45):
How how? Yeah?

Speaker 16 (01:16:48):
Well we're talking about in the other room, man, women are.

Speaker 15 (01:16:54):
We talked about that?

Speaker 6 (01:16:55):
You get what I'm let's hear more.

Speaker 1 (01:16:57):
He wants to explain, niggast's what.

Speaker 15 (01:17:03):
Are you talking about? Like?

Speaker 24 (01:17:07):
I don't know why you sitting and lied to yourself
like that, Like it's it's one thing allow.

Speaker 9 (01:17:12):
In public.

Speaker 16 (01:17:20):
Video many your voice. But I'm just saying, bro.

Speaker 24 (01:17:24):
Because you can't sit up here and lie.

Speaker 12 (01:17:26):
On Michael definitely fat, Definitely.

Speaker 24 (01:17:31):
We know we know who the biggest crowd babies on
wine is. On the relationships, who is don't even get
don't let them be on their period, like don't don't
let that be the time of the month, like you ain't.
It's just straight nagging. You want to say that's that's niggas.

Speaker 22 (01:17:50):
Women nag, But I feel like drama, like maybe these
retarded these retarded as relationship try ayangles, octor guns, tryads,
polar polyly, It's just it's just a whole bunch of bullshit.
It's extra niggas, extra people that y'all be bringing into

(01:18:11):
situations and it's just weird and that you know, and
then the response of the people involved be the nagging. Right,
But I think that men create the drama. Honestly, in
my relationships, I'll be falling in love, I'll be chilling,
and then here come the nigga. Now you want to
put all these stipulations and rules in place, or maybe
he wants to cry and guilt trip a bitch into uh,

(01:18:34):
you know, maybe staying at the house or maybe not
going out with my friends or you know, not conversing
with other men and things like that.

Speaker 7 (01:18:42):
And I'm like, okay, I'll do that. And then when
you go back and ask him, okay, what's you finna do?

Speaker 16 (01:18:47):
He don't know. I understand you got a little you
got a little shape sh on you. So and then
you probably be out the flirting and stuff like that.
So he's trying to probably trying to lock crying start.

Speaker 24 (01:19:06):
Women will start shipping a relationship just because they bored,
because they missed a niggas and she wanted.

Speaker 9 (01:19:12):
You could You could be you could be at work,
you could be in the living room chilling money, your business.
But because she wants you to.

Speaker 16 (01:19:22):
Any to start with, you stand in front of the
TV and ship.

Speaker 9 (01:19:29):
They will start mad.

Speaker 4 (01:19:31):
That is a fact.

Speaker 22 (01:19:33):
I'm gonna say this right as a former NA.

Speaker 12 (01:19:38):
And I had to that's that's also a fact.

Speaker 17 (01:19:41):
So as a former nagger, I had to, you know,
learn just to carry myself better. But I would have
said women start well, women still do because we're you know,
very much emotional, especially if we're intimate with you know,
the person's IDENTI it's like you know, for most women.

Speaker 12 (01:20:02):
But I do agree with Yay as well.

Speaker 17 (01:20:04):
I do think like a lot of men nowadays are
like really getting into their like they are starting stuff too,
like that is it, That is straight facts. But I
still do think women do it more because we just
nagged for attention.

Speaker 36 (01:20:23):
Just like what he said.

Speaker 44 (01:20:25):
Yeah, I do think it's crazy because we just had
a long the other day talking about how women expect
me and to read they mind and y'all still gonna.

Speaker 37 (01:20:32):
Sit here and tell me that it's me And you're
getting mad at him because he's mad that you.

Speaker 44 (01:20:40):
Mad about something, but you won't tell him what's wrong,
like you're not thirty plus, So it's kind of hard
to say.

Speaker 37 (01:20:46):
Men getta get frustrated at it.

Speaker 16 (01:20:47):
But I don't know.

Speaker 37 (01:20:49):
Women, we're also so emotional.

Speaker 44 (01:20:51):
Imagine we also have no the wrong about over talking
over talking that man and you think he's a drama,
but you won't show up for five seconds so he
can get the conversation out that he is going through
his mind.

Speaker 16 (01:21:01):
So I don't know, you know, I.

Speaker 7 (01:21:06):
Guess it's just to depend on the relationship.

Speaker 20 (01:21:09):
For sure, sir.

Speaker 12 (01:21:14):
I mean, as women like there's no comparison.

Speaker 17 (01:21:18):
I do think it's still women, and that's just even
though I've worked on myself, I'm still, at the end
of the day a woman. I'm still especially when it
comes to me and my being with my man. There's
ways that, you know, I get him to do things,
and likewise there's ways that he gets me to do things,

(01:21:39):
you know, so but ultimately I'm definitely the one that's
more emotional.

Speaker 19 (01:21:43):
So I also think I don't know man the way
the way You'll be follows, following podcasts nowadays and stuff
like that, boy sayings like the ones who A lot
of people be on the internet a lot, and I'll
be seeing niggas life, but I'm not a lot. Sorry
broking into it's cool, but I can't ignore the fact
that's what I be seeing.

Speaker 16 (01:22:03):
You know what I'm saying, bro, I just be seeing
that ship.

Speaker 9 (01:22:05):
You don't believe that what you're saying.

Speaker 22 (01:22:06):
It doesn't sound like you believe what he's saying, but
it's possible and it happens. I do think though women
do bring the drama more often, and quite frankly, it
is from an untrained mouth. When you have a woman
that's not trained to hush up and like give people
a chance outside of herself. Then yes, you know, women

(01:22:28):
when they are unhinged, they for sure bring the drama.

Speaker 37 (01:22:34):
But then again, I might have.

Speaker 44 (01:22:35):
To side with ya because I've been hearing men going
through phones at that sounds like drama to me. That's
like the precursor of the drama because why you're going
through her phone? Why are you going through her social media?
I don't know, you know, this is tuper war right now.

Speaker 16 (01:22:51):
I'm just saying that.

Speaker 11 (01:22:54):
That's what I'm.

Speaker 22 (01:22:55):
Saying, Like, these dudes be going through phones, they be airtagging,
and they be wanting to know where you And these
dudes literally don't want you speaking to know other men.
They don't want you speaking to the intendant at the
gas station. They don't want the dude to want to
pump your gas for a quarter that you know what
I'm saying.

Speaker 7 (01:23:13):
They'll watch you grab me, That's what me.

Speaker 12 (01:23:15):
Y'all drive.

Speaker 21 (01:23:17):
You want to.

Speaker 24 (01:23:19):
Y'all will pick a fight with a niggas because he
left for heart or like on the chick picture, what's
talk about drama?

Speaker 9 (01:23:27):
You ready to fight because of a light.

Speaker 16 (01:23:31):
But I'm.

Speaker 22 (01:23:33):
Yeah, because what you're doing like the same way that
you don't want me to wear a certain outfit, or
the same way you don't want me to be on
clubhouse talking as a uh we just dating, dating, but
you don't want me to be on club.

Speaker 12 (01:23:46):
Niggas got excuse me?

Speaker 22 (01:23:48):
Sorry, wait hold on like that right in the same
way that you picked a fight because you don't want
me to uh you know, walk around homegrow or you
you but this it could be the same ridiculousness. It's
the same ridiculousness on both because you because the same

(01:24:09):
picture that I post on my social media had grabbed you.
But yet you don't want to post that no more.
Now get your posting. But yet you're liking picture and
going out your way to picture I feel but you
over here commented on another one that's breaking your next
comment on how so cute sheet you had a But

(01:24:32):
when I woman wore that same you grabbed her though
you took her off the market for woman.

Speaker 24 (01:24:37):
Making any woman picking a fight in the relationship over
like a child.

Speaker 22 (01:24:43):
In your life sliding.

Speaker 11 (01:24:44):
No girl, do you ever your.

Speaker 49 (01:24:51):
Like I feel like my thing is whoever is insecure
and the relationship causes the most drama. It's no gender
if you're insecure and you're in a relationship with somebody,
you're gonna nitpick over every little thing that person does.
I've seen men do it, I've seen women do it,
and honestly, usually they insecurities manifest problems in the relationship.

(01:25:14):
I know people who are not cheating who hate they
fucking partner so much, or not even hate their so
their partner so insecure sometimes they tell them they went
to the gym just to go over their homegirl house
to kill because they need a fucking break from them.
Or I know dudes who old ladies so insecure they'll
stay at the gym for hours. When you are so insecure,

(01:25:35):
you can manifest issues that are not fucking there, and
your partner could not be cheating on you, and they
do shit just to fucking avoid you because they tired
of you.

Speaker 11 (01:25:43):
The end of the day.

Speaker 49 (01:25:44):
If you that insecure, that traumatized from your last relationship,
be single. Nobody needs to deal with all of that.
The song Insecure by Jasmine Sullivan is a real fucking thing.
Y'all be doing the most acting like somebody has to
call to y'all insecurities when they actually When Kishako said,
I might as well have cheated as much as you
accuse me of cheating. Some people start cheating because y'all

(01:26:07):
accuse them of so much stuff, not saying that's right
because you used to leave. But at the end of
the day, nobody wants to feel like they're being babysat
or helicopter in a fucking relationship. If you don't trust
somebody that much, be single, bitch or nigga, be single.

Speaker 5 (01:26:23):
As a man.

Speaker 39 (01:26:24):
As a man never woke up and started an argument
with his woman because of a dream. No, but a
woman that wake up and a woman to wake up
and started argument with her man she had.

Speaker 16 (01:26:41):
Damn sure to him about it.

Speaker 22 (01:26:43):
Started an argument, but he might start moving differently because
his intuition is sucking with a man start with you
because you missed the exit and they try to figure
out who off this exit because you're supposed to take
that one.

Speaker 16 (01:26:57):
A man.

Speaker 7 (01:27:01):
That again started arguing with you because you want club hounds.

Speaker 41 (01:27:05):
Y'all want favorite like a woman's favorite argument is when
a nigga pig is call up and starts smiling.

Speaker 35 (01:27:10):
Every man knows what a woman gonna say.

Speaker 16 (01:27:12):
You're gonna be texting that.

Speaker 15 (01:27:13):
Other bitch you could.

Speaker 24 (01:27:17):
With you because her homegirl probably said, a joker, you
laughing too all? Why are you laughing too all?

Speaker 12 (01:27:21):
It's the problem.

Speaker 49 (01:27:23):
The example, y'all, every example y'all have given, male or female,
y'all are proving the point that an insecure motherfucker is
giving y'all insecure toxic behaviors regardless of gender.

Speaker 22 (01:27:36):
This is a people thing.

Speaker 49 (01:27:37):
They starting drama, they manifesting insecurities, and a lot of
times male or female, when a motherfucker constantly doing that,
it's fifty fifty. Sometimes they insecure. Sometimes they the one
that's cheating and they projecting that on you.

Speaker 12 (01:27:50):
It's either one.

Speaker 41 (01:27:50):
But I agree with that, But I do think that
most men give women more space to do that. Then
women give men a space to do that because when
a woman starting drama or accusing with that, it's just
her being a woman. A lot of niggas eat that
ship and get what it is. When a nigga do what,
they sash, they gay, they bitch ass niggas.

Speaker 15 (01:28:08):
All of the things.

Speaker 41 (01:28:09):
I think women are giving more space to be emotional
and start drama with their men because most men understand
it's just a woman being a woman. It might be
the time of the mom she might have had a
bad day. Whatever nigga's fool with letting the women dump
off on them so that way they can have that
safe space and that man to be able to.

Speaker 35 (01:28:24):
Be comforted by a nigga.

Speaker 15 (01:28:25):
Do that ship, You're gonna find yourself alone and get talked.

Speaker 35 (01:28:27):
About on plug like.

Speaker 15 (01:28:29):
Women ain't going for that.

Speaker 49 (01:28:31):
Let's not like some men don't start ship with their
women so they could leave the house to cheat in peace.

Speaker 11 (01:28:40):
Every day.

Speaker 15 (01:28:41):
He want to go cheating?

Speaker 4 (01:28:42):
Most men.

Speaker 35 (01:28:45):
Cheat though a lot of niggas.

Speaker 4 (01:28:47):
If they cheating, they paying for it.

Speaker 35 (01:28:48):
They not actually like going out here and having multiple women.
That ain't to start of the average man.

Speaker 24 (01:28:54):
What's about you got? You got women on here that's
too type of single? You got ones that single sing?

Speaker 9 (01:29:00):
And if you got a woman that's mad at her
nigga right now, what's watch she?

Speaker 24 (01:29:04):
You got chicks out here out of entertaining other niggas
for because she had an argument with this nigga yesterday
or last week, so she playing around in the field
for a while, so she not mad no more?

Speaker 9 (01:29:14):
What's about she is?

Speaker 22 (01:29:16):
I'm not denying that.

Speaker 49 (01:29:18):
I know that happens, but At the same time, we
have to stop coddling toxic behavior because a lot of
a lot of the times these people are emotionally fucking unstable, Like,
it's not healthy to be in a relationship where somebody
want want to eat, sleep, and breathe under you. I
know niggas who won't take that girl on a date,
who won't pay that girl no mind, play the game

(01:29:40):
all day, but as soon as she want to leave
the house to go out with her homegirls, you acting.

Speaker 23 (01:29:45):
A fucking food Like, what type of shit is that?

Speaker 49 (01:29:48):
I know females who don't want to do nothing with
they man, who don't even want to pay the man
no attention as soon as he finna go to the
gym or play basketball with his friends, you having a arttact.
These people are fucking demonic. They are energy vampires, and
they need to be single. Stop feeding into that bullshit.
When a motherfucker want to act crazy with you and

(01:30:10):
act like, oh, you can't have a life outside of them,
do you do not send her nobody in a relationship?

Speaker 12 (01:30:16):
That's the problem.

Speaker 11 (01:30:17):
We teach people to cater to those type of people.

Speaker 5 (01:30:19):
Could it possibly be that personal fault?

Speaker 49 (01:30:23):
What do you mean the person who's in the relationship.

Speaker 39 (01:30:25):
Yeah, yeah, because if a man that hits your crazy button,
what and then he decides to leave out. I mean,
you can't handle him being away from you because he
don't put something on you. You think he out there
putting it on somebody else.

Speaker 49 (01:30:39):
So that could that be a possibility That sounds fucking retarded.

Speaker 22 (01:30:44):
That's not set up with though she ain't set up
with that type of example. Yeah, no, like what just
because that's sex, that makes it even worse.

Speaker 49 (01:30:54):
Because if you have sex with somebody and they feel
like they have to be with you twenty five eight,
take that access away from them, stop sleeping with them.
That sounds fucking retarded. Male or female. Nobody has to
be up under you all day. They don't got no job,
they don't have no friends, they don't have no hobbies.
You what you mean you don't work out, you don't

(01:31:14):
do no question?

Speaker 37 (01:31:15):
Ain't that a question you asked before? Y'all start giving
it up because you you had sex with him and
then you said you stopped, And I'm just like, you
can't stop something you already started. So it's almost like
people be really just jumping in.

Speaker 44 (01:31:25):
The bed and then getting mad when they just found
out this person is like this when you could have
found that out before.

Speaker 37 (01:31:29):
But then y'all expect people to change once y'all start
doing all that. So I don't know, you're still gonna
go with the conversation. I think women are but a
whole lot.

Speaker 22 (01:31:39):
I think that is easier for UH to have that
type of masculinity or the type of insecurity behind masculinity,
and to how that behind seminity. And this is the
only reason I think why, because this type of insecurity
can be masked ass protection. Right, So a man kid
say that, oh, I'm here as your protector, but in reality,
he's there as your manager. He ain't trying to protect

(01:32:01):
you from other men.

Speaker 7 (01:32:02):
He's trying to manage you and make sure you won't
do too much or you.

Speaker 22 (01:32:05):
Don't get too out of line, you know what I'm saying,
versus making sure that you're you know, making an environment
uncomfortable and weird for you, versus you know, making it
safe for you. I've been in that particular situation before,
and I think that it's easy for a man to
hide you know that, because they want to take you
off of your program and put you on their program,
and that could be a masculine leader, but that also

(01:32:27):
can be somebody that want to always know what the
fuck you doing and keep an eye on you and
don't mean, you know, will.

Speaker 7 (01:32:35):
Trying to possess you, which you know there's a thin line.

Speaker 39 (01:32:38):
So what would you tell a man that's doing that
to stop or to work around? What would you tell
a man I understand that you're a protector. I understand
you concerned.

Speaker 15 (01:32:46):
But.

Speaker 49 (01:32:50):
I think that with those type of men it could
come from a place or trauma for them too. But
you need to have an honest conversation with people, Be
honest to stop sugarcoat and stuff. Be like, hey, like,
I know that you're concerned about me, and I understand
that you're very protective, but I want to know why
you do certain things. When you ask somebody a question

(01:33:10):
like that, then you'll see where their mindset is either
their controlling or they're possessive. And if you say like, hey, like,
I feel like I don't have any space to be
myself in this relationship and have that conversation like, hey like,
if I'm doing all of this to prove my loyalty
to you, why can't I have a life outside of
you as well, Like I should be able to go
to the gym without you calling every five minutes. I

(01:33:32):
should be able to hang out with my girlfriends without
me getting blown up all night. Because at that point,
if you're still traumatized by your last relationship, I can't
be here. I have to separate myself because this is
not healthy for me. I'm not gonna shrink myself into
a box to fit into your life.

Speaker 4 (01:33:51):
Yeah.

Speaker 22 (01:33:51):
Like, for instance, I had a situation share with the dude.
I was out and he had came out, he got
off work. In my head, he got off work and
came to me, and you know, my head, my man,
my man, and my man. In his head, he's blowing
up the spot.

Speaker 16 (01:34:08):
It's like whoa, you know.

Speaker 22 (01:34:10):
So he's approaching the situation from an attitude and I'm
expecting to you know, be able to turn my brain
off a little bit more and relax a little bit
no more. But he that wasn't the type of situation
that when a time he was on, and that was
weird to me, Like bro, like you, my man, I'm
not doing anything. I actually thought that she would come
add value to the you know, the night, not you know,

(01:34:34):
kind of cut the night down and suck the fun
away and took the joy.

Speaker 7 (01:34:38):
Out of bits heard like God damn.

Speaker 22 (01:34:42):
I think as a matter of just to maintain a
level of control over a female and trying to make
sure you humble her enough for he can, you know,
kind of manipulate your outside life sometimes it kind of
that's where the drama can be in and sue from
us like a dude would do the parameters it'll take

(01:35:04):
to grab you and get you, and they see the
lifestyle you have been partaking in when they got you.
But it comes a catch twenty two right after that
when they want to tell you to strip away this,
strip away, that, strip away this wait. Well, to be honest,
you wouldn't have been able to get me and have
my attention if I wasn't in these X y Z

(01:35:26):
spaces that you were also at in order to even
grab me to begin with. So it kind of throws
me off a little bit when God's be tripping on that.
But you know, I do agree. I do do think
women do bring the drama. Men have their own specific
type of drama to it's it's definitely on both ends
for sure.

Speaker 5 (01:35:42):
So you would tell a god like a club.

Speaker 24 (01:35:46):
When you like a man that's in it. This happens
a lot with the drama because you got you got
women that's that's so scarred from they pass. Like when
she finally met a dude that's liker like, he's doing
all the right things for once, it's like a too
good to be true moment for some woman. So they
looking at this nigga like, hold on, why is he

(01:36:07):
doing everything right? Something something wrong with this nick because
it's like he's checking off all my boxes, he's doing
everything right. Let me let me find something wrong with
this nigga, like, let me let me look for a
red flag. And then you that's where drama comes from too,
because you're so used to dealing with niggas this this
dude right here doing the right thing, but you can't

(01:36:28):
accept the w You just can't fathom or believe that
this is just too good to be true. So now
you're trying to find something wrong with this man like
and then it's like now dramas.

Speaker 9 (01:36:38):
Getting go, why are you doing like.

Speaker 24 (01:36:42):
So it's like that's that's why I say, I don't
feel like it's a fifty fifty with this, Like I
know we're trying to make it sound good, but like, nah, like,
especially a woman that scar like dealing with a woman
like that, she gonna bring a lot of drama.

Speaker 9 (01:36:56):
In that relationship. Men do the same thing. Let me finish.

Speaker 24 (01:37:03):
Let me finish, Like if she never met a dude
that was doing the right thing, she's gonna sabotage that
instead of saying, you know what, I finally got a
good man. Now I finally got a dude that's doing
the right thing. Let me let me embrace this right here, insteatus.
Let me find some dirt on this nigga, because let
me do a background check because he's doing the right thing.
They'll do a background check on the nigga that's doing

(01:37:24):
the right thing and not the nigga.

Speaker 9 (01:37:26):
That's doing the toxics.

Speaker 24 (01:37:28):
Like this ship is backwards, and then that's where the
drama comes in from, because you're looking for the issue
or issue and this man that's not even nick.

Speaker 9 (01:37:36):
It's crazy and.

Speaker 7 (01:37:43):
Y'all so dramatic.

Speaker 22 (01:37:44):
Y'all have real women in y'all faces that y'all can
make relationships with it and y'all be on holy fans, Twitter,
eggs sport like I don't know, guys, I just think
it's unfair and this is not it's not completely honest
for us to sit here and say it's one gender

(01:38:06):
versus the other. Both genders have their fair share and
the trauma and the nagging and the picking apart and
the not being good enough efforts towards each.

Speaker 16 (01:38:16):
Other, and.

Speaker 37 (01:38:20):
Y'all still in here taking Prince serry please. Oh, I'm
just saying I think it's crazy though, to also ladies.

Speaker 44 (01:38:29):
This is why they say we favorite accountability, because you know,
I'm like when one of the ladies came up and said,
you know what I used to do, that's accountability.

Speaker 25 (01:38:38):
Y'all keep wanting what about the men?

Speaker 16 (01:38:40):
What about the men?

Speaker 37 (01:38:41):
It's okay, ladies, if we do.

Speaker 50 (01:38:43):
We just have to own it.

Speaker 37 (01:38:44):
We know we're emotional.

Speaker 25 (01:38:45):
We get on after.

Speaker 44 (01:38:46):
We also have women in here the other day time
about well, no, that was another room. We have women
talking about oh, because it's the time of the month,
they deserve to.

Speaker 4 (01:38:52):
Be a ditch.

Speaker 37 (01:38:53):
What that is not an excuse. So we have so
many factors where men literally they sit there watch us,
they literally sit there, and but but here we are
just like, what about the man?

Speaker 25 (01:39:04):
What about the man? What about the man.

Speaker 37 (01:39:06):
But it's like what Breeze saying, it's a war. At
some point of the time, we just gotta take you
know what, when your knight started to drama. But guess what,
like one lady said, the man stick around for it,
So we could just accept that to some of these
men like that drama. You start drama with their better
than night. You know it's okay to say that, but
take some accountability, ladies.

Speaker 11 (01:39:24):
I think it's I think that's I heard.

Speaker 19 (01:39:27):
I heard, hold on, hold on, I heard y'all bring
up something about the gym, right, what I mean, let's
be real.

Speaker 16 (01:39:34):
Don't don't lie, Please, do not lie. What do y'all
wear when I go to the gym?

Speaker 4 (01:39:40):
For real?

Speaker 16 (01:39:44):
Now, get the funk out of here talking about they
don't y'all do y'all do a whole God damn.

Speaker 5 (01:39:54):
The short.

Speaker 16 (01:39:57):
In the b by the but yeah, yeah, all of that.

Speaker 19 (01:40:00):
And then I'm like, I want to go to the gym,
and then you gotta put make a port, then you
gotta put makeup.

Speaker 16 (01:40:07):
Trying to the weight, yeah, trying to.

Speaker 19 (01:40:14):
And then and then and then you'll say and then
you'll say, like stop, you ain't gonta wear all that ship.
You know what I'm gonna do for you, Ma, I'm
gonna buy some waists and ship and we're gonna put
it in the backyard.

Speaker 16 (01:40:24):
You're gonna work out right there. Do you.

Speaker 12 (01:40:27):
You want the NFL?

Speaker 22 (01:40:29):
Yeah, that's a content creator that the gym.

Speaker 14 (01:40:33):
No, no, no, most of the most of us are
even not the size that it's gonna wear. A broad
is some little bitty shorts. Anyway, we're not the size
to be able to wear those. And we know that
we're grown adults.

Speaker 16 (01:40:50):
That have mentioned the gym. We got big back.

Speaker 36 (01:40:57):
Four days a week.

Speaker 16 (01:40:59):
You go to the gym in your house and your building. Listen,
in my house, in my building.

Speaker 5 (01:41:05):
In your building building. I don't have a building.

Speaker 19 (01:41:08):
You go to the nearest about recreational centers at your
gated community. Where you go to when you go to
the gym, right, yeah, thank you. And women will wear
a lot of crazy. They don't have to be no contcrete.

Speaker 16 (01:41:21):
You gotta stop trying.

Speaker 25 (01:41:22):
Why do you try to do that?

Speaker 18 (01:41:23):
I think I think.

Speaker 51 (01:41:27):
I think that I think that men. I think that
men when they go to the gym, that's what catch
the eye. And we're gonna keep it all the way
one hond that's what catch their eye.

Speaker 30 (01:41:36):
I don't hear and I've heard this before.

Speaker 51 (01:41:38):
I don't hear men talking about the chicks that's playing volleyball,
that's in that's playing basketballs, women that go in there
and run with them niggas. I don't hear about the
women that's that's swimming.

Speaker 11 (01:41:48):
Right.

Speaker 30 (01:41:49):
Do you talking for your lifetime?

Speaker 16 (01:41:51):
You said? Wasn't what you're talking about? What are you
leading to?

Speaker 30 (01:41:56):
I think everybody else understood it?

Speaker 16 (01:41:58):
Why don't you tell me? But you know what do
you leading to a conversation?

Speaker 40 (01:42:03):
Bro?

Speaker 16 (01:42:03):
Why you just can't have a conversation? What you lead into?

Speaker 12 (01:42:06):
Bro?

Speaker 30 (01:42:06):
I just did so I'm gonna say I'm gonna repeat myself.

Speaker 18 (01:42:08):
I think that.

Speaker 16 (01:42:11):
Everybody understand that.

Speaker 6 (01:42:13):
Okay, I got you.

Speaker 30 (01:42:14):
I'm gonna repeat myself my opening statement.

Speaker 51 (01:42:17):
I think that when men go to the gym, these
are the women that they are looking for that catch
their eye.

Speaker 30 (01:42:22):
They're not paying attention to the.

Speaker 51 (01:42:24):
Women that's doing all this other ship in the gym
and these lifetime fitnesses and these different places that got
all these big old things that got got going on.
You're paying what catches your eye the chick and the
damn the tight ship and the motherfuckers a little bit
of the ass sport.

Speaker 30 (01:42:39):
Bro, that's what y'all paying attention to.

Speaker 43 (01:42:43):
Women.

Speaker 30 (01:42:44):
It's women doing all kind of ship in the gym.

Speaker 16 (01:42:47):
You know what's crazy, JP.

Speaker 19 (01:42:48):
When I go to the gym, right, I don't go
there to look at booties and I would be in
my ivy man when I say I'm into I'm into
that motherfucker.

Speaker 16 (01:42:57):
And then I want to have somebody pull up to
the side of me.

Speaker 15 (01:43:01):
Ask me.

Speaker 35 (01:43:04):
What what what type of exercise I do for my arms?

Speaker 16 (01:43:09):
And I'm like, I'm like, I'm like in the middle
of it. I'm not in the middle of a workout.
And she said, yeah, because you got some nice arms.
And then she goes, do you do private sessions? Private sessions?

Speaker 19 (01:43:20):
I'm like, yo, ma, I'm not even a training nothing.
I'm just trying to get these websites for somebody else.
Come and try to claim this claim this uh uh,
this bitch real quick?

Speaker 16 (01:43:28):
Good. Yeah, I'm good boy. My walk across to do
the legs.

Speaker 19 (01:43:31):
Then she goes, oh, you're ready for that private session.
I didn't go to the gym for that, JP. So
a lot of women do go to the gym for niggas.

Speaker 16 (01:43:42):
I got that.

Speaker 11 (01:43:42):
I don't care.

Speaker 6 (01:43:43):
I understand.

Speaker 16 (01:43:43):
I don't care. I don't care. I'm not set tight.
I don't get a ship. Well, you animals, I ain't
us talk about you.

Speaker 18 (01:43:53):
Right now.

Speaker 30 (01:43:54):
I understand what you're saying.

Speaker 15 (01:43:55):
I understand, sam bro.

Speaker 51 (01:43:56):
When I go to the gym, right and lift weights
normally this in the morning, ain't really too many people
where they're at six o'clock in the morning.

Speaker 30 (01:44:01):
Anyway, people get there like about an hour later, right.

Speaker 51 (01:44:04):
But when I'm going in the evening, I'm going to
who right, So I'm my perspective is different because I'm
looking at different ship.

Speaker 30 (01:44:11):
I'm not you know what I mean.

Speaker 51 (01:44:12):
Ain't no motherfucking shit gonna come to me talking about
some what kind of workout you're doing? She might come
to me say, uh, can I can I get next five?
Because I'm because I'm you know what I'm saying. So
you got different people in there doing different things.

Speaker 52 (01:44:23):
It's niggas.

Speaker 5 (01:44:24):
What's that?

Speaker 15 (01:44:24):
What's that?

Speaker 30 (01:44:25):
Not the handball?

Speaker 9 (01:44:26):
What's that ship?

Speaker 18 (01:44:27):
The older man be playing?

Speaker 15 (01:44:30):
Uh?

Speaker 30 (01:44:33):
Yeah, what's it called? I'm sorry, picker ball?

Speaker 16 (01:44:37):
Yeah, it is pickerball.

Speaker 51 (01:44:39):
Yeah, it'd be women in there getting it the fuck in.
You just ain't gonna see them because they they in
the corner, ducked off somewhere playing that ship. So you know, yeah,
but in the weight room, if you're talking about the
weight room, yes, it's a lot of women in there,
you know, peacocking and all that old weird ship they
be doing. But that's most of them is either content
creators or that's how they get their little ship off.

Speaker 30 (01:44:58):
They posted the sh it on Instagram. Think they cut
you know, it's okay.

Speaker 19 (01:45:02):
I'm seeing them and they don't got no cameras in
their hands or nothing, but nobody follow them around.

Speaker 16 (01:45:06):
I'm in Florida, blow bro. I don't know if you
trying to be I just can't.

Speaker 30 (01:45:11):
It's just came from kidching me to two three weeks ago.

Speaker 51 (01:45:15):
And what you see, I've seen women with with better
I wouldn't say better bodies, but I've seen women that
you know, they got it was different ship.

Speaker 4 (01:45:25):
It wasn't.

Speaker 16 (01:45:27):
Creators in there, because you right what you're talking about
it like the Spanish.

Speaker 30 (01:45:30):
Area, No, I don't. I don't know if it was.
I don't be paying attention to them. Motherfuckers. Bro, I'm
in there hooping and lift. I don't give a fuck
with them people is doing.

Speaker 19 (01:45:39):
Bro, that's not on point because I know where every
I live in that area. So it's a lot of
Hispanic women, like Latina women that's over there in that area.
Do you did you see a lot of people with
like equipment in their hands trying to do content creating.

Speaker 16 (01:45:52):
Did you see that? I'm asking you that.

Speaker 30 (01:45:54):
No, I just told you I wasn't paying attention. All right,
I wasn't paying attention. I don't I don't be caring.

Speaker 16 (01:46:02):
They just gotta stop.

Speaker 22 (01:46:04):
Yeah, So the women that's wearing you're not looking at
him pretty much.

Speaker 11 (01:46:08):
That goes to what he's saying.

Speaker 42 (01:46:11):
That goes the what he's saying is catching your eye,
because I don't care.

Speaker 11 (01:46:16):
A lot of people don't do that.

Speaker 16 (01:46:22):
But it's not It doesn't go to that.

Speaker 19 (01:46:25):
If I'm working out and you're go pass you with
some ship tight and your ass you stand in front
of me, come on, bro, like listen, I love women.

Speaker 16 (01:46:32):
I love to look at them when I'm working out.
I like to work out. We can do all of
that ship afterwards.

Speaker 19 (01:46:38):
But I can't say women don't be doing the most
when they go to the Jimmy where he's god damn
closed like he's gonna be.

Speaker 16 (01:46:43):
I'm in Florida. Like I said, again, they do. They
do not be contecreted there.

Speaker 5 (01:46:49):
I said.

Speaker 53 (01:46:49):
I said, I had a few accounts next to like
a few Jews, a few of them, and right around
eight they have a zoomer class.

Speaker 4 (01:46:56):
They have a zoomer. You can hear him in there,
like through the wall my account. You can hear in there.

Speaker 53 (01:47:00):
And I'm gonna tell you sometimes they come in there
to get bottle water. They come in there to get
some I don't know, I can gator. I don't know
what they be getting. But it ain't no fucking way.
They all dress the standard way. Indeed, and there's like
people that used to people just going early in the morning.

Speaker 4 (01:47:18):
Or they go late at night. Not trying to be funny.

Speaker 53 (01:47:20):
A lot of these people are the people that's kind
of like beginners intermediate. Some of these women that have
been going there for a long time that really already
look good. They just kind of maintaining like they already
did the work.

Speaker 4 (01:47:32):
Man, these lou I'm talking about spending that, I'm talking
about bro ass and for days, trust me, you like,
come on, like and these and this and.

Speaker 11 (01:47:42):
This and this, these gyms they have mad personal trains
in and I be seeing.

Speaker 4 (01:47:46):
These dudes, and I know what the gig be, bro Like,
I'm really sure it's like a job. They getting the
paycheck without this stretching and all this ship.

Speaker 50 (01:47:54):
So we can't make it seem like what Yay saying
it's too far fetched like and I'm not saying that
they're putting that on for that purpose for men.

Speaker 4 (01:48:02):
I'm just saying, that's the standard workout uniform.

Speaker 50 (01:48:05):
That's the standard they don't right yere outside Rico.

Speaker 30 (01:48:12):
I'm not arguing that. I'm not arguing what he's saying.

Speaker 51 (01:48:14):
I'm saying, so, okay, do you honestly do y'all notice
the chicks that got the military paraphernalia on if you
want to call it that merchandise.

Speaker 16 (01:48:24):
Do you do you notice them?

Speaker 9 (01:48:25):
Right?

Speaker 16 (01:48:28):
That's not typical uniform?

Speaker 30 (01:48:32):
Hold on, well, I didn't say nothing about no uniform.

Speaker 51 (01:48:34):
I said, do you notice the women in there that
got a military pair of merchandise?

Speaker 7 (01:48:39):
Sound the soldiers or the marines or anything like they always.

Speaker 15 (01:48:44):
Know, we don't know.

Speaker 30 (01:48:45):
I'm not asking the women.

Speaker 51 (01:48:47):
I'm asking the man for I'm asking the man for, yes, right,
are you not exactly animal?

Speaker 30 (01:48:58):
Exactly right?

Speaker 51 (01:48:59):
So you do y'all notice the chicks that got the
basketball ship on or the volleyball shit on.

Speaker 15 (01:49:07):
I I.

Speaker 51 (01:49:09):
I my point, right, So I'm not saying that women
if I'm not saying, uh, there's not women that don't
dress like that, I'm not even saying that it's not
the majority. I don't fucking know, because I'm saying that
it seems like men don't pay attention to that, that
kind of they don't pay attention to that attire.

Speaker 19 (01:49:25):
Right.

Speaker 51 (01:49:25):
It's she got the shorts on with the booty sticking out,
with the T shirt touched under the you know, in
the back, right because she's trying to struck. That's what
people are paying attention to more than any other thing.
That's all I'm saying.

Speaker 9 (01:49:36):
Let me quick, right, My thing is this is cat
the gym. I go to blink. None of them chicks
in there with no basketball shirts, none of that.

Speaker 24 (01:49:45):
They tire like the jump them body suits. The lady
is either one of the two, like you know what
I'm saying, And everybody got a gym crush. Everybody got
they one when they go to that gym, whenever day
they go that they always.

Speaker 9 (01:50:00):
Seeing here that they're gonna look at. That's they little
Jim crush.

Speaker 24 (01:50:03):
I don't know, I don't even know.

Speaker 30 (01:50:05):
Like do you'll have a four core basketball man, you
have a basketball.

Speaker 53 (01:50:11):
Like shack like shak twenty four, our fitness and you fit,
you face some of them, but not a lot.

Speaker 5 (01:50:22):
Crack.

Speaker 9 (01:50:23):
Say what.

Speaker 16 (01:50:25):
You got?

Speaker 30 (01:50:27):
No, we got we got l a fitness and shack.

Speaker 54 (01:50:33):
I'm convinced a few of y'all sniffed white out when
I was younger.

Speaker 9 (01:50:37):
That's a fact.

Speaker 4 (01:50:38):
What I'm just saying. She said you used to sniff
white out.

Speaker 53 (01:50:43):
I'm saying they be sweating right down the crack of
the ass to them here that you can see you.

Speaker 23 (01:50:49):
Was you looking at the crack?

Speaker 45 (01:50:51):
Bro?

Speaker 4 (01:50:52):
They walking? What are you talking about?

Speaker 16 (01:50:53):
The market?

Speaker 9 (01:50:55):
Job?

Speaker 4 (01:50:56):
Like my damn job?

Speaker 16 (01:50:59):
Like?

Speaker 30 (01:50:59):
What the hell?

Speaker 4 (01:50:59):
I was just look away the girl walk Bible and
put my shirt over my eyes.

Speaker 7 (01:51:03):
Do y'all find this a behavior pair of like like predatorial?

Speaker 22 (01:51:10):
Because yeah, what you were talking about, you were trying
to work out and somebody you know, blinded you with
their buns and asked you for a private session. Then
made a sexual event that was unwanted. Like is it
like I'm getting the vide that y'all are feeling uncomfortable.

Speaker 15 (01:51:26):
It's very predatorial.

Speaker 4 (01:51:30):
But like me, I'm looking my imagination.

Speaker 7 (01:51:36):
No, for real, that's what I'm hearing.

Speaker 5 (01:51:38):
We jumping about it.

Speaker 16 (01:51:39):
In the gym, they haven't. They have an area for
just women in those gyms, not men.

Speaker 37 (01:51:45):
I'm looking at the white ass, but these women are
going in there.

Speaker 50 (01:51:50):
What I'm saying, what I'm saying is a woman. Hold on,
what I'm saying, ain't none of y'all not Eve. Ain't
no woman that's not Eve. To the fact women when
they shot, when they wear them, think they have a shirt.
A lot of them have a shirt tied around they
waist or like it will be out, they'll.

Speaker 4 (01:52:07):
Have it different. Ain't no woman in no gym like that.
Who will believe it?

Speaker 50 (01:52:11):
I don't give a fuck how professional obg yn say
they are. I don't give a fuck how professional trainers.

Speaker 18 (01:52:18):
Say they are.

Speaker 4 (01:52:19):
I don't give how much like people that do mammograms
and do all this shit say they are.

Speaker 50 (01:52:24):
A man for the most part, is gonna look so
when I see them and now walk by and I
see her, yams, I'm.

Speaker 4 (01:52:31):
Still and she no, like the hell with me. I
only see them for five minutes.

Speaker 50 (01:52:35):
The dude that was in there helping us stretch out
and been all fucking over her, talking about pulling her
hand strings and loose enough. That's the motherfucker she gotta
worry about. They ain't me, She ain't my lady. But
come on, it ain't like the mean in the gym.
They so focused on lifting they waist.

Speaker 4 (01:52:49):
And they not looking at her. They be right behind
each other, but right on the side of each other.

Speaker 50 (01:52:53):
Y'all like, y'all gotta start with this cat because y'all
want the world to beat like the world is. It
ain't just me Like when y'all go certain places y'all
were y'all might just think y'all being cute.

Speaker 4 (01:53:05):
Maybe you are, but it's still gonna me like even
if they gotta play it all. They taking a glance
on them yeams. They're looking in the assessing they may
some men do it more obvious, some men do it quick,
but most me gonna do it in some form of fashion.
So this ship just be crazy, y'all. What every go?

Speaker 16 (01:53:24):
What about when they go to are about when they
go to like Starbucks and ship like that. Bro, what
about that.

Speaker 5 (01:53:32):
They all go to.

Speaker 9 (01:53:37):
Starbucks and then look, they don't even have to have fannies.

Speaker 16 (01:53:41):
But if they hey, te.

Speaker 54 (01:53:45):
Hi hi ya, how does how does women's gym attire?
And y'all perverted thought processes? Science and this topic?

Speaker 11 (01:53:53):
Who starts to drop we heard?

Speaker 50 (01:53:56):
I didn't bring it up, they do. A woman said
that men start drama about women's.

Speaker 54 (01:54:04):
You, I want to say, I want to say that
I think that the unhealthy partner starts drama first. And
I want to say that I would think that, you know,
these conversations kind of tend to lean towards saying that
women start drama first without thinking about the fact that

(01:54:27):
it was something that the man did to kind of antagonize,
a provoked and disturb the woman's peace. And then when
she gets to asking questions and.

Speaker 55 (01:54:38):
The gas lighting begins by.

Speaker 4 (01:54:41):
I don't even know what you're talking about.

Speaker 54 (01:54:43):
Sometimes, you know, depending on if he's thrown thrown the
equilibrium of the relationship off. So I mean, I guess
if confronting, confronting uh, the imbalance in a relationship is
is considered start drama, then I would say that women
probably do because they're typically confronting things that men don't

(01:55:07):
want to deal with, and so that might be considered
starting drama. First, let's say all about that, I don't know, bullshit.

Speaker 16 (01:55:17):
That was.

Speaker 54 (01:55:25):
Perverted conversation about ash from people trying to work out.

Speaker 19 (01:55:30):
So yeah, wait, hold on, see that that that beer
because the women were saying that men had a problem
with their girls going to the gym.

Speaker 16 (01:55:38):
And I'm telling you, men wouldn't have a problem with
them going to a gym if they wouldn't wearing some
perverted ship, then we wouldn't give a ship. But you
want to wear crazy stuff.

Speaker 19 (01:55:47):
That's the reason why men be having a problem with
going out, and we'll call it that, will call it
that will cause argument about that.

Speaker 24 (01:55:54):
Like, my whole thing is when they come to this conversation,
this is what I feel we getting. It's construed with
the title, it's not if men and women cause drama
in the relationship, it's who does.

Speaker 9 (01:56:06):
It more often?

Speaker 24 (01:56:07):
That's right word more often.

Speaker 9 (01:56:09):
And we all know who does it more often?

Speaker 18 (01:56:14):
Women?

Speaker 4 (01:56:15):
Women understand what.

Speaker 22 (01:56:16):
I understand where she's coming from, And that's what I
was bringing up. And it's a syndrome. It's called the
crime ass house syndrome. It's the fact that somebody can
come and put so many boundaries and be so sensitive
until you know and have you do this emotional labor
for them, and then turn around and and then be
a hoe and do anything like the same man they

(01:56:37):
don't have an issue with you wearing booty shorts to
the gym, will go to that same gym and do
helicopter dicks in the fucking locker room in front of everybody.

Speaker 7 (01:56:44):
Is like, bro, come on, you know that's the issue.

Speaker 5 (01:56:47):
That's what.

Speaker 53 (01:56:50):
Oh, you start drama because you want attention. Women do
this all the time for attention. They do this because
they know that men are going to be forced to
comply or come fit up for some type a reconciliation
or some fucking understanding.

Speaker 4 (01:57:02):
It's like a little fucking kid throwing a tantrum. That's
what it comes down to. It's a little kid throwing
a tantrum.

Speaker 50 (01:57:08):
You started some shit that really was so small, so
fucking middle school, and you turn that little small thing
into this huge thing that men will even apologize to
try to make up for shit they didn't do wrong.
And it's like a fucking kid. It's it's so immature.
So when she say that, oh, well, they were provoked
usually by no you had other options. You could have

(01:57:31):
communicated what you wanted to say instead of starting drama
about nothing. There's a healthy way to communicate and to
talk about it. Maybe he did something that he wasn't
even aware of, that he don't even know he's doing.

Speaker 4 (01:57:44):
For you to start crying about it and pouting.

Speaker 50 (01:57:46):
About it and turning up Drake the all different hot
decimals and rolling your fucking windows up, it's just fucking ridiculous.

Speaker 4 (01:57:54):
So this old shit is just like Brence said, we
can say.

Speaker 50 (01:57:57):
Both do it, but without a doubt undeniably women do
it a thousand million, billion, con jillion times way more
at a higher level than me.

Speaker 30 (01:58:06):
And really I would I would say this too.

Speaker 51 (01:58:11):
A lot of this drama don't have really nothing to
do with the man and the woman themselves. Sometimes a
lot of times is you think something is important and
it objectively is not that important, right, or it's not
nothing that we need to be discussing or arguing about.

Speaker 30 (01:58:26):
But then you keep on like you know what I mean,
It's like little subtle things, right.

Speaker 51 (01:58:30):
But and then most men ain't gonna be like, Okay,
so listen, listen, maybe I'll fuck with you, but I
don't know why you got an attitude problem right now
because you didn't hear what I said about your sister. Now,
what he really want to say is, I don't give
a fuck about what your sister got going on. I'm
not interested. I don't care if you want to talk
about that. Talk about that with your mom. And that's
what he really want to say, right But a lot

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of men are not grounded like that to just tell
a woman there's a bunch of things that's going on
that I just don't want to deal with, don't want
to talk about, I'm not interested or nothing, you know
what I mean. So sometimes a woman will a lot
of times, will manipulate the man and discussing a certain
thing he know he don't give a fuck about. So
now he in the position of fact like he cared
about some ship that he don't really care about. Why

(01:59:12):
because you think it's important?

Speaker 25 (01:59:14):
Yeah, And that's.

Speaker 7 (01:59:17):
Rico.

Speaker 22 (01:59:17):
That's exactly what I was gonna say to Rico. I
can say anything my dude is talking about or is
important to him. It's childish and it's not you know,
you said, that's child that you just nagging. I can
say that about anything somebody else say if I don't
give a fuck about what they're talking about.

Speaker 4 (01:59:31):
You know, that's about what I said.

Speaker 7 (01:59:33):
I understand, but that's the emotional by you.

Speaker 4 (01:59:35):
No, you don't understand because that's not what I said.

Speaker 22 (01:59:38):
Relationship to where you care about the things that your
partner cares about, regardless of if they have.

Speaker 4 (01:59:43):
That's not what I said. That's a selective hearing. That's
not what I said.

Speaker 55 (01:59:48):
I said that.

Speaker 4 (01:59:50):
It is because I said, he said that, Hey, he
might have provoked it. Even if he provoked it or.

Speaker 50 (01:59:55):
Did something, this didn't lends to you an opportunity to
use a f the communication I.

Speaker 4 (02:00:01):
Said nothing about me. I say, that's what children do.

Speaker 50 (02:00:03):
They start something to make that, to make you communicate it,
to make you talk about it. But it's an unhealthy
way to bring about the communication when you throw a tantrum.
I said, if I may not be aware that I
did something, you could say, hey, this is what you
did I did in life. You slamming a door, or
turning your music up, or or or or or walking
around the house pouting. That's the way a kid would

(02:00:26):
react to something it has nothing to do with if.

Speaker 4 (02:00:28):
I feel what you're saying.

Speaker 11 (02:00:32):
Yeah, well, I'm not sure what I said that made
you think that that was even.

Speaker 4 (02:00:39):
I heard what you said I said about Uh yeah, I.

Speaker 13 (02:00:45):
Heard what you said too, because I listened.

Speaker 16 (02:00:47):
So let me finish.

Speaker 54 (02:00:49):
I didn't say nothing about a woman throwing a tantrum.
What I said is she might confront something that has
thrown me equilibrium up, the relationship off, and if a
man does not want to hear it, he may consider
it her starting drama. I didn't say nothing about a
childish woman who was who was going to her man

(02:01:12):
slamming doors, giving him the silent treatment or or.

Speaker 25 (02:01:16):
Or or or pouty.

Speaker 54 (02:01:18):
That's that's stuff I consider manipulative and emotionally abusive.

Speaker 50 (02:01:23):
So no, like, I didn't say nothing about no, no, no,
no no, you're chaining your submission, your chamber, your submission.

Speaker 15 (02:01:28):
Now.

Speaker 25 (02:01:30):
That's what she said everything, that's what she said, she said.

Speaker 4 (02:01:33):
That is what I said.

Speaker 11 (02:01:34):
Y'all like to project. Y'all's nest.

Speaker 4 (02:01:37):
I know what you say verbatim. Listen to you you
I heard what you say of verbatim, or was not it?

Speaker 11 (02:01:45):
You're not listening now you're not listening now.

Speaker 4 (02:01:48):
Doesn't matter, doesn't matter. I still heard what you said.
That wasn't it. I can't see, so I don't care.
It seem like I'm making up something you said. That's
what you're saying now what.

Speaker 11 (02:02:01):
I said, that's not what you said.

Speaker 4 (02:02:05):
No, I heard exactly what you said. Yes, I heard
what you said. No wound it is. It wasn't no
wound it is.

Speaker 50 (02:02:17):
You said, even if a woman starts drama, even if
a woman start drawing, if a man don't want to address, if.

Speaker 4 (02:02:23):
A man, no, no you say, even if she starts,
I don't care.

Speaker 50 (02:02:27):
I'm not I'm not gonna let you turn your ship around.
I'm not gonna let you turn this ship around. I
don't care how well we'll keep on talking, because I
know exactly what you said.

Speaker 4 (02:02:37):
So don't get mad now, and didn't get don't try
to clean your ship up now. Don't try to clean your.

Speaker 50 (02:02:43):
Ship up now. I always responded to what you said,
not what you cleaned it up to be. Now you
want to come back in there like you upset. I
heard what she said, and I heard what he said.

Speaker 29 (02:03:03):
You y'all, y'all, y'all, y'all are taking both of y'all
are listening to each other's submission and hanging on to
one detail, and y'all, y'all, y'all creating y'all submission on that.

Speaker 25 (02:03:14):
She did say that, Rico, No, she did.

Speaker 4 (02:03:18):
She said, No, I don't need your help. I don't
need your help. I don't need your help. I don't
need your fucking help. But I don't need your fucking help.
I don't need nobody help.

Speaker 50 (02:03:29):
Don't try to change what I say. She literally said verbatim.
She said, verbatim, No, I'm not She and I said, quote,
and I will quote I quote what she said. She
said that even if a woman sometimes starts drama, it's
because if a man feel like you can something that
she's concerned about. And all I said was that's still

(02:03:52):
an immature way to respond. So I don't need you
coming off right, trying to care for I don't need
you trying to help. Nobody needs no help. Nobody needs
no help. I'm responding to what she said.

Speaker 4 (02:04:07):
She cleaned it up later.

Speaker 50 (02:04:08):
I'm you.

Speaker 4 (02:04:10):
I don't need your help. I don't need your help.
I don't need your help. I don't need your help.
I don't responding to what she said, not to what
she said later on. I don't need you to clean
on air. I don't need you to clean on air.

(02:04:35):
I'm talking to her, not you. I'm talking to her,
not you. Is wrong with y'all, I'm talking to you.
You got mad because I corrected you.

Speaker 16 (02:04:48):
You got mad because I corrected you.

Speaker 4 (02:04:53):
Can no, you didn't get mad to you, didn't get mad.
I talked like this, Fuck you, I talk like this.

Speaker 50 (02:05:00):
I'm not gonna let y'all take what I said out
of context because you mad, because.

Speaker 4 (02:05:04):
You can't stay in the correction.

Speaker 50 (02:05:07):
All you had to do is say you was revamping
your submission. All you had to say was I'm gonna
revelp my submission.

Speaker 4 (02:05:16):
That's all you had to say was I'm.

Speaker 50 (02:05:18):
Gonna revise my submission. That's all you had to say
on revising my submission.

Speaker 4 (02:05:24):
Funk out of here. Just say you're revising your submission.
I'm not mad at nobody.

Speaker 50 (02:05:32):
I don't need your assistance. I can talk how I
want to talk. I can talk how to I wanna talk.

Speaker 54 (02:05:41):
Hold on, y'all' I.

Speaker 4 (02:05:43):
Can talk how to want to talk. Just say you
want to revise her submission, your funk out the way.

Speaker 18 (02:05:53):
Let a man talk to Rico.

Speaker 4 (02:05:54):
I can't talk the way I want to talk. You're
not gonna fucking just Meau. You want to jump in here, Kate,
is weird you're talking about?

Speaker 11 (02:06:05):
You're you're asking you acting like a bitch today for real?
Because all you had to.

Speaker 4 (02:06:10):
Do was I don't know you're acting like the picture
you trying.

Speaker 11 (02:06:14):
To get mad at this. You could like because I
say you need to you need.

Speaker 54 (02:06:20):
All you had to say was I want to rely
all you want to compensation you're doing the most, so
you say that that's what I say affected you ever
on here.

Speaker 4 (02:06:31):
I don't care about none of that.

Speaker 56 (02:06:32):
Ship are now if you question why a lot you doing,
tell you question a lot you question your mind, A
lot of doing a lot of you about none of that?

Speaker 11 (02:06:43):
Today you acting like you don't give about nothing.

Speaker 4 (02:06:46):
You saying you out of your one real All you
had to say was advising my submission. That's all you
had to say. I want to revise my submission. That's
all you have to say. You don't say that that.

Speaker 9 (02:07:00):
You clean heard what you heard.

Speaker 4 (02:07:03):
I know exactly where.

Speaker 11 (02:07:04):
The said do it to you?

Speaker 4 (02:07:06):
I know exactly what the fuck to you?

Speaker 11 (02:07:08):
But I know exactly what I say to you.

Speaker 9 (02:07:11):
And then she cleaned it up.

Speaker 11 (02:07:12):
Didn't do it to you, and then she cleaned it up.
I didn't do it to you. Out of here, okay,
I didn't lie to you.

Speaker 4 (02:07:18):
I don't talk. He's no liar.

Speaker 11 (02:07:23):
You said to you what.

Speaker 4 (02:07:24):
I know exactly what she said.

Speaker 27 (02:07:27):
You're not a liar.

Speaker 4 (02:07:28):
She tried to clean it up later.

Speaker 7 (02:07:30):
I didn't try to play a you what mis understanding?

Speaker 4 (02:07:35):
I think that you don't misunderstand that. I was clearly
what she said. You know the fun she said.

Speaker 11 (02:07:41):
And then you crazy and know the reason over bea
the lady.

Speaker 4 (02:07:45):
Trying to the lady trying to because you trying to
say that I was.

Speaker 11 (02:07:51):
You said what you said.

Speaker 4 (02:07:53):
Look out of here. Call no liar, no masterful, You're not.

Speaker 5 (02:07:58):
You're not.

Speaker 11 (02:07:59):
You're talking about doing the most today.

Speaker 4 (02:08:01):
I heard what she said, she cleaned.

Speaker 11 (02:08:06):
Even if it was.

Speaker 54 (02:08:07):
Even if it was a misunderstanding, it was worth it
was worthy of you cursed, misunderstand it was worthy of
you cursing.

Speaker 11 (02:08:14):
I don't get the conducting your what your child?

Speaker 42 (02:08:17):
You told me a bit.

Speaker 11 (02:08:21):
Acting like a bitch because you're cursing at women.

Speaker 54 (02:08:23):
So you way, I guess you calling you a bit
so now you about you?

Speaker 11 (02:08:35):
Yeah about don you're doing the most today.

Speaker 54 (02:08:41):
Day unnecessarily you're talking about necessary about you because you
misheard what I said.

Speaker 11 (02:08:48):
Now you want to get emotions.

Speaker 4 (02:08:49):
I didn't miss. I didn't miss you did appear you
say it?

Speaker 22 (02:08:55):
Oh you you clean?

Speaker 40 (02:08:58):
You?

Speaker 4 (02:08:58):
Fuck you?

Speaker 11 (02:09:00):
How about that.

Speaker 25 (02:09:04):
He provided?

Speaker 4 (02:09:05):
How about that? Mother fuck you? And motherfuck this?

Speaker 16 (02:09:08):
Lady?

Speaker 9 (02:09:09):
Lady?

Speaker 48 (02:09:09):
What a name here?

Speaker 4 (02:09:11):
I don't give a about y'all? What funk out of here?
You want to come in here and try to think
y'all will pressing.

Speaker 1 (02:09:23):
I don't give a.

Speaker 16 (02:09:24):
Funk about you either, lady or what name?

Speaker 11 (02:09:27):
Is telling me?

Speaker 4 (02:09:30):
Super dicker dick?

Speaker 7 (02:09:34):
She just provided clarity.

Speaker 11 (02:09:35):
So y'all had this, sucker dick.

Speaker 4 (02:09:38):
What is you talking about?

Speaker 11 (02:09:40):
Is that supposed to being a woman?

Speaker 42 (02:09:44):
You can't.

Speaker 11 (02:09:45):
I'm saying, I'm saying you good day.

Speaker 4 (02:09:51):
Lady up here? You talking about what you're talking about?
For I was wondering what she's saying.

Speaker 11 (02:09:58):
Mad about that?

Speaker 54 (02:10:00):
Oh wow, all of that because idiots understood what I
was saying.

Speaker 11 (02:10:04):
So now he got a curse out of women these
days never seen. It's don't make this like don't.

Speaker 4 (02:10:11):
Don't make it woman. Amaz it's about you, no woman
about you. Know you're about you.

Speaker 11 (02:10:18):
You're very disappointed about you.

Speaker 54 (02:10:20):
It's about you at your emotions as a grown out.

Speaker 11 (02:10:24):
It's about out women because.

Speaker 4 (02:10:26):
You don't give what I want. You don't and you
don't have to.

Speaker 11 (02:10:33):
They don't have to go curs touch your moms. That's
what you need to do. Motherfuckers. Go curse out the
mother because you weren't raised right, clearly, and fuck your mother.

Speaker 4 (02:10:43):
I don't give about that what you're saying.

Speaker 11 (02:10:45):
Yeah, you're doing the most.

Speaker 4 (02:10:49):
You're doing.

Speaker 11 (02:10:51):
Okay, it's all right. Just pull your skirt down. Your
g string is showing, and like I said, goes something
about that. Don't worry you. I like that's an insult.
I'm a woman.

Speaker 4 (02:11:07):
I don't give it is so me.

Speaker 16 (02:11:11):
Mother fun.

Speaker 50 (02:11:11):
I don't respect none of y'all. I respect them for
that is respectful. Just admit you misspoke. If you want
to revise your statement.

Speaker 11 (02:11:18):
That it didn't misspeak, you wounded ears. I said what
I said, and you're even if.

Speaker 54 (02:11:24):
It isn't misportion, you really think that all of this
is warranted because you misunderstood what was said.

Speaker 11 (02:11:34):
Wait, you.

Speaker 16 (02:11:36):
Telling you.

Speaker 11 (02:11:37):
You got this because you miss what I said.

Speaker 16 (02:11:42):
Because I said I always understood what I said.

Speaker 4 (02:11:46):
I didn't misunderstand.

Speaker 11 (02:11:49):
And this is a drama. This is exactly the type
of I'm the.

Speaker 54 (02:11:57):
Regulating their emotions. You're probably a woman beat there. I
can't understand how you can't regulate your emotions in this
type of conversation. That is crazy, man, FU fuck you.

Speaker 7 (02:12:10):
You entered the conversation with the hard.

Speaker 6 (02:12:13):
Ship your fucking floor, all.

Speaker 50 (02:12:23):
Ship, ship ship, and that goes for you too, lucky
a lady where your name is?

Speaker 4 (02:12:30):
You went off.

Speaker 11 (02:12:34):
You went off today like.

Speaker 8 (02:12:39):
We go off.

Speaker 4 (02:12:45):
You know how we give it up?

Speaker 6 (02:12:48):
You know, bro, man, you got me back as soon.

Speaker 11 (02:12:52):
As I need to go get a hug.

Speaker 50 (02:12:56):
You know what the fun that you're talking about? I
don't need no I'm telling you when you said I'm
acting like the girls, Come on, man, come on.

Speaker 11 (02:13:06):
You started cursing and talking about not to the first
time told that against the moment.

Speaker 9 (02:13:14):
You're not.

Speaker 4 (02:13:15):
You're not your mom, tell you not.

Speaker 11 (02:13:20):
My son would have more.

Speaker 54 (02:13:22):
Talk like to your to your I don't know my
child the child that way, because you know, regulate her
emotions at thirteen years old, she's not a regulation much relate,
you go back.

Speaker 4 (02:13:36):
On fucking mute, regulating, back.

Speaker 50 (02:13:39):
On fucking ship.

Speaker 16 (02:13:42):
Your mouth.

Speaker 11 (02:13:42):
You're so childish.

Speaker 4 (02:13:46):
I don't give a I've been disappointed and she's been talking. Wow,
I've been disappointed you've been talking.

Speaker 11 (02:13:53):
I got time today because I can't here for this.
You see you see you started side of this ship.

Speaker 16 (02:14:02):
Floor.

Speaker 5 (02:14:02):
I'm talking to you, y'all, y'all a lot.

Speaker 29 (02:14:06):
I think everybody y'all, y'all both think each other's an idiot.
Stop talking to each other, y'all better than this man.

Speaker 4 (02:14:11):
You're a fucking idiot too. How about Yeah, he's known
idiot too. You're talking about.

Speaker 11 (02:14:25):
How much?

Speaker 4 (02:14:27):
Better stop poking at y'all.

Speaker 50 (02:14:29):
Better find somebody else to play with, y'all. Better find
somebody else to wave with. Y'all, better find somebody else
to play with.

Speaker 4 (02:14:36):
I'm not the one to be played with.

Speaker 50 (02:14:39):
You better find somebody else to play with. You better
find your nigga to play with.

Speaker 11 (02:14:43):
Strange jackets.

Speaker 4 (02:14:45):
Yeah, you better go find somebody else to play with.
I'm different.

Speaker 18 (02:14:50):
You better find.

Speaker 4 (02:14:51):
Somebody else to play I don't give up all that.

Speaker 50 (02:14:53):
Woman man ship. If you want to been respectful, you
wouldn't to say that bullship?

Speaker 4 (02:14:59):
So what your fuck is you talking about? Don't find
somebody to play with? Y'all not gonna play with me
on those stage period. I don't give.

Speaker 8 (02:15:08):
Now.

Speaker 11 (02:15:09):
I wasn't taking it serious. I don't give him.

Speaker 4 (02:15:14):
I don't give a take it seriously. Not What part
of you you don't understand.

Speaker 9 (02:15:21):
Because you're talking about.

Speaker 4 (02:15:24):
I am you have no idea?

Speaker 15 (02:15:28):
What are you talking about?

Speaker 4 (02:15:30):
Y'all know my whole boy stage?

Speaker 6 (02:15:31):
The fu is y'all talking about the four hundred times
the brother?

Speaker 4 (02:15:37):
The fuck is you talking about? Trying to kill people?

Speaker 50 (02:15:41):
That fucking did you want to victiminds yourself? Talking about
men talking to women and I'm talking to you.

Speaker 12 (02:15:47):
She's she apologizes, No, I don't.

Speaker 11 (02:15:50):
I don't want to apologize.

Speaker 4 (02:15:53):
Shift from her. I don't wanna shift from her. Do better,
Do fucking better. That's it, Do better?

Speaker 15 (02:16:03):
Hold on.

Speaker 4 (02:16:04):
You don't want to ship in here, Lucky. You don't
want to ship in will.

Speaker 10 (02:16:11):
I know?

Speaker 11 (02:16:11):
That's what I know.

Speaker 4 (02:16:12):
That's what you don't want to ship in the real Lucky,
this is not your fucking room. You don't want to
ship in will.

Speaker 16 (02:16:19):
The fuck?

Speaker 4 (02:16:19):
Is you a mediator?

Speaker 9 (02:16:22):
Wuck?

Speaker 18 (02:16:22):
As you a mediator?

Speaker 4 (02:16:24):
You know, fucking mediator. Somebody mama too.

Speaker 54 (02:16:31):
So in other words, you're y'all his homeboys, y'all supporting
his behavior.

Speaker 4 (02:16:39):
They wore, I don't attack nobody. I don't around me
attack nobody. I don't never attack nobody. No idea, absolute,
no idea, no idea't did no, I didn't. I said
you was lying, and you got mad curries out with
lying for what I was working out of you.

Speaker 9 (02:17:02):
That was.

Speaker 4 (02:17:04):
All you had to do is revise your statement. All
you have got here something my behavior.

Speaker 11 (02:17:10):
Get the out of here.

Speaker 4 (02:17:10):
They know I don't attack everybody like that.

Speaker 50 (02:17:12):
And I don't give a about what you're saying. I
don't give a funk about what you're saying. You're talking
about to come.

Speaker 11 (02:17:20):
In here, you're alive, Be careful on your ships.

Speaker 4 (02:17:27):
I ain't gonna guess nor stroke the fuckings you're talking. Man,
Fuck these motherfuckers. As you're talking about business, trying to
cry to stack, you're gonna cry to here. You don't
care cry to stack the fun? Then you got you.
You got this lady I'm talking.

Speaker 5 (02:17:45):
She don't.

Speaker 4 (02:17:45):
She don't want ship either.

Speaker 9 (02:17:47):
The fun is she.

Speaker 4 (02:17:50):
Is she doing?

Speaker 50 (02:17:52):
Trying to talk about she jumping on your side for
no fucking reason in a car she wasn't even supposed
to be in.

Speaker 33 (02:17:58):
You're talking about.

Speaker 16 (02:18:02):
Better find y'all medicine.

Speaker 4 (02:18:04):
Y'all better find somebody else to play with me. I'm
telling you, y'all gonna find somebody. I'm different.

Speaker 50 (02:18:09):
I swear to God, I'm different. I swear to Guard
I'm different. Y'all better find somebody else to play with.
I respect everybody on this motherfucker. I show everybody love.
Ain't nobody in no space. I don't show love to
but when you go out of your way. When she
said what she said, I responded she she revised what
she said later on. I responded, to verbatim.

Speaker 4 (02:18:30):
What she said. You tried to come off your mic
and start caping for to help her make a fucking point.
She's talking over me while making my fucking point. I
keep it. When she said, oh, you acting like a bitch,
the gloves is fucking.

Speaker 11 (02:18:44):
Off, Rica, you actually cutting me off.

Speaker 16 (02:18:47):
Actually, I'm not arguing with you.

Speaker 4 (02:18:50):
I'm with your dumb ass. I'm not arguing with your
ass no more. I'm not arguing with your thumb ass anymore.
I'm not arguing with your thumb ass.

Speaker 16 (02:18:59):
No more.

Speaker 4 (02:19:00):
I'm not arguing at your dumb ask no more. I'm
not doing that. I'm not arguing at you with your
dumb ass no more.

Speaker 50 (02:19:07):
You're still trying to play that victimize and ship talking
about men against women. You're still trying to run that
line when you can ask the women in the room,
you still try to run that line that ship don't
work on me, man.

Speaker 4 (02:19:19):
You will try to use your feminine card in here
talking about like I'm bullying you. When have I ever.

Speaker 11 (02:19:26):
You just said and I didn't say, but I said you.

Speaker 4 (02:19:30):
No more ship.

Speaker 16 (02:19:34):
In me.

Speaker 4 (02:19:35):
I don't give a what you ask. I don't give
a what you curse.

Speaker 9 (02:19:41):
Than me?

Speaker 5 (02:19:42):
What what?

Speaker 9 (02:19:43):
Man?

Speaker 4 (02:19:44):
Victim?

Speaker 11 (02:19:45):
And now you are you necessary for you to curse that?

Speaker 4 (02:19:50):
You don't tell me what the fuck to do? You
don't tell me what you.

Speaker 11 (02:19:54):
Okay, So you don't John, So you don't go.

Speaker 4 (02:19:58):
To the dick. It's going to something.

Speaker 54 (02:20:03):
You sound just that you want to ask about that.
You sound like something about your eyes. That's why you
act like that.

Speaker 4 (02:20:09):
Ye go get your brother, Go get your brother or
your boyfriend.

Speaker 6 (02:20:13):
How about that?

Speaker 11 (02:20:16):
Keep playing, keep playing, don't get him? I don't never
donk keep playing duns might be outside.

Speaker 4 (02:20:24):
You keep playing good good. I sent him back to
you in the box. How about that? You can try
I send him back to you in the box.

Speaker 27 (02:20:30):
About that?

Speaker 6 (02:20:33):
Get the fuck out of here, this, mister Wood, this
is don't you.

Speaker 50 (02:20:38):
Nobody even talking to your ass. You keep coming off
your mic. Nobody says shipp to you. You want to
center your fuckingself so bad. You need to get the
fun out of the roof everybody. I don't need your
fucking help clarify her.

Speaker 4 (02:20:50):
You want to help yourself, Go read a fucking book.

Speaker 11 (02:20:53):
I wasn't.

Speaker 25 (02:20:55):
I'm trying to clarify for you.

Speaker 4 (02:20:56):
Talking about you trying to fucking help. No, you're trying
to fucking he.

Speaker 54 (02:21:02):
Lucky the fact that I got here. I'm shocked that
he was that serious. I don't know what was happening.
To blame yourself. You blame yourself.

Speaker 11 (02:21:11):
You anymore like you can.

Speaker 4 (02:21:14):
You don't talk about me anymore. Trust me, you don't
talk about me anymore.

Speaker 11 (02:21:17):
I'm going to speak to who I want to about
what I want to.

Speaker 4 (02:21:21):
I don't give and I'm gonna say what I want
to say.

Speaker 50 (02:21:24):
And I'm gonna say what I want to say I'm
gonna tresh you as much as I want you, because
you can't about.

Speaker 11 (02:21:29):
As little as I want to, because your lame is
out your corn.

Speaker 4 (02:21:32):
You can't do anything about it. You don't want that's
your problem. You think you want something. You don't want
ship around here, what you don't want nothing.

Speaker 11 (02:21:42):
This is clubhouse.

Speaker 50 (02:21:43):
You don't want what you don't want to matter, you
don't want, you order luck, you don't okay talking about
no stage on You're gonna want nothing, okay, but love
it period?

Speaker 11 (02:21:58):
Are you okay? Good for gout here?

Speaker 4 (02:22:01):
You feel aggressive?

Speaker 5 (02:22:03):
Ship with me?

Speaker 4 (02:22:04):
I don't feel nothing. I don't feel nothing for got
in here.

Speaker 52 (02:22:10):
This is nothing.

Speaker 4 (02:22:11):
Trying to come in here and fucking talk like you're
gonna talk down to me. You're never gonna talk down
to me.

Speaker 11 (02:22:16):
Down to Jesus, all this talking down, I didn't do it.

Speaker 50 (02:22:20):
If you want to be if you want to be respectful,
all you.

Speaker 4 (02:22:25):
Had to say was all you had to say.

Speaker 11 (02:22:29):
I didn't say that, but this.

Speaker 4 (02:22:30):
Is what I mean to say.

Speaker 11 (02:22:32):
It looks like therapy session bleed on. Everybody else saying.

Speaker 4 (02:22:38):
Niggas lying because you misspoke.

Speaker 54 (02:22:40):
I'm saying you because this is what it looks like
when niggas can come off the club house and bleed
on everybody else.

Speaker 4 (02:22:46):
I don't give a about what you're saying. I don't
give a All you had to do was be a
stand up.

Speaker 50 (02:22:53):
Person and say, hey, this is what I'm what you're saying,
this is what I meant to say. Well I should
have said it's all you had to say. All this
ship could have been no boy, But no, you want
to come on here and talking about ain't what.

Speaker 4 (02:23:03):
I said, this is what I said, That ain't what
I said.

Speaker 11 (02:23:05):
When I heard you.

Speaker 4 (02:23:06):
Fucking word for word what you said.

Speaker 50 (02:23:08):
I'll listen to your whole submission, your whole fucking submission,
what you said. And then this fucking lady up top,
she's just gonna jump in for no fucking reason, trying
to cake for you.

Speaker 4 (02:23:18):
You aren't trying to help ship. You want to try
to help ship if you want to help me, If
you want to help you could stage your ass on you.

Speaker 25 (02:23:28):
How about that it wasn't getting because was already arding.

Speaker 4 (02:23:32):
Fuck as you're talking about you.

Speaker 50 (02:23:34):
I'm not gonna convince nobody on this app wreco randomly
beat up people.

Speaker 4 (02:23:37):
You're not gonna never convince that ship on this app.

Speaker 50 (02:23:40):
Fuck as you're talking about what room you're gonna go
in and sell that wecoll randomly Brilli, I'm fuck as
you're talking about what role you're gonna go win and
tell people that we go randomly beat jump on women.
The fuck is you're gonna say y'all because you're talking
about I don't want to do ship with none of y'all,

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But y'all ain't gonna play with me either.

Speaker 4 (02:24:05):
None of y'all ain't gonna play with me. Mo fuck
out here talking about you a woman.

Speaker 55 (02:24:09):
This is meaningless.

Speaker 29 (02:24:10):
This is not getting nowhere. You calling her dumb as fuck?
She don't like you neither, So let's watch it.

Speaker 4 (02:24:15):
Let's I don't care she don't like me. I don't
care if you don't like me. I don't care if
you don't like me. You're talking about what's nothing. If
y'all ass would have been on me the whole time,
the room would have been back.

Speaker 25 (02:24:29):
Where it was that nobody's getting nowhere.

Speaker 4 (02:24:31):
Fuck is you talking about nobody's getting nowhere?

Speaker 50 (02:24:34):
Come on now, nobody asks for you to mediate ship,
then you stop speaking of.

Speaker 4 (02:24:41):
The fuck is you talking about nobody asks for your help?
I said, you not no referee on me. You not
no referee. You ain't no fucking referee checking on me.

Speaker 25 (02:24:52):
Stop speaking on me.

Speaker 4 (02:24:53):
I say what the fuck I want to say? You
ain't no referee?

Speaker 29 (02:24:57):
Say what the fuck I want to say too, because
you're you don't fuck me fe or finance me, Sonia,
You're not controlling.

Speaker 50 (02:25:02):
And I never fucking wore a million years the last
motherfucker on earth.

Speaker 4 (02:25:06):
I would the whole.

Speaker 50 (02:25:08):
Human species, the whole human species, with doctor guy in here,
what I look like?

Speaker 18 (02:25:16):
What I look like?

Speaker 11 (02:25:17):
And this segment was powered by yay in fact battery.

Speaker 30 (02:25:21):
Wow you now you allowed?

Speaker 6 (02:25:29):
Now you relaxed, Sankay, I don't care.

Speaker 11 (02:25:37):
What's the pa is the woman say that this is
y'all's boy, and y'all still let him go?

Speaker 16 (02:25:43):
Well, oh wow everybody? Oh well, h the fun?

Speaker 6 (02:25:47):
Well, whoever don't.

Speaker 16 (02:25:48):
Like it, then leave this ship. Could have been like,
get the funk out of here, I'm gonna letting both.

Speaker 19 (02:25:55):
This could have been over lucky if you didn't sing
the know reco, nobody's gonna jumped in it.

Speaker 16 (02:26:00):
He would have been talking to us and then they
would have resolved it.

Speaker 19 (02:26:03):
I'm telling you right now I don't forget Rico ship
because I know he's gonna spass on everything walking.

Speaker 16 (02:26:09):
But you wanted to jump in there. You jumped in
and then he jumped on you him and he could
have resolved them.

Speaker 5 (02:26:15):
I know how he is.

Speaker 29 (02:26:17):
But they both misunderstood each other. The conversation wasn't going nowhere.

Speaker 16 (02:26:22):
So why not let them iron it out?

Speaker 9 (02:26:30):
It was.

Speaker 19 (02:26:33):
Okay, so so lucky, so he said when he said,
all you had to do is recant his statement and
and and give it to us again.

Speaker 16 (02:26:42):
That was some a solution right there, if you didn't
pay attention to it.

Speaker 29 (02:26:45):
But yeah, I heard that the recant. She didn't have
to recant. What I'm trying to get them to understand.
They both misunderstood each other. She said what she said,
and he said what he said.

Speaker 16 (02:26:57):
But you're still not get getting.

Speaker 9 (02:27:02):
So that nigga acting like a business.

Speaker 16 (02:27:05):
When she said like a bitch, it was over that
completely agree, But no, you don't.

Speaker 25 (02:27:11):
You don't say he acted like a bitch. No, that
was too far.

Speaker 16 (02:27:13):
And she said she said she came in I came
in here for that.

Speaker 29 (02:27:18):
That's when it was that it went way too mother part.
So when Rico gloves came out, well, called him a bitch.
That's that's how he's gonna take it. I'm trying to
get past the point of them arguing in the first
place because.

Speaker 19 (02:27:32):
They I'm not saying you was wrong at all, Okay,
trying to mediate ship, but at that time, in that moment,
it was not the time for the time and place.

Speaker 16 (02:27:42):
It wasn't the time telling you once you would have
had a conversation. He would have had a conversation with
her back then.

Speaker 25 (02:27:50):
Wasn't back and down.

Speaker 16 (02:27:51):
You never listened to me.

Speaker 10 (02:27:54):
Listen, listen, hold up there before anybody goes pre code,
what the fuck were on the wall? Floor ship, ping
the room out? Share the room out? Who starts the
most drama and relationships most offense?

Speaker 11 (02:28:15):
M hmm what did that?

Speaker 9 (02:28:17):
What could that food to you? Mike?

Speaker 5 (02:28:22):
We got our.

Speaker 15 (02:28:22):
Inso missed advisor.

Speaker 6 (02:28:24):
I think we got it, Mike, I think we got it.

Speaker 10 (02:28:26):
Yeah, go, I think we got hold on one quick reset,
I think we got it right. Let's let's get a
little refreshing here and we can get back to the topic.
Rico appreciate youah.

Speaker 16 (02:28:39):
Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah.

Speaker 22 (02:28:41):
Yeah yeah.

Speaker 5 (02:28:42):
Make sure you get with me please, we'll be doing.

Speaker 15 (02:28:45):
A quick reset.

Speaker 10 (02:28:46):
Right yeah, after this reset, I'm getting back into whatever
y'all want to do.

Speaker 5 (02:28:51):
Okay, yay, Biggie harryet Rosie. Can y'all please pick this
motherfucker up.

Speaker 9 (02:28:59):
We're not.

Speaker 8 (02:29:01):
Worry have a young boy and trying to become something
in the streets. He hustling. Now he takes dress assumption.
Mom's like he touched it. Now he on that tough shit.
It won't result to tousling. But then I started it
at broken home. I'm gonna work in that. He gonna
he left it. Ain't never had sh it, ain't handle
stepping stone and really bad something. I guess he stepping

(02:29:23):
it off. Your looks said, come up.

Speaker 2 (02:29:25):
For my needle?

Speaker 8 (02:29:26):
Wanna argue? Did I spark him?

Speaker 15 (02:29:28):
I'm clee him.

Speaker 8 (02:29:29):
I'm sorry, I've been stopping. I greed it if it's
first all him, I'm a shock.

Speaker 9 (02:29:33):
Who gonna feed me?

Speaker 11 (02:29:34):
I wasn't tosshing on the block.

Speaker 16 (02:29:36):
Would you see this?

Speaker 25 (02:29:37):
I've been lost shit.

Speaker 8 (02:29:38):
I'm like offer for no reason?

Speaker 4 (02:29:41):
See the dollar pot?

Speaker 8 (02:29:42):
You end up in the deep in he said, here
is shocked and how he's slowly thinking finally winning his murder.

Speaker 11 (02:29:48):
He barely sleep in.

Speaker 8 (02:29:49):
He come with the drugs on percoset. He geek in
trying to eat the panty with it and make.

Speaker 5 (02:29:54):
Sure y'all up.

Speaker 6 (02:29:55):
Let's go off the walls.

Speaker 8 (02:29:56):
Let's start story. Have a young boy and trying to
become something in the street. He hustling. Started out with
running around. He take your subfunction, probably in touching that
he don't have touchsh it, It won't result in tussling.
But I started it a broke. I'm working, dad gonna
he left it all. Ain't never had shit, ain't handle
stumbing really bad stuff. I guess he stumble.

Speaker 10 (02:30:21):
So we're going up. We're in gender wars and anybody
can catch a shot. So I just got a text
message yay, talking about I see where we stand. Oh no,
I don't have any relations with you. I only deal

(02:30:42):
with one person. You understand. I'm already taking off the market.
She's in the room. She always comes here. Why the
fuck would you text my phone with some ship like that? Okay,

(02:31:06):
don't text me If I don't deal with you in
that way, What the fuck could be wrong with y'all?
You understand why.

Speaker 16 (02:31:21):
I'm not even listen.

Speaker 10 (02:31:25):
I want to continue this conversation. Okay, because I could
say a whole lot more. Okay, hold on, hold on, Okay,
I know, I know everyone wants to get in and
you're very anty hold on, but that is what's very
uncalled for. We're on a war floor. Anything can happen
in here. Anybody could crash out at any mimute. We
could be having a good conversation, but don't text me

(02:31:48):
acting personal anything, especially if I don't know you in real.

Speaker 15 (02:31:52):
Life and I don't do it with you.

Speaker 10 (02:31:56):
All right, let's get back to this conversation. Yeah, who
starts the most drama in relationships? I think we have
our answer. Let's continue. The floor is open.

Speaker 5 (02:32:07):
Yes, the women did it this, Yes, sure did.

Speaker 9 (02:32:11):
Every time.

Speaker 24 (02:32:12):
And that's why when you started off you live to
yourself talking about men the nigga.

Speaker 16 (02:32:18):
Why are you mad? Why are you mad at me?
I ain't do nothing. I just gave my solutions, sir,
That's all I did.

Speaker 9 (02:32:24):
That submission was a lie.

Speaker 16 (02:32:26):
Well, didn't feeling the pain?

Speaker 24 (02:32:28):
Yeah, because you saw two examples today of that. Go
to the title who starts to more of you just
seen one just a few minutes ago, and and like,
come on, two of them.

Speaker 12 (02:32:43):
But they're not in relationships. But I hear you.

Speaker 16 (02:32:47):
Goddamn relationship.

Speaker 50 (02:32:51):
I hear you.

Speaker 16 (02:32:53):
That's even that's even worse. If you asked me, it
sounds like a relationship to me.

Speaker 13 (02:32:58):
Yeah, that is even worse.

Speaker 52 (02:32:59):
That was why O, my stomach is tight as hell
back I have a head.

Speaker 16 (02:33:14):
Fuck you. I don't need.

Speaker 9 (02:33:20):
Sucking.

Speaker 5 (02:33:20):
Get how about that sucks?

Speaker 19 (02:33:32):
I'm a woman.

Speaker 9 (02:33:34):
God, come up on a nigga talking about nigga.

Speaker 24 (02:33:40):
You don't feed me a fond assady. I had to
do it.

Speaker 11 (02:33:48):
I had to feel like I had I had to.

Speaker 25 (02:33:50):
He was getting all too good.

Speaker 4 (02:33:54):
Guess I.

Speaker 16 (02:34:01):
Welcome to the gender wars man who starts the drama
in the relationships most fitting most often. That's the that's
the keyword right there.

Speaker 13 (02:34:14):
It's like the last word.

Speaker 44 (02:34:16):
But you know the prime example, that was a prime
example of like even just take it an outside example, right,
Women just got to stay out the way sometimes and
sometimes us being in a way can.

Speaker 37 (02:34:26):
Cause controversy and then the whole building on fire. Okay,
so ladies, we just keep showing our hands. We gotta
gotta sit down from.

Speaker 10 (02:34:37):
Time jazz Wow, wow, wow, big eie, how you feeling,
my brother?

Speaker 22 (02:34:43):
This is that?

Speaker 15 (02:34:44):
That was the crazy one.

Speaker 40 (02:34:45):
On the gender war floor in the middle example of
the lack of person accountability.

Speaker 15 (02:34:49):
That's what we're talking about.

Speaker 16 (02:34:50):
It.

Speaker 5 (02:34:51):
What I'm saying is, you.

Speaker 40 (02:34:52):
Know, whatever side whatever, that was two motherfuckers talking ship
and then and and and the thing is is this right, Hell,
don't throw a rock if you're not prepared.

Speaker 5 (02:35:02):
To get hit. Hold up, hold up, biggie, but.

Speaker 6 (02:35:08):
Beached the road on that.

Speaker 40 (02:35:09):
Ship, because if you because whatever whatever was going on,
I'm not gonna even talk. I'll talk just about this
particular part. Once you call a man a bit to
say or say anybody, I'm not gonna say just the man.

Speaker 5 (02:35:24):
If you if that's where you're going with it, Hey.

Speaker 40 (02:35:27):
Man, you're in a fight now and now and then
you know, hey, you know men cussing that women and
women cussing that.

Speaker 36 (02:35:36):
Man.

Speaker 5 (02:35:36):
Hey man, you was talking ship.

Speaker 40 (02:35:38):
Oh but you can't take the ship you was talking
and so and and where the where the ship always
goes a ride is where other motherfuckers want to jump
in and take sides. Ho fuckers, Everybody shut the fuck up.
Let them folks work it out. Because I was two
motherfuckers talking ship. And check this out, and especially on
clubhouse right in the in the environment like this. It

(02:36:01):
ain't no such thing as a safe space because if
you don't like the shit a motherfucker's talking to you,
leave quietly, get the fuck out the room, turn your
phone off.

Speaker 21 (02:36:10):
So ain't nobody have to save anybody? Let them two
mother letting. Let those two folks. Don't take don't take sides,
stay the fuck out of it.

Speaker 40 (02:36:20):
Those are two those two people talking shit to one another,
whether it was a disagreement, whatever the fuck it was,
anybody want to jump in and beat the mediator and
captain save him, man, hey man, because all it took
is if somebody shut the fuck up, but all of
a sudden you're cursing, got with it matter if the
woman talking shit, man cuss our motherfucking ass out, if

(02:36:43):
the brother talking shit cuss his motherfucking ass out. The
motherfuckers try to play the gender card when they want
to throw rocks and eye their head and fuck all
that weak ass shit.

Speaker 5 (02:36:54):
And that's out.

Speaker 21 (02:36:54):
And I don't advocate violence, you know what I'm saying.
The motherfucker's doing this and shit, but that's what goes
on sometimes in some cases right out there in real life.
Hell sinster and I'm not advocating this, and I'm not
I'm not saying that I condone this kind.

Speaker 5 (02:37:11):
Of shit, right, but check this out.

Speaker 21 (02:37:14):
If you put your hands on the dude, you spit
in the dude's face, you probably gonna get your ass whooped.
I don't condone it, I don't advocate it, but that's reality,
because that's some motherfucker's out here that will stump your
motherfucking ass out and won't give a fuck if you're
a woman or not. And if you happen to be

(02:37:37):
and you happen to be dealing with a motherfucker like that,
you won't get your ass stumped out.

Speaker 5 (02:37:41):
And here's some more mythology.

Speaker 21 (02:37:43):
Got a motherfucker gotta beat your ass that'll stump out
a woman ain't gonna motherfucker knuckles up with a man.

Speaker 5 (02:37:49):
That shit ain't true. I got it, I got a cousin,
I had it. WHI the uncle. Rather he's passed right?

Speaker 21 (02:37:57):
Hell man, Hell, he was crazy a fuck He beat
women up and beat me in a window where everybody
was scared of this motherfucker. So then that whole thing,
Oh he ain't gon good man, That ain't true. If
you're dealing with a crazy motherfucker. And I'm not saying
that's what went on in this room. I'm just furthering
the point. Hell, man, if you not prepared to deal

(02:38:19):
what comes behind you talking shit or doing whatever you're doing, hey, miss,
shut the fuck up and leave.

Speaker 11 (02:38:27):
Okay.

Speaker 54 (02:38:28):
So, for the record, I wasn't talking shit to anyone
until he started cursing at me because he misunderstood my point.
And when he cursed at me the first time, I said,
don't curse at me, I asked him why he was
cursing at me, and then I proceeded to say, you
are acting like a bitch cursing at women. Because we're
having a conversation. There was no need for him to
get as irate as he did cursing at me over

(02:38:50):
a point that he misunderstood that I said. So, if
y'all want to try to make it seem like the
man wasn't cursing and getting elevated, because that's y'all homie,
so be it. But I know what transpired. I don't
I don't just go disrespecting people and calling men out
their name for no reason. The man cursed at me

(02:39:11):
a good few times before I even started to respond
to that. See, y'all want to sit there and try
to make it seem like my response wasn't warranted. Y'all
don't get to tell me how to respond to disrespect.

Speaker 22 (02:39:23):
Well, girl, you know, we have black women, We have
the we have the responsibility to de escalate, you know,
in the conversation, regardless of who started would it's always
for some reason our responsibility.

Speaker 7 (02:39:37):
So do the de escalation.

Speaker 5 (02:39:39):
Yeah, nobody said that said that.

Speaker 40 (02:39:43):
I said it was two motherfuckers talking shit. You get
what I'm saying that now have anything to do with gender?
You know what I'm saying that has something to do
with two motherfuckers talking shit to one another.

Speaker 21 (02:39:54):
Y'all are making it about gender. It's about two people
talking shit.

Speaker 40 (02:39:58):
And if you don't want to engage, Man, if somebody's
talking shit and I say, man, this motherfucker is our
rate in this motherfucker, and I don't want to engage
in the back and forth, I'm just gonna leave. But
once I engage, hell, it becomes the back and forth.

Speaker 5 (02:40:13):
Okay.

Speaker 40 (02:40:13):
Now, And I didn't say anybody was wrong. I didn't
say I didn't use right or wrong. If you talking shit,
you gonna get shit. Talk to you either way, and
if you engage anything, it's two motherfuckers talking shit. It's
not a man talking shit to a woman or a
woman talking shit to a man. It's two people talking
shit to one another.

Speaker 13 (02:40:35):
They try to use the feminine ways on him.

Speaker 22 (02:40:38):
He was trying to hear it.

Speaker 24 (02:40:39):
Yeah, y'all kept trying to gas like that. And my
thing is, we gotta we gotta disrespect is disrespect. It
don't matter who you are. And outside of this, because
it's a woman, we supposed to all come off of
mics and be super no like y'all was going back
and forth. But that man who did not call you
out your name, you didn't call you no bitch. Y'all
was yelling at each other and then you felt he

(02:41:00):
was acting a certain way.

Speaker 9 (02:41:02):
You acting like a bitch. That's that's wrong. So no
nobody gonna come off. They might be like, no, don't
talk to her like that because you should have never
called bitch.

Speaker 11 (02:41:12):
I said he was acting like one. I didn't call
him one and stack. Why would you give number? This
is crazy. It just got blown up. I don't I
don't know, but y'all got it.

Speaker 25 (02:41:23):
Baby, that's the same thing. As calling a man a bitch.
You said he act like most mean if.

Speaker 54 (02:41:29):
Okay, okay, I get that, But so cursing out a
woman because you don't agree with her point or you
feel a way about her point is is justified as
what you're saying.

Speaker 31 (02:41:41):
No, I mean, before that, the whole argument was about
the fact that they questioned his character and called.

Speaker 9 (02:41:46):
Him a liar.

Speaker 11 (02:41:47):
So that was like, I didn't call him a liar.

Speaker 16 (02:41:49):
I didn't.

Speaker 11 (02:41:50):
I just didn't say that.

Speaker 31 (02:41:51):
I'm saying y'all were saying he wasn't like that. He
didn't know what he was talking about.

Speaker 16 (02:41:55):
Like it started before that.

Speaker 54 (02:41:58):
Oh, okay, Well, when I came in and I just
was trying to make sure he didn't misunderstand my point,
because I don't know what happened before I got here,
but he was real elevated talking to my point and
misunderstanding my point. So I was correcting him when he
was talking about my point, and then he tried to
come at me. So I don't know what transpired before
I got in this room, but I just thought the
energy he was bringing towards me was unnecessary. You know,

(02:42:20):
the cursing he was doing towards me was unnecessary. That's
why I said, Okay, whoa, you're cursing at me.

Speaker 11 (02:42:24):
I don't get this. Didn't know what transpired before I
got here.

Speaker 9 (02:42:29):
The cursing that you trying to when he was cursing,
he was you're not even.

Speaker 11 (02:42:33):
To sound individual.

Speaker 30 (02:42:35):
So no, y'all, I.

Speaker 24 (02:42:37):
Don't fucking twist my words. I'm not gonna fucking do that.
That's what he was saying. He didn't call you about
your name though. You trying to compare him saying sentences
with curses in it versus you calling him all his name.

Speaker 9 (02:42:48):
You keep saying he was cursing at you.

Speaker 54 (02:42:50):
You don't get to tell me how to respond to
someone cursing at me. He was cursing at me. What
are you talking about, y'all? Gotta yeah, y'all, everyone has
to stop with the disrespect. Disrespect to get to disrespect.
You don't get to tell someone how to respond to disrespect.

(02:43:11):
If you're cursing at me and I ask you not
to curse at me because we're trying to have a
level sech conversation, you don't get to then turn around
and tell me how to respond to you cursing at me.
After I repeated myself and I asked you not to
curse at me. I don't care what y'all talking about.

Speaker 24 (02:43:29):
So if I say, don't fucking twist my words and
you respond say, Prince, you acting like a bitch, those
are the same thing.

Speaker 9 (02:43:35):
That's the same to you, Like, come on, b y'all
gotta stop with that, like, bro.

Speaker 38 (02:43:57):
Prince, So as long as she don't curse at you,
because she just says it was unstable.

Speaker 24 (02:44:04):
Y'all, y'all think every this this because this is where
the title what it is, because like everything is a joke.

Speaker 9 (02:44:10):
And then when the nigga, I want every man to play.

Speaker 24 (02:44:16):
A phrase superhero and ship like I just ain't with
that victim ship Like it's like he said, you throw that,
people will throw that rock. You gotta take a rock
getting thrown back.

Speaker 25 (02:44:27):
Clubhouse.

Speaker 29 (02:44:27):
Everybody atagonized and provoke everybody. Everybody, everybody do a little
gas flight around as mother.

Speaker 37 (02:44:33):
We do it all the time. This clubhouse is okay.

Speaker 25 (02:44:36):
Everybody do it. At one point on we all be
doing it.

Speaker 1 (02:44:41):
We all do it.

Speaker 9 (02:44:43):
We have, we started it.

Speaker 19 (02:44:47):
We are we are on the ward lord, we're on
the war floor right and and it shouldn't be taken
off of the war floor into any other room.

Speaker 16 (02:44:58):
If you want to do that, that's on you. But
we're on a wall floor.

Speaker 19 (02:45:01):
Okay, If that's all it is, nobody should be getting
really angry at each other because it isn't that.

Speaker 16 (02:45:05):
It's not that serious. I don't feel those that serious,
you know what I mean?

Speaker 19 (02:45:09):
People come in here too, bang, So if you come
here to fight, then expect the fight to happen.

Speaker 16 (02:45:15):
I ain't saying who the fuck is wrong?

Speaker 9 (02:45:17):
It happened.

Speaker 16 (02:45:18):
One person felt disrespectful because someone used curse bergs.

Speaker 19 (02:45:21):
The other one felt dispected because it was called the
bitch indirectly. That's what happens on the wallfloor. So can
we just keep it on the wall floor and don't
have a grudges against each other. I'm kind of confused
right now. You've been on this bitch for like five years,
al Ricky.

Speaker 5 (02:45:35):
But that's what it is.

Speaker 40 (02:45:36):
Everybody on this stage that I'm just doing a glance,
including myself, is the talk shit everybody in.

Speaker 5 (02:45:44):
Some people talk shit.

Speaker 40 (02:45:46):
Somebody to talk shit loud, like you know loud mine.
Some people are soft toned and extremely condescending. That's talking
shit too. You know what I'm saying some people. You know,
people prefer to talk something just because you gotta.

Speaker 4 (02:46:04):
We ain't talking ship, and I don't talk that often,
but I damn.

Speaker 18 (02:46:07):
Sure talk ship.

Speaker 11 (02:46:08):
So I definitely talk ship.

Speaker 48 (02:46:14):
And to me, it doesn't matter if you're cussing when
you talk ship, or if you're not cussing when you
talking ship, You're still talking ship.

Speaker 4 (02:46:20):
You feel me.

Speaker 16 (02:46:22):
You can't God, you can't tell somebody you are you
are in the matrid. Y'all talk ship. I teach the mass,
kiss my nigga as be what talking doctor B I'm

(02:46:42):
talking about the chat chat? Why are you getting at me?

Speaker 11 (02:46:45):
I don't know.

Speaker 16 (02:46:46):
I'm not gonna talk to you like that's wrong to women.

Speaker 40 (02:46:50):
I'll tell you somebody who doesn't curse a lot, but
be talking more ship than the law.

Speaker 5 (02:46:54):
Loud niggay chat chat talk.

Speaker 9 (02:46:57):
I really are a chat curse the.

Speaker 57 (02:47:00):
Lot, but tell man, get up, come to Dallas to
get on you what they on the stage and ship
in my room.

Speaker 23 (02:47:15):
Out the room man toussed me out and then sent
me a meme on dog on I g I say, well, this,
we're here.

Speaker 27 (02:47:25):
Of that stuff.

Speaker 16 (02:47:26):
You know how.

Speaker 23 (02:47:29):
We're a white king.

Speaker 29 (02:47:32):
Maybe you have to get cussed out by somebody so
good without a cussed word, gets baby.

Speaker 30 (02:47:41):
Word, get me.

Speaker 23 (02:47:45):
My lucky baby.

Speaker 18 (02:47:46):
Hey, the way to get the way to get chat
to stop talking. Ship. You gotta tell the ship in
the matrix.

Speaker 23 (02:47:52):
No, only you got that power.

Speaker 3 (02:47:55):
That's only you.

Speaker 23 (02:47:56):
Only you have that power right knowing else.

Speaker 16 (02:47:59):
Thanks Thanks Ron, Thanks.

Speaker 9 (02:48:08):
Argue with you.

Speaker 15 (02:48:11):
I don't really like other men having power with my woman.

Speaker 4 (02:48:15):
I hate this white we're about to have an over,
We're about the heaving.

Speaker 16 (02:48:22):
Crashed out with mm hmmm. I hate this white nigga,
translucent nigga.

Speaker 55 (02:48:30):
White king.

Speaker 47 (02:48:32):
Y'all have a.

Speaker 15 (02:48:34):
You know the stereotype.

Speaker 16 (02:48:37):
Oh wow, that's crazy hair, Agan man, bro y'all look crazy.

Speaker 23 (02:48:44):
Broad.

Speaker 25 (02:48:47):
It's my fault.

Speaker 16 (02:48:48):
It's definitely lucky fault.

Speaker 6 (02:48:51):
Definitely it's a lucky fault.

Speaker 16 (02:49:00):
It was.

Speaker 25 (02:49:03):
Chad.

Speaker 29 (02:49:03):
I'm gonna tell I'm gonna tell you why it's my fault.
I seen two very strong personalities that don't play about
what they say. Okay, And they started going back and forth,
and I was listening, Babe, I'm not I don't, I
don't care for nobody. I'm twistling around this bitch. So
watch now, Okay, So I because then I was listening. No,
you didn't listen, So stop animal before I get on

(02:49:26):
that with you. I seen two people and their commissions
before I listened to both of their subc that's what
that's the gaslight ship.

Speaker 11 (02:49:33):
See see see.

Speaker 25 (02:49:35):
So I listened to both of.

Speaker 29 (02:49:36):
Them give their submissions, and before I even said anything,
I was in the room just listening. So I heard
Tea and you know, we know T from the house
and hustle and turned around. I heard Rico and then
T comes back. She's trying to clarify, and I seen
that what they were going back and forth about was
it was a slight misunderstanding between the two. I was

(02:49:58):
just trying to clarify for both. I was trying to
clarify for Rico and I was trying to clarify for
Tea because they both slightly misunderstood certain things in each
other's submission.

Speaker 25 (02:50:08):
And it just went all off the rails. And you
know how you ship talking. I didn't think it was
that sis.

Speaker 16 (02:50:14):
Yeah, you just wanted to get your You just wanted
to get your black ass.

Speaker 25 (02:50:19):
I don't like arguing.

Speaker 29 (02:50:21):
I don't like arguing it so with me when I
know TA personally, I was on. I was on the
stages with Tea a whole lot longer than I was
with Rico. But baby, let me tell you something. T
she will get there, and I know how Rico is
when he get there. I've shared many stages when I
didn't want it to get as far as it did.

(02:50:41):
But when she said he was acting like a bitch,
which is the same thing, it's called him a bit
baby I respectively, I can't do nothing about that because.

Speaker 25 (02:50:48):
You let it come out of your mouth. But they staying,
they staying, I should have just.

Speaker 10 (02:50:57):
What is going on.

Speaker 25 (02:50:58):
I wasn't.

Speaker 16 (02:50:59):
I wasn't asking no, not not you, you're not talking
about you.

Speaker 25 (02:51:02):
But no, no, no, if she if she throw a rock,
I'm a find believer.

Speaker 29 (02:51:08):
If you lack a man, and he knocked the estrogen
out your body, baby, you gotta take that on the chin.
So with that being said Rico, he did say, yeah,
I should just say it out of it. I say, you,
you're probably right, but I'm just trying to be I'm
just trying to help. Admitted that yeah, he probably wouldn't
have went this far, but you know, I do make
really good educated predictions. Baby, he wasn't going and it

(02:51:30):
would have got there in you any fucking way, because
she wasn't gonna let him keep misunderstanding what she said
and he wasn't gonna keep.

Speaker 25 (02:51:36):
Letting her do what she was doing. So it was
gonna go on thrill anyway.

Speaker 13 (02:51:41):
But that's okay.

Speaker 25 (02:51:45):
Next time, just gonna sit.

Speaker 37 (02:51:46):
I got a pretty I got a pretty counc you ever.

Speaker 44 (02:51:52):
Just's always nice when you just sit back and watch
the show.

Speaker 25 (02:52:00):
I never want to be in the show, but it's fun.

Speaker 40 (02:52:03):
I know.

Speaker 25 (02:52:03):
I'm not arguing with you.

Speaker 27 (02:52:04):
I get what you're saying.

Speaker 25 (02:52:05):
I give them being a part of the content.

Speaker 16 (02:52:08):
Yeah, no, say that ship again. You started? Yeah, then
again you ship starting to fuck Let me hear it again.

Speaker 25 (02:52:18):
I started, Yeah, I started.

Speaker 16 (02:52:24):
Chat you just telling us she had to do this.
Be listen.

Speaker 19 (02:52:29):
You have never been outside and two men are arguing
and then a woman coming, and then they end up fighting.

Speaker 16 (02:52:36):
An argument and then they walk away from each other.
That's called instigating the fight, right, Another girl from another
another girl another girl.

Speaker 19 (02:52:47):
If they're around and the girl jumps in, they're gonna
stay bitch with you, mind your business, and they're gonna
end up fighting.

Speaker 16 (02:52:52):
All you gotta do is let them spread off.

Speaker 25 (02:52:54):
That's it.

Speaker 16 (02:52:55):
So, yes, you wanted to jump in in fueled it and.

Speaker 23 (02:52:58):
This for all think are more self aware men or women?

Speaker 16 (02:53:05):
I don't know when we see when we see red,
I can't say that when we self aware?

Speaker 9 (02:53:10):
What see everything? We're aware.

Speaker 16 (02:53:13):
When we get angry, Well, when I get angry red,
I don't what's going on.

Speaker 52 (02:53:18):
I'm going and not gonna lie.

Speaker 16 (02:53:21):
That's I'm not gonna lie about awareness.

Speaker 43 (02:53:24):
That's not what I'm asking.

Speaker 9 (02:53:27):
What do you mean.

Speaker 5 (02:53:28):
Typically when you say self aware?

Speaker 23 (02:53:31):
So like some people aren't aware of people's experience with them, right,
Like anytime something happens then it's like it's never their fault.
I've been there, right, had to do some growing, had
to have an honest so and I'm like, yeah, I start,

(02:53:53):
I start stuff and I like that about me. It's
Leo season, so it's about to get you know, multiply.
But I'm just saying, you know, who do y'all are
asking you all what do you think? Do you think
men are more self aware or do you think that.

Speaker 40 (02:54:07):
Woo, don't think that's a gender thing. I think people
who are self aware. You know, that's a you know,
because I you know, I know. I know brothers and
sisters who aren't self aware. Who is never their fault.
They don't know how they contribute to the bullshit. You know,
I don't, you know, I think I think that uh
you know, when it comes to self awareness, I don't
think that's a gender thing. Now, when it comes to

(02:54:29):
situational awareness, I think men are more situationally aware than women. Yeah,
I mean, I just you know, kind of show showed
the self red that's ugly head in his room, right, yeah, men, no, no, good,
goddamn well, like when a when a fight is imminent.

Speaker 5 (02:54:48):
Most men right and like and like no theay, hey man,
let me stay out that ship.

Speaker 40 (02:54:53):
Man, I'm not gonna get involved, because if I get involved,
I'm liable to catch a straight one. And if I
catch a straight wind, I'm gonna be and stuff and
I'm gonna start chunking.

Speaker 5 (02:55:01):
Them too, you know. You know, but you know men
aren't aware. That's because many men. I'm not saying women don't,
but I think, and more than more so than women.
We grow up fighting.

Speaker 40 (02:55:16):
A lot, so you know how to avoid fights and
what's gonna do, how you can avoid a fight, and
how you can get into a fight men men. I
will say men overall are more aware of that kind
of shit than women.

Speaker 24 (02:55:33):
I feel like they got people that self aware, like,
but that don't mean they have remorse neither. You know, people,
A person could be self aware of what they're doing,
that don't mean they give a fuck about what they're doing,
like I could, Like I think people have I don't
give a fuck moments like they they areware what they're
doing is wrong, but they don't have no remorse in
that moment for what they're doing. It's like they don't

(02:55:55):
there's no kid behind it.

Speaker 27 (02:55:58):
So then do they deserve what happens to them?

Speaker 9 (02:56:02):
You say, deserve what happens?

Speaker 27 (02:56:04):
Yeah, I'm curious to know.

Speaker 47 (02:56:06):
So, like if you are when you get into that,
I don't give a fuck space and then I don't
give a fuck things happen to you and they invariably
do do you deserve it?

Speaker 9 (02:56:18):
What do you think you gotta take? What come with it?

Speaker 24 (02:56:20):
It's like me and you could be having an argument
right now and we could be saying a bunch of
disrespectful things to each other. Now I'm a weird in
that moment that I'm disrespecting you. The question is do
I do I have remorse for it?

Speaker 16 (02:56:33):
Do I kire?

Speaker 5 (02:56:34):
Like?

Speaker 24 (02:56:34):
Do I feel bad about it? The awareness is did
I know what I'm doing is wrong? It's now do
I kid that what I'm doing is wrong? I think
people are aware, but in the moment they don't. They're
not looking at it like, Okay, I have remorse right now?
Like and and to your to your question, yeah, you
gotta take what come with it, Like if you don't
give a fuck, they not gonna give a fuck. But

(02:56:58):
I don't have some self away in moments were I
knew what I was doing, I was fully aware of
what I was doing. I just didn't I didn't have
no remorse for what I was doing in that moment.

Speaker 55 (02:57:09):
Yeah, we didn't have.

Speaker 7 (02:57:12):
Society for sure.

Speaker 16 (02:57:15):
Andrew, why did you ask that question? What were you
leading to?

Speaker 27 (02:57:19):
Just something I was thinking about. But I'm not gonna
I'm not gonna.

Speaker 16 (02:57:24):
Go into it. Yeah, why not going to it? Because
I know he was leaning somewhere like that was kind
of like fragmented. It's good, I'm just going to shut up, right, don't.

Speaker 40 (02:57:40):
She damn sure wasn't scared to jump in instigating other situations.

Speaker 27 (02:57:44):
But I wasn't I wasn't. I did it, but I don't,
you know, I don't like it when people gang up
on folks.

Speaker 16 (02:57:55):
So like, yeah, but they so who sat was you
when you were jumping jumping?

Speaker 27 (02:58:00):
Really, I'm definitely on t side.

Speaker 23 (02:58:03):
Definitely you don't like people up on folks, so you're
gonna jump in and gang up on the other person?

Speaker 25 (02:58:09):
Was one of the.

Speaker 16 (02:58:16):
He was neutral for a little bit, was a little.

Speaker 47 (02:58:18):
Bit okay, So that kind of that kind of goes
into my point, like Rico was being a super mega dick,
right and wait, so when you act like that and
and to the original point that I was gonna make,
like if you get like eating alive, then you just
kind of fucking had it coming.

Speaker 16 (02:58:39):
But like I knew he was leaning.

Speaker 5 (02:58:44):
I fucking know.

Speaker 16 (02:58:45):
She just don't like my thing. Isco hold on, Prince Rico.

Speaker 9 (02:58:51):
She did wrong?

Speaker 24 (02:58:51):
How is that binging up one? She called the man
a bitch and we called it out. That's ginging up one.

Speaker 27 (02:58:56):
She didn't call him a bitch. The problem was she
did didn't.

Speaker 5 (02:59:00):
She didn't.

Speaker 11 (02:59:01):
She did not sell acting like calling I think the
thing that that that.

Speaker 23 (02:59:07):
Annoys Yeah, we got to stop with that.

Speaker 9 (02:59:09):
The thing that.

Speaker 47 (02:59:15):
It's not interpret it the same way. I think that
men interpret it the same way, and I do think
that that is a failure.

Speaker 23 (02:59:23):
I interpreted that.

Speaker 27 (02:59:26):
What are you doing?

Speaker 16 (02:59:27):
Listen? Girl said to me, yeah, you acting like I said.
I said, oh yeah, that's crazy. So you said, acting
like a sim So how would you feel if I
say you acting like a bitch? And she went off
so that I told me the fact, bro right, bro right,
And that told me that you.

Speaker 23 (02:59:46):
No, no, no, no, you know what.

Speaker 5 (02:59:48):
You know what I'm over crazy.

Speaker 9 (02:59:51):
Let me say this.

Speaker 15 (02:59:52):
It is different.

Speaker 16 (02:59:53):
There is I want to say.

Speaker 18 (02:59:54):
I want to say this right.

Speaker 58 (02:59:57):
This is all about interpretation because even with me, I
don't see them as being the same, but I understand
that people do see them the same.

Speaker 18 (03:00:03):
That's why I'm I do my best. You talk about
let me finish.

Speaker 23 (03:00:09):
Let me get it out, let me get it out,
but the hypocrisy, let.

Speaker 16 (03:00:16):
Me get it out.

Speaker 58 (03:00:16):
I said to me, I don't see them as the same,
but I understand that people see them as the same.
That's why I'm very careful with my word choice because
I understand that right calling someone saying someone's acting like
something is pretty much saying it that that's what they are.

Speaker 18 (03:00:32):
But it's not flat out saying it, but it's it's
in insinuation.

Speaker 5 (03:00:37):
How about that.

Speaker 16 (03:00:43):
We can't can't you go with the bullshit.

Speaker 4 (03:00:47):
Run because.

Speaker 30 (03:00:52):
Only I want.

Speaker 58 (03:00:54):
Mend only island. So so let me say this is
right cut up. So what I'm getting at is, when
I came in, I heard that. I'm not taking sides.
I just want your to understand this. When I came in,
I heard Rico going off, and I was and I
heard tea Cotter is kind of on, like the read on,

(03:01:14):
like the response aspect. But that doesn't mean that just
because I heard him going off means he started it.
Let's make that very clear. I just know that Tea
god Is is sensitive. So I was going to jump
in and talk to Rico. If he would have gave
me the smoke on that one, I would have fell
onto the grenade because I'm looking at it as a
man dealing with the man. I don't Rico was cool

(03:01:34):
with me. I don't have no issue with him. It
was me trying to be like, hey, yo, Rico, let
me let me just roch know, let me talk to
you bro, what's going on? So that even if he
talked to me in a harsh tone with harsh words.
I would have been able to sit there and absorb
that for the sake of trying to de escalate it.

Speaker 18 (03:01:49):
When I heard.

Speaker 58 (03:01:51):
Let me finish, let me finish, I didn't say him
calling me the N word. I just said him using
harsh words and a harsh tone because I'm a man,
and as a man, that's not a problem for me.

Speaker 18 (03:02:01):
That's not a problem at all. But when I think
it was Stack and Yale, whoever.

Speaker 58 (03:02:05):
Said it was like yo, Ron, get out, get out,
get out. I backed off quickly. I said, you know what,
let me back off quickly, and then them two started
going at it.

Speaker 16 (03:02:13):
At some point I did.

Speaker 11 (03:02:19):
And now at that point that was God.

Speaker 27 (03:02:22):
That was God.

Speaker 18 (03:02:27):
Where Where's Where's your God?

Speaker 16 (03:02:31):
Now?

Speaker 9 (03:02:32):
Where's your God?

Speaker 58 (03:02:36):
So I think this is that, you know, just as
a man, I would have fellow on the great renade
for that, just to try to de escalate it. But
I think it was Stack and Yeah, that was like no, no, no,
stay out of it. So I backed off quickly and
then just let them to go at it and have
this situation. Here's how I would assessed this whole thing.
Whoever felt disrespected first and or disrespected first is where

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the disrespect first came into play.

Speaker 18 (03:03:03):
And to me, it did not sound like that the disrespect.

Speaker 58 (03:03:06):
Started with calling someone to be or see you ain't
that there was. To me, it sounded like the disrespect
started way before.

Speaker 26 (03:03:12):
That and it escalated to a newer level of quote
unquote disrespect.

Speaker 58 (03:03:17):
So if y'all was in here didn't know how this
thing started in the beginning, whoever was disrespected first, that's
where it started at.

Speaker 18 (03:03:25):
Not with somebody being.

Speaker 23 (03:03:28):
Okay one second, one second, okay, who am I throwing it?

Speaker 16 (03:03:33):
Two?

Speaker 15 (03:03:35):
Me?

Speaker 16 (03:03:35):
Yeah?

Speaker 23 (03:03:36):
Oh okay, yeah, ron listen, somebody to say nig and
you's passing out, let's not do that, and someone to
have the most genuine you know, exchange or share and
the moment they say me then you then you're going
in okay. And they may not have meant it like that,

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that's just how that's their vernacular. But you take offense
to that. So like the thing, the thing that I
don't quite understand, but it happens a lot. And Big
E said it like there are certain people like, for instance, me,
I don't have a soft voice, shocker, right, but I
have some friends, you know what I'm saying I didn't

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know if y'all knew that, I just I just felt
I need to tell.

Speaker 16 (03:04:28):
Y'all that you do.

Speaker 36 (03:04:31):
Oh, thank you, thank you, But you know I don't.

Speaker 23 (03:04:36):
But but y'all, I'm like an eminem. Okay, it's a
it's a hard exterior. But I'm mushy and I'm very sensitive,
right some things, like you know, I take personal something,
all the good stuff, right, But more people are prone
to protect others because they are perceived as quote unquote

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weaker or softer.

Speaker 9 (03:05:01):
Or all of that.

Speaker 23 (03:05:03):
And just because someone may appear stronger and does not
necessarily mean that they also don't want protection or would
like to be protected. Now, how I counter that is
not to start shit, and that does not mean I don't.
But if I know that about myself and I know
I could be triggered, then I had to look at
how I interact with people. But a lot of times,

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and the reason why I ask the question and I'm
done after this. The reason why I ask a question
because I feel like women have the luxury sometimes to
not have to self evaluate because everyone appeases them, appeases us,
you know what I'm saying, Especially when you're cute you know,
a lot of people let you get away with it,
but understand, there will be a day or two or

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three where someone doesn't give a crap about what you
look like and you're about to get it. And sometimes
that happens. But at what point do you look at
yourself and say, Okay, maybe this went left because of
what I did. Because there's a lot of hypocrisy and
I don't know if if you know, we understand that
all the time, but I say thank you.

Speaker 18 (03:06:07):
I just want to correct you on one thing. Is
if somebody just one thing that.

Speaker 16 (03:06:19):
Was wrong.

Speaker 18 (03:06:19):
Oh yeah, I just wanted addrest one thing real quick.

Speaker 15 (03:06:22):
Somebody continue.

Speaker 9 (03:06:28):
And matrix again.

Speaker 25 (03:06:30):
Yeah you want to say something here and.

Speaker 16 (03:06:32):
The matrix bad. You gotta respect people reality.

Speaker 19 (03:06:38):
If my reality is that you disrespected me, yeah you're
you're yeah, bro, we understand fight back, fight back.

Speaker 16 (03:06:49):
Your reality is your reality. My reality is my reality.

Speaker 19 (03:06:51):
If we're cool, then I got you have I have
the right, No, you have the right to come at
me at a certain way because that's the way you.

Speaker 16 (03:07:00):
That you mean, I made you for a certain type
of way.

Speaker 19 (03:07:02):
Me and my bro status we talk all the time
on the phone, like literally, and I said some ship
to him and he went the funk off crazy right
some to the thought, Okay, why do you start acting
like a pussy that niggas started going off?

Speaker 16 (03:07:18):
I don't think, I don't think am I am I wrong?

Speaker 15 (03:07:22):
Bro? Yeah right?

Speaker 9 (03:07:24):
I remember that.

Speaker 16 (03:07:26):
And I didn't call him.

Speaker 19 (03:07:27):
I an said, man, I know stack pussy, Okay, I know.
I know he's pushed period, you feel me. But the
fact of the matter in his reality, did it turn
you on?

Speaker 10 (03:07:39):
No, the fact that he took the certain type of way,
because my Brody, I had to say, you know what,
bro that was my fault.

Speaker 19 (03:07:47):
It was at the heat of the moment, it was
between me, him and another individual, and he jumped in
to save the individual.

Speaker 16 (03:07:53):
The same thing.

Speaker 8 (03:07:54):
Ya yay.

Speaker 5 (03:07:55):
What I try to do, I try to save niggas.

Speaker 16 (03:07:57):
He trying to trying to I mediate the situation. And
that's just still kicked me.

Speaker 19 (03:08:02):
But but the fact of the matter is, I said,
while she started acting, because I know he about to
go off, I promise you I know.

Speaker 16 (03:08:11):
About about to go off.

Speaker 19 (03:08:12):
If you go he ain't about to hear about to
say and boom. All I did is said that boom,
And he just went to a talking have you matter
you feel me. But at the same time, when he
when she said to.

Speaker 10 (03:08:24):
Him, acting like that was that ship right there was
nuts When I knew it was going down after that, bro,
I knew it was about to happen.

Speaker 4 (03:08:35):
I got the way.

Speaker 25 (03:08:38):
He went off on her.

Speaker 16 (03:08:39):
I couldn't.

Speaker 4 (03:08:39):
I just got the.

Speaker 16 (03:08:42):
But Rico had a right to challenge hers some Michigan
How could somebody because we had a right hold on,
hold on, hold on, like, let me get it out.

Speaker 4 (03:08:53):
I'll be finished.

Speaker 19 (03:08:54):
I just let your ass talk this chill hold on
for a second. I'm gonna be quiet, because I'm quiet
most of the time. Right when you give a submission
on a floor where we debate, have heated debates, that
in a gender war floor where it says gender war,
gender war.

Speaker 16 (03:09:11):
And you think that I can't catch you in a lot,
it's my time to sign you fucked up. It's my
time not take this ass whopping real quick.

Speaker 19 (03:09:20):
But Rico gave it a little, you know, a little
wiggle room and said all you had to say, you
all you had to do is be can't just statement
like that, And you could have said everything that you
wanted to stay all over again. But you had to
agitate it on its side. Don't act like I was agitated.
Y'all wasn't fucking agitating. I heard y'all talking shit. I
heard y'all going crazy. We do got the replace. Don't
stay nothing stupid that you're gonna beat the next motherfucker.
We make content anyway. And so once y'all got into it,

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then Rico started tripping. But if they were, those two
would have ironed out themselves and wentn't with this part.
I can promise you that.

Speaker 16 (03:09:51):
So just get out the way, watch what you say, listen,
and then you gotta remember this part.

Speaker 5 (03:09:57):
I don't.

Speaker 16 (03:09:58):
This was the highlight of the whole art. She said,
I came here.

Speaker 19 (03:10:02):
For this, that's what she's I came here for this,
and she started going in. So now it was talking
for you all to move out the way or join
and get your wyso too.

Speaker 16 (03:10:14):
He was spinking, And that's what I was saying about men.

Speaker 40 (03:10:20):
You know, most men and many men being more situationally
aware than women. Right, because I know this, I know
good and well, say me and uh yay for instance,
right in uh the same physical space. Right, we were
arguing loud as a motherfucker, talking shit, motherfucker. This motherfucker
that right, and you ain't shit Woo woo woo woo.

Speaker 5 (03:10:43):
I know it soon.

Speaker 21 (03:10:44):
And there are certain things that I can say in
that conversation that's gonna take it from just loud talking
and going back and forth to a fucking fight.

Speaker 40 (03:10:54):
And those things are, hey man, you acting like a bitch,
You acting like a pussy shop ma mother, all all
that kind of shit. Hey man, it's gonna get some
It's gonna it's gonna get violent when that kind of
shit starts dumping being thrown around. I've seen motherfuckers get
killed behind shit like that.

Speaker 27 (03:11:13):
That's dumb.

Speaker 40 (03:11:14):
Well, I mean you it can be dumb, it will
be dumb, but that that doesn't, you know, change the
fucking fact. I've seen motherfuckers get their life took for
the for colling motherfucker's bitches and holes and shit like that.
So you can say it's dumb all. You can say
it's dumb all you want, but that's the reality of
what goes on outside. And if you run into somebody

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who is of that kind of mind, hey man, you're
gonna be fighting for your fucking life.

Speaker 21 (03:11:44):
So see all this old shit that's dumb. I don't
nobody give a fuck about that ship because why is
it well, why even play with motherfuckers like that when
you don't.

Speaker 5 (03:11:52):
Even know who you playing with?

Speaker 27 (03:11:54):
That part it's it's dumb.

Speaker 5 (03:11:57):
It doesn't matter whether it's dumb or not. It's real reality.

Speaker 48 (03:12:01):
Well, don't expect everybody to be sane when you're out
moving around in the world.

Speaker 13 (03:12:05):
Just because you might be intelligent and rap tite.

Speaker 48 (03:12:07):
The next person next to you might not be rap
tite and you called them a bitch, and they might
pull out a gun and stab your ass. I mean,
pull out of gunna shoot you or stab you up,
or some crazy ship like that. Because just because you're
you know how to do things.

Speaker 13 (03:12:19):
The correct way, you can't expect everybody else.

Speaker 55 (03:12:25):
Corspeak.

Speaker 27 (03:12:39):
It's fine, it's fine.

Speaker 37 (03:12:40):
Look doctor b Look I was trying to be nice.

Speaker 9 (03:12:43):
I'm on y'all.

Speaker 21 (03:12:49):
Stab women out there, that women out there. You call
the woman a bitch, you know what I'm saying, And
don't gonna get up brother cousin dude, and you won't
be in a fight.

Speaker 40 (03:12:58):
For your life on that ship. Some women gonna let
it roll off their back walk away. Some women ain't
letting go of that ship and see people always walk
around You know a lot of people man, who haven't
really been out there.

Speaker 5 (03:13:11):
They always talk about how it should be and how
it's supposed to be.

Speaker 21 (03:13:15):
And a motherfucker that that that's uh, that is that
goes there behind you don't give a fuck what you
think about how it should be.

Speaker 16 (03:13:24):
M hm.

Speaker 5 (03:13:25):
I don't know why people don't understand.

Speaker 40 (03:13:26):
That when they existing outside, you run up on a
person with a bad understanding or that's rooted in that
kind of ship. Hey, man, you're gonna have to deal
with the consequences of you talking.

Speaker 5 (03:13:37):
That kind of ship.

Speaker 4 (03:13:39):
Or here you go.

Speaker 18 (03:13:43):
Yeah, I agree with you.

Speaker 16 (03:13:46):
You know.

Speaker 58 (03:13:48):
Let me say real quick, so when I was in
the matrix, I wasn't saying that her saying he was
acting like a bee wasn't disrespectful. I was saying that
disrespect happened before that, and I heard the conversation being
just revolved around just that part. Something happened before all
of that occurred, where somebody felt offended or disrespected and

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chat was right except for one thing.

Speaker 18 (03:14:13):
If somebody mistakenly caused me the N word, do have
grace for that.

Speaker 58 (03:14:17):
There's people in this room that have just talked because
that's how they talk and then they correct themselves.

Speaker 18 (03:14:21):
Yeah, he's done it. A few other people have done it.
But if I say, hey, brother, don't call me that,
or hey sister, don't call me that, and then you.

Speaker 58 (03:14:27):
Turn right around and do it in spite for the brothers,
that's where the smoke comes in at For the sisters,
I just don't talk to you no more on Blockie,
But the brothers as men, like Biggie was saying, that'll
that'll escalate real quick. And y'all seen me or heard
me rather crash out in the past, have been ready
to meet up. Then since you want to be disrespectful,
let's meet up as men and let's see how Let's

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see how that goes.

Speaker 18 (03:14:49):
So Biggie is one hundred.

Speaker 16 (03:14:53):
That's all it takes because I do that ship and
let you hit me. I take that's everything you got, mother, But.

Speaker 25 (03:14:59):
You real quick, nigga.

Speaker 5 (03:15:04):
A lot of folks ain't cut like that.

Speaker 16 (03:15:06):
A lot of that nigga said he got bread. I'm
gonna fly on to you. I'm gonna on camera and
I'm gonna take everything. Listen, but not for this is
with me.

Speaker 25 (03:15:26):
But what she did was directly, and you know you don't.

Speaker 4 (03:15:30):
That's one word.

Speaker 29 (03:15:31):
You don't play with any man. None, No man will
allow you to play with that word. So that was
an intentional direct It wasn't. It wasn't something that was
just old. It just slipped out.

Speaker 11 (03:15:41):
It's not the word.

Speaker 16 (03:15:45):
That it came out. Okay, you like you acting like
you did.

Speaker 23 (03:15:53):
Some I don't like calling men or women that word.
Like you know that that is very agregious when you
call a man trying.

Speaker 16 (03:16:05):
Wait wait, wait, wait, I dove for four people. Okay, wait.

Speaker 19 (03:16:09):
When Big E said nobody gives a ship, how you
think my big bro from from trench. He said, if
you're not from the ghetto, stay out of the ghetto.
That means you don't have to you know, you don't
have to try to adapt to where we're from. Cultures
and anything. Well, I'm from a lot of y'all won't
even survive.

Speaker 16 (03:16:29):
That's this county.

Speaker 19 (03:16:30):
As soon as you say something like bitch to a man,
or a man said to another man, suck my dick,
you're dying.

Speaker 37 (03:16:36):
No nothtto.

Speaker 16 (03:16:41):
I don't I don't care, I don't care how retarded
it is. I'm telling you what I'm from this. What
happened to you?

Speaker 19 (03:16:47):
If we don't care, if you have a misunderstanding where
we come from, Suck my dick, Suck my dick, and.

Speaker 9 (03:16:52):
You get you murdered.

Speaker 7 (03:16:54):
You're not even dying.

Speaker 27 (03:16:56):
I don't.

Speaker 5 (03:16:58):
Not even dying.

Speaker 11 (03:17:00):
I see the younger man tell older man.

Speaker 13 (03:17:02):
He said, I did ten years in the penitentiary.

Speaker 37 (03:17:05):
Suck your deck.

Speaker 7 (03:17:06):
Let's step outside, he was saying.

Speaker 15 (03:17:07):
I was wow, almost like.

Speaker 23 (03:17:12):
That little nigga, say it again.

Speaker 19 (03:17:16):
That's what you that's where you different animal animals, animal
animal from the stand.

Speaker 15 (03:17:27):
I was, oh, no, yeah, I think that's what I guess.

Speaker 33 (03:17:34):
Like when women you in the matrix androgtor can come back,
come back, come back, come back.

Speaker 5 (03:17:43):
Why are you going out?

Speaker 25 (03:17:44):
I think to say that, I'm I was just trying
to take.

Speaker 33 (03:17:50):
Stop using cell phone blockers to block my signal. Motherfucker.

Speaker 29 (03:17:58):
I wasn't picking nobody, fat animal. We didn't meet a
fuck alone. Well, we're gonna get into.

Speaker 9 (03:18:03):
It, lucky you did.

Speaker 15 (03:18:06):
I'm just calling you on your ship like you did.

Speaker 25 (03:18:09):
Nigga, I said, I'm trying to clarify for both of y'all.
I'm not picking a sack.

Speaker 55 (03:18:13):
That's what I said.

Speaker 5 (03:18:16):
You know you're wrong.

Speaker 16 (03:18:16):
You know you're wrong. Keep talking about he keep bringing
it up.

Speaker 25 (03:18:20):
Don't keep bringing it.

Speaker 16 (03:18:21):
Up business woman business No.

Speaker 33 (03:18:23):
No, because you hold on because you just said you
just came off and said, yeah, I know that was
disrespectful about the So what's the misunderstanding on Rito's part?
Then what were you trying to clarify for Rico? If
they both misunderstood? Rinto said that the reason why he
acting like this is because you called him a bit.

Speaker 21 (03:18:46):
No no, no, no, no, no no.

Speaker 29 (03:18:48):
I was trying to clarify for both of them. That
was before it got that far. She didn't even call
him a bitch yet. I was trying to clarify her submission,
which Rico he had took one detail for her her
submission and that's what his The mission was on and
dn T with T when when T was listening to
rico submission, she took something that he said wrong. So
they both was valid, but there was a small misunderstanding

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why the wires weren't connected. That's what I was trying
to clarify. Once he got to the part where they
were started disrespecting each other, she taught him a bit respectfully.

Speaker 25 (03:19:17):
I didn't clarifying ship. It is what it is.

Speaker 33 (03:19:20):
Yeah, but you was still jumping in and putting your
cape on, trying to clarify when there was already passing.

Speaker 29 (03:19:26):
I was trying to click out. No, I wasn't once
that bitch work came out, I wasn't to get it
to calm down and leaving them alone, we could, we
can work to the reclay.

Speaker 16 (03:19:38):
Know what the fuck I did all she did that?

Speaker 19 (03:19:46):
Uh?

Speaker 33 (03:19:47):
And yes, yay, I don't think it's a few It's
a few spots then too in America where uh, niggas
feel like we feel about that bitch where and suck
my dick. But it's not everywhere because you go to
some some places and that's what that's what they call niggas.

Speaker 15 (03:20:08):
Bitch and pussy ass whole and all that other.

Speaker 19 (03:20:11):
Ship tell you what, tell you what goes if animal,
If you come down here in Florida and call a
man a fuck nigga, well.

Speaker 33 (03:20:22):
Yeah, fuck nigga in Florida is like us saying sucky
dick of calling the nigga exactly for sure, Yeah you
old fuck nigga, yeah for sure. But niggas is going on.
That's why it's a lot of words that women use
to call niggas. And I'm just like, I know you
women really don't go outside because you don't understand its
consequences to the ship that comes out of your fucking mouth.

Speaker 15 (03:20:46):
To what Biggie was saying as well, like I don't know.

Speaker 27 (03:20:51):
Yeah, but like nobody's thinking about the end result of
this ship.

Speaker 15 (03:20:54):
So you say a word, you see that, you see
that just proved what you were saying is white man.

Speaker 27 (03:21:09):
And then you say and you.

Speaker 47 (03:21:10):
Say a word, then somebody dies, and then what where
does that leave us?

Speaker 27 (03:21:15):
It leaves us with less of y'all that doesn't.

Speaker 2 (03:21:18):
That that ship.

Speaker 15 (03:21:20):
That's not motherfucking matter.

Speaker 37 (03:21:26):
Of course what happens in life.

Speaker 48 (03:21:28):
If you disrespect people, that's why you punching somebody in
the face and they shoot you.

Speaker 37 (03:21:31):
You can't tell somebody.

Speaker 25 (03:21:33):
They react like you can't tell somebody.

Speaker 16 (03:21:37):
I'm not telling them.

Speaker 48 (03:21:39):
I'm just saying like, but what I'm saying is that's
just the If you afraid of what's gonna happen to you,
then watch your mouth like.

Speaker 5 (03:21:46):
That's it, that's all you gotta do.

Speaker 22 (03:21:48):
Right.

Speaker 15 (03:21:50):
This is the same thing I say to women.

Speaker 33 (03:21:52):
Right when women get the hitting men and then the
women all jump on the men for turning around and
knocking a woman the fuck out, and I'm like, yeah,
I'm like, yo, you you guys always point to blame
at the wrong person. The person you should be talking
to is the woman. The woman had no business hitting
the fucking man, period.

Speaker 47 (03:22:14):
I had to have a conversation. I had to yank
up one of my male students off this ship today.
I had to do this because a girl she tried
him and he responded to it, and so I have
to pull him to the side. And I'm like, Khalil,
I need you to realize, one she baited you and
she won. But you need to understand the fact that

(03:22:36):
even if you knock her out, the odds, especially as
a young black man, as a young black kid, are
stacked against you eternally. No matter what it is that
you do, you are the one who is wrong. So
you can't have these kinds of responses. You cannot afford
this kind of response like.

Speaker 16 (03:22:57):
That is the.

Speaker 11 (03:23:01):
Of course I did. And if he was.

Speaker 9 (03:23:08):
Like, why you didn't have a conversation with that young lady.

Speaker 16 (03:23:11):
He did.

Speaker 11 (03:23:12):
We did have a did have a conversation. We did,
we did, We did we did.

Speaker 16 (03:23:19):
We did.

Speaker 47 (03:23:20):
But I'm speaking specifically. I'm speaking specifically about Khalil right now.
I'm not talking about the other girl.

Speaker 11 (03:23:27):
The point that i'm making, the point that i'm.

Speaker 47 (03:23:29):
Making is the point that i'm trying to make, and
I'm trying to get y'all to understand, is that because
you guys are men, black men in particular, the odds
once again are you?

Speaker 5 (03:23:42):
That's the arrogance. You ain't got it.

Speaker 40 (03:23:44):
You don't have to explain the black men what the
fuck we go through. You don't know what the fuck
is going on. I'll tell you what I give you.
I'll give you this.

Speaker 5 (03:23:52):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 40 (03:23:53):
Unless you grew a set of balls in a dick,
you know what I'm saying that we don't know about
you get you know what I'm saying that. What I'm
saying is you don't know what the fuck me. You
don't know the reality of what black men experience. I'll
tell you one thing, Right, if you growing up depending
on what neighborhood you grow up in, right, you're growing
up in.

Speaker 5 (03:24:10):
Right.

Speaker 40 (03:24:11):
If you go outside right and you let a motherfucker
call you a bitch and a hole and slap you
upside your head. Hell, let that shit slide is worse
than going to the motherfucking penitentiary. Yeah, you talking about.

Speaker 16 (03:24:29):
You understand that? Do you understand that? Andrew? Do you
understand that that's.

Speaker 48 (03:24:33):
Get from a place of privilege though, because everybody, some
people they didn't experience that, so they kind of effectively
don't know. But the reality is is that if you
as a female, you should never be rising up against
the men in a physical way because why you're nine
times out of ten you not gonna beat him and
he gonna beat your ass. So what's the point in

(03:24:54):
you fucking even doing that shit? I don't because it
no he's should be putting your hands on a man
is in defense from a man.

Speaker 16 (03:25:03):
That's it.

Speaker 48 (03:25:04):
That's the only way you should ever be putting your
hands on a man. That's you know that, there's no
there's nothing. No man can ever say to me that
I'm gonna put my hands on them. I don't know
what happens. You can never say anything to me is
gonna make me hit you? You hit me, I might
hit your ass back defend myself. But it's crazy to
think that you can put your hands on somebody that's

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what you are taught as a child.

Speaker 37 (03:25:28):
To keep your hands to yourself.

Speaker 16 (03:25:30):
That don't just boys.

Speaker 37 (03:25:31):
That applies to everyone.

Speaker 18 (03:25:33):
But we have seen.

Speaker 25 (03:25:36):
Women with men.

Speaker 47 (03:25:42):
The man reacts to it, the woman is going to call,
and the cops are automatically going to side with the woman.

Speaker 33 (03:25:51):
Some women use that to there, all, right, this is
this is part of the problem, right, And I don't know,
maybe y'all not used to dealing with warrior class, right,
but from the warrior class of men. And this is
why y'all have a problem with black men, because I
hear it in y'all talking points sometimes, right. So here
it is you in that situation. You went and chastised

(03:26:15):
the young brother Khalil. Right, So now Khalil grows up
second guessing himself. Right, but now say it's his motherfucking
oppressor that's doing some shit to him. That's why black
men so motherfucking docile. That's why it's either one way
or the other. You got niggas that's docile, or you

(03:26:36):
got niggas that's going all the way, and don't give
a fuck about prison.

Speaker 23 (03:26:40):
That's why fathers are so important.

Speaker 33 (03:26:43):
Chancetis and stop chastising these little boys and telling them
what the fucking consequences of being a black male is
because most of the time you're doing them more harm
than you are doing them good because they're getting in
this sauce space, right, because they always in constant motherfucking

(03:27:04):
fear where our motherfucking oppressor and motherfucking competition, they have
no motherfucking fear.

Speaker 15 (03:27:11):
That's why they constantly do shit to us and get
the fuck away with it.

Speaker 9 (03:27:15):
Right.

Speaker 33 (03:27:16):
So it's that whole mentality, right, that whole mentality that
oh uh, you you already losing because you're the black boy.

Speaker 5 (03:27:24):
Right.

Speaker 33 (03:27:25):
All you people are the people who sit on these
fucking lawmaking assemblies. All you people are the ones who
go to fucking court and sit in the fucking jury, right,
All you people are the fucking judges and the prosecutors,
and then you'll all come up with this ship and
then you all agree about this ship and it's wrong.

(03:27:47):
The reality of it is the fucking person who's the
aggressor is wrong.

Speaker 15 (03:27:52):
Period. Stop trying to toddle the bullshit on.

Speaker 33 (03:27:56):
Tell a man he's supposed to have more fucking coup
and the on and structure and respect.

Speaker 15 (03:28:02):
No, tell that.

Speaker 7 (03:28:09):
Those are apple oranges.

Speaker 47 (03:28:11):
That is a completely different fucking conversation.

Speaker 16 (03:28:16):
Going through into into the matrix. We're talking.

Speaker 47 (03:28:20):
It's the same, the same about the circumstance talking about it.

Speaker 11 (03:28:25):
It's the same.

Speaker 37 (03:28:25):
It's the same principles. It's the same principles.

Speaker 16 (03:28:28):
It's the same. It's the.

Speaker 29 (03:28:31):
It's a different it's a it's a it's a it's
it may be different circumstances, different ages, different people involved,
but the principals are the same.

Speaker 11 (03:28:38):
It's not.

Speaker 16 (03:28:39):
It's not.

Speaker 25 (03:28:39):
The principles of what they're saying is the thing. They're
completely the same. It's not. It's not.

Speaker 16 (03:28:45):
It's not. You want to.

Speaker 25 (03:28:51):
It's like you're saying this apple.

Speaker 29 (03:28:57):
Listening, listen, baby, you this this is a peak, lady,
app This is a honeys apple with.

Speaker 37 (03:29:03):
The same they both.

Speaker 29 (03:29:05):
It's just they're they're they're different trees, the same thing,
the same pip, baby. It may be different, it's the
same thing. This is, this is this is why we
keep running in to these circuit conversations because we are
looking at the.

Speaker 25 (03:29:20):
Of the situations and not the principle.

Speaker 16 (03:29:23):
Yes, thank you, and we know, but they're supposed to
stand they are.

Speaker 27 (03:29:31):
All right, all right, let me let me.

Speaker 47 (03:29:32):
You're supposed to stand up to white people and white supremacy.

Speaker 27 (03:29:36):
They are absolutely supposed to every.

Speaker 25 (03:29:40):
Time, no matter what.

Speaker 27 (03:29:42):
That's how that works, right.

Speaker 47 (03:29:44):
So when you are being like, uh, that one situation
where the guy stabbed the white kid, I don't remember
what what was, whatever his name was, he was correct.

Speaker 27 (03:29:53):
He was correct to do that.

Speaker 47 (03:29:55):
Black men and black women are supposed to stand up
to and fight white supremacy. But that's not what I'm
talking about in this particular time, in this school, in
this school where I'm at, I know what's going to
happen to him if he knocked out that girl.

Speaker 21 (03:30:12):
It's the same principal, crazy lady, It's the same principle.
When when when when when uh we're called Mela Anthony,
we're called Melo Anthony stabbed that white boy?

Speaker 5 (03:30:26):
Oh yeah, you this and I'm gonna wake this up.
You can no let me tell you this, yo. But
but a that boy is going to present.

Speaker 9 (03:30:36):
And so what it means is what it means.

Speaker 40 (03:30:39):
Because you think you a fucking man, you can literally, Mom,
you always trying to speak for men.

Speaker 5 (03:30:45):
I'm not trying to speak for women.

Speaker 29 (03:30:52):
To help you, the principals is the same You knew
what the what was gonna happen to that boy at
that school, what he was, what was going to be
the results?

Speaker 23 (03:31:02):
Okays it, Lena. That's the thing. I don't think it
is wrong for acknowledging that boy's plight. I don't think
it's anything wrong with acknowledging a black man's plight. Doesn't
mean that you're telling him how to be a black man.
But it is a woman showing a black boy that

(03:31:25):
she cares, that she that she sees you, and that
she sees the obstacles that you go through. What's wrong
with that?

Speaker 24 (03:31:34):
I feel like that'slative because I feel like we gotta stop.
What we do is we pick and shooter because we
all y'all all saying this, But if if it's y'all
sons at school being picked on, y'all not gonna chastise
them for diffact.

Speaker 9 (03:31:48):
That's not my point ya y'all speak on outside. So
my thing is when it comes to that, where where
is this?

Speaker 24 (03:31:55):
The thing I got an issue with what she started
off with the conversation, is she knowledge that that girl
was starting with the boy and the first person you
wanted to check was him that's you.

Speaker 18 (03:32:10):
Said, finish them.

Speaker 23 (03:32:15):
Finish cutting her talking about let him finish that.

Speaker 9 (03:32:19):
Was a mod that was.

Speaker 24 (03:32:23):
You said in the beginning of your statement that she
was picking with him first and you saw him about
the respond however, what she has the right to respond
how he felt.

Speaker 9 (03:32:33):
The first thing you said is you yanked him up first.
You went to him first.

Speaker 11 (03:32:38):
That is wrong.

Speaker 24 (03:32:40):
You should have went to that little girl first and
had a conversation with her. Why was your passionate energy
to go to him first when she was picking with him?

Speaker 19 (03:32:50):
That's wrong.

Speaker 37 (03:32:58):
Can I respond because I definitely did it.

Speaker 27 (03:33:02):
I definitely didn't. Yeah, thank you.

Speaker 47 (03:33:06):
I definitely didn't say that I yanked him up first.
I said today I had to yank up a student.
Now here's the thing that you didn't. You're not aware of, Prince,
because I kicked her out the classroom. I kicked her out,
and I don't put kids out normally.

Speaker 15 (03:33:22):
I'm terrified you're teaching kids.

Speaker 27 (03:33:24):
I don't care.

Speaker 5 (03:33:25):
Thank you.

Speaker 16 (03:33:26):
Oh my goodness, is crazy?

Speaker 5 (03:33:27):
You actually a teacher life.

Speaker 11 (03:33:31):
He gave y'all a.

Speaker 23 (03:33:32):
Two minute submission about a situation that she encountered, and
y'all are trying to discredit what she.

Speaker 11 (03:33:37):
Does, stop it.

Speaker 27 (03:33:39):
It doesn't make it.

Speaker 23 (03:33:40):
Well, don't send your kids.

Speaker 16 (03:33:41):
Over in college. It's cool, finished, don't worry about it,
don't finish.

Speaker 5 (03:33:50):
Cool.

Speaker 47 (03:33:51):
So it wasn't Khalil. It wasn't the boy who got
kicked out of class. I yanked him up. Yes, absolutely, Indeed,
the conversation you don't first you know, first of all,
like when you build a rapport and you have a
really strong relationship with your kids, because like, first of all, yeah,

(03:34:14):
when you.

Speaker 4 (03:34:14):
When you have a good report, god, oh my god.

Speaker 47 (03:34:20):
So when you have a rapport with your kids or whatever,
you can yank them up, you can check them, et cetera,
et cetera. Anyway, I finished the conversation with Koli. I
was like, I need you to remember that you are
the one who is in control. I need you to
look me in the face and remember that you are
in control. Khalil, Right, And Khalil was like, you're right,

(03:34:44):
miss Barbosa, I'm the one who's in control.

Speaker 15 (03:34:47):
That's not what you said first time. I'm sorry because
we didn't.

Speaker 13 (03:34:56):
Second what second?

Speaker 27 (03:34:58):
All right, I'm telling you guys.

Speaker 16 (03:34:59):
Ahead, you're gonna hurry up.

Speaker 23 (03:35:02):
That one thing is that's not what she's said, no,
she has not. She has been fighting to speak because
y'all interrupted.

Speaker 15 (03:35:14):
He try to hurry up, chat hold on real fast.

Speaker 9 (03:35:18):
Don't matter if she finished or not.

Speaker 5 (03:35:20):
It's going it's not gonna make any sense, no matter. Okay,
I'll let you go.

Speaker 9 (03:35:25):
I'll get in.

Speaker 15 (03:35:26):
After you cool. Chat. Understand what you're saying.

Speaker 33 (03:35:31):
But we have listened to this story already, so we're
not cutting off off cutting her off from.

Speaker 15 (03:35:38):
A new story.

Speaker 33 (03:35:39):
She told the story earlier and then people started commenting
on it, right, and now she's changing what she did
in the story.

Speaker 15 (03:35:49):
People are just calling I'm.

Speaker 33 (03:35:51):
Not hold on, hold on, hold on, get right out
of your way. I'm going to get right out of it.
I'm going to get right out of your way. I'm
going to get right out of your way. I'm going
to get right out of your way.

Speaker 4 (03:36:03):
Then the least you can.

Speaker 18 (03:36:04):
Promise, you promise, you gotta let him finish.

Speaker 15 (03:36:08):
I'm going to get up right out of your way.

Speaker 5 (03:36:10):
Right.

Speaker 33 (03:36:11):
You are changing the story, right, So I don't care
if you're adding more to the story, that still would
be a change in the story. Where you add to
the story, it now contradicts what you originally said. So
that would be a change or in better words, I
don't want to call you that.

Speaker 4 (03:36:30):
That would be a.

Speaker 24 (03:36:31):
Lie, even even in your statement that even in your statement,
what you're saying is wrong because now you're saying you
kicked out the class. Okay, I still don't agree with
that because where's the correction or you did is tell
it get out. What you should have did is yanke

(03:36:52):
carp yank. But have a commisation that same passion you
had to go to that boy Khalil, you should have
had the same passion to correct her. Listen, young lady
and you a woman, so it would have been it
would have hit more because you're a woman speaking to
a younger lady, correct her, to let her know what
she was doing was wrong to Khalil, and then kick
out the classroom.

Speaker 9 (03:37:12):
You didn't even correct it. You just said get out
the classroom and you went to him that you ain't
him up.

Speaker 27 (03:37:17):
No, you don't, on Prince, you don't know what happened.

Speaker 16 (03:37:20):
You just know it.

Speaker 11 (03:37:21):
You don't know what.

Speaker 27 (03:37:22):
You do not know the entire story, You don't.

Speaker 47 (03:37:25):
You you latched onto the part about me yanking up
Khalil and now you're just now you're in the classroom.

Speaker 59 (03:37:33):
I did wait, hold on, wait, hold on, hold on.
I think I know what's happening. Hold On, hold on,
hold on, hold on, hold on, I think I know
what's happening. Hold on, hold on, hold on, y'all, hold on, y'all.
I think I know what's happening. Hold on, y'all, hold on,
hold on, hold on, please please, no, No, I'm not
trying to interrupt her, but I think I see what's
going on here.

Speaker 60 (03:37:53):
When she was originally telling the story, she didn't go
through every step in every detail.

Speaker 35 (03:37:58):
The brother is right about the change part, but I
don't think she's lying.

Speaker 60 (03:38:02):
She just wasn't giving detailed exposition on every step that
she took, step one, step two, step three, step forward,
step pod. So what's happening is based upon what she said,
people are formulate in things and then inserting them in
the conversation.

Speaker 4 (03:38:16):
And she's like, no, this is not what's going on.
Let me explain.

Speaker 60 (03:38:19):
And now it's the constant back and forth because even
in that she's not given every step, like like what
he just said about her snatching dude up, and that's
not saying that to the young lady. She has not
given full detail on how she kicked that young lady
out the class. All she said was she kicked out
the class. So he's saying, well, how come you didn't
do this, how come you didn't do that? And this

(03:38:40):
is probably what happened. That's probably what happened, and a
couple other people too, and it's making hr be on
the defense.

Speaker 61 (03:38:47):
So now she's adding more, trying to give more details, saying, well,
this is actually all the things that went on. But
even in that, it's still the constant cutting off. So
it's a concept going back and forth.

Speaker 58 (03:38:59):
I can even tell if what she did was quote
unquote right and wrong, because she was just trying to
she was really trying to.

Speaker 23 (03:39:05):
She can't finish her point.

Speaker 36 (03:39:09):
Hold On, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on,
hold on.

Speaker 16 (03:39:13):
Hold on, don't even talk to me, listen, don't talk
to me.

Speaker 9 (03:39:18):
Look listen.

Speaker 16 (03:39:19):
Listen, listen, listen, listen, listen, listen.

Speaker 18 (03:39:23):
Listen, listen, listen, day listen, listen, listen, hold on, listen.

Speaker 16 (03:39:28):
You know what I mean? You don't get along time, Well.

Speaker 4 (03:39:31):
Let's just think that.

Speaker 35 (03:39:31):
Let's just think that I don't because I don't want
to listen listen.

Speaker 4 (03:39:34):
I don't want to.

Speaker 62 (03:39:37):
I don't want to talk with you. I don't want
to talk with the funk up. Okay, that's all you
gotta do. Thank you, good ship. We've been talking about
this forty five god damn minutes the whole drive.

Speaker 58 (03:39:50):
I don't want to talk, all right, but listen, look
then then listen interrupt somebody else now, I'm trying to
bring sense.

Speaker 18 (03:39:58):
To it all you dude, okay to do that, Yeah, yeah,
I don't need.

Speaker 26 (03:40:04):
You to interrupt nobody.

Speaker 4 (03:40:06):
Okay, okay, nobody asked you to interrupt me.

Speaker 5 (03:40:08):
Either.

Speaker 21 (03:40:08):
We want to talk, we don't want Okay, listen, I
don't care you do this a lot of other spaces.

Speaker 4 (03:40:15):
Listen. No, no, you don't tell me. You don't tell me.

Speaker 18 (03:40:18):
I'm talking right now.

Speaker 4 (03:40:19):
You don't tell me your.

Speaker 63 (03:40:25):
My thing is with you, like anyway, Right as I
was saying, right as I was saying, I was saying,
as I was saying, listen, no, no, I'm trying to
give some decency and so that we don't have this
ship going on.

Speaker 18 (03:40:43):
We don't have this ship show going on.

Speaker 5 (03:40:45):
Okay.

Speaker 58 (03:40:45):
I don't just have to do with the topic because
this because this, because he keeps interrupting.

Speaker 4 (03:40:51):
I don't sunk with him.

Speaker 6 (03:40:52):
I really don't he know that, So.

Speaker 5 (03:40:53):
We don't even need to talking that. We don't.

Speaker 4 (03:40:57):
We don't need to talk to shut up.

Speaker 55 (03:40:59):
That's it.

Speaker 58 (03:41:00):
I'm not gonna shut up. I'm not and I'm not
gonna be and I'm not and I'm not gonna allow
you to be triggered by me. I'm not gonna allow
myself to be triggered you. Okay, okay, so just chill,
Just chill, okay, be happy, Be happy, Be happy that
I'm at least calm and engaging with you.

Speaker 15 (03:41:17):
Be happy.

Speaker 5 (03:41:18):
You ain't gonna do nothing anymore.

Speaker 18 (03:41:19):
Okay, you're wrong, but that's another time.

Speaker 64 (03:41:22):
You're right, you're right, you know what, you're right, you're right,
you're right, you're right, you're right, you're right, you're right,
you're right, you're right, you're right, right, right, you're right,
you're right.

Speaker 18 (03:41:34):
I'm right, you're right, you're right, you're right, you're right,
you're right, you're right, you're right, you're right.

Speaker 58 (03:41:44):
So anyway, she was just I see what's going on
between her and the brother, and I don't think this
is about anybody being wrong.

Speaker 18 (03:41:51):
It's just a misunderstanding.

Speaker 58 (03:41:52):
But if we all can be quiet, and maybe she
can't give the full detail. The one thing I will
say before I go on mute. I agree with some
of the points about her going to the young fellow first,
because the way she presented the story as though she
went to the young fella first, and that's why Prince
is like, hold on for a second.

Speaker 6 (03:42:10):
I actually agree with that.

Speaker 58 (03:42:12):
But if you're saying that you didn't go to the
young fellow first, then you need to present that and
say what you did with the.

Speaker 18 (03:42:17):
Young woman first, because what it sounds like is you're
correcting the.

Speaker 58 (03:42:22):
Guy for defending himself in lieu of correcting the offender first,
then going to the defender and saying if you do this,
if you do that, that's how it can be resolved.

Speaker 9 (03:42:34):
That's all. That's what you said. The beginning of her
statement she went in.

Speaker 24 (03:42:45):
She went into this whole thing about oh, I know
how the black man this could happen to him if
he does this and all that. But the first statement
she made she had to yanke a student up, and
she said it was the boy because the girl kept
picking with him, and I guess she saw or thought
Khalil he might have responded in the way that she
wasn't wouldn't be pleased about, so she had to yank

(03:43:06):
Khalil up. Now my thing is this, because y'all saying
she didn't really get to fully explained what she did
step two, step three, step four, What we do know
is step one, what she did.

Speaker 9 (03:43:18):
That's step one, what.

Speaker 24 (03:43:19):
She did, no matter how other ways she tried to
explain it. I'm not gonna agree with that step one,
what she did. What she is like what you just said.
She tried to check Khalil when the girl was picking
with Khalil instead of checking the girl first.

Speaker 9 (03:43:33):
That's what we do know.

Speaker 24 (03:43:34):
Now we don't know what she did after that. We
know she led with that though, and that part right
there is the part I'm not gonna I think that's wrong.

Speaker 23 (03:43:44):
Listen, she led with what she led with because that's
where we were in the conversation. Thank you drop that
part of the encounter, and not to mention like I
don't understand how y'all don't understand how conversation and dialogue
and discussion works. She started there because of whatever just
keeps everybody.

Speaker 5 (03:44:06):
You can't do both.

Speaker 23 (03:44:12):
To one second, excuse me, you just finished speaking, sir.

Speaker 9 (03:44:19):
You just shut up being biased with this stupid nobody is.

Speaker 23 (03:44:23):
But listen, you are projecting, sir, and like chat, you
are projecting Chat. You are projecting. Okay, y'all, let me
know when y'all are done, because you sound like a
while and.

Speaker 18 (03:44:36):
Hold on, chat is a mind.

Speaker 30 (03:44:38):
Don't interrupt.

Speaker 18 (03:44:39):
Chatter is a mad Let her talk please and chat?

Speaker 47 (03:44:41):
You know, I probably should have mentioned that Khalil is
like well over six ft tall and I'm five ft
so I can't actually yank him.

Speaker 27 (03:44:48):
Should I have mentioned that as well?

Speaker 5 (03:44:50):
No, you didn't.

Speaker 9 (03:44:55):
If that was her son that you yanked, will be
saying none of this ship.

Speaker 23 (03:44:59):
Who are you talking to?

Speaker 21 (03:45:00):
How would you know that.

Speaker 9 (03:45:03):
If I was their son that you did that too,
they would not be saying none of this?

Speaker 25 (03:45:07):
No I would.

Speaker 23 (03:45:08):
I would appreciate that a tender explain that to excuse me?
Can you meute up and have some self control because
I could, sir, excuse me, have some decorum please or
some pick.

Speaker 16 (03:45:21):
One of.

Speaker 23 (03:45:24):
I don't even know you. Why does it matter to you?
It's just the difference of opinion.

Speaker 12 (03:45:30):
I don't understand what you're doing right now. You sound
you sound like a child.

Speaker 11 (03:45:34):
I'm mad.

Speaker 9 (03:45:35):
I'm mad because I can say what I want to say,
So mute up.

Speaker 23 (03:45:43):
You have done enough talking. I am not talking over you,
So go ahead and finish, and I'll speak after you
you want to. I got to grow up, grow up
like people. We don't know what happened before. We don't

(03:46:05):
know the type of relationship that Lena has with that child.
We don't know any we don't know the school policies.
There are so many unknown. There's a listen. If one
more person interrupts me, I'm dropping. And I'm telling you
I don't give a ship if you got a green bean,

(03:46:27):
please don't do that. Okay, right, that's okay. I'm gonna
help you out what we do. That's fine, but I'm
gonna finish my point. My point is this, there's a
lot we don't know about link about the situation that
was presented.

Speaker 25 (03:46:46):
So I can.

Speaker 23 (03:46:46):
Understand people having, you know, their opinions based on the
information that they know, but there is a lot that
we don't So I can appreciate a teacher understanding and
empathyzing with what he goes through as a young black
man because the the in all honesty. And there's this
book that I read about white white fragility. It's a

(03:47:10):
lot of our children. Their introduction to education is an
authority as a white woman at the top of at
the top of their class, standing.

Speaker 12 (03:47:19):
Over there, right, and she is the authority.

Speaker 26 (03:47:22):
Figure, Yo, who puts.

Speaker 11 (03:47:26):
I did.

Speaker 23 (03:47:27):
Don't come in here and do that.

Speaker 9 (03:47:29):
I did.

Speaker 27 (03:47:31):
I did?

Speaker 10 (03:47:32):
All right, all right, all right, all right, all right,
that's what we're gonna do.

Speaker 16 (03:47:35):
Chat.

Speaker 10 (03:47:36):
You know, I'll rock with you too. But there's no
throwing nobody down in the group. I just had this
conversation with body yesterday. I know you wasn't here, Nah, Chat,
We ain't thrown nobody down in the group. We just
had this conversation yesterday. We just sat this ship yesterday.
Bro Yo, yay, we just said nobody gets thrown down

(03:47:57):
in the grou or removed in this ship.

Speaker 16 (03:47:59):
You feel me?

Speaker 15 (03:48:01):
What are we doing now?

Speaker 26 (03:48:02):
A fuck stak fuck me because you throwing people out
of my shit?

Speaker 16 (03:48:05):
This is what I mean.

Speaker 10 (03:48:06):
People will come to your shit throwing people out of
your shit. I don't go to fucking Chat's room doing
this shit. I don't come to your shit doing this shit.
I don't pull up to your ship throwing shit, throwing
people down, saying I'm gonna throw people down this shit.

Speaker 9 (03:48:17):
I don't do that.

Speaker 10 (03:48:18):
I don't come to nobody's faces throwing shit down. You
wanna tell me to hold up in my shit? No, nigga,
you hold the fuck up? Fuck is you talking about?

Speaker 16 (03:48:26):
Nigga?

Speaker 10 (03:48:26):
Fuck is you coming over here fucking acting like you
the fucking military sergeant in my ship?

Speaker 26 (03:48:30):
Get the fuck up out of here, nigga, you kidding me?

Speaker 10 (03:48:33):
Fuck that, nigga. I don't give a fuck who the
fuck you is. Nigga, don't come in this bitch throwing
people down, especially niggas a fuck with.

Speaker 26 (03:48:40):
What the fuck is you doing? Yeah, they can over
talk people.

Speaker 5 (03:48:44):
It's the war floor. You want somebody to you want
somebody to mute up, pay the.

Speaker 10 (03:48:47):
Fucking popa up or pay the motherfucker somebody to mute
the fuck up there, Shut the fuck up.

Speaker 26 (03:48:51):
If you can't handle it, leave the motherfucking room.

Speaker 10 (03:48:54):
I'm tired of you motherfuckers coming in here acting like
y'all can throw people down the shit.

Speaker 26 (03:48:57):
This ain't your motherfucking room. Fuck is wrong with you?

Speaker 10 (03:49:02):
You dumb motherfucker's coming in my shit. Me and Yae
building up the four hundred, So yall, dumb motherfuckers want
to come in here and try to tell us and
overtalk us. Motherfucker, go to YO room and do that.
Shit fuck is wrong with you, Nigga. I'm already going
through shit over there in the back.

Speaker 9 (03:49:14):
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