Gender Warz World Wide Episode 19 - "Is Control Diguised As Love?" - The Network Podcast

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Speaker 1 (00:02):
My nigga.

Speaker 2 (00:05):
Rocking on them.

Speaker 3 (00:10):
He ain't gotta touch my own nip.

Speaker 1 (00:13):
That's that's that's blowing my own my swelling, my spell.

Speaker 4 (00:17):
My niggas Mikey's Weekly.

Speaker 5 (00:19):
We my niggas cutching.

Speaker 6 (00:22):
We saw here some spurs on my timeline.

Speaker 7 (00:25):
Call it SWI I'm in the club.

Speaker 2 (00:28):
Bother well, my niggas call oh rocking off.

Speaker 3 (00:32):
Them shoes money something now. I don't feel you. I
don't feel your nigga got it.

Speaker 8 (00:39):
I feel power, my spriller nigga, All my.

Speaker 2 (00:44):
Niggas nuts show up a wikl whels.

Speaker 9 (00:47):
All my niggas clutching were song here we we some
purs on my timeline, call it twitter.

Speaker 3 (00:54):
That's all about my spillers. What we're doing. Dizzy we are.

Speaker 2 (01:00):
I'm coming through me and long boys smoking loud laying.
You call that bringing noise in every Christmas day.

Speaker 10 (01:08):
One of the people joys.

Speaker 11 (01:11):
Running in the foe.

Speaker 3 (01:12):
And my diamonds come from Tokyo.

Speaker 2 (01:14):
You ain't you, hawaiha come from toky or I call
them Jean choy money, go on tree, Can you show
me where they grew that beat? You gotta have a
finny girl.

Speaker 12 (01:24):
You're move that bet boy, you know that it's a
little ko that you already to know that ship.

Speaker 2 (01:28):
I'm by my cheese telling to that codemon medicine from
the noise eighteen hundred blush represent cin.

Speaker 4 (01:36):
I got lots of girl.

Speaker 2 (01:37):
Why I'm ar agin kill found in the club with
my name that.

Speaker 5 (01:44):
Running on them.

Speaker 12 (01:45):
So the money jeans, how get ny.

Speaker 1 (01:50):
You ain't gotta touch my own face?

Speaker 3 (01:52):
That's that's that's wanma.

Speaker 13 (01:54):
O my Bama spoil yo.

Speaker 8 (01:57):
Y'all know we're going up today, right, all right? I
want to run down some things too. There's a lot
of shit we're gonna talk about. But the link at
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Speaker 3 (02:22):
Wars while this shit's going down.

Speaker 8 (02:25):
So shout out to everybody that's always pulling up, right,
Shout outs to Harriet that's pulling up.

Speaker 3 (02:29):
Shout us to Yay, we're gonna go up up up
to that.

Speaker 8 (02:34):
It's time to power up right, Yeah, tithing to go
up today's topic Do men and women only level up
after a heartbreak? Where was all that fucking energy while
we was together? Why didn't you want to level up
when we were together? Why didn't you want to make

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something out of yourself while we're together?

Speaker 3 (02:58):
Why wait and to a fucking breakup?

Speaker 4 (03:04):
Yeah?

Speaker 5 (03:05):
Why?

Speaker 3 (03:05):
Why wait?

Speaker 8 (03:06):
Why sit on your ass and wait? We could have
leveled up together. We could have did some shit. Yeah,
we could have did some shit together. Biggie doctor Himothy
Harriet Stunner just came right. Let's talk about this shit
real quick. I want to expand on this how you feeling?

Speaker 13 (03:26):
It's not their.

Speaker 14 (03:27):
Fault, it's just really good alchemy. Like I mean, if
you believe in, you know, spiritual practices energy, if you
believe in fasting, if you're believe in giving some up
to get some better, then you know that sometimes you know,
God gotta break everything down to for something better to
come through. Also believe in spiritual practices, you know that

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all that build up energy gotta go some motherfucking where.
What you're gonna do, would it turn you into a
motherfucking naked mole rat with a tiny heart in a
in a dark out.

Speaker 1 (04:00):
Over your head or you're gonna use all.

Speaker 14 (04:01):
The positive energy and invest it into that negative energy.
Do a little alchemy and invest it into something that's
gonna yield you something positive versus.

Speaker 1 (04:10):
You just being a fucking you know, I don't know,
moping around.

Speaker 14 (04:17):
You can use that energy for negativity to lay ass
in the bed and look stupid and be musty, or
you can use it for something positive. Go out, work out,
you know, get those good in the door friends raining
in your system since you don't get them from that nigga.
Sometimes when you break up with a man that makes
you feel great, you're missing something. It's like quitting crack.

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You gotta replace that with something. What you're gonna replace
it with alcohol?

Speaker 1 (04:45):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 15 (04:46):
What you're gonna replace.

Speaker 14 (04:51):
What you're gonna do. You gonna lay in the bed
and be destan to you gonna go get somebody, man?

Speaker 3 (04:56):
D wow, Oh what does she mean? What does she mean?

Speaker 13 (05:06):
Dick?

Speaker 3 (05:08):
Really insane? Yeah? Yeah, power up.

Speaker 13 (05:13):
The only way to get over something over somebody is what.

Speaker 8 (05:16):
Let's talk about that whoa so you automatically just so
they got to be with someone else to get to
someone else?

Speaker 16 (05:25):
Is that what you're saying They do that a lot,
and I'll be telling them this, babe, you ain't got
to do this.

Speaker 13 (05:31):
And then you know, I tell him, I just lay down.
You know what I'm saying, I do my thing.

Speaker 3 (05:35):
Yo, I'm in that.

Speaker 13 (05:36):
I just I'm in. I'm in, I'm in the I'm in.
I give a help of hand. You get trying to say, brother,
so they heartbroken, I'm here for your baby. It's okay.
She said, you know I hate him. I said, I
hate him too. He ain't do you right, baby, It's okay,
she said, you know, I just want to feel good.
I said, is that right? Mm hmm?

Speaker 16 (05:55):
I said, okay, you just lay down there on the
bed and and you know, I make them feel better
after that heartbreak.

Speaker 5 (05:59):

Speaker 1 (06:00):
You can go to the.

Speaker 4 (06:01):
Gym, you can cry.

Speaker 14 (06:05):
You know, you could take a helicopter ride over a
canyon or something something to get your where you know,
whatever your whatever chemicals in your brain that you get
from a nigga, you can get those other ways.

Speaker 1 (06:19):
You know.

Speaker 13 (06:21):
You can go to stacks.

Speaker 17 (06:25):
Every time I go through a heartbreak, I just go
to trade at school and get another certificate under my belt.
It's a habit. So I like breakups. So every time
I break up, you know, I.

Speaker 13 (06:35):
Just say, you see me on the stage right, make
a little bit.

Speaker 12 (06:39):
More money after each.

Speaker 3 (06:43):
So you said, you go up a little higher, and Shay,
is that what you're telling me? A little bit?

Speaker 17 (06:50):
Get a certificate under my belt.

Speaker 13 (06:56):
There's another ten grand added to that year.

Speaker 17 (06:58):
You know, then I get another one break up, another
ten thousands.

Speaker 1 (07:02):
You know his money.

Speaker 4 (07:03):
Heartbreaks equals money. I love it.

Speaker 8 (07:06):
Sounds like you gotta sound like she sounds like she's full,
sound like she's on the way to the bank. It
sounds yea, It's like it sounds like, yeah, she's on
the way to the bank.

Speaker 12 (07:17):
On the way.

Speaker 3 (07:18):
It sounds like she is getting rid of the toxicity.

Speaker 8 (07:20):
Yeah, it sounds like she's getting rid of the toxic
energy bond and replacing it with about her energy.

Speaker 13 (07:27):
What's up all her way to the sperm bank?

Speaker 8 (07:31):
I don't okay, what makes you think she's going to
the sperm bank?

Speaker 3 (07:34):
What the fuck are you talking about? You're crazy?

Speaker 18 (07:36):
Fuck.

Speaker 13 (07:36):
I don't know what the fuck he's talking about. That.

Speaker 17 (07:41):
I waited three months of trade school, I'm done, and
look I just added another eight thousand dollars a year
to bank.

Speaker 8 (07:51):
So basically you're telling me you got it going on
and you don't need this ghetto motherfucker.

Speaker 3 (07:58):
Like basically, right, what you're saying, Okay, great, many women.

Speaker 19 (08:04):
I agree with her.

Speaker 20 (08:04):
You go to the gym, you get like Harriet said,
you get yourself together mentally, go to therapy, and then
you go and you upgrade your life, You learn another language, you.

Speaker 4 (08:16):
Go to school on.

Speaker 3 (08:17):
Is that what you did?

Speaker 20 (08:25):
I would like to fish my submission toxicity free, thank
you very much.

Speaker 21 (08:30):
That's why.

Speaker 19 (08:32):
That is why I went to school for my doctorate.
I got my heart broken and I was like, well,
what am I gonna do?

Speaker 13 (08:36):
Now?

Speaker 19 (08:36):
Got in the gym, started back carlifting, and now I'm
boy scratch my ship free.

Speaker 16 (08:41):
Sometimes you just gotta upgrade you.

Speaker 5 (08:43):
You said you was.

Speaker 13 (08:44):
You just said you was car lifted cars.

Speaker 22 (08:48):
It sound like the mediate She said she can squatch you.

Speaker 4 (08:57):
I didn't.

Speaker 13 (08:58):
I didn't have a room.

Speaker 16 (08:59):
I didn't have a room asking women about their purface,
the men about their purpose and stuff like that. And
I do like a womatione shape and and and little bond.

Speaker 3 (09:06):
Is nigga.

Speaker 13 (09:13):
And squatted on that far.

Speaker 14 (09:19):
So I'm wondering if we go far in education because
men are disappointing.

Speaker 1 (09:28):
Because men are here, you know, supposed.

Speaker 14 (09:31):
To give you a feeling of satisfaction and don't mean
rush of feeling of fulfillment, and if they're not doing that,
then you have to seek other routes to get that fulfillment.
Because we're I mean, we're human. What we're gonna do
be unfulfilled and unhappy instill. You know what do y'all
think about that?

Speaker 13 (09:53):
What do we think about what life?

Speaker 1 (09:56):
You think that woman up far in uh?

Speaker 12 (09:59):
In life?

Speaker 1 (10:00):
Because men are unfulfilling.

Speaker 3 (10:04):
And they're not unfulfilling.

Speaker 23 (10:06):
Dildo Dix are actually the top selling everywhere what the world?
So no, we're not actually we're not even forgotten.

Speaker 24 (10:15):
Damn.

Speaker 19 (10:16):
I don't know if it's that the men aren't fulfilling.

Speaker 20 (10:18):
I think that a lot of women will do what
what's Donna just said? You know, when they get their
heartbroke or you know, something doesn't work out, they just
go to do something to occupy that space versus going
to get under another person.

Speaker 6 (10:32):
Hold it off.

Speaker 17 (10:35):
Y'all are really horrible in real life, and we know this,
So when we get our heart broke It's like we
didn't really want the ship anyway, so we go do
what we should have been doing in a person.

Speaker 13 (10:45):
You heard that, you heard that stack.

Speaker 6 (10:46):
Turn it off.

Speaker 3 (10:50):
Shut is like just like just going to be.

Speaker 19 (10:53):
I'm not a boy.

Speaker 13 (10:59):
Okay, nigga, let.

Speaker 3 (11:04):
You sister, don't let them trigger.

Speaker 19 (11:06):
That's fine.

Speaker 22 (11:11):
That wed wors weenders?

Speaker 3 (11:14):
What am I supposed to?

Speaker 24 (11:17):
Where are you?

Speaker 5 (11:17):
Show yous?

Speaker 24 (11:20):
Come on the stage?

Speaker 5 (11:21):
She come over here?

Speaker 4 (11:22):
Tocross hell?

Speaker 13 (11:22):
Where is she at? Where Jone's at?

Speaker 1 (11:27):
Corey?

Speaker 19 (11:27):
Don't make me call Lina? Ain't hearing me? Roy and
A Line have to jump ship there.

Speaker 3 (11:32):
I don't want to the same rolls in the building.
I don't want no problems, y'all. A gang.

Speaker 25 (11:41):
Who always want to jump sometimes sometimes stacks.

Speaker 1 (11:44):
I like to go for the bombs.

Speaker 25 (11:46):
I like to fall in love with the bombs because
I know they're gonna break my heart real sooner, real fast.
And then that's how I get back in.

Speaker 12 (11:51):
The gym when I don't have motivation.

Speaker 16 (11:52):
So you're going for the Okay, so she tell you something,
None of those she's going under.

Speaker 13 (12:05):
It's temporarily. It's temporarily. It's temporarily, so you know what
I mean?

Speaker 16 (12:08):
Like she said, you know, they're gonna break their heart,
so she gets under him, getting another next man until us.

Speaker 13 (12:13):
You know, she feels better to you know, you know
the next man with a relationship.

Speaker 14 (12:19):
I had a bum project that uh project that sentiment
on me. I wasn't even thinking about ship like that.
But because they were a bum and they're their pre
these baby Mama left them and then glowed up and.

Speaker 1 (12:31):
Bought a house and move to a really nice area.
She making a lot of money right now.

Speaker 14 (12:36):
He was like, Yeah, the only reason why you're still
dealing with me is because you want to take this
hurt that I'm giving you and uh and turn.

Speaker 5 (12:43):
Up on it.

Speaker 1 (12:44):
And you know what, ain't know be she gonna turn
up on me?

Speaker 14 (12:46):
And I'm like what, But people do that, Like that's
a real thing, Like the energy that you give somebody,
the hate that you give somebody, Like they really can
turn up like you think you pissed somebody off and
fucking somebody life up.

Speaker 1 (12:59):
Or season up and the whole time be even here.
You know, interviewl It's fuel and you know gas what gasline?

Speaker 12 (13:11):
I never thought about that.

Speaker 3 (13:13):
You know, I don't do it anymore.

Speaker 22 (13:14):
Ladies, lady broke over me one time, she lost her mind,
and uh, she lost her mind one time. Yeah, so
I decided to go to the gym and level up.
And then she got with a nigga from and I
was like when she got why would you why would
you leave me to go get with a nigga from Ohio?
Like that's crazy, like and then I decided not to

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waste that energy anymore.

Speaker 13 (13:36):
Just like a mthy just like just like, well, all
the girls are the same, just like, uh, she she went.

Speaker 16 (13:45):
She she went to another man that's not even in
her what she lower stands after that, and she dealt
with that guy because she knows she was gonna do
with them long term. Same thing with your lady brother.
She know she was gonna do with that that job
trick a long time. And then what happened?

Speaker 5 (14:00):
She left him?

Speaker 13 (14:00):
And then what happened?

Speaker 3 (14:02):
Come on, come on, come on Corey, hey, big heads.

Speaker 1 (14:05):
She started texting Corey, cannot help you here.

Speaker 22 (14:08):
Let's yeah, she tried to texting me back, come on
some hey, big head. I was like, no, you was
with a nigga from Cleveland. Like they don't even clean
up under they nails, like the niggas is dirty, crazy.

Speaker 19 (14:18):
Now you're finna get beat up by all the Ohioans
in here.

Speaker 1 (14:21):
So replace that was Corey.

Speaker 26 (14:23):
Everyone.

Speaker 4 (14:24):
That commercial break was brought to.

Speaker 5 (14:25):
You by Corey.

Speaker 18 (14:27):
Y'all as an official Hioan.

Speaker 4 (14:28):
Cleveland is really not a part of.

Speaker 7 (14:30):
This about the flaming Corey, but you said Cleveland's gonna
give you a pass at least?

Speaker 22 (14:37):
That's crazy, bro, leave my ticket alone. Fun, Let's get
back to this topic. Do men and women only level
up after heartbreak? I said yes, people, Wait today, you know,
oh man that personally.

Speaker 3 (14:53):
Fucking women no more. I'll show them.

Speaker 13 (14:59):
The men go on their the.

Speaker 3 (15:00):
Men go under bridge, and they under the bridge.

Speaker 13 (15:04):
What the fuck?

Speaker 20 (15:05):
So I'm gonna give a real answer to this question.
I think the best relationships will level you up. But
if you're in a relationship that is breaking you down
and the person isn't good for you, then you're gonna
have to level up after that relationship.

Speaker 13 (15:20):
That was a real submission up.

Speaker 16 (15:25):
That was not as listen, listen, I know I know
that a lot of men level up after relationship because
they know that the woman is automatically end up dealing
with some nigga that probably you know, like six seven,
you know, and.

Speaker 13 (15:37):
All that shit like that. That good is that they
put it in between.

Speaker 16 (15:39):
That so the man like, you know what, level my
shit up and she gonna come back, But Tom he
wanted her to by time is it's time.

Speaker 13 (15:46):
For her to come back. He don't move on.

Speaker 5 (15:48):
He don't move on.

Speaker 13 (15:48):
He don't want her no more.

Speaker 16 (15:49):
If she fight to get back with that man, what
he end up doing going to the gym, yes, of course,
get him a new car, of course, get him a crib,
you know, change up his uh, his career and stuff
like that.

Speaker 13 (16:02):
And then we because men know, we already know that
women just wants for a certain thing.

Speaker 24 (16:08):
Stop it.

Speaker 13 (16:10):
That's crazy.

Speaker 3 (16:13):
How the drugs get in there, it's crazy. Well, I
don't know, go ahead, actually think of one.

Speaker 14 (16:19):
I mean that's just I mean, for your points to
make sense. That means that everybody is eventually going to
level up in life in general, either level up.

Speaker 1 (16:28):
In a relationship or a relationship.

Speaker 5 (16:29):
And that's just not you.

Speaker 14 (16:30):
Some people ain't shep and ain't never gonna be sheep
and their relationships together.

Speaker 20 (16:37):
I don't think everybody. I just think good relationships will
push you to be better. But if you're in a
bad relationship. Then after that relationship, you're gonna want to
level up. That's what I'm saying, right, or.

Speaker 3 (16:48):
You're broke, usually is depression.

Speaker 23 (16:52):
So y'all lock into working because of depression, So y'all
lock into something else besides the relationship. So working or
you know, stuff in whatever it is you got on
the side, you're going to do that a little bit harder.
And that's just what it is. It's actually depression that
make you do it. So, yeah, you are going to
love with.

Speaker 4 (17:08):
Yeah, I think a lot of women be holding me
and back and be holding them back. It's a fact though.

Speaker 11 (17:18):
You see a lot of men when they get focused
after relationship, they start to go up. They start to
go up because really the woman was holding them back.
She was draining them.

Speaker 3 (17:26):
Now that crazy word.

Speaker 11 (17:30):
For whatever reason, it's not it's not it's not actually
to get back to her do none of that. Just
the fact that she was like the negative energy. She
was the person while they couldn't get it together, but
they they was trying to do it so much. But
now that they you remove her negative energy from around you,
you're able to become who you was truly meant to
be great within your own rights. So a lot of men,

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once they was able to toss that load to the side,
get that burden off of them, he was able to
go in and stretch out and be the dude, they.

Speaker 13 (18:01):
Ain't lying, ain't line, thank you for coming.

Speaker 8 (18:04):
Back, taking that welcome back Rico by the way to
yeah that's my brother, don't leave us again, don't leave again.

Speaker 14 (18:14):
You know.

Speaker 18 (18:14):
They reminds me.

Speaker 20 (18:17):
There's a trend on TikTok right now of ladies like
posting themselves now and then they post themselves when they
were in their relationships, and.

Speaker 19 (18:25):
A lot of these women are down trodden. I'm not
even gonna hold you.

Speaker 20 (18:28):
When they're in these relationships, they look like the world
is just beating them up. And then they get out
of the relationship and they look stress free, and they
ed just started to grow back in and they just
started to lose weight.

Speaker 19 (18:42):
They look crazy in these relationships.

Speaker 20 (18:44):
So that's why I say it's bad relationships that are
doing this, the people that make them feel like they
need to glow up and advance and do all these things.

Speaker 22 (18:52):
Afterward, is it possible that they maybe they got complacent
in the relationship and now why it ended and they
needed to level up to try to.

Speaker 3 (19:02):
Oh shit, Corey, you got a point.

Speaker 22 (19:06):
I'm just saying, bro, Like we always talk about women
leveling up after the relationship.

Speaker 3 (19:10):
Maybe that nigga left you because in the relationship.

Speaker 8 (19:13):
You exactly, niggas do be leveling down, cooking, they be
leveling down.

Speaker 3 (19:18):
Now, why is that happened? Corey?

Speaker 8 (19:20):
Niggas gonna be up keeping all of this ship and
then you want to level down and wonder why shit happens?
It's the fact, well, you should have made better investments, nigga,
you should have.

Speaker 1 (19:30):
Made that extra car.

Speaker 3 (19:33):
I don't want to hear man Harriet.

Speaker 1 (19:39):
I some fast food and I asked four kids meal.

Speaker 14 (19:43):
I said, I want a kids meal, which is a
five chick for light, nuggies, a little fruit cup and
a little juicy juice.

Speaker 1 (19:49):
That's what I wanted. The motherfucker looked over at me.
It was like, motherfucker, what how much?

Speaker 14 (19:53):
And that was like, how what's the difference in the
price between the kid's meal and an eight piece? So
they gave me an eight piece a mother fucking fry
in a large drink, and I'm like, motherfucker, I wanted.
This is why a bitch can't get under one hundred
and seventy nine pounds. You know, sometimes y'all.

Speaker 1 (20:09):
Be doing it to us. I swear to God, I
can't order no six pieces with a man he gotta
make it. If he loved me, he.

Speaker 14 (20:15):
Gonna make sure I'll get a ten piece, and then
I'm gonna eat the other four.

Speaker 1 (20:20):
So now I'm big. Then the whole I can't.

Speaker 14 (20:22):
And then because I love him, I'm not just gonna
go in the kitchen and make the motherfucking beef tips
and rice but a little broccoli. I'm gonna make the
beef tips, the rice, the broccoli, the mac and cheese
with the corn bread, and I make through a little
you know, do some.

Speaker 12 (20:37):

Speaker 14 (20:38):
But you know that's what relationships do to you and
make you big as fuck because of ship like that?

Speaker 16 (20:45):
So hold on, wait, wait, wait, so you mean to
tell me instead of you you going home cooking all
that ship made you lose.

Speaker 5 (20:52):
Weight, but.

Speaker 1 (20:55):
Relationship makes your game? Motherfucker? Is it circling a circle
like most.

Speaker 18 (21:01):
Because we can't.

Speaker 22 (21:02):
Can we can we not limit to leveling down to
gain and weight. It's about fuck, It's about how you
show up.

Speaker 14 (21:12):
But that's the biggest thing that happens. It's just getting big, y'all.
Be y'all be doing that shit on purpose.

Speaker 19 (21:18):
It's not just big though.

Speaker 20 (21:19):
So a lot of people get into relationships, they stop
advancing in their career because they get comfortable. They stop,
you know, pursuing certain avenues because oh, well, you know,
I got somebody now I can kind of try to
you know, take time off from that, and you know,
they start to do the family thing, and then the
kids come in, so you can't really pursue certain areas.

Speaker 19 (21:37):
A lot of that plays into it.

Speaker 3 (21:39):
It's not just getting big, the leveling down.

Speaker 8 (21:43):
The leveling down sometimes has to do with getting very big.
I'm sorry to say this, Bun, I have to agree
with Corey. I know it's crazy, but I'm agreeing with Corey.
When your life starts declining, you start eating a lot
of bullshit and ice cream? Where is your motivation?

Speaker 3 (22:04):
What happened to your drive? Stop playing?

Speaker 13 (22:09):
Bro' gonna let her past with that? Why would you
let her pass that?

Speaker 11 (22:13):
Bro?

Speaker 13 (22:13):
Why would you let her just get away with that?
Doing she she said eating less made her game weight.

Speaker 1 (22:22):
I didn't say that, I say that's what she said.

Speaker 13 (22:26):
No, no, no, no no.

Speaker 16 (22:28):
You gave us a godda scenario about you eating a
six feet nug nugget and then you said, instead you
go home cooking them all fucking mac and cheese with
cornbread and all the works, and shipped like that and
you lost weight eating less.

Speaker 14 (22:44):
What I what I was trying to say was, I
don't know if I just got to jumped up with.
What I was trying to say is I'll go to
the store, well, to the fast food restaurant, order our
kids miling to do with, upgrade my meal to an
adult meal. Because he loved me and he wanted me
to be fool And when I go to the grocery store,
if it's just me cooking for myself, I'll make maybe

(23:07):
one man with maybe two sides. But because I love
him and I know he's gonna want to eat too,
I turn around to make four size and extra food.

Speaker 1 (23:16):
And you know, kind of shitty. Now we both fat
as him. Now we both found what she's saying.

Speaker 20 (23:24):
We found and a lot of a lot of single
women are not eating full meals. They eating like a
bird throughout the day. And then you got a call,
did you drink water today? Did you have something to eat?
So that's why they need, you know, and then they
get in this relationship and you making them eat full meal.

Speaker 1 (23:39):
I was the sixth Other things.

Speaker 3 (23:47):
Is that a lot of women, a lot of women
date men just so they can get for Oh, using
you for the meal is in sense I.

Speaker 4 (23:58):
Nobody was.

Speaker 3 (24:01):
Go ahead, we want Yeah, nobody is.

Speaker 11 (24:04):
Nobody is living their best life than a guy who
don't give a fuck. The guy who don't give a
fuck is living his best life. The stress free guy
who not letting no woman came down, he'd have been smiling. Motherfucker.
You gonna find this motherfucker is stress free. This nigga
at the gym or the barber shop, he ain't got
nowhere to be. They don't give him how many times you.

Speaker 4 (24:23):
Call his fall yo?

Speaker 11 (24:25):
If you look at me, either they with a good girl,
which is rare, or a woman that's driving, they ass
absolutely fucking crazy. It's only a very small percentage of
men that's actually in a relationship that really enjoyed being
around they women. So the guy that don't give a fuck,
he don't care. This guy he is aging backwards. This
nigga's Benjamin fucking buttons you out there.

Speaker 4 (24:45):
He don't care. You can call his fall, you can
hang up and curse him out. Mom, still going where
he going? And I don't care?

Speaker 11 (24:52):
And he can see you and in your face. A
man can look at you and be like this, niggas
stressed you just you gotta stop. He ain't looking yourself. Bro,
The dudes, they don't give a fuck. He does agent
backwards in real time.

Speaker 13 (25:09):
He ain't never told a lot of those tacks. Ain't
never tell a lot.

Speaker 4 (25:12):
It's so fucking.

Speaker 13 (25:14):
Oh he talking about me. I walk into the ginger
war world.

Speaker 3 (25:18):
Why man, crazy motherfucker dude.

Speaker 13 (25:25):
Man and women only level up after a breakup.

Speaker 27 (25:27):
We got a few people.

Speaker 16 (25:28):
That's at the bottom of the bottom of the stage.
Back to hear from jazz.

Speaker 13 (25:32):
Hey, Jack was going on. He tamer uh, I used
to be got doctor g down there. Entrepreneur's going on.

Speaker 11 (25:37):
Bro.

Speaker 13 (25:37):
He even got breezy and mine just popped up. Hey mind,
what do you guys think about the title? What do
you ladies think about the title?

Speaker 14 (25:48):
Damn well, I had nobody said and before I got
on the phone, before I got on the phone, and
this is real. I put these on everything that I
trust and believe in in this life as a single woman,
I'm a six piece cowboy wing one ranch with six

(26:09):
That's what I am.

Speaker 1 (26:09):
That's the how I am as a woman. When I
get in a relationship, you know.

Speaker 14 (26:14):
And even then I'll be able to eat like foe
wings and then I'll say the other two and I'll
snack on the other two maybe thirty minutes afterwards. But
in a relationship, I started to eat ten wings at
a time.

Speaker 13 (26:25):
How I had single?

Speaker 6 (26:27):
Right now?

Speaker 13 (26:28):
You single?

Speaker 18 (26:29):
Uh uh?

Speaker 1 (26:29):
I'm a ten wing bitch. I either had what.

Speaker 28 (26:36):
I had.

Speaker 1 (26:39):
I was two hundred pounds back in March.

Speaker 14 (26:41):
Nigga, I had to lose twenty pounds and I'm only
right now I'm dying in.

Speaker 12 (26:46):
I had to go there.

Speaker 14 (26:47):
I had to go to eight wings. I got in
tour with this nigga last week. I'm like, nigga, do
not order me, motherfucking so you.

Speaker 3 (26:55):
Need the extra two? You needed that extra two to three?

Speaker 18 (26:58):
Really need that?

Speaker 3 (27:00):
Oh God?

Speaker 1 (27:02):
She ordered me, ordered me three pieces.

Speaker 13 (27:04):
Bro.

Speaker 1 (27:05):
I'm good, I'm good.

Speaker 13 (27:06):
Stop doing that.

Speaker 1 (27:07):
Sh So that's my last admission. Y'all be doing that
on her piece this see, y'all, y'all do that.

Speaker 19 (27:13):
She stopped doing that, So you think they making women
fat on purpose? So nobody else?

Speaker 3 (27:18):
Wow, why would you say some ship like that?

Speaker 13 (27:23):
Because it's true, because it's true.

Speaker 8 (27:24):
So yeah, so you want feeding them winds and du
Chinese food and ship.

Speaker 3 (27:29):
Nigga, what did you do?

Speaker 13 (27:31):
Yes, the extra round on the house.

Speaker 3 (27:35):
Extra round on the house.

Speaker 13 (27:38):
Yeah, I can't resistance.

Speaker 16 (27:40):
She each this, She puffed up and said, do you
think I'm fast? I'm like, baby, you're thinking, the motherfucker
ain't gonna once to you feel.

Speaker 13 (27:45):
Mesh it up outside?

Speaker 16 (27:47):
And uh she gets the buzzard, but uh, yeah, you're
kind of right. Kind of all depends on what a
man is in his life. Okay, that's the difference.

Speaker 4 (28:00):
Yeah, that's very fair.

Speaker 3 (28:02):
Man.

Speaker 11 (28:03):
You could be having a good fucking time. You could
be having a good fucking time and enjoy yourself.

Speaker 4 (28:06):
A woman will purposely trying to make fucking happiness deplete it.

Speaker 11 (28:10):
They will fucking purposely see you somewhere relaxed, enjoying yourself,
having a fucking You could be doing something stupid. It's
skipping fucking rots across the pond, and she'll be like,
what the fuck is you?

Speaker 5 (28:20):
Why are you doing that?

Speaker 13 (28:21):
I don't know.

Speaker 11 (28:22):
I'm just relaxing, chilling. You could be doing anything. Motherfucker
could be on a pogo stick in your driveway. They'll
write that ship as childish behavior and you're just trying
to get your fucking hops and bops on. So, like
I said, man, like a lot of men that got
into relationships, they thought that was it because the woman.

Speaker 13 (28:38):
That they wanted.

Speaker 4 (28:39):
Yeah, they had them for a while.

Speaker 11 (28:40):
And it's like when you sign up for some shit,
I don't want that ship. It's like you got biased regret.
It's like you got the car that you really don't want.

Speaker 13 (28:46):
The payment.

Speaker 11 (28:47):
Shit looked so good on the shit looks so good
on the lot, and you enjoyed busting a few blocks
with it. Yeah, you gotta clean it up. Got a
few comments, but now you like every month to fucking
recurring payment. You're like, man, I should have never bought
a fucking bias.

Speaker 4 (29:00):
That's how a lot of women be.

Speaker 13 (29:01):
It'd be like, Yo, she looked good in the store.

Speaker 11 (29:03):
Where I met at, but now I just want to
return around, return the three day us.

Speaker 3 (29:10):
Of y'all reco You're insane, bro. It's light skin ship.

Speaker 8 (29:15):
I love Rico when he comes in light skin bendit
my brother, heyo, picking the room up, share the room up.

Speaker 3 (29:21):
If y'all are just now joining, do men and women
only level up after want to do? Yo? Bitch crazy
as broad? What the fuck are you talking to? Who
you talking to?

Speaker 16 (29:41):
It's a real bitch outside a dog, a dog, a
real dog.

Speaker 8 (29:45):
Motherfucker. Listen, let's get back to the topic. Do you
guys only level up after a heartbreak? I feel like yes,
I said this ship when I first came in, a
lot of y'all will wait until the person is done
with you to lose weight. Do this, so do that,
and you should have been your already on your shit
before you got it. Why wait until someone leaves you
until something tragic happens in the relationship to go level up?

(30:08):
This is this shit I want to talk about, picking
the room up, share the room up? Where in gender wolves,
Let's keep that.

Speaker 7 (30:13):
I was about to say this, Ronnu, if you leveled
up already, you ain't gotta level up, you just move on.

Speaker 13 (30:21):
That's what I was thinking the whole time.

Speaker 3 (30:23):
Expand on that. Let's talk about it, because I feel
like you ain't.

Speaker 8 (30:26):
It's never It's never going to be a time to
stop leveling up, bro, you always can get you another level.

Speaker 3 (30:30):
But talk to me though on that.

Speaker 7 (30:32):
Can we talk about manifestation. One of the things we
talk about is the state of being. If I'm in
a perpetual state of leveling up, because that's the being
that I'm in. If I'm in a relationship and it
don't work out, I just continue and leveling up like
I always do. So I'm already in the presence, in
the state and the mind, in the existence of being
leveled up. It's just I'm not with that person anymore,

(30:55):
and i just continue to move on. That's what I'm
talking about.

Speaker 4 (30:59):
Stat in gender wars, are we in gender wars?

Speaker 3 (31:02):
Let me.

Speaker 8 (31:06):
How many okay, okay, hold on?

Speaker 4 (31:09):
How many men y'all know that was with her? Hold on?
How many men y'all knows?

Speaker 11 (31:12):
House with a woman left, that woman got with another woman,
married the other one, MafA got a new house, mollfucker
got promoted, motherfucker got hold on.

Speaker 4 (31:23):
Wait a minute, week and we're gonna work.

Speaker 13 (31:24):
This ship up.

Speaker 4 (31:25):
And the woman his ex like, why he ain't never
none of you know why?

Speaker 29 (31:28):
Because you was fucking holding him back. Now that he
that poured into him that.

Speaker 11 (31:35):
Did all the right ship for him, and now this
motherfucker can't be stopped.

Speaker 4 (31:39):
He's a force to be wrecking with every day.

Speaker 29 (31:42):
That man wake up out of his bed trying to
find a new way to make more money. He is
on a fucking mission. And the truth is you was
the dead weight that.

Speaker 4 (31:52):
Was holding home way down. You were smothering him, You
was draining him.

Speaker 29 (31:57):
You was doing all this ship. Now he away from you,
and the world is his oyster. He is a new
reborn man.

Speaker 4 (32:05):
I wish I could speak in tongues in here. I
was hollers, small shamba.

Speaker 12 (32:12):
The house carlong to her. If she break up with him,
He backed the ship.

Speaker 5 (32:17):
She can hold.

Speaker 4 (32:25):
Al lor, scar up, lady, give it, give it back to.

Speaker 8 (32:35):
House.

Speaker 3 (32:36):
Good.

Speaker 4 (32:37):
Do you know how many men that got.

Speaker 11 (32:38):
Divorcee or gave that woman ended up?

Speaker 4 (32:40):
They glass she got all that ship.

Speaker 11 (32:42):
They rather start from scratch and start over a peace
of mind than deal with the misery that they've been
dealing with for the last four or five years.

Speaker 4 (32:51):
She can have every car, she can.

Speaker 11 (32:53):
Have the house, but you know, she never gonna have contentment,
She never gonna have peace, She never gonna have sar
within herself.

Speaker 29 (33:00):
Because deep in her heart of hers she know I
was the reason.

Speaker 11 (33:03):
That man was held back. She know I could have
been more supportive. She know that that man got up
and with the work every day to do the best
thing for me.

Speaker 29 (33:11):
And all I did was nag.

Speaker 4 (33:13):
Nag, nag, nag, So free me, Lord, break these shades.
Oh lordy, no.

Speaker 12 (33:20):
Reason do i't have anything?

Speaker 25 (33:22):
Because he got with the woman who got everything for
her last relationship.

Speaker 11 (33:27):
That man left to him.

Speaker 25 (33:29):
He got with another woman who already had her house,
her cars, She got a great credits girl, her life
is going great. She get with him and he moves in,
he's driving one of the cars, and he's like, oh
he leveled up.

Speaker 18 (33:42):
He didn't level ship.

Speaker 5 (33:44):
It's a pattern.

Speaker 4 (33:45):
It's a pattern of the stunner.

Speaker 11 (33:46):
Every man leave her. Every man that all the ship
that she got, every man that leaves they do better.
All the men with everything she got rather not be
with her. It's some men that left great situations with
women that were balling. But you know what, I feel
more free and relaxed than any s u V I
could drive, or any nice house.

Speaker 4 (34:06):
I am free.

Speaker 11 (34:07):
I rather go sit and myself and still one more
millerable fucking day with you.

Speaker 13 (34:15):
God, damn, damn just hopping pills. Oh wow, you're saying
turned the attic after you the.

Speaker 25 (34:25):
Bridge, popping pills.

Speaker 1 (34:32):
Or in or in prison.

Speaker 19 (34:34):
That's right, he's gonna come in prison, you know.

Speaker 1 (34:38):
Yeah, sometimes you gotta give them for these niggas I
didn't put.

Speaker 25 (34:41):
Somebody, got to take them back to save them, just
to save them.

Speaker 3 (34:45):
Wow, take him back, just to save him? And what
kind of bullshit is that? Sorcery?

Speaker 14 (34:56):
Sorcery, you little piece of game before you know, he
didn't set up here and decided that he went.

Speaker 1 (35:08):
In jail, got to jail, didn't have nowhere.

Speaker 14 (35:09):
To go after that crazy and he was at my
ship and I'm like, you can't be here. And I
knew that if I put him out, he would soon.

Speaker 26 (35:17):
Go to jail.

Speaker 1 (35:19):
But I still do that, and he did that or
two he went back to So you hold on.

Speaker 8 (35:23):
Hold on, Harriet, So you knew, so hold on, you
knew this nigga was going to go back to jail,
and you still put him out.

Speaker 3 (35:30):
I think you're the most I think you're toxic. I
think you you knew.

Speaker 8 (35:34):
Why wouldn't you want to save this brother's life. I
can't you knew he was you knew he was going
to go to jail. You put him out, and your
rass put him out.

Speaker 14 (35:46):
At the time, I wasn't even practicing Christian principles or
anything like that.

Speaker 4 (35:54):
Boy asked you a question. My brother asked you a question.

Speaker 3 (35:58):
Go ahead, brother, that's why get off.

Speaker 4 (36:00):
Let me ask you a.

Speaker 11 (36:00):
Question if men, if men didn't focus on Kuchie at all,
if Kuchie was not men's driving for us, and they
just said I had to be with you based off
your personality, your character.

Speaker 4 (36:14):
See eighty said of women would not make the fucking cut.
They would not make the cut.

Speaker 11 (36:22):
If men discipline themselves and saying you know what, I
don't care, I don't want no sex from you, I
just want to ve on, hold on, let's wake it up.
If we base them off strictly the character, your honesty
and your compassion and those things, and men discipline themselves,
most women, because most men the only thing they got
they couldn't resist them, couldn't resist the ass, the yams.

Speaker 4 (36:46):
They got her, and then they smashed and they realized
this shit is not worth it.

Speaker 30 (36:50):
I don't care how she looked when she maked. I
don't care about her breast. Take go give that shit
to whoever you want to give that shit to. I
don't want I don't want to, I don't won't show ass.

Speaker 4 (37:03):
That's just what it is.

Speaker 11 (37:04):
And women women know women are bad people. Women know
this about other women.

Speaker 4 (37:08):
This is a sad part.

Speaker 29 (37:09):
Most women realize that other women are not good people.

Speaker 13 (37:14):
They're not.

Speaker 4 (37:15):
And the men that good get the good women.

Speaker 11 (37:18):
They know for a fact that I got a good
woman and she rareted most women.

Speaker 4 (37:24):
That's why men they got good women.

Speaker 31 (37:26):
They feel sad for other women because they realize it
ain't too many more good women left. It's not so
I tell these men focus on you, focus on like
they say, get to your money, and don't let these.

Speaker 4 (37:39):
I don't care how good she look, brother, just stir
stepp broke when she come around, Act like you're running
with a football. Strong arm herrass in the chin, and
keep it moving to the fucking left.

Speaker 11 (37:49):
If you get too horny, go in the shower, go
get us. I don't care what you gotta do, jack,
shack whatever. Don't let your ass all victim to these
fucking heathens.

Speaker 13 (37:59):
Because a lot, Oh my god, bro, I mean have
people on the stage.

Speaker 16 (38:10):
You know, you guys can talk he speaking and stuff
like that, which I can jump in when I want
to jump in there.

Speaker 13 (38:14):
It's okay, we're good with it.

Speaker 5 (38:17):
And I got a red bar.

Speaker 3 (38:20):
Yo, who's trying to jump in?

Speaker 5 (38:23):
Rob?

Speaker 3 (38:23):
What's good? My brother? How you feeling?

Speaker 18 (38:25):
Man?

Speaker 8 (38:26):
This topic is like as like I said, they always
they always level up after you. Guys always want to
dive then and be like, you know what, let me
go do what I need to do now? Why wait
so long? This the conversation what happened today? So you
can expand the floor popcorn style? Whoever wants to jump
in jump in? Do men and women only level up

(38:46):
after heartbreak? I already gave my submission. I said, yeah,
they wait until after some shit happens. If you ain't
level up before that, then you're doing yourself with disservice.
Level up before the relationship, so that way you trying
to do the ship.

Speaker 1 (39:00):
Nah.

Speaker 13 (39:00):
No, even.

Speaker 16 (39:04):
But if you even if you level up right, you
when you when it's a breakup, you get to the
point where you're like, you know what, you don't you
don't work as hard, you don't have the most same
motivation and all that ship too, so you can you
can still lose that at the.

Speaker 13 (39:16):
Same time to stack so I don't. I may lose
that drive.

Speaker 16 (39:23):
You might even lose that little project you had you
had going on, because that you know, the do date,
the day is over there, you know, you know, pass
them on.

Speaker 13 (39:31):
You know what I'm saying. So and then it just
knock you back down and you gotta jump your ass
back up.

Speaker 12 (39:36):
Uh.

Speaker 13 (39:36):
And I could just speak for myself on that type
of situation.

Speaker 16 (39:38):
So what I had to do is say, you know what,
I had a zone in and I had to level
the funk up, bro, and I had the first thing
I did was get my ass right back and that
gym harder at this time, and I'm more focused and
stuff like that, and I get right back to the
little money making things that I had going on. Yes,
and guess what, who, guess who's looking at me at
the same time. I'm not gonna block you social media,
not gonna do that. The ax is looking at me, bro,

(40:00):
Do you know what I'm saying?

Speaker 3 (40:03):
Yeah, So go ahead, Harriet.

Speaker 14 (40:05):
Sometimes Also, you know, when you're in a relationship with
fuck Nicking, he make you feel terrible, right, So y'all right, y'all,
self esteem and your confidence don't be the highest. You
didn't chose to push yourselves to some old bullshit. You
look in the mirror, all you see is some old bullshit.

(40:26):
And in order to you know, handle that.

Speaker 1 (40:30):
Problem, you gotta go to the gym. You gotta get sixy.

Speaker 14 (40:35):
You gotta do some things that validate you and add
value to yourself so you can be right where you
was before. Now that may be a higher. You may
need to go a little bit higher to feel the
way you felt before. See if somebody had brought you down.

Speaker 4 (40:54):
Bullshit.

Speaker 11 (40:56):
These extra hours, these extra hours I could be working,
and I don't work on because I want to be
with her. This extra shit, I could be doing this
other job I was gonna take home. I know she
was gonna complain because she was like, she don't see
me enough already. That shit is all Now I can
do all that now.

Speaker 4 (41:10):
Ain't nothing, ain't none holding me, Ain't nothing holding me.
I want to travel.

Speaker 11 (41:15):
I just go travel the.

Speaker 4 (41:16):
People that I've been waiting to see. I want to
go visit my family and my register. Now I can go.
I just jump on the plane, go with the hell
I want to go. I want to go out with
my friends. We want to go bowling. I don't have
to worry about none of that shit. I don't got
to do nothing. I want to stay up late. I
wake up my house.

Speaker 11 (41:32):
Ain't my house ain't dirty because ain't nobody really doing nothing?

Speaker 3 (41:35):
Just me.

Speaker 11 (41:36):
I'm cleaning my room, making my bed, I eat, order
my own food, and go to sleep at night.

Speaker 4 (41:42):
I do my little shit and come back home.

Speaker 11 (41:45):
I got I got my own piece and quiet in
my own TV, in my Netflix movies or whatever, watching
my basketball game be in my home. Well, we can
go out, chick, and guess what I gotta look, I
got me a little side thing if I do want to,
I do want to go hang out a house so female,
a couple of one. So I see they got that
on this They ain't really that stressful. But guess what,
I go back to my own ship, and I ain't

(42:06):
got to worry about nothing.

Speaker 12 (42:07):
You ain't.

Speaker 4 (42:08):
I ain't got to answer. I ain't gotta get no
text with you by picking up.

Speaker 11 (42:11):
Nothing from the store about this, and by dad about
your car and the fucking noise it make.

Speaker 4 (42:16):
That's your fucking problem now, So you need to deal
with your own problem.

Speaker 3 (42:23):
You're on your own fut.

Speaker 6 (42:30):
They don't stress, you know you, my brother.

Speaker 4 (42:33):
They stressed.

Speaker 11 (42:34):
They put their own happiness to the back to make
women happy. They go extra hard to do everything women
want to do. Their money, they free time, they energy,
whatever she needs a lot of times, if you keep.

Speaker 4 (42:48):
Pouring into something that ain't pouring into you, that ship
gonna drive up.

Speaker 13 (42:52):
Bro.

Speaker 4 (42:52):
A lot of men they exhilarated.

Speaker 11 (42:54):
They spend a lot of energy, emotional stress, all this ship,
worriation about all this.

Speaker 4 (43:00):
They don't have to worry about. That's why a lot
of these men that don't be giving a fuck.

Speaker 11 (43:04):
They just feel in powered because you kind of unless
you got a good Now, I'm not saying that about
all women.

Speaker 4 (43:09):
I want to make that clip. It is some men
that got that. But for the men that a lot
of these men with these big.

Speaker 11 (43:14):
Assholes that don't want to go home, a lot of
these men with these nice ass cars that don't care.

Speaker 4 (43:19):
And you be complimenting the nigga too, like damn, bro,
you doing your thing, living good and in his mind.

Speaker 11 (43:24):
He looking at you like, boy, if you only knew
the ship that I wish I could switch places with
your ass and a heartbeat, and so you know, all
you get every now and then is something you know,
coochie every now.

Speaker 4 (43:35):
And then a little bit of a topy sloppy topic. Man,
that shit not working.

Speaker 3 (43:40):
Shit ain't worth it. Yeah.

Speaker 8 (43:49):
Now you guys are just now joining wearing the gender
world wide house. Pick the room up, share the room
up right? I want to get into this new ship.
Are trauma bond mistaken for soul mates? I feel like
y'all are going and on ship that ain't like what
you what you holding hands about? You know this this
heartbreak ship? For why you ain't with to go fix yourself?

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Why are you mistaking this for your partner?

Speaker 3 (44:15):
Amber? Come up?

Speaker 8 (44:17):
Love me some man berg shout us the cat too
with sen Yorda and diego to my sister's pull up right, listen,
Trauma bonds are sometimes mistaken for so mates. You guys
will be following love with heartbreaks, following in love with.

Speaker 13 (44:33):
That.

Speaker 8 (44:37):
Yeah, get into this ship man, yo. Yeah, let's list
this conversation up man, ping the room up man, Gender
Wars biggest biggest, where's wou at?

Speaker 13 (44:46):
Man?

Speaker 3 (44:47):
Somebody ping mac in head too?

Speaker 13 (44:49):
Man?

Speaker 3 (44:49):
Where let's go? Yeah, how do you feel about this?
One man. Kick this ship off, Harriet, whoever, let's.

Speaker 5 (44:54):
Kick it on.

Speaker 13 (44:55):
Trauma Bond's mistaken for so mad? Hell fucking yeah, absolutely,
bro all the time, all the time.

Speaker 16 (45:02):
And then after you get that little post clarification out
of you, you notice that that it was just you
was bonding, just off a bull shit and trauma.

Speaker 13 (45:13):
That's definitely a thing. What you gonna say, Mic, Yeah,
I was.

Speaker 1 (45:18):
Just trying to say that.

Speaker 14 (45:19):
Well, I mean, you have posted the clarity. I'm talking
about a situation where a person has no clarity.

Speaker 4 (45:25):
If you're in a.

Speaker 14 (45:25):
Toxic gas relationship and you Harley Quinn and he's the
joker sometimes and wow.

Speaker 3 (45:33):
That sounds real, toxic, sounds like a nice party.

Speaker 1 (45:36):
But then you don't need to be with this motherfucker.

Speaker 14 (45:39):
Nobody likes youall relationship, nobody wants y'all together because y'all
got other ship to do, like better shit to do
than to be fucking with each other past a certain point.
You know, if you still have love for that motherfucker you,
that's a trauma boe. If this motherfucker do whatever they
want to do to you around you about you, like
I said, Harley Quinn and the Joker shit and they

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still in love. You know, y'all need you know somebody.
Y'all need to get therapy and see help and support
because y'all need to be together. That's not mean you
were so made to somebody. That means that you are
in a toxic situation and your brain has li likened
your relationship to crack cocaine.

Speaker 1 (46:18):
It's bad for you physically and mentally, but it feels
good and it has you addicted.

Speaker 13 (46:25):
It feels it has you addicted to the highs and.

Speaker 1 (46:28):
The lows and then the journey in between the two,
and you need help.

Speaker 13 (46:33):
Tell yah, yeah, man, it feels so good.

Speaker 1 (46:39):
Relationships.

Speaker 8 (46:40):
Fuck you, motherfucker yo? Who else supposed to come in?
Trauma Bund's mistaken for so much? Let's continue this conversation, Biggie,
thank you for joining, Laila, Rosie, Jazz Maink got doctor
b up here. He's about to come up here and
kick some shit over Ron. Give with me breathe see
should care?

Speaker 3 (47:00):
Yo?

Speaker 8 (47:01):
Let's continue to go up my trauma Bond's mistaken for
soul mates? Are people just falling in love with heartbreaks
and fucked up situations that they.

Speaker 3 (47:11):
Ain't got nothing no business being there?

Speaker 8 (47:12):
Why the fuck you in this situation where you know
you should have got out that shit a long time ago.

Speaker 12 (47:16):
RIGHTO, I'm so low, have no mind.

Speaker 16 (47:26):
That's three has been in situations why they don't leave it?
Then we know that we know full of full of
trauma and bullshit. Bro, ain't know so many things but
be lonely.

Speaker 13 (47:36):
They don't want to leave.

Speaker 3 (47:37):
Bro, was you ever in that situation? Did you ever
have to like, did you hard for you to leave? Buddy?

Speaker 32 (47:45):
Oh?

Speaker 3 (47:45):
Mind my motherfucking bits.

Speaker 8 (47:49):
When the toxic motherfucker is speaking now he wants me
to mind my fucking business.

Speaker 3 (47:54):
Shut up, big fat fucking mouth.

Speaker 6 (47:59):
Yo, don't just bro, why you're mad?

Speaker 5 (48:07):
Bro?

Speaker 3 (48:08):
You mad?

Speaker 13 (48:09):
Bro?

Speaker 3 (48:10):
Sut your big fucking up into it.

Speaker 13 (48:14):
Yeah, I'll put the blacking in now. Such a big
fat fucking black mouth.

Speaker 5 (48:18):
That's why I used that.

Speaker 13 (48:19):
Now, that's the once.

Speaker 4 (48:21):
You had that one from.

Speaker 13 (48:22):
Don't use that on me again. I don't like it,
feel me, but like, yeah, I mean I've.

Speaker 16 (48:26):
Been in some situations when I was like, no, what
you know what I'm saying, she's a good little Jones.
I mean, she's a good little situation for the time being.

Speaker 13 (48:32):
And being that Mouffuler too long. Keep it in the buck, Bro.
A lot of people ain't gonnmit that sack. Everybody's perfect, right, y'all?
Perfect bunch wow, m.

Speaker 8 (48:45):
Trauma bonds definitely mistaken for so mates. Nothing was ever perfect,
But I feel like a lot of people think it
is perfect. Sh It ain't perfect.

Speaker 4 (48:53):
Man.

Speaker 8 (48:53):
I know you done been with someone and you was like, man,
I thought this was the I thought this was the ship. Nah,
the ship's full of chaos.

Speaker 13 (49:03):
You know what I'm saying, Ryan should not me?

Speaker 3 (49:07):
You know, Ryan, why you feel like that? Though? Ma Bro,
come through. Let's talk about it.

Speaker 33 (49:11):
Let's expand conversation, because I don't like most people like that,
and I don't like people long term like that in
the first place.

Speaker 3 (49:18):
I like people for the moment because people go fuck up.

Speaker 8 (49:21):
So you so you are all right? I got a
question for you, Ryan. So basically, you're telling me you
are already going into it with this half ass temporary mindset,
that's what you're saying. Like it's like, Okay, this is
toopery because.

Speaker 33 (49:37):
People are predictable, and I cannot have that much faith
in human beings because we are unpredictable and we all are.
We change our minds very much every day about a
lot of shit. So why would I go on there,
you know, having all this hope and people could be unpredictable,
and they have the right to change their mind and
they right, they have the right to say I don't

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like you today?

Speaker 5 (49:59):
Why would I do that?

Speaker 3 (50:06):
You know what I was like, Why do you say that?

Speaker 6 (50:11):
Wow?

Speaker 13 (50:12):
Wow?

Speaker 3 (50:12):
Why why you gotta be all that?

Speaker 13 (50:14):
Bro?

Speaker 3 (50:14):
What if he is?

Speaker 13 (50:17):
Cuchi? Yeah, that you are what you want to recontestate me?

Speaker 18 (50:22):
Dw Now you performed.

Speaker 13 (50:35):
Everybody's so quiet? Quiet on the motherfucker stage? Was sack?
What they about the situation?

Speaker 8 (50:41):
Yeah, they're probably they're probably going through trauma right now. Yeah,
they in deep trauma. Thought probably what the fuck is
up with y'all?

Speaker 3 (50:49):
What they love? What's good? Right now?

Speaker 5 (50:52):
Ryan?

Speaker 3 (50:52):
I think you came up and scared everyone.

Speaker 8 (50:54):
You said that ship, Ryan, he said, fuck the funk
the whole relationship ship funk?

Speaker 3 (50:59):
Are you motherfuckers? That's what you.

Speaker 13 (51:04):
Know? She can relate to this ship. That's why she's
sitting there like, I'm you I'm not gonna speak on this.

Speaker 3 (51:12):
You don't want to.

Speaker 13 (51:13):
It's okay, Jays, we're friends.

Speaker 14 (51:15):
I didn't had I had a trauma bond friendship before relationship,
but I thought I were.

Speaker 1 (51:22):
No a friendship like with a girl like we we
trauma bond.

Speaker 14 (51:26):
We trauma bonded, and I didn't realize that there was
no way that I could support her she could support
me as a friend.

Speaker 1 (51:35):
So there was no youth for us to be friends.
We just went through some things together before Uh we're
not in that space anymore. So there was just no
use for the relationship, you know, in this next level
of life, because yeah.

Speaker 13 (51:51):
Any shn't going on just you know, just.

Speaker 14 (52:01):
You know, no no seasoning or carping munchon. But I
am prettiful about well, I guess y'all. Y'all can't tell
I'm careful about who I'll spend my time with because
I'll be talking to y'all the time.

Speaker 3 (52:10):
But in my real life, like, I.

Speaker 14 (52:13):
Am careful about who I share my precious energy week.
So now I win, no season on carper munch just
a lot of time wasting on the beach, so.

Speaker 27 (52:25):
I have no body to call myle I.

Speaker 3 (52:29):
Hate to waste time on the from what's wrong with you?

Speaker 18 (52:33):
I don't know?

Speaker 3 (52:34):
As well? What do you do do? You not want
to be lonely, motherfucker.

Speaker 13 (52:39):
I'm looking at the title and this is like a
lowly fucking title. What's that black ass nigger name that
made that song? Again, mister Lovely, I have no body
fucking blew up nuts.

Speaker 3 (52:57):
You something Rowan I'm wrong with. Yeah, I'm telling.

Speaker 16 (53:01):
Y'all right now, this is the if y'all in the
gul is going through this to y'all can say that
I went through it, put it to the chat, if
you went through put the one chats, you went through
it to.

Speaker 2 (53:17):
One.

Speaker 3 (53:18):
No, that's crazy. What's good? I know, Breezy want to
come through what's crazy?

Speaker 34 (53:28):
So are trauma vine is mistaken for so mates?

Speaker 1 (53:31):
I think so.

Speaker 34 (53:33):
And the reason why I think that is because, like
say you've gone through something and then you meet somebody
that is also maybe going through something similar. You might
think like, oh they understand me, oh they get me,
and then you were you mistake, like, oh yeah, we
have something in common, but it's not a good positive

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thing that's in common, like something that y'all would want
to repeat moving forward. And so I think that people
bond in that type of way. But that's just kind
of like toxic yeah.

Speaker 1 (54:08):
And then on top of that, don't need for those people.
It ain't like those people are bad people.

Speaker 14 (54:13):
They just you know you And this sounds narcissistic, but
in the area, you know, God said you certain people
in certain seasons to help you. It's just I feel
like that's important to Pep God's and you fucking angels.
But that don't mean that that's supposed to be your
lifetime homegirl or whatever.

Speaker 1 (54:31):
The case may be.

Speaker 14 (54:32):
Y'all may not fit this together in that dynamic, or
they don't mean they're supposed to be your husband. You
know that may y'all may not fit together in that
particular dynamic. But you know, shit, I can be going
through something right now and y'all could help me out
with what I'm going through and be a big you know,
playmaker and what's happening in my life.

Speaker 1 (54:50):
But that don't mean I'm supposed to be with ya.

Speaker 13 (54:53):
You know you want to be with menon.

Speaker 12 (54:57):
Told somebody you love them, and then once you're not
going through.

Speaker 1 (54:59):
This right exactly like you don't need them no more?

Speaker 6 (55:04):
I like them.

Speaker 3 (55:07):
Wow.

Speaker 8 (55:08):
So basically y'all telling me that people mistake ship, they
ain't mistake Oh yeah, just because we're getting along and
we can relate to this.

Speaker 3 (55:15):
They mistake that for the soul made.

Speaker 8 (55:18):
And then want to expand, expand and wait. That got
me thinking, yay, that's why motherfucker's together for so long
and it's not even.

Speaker 3 (55:24):
Really meant to be. It's because.

Speaker 8 (55:28):
My worst part of my life boning on ship that
you're not supposed to be bonding on.

Speaker 3 (55:32):
You should have went to therapy.

Speaker 16 (55:35):
That's what the rustom stacked. I found them when I
was at my lower I found them. I was at
my lowest point.

Speaker 13 (55:40):
It was there for me. That's my soulmate.

Speaker 8 (55:42):
So you find so Usually it's when you're at the
lowest point in your life you think.

Speaker 13 (55:48):
Yeah, when you're like, okay, yeah, people they need they
got that sa mm hmm.

Speaker 14 (55:57):
My homegirl boyfriend, she was sucked up because he said
he loved her, because he didn't did so much. She's
in front of her and she he ain't never she
had never reported him or seen him in jail or
you know, left him or judge him or anything like that.

Speaker 1 (56:12):
And I'm like, I don't know.

Speaker 3 (56:15):
So he did a bowl bunch of legal ship and
now we're going.

Speaker 14 (56:20):
In the streets and she ain't never left me or
told on me or nexting like O kay of like
that's why I love her so much?

Speaker 1 (56:28):
Like whoa, that's a.

Speaker 8 (56:29):
Trauma bond to me, that's definitely a trauma bond. Like
damn you so you only you only you know what
I mean, only promoting when I do the negative.

Speaker 3 (56:40):
Ship's fucking insane. Let's ping the room up and shutter room.

Speaker 8 (56:45):
Let's get some more voices in here are trauma bond's
mistaken for soul mates. Let's go, man, who else wants
to jump in after Harriet? The floor is open. All
you as are traumatized. Everybody, I don't give an no

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one's saying yo, yeah right now, everybody that's at the
bottom yell are traumatized. That's what nobody.

Speaker 13 (57:13):
I think you're making them sad, making them sad?

Speaker 3 (57:16):
Yeah yeah, I think this one's a sad Yeah yeah,
grab a tissue?

Speaker 13 (57:24):
Yeah us, Why is it so this?

Speaker 1 (57:42):
It might be uncomfortable when I'll be getting ship like that.

Speaker 3 (57:45):
I don't know.

Speaker 1 (57:48):
What what you say making me nerves?

Speaker 8 (57:53):
I'm making you you see what I mean? See yea,
If she's nervous, imagine who else is nervous?

Speaker 1 (57:59):
Yeah?

Speaker 16 (58:00):
A trauma bond is one healthy emotionally attachment that can
form between a person and an abuse.

Speaker 35 (58:08):
Yeah, so a real trauma bond is, like it's kind
of like Stockholm syndrome. So that's what a trauma bond is.
It's characterized by a cycle of abuse and positive for
a little bit.

Speaker 3 (58:23):
Better go ahead and answer this one.

Speaker 5 (58:29):
Earlier.

Speaker 35 (58:30):
Yeah, you don't remember when Vaughn like defined what an
actual trauma band was.

Speaker 3 (58:36):
Do you remember?

Speaker 35 (58:37):
People throw it around like it's like two people that
have a similar experience and they call it a trauma bond.
That's not what a trauma bond is.

Speaker 13 (58:45):
Mm hmm.

Speaker 16 (58:47):
Well I got a question to ask shoot unicorn. Yeah,
all right, all right, it's being too nice a red
flag nowadays.

Speaker 3 (59:00):
Being very nice, like very very oddly nice.

Speaker 35 (59:07):
I'm a red flag for like that someone never ever
disagrees with you ever.

Speaker 18 (59:13):
That would be a problem for me.

Speaker 35 (59:17):
So, yeah, what do you mean, Like, if you're in
relationship with someone like so you just meet them or
you've been you know, you've known each other for a
little while, and like they never say anything in disagreement
of anything you say, Like, I think too agreeable is
definitely something you want to take the second look at

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because I don't think that's possible.

Speaker 16 (59:40):
That's why I like my women disagree in the background
right now, and you agree with righting here right now.

Speaker 13 (59:47):
Don't call it the conflicts. Wow, it's a beautiful day
when that happens. What you want to do with you?

Speaker 1 (59:55):
What you say, let's disagree with disagree.

Speaker 13 (59:59):
If she just agrees with me, I'm just not going
to give her allowance.

Speaker 8 (01:00:04):
You want to lead a bit for Yeah, so you're
telling me this bitch for dead? Is that what the
fuck you're gonna do? Why would you lead that bitch
for dead?

Speaker 19 (01:00:18):
It sounds very way.

Speaker 13 (01:00:20):
She has too long she has to learn don't bite
the hand that you got to understand that, you know what.

Speaker 35 (01:00:28):
But I also like, I agree with you a little
bit because I'm like, you don't have to say everything, Like,
if someone's sharing an opinion with you, you don't have
to necessarily be like I disagree, like and start a
problematic conversation either, right, Like you could just bow out
and just be like okay, Like I don't know why

(01:00:49):
there's like if I if you are allowed to disagree
with other human beings and how they see. But I
do think like, if someone has to disagree with you
all the time, that's also a problem because everything that
comes to your mind doesn't have to come to come
out of your mouth.

Speaker 13 (01:01:03):
I swear I hate that shit. I hate it. I
hate I'd rather just agree and just going about your way.
People can have a good day, you know what I'm saying.
I can make you feel good. I can make you
feel good afterwards you give me. You can't make me
feel good after you. I'm still gonna be pissed off
because you're always in this disagreement with me.

Speaker 3 (01:01:19):
You feel me.

Speaker 13 (01:01:20):
But if you just walk off okay, you angry, be.

Speaker 16 (01:01:23):
Able to process that ship and you know, you put
your little emotions in it, and I hey.

Speaker 13 (01:01:27):
Baby, coming a score. Let's go somewhere real quick, you
know what I mean, and we have our little fun.
You get it. So yeah, just be It's okay to
be nice, you know, you know, and be agreeable.

Speaker 4 (01:01:37):
That's how I feel.

Speaker 16 (01:01:38):
But if I meet somebody, okay, sax, if I meet
somebody that I never met before and.

Speaker 13 (01:01:43):
They just want to be extra nice for me to
me like that, it's the fucking problem.

Speaker 36 (01:01:48):
Broeh on my tyree, Shit, what do you want from me,
you feel me broke type situation like that's how feels.

Speaker 3 (01:02:01):
That's why I asks this question. Is being too nice
a red flag? Nowadays?

Speaker 8 (01:02:05):
A lot of you guys are very very very very
very weary about certain shit, right, very right?

Speaker 3 (01:02:12):
You know, being too nice can get you guys fucked up?

Speaker 13 (01:02:16):
Right?

Speaker 3 (01:02:16):
Wasn't we just talking about this when we last night?
Wasn't just talking about get Richard dot Trent I talk
about us everywhere? Okay, So y'all don't feel like it's
a red flag.

Speaker 8 (01:02:25):
Sometimes the motherfuckers is too nice or you're just willingly
giving out this love and you don't think that's a love.
I don't think that's a little odd without people earning it,
it's good.

Speaker 12 (01:02:38):
I think it's weird.

Speaker 34 (01:02:38):
It's like, but you can self sabotage while doing that,
Like it's like, uh, you meet somebody and be like, uh,
this is the truth, this, this is something off about this.
People ain't just like this and not times out of
ten it is.

Speaker 1 (01:02:54):
Too good to be true.

Speaker 34 (01:02:55):
But you can fuck around and Michelle Blessing, like, you know,
because you're just not used to somebody be in a
certain type of way.

Speaker 18 (01:03:04):
Yeah, I that too.

Speaker 35 (01:03:06):
Breathee like you you never had anyone be nice to you,
so your nice gauge could be off too.

Speaker 27 (01:03:12):
Mm hm hmmm mmmm.

Speaker 35 (01:03:18):
Was specifically well she she was like, you never experienced
it before, so like if you're used to not being
treated well, right, it's just like they say this about
women who leave abusive, abusive relationships. Right, so the next
guy who like never puts his hand on her seems
like literally the nice guy in the world, but her
nice gauge is.

Speaker 1 (01:03:37):
Off because she's been treated so badly.

Speaker 35 (01:03:40):
So I think everyone has a little bit of that
at a certain age because you've had negative experiences. So
someone could actually just be nice to you. It could
be genuine, but because you haven't experienced that kind of thing,
you might your reader might be going off because it's different.

Speaker 1 (01:04:04):
That happens to a lot with people.

Speaker 34 (01:04:09):
Also, like say you meet a guy, right and then
he just want to give you money and shit like that.
It'd be like, nigga, what is your own you're trying
to buy something?

Speaker 5 (01:04:17):
What you what you're doing?

Speaker 34 (01:04:18):
Why are you There's People don't just walk around passing
all money.

Speaker 13 (01:04:22):
Like that, So it'd just be like what some men
do because they know that women love it.

Speaker 1 (01:04:29):
Be like overwhelming, like that's what we're saying.

Speaker 8 (01:04:32):
Yay, the overwhelming part breezy like talk about how that
feels for like from the woman's perspective, to like them
too nice part.

Speaker 34 (01:04:41):
I was in a situation before, and this was like
a decade ago or something like that, and I went
out with this guy.

Speaker 1 (01:04:49):
We went to Ruth Chris.

Speaker 34 (01:04:50):
Everything was fine. Mind you, he's a hood nigga, so
it was embarrassing going to Ruth Chris.

Speaker 18 (01:04:56):
I'm not gonna hold you, but whatever.

Speaker 24 (01:04:58):
We went.

Speaker 34 (01:04:59):
Then the next time I saw him, he gave me
fourteen hundred dollars. Now, granted, I like money, so I
was happy, but aass forward further down the line, he
was an asshole. He was a fucking asshole, and so
he was like used to throwing money around.

Speaker 1 (01:05:20):
Doing nice things.

Speaker 34 (01:05:21):
It didn't means it to him because he had it,
but it should have been a red flag. He was
using that to cover up his asshole ways.

Speaker 16 (01:05:30):
But wait, was he an asshole because as a matter
of fact, that you weren't trying to give up a
piece of you that he thought that you would have.
You didn't given you didn't ensure the affection and stuff
like that or what. He's just an asshole just because
he was born to be an asshole.

Speaker 34 (01:05:43):
No, he was just an asshole. That's who he is
as a person. Love him to death, you know, cool
as hell, But he's an asshole. And he thinks that
he can throw money around. He thinks that he's a
very charming person. He thinks that that's just what.

Speaker 18 (01:05:59):
He can do.

Speaker 12 (01:06:00):
And I should have known then.

Speaker 34 (01:06:02):
I was still gonna take that fourteen hundred dollars.

Speaker 12 (01:06:04):
But I should have known then.

Speaker 13 (01:06:06):
That this is abnormal. Hey, brother, you know what's crazy
to me? Stacks?

Speaker 4 (01:06:13):
You did?

Speaker 28 (01:06:13):
Stack?

Speaker 6 (01:06:14):
Yeah, talk to me, go ahead, you know you know
what's crazy, Brodie.

Speaker 13 (01:06:18):
Women like men that are assholes.

Speaker 3 (01:06:20):
So I agree, I agree, I agree, I agree. Nobody
wants the nice guy. Nobody wants the fucking nice county.

Speaker 8 (01:06:29):
He will, he will get walked over. His bank account
will be drained in about two days. Let's keep it
a honting. Stop playing with it as soon.

Speaker 13 (01:06:39):
As you lay you already know, bro, Yes, love bombing
not easy to spot? Why what well?

Speaker 3 (01:06:47):
What you thinking about that?

Speaker 6 (01:06:48):
Yeah?

Speaker 8 (01:06:49):
I don't know. Love bomba is not It's easy to spot. Yeah,
it's easy, Like why the fuck, are you showing me
this much love? And I don't even fucking know you.
I can see I can feel when it's fake love.

Speaker 37 (01:07:00):
Yeo.

Speaker 11 (01:07:01):
Yeah.

Speaker 8 (01:07:01):
How many times we see niggas bro with fake love
to it towards us, Bro, there's a lot of niggas we'll.

Speaker 3 (01:07:06):
Be like, yo, that's not genuine. We just caught off
a nigga that was not official.

Speaker 5 (01:07:10):
Yes, sir, we just did this.

Speaker 3 (01:07:12):
So you know that when he was with us, ship
was fake. It felt fake. How many times did I
tell you that shit's fake?

Speaker 8 (01:07:25):
People can feel the fake love when you're That's what
I'm saying. You got to be a real genuine person
for somebody be like I received that that ship's a hunted.

Speaker 19 (01:07:33):
So what about it?

Speaker 4 (01:07:35):
You said you knew it was fake?

Speaker 3 (01:07:37):
You can feel it in my bones?

Speaker 19 (01:07:38):
Yeah I don't.

Speaker 10 (01:07:42):
I'm just curious, like.

Speaker 3 (01:07:43):
What was it you could feel it? I don't know
if you know? You know you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 8 (01:07:47):
I can't really, I can't, I can't really just like
how you was like, I don't know it, Just like
doctors saying shit be overdone.

Speaker 3 (01:07:55):
It should be like you'd be like, all right, what
you know?

Speaker 8 (01:07:58):
Like I don't even need all that, like like I
can spot it, you can feel it, like you should
be old enough to be like I this shit don't
feel official. It's the genuine love versus the fake love.
I can feel that shit all the time. And me
and you go through that shit.

Speaker 3 (01:08:10):
We saw through.

Speaker 8 (01:08:10):
Motherfuckers all the time, like all right, real love, fake love,
real love. If we feel that shit twenty four seven,
it's like, it's like, what you know what I mean?

Speaker 5 (01:08:18):
I don't know.

Speaker 8 (01:08:18):
You just gotta be Maybe you're just the intuition to me,
you know what I'm saying, because a lot of motherfuckers
don't be knowing what motherfucker's giving you fake love.

Speaker 3 (01:08:23):
You're like, yeah, I never had love in my life.
I'm gonna accept that shit. Nigga. Yeah, a nigga.

Speaker 8 (01:08:29):
I don't have the best of the best, so I
know when it's fake. Nigga, What the fuck are you doing?
It just don't feel right.

Speaker 1 (01:08:37):
I can feel it in the Hey, please you hurt
in my ears.

Speaker 3 (01:08:42):
I'm sorry.

Speaker 6 (01:08:43):
I can sorry.

Speaker 18 (01:08:47):
I just had to get it out.

Speaker 13 (01:08:48):
I feel a certain type of is that royal? Did
you say that?

Speaker 20 (01:08:52):
Yes?

Speaker 13 (01:08:53):
I'm gonna sang your song. I'm gonna stand your song personality.
All first, it shuts.

Speaker 8 (01:09:06):
Your big fat fucking mouth. All right, I'm tired. Cut
your big fat fucking mouth and stick to the topic.

Speaker 3 (01:09:12):
Listen.

Speaker 8 (01:09:13):
It's being too nice a red flag nowadays. I would say, yes,
motherfuckers show love the people they shouldn't show love to
all the time, and then it could cost something bad
to happen. Why did you give all that love to
that person and you didn't bet it out? It's being
nice to a red flag nowadays? Floor open?

Speaker 3 (01:09:29):
Can we popcorn style?

Speaker 13 (01:09:30):
This?

Speaker 3 (01:09:30):
Can we can? We have some new voices on the floor.

Speaker 1 (01:09:32):
Uh?

Speaker 13 (01:09:33):
Even cut my fucking lawn, right man, you piece of ship?

Speaker 4 (01:09:37):
Oh my crazy that lawn that law been dead for all.

Speaker 8 (01:09:44):
He then had cowboy grass on that lawn forever, freak
so brown, badass grass crazy.

Speaker 3 (01:10:00):
Yeah, yeah, I started it. I started.

Speaker 13 (01:10:03):
Do you better tell you goddamn animal cubs and shut
up that ship, dame, I'm not telling you.

Speaker 3 (01:10:12):
Listen, you got a law, yo, Ron? How you feel
about this though?

Speaker 36 (01:10:17):
Bro?

Speaker 8 (01:10:17):
It's being too nice a red flag like if somebody,
if a woman approaches you, right, Ron?

Speaker 3 (01:10:22):
Two nice?

Speaker 8 (01:10:22):
Too nice like because you know it's usually you know,
it's the mean girls, you gotta earn that ship with, bro.
Let's keep it a hunting. The mean ones is the
kind of one not really mean, but like they ain't
giving in too much. Bro, you gotta kind of work
for that ship. Right, So for women approaches you, she's
a little bit too nice? Would you feel like that's
a red flag? Bro?

Speaker 3 (01:10:39):
Like, what's like? Okay, what's the catch bit? You're trying
to set me up? What's popping?

Speaker 7 (01:10:44):
Yeah, because you know we live in twenty twenty five
and these chicks out here, they're scandalous. So you know
they always talking that independent, I'm independent, I don't need
no man, blah blah blah. While you walking up to
me then trying to talk to me, what you're trying
to do? What you see something about me? Financially? You're
really into me authentically genuinely, you're trying and set me up.
Like Stack said, I don't know y'all women out here, y'all, y'all,

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y'all scandalous, y'all, y'all, y'all got too many different sides
of y'all, and y'all want a man to try to
lead y'all and all that ship nobody ain't got time
for that. Y'all better get y'all shipped together. Come authentic
or don't.

Speaker 3 (01:11:18):
Now that's the fact.

Speaker 8 (01:11:18):
That's why I said, like running to them at the
grocery store or something, Target or something, do something else.
But all that ship when they approach you, and that
too night ship that is a random.

Speaker 7 (01:11:27):
Flat a stack. I'm not giving them cash for the
e b T. I'm not paying for ship that they
can't afford at the checkout line. I'm not taking my
six foot two and reaching up on the top shelves.
You could try to grab mylf.

Speaker 3 (01:11:41):
They gonna pickpocket run, he gonna go up on the pocket.

Speaker 7 (01:11:45):
I ain't doing I ain't doing none of that.

Speaker 13 (01:11:47):
You better call the store clurk EBT.

Speaker 14 (01:11:50):
Like you don't want to buy food stands. You literally
get like one hundred dollars worth of groceries for feifty dollars. Wow,
not utilizing your resources.

Speaker 6 (01:12:02):
I am.

Speaker 1 (01:12:04):
The story where you have a good woman on foot.
That's christ.

Speaker 7 (01:12:08):
First of all, I wouldn't get with a woman that's
on full stands because she's too financially below my level.

Speaker 3 (01:12:14):
That's why talk about it. Let's get into that.

Speaker 7 (01:12:19):
Let's get I have three very well to do businesses
me getting one of a woman that's on food stamps.

Speaker 4 (01:12:25):
It's like, what, nam, It's totally different.

Speaker 7 (01:12:29):
Yeah, that's that's totally different mindsets and lifestyles, living, energy,
vibration frequency.

Speaker 4 (01:12:35):
No thank you.

Speaker 7 (01:12:36):
I understand that people may need to go through it
from time to time because times are hard. But as
a lifestyle, no, no thank you. All like all jokes aside,
no thank you. Secondly, I use credit cards. I got
business credit cards, I got personal credit cards that have
great utility in them. Plus everything I just about just
about everything I watched this that I use, as far

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as money is concerned, is an investment. I really spend money.
That's a different concept. You understand what I'm saying. So
my credit card, when I throw something on my credit card,
that's an investment, whether it's just food, clothes, whatever. And
Ma and my accountants we find a way to utilize
that leverage to mitigate taxes.

Speaker 4 (01:13:16):
That's all I'm gonna say. I ain't gonna go into
too much.

Speaker 11 (01:13:20):
Stay away from them, stay away from it too nice,
Stay away from especially if they talking about all this
god fearing start talking about.

Speaker 4 (01:13:27):
They go to church on Sunday Tuesdays and Thursdays. Stay
away from them.

Speaker 11 (01:13:33):
They are they are going to destroy you if they
too sweet, they are struggling with too much energy.

Speaker 4 (01:13:42):
I'm telling you right now, stay away from the nicest.
She is the worst.

Speaker 11 (01:13:46):
She's gonna end up. You don't if she's too pleasant
to be around, if she acts or are you okay?
If she asks, so you need anything? How are you feeling?

Speaker 4 (01:13:57):
Did you eat?

Speaker 38 (01:13:58):
Uh?

Speaker 4 (01:13:59):
You know? Are you watching? To stay away from them?
You've been warning.

Speaker 11 (01:14:03):
Now you go out there and be a damn food
and on this and because our head make a saft
and she asks you like, okay, like how is your day?

Speaker 13 (01:14:10):
Ben?

Speaker 4 (01:14:10):
Do you need anything? Can I give you a back?

Speaker 29 (01:14:13):
You are now in the I'm telling you you know
how that.

Speaker 11 (01:14:17):
The little thing, the little thing on the red when
you're an alert, okay, you start off in green, it
goes to yellow.

Speaker 4 (01:14:23):
Now you're in red.

Speaker 11 (01:14:24):
Once you're in red, when she's keep being nice, that
needle is all the way on the red side, so
you don't have to listen to me. The nicer she is,
the more manifoliti she's being. And this is gonna rear
its ugly head sooner or later. And she haven't yelled
at you, she hasn't cursed at you, she hasn't.

Speaker 4 (01:14:43):
Any of these things yet. And my boy, I'm telling
you be prepared. There's a storm.

Speaker 3 (01:14:53):
I think I agree with Rico. Sometimes it do be
like that.

Speaker 8 (01:14:57):
People put on this mask, right, Rico, pretending, and then
once you get with them, all of a sudden, you
this motherfucking grinch. I didn't sign up to be with
the grinch. I didn't sign up to be with this
motherfucking ogre that you want to act like now, Rico,
I definitely see where you're coming from.

Speaker 13 (01:15:15):
Bro.

Speaker 8 (01:15:16):
People put on night and then when you get with them,
they'll show their true colors. Don't sleep on what Rico
talking about either. If you guys are just now joining,
we're an a gender wars world wide house picking the
room up, share a room up for me. But we're
talking about is being nice a red flag?

Speaker 3 (01:15:33):
Too nice? A red flag? Nowadays? It's like Rico said, man,
you fucking being too nice?

Speaker 39 (01:15:38):
Man?

Speaker 3 (01:15:39):
What's the catch?

Speaker 8 (01:15:40):
I like, too many people don't trust anyone. Do you
feel like more people should be open minded?

Speaker 3 (01:15:45):
Let's have this conversation. Thanks for getting on the stage.

Speaker 8 (01:15:47):
Emerald Breezy Gee Chakour Shakira, rob Ron Shawne just pulled up.
Let's continue this. It's being too nice a red flag nowadays,
this is a conversation. I want to have the floors open,
popcorn stuff.

Speaker 11 (01:15:59):
Dothy, you ain't got listen to me and a goolo.
Don't worry about what I'm saying. Worry about what you're doing.
I neednt make being nice awkward to me. Every woman
should naturally be nice, and that way you wouldn't have
to decipher well who's being fake and who's being authentic.

Speaker 4 (01:16:13):
Don't get mad at me.

Speaker 11 (01:16:14):
I'm not traumatized whatsoever. I'm telling you that they have
turned it into when a woman looks nice, she looks weird.
Fool's responsible for that. If it looks weird to me,
when a woman is overly concerned nice, sweet, considerate, what
does that say about modern a women?

Speaker 13 (01:16:31):
That's not me?

Speaker 4 (01:16:32):
If my antanna goes.

Speaker 11 (01:16:34):
Up because a woman is being too sweet, being too nice,
being too and I start to mean backy.

Speaker 4 (01:16:41):
Going on, what fool's problem is that?

Speaker 11 (01:16:44):
Because if women naturally acted this way, this would seemed normal.

Speaker 4 (01:16:48):
Okay, she's just a woman that's with her man. She's
being sweet. She's being, you know, concerned. She she wants
to man whatever they can feel better. She's concerned about
her day.

Speaker 11 (01:16:57):
Go ask me, and how many women ask them about
how they they win? You go find the men and
go find the men and ask the women.

Speaker 4 (01:17:04):
Do you need anything? Have you ate? Did you eat?
Do you feel good? Are your feet hurting? Are you tired?
Sit down and talk to me and let me see
what's going on with your day.

Speaker 11 (01:17:13):
Go find those men, and you make a room and
make and then you get that down and then you
report back to me and then let me know what
that data is like.

Speaker 4 (01:17:21):
It's not me that made this this way. So a
lot of times when women seem.

Speaker 11 (01:17:25):
Overly nice the way they should be, overly concerned the
way they naturally should be.

Speaker 4 (01:17:29):
Yeah, it's a fucking red flag. It's a red flag
either that woman is a.

Speaker 11 (01:17:33):
Rarity and every man just has somehow been blinded to
her and skipped over her and hasn't found.

Speaker 12 (01:17:39):
Out like you.

Speaker 11 (01:17:40):
It's like you're walking down the street, find a bag
full of money and everybody just kind of stepped over it.
And somehow are you just the one that see the
gym bag, the doubling you grab it. Either that's the
case or it's.

Speaker 4 (01:17:51):
Something going on.

Speaker 11 (01:17:52):
There's something a right, So don't don't be mad at me, brother,
I didn't make things this way.

Speaker 3 (01:18:00):
Wow, and Rico cleared the air. Being too nice sometimes can.

Speaker 8 (01:18:05):
Be a red flag sometimes to certain people, like nah,
this ship is kind of you know what I mean? Yeah,
being too nice can be a red flag. Who else
want to come in after Rico? It's an open floor,
Paul Popcorn stof for now. But being too nice can
be a red flag nowadays, especially if you've been through
some ship too, you've seen if it's like a repeated

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thing for you too, it's like, then, what's going on?
Why are you so nice for? But then some people
can be nice, but you ask your question.

Speaker 4 (01:18:36):
I want to ask you a question.

Speaker 11 (01:18:37):
If you get pulled over by a police, right, and
you get pulled over that police black.

Speaker 4 (01:18:42):
Little white, he like, hey man, I just want to
make sure.

Speaker 13 (01:18:48):
Warning, and you'd be like.

Speaker 11 (01:18:50):
God, damn, Now you go tell your homeboos man just
got put over by the nicest cop in the world.

Speaker 4 (01:18:55):
Bro dude was so cool. How many y'all have turned.

Speaker 11 (01:18:57):
The story like, bro, dude, ain't give me no ticket?
You would like told me to slow down. You know why,
because you're not used to that. You're not used to
a police treat you with that type of respect.

Speaker 18 (01:19:06):
You're just not used to it.

Speaker 4 (01:19:07):
If you got a good boss, if your boss at your.

Speaker 11 (01:19:10):
Job be concerned, like hey, man, my son's sick, and
he say, just take the day off. Make sure he okay,
give him no worry about. We'll get everything covered. I
still make sure you get paid for the day.

Speaker 4 (01:19:20):
It's not no issue.

Speaker 11 (01:19:21):
Don't stress. Family comes first. Make sure you take care
of home. Like, damn, man, it's okay to work here.

Speaker 4 (01:19:27):
Man, Damn I like this guy. Man, I mean, so,
why does it change when you meet a woman and
she goes no where?

Speaker 6 (01:19:34):
Man?

Speaker 4 (01:19:34):
How you feeling all right? The anything? Boy?

Speaker 13 (01:19:37):
You need some need?

Speaker 12 (01:19:38):
Are you okay?

Speaker 4 (01:19:39):
Like, how you feeling? Are you stressed? Come talk?

Speaker 7 (01:19:42):
What do you need from me?

Speaker 4 (01:19:43):
Because you know why when men don't say you're not
used to encountering it. You're not used to having it.

Speaker 11 (01:19:49):
If you was used to having a nice boss or
used to having it, it would never seem different to you.
It seems different to you because you're not a cust
to it. You're not, so it's a rarity. Anything that's
a rarity to you, it's going to seem a little
bit out of place just the way it is.

Speaker 3 (01:20:10):
I gotta agree with Rico.

Speaker 8 (01:20:12):
Not a lot of people are used to, you know,
nice cops, nice ship, so they're like, that's kind of weird, right,
Rico like, damn the.

Speaker 11 (01:20:21):
Marble for being black and now and I met another
white cop exactly, and it's worse when two white cops
on the saying he defends the other car.

Speaker 4 (01:20:28):
He was like, man, leave him alone, he's a good guy.

Speaker 3 (01:20:30):
Let him go.

Speaker 13 (01:20:31):
Damn man's arguing, No, yeah, that is nuts.

Speaker 3 (01:20:36):
Damn what the thank you for going.

Speaker 4 (01:20:42):
Hating the unicorn on the stage, Leila, Right when when.

Speaker 5 (01:20:49):
Women be.

Speaker 4 (01:20:51):
Like Layla, be like, yeah, I understand what they're saying,
don't don't. The unicorn is a perfect name. What is
a unicorn?

Speaker 11 (01:20:59):
We say unicorn, we mean rarity, something that's never seen,
stands out above all, something that's rare. You can't only
get you that's a unicorn. Man, that the probability of
that happening is really it's.

Speaker 4 (01:21:14):
Like almost near to none. So when you get a.

Speaker 11 (01:21:17):
Unicorn, that mean you got a person that's almost like
a needle in a haystack, and what does she does
do most time? Just like that policeman, she don't really
jump on the side of the other cop. She'd be like,
wait a minute, right, it's right and wrong is wrong.
So if I'm listening to what he's saying and that
sound right to me, sound so shout out to the

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unicorn stacked.

Speaker 4 (01:21:39):
Am I wrong? If I'm wrong?

Speaker 18 (01:21:41):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (01:21:42):
Yeah, No, you're right. You're hitting on something right there, Rico,
damn wow mm hmm.

Speaker 8 (01:21:47):
If you guys are just now joining wearing gender wars,
we're talking about it's being too nice a red flag.
If someone approached you being way too oddly nice, do
you find this to be a red flag?

Speaker 3 (01:21:57):
This is what we're talking about, So anybody can jump in.

Speaker 8 (01:22:01):
Kim, thanks for coming up, Chee Chee, Shawnee, Rob Shakira, Emerald,
Jay Breezy, y'all want to continue this conversation with you guys,
but it's gonna be popcornsed off now, big Eie, thanks
for having heard from Biggie.

Speaker 3 (01:22:12):
What the hell my brother, Biggie jazz Bell, I don't
know where you guys.

Speaker 8 (01:22:16):
Got tap the fucking it's being too nice a red
flag don't be too nice.

Speaker 3 (01:22:22):
You want something?

Speaker 5 (01:22:23):
What do you want?

Speaker 3 (01:22:24):
You're trying to get something?

Speaker 8 (01:22:26):
Yeah, it's it'd be like that, it's being too nice
a red flag nowadays popcorn style.

Speaker 3 (01:22:32):
Anybody can jump in, let's go.

Speaker 12 (01:22:36):
I keep getting a red bar, but I want to
say something. Hey it's Emerald. Can y'all hear me?

Speaker 3 (01:22:40):
I can hear you, emro on you. Thank you for
pulling up.

Speaker 1 (01:22:43):
Absolutely, thanks for having this space.

Speaker 40 (01:22:47):
So on a relationship side or on a dating side,
I think it's more or less about reading the attention
or reading the room. A lot of times people will,
you know, though, show themselves pretty quickly.

Speaker 13 (01:23:00):
You know.

Speaker 4 (01:23:01):
I think I heard Freezy talking.

Speaker 40 (01:23:03):
About when a man leads with money more or less
it's like, Okay, the intention is just kind of off
putting because it's like what are you trying to buy?
But when they're leading with like like for example, like
say we're out volunteering, you know what I'm saying, and
I needed help with a bag. You know what I'm saying.
I'm not gonna be mad at that, But like what

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if he asked me out for lunch afterwards? Like the
likelihood of me probably going out.

Speaker 4 (01:23:28):
With that guy?

Speaker 12 (01:23:29):
For lunch is hired. You know what I'm saying, Because
he was being nice and he helped me out with something.

Speaker 40 (01:23:35):
The attention that was there was more genuine than you know,
I'm trying to buy you. On another side, from my
job that I do for my nine to five, I.

Speaker 4 (01:23:47):
Guess well ish.

Speaker 40 (01:23:51):
I also work in entertainment, but I work as building
experiences at a members club at a city club. So
it's like hosting and things of that nature. It's part
of my job to be hospitable. It's actually the key.

Speaker 1 (01:24:04):
The key to my job is to be nice and to.

Speaker 40 (01:24:07):
Be hospitable and just show genuine care and empathy for
the members. When they want to have an anniversary, it's
my job to ask them, Yeah, I'll make your reservation,
but did you want flowers on the table for your wife?

Speaker 12 (01:24:20):
It's your anniversary? Oh you know, I didn't think of that,
No problem. I stand in the gap for you.

Speaker 4 (01:24:25):
That's my job.

Speaker 13 (01:24:26):
That's what I do, is being nice.

Speaker 40 (01:24:30):
So when I'm passing out free tickets to strangers and
inviting them into the club to take a load off,
because it's one hundred and five before they head into
the concert that I just gave them for free. Yes,
some people might find that to be off putting, but
some people are just gonna be grateful for the opportunity
that they get to slide into a space that's surpriving,
and you know, I get the opportunity. Yes, there is

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a gift because I get the opportunity to show them
to space and possibly sell them a membership.

Speaker 4 (01:24:58):
You know, with s it's.

Speaker 40 (01:25:00):
Sometimes just about the delivery, because I'm already giving them
a service. Now they just give me an opportunity to see.
Are you even interested in having this service on a
regular basis?

Speaker 17 (01:25:12):
Does that makes sense?

Speaker 8 (01:25:16):
I think that makes sense. Thank you for that, Emerald,
for that submission. Have another question for you, Emerald. Are
you still available with me right now? Are you still here?

Speaker 19 (01:25:24):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (01:25:24):
I have a questions.

Speaker 8 (01:25:27):
Is it possible to be too available and turn off someone?
Let's talk about this real quick. I want you to
kick it off. But is it possible to be too
available and turn someone off? Over to you, Emoral, can
you kick us off?

Speaker 1 (01:25:44):
I think being too available?

Speaker 40 (01:25:47):
You know, I have this saying when people ask if
I'm free, our response is generally no, but I'm generally
expensive because my time. I'm a busy person, you know,
I have an entrepreneurship, and there's for right of things
that I'm doing.

Speaker 12 (01:26:01):
Can I make time?

Speaker 40 (01:26:01):
Absolutely, And for me personally, I respect people's time and
I don't assume people are genuinely available. So when a
person is like always available, I guess my line of
thinking is what do they do with their life? Because
if I'm occupying my time by trying to make my

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life better for myself and my family and my community,
I think I just think of it a little differently
than always available, you know. So I guess for me,
being always available would be a red flag, right, much.

Speaker 3 (01:26:47):
Much time on your hands?

Speaker 13 (01:26:48):
Why?

Speaker 40 (01:26:49):
Because my brother and I actually did have this conversation
last night and he said, well, if I was, if
we were dating and I just pulled up on you
and was like, yeah, let's go. I got flowers and
let's go do this and take the day, I'm like,
first of all, we didn't even plan any of this.
I have an entire day the scheduled. Like I appreciate

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the surprise and the pop up, but like the way
my life is set up, I have things to do
and I can make time, but let's plan it out,
you know, like you ask me what my day looks
like before you pop up.

Speaker 4 (01:27:23):
I think men should listen.

Speaker 11 (01:27:24):
I think when women say these things mentioned because it's
further lens to the point, that doesn't mean that I
don't have anything.

Speaker 4 (01:27:31):
Going on in my life. The thing that goes on
is I'm prioritizing you above all.

Speaker 11 (01:27:35):
I like you so much that I'm gonna find a
way to minimize or to work you into my schedule.

Speaker 4 (01:27:41):
That's a sign of me showing you my level of
intention and concerned.

Speaker 11 (01:27:45):
The fact that people look at that is if that's
something that's a red flag because I could have a
million one things going on. But a lot of times
when people lie, hey, I gotta do this, but you
know what, I'm gonna do that a little bit, but
I'm still gonna hurry through this or postpone that to
make time for the woman that I want to see. Now,
if you take the reversal and I never call you

(01:28:08):
or I only call you every so all, be like, yeah,
I got like, what what is that? What is that
gonna lead to? Because you're not even getting started off
on the right foot. You're not even saying that I'm
trying to make a genial a genue. Oh I got
this going on. I got that going on. So what
that says in that messaging is, hey, I'll just get
around to you whenever I can.

Speaker 4 (01:28:27):
That's what that says.

Speaker 11 (01:28:28):
That's saying that, Hey, when I'm available and my schedule
is suiting you suiting me to deal with you, then
I'll work you with a Right, that's cool? What like,
what are you a barber's appointment? Like a hair like
a Hell nah, I'm not. I'm not doing that, you
know what I'm saying. And you know men that usually
settle for that is a man that have a or
women that have a lot of other people and they
just have a put you inside that rotation. Okay, you're

(01:28:50):
doing that. Well, I just cheer with her until your
time to where you come around to you free. I'm
not gonna sit around and wait like twelve of my
thumbs because you got a certain level of engagement on business.

Speaker 3 (01:29:00):
So you're saying move around. You're saying move around.

Speaker 13 (01:29:02):
Around?

Speaker 4 (01:29:03):
Definitely move around.

Speaker 1 (01:29:05):
Question, isn't it inconsidering to assume that she.

Speaker 11 (01:29:09):
Has nothing to do, having nothing to do, and like
not trying to actively see how you can minimize what
you do have to do to be with a person
that you really want to see.

Speaker 4 (01:29:22):
It's it's not there's not too many people that.

Speaker 11 (01:29:24):
Really like someone that's not gonna move and shuffle things
around to make that a probably like a high probability
unless it's an emergency they can't get away from work
or there's some type of big pre upending business arrangement
that they But other than that, most people will shift
everything around. If not, if she sees you that way,
to me, that just her telling you without telling you, hey,

(01:29:46):
you're not that important to me. And whenever I do
get free, I'll let you know to just just just
hang on for a minute.

Speaker 8 (01:29:51):
And andrigo, that's the word. That's the worst feeling, Rico.
It's like the hang on back back burner feeling like
what the fuck is going on? Like damn appreciate that,
am Ron, Rico. Is it possible to be too available
and turn them off? Let's continue this conversation? What do
you guys think? Man, thank you for coming back to Ron.

(01:30:12):
You already know Layla. Is it too Is it possible?
Is it possible to be too available and.

Speaker 3 (01:30:19):
Just splow your chances?

Speaker 13 (01:30:22):
Huh?

Speaker 4 (01:30:23):
Too much?

Speaker 3 (01:30:23):
Time on your hands.

Speaker 13 (01:30:26):
It's real quick.

Speaker 40 (01:30:30):
I just wanted to say, if a person doesn't have
a job and they don't have anything to do, I
felt I tend to find that those people are a
bit more inconsiderate of the other person's time and what
they their responsibilities are. And it's not really hard to
just pick up the phone and say or send a

(01:30:51):
text and say, Yo, what are you doing like later
on tonight. That's considerate because then it gives somebody an
opportunity to shift, you know what I'm saying, if they
are able to that's.

Speaker 11 (01:31:02):
Are you are these are men or women?

Speaker 4 (01:31:06):
Are they busier than the CEO?

Speaker 11 (01:31:08):
Are there busy busier than a person that's probably running
a fortune five hundred company. Are these people busier that
got probably thousands of people working beneath them that's doing
projects Or No, they're not. I guarantee you those same
people are making a way to see whoever they want
to see. If that lady is available on Tuesday night,
They're gonna make sure that they are available on Tuesday night. So,

(01:31:29):
just like I said, once again, I guarantee you if
an NBA player told any woman, hey, I want to
see you on Wednesday. I wouldn't give it down what
she had going on. I bet her schedule will clear.
I guarantee you if a person of a man of
how resources tell any woman, Hey, I'm gonna see you
or pick you up on Monday night, I guarantee you everything.
She'll have a babysitter, she'll have her whole schedule clear,

(01:31:52):
she'll be have a hair done, her nails laid, anything
she need to.

Speaker 4 (01:31:56):
Do, what she gonna do.

Speaker 11 (01:31:57):
She gonna tell that man that she busy, that I'm
gonna have to catch up to you when I can.
Are you really being are we really being for real
right now?

Speaker 13 (01:32:02):
In this stage? It's crazy?

Speaker 4 (01:32:04):
Come on? But you did just say like she.

Speaker 12 (01:32:08):
Gave her notice.

Speaker 40 (01:32:08):
He was like, I'll be there on Wednesday night, Like okay,
Then she got time to get ready.

Speaker 1 (01:32:13):
And move things around.

Speaker 18 (01:32:14):
You know.

Speaker 3 (01:32:16):
I don't know, Like listen, I feel like, would you say.

Speaker 11 (01:32:21):
Yeah, yeah, we're not gonna get no, Like it's just
depending on who the man is, what he does, and
who he is in society anything of free up.

Speaker 4 (01:32:31):
I don't, I don't.

Speaker 11 (01:32:31):
I don't care who you are. Depending on who it is,
you're only gonna minimize.

Speaker 4 (01:32:36):
Like the effort.

Speaker 11 (01:32:37):
If the person you think that you really don't care
how it plays out, because by you saying that that
that your availability doesn't matter, you're really saying, hey, take
it like you want to take it, take it, leave it.
Because even if I even if I talk to a
woman and she said, hey, you know, I'm stuck.

Speaker 4 (01:32:52):
But I really want to I really do. But I
promise you'll make it up to.

Speaker 11 (01:32:55):
You can't do it Tuesday, if I can do a
Thursday and when, Yeah, you gotta give some notice. No
one is saying drop, but I just think that's weird
to drop by people un an ounced. I don't care
in any situation, you don't just drop by unannounced. But
what I'm saying for your.

Speaker 8 (01:33:07):
Facts, but you start doing that shipco, I'm gonna start
calling the cop exactly I want.

Speaker 11 (01:33:16):
To take you out on Thursday, and she say, let
me see, I can't do it Thursday, can't do it Friday,
I got something going on Saturday. Tuesday is looking giffy,
but I'm gonna shoot for Tuesday.

Speaker 4 (01:33:26):
But if Tuesday don't work, I'll text you and to
let you know nah that that's a no go.

Speaker 3 (01:33:31):
Brother, Rico, I understand you bro, who's coming in? You
wanna come through?

Speaker 34 (01:33:37):
Yeah, I don't see it that way because like this
is the thing you can say. It could be somebody
of a certain status and everything like that. Nigga, if
I gotta work, I gotta fucking work. I don't give
a fuck because you know, like all of that, and
y'all know I'm out the way, but like all of that,
I'm about to jeopardize me eating and paying my bills

(01:34:00):
to hang out with you. That's never gonna happen. It
ain't never been me. If I gotta work, I gotta
work because other than that, I'm gonna be asking you
for some fucking money. So let me work, pay my
ship and when i'm free. If we're interested in one another,
then that works out. But you can also have phone
calls like y'all act like we don't live in a

(01:34:21):
time now where FaceTime is not real.

Speaker 4 (01:34:24):
How are y'all on Clubhouse?

Speaker 29 (01:34:26):
How are y'all club.

Speaker 24 (01:34:29):
I can be on clubhouse and let me get.

Speaker 3 (01:34:39):
Talking.

Speaker 10 (01:34:40):
You're not gonna stop talking with the pushback. Good God.

Speaker 11 (01:34:46):
Find themselves being able to be on this particular application
for hours at a time. And so you mean to
tell me that you have. You mean you multitasking? You
mean tell me that right now, some of you are
closing deals. You're on the phone, you're securing things. Are
you talking to me in this little PTR circle?

Speaker 4 (01:35:02):
Come on, yes, yes, yes, yes, everybody said.

Speaker 3 (01:35:08):
Everybody said yes, Rico, and I'm gonna say yes to
because I just closed the deal too.

Speaker 35 (01:35:13):
You reco this morning more deals than anyone else on this.

Speaker 3 (01:35:18):
Rico.

Speaker 8 (01:35:20):
Oh God, when y'all be in here, I'll be riding
around getting ship done, calling people, doing ship on the lap.
I can multitaz doing this ship runs itself at the
end of the day, this whole ship.

Speaker 18 (01:35:30):
You literally.

Speaker 8 (01:35:32):
So yeah, So it's true, Rico. I don't know what
the background I'll be doing all the type of crazy ship.
Y'all will be right here.

Speaker 13 (01:35:42):
Y'all don't know.

Speaker 5 (01:35:43):
I'm about to take a show.

Speaker 13 (01:35:44):
Want to hear me?

Speaker 11 (01:35:47):
That happened with last was like, oh, I'm sorry, y'all
was in the shower. So you mean to tell me
that you couldn't even take a shower. Wait a minute,
hold on, wait, what are you talking about?

Speaker 4 (01:36:01):
The show?

Speaker 18 (01:36:01):
It was rain.

Speaker 1 (01:36:02):
It wasn't breezy, it was rain.

Speaker 12 (01:36:04):
Yeah, No, we're playing on my top rico.

Speaker 1 (01:36:06):
I've been being very nice.

Speaker 19 (01:36:10):
On the wolf floor.

Speaker 13 (01:36:11):
Turn up. If y'all have bes.

Speaker 24 (01:36:18):
Wait with my name, let me get let me get
in here.

Speaker 3 (01:36:21):
Man, what's up, canary? Since you want to go, let's
get it work time, brother, let's get it. What's up?
Let's get it there?

Speaker 26 (01:36:26):
Yeah, because we we won't listen. Women have to understand.
If a niggas say, oh, I gotta do this, I'll
be at work.

Speaker 5 (01:36:35):
Girl.

Speaker 26 (01:36:36):
If you can't come outside and for the hour break
with a nigga, faul fuck you.

Speaker 24 (01:36:41):
You know you bear me because work y'all. Don't be
at work, y'all.

Speaker 26 (01:36:44):
Don't be at work working, y'all be at the lab
and playing and joking and talking to a nigga about
your problems.

Speaker 24 (01:36:50):
So we're gonna we're gonna stop all that hard working.
They just need you every day.

Speaker 5 (01:36:55):
Now.

Speaker 3 (01:36:55):
Listen.

Speaker 26 (01:36:56):
If I go to your job and you got a
picture with all the important people, I can understand your busy.

Speaker 24 (01:37:03):
But if you're in a bag joking with if you're
in the back joking with keys and theill talking about
you don't want to be no manager anyway you about this?
That's not working. Man, you're playing up there.

Speaker 38 (01:37:13):
Man, I say, don't want to be anyway.

Speaker 26 (01:37:17):
I say, bring your hands outside on that little fifteen
twenty minute that you that clock outbreak.

Speaker 24 (01:37:25):
Yeah, bring your hands outside.

Speaker 3 (01:37:26):
Man.

Speaker 24 (01:37:27):

Speaker 13 (01:37:29):
You saying you take the.

Speaker 3 (01:37:31):
Hold on, hold on real quick, breezy.

Speaker 8 (01:37:32):
So can you telling me you're gonna take the little
fifteen minute ten minute breaks she got and spend it
on the time on your ass?

Speaker 26 (01:37:39):
If I just medize, if I just met, I'm coming
to that job, man.

Speaker 27 (01:37:43):
I have to see that.

Speaker 8 (01:37:46):
Bro.

Speaker 3 (01:37:46):
What if they put no trustpassing on you? What you're
gonna do?

Speaker 24 (01:37:48):
I'm gonna be at that little stow she go to
to grab her a little one two?

Speaker 3 (01:37:58):
What luck?

Speaker 4 (01:38:01):
Did a motherfucker you had?

Speaker 3 (01:38:03):
Lucky?

Speaker 15 (01:38:05):
Why would I sit up there and spend my little
fifteen minute break at work on somebody that did a
thing but give me a headache and trust issue?

Speaker 21 (01:38:13):
It's like I'm clocking out to take a break to
clock back in and work with your ass.

Speaker 26 (01:38:17):
No, you know it's I had to learn this for
real females. Due they gonna do whatever they gotta do
for that right, nigga, So you the right. They don't
even try to do it.

Speaker 12 (01:38:30):
Trying to the canary. That's the word, that's the part canary.
I was thinking about that too, right before Lucky.

Speaker 4 (01:38:38):
That's the right nigga, acting like y'all never.

Speaker 12 (01:38:42):
Gonna clock out, and he was bringing you some flowers
that you're gonna clock out of five minutes earlier, Like,
let's just be honest.

Speaker 13 (01:38:47):
But I get it.

Speaker 12 (01:38:48):
It takes the right nigga. It will take the right
niggas some of y'all acting like y'all never gonna clock
out when most of the times y'all get y'all clock
out to go argue on the phone.

Speaker 3 (01:38:56):
Oh yo, Jack, just woke it up. Just woke it up.
Look for the right.

Speaker 37 (01:39:10):
A lot of times, I gotta between four and five
in the morning, and.

Speaker 10 (01:39:14):
I don't get off till seven pm.

Speaker 37 (01:39:16):
I cannot hang out after work because I know I
got to be back at work at the same time
the following day.

Speaker 12 (01:39:23):
I have to be awake and alert whether I'm working
or not.

Speaker 1 (01:39:26):
There's a lot of downtime.

Speaker 37 (01:39:29):
From my job, and I can see them on the weekend.
I'm not trying to have dinner and drinks, and then
I gotta fucking get up at three am to be
at work at between.

Speaker 12 (01:39:38):
Four and five whatever.

Speaker 10 (01:39:39):
It is, beat down from drinks and dinner. I can
see them on the weekend, but they're mad because you
know I'm trying to see you during the week. I
can't see your ass during the week I said, Saturday.

Speaker 4 (01:39:52):
The fuck?

Speaker 10 (01:39:53):
Why do I gotta go anywhere? I gotta get up
at three?

Speaker 4 (01:39:57):
Okay? Cool? So a couple of hours.

Speaker 21 (01:39:59):
No, not a couple of hours.

Speaker 10 (01:40:00):
I'm getting off at seven.

Speaker 4 (01:40:02):
What about a nature trail? Won't We don't have to do.

Speaker 10 (01:40:05):
I'm getting what at night?

Speaker 37 (01:40:10):
I'm getting off work and I'm at work, man, are ridiculous?

Speaker 10 (01:40:14):
Off at seven pm? You think I want to walk anywhere?

Speaker 13 (01:40:18):
No?

Speaker 10 (01:40:19):
No, I said the weekend, I said the weekends, Rico.

Speaker 4 (01:40:24):
Shut't to wait, Hey.

Speaker 8 (01:40:27):
Rico, Rico, that night night walks be lit. But no,
a woman is not gonna want to hike after work, bro.

Speaker 4 (01:40:33):
After You're not trying to.

Speaker 3 (01:40:36):
Hike on the fucking mountain.

Speaker 1 (01:40:37):
Bro.

Speaker 12 (01:40:38):
I'm just saying, we go work for night, off to
the car to give you.

Speaker 3 (01:40:47):
A serial killer, Rico, you take her there at nighttime
to the shell she wanted to go, and.

Speaker 10 (01:40:54):
Then what then I'm gona get home? I got four
maybe five hours that I can sleep. No, thank you,
I said the weekend. If you can't wait, then get
out of here.

Speaker 4 (01:41:02):
Relationship. You're gonna hour time.

Speaker 11 (01:41:06):
You're gonna be the time sometimes if I'm sick, if
you're sick, So why not be a little sleep deprived.

Speaker 10 (01:41:11):
Now, No, because there's a lot of downtime at my job.

Speaker 12 (01:41:15):
I'm sitting there sometimes for fuck you, eight hours. That's
how I can be on this app. I have to
be alert.

Speaker 10 (01:41:24):
I can't be falling asleep.

Speaker 12 (01:41:25):
I did that one time.

Speaker 4 (01:41:26):
It was painfulness. That will never run that again.

Speaker 10 (01:41:30):
I think, how am I wasting time? I can't work
if they're not calling me to work.

Speaker 3 (01:41:36):
Trying to get.

Speaker 12 (01:41:41):
I think both of y'll are making valid points because
I'm well recall on the aspect of I might give
you a lot now. I ain't nature walking after a
fourteen hour ship, but if I can, if you want
to pull up, you know, if we want to do
something for an hour, I might. If I like you
or not, I'm not gonna lie. I'm not gonna lie.
I'm not gonna I might be sleeping now. I won't
be sleeping prime all the time. But if I like

(01:42:01):
you enough, maybe one night during the week because I
ain't gonna lie. If I like you, I be wanting
to see you Toobo. FaceTime just ain't enough for me.
For me though, but I also don't have a job
that's super extremely so I don't want to speak for
other women who have very hands on jobs. You know
what I'm saying. If your job called for you to
be very physical for fourteen hours straight, fucking no, you're right,
I'm not gonna see that man to the weekend. But

(01:42:23):
my job don't call for that. So if my man
want to take me somewhere for a little hour jazz
club or something, we might be able to do that,
you know, one night after week. But I also understand
what you know mine is saying, because you know, like
I said, not everybody job calls for that availability. So
I can get both sides. But I ain't gonna lie, ladies, y'all.
I might lie, but for the right man, I'm as

(01:42:44):
taught the fight.

Speaker 8 (01:42:45):
A little sleep exactly, the right one will have y'all
up two o'clock at three o'clock on the in the
morning on that.

Speaker 12 (01:42:53):
I don't know why they an't. Hell, flex, I'm playing
with me, I don't I don't know why they flex
and stacks.

Speaker 1 (01:42:58):
I don't know why they have line.

Speaker 25 (01:43:00):
I'm on my way for Tea, falling asleep on the
road at nave pm.

Speaker 8 (01:43:05):
You already know stunner because you because you gotta have
some passion in your heart. If you ain't really into
the person, gon want to stay until two o'clock because
you got ship to talk about. But when you got
ship to talk about and you got ship to look
forward to, the conversation makes it better.

Speaker 3 (01:43:21):
It's like for play before you get there, y'all. Niggas
ain't never. I don't know many.

Speaker 4 (01:43:24):
I'm just falling asleep on the road. Three days man.

Speaker 13 (01:43:30):
Niggas, No, no, no, Lucky Lucky that nigga boring.

Speaker 8 (01:43:36):
Don't let my nigga Ray come in here because niggas
be boring. Niggas be unfit, unhealthy.

Speaker 21 (01:43:44):
Think they right, Nigga, that could mean that type of
ship from a woman.

Speaker 8 (01:43:47):
You You don't.

Speaker 12 (01:43:49):
You don't, You can't.

Speaker 15 (01:43:50):
You can't take up that amount of space because you're
not that nigga to feel that space. Maybe you gotta
come more with with these motherfucking man. You gotta give
a little bit.

Speaker 3 (01:43:59):
More for a woman to want to exactly. Niggas wonder.

Speaker 8 (01:44:06):
Niggas be so boring real quick, I got you, Harry,
and niggas be so boring and think they're gonna get
these results. Niggas, she don't find you interesting. Niggas got
to actually have real conversation. That's why niggas gonna be
getting past a certain threshold with some femails.

Speaker 3 (01:44:20):
Because but I think, yeah, Harry heard Harriet, and then I'm.

Speaker 1 (01:44:27):
Gonna But I think it's a lot of point of
some of these men want the benefit of a woman
being around. But like, if you want a woman around
you twenty four to.

Speaker 14 (01:44:36):
Seven, you have to understand that you have certain responsibilities
to that woman sometimes be hungry, sometimes she may want
her nails done. Sometimes she may need to separate from
you to go handle some business. And other times, you know,
she needs you to listen and be understanding, and sometimes.

Speaker 1 (01:44:51):
She needs you to tell the truth.

Speaker 14 (01:44:53):
So with that being said, I think that a lot
of people who get turned off when somebody's around them
too much is because they want the benefit. They want
the fantasy, they want the idea and the image. They
don't want to put in a work that a motherfucker
needs to live day to day life like you know,
like how if you want to pick why I wouldn't
compare us to Pitts. But you know what I'm saying,
the responsibility that come with it, that's what people be
getting irritated with because they can't They not that nigga

(01:45:15):
basically basically what Lucky was saying. But it's just more
so long lines that they just don't want to do
what it takes to keep somebody around the between those seven,
but they like.

Speaker 24 (01:45:23):
The idea of it.

Speaker 41 (01:45:24):
Yeah, all I was gonna say is that we all
know the milanated Queen's love entertainment.

Speaker 3 (01:45:30):
You dig know what I'm saying. So tell her to
you know, call up. You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 41 (01:45:34):
Tell her to put on something comfortable and spend on
your opswitter you do. You know what I'm saying, Take
on a hot spechase. I mean, like you get your
exercise in and you get a little bit of excitement
where we die, where we live. You know what I'm saying.
Whomen get turned on by that shit. You dig what
I'm saying, Like, especially with all the robbery money that
y'all got, you buy something nice.

Speaker 4 (01:45:53):
You see what I'm saying, you love to get extra
cheese on the finished it Like nigga.

Speaker 41 (01:45:58):
They go bonkers over shit like that home and I
personally like to add a little touch on her and say, like, Yo,
where your ex niggat?

Speaker 5 (01:46:05):

Speaker 3 (01:46:05):
You won't get your link back.

Speaker 4 (01:46:09):
Right before going to the crib.

Speaker 41 (01:46:11):
You know what I'm saying, Line it up, youigg what
I'm saying, Let's take all the tires off that nigga card.

Speaker 3 (01:46:15):
These women will be.

Speaker 5 (01:46:17):
Get turned on right.

Speaker 4 (01:46:19):
I don't know why.

Speaker 3 (01:46:21):
Y'all think.

Speaker 8 (01:46:22):
Ray got some truth real quick. Ray got some truth,
y'all do like that crazy shit. Yay came in and
told the story about how he took another woman in
front of the dude. You know what I'm saying, Like
he took his lady.

Speaker 4 (01:46:35):
The girl got turned on front of this ship, in front.

Speaker 8 (01:46:38):
Of his face, told the nigga, I am taking your girl.
I am taking her from you now in his face.
You understand a lot of niggas ain't got guts, man, Ray,
You understand a lot of niggas ain't gonna do no.

Speaker 3 (01:46:48):
She ain't gonna stand on text message on the internet.

Speaker 41 (01:46:52):
Bro, you can't be a coward of exactly, man, you
know what I'm saying, Like women like niggas are willing
to die even if you not just pretend to be
y'all niggas talks much. I'm be selling y'all game playing.
Y'all be so mad and bitter and ship like just
act like you don't care like just I think. I
think really most men talk themselves out of kuchie probably
ninety seven percent of the time, like Shorty wanted you

(01:47:15):
and then you was weird later.

Speaker 13 (01:47:17):
Like you just.

Speaker 3 (01:47:20):
Or sometimes immediately after like niggah.

Speaker 41 (01:47:22):
Like like niggas, Hey, nigga, get the number right next morning,
rich Rich Risings, Grand Risings, right, she says, hey back,
and then the nigga sent a dick pick or they
go out.

Speaker 13 (01:47:35):
These niggas are smelling y'all hair and ship, you know.

Speaker 8 (01:47:38):
Like Yo, ray what you say, you got what you said,
You're doing for your daughters, for them. Weird niggas, bro.

Speaker 41 (01:47:44):
Yeah, we practiced with actual niggas faces like we say,
we print them out on the on the copy and
any nigga that you know gets like all these like
offenders and ship like that, we put them up on
the trees. And my daughter like a fucking I've been
raising out the beat, you know what I'm saying to
shoot it and we're not tripping, like we ain't tripping
on no negatives, Like you know, these niggas are unhinged,

(01:48:05):
And I think social media has created a space to
where a lot of men don't really know how to
interact with women outside of debate. Like I think there's
a small select group of niggas that only get to
engage with women if they yelling at them and shit
like you know, And I think they turn on slow
music and get lotion and.

Speaker 3 (01:48:22):
Yell at them back because they do it too much.
They do it too much.

Speaker 41 (01:48:26):
They do it around the same times, around six to seven,
Like I'm always hearing niggas. Yeah, because you know, black women,
they don't know how to watch their feet properly?

Speaker 4 (01:48:33):
Is it?

Speaker 41 (01:48:33):
Like who says it like that to get a woman
to respond to them? So I think, I don't know, man, Like,
you know, what, is it possible?

Speaker 3 (01:48:40):
Available? I feel like people are too available.

Speaker 41 (01:48:42):
People don't know what boundaries are, and then they get
mad when they let people step over shit that they
never you know, really established in the first place. You
know what I mean like in regards to getting engaged
with somebody or getting like, you know, in that mold
people be knowing that they don't like motherfuckers man, they
goes to men and women. I just think niggas are
more sexual opportunists when it comes to women. They let

(01:49:02):
women do a lot of shit just to gain access
or to not lose access to their kuchi.

Speaker 13 (01:49:07):
And I think if more men just simply shut the
fuck up.

Speaker 41 (01:49:10):
And moved around for real, they would see a difference
of a you know response from some of these ladies. Man,
because like, women don't need all that talking, and when
niggas be doing all of that back and forth with them,
you automatically put yourself in a woman's perspective, right, Women
be talking extra crazy on niggas because they y'all remind
them of women, and that's what they do with each other.
Women don't even like women for real. The only time
I see women team up is in the WNBA and

(01:49:32):
when they arguing with niggas, I've never seen. I don't
know what if do y'all team up anything else?

Speaker 3 (01:49:40):
Yo?

Speaker 8 (01:49:40):
Ray cook that if you guys are just now joining
we've been talking about, is it possible to be too
available and turn someone off.

Speaker 3 (01:49:48):
I appreciate you guys for joining the conversation.

Speaker 8 (01:49:51):
You guys can support the Gender Awards podcast with the
link at the top. I think there's about like four
different links. There's also you can request songs as well.
Back in the studio in about like ten minutes. But
is it possible to be too available and turn someone off?

Speaker 3 (01:50:06):
Hell?

Speaker 8 (01:50:07):
Yeah, yes, yes you can. Where's your time? Where did
you invest your time?

Speaker 3 (01:50:13):
What are you doing right? Let's continue that. Anybody can
jump in popcorn style.

Speaker 37 (01:50:18):
Okay, So what I was going to say was I
do photo double and stand in work. Today I'm doing
the photo double work, so it's an easier day, thank god.

Speaker 12 (01:50:29):
But I don't going back to that guy that was likely?

Speaker 4 (01:50:33):
Could I just see?

Speaker 37 (01:50:34):
No, he couldn't because there's like fifty people or more
on a set between talent and crew and working as
a stand in, I have to read whoever it is I'm.

Speaker 1 (01:50:45):
Standing in for.

Speaker 10 (01:50:46):
I am reading their lines while they set up that scene,
and I went out the night before one time.

Speaker 37 (01:50:54):
I will never do that again because you would have
thought that I didn't know how to read. I was
looking like a straight idiot. We'll never do that again.
So yeah, I had to tell that guy one hundred
times over, hey I can see you on Saturday, I
can see you on Sunday, and he just wasn't having it.
I have to be able to go home, go to sleep,

(01:51:14):
and be alert. I can't be reading some fucking.

Speaker 10 (01:51:17):
Lines, skipping words. I don't know what one word says.

Speaker 37 (01:51:19):
I don't know what I'm doing or talking about because
everybody is looking at me and listening to me. So
that's why I don't go out during the week or
night before work. Rico, love you, Rico, but damn Rico.

Speaker 42 (01:51:35):
But I do think y'all gotta keep in mind, right,
if a person is asking for extra time, you may
be in competition with somebody that's providing that time.

Speaker 3 (01:51:46):
Actually, let's talk about it.

Speaker 42 (01:51:48):
Yeah, and your schedule and what you have available, it
just may not be adequate enoughs like, based on what
their roster is allowing them. So they may have a
person that's available three times a week, and they may
really like you and they want you to step up
to that three times a week. But because you're committed
to your two, you're pretty much gonna ex yourself out.

(01:52:11):
And the thing is with that if I already got
somebody that's available three, but I like you and I
want you to be available, you're gonna turn me off,
Like you're gonna pretty much lose out on that situation
based on your availability.

Speaker 18 (01:52:28):
Not being up to part. I think people need to
keep in mind too, this whole limited available availability in
the beginning, I just met you. I barely like you,
so like you barely being available. It's not gonna keep
my attention.

Speaker 42 (01:52:47):
It's really gonna put me in a situation where I'm
gonna put you in a certain position. So I think
we're doing the biggest stream where the two available, and
you got some people that are just not available enough,
and it's just difficult to build a barn with somebody
that has a very limited availability. I believe that some

(01:53:09):
people got schedules that make them undateable, Like with the
time they.

Speaker 18 (01:53:13):
Have available, it ain't worth much. Like that looks three
four hours on Saturday you have available. That's a joke.
That's really a joke. Like that you can keep that,
Like I don't need.

Speaker 42 (01:53:25):
That little petty pun like like I don't need that
little petty town, like that little petty town.

Speaker 18 (01:53:32):
Yeah yeah, like like like I done met people who
work two jobs. They like to kick it with their family.

Speaker 42 (01:53:38):
You got a bunch of stuff going on, so that
time you got available, that look three hour window, that
little more shit that you want me to work with
until you decide to make more time available, whether or
not that take a month or two.

Speaker 6 (01:53:51):
I don't.

Speaker 42 (01:53:52):
I don't like you enough to sit around and deal
with that until you have more time available. And some
people have schedules that honestly, you dedicated to money. You're
looking you're in a relationship with money, Go date that,
you're not trying to date an actual human. So I
think some people just need to be realistic with themselves

(01:54:14):
as far as their availability and what they are actually
offering to a person. And some of y'all, with youall schedules,
y'all offering a piece of shit. Don't nobody want that?
That's why they keep turning it down.

Speaker 35 (01:54:27):
Relationship, what are you compromise in a general sense? Right,
So to be in relationship with someone, you have to
be able to compromise. And it's like, in the first
three weeks you're already showing that you can't show any
compromise at all. Why would someone waste any additional time
trying to get you to do that.

Speaker 18 (01:54:46):
I don't know you, to compromise with you, like I
just met you, like you a strange you.

Speaker 42 (01:54:52):
Now I'm just staying in general, like you want me
to compromise with you, and I don't even know for
sure if it's gonna get greater later, Like all is
what you're telling me, But what you're showing me is
something that's not adequate enough for me to actually believe
in you.

Speaker 35 (01:55:09):
Agree with you, Maria. I was saying, if a woman
isn't willing to give some time in the beginning, you've
already shown zero compromise from jump. So like, if he's
trying and you keep thwarting him, then what's the point.
Why would he stick around?

Speaker 4 (01:55:21):
Do you want to wake it up?

Speaker 3 (01:55:22):
Stacks?

Speaker 18 (01:55:23):
Just or no?

Speaker 3 (01:55:24):
Yes, I want you to wake up.

Speaker 4 (01:55:30):
You chase them around until you crack.

Speaker 11 (01:55:32):
Once you crack, you can't get the ass away from
you once you cracked. Now, guess who chase it now?
Anytime you don't return the call at whatever she thinks
you should have returned it, whatever time she think. I
don't give a damn. If your ass had a heart
attack and you had an ivy in your arm and
you were going down to gurney in the emergency room.
You better get one of those positions to pick up

(01:55:53):
the goddamn phone. I wish you would say you was
in the head on head collision and you were somehow
incapacity to where you couldn't ask.

Speaker 26 (01:55:59):
Some my call.

Speaker 11 (01:56:00):
Oh, I was visiting my mom my mama had me
be a feeled with, Well, your mama got away, Your
mama got away.

Speaker 24 (01:56:06):
On picking up my kid from school.

Speaker 4 (01:56:07):
I'm killing what my your daughter got away. I'm sorry.

Speaker 11 (01:56:10):
So you know what, It's funny how a lot of
times you chase him around as soon as the thing
getting hitting the fan. All now, every weake and minute
of your day, you worrying about what the hell I'm doing,
And while I'm not responding in a timely manner, let's
not talk about it.

Speaker 1 (01:56:32):
Yeah, DeCamp, that's not.

Speaker 3 (01:56:41):
Right.

Speaker 21 (01:56:41):
You shouldn't even you shouldn't. You shouldn't even gave it
to us like that. So now you're mad because you
gave it to us like that, And now you want.

Speaker 12 (01:56:47):
To know now what you doing up there?

Speaker 1 (01:56:51):
Getting what you doing?

Speaker 21 (01:56:55):
Y'all better make up y'all motherfucking man around this bitch.
Do y'all want to y'all or not?

Speaker 1 (01:57:01):
The thing you're bad?

Speaker 4 (01:57:02):
It was?

Speaker 14 (01:57:02):
I used to feel real bad about being like that
or feeling like that. I'm like, damn, I felt should
be cooler, I should be chiller.

Speaker 1 (01:57:10):
He says, I need to come down.

Speaker 14 (01:57:12):
And as soon as you know it, as soon as
I start coming down, here he go with the energy
of a thousand mes.

Speaker 1 (01:57:19):
What the fuck you do? Where the fuck is you at?
So you just minded your business?

Speaker 3 (01:57:23):
I don't believe that.

Speaker 1 (01:57:24):
Oh, so you're just getting off the phone because you
wanted to take a walk. Take a walk for what?
You better come over here and walk.

Speaker 14 (01:57:30):
You're finna wash your car while your car wash it
away Acrosstown? Why can't you wash your car over here
by my house?

Speaker 12 (01:57:35):
My god?

Speaker 8 (01:57:36):
Yeah, some of y'all be doing too much though, Harriet, Like,
why are you going to Crosstown to wash?

Speaker 3 (01:57:41):
Why does it matter?

Speaker 6 (01:57:43):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (01:57:44):
No, Lucky, Why.

Speaker 8 (01:57:45):
Aren't you going to the one that's closer? Why you
want to go all the way over there? Who's over there?

Speaker 1 (01:57:49):
I like the services and I got the floor mad clean.

Speaker 3 (01:57:55):
Rico. I don't believe him.

Speaker 11 (01:57:56):
They're trying to guess, like, yeah, is it any woman
on stay it's comfortable with a man who has sex
with you for the first time in not calling you
within forty eight hours? Is there any woman on stays
comfortable with that action? I'm asking, I'm asking a real question.

Speaker 12 (01:58:10):
It depends.

Speaker 4 (01:58:11):
It depends.

Speaker 15 (01:58:13):
If if it was just like a one night, If
it's like one night that we both was just on
some ship and then were busy the next couple of days, cool,
But nigga, don't let no motherfucker seventy two hours.

Speaker 12 (01:58:24):
So we go understand something.

Speaker 21 (01:58:26):
You know, I understand motherfuckers get busy.

Speaker 15 (01:58:28):
We don't have last So if that's one of the
nights that we both was free and we both was
able to act nancy with each other, you get what
I'm saying.

Speaker 21 (01:58:35):
The next two days cool, But seventy two hours, by nigga,
you you're pushing it.

Speaker 4 (01:58:40):
A week not.

Speaker 11 (01:58:42):
Gonna block you because your first instinct is not going
to be that he's ghosting me, that he's intentionally for me.

Speaker 4 (01:58:49):
It's not. It's just you just gonna think that he's
naturally that busy.

Speaker 15 (01:58:52):
You just everybody's busy though everybody, well, the men that
I deal with, they are busy.

Speaker 13 (01:58:59):
So I can't.

Speaker 15 (01:59:00):
I forget, I forget my I forget to take somebody myself,
so I can't. I can't expect something of somebody that
I know I forget to do because my life is busy.
I'm always every time y'all hear me on here something,
I'm always busy.

Speaker 3 (01:59:16):
That's just question.

Speaker 4 (01:59:18):
I just want to answer one question.

Speaker 11 (01:59:20):
If it's our anniversary, Valentine's Day, or your birthday, is
it okay that if I'm busy?

Speaker 13 (01:59:25):
Wait what you say?

Speaker 12 (01:59:26):
You cut out?

Speaker 4 (01:59:27):
I didn't hear it.

Speaker 11 (01:59:29):
If me and you are Daity and your birthday, our
anniversary or Valentine's Day come around and I say I'm busy,
I can't be with.

Speaker 18 (01:59:38):
You, is that.

Speaker 6 (01:59:41):
Well?

Speaker 12 (01:59:42):
Vice versa?

Speaker 15 (01:59:43):
If your birthday, a sweetish day, a day that's special
to you, come around and I say I can't be
with you, But what would you say? How would you feel?
I get you, I make sure dinner is ready. You
know you have to hit it up yourself. But I'm
you know, I got I got you on that, but
I'm not gonna be able to.

Speaker 13 (02:00:02):
Be there with you.

Speaker 11 (02:00:04):
My point is women want Women will prior prioritize when.

Speaker 4 (02:00:09):
They want to that's the whole.

Speaker 11 (02:00:10):
It don't matter what it is when I want, But
if the man chooses to cut them short, then that's
what the problem occurs.

Speaker 4 (02:00:18):
If I take it upon myself to say I'm busy
to see you, you take it personal. If the shoe
gets reversed on the other foot, then to you, you're
just busy.

Speaker 11 (02:00:27):
But the moment a man say I just can't do it,
you're gonna take it personally, whether y'all want to admit
it on this stage or not. If you're talking to
a man and he don't have the time to talk
to you, you brush you off the phone. Wean't say
I got a lot going on. I'll call you when
I get a chance. That ship is going to be
a shot to your ego, whether y'all want admit it
on this stage or not.

Speaker 4 (02:00:47):
Now that's.

Speaker 15 (02:00:49):
Really if it's if it's a one off thing cool,
I can understand that I'm not. That's not gonna be
a shot to my ego. But if that becomes a
pattern in all my social days that I oh near
dear that I want to spend with my man, all
of a sudden you're beingly busy, or you disappear the
day before or the day of.

Speaker 12 (02:01:07):
Yes, that's a problem because.

Speaker 13 (02:01:08):
It's a path.

Speaker 15 (02:01:09):
So maybe you want one, hear you, hear there, you busy,
you can't. That's understandable. That's not gonna be a shock
to my ego. That's not gonna make me feel some
type of way. And I'm not gonna take it personal.
But if that's the pattern, but maybe, yeah, I'm gonna
feel some type of motherfuck away because it seems like
every time something special to me comes up, maybe you disappeared.

Speaker 12 (02:01:28):
So that's the only thing.

Speaker 14 (02:01:29):
And then a lot of times, you can mean a
lot of times you can tell that somebody fucking with you.
You can tell that somebody fucking with you. Sometimes these
men be juggling what's for women and trying to have
a exclusive relationship with you, telling you that girlfriend, but
then they jriggling with to women, especially at the beginning
of the relationship.

Speaker 1 (02:01:45):
And like, just straight up straight.

Speaker 14 (02:01:47):
If I feel that way, if I can't get a
hold of you, you in and out of town, your
BM posting cryptic messages on her Facebook.

Speaker 1 (02:01:57):
Okay, I'll see what's going on. You good, you got it, sir.

Speaker 14 (02:02:00):
I don't a got time to go through it, especially
if I haven't developed the emotional attachment to you, because
you just so inconsistent. It's like, you know what, you know,
I ain't even I don't even feel like doing this
ship no ma. So yeah, I get what you're saying,
but it's not me taking it personally at all. It's
just like this person is too busy. This person is

(02:02:22):
dealing with other people. I'm not, and I'm not dealing
with other people. Like it's just not compatible.

Speaker 11 (02:02:27):
It's not nothing personal, didn't Harry, I didn't want I
want to ask this question to you.

Speaker 38 (02:02:34):
And my mother guy, no nigga before me, Like, okay,
but I'm trying to answer what.

Speaker 4 (02:02:44):
You said before you you can answice.

Speaker 1 (02:02:49):
You move past it, could y'all y'all move.

Speaker 34 (02:02:52):
Okay, No, you said and basically trying to get oh
my god, this is the thing you said, basically that
once a man cracks that you know that forty eight
hours timeline. Uh you know that a driver woman crazy
and all. I wanted to make a comment it depends.

Speaker 18 (02:03:15):
On how good it is.

Speaker 34 (02:03:17):
If it's good, she might be in your fucking bushes
before the forty eight hours is up, okay, And that's
just what it is, and there's nothing wrong with that,
because wouldn't you want her to be on your body?
You done gave her your body, it was bodying, and
now she on your body and there's nothing I think
that that's a good thing.

Speaker 1 (02:03:38):
Like if it ain't good, he.

Speaker 12 (02:03:40):
Ain't gonna worry about shit.

Speaker 11 (02:03:42):
Maybe I don't care about it the way she do.
Maybe just standing up motorzar paranda for me, just standing
at me, just I got what I came for.

Speaker 4 (02:03:49):
I could give what was good, but let's be okay me,
I feel the same understanding.

Speaker 11 (02:03:56):
If so you so you answer this, then if YA
has a get together, if he has a shin gig,
and you have something that you want to do, and I.

Speaker 4 (02:04:05):
Say, well you have a little party, I'm gonna go
over there with yeah, you.

Speaker 11 (02:04:08):
Said, well I just go No, I just gonna do
the same by myself. Is it a problem that I
choose to go to get together versus taking you?

Speaker 1 (02:04:15):
Is it co ed or is it like one of
the guys get.

Speaker 4 (02:04:18):
Together and you think it's just all like a sausage party.

Speaker 1 (02:04:23):
I would have an issue with that.

Speaker 34 (02:04:27):
That's me personally, Like, so what friends your friend wise
and you're just gonna be the only person there.

Speaker 3 (02:04:36):
I would have a problem with that.

Speaker 1 (02:04:37):
That would seem suspect me.

Speaker 3 (02:04:39):
Wow, So why is that so suspect?

Speaker 34 (02:04:41):
Because a nigga, I'm your wife.

Speaker 11 (02:04:47):
If you had a girl's night out and told you
I didn't want you to.

Speaker 4 (02:04:49):
Go, do you what you get?

Speaker 1 (02:04:52):
Why you don't?

Speaker 3 (02:04:54):
Let's talk, Let's wake it up.

Speaker 1 (02:04:56):
You don't, y'all.

Speaker 3 (02:05:07):
Stage is not to be proving.

Speaker 4 (02:05:19):
Yeah, the point.

Speaker 35 (02:05:20):
The point is that the woman wants to control the
entire dynamics where he sad, and she still wants to
be able to do whatever she wants to do. That
was the point, and and everyone just proved it.

Speaker 19 (02:05:30):
What is her?

Speaker 21 (02:05:32):
Everybody?

Speaker 4 (02:05:33):
Not everybody?

Speaker 19 (02:05:35):
I'm sorry, man, Wait, she want to go with you,
that's the point.

Speaker 12 (02:05:40):
But he can't go with her.

Speaker 4 (02:05:41):
I don't want to be with her. I don't want
to be with her.

Speaker 12 (02:05:47):
I don't get it.

Speaker 4 (02:05:47):
Ma, man just need some time to.

Speaker 11 (02:05:49):
Get away and be by theirself. I'm going to my
home warehouse. You got some friends coming over there. I
want to be by myself and chill at my own warehouse.
That's the part of me getting away from you and
having my own stress release.

Speaker 4 (02:06:01):
I'm going to hang out. You don't need to be
together this with Harry.

Speaker 3 (02:06:04):
Why come on, Rico.

Speaker 4 (02:06:06):
This was Harry's words.

Speaker 11 (02:06:07):
So now that I get to do this, then I
want to be away from you. I'll see you and
i'll see you tomorrow or maybe.

Speaker 4 (02:06:13):
The next day, depending how I feel.

Speaker 11 (02:06:15):
It's gonna need for you to be upset. I'm telling
you where I'm going. I'm telling you where I'm going
to be. I'm telling you, who want.

Speaker 4 (02:06:21):
What's the problem?

Speaker 1 (02:06:22):
Oh, ain't no problem with that.

Speaker 14 (02:06:23):
Personally, I like get to get on the clubhouse, and
certain men they don't like you on clubhouse in front
of them or around them, or whatever the case may be.
Your your voices sometimes are deep and ship like that.

Speaker 1 (02:06:33):
So I don't mind his friends, and so I can
get on clubhouse and you know, do my thing.

Speaker 13 (02:06:40):
And.

Speaker 5 (02:06:42):
I like watching.

Speaker 3 (02:06:45):
You heard this ship, bro?

Speaker 10 (02:06:46):
What the.

Speaker 13 (02:06:49):
I want to get on club house.

Speaker 4 (02:06:52):
Like down, like very white out.

Speaker 3 (02:06:55):
So you saying so, Harry, Harry, So you're saying you
get on club because this nice voice.

Speaker 1 (02:07:02):
No, No, I'm not saying that.

Speaker 14 (02:07:03):
I'm saying that it's hard to be on clubhouse around
thirty men because they they find it.

Speaker 1 (02:07:10):
They find y'all as comfortable.

Speaker 14 (02:07:11):
I don't know, they don't like that girl's talking to
me in online or whatever the case may be.

Speaker 8 (02:07:16):
Oh so totality hold on, Ricot ahead. So you're saying
it's the tonality that that the man gets.

Speaker 3 (02:07:28):
No, I'm just saying, so you noticed it.

Speaker 8 (02:07:30):
I just I'm trying to figure it out because you're saying, Harry,
you're saying that the man feels uncomfortable when he hears
another man's voice. That's what I hear from you. Okay,
So that makes it so why is he insecure? Tell
him to fucking grab some bolls, fucking pussy fuck is

(02:07:51):
wrong with him? Because my boy, I'm always gonna have
this boy tell him to get some nuts. Yo, Yeah, Rico,
wake this ship up. Man, we're talking about.

Speaker 4 (02:08:00):
Ain't no man, Ain't no most men.

Speaker 14 (02:08:02):
I know.

Speaker 11 (02:08:03):
I'm not gonna say most men married or not. When
you see those men on here the way they are,
they're not around their wives, they're not they're not. Those
women are not in the earshot of the men. You
know why, because most people are not gonna put up
with even if they don't say something, they're gonna feel
a way about it that you're engaging in this conversation.

Speaker 13 (02:08:23):
So you can imply that when.

Speaker 11 (02:08:25):
Most women are on here or men, I'm gonna use
women for this instant that they are away from a
significant other, that some way he's doing something without you,
that you're not included in that he's away. Now, there
may be a dynamic to where he's on here and
you're on here, or for some reason he's okay, but
you're being on here, or she's okay. But in my

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personal opinion, I think that most women or men that
will hear they significant other talk to you stax or whatever, eventually,
even if it don't happen right away, are gonna start
a fill a nobody.

Speaker 4 (02:09:03):
Nobody wants that girlfriend with a name.

Speaker 11 (02:09:08):
About ship that he got nothing to do with. And
hold on the energy that you give stacks or you
give us all getting gender wars. He's thinking that could
be energy that I could be getting from you.

Speaker 4 (02:09:20):
In another way.

Speaker 14 (02:09:24):
Talking to these niggas, you could be making a pot
roast like goddamn, God.

Speaker 43 (02:09:29):
Damn, you're you're going to house, Why can't I why
can't I get on? If you're if you're busy at
gate house with and then you have fun, maybe it's virtual.

Speaker 4 (02:09:43):
That's my point. That's my point.

Speaker 21 (02:09:45):
If you're on you in front of women, you women,
and in real life, like, how is that you can't.

Speaker 12 (02:09:52):
Be mad at that baby?

Speaker 20 (02:09:53):
You can't.

Speaker 13 (02:09:56):
You and you're on the clubhouse virtually masturbating.

Speaker 3 (02:10:06):
And lucky. Let me let me let me hear what, Rico,
Let's finish that up. What you were saying.

Speaker 11 (02:10:12):
Those wimmen on the application are not within the earshot
of the man that they're with. They're not because I
know most men either I don't wan't pay a lady
on here, but gonna give you some side eyes, or
the man don't know exactly what you're.

Speaker 3 (02:10:28):
Saying, or they're gonna just smack the phone out your hand,
rigo and take the whole phone.

Speaker 4 (02:10:32):
You don't do something, gonna have a reaction.

Speaker 1 (02:10:35):
So there trying to get on clubs.

Speaker 24 (02:10:37):
I'm like.

Speaker 4 (02:10:39):
Right, so yeah, right to ary.

Speaker 11 (02:10:41):
So at this time, that man that you're saying about availability,
he's not available to you right now.

Speaker 4 (02:10:46):
So during that time of him not being available to you,
this is a time where you're on the application.

Speaker 29 (02:10:52):
This is your feeling.

Speaker 4 (02:10:53):
Doat time until he comes over and you know you can't.

Speaker 3 (02:10:56):
She gonna put her phone.

Speaker 8 (02:10:57):
She's gonna put her phone in the safe rego is
the phone's gonna be locked up with a cold safe.

Speaker 3 (02:11:03):
Nigga's over, no more clubs.

Speaker 1 (02:11:06):
I'm just gonna put my pH on dn D.

Speaker 8 (02:11:12):
There's no such thing as a phone, though, Harriet, when
you that sometimes the phone's gone.

Speaker 13 (02:11:17):
The phones, you're still in pay attition what she's saying
right now, she's gonna be.

Speaker 3 (02:11:29):
So she said that you ain't speaking to these niggas.
That got.

Speaker 35 (02:11:35):
Wait, real question, real question, real question for the ladies.
Would you want your man in this room today with you?
And would you be able to be authentic in this conversation?

Speaker 4 (02:11:49):
I definitely would.

Speaker 21 (02:11:50):
I was just with him, just dropped him off at
the airport. You got to do military duty.

Speaker 6 (02:11:54):
So you ain't got the lie craig at you ain't
got a lie cray.

Speaker 12 (02:12:02):
Here's the thing, y'all, here's the thing.

Speaker 15 (02:12:04):
I've been in front of my man multiple times for
being on clubhouse and he'll be listening to y'all whole.
So it's like it's not a big thing because all
he's he's just he just don't want uh me to
be that that really that personable in person with me like,
I don't give a if you cuts these niggas out,

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talk to these niggas. You he liked the way I
talk ship that that's one thing that attracted him to me.
So he'd be sitting that dad laughing at my when
I be on here and I'll be cussing niggas out
or having a heated debate. He actually doesn't mind it
because it's virtual as long as he knows I'm not
leaking up with these niggas. He don't want me linking
up with these niggas. These niggas, but I have my

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phone number. He's fat, he laughed at me.

Speaker 13 (02:12:49):
He be he beat there when you get those private
things and you go into those rooms too, I don't.

Speaker 3 (02:13:00):
Yeah talking, so he'd be there when you get those
things at two am. Lucky.

Speaker 19 (02:13:04):
I don't.

Speaker 15 (02:13:07):
I don't don't do private pans and I don't get
private peans. So even if it came through, that doesn't
mean I'm gonna accept that.

Speaker 4 (02:13:15):
Yeah.

Speaker 14 (02:13:19):
But I had an X actually brought on clubhouse and
he was already like on certain message boards, and they
traveled a lot, and they was always like in kind
of remote locations, so they always stay connected through like
message boards and clubhouse or whatever the.

Speaker 5 (02:13:32):
Case may be.

Speaker 14 (02:13:33):
So him seeing me on clubhouse, he wouldn't tripune or
vice versus me saying so he was he wasn't met
at all because he understood didn't have a lot of
in person because the way he lived, he didn't have
Sometimes he goes like weeks or months without like real
conversation in person type ship with people. So you know,

(02:13:54):
he he fucked with the message boards in the clubhouse
and the virtual stuff right there and meeting people online. Now,
the dude that I'm entertaining right now, I would never
bring him on this app.

Speaker 1 (02:14:06):
Let me tell you something.

Speaker 5 (02:14:07):
He is so.

Speaker 1 (02:14:09):
Jelly's I can't like, he's just so jealous. I never
I never, I never bring him on this app.

Speaker 8 (02:14:17):
Yeah, boy, you know how toxic it'll get. You know
how toxic gonna get because you know you toxic. Harriet
hold on Rico. Let me wink it up. She don't
want her man on here because she knows she's talks.

Speaker 4 (02:14:35):
You need to tell me you're gonna have a.

Speaker 3 (02:14:39):
Talk about it.

Speaker 8 (02:14:41):
You're gonna get You're gonna you're gonna get closed line.
You ever seen the clothes line before?

Speaker 4 (02:14:45):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (02:14:47):
Straight w W E and this motherfucker.

Speaker 4 (02:14:52):
She got a dude that she met. You think you
comfortable with him talking to Darna amble.

Speaker 14 (02:15:00):
Tha look on to the stage right now, asking, Yeah,
I think doctor can't give him some really good advice. Honestly,
all a lot of people, I'm scared more scared of
him talking to you niggas than talking to the women.

Speaker 5 (02:15:13):
Oh wow, is that is that nigga boy lover or
something about?

Speaker 12 (02:15:28):
You know, I don't know why they're picking on you, though,
because most of these men are hide the clubhouse and
the one they talk. They gotta sneak on the fall.
They gotta talk only in the car. They gotta talk
way to work.

Speaker 3 (02:15:42):
So we're talking about jazz. Put a headshot on it, Jack,
you're talking about jazz.

Speaker 12 (02:15:47):
Are about calling a lot of y'all are work not jazz?

Speaker 3 (02:15:52):
Say we on the floor.

Speaker 8 (02:15:56):
You've got a sneak in the bathroom underneath the couch
to get on the clubhouse. Who's gonna do that? Who
gotta go in the closet to go on clubhouse?

Speaker 13 (02:16:08):
The ship and bring the phone.

Speaker 1 (02:16:12):
In the house like open floor plan, just in the
little room.

Speaker 14 (02:16:20):
I know, y'all don't be yelling at your houses because
everybody house got an open floor playing right now.

Speaker 4 (02:16:24):
I know y'all have to go to the room.

Speaker 5 (02:16:26):
It's home.

Speaker 1 (02:16:26):
She y'all be fresh now.

Speaker 9 (02:16:30):
Yeah, she's under needs to cut yo. Yeah, she's in
the freezer right now talking to us. She's in the freezer.

Speaker 4 (02:16:41):
Then are you saying that's what they mean when they yeah.

Speaker 8 (02:16:45):
YO know Harry is in the free She's like, you know, guys,
I gotta get I gotta go to this over here
real quick.

Speaker 20 (02:16:50):
Yah.

Speaker 3 (02:16:52):
She don't want to get bopped. Bro, She's gone.

Speaker 8 (02:16:57):
She's trying to keep it on the l O right now.
And then you got Jazz coming trying to save you. Nah,
you are hiding in the freezer and you need to come.

Speaker 3 (02:17:08):
Out and play.

Speaker 12 (02:17:14):
Some of y'all be looking like y'all live in your car.

Speaker 6 (02:17:19):
Zz.

Speaker 12 (02:17:19):
I hate never want to get out of the car.

Speaker 13 (02:17:25):
You're looking.

Speaker 8 (02:17:27):
Yeah, you've about to make me fall out. She's crazy,
she said, some of you niggas look like y'all live.

Speaker 5 (02:17:33):
In the car.

Speaker 3 (02:17:34):
Wait a minute, Like, I'm not skipping over.

Speaker 6 (02:17:37):
There talking about I'm not.

Speaker 8 (02:17:40):
Talking about.

Speaker 5 (02:17:43):
Talking about.

Speaker 6 (02:17:47):
Come about it.

Speaker 3 (02:17:48):
You're fucking great.

Speaker 13 (02:17:49):
Don't take this ship, Ron, don't talking.

Speaker 4 (02:17:52):
About because about how to be talking with it?

Speaker 18 (02:18:00):
What a cur y'all told you.

Speaker 7 (02:18:03):
Like they're talking to a little kid or something like
that because they can't talk loud, but they want to
talk angry, but they got to keep their mouth closed
and open at the same time.

Speaker 4 (02:18:10):
Y'all.

Speaker 3 (02:18:11):
Yo, y'all got me cry? What then is wrong with y'all?

Speaker 12 (02:18:14):
Have a half.

Speaker 3 (02:18:17):
Jazz? What's wrong.

Speaker 1 (02:18:20):
That the moment house in that greenhouse that could.

Speaker 3 (02:18:24):
Yo, run You can't go out like that?

Speaker 12 (02:18:29):
And you know what's crazy? And you know what's even worse.
Most of y'all bout by gas station T shirts anyway,
so you never got to go in the house to
change anyway, y'all streaming in the car and wasn't shirt
T shirt?

Speaker 13 (02:18:43):
They eat gas shaped station chicken and wear gas.

Speaker 3 (02:18:47):
Where the back come from?

Speaker 18 (02:18:52):
You're crazy?

Speaker 12 (02:18:53):
These are also the same man brush at the game station.

Speaker 6 (02:18:59):
I'm not.

Speaker 3 (02:19:03):
Hey, Jazz, you need to get somebody grab her phone.

Speaker 4 (02:19:08):
It's okay.

Speaker 7 (02:19:10):
Not Jazz being selective about the gas station she goes
to because if they got a sign that says no
public restrooms, try to go to that.

Speaker 6 (02:19:21):
Most yo, Yo, royal royal.

Speaker 8 (02:19:39):
Man man, your mother is crazy, bro, what's wrong with
your niggas on this Friday?

Speaker 3 (02:19:47):
And leave me alone? Royal get out to get out?

Speaker 5 (02:19:58):
No, I like, I like.

Speaker 13 (02:20:03):
What yo.

Speaker 8 (02:20:04):
Let's get back to this convo for y'all having me
crying over it's over no more. Let's get back to
this ship. Is it possible to be too available and
turn somebody off? This topic is switching in about ten
minutes and then I'll play some music and then we'll.

Speaker 3 (02:20:19):
Get back into some shit.

Speaker 8 (02:20:20):
Also, there's three new episodes all platforms, so you guys
can go check those out. It's some of the craziest
one suit, yo, even the one when Rico was going crazy,
my bro. That one's on all platforms, the one where
you know we had to check a few people's on
all platforms. There's a lot of different shit on all platforms.
I'll share the link for y'all so y'all can go

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support it.

Speaker 3 (02:20:41):
But there's new.

Speaker 8 (02:20:42):
Episodes, new vibes, new articles, and we'll be having some
new conversations.

Speaker 3 (02:20:48):
Listen. Is it possible to be too available? I said yes?

Speaker 8 (02:20:51):
If you have too much time on your hands, that woman,
that man is gonna be looking at you like you
don't have anything else to do. You don't got a routine,
You wasn't busy before you met me. I feel like
some of you guys lose your identity. Let's get back
into this. Some of you guys lose your identity. Don't
forget who the fuck you are either. Don't forget that

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you gotta go to the gym. Don't forget that you
gotta go you know, tune up your car, do different shit,
take care of yourself, take care of your health, your kids, yourself,
do shit. Don't forget about this shit. But being the
too available I think it's definitely a turn off.

Speaker 3 (02:21:24):
If you're too available, you're not for me.

Speaker 8 (02:21:30):
Let's continue this shit though. I have the popcorn style
open for now. Whoever else wants to jump in, Let's
let's continue this shit. No, Rica, my bad, I thought
you were right.

Speaker 11 (02:21:42):
Nah. Men don't want women to that work, and they
favor a woman that don't need you for nothing. That
work in your favor because you can still do You
can basically still act single, you can.

Speaker 4 (02:21:50):
Still move, you to move a woman that don't care
about what you do. You just that's cool, that's cool.

Speaker 11 (02:21:57):
Most men complain about women that that that's like to
like smother like they want to get free to find
a woman.

Speaker 4 (02:22:03):
That just like she all hook up in like whenever.

Speaker 11 (02:22:05):
That's the best predicament men find themselves in. But like
I said, there's gonna be a certain point now where
this conversation want to come down to prioritization, Like, Okay,
ain't that many.

Speaker 4 (02:22:18):
I don't why you putting those thumbs down if a
woman tells him.

Speaker 11 (02:22:21):
If if a man sees a woman and she said, why,
I'll just call you when that man ain't stopping his
motion and don't freeze for you. This is your own
women's part. I'm finna wake it up. Men take the
path the least resistance. I'm going to call her if
she cool' I'm a slide down to huh if worst

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case scenario and I brought my offerends, I just chilling
whatever and start my my journey back tomorrow. Like and
then once we are together, the fact that you're like, oh,
I'll see you in a couple of days, that that
works out perfect, That works out perfect. A woman that
don't really cares, that works out perfect Because me and mostly.

Speaker 4 (02:23:01):
See relationships to be binding is trying to be too
much under me. So the woman saying, Okay, I'm not
doing my own Damn. That's I like her for that.
She's better gonna do her thing.

Speaker 11 (02:23:13):
And then, like you know what I'm saying, I get
to steal because I'm gonna be honest A lot of times.

Speaker 4 (02:23:18):
Man, y'all be lying on his stacks, But I'm not
gonna lie to Alrdy.

Speaker 3 (02:23:22):
No, my broc gonna keep it a hunting. He's passionate. Man,
Oh jazz, what's going on?

Speaker 12 (02:23:29):
Because he complaining? Rigo, wasn't you just complaining? And you
know this is figurative, not like in the In the
previous conversation, I could have swore you was the same
one time. You can't even be sleep deprived. Damn, I
thought I thought y'all wanted somebody busy. Do you want
to be.

Speaker 4 (02:23:47):
What we like?

Speaker 12 (02:23:48):
He didn't have time for you, But now you're saying
for me.

Speaker 4 (02:23:52):
For me personally, I want a woman that I always
have access to me personally connection. For most men, this
situation works fine. Then that's that.

Speaker 11 (02:24:04):
That's like that.

Speaker 4 (02:24:05):
If I like a woman, I want to be able
to see her on the drop of a dime.

Speaker 11 (02:24:08):
The more I see her, the close I feel to it,
especially in the beginning status, because you know what, Jazz,
the more men realize they can operate without you, the
more comfortable they are operating without you. If anything happened,
if you get upsetting and you say, well I ain't
gonna see you, but.

Speaker 4 (02:24:24):
I ain't really see you, no, ain't no way, So
it ain't no, it ain't no sweat. If you say
well I'm busy, they so accustomed to that versus me,
I'm different. I want to see you. So when you
say it me and you.

Speaker 11 (02:24:34):
Spend a lot of time, you say well I can't
see you, now that's gonna bosl me because now while
all of a sudden you put in.

Speaker 4 (02:24:40):
A wholt to me having access to you.

Speaker 11 (02:24:42):
So I personally I don't like that thing about that,
But to most men that you just being available when
you want to, they find that accommodating.

Speaker 3 (02:24:51):
To me, I think I agree with Rico. You know
what I'm saying.

Speaker 8 (02:24:55):
Let's continue this conversation. Man, I like all sides. You know,
you know I am the war starter. Okay, I'm on
all sides side, Okay, friendly.

Speaker 12 (02:25:11):
Fire, But you know, I feel like, you know, each
person needs to have equal amount of availability because I'm
not gonna lie if you two two three who was playing.

Speaker 4 (02:25:30):
Draw?

Speaker 12 (02:25:33):
But I think it's crazy that I think it would
turn me off of a man, it's too available because
I don't have that much availability. You know, my my schedules.
I work for myself, so I booked myself. I like
to remain busineys. You know, an idle mind creates a
lot of horrible things, and that's why a lot of
y'all be overthinking because I don't have nothing else to do. Okay,

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So for me, I need somebody that maybe not too
busy to where he's not making time for me, but
I think it's a little more exciting. And when we
both are so busy that when we do create that
quality time, we damn there don't want the data end
because it's like we know that we're both going to
be super busy and going back tid life. So for me,
I don't know, I don't need nobody that that available,
But don't make it seem like you've never got time

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for me. That's kind of you know what I'm saying,
that's kind of crazy. But I think when you make
that time, it becomes a lot more intimate, and you know,
not even just sexual, because I know some of y'all
can jump down there, but it just it's the quality
of it just to me, is a lot more when
we both come and you know, make the time as
a posta just having time.

Speaker 3 (02:26:33):
I agree.

Speaker 8 (02:26:35):
I agree with Jazz too, so I agree with you
and we go back and forth. I agree with both
of y'all. I got to pick a side. She told
me to pick a sign.

Speaker 11 (02:26:44):
I don't hear that ship at all. If I just
that you got to pick a sign, you don't even
have any basis. There's nothing like connecting us. There's nothing
to where I care if it goes left, if I
see you or not. Like there's nothing that's driving me
to be motivated about you. There's nothing connecting us. And
now you just like we just engage when we can.
That's just a that's just a dub. I'm just waiting

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around when you call, you call, you don't, you don't.
That's what I'm saying. There's never gonna be a point
to where a woman that shows that porization level, like
hey on, beg that you really that men most likely
gonna care about they're not. I'm not saying they're not
gonna see you. They're not gonna take you out. They
are if you want to go, but then they drop
you off. They realize that just what it is. You're
not the woman that I'm going to prioritize like that.

Speaker 13 (02:27:27):
You're not.

Speaker 4 (02:27:27):
It's the woman that's gonna care about. Hey, I need
to see you.

Speaker 27 (02:27:32):
I really do.

Speaker 13 (02:27:32):
I miss you.

Speaker 4 (02:27:33):
Where are you like? If even you.

Speaker 11 (02:27:35):
Can't see you for a law, that's the woman they're
gonna start looking at different.

Speaker 4 (02:27:39):
The women that don't care, they don't they're gonna start.

Speaker 13 (02:27:41):
Not to care either.

Speaker 12 (02:27:42):
But how did you How did you get not caring
out of it? I just said that we may both
be busy because in the same breadth, in the same
conversation prior to this, I literally said, if I had
even if we got an hour to spend together, we
can utilize that time. I'm just saying, if you if
you free seven days a week, well, now I don't
think you have nothing to do all right now. I
don't think that you are doing anything right. But if

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we're literally saying, if we're making even an hour a
day just because we both are busy, but we just
want to see each other. His kids smooches hug all
that cool and then we create that time. I don't know,
maybe some of y'all just need to find some more
hobbies because nobody ever said they didn't care. It's just
some people actually have, you know, things to do. But
I think all that availability is while waiting on screaming

(02:28:28):
that y'all are broke. You know what I'm saying, And
I'm just saying, not not to Rico, but I'm just saying,
all that availability could be filled with some substantial ways
of getting money.

Speaker 13 (02:28:39):
But what do I what do I not?

Speaker 3 (02:28:41):
In fact, jazz not for real.

Speaker 8 (02:28:43):
If you got too much time on your heads, it's like,
what can you be making money with that time?

Speaker 5 (02:28:48):
You know what I mean?

Speaker 8 (02:28:49):
Like, there's lots of ways where y'all can make money
and free up your time. But still, cause it's both ways, Jahs,
you can free up your time. I see where you're
coming from.

Speaker 4 (02:28:57):
Yeah, that's not that's not what's.

Speaker 3 (02:28:59):
Both bro I can feel y'all.

Speaker 4 (02:29:01):
I go.

Speaker 5 (02:29:01):
Now what I'm saying.

Speaker 11 (02:29:02):
You have to get to that point in the relationship
to where we separate in the beginning stages. There's not
enough connectivity between us. I work if I don't see
you all day, or you say you too tired, or
we don't. Yeah, whatever it is, I'm still gonna see it. Like, Yo,
it's not that I don't like you, it's not that
we don't, but it's minimized to a point to where
in my mind it's not that serious.

Speaker 4 (02:29:24):
It's not that in depth.

Speaker 11 (02:29:25):
It's just something that i'm doing kind of the past
time when people are together for a significant a time
and religion.

Speaker 4 (02:29:31):
Yeah, now she goes out, it's my baby. I'll see
it when I can.

Speaker 13 (02:29:33):
She's busy.

Speaker 4 (02:29:34):
That happens.

Speaker 11 (02:29:35):
But in the beginning stages, that little bit of great
area where you always it's like a high end and low,
I see you like it's cool.

Speaker 4 (02:29:43):
Then you go away. You're off my mind. You're removed,
You're removed from that.

Speaker 11 (02:29:48):
So at that point, I'm still actively trying to talk
to another woman that really is gonna want to spend
more time with me than you. That don't mean I'm
gonna tell you. That, don't mean I'm not gonna go
see you tell me I'm doing that. I just realize
that you just kind of fitting me in your life
wherever I go. And that has nothing to do because
y'all keep bringing up this money shit. There's a lot

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of wealthy people that still make time for the person
that they and this to each other person.

Speaker 4 (02:30:13):
To me, Jazz, what you're saying, I don't have a
problem with I really don't see nothing wrong with it.

Speaker 11 (02:30:17):
But I'm not gonna lie to you and make it
seem like most men are going to be head over
heels that I believe for a woman that thinks like that,
I think that is very accommodating and very a comfortable
position for the majority of men to be in.

Speaker 18 (02:30:33):
Yo.

Speaker 28 (02:30:36):
I like with Royal said in the chat. You know
what I'm saying, no call, no show, new Hall. If
I get your number and you just always unavailable, like
I'm going to my other shorty, because I don't got
time for that, Like I much look like a sucker, nigga.
You like what you get, which is the point in
giving your number? If you know you got a lot

(02:30:57):
on your plate and you're never available, you a due.
I don't even want to took you no more like
I didn't. I didn't have to like get you like
so me even talking to you is like me fucking
with you is the favor I don't have to be
in your life, and it's like I'm trying to take
you out and you just always unavailable, like you just fumbling.

(02:31:18):
So now you canceled you out of there like I
hit you on Thursday.

Speaker 27 (02:31:22):
You tell me I'm unavailable.

Speaker 28 (02:31:23):
I tried you again next week Tuesday, or I'm unavailable,
like the fuck on that?

Speaker 27 (02:31:28):
Like you off my list?

Speaker 12 (02:31:29):
Well, Prince, what if she gives you the time she
is available? What if she says, hey, you asked me
about Thursday, I'm sorry, I'm not available until either Saturday
or Sunday. Those are the two days i'm available this week.
Let me know if that works for you. Does that
not like I feel like sometimes the comprehension in here
started running out the windows because nobody ever said they're
just never available. It's just we're not gonna act like

(02:31:52):
y'all are not dating. Y'all said, y'all wanted independent women,
y'all wanted women to contribute so they may have a job.
That series most of y'all claim, y'all day.

Speaker 28 (02:32:00):
When a woman want you, when a woman wants you,
she will make time for you. So I'm not hearing
none of that. And then as far as like Friday Saturday,
go I'm not on your time, you on my time, so.

Speaker 8 (02:32:14):
You can't do it.

Speaker 10 (02:32:15):
We can't.

Speaker 28 (02:32:16):
We can't do Friday Saturday because I'm already booked Friday
and Saturday I'm going out with Brittany. So you you
now you gotta wait because the time that I initially
hit you, you was busy that day. You're not entitled
because we not together. But I'm not on your time,
like you're not gonna curve me and be like and
reschedule me like all right, I'm a w today, nigga,

(02:32:37):
but let's try again next week Friday, Like I'm not
on your time like crazy, If you really wanted to
see me for real, you would have made time that
day when I hit you. I don't care how busy
she is, how much money I've met. I'm speaking from experience,
but I've met, I've dated up women that are entrepreneurs,
doctor all types of sh making good money career. No,

(02:33:00):
and I promise you when she wants you and once
to see you for real, all that I'm busy, you
gotta wait the next week. She gonna do that to
a nigga she don't like for real, she like you,
she gonna she gonna fit you in her schedule somewhat, I.

Speaker 14 (02:33:15):
Mean, not necessarily, but I understand what you're saying. A
lot of times, I mean, I'm not gonna lie to you.
Most men that that approach me to that I give
my numbers too, I don't outside of I.

Speaker 12 (02:33:25):
Mean, was it just me or her phone going here?

Speaker 14 (02:33:32):
But some people are actually busy, And that's when it
gets complicated. When you are actually busy and you are
giving somebody your chance and they're viewing they're so ready, right,
they're viewing you as not being you just not as
ready as they are basically, or you focus on some
other ship and it takes a while for.

Speaker 1 (02:33:50):
Your priorities to ship.

Speaker 14 (02:33:52):
And I'm glad that I date some people who are honest,
because a lot of times me deal with I'm loved
at they are honest, they say me straight up like
as a woman, I you know, it's hard because I
know you gotta make your own money, but I just
want all of us arm like for me, I just
feel like I should have all of you every I
think that the only what straight up tell you that

(02:34:15):
instead of making it seem like you're wrong, because what
a dude made it seem like was she wrong?

Speaker 4 (02:34:21):
She?

Speaker 14 (02:34:22):
Oh, she not on my time.

Speaker 1 (02:34:23):
I'm not gonna be on her time.

Speaker 19 (02:34:25):
In reality.

Speaker 14 (02:34:26):
The only thing, you know, when when he stayed jump,
he want her to stay hell high, you know, and
that's cool.

Speaker 24 (02:34:31):
Just say that, Just say that.

Speaker 1 (02:34:32):
That's what you expect from a woman.

Speaker 18 (02:34:34):
Bro.

Speaker 1 (02:34:34):
Don't don't make it seem like something wrong with the woman.
You know. You gotta be a little more clear sometimes, nah, Like.

Speaker 27 (02:34:42):
It's like, y'all, woman gotta stop playing games, Like I
feel like this is how it shit go.

Speaker 28 (02:34:48):
Before you even give this dude your number, you should
like make that clear front, Like before I give you
my number, I'm gonna let you know I got a career,
I got kids, Like before we start talking, I might
not have a lot of it, may be busy a lot.
Let that be known before you give the number. That
don't happen though, you'll give the number back and like
you want it too.

Speaker 27 (02:35:07):
And then when in the thick of it you.

Speaker 28 (02:35:09):
Two, like you could have said that I'd rather you
just curve me because you busy and all that. Stead
of you've giving me your number and every time I
make plans, you too busy, Like I'd rather like, don't
even give me the number.

Speaker 27 (02:35:20):
If that's the point and two, it's like six. Be
playing games.

Speaker 28 (02:35:24):
Be Like they'll tell the nigga they too busy, but
when their girlfriends call them to go get Momosa's, you
got all the time in the world though, Like, I'm
not hearing none of that. When a woman wants you,
she is nothing she won't do for you. I'm telling
you she will make time for you. If she's not
making time for you, she's not.

Speaker 27 (02:35:39):
Interested in you.

Speaker 12 (02:35:40):
So Prince, if you say you want to see her
there Thursday, if she don't get off work, let's say
the ten feter and she says, but I can give
you a couple of hours. Would you take that?

Speaker 27 (02:35:51):
What's a couple of hours? Like how many hours?

Speaker 12 (02:35:54):
Well, I don't know. It's ten o'clock, so no, No,
A couple is too So maybe even more than that,
depending on what you would want to do, you know
what I'm saying. And she said, I have a few hours,
you know, but I don't get off till ten. Would
you take that? Because some people want to Chuck was like,
what's that? That ain't even nothing, But I mean she's
making time. She just doesn't have that much. Maybe she
got to be at work at six am, you know,
but she's still willing to sacrifice a little bit of

(02:36:15):
her risk to be with you. So would you take
that or you don't want that either?

Speaker 1 (02:36:20):
Yeah, I dealt with that shit too.

Speaker 14 (02:36:21):
Oh God, Like I've dealt with some shit where it
was a great opportunity that I had set up in
the morning for something that I've been wanting to do
for like five years, and I finally got an opportunity
to get.

Speaker 1 (02:36:30):
My feet in this particular room.

Speaker 14 (02:36:33):
And the dude that I started dating and wanted to
hang out with me, I had went and I hung
out with him in between plays or whatever, but I
had to go home, and he took that shit personally.
He said, I was trying to see you and you
had some more important to dude in besides me, And
I'm like, what are you talking about? An opportunity for
my lifetime? But he feels like he had opportunity of
a lifetime. So with that being said, he just you know,

(02:36:54):
wanted me to put him prioritize him over my goals
and my ins at that particular time. And that's how
he feels that a woman should do.

Speaker 4 (02:37:02):
He feels like.

Speaker 3 (02:37:04):
You feel like that. It's just like selfishness at the
end of the day.

Speaker 1 (02:37:07):
Yeah, that selfishness.

Speaker 14 (02:37:08):
But you know, some dudes, they feel like they gonna
you know, I guess you know, princes something has enough
money to where he can employ a woman to give
him attention, to go on dice with him, or you know,
I don't know if he paying bills or whatever.

Speaker 19 (02:37:21):
But some men feel like that.

Speaker 27 (02:37:23):
Well, it's not about that, Like I'm just.

Speaker 28 (02:37:28):
I'm not waiting on no woman because she's not available
to that. I'm not obligated to do that. I'm not
your nigga. So if you're not being available today, that's cool.
I'm going to make other plans with somebody else that's available.

Speaker 27 (02:37:42):
It's that's simple.

Speaker 28 (02:37:43):
I don't have to wait on you till you got like,
what the fuck I look like you saying you're not
available today and I'm sitting all the wait waiting the
next week Friday on you when I got all these
other women over here. That's that's free.

Speaker 27 (02:37:54):
I'm gonna wait on you like you bugging out. I'm
not doing that.

Speaker 28 (02:38:01):
Just like you not obligated to stop work or your
priorities to make time for me.

Speaker 27 (02:38:07):
I'm not obligated to wait on you.

Speaker 1 (02:38:10):
I mean, yeah, that makes sense. I mean personally, I
get it what you said.

Speaker 14 (02:38:13):
When you say it like that, I get that because like,
if I ain't fucking, and if I ain't going, and
if I ain't just ready to be, you not being
responsible for meeting the man's needs totally, I can't be
mad at him for going to get his needs met
elsewhere if we're not committed.

Speaker 1 (02:38:28):
So I understand what you're saying.

Speaker 14 (02:38:30):
But if if you want to you want to put
me in a position where I'm only fucking with you
and you the one who want to meet my needs
solely like you, we gotta be on even footing with that.
But I understand what you're saying with that. If you
want me to be exclusive to you, you gotta be
exclusive to me.

Speaker 4 (02:38:49):
That's all I meant by that.

Speaker 1 (02:38:50):
But if we're not committee, I understand.

Speaker 28 (02:38:53):
If I'm talking to a woman and she just constantly
too busy all the time, I really it don't bother
me because all I chucked.

Speaker 27 (02:39:00):
Yeah, she's not really feeling me like that. There's no
interesting and I'm gonna just move on.

Speaker 28 (02:39:03):
I'm not gonna go back and forth for her I'm
not gonna try to keep convince her to make time.
I'm gonna just check it up. There's no interest to
a nice meeting you. I don't care what nobody said.
When a woman is interested in you, she will make
time for you. And I'm talking from experience. The woman
that was interested in me, that liked me, them being
having a job or career, that didn't stop them from

(02:39:24):
seeing me. Like so, if she's not making time for
she just don't like you.

Speaker 3 (02:39:29):
That's simple, yo, y'all just joining gender wars worldwise.

Speaker 1 (02:39:37):
I wouldn't say case that. I would not say that
the case.

Speaker 8 (02:39:42):
Reset with this new topic for me. Her, you can
continue to talk, but reset with this new topic after you.

Speaker 14 (02:39:46):
That oh con disguis is love? I mean, I mouse relationships,
some relationships. Sometimes it can be just you know, sizes
is love. It depends on a person's motivation. Sometimes people
can have selfish intentions and it looks like love and

(02:40:07):
control whole time up foot, like give a fuck about you.

Speaker 1 (02:40:09):
They just care about what you do for them, and
they want to hold all to their resource.

Speaker 34 (02:40:18):
So I think that some people do use control and
then they use it, or they practice control and then
they call it love. And that's when I think that
like people end up in like abusive situations.

Speaker 38 (02:40:32):
But yeah, like you can, like a lot of men,
in my.

Speaker 34 (02:40:37):
Personal opinion, they want women as commodities or possessions, so
they want to control a woman, or they want like
basically that woman to be at their beck and call
and only be exposed to them. Like some people, they
don't even want their women to leave the house, Okay,
don't nobody else need to see you? And I think

(02:40:58):
that some people do use control and disguise it as love.
But I will say this, A way that I think
men show that they love you is they take care
of you. And that might be maybe they want to
know where you at just to make sure that you're safe.
Maybe they want to know that you got into the

(02:41:18):
house to make sure that you're safe. And I don't
think that that's controlling.

Speaker 27 (02:41:25):
Yeah, I think I think people do use.

Speaker 28 (02:41:28):
Control in relationships to try to filter it saying nah,
I just love you, but you're trying to control them life.
For example, like yesterday we were talking about the location ship,
you're trying to control My way about form of control,
I feel like when people try to police, like what
a person is wearing in the relationship. I see that

(02:41:49):
a lot too, like, oh are you You don't you
can't wear this, can't wear that. I just love you though,
That's why I'm like, no, you don't. You're trying to
control and police them at that point, you know what
I'm saying. So I feel like in relationships people do
try to control and try to cover it up seeing
his love.

Speaker 42 (02:42:10):
But I guess when you love somebody, you care about them.
I mean it kind of has a certain level of
control in it because you're gonna make quote unquote demands,
or you're gonna require certain things of them, or you may.

Speaker 18 (02:42:27):
Look out lit in certain situations and you.

Speaker 42 (02:42:31):
Get them instructions on how to handle the situation and
they are to follow those to the t.

Speaker 18 (02:42:37):
So I mean love does have some level of control,
especially if they allow you to be in that position
and listen to you. I mean, if I love my
woman and I tell her to do something, I.

Speaker 42 (02:42:52):
Mean I don't expect her to talk back. I expect
her to go get it done. I mean, normally that's
a person that you control to a certain degree. I mean,
if I'm not mistaken, anybody you control, if you tell
him to do something, they do it.

Speaker 18 (02:43:08):
So I believe it's.

Speaker 42 (02:43:11):
It's not the derogatory, it's not looking in the derogatory way.

Speaker 18 (02:43:17):
It's more so looked than I care about you. I
told you what to do, and you go do it.
So that's the part of love and control.

Speaker 1 (02:43:39):
Controllers not love, I think. I think a lot of
men getting confused. But another thing I've noticed, even if.

Speaker 14 (02:43:46):
You are in a relationship where the man is not
a true protector but he's extremely controlling, I have seen
that other people won't play about you just on the
behalf of that nigga crazy and he's used as a position,
so they not gonna play they fuck with you, versus
somebody who is not very controlling and not possess of
like that, who is just loving like people people.

Speaker 1 (02:44:08):
You know, it's just a different I don't know, did
that make sense? Even though it's toxic, it is.

Speaker 14 (02:44:13):
It do make people kind of steer clear white from you,
fucking with you or saying things to you, or getting
not aligned with you because they know who your dude is.

Speaker 34 (02:44:22):
If that makes perfect sense, that's exactly how it goes,
and they know he ain't about to play around you
or about you, and it definitely keep people at bay.

Speaker 42 (02:44:33):
So pretty much that type of control is positive control, right,
feel good?

Speaker 18 (02:44:40):
I mean, I mean because.

Speaker 42 (02:44:41):
If you think about it, if you're not under his control,
you're pretty much not safe in certain environments. But because
people know about him and they know you belong to
him and you are quote unquote under his control, like
and you have value to him, they're not gonna mess
with you.

Speaker 18 (02:44:59):
So I mean.

Speaker 1 (02:45:02):
It is because this is one thing.

Speaker 34 (02:45:04):
And this happened like when I was flying literally I was,
you know, like some people was kind of messing with me.
They was being a little bit weird, and then my
husband came behind me and he was like, this is
my wife. And when I tell you, all of them
people they straightened the fuck up. They stopped all that shit.

Speaker 1 (02:45:20):
It was whatever the fuck I wanted.

Speaker 34 (02:45:22):
And it's because they didn't think I had nobody with
me or behind me, so they thought that they was
about the you know kind of play, or one of
them was trying to flirt, the other one was like, well,
I want to sit here, and this is my seat
and everything, and the moment that.

Speaker 1 (02:45:36):
He stepped in, all that shit was shut down.

Speaker 34 (02:45:39):
So I think it's it's some qualities to these things
or just as far as physical protection or just somebody
knowing that you have another pair of eyes on you.
But you know that that can be tricky in certain
situations when people will choose the if I can't have you,
nobody can type.

Speaker 14 (02:45:59):
Shit because that's what it That's why it's like it
is it positive because that's that's what the teater's on.
Can't nobody make you cry of me? Can't nobody make
you uncomfortable upset for me? Like, can't nobody fuck with
you and this wife?

Speaker 13 (02:46:12):
But me?

Speaker 1 (02:46:13):
It gives that, It gives like you not supposed to listen, No, can't.

Speaker 14 (02:46:18):
Nobody say that, Yeah, you don't need to be talking
to that nigga responding to no nigga but me.

Speaker 1 (02:46:23):
I'm feeling I get that nigga. Like that's what it's beginning.

Speaker 27 (02:46:27):
I feel like it's it's like it's like picking and
choosing it because.

Speaker 28 (02:46:33):
And one and one breath of a woman may not
like to be controlled, but then when it's beneficial, when
you're own public, then you want to control. Like it's
like you can't have it both ways. And it's like,
I guess it is positive because if we're out some
in public and another dude due to him being fear
of me or having respect for me, he may not

(02:46:55):
do or say certain things to you, like and I
could prevent an altercation versus a dude that he don't respect,
because women, a woman want a man that other men respect.

Speaker 4 (02:47:04):
Don't know.

Speaker 28 (02:47:04):
Women want to be with a nigga that other niggas
look at him like he pushed you. You know what
I'm saying, Because she gonna like niggas don't even respect you.
She ain't even gonna respect him, you know what I'm saying.
So it's like it's it's picking and choosing. When we
outside in public and I'm in your presence, I want
to be controlled. But when we in the house, don't
control me, don't tell me what to do. It's picking

(02:47:26):
the shooter.

Speaker 18 (02:47:29):
Essentially, if you picking, you want me to.

Speaker 42 (02:47:32):
You only want me to be your bodyguard in public,
you only want my protection. I guess because we're at
home and you feel safe, you feel like you just
got full of autonomy. You can do your thing.

Speaker 18 (02:47:44):
But I guess, like like Prince said, like y'all, love
love is is controlling.

Speaker 42 (02:47:52):
It got some level of control, like you gotta like
have some type of structure and you gotta follow some
type of order, you know, in order for that love
to make sense like it does, like it requires control
in order for it to be a successful situation.

Speaker 41 (02:48:09):
Yeah, you're right.

Speaker 14 (02:48:10):
I mean on top of that, sometimes I don't understand
the controlling aspect because sometimes I feel like it's unfair,
you know, like damn used to.

Speaker 1 (02:48:16):
Have that out of fund.

Speaker 14 (02:48:16):
I can't have no fun because you you know, you're controlling.
And then second of all, like in the house, what
the fuck you slumping around the crib folk like.

Speaker 1 (02:48:23):
Some damn you ain't and it half the time you
ain't done cooks.

Speaker 12 (02:48:26):
I didn't cooked, you.

Speaker 1 (02:48:27):
Know, you didn't wash, no clothes, photos and closed. I
didn't need all to wash it. Shit your ass down
the fuck in the house. Hell yeah, I don't like
that shit in the house, you know.

Speaker 12 (02:48:39):
I don't think sometimes we look at the positives and
the way we control, because sometimes the things you do
around the house can't control your man. I don't know
IFHO looked at it like that, but you just think
about taking care of that man, and you're doing all
your duties or whatever he's acquired of you. Babies. It's
unlimited what you can get from him at that point.

(02:49:00):
So I think sometimes, you know, I always like to say,
without control is chaos. I don't like chaos. So for me,
I don't mind or control. But I also think that
most people are used to the abuse of control. It's
not the control that's y'all having a problem with, it's
people that abuse that power of having control in a relationship.

(02:49:21):
So I don't know me personally. I love me from control.
Tell me what we need done around the house that
because once it's get done, it's unlimited what I can
get from you. You know, some of y'all like to
go shopping. He'll throw you that card if everything is done,
you know, to what y'all need done, just the task
y'all need done in the house. So I think that
sometimes we don't even think about the ways we can

(02:49:42):
control when we do certain things. I think we just
think about him telling us to do it. So it's
like we're like, I don't tell you what to do,
but you know, it's kind of like when we was kids,
your parents tell you what to do, but then you
get rewarded for it. But we didn't look at it
like that. Because we were just kids being told what
to do. But it's kind of like that in you know,
in a relationship. So I personally don't mind to the control.

(02:50:04):
I think it, but I think it's just the abuse
that most people don't like crimes.

Speaker 5 (02:50:10):
Was that was smooth?

Speaker 27 (02:50:11):
Now let me ask you to that because I feel
some of that.

Speaker 28 (02:50:15):
You know, we if we're in the castle and you
and you holding it down for me, creating a peaceful environment,
treating me like a king, it's nothing I won't do
for you. My question is this still when you said
that with walm part. Are you doing these things for
me because you love me or you just doing it
to get something from me?

Speaker 12 (02:50:35):
No, it's out of love. But they can coexist when
you're doing the right things for your person, right, So
just I'm doing it out of love, But that doesn't
the gate. Like you just said, you will give me
what I want, so it goes hand in hand. I
just think some people do it. Some people do deal
with people that just do it out of getting something
from you. So I can understand that for sure, But

(02:50:56):
I think that ultimately it's a give and take. If
I give you what to be doing, you're gonna give
me what I need and at that point both of
us are happy. Nobody has to be you know what
I'm saying. But I do think some people do do
it out of fight, and they just they're just doing
it to get something out of me. So I don't
I don't negate that people are doing that.

Speaker 28 (02:51:12):
Also, Yeah, because if you if you cook in and
doing nice things to me, like don't we trying to
trying to get one up on me? Like I don't
cook you this nice dinner so I could get your debit.

Speaker 3 (02:51:22):
Card to go to the mall?

Speaker 27 (02:51:23):
Like nah, don't we slick?

Speaker 28 (02:51:26):
You know what I'm saying, Like, I don't got a
problem doing nice things for you, but I would like
to think that when you're doing these things for me
in the house, it's genuine. It's not you're not just
doing it to to get a trophy or metal.

Speaker 18 (02:51:39):
But Prince, I.

Speaker 42 (02:51:43):
I think you only have that problem if they let
that be known, you know what I'm saying, Like, I
think that's when the issue would come in. But generally speaking,
it's like she said, it is a give and take
because my castle is taking care of and I get
the relax in there, and I got my safe space.
You know you will feel, you know, the need to

(02:52:04):
say yes when she says she want to go do this,
I want to go do that like you just that
just naturally. That's a give and take of that whole situation.
So I mean I to have a woman come bring
my food and I get to just sit and watch
TV and relax a chill. Yeah, when you want to
go shopping or something, yeah, absolutely, yeah, baby girl, go
do what you do.

Speaker 18 (02:52:25):
So it's it's in a change. I mean, whether that's
out of love, who cares that I did my part
and she did her.

Speaker 28 (02:52:39):
I'm just saying, if I don't got it that day
for you to go to the mall, I still want
that love. And when cook dinner like you would if
I was giving you the car.

Speaker 27 (02:52:46):
To go to the mall, don't just do it just
for that.

Speaker 13 (02:52:48):
That's my point.

Speaker 14 (02:52:49):
Okay, maybe she wants you to each Maybe she wants
you to stay in the house that Maybe she wants
you to stay in the house. Maybe your partner and
call here bell shit and you you done got paid
and every time he called you, you come home three
hundred dollars short. Okay, maybe she just wants you to

(02:53:10):
not go nowhere within the next few hours.

Speaker 1 (02:53:14):
You know, you know it be it be simple shit.
I be wanting simple ship. I be wanting simple ship.

Speaker 13 (02:53:21):
That's cool.

Speaker 14 (02:53:22):
Every time that I call you, you come back. You
you miss it three hundred dollars. You got a bad attitude,
A half bro like, fuck you, you gonna stay here
make I'm finna make a meal.

Speaker 1 (02:53:34):
With three size.

Speaker 12 (02:53:38):
But you know, I think every You're not rewarded every time.
But I just think that most times it's just so
mutual that you don't even notice it, you know what
I'm saying. But I don't think that you need to
be It's not You're not like a dog where every
time you do a trick or you know, obey that
you get a treat each time. It's simply just like
you said, the days that maybe she don't ask me

(02:53:58):
your cards, You're still gonna get that dinner. You just
you know what I'm saying. It's just maybe the next
time I may need to go somewhere. You know, maybe
you need to keep kids this time because I want
to go to yoga class. You know what I'm saying,
Even if it is a day that I naturally don't
go and I just want to take on the extra
yoga class. It's never really just always needed something from you.
It's just I don't know if somebody like somebody sitting
the chat. It's just the mutual consideration that comes from

(02:54:20):
it when you organically are doing it for your partner.

Speaker 27 (02:54:24):
Yeah, that's a fact. I'm big on a ceriprocation. You
do for me, I'm gonna do for you. That's all
it was supposed to be. Y'are supposed to do.

Speaker 4 (02:54:30):
For each other.

Speaker 13 (02:54:33):
Y'all behinds down and make me a ham sandwich.

Speaker 3 (02:54:35):
What y'all talking about?

Speaker 7 (02:54:37):
Get in that kitchen and cook, Get on them knees
and wipe them base boards down.

Speaker 3 (02:54:41):
Stop the cat heck y'all talking about?

Speaker 21 (02:54:45):
You know what's an.

Speaker 14 (02:54:46):
Interesting None of the man I eat pork because I
don't eat pork.

Speaker 7 (02:54:49):
So when they're with me, I've talked about a ham
sa y'all know all I was trolling, but I don't
eat handbasers.

Speaker 42 (02:55:00):
I need to go like I always a woman, tell
me she a vegan and something. I will trust you
because you gave up on meat, so I know I
can't trust you with my meat. I'm just not and
plus I'm not feelna be eating pancakes at like nine
o'clock at night because you don't eat meat, like I'm
just not feel no, absolutely not.

Speaker 18 (02:55:20):
You know look they they no woman that's a vegan.
It's like they no woman that's a Muslim.

Speaker 42 (02:55:27):
We two different, we coming from two different walks of life,
like we moving through life very like. It's just certain
stuff that it's just I don't know how people like
work around because that vegan stuff. I remember I tried
to day the vegan. That girl's making me payingcakes at
ten o'clock at night.

Speaker 18 (02:55:44):
Absolutely not.

Speaker 3 (02:55:45):
What are we doing here?

Speaker 1 (02:55:46):
Well, that sounds like a skills burrier.

Speaker 14 (02:55:48):
You really can get it in with some lions, man, Like,
you really could get it, but it takes time, like
it really.

Speaker 12 (02:55:54):
Does takee time.

Speaker 14 (02:55:54):
You really have to sit up, be dedicated, be interested
into learning how to season your food. Season you'll much
rooms all the different kind of mushroom gqus and different
kind of.

Speaker 1 (02:56:03):
Is she's that same time, that's a lifestyle changed she needs.
If it's so she can't feed your honey of pancakes.

Speaker 12 (02:56:08):
That's sad.

Speaker 14 (02:56:09):
She My homegirls would laugh at me. I got a
couple of homegirls I can call right now. I don't
feel money your pancakes and not the car. I gonna
cuss me to fuck out and laugh at my face. Girl,
I'm praying for that man like she just need to
put some time in somewhere.

Speaker 13 (02:56:24):
Big EEno.

Speaker 1 (02:56:25):
Yeah, let me call Let me call Amber right now.

Speaker 14 (02:56:30):
If I call Amber right now, tell her that I
fed this man pancakes.

Speaker 1 (02:56:35):
What I'm not gonna hear her end up it I'm not.

Speaker 7 (02:56:42):
I also think it depends on the type of the
type of vegan woman that you get with. You get
what I'm saying, because I don't have an issue with
vegan vegan checks. To me, that's one of the most
healthiest things you can do. I'm talking about the ones
that are really into it, not just the ones that
it's a fad in me. I'm talking about the the
like that'll change your lifestyle because eating vegan it it

(02:57:03):
does so many things for you health wise and skin
wise and just longevity of life. So I don't know
if I ever go like vegan, but I can see
myself having my vegan spurts because I do it now.
There are times where I may I may not eat meat,
no ditty, I mean, no diddy paws. Yeah, for like
thirty sixty ninety days. You get what I'm saying. Some

(02:57:25):
of y'all heard me talk about that before. You know,
I won't eat nothing that comes from animals for thirty
sixty days or so.

Speaker 18 (02:57:32):
You get what I'm saying.

Speaker 7 (02:57:33):
It's good, especially if you know how to do intermittent
fasting and stuff like that in between, and know what
to drink at the same time.

Speaker 4 (02:57:40):
Man, listen, it.

Speaker 7 (02:57:44):
Keep you young the body. I don't want to go
in tallness, but I'll just say this. Everything that you
eat breaks down on the cellular level to your body.
And sometimes we wonder why people wake up with back pains,
knee pains, knee popping, cracking, this cracking that because of
the sugar, the salt, and the process stuff that you
eat that's being broken down on the cellar level, that's

(02:58:04):
absorbed into your body. You're putting perfumes and colognes and
smell goods and stuff on your skin, and your skin
is an organ. It's absorbing all of that stuff. That's
a whole conversation about that, but I ain't gonna go
into that right.

Speaker 28 (02:58:18):
The only only way I could deal with the vegan
shick is like if she got it, she got to understand,
like listen, like you eat salads and like rice patties.

Speaker 27 (02:58:26):
And ship that ain't what I eat.

Speaker 28 (02:58:28):
And as long as she not trying to control what
I eat and all that, like, we'll be good because
I feel like people that live certain lifestyles like that,
like a vegan, they'll try to project their lifestyle onto you,
Like because I eat salads and rice patties and we
in a relationship, now this is what you're gonna eat
and know the fuck them not that's what you eat.

Speaker 42 (02:58:48):
Yeah, I agree with you. You need to make two plates.
You need to make your rice patties. They need to
make like we need to that. You need to do both,
Like you need to prioritize like my stomach. You know
what I'm saying, Like, so you do your thing right,

(02:59:09):
that is a that's what you committed to. I'm still
committed to meat. So I need you to make sure
we understand.

Speaker 28 (02:59:16):
Like if we if we go out to dinner and
I tell the waitress I want a burger and she's like, no,
he's not gonna have that, He's gonna have a salad.
Don't fucking don't order for me. You don't don't try
to control it out because you want salad, Like, ain't
I'm no one paying for this.

Speaker 4 (02:59:32):
Literally, some up there make them nauseous.

Speaker 11 (02:59:34):
Like literally, you got some vegans to say they can't
smell it, they can't see it, they don't want to
be around it.

Speaker 18 (02:59:38):
So it's a lot of them that's like it's different.

Speaker 13 (02:59:40):
They on different level.

Speaker 11 (02:59:41):
I don't like to see you cook it. They don't
want to smell it. They don't want that food touching
their food. They don't want they don't want it even
like at the same table, Like if it's a true vegan,
it's gonna be hard for them even seeing you consume
and meet at a certain point why they're eating what
they're eating.

Speaker 4 (02:59:55):
They don't even like it, Like they don't even like
to be around it like that.

Speaker 18 (02:59:58):
It justs to be like to a different.

Speaker 7 (03:00:01):
If we go to your point, some vegans they they
just won't get involved with a man or a woman
that's not a vegan because they understand that you are
what you eat, and they don't want what you consume
to be sweated.

Speaker 4 (03:00:15):
Onto them or possibly inserted inside of them or on them.

Speaker 13 (03:00:18):
They absolutely won't.

Speaker 28 (03:00:22):
Yeah, that's a and it's like they the person that's
in the fitness they like a gym rat, like that's
their life in the gym, and you not on that
that it ain't gonna work because they are gym rat.

Speaker 27 (03:00:34):
You just the opposite. That's another down there ain't gonna work.
They're gonna just project.

Speaker 28 (03:00:38):
Like if they're going in the gym at five in
the morning every day, they gonna bring that ship onto you.
They it's time to get up. That's how I live
my life. And you need to be like they all
bring their life.

Speaker 24 (03:00:49):
Yeah, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 18 (03:00:51):
So it's like, yeah, I don't think that's true.

Speaker 1 (03:00:58):
Friend, somebody like that in my life.

Speaker 14 (03:01:00):
Yeah, get youall mother fucking ass out this goddamn big
I'd appreciate that. I would, I personally would cuts me
out every morning and take me outside.

Speaker 1 (03:01:10):
We're finna go running.

Speaker 42 (03:01:14):
Yeah, I don't think that's true, that whole gym thing,
Like I love the gym. That's one of my favorite
places world. But if I'm dating you, I'm watching you.
So if you get the eaty too crazy and that
weight get to looking a little crazy, we're gonna have
different conversations.

Speaker 13 (03:01:32):
But off top.

Speaker 42 (03:01:33):
You know, normally you're gonna be presentable off top, You're
gonna be a person that.

Speaker 18 (03:01:38):
Got some room for the room for error.

Speaker 42 (03:01:42):
So you may be like twenty or thirty pounds away
from it going left, but you best believe I'm gonna
caut you at fifteen to be like, hey.

Speaker 3 (03:01:49):
Baby, you know what.

Speaker 42 (03:01:51):
I know, this is a happy situation for you, but
we gonna have to switch you up a little bit.
Like these dinner dates, is finna turn the gym dates
because this fe go left. So I don't think like
people go to gym put pressure on people to work out,
because it's like we kind of understand what comes with that,
like the mentality that comes with that, and a lot
of people ain't got that.

Speaker 18 (03:02:12):
Like a lot of people ain't you know.

Speaker 42 (03:02:14):
If most people like through for example them New Year,
New meet people, the people that go in there three
weeks most of the world.

Speaker 18 (03:02:22):
I like those type of people. They be in there
for three to four weeks and then they done.

Speaker 4 (03:02:26):
But most people that go to the gym, it increases
their energy.

Speaker 11 (03:02:29):
So when you're up, those people find it hard to
even rest a long periods of time. The gym people,
they're always busy bodies, right, they because now the energy
level is so high, and if you're not someone that
currently goes to the gym, you'll find them up trying
to find shit.

Speaker 4 (03:02:45):
To do, and you will be knocked out. Like you'll
be like, oh, I'm tired, and you'll be like, wow,
are you so energized?

Speaker 11 (03:02:50):
You work, you went to the gym, get all this shit,
and they still kind of moving around, moving about like
let's go do this. So eventually that energy level is
going to be kind of like like some people that
I know to go to the gym all the time.
The mother cannot stay still. They always want to do something.
They always it's like they like a robot.

Speaker 18 (03:03:08):
Almost. I'm like, what are you at?

Speaker 4 (03:03:10):
Your monkey ass? Ain't tiet? God damn should be aggravated.

Speaker 39 (03:03:17):
I'm saying, like a gym rat, a gym rat, and
like a lazy a lazy body, and the gym rat
is not gonna work together.

Speaker 18 (03:03:29):
Yeah, you're not lying, Rica.

Speaker 42 (03:03:31):
I'll be up like I get my little seven hours,
I'll be ready to go like I don't.

Speaker 18 (03:03:37):
I don't even sometimes I think it's not wrong with
me for real.

Speaker 32 (03:03:43):
That's why it was so funny because it's so true.
Seem no sleep. But I'm sitting here being a fatty
right now, there'd be.

Speaker 27 (03:03:57):
Some fine ash women in the gym.

Speaker 3 (03:04:00):
Oh my god, walking up.

Speaker 18 (03:04:04):
Yes, that's what I'm saying, likes.

Speaker 32 (03:04:08):
Gim girlfriends.

Speaker 1 (03:04:16):
I was telling somebody the other days.

Speaker 12 (03:04:18):
You know, that's a battle for women, were like single women,
not though that are like taking, but it's a battle
when like you you you you're in between, Like I
don't want to be bothered at the gym, but if
I'm interested, you know, made the slight combos. I was
telling somebody that the other day when somebody was trying
to talk to me, and like in my mind, I
was so like into the gym, I did not want

(03:04:38):
to be bothered, but the approach was so gentleman like.
I was like, okay, let me give him a couple
of seconds. But like, it be so weird when you
really just go in there and you're super focused, because
it's like you really just don't want to be bothered.

Speaker 5 (03:04:51):
Bro.

Speaker 12 (03:04:52):
I mean, sometimes you'll be fine or whatever.

Speaker 42 (03:04:55):
I guess I'll be trying to get out of there
a timely manner, so I ain't really going there.

Speaker 18 (03:05:00):
Talk to me about it, like I got a whole routine,
I got a whole situation. I'm trying to get through that.

Speaker 42 (03:05:04):
Like it's already difficult to getting through that, Like I
mean flipping awake for working that day fun at all.
I mean, you just find entertainment to me personally, I
don't really need in the headspace looking around and paying
attention nobody else.

Speaker 18 (03:05:21):
Like I'm just trying to get in to get out,
Like I would rather a woman outside.

Speaker 42 (03:05:26):
Of the gym and then you know, incuporate that into her,
like rather than trying to potentially get hit by a
weight because you just tap somebody on the shoulder. They
got their headphones on and you're just scared the hell
out of them. I don't know, I'll just be agitant.

Speaker 27 (03:05:42):
Oh I don't give a damn.

Speaker 28 (03:05:43):
Like I've been looking at her looking at me when
I'm done with my workouts and on my way out
that door, got to put my bid in.

Speaker 27 (03:05:52):
See what's up.

Speaker 3 (03:05:55):
Your game?

Speaker 12 (03:05:56):
Something else?

Speaker 32 (03:05:58):
I've been sitting her laugh and that you eating my
cross fiche and being a fatty.

Speaker 1 (03:06:03):
But frequent in the gym is one of the random places.

Speaker 14 (03:06:07):
That I mean, I've been nice men, you know, I
couldn't say like, oh, I've met a nice guy there,
even though you know, we may have stay friends or
we may have lost touch. Like I could say that
I've come across some of the nicest men at the gym.
And I came across some of the nicest and I
don't know if this is just because I'm in Texas

(03:06:27):
to the south, but I came across some nice little
sugardaddies at the car wash, for sure. Like if you
frequent the car wash, like every two or three days, yes,
if you watch your car like every tour or three days,
guess who's up there. The people with the nice cars,
the older men who may be retired, may have their
own businesses. They watch the fuck out they cars, and
they love it and they'll help you. They'll you know,

(03:06:51):
like day they got money. This is another random place.
So we're looking for a nice little sugar addy. You
somewhere out here in the South. Find you a nice
car wash and sat today mornings, day mornings, you know,
easy time.

Speaker 1 (03:07:03):
That's when the sugar adds.

Speaker 32 (03:07:05):
Come through, Harriet, not you promoting the sugar daddy.

Speaker 18 (03:07:15):
But I thought the dudes with money, if they caught
details coming, they don't go to the uh the machine carwatchers,
they actually get they caught details.

Speaker 14 (03:07:26):
Yeah, you have to get one with a nice detailing service.

Speaker 12 (03:07:29):
Too, like you to get your car washed. In between
getting your detailed.

Speaker 42 (03:07:33):
I go to an actual detail shop like, not the
ones with the machine like. I go to ones where
they here and wastch my like like they use the
towels like, and that's the service, not me going through
a machine first and then coming around to the detailed
service like I like, it's a difference between the two,
thegest ones.

Speaker 14 (03:07:55):
But definitely I go to the ones where you go
through the machines firs and then they do the detailing everything.

Speaker 1 (03:08:00):
Then I have the cleaning service.

Speaker 14 (03:08:03):
You know, they can do your carpets to whatever, like
if you get that's where the niggas be at. They
be having a nice car. They keep their cars clean
on a weekly basis.

Speaker 5 (03:08:12):
You know that's a fact.

Speaker 3 (03:08:14):
That's big facts.

Speaker 11 (03:08:17):
If my home boys will do nothing, they're gonna stay
at the detailed shop. Boyd the niggas that the trailers
or or the dude will pull up on them with
the whole Bobus ship like wherever they at with the
water tanks and the ship he's finna be out there
with a with a with an old jungle like hat

(03:08:39):
that like some blocking.

Speaker 4 (03:08:40):
Hat and be out there getting it in.

Speaker 1 (03:08:52):
I don't know no other places like that. I know
the gym in the car wash for shows.

Speaker 4 (03:08:56):
Women can tell they know they.

Speaker 34 (03:08:58):
Like women, like where's the good place to meet men?

Speaker 1 (03:09:02):
Just random places like not anything special?

Speaker 34 (03:09:06):
Okay, this is this is a good place. I don't
know if y'all go off the driving range. Hello, I
ain't gonna tell y'all too much because this is a
recorded app. But you know, ladies, y'all need to know
a couple of places.

Speaker 4 (03:09:24):
I got.

Speaker 11 (03:09:27):
It said they passed aside seat today's settings, so when
the pastor side seat that automatically set to her settings
has been changed, she knows, y'all.

Speaker 3 (03:09:35):
Rico, y'all gonna hold this down. Y'all still talking.

Speaker 13 (03:09:38):
I got break out stack.

Speaker 8 (03:09:41):
Yeah, I'm ready to brea. I'm about to break this
ship out. Yeah, I got some ship to do. So
I appreciate y'all pulling up and continuing the conversation.

Speaker 3 (03:09:49):
It's just fire.

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Get up in the telegram if you haven't checked out
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Speaker 3 (03:10:25):
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