Gender Warz World Wide Episode 21- "Do Men and Woman Fall for Potential or Promise"?

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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Oh you puss.

Speaker 2 (00:04):
Let's go up a d wadders like a WAVEB gotta
watch that side.

Speaker 3 (00:09):
Block it up that main street ukn't p whalk me.

Speaker 4 (00:12):
And toiler nigga.

Speaker 5 (00:13):
You can't eat.

Speaker 1 (00:14):
Thank you too, man.

Speaker 6 (00:15):
Now you be claiming that.

Speaker 2 (00:16):
You can't free the trigger figure fast like floy, puns
like a b. He used tune and daddy straight and
pussy amy jill.

Speaker 4 (00:24):
That gotgo bang, but it ain't kicks.

Speaker 7 (00:26):
He got shot of Yo. We're going up.

Speaker 8 (00:28):
We're going up today. Who takes accountability better? Send the
walls podcast.

Speaker 9 (00:32):
You ain't wick up.

Speaker 2 (00:33):
Let's go up to no good sound yo, o g
instant your gossip?

Speaker 5 (00:37):
What's your son?

Speaker 10 (00:37):
Now here?

Speaker 2 (00:39):
Too many pills give me chills, chill just because you
family ain't no deals kill.

Speaker 6 (00:44):
She used a puns and fights to come to the
age jimmy.

Speaker 7 (00:47):
Head, Oh my god, read.

Speaker 4 (00:51):
Let's go on.

Speaker 6 (00:52):
Did she get cauchy going thie?

Speaker 3 (00:54):
Oh you scared her?

Speaker 11 (00:55):
Oh you push?

Speaker 12 (00:57):
Oh you scared her?

Speaker 3 (00:59):
Oh you pussy He ended up dead her. Go see
your work. We may.

Speaker 4 (01:06):
Get a dry by in a rage.

Speaker 8 (01:10):
He's gonna go up where you go? Who takes accountability better?
We'll start for royal what it do? Oh my god,
mar Terrell Preston.

Speaker 7 (01:24):
Doing.

Speaker 8 (01:25):
Yeah, get up here, big pack, We're going up. You understand. Hey, listen,
who takes accountability?

Speaker 7 (01:36):
Better men and women.

Speaker 8 (01:37):
We're gonna wait for the family to pull up. You understand.

Speaker 7 (01:41):
Stunning just pulled up. God, y'all want to get up here?

Speaker 3 (01:43):
You better raise your God.

Speaker 7 (01:44):
Damn it, get up? We stun up number one.

Speaker 4 (01:52):
Up we go.

Speaker 7 (01:55):
I'm just I feel good on this money. My nigga
Matt just pulled.

Speaker 13 (01:59):
Up top about.

Speaker 7 (02:02):
On bro ship tip but a tie?

Speaker 5 (02:09):
Who?

Speaker 7 (02:09):
What are we doing?

Speaker 3 (02:10):
As matter of fact?

Speaker 7 (02:11):
You know what?

Speaker 3 (02:12):
Like?

Speaker 7 (02:12):
You know what I'm feeling? Real? You know what? This
is what I'm feeling right today. Hold on, That's how
I'm feeling. Hold On, it's my ship.

Speaker 8 (02:21):
That's how I'm feeling right now while we while we're
waiting for people to come through. I know my bro
about to switch it out. Hey, Robert, come up. This
is how I'm feeling right now.

Speaker 7 (02:28):
Will you heard? Hey?

Speaker 8 (02:33):
Rico, get up here, Robert? You know what it is
you catch your mind every time what we're doing. That's
how I feel right now?

Speaker 7 (02:46):
What the blik chain on? Nigga? Look, look niggas up
step through the.

Speaker 8 (02:58):
Hold on niggas go up the flexs to gonna nobody get.

Speaker 3 (03:06):
Let keep this is free on my minute too, and like.

Speaker 7 (03:10):
You with niggas will rumble way free, grab.

Speaker 4 (03:17):
Clip then a niggas into forty clips.

Speaker 7 (03:21):
Some monkey ship.

Speaker 8 (03:21):
She to me, That's how I'm feeling right now. Damn
I miss my nigga pop man. Damn Yo, Lawrence kick
this ship off. We'll kick this ship off, yay. But
I'm thinking, like, I want to talk about this, y'all.
Who takes accountability better?

Speaker 7 (03:40):
Men and women? I'm gonna say my ship first year,
Men take it better. We'll be like.

Speaker 8 (03:46):
Men will be like a, Yo, this is why I
fucked up at let me fix this and let's piece
this up. Women will run you around the motherfucking block.
I'm yo, they will run you around the block yay
before they be like, you know what, I think I
was wrong about that. I think I was wrong. Why
the fuck you didn't take accountability the first time?

Speaker 7 (04:07):
Men all do it.

Speaker 8 (04:08):
We'll we'll do it immediately after the bros I got
you know what I mean? The people I surround myself with,
bros gonna do it. Let me take accountability even if
it's not in a relationship, since they still gonna take accountability.
But I've seen women run us around the block just
to be like, all right, I did wrong, you were right?

(04:30):
Like what's going on?

Speaker 7 (04:31):
Yeah? You want to take over? What was bout?

Speaker 14 (04:34):
I'm just trying to sit here and think.

Speaker 15 (04:36):
Because women, women would take accountability later on, accountability later
on when they have really thought about it and if
it really affects the person that they're dealing with, and
men right away. At times, some men right away would
take accountability for shit that they do. So but I

(04:58):
can say large and total, I'm gonna have to go
with the men on this one.

Speaker 14 (05:03):
I'm sorry, lady.

Speaker 15 (05:04):
Ladies, uh yay, still loves you, But I have been
drugged through the goddamn much on this app, on this app.

Speaker 11 (05:14):
After I apologize, even though the.

Speaker 15 (05:17):
Initial reasons for me making certain houses wasn't to talk bad,
it was to get certain, get you to see the
bigger picture.

Speaker 14 (05:26):
And I apologize to people or stuff like that, and they.

Speaker 15 (05:29):
Still go on with the s and say, YY can't
take accountability? Well wow, I just did.

Speaker 14 (05:34):
I did, like front of three hundred people. But anyway,
we're gonna we're gonna let it go off the night.

Speaker 15 (05:38):
So anybody anybody else wanted to speak to my boy
Rico here the boy mac Mac probably at work got robbed.

Speaker 14 (05:43):
He got lords at the same time too. Pig eat
it into the room. Anybody want to speak to the title?
Y'a can speak the title?

Speaker 6 (05:49):
They come, aren't They all aren't saying.

Speaker 11 (05:56):
The motherfucking Harry?

Speaker 4 (05:57):
Yeah?

Speaker 16 (05:59):
Right, man, It's just like yo, we're just thinking like
I'm yo, I'm synthesizing this ship. I try not to
come off from a mica until I have a basics
and you know, I synthesize some thoughts man, not just
but but but but nah, man, I'm gonna tell you
man like this and this is something out now, I'm

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gonna be clear. And the last I guess maybe probably
three years I realized this ship. I didn't really really
realize how women have difficulty and just being accountable for
some ship that you point out for some reason, right,
And sometimes we we you know, we don't even realize

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that they won't be accountable until until we realize it.

Speaker 3 (06:46):
But I think men, depending on how.

Speaker 16 (06:48):
You grew up, like, especially the way I grew up,
like I grew up around dudes, like you know, Brooklyn,
like we held each other accountable, like dudes were straight
up with each other and we and we dealt with
the politics of the day, how we dealt with that
ship right like so it was that was regular exercise.
It was normal for dudes to just be accountable for
ship that they was doing right and your click and
your crew right. But with women, I'm telling you, man,

(07:11):
and I had a recent experience where yo, man. As
soon as I told this woman like, yo, you you
don't want to be accountable.

Speaker 3 (07:20):
She slipped.

Speaker 16 (07:22):
It was like that trigger word accountability, a yo Roberts.

Speaker 7 (07:26):
So she just flipped the scrip. She was a straight.

Speaker 17 (07:32):
She was a fucking hyena.

Speaker 7 (07:34):
So soon as you told her to take account it
was over.

Speaker 16 (07:37):
Afterwards, as I said, the word take accountability just went left.

Speaker 6 (07:41):
And it's a reality you got.

Speaker 3 (07:43):
You got.

Speaker 16 (07:43):
Not all women, not all women, but a lot a
lot of women are less likely to take accountability for
some ship just put before them.

Speaker 3 (07:51):
It is definitely something that I've seen so.

Speaker 7 (07:56):
Well.

Speaker 8 (07:56):
Shout out to lady over pulling up. Wait a minute,
God damn it, nigga, lad shut your fucking mouth. Yeah,
when I fucking when I say something, I throw one
and say Hi the lady. Oh, for fuck you, yo, Mac,
you heard me saying that this motherfucker what is nigga at?

(08:18):
I want to say, Hi the lucky lady. Oh, nigga,
what the nigga? I about the blast?

Speaker 7 (08:23):
This nigga? This wrong with you?

Speaker 3 (08:29):
Man?

Speaker 7 (08:29):
I was just saying, Hi the lady, Oh and lucky,
welcome ladies to the stage.

Speaker 18 (08:33):
You feel me?

Speaker 4 (08:34):
That's all I want to say, lady, But you shot
me for saying hello to lady.

Speaker 7 (08:43):
How you feel about this topic, lady?

Speaker 19 (08:44):
Oh?

Speaker 8 (08:45):
Who you think take accountability better? I already said the men.
I feel like women running us around the block a lot.
That're like, oh, what you know, we gottapprove ourselves, you
know what I'm saying for women to be like, Okay,
now I see where you were coming from.

Speaker 7 (08:58):
Men, we're gonna snap into that ship. But how are
you feeling, lady? Oh? Thank you for supporting today.

Speaker 3 (09:04):
And the song. I really can't.

Speaker 5 (09:07):
I must say men.

Speaker 7 (09:11):
Women.

Speaker 5 (09:12):
I'm gonna say men.

Speaker 6 (09:13):
Take women take no accountability?

Speaker 3 (09:16):
All right?

Speaker 5 (09:17):
So yeah, I'm gonna say. I'm gonna say men take
accountability better than women. In my experience, well, women is
kind of like a song and a dance. You gotta
kind of like explain this whole long drawn out fucking
situation and get them to see where they went wrong

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and why they shouldn't do this and did that, and
they want to play the victim. And yeah, men, men,
in my experience is more easy going. It's like you
have the conversation, what's understood, it's understood, and then you
move on. Women they want to go back and forth,

(09:58):
up and down right right. I'll tell you I know
how men feel sometimes when y'all be saying that some
of these women is bugged out because they bugged the
fuck out.

Speaker 7 (10:11):
Well, we got it from the queen.

Speaker 5 (10:12):
Lady O.

Speaker 7 (10:13):
Women do not take accountability, That's what it sounds like.
I feel like they do.

Speaker 8 (10:18):
They do, but you luch like lady Ojosa, you gotta
do a long drawn out paragraph with a signature at
the end. Mm hmm, thank you for that, lady Oh.
Who takes a better accountability? Men and women were having
an open style talk right now? Anybody can jump in.
Thank you guys for joining the gender wars. Who wants
to chime in next? Who takes accountability better? Men and women?
Popcorn style? Thank you for coming up, Lucky, Amber Atlas, Lewis,

(10:42):
Breezy Biggie, Lawrence, Robert mac Rico.

Speaker 7 (10:46):
Let's continue this conversation and picking the wom up? How
you taking Rico?

Speaker 3 (10:51):
Fuck you?

Speaker 7 (10:52):
I know yourll light's getting mad ass? What's gonna come
and stay some slick shit?

Speaker 4 (10:55):
What what's wrong?

Speaker 7 (10:56):
Rico?

Speaker 8 (10:56):
Talk on the topic, Bro? Why you always gotta attack me?
Motherfucker attack the topic?

Speaker 11 (11:02):
I don't know, man, I don't know who does it.
I don't know.

Speaker 6 (11:05):
I think I think accountability to like.

Speaker 20 (11:09):
I think like it all depends on the like like
respect to other account a bit like if it's something's big,
it all depends.

Speaker 6 (11:16):
I don't know, man, I don't know.

Speaker 11 (11:17):
It's like.

Speaker 6 (11:20):
I don't know none, none of them.

Speaker 3 (11:24):
I don't.

Speaker 6 (11:25):
Rico just spit it out, brother side.

Speaker 8 (11:29):
He beating, he beating around the bush. Yeah, Lawrence, you
know what I'm saying. He know, he know the answer.

Speaker 5 (11:34):
He just.

Speaker 3 (11:38):
Oh no, don't do that.

Speaker 7 (11:42):
So Rico don't want to say Lawrence, why do you
think he don't want to say it?

Speaker 18 (11:45):
Bro?

Speaker 7 (11:46):
Why do you think he's skating around the bush.

Speaker 21 (11:48):
I think it's woman. I think his wife is right
next to me.

Speaker 8 (11:54):
So he's trying to talk ship to me, right, Lawrence
trying to like you don't want smoking, But if he
was like by itself, he's like, motherfuck that you already know, already.

Speaker 20 (12:04):
Know, because if you take accountability once the person has
pushed you to the point of like you forced to
accept it.

Speaker 6 (12:11):
Just because you took it, that don't mean I should
give you credit for it.

Speaker 20 (12:14):
Like if a man does things several times over and
I finally a woman like gives him an ultimately she
out and then you finally say, yeah, I was wrong
for that.

Speaker 6 (12:22):
I did all that.

Speaker 1 (12:23):
I don't really I don't.

Speaker 20 (12:24):
Really give you no credit for that, because like it's
like if someone has to push you to take accountability,
it's like it's like an apology almost.

Speaker 6 (12:30):
Like if I got to force you to apologize it
don't hit the same way like you saying it, but
it feels like I'm pressuring you to to say, like, so,
so we.

Speaker 8 (12:40):
Go, you like the genuine accountability, not the shit that
you gotta go on the long tangent to prove Yeah, like.

Speaker 20 (12:45):
You did it and now it's okay. I see, like
I see what I will see what happened. I'm wrong
for that.

Speaker 6 (12:49):
I ain't mean to say that to you like that,
or I shouldn't have did that.

Speaker 20 (12:52):
I was like not being considered like if you gotta
be like you gotta argue with somebody, then they go
all right.

Speaker 6 (12:57):
All right, right, damn I did it. Okay, I say,
I admit it. I was wrong. I could have nah, man,
like who wants that?

Speaker 20 (13:03):
That's not like you accepting it, but you're accepting it
at a point to where like I'm forcing you to
accept it and you're just saying it so you can
kind of like get me to kind of like like
like pipe down a little bit.

Speaker 22 (13:16):
So the way that I look at this is and
I guess, whatever it is, what it is. I personally
think that men take more accountability as far as like
when it comes the pulling teeth of like you know,
just admit that you're wrong.

Speaker 13 (13:32):
Goddamnit you it is what it is. It is already wrong.
We already know those.

Speaker 22 (13:39):
Brown white thank you, so like I think that that's
just my personal offinion. However, when it comes to like
I don't know if it's just a I don't want
to be blamed for something type of thing, I also
think that they dug accountability the most when it really

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comes time to actually shine, like if it's something simple
and small. I really don't think that men do like
that part of the game. But when it comes to
something that is like maybe very innocent signing up every
day of the week, they will have no problem with
being like.

Speaker 13 (14:20):
Yup, I messed up.

Speaker 22 (14:21):
Whatever, let's move forward, let's correct this. That's my personal opinion.

Speaker 4 (14:31):
Yeah, I say it like this.

Speaker 23 (14:32):
You know, in our society, you know, or women you know,
has the accountability of a child, the same level as
a child. Oh while you talking to them like that
their children? Oh why are you talking to her like that?

Speaker 7 (14:45):
Just a woman?

Speaker 23 (14:47):
You know, all of that stuff, you know, feminism, you know,
cause you know, like a lot of women not to
be accountable for their actions. They quick the sweet things
under the rug. You understand, a lot of women have
a lot narcissistic tendencies about them, so they always go
to charge, like shift shape and manipulate a lot of things,

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you know, not to you know, be blamed on certain things.
And another thing is that one last thing is like
us as men, we got nobody to fall back on
when we, you know, get in trouble or when we
lose a lot. You understand we we got.

Speaker 8 (15:24):
Are you accountable for that sex doll you keep talking about?
Are you accountable for that?

Speaker 3 (15:31):
Hell?

Speaker 7 (15:31):
Yeah, go get a real woman. Go get a real woman, asshole.
Do get a real woman, asshole.

Speaker 3 (15:42):
Let me finish.

Speaker 18 (15:43):
I'm still speaking.

Speaker 23 (15:47):
A lot of times, like when it comes to us men,
you know, we have nobody to fall back on and
the women that comes to women, women always got somebody
to save them, whether you know they're right or wrong.
You know, it's always going to be like some some
baths dude, or somebody gonna save the soldiers right there.

Speaker 7 (16:01):
That's the mic Lawrence wants to hop in. Please let
me hear.

Speaker 22 (16:07):
Some sel hold on, because I really want to speak
on this though. Let's be very clear. Although you yes,
I sure the okay, but one second, I do want people.

Speaker 13 (16:25):
Y'all, y'all sure y'all have accountability, to be quite.

Speaker 22 (16:33):
Y'all, because like I'm not trying to talk to y'all
weird today, it's too early for that anyways. But like
I do think that man over embellish. They over embellish
the points in time where they're due where they do
actually take accountability. Because if you really want to see
what we're doing right now. I ain't never seen no

(16:55):
man take accountability for that. Yeah, I fucked this up,
really and everybody has to suffer because of it.

Speaker 13 (17:04):
I never want to take accountab believe you on that.

Speaker 1 (17:09):
Niggas literally write songs about this ship like shut up
me get the off.

Speaker 13 (17:24):
That's not taking account of gas. That's making listen, it's
too early. So when I turn up on you don't
say nothing, and I don't turn.

Speaker 24 (17:32):
Up, turn up, turn up, turn up, turn up, turn up,
turn up, turn up.

Speaker 21 (17:40):
We want you to turn up.

Speaker 25 (17:45):
That I deserve you, like nigga's been taking accountability when
they fuck up, knock it off.

Speaker 18 (17:58):
I think, what happened to you?

Speaker 13 (18:00):
Why you don't ever do it? Why don't you follow?

Speaker 14 (18:08):
Don't you do?

Speaker 22 (18:12):
You do royally all the time, But here you are,
people give you a pass. You don't even know the
difference between a past and everybody can see you.

Speaker 13 (18:20):
You know we can see you. I don't like nothing.
That's your lack of accountability kicking in.

Speaker 7 (18:31):
It is clear to me.

Speaker 21 (18:33):
It is clear to me that men have.

Speaker 26 (18:37):
Higher raad of accountability because we've moved in logic and
we think logically versus women moving their emotions and think
with their emotions. I am not saying that that's I
am not suggesting that thinking with your emotions is some
sort of deficiting your personality. I'm simply saying that's just

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how it hits.

Speaker 27 (18:59):
So I think when we begin to validate each other
and understand that that's what it is, and we stop
trying to make rain fall up even beats in one
other than who we are.

Speaker 21 (19:11):
The balance works and it just works. So like I understand,
I mean.

Speaker 26 (19:18):
And Breezy, you know, I definitely honor you because you've
been very transparent and honest. You know, Rezai tell you
in a minute, I cry weekly, right right, I get it,
and there's nothing wrong with that. That is how you
process things that happen in your life day to day,

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week to week. Right, we just process are different, I think, Breezy.
The challenge comes in is when.

Speaker 27 (19:50):
Sisters are not accountable but their behavior and they think
it's okay just to do whatever day is you want
to do.

Speaker 26 (19:58):
Just because that's how you feel. And that's not how
society works, right that not being accountable does not allow
for understanding or overstanding, or togetherness or teamwork. It doesn't
allow for that, it becomes the disabler of teamwork.

Speaker 7 (20:21):
If you will.

Speaker 27 (20:22):
You can put that in the context of business or
romantic relationships or whatever it is you want to put
in a context of but it becomes the disabler, not
the enable. Right, So the balance is men, that's the balance.
I mean, what the hell would you call night the
day didn't exist answers, you wouldn't call it nothing? And

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the reverse is truth. So men typically are more accountable
because we understand that the lack of accountability on our
side that could lose your money, lose your life, lose
your relationship, your family.

Speaker 21 (21:02):
So we understand the ramifications.

Speaker 16 (21:04):
Of Yeah, I just put in the chat the three
d's of of of like lack of avoiding accountability, denied, deflect,
and diffuse.

Speaker 7 (21:19):
That is the three d's of avoiding accountability.

Speaker 3 (21:23):
You didn't mean a movie? So what that means? Pro
blackly nigga? Oh my god, what just happened?

Speaker 10 (21:33):
Okay, you're about talk man? Only no bits tell you
about to say telling that nigga I was in the house.
Look pro black niggas if not about all?

Speaker 21 (21:50):
First of all, first of all, the let me.

Speaker 27 (21:53):
Just say that there are no bits anybody coming to
this day? Lead that beach up where you're at? Those
ladies are I think some.

Speaker 7 (22:05):
Of y'all like drink crack in the morning and then
come in here, doctor B.

Speaker 3 (22:10):
What you think, bro?

Speaker 7 (22:11):
Doctor B? Yeah, I think they drink it and then yeah,
they like Lucky.

Speaker 8 (22:20):
How are you feeling about this topic? I want to
stick to the topic who takes accountability better?

Speaker 7 (22:23):
Since? How do you feel about this? Good morning?

Speaker 12 (22:28):
I've hung over.

Speaker 11 (22:29):
I was celebrating my birthday last night.

Speaker 7 (22:31):
I'm just here for Happy birthday, Lucky, late birthday.

Speaker 22 (22:37):
It's your birthday, Happy birthday, beautiful, Thank you, Breezy.

Speaker 28 (22:41):
So I'm just listening for now.

Speaker 13 (22:44):
I don't feel like getting ahead from listening to these.

Speaker 8 (22:49):
I had Lucky come in whenever you get some water
or get coming back or whatever. But how y'all feeling
about this topic? Who takes accountability better? Men or women?
The floor is open for now, popcorn, though I want
to come in next. Thanks coming up A K H. D.
Breezy seesaw colossal Lawrence, Doctor B.

Speaker 7 (23:06):
Stunner.

Speaker 3 (23:07):
What are we doing?

Speaker 11 (23:08):
Man?

Speaker 7 (23:08):
Were on the wall floor? Let's turn this ship up?

Speaker 29 (23:10):
What are you doing?

Speaker 7 (23:11):
Let's jump in open stock well lucky.

Speaker 13 (23:14):
My baby said, are you one?

Speaker 18 (23:15):
Are you two?

Speaker 13 (23:16):
Are you three?

Speaker 30 (23:18):
Don't take accountability?

Speaker 7 (23:21):
Who said that? Who said that?

Speaker 13 (23:23):
My daughters said, happy birthday? And are who are you three?

Speaker 31 (23:28):
Are you four?

Speaker 14 (23:29):
Are you like?

Speaker 3 (23:31):
So she can hear us?

Speaker 16 (23:32):
We gotta be careful with all with our words that
the baby can hear us.

Speaker 7 (23:36):
I'm sorry, doctor B. You heard me, my brother, you
heard what I said about to talk about.

Speaker 3 (23:41):
I was drinking.

Speaker 7 (23:46):
Hey, doctor B. Who takes accountability better?

Speaker 12 (23:50):
My bro?

Speaker 7 (23:50):
Men and women?

Speaker 8 (23:51):
And let's let's continue this after doctor B Champson talk
about it me and.

Speaker 32 (23:55):
Take accountability better? If we don't got four? I love
doctor B. I know I had dread hello for some
being again my dreads real quick. I'll be back.

Speaker 11 (24:08):
Are we really asking this question? As I continue?

Speaker 7 (24:12):
I can't stay thought to be bro.

Speaker 11 (24:15):
I got mango cherry crack today. It's delicious, but.

Speaker 24 (24:24):
I can't even like formulate my words because this is
just these women don't take accountability again. There are women
on like even just talking to Cluffhouse that you'll be
talking to somebody else and then they want to argue
with you, and you'll be like, why you want to
argue with me? Be like you try to argue with me,
I didn't even say your name. How No, no accountability whatsoever.

(24:49):
But a lot of them, the only woman who take
accountability is the women who had daddies in their home.
That's how you can kind of tell for a woman.
That's why you know a lot of daddies wasn't there. Uh,
if you had your daddy, your daddy said no, you
can't have that toy. All these daddies was not pushovers.
My daddy wasn't a push over with my sister. That's
why she kind of acts more like my father than

(25:12):
my mother as a woman. The pushovers was your mama's boyfriend.
Dad was trying to fuck y'all mama's and that was
why they thought that could fuck y'all. Mama really quick
was to let y'all do whatever. But your daddy wasn't
letting you get away with shit because daddy was teaching
you discipline and structure. But a lot of these women
didn't have daddies, which is why they're not accountable because

(25:33):
nobody was there to tell them, hey, don't do that,
because mama wasn't paying attention to them because she was trying.

Speaker 7 (25:37):
To get her groove on.

Speaker 24 (25:38):
Still, that's why you have That's why you have mamas now,
you know, arguing with niggas instead of like you know,
giving their kids chicken nuggets when they're hungry and stuff.
Because again, there's no structure discipline there. Accountability is based
on structure and discipline, and nobody was at a give
it to them in their life.

Speaker 11 (25:55):
Just look at their life. Their life is undisciplined.

Speaker 8 (25:58):
Damn to be coming in really really strong now Colosso Robert,
y'all can jump in. Thank you for that, doctor b Nah.

Speaker 16 (26:07):
He hit me you know once he said that, like, like,
you gotta like men who produce things, right, Men who
produce things, men are the builders.

Speaker 11 (26:14):
Right.

Speaker 16 (26:14):
How much fucking discipline is that shit take? So day
in and day out, from the time you wake up
in the morning, all the moves you make, you gotta
fucking apply to logistical analysis on how to fuck to
show up in your life.

Speaker 11 (26:28):
And you know that if you make the wrong move,
you fuck up.

Speaker 16 (26:31):
And you go shit, god damn it, all right, I
can't do that. That's us taking accountability on a regular basis, right,
So it's embedded in our thought process, being responsible, holding
ourselves responsible and I'm talking about productive dudes. I ain't
talking about none of these clowns, right. That level of
excellence is hard as fun. So we naturally trained and shit,

(26:53):
and so when we realize we're doing something wrong, we
gotta correct instantly.

Speaker 6 (26:57):
That's how we stay safe.

Speaker 16 (26:58):
That's how we protect our that's how we get respect,
that's how we can protect our family. Is because we're
operating off of accountability for how to fuck we move,
because if we move the wrong way, yo, man, we
could face danger. So I think it's embedded in us
a lot easier. Whereas women, you know, they are to
protect this species. They more, you know, they you know,

(27:20):
we pursue them, so on and so forth, we seek
their attention and et cetera, et cetera, et cetera. So
they're not used to being accountable for a lot of shit,
especially when you know when they're attractive, and you know,
dudes come around, they lower the barn. I got you,
I take care.

Speaker 11 (27:34):
Don't you worry about it.

Speaker 6 (27:37):
I got it, take care of it.

Speaker 16 (27:39):
And so you unload and remove them from being accountable
for shit. She could be a fucked up person, but
nobody knows it because they give us so much grace
because they want access to what she got.

Speaker 6 (27:50):
So I'm gonna land on that.

Speaker 20 (27:56):
Either way you word it like someone can literally mistreat
you and I can say, well, you accountable for trusting them,
So no matter how much you play it like and like,
I could go outside and get rob and the person
can be like, well, hey, I needed money, Like I'm
accountable for taking something from him, but he accountable for
not protecting what he was wearing. Like so there's no

(28:16):
there there, there's like that, like you can turn it
around on his head a million one ways to benefit you.

Speaker 6 (28:23):
So I can say.

Speaker 20 (28:25):
A woman can say, well, when you're not accountable for
the man out what like he should have been accountable
he did. All I got to do is say, well,
you're accountable for choosing them, knowing that she couldn't have
had the wherewithal or the foresight to see that the
man was gonna do what he doing.

Speaker 6 (28:37):
It's a it's an unfair assessment for her to make.
Hold on, wait a minute, freako.

Speaker 15 (28:43):
If men see women as children, why would they want
accountability from them?

Speaker 27 (28:48):
I don't know.

Speaker 20 (28:49):
What I'm telling you is two people that's looking to
point the fingers and in any situation.

Speaker 6 (28:58):
You can make it fall on them. You can switch
it a million different ways.

Speaker 20 (29:03):
If if, if, if, if a woman has a bad outcome,
I can say, well your accountable picking the wrong man.
The same woman can say, well he accountable, he should
have been a better person. So either way, with whatever
party wanted to use it to their favor, the person
making the argument can use their accountability against them. There's
no way to say it, like like you can always

(29:24):
turn it to fit your narrative.

Speaker 6 (29:26):
It's like you can do that each time.

Speaker 25 (29:30):
I just never dated a woman, bro, And then you
know and be like yo, so like you know what
happened with your last relationship?

Speaker 1 (29:37):
And she just said, like I fucked it up because
I was a fucking ditch. It's never happened on the
planet in history, bro.

Speaker 5 (29:46):
Like.

Speaker 7 (29:48):
I don't know, man, yoo, it happened. Yeah, real quick,
it happens, Bro, It happens. It definitely happens. You just
got to have an honest rico.

Speaker 18 (29:56):
You just ain't happen.

Speaker 7 (29:57):
He an't honest, femen before let's keep it on her.
I feel that seasaw I.

Speaker 20 (30:02):
Told the woman that he messed up another woman's life
before she even has he ever met a woman. I'm
gonna let you know I had a bad history of
women before. This is what my past looks like. So
if you want to take the risk, then that's on you.
But you can't hold me accountable. The things don't go.
Have you ever gave that speech to a woman? For
that would be interesting to hear?

Speaker 12 (30:24):
We have you?

Speaker 3 (30:25):
How do you hold on?

Speaker 4 (30:26):
Buddy?

Speaker 3 (30:27):
Hold on?

Speaker 14 (30:27):
She saw get off the goddamn she saw right.

Speaker 4 (30:32):
Share the seasaw.

Speaker 14 (30:33):
So listen, I mean, haven't you guys heard men mentioned.

Speaker 15 (30:39):
That women aren't to be taking care of and look
at his delicate flowers be built for them, and uh, et.

Speaker 7 (30:46):
Cetera, et cetera.

Speaker 14 (30:47):
I mean we heard that right, plenty of time. We agree, disagree,
somebody says something, make.

Speaker 4 (30:56):
Your point, loser is crazy. Okay, so before we.

Speaker 6 (31:04):
Agree, we got to see the full details of what.

Speaker 15 (31:08):
Well, I'm just asking you, fellas, have you heard that
on clubhouse before?

Speaker 3 (31:13):
Yes? Yes, we hear that, yes, yes, okay, Well.

Speaker 14 (31:17):
Okay, Well then my thing is I'm gonna say what
I'm going to say again.

Speaker 6 (31:21):
I said we have a lot of simping. I think
simping is Oh.

Speaker 15 (31:25):
No, I don't think that's stipping, because I think that's
an elusively used term, a word that you should Yeah,
we'll get back to it. But men, well we'll get
back to it. I mean you kindly just let me
kick your as quick because you came off the mic.
When it comes down to men, we say we make
homes for them.

Speaker 14 (31:45):
We even give them rights and stuff like that.

Speaker 3 (31:47):
Correct.

Speaker 15 (31:47):
So my thing is, if men see women as children,
how much accountability do you think?

Speaker 14 (31:53):
How much accountability are they supposed to take? Like, come on,
I'm just I'm curious to know.

Speaker 1 (31:59):
That same accountability When I ask my son, do you
have good gret?

Speaker 27 (32:04):
Did you do good?

Speaker 25 (32:05):
And you know, did you do your own work? And
he goes, uh, yeah, that I did it. And I
say let me see it and he pulls it out
and he did it?

Speaker 1 (32:11):
Like how hard is that?

Speaker 25 (32:13):
I mean, it's fucking just being honest, it's admitting or
like if I say, did you lie to her?

Speaker 1 (32:20):
You're fucking I don't know teacher.

Speaker 25 (32:21):
Or your mom and he goes, yeah dad, And I
say well why and he goes, I was scared about
what would happen?

Speaker 1 (32:27):
Like whatever it is, kids know how to do the shit.

Speaker 6 (32:32):
Why do women ask you a question. I will ask
you one question.

Speaker 20 (32:35):
Seesaw if a man, if a man deals with the
woman and the man mistreats the woman, and the new
man says, well, do you take in accountability for the
choices that you that that that you made? Who's accountable
the woman that made the bad choice or the man
who is mistreating her inside your relationship? Who does the
accountability fall on the woman that chose the man, the

(32:58):
hold on the man, the woman that old the man
that mistreats her, or the man not taking accountability for
actually mistreating her.

Speaker 25 (33:04):
Well, until we get his side of the story, we
all know I just gave it, yeah, but we don't
know that in most cases.

Speaker 3 (33:12):
So it's.

Speaker 1 (33:15):
In this area we know that she's I'm gonna tell
you why.

Speaker 25 (33:17):
It's still her fault because the first, after the first
sign of mistreatment, you should have got the fuck up
out of there. So if you stayed around for two
years and got whatever the mistreatment was, then that's when you.

Speaker 16 (33:30):
Still I just realized something, yo, Oh, our children accountable
as fuck. Like if I'm raising a child and the
way I raised my daughter, let me let me yeah, man, yo,
the first thing my grandson's.

Speaker 6 (33:46):
I swear I will say was here right now.

Speaker 16 (33:49):
Their hell is accountable like a motherfucker like, because I
don't want them to grow up disillusioned. I don't want
them not to realize that how you move in this
world is important and your behavior has consequences.

Speaker 6 (34:01):
So yeah, I don't.

Speaker 16 (34:02):
But any child you raised without having accountability, that child
grows into be an adult that lives in a world
of delusion and expectation as somebody owes them some shit.
So yeah, our old children accountable. We all should be
holding children accountable, and that's the problem. A lot of
us just fucking spoil them. We should be holding kids

(34:23):
and teaching them what accountability looks like.

Speaker 6 (34:26):
So I had further thought.

Speaker 24 (34:28):
But that's a difference between a child mentality and a
child yep. So yeah, when you're an adult in your brain,
your neuro connections are fully formed, and you still act
and perceive the world as if you're an infant, that
is a problem.

Speaker 11 (34:46):
Like a four year old not.

Speaker 24 (34:47):
Understanding conceptually about holding themselves to a certain task is
understandable because they still are learning how to conceptually understand
what that means. Adults know and they just don't do
it because they don't feel like they're a punishment for it,
or they don't see the benefit to her, or they
don't see.

Speaker 7 (35:03):
The respect of it.

Speaker 11 (35:04):
Like women are accountable to anything that they respect.

Speaker 24 (35:08):
If they're not, like, if you can't hold them accountable,
they don't respect you, and that's fine. Like most of
them don't understand conception of what respect is. Because again
back to my initie point, which I don't know who
is trying to interrupt me, which is, I don't know
why you would do that. Just sit on your hands,
like they weren't taught that. They weren't taught respect. They
don't they they've never been punched in the mouth. So

(35:30):
that's why they talk how they talk on clubhouse because
they their brains don't conceptually understand that a nigga will
hit you in your eye because they ain't never been
punched in the eye, which is why they're so quick
to be, you know, disrespectful, because they haven't been punished
for their behavior. That's the lack of accountability, because no
one has been able to hold them accountable because men
care about sleeping with them more than making sure that

(35:51):
they're righteous and being deep down don't care about them
to hold somebody. I try to hold a woman accountable
that you have to actually care about her. A lot
of men don't care about women. They just want to
kind of fuck them and hold them for the moment,
because you got to risk losing somebody that you care about.

Speaker 11 (36:07):
And y'all not risk and losing these women.

Speaker 24 (36:09):
I don't know why, because they're not as cute as
y'all think they are and they're not as talented.

Speaker 4 (36:15):
Well what the fuck?

Speaker 11 (36:18):
This is why?

Speaker 24 (36:18):
Like I can say all the stuff that I say
on Clubhouse and not care because again, I don't want
any of these women.

Speaker 11 (36:23):
I got who I want, and half the time I
don't even really want her. But yeah, yeah, this is wild.

Speaker 24 (36:32):
Like this is why women act how they act because
y'all do this stuff for them. Y'all treat them like children.
Of course they're gonna act like kids because you treat
them like kids. Start treating them like adults. Take your
presence from them when they act like a brat, ignore
them because I get mad, even like because Mumia does
this and I love movie some barrio bro, but like
I hate when y'all entertain women when they say stupid shit,

(36:56):
and y'all sit there and want to argue and go
back and forth and bicker with them because deep down,
y'all like them, and y'all don't have no women in
the y'all can talk to. Men have got to shun
women who have certain behaviors. That's the only way they learn.
But every time you reinforce that shit, they're gonna keep
doing it. That's why all this instant in that shit
and Twitter, I gotta go to the gym's w I'm

(37:17):
talking a long, so I ain't gonna talk for a minute.

Speaker 11 (37:18):
Like Goo, Twitter and Instagram. For all the shit that
they say is some rage bait shit.

Speaker 24 (37:23):
These women aren't for the most part, aren't intellectual. They
don't have coherent thoughts that make sense. Biggie like, they
can't straight, They can't stream more than five or six
sentences together that make sense before they just start rambling
about some bullshit.

Speaker 11 (37:36):
It's all just these niggas are.

Speaker 24 (37:37):
Broke anything to get you to engage with them, and
it's always negative, and y'all always fall for that. Y'all
can't wait to go argue with them, So why do
you think they would ever be accountable to that? Like
that's what you're showing them that behavior is gonna warrant
a response that they want your attention. So if you
want them to change their behavior and become accountable, you
gotta ignore thembitious. But y'all can't do it because y'all

(37:59):
don't have enough women to talk to, so you'll have
to engage with them.

Speaker 11 (38:02):
So they got you'all beat.

Speaker 7 (38:05):
They're idiots, Jesus, hold on, hold on real quick, real quick.

Speaker 8 (38:11):
Yeah, yeah, real quick. I want to know why Harriet
is blocked from my room.

Speaker 4 (38:20):
Why did you drop?

Speaker 3 (38:22):
Why did you do that?

Speaker 11 (38:23):
Why should you do that?

Speaker 3 (38:24):
I don't care.

Speaker 18 (38:26):
She's in the telegram, Shut.

Speaker 5 (38:27):
The fuck up.

Speaker 7 (38:29):
I want to know why people got people blocked out
of gender boss.

Speaker 11 (38:33):
That's why.

Speaker 7 (38:34):
Motherfucker.

Speaker 24 (38:36):
Question Robert, question, Robert, anybody.

Speaker 8 (38:41):
Have Harriot blocked? Unblock her? She's trying to come in, Robert,
do you have her block?

Speaker 7 (38:47):
Harriet doug Man somebody that she's trying to come in
and cause Ko trying to come in.

Speaker 1 (39:01):
I might have her block. I don't know what.

Speaker 33 (39:06):
It has to be a mod Yeah, it has to.

Speaker 7 (39:08):
Be a moderator that has her block, bro.

Speaker 11 (39:11):
Well, could be me.

Speaker 6 (39:12):
So I'm gonna remove myself from the room. Of I
don't know what she said to make me block.

Speaker 7 (39:16):
But you can come right back. It's go on and
come back in, and I'm gonna have her come in.

Speaker 5 (39:21):
Bro.

Speaker 17 (39:23):
Hey, Well, one thing I can say that I agree
with doctor I agree with doctor B about is that
men tell these women on the app what they want
to hear because they're trying to fuck them. Like me. Yeah,
I see it be a lot of y'all attractive women
and look at y'all pet y'alls got your best hanging
out make up and all that ship whatever.

Speaker 7 (39:38):
Right was it me?

Speaker 11 (39:42):
I don't know.

Speaker 7 (39:43):
She ain't come in yet, bro, I just hit her.

Speaker 34 (39:46):
I just sent it to her to send it to
just sit in the audience.

Speaker 7 (39:50):
If she come up real quick, real quick, bro, all right, appreciate.

Speaker 14 (39:53):
It or she probably needs to like refresh and try
to gain.

Speaker 7 (39:56):
Some time already. Know that's starting to get on that.

Speaker 3 (40:03):
You got a blog?

Speaker 35 (40:05):
Yeah, I think so too.

Speaker 8 (40:06):
Really well, let me just finish this real quick. I
agree with doctor be Go ahead, ghost, what's up brother?
How you feel about this? Thank you for supporting bro?

Speaker 17 (40:17):
Youah, no problem, man, I'm on the road. I gotta
be you know, take care and make some money.

Speaker 7 (40:21):
And shit.

Speaker 17 (40:21):
But just say this real quick. I agree with doctor
B when he did say that dudes be telling these
women what they want to hear. That's why they don't
be held accountable, because you tell them when they want
to hear just to fuck them me.

Speaker 7 (40:31):
I don't care.

Speaker 17 (40:31):
I could keep a fuck less about that on clubhouse.
Whether go out in public and talk to them personally,
see their faces and energy, and then I know if
they if they like me or not. But on the
app hell no, I tell them what they need to hear.
I'll tell you what you want to hear, tell you
what you want to hear. You ain't gonna hold yourself accountable.
And like he said, these dudes be treating these women
like these still kids.

Speaker 4 (40:49):
Man.

Speaker 17 (40:50):
They make them get away with shit without the punishment,
because the punishment make your grass want to change it.
That's how you hold yourself accountable. But when you don't
tell them the things they need to hear, what they're
gonna do. What you are doing is pandering to them
so they can continue in their dysfunction. Now when I
cut when I when I talk to women and I
tell them without being malicious or trying to get them angry.

(41:12):
I tell them the truth. They say that I hate women,
or you toxic, or this and that, that and this,
just because I tell you the things that you need
to hear instead of pandering to you to make you
feel good as I could get in your draws. You see,
I notice the difference. That's why I say it resonated
with me what he was saying, because I'd be saying
the same things. This is the first time I came
on this app. Tell the ask the truth. I ain't
trying to fuck none of y'all, and it just to

(41:34):
make y'all hold y'aself accountable to that real shit instead
of treating y'all like children and shit.

Speaker 3 (41:39):
Oh, I'll give you a pass for this.

Speaker 17 (41:40):
I give you a pass for that. Nigga, you dead
well know you won't do that shit the natural cause
that shit is a red flag to you. But they're
letting her get away with the ship. Come on, man,
that shit gotta stop now.

Speaker 6 (41:49):
Y'all gotta stop saying this nonsense.

Speaker 20 (41:50):
I got about one thousand dollars cash boundary for any
woman on an application that can produce said back channel
of me trying to flirt with her any inclespicious way
trying to say something sexual in the reference, trying to
get her number. I got my one thousand dollars cash
boundary out that will be paid via cash shot, zeil
or whatever your former payment that you can produce in
your PTR that I that you.

Speaker 6 (42:13):
It's a bunch of bullshit, bro.

Speaker 20 (42:14):
Just because I agree with a woman who I may
play with or I may not want to, doesn't mean that, y'all.
I hear me in all, just trying to like what
you think I'm gonna get on the plane and fly
of Arizona. You think I'm finna like leave, leave my
lobbyhood and go use my frequent fly of miles and
meet her in Modesco cout wherever she at. You think
I'm gonna go, because they damn sure ain't well. I'm
at they in my state and ain't not even women
in my state like it. Not trying to be funny.

Speaker 6 (42:36):
If you in Florida and you ain't got her and
you can't get on you, it's something wrong with you, bro.

Speaker 20 (42:41):
I'm just gonna be honest. They out here like you
would not believe. So what I'm telling you, You think
I'm finna go to New Mexico she probably in Kansas.
You think I'm going to Kansas, I'm going away. I'm
going y'all told on, y'all, y'all gotta y'all got y'all
gotta cut it out. Already, I hear this narrative so much,
like like like what what what mean? I mean, I'm
pretty sure it happens, but to me, like for me,

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I have heard a million times. I don't know what
who those men are, what they got going on, but
that's crazy.

Speaker 7 (43:10):
What we got. Harriet back in the room, Robert.

Speaker 8 (43:14):
Already, No, Robert, you can come back to brother, and
let's all have this conversation. Who takes accountability better men
or women? Let's get to this point. Doctor b thank
you for chiming in. I know he's going to the gym,
my brother, Yay, we know, Sae. We only on the
four hundred side, Biggie. I appreciate you, stunning, lucky Ak, Harriet,
Colossal Wesley, everybody on the stage.

Speaker 19 (43:36):
Man.

Speaker 8 (43:36):
Shout us to you guys for supporting the Genda. Wars
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and so I'm always infused business relationship, all that shit

(43:58):
all in one right, So shout.

Speaker 7 (43:59):
Out you guys. Let's continue this conversation. Who takes accountability better?
Men or women?

Speaker 8 (44:04):
Let's have an open style conversation. The floor is open
for now until the topic changes.

Speaker 7 (44:09):
Y'all know what it is. Ping it up, Share it up.

Speaker 8 (44:11):
Everybody that's on the stage with me too, that's on
stage right now, Ping up your whole list and share
it out to everybody and tell them to come into
the wall floor because it's going down.

Speaker 7 (44:19):
You understand. I'll be back in a minute.

Speaker 3 (44:23):
We go.

Speaker 4 (44:26):
Oh, I know you did.

Speaker 7 (44:30):
That's crazy.

Speaker 8 (44:31):
That's nuts, right, Like why the war is welcome?

Speaker 29 (44:35):
Sir Swang on reach ove in.

Speaker 7 (44:39):
Touch Sona, did you answer this question about who takes it?

Speaker 34 (44:46):
Didn't answer because I think the real question is who
do it? Who's more genuine with it? I feel like
women take accountability. Men take accountability, right, but who's more
genuine when they do that? I think men kind of
take accountability when it's up, when it's over, when they
lost the job, when they lost the woman, then they yeah,
man I did this, and yeah I did that. But

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when they were in it, it's kind of like, yeah whatever.
They just said my bad, my bad, just to kind of,
you know, go on about the day. But it wasn't genuine.
So I think even if women wait, I heard someone say, like,
women wait till they get pushed to the point. Even
if they were pushed to the point, I feel like
it's more genuine. So I'll say that women are more
genuine with their when they take accountability.

Speaker 11 (45:29):
That's utterly ridiculous.

Speaker 3 (45:30):
It's a fact.

Speaker 14 (45:38):
Sticking up their ass to get them.

Speaker 24 (45:41):
It is very describing men being so men are actually accountable.
That's not men's problem. Men's issue is responsibility, not accountability.
So accountability is blame or fault, like you're the reason
why this happens. Men have no problem taking accountability. I

(46:02):
did that ship, I cheated whatever responsibility comes with fixing it.
That's where men struggle. Men struggle with account with responsibility,
not accountability. Women struggle with accountability. But they're responsible, so
they'll fix sh it.

Speaker 3 (46:16):
But they won't.

Speaker 11 (46:17):
They won't take the blame for it, but they'll work
to fix it.

Speaker 24 (46:19):
So like you know, cheating bad relationships, they'll stay in
them ships because that's you know, they feel like they're
responsible to do that, right, I'm supposed to you know,
hold my man down, et cetera, et cetera. That's responsibility,
accountability saying hey, I'm the reason that this is fucked up.
That's what they don't do. So men have no problem
with accountability. Men have a problem with responsibility. Men have

(46:40):
no Women have no problem with responsibility. They have a
problem with accountability.

Speaker 12 (46:44):
I liked how you put that. That was beautiful, God,
that was good.

Speaker 14 (46:51):
What't responsible? You as ain't got on accountability neither?

Speaker 7 (46:56):
So wow, yay, yay?

Speaker 3 (47:01):
Why why why the shot?

Speaker 21 (47:05):
What is going on?

Speaker 4 (47:07):
It seems like, yeah, she.

Speaker 7 (47:11):
Ain't arguing with you?

Speaker 3 (47:13):
Yay?

Speaker 7 (47:13):
Mad would you say, Harriet jump in?

Speaker 12 (47:17):
I said it seemed like doctor be good for something?
That was That was good?

Speaker 15 (47:25):
He said, he said that whenmen have a problem with accountability,
men have a problem of being responsible responsibility.

Speaker 6 (47:35):
That's the difference.

Speaker 7 (47:37):
We don't.

Speaker 14 (47:37):
We don't have a problem being accountable. You guys have
that problem.

Speaker 4 (47:41):
So you agree with him?

Speaker 14 (47:43):
That was perfectly said so eloquently said.

Speaker 15 (47:47):
Did your blood start oiling? Did you flip over in
your bed? Did the exorcism start with you? Stunner when
he said that.

Speaker 12 (47:57):
I mean, I agree with him on the mail side.
I don't date women. But there's something that a lot
of y'all be saying. So I don't you know, just
like when it comes down the UFOs appreciatedy and those
people be saying it. I kind of just start believing this.

Speaker 36 (48:12):
So you.

Speaker 15 (48:15):
Always talking ship in the chat, talking ship lucky Luckysucky
has hung over right now?

Speaker 8 (48:23):
Okay, yes, she's gonna talk in the chat and and
you know, re calibrate herself.

Speaker 7 (48:30):
I don't think she want none of the war today.
You know what I'm saying?

Speaker 4 (48:40):
Just what what was that?

Speaker 3 (48:44):
Bro?

Speaker 7 (48:45):
I listen man ping the room up, share the room up?
How about this?

Speaker 8 (48:50):
Yeah, since you want to since you want to be
off the mic all the time? No no, no, no, no, no, no, no, motherfucker,
your big fucking mouth. Is she still the prize of
she just comes with trauma? How about you kick us
off with this, mister, No, no, Doctor B's in the gym.
You can't blame that. You can't give this the doctor,

(49:10):
your turn. Wow, go ahead, let's go.

Speaker 7 (49:15):
Is she still the alady?

Speaker 3 (49:16):
Come up here, let's go.

Speaker 7 (49:17):
Let's talk about this ship, gussy. What's good? She saw
chaotic ghosts? Man? What's up? Is she still the prize
and she just comes with trauma?

Speaker 3 (49:24):
What are we doing?

Speaker 12 (49:30):
They never was?

Speaker 1 (49:31):
She never was the fucking prize? What what is she about?

Speaker 25 (49:35):
Fucking box of fucking h honey combs with a toy
in side likes not a.

Speaker 1 (49:46):
How are you a prize? And I gotta be responsible
for your ass?

Speaker 8 (49:49):
Like?

Speaker 1 (49:50):
That's no fucking that's not a reward, nigga, what are
we talking about?

Speaker 17 (49:58):
Well, I look at this price thing different.

Speaker 7 (50:01):
I'm sor right.

Speaker 12 (50:02):
When you win Miss the USSI or Miss America or
a scholarship or any award that I've known that I've
ever got it, it came with a responsibility. You wouldn't
just they dressed it up as the award like a
clap clap, clap. You a smart bitch, you did this,
But in reality that means now I gotta do this,
this and this like I do. I gotta do most

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shit because I didn't got this. I didn't got this
opportunity or this award or this scholarship. You know, so
I don't know what you're talking about. Responsibilities.

Speaker 3 (50:35):
What do you have to do after you get an award, Like.

Speaker 12 (50:37):
For instance, if you get certain fellowships, you have the
vibe ay the time of the fellowship, somebody might give
you a ten thousand dollars grid, but now you have
to use the grant money for specific things or else
you're gonna defil and other people money back. If you
win Miss America or any type of scholarship passion or
passion in general, now you gotta go on tour, feed

(50:58):
the homeless and do all kind of bull shit, you
know what I'm saying. Like normally, when it comes down
to get no award, it come with my work, then
the niggas who don't get the award. Yeah, it's the responsibility.
You gotta wear that jacket, my boy. And that's what
doctor Beemer was talking about, the responsibility aspect.

Speaker 1 (51:22):
I got.

Speaker 30 (51:27):
I think the time line the problem as far as
the responsibility aspect, because it's like you can apologize, she
can say she forgive you, but you know, three.

Speaker 11 (51:39):
Months in she still got a problem.

Speaker 30 (51:41):
You know, if she have a flashback, you right back
to square one.

Speaker 3 (51:45):
Discussing it all over again.

Speaker 30 (51:47):
So that whole process is it's only emotional timeline, and
people ain't got time to do that over and over,
Like I don't want to be still apologizing for teasing
on you a year later, Like, look, I did it already.

Speaker 11 (52:01):
I mean, and at some point.

Speaker 30 (52:03):
I'm apologizing so you can shut up. I'm not apologizing
because I mean it. I'm apologizing so we can move
past that. So, I mean, that's why dudes don't really
want to sit through that whole process for a long
period of time because it doesn't ever seem like it
gets better.

Speaker 4 (52:20):
He just proved doctor's point.

Speaker 14 (52:22):
He just proved doctor B's point. You do understand that, right,
You don't want the responsibility of making.

Speaker 3 (52:29):
It better apologize you just proved it. No, no, it's
not no, I'm not doing that's not stop.

Speaker 4 (52:39):
That's not how it goes, bro, That's not how it goes.

Speaker 11 (52:41):
And you know, doctor B.

Speaker 14 (52:43):
Sometimes you do say some profound shit and that was
very I appreciate that, and you just I'm sorry you
approved it. Yeah, I don't know what you were where
you're in the crowd when you hear him say that.

Speaker 15 (52:53):
But we could take accountability which you did. We're cheating,
but being responsible for making it better. Uh Rose this
listening to her having the conversation.

Speaker 4 (53:03):
Okay, I dealt with.

Speaker 15 (53:04):
It, and I understand, yes, nobody wanted to deal with
some shit over and over again.

Speaker 14 (53:07):
But that is a part of the responsibility process.

Speaker 20 (53:10):
But I don't how long I got.

Speaker 3 (53:13):
To sit through it before we move forward. Like I
understand a long taken my life is, my life matters cool,
I'm not sitting.

Speaker 11 (53:21):
Through that process.

Speaker 28 (53:24):
I think the problem is once you do the action,
you don't get to tell a person how long they
are just be offended by your action.

Speaker 18 (53:30):
Yeah you can't.

Speaker 10 (53:33):
I get you.

Speaker 28 (53:34):
I get your well, I get your point. But if
somebody kill your brother like you ain't and I say, oh,
your brother be dead for five years, nigga, get the
funk over. It's like, no, nigga, Like the offense that
was done to me has a longer last thing effects
and then you may think it should, but that's that's.

Speaker 6 (53:50):
For me to decide my thing.

Speaker 12 (53:52):
Though.

Speaker 37 (53:53):
With the accountability sacturly, I don't have a problem with
the accountability and being accountable. I just don't like the
women in their minds make shit up and the scenarios
is not actually how they believe it to be in
the head, in their head, and then when they get
the actual context of the scenario, they're invested in the
feeling that they shouldn't have had in the first place
and being like, what fucking I'm mad now, so I'm

(54:14):
gonna just stay mad even though this didn't really happen
this way.

Speaker 28 (54:18):
That's why I think y'all accountability or unlack thereof shows
up the most. Is when you're wronged about something that
you've been invested of being offended by, you just be like,
you know what, and so what, it doesn't matter, favorite line,
it doesn't matter. Basically might as well be which it
isn't that, but you'll just be like fucking post enough.

Speaker 30 (54:41):
But Westley, at some point that situation become like a manfunction.
The I phone, it's the lost cause. Just get rid
of it, go get a new one and move on,
right because at this point the water damage from utating
has made this phone pretty much defective and not a
good phone.

Speaker 3 (55:00):
I'm not talking about that I want to That's what
I'm comparing it to if you wanted them at your
phone now.

Speaker 30 (55:07):
Times that tend it's not gonna work that well, it's
gonna manfunction a lot.

Speaker 3 (55:12):
So at some point you gotta move on.

Speaker 30 (55:13):
So when you keet on a woman and she, you know,
start the malfunction and she don't feel like she's gonna
get better no.

Speaker 3 (55:20):
Time soon, you know it's time to do go get
a new more.

Speaker 28 (55:24):
Yeah, but it's so much more to deal with women
than besides cheating like that. That ain't like everybody's situation
where like cheating is like this this action that I
know I'm about to do on this chick. There's other
ship that happens, like I said, where there's a conversation
or there's some situation that we had with each other
and it didn't happen the way that it plays out
of the head. And when you back all it, when

(55:47):
you give her the rundown the chronological order of shit
that happens, and she's like, oh, yeah, that did happen.
Oh I forgot about that, And then it's like, all right,
so why are we still mad?

Speaker 6 (55:56):
Well, basically feel I want to be what so you not?

Speaker 28 (56:00):
And to acknowledge the fact that you've been harboring these
feelings against me for nothing that I didn't do shit wrong.
Well I still feel this way. Well I don't know
what to do to change that shit, Like you created
this shit. You gotta fix it the fuck I gotta
jump through hoops now to take your.

Speaker 1 (56:16):
Accountability from you. That's just because she don't like you, Bro,
like you.

Speaker 4 (56:20):
No, not that she don't like you.

Speaker 14 (56:21):
Women do that.

Speaker 28 (56:22):
Women do that shit because they don't want to face
the facts that you just look dumb for the last
month and a half, mad about some shit that didn't exist.

Speaker 11 (56:29):
That is accountability.

Speaker 28 (56:30):
And if they can't take accountability and just saying oops,
it's my fault, they definitely not taking accountability in those
So it's not just she don't like you.

Speaker 11 (56:37):
It's the fact that it don't.

Speaker 28 (56:38):
Feel good to know that you were sitting here pissed
off about some shit that did not exist, and it
makes you look fucking crazy. So now I become this
manipulative man that is now telling you that your feelings
don't matter and what you felt was wrong and it's
just full dire try to bullshit. Trust me, Bro, It's
not that she don't like you.

Speaker 3 (56:59):
It's just it don't feel good to know that you
was sucking wrong.

Speaker 6 (57:02):
That's accountability. Of its finess.

Speaker 30 (57:09):
But but Wesley, so if I apologize a biros is like,
what what time frame is appropriate to give a person
to move on?

Speaker 3 (57:17):
Ain't no appropriate time frame?

Speaker 29 (57:19):
You fucked up this period, that's that's that's the problem. Yeah,
so leave you fucked up like you're gonna have to.

Speaker 30 (57:24):
Get That's why I always tell a woman you catch
me tea, you got two hours.

Speaker 38 (57:29):
You leave or you forgive You say you be cheated
indicates that you was a cheated Yeah, I think that that's.

Speaker 30 (57:40):
The We only got two hours at this point. You
had to finna forgive me and we're finna move on,
or you could just go if it really bothered you
that much. Like it's not it's not difficult. It's a
very easy decision to make. It's one of the other.
But if there is no middle where you forgive me,

(58:02):
but you still find the time to remind me of
it from time to time because your little emotion is
done kicked in, that's just I'm not finna be tortured
like that.

Speaker 3 (58:11):
That's torture because.

Speaker 30 (58:13):
We may be having a great day and then you
have a flashback. Now all of a sudden, you right
back in that moment all over again, and it was unprovoked,
Like if I ain't done nothing wrong for six months,
I had a clean slate.

Speaker 3 (58:24):
I ha done what I was supposed to do.

Speaker 30 (58:26):
I've been kissing your ass, I've been doing whatever it
takes to make you feel better and at a moment's instance,
your little petty ass emotional kick in. Now, this whole
six months i'd have done it went down to dreams
because we're right back to square one. Who's finnah sit
through that?

Speaker 3 (58:43):
For what? Just to be with one person?

Speaker 28 (58:46):
Why?

Speaker 3 (58:47):
What type of dumb loyalty is that?

Speaker 7 (58:59):
Wow?

Speaker 28 (59:01):
Wow?

Speaker 7 (59:01):
Wow wow wow, Nila, just how I saw all?

Speaker 8 (59:06):
I gotta say, you know, let's continue this conversation to Mari.
Thank you for joining today. Everybody, thank you for coming
on stage. Picking the room up, share the room up.
If you guys are in gender wars, let's tap in. Also,
you can check out the article at the top one
of the hottest audio relationship podcasts audio series right now.

Speaker 7 (59:23):
I appreciate you guys for all the support. Yay for
her his side up. Let's go.

Speaker 8 (59:28):
I want to chime in to this conversation more and
spread the mic around.

Speaker 7 (59:33):
Is she still the prize? If she just comes with trauma.

Speaker 8 (59:38):
Shout out to Diego for joining Amber, Irl, Lucky Biggie,
Damn aka, everybody on the stage, Stunner, doctor B. I
know he's in the gym right now, but let's keep
going up right now, Let's continue this conversation about is
she still the prize if she trump?

Speaker 7 (59:52):
If she comes with trauma.

Speaker 8 (59:52):
A lot of fellas saying hell no, hell no, but
I want to hear from some ladies too, forow me
switch it up a little bit. Have the conversation going
to another dynamic. Who else wants to try me in
open popcorn style? Anybody can take the mic, and is
she still the prize? And she just comes with trauma?
Shout say everybody good afternoon or good morning wherever you
are too.

Speaker 3 (01:00:12):
Facts.

Speaker 34 (01:00:12):
I feel like everyone comes with a level of trauma.

Speaker 3 (01:00:15):
Oh, because you're a wild.

Speaker 13 (01:00:18):
The prize would come in.

Speaker 39 (01:00:20):
Is the person is willing to do the work, whatever
it is, That's my answer.

Speaker 34 (01:00:24):
But everybody, it's just how you, how you dealing with it,
how you working through it.

Speaker 7 (01:00:29):
So you come with trauma, stunning though you're saying.

Speaker 29 (01:00:31):
Absolutely, is this true?

Speaker 4 (01:00:34):
M hmm?

Speaker 14 (01:00:36):
I said absolutely.

Speaker 12 (01:00:38):
I feel like trauma. I think trauma makes the women
for real, like just how like going through the situations
and being able to come through them and the other
side that makes you wise. And I understand that you
don't feel like we're capable of that kind of wisdom.
Maintain our childish innocence and our naive take unto adulthood.

(01:01:00):
But that's not just that's not the truth. Like what
happens is we go into a recession, like well, you know,
you want a woman that don't have the tools to
manage hard times or difficult situations. I mean, just fundamentally,
I can understand if that person is what is it
called a clinical term is maladaptive behaviors when they're not
adapting to situations in a way that's productive. I can

(01:01:24):
see if the most fuller's our maladaptive behaviors. But if
somebody's in the process of coming through like a you know,
a situation or a storm or it's warning something new,
like I don't think that's you know, that's that's everybody.
That's humane, you know, It's like I think that's.

Speaker 25 (01:01:43):
Is everybody like raised by like mommy, dearist or something
like how is every I'm not I'm not shitting on
anybody with real trauma, but like every girl can't just
have all this fucking trauma like you ain't.

Speaker 1 (01:01:55):
None of y'all grew up in the hostable household, like
everybody was getting their ass whalked and unloved and locked
in closets.

Speaker 25 (01:02:02):
Like why is it always like y'all? Man, y'all, y'all
make anything trauma? I fell off my bike at four,
I'm trauma like like, knock it off, man, Like, how
is it go fix that ship or work through it?
Like what are we talking about?

Speaker 4 (01:02:19):
Man?

Speaker 25 (01:02:19):
Like I'm so sick of the word trauma. A lot
of you not man, And I get it people have
a rough life. But like nigga who don't like like,
we gotta like, we gotta stop using this trauma as
an excuse for bad behavior or being fucked up or
just a shitty human being.

Speaker 1 (01:02:37):
Like some people are just shitty.

Speaker 40 (01:02:39):
Bro.

Speaker 1 (01:02:40):
No one told us this world was gonna be full
of people that were.

Speaker 41 (01:02:43):
Totally healed and you know, high vibrant toy like, fuck
out of here, bro, like, knock this shiit off, man,
suck it up, Jim, dust yourself off, and try it again.

Speaker 1 (01:03:00):
Here with this ship. Man, I'm sick of it.

Speaker 8 (01:03:02):
Yo, seesaw needs to be canceled. Indeed, just say that's
yourself off and try again.

Speaker 7 (01:03:07):
Is he insane?

Speaker 4 (01:03:09):
Huh?

Speaker 7 (01:03:10):
You have empathy for some people, You've got damn heartless hyena?

Speaker 8 (01:03:14):
God, damn it. Let's continue this ship? Is she still
the prized if she just comes with trauma? I want
to hear from everybody, thank you for coming up to
Jon Sexy pink, big bag, mister details she care?

Speaker 7 (01:03:26):
Mari look bro okay, everybody on the stage. Bro, we
could we let's let's let's continue this conversation. Man, it's
open popcorn style, but thank you for that. She saw
you fucking heartless? Fuck go who's next?

Speaker 3 (01:03:38):
Hey?

Speaker 30 (01:03:38):
I do believe some of y'all some people trauma, like
as far as they expectations of people could speak.

Speaker 3 (01:03:45):
Bad things on their life.

Speaker 30 (01:03:46):
Right, So if I meet a woman and she says
she believe all men she why should y'all let her
down and not cheat on her too. I'm just saying, like,
at the end of day, you spoken it to his thisence,
you said all me and she so last time I
take you know, we manifest all types of things. We manifest. Uh,
you know we want to make money, and we go
fad ways to make money and money and.

Speaker 3 (01:04:07):
Drawn to us.

Speaker 30 (01:04:08):
So if you believe that all me and that's what,
that's what, don't be drawn to you.

Speaker 3 (01:04:13):
So I mean, I'm just saying, so, have you got
that type of trauma? Don't be mad when your beliefs
become a reality.

Speaker 14 (01:04:22):
That is such a bunch of.

Speaker 8 (01:04:26):
Yo.

Speaker 3 (01:04:27):
I'm why why you say that.

Speaker 4 (01:04:32):
You believe this?

Speaker 14 (01:04:34):
So I'm going to let it happen. I'm going to
be the genie in the bottle, Like, are you fucking
kidding me?

Speaker 18 (01:04:39):
I'm mari.

Speaker 15 (01:04:41):
Just because somebody expects something don't mean you have to
be the god damn barrel.

Speaker 6 (01:04:44):
But if you want to be, you don't want to
let it.

Speaker 21 (01:04:50):
Go.

Speaker 15 (01:04:52):
Hold on, sucker and sucker tash. But what's what's that
guy with the little big knife that the grand reef?
But you don't have to be that person.

Speaker 14 (01:04:59):
You just want a reason you're.

Speaker 9 (01:05:04):
Can hop on fast. I'm just gonna pay that offer
with fea saws at at the end of the day.
I mean, if something is wrong with her, we gotta stop,
make go stop using this word trauma as an excuse.

Speaker 3 (01:05:17):
No, he made a point at the end of the day.

Speaker 9 (01:05:20):
If she's trauma, if she's doing all this drama and
all of that, she's not the pride because she's not
fully ill. She's not she's not completely like healthy. That's
not a prize.

Speaker 1 (01:05:38):
That's like receive winning a race and receiving a broken trophy,
Like who wants that?

Speaker 9 (01:05:44):
That makes that makes no sense? Like at the end
of the day, like how are you saying you're the prize?
But you're coming with all these mental problems, come with
all these issues, come.

Speaker 7 (01:05:53):
With all these how are you?

Speaker 3 (01:05:55):
How are you a prize?

Speaker 9 (01:05:57):
It's like, for example, if we playing basketball and the trophy,
the trophy is the proved, The trophy is perfect, It's
ideal is gold, is shiny, It makes value, it makes
you want it. At the end of the day, if
you come with all these problems in your life, how
are you making me want you? As a person.

Speaker 12 (01:06:26):
I ain't never seen no trophy sit there me, hi, girl, Well,
I've never asked a trophy how much does it want me?
I've never ever in my life, every time I was
in the running of a trophy or rice or a competition,
they asked me how bad do I want it? I
never it never went like that. I never showed up

(01:06:51):
to I've never showed up to the core uh playing
basketball or high in high school or college. And then
trophy was like a h No, that's that's what to
ask me.

Speaker 15 (01:07:03):
How bad do you want it?

Speaker 12 (01:07:03):
I never asked the trophy how bad do you want?

Speaker 11 (01:07:05):
No?

Speaker 3 (01:07:06):
No, no, that's triplet to put it.

Speaker 12 (01:07:08):
So work at one point, at some point you gotta
put it where you got to do something.

Speaker 3 (01:07:12):
That's true.

Speaker 9 (01:07:13):
But the thing is, the trophy is theresirable the trophy
you you want the trophy to mean, that's what make
it viable. It's something about that trophy that draws you.
I mean that everybody wants. But again, if you having
all these problems and issues, how are you making me

(01:07:33):
want you? How are you like?

Speaker 11 (01:07:34):
What are with?

Speaker 3 (01:07:35):
By are you bringing the trophy makes you more?

Speaker 25 (01:07:39):
Makes me more valuable when I if I want an
NBA championship, my stock is rising, Nigga if I win,
if we get one of you traumatized women that the
world don't God damn treat us better because of you,
You're not a fucking prize Like I'm not gonna get
a better position and work because.

Speaker 42 (01:07:57):
Of you or.

Speaker 25 (01:07:59):
Most of the better circle of friends or like no,
like that's not prizes elevate you, and most of y'all
ain't doing that, Like stop it, knock it off, like
come on, we know again, it's probably doing worse than
he was after he got ridio ass, Like like, I

(01:08:21):
just see it too often.

Speaker 1 (01:08:24):
Traumatized women bring niggas down.

Speaker 3 (01:08:27):
That's a fact.

Speaker 9 (01:08:28):
And I think if actually can trauma, trauma is actually
it probably found I'm crazy, But it's contagious. Like if
I'm if I'm going through something and I'm this lay
in that way and this way in that way in
a B C and D. Anybody who gets around me,
it's gonna take that. It's gonna gonna I'm actually pulling

(01:08:51):
them down. I'm not lifting them up. That's contagious. It's
spread like a virus, studied infectious. That's not how that works.
It sounded good, and that's like the in the internet.
But you can be around I'm around traumatized people all the.

Speaker 7 (01:09:09):
Time and I've never felt their trauma.

Speaker 11 (01:09:11):
I'm just like, oh shit, now I got your trauma. No, no,
I'm not saying that back.

Speaker 3 (01:09:20):
Better relax.

Speaker 24 (01:09:21):
Yeah, I'm gonna need you to commentate poor. For AT's
eleven twenty seven am. McDonald's just stop serving breakfast an
hour lunch is coming, so please let's relax. I don't
want to turn up. It's a Monday as well. Relaxed. So, yeah,
I didn't know y'all did a trump. I mean the

(01:09:42):
switch to the thing. So we're talking about women in
their trauma? Are women lying like they have benefit?

Speaker 7 (01:09:49):
Oh?

Speaker 24 (01:09:50):
Doctor, I'll be honest, y'all barely have benefit if y'all healed,
So being a benefit while y'all fucked up, Like no,
now you're putting more stress on men having to deal
with y'all.

Speaker 11 (01:10:07):
Bush.

Speaker 24 (01:10:07):
I literally had a friend tell me this this morning.
He said, B I may be done. I'll actually read
the text to y'all. Well, I don't got y'all memories
of it. He said, B I may be done with
American women.

Speaker 11 (01:10:16):
I was like why. He was like, y'all, me and
Shorty just broke up again, and I asked him why.

Speaker 7 (01:10:20):
I was like, was she a user?

Speaker 24 (01:10:21):
Because he's a he's a really good dude, right, he
takes care of you know, aighty grady fuck with. He's like, nah,
she just had too much trauma. And then trying to Yeah,
trying to unpack it, like she's just shut down. When
I was trying to help, He's like, I'm tired of
doing that. And he's trying to do this before with
another girl, like the last girl. He's like, yeah, I'm
because I told him this last one. I was like, no,
you gotta stop trying to save these women. They're Jesus

(01:10:44):
can't save these holes. Why are you trying? What makes
you think you greater than Jesus? Nigga word did my
nigga mines?

Speaker 7 (01:10:52):
Yeah?

Speaker 24 (01:10:53):
I know Jack in real life from Facebook years ago.
That's the homie. I just been a while side wrapped
with him. But like I come me deranged with Trump.
That shit is miserable for men because life is already
hard enough for me. And as it is like getting
a woman as she's fine contextually, like she doesn't have
any active trauma that's like triggering her on the day

(01:11:13):
to day. She's already just enough because she's a woman
now dealing with women, and she got funck shit like abuse,
she hasn't dealt with abandonment issues, all these things. Y'all
gotta get this information from women up front as quick
as possible. And then avoid these women. I know it's
fun to have fun with women who are damaged because
you know, the sex be good because they look off,

(01:11:35):
But the.

Speaker 11 (01:11:36):
Rest of the shit is horrible. You can't, you can't,
you can't fix You don't.

Speaker 24 (01:11:40):
Have the skill set to fix these women because they're
too far gone. They have to do that themselves, and
they don't want to do that work because that shadow
self looking at yourself in the mirror. So we're back
to the accountability thing, right, the accountability. It's not my fault,
So why I gotta fix it? This didn't happen to
I didn't do this to myself, which you know, some
things you did, some things you did, and I'll never,

(01:12:02):
you know, blame a woman for being abused. That's I
didn't say. Ah So, please don't say the word all colossal,
use your brain. Nobody said all again. I hate when
y'all go to that defense. It just shows y'all have
the limited range. Nobody says, ah so, but if you can,
I'll never blame a woman for like abuse or things
of that nature. Like that's not your fault, but like
your selection process and men things of that nature. You

(01:12:23):
should have been learning from your past mistakes to not make.

Speaker 7 (01:12:26):
The future ones.

Speaker 24 (01:12:27):
That is your fault and you are responsible solely to
fix that. Like women bring baggage into relationships far more
than men do, men don't bring as much baggage.

Speaker 11 (01:12:38):
Now men men bring a lot of problems.

Speaker 24 (01:12:40):
Like nigga may not have no money and things of
that nature, but like baggage baggage, a lot of men
don't carry a lot of baggage. Niggas put that shit
down this so Harry hold on cause nigga like back
to responsibility. Niggo just drop his kids off and not
show up no more. Like that's responsibility. But the kid
is bagged. The nigga just put that shit down. What

(01:13:02):
broke can't be baggage every because most of y'all broke,
So most women are broke. So broke his baggage.

Speaker 3 (01:13:08):
You broke too.

Speaker 24 (01:13:08):
See y'all both got luggage. Who's picking up and taking it?
You know what I'm saying. I want to go to
this utopia where all these black women got money, because
I ain't seen it in none of my travels. The
utopia where all the black women are just screwge McDuck
stacks swimming in the money. Like on duck tails, right,
because y'all got your hands down a lot asking for providers.

Speaker 11 (01:13:32):
Women who got money don't ask for providers.

Speaker 24 (01:13:36):
Y'all asking for providers because y'all can't provide for y'allself,
and nobody's trying to provide for y'all, which is why
I'm confused as to why y'all keep asking about providers,
because nobody's like signing up for that.

Speaker 11 (01:13:46):
Nobody.

Speaker 24 (01:13:47):
Your list for providers are still empty. There's not a
name on that list of niggas saying yes, I'll provide
for you, So please stop asking for that. But yeah,
y'all do come with far more baggage. But it's men's fault.
It's men's fault because men don't accept you. Y'all don't
be accepted men who do have baggage. Men an't accept
a woman who does. And that's the fuck that part.
Men gotta start pulling a woman on women the ship

(01:14:10):
that they put don't put up with with us. You
can't put up with with her fastange. Biggie is no robbery,
now you less her minds may speak.

Speaker 36 (01:14:27):
Kind of say a little some I know sometimes I
don't know what everybody's religious beliefs are and I'm not
trying to go there. But when you say it's the
woman still apprised because of her traumas. When I go
to God and I ask God for a certain certain
type of woman, He's not gonna send me the finished product.

(01:14:48):
He's not gonna send me a trophy, right because I'm
not a He had a trophy myself, you know.

Speaker 6 (01:14:54):
So I believe that you have to.

Speaker 36 (01:15:00):
Uh, I value something that I have to go through,
you know, versus uh getting the prize just just that fast.
I don't value anything that doesn't require work. I value
something that requires work. So the last she may not
have been a prize to the last man, but for me,

(01:15:24):
you know, if I can come in and you know,
see exactly what I could fix right where she needs
help at, and she might see something in me that
I might, you know, be lacking in. We're both a
prize if we can fix each other. Not not not
to say fix each other, we're both we're both the

(01:15:44):
prize if we can, if we can help each other
in those areas, we're willing to go the extra mile,
you know what I'm saying, versus just giving up and
just saying that, well, I just want to finish product.

Speaker 11 (01:15:56):
I don't.

Speaker 36 (01:15:56):
I don't want to do no work. I want to
do work. I want to put into work, you know.
I want to see what it looks like and I
land there.

Speaker 25 (01:16:04):
Yeah, you aren't stress in your life, God damn it.
Like fucking fact. Okay, I can't help you with you problems?
Those are you problems? All the trauma is some shit
that is personal, Like you gotta deal with that.

Speaker 1 (01:16:17):
How you deal with that?

Speaker 4 (01:16:19):
What I could be?

Speaker 1 (01:16:21):
You could be around for it, nigga, But you ain't
finna fix nothing.

Speaker 11 (01:16:28):
But when you come into somebody's life, right, don't I
don't matter.

Speaker 36 (01:16:31):
It doesn't matter who it is when you come into
a person's life, right, you think they're just letting you
know that off of the back that hey, I have
all of these traumas.

Speaker 3 (01:16:42):
They supposed to.

Speaker 9 (01:16:43):
I mean, that would be the correct thing to do
if y'all y'all have a conversation like, yeah, I'm going
through this the third communication and all the time partners.

Speaker 36 (01:16:52):
Right, But most people would give you their representative. I
rather get this person my representative because I don't want
them to know about my past traumas or or anything
you know, maybe if I leave those off of the table,
they'll never come out, They'll never come to the forefront.
So now here it is two three months uh uh
into your relationship, right and boom everything pops up. But wool,

(01:17:16):
why ain't tell me this? You see what I'm saying.

Speaker 9 (01:17:18):
So therefore you give them a false advertisement.

Speaker 7 (01:17:21):
Basically you.

Speaker 9 (01:17:26):
Gave you literally gave them a false product. You literally said, Yo,
I'm telling you a car. This car is absolutely perfect.
This car works magically. I mean when you get the
car for my profile, like, lie, this car is a
piece of ship. You literally just lie to that person.

Speaker 17 (01:17:47):
Hmmm.

Speaker 23 (01:17:48):
Interesting, I'm gonna put it in this angle, right. A
lot of fellas have unexpected, unrealistic expectation.

Speaker 7 (01:17:56):
Yeah yeah, how about you talk on the title HD
and don't talk about it. Robert, You understand, I don't
want to hear nothing.

Speaker 12 (01:18:02):
I got, I got you, I got you.

Speaker 23 (01:18:04):
But listen, who has more unrealistic expectations?

Speaker 18 (01:18:07):
I say, like a lot of guys.

Speaker 23 (01:18:09):
You understand a lot of guys feel like you know
your woman is loyal to you, respects you. When she don't,
you understand she's talking to a nigga on the side.
You know, you go take the DNA test and find
out the kids it's not yours and all that stuff.
So a lot of fellas have unrealistic expectations. It's a
lot of fake tough guys out here too.

Speaker 3 (01:18:29):
You know.

Speaker 23 (01:18:29):
I feel like, you know, somebody ain't gonna do anything
until you know somebody is this guy or Yeah, So
a lot of fellas have unrealistic expectations on on that
and everything. So I'm gonna flip it to another angle.
So I'm believe it right here.

Speaker 17 (01:18:53):
Well, I look at the price thing, the difference, bro,
because everybody got a certain level of trauma, depending on
how long they've been going through whatever they're going through
and who they.

Speaker 7 (01:19:02):
Went through it.

Speaker 17 (01:19:02):
With men and women, it's a it's a basic human experience.
But for the prize thing, if somebody say I'm the prize,
and yeah you're not. You're not the prize, could you
come and trauma or whatever to tell you the only truth? Realistically,
in reality, everybody come in trauma. Right you meet them,
you already know they got problems and shit like that,
just like probably you do, not at the same degree.
But both of us have problems natural human experience. But

(01:19:23):
if you know that you have the mentality and the
tolerance to deal with it, that that person probably could
still be the prize to you because you see the
other qualities that makes her qualifiable to make her a
potential partner, and she's see it in you. So as
long as both of y'all know that you have the
tolerance to deal with each other, then she could become
a prize to you, as you are a prize to
her instead of you just dealing with somebody that's that's

(01:19:44):
that you know you're not equally your wick. Then you
know she's a liability instead of an asset. So she's
not a prize to you. But everybody got these problems, man,
and it's a natural human experience.

Speaker 1 (01:19:56):
Okay, who is more unrealistic?

Speaker 7 (01:20:02):
Get up in there, let's go.

Speaker 11 (01:20:03):
Okay.

Speaker 33 (01:20:04):
So I hate doing it, so listen, and I hate
to put it like this.

Speaker 22 (01:20:14):
I and this is for this is the only reason
why I feel like women have more unrealistic expectations. This
is the only reason because men have to pursue women.
So it's kind of like they have to throw they
they they line out first, whereas women we got we
get to kind of sit back and watch and be like, nah,

(01:20:36):
I don't want no parts in that. They kind of
have to be more on the pursuit and everything like that, so.

Speaker 13 (01:20:44):
They kind of have.

Speaker 22 (01:20:47):
A less likelihood of knowing what they're gonna get in
that regard. But I really think that a lot of
these these I guess new age men, I don't know
what you're calling them. The people that single right now
and complaining, that's what I call them. I think that
their expectations are unrealistic just in general.

Speaker 13 (01:21:08):
You're never gonna find a perfect person. You really are. Literally,
I can deal with you and your bullshit. This is
some bullshit.

Speaker 22 (01:21:16):
I can handle your more of an asset, and I'm
gonna be with you and all your bullshit and we
gonna make this happen. And you know that doesn't mean
that it has to be, you know, something that's just terrible.
It could be something as simple as you bite your nails,
and that's their bullshit. I'm gonna go with the nail
biting bullshit every day of the week, and some people

(01:21:37):
go with the house I bust the windows out of
car bullshit. I wouldn't advise that, but hey, rock out
with your cock out if that's what you choose to do,
but I personally truly do.

Speaker 1 (01:21:47):
Okay, all right, we got you.

Speaker 13 (01:21:49):
I don't okay, look look, look, let's.

Speaker 8 (01:21:52):
Hey, let her Land, let me hear her Land, and
then y'all could come in breezingane though, is the.

Speaker 13 (01:22:02):
Nice y'all little negro Okay, not about to do it
because God ain't done with me yet. All right, thank you, But.

Speaker 1 (01:22:13):
Yeah, you're lucky, y'a.

Speaker 29 (01:22:19):
I'm laughing it's about to be over in a minute.

Speaker 22 (01:22:22):
Let's go for seconds, I'll wrap it up. So in
that regard of men being the pursuers, I think that
in that regard, women's expectations maybe are unrealistic because they
don't know what they're gonna truly get.

Speaker 3 (01:22:36):
But on the.

Speaker 22 (01:22:37):
Opposite end, some of the sugar honey iced tea that
people are asking for in the penis carrier category, y'all
smoking dick, And that's just what it is, all right.

Speaker 13 (01:22:49):
That's it, all right.

Speaker 8 (01:22:51):
If y'all are just joining real quick, he saw if
y'all just joining, because I'm doing a quick reset.

Speaker 7 (01:22:56):
If y'all just joining, when.

Speaker 8 (01:22:57):
The gender wars worldwide, house right us, everybody, I just
pulled up, ping the room out share a room up.
But we're talking about who has more unrealistic expectations?

Speaker 7 (01:23:05):
Men or women.

Speaker 8 (01:23:06):
I don't care who you are, ping the room out,
share the room and anybody can.

Speaker 7 (01:23:10):
Jump in right. This is a podcast type style for him.

Speaker 8 (01:23:13):
Anybody could jump in and might go left, Go grab
a bulletproof vest.

Speaker 19 (01:23:18):
Yo.

Speaker 7 (01:23:18):
What we're gonna call a duty?

Speaker 3 (01:23:19):
Mac?

Speaker 42 (01:23:19):
What like?

Speaker 3 (01:23:20):
What we doing?

Speaker 21 (01:23:20):
Like?

Speaker 7 (01:23:21):
It could go left anytime, anytime?

Speaker 8 (01:23:24):
So make sure you're pinging the room out, sharing the
room about and helping us build a conversation.

Speaker 7 (01:23:29):
Right.

Speaker 8 (01:23:30):
Shouts to everybody that just pulled up, Wavy, I got
doctor B here, Mamia just got here. Rosie chee che
diego I r oh my god, were in the building today, right,
let's make sure you're crazy.

Speaker 7 (01:23:43):
Oh that's great, Mac?

Speaker 3 (01:23:45):
What doctor B not even in America? He got shut up?

Speaker 7 (01:23:51):
What we're doing? Mac?

Speaker 8 (01:23:52):
Bro?

Speaker 7 (01:23:52):
How you feel about this convo?

Speaker 3 (01:23:54):
Bro?

Speaker 7 (01:23:54):
What's up?

Speaker 43 (01:23:54):
Jumping the same way doctor B on Field. Women definitely
got more expectations. They got an expectation. No, no, excuse me,
who's more delusional? You know what, I'm gonna be honest
with you. Black men are more delusional.

Speaker 3 (01:24:09):
We the only.

Speaker 43 (01:24:11):
Race or whatever you want to call genre of people
on the planet that expect forever like we are delusional,
Like we we expect to like be successful and have
this great woman rating at the end of the tunnel
and ride off into the sunset.

Speaker 3 (01:24:25):
It's not real.

Speaker 43 (01:24:26):
We are fucking delusional. That that ain't no bullshit. Black
men are delusional. Their expectations is unrealistic.

Speaker 3 (01:24:33):
They want their mother. They want a woman with a.

Speaker 43 (01:24:36):
Fat ass, nice smile, cook, clean, suck dick, listen, no kids,
no attitude, no friends, don't talk back, speak six languages,
make a million dollars here.

Speaker 3 (01:24:47):
Niggas. Niggas want. Niggas want their mother and a porn
star wrapped up in one.

Speaker 1 (01:24:53):
And sometimes you know what I'm saying, I get it.
Sometimes you know, like like like.

Speaker 43 (01:25:05):
In real time, No niggas, really a lot of niggas
is looking for their mother and a woman. And I
understand why if you've seen a woman do every fucking
thing by herself and you do twenty five percent of
the work for a woman, You're gonna look at that
woman like.

Speaker 3 (01:25:18):
She ungrateful, because you know, I'm like, man, I watched
my mom's pay it all.

Speaker 43 (01:25:22):
Man, shut up, I'm giving you five hundred a month,
nah altoideum.

Speaker 3 (01:25:27):
That's serious though.

Speaker 43 (01:25:28):
That's how a lot of niggas look at it because
they watch their mother's suffer, so they want to be
in a relationship with some trauma pussy.

Speaker 3 (01:25:34):
They want the woman to go through what his mother would.
This is crazy, man, Man, niggas don't think it's that bad.
Like these niggas don't think it was a picnic raising them.

Speaker 43 (01:25:45):
They don't know how much dick they moms were sucking
on the side, how stretched all the shit she had
going on, like like like sack, think about this right stack.
You hear these women all the time talk about I
never brought no man around their kids. Imagine being a
young boy growing up and when you start fucking, and
then you start imagining how many.

Speaker 24 (01:26:04):
Niggas is fucking your mother because she never got a boyfriend.

Speaker 43 (01:26:07):
You understand what I'm saying. No, this is serious because
they start understanding sex. They know they here, they know
me and my siblings got different dads, right, so they
looking at it like, Okay, mommy never brought a nigga
home in ten years. I know she fucking way here
she fucking I know she fucking So now you start

(01:26:27):
realizing she fucking your coaches, the neighbors, the milkman, like
the uber.

Speaker 3 (01:26:32):
Drivers, like your barber, your barber.

Speaker 24 (01:26:35):
Shit be embarrassing because you're like, damn, none of these
niggas want to commit to my mama.

Speaker 43 (01:26:40):
So you grow up right and you see that your
mother took side dick. Your mother cooked, clean, fucking and
did everything for y'all, and she was a nigga side bitch.

Speaker 3 (01:26:51):
You start thinking this shit is normal.

Speaker 43 (01:26:52):
You're superhero with side pussy. Nobody marries your superhero. Do
you understand what I'm saying, Bro? This shit is psychoed.
Who's the first person that start yelling at these niggas.
These niggas don't got no men say I'm a fuck
you up, shut up nigga.

Speaker 3 (01:27:07):
It's women.

Speaker 24 (01:27:08):
So when they get older on clubhouse, they think niggas
like Captain Cuffam should accept disrespect from women. Because that's
all these niggas ever got in they house is they
mother telling them you ain't shit.

Speaker 3 (01:27:18):
You just like your daddy. Clean up the room, y'all,
stink nigga, You just like your daddy.

Speaker 43 (01:27:23):
This is what I'm trying to say, bro, This shit
is deep psychological trauma. So that's why these niggas is
more delusional than the women.

Speaker 24 (01:27:30):
The women have accepted that they gotta share dick, that
they not gonna be with the same man forever, they
gonna have kids by multiple niggas. They've accepted that the
nigga gonna fuck their friends sometimes when he got enough money.
They've accepted that they delulu come after raw sex.

Speaker 3 (01:27:46):
Niggas be Delulu from the gate.

Speaker 13 (01:27:51):
You got a point, Matt, Yeah, I'm not even gonna
hold you. I don't even like this nigga to agree,
but he might be on the something point.

Speaker 7 (01:28:02):
Man.

Speaker 9 (01:28:02):
Could the first thing a nigga look at that when
you see a female we like you said, Well, he
wants he wants a mother in a porn start.

Speaker 4 (01:28:10):
He won his mother.

Speaker 3 (01:28:11):
That happens to give him pussy. Why do you, yo, bro,
let me ask you something, little bit.

Speaker 24 (01:28:17):
Let's let's let's let's get let's get let's get let's
get for real. Right, most of these niggas.

Speaker 3 (01:28:21):
Have zero fucking motivation to move out of their mother's house.
Let's just be for real.

Speaker 43 (01:28:27):
Like niggas like like like like niggas like you know,
I don't even know Stacks but I can tell you
niggas like Stacks and Email, these.

Speaker 3 (01:28:34):
Niggas had to go. It was an expectation. These niggas
had to go get their own shit. It wasn't no
stay on that titty to your forty nigga. It just
it wasn't an option.

Speaker 24 (01:28:44):
You understand whatthing we and niggas, certain men understood that
from young that yo.

Speaker 3 (01:28:49):
Like, I can't be around his nest too long. I
gotta get out here and flow on my own.

Speaker 43 (01:28:53):
Biggie had his own crib since he was twelve, you
know what I'm saying. Like he had his first hit
record at thirteen. So this is one I'm trying to
tell y'all life. At the end of the day, bro,
this life we choose as men. You gonna make the best.

Speaker 3 (01:29:05):
Of it or you just won't.

Speaker 24 (01:29:07):
But Biggie moved out in middle school. Yeah see, y'all
niggas think y'all like that. Niggas don't know who he is.
Do your homework. Gonna stop listening to this profound negro
that talk.

Speaker 5 (01:29:23):
Now.

Speaker 24 (01:29:24):
Yeah he's smart as funck. Now he's been through eighty
thousand different things. Yeah he know a lot now, But
got to do your homework on the back in the day.

Speaker 3 (01:29:32):
Do you all we're going on?

Speaker 11 (01:29:33):
Man?

Speaker 3 (01:29:33):
Listen, man, I hear, yeah, I know he gives great advice.
He's staying on business.

Speaker 43 (01:29:39):
Yes, that has come from something he evolved into the superman.

Speaker 3 (01:29:43):
Right, he wasn't boring this way. He got a story
behind him, just like Detroit Red. That's true.

Speaker 24 (01:29:50):
Yeah, I know what I'm talking got been in the
streets my whole life? Did I know who I'm talking to?
Why you think I'll let you throw me off the
room and still be cool with you?

Speaker 4 (01:30:01):
Yo?

Speaker 7 (01:30:03):
Wow, listen, listen.

Speaker 8 (01:30:07):
If y'all are just joining, we're talking about who has
more unrealistic expectations.

Speaker 7 (01:30:11):
I think we get into the bottom.

Speaker 8 (01:30:13):
Of this mac Ya, doctor b Biggie Mama, Hey, yo, Mama,
make sure we we hop on that on what we
said too?

Speaker 7 (01:30:22):
You know what I'm saying. Wavy shout out to you too.
You know you're a clubhouse o G. We've been on
this ship since what twenty twenty?

Speaker 3 (01:30:29):
Right?

Speaker 7 (01:30:29):
How do you feel about this topic? Real quick?

Speaker 13 (01:30:31):
How you feel I'm just listening is interesting?

Speaker 5 (01:30:35):
Right?

Speaker 7 (01:30:35):
Thank you for supporting dude, bro, No, thank you for
having me. Rosie shout out to you.

Speaker 8 (01:30:41):
Shout out to Harry, shout us to ak diego everybody
that come through. Like on the rag, I shout it,
shouts to y'all because it's always love four hundred side.

Speaker 7 (01:30:50):
What we're doing. Yeah, Wavy over there.

Speaker 11 (01:30:54):
I appreciate a woman who just wants to say we
need we need more, like we need more women to
do that. So Wavy, I appreciate you, queen.

Speaker 4 (01:31:05):
Appreciate you too, what you need to do?

Speaker 8 (01:31:10):
Well, unlucky new character here, he wabys the g from
day one.

Speaker 7 (01:31:16):
Mac. You know she's the G bro.

Speaker 3 (01:31:25):
Shut up, the.

Speaker 14 (01:31:28):
Mac's talking to you.

Speaker 43 (01:31:30):
She's about to have my nephew. You know what I'm saying,
all you punk niggas. You know what I'm saying this
twenty forty four draft. I'll be there with my suit on.

Speaker 4 (01:31:41):
All right, all right, No, no, no, what happened?

Speaker 7 (01:31:45):
What you wanted to say? What the fuck is going on?

Speaker 14 (01:31:48):
I want to want I want his heat. Cliff fucking face.

Speaker 4 (01:31:51):
He just said that.

Speaker 14 (01:31:53):
He didn't get I didn't hear him to say say that.
Ship Yo.

Speaker 3 (01:31:58):
Yeah man, you know what, man, leave me alone, Leave
me alone.

Speaker 14 (01:32:02):
I'm not your friend.

Speaker 9 (01:32:03):
Just go home.

Speaker 3 (01:32:05):
Like yo yo yo, yo yo breezy, can I ask
you a question?

Speaker 5 (01:32:10):
No?

Speaker 13 (01:32:10):
No, like listen, no trolling, no trolling, no troller And
guess what No?

Speaker 3 (01:32:16):
So what I was going to say is this though right?

Speaker 18 (01:32:19):
Nine?

Speaker 7 (01:32:21):
No?

Speaker 24 (01:32:22):
So my man, my man, my man, Yo, shout out
to my man a d mcflo man Ah d mcflo,
send me three dollars.

Speaker 3 (01:32:28):
Niggas.

Speaker 4 (01:32:29):
The rubber duca fucker is crazy?

Speaker 14 (01:32:31):
Why are you shotting on him?

Speaker 18 (01:32:33):
Crave the rubber but the rubber duck.

Speaker 3 (01:32:43):
She wouldn't never playing.

Speaker 15 (01:32:44):
With your body is he would never let your cluster
cocks that given time?

Speaker 8 (01:32:53):
Yo, yell are crazy. Let's get back to the topic,
y'all the fucking nuts. Who has more unrealistic expectations? Picking
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(01:33:16):
Amir who. I don't care who chimes in, but just
keep the conversation. Roland, let's go what we're doing.

Speaker 11 (01:33:22):
Hey, I hit a nerve than I don't know, did
you rubber ducky.

Speaker 19 (01:33:31):
Yeah, I'm saying, you know, in my opinion, it's, uh,
it's about equal, but it's it's not. It doesn't show
up the same way.

Speaker 3 (01:33:43):
You know.

Speaker 13 (01:33:45):
I think you know, uh, just in general rational now
it's about equals.

Speaker 19 (01:33:52):
Oh man, you know, hey, sister's too early in the
morning to be drinking. Man, So what happens, you know, Like,
I think it shows up differently, like like in you
know men right, some men, and you know, the uh

(01:34:13):
the expectation is for uh is like, for instance, if
you're paying right, if you're providing money or something, that
you know that the woman is.

Speaker 3 (01:34:24):
Gonna fall in line. Yeah, that ain't no version of
that shit true.

Speaker 19 (01:34:29):
That woman is gonna do what the fuck she wants
to do and what the fuck she sees value in
doing right. And you can't you can't buy it into it.

Speaker 3 (01:34:39):
I mean you can't.

Speaker 19 (01:34:39):
You know, you can't you know, pay her to get that,
get her to move your way. You can't fuck it
into it. Nothing like that. And I think a lot
of dudes expect that, Hey man, I'm gonna show up,
I'm gonna you know, I'm gonna take care of this.
I'm gonna save her. I'm gonna do this and that,
and she gonna come my way. Man, she don't want
to come your way. She ain't coming your way. She
might she may fake like she's coming your way, but

(01:35:02):
she has to see value in it, you know, for herself,
and she doesn't if that's not her way of thinking.

Speaker 20 (01:35:07):
Man.

Speaker 19 (01:35:08):
Yeah, man, you just she just playing a game with
you at that point. And I think you know when
women you know, uh, you know, it shows up in women,
like when they're in there, how they think that uh
you know, relationships come together. You know, women think that
just because they think it or conceive it in their
mind a certain way, that the world is gonna shape

(01:35:30):
and mold and bend and contort itself to fit into
their vision of how they think it should be. You
know what I'm saying. That's why women women, You know,
you have many women that always talk about instead of
talking about how things are, they think, they talk in
terms of how things how they think it should be. Well,

(01:35:53):
why you know, uh, uh, why do why do men
do this? Why don't men just do this? Why don't
men just do that? Because they you know, now they
how the fuck they are? You gotta choose a brother
who's doing that, you know, but women think that because
in their mind, however it shows up in their mind
however they you know, think about it.

Speaker 3 (01:36:13):
That's not that they think that, uh.

Speaker 19 (01:36:15):
That the world is gonna uh you know, show up
in line with that, you know, the what ifs and
the but it's supposed to be you're supposed to do
and then you know, so I think it's even. It
just shows up on in different ways.

Speaker 3 (01:36:29):
Man.

Speaker 6 (01:36:31):
Do you think it's even because women and men have
the same roles nowadays and independence?

Speaker 10 (01:36:37):
Uh?

Speaker 19 (01:36:37):
No, I don't think that that has anything to do
with it. I think people are just, uh, people are
a lot of people are just uh, you know, just
unrealistic in general. A lot of people are you know,
can't get out of their own heads right, and you know,
and uh, they can't see past uh you know, their desires, wants,

(01:36:58):
fantasies and delusions.

Speaker 3 (01:37:01):
How people just can't see past that.

Speaker 39 (01:37:03):
Ship like saying, everybody that's in a relationship has to
automatically assume their disillusion before.

Speaker 19 (01:37:11):
I'm not saying I'm not I'm not that I didn't
say anything about everybody. You didn't hear that come out
of my mouth.

Speaker 24 (01:37:16):
I said, they wake up misunderstand exactly when you say
it clearly I.

Speaker 19 (01:37:21):
Said, I said that men and women are delusional or
not delusional. I said, men and women have unrealistic expectations.
And it's even on both sides.

Speaker 39 (01:37:29):
So I just find but to find what unrealistic expert
But I just did, though you weren't listening. Some but
some people's interpretation of unrealistic expectations not the same.

Speaker 12 (01:37:43):
But what is there?

Speaker 19 (01:37:44):
We don't have to interpret unrealistic expectations? What an unrealistic expectation?
What is something? When something is unrealistic, that means it's
not rooted in reality. We don't have to define that
everything that's not a subjective thing.

Speaker 3 (01:38:01):
You know.

Speaker 27 (01:38:01):
You know what, though only I agree with everything that
you're saying, the only push back I'll give you is
based on this on how men and women think, and
this isn't in every single case, of course, right, women
are much more their expectations are much more unrealistic and

(01:38:23):
in a much broader sense than men are.

Speaker 21 (01:38:25):
I think. I think some of the things men do
as an action can be unrealistic.

Speaker 4 (01:38:31):
I e.

Speaker 21 (01:38:32):
For example, yeah, you know, thinking, But I'm gonna just
say a plane too. Oftentimes, as men, we.

Speaker 26 (01:38:41):
Will see them right, shiny new toy, right, oh wow,
and we'll just think low, I'm sorry. Some Sometimes sometimes
we'll see the bright shiny new toy called a woman.

Speaker 21 (01:38:56):
Is that better?

Speaker 7 (01:38:57):
That better?

Speaker 33 (01:38:57):
It's a little bit better, but you're so.

Speaker 21 (01:39:02):
Let me just kick this head, all right, how's that
I'm trying to wish?

Speaker 8 (01:39:10):
Wow, way better, Lawrence, let's get up in there. Goddamn it, yes,
way better, way better.

Speaker 3 (01:39:20):
Way better.

Speaker 6 (01:39:20):
You know what.

Speaker 3 (01:39:21):
Betty's damn hands.

Speaker 27 (01:39:23):
The morning Jones costs the lust, they fuck the lust,
they work man.

Speaker 3 (01:39:27):
No.

Speaker 27 (01:39:27):
But sometimes, as men will see the bright shiny new
toy we call a woman right, look at their hips
and keep facing all of this ship, and we'll think
what we want to do to her without ever thinking
what before I process woman? Before I ask the for
a phone number? What value can I add besides some

(01:39:48):
hard dick? What value can I add?

Speaker 19 (01:39:51):
Right?

Speaker 27 (01:39:52):
Nobody's thinking about what you brain as a man, right,
or do you even add any value you can that
woman's life. I think that's an example of how men
are unrealistic. I think sometimes women are unrealistic, and sometimes
in the same way.

Speaker 7 (01:40:11):
So I don't know if it's equal.

Speaker 27 (01:40:13):
But men know damn well what they don't qualify for.
We know in our heads we don't qualify for that
chick we're trying to holler at. Women will think in
their heads they can be four hundred and fifty pounds
overweight with bad acting, bad credit, a thousand kids and
think I'll qualify for the Olympian who is a doctor

(01:40:36):
who makes fifty million dollars a year because I'm a ten.

Speaker 3 (01:40:40):
I mean, there's delusion on both sides.

Speaker 27 (01:40:43):
Agreed, But I think it is much more prevalent on
the side of women, because women move based on how
they feel and not based.

Speaker 19 (01:40:51):
On men do too. Though I don't care what you
such a soulf you got men right, And you know
a lot of men won't won't admit to this kind
of ship.

Speaker 3 (01:41:05):
But I've seen it.

Speaker 19 (01:41:06):
I've seen this ship, man, Uh, you know, throughout my
adult life, I've seen it.

Speaker 3 (01:41:11):
You know, I've seen men do it.

Speaker 19 (01:41:13):
Hell men think they are They are a significant number
of men out there who think that money and dick
will transform the mind of a woman. Your facts and
you know what I'm saying, And that ship and that
ship ain't true. These motherfuckers. Man, these motherfucker Man, I've
seen motherfuckers, you know what I'm saying. And man, I've

(01:41:33):
seen motherfucker's wife up. No, I'm talking about known uh
women of ill repute. Let me say it like that, right,
You get what I'm saying, and think that that somehow
because they showed up, you know, that's that old You're.

Speaker 3 (01:41:50):
Too beautiful to do this, you're too wide. Why saying
this fact?

Speaker 43 (01:42:04):
Because it's niggas out here right now with with with
a woman with three baby daddy thinking she changed.

Speaker 7 (01:42:11):
That's cret finished, you know.

Speaker 3 (01:42:15):
But uh, but that's what I'm saying.

Speaker 19 (01:42:17):
So, but you know, women, and I'm gonna say this
about it, I'm gonna say this, I don't think when
it comes I don't think that when when you know
that women, you know, based on the way they look
and and and and all that kind of stuff, I
don't think they're necessarily they're they're necessarily unrealistic about that
because it's one thing. I don't think that's how how

(01:42:39):
the unrealistic uh ship and women shows up. Because set
this out right, women, A lot of these women know
one thing about a lot of men. I'm not saying,
all brothers, but a lot of men, right is that? Man,
These motherfucking men out here fucking goat a lot of
these dudes are fun teeth in here, right.

Speaker 4 (01:43:10):
You feel me?

Speaker 3 (01:43:11):
It's no women know that.

Speaker 19 (01:43:12):
Man, These women know that that that that uh and
I'm talking about a certain you know, low caliber dude.
Hey man, these motherfucker's drunk off, pushy, and these women
know that pussy ain't got no name or face. You
get what I'm saying. They know that and so like now,

(01:43:32):
now whether that leads to a marriage and all that,
you know, but but they know man that hey man,
and man, these dudes are cut off. They right arm
for some pushy man and sell they mama down the
river for some pushy So I don't think that you
know what I'm saying, you know so, I don't think
that's necessarily unrealistic when they expect, well, yeah, this dude's

(01:43:54):
gonna fuck with him, you know what I mean, he
do it.

Speaker 6 (01:43:56):
Man.

Speaker 3 (01:43:56):
A lot of these dudes will fuck with anything, man,
gain no fucking bullshit like yo.

Speaker 43 (01:44:01):
Like the way niggas make excuses though, Biggie like Nigga's
decision making be crazy like it be like, Yo, you
got your whole life ahead of you. Yeah, man, but
she changed change what I told this nigga one tom Stax.
Hoes don't retire, they just take breaks. She just want
to take a break right now. Eventually, when she becomes uncomfortable, she's.

Speaker 24 (01:44:23):
Gonna reserve, revert back to her go to move. It
is not the dream shaking, it's not the lea Kobe faie.

Speaker 3 (01:44:29):
It is hoing.

Speaker 43 (01:44:30):
That's her go to move. She gonna go right back
to it when she become uncomfortable. And that's what I'm
trying to say.

Speaker 3 (01:44:36):
Niggas.

Speaker 24 (01:44:37):
Niggas be thinking that they doing something that ain't been done.
They're vitting the wheel like Biggie, listen, man, money only
attracts the worst women. They attract the worst women. Once
you get them, that's when you're donna let the devil
in your house.

Speaker 3 (01:44:55):
That's all that shit is. Like, nigga be thinking like
money attract man, it gets you pussy. That's it, bro.

Speaker 11 (01:45:00):
But that's my god, that's what most men want.

Speaker 7 (01:45:03):
Though.

Speaker 11 (01:45:04):
Look y'all, because I finally got two y'all niggas.

Speaker 24 (01:45:08):
Now I'm about to line both of you niggas with
money up y'all niggas. You and Sir Lawrence of Clubhouse
are two niggas with resources and means, and neither of
you brothers have what why? Why is that you are
two of the most eligible bachelors out here.

Speaker 7 (01:45:29):
That guy let them fish.

Speaker 24 (01:45:33):
Women are attracted to status. Both of you have that
check right. Look how debon there?

Speaker 11 (01:45:39):
Lawrence? Looksing at ptr. I don't even know what type
of glass he's holding.

Speaker 3 (01:45:42):
What is is that? Is that a crystal chandelier glass?
What is it that?

Speaker 24 (01:45:47):
Like nineteen twelve Bacca rock drink? I don't even know
what's in that glasses.

Speaker 11 (01:45:53):
It's very extensive.

Speaker 24 (01:45:55):
He probably is drinking three Dominican holes in that glass.
The cost of Readominican goals is a bottle of whatever
he's drinking. Women, y'all know this. Y'all know these women
won't resources. Y'all know they're not good people. That's why
y'all not married. Y'all know this, ye'ah. If they were
good people, y'all would share y'all lives like Mary J.

(01:46:17):
Blige with them.

Speaker 3 (01:46:18):
But y'all don't, cause y'all know.

Speaker 11 (01:46:21):
Not dumb.

Speaker 3 (01:46:22):
I'm not dumb. I'm not y'all know deep down.

Speaker 24 (01:46:25):
They are not good worthy people and both Lawrence is
in the thingest fifties make God think you're pushing forty
or you're right at it.

Speaker 3 (01:46:33):
So y'all later in life.

Speaker 11 (01:46:36):
By Breezy, does a white.

Speaker 3 (01:46:37):
Claw with your nighbor?

Speaker 7 (01:46:43):
You better starting with doctor being there, y'all.

Speaker 3 (01:46:52):
Did not get excited, then go on mute then because
I would have been done.

Speaker 22 (01:46:56):
Breezy stops one second goal because I did.

Speaker 7 (01:47:03):
That's the fright.

Speaker 24 (01:47:04):
I just want to finish because I'm not even talking
to the women right now, talking to the men.

Speaker 3 (01:47:07):
And look y'all trying to jump in the fight.

Speaker 13 (01:47:11):
Okay, you know what this white claw coming upside? Joe
carry you. Yeah, we about to jump jump.

Speaker 11 (01:47:25):
Everybody said that, everybody.

Speaker 7 (01:47:28):
Everybody wanted to ship right.

Speaker 24 (01:47:32):
I know both of you niggas know this, like y'all know,
they are not good at their core. That is why
y'all will weaponize your resources to get what I want.
And I'm not mad at it. I love that because
y'all living the life exactly how a man should. Any
man who is successful with resources to take the spoils

(01:47:54):
of war that you fought for and make that your
fucking benefit. One dollar because I never judge y'all, but
I well, I do think when y'all come in conversations
talking about others, I know what y'all doing.

Speaker 14 (01:48:06):
I get it.

Speaker 24 (01:48:06):
But yeah, stop, y'all know they're not good people. And
that's why niggas don't care about them. They don't care
about anything, biggie. They just want their behavior. If I
can buy your behavior for a little bit, that's fine,
because getting you, what do I get from getting you?
Besides you, you're horrible. You are a horrible individual. There

(01:48:27):
is nothing that you will add to my life right now.
Lawrence is a self sufficient as possible. Ain No woman
on this app that's gonna help him financially. What can
you do for him except forget him aroused and not
stress him out. And I gotta do more for you
for that. That's not a fair trade. Fair trade ain't
no robbery. But asking for that is because he gotta

(01:48:48):
come out of pocket more, and come out of pockets
like the youth his math. Not directly, I'm saying he
has to do more to get less return. Nobody makes
investments to do that. Nobody goes in the market to
lose money to gain money, and most of these women
are losing investments there are Otherwise the niggas who could
do the investing would be investing in them.

Speaker 3 (01:49:08):
Why they not rest my case?

Speaker 33 (01:49:11):
So this is what I think.

Speaker 22 (01:49:15):
Men and women one second is literally we have gender rules.
I'm so sorry to be the bearer of bad news.

Speaker 12 (01:49:22):
It is what it is.

Speaker 22 (01:49:24):
I didn't make the rules, but we are socialized differently
as men and women. We are not the same. We're
not expected to show up in the world the same
or anything like that. So it's very disheartening when I
hear men like kind of cry and complain of why
I can't show up like a woman. And it's very
disheartening when I hear women, well, why can't I just

(01:49:47):
have all of the the pluses and none of the
negatives as a man, We're not socialized the same and
we're not expected to show up the same in form
and function. And I think as soon as people understand
that fundamentally, y'all will do a lot better and not
complaining about your lot in life because we're not the same.

(01:50:09):
We don't have the same form or function, and we
are expected to show up differently, and that's okay. It
kind of makes the world go around and half of
the reason why half of us are here. So I
think that people just need to, you know, kind of
get a grip on reality.

Speaker 3 (01:50:26):
So, doctor B, I wanted to read, so just believe that.

Speaker 14 (01:50:29):
Can you accept me saying to you, breezy, that you
know your place?

Speaker 3 (01:50:33):
Yes?

Speaker 8 (01:50:33):
Or no?

Speaker 13 (01:50:35):
Do you know yours?

Speaker 3 (01:50:37):
Okay? There?

Speaker 19 (01:50:38):
No?

Speaker 18 (01:50:38):
No, no, you don't right there?

Speaker 43 (01:50:41):
That part that's fun to doctor B. Please because he's
slammed in my name. Oh why not, doctor B. I
actually agree with you, right, doctor B. But it's only
one caveat right.

Speaker 3 (01:50:52):
I love women in the beginning, when I first meet them.
I'll be in love with all of them in the beginning.

Speaker 43 (01:50:57):
It's just I hate what they turn into after you
commit to them, after they think you like them. I
hate what they turn into, but I love them in
the beginning, like it's nothing better than a woman that
looks and smells good and she's taking it for.

Speaker 3 (01:51:10):
Your attention and do whatever you wanted to do to
get your attention.

Speaker 43 (01:51:13):
Now, the problem with it is, doctor B, is that
after three four months no more to should rate me
up because now somebody else that's a better actress and
that smell better with a fatter ass than caught my attention.
But I would love to have a woman on long term.
It's just it's hard, man, because like women don't.

Speaker 3 (01:51:31):
Treat me the way they treat other men.

Speaker 43 (01:51:33):
You know what I'm saying, They okay with just fucking
other men and letting them treat them like shit. The
expectation goes up for me because I've done the hard work.
You understand what I'm saying, and Captain don't like that.
I want to be treated like they how they treated
they baby daddy. You know what I'm saying, high production,
low expectations.

Speaker 3 (01:51:50):
That's all I want. And what I'm saying, dumb doctor
B is like I know you you've on several occasions
said that you think I'm bitter and stuff like that.
I know it said that to be I've been having
recreational sections twelve.

Speaker 11 (01:52:02):
But what I want to say, you never caught you vitter.

Speaker 3 (01:52:05):
I know you didn't, DOK.

Speaker 43 (01:52:06):
But when I'm saying darctor B respectfully though, like like
off this app in real life, the market is booming
right now.

Speaker 3 (01:52:13):
Yo. There's so many women.

Speaker 43 (01:52:16):
Yeah, there's so many women willing to be shod chicks,
like like your doctor be I'm gonna send you some
wired transfers I've been getting from women, so you can
know that this dick ain't free.

Speaker 3 (01:52:25):
But I'm gonna send you the mo I'm gonna show you.

Speaker 43 (01:52:28):
Yeah, I'll be fucking these old like they gotta pay
to be with me. But when I'm saying though, in reality,
in real time, though all jokes aside there right.

Speaker 24 (01:52:36):
The market is booming. Women have made their mind if
they're not settling, so they willing to get in line
for the crab legs they want. They not going to
the regular supermarket no more.

Speaker 43 (01:52:45):
They want to go to the ship that everybody else
want to go to, right, and they want those crab legs,
So get in line for the niggas that they want.

Speaker 29 (01:52:52):
I love it.

Speaker 3 (01:52:54):
I love the market. I would love to be married
one day.

Speaker 43 (01:52:57):
But unless I find one of these women with dad
with a lot of money and he got a lot
of money, I probably won't do it.

Speaker 35 (01:53:05):
Yeah, let me uh, let me jump in here real
quick follow up after my brother Max.

Speaker 29 (01:53:11):
Yeah, So to answer the question directly, black.

Speaker 35 (01:53:15):
Women, but it's not even close. It's like it's not
even it's not a nail biter. And I hear what
other brothers have to say about this. Yes, technically speaking,
every you know, once in a blue moon you run
across a brother that's delusional, Well, okay, got it, and
he's just got these crazy, you know, Prince Zakim coming
to America expectations. Okay, granted, I'll give you that. But

(01:53:36):
in day to day, you know, Black American life, there's
nothing to debate here. Black women they have these crazy
ass expectations. It's well documented. There's nothing to debate here.
It's not even close. It's not a nail biter. It's
like Tiger Woods back in the day at the Masters.
He's way out in front that that's that's black women there.

(01:53:57):
But that's that's the easy part. With all due respect
to my brother's stacking and everyone else on Clubhouse and
Tonight's conversation and all the rest of these are easy,
low hanging fruit topics. I want to get to the
real good part, Like my brother Matt just said, I
want to get to the transactional piece.

Speaker 29 (01:54:14):
Let's let's do business.

Speaker 35 (01:54:16):
I think, you know, doctor B says this, black men
fall in love and black women do business.

Speaker 29 (01:54:20):
I think black men need to catch up. We need
to just do business. I want to get to the
customer satisfaction part. The customer is always right.

Speaker 35 (01:54:28):
If that's what we're coming down to, if that's what
we easy easy, If that's what we're coming.

Speaker 29 (01:54:35):
Down to, ladies. And so that we're clear, I am
not saying all.

Speaker 35 (01:54:42):
If you're not one of the loudest voices in the room, ladies,
you got nothing to worry about.

Speaker 29 (01:54:47):
I'm talking about the sisters that's got all the rah
rah rah.

Speaker 3 (01:54:51):
Let's do business.

Speaker 35 (01:54:53):
What are we talking about here? Because see, in the
world of business, the customer is always right. Customer satisfaction
is job one. See, black women don't believe in that.

Speaker 21 (01:55:02):
Though.

Speaker 35 (01:55:03):
They think that you're supposed to be paying for whatever
they stay slinging your way, don't. I don't agree with that.
If I'm going to be paying premium prices, I want
premium stuff in return. You want experiences. I want to
experience that flat stomach you see. I want to experience
you know, the back of your throat. I want to
experience that. I want experiences too. So we're gonna do business.

(01:55:25):
Let's do business.

Speaker 3 (01:55:27):
This is your brother, Captain Comfort.

Speaker 43 (01:55:28):
But doctor Bok, listen, listen, hold on, man. I just
want you to speak on one thing, brother, because like
on Clubhouse, you know, like when we when I lock
on this app, right, it's like it's so so difficult
to get next to all these high value women. And
doctor B told me a long time ago, he said, macgar,

(01:55:48):
if you believe anything that's going on this app, you
actual goddamn mind. And then in real life I see
that there's bare minimum requirements to.

Speaker 24 (01:55:56):
Get next to the most beautiful of his women would
make money and all that.

Speaker 43 (01:55:59):
So like the mo mia in real life, when you
look at the market, right, a successful black man, why
does he have to succumb to any of these women's
demands when there's so many attractive women making sixty to
two hundred thousand dollars.

Speaker 29 (01:56:15):
Uh, there isn't any.

Speaker 35 (01:56:16):
And to be brutally frank, you know, my brother Lawrence,
my brother big E, my brother talked to be you. Look,
the truth just have to be told.

Speaker 29 (01:56:25):
I gotta tell you. The places we go, you don't
see many sisters.

Speaker 3 (01:56:30):
You don't.

Speaker 29 (01:56:32):
That's not the help. At least you don't. That's the truth.

Speaker 7 (01:56:38):
So what do you mean by that? Let's talk about it,
get into it. Let's get into it.

Speaker 18 (01:56:46):
Some of these women think they got the premium, but
they got the good I.

Speaker 9 (01:56:50):
Hear and I.

Speaker 8 (01:56:54):
Quiet, what the fuck are y'all doing? I'm trying to
talk to me, bro, what I mean, let's bay got
down on. What did you mean by that?

Speaker 35 (01:57:01):
Let's talk well, I mean again, so that we're clear.
I am not talking about all the sisters. I'm talking
about the loudest voices in the room, all the ones
that's got all the ride ragh on clubhouse and Facebook
and Instagram. It's a night's conversation, the one that tells
you you got to you know, my spray of my
perfume costs more than the latte. As if as if

(01:57:22):
brothers don't know nothing about tom Ford, you know oo
would I mean, come on, I mean, if you go
to the places that brothers like us go to that
we frequent, I'm just saying, you don't see many sisters there.
You don't flying under their own flag, under their own power,
you don't.

Speaker 6 (01:57:39):
I just don't click knop on all quick. Can I
get in that please?

Speaker 8 (01:57:46):
Whoever, y'all better fight for the mic while y'all still
the motherfucker still the mic from these niggas.

Speaker 7 (01:57:55):
These niggas take the mic will.

Speaker 6 (01:58:00):
Give right now.

Speaker 3 (01:58:02):
I'm doing it right now. Here we go.

Speaker 44 (01:58:04):
So here we go talking about delusion. So I just
saw a post from Rick Cross. This dude is fat
as hell, fad as focus. This stomach can happen almost
hanging down halfway down down his leg. The only reason
why women are after.

Speaker 3 (01:58:21):
Him is because of his money.

Speaker 44 (01:58:23):
And so there are some guys that think, oh, well,
these women.

Speaker 3 (01:58:26):
Want me because I'm the man.

Speaker 45 (01:58:29):
No, he wants you for the money. And if you
take the money from you, you ain't. Now she's not
calling on you because you're not attractive either. The delusion
of black men is that is that all of a
sudden we get money, we become more attractive. No, it
just means that when we get more money, we got
more money.

Speaker 6 (01:58:48):
We're still on attract When you get more money, you
have more Let me fish soft please.

Speaker 1 (01:58:55):
The reality is that money.

Speaker 44 (01:58:57):
Sure, the money might make us more attractive, but not
to building because of me.

Speaker 3 (01:59:01):
It's because of the money.

Speaker 31 (01:59:02):
Because you take the money away and I'm not attractive.
You take the money away, and she ain't looking at me.
She rather looked at the dude that she really likes
looking at. Or Betty, Yeah, she'll take big, gross money
and give it to the guy she really likes because
he don't have a big belly sitting down on down down,
going out halfway down the stop.

Speaker 6 (01:59:20):
The delusion of.

Speaker 44 (01:59:22):
The delusion of men is also there, this idea that, oh,
I'm the man because I got all this stuff. Yeah,
the stuff is what she wants, the stuff. That's why
the wars is what it is, because once the stuff
runs out, she runs out.

Speaker 3 (01:59:39):
But do you got to lose you or missing? It's
all because of me, because of you broke.

Speaker 1 (01:59:48):
I'm not telling you you're done now.

Speaker 3 (01:59:50):
You ain't gonna.

Speaker 40 (01:59:53):
I'm not.

Speaker 18 (01:59:54):
I'm not.

Speaker 46 (02:00:00):
I don't talk over you. I never talk over you.
I'm talking let me finish. Be respectful your man.

Speaker 11 (02:00:07):
I've never I've never I know, I know.

Speaker 3 (02:00:11):
I never talk over you. I never talk over anybody.
But I'm just saying.

Speaker 46 (02:00:16):
I listened on this app to these panderin peacock and
dues every day when certain women in the world, Oh
what the years you take? You take the proposed money
that some of these guys say they have away and
they look just like Rick Rass.

Speaker 3 (02:00:32):
There's a lot of them.

Speaker 6 (02:00:33):
Do she ain't there for a long time? If she
ain't there at all.

Speaker 1 (02:00:37):
Because you can't because.

Speaker 4 (02:00:43):
Because you can't.

Speaker 1 (02:00:44):
Rise to the occasion to get what, then what they
want when it comes to ze because if you got
a pick belly and you're over what, it don't matter.

Speaker 13 (02:00:52):
So yeah, we love baller bellies up here, everybody.

Speaker 3 (02:00:58):
With the money, breeze and get the fuck up my way.

Speaker 1 (02:01:00):
Y'all want the money, y'all want the money.

Speaker 18 (02:01:03):
I'm not doing that.

Speaker 11 (02:01:03):
I'm you man, I don't want me.

Speaker 3 (02:01:06):
Let me be fairy.

Speaker 14 (02:01:08):
I'm not feeling.

Speaker 6 (02:01:09):
I'm going to finish talk.

Speaker 1 (02:01:10):
I'm going to be talking back because you talk forever,
I farely talk. So I'm gonna talk the delusion of
We always talking about the delusion.

Speaker 3 (02:01:19):
Of black women, and I do too. I'm not saying
I don't, but god damn, we're just.

Speaker 46 (02:01:24):
As delusion as they are because all we want to
do is because all we want to do is talk
about what we got instead of who we are.

Speaker 3 (02:01:30):
And that's why they run off.

Speaker 11 (02:01:32):
When the money's gone and I'm done, I'm gonna hop
on real quick.

Speaker 4 (02:01:35):
No, no, no, no.

Speaker 47 (02:01:36):
If you ain't a fat nigga, get the funk off
the word bing out, short nigga, short nigga with a
lot of money, fat ugly short nigga with a lot
of man.

Speaker 22 (02:01:49):
Even if he said on his pockets he would only
be five took'm.

Speaker 3 (02:01:52):
Okay, no no no no no no no.

Speaker 24 (02:01:54):
I'm gonna chem a loge one when I'm staying on mind.
But anyway, what I was saying is this, and we're
rob though.

Speaker 3 (02:01:59):
With with with where my brother go because I gotta
get him together.

Speaker 6 (02:02:02):
Rob.

Speaker 3 (02:02:03):
This is Captain Kufform.

Speaker 43 (02:02:04):
I got a one hundred and ninety nine percent categorically
disagree with you, and I felt like you were personalizing
and attacking me. First of all, there are some successful, handsome,
charismatic fat niggas that will fuck your niggas with muscles.

Speaker 3 (02:02:17):
Bitch, I happen to be one of them, right.

Speaker 43 (02:02:19):
Yes, everybody wants to make it seem like you gotta
have money to hit these regular holes.

Speaker 3 (02:02:24):
That's cat right. There's something called safe or sexuals. Right.

Speaker 43 (02:02:27):
I will talk your woman into think that she not
selling her pussy for enough money. You understand what I'm saying.
Some people have magnetic ability with these women to transform
the way they think. See, some of you niggas could
get in they head. Some of niggas could get in
they bed. See some of you niggas, all you can
get out of them is ass. You understand what I'm
saying to you. What I'm about to do is ptr
to show the difference between a charismatic fat nigga and

(02:02:49):
a nigga with one percent body fat. See this charismatic
fat nigga got these bad bitches paying to be next
to me. You you giving out free emotionless sex with
a motherfucker with one percent by and all you getting
is to thank you and wish for breakfast.

Speaker 3 (02:03:03):
See is levels to this shit, right, It's always levels
to everything in life.

Speaker 24 (02:03:07):
What you're not gonna do is get up here and
make it seem like every fat nigga got low self
esteem and can't do the same shit you do.

Speaker 43 (02:03:13):
I went to college to play sports. Most of you
in shape niggas never got a scholarship to play no sports.

Speaker 3 (02:03:18):
Right, that's facts, right.

Speaker 24 (02:03:20):
I've had batter business than ninety nine point nine percent
of you niggas in here right now, and I will
put myself up against any of your niggas.

Speaker 3 (02:03:27):
That's a fact, right. So, yes, having money helps, but
having money doesn't make you that nigga. What makes you
that nigga is.

Speaker 24 (02:03:34):
When you walk you know what I'm saying through the tunnel,
when you hold in a bad bitch hand and everybody say, hey, hey,
I know you.

Speaker 3 (02:03:39):
What do you do again? Come sit next to me, buddy.
See you niggas never experience that.

Speaker 24 (02:03:44):
That's why y'all think it's all about a bitch attraction.
See a bitch and give you her pussy, but it
never give you her heart. And that's what I'm trying
to say.

Speaker 3 (02:03:50):
I didn't had a bitch head, I didn't had a heart.
I done had a soul, and I had a body
because all those things I made. First, tell her body
what the dude?

Speaker 43 (02:03:58):
So shout out to you sex rare, physical specialmen niggas.

Speaker 3 (02:04:02):
That's getting bare minimum mony, fuck.

Speaker 7 (02:04:09):
Mad god ship niggas. The question what are we talking
about right now?

Speaker 11 (02:04:16):
What? Hey?

Speaker 24 (02:04:19):
Hold on, hold on, hold on.

Speaker 7 (02:04:20):
My sister sen Yoda's trying to come in here.

Speaker 8 (02:04:22):
And if y'all are just joining, we've been talking about
who has more unrealistic expectations? You guys have not checked
out the podcast? Do that Asapie should be doing. Also
joined the Telegram and also join the Genda hold on,
I'm not even done. Hold on pause. Join the telegrams
as well. When you see the links dropping the chat,
sen Yorda, I'm passing into you, sister, because I heard

(02:04:43):
you come off.

Speaker 7 (02:04:44):
I r L's in the building too. They get vi P.
Go ahead, sister.

Speaker 39 (02:04:49):
I just wanted to say, and I'm sorry that the
internet here is lagging, so I didn't hear you.

Speaker 7 (02:04:53):
I'm sorry, Stack.

Speaker 39 (02:04:56):
I just want to say, women have more unrealistic expectations
to think that men have the ability to truly love
them for who they are.

Speaker 7 (02:05:03):
Thank you so much.

Speaker 1 (02:05:04):
Oh wow, Oh.

Speaker 7 (02:05:11):
Let's go.

Speaker 33 (02:05:12):
Let's go.

Speaker 3 (02:05:14):
Your one Micael Captain come from real quick ship.

Speaker 7 (02:05:17):
He's devoing the mics. Y'all better fight for the mic.

Speaker 3 (02:05:20):
I can't do that on man, because we're gonna get
going today.

Speaker 43 (02:05:23):
We're gonna put some respect on the fat nigga's name,
your stacks. Look at my pg'all free with that stake.

Speaker 24 (02:05:29):
This is what this is what that see niggas don't understand,
Like right, I gotta built them pillow that these niggas
don't got.

Speaker 43 (02:05:36):
This is just want to lay on my stomach and
your bitch just want to lay on my stomach. And
tell me her fiers. Did you see my p your stacks?

Speaker 7 (02:05:45):
Yeah, I see it, I see I see the payments
coming through.

Speaker 27 (02:05:48):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (02:05:50):
Can you please tell these handsome one percent body fat
niggas could do a million sit ups and pull up
show these niggas what they dig. Game is big?

Speaker 4 (02:05:59):
Please?

Speaker 3 (02:06:00):
Uh wow, let's talk about it.

Speaker 24 (02:06:06):
Doctor Bow that says that you gotta pay for it
though I'm getting.

Speaker 7 (02:06:13):
No, he said, Man, niggas can't reward.

Speaker 43 (02:06:24):
You understand what got pay his attention. See, this is
what I'm trying to say. It's a lot of niggas
that rather look good than be good. And I'm gonna
say that ship again. You niggas rather look good than
be good.

Speaker 3 (02:06:36):
See. The only thing that skinny nigga with muscles can
tell me is yo, Man, I'm in. I'm in. I'm
healthier than you. Right. That nigga can't tell me he
getting nothing out these holes that I'm not getting. I'll
challenge any nigga in here, any nigga show me what
these holes is doing for your life.

Speaker 43 (02:06:51):
I'm fucking attorneys, I'm fucking financial advisors, real estate moguls.

Speaker 3 (02:06:57):
You understand what I'm saying. Public relations, public relations on people, y'all.

Speaker 24 (02:07:02):
Niggas is getting bare minimalm y'all just good for recreational sex.

Speaker 3 (02:07:06):
That's what I told them before. Stax.

Speaker 24 (02:07:08):
Handsome privilege without a brain just gives you access to
these women pussy, but you can't get her to do
nothing that matters in life, like submit and give up
her currency. So who's the valuable, the fat nigga actually
paying for dick or the stinny niggas you haven't pleasured with?

Speaker 3 (02:07:23):
Which ones?

Speaker 13 (02:07:24):
Fact I would like to change.

Speaker 39 (02:07:26):
I would like to change my answer.

Speaker 7 (02:07:27):
You like to answer, syst go ahead, I want them men.

Speaker 39 (02:07:31):
I think the men are more delusional because they like
to turn holes into housewives and expect that they are
the only ones that they love. I'd like to change
my answer to say that men are delusional because they
think that leading with money can actually get them the
access to a woman's heart. And I'd like to change
my answer and say men because a lot of them

(02:07:54):
with fifty thousand dollars bank accounts think they're speaking from
a million dollar standpoint. Thank you so much much.

Speaker 7 (02:08:01):
Wow Ship Yeah, I hear diego, I hear I hear diego.
Wait a minute, ladies, which.

Speaker 3 (02:08:13):
Wait nothing.

Speaker 13 (02:08:15):
Niggas. Niggas.

Speaker 7 (02:08:18):
Would you like to speak about the way the hyaenas
are here?

Speaker 30 (02:08:25):
Yeah?

Speaker 7 (02:08:26):
Yeah, both, y'all, about the way where diego are you here?

Speaker 12 (02:08:29):
It's just a yes, what is going on over the
I was going to say, I don't know what fifty
thousand dollars bank accounts talking about a lot of these niggas.

Speaker 6 (02:08:37):
Their phones will be turned off with them the next
two weeks.

Speaker 7 (02:08:39):
That was all right, but no, let's continue.

Speaker 11 (02:08:45):
Let's really no.

Speaker 13 (02:08:46):
She brought up a really good point. And before you
correctly about to suck it up, change.

Speaker 22 (02:08:54):
Your submission to It's the men. These men, most of them,
not times out of ten, they will never ever actually
accept a woman for who she truely is. They have
this betty homemaker mindset in their head, that American dream

(02:09:15):
It did a number on black people. Yeah, that white
picket fance good luck, And for some odd reason they
just believe that, oh, women are to be put on
a shelf, put in a glass box.

Speaker 13 (02:09:31):
Yet no, I'm not, and you know this not fucking
playing with me.

Speaker 22 (02:09:36):
I really am being nicey y'all, Okay, you be quiet too.
So like this is the issue that is quintessential, Like
we in this country. And I mean everybody in this
room has never had no crystal sare so we already

(02:09:56):
know what time we're on. But this is the thing, like,
for some odd reason, you want to create this delicate
balance of other people that their men created, not with
any fault of your own, this crystal stare, and you
want your women to be.

Speaker 13 (02:10:15):
Oh, this is how I'm gonna act.

Speaker 22 (02:10:17):
We are in, We are in, We are in the field.
My nigga, women, I'm not done. I don't need any help.

Speaker 3 (02:10:30):
I don't want to list for you to drag it on.

Speaker 11 (02:10:37):
Get to the point.

Speaker 3 (02:10:41):
Your listen. Man, at the end of the day, right
at the end of the day, right to the victor,
God spoils. That's just what it is. Man, don't hate me,
hate my mama. You know what I'm saying. Shout it
to my man.

Speaker 43 (02:10:51):
F HD may fly took me on the took me,
took me to want to drop me off at my
date with a beautiful woman. Actually, does she talk a
lot around me? Been talking a lout around me? A
d or do they take instructures and listen, this is
what I'm trying.

Speaker 18 (02:11:04):
To They showed that respect. They know how to be
in their place and all that, like.

Speaker 3 (02:11:10):
Did I do that? You didn't even know that that?
That was the mac guarden it. And then we were
talking about clubous like they okay.

Speaker 12 (02:11:18):
The fact.

Speaker 22 (02:11:22):
We don't believe you, We don't believe you. You picked
the worst person about reason.

Speaker 14 (02:11:29):
Hold on, hold on.

Speaker 39 (02:11:30):
I just want to get in there real quick. I
find men again. I find men delusional because they think
that they can use sex souls and turn them into
watch And that's the one.

Speaker 13 (02:11:43):
That your side. Are you crazy?

Speaker 18 (02:11:45):
That's what you be on your side side?

Speaker 13 (02:11:51):
Oh my god, one thing.

Speaker 7 (02:11:55):
Listen, listen. The sex dolls ship be killing me?

Speaker 13 (02:11:58):
Like, what the fuck be wrong with he fucked up
in his mind?

Speaker 18 (02:12:04):
Why jumping? I didn't bring the sex doll ship up?

Speaker 7 (02:12:09):
The naga listen, get back to the mother your breezy.

Speaker 3 (02:12:15):
You are the perfect example. We don't give a damn
no no breezy. What I'm saying this.

Speaker 13 (02:12:21):
Watch your mouth.

Speaker 3 (02:12:22):
And if you say you can.

Speaker 43 (02:12:24):
Look at your picture and think that he could build
a life with you based.

Speaker 3 (02:12:27):
On the fact that you.

Speaker 4 (02:12:29):
I'm good.

Speaker 13 (02:12:30):
I'm good.

Speaker 3 (02:12:31):
That's what I'm trying to say.

Speaker 14 (02:12:32):
I'm good.

Speaker 22 (02:12:33):
Like my god, you can't listen. I'm not gonna send
you no pizza free people.

Speaker 13 (02:12:39):
Watch your mouth.

Speaker 3 (02:12:41):
You're breezy, like if you.

Speaker 13 (02:12:43):
Stop saying my name.

Speaker 3 (02:12:44):
No reason why I'm saying that we can go a
live right now.

Speaker 13 (02:12:47):
I just live with you, sir, four years, four years.
I don't want to bro I.

Speaker 3 (02:12:57):
Say, just tell me how much ahead and do what you're.

Speaker 13 (02:13:01):
Doing over there? Cut of my way and away.

Speaker 3 (02:13:04):
You gotta be you gotta want to argue because we
having a good conversation.

Speaker 14 (02:13:07):
Okay, so you know.

Speaker 18 (02:13:12):
You just want to talk.

Speaker 11 (02:13:13):
We ain't no way.

Speaker 3 (02:13:15):
She drunk on Monday, man, Yeah, and yeah, now.

Speaker 13 (02:13:17):
I gotta be drunk. Were not friends, got it?

Speaker 3 (02:13:20):
So what I was saying was like unrealistic expectations is
a god given right. It is a god given right
to be delusional.

Speaker 24 (02:13:28):
Like, but we got to step up this app and
realized in real life, most of these women don't got
no say so over the market, man.

Speaker 3 (02:13:36):
They cannot dictate the market. They can't. They gotta take
what come to them.

Speaker 24 (02:13:41):
And it's usually these up standard niggas that need help
with the bills, right because if they was dating niggas
in my caliber, they would do certain things like you
see I dieg only talk when you're talking up watch
this a diego.

Speaker 3 (02:13:53):
Look she only speaks when she's spoken to.

Speaker 43 (02:13:56):
Other than that, she respected her sanctity of marriage and mute.
See a lot of these women don't know they placed.
That's why they ain't got a spot. I'm gonna say
it again that they don't know they play that.

Speaker 11 (02:14:08):
Oh my god, I want to ask.

Speaker 24 (02:14:13):
I'm sorry, I'm just getting dressed and listening to my
god style on y'all is not entertaining to me because
he is styling on y'all. Right, now, what expectations because
y'all saying men have more delusional expectations, what expectations of
men that they have allegedly are delusional? Do you have

(02:14:34):
some examples of what the delusional expectations of men are?

Speaker 13 (02:14:37):
That you five nine and you expect to reach the
top shelf.

Speaker 11 (02:14:42):
Three wingspan, But I have a six three wingspan.

Speaker 3 (02:14:44):
So I can't.

Speaker 13 (02:14:44):
I'm sorry. Your arms is long, that's a fact.

Speaker 7 (02:14:47):
So I can't.

Speaker 24 (02:14:47):
So I don't have expectation I can actually do it.
So again, I don't have an expectation of you being funny,
because you're not. No, you need a white cloth. But again,
so if anybody that breezy can speak, who does not
have a blood alcohol content of over point one two
right now could answer my question if you can drive

(02:15:08):
a motor vehicle and not get pulled over and blowing
a breathalyzer, Please answer my question.

Speaker 13 (02:15:13):
Yeah, it's never gonna work.

Speaker 14 (02:15:21):
It ain't worked yet.

Speaker 13 (02:15:23):
You ain't out.

Speaker 7 (02:15:27):
Let another woman answer the questions. Please start with Miller.

Speaker 24 (02:15:32):
So idiot, give me these unreasonable expectations that men have,
because I don't know very many men just kind of
want simple things like, hey, be nice to me, like
outside of muscle Rob who has crazy weight restrictions, who like,
you know, he's gonna check your body fat like he's
a very anidotal individual. But the majority of men's expectations
just like, hey, can you be nice to me? Like

(02:15:54):
I'll do everything else whatever as far as gender roles are,
but can you just be nice? So outside of being nice,
what expectations do men really kind of have of y'all?

Speaker 11 (02:16:05):
I never mind, this is this is going to be.

Speaker 24 (02:16:09):
I want to get really bad one second, because you
already stout enough. One thing I just want to hear
from the women, Well I have.

Speaker 33 (02:16:16):
One they expect to pay. I don't understand what that's about.

Speaker 11 (02:16:27):
This is what happens when you inebriated your frontal quarter.

Speaker 13 (02:16:30):
Yeah whatever, men, please, my nigga, what you want to hear? Crickets?

Speaker 11 (02:16:37):
I don't want to let it be crickets?

Speaker 14 (02:16:41):
Okay?

Speaker 13 (02:16:41):
Well here you ever seen a cricket?

Speaker 14 (02:16:43):
Here?

Speaker 3 (02:16:43):
We are? Yes?

Speaker 13 (02:16:44):
I have actually okay, then side, I caught it.

Speaker 11 (02:16:49):
Right, So I have no answer than a dumb answer.
You don't got to talk either, but the question I know,
so could you please be quiet now?

Speaker 30 (02:17:00):
Right?

Speaker 11 (02:17:00):
Exactly what's in my biio diego?

Speaker 24 (02:17:03):
Married women should not argue with men who are not
their husbands that embarrass their husbands.

Speaker 11 (02:17:08):
I really had to write that I shouldn't.

Speaker 13 (02:17:12):
It is twelve bro, I know about you just want
to argue about arguing, But.

Speaker 27 (02:17:23):
And I.

Speaker 13 (02:17:26):
Question and do what is your point?

Speaker 11 (02:17:29):
Because I'm trying to your point.

Speaker 13 (02:17:31):
Got a whole lot of things going on, but I
would never do.

Speaker 11 (02:17:34):
That trying to talk to me?

Speaker 13 (02:17:36):
Yes my point, No, negro, want to pay yourself.

Speaker 3 (02:17:43):
Forward.

Speaker 11 (02:17:43):
I think going forward, Mute move Mute's.

Speaker 34 (02:17:52):
Not wrong though.

Speaker 39 (02:17:53):
We can have fun in here, but you don't have
to argue arguing with they go on mute.

Speaker 24 (02:17:58):
Breezy please, I'm can you please, no, please call you.
You know how bad it gotta be for a nigga
to beg you to go.

Speaker 12 (02:18:04):
And not talk?

Speaker 13 (02:18:06):
My gosh, and please do it?

Speaker 11 (02:18:10):
Do I gotta buy crypto to get all mute?

Speaker 13 (02:18:13):
Yes, please be quiet, please try that.

Speaker 24 (02:18:17):
Try please be quiet, please, because I've asked a very
serious question and you ruined it.

Speaker 13 (02:18:24):
Giving to.

Speaker 3 (02:18:27):
Shut up.

Speaker 14 (02:18:28):
I got.

Speaker 15 (02:18:30):
Don't talk to be whatever you can always you can half,
you can always, you can always pay the chicks yesterday, what.

Speaker 13 (02:18:39):
Five hundred on my head?

Speaker 4 (02:18:40):
Then, honey, you sure can.

Speaker 13 (02:18:43):
Don't bullshit, I got half whenever five hundred.

Speaker 11 (02:18:51):
I'm definitely not spending that money.

Speaker 7 (02:18:55):
My husband.

Speaker 3 (02:18:59):
We are been a simious conversation, right and breezy drinking
that race.

Speaker 22 (02:19:06):
Oh my gosh, now I'm drunk because I wanted to
speak on a talking app.

Speaker 13 (02:19:10):
Y'all are insane?

Speaker 35 (02:19:12):
No, well, anyway, doctor, being your your your point is
well taken. Yeah, in the abstract, and sure we can
find you know, the odd guy that's got some arcane
and esoteric standards for women. But for the vast majority
of black men, you are one hundred percent correct. They
just want a woman that is she does not have

(02:19:33):
to be a dime or nine or eight or seven.

Speaker 29 (02:19:37):
She doesn't even have to be a six.

Speaker 35 (02:19:40):
They just want a woman that's you know, not obese,
not a bitch, and and you know it's you know, good.

Speaker 29 (02:19:48):
For a blowjob in the sandwichary now and again.

Speaker 3 (02:19:51):
Yo.

Speaker 43 (02:19:52):
All I want, bro, doctor, is I just be one
of the woman to understand that I'm a male and
I'm not perfect. See the women I get along as
the ones that know that I've worked hard not to
be controlled like that's that's the ones that understand me,
knows the reason why I work so hard is freedom to.

Speaker 3 (02:20:11):
Do, say, think, live, eat, feel and fuck whoever I want.
That's why I work hard.

Speaker 43 (02:20:17):
So the ones that me and them got we were
close and all that they understand that that Sam Smith's song,
they say, I'm nat only one. But like doctor B
was saying, right, I cannot imagine my like cause all
the beautiful women I met on this app that we
was in great situationships stick got off. That That's why

(02:20:38):
I don't understand like other than like these beautiful women
that's real housewives are real successful man. I don't understand
how y'all be comfortable here disrespecting y'all man arguing with
some nigga name Captain Kumform. I don't get it because
in real life, if I hit that motherfucking door and
I hear one of y'all telling Muma, he don't get
no women and shit like that, I'm like who I'm

(02:20:59):
talking to?

Speaker 3 (02:21:00):
And then y'all start saying some nigga name Yate and
it ain't West.

Speaker 11 (02:21:04):
I'm a panic.

Speaker 24 (02:21:06):
You understand there's the shout your beautiful women in here
that's still single, that say your sexuals.

Speaker 3 (02:21:11):
My back channel is open for business. I'll be out
the country for.

Speaker 43 (02:21:15):
Most of the month, but you either hit my back
channel or just tell doctor B you looking for me.

Speaker 3 (02:21:20):
He could find me.

Speaker 43 (02:21:25):
Some of y'all women should be ashamed of yourselves being
single for real, man like to have so doctor B
your managers, to.

Speaker 3 (02:21:33):
Have koulo and education and no man, it's crazy.

Speaker 11 (02:21:37):
Well who asked that crazy question?

Speaker 3 (02:21:39):
My name?

Speaker 14 (02:21:40):
I said, bro, Bro you his managers because he said
hit up doctor be.

Speaker 24 (02:21:46):
Wow, Come on, I thought, come on, man, like, why
did your brain even say ask?

Speaker 3 (02:21:50):
Why is you asking me about my brain?

Speaker 8 (02:21:53):
It got me my name, It got me further than
you with your timpanzees.

Speaker 6 (02:21:58):
Built us.

Speaker 4 (02:21:59):
I don't know where it got you.

Speaker 24 (02:22:00):
I know you look weird, you know, like niggas, that's
a fact. Nigga, your mama like, don't yese worst. That's
like the worst to like you telling women. You're talking
about your mama, your mama.

Speaker 11 (02:22:15):
We just gotta throw jokes. Come on, doctor B.

Speaker 6 (02:22:18):
Jokes, move on.

Speaker 3 (02:22:20):
I know That's what I'm saying, like like we got
his jokes that three Yeah, that was that was media.

Speaker 4 (02:22:31):
What something you built like a.

Speaker 11 (02:22:35):
Crazy ain't gonna lie.

Speaker 3 (02:22:41):
That was good?

Speaker 29 (02:22:41):
But you know it too.

Speaker 3 (02:22:42):
I was good. I ain't my fault that niggas looks
like a kid.

Speaker 11 (02:22:46):
I don't know a niggas who were don't mediums.

Speaker 3 (02:22:50):
Nigga, you got you the same size as my son.

Speaker 6 (02:22:53):
Hey, doctor B, I know I ain't got you this
disgruntle bro.

Speaker 3 (02:22:57):
No, nigga, I'm just saying, like, why did you say
my name? I was just throwing.

Speaker 48 (02:23:02):
I ain't even say nothing bad about you, Matt Dodd, Bro,
you crist.

Speaker 11 (02:23:09):
Would I beat Mac Guy's manager trying he was trying
to He was trying.

Speaker 14 (02:23:13):
To Guy, but no, he was trying to me too.
I'm not I was not trying to this.

Speaker 3 (02:23:18):
You come on, man, he was God, you think I'm rich.

Speaker 35 (02:23:23):
I just told him Breezy to stop win miling you
win mailing now again.

Speaker 3 (02:23:26):
I'm not win miiling Niggas.

Speaker 11 (02:23:27):
You just stand out with it. I'm not. I look,
I take jokes.

Speaker 3 (02:23:30):
I give him to Oh my god, John Niggas is crazy, doctor.

Speaker 43 (02:23:37):
B Why is these beautiful women with with salaries of
over sixty thousand, with nice round thery years, why they single.

Speaker 3 (02:23:45):
And getting ready? A lot of them? When wats that?
Because that's my baby?

Speaker 43 (02:23:54):
Yo, Judge, Can I tell you a secret and you
promise don't tell nobody else?

Speaker 11 (02:23:57):
Judge?

Speaker 4 (02:23:59):
On that speak?

Speaker 27 (02:24:02):
Do you know that?

Speaker 43 (02:24:02):
Do you know that a five in real life as
a really attractive woman? Most women just don't know that
they average. That's what I'm saying.

Speaker 24 (02:24:15):
Most of these women that's good looking, they're fives like
when you put them around successful men like they're average looking.

Speaker 43 (02:24:23):
But those are the ones that actually get wives. Those
are actually the ones that get married and all that.
The girls that got loud Mouse that.

Speaker 24 (02:24:29):
Look like Breezy Breezy man pretty right, but they know
nigga with a lot.

Speaker 3 (02:24:32):
Of money gonna wife for But she what I'm saying. So, So,
what I'm saying is this, right, a nigga with money will.

Speaker 43 (02:24:43):
Marry a girl that don't look as third as pretty
as she is, like, but he can't afford to marry
her because she.

Speaker 3 (02:24:48):
Is DV casing to making you know what I'm saying. So,
the point I'm trying to.

Speaker 24 (02:24:53):
Make Jazz is that if women really understood, like niggas
that got boards and niggas that niggas that really move
around got it going on, most of them are five.

Speaker 3 (02:25:03):
A five is a good looking woman if they think jazz.

Speaker 43 (02:25:07):
If if I told you right now that you look
better than half of the women in the world, do
you think that's disrespectful?

Speaker 13 (02:25:17):
Yes, I think all women are beautiful.

Speaker 3 (02:25:19):
That's a lie.

Speaker 24 (02:25:20):
That's a motherfucking lot women beautiful, beauty dollars.

Speaker 3 (02:25:39):
It's over.

Speaker 7 (02:25:40):
It's over.

Speaker 8 (02:25:41):
Reset this room, bro ping this room up, Share this
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You can even request songs in here as well. So
make sure y'all chiming into the subject and getting back

(02:26:02):
to the topic.

Speaker 7 (02:26:02):
Bro tie the hair and.

Speaker 13 (02:26:03):
Breezy, We're not doing all this breezy slander.

Speaker 14 (02:26:11):
I will not stamp.

Speaker 3 (02:26:15):
I know you are triggered.

Speaker 7 (02:26:17):
You guys are hyenas.

Speaker 8 (02:26:19):
Wait one minute, do men and women fall for potential
or promise? It's the new ship I want to talk about.
Somebody kicked this ship off. Yay Mac, doctor b biggie,
somebody kick it off with some sense.

Speaker 7 (02:26:33):
Please women, women, this is easy.

Speaker 14 (02:26:38):
Yet he said, he said, what, my god, you don't
have any sense?

Speaker 3 (02:26:43):
Would you say you have sense?

Speaker 4 (02:26:46):
For you to have any sense, I just.

Speaker 3 (02:26:51):
All you got to do is promise the woman. All
you got to do is promise the woman something in
that way.

Speaker 4 (02:26:56):
Hold on, hold, let me get out.

Speaker 14 (02:26:57):
I got you what I told you about the situation.

Speaker 15 (02:27:02):
I gotta I gotta text saying you weard that ship
because she was mouthing off when I said, and I
ain't call her ass back.

Speaker 18 (02:27:08):
Now, I just gotta check that.

Speaker 3 (02:27:11):
So you gotta turn weird out.

Speaker 15 (02:27:12):
So you turned weird a now weird because I don't
I don't take disrespect like it's out.

Speaker 8 (02:27:18):
I'm sorry, the real you popped out. The real hyena
has showed up. Did you guys hear that? Did you
guys hear that bark?

Speaker 7 (02:27:26):
That wolf?

Speaker 5 (02:27:27):
Huh?

Speaker 13 (02:27:29):
The kangaroo?

Speaker 3 (02:27:32):
It was like that that that.

Speaker 7 (02:27:37):
Potential promise.

Speaker 8 (02:27:38):
Let's go stay stay, stay, stay head stay on the
top of question.

Speaker 42 (02:27:41):
Can't potential and promise be used interchange kind of the
same thing.

Speaker 6 (02:27:47):
Promising?

Speaker 3 (02:27:49):
You know, career?

Speaker 42 (02:27:50):
Oh he has potential?

Speaker 6 (02:27:51):
Aren't those kind of the same?

Speaker 5 (02:27:56):
No?

Speaker 14 (02:27:57):
No, what's the promise?

Speaker 1 (02:28:00):
A promise?

Speaker 21 (02:28:01):
Potential?

Speaker 27 (02:28:02):
Soul?

Speaker 13 (02:28:03):
What you still are trusting people?

Speaker 4 (02:28:10):
Mm hmm.

Speaker 7 (02:28:13):
Is he still talking?

Speaker 14 (02:28:15):
Mm hmmm hmmm.

Speaker 22 (02:28:17):
Said he was talking absolutely and you his bodyguard? Yeah,
because your.

Speaker 4 (02:28:27):
Bodyguard you definitely employed.

Speaker 3 (02:28:31):
I gotta beat niggas up Stack as well.

Speaker 22 (02:28:34):
Yeah, somebody need to let Stack dig gotter relax.

Speaker 3 (02:28:44):
You gotta d n n.

Speaker 4 (02:28:49):
An you got you just get that minute job.

Speaker 13 (02:28:55):
That is he's the professional husband talking to Frank Holders. Yes, yes,
I'm not embarrassing him.

Speaker 4 (02:29:03):
He knows what.

Speaker 13 (02:29:05):
You know what he signed up.

Speaker 11 (02:29:07):
I'm a nice stop em birth in him.

Speaker 13 (02:29:09):
Okay, well I'm a nicer one out of the two
of us.

Speaker 11 (02:29:12):
That's not saying good.

Speaker 8 (02:29:15):
Well, reach get to the damn topic. Do men and
women fall for potential of promise? God, damn it, damn.

Speaker 14 (02:29:24):
Exact say, welcome to the gender world?

Speaker 3 (02:29:33):
Was right there.

Speaker 4 (02:29:36):
I definitely.

Speaker 15 (02:29:40):
Just anyway do women and men fall for potential or
promise or promise? So anybody wants speak to.

Speaker 48 (02:29:50):
That, that's kind of like the same in the same like, No,
you gotta have something, You have some type of potential
her to believe your promise, right, No, actually have to
y'all can't.

Speaker 42 (02:30:09):
I don't understand what the difference is.

Speaker 22 (02:30:11):
No, it don't work like the game is so not told,
but it don't work like that. That's why y'all be
going in the wrong direction.

Speaker 7 (02:30:21):
You wouldn't even have got no direction.

Speaker 4 (02:30:23):
Oh no, I'm probably.

Speaker 13 (02:30:29):
That'd be the craziest part.

Speaker 22 (02:30:30):
I'll be thinking, I'll be going through these little weird
life struggles that y'all be complaining for five years online about.

Speaker 13 (02:30:37):
I'm here to laugh at y'all, niggas. Please click in.

Speaker 7 (02:30:43):
Hell you are so easily triggered.

Speaker 14 (02:30:47):
Anybody want to answer question, I'll take.

Speaker 11 (02:30:51):
A stab at what the differential is. So, if you're
talking about promise.

Speaker 24 (02:30:56):
And potential, potential stage potential, once it moves from potential,
it's no longer potential like energy, So we have potential
energy and kinetic energy. Potential energy is energy to store.
The second it moves, it's not potential anymore. Now it
becomes kinetic energy. But a promise still stays a promise.
It's just being kept.

Speaker 11 (02:31:16):
So they're not the same.

Speaker 24 (02:31:17):
So you can keep your promise, but it was still
a promise. So that's the differential. Sorry to get scientific
on y'all, but y'all.

Speaker 13 (02:31:25):
Profits read ninth grade science class.

Speaker 7 (02:31:27):
Don't read very much.

Speaker 14 (02:31:29):
Okay, No, that was necessary.

Speaker 1 (02:31:31):
Okay, thank you.

Speaker 4 (02:31:32):
Okay.

Speaker 8 (02:31:36):
Oh so now y'all get it now, Doctor B gotta
break it down in scientific terms.

Speaker 3 (02:31:40):
I get it now.

Speaker 7 (02:31:42):
So what's going on? Which I gotta say about it?

Speaker 3 (02:31:44):
I get it.

Speaker 4 (02:31:45):
That's it, Okay, So I will.

Speaker 42 (02:31:50):
I will say that men fall for promise, whereas women
more so will off for potential, like oh, it's the possibility.
But with men like nah, she gotta already be not
she's growing into And then women are like, oh, maybe
it's gonna work with them what he says, and keep
following for the last like okay, well maybe he can.

(02:32:12):
I'll tolerate a whole bunch.

Speaker 14 (02:32:14):
Womanst tolerate a whole whole bunch.

Speaker 12 (02:32:15):
Men not so much, and a five A five?

Speaker 14 (02:32:20):
I have literally never heard that.

Speaker 42 (02:32:21):
Maybe that's like, is that like men who have lower
socioeconomic statuses have to tolerate the fives?

Speaker 14 (02:32:29):
Is that what we're saying? Because I don't know.

Speaker 42 (02:32:31):
Any men who are like, yeah, I'm I got five
and I'm cool with that. I thought you ill went
the baddies like so and so forth, And can't that
be a much sometimes subjective versus like universal thought like
some maybe you Beyonce at a ten that maybe you
heard the two, some of you Kelly at the ten
other maybe he hears the two.

Speaker 35 (02:32:51):
Does that make sa No, that's not what we're saying.
You you completely I'll start over again. I'll start yah,
I'll start over again.

Speaker 3 (02:33:00):
So here's the thing.

Speaker 29 (02:33:01):
The question.

Speaker 35 (02:33:02):
The previous question was who has the most unrealistic expectations?
Black men or black women. The general consensus, although there
was some notable exceptions, was that it was black women.

Speaker 29 (02:33:18):
Doctor b.

Speaker 35 (02:33:20):
Because there were a number of notable exceptions that said
that black men are just as unrealistic in their expectations.

Speaker 29 (02:33:27):
He did a kind of stress test on that. So
he's asked everyone, okay.

Speaker 35 (02:33:33):
Exactly what are black men so unrealistic about overall? And
nobody really seriously answered the question, which proves his point.
My point is that given the state of Black women
right now sixty clinically obese, seventy having children out of
wedloine damn holding the yes holding the highest school day

(02:34:00):
in the country by group hovers around forty grand fifty
six percent of Black women drop out of college, okay,
and so on, that for most ranking file brothers, again
we're not talking about the high value extra line. Those
would be the guys twenty percent and up. You know

(02:34:22):
that core before the rank and file brother in terms
of facial looks. But if she's reasonably attractive, has demonstrates
pro social behavior meaning that she ranks high, and agreeableness low,
and neuroticism actually like sex and making sandwiches.

Speaker 3 (02:34:47):
Most brothers are going.

Speaker 35 (02:34:51):
It's not a statement about black men's low self esteem
or where they rank on the pecking order. It's more
statement about the state of Black women overall in terms
of make quality, which is rather low. That's what we're saying.
That's what I'm saying, Matt, I believe definite right.

Speaker 24 (02:35:12):
I would love it because I'm about to before leave
the topic. I think it's men for both. I think
men fall for potential more and men fall for promise more.
Like you can still believe because men still believe the
lie like of marriage. Men are still out here trusting
women after having all the evidence, the data that they

(02:35:34):
leave relationships, that they don't stay in marriages, that they cheat,
just as much like, men are still out here believe
in the fairy tale that they could get a good
woman as if many of them still exists, and that
kind of ties to the potential.

Speaker 11 (02:35:47):
They believe, Hey, I'm a man.

Speaker 24 (02:35:49):
If I do all the things that a man quote
unquote is supposed to do, then she'll do all the
things that a woman's supposed to. Which is the lie
again that women sell you. So yes when it comes
because this is just about gullibility. Men are far more
gullible in relationships when it comes to this than women is.
Back in the day, women used to date for potential.
They don't anymore. They're too broke.

Speaker 11 (02:36:11):
They can't. They're hungry like when.

Speaker 24 (02:36:13):
Men when Michael Beasley said, I went to being hungry
and then tomorrow came that's a lot of their lives.
Tomorrow's came for a lot of their lives, and they
still hungry, so they can't afford to date on potential.
That's why they say, I want to need a provider.
That's why you have this new narrative of shaming niggas
who don't have money. That didn't used to be when
we were growing up. You didn't hear that in the
nineties and the early two thousands when women had a

(02:36:33):
little bit maybe more and the economy was better. As
the economy kind of tanked and plummeted and women kind
of started losing their jobs, a lot of access to resources,
and they had to start paying for and fund their
lives themselves.

Speaker 11 (02:36:44):
This is when you see the responses you.

Speaker 24 (02:36:46):
Niggas need to make more, Niggas need to do more,
need to be a provider, protector, and.

Speaker 11 (02:36:50):
Niggas are still following for that.

Speaker 24 (02:36:51):
Niggas like, okay, okay, let me go out here and
earn more for you, and all I get is you
and that's good enough for me, Like other niggas have
had you for free, but I'll pay.

Speaker 21 (02:37:02):
So.

Speaker 24 (02:37:02):
Niggas are far more gullible when it comes to women
and this relationships ship than men. Like men fall for
potential and promise way more women can't afford to.

Speaker 14 (02:37:14):
I don't think men are dumbable right because she's pretty or.

Speaker 24 (02:37:22):
You never wrong, Like, I don't know why you would
think when you didn't know the difference between potential and promise.

Speaker 1 (02:37:30):
This young man show problem.

Speaker 18 (02:37:31):
Now that's a scar of thing.

Speaker 44 (02:37:33):
But literally literally, women, we don't care about the many.

Speaker 11 (02:37:38):
Male you were asking questions because people use the worst.

Speaker 24 (02:37:45):
To make statements. Means you have to have a level
of understanding when you ask questions.

Speaker 14 (02:37:51):
Understand Yes, women, we don't care about a man's weight. Wait,
what you got money?

Speaker 11 (02:37:57):
Sweet duties?

Speaker 42 (02:38:00):
That's not in our first three believe most women stability
and security financial men don't. It's her finger cloth lord
by the ability. I mean what his money looking like
for me? I don't care how cutey is?

Speaker 1 (02:38:19):
What a while to do?

Speaker 6 (02:38:20):
Like?

Speaker 14 (02:38:20):
I think we just we want different things men to
say a fives.

Speaker 42 (02:38:25):
No, men are visual creatures, like quite literally, like you're
not going to know you want to show her off,
you want her to be amazing, Like what so y'all
don't care what should like.

Speaker 22 (02:38:39):
If this man is overweight, has high blood pressure. Taking
four or five pills a day, that ain't gonna be
of no concern. So the man gonna croak on your ass,
you don't have to bury him. Yes, we do care
about what we do care about your weight.

Speaker 14 (02:38:57):
And I didn't mean like the hell, that's a different category.

Speaker 24 (02:39:03):
So I I just want to know, Brazy stop when
y'all disagree with me. Y'all sound ridiculous, Go ahead, Katie.

Speaker 40 (02:39:11):
Okay, So no, I totally agree with doctor b I
do agree in this topic. But Steph, to respond to you,
you said that you don't believe most men are with five,
So you are we saying that men are walking around
with tens and fifteen to twenties? Like when it comes
to looks, men are so like you'll see a six

(02:39:35):
hundred pound man. I mean, a six hundred pound woman
with a man, is she a ten just because she
has a man. You'll see a woman with acne or
ten baby daddies or whatever with a man. So it's
not the matter of her having a man that makes
her eight nine ten. I think men are a lot

(02:39:56):
more reasonable when it comes to looks and women.

Speaker 14 (02:40:00):
Well, actually.

Speaker 12 (02:40:03):
No, they are.

Speaker 16 (02:40:04):
They are.

Speaker 13 (02:40:05):
They are literally.

Speaker 40 (02:40:08):
Average an average looking woman and he'll still wife her.

Speaker 5 (02:40:13):
So but.

Speaker 42 (02:40:16):
Women, no, he may be average to you, she would
be a two to you, but then maybe he is
super to her.

Speaker 13 (02:40:23):
Like you know that beauty is objection. It's not always objective.
You know, there is an objective beauty.

Speaker 22 (02:40:31):
It's not always about the beauty is the in the
eye of the beholder. Someday they are able, They're able
to reason out the fact that you have other qualities,
and then maybe you.

Speaker 13 (02:40:43):
Get a pointer or two. You know, but we all
know what is easy on the eyes and what just isn't.

Speaker 6 (02:40:51):
Oh yeah, I said it was.

Speaker 42 (02:40:54):
Typically it wasn't a woman's top three it's gonna be
can he hold it down financially? Why? Because that's what
we as women go Nah. Unhealthy, Nah, definitely not that.

Speaker 14 (02:41:03):
No, but I was staying with the body types.

Speaker 42 (02:41:06):
Even on TV, we'll see one hundreds of thousand shows
where the man is all the way and a woman
is not.

Speaker 14 (02:41:11):
No six hundred pound life.

Speaker 8 (02:41:13):
Well, I mean, I hear y'all, yo, yo, yo yo,
I hear y'all, I hear y'all whatever, But I'm about
to shut this down and go to IRL. Y'all already
know IRL comes in here all the time, Doctor B,
the barrio, the people I really really fuck with right
that support Stack and know the impact I make. So
go over there, rock with IRL. If the barrio opens,

(02:41:35):
go rock with Doctor B. And then I'll be right
back in with some more episodes, so that way you
guys can have some more heated debates and some conversations
for the podcast. I think we're on like forty or
fifty episodes just of the Gender Wars audio series, and
it's already monetized on all platforms, and I've been seeing
the money come in.

Speaker 7 (02:41:52):
So let's turn it up a little bit more. Let's
go crazy.

Speaker 8 (02:41:55):
I'll be back in maybe a little later, maybe if
IRL closes, or maybe if I got some time later,
I'll launch another room with ya in the four hundred side.
I appreciate y'all please head over to IRL. I'm about
to shut this down, shutting this down in like two minutes,
so if y'all can move over there, I would appreciate it.
So hit the link at the top, go over there,

(02:42:16):
Go came support this conversation. They always over here, support
and Stack, helping me control the wars.

Speaker 7 (02:42:21):
The war is on the warfloor.

Speaker 8 (02:42:23):
So I'm gonna go support the ladies, and then anybody
that's in the gou, I will bring you up from
off the stage.

Speaker 7 (02:42:29):
So appreciate y'all. You know what I mean. Gender Wars
is fire. We done did our thing today. The war
floor is over.

Speaker 3 (02:42:37):
We ward it out.

Speaker 8 (02:42:38):
Anybody looking for passive income, make sure you tap in
with me. I'll love to network too. Having these conversations
is cool. But if you're not networking offline and I
don't know what you're doing, you're doing yourself with disservice.

Speaker 7 (02:42:48):
So tap in with me if you need any help.

Speaker 8 (02:42:50):
If you're trying to become a guest on the podcast show,
make sure you send me a back channel as well,
and we'll schedule your day out and I'll send you
my calendar so that way you can schedule your day
and I'll call you personally so you can be on
the show.

Speaker 7 (02:43:03):
What else, what else?

Speaker 5 (02:43:03):
What else?

Speaker 7 (02:43:04):
What else?

Speaker 8 (02:43:04):
The Telegram it's over one hundred people, so tap in
with that. If you're not added to the telegram, get
up in there a sap. If you're not a part
of the IRL Telegram, get up in there as asap.
And if you're not part of the four hundred telegram.
Get up in there, but I'm moving over to this room.
I'm shutting it down. Everybody that's at the bottom, please
move over to IRL. I'm booming this in ten seconds

(02:43:25):
one two three, move over, four, five, six, seven, eight
nine ten. I'm booming this shit.

Speaker 7 (02:43:37):
Go to IRL. Let's go.

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