Gender Warz World Wide Episode 25- "Should People Be Honest If They Are Looking For Fun?"

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Speaker 1 (00:02):
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y'all thought, but it's time you chend the water floor open.
We flood this up. You flood this out real quick
to the game. You have let me flood this open.

Speaker 2 (00:17):
Now let's go up, Belly, You stopping?

Speaker 3 (00:24):
Who stopping?

Speaker 4 (00:25):
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Speaker 5 (00:31):
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Speaker 6 (00:32):
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Speaker 7 (00:38):
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Speaker 8 (00:39):
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Speaker 9 (00:41):
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Speaker 5 (00:42):
Baby?

Speaker 4 (00:43):
I sweet baby.

Speaker 5 (00:48):
Baby? Oh, we about to go up? What we doing?

Speaker 9 (00:51):
Fun?

Speaker 5 (00:51):
What we doing?

Speaker 9 (00:52):
Mac?

Speaker 10 (00:52):
What the fun?

Speaker 5 (00:54):
Come on me ready?

Speaker 11 (00:59):
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speed to bullet belly telling me vonays.

Speaker 4 (01:07):
Ginger started here.

Speaker 12 (01:11):
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Speaker 13 (01:14):
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Speaker 6 (01:16):
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Speaker 14 (01:20):
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Speaker 4 (01:22):
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Speaker 15 (01:24):
Chilled all the color.

Speaker 9 (01:26):
I'll catch it real life.

Speaker 16 (01:28):
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you need, baby, work and everything you sweet bay.

Speaker 13 (01:37):
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Speaker 9 (01:43):
Kid here, come on me.

Speaker 5 (01:45):
Hey, we about to fuck it up. Dogs. Hey listen.

Speaker 1 (01:49):
First of all, shout out to the home fucking team, Yo.
Shout out to the home team who woo the Duke Vaughn, Rito, Kyler,
appreciate you for supporting right Yo. This one mm hmm,
we're gonna go up on this one. Should you be
honest on the first day? This is gonna be an
interesting one. I feel like a lot of people you

(02:11):
know you should be, but I don't think a lot
of people will be on this one. Pedro, thanks for
coming through. Mango, pull up on me. You already know
four hundred side.

Speaker 9 (02:24):
Shit.

Speaker 1 (02:25):
Should you be honest on the first day? Pedro, Mango, Kyler, George.
Should y'all keep it a hundred and just tell them
the truth?

Speaker 5 (02:32):
Let's get into this.

Speaker 17 (02:33):
Conversation, bro, Why would you be honest with somebody you
barely even know. I don't go on dates personally, because
I think it's a waste of fucking time. You're only
meeting representatives. I'd rather just catch you out in your
nature and your natural habitat and just observe you. But yeah,
why the fuck would I come on the first date
and tell you the deep darkest speakers of my life
and be honest with you for what. No, I'm gonna

(02:53):
lie to you, and I'm gonna try to fuck yeah the.

Speaker 5 (02:57):
Wow WECo.

Speaker 9 (03:00):
I don't think.

Speaker 18 (03:00):
I don't think.

Speaker 19 (03:01):
I don't think first days choosually get that type or inquisitive.

Speaker 20 (03:04):
I think what people do is if you meaning by
omitting information, I think omitting information would make people have
a different a different perspective on you on the day,
meaning you haven't been fully transparent either about your current situation,
about something in your life about so I think if

(03:24):
you're looking at that as a reference point as being
like dishonest, because I don't think. I just think people
go through the basis of you know, personal questions. You
know this, where your interests are, you know, what are
your hobbies, what you do for a living.

Speaker 5 (03:38):
Blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah.

Speaker 19 (03:39):
And I think that's the way that that that goes down.

Speaker 20 (03:41):
Then I think there are certain question things that people
don't are not transparent for about it because they haven't.
I think those conversations really happen way down the line,
way down the line nobody is pretty much putting their
self in jeopardy of messing themselves up by opening it
up too many doors to themselves for that scrutiny in

(04:02):
the beginning, so.

Speaker 1 (04:07):
Rico, you telling me they're withholding information. You guys are
just that kind of withholding it on the on the
first date. Is that what's going on?

Speaker 20 (04:15):
If I'm on a first date with you and I'm
telling you, like hey, and we're just talking, I'm like,
and I come out and just say, yeah, you know
my kids mom.

Speaker 19 (04:22):
I am kind of like.

Speaker 20 (04:22):
Off and on with her, but recently we had a
bought bad fallout in either side, you know not.

Speaker 5 (04:31):
I think he's off my bad.

Speaker 4 (04:33):
He probably something I just put my eggs last night too.

Speaker 12 (04:37):
But freco oh wow, Freako, should you be honest and
tell the woman if she acts?

Speaker 9 (04:46):
Are are you dating anyone else currently?

Speaker 5 (04:49):
Did you stay?

Speaker 9 (04:50):
Yeah? Yeah, I am. Did you say that tell them
that information?

Speaker 21 (04:55):
No?

Speaker 9 (04:55):
No?

Speaker 20 (04:57):
Ideally I would say yes, but but realistically I don't
think it's gonna happen.

Speaker 19 (05:01):
I don't think that.

Speaker 20 (05:02):
I don't think men gonna do it, but I but
ideally yes, like you should. But like I said, if
I'll be honest, I know y'all like to do a
lot of club housing.

Speaker 19 (05:10):
That's what y'all do. That's what he's No. I don't
get it, bro, I get it. Not you not not
get not I get it.

Speaker 5 (05:16):
I get it.

Speaker 19 (05:16):
But once again, I'm I deal with reality. So I
don't think that you know.

Speaker 9 (05:21):
I don't.

Speaker 19 (05:22):
Let me just say this way, I'm gonna I'm gonna get.

Speaker 5 (05:24):
Off of here.

Speaker 20 (05:24):
I think that most people, for you, even to be
under the assumption that it ain't nobody else other than you,
I think it's naive on your part. I don't think
people are cold turkey single. I think that they may
be that. But but but it's some type of like
like intermingling going on. So if you just assume that,
if your assumption is like for a man that he

(05:45):
just did turkey cold like, I think that speaks to
like you being naive as a woman.

Speaker 19 (05:50):
I'm not saying he's in a four fledged relationship.

Speaker 20 (05:52):
I'm not saying that he's but there is there's someone
somewhere in what capacity.

Speaker 19 (05:59):
I don't no, but that that that you got to
figure out on your own.

Speaker 14 (06:05):
So I wanted to speak. I don't know if anybody
else was in the que after me. So for me,
I'm being honest on the first thing because I want
you to have the freedom to do what you want
to do. One of my favorite quotes that I read

(06:26):
in the book was when you lie, you steal somebody's right.

Speaker 22 (06:29):
To the truth.

Speaker 13 (06:30):
And I start off this relationship with lying.

Speaker 14 (06:33):
You are instantly deceived and you're making informed decisions based
off of those lies that I've told you. Male or female.
If a guy says, oh, are you dating other people, yes,
I am, I'm gonna be honest with you because if
you say hey, right then and there, I want I
want the woman I'm dating to focus solely on me

(06:54):
because I'm not dating other women.

Speaker 13 (06:55):
I have no choice for respect that.

Speaker 14 (06:57):
A lot of y'all have difficulties respecting boundaries because you're manipulative.
You like the ball to be in your court, so
you lead with lies and deception. And people who lie
about petty shit are the people you really got to
work about. You don't lie on the first adid about
having a college degree. You don't lied about how much

(07:17):
money you made. You don'et lied about having kids or not.
You done lied about so much stuff that when they
start to get to know you, it will really take them.
It's like six months to pass, a year done pass,
and now they really seeing the real youth because that
mass son came off. Stop wasting people's time and be
who you are. You do not have to tell somebody
how much money you make and things that are extremely private,

(07:39):
but basic stuff like if you have children or not,
or your intentions with dating should be explicitly clear.

Speaker 13 (07:46):
Stop bullshitting people.

Speaker 19 (07:50):
It's a delusional perspective for you to take. It sounds
good theoretically.

Speaker 20 (07:53):
It sounds good theoretically that if people just was completely
transfer That's why I say you kind of have to use.
What I'm trying to get you to see is whatever
information you need to know, you have to word it
in a way for you to get It's like it's
almost like an it's almost like a job interview waiting
for that person to be fully transparent up front.

Speaker 9 (08:14):
You just like.

Speaker 22 (08:16):
To job.

Speaker 20 (08:18):
Just like when you understand the lawyer has to use
what he needs to do to get you to say
what you need to say, So you have to if
you want to know about that, you're gonna have to
ask and then if he outright lies to you, then
you can say that what I'm saying about a mini,
I'm not. Most men in particular are not going to
be forthcoming and just spill their gust to you.

Speaker 19 (08:38):
They are not.

Speaker 5 (08:39):
If you need that answer and you need that intel, you.

Speaker 19 (08:42):
Have to say, hey, you got children, what's going on
with your kids?

Speaker 9 (08:45):
Mom? And how long?

Speaker 19 (08:46):
Everything?

Speaker 20 (08:47):
You need to know you have to pinpoint it and
look and then know his answer because you could know,
then you can say, well, you were dishonest. But if
you're just basing this honesty, or you didn't tell me,
like you didn't tell me this wasn't your car, you
didn't tell tell me that this what like, you didn't
tell me that you like like, it's not going to work.
And mostly because the grand idea of the date is

(09:08):
they are just there to kind of feel you out.
They're not there really to intricate details and balance on
a life.

Speaker 19 (09:15):
It's not gonna happen.

Speaker 17 (09:16):
And let's stop being nice here. Hold on, let's stop
being nice here right quick. Why the fuck are we
acting like we don't live in our own movie. Everybody
lives in their own movie. We get the clubhouse and
we do this conjecture thing, and I fucking hate it.
We get to see in the politically correct things because
now there are other people that frequent rooms with us
that Hair's talking and they might think we're assholes.

Speaker 15 (09:34):
But well, Peter, I don't give a fuck.

Speaker 9 (09:36):
No.

Speaker 15 (09:37):
We go on dates and we get what we want.

Speaker 17 (09:39):
Nobody is telling the other person anything because I'm the
prized in your head.

Speaker 15 (09:43):
Men and women are like right, so you're thinking, hey,
this is my life.

Speaker 17 (09:46):
I'm gonna talk to Sarah Jane and fucking Brittany and
I'm gonna tell Breezy that I'm not dating anybody. And
she asks me again, I'm gonna assure her because I
want to fuck her or I want to be with her,
or I want to keep going with her. Well, I
think she's cute, and I think we take pictures. I
think that she'll be a fucking great donor for a kid.

(10:08):
I don't know whatever your fucking reason for it would be.
But we sit here and we say these things time
and time again, because we want things our way. We
are selfish people. We lie all the time, but then
we get the clubhouse and pretend that we're not lying
and being selfish.

Speaker 15 (10:24):
The person that we are is inherently a selfish person.

Speaker 17 (10:27):
We want what we want. We don't really care what
the other person wants. I think it's so crazy that
y'all say I'm still in time for the other person.

Speaker 15 (10:34):
I don't care. I do not care. I want these
things my way.

Speaker 17 (10:37):
I want to fuck Breezy, I want to fuck Brittany,
and I want to fuck Sarah until I decide to
keep one of them as the one and only.

Speaker 15 (10:45):
Then I'll do that.

Speaker 17 (10:46):
But until then, you can't make someone feel bad or
even have the awareness to, oh well, you can't mislead
people and bring Yes, we do it all the fucking time.

Speaker 13 (10:56):
So I'm gonna say it's a noe for me.

Speaker 14 (10:58):
Dog On that feel like there's extremities to everything, and
I think that we like to try to make basic things.
We like to conflate issues on clubhouse, And that's something
I've noticed whenever people talk about things, they want to
talk about the extremities, lying about petty things in a
job interview or in a date. When I say petty,

(11:19):
I mean like, oh like, as a female, there are
certain things that we do for safety reasons. No, I'm
not telling you where I live on the first date.

Speaker 13 (11:28):
That's not safe.

Speaker 14 (11:29):
That's common fucking sense. If that's not the same things
lying about me having children or not. You get what
I'm saying. I feel like a lot of times people
try to conflate issues to make themselves feel better about
their bad decision making like, oh, well, she lied to
me about where she lived, or I picked her up
from some random spot at Airbnb, but she told me

(11:49):
that's where she lived. Niggas is out here kidnapping females.
That's not the same thing.

Speaker 13 (11:54):
Is you lying about how many kids you have? What
the fuck?

Speaker 15 (11:58):
A lie is a lie? Again?

Speaker 17 (12:00):
He's making this clubhouse conjecture to make her feel good
about her lie. If you lie to me about not
having kids, what else would you lie to me about?
You might lie to me about not having a dick.
I don't care. A lie is a fucking lie. But
we sit here and we pretend they're No only lied
about this, No, only lied about that.

Speaker 21 (12:15):
No.

Speaker 17 (12:15):
We all participate in lying. We fuck each other over
to get what we want. Why are we sitting here
pretending that this isn't a thing that we do as humans.
Now I'm going to ask you this. Makai, makay, you
would be makai, you would be a fool to think
that if me and you are on the date, see
I wouldn't tell you these things.

Speaker 15 (12:34):
You would just go for it, right, So you would
be a fool to believe on a first date.

Speaker 17 (12:38):
Why would you even ask me a question if I'm
talking to somebody that's dumb. I'm actively dating you. Why
wouldn't I be actively dating or seeking out anybody else?
That makes no sense. That's why I don't ask those
questions on dates. I don't care if she's talking to whoever,
it doesn't matter. I'm going to try to get what
I can get out of the situation. People ask for
these lies, then when the lie lie is told, they

(13:00):
want to get mad at the person that was looking
out for their best interest.

Speaker 15 (13:02):
I don't know you on the first date. I don't
know you.

Speaker 17 (13:05):
I'm going to try to get what I want. But
none of y'all are going to be truthful enough to
say this thing.

Speaker 15 (13:09):
That's my patreos in the room.

Speaker 14 (13:12):
I think we're speaking on different It's certain things I
feel like being honest about on the first date. You
should be honest about certain things, like I'm not asking
dating other women on the first date.

Speaker 4 (13:25):
I asked if you have you might yeah, you might
hte yeah.

Speaker 14 (13:30):
Oh. Basically, what I was saying is there's levels to it.
If you I'm not asking the man, are you dating
other women on the first date?

Speaker 13 (13:39):
That's retarded. I'm talking about if do you have children?

Speaker 9 (13:42):
I don't.

Speaker 14 (13:42):
That's a basic question that you should not lie about
because if you guys, that speaks about your Oh my.

Speaker 15 (13:51):
God, what's going to happen if I do live?

Speaker 5 (13:55):
About matter? If you're not going me, don't matter.

Speaker 15 (14:01):
Exactly, Philly, I'm that nigga.

Speaker 17 (14:05):
I never introduced none of these birds to my kids, right,
so I always tell them I ain't got no kids.

Speaker 13 (14:11):
Don't lie to me about having kids.

Speaker 15 (14:13):
But it's gonna make it.

Speaker 5 (14:14):
It's gonna okay.

Speaker 15 (14:15):
So would you date a gotta have three kids?

Speaker 13 (14:19):
What the that gotta do?

Speaker 19 (14:22):
I got?

Speaker 15 (14:22):
So I'm going to show you the selfishness and me.

Speaker 17 (14:24):
Maybe other people, maybe other people hold on, Maybe other
people could tell their truth, But I'm just gonna tell
you my truth.

Speaker 15 (14:30):
Would you day a got to.

Speaker 13 (14:31):
Have three kids depending on his situation?

Speaker 15 (14:34):
Would day have got to have five.

Speaker 13 (14:35):
Kids depending on his situation?

Speaker 15 (14:37):
Which your day of gout that had ten kids? What's
your number?

Speaker 13 (14:40):
Depending on his situation.

Speaker 17 (14:42):
If I had so, if I had twenty kids, would
you date me? No, that's okay, so cool, So twenty
is the number.

Speaker 9 (14:47):
Cool.

Speaker 17 (14:48):
So now I don't have twenty kids. I don't have
two from the same woman. But let's say I have
twenty kids. Knowing that you would say no to me,
I'm gonna lie and say I don't have any kids
because I'm trying to crash.

Speaker 14 (14:57):
Because you ain't worth for damn and hammers.

Speaker 15 (14:59):
But it doesn't matter.

Speaker 17 (15:00):
Hold on, But it doesn't matter because after this date
and we keep going on continuous days, I'm going to
get what I want right.

Speaker 14 (15:06):
You cannot get your way lying, but you could have
got your way telling the truth. And that's the fucking problem.

Speaker 13 (15:12):
Give me the choice.

Speaker 15 (15:14):
But I'm gonna lie to you to.

Speaker 20 (15:18):
Point whether he has kids or not unless you assert,
unless you get that information. What I'm trying to get
you to see is that it's not going to be
something he's just gonna blurt out like people don't see
lying unless you ask. If you say, hey, Rico, do
you got kids? I say, yeah, I do. But if
you look for me, just to interject that into our conversation,
my mind is not there. I'm not thinking. I'm not

(15:39):
bringing up my kids on it. By the way, I
got to know it doesn't work like that. We're talking about,
Hey you, my focus is on you and what we're
talking about. If you ask me a question and then
I do what he do and say no, knowing that
that is now officially I'm lying. But I'm not just
giving you information like for no reason at all. Like
if you say, hey, y'all, I'm giving you a basics

(15:59):
chription what I do. I'm not going into detail unless
you say, hey, well, tell me a little bit more
about like what do you actually do? I get what
you do, but like explain it. I'm moving on past that.
Whatever we on, you're going to get a standard like
surface level conversation around what we're talking about.

Speaker 19 (16:16):
No one is going into the depths of their life that.

Speaker 9 (16:21):
It is.

Speaker 20 (16:24):
Hold on, wait a minute, Wait a minute. What I'm
telling you is a lot of information that people know
if they omit it. Yes, it's because I'm because I'm
leaving it out because you would make a different decision,
I know if you had the information, But because you're
not actively asking for the information, I'm just going around

(16:45):
and saying hey, well it never came up, or I'm
not voluntarily just giving you that. Right, even if I'm
on a stand, I don't have to like, don't mean
I'm lying. I don't have to like incriminate myself by
like in court. I can just say, hey, I don't know,
like even though I may I do know, I have
to share it with you unless you ask me the
question and then I give a false answer. So what

(17:07):
I'm trying to get you to see is I don't
think people downright outright to tell this honest truth. I
just think that the information that they know that make
them look good, they put that on the forefront, and
the information that probably looked them they look bad, they
leave that out of the conversation.

Speaker 9 (17:24):
So what.

Speaker 4 (17:27):
Is when you lie by a mission?

Speaker 3 (17:28):
And because it was like I would be like, no, Dad,
I didn't lie, he said.

Speaker 4 (17:32):
You lied by a mission.

Speaker 3 (17:33):
And you know what that's called being deceptive. You were deceptive.
So even if you want to not classify it as
being a lie, you are being deceptive to that in
which if you you knew in your deception, if they
had information, they could have possibly made a different decision.

Speaker 4 (17:54):
So that's what deception is and that's wrong.

Speaker 15 (17:56):
But even lying with the waste.

Speaker 17 (17:59):
The waste are on lie with the makeup, Like we
tell lies all the time and we get on club
pos and pre team.

Speaker 5 (18:06):
We're not lying.

Speaker 15 (18:07):
The first date is not meant for the truth. If
you're looking for the truth, go to church.

Speaker 5 (18:11):
Yeah, actually.

Speaker 9 (18:15):
Go to church.

Speaker 18 (18:19):
WHATU on?

Speaker 5 (18:19):
Man? What we doing?

Speaker 18 (18:21):
I just want to know one thing.

Speaker 22 (18:23):
You niggas pull up to a date with a woman
that smell good if you can hear me, of course.

Speaker 23 (18:28):
To you, I'm just saying, Lawrence, you pull up to
a man, pull up to a date with a woman
that smell good and got a fat ass, and the
first thing you think about is telling the truth?

Speaker 15 (18:36):
Is crazy.

Speaker 18 (18:37):
I think you should just go to.

Speaker 15 (18:39):
The church first.

Speaker 23 (18:40):
I think you should go to the confession first before
you go in the date, because telling telling her that
your goal is to take the GPS to the fastest
route between her legs on the first date has to
be insane, like set no nigga out, like yeah, you're
gonna meet my representative for a little while. And depending
on your end come your attitude. How many kids and

(19:02):
baby daddy you got, who you live with is how
I look at you proceed further. But the last thing
on my mind is transparency on the front.

Speaker 6 (19:09):
I want to fuck, right man, I ain't really saying
I want to fuck.

Speaker 15 (19:13):
I just want to like fuck, yeah yeah, yeah.

Speaker 6 (19:17):
Yeah.

Speaker 5 (19:18):
So so let me let me now because like.

Speaker 23 (19:21):
Because here's the thing, right, everybody getting mad at me, right,
but these women got to stop.

Speaker 18 (19:27):
Like every nigga they meet is looking at them to
marry them.

Speaker 23 (19:30):
That's cap Like most niggas graduate to actually liking y'all,
But the first initial goal is to just kill that
once underground puddle. That's the initial goal. Like this whole thing, like, oh,
me and my man, we had butterflies. We never separated
after the front man, stop it, man, he was fucking

(19:51):
fond of a business and for somehow he cut two
three on them off, kept two of y'all and he
cups you.

Speaker 5 (19:57):
You know, that's how the shit happened. You're the one
that went for it.

Speaker 18 (20:00):
Yeah, you one love island. That's all it was, bro.

Speaker 5 (20:03):
And then like when people start.

Speaker 23 (20:05):
Saying this, this will be honest on the first date,
they never honest with us on the first date. When
you've ever been on the first date and a woman say, look,
my life is way more chaotic than I'm letting you on.
My baby dad won't leave me alone. He don't give
up no money for his kids. They don't tell you
that on the I don't look like this when I
take over all this shit off. They don't tell you

(20:25):
that shit on the first day. Oh shit, they do
not tell this shit on the first day. We gotta
figure that shit out the hard way.

Speaker 5 (20:34):
Yeah, I'm gona let.

Speaker 18 (20:35):
I'm gonna let.

Speaker 6 (20:36):
I'm gonna let Laurene talk.

Speaker 24 (20:37):
Man.

Speaker 22 (20:37):
So so look, there's honesty and this transparency. The difference
be to this don't lie by omission. The honesty part
is the stuff that I that you ask me, or
that you learn about me, and how I respond. Right,
do your children? And if I say no, that's a lie.

(20:59):
It's being this honest. If I say yes, it's being honest.
Now transparency or things that I share with you without
you asking. Not only do I have children, I have
seven of them and they all have seven different baby mothers. Right,
that's transparency. You may not ask me that question, but

(21:21):
or transparency is I don't I had to say for
three months just to do this date, So I don't
really make enough money to take care of me or you.
That's transparency, I think a lot of things. And then
the third piece is inappropriate disclosure. There are some things

(21:42):
you just shouldn't be talking about because they're inappropriate. What
makes them inappropriate is I haven't decided or we haven't
decided yet, and I think we go This is what
you were trying to say. We haven't determined yet whether
we want some level of life longevity, if there's repeatability,

(22:03):
and if we're not going to have longevity. There is
certain things that I shouldn't know about you and you
shouldn't know about me, not unless we're going to be
sleeping together and swapping juices for the long haul. So honesty,
what you ask me and what I tell you right, transparency,
what I share with you without you asking, And inappropriate

(22:26):
disclosure things that I tell you that don't have that
are not any of your business unless you plan on
being my woman and I plan on being your man.
If we follow that line of thinking, should we be
should we be honest on the first date?

Speaker 5 (22:44):
Fuck?

Speaker 22 (22:44):
Yes, you should be honest on the first date, depending
on the context of the date. If we've already determined
as grown folks, that we just want to have some sex,
And we've been talking on the phone and all the
conversation has been around just sex. The only thing I
really need to be honest about that if you're in

(23:05):
your right minds, is have you had a full STD panel?
And if you're in your right mind y'all have done
that shit together, right, Those are the things I need
to be real honest about. If I have ed, I
probably should be honest about that. Uh, you got somebody
that might pop up at your house if we go

(23:25):
to your house, you should probably be honest about that.
I got some chicken haiden in the bushes and might
hit you in the head with a brick if she
see you with me. It is certain things we should
just be honest about so versus if we're dating, because
we looking to be husband and wife, like we're looking
for longevity. Yeah, before you even get to the date,

(23:48):
there's some things that you should know about me and
that I should know about you when we're just talking
on the phone. I don't believe that we should be
out on a date sitting across the table from each other.
There's some exceptions to that rule. Before we've talked on
the phone, for at least a week or two. We
should be talking to each other or what's going on

(24:11):
to day with a crazy person. I just left the
room a moment ago yesterday, was in a room with
some young man named Cray. And when I said crash out, dad,
dude crashed out.

Speaker 9 (24:22):
Uh.

Speaker 5 (24:23):
Actually, I think it was this room. I was just
in another room with the same dude.

Speaker 22 (24:28):
Stack.

Speaker 5 (24:29):
Of course it was this room, Lauras, Yeah, it was.
It was in this room.

Speaker 22 (24:34):
This guy crashed out for a good thirty minutes that borrow.
I was just in a whole nother room with this
cat and he did the exact same thing. If I'm
a guy like that, you should know that shit, Like
if I just crashed out scramming and yelling and cursing
and crazy shit, shit that might get me and you

(24:54):
arrested if you were in proximity, or me and you
shot if you were in proximity. Yeah, you kind of
would want to assess that ship. When we're just talking
on the phone, you don't want to be in public
with me. So I just think there's just a level
of process, But certainly we should absolutely be honest.

Speaker 25 (25:14):
Hey y'all, Oh, can I speak on it?

Speaker 26 (25:17):
Or someone else with someone else in line.

Speaker 9 (25:19):
I don't know.

Speaker 26 (25:21):
Okay, So I have very extreme thoughts when it comes
to this, and that God was absolutely right, you know,
I don't.

Speaker 27 (25:32):
I don't disagree with nothing that he was saying. But
I will say that if you go.

Speaker 26 (25:38):
Into like a fake relationship with the woman just for
the purpose of smashing, like you just lie to her
and tell her anything that she wants to hear so
that you can get into her pants, that's borderline rape.
Like you're you're right on the edge of rape culture, because.

Speaker 6 (25:55):
That's get out of here.

Speaker 9 (25:59):
She would have never agreed.

Speaker 27 (26:01):
Can I land?

Speaker 9 (26:05):
Why not? Why I gave you a disclaimer?

Speaker 4 (26:11):
I said, it's a little extreme, but it's my view.

Speaker 27 (26:13):
Are we not allowed to share on this?

Speaker 9 (26:18):
Well, you should lock.

Speaker 26 (26:19):
Up these lion ass men who have to lie to
get pussy. That's ridiculous because she would have never ever
gave you a chance if you would if you would
have just been honest. Now, the reason why I have
an issue with that is because there's always a woman
who's down with your program. If you just say you
want to fuck, you have a wife, you have a girlfriend.

Speaker 27 (26:37):
There's women out there that.

Speaker 26 (26:38):
Would be like Okay, that's cloning me.

Speaker 27 (26:41):
Do you understand that?

Speaker 26 (26:42):
But then y'all want to go for the ones who
actually wants something serious, and then you know you gotta
lie and coherse her into getting into your bed just
because you want to fuck. That ship is right on
the cusp of rape culture, and I land I'm sticking.

Speaker 18 (26:56):
With that, Jayda, This is captain come from.

Speaker 5 (27:01):
How you doing beautiful?

Speaker 23 (27:03):
Your parents did a great job raising you.

Speaker 18 (27:06):
But I'm gonna tell you a secret that nobody probably
ever told you.

Speaker 23 (27:10):
Women want to be lied to you. They don't want
the truth. The minute you're telling the truth, you gonna
lose them.

Speaker 18 (27:16):
They gonna run from.

Speaker 9 (27:17):
You, right.

Speaker 23 (27:18):
They don't want that. They want a fairy tale. They
want real housewives of Atlanta. They want to be porscher.
They want to jump from.

Speaker 18 (27:25):
Rich nigga to rich nigga and tell the niggas what
to do with the money.

Speaker 6 (27:28):
Like that shit ain't reality.

Speaker 23 (27:30):
You understand what I'm saying. So when you start talking
about women, a lot of niggas every day. You ever
heard of paternity fraud? They lot of niggas every day
Like we're the they say they vows and divorce you
that's lyon. That's on the cusp of the worst shit
you could do is take the kids away from their
dad because he put his dick in somebody else. You

(27:52):
don't own the black man's penis. I don't know if
you women know that. Y'all do not own the black
man's penis. Like, because we sign a Marria certificate doesn't
mean you get to tell me what to do with
my penis. At the end of the day, God said
get married before you carry a lot of y'all ain't
listening to that.

Speaker 18 (28:09):
So why y'all be picking which sins is worse?

Speaker 9 (28:12):
Right?

Speaker 23 (28:12):
Is it a sin to let an unsavory man put
seemen in.

Speaker 15 (28:16):
You before he marry you?

Speaker 18 (28:17):
Or is it a motherfucking a sin for me to marry.

Speaker 15 (28:20):
You and fuck a bad bitch.

Speaker 23 (28:21):
On the side because you stressing me out at home
because I got a duty to make you happy? Which
one is worse? I think the first one is worse.
But do you see how life is? Do you see
how life is an opinion? Just the same way you
can look at a cheetah, a man can look at
you coming into the relationship with another man kid and
never been married, the same way in the same way

(28:42):
he accepts you, you gotta accept him because if you don't,
then that just make you a hypocrite.

Speaker 2 (28:48):
I just feel like, as adult, it's just very weird
to be trying to manipulate somebody into giving you six
like and then y'all sit up and talk about it's
so many holes in the world now, women be fucking
this and that and that and that. Okay, if that's
the case, why can't y'all just be honest and get

(29:11):
the pussy like it's niggas They literally invite bitches today
house the first day and they're cracking these because why
do you have to manipulate her to take on to
day just to get the coochie? And you knew this
all you won't need.

Speaker 5 (29:26):
Oh, let's wake that up. Let's talk about it.

Speaker 27 (29:33):
People don't know.

Speaker 4 (29:40):
That you were sexually coerced.

Speaker 27 (29:42):
That's legal, but.

Speaker 26 (29:43):
A lot of people don't know the law.

Speaker 3 (29:44):
So you know, if a guy, and that's why guys
have to be very careful in what they do, even
if a girl has one drink and everything like that,
because the way the laws are set up, if you
can prove that you were sexually coerced, that man going to.

Speaker 27 (29:58):
Jail, bro, they don't a lot of people don't know
the law.

Speaker 9 (30:01):
But that is a least nobody.

Speaker 23 (30:07):
So let me ask you a question, like one man,
one man ever kept you by telling you the truth?

Speaker 13 (30:16):
My nigga.

Speaker 18 (30:18):
Talking about so so how long?

Speaker 9 (30:21):
How long?

Speaker 18 (30:22):
How long you've been married with the truth, like with
the truth.

Speaker 6 (30:24):
Telling you never married?

Speaker 4 (30:25):
But we dating still?

Speaker 5 (30:27):
Oh you're daing?

Speaker 15 (30:28):
Okay?

Speaker 9 (30:28):
Cool?

Speaker 18 (30:28):
So like yeah, so the truth of the matter is
you still finding out the truth?

Speaker 24 (30:34):
No, not really, because he's been honest with me the
whole time, Like it ain't nothing that popped.

Speaker 4 (30:38):
Up and you did his laundry yet, yes, I done
his laundry.

Speaker 23 (30:43):
Y'all live together, live all right, Well that's where that's
when the truth comes off, Taylor, when you're start living together.

Speaker 4 (30:50):
Of up, my point still stands.

Speaker 24 (30:52):
There's so many niggas out here that's in biting these
girls over to the house, Taylor, and they going to
in these niggas going to the house the first time
they meet them because they know they just want to crack,
and they honest about it than these bitches letting them heat.

Speaker 4 (31:06):
But y'all is over here.

Speaker 28 (31:10):
Listen to me, Taylor, Listen when I get on the
fast break, like my best friend.

Speaker 24 (31:15):
Right, I'm in my opinion, that's just giving lame and
you can't really get pussy for real.

Speaker 9 (31:22):
Let me explain to you.

Speaker 23 (31:23):
Let me explain to you my point though, Kayla's right,
my best friend like went to the NBA straight out
of high school. Right, If he get on the fast
break and you getting this way, he's just gonna judge,
go up and dunk on your ass, right me, I
gotta slow down euro step use the other hand at score,
we bost gonna get two points, but I gotta score
a different way.

Speaker 18 (31:43):
The goal is the goal.

Speaker 23 (31:44):
Most niggas have fuck women with lies, if very few
niggas is fucking with the truth.

Speaker 18 (31:49):
So what you think is the more effective?

Speaker 23 (31:52):
The question you gotta ask yourself is why do women
like fucking LIFs?

Speaker 5 (31:57):
Because that's who.

Speaker 15 (31:57):
Getting on the pussy.

Speaker 18 (31:58):
Niggas, that's telling the truth.

Speaker 15 (32:00):
They barely got one bitch.

Speaker 6 (32:02):
Yeah, and Matt God, I agree. I do think sometimes
we have this delusion that women y'all in fact don't
like the truth. Okay, and I get it, kless, maybe
you do. Maybe a few women in this room do,
but a lot of y'all do not like the fucking truth.
Most of y'all claim right, Oh my god, he said

(32:22):
he just want to fuck. I'm going home. I've heard
that on these stages, y'all.

Speaker 5 (32:26):
Don't y'all.

Speaker 9 (32:27):
Don't y'all.

Speaker 6 (32:27):
Y'all claim y'all not fucking on the first day, So
why would he tell you? You know what I'm saying
that I agree with you. Just tell the truth. I agree,
Just get straight to the point. But the way we
hear women today, they don't want the truth. They want
you to make them feel a certain way so they
can so it could be their choice, right. Unfortunately, And
while we're on the topic, I want you to stop.

(32:49):
I also heard some women say they're not telling a
man about their kids on the first day. But I
thought you wanted honesty. Why the fuck you won't tell
them you got three kids? Yeah, because you know that.
Meg gonna get it from that table and leave y'all
ass with the bill. Okay, fellas, start stop lying about
you having that wife. You just legally separated, but you're
still married. Okay, y'all need to stop lying on these days.

(33:09):
Y'all really don't want the truth. But I mean, I guess,
for the sake of the room, even though I thought
this was your dow Wars, we could fake it like
y'all just want the truth today and y'all don't, so
I'm just go back and meeting and keep listening to y'all.

Speaker 9 (33:20):
Lie.

Speaker 29 (33:23):
I can give a perfect example. This woman gave me
her life story, bro, and she said that the dude
wouldn't get out of hall way at work until he
gave her her number.

Speaker 18 (33:36):
Mind you.

Speaker 29 (33:36):
Said she had no interest in her nigga and didn't
like the nigga, but because she didn't want to be
seen as a rat at her job and go to
HR to get him for sexual arrangment.

Speaker 19 (33:46):
She gave him it's her real number, mind you.

Speaker 29 (33:50):
The very next day, I guess, he comhearsed her into
getting into his call and comheers her up the stands
to his room, but to his house where he took
advantage of her.

Speaker 9 (34:02):
Mind you, she literally told me out of oh.

Speaker 29 (34:05):
Mouse, she didn't even like him, but because she didn't
want to be seen as a rack, she took all
these necessary steps with this man, and all of a sudden,
walking by to believe that this man took advantage of
home So when you're talking about somebody cohearsing or tricking
you out your draws, that's cap because you can't bring

(34:28):
that shit to no jury.

Speaker 9 (34:29):
Oh and mind you, a week after.

Speaker 29 (34:32):
That, the dude that she actually liked at her job
come ask.

Speaker 5 (34:36):
For her number.

Speaker 27 (34:37):
She gave it to him.

Speaker 29 (34:39):
Didn't you just get took in the batage of you
should be traumatized, bitch? So I mean that conhearsing and
tricking y'all out y'all pulls, and that's cap.

Speaker 5 (34:51):
Can I speak?

Speaker 26 (34:51):
Well, I disagree, George, it's a whole loss.

Speaker 3 (34:56):
So it happens, y'all can sit up and say in
that particular situation that that's not what it is. I'm
not the judge or the jewelry one second. I love book,
but this is the whole thing. They wouldn't have a
law if it didn't happen. So stop what all is crap?
Y'all always want to take the extremes.

Speaker 6 (35:13):
Come back, take the extreme that somebody doing what.

Speaker 3 (35:16):
Okay, never mind, I got my boss calling, yes, my love,
don't trust her, bro.

Speaker 6 (35:22):
Well, when I.

Speaker 26 (35:22):
Made that statement, I specifically spoke about men who lie
about being in an exclusive relationship with a woman like
you know, actually lying. I'm not talking about she just
met you just met her and then you got her
at the draws because you lie. I'm talking about men
who pursue a woman, a virtuous woman, who really pursue
them and say that you want the same things that
she wants only because you're trying to get into her pants,

(35:46):
and you know that the only way that you'll get
there is if you lie about wanting to you know,
wanting the same thing that she wants. That is cohercion.

Speaker 27 (35:54):
And you can prove that to a jury.

Speaker 26 (35:56):
There's text messages, there's all types of ways you can
prove that.

Speaker 29 (36:01):
Why a secret, how to get you that's all.

Speaker 30 (36:06):
Stop giving us the secret or how to.

Speaker 29 (36:11):
Stop telling us everything that you want so so we
don't have a way to pretend if you actually learn
us and get to know once instead of telling us
all the secrets on how to get your ass, and
then you wouldn't have a problem.

Speaker 27 (36:26):
Absolutely, But that wasn't my point.

Speaker 9 (36:28):
You're complaining.

Speaker 26 (36:29):
You're changing the subject, right. Focus on what I spoke about, George,
if you can, that's not that's a whole different that's
a whole different case. You just mentioned right now. Let's
not let's not go into our imagination and start bringing
other ship out of the basket. Right now, we're talking
about men who cohearse women to get sex.

Speaker 9 (36:50):
And I never put it.

Speaker 26 (36:51):
I never put a time on it, Jazz, I never.

Speaker 27 (36:54):
Put a time. It could be three months.

Speaker 26 (36:56):
There's men who will wait.

Speaker 27 (36:57):
For three months.

Speaker 4 (37:00):
Forty five talking about your dather.

Speaker 27 (37:02):
You pick me, bitch, or what I know?

Speaker 31 (37:03):
You're the women.

Speaker 9 (37:10):
You keep coming from the women.

Speaker 27 (37:11):
No, but you keep coming for the women.

Speaker 26 (37:13):
You don't know what women are fucking doing, bitch, So
stop all that ship. If you want to kick me down,
you can. But I still have the same opinion. Men
are coherting women and every single day, and I don't know,
I don't know why you have a problem with that.
It happens.

Speaker 9 (37:29):
You can actually take a side of women.

Speaker 27 (37:31):
And when you hurt you, it's not And these men
are not gonna pick you, babe.

Speaker 25 (37:35):
They're not gonna pick you.

Speaker 6 (37:37):
But keep going, go ahead, go.

Speaker 4 (37:39):
Off pick.

Speaker 9 (37:45):
You.

Speaker 6 (37:45):
Don't worry about Let me ask you a question, ahead,
let me ask.

Speaker 8 (37:49):
You question this, This, this gona help you hold on?
Uh excuse me, Jada.

Speaker 21 (37:55):
So when's the last time a man tried to convince
you to give him some pussy by use of threats
or physical abuse.

Speaker 6 (38:09):
Never happened.

Speaker 8 (38:13):
Next topic, see that should be easy.

Speaker 27 (38:18):
Anything else, I mean, I don't know what you got.

Speaker 25 (38:20):
You like your appointments?

Speaker 30 (38:22):
No way, no way, we can't.

Speaker 27 (38:24):
We shn't have the conversation because it hasn't happened to her.

Speaker 30 (38:28):
This is, this is we don't want it nowhere.

Speaker 21 (38:31):
Okay, okay, okay. Let me ask you a questions. Let
me ask questions. When the last time? Next else, when
is it she used a blanket? State No, it ain't
fucking crazy. You need to get the funk out of
the way sometimes.

Speaker 32 (38:52):
Next topic, you shut the fuck up.

Speaker 27 (38:56):
Just shut the funk up.

Speaker 19 (38:58):
Word, shut the fun up.

Speaker 6 (38:59):
That would actually work.

Speaker 32 (39:01):
But that's the whole thing. Somebody in the conversation. You
very it was very simple. How you wanted to handle it,
you said, Next question, question.

Speaker 27 (39:22):
What does that have to do with the price of.

Speaker 4 (39:25):
A smartphone?

Speaker 9 (39:26):
And nothing to do with it?

Speaker 27 (39:29):
And that doesn't work an me having a husband, having
a mouth and a brain, an opinion, you have a husband.

Speaker 5 (39:40):
If y'all want to pop up at the.

Speaker 13 (39:42):
Tip, do you have a husband?

Speaker 27 (39:46):
Since we're asking questions.

Speaker 33 (39:48):
Okay, you have a husband, good for you, like I
was saying, okay, animals so like I was saying before,
I was rudely interrupted.

Speaker 27 (39:59):
I mean the I was you said, next question?

Speaker 4 (40:03):
Did you tell me on my name?

Speaker 9 (40:05):
Bitch?

Speaker 6 (40:06):
Don't my mother name?

Speaker 18 (40:09):
Wrong with you?

Speaker 4 (40:10):
Losing your goddamn mind?

Speaker 6 (40:12):
Losing your goddamn mind because you said next question?

Speaker 4 (40:15):
Maybe you need or conversation?

Speaker 9 (40:19):
Next topic?

Speaker 4 (40:20):
Oh, next topic? Okay, this is the next topic.

Speaker 9 (40:23):
Talk.

Speaker 25 (40:23):
Yeah, nigga, I was.

Speaker 9 (40:26):
Problem.

Speaker 30 (40:27):
I don't give a fuck about no. Yeah, that's.

Speaker 9 (40:33):
It.

Speaker 27 (40:34):
Coversation. You got tired of conversation and tried to end it.

Speaker 12 (40:38):
This ain't that animals.

Speaker 9 (40:41):
Wrong with you? The mother? Yeah, that's it.

Speaker 30 (40:46):
Stupid, that's just stupid, stupid.

Speaker 27 (40:51):
To say what the next time you?

Speaker 12 (40:52):
I got the n Yeah.

Speaker 27 (40:54):
Yeah, that ship ain't never gonna work.

Speaker 9 (40:56):
It ain't never gonna work.

Speaker 27 (40:58):
Yeah, it ain't never gonna work.

Speaker 4 (41:01):
I don't give a sounds.

Speaker 5 (41:06):
It's already at the top. Animal, Hit the stripe, pay
the stripe, remover.

Speaker 4 (41:10):
Hey, pay some money.

Speaker 5 (41:12):
Hit the strike.

Speaker 31 (41:13):
He was still speaking, and I'm not yielding to none.

Speaker 13 (41:23):
Of you, motherfucker exactly.

Speaker 9 (41:25):
You.

Speaker 27 (41:25):
I feel the same way you cut him off when
he was speaking.

Speaker 31 (41:29):
He stated, next, well I didn't.

Speaker 27 (41:32):
We were having a conversation.

Speaker 4 (41:34):
You ask, No, you were not in the conversation.

Speaker 9 (41:37):
I wasn't.

Speaker 4 (41:38):
Okay, you know, speaking, this is what.

Speaker 31 (41:42):
You weren't in it.

Speaker 4 (41:44):
You are, don't.

Speaker 5 (41:47):
Let's see, let's see how long they're gonna let it run?

Speaker 27 (41:52):
I can reply, right, animal.

Speaker 26 (41:54):
If I use the word coheresion wrong, I apologize. I
did look up the definition. Fine, Initially when I made
this statement, I said it's borderline rape culture. Someone else
in the chat said coheresion. I continue to use it,
probably shouldn't have. So since I use the word incorrectly,
what is the correct word for this type of lying
to get to be in a relationship with someone lying

(42:16):
to get pussy? What's the word for that? Because that
there is a word for that, and that ship is wrong.
So what's the word?

Speaker 21 (42:21):
Since I use it wrong, I'm feeling off stripe right now,
and it's called manipulation.

Speaker 9 (42:33):
It's okay, the pussy, Your pussy open up when you
hear certain words.

Speaker 33 (42:38):
I got you.

Speaker 26 (42:39):
No, that's actually not what I said. But yeah, go off, right,
go ahead, go ahead and keep being vulgar to women
and saying things like that. That's not what I said.
I do notice though, that a lot of you could
not get.

Speaker 9 (42:53):
Dumb.

Speaker 8 (42:54):
Now, get your husband to pay dumble a brand.

Speaker 5 (43:00):
Hold on the animal, just light it up, hold on mint,
let's go check it. Oh my god, the.

Speaker 15 (43:09):
Dirty fucking pock.

Speaker 27 (43:12):
You gotta go.

Speaker 5 (43:14):
Ain't no more?

Speaker 34 (43:15):
Yo, reset animal, just set it off. Fick quick reset yo, animal.

Speaker 5 (43:26):
You know what it is?

Speaker 35 (43:39):
Because you got some more menis I keep me in that?

Speaker 5 (43:42):
I create each other? Didn't mean no po You got
him trying to think that.

Speaker 36 (43:48):
Pick out the face?

Speaker 20 (43:49):
Does the flippy pop?

Speaker 1 (43:56):
Now that's how that goes, now, breezy, if you would
love to revive yourself, you can go ahead and hit
the link at the top and revive yourself from the
green yard.

Speaker 5 (44:07):
That's how that works. Animal paid to popping. He also says,
go get.

Speaker 1 (44:14):
Your man to go double that. I want to get
back to the conversation. Should you be honest on the
first date? This is what the fuck we're talking about.
Gender wall floor, you might get popped, you might get removed.

(44:35):
VN would you like to come in? What was happening there?

Speaker 9 (44:38):
VN?

Speaker 5 (44:39):
Are you available?

Speaker 9 (44:40):
No?

Speaker 5 (44:40):
Okay?

Speaker 37 (44:41):
I read here like five minutes ago, I don't know
how the hell y'all got on date rape and rape
culture from this question specifically, but yeah, I definitely think
you should be honest on the first date. I believe
in dating intentionally. I don't believe in playing games and
doing all this weird stuff y'all are into, So definitely

(45:03):
be honest.

Speaker 5 (45:05):
I love that cat. I mean, I mean I was
looking at something else, look at telegram, But yeah, and
I appreciate that. Over to your cat. Let's go, bro,
this is so we can continue this shit. Man, this
is what's upsetting me.

Speaker 23 (45:20):
They mad that men view them in a way where
they only value one thing. If a man values you
for more than that, then he's gonna present himself the
way he needs to present himself. The fact that y'all
want protection him from being lied to is crazy. Men
have no protection from being lied to, right, you gotta

(45:41):
use common sense. But it's almost laughable that y'all be
making me believe that these uneducated niggas that y'all be
fucking with is tricking y'all. It's disrespectful man to us
to really believe that these niggas that y'all been smarter
than this since y'all was eleven years old. That's younger
than y'all. That ain't even half as accompassing, y'all. It's tricking, y'all, bro,

(46:04):
It's that y'all know these niggas ain't shit man Like.
It's like, it's like, we gotta stop with this ship
for real, Like, oh, he lied to me?

Speaker 18 (46:13):
Like what do you like?

Speaker 15 (46:14):
What you mean he lied to you?

Speaker 21 (46:16):
Like like, yo, man, more up, man, This is the
crazy thing, right, And all I did was come in
and ask a question about a word because I saw
it being used in the wrong way, so I wanted
to ensure people knew what the fuck they were saying.

Speaker 8 (46:38):
And then I didn't like.

Speaker 21 (46:39):
The fact that Jazz got disrespected because she disagreed.

Speaker 6 (46:42):
It was no need for that.

Speaker 21 (46:44):
It was disgusting. It was it's uncalled for you. You
attacked the topic, not the person. You immediately attacked the
person called out her name for no reason. And then
fucking Breezy come in here and want to self center
herself like the all she fucking like the way she
always fucking does coming off the mic after dealing with
your kid, you didn't even want to deal with your

(47:05):
fucking kid because you want to talk so bad on
this motherfucking app, and then you want to talk about
how bad motherfuckers is on this app. If you don't
get the fuck out of here, I had to come
off the mic and tell you to. But your niggas
be fucking.

Speaker 5 (47:26):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (47:26):
And then you know, Jazz's home team, so it's people
that's gonna jump straight to it.

Speaker 5 (47:32):
You feel me, I rock with her.

Speaker 1 (47:34):
She's always supporting Stack like heavy, you know what I mean,
y'all come against Jazz.

Speaker 5 (47:39):
Y'all gonna come against the home team too.

Speaker 21 (47:41):
The mothers saying I want to and I'm always when
when when it's right, it's right.

Speaker 5 (47:46):
And then with Jazz, yes, don't do it, don't do it.

Speaker 26 (47:53):
I feel like y'all, y'all just side with Jazz because
she always sides with Wow.

Speaker 1 (47:58):
I think they're gonna give the proper I think she
wanted to be the next one pop, which I think
La I think.

Speaker 5 (48:06):
Want to be the next one. Why coming that, Jazz?

Speaker 6 (48:10):
What's your problem?

Speaker 38 (48:11):
I think you were talking about side that the right side.
You can't be independent and helpless, so pick a side
like and and to Jack's point, it's like you're you're
so independent you got it. You can do anything a
man can do.

Speaker 8 (48:27):
You got this world.

Speaker 38 (48:28):
You can live in this world all by yourself. But
all of a sudden you're helpless and you need protection
from men lying to you, like, which is it?

Speaker 25 (48:35):
Who are you talking to?

Speaker 4 (48:39):
Whoever? Helpless?

Speaker 9 (48:40):
Who?

Speaker 27 (48:41):
Okay, okay, got you?

Speaker 4 (48:43):
I guess the one that brought up coersion and didn't
know how to use it.

Speaker 25 (48:49):
It was definitely someone in there.

Speaker 9 (48:53):
Do you give an example of that that.

Speaker 26 (48:56):
We've scrapped it because someone put the definition, so we've
scrapped it. Now George said it's manipulative or animal said
it's manipulation. I've already given the example so many times.
I'm sure you're all tired to hear me talk. So
I don't know unless you'll all want to hear me
say it again. No, it's not about being tricked out

(49:20):
of your draws, right, it's someone Let's just say you
meet a woman, right, and this woman is not for
the streets. She doesn't have casual sex, and she's reserved
and she wants to move through this life in a
series that has to do with hang on, hang on, right,
and you're obviously attracted to this woman and you're like, damn,

(49:42):
I just want to fuck. I'm not interested in anything else.
Then you guys start talking on the phone, right, start
having conversations, start going on dates, and then you let
her know that you are interested in something serious. And
then you continue to date for several weeks, maybe in
two months, right, and then even she because sex is
part of being in a relationship, eventually it happens. Whether

(50:04):
it happens in the first three months or six months,
I don't know how long it takes people, right, but
let's just say it takes that amount of time. You
did all of that just because you wanted to smash.
That is ultimate manipulation. I think that's wrong. And initially
when I made this statement, I said it's borderline rape culture.
Someone incorrected me in the chat, which now I realized

(50:26):
that they were incorrect, and they said, oh, that's sexual cohersion.
I don't even know who said it was like three
or four people who said it, right, you can scroll
up and look at the chat. And I said, Okay, fine,
that's what you want to call it. You want to
call it that, fine, let's call it that I was wrong.
I can admit that I am no problem. I didn't
know the definition. All I know is that shit feels
like rape culture. You don't have to lie because there

(50:47):
are women because I just want to land here. There
are women. There are women who are down for your
program though, Like there's always going to be a woman
out there who's like, okay, I'm okay with casual sex.

Speaker 23 (51:00):
Your question, Jada, if a feminists go for a job interview.

Speaker 9 (51:04):
Right, and.

Speaker 23 (51:07):
And they don't tell them that I really don't respect
men and the men's authority, right, And they don't say
that during the interview, are they being honest? Like is
do you feel the same way about that?

Speaker 27 (51:17):
Absolutely?

Speaker 26 (51:18):
I mean that's crazy. I don't if you're a feminist,
why would you even want to go if you hate
men so much, why would you go work for men?

Speaker 9 (51:25):
Just open your own.

Speaker 26 (51:26):
Business and go work for a woman?

Speaker 23 (51:28):
So but so so so Jada, Like so you saying
that anybody any any so you saying this is the
same for women, Like when women date men that they
don't like for money, you feel the same way about them.

Speaker 26 (51:41):
That's that's fucked up, that's wrong, that's crazy.

Speaker 18 (51:45):
But do you feel the same way, like as strongly
as that that's rape, that's borderline rape?

Speaker 9 (51:49):
Right?

Speaker 23 (51:50):
Do you feel the same way as you feel when
when a man like get in the woman pants and
doesn't want to marry a you feel the same way
man gets.

Speaker 26 (51:59):
In a woman's pan and doesn't want to marry her.
Is it the same as when a woman gets with
the money and she's not really in love with him.
I think it's equal. Yeah, absolutely.

Speaker 5 (52:16):
Definition. Who's jumping in that, Jeda? You cap what's going on?

Speaker 1 (52:22):
Listen if y'all are just joining when gender warflow, anything
could happen. We could be having a cool conversation and
the shit could go left anytime. Don't feel no type
of way. It's all entertainment. This is all heated debates
and it's all monetized. I appreciate you, guys. Let's get
back to the conversation. Can a bad first date ruin
something with potential? That's my new question for everybody.

Speaker 5 (52:42):
On the floor.

Speaker 1 (52:43):
Vaughn maya jazz animal, everybody in here, Mango, George picking
the room up, share the room up so we can
have more people talk about this topic right here. But
can a bad first date ruin something with potential? Or
this person you know it got a little bit of
shit that you you know you rocking with, but that
the first date was just horrible, So it's not gonna
make you want to move forward with them at all.

Speaker 5 (53:05):
Shit was trash.

Speaker 1 (53:06):
Maybe they'd make you laugh. Maybe y'all didn't go to
something that was exciting. Right, let's have a real conversation.
What's you know, a bit of decorum? But then also
if it goes left, I'm not jumping in and I'm
not helping none of y'all. So let's continue. Can a
bad first date ruin something with potential? Pick the room out,
share the room out. If you want to support the podcast,
hit the link.

Speaker 5 (53:23):
At the top.

Speaker 1 (53:24):
Also, if you want to remove somebody from this fucking room,
hit the link at the top. If you go down
to the audience, you could revive yourself too by hitting
the link again.

Speaker 5 (53:32):
So let's go up. Let's go. Can a bad first
date ruin something with potential? Floor open? Let's go yo.

Speaker 18 (53:37):
Listen, man, if you got with the woman that is
in front.

Speaker 23 (53:41):
Of you values, you will get a rope, a rope
longer than Elon Mus's money. Man, that's just what the
fuck it is.

Speaker 9 (53:48):
Man.

Speaker 23 (53:49):
If she value your resources and you got the bag
as we've seen in the last couple of months. Women
will put up with anything. Most of them, most very
few of them that will walk away, very few of them.
There's some that will walk away, be like, man, fuck
that I ain't doing it right. Most of them will
not walk away. So if they value what you got,

(54:10):
they'll tolerate anything. We've seen these women, beautiful women in here,
waste their twenties with some of the worst niggas society
got the offer if you niggas ain't.

Speaker 18 (54:19):
Never been on the jail visit.

Speaker 23 (54:21):
Just go see all the baddies going to see niggas.
That's throwing their lives away fast. If they value you, bro,
they will go to the bits of hell to you.
That's why when Jada talking about lyons to them, they
know you lions, Jada. These women be knowing niggas is lying, man,
I promise you they know niggas is lying right because
they didn't been there so many times.

Speaker 5 (54:42):
Like you're talking about girls that ain't out here.

Speaker 23 (54:45):
Like having a lot of section all that, Jada, that's
not a lot of these girls. These girls are professional.
They've been slinging that pussy since junior high school. Like
this shit ain't nothing new, and niggas rotate in and out.
This shit is like, this shit is standard, like, so
we gotta stop acting like like, yeah, we're talking about
virgins and shit like that. These girls, ah, these poor girls.

(55:05):
You thirty seven year old men, they're taking their virginity now,
Jay that these girls be hose. Man, They out here
they popping it. They jumping from nigga to nigga, trying
to catch it by you right now like that.

Speaker 9 (55:18):
It's fun.

Speaker 26 (55:20):
Generalization is a problem because if you look at women
like that in general, and let's just say you're looking
at a group of twenty women and you believe that
they're all hosed, there's probably one or two or three
girls in there they're actually not hose.

Speaker 9 (55:32):
But then because about.

Speaker 18 (55:34):
Three of them out of the twenty that ain't hosed,
you all.

Speaker 27 (55:36):
Right, exactly.

Speaker 26 (55:37):
But that's what I'm trying to say, right, the fact
that these men are out here just assuming like, oh,
you're you look, you have the same wig on, the
same outfit on, you must be the same way. I
don't think that's right.

Speaker 23 (55:49):
I mean, I don't think it's right either, But women,
women make their owner sumptions too many.

Speaker 15 (55:56):
If you went to college.

Speaker 8 (55:57):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 9 (55:59):
I don't know anyone.

Speaker 28 (56:04):
You know, they only appreciate you later, Jada, after after
they didn't have niggas that can't speak English kids one
they that did that, then they start valuing niggas that
did things the right way, not before that. No, you
will not get the first kid out that miss if
you speak straight English, you will not be the first
baby daddy.

Speaker 15 (56:22):
That's just where we come from.

Speaker 30 (56:23):
It in society, Jada, like.

Speaker 23 (56:26):
Cause you know, you know, Jada, I've been having the
baby daddy challenge on it, on faith, on, on clubhouse forever.
Not one of these women is ever proud of they
baby daddy and posted the nigga like, Yo, this nigga's
a stand up nigga.

Speaker 18 (56:39):
All I here is what he did, what he didn't do,
how he tricked them.

Speaker 23 (56:42):
We should go to jail for fucking y'all all kinds
of shit. But me and Rolph meanwhile, y'all the same
ones that a letter stranger go wrong. I don't I
don't be understanding I don't be understanding it. The math
don't be mathing to me.

Speaker 1 (56:57):
That shit's crazy, yo, mag How you feel about the
top bro, let's get back to the topic.

Speaker 5 (57:01):
Can a bad first date ruin something with potential anybody?
It won't ruin it.

Speaker 6 (57:06):
It won't ruin it the door.

Speaker 29 (57:09):
My coworkers say, nope. She had a horrible first date
with her husband. She say, horror bull.

Speaker 5 (57:16):
And she's still staying George after the first horrible day.

Speaker 9 (57:20):
She's married to the man.

Speaker 29 (57:23):
Uh, yesterday I tried to put her on here, but
because she was white, you know, people was like, why
this white woman even in here?

Speaker 9 (57:33):
Yo, this is a black room, you know, you know,
you know.

Speaker 29 (57:36):
It's it's it's only in these conversations among the black people.
So tell your body the white person speak on it.
You know, it's it's it's it's it's always some other ship,
you know. So that made me, you know, basically get
her off the app.

Speaker 4 (57:52):
How horrible was the date? I mean because if it's
like a little mishaps, I'm not that man.

Speaker 1 (58:00):
But like what if they breath stank, Jazz, that's exactly
your breath stinks. You do one crazy movement?

Speaker 5 (58:09):
People, it's over. Just be normal, right, horrible.

Speaker 1 (58:14):
Date, you're not getting to the second one, Jazz. I
don't know what the fuck people are talking about but
that that first day is not going to get you
to the to the second one if it's horrible. I
don't know how y'all just be settling for that shit?
No new new not I you fuck up on the
first date? You not getting to the second day? What
are we talking about right now? Let's continue this conversation.

(58:36):
Man Jazz, thank you for coming in. But yeah, it's
gotta be horrible. George, how bad was it?

Speaker 5 (58:43):
What he did?

Speaker 9 (58:43):
He leave like?

Speaker 5 (58:44):
It had to be the shittiest date on earth? Crazy?
Can a bad date ruin something with potential? First date?
Let's continue to talk about this.

Speaker 1 (58:55):
Anybody can jump Ben, thank you for coming up, JJ,
Linda Cap, Chris Mighty, Chris Jada, Director, Philly, everybody in
here right, Let's continue this conversation. Can a bad date,
first date ruins something with potential? Who want to jump
in next?

Speaker 9 (59:12):
I do?

Speaker 22 (59:12):
I think?

Speaker 4 (59:13):
I think it can ruin something with potential.

Speaker 39 (59:16):
But if, if, if the relationship prior to that date,
or the introduction, engagement, interaction prior to that date had
potential before the date, it'll have potential afterwards.

Speaker 29 (59:27):
I feel that.

Speaker 5 (59:27):
I feel that, Linda, But are you sure this this?
There's nothing at all.

Speaker 9 (59:32):
No, no, you like.

Speaker 39 (59:33):
It depends on how egregious the offense. It depends on
how the ones like, yeah, no I can't, No, I'm
not if I.

Speaker 1 (59:42):
Can't talk the ladies deal breakers right there, Linda is like, damn,
your breath stinks.

Speaker 39 (59:48):
Like if you're like, if you don't smell good, like
if I don't smell cologne coming from you, Yeah, it's
over because why you're not showing up as your best self?
Because why you're not showing up as your best self?
If I'm showing up as my best self, nails policy
is smelling good.

Speaker 4 (01:00:04):
You know what I'm saying. I need you to show
up as your best self.

Speaker 26 (01:00:08):
It's crazy you say that because one of my best friends,
when she first met the man that she was about
to get a divorce from now, he had really bad
breath and he continued to have bad breath throughout the
relationship until she told him that there was an issue
with his gums and they went to the dentist.

Speaker 1 (01:00:25):
But I mean, wait, real quick, I want to ask
you that how long did she wait till she actually
admitted that to him that his breath stinks?

Speaker 5 (01:00:32):
How long did she wait?

Speaker 26 (01:00:34):
Well, she didn't want to hurt his feelings, so she
didn't say anything for a while. I don't know how
long exactly it was.

Speaker 4 (01:00:41):
Say blessed and you're not going to say nothing?

Speaker 26 (01:00:44):
Yeah, I met her this, I met him the same
day she did, and I noticed a bad breath too immediately. Yes,
she married and no, but they're about to get a divorce,
so she probably should have.

Speaker 5 (01:00:59):
Somebody. How long dirty weight hold on real quick? Phil?

Speaker 9 (01:01:01):
Yes?

Speaker 5 (01:01:05):
Eventually, But how long, though, does it take to realize
someone has stack you? Though?

Speaker 13 (01:01:10):
I'm an actor and let you know, I don't know.

Speaker 1 (01:01:12):
I don't know how if you're walking around, If you're
walking around and you're allowing your partner's breath to stink,
then that means you stink.

Speaker 5 (01:01:20):
That means you're a stinky person. That means you are
dirty and you are a ferocious beast as well. So
I think that we all take care of our high right.

Speaker 4 (01:01:28):
What what are we talking about? I never want to
talk to you.

Speaker 5 (01:01:31):
I will block you if you stink. You understand like
it's blocked season.

Speaker 27 (01:01:34):
That's a five.

Speaker 4 (01:01:35):
You don't have dirty nails.

Speaker 26 (01:01:39):
I just dunk up the whole room type ship.

Speaker 4 (01:01:43):
You know, we can't know if your mom stink, the
rest of your body stink worse.

Speaker 1 (01:01:48):
So look, let's continue this. Don't have blue you can
come in. How you feel about the first bad date?
Does it ruin something with potential jump in a conversation.

Speaker 40 (01:01:57):
Yes, I'm going to answer that, but Stack, I just
want to say something really too quick to you about
the bad breath.

Speaker 27 (01:02:03):
He could have cancer because.

Speaker 40 (01:02:06):
People who have cancer like in the mouth, like some
people have like like cancers that are in the mouth,
they that can keep them to have bad breath and
they have to go to a hygienis.

Speaker 27 (01:02:17):
So some people don't know that, Like.

Speaker 40 (01:02:19):
They could be brushing their teeth and it's still stink.
That means it's something in the blood, like it's it's
it's an infection somewhere. And sometimes people just don't know
what to do. So I mean, if you wait a
long time to tell them, that means that all that
time everybody around him probably felt like, I don't want

(01:02:40):
to say nothing. So he may not have been conscious,
because it's a lot of times you only conscious of
what you of what is wrong with you when somebody
tells you. But can a bad first date ruin something
with potential?

Speaker 16 (01:02:55):
Yeah?

Speaker 40 (01:02:56):
Because if you go on a date with somebody and
they all quiet and awkward, and you could be like, Okay, well,
I know he probably shy, he probably don't know how
to talk or nothing like that. But then it's like
you might just feel like, Okay, well, why would he
choose to go to dinner if he knew he wasn't
a conversationalist, Like, if he knew he was quiet, then

(01:03:19):
he should have picked the activity.

Speaker 5 (01:03:22):
Yeah, I think that's a nailbreaker too. Yeah, like that conversation,
why yeah, put him on in the chat of y'all
agree that conversation.

Speaker 1 (01:03:29):
No intellect, get the chat active, because if you're dead,
if your brain is dead, then we're dead. I don't
want to hear I don't want to talk to you
if you can't drive my brain and stimulate my brain
while we're on a date, because it's going to make
the next thing we do a little bit better, especially
when it comes to and of course and making love
and shit. A lot of y'all just hop right in
bed without even having the conversation. Let's have intellect conversation.

Speaker 15 (01:03:49):
Let's go on a.

Speaker 1 (01:03:51):
Damn walk on the nature walk or something and actually
have conversation before we just jump into it. That's why
a lot of shit don't be lasting with y'all, because
y'all know how to stimulate the brain, stimulate the mind,
actually talk to the person so they could feel comfortably
with you on every single level. But a lot of
y'all trying to jump in the panties jumping you, I mean,
and that's not how you do it. You gotta do
it a different way, you know what I'm saying, Especially

(01:04:12):
when you are trying to pursue something that you want
to last. Now, if this is a hole on the street,
do whatever you want to do. Yeah, yeah, let's get
straight to it. You might as well pay for it.
But if you're trying to pursue something right and you're
trying to get to another level with that person, it's
best at you, you know, dive all the way in
and really, really, really really see how you can be
with that person. But let's talk about this shit. Man,

(01:04:34):
can a bad first date doing something with potential? I've
already gave my submission. I said, if the first date
is bad, how the fuck you think I'm gonna get
to the second one. You've already gave me the bad
first impression. Now I understand what George was saying. You know,
his friend is what his wife? Yeah, she's with him
and she married the dude in the first date was bad. Fox, No,
I'm not marrying you. If I can't have fun with

(01:04:55):
you on the first date. It don't matter what's going on.
If that first date's bad, you mind.

Speaker 5 (01:05:00):
As will block. I'm getting blocked changing my number. I'm
gonna move on. I'm gonna go find something else to do.

Speaker 1 (01:05:06):
But the first impression is everything, and I feel like
you guys forget about that. It's the first impression, the
first date, the first time you see someone that's gonna
make them want to see you the second time, the
third time, and a fifth time.

Speaker 4 (01:05:18):
Right, That's a fact.

Speaker 39 (01:05:20):
So kawait, can I say this real quick in regard
to potentially having cancer? So I agree, sometimes there are
underlying conditions we don't know, But then that goes back
to the person's higie and how they take care of
themselves and how they operate from themselves. At the end
of the day, if you know something is wrong with
you and it's a bit abnormal, I'm gonna need you

(01:05:40):
as an adult to not make the excuse in twenty twenty.

Speaker 4 (01:05:43):
Five that you don't know or that you can't find out.

Speaker 39 (01:05:46):
Right, if you know something about you ain't right and
you don't check it, it's because you don't care, period
point break.

Speaker 40 (01:05:54):
Especially if you go if you go out on a
date and he talks a lot, ooh, I can't standing.
That is just talking too damn much like oh, I
don't like women talk too much and too little.

Speaker 5 (01:06:09):
Got to be a balance.

Speaker 13 (01:06:11):
Yes, that's the fact.

Speaker 40 (01:06:12):
If you take me somewhere where you know you got
to spend money, like don't take me to the county
fair and don't buy me a Teddy Bear, and we
play the.

Speaker 21 (01:06:20):
Game a stat I guess since I know that women
like that, right, So I guess since I don't talk
too much, right, I don't talk too little.

Speaker 8 (01:06:34):
I guess I'm manipulating to get some place.

Speaker 5 (01:06:39):
Animal trying to come in, Joys, you want to go
in real quick? I heard you coming, now that I.

Speaker 6 (01:06:48):
Think about it, Yeah, a bad first day is crazy.
And I really want to stop talking about the breath
thing because it don't always got the cancer. Got a
riding too, you know, some of y'all got that riding
tooth you never wanted dentist for but I agree with Linda,
go to your dentist. Dang a bad first day because
if we just take it off super extreme factors, because
y'all like to do that too. What if he like ladies, like,

(01:07:11):
what if y'all on the date and he'd be like, damn,
I left my wallet at home.

Speaker 5 (01:07:16):
Yeah, that's.

Speaker 39 (01:07:18):
So automatic, you ain't never gonna see me again, because
what Yes.

Speaker 5 (01:07:22):
That's jazz.

Speaker 1 (01:07:23):
I feel like if you courted the female, right, if
I court you and I'm taking you out on a date,
if I don't pay for the date, like I should
already be prepared for this.

Speaker 5 (01:07:33):
Fuck that real.

Speaker 1 (01:07:33):
Niggas know what time it is. I'm already supposed to
be prepared for the date before I even.

Speaker 5 (01:07:38):
Ask you on it. I get there and I'm acting
like I left my wallet.

Speaker 1 (01:07:43):
You're gonna look at me like a big goofy. What
the fuck I look like asking you on a date?
And then I get there now all of a sudden,
I don't got my wallet, nigga, whater fuck?

Speaker 4 (01:07:50):
Did I even act him doing the date?

Speaker 5 (01:07:52):
That's why I feel like niggas be playing games. Jazz.

Speaker 1 (01:07:55):
Niggas will get there and I ain't got my wallet, nigga,
Why did you come? Why'd you ask me on this date?
Now you're gonna be beef and now you're gonna have
a huge.

Speaker 27 (01:08:02):
Lad Why you don't have the wallet on the iPhone?

Speaker 5 (01:08:05):
Exactly? And why don't you have Apple Pay? Why don't
you have cash?

Speaker 4 (01:08:09):
Why you're driving without a license?

Speaker 27 (01:08:10):
Yes, exactly.

Speaker 1 (01:08:11):
This all type of shit that we can go down.
But I feel like, yes, you should be prepared. If
you're taking a female on the date, there's no way
you're gonna be able to pay for shit or she's
gonna be Listen, you don't get no respect on as
a man on the second date if you don't pay
for the first date. That's how I feel. I feel
like you broke you know what I'm saying. You're gonna
look as less than less than a man. If you
action a woman on the date and you don't pay,
you a sucker, sir.

Speaker 4 (01:08:32):
There will be no second day.

Speaker 5 (01:08:34):
There won't be no everything's out the window. Bro, it's over.

Speaker 27 (01:08:39):
And what if it's not in her budget?

Speaker 40 (01:08:40):
Like if he called and say, hey, I want to
take you out on the date, that's what he wanted
to do. So if she if she came, and it's
not even about broke. Sometimes you don't have the budget
for that. I mean, people are financially responsible out here too.
I don't consider that a bump. I've considered that if
he left his wallet, and I'll be like, okay, if

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especially if he's the one who wants go out, well
we can just go out another time and I'll get
in my car and go.

Speaker 27 (01:09:07):
Like he left his wallet the date, the date couldn't
be completed.

Speaker 9 (01:09:11):
You just go wrong.

Speaker 36 (01:09:12):
But what if he left his wallet after y'all ate,
I'm walking out the restaurant and he gonna figure it
out by hisself.

Speaker 4 (01:09:25):
Nigga, wash some dishes.

Speaker 9 (01:09:28):
You're gonna get your wash dishes.

Speaker 27 (01:09:31):
I'll pay. I'll pay if that's the case. But if
we ate, if.

Speaker 4 (01:09:35):
I yeah, I'm not, I'm getting up and I'm walking out.

Speaker 27 (01:09:45):
Yeah, i'd pay.

Speaker 37 (01:09:46):
But he never hear from me again.

Speaker 5 (01:09:50):
No, no, no, no, real quick, real quick.

Speaker 1 (01:09:54):
Somebody I say what Vaughn said as well, don't let
that go over your head. To know, yya, nigga, you're
not gonna embarrass me at the dinner table. You fucking ogre,
You mother fucking ogre.

Speaker 5 (01:10:06):
You you you're not gonna disrespect me. You're not going
to look at me any type of way. You're not
going to disrespect me. There's nothing you can do. You're
not gonna make me look any type of way. So,
you know what, let me cover this tab.

Speaker 1 (01:10:19):
But after this tab is done, you're getting blocked and
removed from my phone. But sometimes I hear females doing
it to save the whole image, Like, y'all, I'm not
about to be looking like You're not about to embarrass
me outside, you get it.

Speaker 5 (01:10:31):
So I understand what Vaughn's saying too.

Speaker 37 (01:10:32):
Don't let that go over y'all health absolutely, because at
the end of the day, that waiter or waitress that
served us still needs to get paid. Those people who
prepared that meal still still needs to get paid. So
just because you, as a man are not up on
your game, I'm not about to let them suffer. So
we're gonna pay for this meal.

Speaker 4 (01:10:50):
We're gonna walk out, and I'm gonna go my way.

Speaker 10 (01:10:52):
You're gonna go on your way.

Speaker 27 (01:10:56):
Yeah, seriously, like that's just chopped that up as a loss.

Speaker 40 (01:11:01):
I ain't about to be arguing suing somebody over seventeen
dollars and all that, Like, no, but but that doesn't
happen a lot though, Like that's like we're talking about
the anomaly.

Speaker 27 (01:11:14):
Yeah, seventeen dollars.

Speaker 40 (01:11:15):
You guys can see that Instagram post about the man
who sued her for seventeen dollars because she was texting
on the date and he felt like she ruined the experience,
so he sued her for seventeen dollars and thirty one cents.

Speaker 30 (01:11:26):
That's some broke people's shit.

Speaker 4 (01:11:46):
And I'm sorry what they called seventeen dollars in whatever sense.

Speaker 27 (01:11:50):
Like I think he took her to the movies or something.

Speaker 36 (01:11:52):
I guess she was texting at the movie, so you
go for a movie ticket?

Speaker 40 (01:11:57):
Oh no, I was wondering the same thing, like, yeah,
she ended up paying it, but she was irritated by
paying it, I guess.

Speaker 7 (01:12:06):
You know.

Speaker 40 (01:12:07):
But I don't know if that's cat fake, but that
was an Instagram, you know. I want to tell you
about the news on something that's going on. I feel
like if a man, like if you go on a
date and his kids called and he ignored his kids

(01:12:31):
and act like his kids is getting on his nerves
because they keep calling them, or if a woman has kids,
and you see that they keep calling and she like
turned the phone down and flip it over.

Speaker 27 (01:12:44):
Like just so that she can enjoy her date with you.
I feel like that's a turnoff too.

Speaker 4 (01:12:52):
Yeah, don't ignore the babies.

Speaker 40 (01:12:54):
Yeah, cause that's that's more relatable that actually really happened.
I say, that's that's I couldn't be with somebody who
backburned their kids. I would politely be like, excuse me,
I need to answer this, right, especially when they call

(01:13:16):
back to back and y'all, oh no, if you guys
have kids, you know I'm not lying. The kids will call,
especially if they love their parents and they're not used
to their parent going out there.

Speaker 41 (01:13:30):
Look, and don't let her even the grown kids, because
my grown kids are calling. Be like think like, oh mom,
you ground where you think youre going tonight? Like it
be the grown kids the most. That'll be all in
your business, especially if they're not used.

Speaker 5 (01:13:45):
To you going out like that, right, Yeah them first
day's douce. I don't know, man.

Speaker 1 (01:13:55):
So the first impression is everything you guys are just joining.
We've been talking about. Can the first bad date ruing
something with potential?

Speaker 5 (01:14:02):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (01:14:02):
You see something in this person. But then when y'all go, well,
this is trash, what are you gonna do? This is
what we're talking about right now. Anybody can jump in
popcorn style, let's continue the conversation.

Speaker 5 (01:14:12):
Anybody can take their money.

Speaker 41 (01:14:14):
So I had a first date and the conversation over
the phone was cool, but then he showed up late.

Speaker 4 (01:14:22):
He showed up in a fucking bucket. But you showed
up in a bucket.

Speaker 42 (01:14:28):
But was iced out, And I was just like, you
know what, I'm good the way that you presented yourself
on the phone and the way that you presented yourself
in person.

Speaker 4 (01:14:39):
Yeah, I know I'm good.

Speaker 40 (01:14:42):
Yeah, Because I feel like even if you got your
little low key and you want to see how she responded,
this is not the appropriate time.

Speaker 27 (01:14:48):
For that type of test.

Speaker 40 (01:14:50):
Like the first date, you step out, rent you a
too row, rent you something so you could just be
pulling up nice. Ain't nobody about to be docking you
like that, but just to be pulling.

Speaker 27 (01:14:59):
Up with the jalopy. It's kind of like that.

Speaker 40 (01:15:03):
I don't even want you to spend money on the date.
I want you to go and and like fix the gelopy.
Unless some dudes got money who have money. They do
love the little jeloppy. Now that's different. But on the
first day he's not pulling out the GELOPI like, what
kind of mind games are you playing?

Speaker 4 (01:15:18):
I don't even like you.

Speaker 30 (01:15:22):
Out with a bucket, so I can't rate her.

Speaker 27 (01:15:36):
It don't even have to be a lever, get you
a clean little just if you don't have no nice car,
you shouldn't be going on the no date.

Speaker 7 (01:15:44):
Like if you don't get a nice car, I thought
it's responsibility, responsibility, responsibilities.

Speaker 40 (01:15:54):
Don't take nobody out being hundreds of dollars when you
know you need to put it into your car.

Speaker 27 (01:15:58):
I just think that's just it responsible, all right?

Speaker 9 (01:16:04):
So now.

Speaker 40 (01:16:06):
Take me to then no Like I'm saying the level
of date stacks, I'm not saying don't know date. I'm saying,
don't take me out to no dinner and spend hundreds
of dollars in.

Speaker 1 (01:16:15):
Your real quick How embarrassing is to pull up though,
Like to Shawnee's point too, how embarrassing is it to
pull up in a bucket? How embarrassing is to hop
out of the bucket and go into the motherfucking restaurant

(01:16:37):
thinking I'm about to feel good? Look good and then
I'm getting out of the motherfucking bullshit, fucking cop. You understand, like,
what are we gonna do?

Speaker 9 (01:16:47):
What?

Speaker 6 (01:16:48):
How are we going to.

Speaker 5 (01:16:52):
Feel good about each other?

Speaker 9 (01:16:54):
This?

Speaker 1 (01:16:54):
This situation a bucket, diva, you know what a bucket is.
Let's not let what's the fuck it?

Speaker 9 (01:17:02):
Yeah, but.

Speaker 5 (01:17:07):
You know what a bucket is? The hoopie mac? Do
I really have to wake it up?

Speaker 9 (01:17:14):
D y'all?

Speaker 5 (01:17:20):
Rand car is y'all know what that is?

Speaker 16 (01:17:24):
Bro?

Speaker 1 (01:17:24):
That's a that's a randomn car. That's your everyday driver.
You don't give a about that beat? Okay, that's what
we're talking about. Imagine that recording someone and said we're
gonna do this, and we're going to do that. Now
they got to step out of some ship in the
windows don't even work in that motherfucker.

Speaker 5 (01:17:41):
Imagine that.

Speaker 9 (01:17:45):
That ship.

Speaker 1 (01:17:46):
No, the gotta be a motorcycle. If you're gonna pull
up on it, you can't pull up on They're gonna clown.
They're gonna clown you will.

Speaker 9 (01:17:57):
Gotta be sure.

Speaker 12 (01:17:59):
If I had a chick that I was, you know,
I supposed to take out. While I was taking out,
she came off pretty and all that good and then
I'm like, yo, I can't find the keys at the outing, like,
so we have to go into the work truck.

Speaker 9 (01:18:13):
She was like, oh, hell no, I said, this ain't
the one for meeting. He supposed to borrow me no
matter what I do you feel?

Speaker 5 (01:18:21):
Yeah, she tried to w for the truck.

Speaker 12 (01:18:23):
Yeah, ship, I parked, but she went all the way
to the back of park, all the way to the
back because I don't want to drive.

Speaker 9 (01:18:31):
But you know I couldn't find the keys.

Speaker 22 (01:18:35):
Yeah you could.

Speaker 5 (01:18:37):
You didn't get the other v out, bro, And that's okay.

Speaker 9 (01:18:40):
I can't find it, bro, I sure got. I was like, damn,
who the fuck is my ship up? Man?

Speaker 5 (01:18:44):
I found that like trying to find the keys in
his pocket and ship dirty.

Speaker 43 (01:18:53):
That's a that's a red flag too, because when I
say on the car, let's talk about it, guys, because.

Speaker 6 (01:19:03):
I'm not that picky on like a you gotta pull
up on the bm right, so some of y'all.

Speaker 4 (01:19:08):
Be behind on your car note uh, and you still
got to BMW.

Speaker 18 (01:19:11):
Now.

Speaker 6 (01:19:12):
The biggest thing to me is when your car start
making right, why do they hear as opposed to what
it looked like? Because what if the car pay off,
and I do need the windows to work a little bit,
and I do need a little bit of music.

Speaker 9 (01:19:28):
But how old are you at this point?

Speaker 6 (01:19:34):
And I will, yeah, I will say it do kind
of matter because I would say, you know, maybe this
date not your priority, right, maybe you should invest this
two hundred dollars or whatever we was going to spend
into your car.

Speaker 44 (01:19:49):
But I will say.

Speaker 6 (01:19:54):
It doesn't. I'm also not one of us to be
like you gotta pull up in a you know, f
one fifty and you know, I'm not that big of it,
but I just maybe the basic kind of car, like
I don't mind like a hip holla, you know what
I'm saying, Let's Chevy. I love those.

Speaker 4 (01:20:09):
You know what I'm saying. Some niggas like old school cards.

Speaker 6 (01:20:11):
I'm not that that pigky, but like all the shaking
and the wheel look like it's gonna fall off and
it's making noise.

Speaker 5 (01:20:17):
Clean just saying a hundred civic.

Speaker 9 (01:20:21):
I'm not.

Speaker 5 (01:20:23):
The old nineteen yeah, because those are loki.

Speaker 40 (01:20:27):
A low key and a bucket is different. A low
ki and a bucket is different, like like like if
you're going out on the deck.

Speaker 9 (01:20:35):
That's why I love it.

Speaker 15 (01:20:39):
Are priceless.

Speaker 40 (01:20:41):
But I'm just saying that if the car pulls up
and it's dirty, or the car pulls up and then
he says, oh, get in and it got cut.

Speaker 27 (01:20:50):
Ripped leather, I'm not getting nowhere.

Speaker 5 (01:20:54):
Stuff.

Speaker 27 (01:20:54):
I don't like that type of cracks and suff I
ain't doing so.

Speaker 40 (01:20:57):
I'm just saying when I say bucket or JALOPPI, I'm
not talking about the name brand of the car. I'm
talking about the hygienea of the car. That's why you
pull up with low hygiene in your car.

Speaker 27 (01:21:09):
I don't like that. I'm gonna be honest with you.
You guys call me shallow whatever in your car.

Speaker 12 (01:21:14):
If you got a bucket, What if you got a
bucket he put up in the bucket, you can wow, bucketpreciated.

Speaker 40 (01:21:22):
A bucket is different from height that there's different types
of See, I don't know what you're saying by bucket
because when I say bucket, I'm talking about the hygiena
car talk.

Speaker 5 (01:21:34):
You meant like a beater. Like I thought our bucket
was just in general, like every day.

Speaker 27 (01:21:40):
See when you say beat that sounds like the low hygiene.

Speaker 9 (01:21:43):
Of a car. I'm talking about a quad for ods mobile.

Speaker 27 (01:21:46):
I don't know what that is, but does it have
ripped leather? Doesn't have in the seat.

Speaker 16 (01:21:53):
Sign?

Speaker 12 (01:21:53):
Your falling off looking up quow for OUTI I mean, uh,
you said what you mean an.

Speaker 27 (01:22:00):
Audibil not yeah.

Speaker 9 (01:22:07):
M hmbill it was good for his time fast that night.
Should be thankful with any type of card man.

Speaker 8 (01:22:21):
To take your black No.

Speaker 7 (01:22:22):
That's up to the dealership. The trade in my bucket.

Speaker 5 (01:22:27):
So yeah, so you're gonna pick her up and this
this the the bucket, the ripe.

Speaker 9 (01:22:35):
Yeah, she's gonna react like, I'm gonna see what.

Speaker 7 (01:22:39):
You know car side to say.

Speaker 9 (01:22:42):
I had one of those before.

Speaker 6 (01:22:44):
I'm going to get one of those just to put up.

Speaker 5 (01:22:46):
So you basically car fishing.

Speaker 27 (01:22:53):
Wait oh I put it came up as a four
wheeler work crazy.

Speaker 5 (01:22:59):
Or bu.

Speaker 12 (01:23:01):
Mhmm yeahful motherfuckers.

Speaker 5 (01:23:06):
Yeah, you're gonna pull up in the white kidnapper van,
the all white man.

Speaker 9 (01:23:12):
Like, ok.

Speaker 40 (01:23:14):
Yeah, I see it right, Okay, I'm gonat real with you.
There's a clean one. I see a clean one. If
it's clean, I ain't tripping on the kind.

Speaker 27 (01:23:24):
Of car you have. Like I said, I don't care
about that the car. It's the hygiene of the car.

Speaker 4 (01:23:31):
Man, you can have.

Speaker 40 (01:23:35):
You could have a you could have an Audi, you
could have a Bentley, you can have a lamb truck.

Speaker 27 (01:23:40):
When you open up that motherfucker and it got cans
and energy.

Speaker 40 (01:23:46):
Drinks down at the bottom, I think, real.

Speaker 45 (01:23:54):
Lot.

Speaker 7 (01:23:54):
It's a lot on the first day, like what we're talking.

Speaker 6 (01:23:56):
About, Tourspeiktfully, some of y'all ladies cars be ten times worse,
so dirty'll be looking like y'all.

Speaker 1 (01:24:09):
Man, I was in y'all listen, one of my friends
closet in that ship. We got a closet in youngers,
you got a hanger and hangers in your.

Speaker 5 (01:24:19):
Ship, you have a closet in there.

Speaker 15 (01:24:21):
Wow.

Speaker 43 (01:24:22):
As a creative, I went to a girl house on
the first day. Stack her house was dirty. I never
came back.

Speaker 5 (01:24:28):
As you should. Man, that's what it.

Speaker 1 (01:24:30):
Yeah, would you go back if the house was dirty after?
You know what I'm saying, would you go back?

Speaker 5 (01:24:34):
No?

Speaker 40 (01:24:34):
Because if she invited somebody over knowing her, you imagine
when she get comfortable with you.

Speaker 27 (01:24:39):
Oh my god, the.

Speaker 9 (01:24:41):
Name y ain't blue? Your name is blue.

Speaker 18 (01:24:44):
Yeah.

Speaker 27 (01:24:44):
I didn't hear nothing.

Speaker 6 (01:24:46):
I just was talking.

Speaker 9 (01:24:47):
Yeah, you know, you date women, they women.

Speaker 27 (01:24:52):
No, I was just talking about just when they say
dirty house, I'm sorry.

Speaker 12 (01:24:58):
You know you gotta as okay, Yeah, I'm going back
the house dirty that that motherfucker clean up next time
I come over that pitch.

Speaker 5 (01:25:07):
Are you kidding me?

Speaker 9 (01:25:08):
You clean it up dirt?

Speaker 12 (01:25:11):
What if I just if I just came over there
and I had to take it, I had to take
a piss, and she said, my house ain't dirty. I said, nigga,
I'm from the hood too, and I go to that
bitch to like three rock while I was fighting, and that.

Speaker 5 (01:25:24):
That's acceptable.

Speaker 9 (01:25:26):
My head up the way, go to the bath taking piss,
come back. I said, that was disrespectful to let me
in that room and the house.

Speaker 12 (01:25:32):
Make sure you clean up next time if we're gonna
go back. You know, having a good time's wrong with that.
Man's probably just clean the service.

Speaker 9 (01:25:40):
That means her hygiene is lucky like that too, bro,
smell it put the thing that's happened.

Speaker 5 (01:25:49):
Are you kidding?

Speaker 40 (01:25:50):
You could do the feet test before you get to
the sticking your fingers in her private kind of dirty house.

Speaker 27 (01:25:56):
Her feet is dirty bottom at the.

Speaker 7 (01:25:59):
Bottom on the birthday, trying to see somebody look at
a woman feet. Come on, man, this is ridiculous.

Speaker 6 (01:26:06):
Oh bro.

Speaker 5 (01:26:11):
Hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on.
I got a question.

Speaker 1 (01:26:15):
Call me a sim I got you. Yeah, I got
a question for y'all. I heard something about I heard
something about feet, Mimi. Now, if the woman's feet is
jacked up on the first day, yay, you hear me,
who are you going to see her on the second day?

Speaker 27 (01:26:36):
Where?

Speaker 22 (01:26:37):
Man?

Speaker 5 (01:26:38):
No, no, either you could take those you could take.

Speaker 12 (01:26:45):
You can take those branch grippers somewhere else, those.

Speaker 5 (01:26:48):
Donkey bridge grippers.

Speaker 9 (01:26:49):
We don't want scuff of my legs.

Speaker 1 (01:26:52):
Okay, so jazz, how do you feel about that? The
men saying, hell no, we wouldn't. We don't want to
see your ugly feet.

Speaker 6 (01:27:01):
I think that you fellas are keeping the standard with us,
Thank you so much. I had a homegirl in college.
Not only was her feet already ugly, but I always
used to tell her you have to at least keep
them polished.

Speaker 4 (01:27:17):
I'm sorry, I'm just a girl.

Speaker 6 (01:27:18):
Where I understand in certain fields you don't keep your
nails done, but I think not keeping your feet done
is almost like y'all was complaining about that riding tooth.
I just feel like you got ridden feet. You know
what I'm saying, Like, I don't care how cute your
feet are, just keep them done. And when I say
keep them done, I'm not saying don't let that nail
that jail nail polished school to the top because you
haven't got a pedicure in six weeks. Don't let the

(01:27:39):
and if you can't afford the jail stuff, don't let
the polished chip.

Speaker 4 (01:27:42):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 6 (01:27:43):
I just think that is just so unlady, like, oh
my god. And if you're gonna do it, at least
put your shoes on, like cover your toes us. If
you're going to have some decency like that just shows fellas,
don't go back on that day, I promise, and ladies.

Speaker 9 (01:28:01):
Matter.

Speaker 5 (01:28:02):
Question for thee Yeah, that was my That was my
that was my question. I'm gonna have it. But your
fellas are y'all going to you know, pursuer.

Speaker 30 (01:28:11):
And for the first date is just absolutely.

Speaker 5 (01:28:17):
Continue and then let me get a question for the lead.

Speaker 43 (01:28:20):
Let me tell you why, Jack, because presentation mattered at
the end of the day. If you're saying I'm going
to take the time out to spend time with another
human that's supposed to like me. You're not gonna look
at least your best to some extreme like it don't
make no sense to me.

Speaker 8 (01:28:40):
It all translates at the end of the day, So
check it.

Speaker 1 (01:28:44):
I would like to happen before I give it to Shawnee.
Is there any other men would like we want to
hop in on that question. I know ya, he's taking
the green feet.

Speaker 9 (01:28:52):
But no, no, no, listen, listen.

Speaker 12 (01:28:56):
I have trauma because my auntie has a ugly understand
and when I used to walk up in the house
and see her feet under from under those cover my
uncle was laying right next to her. I couldn't distinguish
between the two whose feet was who niggas.

Speaker 9 (01:29:18):
Nigga feet here?

Speaker 12 (01:29:18):
Oh my god that nigga had If those feet, those
feet would have touched my skin, I would have probably
hauled off and spit on my aunt Like. Man, I'm
just so when it comes down to the feet back,
it has to be pretty. I mean, you know, we
rubbed their feet against my leg and stuff like that.
With feet like that, it's gonna be a problem. I
call those rhinos my nose feet.

Speaker 9 (01:29:41):
Nasty.

Speaker 1 (01:29:43):
Appreciate that, Shawnee I've seen you coming in. You can,
you know, say whatever you want to say, and then Shawnee,
can you reset with this new topic please, and.

Speaker 35 (01:29:50):
Let's get you know, what would be the crusty hill
and crusty rusty hill.

Speaker 9 (01:30:01):
You know she a buffer, but the still.

Speaker 30 (01:30:10):
Say my granny.

Speaker 11 (01:30:11):
The rules she taught me early on for women is
that your hands and feet should always be decent, whether
you can afford to get them done or not. Your
skins should always be soft, and you should always smell
good as a woman. Those are like minimal, So I'm
just saying like that should just be the minimal for women.

(01:30:32):
But we are in gender Wars, all men testing men
testing for femininity or submission early on.

Speaker 41 (01:30:42):
And I'm sorry, and submission early on. Uh it is
popcorn style, so anyone can hop in.

Speaker 15 (01:30:51):
Let's go.

Speaker 5 (01:30:54):
Appreciate that, Shannie. That's just the new topic I want
to talk about.

Speaker 1 (01:30:57):
If you guys haven't hit the podcast, go check out
some of the episodes. If you're not a part of
the Gender Wars, make sure you get up in there
and cash some pink tickets out and let's have this conversation.
You guys can ping the room out, share the room out.
But let's get to the topic. Are men testing for
femininity and submission early on?

Speaker 9 (01:31:13):
Early?

Speaker 5 (01:31:14):
Like early? He talked about the first date. Of course,
first date's trash, you're trash.

Speaker 7 (01:31:18):
I would speak to some new.

Speaker 5 (01:31:19):
Dynamics and some new conversations. How y'all feel about this time?

Speaker 27 (01:31:22):
I would hope so.

Speaker 25 (01:31:23):
And Happy Friday, y'all?

Speaker 5 (01:31:25):
Queen what.

Speaker 25 (01:31:27):
I would hope so?

Speaker 9 (01:31:28):
Because Hello Friday, Mama.

Speaker 21 (01:31:31):
Hey, yeah, you got them free?

Speaker 9 (01:31:36):
I like out. I like the ouf in your profile out.

Speaker 36 (01:31:39):
Yeah.

Speaker 46 (01:31:40):
Too many people be focusing on the external because a
woman could look like this but had them crusty hills,
you know what I'm saying, Like they have to know that.

Speaker 25 (01:31:47):
It goes beyond that.

Speaker 46 (01:31:48):
But if he's testing for these things early on, it
speaks a lot about him too, because he wants some
of them somebody to match his his play, you know.

Speaker 25 (01:31:56):
So it's a good topic.

Speaker 5 (01:32:00):
Hmmm. I like that, Queenna. Thank you for joining us
today on the war floor.

Speaker 1 (01:32:04):
Is anybody else that want to come into the topic, Jazz,
Rosie Kim, Shawney, Andrea thank you for joining us Blues
on the phone, because you know she'll be blabbering right now.

Speaker 5 (01:32:12):
If she wasn't. But let's get back.

Speaker 1 (01:32:16):
Are men testing for femininity and submission early on? Let's
leave it popcorn style for now until we get into
the next conversation.

Speaker 5 (01:32:24):
Who's here? Who want to jump in? Check your backchat out? God?

Speaker 47 (01:32:29):
Definitely think that so I think from then it comes
so natural for a lot of us. But he should
definitely be checking her see whether she is really into
being who we are created to be, just women as
a whole, just nice and soft and unsubmission. It could
look any kind of way, just small things. I don't

(01:32:52):
think she should be going all out testing all kinds
of you know, major things that you would consider submitting,
but definitely a little small things I think will be good.

Speaker 4 (01:33:03):
Thanks.

Speaker 1 (01:33:06):
Okay, this is my question for the women. Should you
show femininity and submission early on?

Speaker 5 (01:33:13):
Yep?

Speaker 1 (01:33:15):
All the women on the stage, I would love to
hear this. Yep, that's my question for the women. And
you know the questions at the top. Are men testing
for femininity and submission?

Speaker 9 (01:33:26):
What up? Oh?

Speaker 5 (01:33:27):
Yeah? I want to go to sleep now, now y'all
want to sleep?

Speaker 4 (01:33:31):
I just didn't want to jump back.

Speaker 47 (01:33:32):
I come from old school, you know, so old school,
so I am I am feminine, very feminine.

Speaker 4 (01:33:40):
But I also submit that.

Speaker 47 (01:33:41):
You guys can see sometimes how I am on these
stages that you know someone else, I kind of submit
just automatically. I'll yield to people on this stage if
someone else is speaking, and yeah, I submit when I'm
dating someone. I am a lady at all times.

Speaker 4 (01:34:00):
I don't.

Speaker 5 (01:34:01):
So why do a lot of people give it pushback? Andre?
I understand the position you're in, but why do we
have these beasts that want to push back on, you know,
acting like a woman.

Speaker 47 (01:34:11):
I think, I think, I think it may sometimes sometimes
some of the talking points makes it sound so hard,
but as I see women in real life, they are
doing just that. They are submissive to their man. You know,
I don't know necessarily that you would always submit to everybody,
but for me, you know, I just I believe that

(01:34:33):
men and men, I do anticipate that he submits also
to me. You know, I also think that he would
submit as well. Yeah, I think, I think, Yeah, I
think it's it's a two way street. I think we
submit to each other, you know, so automatic, automatically. A
man that if he's my husband, and of course he's

(01:34:54):
the leader of my house, I'm always gonna sumit him,
but just in meeting him. I'm not going to even
go on a date with you if I don't think
you were sub meeting too, I'm just not gonna do it.
I'm not If I don't think I can follow whatever
you're talking about when we're having a discussion, I'm.

Speaker 4 (01:35:08):
Not going out with you.

Speaker 1 (01:35:09):
That's another question that got Andre is like, if you
feel like the person isn't worthy, are you going on
a date with not at all?

Speaker 5 (01:35:16):
Word like, you know, like worthy, worth, you know, the worth,
your time, worth, the everything. That's another one. I'm gonna
put that pull up. But let's continue this. Are men
testing for femininity and submission? Early on? Thank you for that, Busher,
thanks for coming.

Speaker 1 (01:35:29):
Up, Evitt, Chris Gladstone, Black Jagger, Director, Mango, everybody that's
on the stage, Kim, thank you for coming up.

Speaker 5 (01:35:36):
Shawnee. Let's get into this.

Speaker 1 (01:35:39):
Have you ever you guys been in a situation where
you guys were tested for submission or femininity? Let's talk
about this popcorn style for now. I'm gonna leave it open.
Who wants to come in next?

Speaker 9 (01:35:53):
Oh? Hello?

Speaker 19 (01:35:54):
Everyone?

Speaker 15 (01:35:56):
Oh that's for me.

Speaker 48 (01:35:59):
I think no woman is submittive? What you saying yes, no,
woman is submissive. It depends on what. Yes, it depends
on what you give them, what.

Speaker 5 (01:36:14):
The man is giving them, materialist.

Speaker 9 (01:36:20):
What like.

Speaker 48 (01:36:23):
No, it's depend on I mean the character in everything, right,
it's what you give to the woman should give it
back to you. If you're giving her peace, she definitely
give you peace. If I'm giving her if you're submissive,
it turns over you're loving her, she would definitely do

(01:36:45):
that for you. But if I give now war, fuck yes,
that's the true.

Speaker 9 (01:36:55):
Go to.

Speaker 5 (01:36:57):
What is going on?

Speaker 44 (01:36:59):
Just say this Sacks before I get to please all
these men, is testing for early on in the relationships,
how quickly they can drop THEMN draws that's into your panties, ladies.

(01:37:20):
They want to know how quickly they can get.

Speaker 9 (01:37:22):
Your bed room.

Speaker 27 (01:37:25):
And they don't care if you've been missive early on
in this relationship at all. Period.

Speaker 4 (01:37:30):
One thing, one mind, focused on one thing only.

Speaker 9 (01:37:34):
You think that's done.

Speaker 4 (01:37:37):
I'm done, I'm done.

Speaker 35 (01:37:39):
Do you think that's all mental?

Speaker 6 (01:37:42):
It's all of y'all?

Speaker 4 (01:37:43):
Yes, it is absolutely.

Speaker 35 (01:37:46):
Let's let's stop for.

Speaker 27 (01:37:52):
I felt like being toxic this morning.

Speaker 30 (01:37:54):
Okay, y'all have at it.

Speaker 1 (01:37:57):
Wow, Rosie, please have this poll. If you guys haven't
roted this poll, please hit it. Our women submitting early on.
I've heard from Busher. I think he's lying on the stage.
But we will continue this conversation. Mosaiyah, thank you for
coming up. Shaquette, Fina, let's continue this conversation. Anybody can

(01:38:18):
jump in. Our men testing for femininity and submission early
on in a situation relationship for I don't know, but
I want to, you know, talk about this. Anybody can
jump in. Let's go popcorn stuff and now also vote
the pole too. Anybody can jump in.

Speaker 16 (01:38:35):
Hey, this is Shaquette, Hello, good morning everybody. Are men
testing for femininity and submission early on? I think that
depends on the man. If that's those are the qualities
that he wants, he should be trying to figure out
if those are the qualities that she possesses. I'm not

(01:38:56):
sure about the word testing. I don't necessarily know if
a man is like, you know, giving you a scenario
that you have to do in order to show that
your submissive submissive or not. But I do know that
if those are the qualities you're looking for, you should
be you know, at least asking questions or at least

(01:39:17):
seeing how she deals day to day, to see if
she is feminine and submissive.

Speaker 27 (01:39:22):
And that is all I have to say.

Speaker 47 (01:39:24):
I land my plane.

Speaker 1 (01:39:31):
Definitely depends on you and what you're looking for right
it say you want to kill her, you know, date
Stunner even though she's not here. Right now, you want
to talk to girl, date Rosie right like you want
to beast you date here?

Speaker 5 (01:39:46):
Okay, you want something with femininity. You look for that,
and you search for that. You understand.

Speaker 1 (01:39:54):
Let's continue this ship, man, whoever else wants to jump in,
let's go. Are men testing for femilie? I don't know, man,
I feel like you're quiet.

Speaker 16 (01:40:02):
Man.

Speaker 5 (01:40:02):
They scared me. They're scared of this one.

Speaker 9 (01:40:04):
Man.

Speaker 5 (01:40:05):
Are you testing for this ship? I would? I would would?

Speaker 9 (01:40:10):
How would you?

Speaker 6 (01:40:11):
I feel like, how would you test a woman?

Speaker 4 (01:40:13):
How would you test?

Speaker 5 (01:40:17):
You have to see? Now you got now, you got
me thinking.

Speaker 1 (01:40:19):
I gotta go on my archive now and think about
how I'm gonna test you now since you want to
put me on the spot.

Speaker 5 (01:40:23):
You want to put me on the spot.

Speaker 1 (01:40:24):
That, Huh's a bunch of testing life. There's a bunch
of testing life that you could think about. I have
to test your loyalty. I gotta test if you respect shit.
I gotta test if you if I can trust your ass?
Huh what if I don't try, I don't know you.
I don't put you all through all types of burning
hoops and holes in hula hoops.

Speaker 5 (01:40:42):
Who the fuck are you? You get it?

Speaker 9 (01:40:45):
I got you.

Speaker 5 (01:40:45):
Gotta test some type of people. I mean, people be
weak nowadays.

Speaker 1 (01:40:48):
Man, what you're standing on, you're standing on principles, you're
standing on morals, You're standing what's up? It's gotta be
some type of test. I feel like men get it too,
or women, you know, vice versa. Y'all put us through
tests to a questions. Let's continue.

Speaker 7 (01:41:02):
So I'm backtracking because I wanted to ask you earlier.
But if you on the first date and she tries
to eat off your plate, is that deal?

Speaker 5 (01:41:13):
But it depends it.

Speaker 35 (01:41:16):
It's circumstantial. How long have we been the day? So
you don't just lect stranger?

Speaker 5 (01:41:24):
Correct? This is a stranger? Oh no, she got.

Speaker 8 (01:41:32):
Absolutely, Yeah, expeditiously she's.

Speaker 9 (01:41:35):
Going, Wait, what was the question? Move?

Speaker 25 (01:41:39):
Man, you better pass me that.

Speaker 49 (01:41:42):
They love to eat off you know, she said, I
call herself, he said. Director said, let's say you go
on the first date with with a young lady and
y'all don't have no reports.

Speaker 5 (01:41:52):
She is a stranger. Yeah, you sees your plate.

Speaker 35 (01:41:59):
It's eating off of your plate.

Speaker 12 (01:42:01):
What you're doing, I'm tell her hold on, wait a minute, now,
come here, eat off this this pool, baby, just what
you want, give it to her. And what happened a
Roman romance gabbing to beauty and the bee lady ging
to a lady in the tramp?

Speaker 9 (01:42:20):
What happened that she came up before you.

Speaker 5 (01:42:23):
We're not doing this.

Speaker 35 (01:42:25):
I'm not not you talking to not you. We're not
doing this tricks. I don't know you like that. Where
is your daddy?

Speaker 5 (01:42:34):
I'm not doing it.

Speaker 35 (01:42:35):
Yeah, we don't have no rapport.

Speaker 5 (01:42:37):
Don't work like that. Your woof said, it's a rap.
You don't stick your fucking beastleep monkey grippers and my food. Okay,
what do you mean?

Speaker 9 (01:42:47):
What does you mean by that part?

Speaker 6 (01:42:51):
You tell a beautiful woman she can't You'll tell a
beautiful woman she can't taste it?

Speaker 5 (01:42:57):
If it was our first date, she looks, she wants,
she wants.

Speaker 12 (01:43:04):
Us to sit, can taste anything she wants to, And
I'm gonna tell her don't start, don't stop.

Speaker 9 (01:43:16):
Anything.

Speaker 4 (01:43:18):
If she can't taste her food, then.

Speaker 5 (01:43:21):
I got you your own plate. Why are you sticking
your nasty grease?

Speaker 9 (01:43:25):
Are young?

Speaker 6 (01:43:27):
Now you're dating someone nasty? She has to be.

Speaker 5 (01:43:33):
Put your fingers in my food? Red flag? He's crazy. Yeah,
you didn't even ask me. You just dived in. Wow.

Speaker 15 (01:43:45):
Cool.

Speaker 6 (01:43:47):
Why it's like one of those things where it's one
thing if he offers me to taste it, and it's
one thing if I just stick my fork across the
table and did all of his food. I think that's
the difference. Now, if you ask, right, Jack, I got
especially for the first day.

Speaker 5 (01:44:01):
Now, if you ask, hey, listen, I didn't get it.

Speaker 9 (01:44:05):
I'm listening, man, get it out.

Speaker 5 (01:44:08):
Asks like how Jazz just did it?

Speaker 9 (01:44:11):
I will.

Speaker 23 (01:44:11):
I'll give you a little slice I'll put I'll cut
it up for you.

Speaker 5 (01:44:15):
I'll cut it up for you.

Speaker 1 (01:44:16):
I put it on the little other little plate they
got the right there next to you, and I'll give
you some. But it's the way you do your food.
I don't got no respect. I don't understand.

Speaker 9 (01:44:30):
She's looking at my plate like wait what wait, wait,
wait what we want that ship? Wait?

Speaker 33 (01:44:36):
Did we come to you?

Speaker 9 (01:44:38):
When she said somebody eating ass? Why is he going?

Speaker 27 (01:44:43):
Why is he going for the white?

Speaker 9 (01:44:47):
Is that.

Speaker 5 (01:44:49):
Mute?

Speaker 9 (01:44:49):
It?

Speaker 8 (01:44:51):
Would we talk about eating your ass food?

Speaker 19 (01:44:54):
That's crazy?

Speaker 5 (01:44:56):
Oh wow? Absolutely absolutely first day just I wasn't ready.
I wasn't ready. I'm good. Okay, what you're saying first
date on Mam Sat.

Speaker 12 (01:45:12):
No, I'm just saying facts, like if she looking like
she want me to put in her mouth, I'm gonna
do it.

Speaker 9 (01:45:16):
You know what I'm saying. Like that, I'm gonna don't
grab my.

Speaker 12 (01:45:19):
Chicken off of the plate though your fingers if it's looking,
if your nails ain't done the way I like it,
you shouldn't try to pick that shirt off my plate.

Speaker 9 (01:45:26):
Kind of nail fetish, you know what I'm saying. But
other than that, I say, hold on, baby, take the time,
not come in.

Speaker 50 (01:45:32):
Wait.

Speaker 7 (01:45:32):
What did she ask for something and end up eating
it the whole thing you just gave it?

Speaker 9 (01:45:35):
Anna slapped the ship out of her hand.

Speaker 12 (01:45:38):
Wow, chuck it out.

Speaker 7 (01:45:44):
So women like to be modest, you know what I'm saying.
So that we had a special restaurant. You're looking at
the menu, she see the prices, so you order what
you order like a steak or like, you know, fish
shrimp all that she ordered like something light because she just,
you know, she don't want to do too much. And
then you're plate and her plate comes. She looking at
your plate. That's really what she wants to order, but
she didn't order, so now she's like, oh, can I

(01:46:05):
get the fork over? And then you're like, okay, cool,
So then you're like, no, get you something, So then
you give her a place she just get to eat it.

Speaker 5 (01:46:13):
Director. Nobody told her to order chicken. Grow up, That's
what I'm saying. Grow up there, nobody. Nobody told you
to order chicken tendant.

Speaker 1 (01:46:23):
So when you see my steak, you know, and now
you want something, orders you eat your motherfucking kiddy dino
dinner with your mother. Nobody told you to get that
ship that we could have gotten, you know, ragged on
the rag. You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 5 (01:46:41):
Now you want someone? Now you want some other ship?
Got that on the rag from the you know what
I mean?

Speaker 4 (01:46:50):
Like what you're doing, but question fellas, so right, get
me out.

Speaker 6 (01:46:57):
I've also heard men say that they don't want women
eating certain things on.

Speaker 5 (01:47:01):
The first day, So what are y'all do?

Speaker 27 (01:47:04):
Let's talk about it, like say she like.

Speaker 6 (01:47:07):
She want to let appetizer, she wants, you know, a
few drinks. She won't steak potatoes three sides? Is that
too much?

Speaker 1 (01:47:16):
It's a it's a respectful a mons like the first date.
Don't order those whole ship like. It's a it's a
it's a way you go about ship like people will
be going on dates and let me get this home
in you just because you ain't paying for it. It's
a certain way you do it and a certain type
of the korn you you do the ship with, Like
you don't order the whole menu, like are you okay?

Speaker 5 (01:47:36):
Are you cool? Did you not eat at home? Do
you not have food at home?

Speaker 9 (01:47:39):
Do you need?

Speaker 5 (01:47:40):
You know what I'm saying?

Speaker 1 (01:47:40):
So I start to worry, like you want the whole
entire menu. It's kind of it's kind of a it's
kind of a drag, but usually sure to get whatever
she wants. But it's not over the top, Like you
know what's over the top? You feel me like, come on,
we'll be doing here.

Speaker 5 (01:47:55):
I'm all for get what you want. Of course, what
you'all gonna land to get whatever you more? Run it over.

Speaker 7 (01:48:04):
I'm gonna get an imaginary emergency call. I gotta go instantly.

Speaker 9 (01:48:08):
Great, Wait, what's going on? I missed? I missed, I
missed that. That question? What was the question? Question?

Speaker 21 (01:48:15):
Now?

Speaker 5 (01:48:15):
I was saying something with Jazz said, what'd you say? Jazz?
What was I riding on?

Speaker 9 (01:48:19):
Basically?

Speaker 6 (01:48:20):
Essentially, y, is there a limit to what she can
order on the first date? Like she can get an act?
Like can't she get an appetizer, a few drinks, you know,
a few sides.

Speaker 4 (01:48:29):
You know she wants the surf and turf too. You
know what I'm saying?

Speaker 6 (01:48:32):
Is there a limit like?

Speaker 12 (01:48:34):
Okay, like the last weekend I took someone out, but
I have my own budget. My budget was three hundred.
I rather to get appetizer, I rather to get a
drink to.

Speaker 9 (01:48:46):
Get the main course too. I don't was I don't
see nothing wrong with that. I mean, I'm confused. Already
supposed to do that or something the whole entire menu
yan the whole time, that she gonna pay for half that?

Speaker 1 (01:49:01):
Now I was saying now that all Jazz was saying
was cool signs little ship, that's cool whatever, that's normal ship.

Speaker 5 (01:49:08):
What's a point when it's like, all right? You know
what I mean people who ordered it half to mean
for you'll be surprised. People will take advantage of your pocket.

Speaker 7 (01:49:18):
She got, they're ordered they.

Speaker 6 (01:49:30):
I ain't gonna lie.

Speaker 9 (01:49:31):
Who is that?

Speaker 4 (01:49:32):
Mosea? Sorry? I hope I say your name right.

Speaker 6 (01:49:36):
I had a own girl who will literally get an
advertiser into andres, and y'all would think she fat.

Speaker 4 (01:49:42):
She's not fat. She will take women.

Speaker 6 (01:49:45):
I just think that was crazy, you know what I'm saying.
But she was straight getting like pasta and state, you know,
like why you need to?

Speaker 9 (01:49:52):
But do you need to?

Speaker 5 (01:49:55):
Why do you need to entrees to go?

Speaker 9 (01:49:56):
Though?

Speaker 5 (01:49:56):
It's kind of like when you need one now with
one for Late's crazy.

Speaker 9 (01:49:59):
It's just.

Speaker 27 (01:50:01):
Work tomorrow. She's trying to make sure she got something.

Speaker 9 (01:50:05):
Oh no, we ain't doing that. Ain't doing that.

Speaker 1 (01:50:10):
For get what I'm talking about. It's a certain part
where it's like, okay, we got one entred. A couple
appetizes all your drinks.

Speaker 6 (01:50:18):
Yeah you o.

Speaker 5 (01:50:19):
D in is certain type of waing food for tomorrow.

Speaker 12 (01:50:27):
She better save her food for tomorrow. You getting to
two mills, two mills? Hold on, director, you're getting two mills.
As we're sitting down and I'm looking at you for us.
That's three mills at.

Speaker 9 (01:50:42):
The same time. Ain't doing that.

Speaker 12 (01:50:45):
I'm gonna say after the first drink head, she could
do that, then God, she don't direct for the first one,
she paid for the second one her.

Speaker 21 (01:51:03):
Yeah, you've never been to a place and the food
was so good that you already knew that you was
gonna eat what you was coming to eat, and then
he was gonna order something else off to me you
to take for the next for tomorrow.

Speaker 9 (01:51:13):
Yeah, I've done yeah, of course, never experienced that.

Speaker 12 (01:51:17):
Yeah, well, when was the point of that?

Speaker 27 (01:51:22):
I think some people.

Speaker 16 (01:51:23):
I think some women are you know, and I excuse
me to all the women that might be bombs, but
I think some women are bombs.

Speaker 4 (01:51:30):
I think that.

Speaker 16 (01:51:31):
I think that if you're really trying to get a
meal to go, so you got some food at home
then and you want him to pay for it, then
you kind of bumming.

Speaker 27 (01:51:40):
You're trying to be a bomb, and.

Speaker 4 (01:51:42):
That's a mess.

Speaker 9 (01:51:46):
I don't knock your hustle, So shorty, just.

Speaker 5 (01:51:50):
Wait, wait what.

Speaker 6 (01:51:52):
You go out with you and I want a second entre.

Speaker 46 (01:51:54):
I'm gonna pay for that ship myself for yourself, Yes, sir,
what what was that you said.

Speaker 25 (01:52:02):
I said, I'm just listening.

Speaker 46 (01:52:04):
Sometimes less is best, just listening to the various people
who have that experience. Y'all teaching me that, you know,
being independent for a long time could definitely have his
disadvantages because I don't think any man, woman, whatever, can dictate.
You know, if you don't want to pay for anything.

Speaker 25 (01:52:20):
I got a baby. You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 46 (01:52:22):
If I want to order three entrees but this, which
I won't of course, but it's just about you know
how y'all are saying, Oh, if she ordered this, she
ordered that, it's like kick rocks and I'm gonna drive myself.

Speaker 25 (01:52:33):
I don't know. Y'all just teaching me a little bit.
Being independent wrong?

Speaker 9 (01:52:38):
What we're wrong with that? Do you think that you
can just.

Speaker 16 (01:52:43):
Wrong?

Speaker 9 (01:52:43):
No?

Speaker 25 (01:52:44):
I wouldn't be taught by any wrong information.

Speaker 27 (01:52:46):
That would be crazy.

Speaker 9 (01:52:47):
You know. I said, you're a pretty young lady. I
guarantee you some guys take you out.

Speaker 15 (01:52:54):
They give you the.

Speaker 46 (01:52:56):
Prioritize my baby girl, and you know, country live all that.
So my OGB saying, get outside, get outside. I want
you to have whatever, but I don't. So when I do, though,
I'll keep this conversation in mind, I guess well.

Speaker 16 (01:53:11):
For me, like even when I take even when I
take my friends out to eat, like I don't want
because I I'll pay for my friends to eat. I
don't want her ordering like sixteen meals like that. Like
I understand, like if you, if you down bad, we

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can go to the grocery store and I could we
could go do something like that. But if we're going
out to eat, like why are you buying three or
four meals? Like I'll help you if you down bad
for real, But if you just trying to use me
that that's kind of.

Speaker 5 (01:53:49):
I don't exactly.

Speaker 1 (01:53:52):
Now, if you guys are just now joining we'aring gender wars,
please pick the room out and share the room out.
But my next question for everybody on the floor, y'all
see it at the top. Yay, you're gonna be the
first beast to answer this if you would like. But
should you follow up or wait for them to text
you first?

Speaker 9 (01:54:10):
Mm hmm?

Speaker 1 (01:54:11):
This is the new question on the table, you fucking beasts.
How do you feel about it?

Speaker 6 (01:54:19):
Oh?

Speaker 9 (01:54:19):
Should I'll follow? What? Okay? Give me a scenario?

Speaker 1 (01:54:24):
Okay, okay, okay, Now texting you're talking for a few right,
mm hmm. Date comes up?

Speaker 5 (01:54:36):
Your plan it you don't get a text back? What happens?
What do you do? Do you follow up?

Speaker 9 (01:54:43):
Huh?

Speaker 5 (01:54:44):
Or do you wait for the person to text you?
What do you do?

Speaker 9 (01:54:47):
Yeah, I'll wait for a text.

Speaker 5 (01:54:51):
Met Wow, So you're not persistent?

Speaker 9 (01:54:54):
Is that a bad thing? I'm no, I'm not gonna
chase you. I'm not going to pressure you like I'm
not a young man.

Speaker 12 (01:54:59):
That's so if I don't, if you don't hit me,
I'm able to pump something to night type man right back.

Speaker 9 (01:55:06):
I'm gonna wait for this text. Other than that, I'll
be chilling.

Speaker 45 (01:55:12):
Bro.

Speaker 9 (01:55:13):
Maybe the young bros could put the answer that ayo,
Max director?

Speaker 5 (01:55:18):
Who else was on the floor feeling you feel about this?

Speaker 7 (01:55:22):
Yeah, I'm not following up. I got a rotation. I'm
gonna text three of them, right, whoever responds first is
to get the first. You know what I'm saying, seniority
first one, first.

Speaker 1 (01:55:37):
First one, first service crazy yay, whoa, this is amazing, amazing.

Speaker 7 (01:55:44):
With the other two, I'm a double back. Something came up.

Speaker 5 (01:55:46):
We could do it tomorrow one time, Yeah, he said,
I'm doing the next week. He said, next week go tomorrow. Bro,
it's crazy, I got a rotation. Oh my god?

Speaker 1 (01:56:01):
Should you follow up or wait for them to text
you first? Anybody could jump in thank you for joining
mac Andrea or Rosie Jazz, Shanie, anybody on the floor
that just came up. How y'all feel about this new topic?
Should you, guys, follow up or wait for the person
to Any scenarios are welcome. It doesn't matter. Let's have
an open style conversation.

Speaker 9 (01:56:26):
No all that wants she's thinking about this, spoit yourself, like.

Speaker 5 (01:56:31):
What is it?

Speaker 6 (01:56:34):
I would say from the lady aspect, if he like
mentions the date, but I don't hear about it again.

Speaker 4 (01:56:40):
I'm not texting again to figure out if.

Speaker 5 (01:56:42):
We're going or not. Ooh, Jazz, that's a good one.

Speaker 6 (01:56:45):
Jack, No, like you asked me, why would I be like, hey,
so about that day? Fuck though, I'm sorry, I'm not
doing that. But I don't know about the man though,
because I mean, if you if she don't respond, I
don't know because in the other room, if like she
don't respond, it kind of stunded, like she don't want
to go with you, so why would you follow up?

Speaker 19 (01:57:02):
Because she really wants to go?

Speaker 4 (01:57:03):
She was going, I don't know, but you know some
of y'all feelings.

Speaker 1 (01:57:07):
Y'all text eight times, so Jazz that that means, yeah,
I feel like more men need to take that hint.

Speaker 5 (01:57:19):
If she don't text you back and don't follow up,
it's over.

Speaker 9 (01:57:25):
It's over.

Speaker 1 (01:57:26):
Give it up player. That's why I understand what director
was saying. He said, man, I got a rotation. Man,
it's over.

Speaker 5 (01:57:37):
Wish she me bring her up. She had a fire
ass interview. If you guys ain't checked out the rock interview,
make sure you do that.

Speaker 1 (01:57:42):
A sad But should you follow up or wait for
them to text first? Yay said he's not following up.
Jazz also came in and said, why the fuck I
mean to follow up? I follow up if you have
not text me, but then I want me to want you. Guys,
think about something. People are persistent on texting. They will

(01:58:02):
chase you.

Speaker 5 (01:58:03):
They will chase you, women and men.

Speaker 1 (01:58:07):
How do you duck this, Jazz, Yay, how do you?
How do you get away from the hyenas that chase
you in the suit, the nurses in the snake suits.

Speaker 12 (01:58:20):
They won't stop calling me Mannah, the snakes, the snake suit.

Speaker 9 (01:58:24):
I taste stuff something different, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 12 (01:58:28):
But officially I had after I find out the baby wasn't.

Speaker 5 (01:58:33):
Oh, so you had a this random baby that wasn't yours.

Speaker 9 (01:58:37):
Great chop the club, my boy. You know how I go.
This was years ago. Don't judge me now.

Speaker 5 (01:58:46):
Eight Shawnee are you here with me? Let me see
if Shawnee is available.

Speaker 1 (01:58:54):
It's crazy, Andre, how you feel about when you text someone?
Are you following up?

Speaker 5 (01:58:58):
Andrea?

Speaker 4 (01:58:59):
Talk to me so, I'm not a real texter.

Speaker 47 (01:59:02):
I'm more of a conversation. So if we had a
conversation about something, then I'm gonna call you as opposed
to texting you about a date, I'm gonna call you
and just see what you're talking like, I'm not gonna
ask you.

Speaker 4 (01:59:17):
Or when about a date.

Speaker 47 (01:59:19):
Because if we're gonna go on a date, if we
agreed that you know we're aligned, we're gonna go on
a date, We're gonna go.

Speaker 4 (01:59:25):
But I'm not gonna ask you.

Speaker 1 (01:59:26):
I've never so you're just gonna let so. So, Andre,
you'll let the communication go dry, You'll let it go south.
Before you tried to be like what's going on and
follow up?

Speaker 47 (01:59:37):
Okay, yeah, because the drive. That means that there was
nothing there, So I'm not gonna pursue it any other
I'm not gonna pursue you.

Speaker 13 (01:59:48):
Sorry, not sorry?

Speaker 5 (01:59:52):
Yeah, yeah, yep.

Speaker 1 (01:59:54):
Doesn't sound like anyone's gonna follow up. And why the
follow up apart like what happened to the chase?

Speaker 5 (02:00:02):
No one wants to follow up in what is going on?

Speaker 47 (02:00:09):
Who's actually doing the chasing? I'm not a chaser. I'm
not gonna chase.

Speaker 9 (02:00:13):
Women aren't chasing more than men nowadays.

Speaker 5 (02:00:15):
Oh that's a good topic. Yeah, you's chasing who you have?
Wolho's chasing who? So?

Speaker 1 (02:00:25):
Yeah, why did you say that? Why did you automatically
say women are chasing men?

Speaker 5 (02:00:30):
Huh?

Speaker 9 (02:00:32):
They do?

Speaker 5 (02:00:32):
They do?

Speaker 9 (02:00:32):
They chase more nowadays. Nowadays the men, the men used
to be the hunters. Now the women turn to the
hunters and the men not a praise.

Speaker 5 (02:00:41):
The men are the praise and the women are the hunters.

Speaker 19 (02:00:44):
Are you.

Speaker 9 (02:00:47):
Call me back? Niggas? What come down like? Niggah call
me back? You feel me? Type of jokes.

Speaker 47 (02:01:02):
It's like this, if I give you an inch, I
suspect that you would take you or five or ten
or you know a whole mile whatever.

Speaker 24 (02:01:11):
You know.

Speaker 47 (02:01:12):
I just I'm gonna give you a little bit, and
it's up to you. If I if I'm showing interest,
then it's up to you to get it to the
next base. It's not up to me to get it
to the next bace. It's up to you to get
it to the next bax.

Speaker 4 (02:01:26):
Our reciprocate.

Speaker 47 (02:01:28):
To show me that that's what you're wanting.

Speaker 9 (02:01:30):
To do, can I yep?

Speaker 5 (02:01:33):
You can come in yep.

Speaker 16 (02:01:35):
In my situation, my husband was chasing me. He was,
you know, he was like really chasing me for like
a year or two and I was like nah, nah.
And then one day he was like, you're gonna be
my wife, but if you keep playing games on and
marry somebody else.

Speaker 8 (02:01:50):
And the moment, at least.

Speaker 16 (02:01:56):
The moment he was exploring his other options, That's when
I was like, oh so, when, oh.

Speaker 5 (02:02:02):
So, when, oh so, Matt, didn't we talk about that.

Speaker 1 (02:02:05):
Wait a minute, Wait a minute, Wait a minute, when
Wait a minute, Yeah, we talked about this.

Speaker 5 (02:02:12):
When people's backs are against the wall, they will submit
to the all right way. I don't want to lose that. Yeah, motherfucker,
you better stop playing. People will show the love.

Speaker 1 (02:02:26):
After you are about to cut them off, when the
love is about the when I'm about to take all
this shit away and strip it from underneath your damn
fingertips and knock you off the ladder. Now you want
to come back and realize what you was about to miss?
How many people do that shit? How many people do

(02:02:46):
that shit?

Speaker 9 (02:02:49):
Let me look in the crowd.

Speaker 12 (02:02:50):
Let me look at the hold on, muteop, young man,
let me mute. Let me look into the crowd real quick.
Make sure none of my sort here. So you know
that I've been learned that long long time ago that
you know what I'm saying. So a lot of clowns,
I'm like, yo, you know I pull that on them
and it has.

Speaker 9 (02:03:05):
Absolutely nobody over there on the side. Just do it.
They come running, Yes.

Speaker 5 (02:03:12):
You're manipulating. Fuck what the hell?

Speaker 1 (02:03:16):
So that's what happens. So you're gonna marry someone else, right, director?
And then they come running back to your feet. I
say I'm going to do something. I threaten you and
you come.

Speaker 13 (02:03:28):
Back great, But are you chasing somebody jumping?

Speaker 5 (02:03:33):
Anybody can jump in this popcorn stuff? Let's go.

Speaker 45 (02:03:38):
So so for me, you know, if you're coming in
hot with someone and you guys are communicating. It's reciprocal
and you know it's going smoothly. You got to look
at people's patterns as well, because the minute that pattern changes,
you know that they're either looking at somebody else, interested
in somebody else, or trying to date somebody else. You're

(02:04:00):
not number one anymore. So for me, it's frequency, consistency,
and reciprocity. Once that goes away, I go away.

Speaker 6 (02:04:10):
Why y'all wanna? I don't see fellas y'all need to
stop buying these running shoes.

Speaker 4 (02:04:17):
I don't.

Speaker 6 (02:04:18):
I don't know why so many women want to be
like chased. You know, I don't be under If you're
really interested in that man, just go get him. You
know that he wants you and you want him. What
are you waiting for for this man? I ain't gonna
a lot of usas if you would have been. If
I would have been running after you for a year,
I don't care when you came back, it would have

(02:04:38):
been a no go if I was a man, Right,
if I was a man, you would never you would
have never gotten to come back.

Speaker 4 (02:04:44):
No, that's a year, is you what?

Speaker 34 (02:04:47):
No?

Speaker 6 (02:04:48):
I'm sorry now I understand Like Okay, you initiate the
first time, maybe she didn't catch the hint because you know,
some people just don't know how to read the roup.
Maybe the second time you follow up, like you know,
da da da da. A year absolutely not.

Speaker 16 (02:05:01):
I was working on myself. I was working on myself,
trying to get my mental health in order.

Speaker 9 (02:05:07):
Okay, that's what they say.

Speaker 27 (02:05:10):
Literally, I know that's what.

Speaker 16 (02:05:12):
Women say, but literally, I've been through some I've been
through some ship and I didn't want to bring that
into a relationship.

Speaker 27 (02:05:18):
So I was like, give me, give me some time,
give me some time. And then he was like, okay,
you you're mental gonna be right, but you ain't gonna
have me. And I'm like, okay, let me just just
try to figure this out.

Speaker 12 (02:05:30):
Yeah, I'll let you go figure it out by yourself.
You be round past you, and then I jump out
the car going to the store. Don't come back. Don't
come behind me trying to holler at me. You're taking
that ahead of ash over there.

Speaker 9 (02:05:43):
I don't want to deal with you. Hope you're fixed.
I know it sounds hard, but you know you you
you play with me, that's okay.

Speaker 12 (02:05:55):
I learned a lot bout blessed and you know, and
I know people need to heal. I get it, But
why did you holler at me in the first place?

Speaker 9 (02:06:06):
Why did you waste my time in the beginning of
those first two weeks or three weeks, and then you
know to me, it's gonna stand like you you didn't
see no interest in me? You know, can tell me
if I'm not or not.

Speaker 33 (02:06:21):
You are.

Speaker 9 (02:06:22):
You probably really trying to work on yourself. But then
you just wasting my time. So I'm like, you do that. Nah,
I hope you're heal. That's how I do it, and
I just hope ahead.

Speaker 16 (02:06:31):
But I wasn't wasting his time. I was honest the
from the jump. Men always talk about, oh, we don't
want masculine women.

Speaker 27 (02:06:37):
We don't want women that are like this and like that.

Speaker 16 (02:06:39):
And when I'm trying to get myself together and I
be that woman to come into the relationship with all
this baggage.

Speaker 27 (02:06:46):
Then y'all talk about, oh, you got to drop her.

Speaker 16 (02:06:48):
You can't be.

Speaker 27 (02:06:49):
Waiting and she's wasting your time. He could have done whatever.

Speaker 12 (02:06:52):
He stay in the house, then yill just staying in
hell and then we ready to come out, then go
holler at somebody isn't the house of well, you're not
gonna go back on the football player until you go
football feeling that your body's filled up so you can
go out there and run.

Speaker 16 (02:07:06):
I think with y'all not getting is we was in
close proximity to each other day today at work, so
he was always seeing me. He was always seeing me,
and I was always seeing him. It was never like, oh, uh,
you know we're gonna be You're gonna exclusively be with
me or whatever.

Speaker 24 (02:07:24):
No I was.

Speaker 16 (02:07:24):
I was up front with him like, hey, I got
some things to work on. You know do do you
you know I still got things to work on.

Speaker 4 (02:07:33):
It wasn't like, oh, me.

Speaker 16 (02:07:35):
Playing or anything or being manipulative. No, I was just like, hey,
I got things to work on.

Speaker 12 (02:07:47):
I'm telling from the outside looking and not you know not,
I'm empathetic on what he has out started looking in.

Speaker 9 (02:07:55):
If you don't tell me right away, then I you know,
I'm don't feel like you're trying people play a game.
Let's not be like that here is Zach.

Speaker 1 (02:08:08):
If you guys are just joining our men the new
prey while women hunt, this is the new topic. Yeah,
you made me think of something a lot of weak
motherfuckers that will fall for a lot of ship. The
women hunt. We've seen a lot of this. Let's have
this ship Andre I've seen this a lot. Shawnee Jazz,
I've seen this. Everybody on the stage, cat Qina, I've

(02:08:31):
seen this. East I've seen this. Are men the new
prey while women hunt? Wearing a new conversation? Now anybody
can grab this mic, pop on stuff and now let's
talk about it.

Speaker 5 (02:08:41):
What's the context of it?

Speaker 1 (02:08:44):
Okay, you're being preyed on. Maybe maybe maybe you have
maybe have some money, maybe you have something they can
benefit from. Right, women usually pray on men and have status, money,
maybe something they can benefit from.

Speaker 5 (02:09:03):
How do you feel about that? Let's talk about it.

Speaker 51 (02:09:05):
But yeah, I mean, you know, what's the what's those
NBA player Jalen Green?

Speaker 5 (02:09:11):
What's that? What's the other one that played for the
uh uh? Fuck?

Speaker 51 (02:09:16):
What's what's shorty named that? That she was fucking with
Kevin Gates and my son let her go. I forgot
Brittany did Brittany she was fucking with? So like I
that's definitely a thing. I feel like a lot of
bullis don't got sexual discipline.

Speaker 50 (02:09:31):
And you know they get caught up with all these
girls that you know, I mean we we we live
in that era where only fans is a thing and
you know nothing but girls being blasted on your phone
through social media. So you know, I definitely feel like
there's a lot of girls out here that you know,
know how to how to sexualize themselves and get easy victims.

Speaker 5 (02:09:53):
In my opinion, you know, and.

Speaker 6 (02:09:56):
While I agree, sir, that was very amazing, most of
these men are not jayleny Okay, they don't have much
to hunt for. I will just be honest now, I
will say, you know, if you are a fine black man.

Speaker 4 (02:10:14):
And you have no kids, and.

Speaker 6 (02:10:18):
You have a great personality, you have a stable income,
you have stability across the board, I might do a
little hunting. I'm not gonna lie, because that's slim pickings.
You know, a lot of these men are baby daddies.
So it is in fact you may be prayed to
me because I need I need that.

Speaker 12 (02:10:44):
Oh God, you got a problem, baby daddy's nigga, look
at the baby problems.

Speaker 9 (02:10:52):
I don't see that. See those problems, daddy.

Speaker 4 (02:10:56):
Those are the women that are said, I'm sorry, drug.

Speaker 9 (02:11:00):
The women are stolen, you piece of ship.

Speaker 27 (02:11:02):
Who do you think?

Speaker 9 (02:11:02):
Hey, how must have kicked this mother? Right here?

Speaker 5 (02:11:05):
Sack honey, each mod hunted, each mod well on my hand.

Speaker 4 (02:11:10):
From the baby daddy, listen to this saving for the kids.

Speaker 5 (02:11:15):
Wow, by oney from the baby daddy. Wow. I don't know.

Speaker 9 (02:11:24):
Yeah, I take a vote. I take a vote. If
they say one of the in the in the chat
to keep in, I won't shoot up. I won't pay.
But if they say two, I'm going.

Speaker 5 (02:11:34):
To here trying to remove. Jazz is crazy. He's nuts.

Speaker 9 (02:11:43):
Damn ship shot, So I stay guns in it.

Speaker 5 (02:11:49):
Y'all look crazy.

Speaker 1 (02:11:51):
Our men the new prey while women hunt. Jazz says
she's hunting. Chad says she needs that you have something
she's looking for. She's running down on you. Let's continue.
Are men and new prey while women hunt? The floor
is open. Anybody can take the mic. Let's continue.

Speaker 47 (02:12:13):
I think men should really answer that question. Do you
want to be hunted? You want to?

Speaker 4 (02:12:19):
I just I just don't think.

Speaker 47 (02:12:23):
A lot of men.

Speaker 4 (02:12:29):
I just don't think that they do it.

Speaker 18 (02:12:30):
I'm just hard.

Speaker 4 (02:12:32):
Men say, hey, that that role reversal.

Speaker 47 (02:12:35):
They don't like that. But I wouldn't hunt anyway. I'm
not gonna do it. But again, I believe in gender roles.

Speaker 8 (02:12:41):
So go figure.

Speaker 1 (02:12:46):
The hunting, the hunting, the hunting, this is what we're
talking about. I know, Yay hunt hyenas all day and
eats them on his stove. But we are here in
gender No, we are in gender wars.

Speaker 5 (02:12:58):
No no, no, no, no, it's okay. It's okay.

Speaker 1 (02:13:02):
It's okay. It's okay, it's okay. Are the men the
new prey while the women hunts? Let's ast everyone who
wants to come in, Queena East director, anybody on the stage.
You guys can continue the conversation Men and new prey
while women hunt?

Speaker 5 (02:13:19):
Popcorn style?

Speaker 9 (02:13:20):
How you guys feel you want to be a pillow princess.
I'm a bad bitch. I don't care what none of
y'all say.

Speaker 5 (02:13:26):
Yoo, I think you've been tripping, bro.

Speaker 1 (02:13:29):
You've been doing this ship for like a week, right,
You've been doing this for like, Let's get this nigga
yo three, get this nigga right, man?

Speaker 5 (02:13:36):
You know what I'm saying on thisself for.

Speaker 19 (02:13:39):
Bad bitch, I'm bitch.

Speaker 1 (02:13:43):
This is when niggas come in, yo, yay, this is
what niggas here when you come in like somebody could
just be walking in and you're talking back to.

Speaker 8 (02:13:53):
It.

Speaker 5 (02:13:55):
Yeah, in a bb A nigga niggas insane.

Speaker 1 (02:14:01):
Listen, man, Let's let's continue to are men the new
prey while women hunt. Jazz said she's running down Andrea said,
she's not hunting the goddamn thing because she's you know, she's.

Speaker 5 (02:14:11):
She's the hunted, right Mac, She thought she's slick. You
are the hunted.

Speaker 9 (02:14:16):
You get run down, yest like you hunt niggas. Baby, Yeah,

(02:14:37):
I never liked that ship, bro talking about it.

Speaker 5 (02:14:40):
Three, let's wake it up.

Speaker 20 (02:14:42):
What you say start?

Speaker 1 (02:14:43):
I said, let's wake this ship up a mend the
new prey while woman hunt? How do you feel about it?

Speaker 19 (02:14:48):
I feel like the niggas is man.

Speaker 30 (02:14:50):
These niggas be acting like pure deep mentioning.

Speaker 19 (02:14:52):
But I'm just not. I ain't gonna lie.

Speaker 5 (02:14:55):
I'm not with that ship.

Speaker 19 (02:14:57):
I like being the man to.

Speaker 30 (02:14:58):
Pursue a woman.

Speaker 19 (02:15:00):
I don't like when women pursue me.

Speaker 5 (02:15:01):
That shit is weird.

Speaker 21 (02:15:03):
I'm not really a fan of it, and I'd be like, damn,
if you pursuing me, how many other niggas you pursuing?
I'm cool, top on top of on top of you're
pursuing me and pursuing me. Right, it's niggas that's pursuing
you and you can't even stop them. So now yore cool,
just a little too big for me because you got.

Speaker 19 (02:15:20):
Niggas pursuing you. You pursuing niggas the pussy just everywhere?

Speaker 9 (02:15:25):
Cool?

Speaker 5 (02:15:26):
All right, real quick?

Speaker 1 (02:15:27):
Three, I got a question for you and the ladies
on the stage too. Do y'all feel like when women
have those options like that three day out there, like
that they can get their way? Do you feel like
most men are intimidated by that shit? You know what
I'm saying, Like, Yo, I got my way. You know
how we be having our way?

Speaker 9 (02:15:41):
Three?

Speaker 5 (02:15:41):
I have my way.

Speaker 1 (02:15:42):
When a woman has their way, are we quick to
be like, ah, no, I'm good she's having her way.

Speaker 5 (02:15:49):
Though.

Speaker 21 (02:15:49):
It's not about being intimidated, bro, It's about I'll be
thinking about how they more prone to STDs how I
don't know, just giving access to different men. This is
not that we want different things out of women than
men than women want out of men, you know what
I'm saying. And exclusivity, I can say both of us

(02:16:12):
want exclusivity, but at the same time, an exclusive man
it's kind of like hard to have, especially if a
man got resources.

Speaker 9 (02:16:21):
So I don't know, it's mixed up. That's what I said, Stack.

Speaker 21 (02:16:24):
This ship is too complex nowadays, man, and I feel
like that's why we be having so many problems, man,
because it's not that complex to date people, man, But
to be mixy as a woman, I just don't think
it's a good trait.

Speaker 19 (02:16:38):
But people will argue that shit down nowadays.

Speaker 21 (02:16:40):
And you know, women are bosses nowadays, so some of
them need to be mixy, so I can't even knock them.
But just for me, I don't want no mixy as female.
That's in everybody's face, man, That's how I am.

Speaker 5 (02:16:53):
That's a fact, bro, Thank you for that. Three who
else want come in?

Speaker 24 (02:16:57):
Man?

Speaker 1 (02:16:57):
It's our men and new prey while women. H how
y'all feeling? I think we shot everybody on the wall
floor today?

Speaker 9 (02:17:06):
Yeah?

Speaker 5 (02:17:07):
Are y'all fucking dad on the floor today?

Speaker 1 (02:17:09):
Y'all y'all got killed? Y'all think we bodied them? I
think we bodied them, bro, And we and we popped
the opt today.

Speaker 9 (02:17:20):
Yo.

Speaker 5 (02:17:20):
We popped another op today?

Speaker 52 (02:17:22):
Bro?

Speaker 5 (02:17:22):
What the fuck? That's crazy?

Speaker 21 (02:17:24):
Man?

Speaker 1 (02:17:25):
Another one another one back to back. There was already
one that you know what I mean, we did one earlier,
But that's up to y'all. Y'all want to keep the
conversation rolling, y'all can't. It's up to y'all. Are men
and new prey while women hunt you? Feel me? It's
really up to y'all. The conversation been rolling for how
long we've been in here so far?

Speaker 5 (02:17:42):
Yeah? How long we've been in here? I want to
I want to have two.

Speaker 9 (02:17:47):
Hours passed it? Damn no, no, no, yeah, yeah, I
passed it like something. Remember, yeah, you did, you did?
You did?

Speaker 5 (02:17:55):
You did?

Speaker 9 (02:17:55):
You did?

Speaker 1 (02:17:56):
But nah, I feel I feel like men are the
new pray though. Yeah, they're getting hunt it, bro, there's
some punks. You're getting hunted down. You getting took for
your money. Niggas be getting took for their money.

Speaker 5 (02:18:05):
Man, let me get that jazz earlier, she says she's
running down.

Speaker 12 (02:18:12):
No, women are just really aggressive and they want to
go for what they want.

Speaker 5 (02:18:18):
That's not always a bad thing, though, yeah.

Speaker 4 (02:18:20):
Woman, And that's what I was finna say. See, my
thing is right.

Speaker 6 (02:18:25):
Granted I've never had to like a rundown on it, man,
but like I'll make it known that like I want
you like I want to let you do the person wing.
You know what I'm saying, like say we like out
right and like you're looking at me, I'm looking at you.
I'm gonna give you like the real look to like

(02:18:47):
come here, but I'm probably not gonna walk up to you.
But also I don't mind when women do, because I
do think that it's it's okay to say.

Speaker 4 (02:18:55):
You know, you know you look nice.

Speaker 6 (02:18:58):
I think that we would look nice together, you know
what I'm saying, Like or even look at it, like
there's so many women they're like fifteen pictures on your
social media. What's the difference? She just waiting for you
to impox her?

Speaker 4 (02:19:10):
Or you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 6 (02:19:11):
When she come into the clubhouse rooms, she say your
name every time she comes home state.

Speaker 4 (02:19:14):
I'm my god, what's up?

Speaker 9 (02:19:16):
Yay?

Speaker 6 (02:19:17):
She said every time she come here. I mean she
don't even acknowledge nobody else. Like are these signs of
a woman running down or like it's running down, like
she asking for your number, she's like blatant about it,
or like what makes it aggressive? Would be my question?

Speaker 30 (02:19:31):
The jazz I had a girl that sat on my
fucking lap.

Speaker 21 (02:19:34):
I was in waffle house waiting on my girl and
like I'm just chilling and she just came through and
just shot on my lap and I look key like
shoved her off, like hey, but you're trying to get
both of us kute chirping.

Speaker 5 (02:19:47):
But I guess that's like a to me.

Speaker 19 (02:19:50):
I was a former, what the hell was going?

Speaker 9 (02:19:52):
All?

Speaker 30 (02:19:52):
Yeah, that shit was bald as fuck.

Speaker 10 (02:19:57):
I mean, the nature of it is that a woman
makes herself available and the man chooses. So like that's
sort of what job is talking about. Like, I don't
know I about run into someone, but.

Speaker 38 (02:20:08):
Like you make it know they like the person, and
then like it's up to him to kind of say
like I like you too, or I don't.

Speaker 6 (02:20:22):
I think honestly y'all wouldn't care. Well, okay, outside of
louse situation, because I would dare. I wouldn't dare do
no shit like that. But I will say, like, honestly, fellas,
y'all gonna lie, But if she's a pretty woman and
you actually are attracted to her, you would not care

(02:20:43):
if she approaches you. I know y'all like to pretend
on these stages, but if she walked up to you
and said you look nice and you smell good. You
gonna be giggling hard as fuck. Okay, and y'all gonna
probably spark a conversation. I need y'all to stop pretending
like you know true that y'all are completely against it.
Now if she does it in a very feminine way,

(02:21:05):
if she approaches you.

Speaker 5 (02:21:06):
With me, it's not true.

Speaker 9 (02:21:07):
Okay, okay, Probably, he said, I don't know because the chick.
Because because the chick walked up to me and the
door was like, damn, I nigga, who you? And I
was one of the toughest niggas in New Jersey for
the god. And I turned around.

Speaker 12 (02:21:21):
I was like Sean.

Speaker 9 (02:21:27):
Sean, and I walked away.

Speaker 12 (02:21:29):
I've never been approached like that before by a woman ever.
Always did the approaching. I didn't get her number of nothing.
Probably you know, she came a different way. I probably
opened to it, but I felt like I was.

Speaker 9 (02:21:40):
It felt like I don't know how.

Speaker 8 (02:21:47):
I'm not playing just a little pussy cat.

Speaker 30 (02:21:51):
But what I was what I'm gonna say on a well,
not because.

Speaker 9 (02:21:54):
You serious, on a on a three note, right. I
didn't learnt a woman put down on me. But I
just feel like women and men.

Speaker 21 (02:22:03):
Well, not all women is like that now because they
they've just wanted some dick to nowadays.

Speaker 19 (02:22:08):
But I don't know.

Speaker 8 (02:22:09):
Back in the day, the goal was different.

Speaker 44 (02:22:11):
Man.

Speaker 21 (02:22:11):
They wanted us to stay around a woman that approached me,
even if she did it like girlly, I'm gonna just
crack her and I'm not gonna.

Speaker 8 (02:22:18):
Take her serious.

Speaker 21 (02:22:20):
But I don't know women women women nowadays they be like,
well shit, they're not trying to get took serious. So
I don't I don't know what their goal is nowadays.
And I don't think half of them know what their
goal is either. So people just out here doing shit.
So I mean shit, if it worked for you, it
worked for you. Fuck it run down.

Speaker 25 (02:22:39):
Even if I saw that a man was worth being hunted, No,
I'm not doing it.

Speaker 46 (02:22:44):
You could look good, smell good, have a good head
on your shoulders, say all the right things.

Speaker 25 (02:22:48):
I'm not liking pictures. I'm not doing any of that
because if it's.

Speaker 5 (02:22:52):
Meant not liking pictures, no, wo.

Speaker 25 (02:22:57):
For what I mean because you want to be No, no, no,
I'm saying.

Speaker 5 (02:23:02):
That's my exactly. You're gonna like them?

Speaker 46 (02:23:07):
Sure will here come the antics? No, I don't like
celebrit because half of them got.

Speaker 1 (02:23:12):
To you know, or you're gonna like one of them
makeup pictures, so you might as well like my ship too.
You're gonna like something Moe to fucking make Maybe Lene
Page right, you're gonna like your waist training. So you're
you're you're to tell me to tease and your ship.
But why can't you like my ship? It just sounds
like they just like being They're just picking and choosing

(02:23:33):
the ship. Man like you in the comments arguing the
shade room and ship. Come on, man, I don't want her.

Speaker 46 (02:23:38):
I was using that, but I don't whatever that goes
to your experience if you've experienced those, Oh, maybe I
can finish later to turn it on.

Speaker 9 (02:23:52):
And so I was like, no, you got a hot mic.
You don't know?

Speaker 5 (02:23:57):
Yeh, he just got he got hot mic. You got ken,
you can go in.

Speaker 46 (02:24:00):
It sounded like it was a little trigger talking about
maybe leading in shade room. How about no gardening in
this history book about the Rockefellers.

Speaker 12 (02:24:06):
I don't.

Speaker 25 (02:24:07):
I don't do that type of stuff. So I was
just making a point.

Speaker 46 (02:24:11):
I could like him, man, I could think that he's
valuable enough, but I don't think that it's my place
to pursue at any cost. Talking, texting, asking for a
number wing can get them a little bit.

Speaker 25 (02:24:21):
Staring him down. That's just not how I get down.

Speaker 5 (02:24:31):
I don't know about that. Let's continue, Animal, what's up, bros?
Talk to me.

Speaker 8 (02:24:39):
I don't care. She don't gotta pursue as long as
she pay though.

Speaker 1 (02:24:41):
Wow, so you're gonna You're gonna empty out her pocketbook.
She doesn't have to pursue you, but he has to
empty out her purse in her wallet.

Speaker 8 (02:24:50):
Great fussy, pussy free dick costs.

Speaker 6 (02:24:53):
Yeah, that's why his name is animal exactly. Now see hw.

Speaker 8 (02:25:02):
A, mom a, okay, see Laylor got me all right,
So everybody take it easy.

Speaker 9 (02:25:15):
The animal.

Speaker 6 (02:25:18):
Animal.

Speaker 9 (02:25:18):
Are you feeling you're feeling? You're feeling like a beast
right now? Hey.

Speaker 21 (02:25:23):
I went to Jordan's and I got the uh, I
got the tea and they put Kanye pepper and I
ain't had me a little on edge of it. Yeah,
but I wasn't right, man. They attacked Jazz and I
ain't like that. They called it all out her name
for no reason.

Speaker 5 (02:25:41):
That was crazy. That was crazy. That was.

Speaker 12 (02:25:45):
Marie got perfectly Wait a minute, Wait a minute, you
bitch ass nigga.

Speaker 9 (02:25:50):
Did you hear that I called you a bitch ass nigga?
You mean to tell me on the wolf floor you
are providing. You are providing show.

Speaker 5 (02:26:00):
That's gonna cost you an extra feet animal protection t.

Speaker 9 (02:26:08):
You min will call this peace treaty table.

Speaker 8 (02:26:10):
Ah bro, Yes, yes, was what I normally do.

Speaker 21 (02:26:18):
She called the up pick me bitch because she didn't
know the definition of the word.

Speaker 5 (02:26:27):
That was kind of crazy.

Speaker 1 (02:26:30):
It was crazy. But you know, I mean, that's animal.
If he wanted to get in the women's fight and
be women and be like a woman, what the woman
to do if he wanted to, hey, animal hopped, animal

(02:26:53):
hopped in the girl fight? Were he's like, man, let
me let me tie my Let me tie my ponytail up.
Hold up, nigga, let me tie my ponytail up, nigga.
Let me let me tie it up, nigga and put
my crop top on, nigga and get in this fight.

Speaker 5 (02:27:06):
Nigga, which your motherfucking hoops on? Nigga.

Speaker 1 (02:27:11):
We are, we are, we are, but on the war floor.
On the war floor, he threw on his dress on
the war floor.

Speaker 9 (02:27:18):
You better act like Nina and his motherfucker.

Speaker 5 (02:27:21):
You better be a wolf the war floor.

Speaker 12 (02:27:23):
Guys with the now my on my floor, okay, on
the fucking wolf floor. Work those nerves getting.

Speaker 5 (02:27:33):
You are you are security? Now Animal, We're gonna have
to talk on the on the back end.

Speaker 21 (02:27:39):
Are very provided for a very good war. You guys
just don't want to get out of the way because
you're trying to say, you know, I have my pennies
in the bunch.

Speaker 5 (02:27:48):
What happened was.

Speaker 21 (02:27:51):
I cleared it up with the one young lady she Josh,
and then fucking went on to say she did have
the wrong word and then brings you want to get in.

Speaker 1 (02:28:01):
They got boomed out of here by by animal. Animal
pop that out.

Speaker 9 (02:28:08):
Because he's about to get away of the fetti. But
he you know what I'm saying from the fetti, That's.

Speaker 5 (02:28:12):
What I'm saying. I can't really Yeah, we let him rock.

Speaker 9 (02:28:20):
Animals.

Speaker 12 (02:28:21):
Animals said, you bitch, I said, oh his body today.
And you know I'm over there in the port right now,
so I can't. I can't really come up to mic
and nothing. I'm like, I can't, you can't. I'm all
of the matrix And he's like bitch.

Speaker 9 (02:28:33):
You heard what I said. I said, jo' you got
a motherfucker husband. I'm like, yoo, that animal. I look
at the ship and I said, did somebody fish this?
Nigga off? Bro, you don't get pissed off like that.

Speaker 12 (02:28:44):
And then he said, man, what's the motherfucking what's the
motherfucking I'm putting in the goddam He said, I'm putting
it in the goddamn information And it's in the strip
right now.

Speaker 5 (02:28:58):
Shella, insane.

Speaker 1 (02:28:59):
Man, the fuck has already been a crazy day and
it's not even over the fuck.

Speaker 5 (02:29:04):
It's just it's only afternoon time, and y'all active, fucking insane.

Speaker 21 (02:29:07):
Bro, damn, you know you know what to be honest,
you know what set me up, what's setting me up
for that bullshit, was when I have to listen to the.

Speaker 8 (02:29:20):
Film all morning. That looked like a stun Oh.

Speaker 5 (02:29:24):
My, Erica, what the hell you're talking about? Michael Jordan.

Speaker 8 (02:29:30):
Yeah, Michael Jordan's with the Larry Johnson part.

Speaker 9 (02:29:34):
Oh ship.

Speaker 5 (02:29:36):
Animally, Michael Jordan with the part is nuts, nigga, You
hear me, Michael.

Speaker 12 (02:29:42):
Joran, You know what I gotta text saying, y'all allowed,
y'all don't allow gay men to give men advice, but
you're allowed like gay women give me lady women advice.

Speaker 9 (02:29:55):
That's what I got.

Speaker 5 (02:29:57):
Talking about.

Speaker 38 (02:29:59):
The and how if you're gay, right, I respect your lifestyle,
but how are you gonna give me advice on dating
men when you date women?

Speaker 5 (02:30:07):
Come on, come on, Land, wake it up, Leila, come on,
come on. She got a point. There's the point for you.

Speaker 38 (02:30:14):
You just have a seat in the corner, like while
we have this conversation about men and women.

Speaker 5 (02:30:20):
Got a point now.

Speaker 4 (02:30:21):
But it's like.

Speaker 8 (02:30:24):
The ship that got me. All right, I'm gonna say
real fast, I'm gonna have a ready bar.

Speaker 21 (02:30:29):
The ship that got me was she don't like gender
roles because it attacks everything in her fabric. But then
she admitted later on in the conversation and lesbian relationships,
we have gender roles.

Speaker 8 (02:30:44):
She don't get the.

Speaker 4 (02:30:44):
Funk and how do you have gender roles?

Speaker 30 (02:30:50):
Gender?

Speaker 5 (02:30:51):
But she was explaining it to remember the jash.

Speaker 1 (02:30:53):
She said, some of them lower their voice and get
back of your pants and works.

Speaker 5 (02:30:59):
Does it doesn't matter you're not.

Speaker 6 (02:31:01):
A man, you're they still believe once a month.

Speaker 5 (02:31:04):
I know, are you still not pumping it like I
can pump it.

Speaker 4 (02:31:10):
Who cares like you have titties?

Speaker 5 (02:31:12):
Most of y'all have titties like I just some of
them cut them off.

Speaker 21 (02:31:16):
Jass bitch getting her strapped on and like she can
feel it the fut.

Speaker 9 (02:31:28):
Yeah, y'all, let it happen, y'all.

Speaker 12 (02:31:31):
Let it happen, y'all, ladies, let it happen us men.
We shut that ship down quick, y'all. Yes, maybe she's right.

Speaker 27 (02:31:39):
Sure that you guys did anything about that?

Speaker 9 (02:31:42):
This? No, did you hear what I just said? I said,
us men men, put that ship to rest. When it's
a man, why the funk we needed to pick them
for y'all and it's a woman talking.

Speaker 12 (02:31:54):
No, Come on, y'all say something about it. The punk
fastest money to get out.

Speaker 25 (02:32:03):
So y'allna, let what's his name go?

Speaker 27 (02:32:05):
Go hamm for like two hours of the day.

Speaker 9 (02:32:10):
Oh, he was made. Not talking about relationship. They're talking
about younger and the older generation. Let's get it right.
See why y'all women do that?

Speaker 12 (02:32:19):
You moved the gold post, Joe, Shut the fuck up,
digg' stick to your punk ass too. You can got
a red bar.

Speaker 5 (02:32:32):
If mister Diggham hits the stripe, you will be in
the goop for five minutes.

Speaker 9 (02:32:36):
Yeah, that's okay.

Speaker 1 (02:32:39):
If he hits the stripe, he will be in the
goo for five minutes.

Speaker 9 (02:32:47):
The only stripe that nigga hitting is a rash stripe.
Rash stripe. Get the rest stripe, looking liking, drinking ass
out of here. That's the older you hit. You know,
you know exactly what I'm talking about.

Speaker 5 (02:33:00):
And yeah, you wanna be shocked when ya And if
he hits that stripe and your.

Speaker 6 (02:33:04):
Rass is in the glue, he ain't got no bread.

Speaker 9 (02:33:11):
Do something or shut up. You're not gonna do nothing.
Jamaican beer having asked commercial motherfuckers.

Speaker 6 (02:33:25):
But you don't see this right here, mister Digham said
his money is not for niggas, and this is why women.

Speaker 5 (02:33:34):
Hold up waking up jass. Get on his ass. Women go, yeah,
he's broken.

Speaker 6 (02:33:44):
I do want to spend I do want to ask
KP a question because he puts something in the chat
so I want to see because he wasn't here when
I asked the other man. So KP, I don't need
your money, mister dig I'm just saying that you're putting
it out there, so a woman gonna putting down and
still your ship.

Speaker 5 (02:34:04):
Shot.

Speaker 6 (02:34:05):
But he mentioned that women better start chasing men approximately
because there's more women than men.

Speaker 4 (02:34:12):
So KP.

Speaker 6 (02:34:13):
You would allow a woman to approach you, maybe not
in an aggressive way, maybe like in a cute way,
you know what I'm saying, compliment you in whatever the
case may be.

Speaker 4 (02:34:21):
You would Would you take her serious?

Speaker 6 (02:34:23):
Or is that an oug for you?

Speaker 9 (02:34:25):
Hell?

Speaker 5 (02:34:25):
Yeah, I would? Why would I not?

Speaker 18 (02:34:31):
I don't know.

Speaker 4 (02:34:32):
Some all these men say no, so I don't know.

Speaker 6 (02:34:34):
I was just making sure, but you know, yeah, I
mean why would she be Why would you think I'm
gonna send you something ugly?

Speaker 9 (02:34:41):
A like? Why?

Speaker 6 (02:34:46):
Well you had a grown I don't know what that
was that walked up on you in the store, but
we're talking.

Speaker 9 (02:34:50):
She was cute.

Speaker 12 (02:34:52):
I was just like shocked.

Speaker 9 (02:34:53):
I didn't even know what to say.

Speaker 12 (02:34:54):
I didn't feel like.

Speaker 9 (02:34:55):
A man at that time years ago.

Speaker 21 (02:35:00):
I don't know.

Speaker 1 (02:35:01):
I think ain't nothing wrong women. So when they shot
you feel me? I think different men, they have different
experiences when it comes to that. You know, I don't
think that's an issue with it. If you come up
to me on some thirsty ass, oh you find as fuck, like, okay,
you're doing too much. Well, if you, if you approach
me on something, I like your shoes started on this conversation.

Speaker 9 (02:35:21):
I respect that you feel me.

Speaker 5 (02:35:25):
Man. We're human beings. Man.

Speaker 1 (02:35:26):
Don't any man who's tripping over somebody starting a conversation
with them because they're interested.

Speaker 9 (02:35:30):
It's kind of peculiar to me. You know, my situation
a little different. I was.

Speaker 12 (02:35:38):
I was in the city where we painted were painted red.
So you got against the chick walking up to you
and Yo, my nigga, who you? I'm like, God, damn,
like what that was different? I've never been approached.

Speaker 1 (02:35:49):
Yeah, that's a bro I'm gonna say, Yeah, that's all
that aggressive.

Speaker 9 (02:35:52):
Ship.

Speaker 19 (02:35:53):
I'm not I'm fucking with it.

Speaker 34 (02:35:56):
Like that.

Speaker 9 (02:35:56):
Yeah, reason that word?

Speaker 8 (02:36:01):
Yeah ship?

Speaker 9 (02:36:03):
And what right that lady made me my femininity? And
I don't know I had that?

Speaker 5 (02:36:11):
I ain't. I don't know what to do.

Speaker 53 (02:36:13):
I'm like that that's about to be a burkele or
what like? She could fight and she pretty yourself confused.
I supposed to do it all right? Yes, we didn't
go skating on.

Speaker 9 (02:36:32):
I'm sorry, crazy, my little broke my little broken mass
too too late. Oh ship got on line.

Speaker 5 (02:36:40):
Yeah that was wild.

Speaker 29 (02:36:43):
That was wild?

Speaker 9 (02:36:45):
Can we not keep this uh this up?

Speaker 21 (02:36:48):
This uh.

Speaker 5 (02:36:51):
Podcast? No, that's what's going on up.

Speaker 9 (02:36:55):
Make sure you added that part.

Speaker 6 (02:36:58):
Now we're keeping that part was dead man walking?

Speaker 9 (02:37:01):
You're a dead man walking?

Speaker 1 (02:37:06):
I got I feel about the topic. Though, Are men
in new prey while women hunt? Just continue to talk
about this ship. Also, if you haven't checked up the podcast,
make sure you do so. Save it to your phones
or whatever, and keep up with all the episodes. But
are men the new prey while women hunt? Let's talk
about it.

Speaker 12 (02:37:21):
What women in head pushed up on a man before?
What women in head hundred of a guy that they like?
Keep it real, mess, I'm backing like y'all like more,
stop please just stop?

Speaker 8 (02:37:30):
All of everybody, all of them, they all are like hunters.

Speaker 9 (02:37:35):
They're all like hunters, bro, all of at least all
like Fro's beast. That's what you're saying.

Speaker 52 (02:37:44):
Damn.

Speaker 21 (02:37:46):
I mean you might go with this title Stacks because
you know, if you think about it, right, all the
niggas that that's passport bros, the women that they be
going over there to pursue the women be attacking them.

Speaker 5 (02:38:02):
Niggas might be the new They might be bro.

Speaker 9 (02:38:05):
I don't know.

Speaker 30 (02:38:08):
Tourists, you know.

Speaker 1 (02:38:09):
But you see how y'all see how women approach celebrity
men they like, right, so think about it. Right, So
if they see their favorite artists or their favorite musicians,
they're gonna asked ship. But when it comes to a
regular nigga on the street, now they's too good. Come on, man,
make it makes sense.

Speaker 5 (02:38:28):
But you regular, I'm not regular.

Speaker 19 (02:38:33):
See, I'm that nigga.

Speaker 5 (02:38:33):
Though.

Speaker 1 (02:38:34):
If you go into a social same thing that you regular,
then your yourself esteem that below you feel.

Speaker 6 (02:38:40):
Me gonna get, you're gonna get.

Speaker 5 (02:38:43):
I'm not regular.

Speaker 9 (02:38:46):
You're a superstar.

Speaker 5 (02:38:49):
Nigga. Don't gotta be ushered to be that nigga.

Speaker 12 (02:38:51):
I'm not trying to attack you, no, ho, calm down,
don't plot to night.

Speaker 9 (02:38:57):
I'm just asking you one question. I'm just saying, if
you were on that status, you don't have no problem
getting a woman either. Period. So I'm talking to that
guys that.

Speaker 1 (02:39:08):
I'm saying a little bro, I'm saying that it's not
about getting little bro.

Speaker 9 (02:39:11):
Little bro's crazy. How are you?

Speaker 19 (02:39:16):
I'm a grown man.

Speaker 9 (02:39:17):
But look back to the watch your mother sucking when
you're talking to me, nigga.

Speaker 5 (02:39:21):
All right, little bro.

Speaker 1 (02:39:23):
I'm saying, so, Mann, it's not about getting women, it's
about how they approach you.

Speaker 5 (02:39:30):
Nobody got intue with getting women.

Speaker 1 (02:39:31):
But every time you go outside, you gotta go outside
saying I'm that nigga. So you're gonna say so if
Chris Brown Bear than you, Bro, is that what you're saying?

Speaker 9 (02:39:40):
Is he a bad bitch? Oh?

Speaker 6 (02:39:43):
But you talk about you.

Speaker 35 (02:39:45):
This you gotta get put this nigg on divestigations.

Speaker 5 (02:39:47):
Man, Yeah, Bro, pay the strape. If you're the Google
man for real, man, pay that one hundred dollars, I
go now, not no, no, Paul what he definitely he
definitely gotta go.

Speaker 49 (02:40:05):
Yeah, you term your whole meta faggot, I should the
Google man?

Speaker 9 (02:40:17):
What the fuck? No, your third one?

Speaker 6 (02:40:22):
You're getting out of here like the ballpark.

Speaker 5 (02:40:25):
A meta faggot.

Speaker 8 (02:40:27):
It's crazy, Yeah, like what.

Speaker 18 (02:40:31):
Sagging?

Speaker 6 (02:40:33):
Wow, Oh, ladies, y'all never ever ever, ever ever and
some of y'all y'all knowest fuck so, some of y'all
thirty to forty years of living, y'all have never ever
in your life approached a man.

Speaker 4 (02:40:48):
What that is to the ladies, Fellas, I don't.

Speaker 27 (02:40:53):
You're asking that nigga, the question, the one that was being.

Speaker 4 (02:40:56):
On We're not worried.

Speaker 6 (02:40:57):
We're not worried about him. We know, yeah, we ain't
worried about that. But anyway, don't get yeah that's how
I like anyway. But I realized some of these women make.

Speaker 12 (02:41:12):
That motherfuckinga that meth pipe out here in the background.
But like the ladies do I mean, like even in
the in the audience, like trying to find out.

Speaker 9 (02:41:21):
Come on, y'all. I know y'all walk into a do
like hay don't usually do this, but you're very handsome.

Speaker 1 (02:41:26):
Man.

Speaker 9 (02:41:27):
I wanted to know if I did your number my
name is? I mean, like, keep it real, Come on, man, No,
I'm not a nigga.

Speaker 27 (02:41:34):
I'm not walking up to know dude.

Speaker 4 (02:41:37):
No man talking about I don't know.

Speaker 9 (02:41:39):
Then we do this, but you know, wow, what about.

Speaker 4 (02:41:48):
What about this rosie?

Speaker 34 (02:41:50):
Like?

Speaker 9 (02:41:50):
You know?

Speaker 6 (02:41:51):
So, I do think we make it very like Okay,
I had this guy. We did it for two years
after I did this. Okay, so it works. I think
it depends on how you do it. See how I
did it wasn't like a oh, I you know, I
want you type of it was. We were in we
were at this Uh. We were at this event that

(02:42:12):
had like an open bar. I can't even remember what
it was. It was like some gathering. But and I
just made a slick little joke, you know. I was like,
you know, are you gonna order something? Are you gonna
hold the borrow up? You know what I'm saying. I
think I said something along those lines or whatever. And
he turned around and just started laughing, and then it
sparked convo and then he was like, I was beautiful.
I was like, you're handsle and we was dating for

(02:42:33):
like two years. Like hit him also like oh, I
think you're fine and I want to be with you.
It was just a someo like made him giggle a little,
and we end up being together for like two years.

Speaker 8 (02:42:46):
So I don't know, y'all ate to the woos jazz
be going. You gotta watch her.

Speaker 12 (02:42:51):
I'm just sad.

Speaker 9 (02:42:53):
Happened. That's where you're from, Jason, I am from state.

Speaker 6 (02:43:00):
Anyway, I'm going to give to show.

Speaker 5 (02:43:04):
Didn't get too much.

Speaker 9 (02:43:09):
Come hold on animal, you know on over the on
the road.

Speaker 54 (02:43:15):
Shout to the we gotta be reading, Shout out to
the mill west Man, you don't want you.

Speaker 6 (02:43:26):
He probably just heard in my voice because most people
say Chicago, But no, No.

Speaker 5 (02:43:34):
That just showed me.

Speaker 9 (02:43:38):
The money, yo, face Jazz.

Speaker 5 (02:43:47):
I don't care what they're talking about.

Speaker 9 (02:43:51):
You know.

Speaker 35 (02:43:52):
It might have the verbiage might not be the same,
or the approach you might not be the same. But
they all pushed up on a nigga, whether it was
covertly or overtly, at least one time.

Speaker 5 (02:44:02):
You fuck with that ship, brother, Yo, I ain't allowed
on some g ship. Women do it all the time,
and that don't make the masculine they don't. You know
what I'm saying, you fuck do you fuck with it? Though?

Speaker 54 (02:44:12):
Because I know a lot of you from New York
or some some over there over that way, and I
know a lot of them women over.

Speaker 5 (02:44:19):
There be aggressive and ship.

Speaker 15 (02:44:21):
They probably started that ship for real.

Speaker 9 (02:44:22):
Nah.

Speaker 35 (02:44:23):
But see, but it's not even that because I didn't
been all the way in the West and Cali like
Cali my second home, and the same shit happened over there,
So it ain't no, not not hoo Bookers though, I'm
talking about real de mule, you know what I'm saying,
Not Bookers.

Speaker 5 (02:44:39):
Ye, while you're against bro, you're all fucking with it.

Speaker 19 (02:44:46):
We all.

Speaker 54 (02:44:47):
I don't know just me, bro, I like, I like
being the niggas the one that pursue shortty. You know
what I'm saying, Like I ain't. I ain't got no
problem with it if it's a girl that I fuck with,
But on some real ship, I probably wouldn't take us serious, cause, like, ship,
who else you fucking with?

Speaker 9 (02:45:03):
Like this?

Speaker 11 (02:45:04):
Three?

Speaker 8 (02:45:04):
Let me ask you a questions?

Speaker 21 (02:45:07):
So you ain't never you ain't never turned into the predator,
like after a woman like open herself like you, like
she might have said.

Speaker 8 (02:45:17):
Hi and then and then you turn around like, oh ship,
yeah you never did that.

Speaker 30 (02:45:24):
Of course, well you was.

Speaker 8 (02:45:26):
You was the prayful a little bit right.

Speaker 1 (02:45:29):
But let me but let me ask you a question.
A three like the way I feel like a female
feeling you. Right, let's say'all go to kickback on party.
Right When a girl laughing at nigga jokes all extra hard,
when a girl always.

Speaker 5 (02:45:42):
Trying to sit next to a nigga, To me, it's.

Speaker 9 (02:45:44):
The same ship.

Speaker 5 (02:45:46):
Really, it's really the same ship.

Speaker 1 (02:45:48):
One is just actually speaking up and the other ones
putting herself into positions to where you can shoot your shot.

Speaker 30 (02:45:55):
Yeah, I like the ones that put themselves in positions.

Speaker 1 (02:45:57):
Man, I don't like the ones that bama kee, but
I'm gonna give a one hundred throw bro to me,
it's the same level because the ones that do what
to other niggas gonna do to other niggas, regardless of
whether she's speaking to you or she putting herself around
other niggas.

Speaker 5 (02:46:12):
So the niggas a shoot they shot to me, she going.

Speaker 1 (02:46:16):
You get what I'm saying, Bro, It's like if a
female is boy crazy or she's a friendly, friendly ass female,
she's gonna be the nigga. She's gonna be the one
at the section or the one in the club laughing
at niggas, jokes, being extra friendly, all in the nigga face.
Just so niggas who they shot at her, you feel me,
She's still the same. It's still the same thing. If

(02:46:39):
she's going, she.

Speaker 6 (02:46:39):
Going, And if y'all are fine, y'all fine, like I
it ain't my fault, you fine, You know it ain't
my fault.

Speaker 4 (02:46:53):
You fine? You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 6 (02:46:55):
Like now, I don't know how these ladies are wing it,
but just make them laugh a little bit, ladies, And
then what if she what's the difference is like she
say like you said, she say hi, and then she
brush up against you. At this point, she just she
doing everything but saying it like I So, are you
just saying you don't like for her to say something

(02:47:16):
to you, or like you just prefer like the I
mean cause I do both.

Speaker 4 (02:47:21):
I ain't gonna lie.

Speaker 9 (02:47:22):
If those right there make you told?

Speaker 15 (02:47:26):
You told?

Speaker 9 (02:47:27):
The ladies make him smile, the men say, make her smile. Man,
you gotta this is the Nigga ship. Yup the title. No,
keep going. I'm not saying that.

Speaker 6 (02:47:40):
I'm just saying, like, uh, I'm just a little witty,
so I won't make it awkward because I'm not one
that's gonna be like, hey, you know, I ain't want
to get to know you. But if if you're in
front of if I think that you're attractive and you're
standing in front of me, I can make a little
joke or I'm gonna make my presence known. You're gonna
know that I'm right here next to you.

Speaker 4 (02:48:00):
Like that's just that.

Speaker 6 (02:48:01):
But I don't know about women. I'm not saying women
are running from across the room to get youall attention,
but like making a man smile, I definitely got.

Speaker 4 (02:48:09):
To see if that's side tooth missing anyway.

Speaker 6 (02:48:11):
So let me make you giggle a little man.

Speaker 4 (02:48:15):
I probably can get your number right after that.

Speaker 9 (02:48:16):
So you gonna rub your breast against him and get
his attention.

Speaker 6 (02:48:21):
No, I didn't say I would. I'm just saying people
look like some of y'all they gonna do that, They're
gonna try to. I'm just saying, my good ladies, go
after what you want in whatever way that you want.
That's what I'm saying.

Speaker 8 (02:48:41):
She want to with the wolf.

Speaker 9 (02:48:51):
Should show a go fold some paper.

Speaker 5 (02:49:00):
You got a new topic going, talk about it.

Speaker 9 (02:49:06):
Energizer bunny. He keep going and going and going.

Speaker 8 (02:49:10):
And thanks. Get we'll go ahead, you know, introduce us
to the new top.

Speaker 5 (02:49:15):
I'm busy.

Speaker 12 (02:49:19):
He probably was a busy women and menji, honestly, if
they are just looking for fun like that, switch up, no,
oh my god, and actually cover your face.

Speaker 9 (02:49:34):
With a pillow.

Speaker 27 (02:49:37):
Just be the nigger that you are.

Speaker 9 (02:49:38):
Don't don't paper.

Speaker 8 (02:49:40):
Bag face with the pillow. It's crazy.

Speaker 27 (02:49:44):
He needs to cover heads with one.

Speaker 19 (02:49:47):
There's some taint as well.

Speaker 9 (02:49:49):
Make sure you.

Speaker 26 (02:49:54):
Well that's the brand that.

Speaker 9 (02:49:57):
Yeah, I mean, like you should if you if you,
if you, you should tell them if you just want
to have fun.

Speaker 5 (02:50:04):
You know what.

Speaker 12 (02:50:05):
I'm in the club one day, bro, when I was
clubbing and I go on the stage, I'm about to
get into a fight with some football blades and shit
like that. Big motherfuckers.

Speaker 9 (02:50:16):
I know it.

Speaker 12 (02:50:18):
I know it probablyoud have been a slaughter. But you know,
I mean, I'm a rite. But you say, you say
something animal, you humming making some music?

Speaker 8 (02:50:25):
No, no, I was gonna go after you. I'm sorry,
I know I want some mute.

Speaker 12 (02:50:29):
Oh and you know this is my this is my
younger day is okay, it's probably two thousand and twelve,
and I'm you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 9 (02:50:39):
The girl come up, she started dancing. I'm dancing. I'm like,
you know what. You know I was thinking, said what
I was thinking? We could leave here and go home
my my favorite fuck.

Speaker 5 (02:50:50):
She said.

Speaker 9 (02:50:50):
I was thinking the same thing too. I said, Joe,
this ship. That line was so fucking easy. But I
was honest, and she wanted to do the same thing too.

Speaker 5 (02:51:02):
The best policy is that what you're telling me, that
honesty is the.

Speaker 9 (02:51:05):
Best I think I think it is telling you, buddy, you.

Speaker 8 (02:51:12):
Hear this, nigga, Beyond the reasonable.

Speaker 9 (02:51:14):
Dou reasonable doubt animals.

Speaker 12 (02:51:18):
You take a sticking up your candy sucking apple last
you can do that right there?

Speaker 8 (02:51:24):
What are you talking about?

Speaker 9 (02:51:25):
I'm agreeing with you, Okay, thank you.

Speaker 8 (02:51:28):
I'm agreeing with you that honestly.

Speaker 9 (02:51:30):
No, it's not like you switched it around on me, Na.

Speaker 21 (02:51:34):
Like ever since Nas dropped that bar, you feel me.
I don't have no game, but is just understand my story.

Speaker 15 (02:51:42):
You get that.

Speaker 9 (02:51:43):
Get that little ugly motherfucking trol out of the room
right now.

Speaker 5 (02:51:47):
Who's who's up?

Speaker 21 (02:51:49):
No?

Speaker 9 (02:51:49):
No, hell no, I'm not paying for that. No, not
that one.

Speaker 6 (02:51:54):
No blood no, no, no, no, I'm telling you right now.

Speaker 5 (02:52:00):
No, no, no, no, no, that's run it. I'm out.

Speaker 9 (02:52:05):
I'm out. Oh no, you want to be big ones.

Speaker 5 (02:52:10):
Ah listen, Yeah, that's one.

Speaker 9 (02:52:14):
That's when I can't.

Speaker 5 (02:52:16):
Yeah, let's pop the up. What you're gonna do?

Speaker 9 (02:52:20):
I can't stand that, mother, I can't. You ain't about
to force me, You ain't about to yo, No.

Speaker 5 (02:52:26):
Nigga, come up, let me see pretty want to come up?

Speaker 12 (02:52:31):
Don't make me show my assack? Tell you, nigga, Hey,
you know what happened last time?

Speaker 5 (02:52:41):
Now you really know what happened? What you're gonna do
We're on the wolf floor.

Speaker 6 (02:52:46):
What's up?

Speaker 9 (02:52:48):
I'm not I'm not doing that one right there? Then
out of me she got she got to smoke for
the war room though. Yeah, she ain't got. She ain't
she cold direct that ship to somebody else.

Speaker 1 (02:53:00):
Fuck maybe next time. Pretty well, I invited you up anyway.
I know you ain't said no, but I still better nigga. Hey,
let's get back to the topic. Should men and women
be honest if they're just looking for fun? Yeah, if
you're not being transparent, then you're cut off if you
just want to have fun and I just want to

(02:53:21):
have fun, let's be real. Yeah you said it, though, Bro,
you said that honesty is the best policy. Correct as
you said? Whoa, you feel like that's true? Animal, you
feel like this is true. Let's get back to the conversation.
Bro ping the room up, shut a room up.

Speaker 8 (02:53:34):
Yeah, for sure, I'm even go I'm gonna go out
on the limb even deeper. Right, These women really buying
lawge don't want nothing serious.

Speaker 21 (02:53:45):
So the guys that just want to have fun is
really having their way with all the women out here, respectfully.

Speaker 5 (02:53:57):
Ladies, he like it? Did you go you will get up.

Speaker 4 (02:54:03):
That doesn't you.

Speaker 30 (02:54:05):
You will get up with this conversation.

Speaker 9 (02:54:07):
I disagree, look him on name.

Speaker 8 (02:54:12):
What about.

Speaker 9 (02:54:15):
You disagree? You disagree? You disagree?

Speaker 52 (02:54:21):
I mean, yeah, I'm not on that and of the
stick when it comes to dating and stuff like that.
So they're not having any way where everybody that I do.

Speaker 8 (02:54:32):
Are you in a relationship, I'm saying.

Speaker 9 (02:54:35):
She kind of looked like, uh, lovely.

Speaker 8 (02:54:39):
So so if I offer you a trip right now
just a little bit. Yeah, if I offer you a trip.

Speaker 13 (02:54:47):
I don't even know you, damn, it would be a no.

Speaker 5 (02:54:56):
Yeah.

Speaker 35 (02:54:57):
She that just happened with its people to be you know.

Speaker 27 (02:54:59):
That, She's go, oh no, it's just not safe.

Speaker 52 (02:55:02):
If I'm a young woman, he's a stranger, he's asking
the flying. He's going to expect me to so that
means prostitution.

Speaker 8 (02:55:11):
So so if the introduction, So.

Speaker 21 (02:55:13):
If the introduction was made right, and we we we
we we know each other, we exchange numbers. If I
said I'm flying out on the weekend, you want to come?
Are you going to?

Speaker 9 (02:55:27):
No?

Speaker 21 (02:55:28):
I'm good.

Speaker 52 (02:55:29):
I like being courted, though traditionally that's the way I
was raised. I don't like being having to like fly
out or go very long links for dating. I don't
even like the long distance, so it will still be
a nun. I don't think any woman should be going
out on these trips with these niggas. A lot of
us get killed or her, so I would hope not.

Speaker 12 (02:55:55):
You're a good girl, because why.

Speaker 5 (02:55:58):
Are you talking to her like she's a Yeah, I don't.

Speaker 9 (02:56:02):
Like a pet like what then?

Speaker 33 (02:56:03):
Was that.

Speaker 18 (02:56:08):
Jumping on the next.

Speaker 9 (02:56:10):
Is jumping on the next one in.

Speaker 1 (02:56:12):
The chatted he's talking to her like he's a she's
a pet. He lowered his voice. He said, he a
good girl. It's okay.

Speaker 4 (02:56:19):
Jumping on?

Speaker 9 (02:56:22):
How much the big talking to you?

Speaker 15 (02:56:25):
How much?

Speaker 9 (02:56:26):
How much? How much do you pay to get your
ass out of here? How muchigga? Two? K?

Speaker 5 (02:56:33):
No, you're not wor.

Speaker 9 (02:56:36):
You call the monkey you breaking around? You goddamn? Was
your damn mike?

Speaker 27 (02:56:43):
That's your body is bigger than your bottom half.

Speaker 30 (02:56:46):
The little lake.

Speaker 9 (02:56:50):
You think you ate? You think you ate because you better,
You better mute up before you get shot up.

Speaker 6 (02:56:59):
Why was my name your mouth? What are you talking about?

Speaker 27 (02:57:01):
Why you keep saying money?

Speaker 9 (02:57:03):
Oh? No, I said, I like your name and I
hate your name? Is going to grow up?

Speaker 12 (02:57:09):
I was talking about how you would jump on a
flight if a man asked you to come out and
jump on the flight with Animal.

Speaker 27 (02:57:18):
That's what I know. You Gorilla back, Gorilla.

Speaker 9 (02:57:23):
I know that's you see my back baby. You wanted
to climb on it. Money. You're a very sweet young woman.
I appreciate.

Speaker 5 (02:57:33):
And you're still talking to.

Speaker 9 (02:57:36):
Animal. So Animal, so Animal.

Speaker 55 (02:57:39):
Jump on her back channel and see nah yo monet
hit us wait wait wait wait, hit us, hit us up.

Speaker 5 (02:57:52):
And if you want to be a part of you know,
the podcast and ship, it would be cool to have
you on the tea too.

Speaker 14 (02:57:56):
So when they hit us up, you said a podcast like.

Speaker 5 (02:58:01):
Every day we come here and we talk about relationship topics.

Speaker 1 (02:58:05):
Yeah, you know you rock with the four hundred side,
We rock with you, and you know you can come
in here and talk with us and mid with us.

Speaker 5 (02:58:12):
We're heard. So if you're interested to say this, okay,
that's how you do that. Yeah, y'all making it really
real difficult.

Speaker 9 (02:58:23):
Relax, nigga, we ain't off for that ship talking to
the niggas. We ain't all that ship.

Speaker 5 (02:58:28):
Relax, Boucci.

Speaker 9 (02:58:31):
I'm trying to tell you that, ah bro. She was
going on right, bro, not for really?

Speaker 12 (02:58:41):
She was going on right talk about it.

Speaker 5 (02:58:45):
Yeah, you want to do what you want to do.

Speaker 9 (02:58:47):
You want to go support or what we don't go
to barrier shut.

Speaker 6 (02:58:50):
Out, gay out of yay, that nig taking your motherfucking boat,
rides with niggas with your gay out, not this.

Speaker 9 (02:58:59):
We don't do roaches.

Speaker 5 (02:59:01):
You want to go to barrio, you say, yeah, yeah,
let's go to the barrio.

Speaker 12 (02:59:07):
Then spray. Now we gotta spray. We gotta bomb this
mother fucking now look what you did. Look what you're
letting for house? I need to Bombre's gonna back me up?

Speaker 5 (02:59:23):
NBA said never not. I don't know for honey, he's crazy. Listen, man,
men and women, we're about to shut this down, about
to go. What are now got to be real quick.
I'm gonna open this agenda wall flow up later.

Speaker 1 (02:59:36):
So anybody that's been supporting rock with that's come through
later or whatever, let's sunk with it later.

Speaker 5 (02:59:42):
I'm gonna open what's up later? You got any last
words before we leave? What's up?

Speaker 9 (02:59:46):
Yeah?

Speaker 38 (02:59:48):
Are any of these women willing to be the least
bit valuable to like to be in a relationship with
a good man like because it's all about compromise, right,
everybody's got to do some. But I don't hear a
lot of that, Like, is there an understanding of, like,
do you know what compromises you're willing to make to
be in a relationship with this ideal man that they

(03:00:09):
keep looking for?

Speaker 52 (03:00:10):
I think guys would say I would.

Speaker 35 (03:00:23):
I don't even hear you at mong will love Oh
I just.

Speaker 52 (03:00:26):
Said I would. Like I would say that I would
know the compromises I'm willing to make for my ideal man.
I think he should know what compromises he's willing to
make for me as his ideal life. So I feel
like it should be a mutual understanding between like young

(03:00:48):
adults who's like who has the same intentions when it
comes to morals, values, or boundaries such things like that
if those are in alignment with each other, you know,
not boundaries compromises should be talked about like right then
and there. But I do understand like the concern of
like some women just not understanding or willing to understand

(03:01:13):
the compromise part of a marriage someone. I say, some
women don't even have a good representation of a marriage,
so it's really hard for them to talk about what
they would do or what they wouldn't do. So all
they can go based off of is like true heart
feeling of what it would feel like to them, and
sometimes that's not accurate, sometimes that's unreliable too. So I

(03:01:35):
was just hoping women know that they would have to
compromise and that was going to be trials and tribulations.

Speaker 5 (03:01:45):
What we're doing up, Yeah, we'll come out the blooms.
Let's be out here,

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