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July 21, 2025 149 mins
Gender Warz – Episode 9: “Is Love the New Hustle?”
In this provocative episode of Gender Warz, we dive into the modern-day game of love and ask the hard question: Has love become just another hustle?
With social media glorifying lifestyle over loyalty, and relationships turning transactional, we explore whether romance today is rooted in genuine connection — or strategic gain.
💔 Are people dating for benefits, not bonds? 💸 Is love just a stepping stone to lifestyle upgrades? 🤯 Are relationships being used as leverage for clout, cash, or comfort?
From “soft life” to “sugar culture,” this episode exposes the blurred lines between love and business. Has the heart taken a backseat to the hustle?
🔥 Raw takes. Real talk. Relentless truths. This one will spark emotions and challenge everything you thought love stood for.
#GenderWarz #LoveVsHustle #ModernDatingExposed #HeartOrHustle

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Speaker 1 (00:01):
My bro Yetski going up Gender Wars another episode. He
is never playing, we never stopping. We yo every time
we go up. It's time to go up. Anytime I
tell you it's time to go up. We're not playing
those games. We're not talking them. We're just going all
the way up.

Speaker 2 (00:17):
I feel like this is going to be a real
good topic because a lot of y'all, you know, are
in talking stages just for the loophole. Like the loophole
is right here. The loophole is right here. It's the
talking stage, just the loophole for cheating. I'm gonna have
a huge conversation with a lot of people. Judith Essential,
we ain't got Chase. I appreciate y'all. I'm waiting for
some friends and some family to pull up. We're gonna

(00:38):
have a live ass room. Y'all know what it is.
But it's the talking stage, just the loophole for wait
till my family and my friends come through. We're gonna
go all the way up. But it's the talking stage,
just the loophole for cheating. It's gonna get crazy in here.
Hold on, Alfred, I appreciate y'all.

Speaker 3 (00:59):
Jesus, Victor, you guys. You guys can come up, but
we're gonna go up. H Yo, today's were going up.

Speaker 4 (02:08):
You already know, bro, it's a talking stage, just a
loophole for cheating. What you know, You're gonna have to
motherfucking spit something really fire behind this walk on, So
you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 5 (02:24):
Hearing me, Bro, I hear I hear you, I hear you.

Speaker 6 (02:27):
I got I got I.

Speaker 7 (02:28):
Got locks and shrimps right now or something?

Speaker 8 (02:31):
What are you right now?

Speaker 2 (02:35):
You gotta ast, you gotta ask so so I'm crazy, bro, Tay,
I appreciate you for coming up. Yeah, I appreciate you,
which I think is the talking stage just a loophole.

Speaker 9 (02:49):
For getting away which whatever you need to get away with.

Speaker 10 (02:52):
Talk to you?

Speaker 9 (02:52):
What do you think? Yeah? What do you think? I'll
be pinking some.

Speaker 11 (02:54):
Fris You ain't got a pink ship.

Speaker 3 (02:57):
But why did you just say?

Speaker 5 (02:58):
I appreciate you for coming through Nigga on the south
on talking just now?

Speaker 12 (03:01):
It's crazy, broy, Hey, yay, how y'all doing we and
trying to get money?

Speaker 3 (03:18):
We get to go on the topic though.

Speaker 13 (03:22):
The talking state, It is the talking stage. I didn't
know that was eating in the talking stage. There's no
exclusivity in the talking state unless it's said that we
are officially dating. I'm going to be exclusive to you,
you exclusive to me. Talking is collecting data on another person.

(03:45):
We can actively talk to several people. So how the
hell is that?

Speaker 2 (03:49):
No, but I'm saying, but listen, listen, tal to you.
I know that people take the talking stage very very light.
You know how people do it. I feel that, But
I'm telling you that I've seen in some cases where
people take it lightly and people don't prevent people, they
don't think of it as a pre relationship.

Speaker 9 (04:07):
They're like, okay, just like.

Speaker 2 (04:08):
You said, we're not exclusive to it. But some people
take the talking stage serious. So that's why I've.

Speaker 13 (04:14):
Talked to just from the last month and they got
rotated out within two weeks. Is that considered, pity, let's.

Speaker 9 (04:23):
Talk about it. I can't wait. I can't wait to
talk about this.

Speaker 14 (04:27):
The entertainments, Oh, is that Vonny.

Speaker 11 (04:33):
Definitely clowns a rob.

Speaker 14 (04:37):
Not too much on Vonn bro Relax.

Speaker 13 (04:41):
I just think that's crazy work to consider the talking
stage if somebody wants to talk to somebody else, pity.
That's a lot of that's a lot of delusion, So
it's yeah, I think it's dumb. If any says you
cheated on me we were just talking for one week,

(05:03):
that's crazy work.

Speaker 11 (05:04):
Mmm.

Speaker 2 (05:05):
I like talking to you opinion on this. I like
the way you're you're coming at this now, Vond, I
have a question for you. Some people take the talking
stage very very serious. Right, This is like a pre
pre pre relationship situation. If I'm talking to you, I
want this shit to be exclusive, just us, right. Some
people don't take the talking stage so fucking serious.

Speaker 15 (05:24):
They're like, nah, you know what I mean? So what
do you think? Do you think they.

Speaker 2 (05:29):
Should pre take it very serious? Or are they just
you know what I'm saying?

Speaker 9 (05:33):
What do you think?

Speaker 5 (05:34):
Von?

Speaker 10 (05:34):
Do you think?

Speaker 15 (05:34):
Do you agree with Tati you? Is it exclusive? Talk
to me, let's get it in.

Speaker 16 (05:37):
No, I don't think the talking stage is exclusive. I
think you're just trying to figure out if this is
somebody you want to date, because in the talking stage,
you haven't gone on any dates, you're not doing any
of that. You're literally just having conversations, So you can't
expect exclusivity at that stage.

Speaker 9 (05:57):
Hmm.

Speaker 15 (05:58):
That's interesting that you think this.

Speaker 2 (06:00):
Yay, I feel like people are getting away with ship
bro on the talking stage just to be like, you
know what, I'm able to mix around in mingo.

Speaker 7 (06:06):
I don't.

Speaker 2 (06:06):
I don't care what he's saying. I don't give a
fuck what she's saying. She's bullshitting. I don't give a
fuck she's fucking with She just wanted to be able
to get away with ship, Albert. She want to be
able to the mango. She want to be able to
get away with ship. She's telling me that the talking
stage is not exclusive. If I'm talking to you on
the talking stage is us and that's it, you know
what I mean?

Speaker 9 (06:27):
Like, what do you what do you talk like? Yay,
I'm giving that pushback. I don't. I'm not hearing that, Bro.

Speaker 17 (06:30):
I disagree.

Speaker 2 (06:32):
I hear you, I hear y'all. But let's give the
pushes were on the wolf floor. So that's what we're
gonna talk about.

Speaker 14 (06:36):
Let's go.

Speaker 18 (06:36):
I don't want to want to do you want to
do the reset in pingum?

Speaker 15 (06:39):
Now you're going, I'm gonna do it later, Bro, Let's
continue the conversation.

Speaker 3 (06:42):
Got you Dan, Yelle? You got it?

Speaker 19 (06:44):
Yeah?

Speaker 20 (06:44):
I think that until you agree to be exclusively dating somebody.

Speaker 3 (06:49):
You don't owe them ship and they don't owe you ship.

Speaker 21 (06:51):
That's just what it is, because you're not you don't have.

Speaker 8 (06:56):
Any agreements in place.

Speaker 22 (06:57):
I'm trying to figure out whether we in the talking stage,
we're trying to get to.

Speaker 21 (07:01):
Know whether we even are compatible.

Speaker 22 (07:04):
I can't put a label or a noose around your
neck because like.

Speaker 14 (07:08):
We're not even.

Speaker 22 (07:08):
It doesn't make any sense for me to like try
to cuff you up like that.

Speaker 21 (07:13):
And we're just trying to figure out I hate you,
Dannie anymore?

Speaker 2 (07:17):
Submitting Leah, what do you think about? This is the
talking stage is blue soup. It's like once I put
my eyes on you, it's over there.

Speaker 15 (07:23):
You know what I'm saying right now?

Speaker 14 (07:25):
Are you right now?

Speaker 9 (07:28):
You better get it straight?

Speaker 14 (07:29):
Listen, No, listen.

Speaker 23 (07:37):
I always tell people, not women alone, but people to
multi date, like the fuck onto, not monty, not multi sex,
not multi.

Speaker 14 (07:46):
Any of that.

Speaker 23 (07:47):
But ain't no way I'm loyal to no nigga that
I just met. I don't even know if I like
you we talking, I don't even know if I want
to commit myself to two hours on a date with
you yet? And and what excuse me? This is the delusion.
I think a lot of people function within and a
lot of times it's it's us women like we we

(08:08):
we thinking that okay, but men too mento you know what,
let me scratch that.

Speaker 14 (08:12):
People.

Speaker 23 (08:13):
When you now meet somebody, you look at this man.
He's good looking, he's you know, charismatic, he got all
the things. He's five, you know, not five nothing child,
he's six to him better like, he's all the things. Right,
you think you're the only woman that that that noticed
that he got all the things that you say you
want you think and vice versa. You see a beautiful woman,

(08:35):
she's you know, soft spoken, she ain't got you know,
the DMX voice like me.

Speaker 14 (08:39):
She kind of like more submissive.

Speaker 23 (08:41):
And you know what I mean the whole thing, right,
you think you the first guy that she is, especially
if she's in her dating stage, you think you're the
first guy that she's talking to.

Speaker 14 (08:51):
Now.

Speaker 23 (08:52):
Of course, that do come with a deadline. It du
comes with like a cutoff point. You're not gonna be
talking to somebody for three four months at a time,
you feel me.

Speaker 14 (09:00):
But if we're talking a couple of days or a
couple of weeks, absolutely not.

Speaker 23 (09:03):
There's nothing until we both agree that we're about to
be exclusive.

Speaker 14 (09:07):
Listen, it's free game.

Speaker 9 (09:08):
Hello, it's freak game. Oh my god, that's what I'm here. Yeah,
it's free game.

Speaker 15 (09:15):
Who else agrees with this ship jumping?

Speaker 9 (09:17):
Let's jump.

Speaker 3 (09:19):
And a half better? Right?

Speaker 14 (09:22):
If that's what you're heard.

Speaker 6 (09:26):
Five times long?

Speaker 16 (09:28):
Have I wasn't jumping in?

Speaker 14 (09:32):
I don't know.

Speaker 24 (09:33):
Are I agree that the talking stage should be one.

Speaker 15 (09:38):
Personally, but they're trying to multi day.

Speaker 7 (09:42):
Yeah.

Speaker 18 (09:42):
My thing is when I tried that ship, it was
just like, I'm not going I'm not gonna tell you. Yeah,
I never let that ship down, but I never had
energy for one person. You get im trying to say
it was just too much, too many women.

Speaker 3 (09:56):
I won't time.

Speaker 18 (09:57):
You don't have the time really get the order person
and do certain things with them and stuff like that.
And you had your attention to be everywhere else when
you spread then you know what I'm saying. So you know,
at my in my early age, early years, I ain't
gonna lie, man, Yeah, you just got your short bro.

Speaker 3 (10:16):
Mm hmm, seventeen women on one phone A fucking kidding me?

Speaker 5 (10:25):
What the shit is true? What y'all talking about? Bro?

Speaker 9 (10:32):
Because I don't think he was done. I don't think
he was done, true, true, I don't think he.

Speaker 2 (10:37):
Was doing Sniker don't even God, damn, my father.

Speaker 3 (10:43):
It's something false about there's something false about you.

Speaker 11 (10:45):
True.

Speaker 3 (10:46):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 18 (10:47):
And so when I started getting old, you guy, remember
I was in a different type of lifestyle, y'all. Somebody
y'all know, some of y'all don't know. If you don't know,
just look at my profile. But anyway, so I didn't
really meet to one.

Speaker 15 (10:58):
Somebody said you was a whore.

Speaker 9 (10:59):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (10:59):
Yeah, at least I can own it too, y'all can't.

Speaker 11 (11:03):
But you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (11:03):
So like now I'm like, nah, I want to get
to know the person, and I moved differently.

Speaker 11 (11:08):
That's all.

Speaker 9 (11:16):
Ahead.

Speaker 2 (11:16):
Whoever is jumping in Bro's popcorn style, Bro, whoever is
jumping in bro to speak.

Speaker 7 (11:21):
So I always I'm gonna let a woman go Bro.

Speaker 9 (11:23):
Go ahead, go ahead, Susane.

Speaker 25 (11:25):
No, I was just gonna say, if you're talking to someone, realistically,
you can talk to them and get to know that
one individual. You can tell off a conversation by having
with this individual if you want to even.

Speaker 8 (11:37):
Carry on talking to them. I don't see that.

Speaker 25 (11:40):
I don't see anything wrong with dating multiple people, you know,
but me necessarily, I'm not gonna invest into three or
four different people at a time. If I like you,
I'm gonna talk to you. I'm going to get to
know you.

Speaker 14 (11:53):
But if I.

Speaker 25 (11:54):
Don't, I'm not gonna waste my time by trying to
carry out a talking stage with you for months hoping
that things will change. I will count my losses and
move on to the next person.

Speaker 23 (12:07):
Yeah, the talking stays got to be a couple of
days or maybe a week or two. It can be
more what no meaning, like talking to somebody to kind
of like weed them out. There's no reason why as
a woman, I should be talking to three niggas in
two months or three months, Like within a week of
talking to you, I could figure if I want to
even carry this any further, Like, why are we dragging

(12:28):
this out?

Speaker 14 (12:29):
I don't get it.

Speaker 16 (12:29):
Well, I think right, I agree, they should be months
and months.

Speaker 9 (12:33):
And mon but it should be exclusive.

Speaker 15 (12:35):
Von, I don't care what none of y'all seen.

Speaker 26 (12:37):
Well, I think the reason why the man and the
women are having such a disagreement with this because the
dating phase actually benefits women they are saying, Okay, I
will date multiple men because at the end of the day,
we know men are expected to get his time, his resources,
which is very valuable to a man.

Speaker 5 (12:57):
So at the end of the day, a lot.

Speaker 26 (12:59):
Of the men are saying it should be exclusive because
these things my resources that I'm taking you out on
the day, and my time is valuable to me and
I don't have I can't spread it. Then, like the
brother y'all was saying, we don't want to spread that
ship to y'all is not ya.

Speaker 27 (13:17):
But see that but but but at the end of
the day, But let me make it is dage today
talking day anywhere go the man his time, his.

Speaker 26 (13:30):
Resource is gonna have to be with the women is
willing to even entertain the ship or wrong, you're not
gonna just okay, well, let me let me.

Speaker 16 (13:39):
Be qual it's literally talking when you're texting on the phone.

Speaker 2 (13:45):
But this is the pre relationship stage.

Speaker 14 (13:50):
That's not that's not.

Speaker 7 (13:59):
Up.

Speaker 16 (13:59):
Y'all be trying to go from I met you to
now we go together.

Speaker 14 (14:03):
Y'all a whole bunch.

Speaker 9 (14:05):
Of I don't know, man, you really wicked.

Speaker 23 (14:12):
Now you just met me at the publics we exchange
numbers today Saturday.

Speaker 14 (14:18):
How we go together?

Speaker 2 (14:19):
When I lock eyes with you, it's over. Listen, I
gotta talk to my brother Max.

Speaker 9 (14:25):
I gotta talking.

Speaker 15 (14:25):
Listen, Listen, you see my brother Max.

Speaker 2 (14:27):
He's gonna I'm gonna have him talk to y'all in
a minute, whenever he ready to.

Speaker 9 (14:32):
Matt gonna get what you get right with you.

Speaker 2 (14:34):
Because as soon as I lock eyes in Leah, I
don't care if it was two days old.

Speaker 15 (14:39):
That's call me delusion.

Speaker 23 (14:42):
But that's how y'all end up with baby mamas that
y'all don't like that, How y'all end up with women
that that y'all gotta keep performing for because you ain't
even giving.

Speaker 14 (14:50):
Her a chance to prove that she like you back.

Speaker 2 (14:53):
But now she's like, it's like this, it's like this
energy understanding if you know, you know, do you feel me?

Speaker 15 (15:00):
It's like this understanding that we have any.

Speaker 23 (15:04):
I'm just saying, you don't even know if it's woman
like you back, because she don't got you. You don't
conclaiming some shit. You don't know if this is the
whole of the town. You don't know nothing about this.
But because we talking and I can tell you sweep
nothings for like a week.

Speaker 14 (15:20):
Now we go together, make it make sense.

Speaker 2 (15:24):
Who else is happening after Lee? You know Lee's gonna
be on it though she's doing. Come on, it's good.

Speaker 28 (15:29):
It's not the sweet nothings. It's like you niggas is
I feel what Lee is saying? Y'all y'all tripping, bro.
This is why niggas is complaining about dates because they
gotta go on fifty of them trying to figure out
if the woman is into them.

Speaker 10 (15:42):
Like, nigga, you fuck figure that.

Speaker 14 (15:45):
Shit out in seven to fourteen.

Speaker 28 (15:46):
Days, twenty one days if it takes you know what
I'm saying, before you start spending money, man, Like you
know these.

Speaker 3 (15:53):
Women will bullshit you, niggah.

Speaker 29 (15:59):
Man co back, so basically tell you that girl?

Speaker 15 (16:05):
Would you say for Seana? Your mic is kind of muffled? Bro,
skive come back in.

Speaker 10 (16:10):
You had about three hundred girlfriend.

Speaker 9 (16:11):
Right, You're crazy?

Speaker 3 (16:13):
Bro?

Speaker 9 (16:17):
Yeah with you. I can't with you.

Speaker 3 (16:20):
Bro at all?

Speaker 10 (16:22):
When you like up, I know you did that.

Speaker 2 (16:26):
Nah here, I'll see home team what heyo, listen is
the talking stage just a loophole for cheating.

Speaker 9 (16:37):
Albert.

Speaker 2 (16:37):
I seen you coming in my brother jumping and then
let's continue this conversation.

Speaker 30 (16:40):
Let's go absolutely man talking that's and no do you're
talking money and nothing?

Speaker 9 (16:50):
Would you say, Albert?

Speaker 15 (16:52):
Yeah, we get we getting to know each other.

Speaker 10 (16:54):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 30 (16:57):
How can I take a ride on a date if
I don't know who's he is. I don't know what
she likes, I don't know what she what she stands for,
what she believes in. I don't know none of that.

Speaker 7 (17:06):
Ship.

Speaker 30 (17:07):
So we're gonna take our time, and it could take
longer than you know.

Speaker 7 (17:11):
It could take a month or two.

Speaker 30 (17:13):
It depends depends on how we what type of report
we have by the time we go out.

Speaker 10 (17:18):
You know, we're filling each other, you know.

Speaker 30 (17:22):
And I'm gonna take the time and plan the day
and get to figure her out. So yeah, I don't
see why, uh that should be rusted at all. And
I definitely can't deal with more than one person I'm
talking to.

Speaker 7 (17:35):
I can't do that.

Speaker 2 (17:37):
So so so, Albert, so you agree with me that
the talking stage should be yeah, okay.

Speaker 16 (17:45):
Ya, no stack, I'll be talking about y'all can't talk
but to one person. But y'all be on here talking.

Speaker 11 (17:59):
Come in.

Speaker 15 (18:00):
What they're talking oh lord, what's up mango?

Speaker 9 (18:04):
What they're talking about?

Speaker 31 (18:05):
I mean, honestly, for me, I don't believe in the
talking stage. I just I just that's just not something
I believe in. But once I find somebody that I'm
romantically interested in, you know, I kind of like only
focus on them, you know what I'm saying. Like, it's no,
it's no need to look elsewhere. If I like this person.

(18:30):
Now when I'm sayingle doing whatever the fuck I want
to do. But yeah, once I find somebody that I
feel that connection with, I feel that sparklet I usually
it be all about them. It don't matter if it's
the a month, a week, a day, like, it don't matter.

Speaker 9 (18:46):
Like if I like you, I like you, so mingo.
So when the sparks fly, they fly, am I.

Speaker 31 (18:51):
Right, Yeah, you're just gonna ride the way, you know
what I'm saying. I feel like a lot of people
like to be attached to like the outcome of things,
you know what I'm saying. So this is why you
might have people be like a little bit skeptical or
like intimidated, like in the last conversation hosted by Stunner.
But like, yeah, no, I don't really need to think
about all the extra external ship.

Speaker 9 (19:12):
Mmmm.

Speaker 2 (19:12):
That proves my point. Y'all you understand is the talking
stage just the loophole. I want to see if R
and B is here to my sister. R and B,
are you available for us right now? She wished. She's
at check on R and B. She's probably busy in
the background, but she should be coming on the show. Yep,
but anybody else hopping? Yeah, come on, Rico, hopping bro,
Let's get in because let me hear that light skin bullshit, Rico,

(19:35):
Let's get it in. I'm ready ever since Rico trolled
me early, I'm on this back.

Speaker 14 (19:51):
Sound very low we go.

Speaker 9 (19:53):
It's that light skin drink, Mike, can you come back?
It's the light skin mincy.

Speaker 5 (19:58):
Wait a minute, you should never get me your number.
That then sealed the deal.

Speaker 32 (20:02):
So you from that point on, you, my lady, that's
why I was rocking then who So Ricos agrees.

Speaker 5 (20:09):
With me that that's the way minute. I just want
to give my submission.

Speaker 32 (20:14):
Yeah, every every everything you see you should have seen
at that point you had you had fifteen minutes to
make your decision. If you couldn't have bet it right
in fifteen minutes. That's your own problem because.

Speaker 11 (20:23):
Now that because now I can't tell.

Speaker 9 (20:26):
You that's like you I told you so once I
give you yes, girl, Yeah.

Speaker 23 (20:34):
What we go together real badco we're talking over Rico.

Speaker 14 (20:39):
We could.

Speaker 9 (20:41):
We gonna come back in bro.

Speaker 23 (20:43):
We need you know, you got thirty minutes, thirty minutes.

Speaker 3 (20:49):
We could jump. We're gonna jump on that rate that
car radio. I'm trying to make my.

Speaker 32 (20:55):
Submission, and my submission is when I meet you at
Dounky going that's a Starbucks.

Speaker 3 (20:59):
I pay for your Vinimocha, frapp whatever you get.

Speaker 11 (21:02):
You're my lady.

Speaker 33 (21:02):
Now you're mine.

Speaker 5 (21:05):
That's it. I expect you to answer.

Speaker 32 (21:07):
My phone calls accordingly, to respond to the timely fashion.
You know we're gonna you know, it's like, don't worry
about the time. We just God got us and we just.

Speaker 9 (21:16):
Gotta God got us. Got it?

Speaker 32 (21:20):
Hold on, wait a minute and you can know like
we're not talking to nobody else.

Speaker 5 (21:24):
Whatever, dude, you were entertaining prior to me. That ship
is over.

Speaker 32 (21:28):
Whatever, little goofy friend girl again, that ship is over.

Speaker 11 (21:33):
From now on, I'm your soul.

Speaker 5 (21:35):
Priority like that take the ship. That's that.

Speaker 32 (21:40):
I hold old dang yoll, you can have it. I
expect to see you when I want to see you,
and I will be monopolizing your time from there for hout.

Speaker 17 (21:48):
So that's it.

Speaker 3 (21:49):
Don't get me a job on the spot on the seat.

Speaker 32 (21:54):
Well, you should have found those things out within the
first getting your number.

Speaker 16 (21:59):
You know, five minutes to find out his back story.

Speaker 9 (22:02):
That's great, go backwards.

Speaker 32 (22:04):
You can't go backwards, so you give me your number
has already we are now in the committed relation.

Speaker 2 (22:09):
Now I told you I'm not the only one that
thinks this bar. You understand we're on the war floor.
If you guys are just.

Speaker 23 (22:15):
Not joining, I know, it's not like I don't know
if it's to be serious hard just listening with my
popcorn because it's south hilarious trolling.

Speaker 11 (22:28):
They're trolling.

Speaker 14 (22:29):
I don't believe ship coming out there.

Speaker 31 (22:31):
Now.

Speaker 23 (22:31):
I believe Rico, but I don't believe all other niggas.

Speaker 9 (22:36):
I believe Rico.

Speaker 31 (22:38):
I believe Rico, cry baby ass he really be standing
in the rain with the with the bum box. But
the rest of these niggas, I don't believe the rest
of these niggas.

Speaker 26 (22:47):
I'm sorry, y'all should believe them because it's the truth.

Speaker 17 (22:52):
Type of dudes that kill you right.

Speaker 23 (23:02):
Minutes though, these niggas not giving up they hos in
fifteen minutes.

Speaker 14 (23:06):
I don't understand.

Speaker 23 (23:11):
Hey, nigga is not dropping the roster in fifty I
don't understand.

Speaker 26 (23:18):
I justes though you drop yours, you don't have one.

Speaker 9 (23:24):
Oh you heard that, nigga. He said that he can drop.

Speaker 15 (23:28):
His roster because he doesn't have one.

Speaker 2 (23:30):
You understand this man out there like that, Hold.

Speaker 23 (23:36):
On, wait a minute, saying I'm a faithful nigga. Ain't
he not in a relationship.

Speaker 14 (23:41):
You don't know? Or I'm faithful?

Speaker 23 (23:43):
But you never have options, nigga, and you don't even
participate in this ship, so.

Speaker 14 (23:46):
It don't even matter.

Speaker 23 (23:47):
Nobody is giving up they roster, and nobody's just pumping
the brakes on what they got going on when they
just met you fifteen minutes ago. The longest fucking movie
I know is the passion of Christ. Motherfuckers could perform
like a mother for at least a couple of weeks,
and you're telling me fifteen minutes thirty minutes, I'd.

Speaker 26 (24:06):
Either get what you're not.

Speaker 10 (24:11):
You know how we talk about in cells, We got
involuntary faith.

Speaker 34 (24:14):
But that don't you don't have all the faith.

Speaker 10 (24:20):
We we most definitely committed. Yeah, love that first time.

Speaker 2 (24:24):
Hey, hey, let me hear from Sean real quick, Rico,
real quick, real quick for Sean, what you're saying, come.

Speaker 10 (24:29):
In bro, love that first tight for sure? Like when
especially if the right song playing, Like you said that,
we locked eyes. I ain't gotten no hoes already, so
you know we're just waiting on that forever, you know,
I lock and then it's up. We're going for ice cream. Yeah,
we're proposing in two days, but not before talking to

(24:51):
their daddy the day before because we got to meet
the family on the second day, you know, and that's forever,
Like we do not already picked our baby like kid names,
we know what city we move into. I mean, it's
up like it's fucking forever. It might last for but
we're going. We're going, we go. We're going together bad.

Speaker 5 (25:12):
You know what I.

Speaker 9 (25:14):
Told your life is sure.

Speaker 7 (25:19):
Look, because look I don't like that is right.

Speaker 22 (25:22):
Men have the luxury of time after you know, after
five different dudes that wasted her time for two months,
a whole year that went by and she ain't made
no fucking progress. Don't be locking down with these dudes
at the fifteen minutes.

Speaker 14 (25:36):
That is dumb.

Speaker 17 (25:37):
It's called a whirlwind romance for a reason.

Speaker 7 (25:40):
No, I mean to be living WorldWind lives are check.

Speaker 9 (25:44):
Let me hear from chick up in there, chick, what
are you talking about? Man?

Speaker 7 (25:48):
I mean our wife. Man once said, right, don't let
your hole stand in the way of your wife. Right.
And so when I meet my wife, I don't even
know who these holes are. Which holes where? Like, I
don't even know these women that's in my phone, these
this is they be taking back a spam number that
called them early. It can't be life, because see, when
you meet the right one, when you meet your wife,
your wife is gonna change your life. See, he gonna

(26:09):
have you moving different, thinking differently when you meet the
right one. I understand these brothers. Next week I'm scheduled,
already scheduled.

Speaker 5 (26:16):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 7 (26:16):
It's like I can't remember I looked up your daddy LinkedIn.
I'll scheduled a meeting with him in his office. I'm
trying to get permission, you know what I'm saying. Hold on, listen,
I'm trying to be intentional right about the way that
I moved through this process because you not like everybody else,
event like you different.

Speaker 3 (26:36):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 7 (26:37):
I'm trying to be right for you. That's all you said.

Speaker 5 (26:40):
Take me off your calling list. I'm not interested.

Speaker 9 (26:47):
Hold on, there is that R and B coming in muted.

Speaker 14 (26:53):
Listen.

Speaker 35 (26:53):
I'm gonna tell you because I had to hear this
ship like a year and a half after my relationship. Oh,
we was just talking, and when that happened?

Speaker 14 (27:01):
What the fuck?

Speaker 35 (27:02):
So when did you get serious? Because I'm confused because
how did that have time to creep in if we
was just talking? Because I was serious during that time.
So I'm gonna tell y'all what to do. Ladies, I'm
gonna tell y'all what the fuck to do. During the
talking stage. You are faithful according to him, but exercise
your options. Okay, just don't make him know because he's

(27:26):
not gonna let you know. But then when you catch
his motherfucking ass, he gonna.

Speaker 14 (27:30):
Be like, well, we was just talking. We wasn't even serious. Then, boy,
you got me fucked up. He was already paying bills.
What do you mean?

Speaker 3 (27:37):
Oh damn? R.

Speaker 15 (27:39):
So basically, you said, he was already in the trap.

Speaker 7 (27:43):
I was just being generous, right, That's how the Lord designed.

Speaker 9 (27:46):
Me to be a he was already in a trap
to be with. That's what R and B said the Lord.

Speaker 35 (27:55):
You was telling me that you was listen, I don't
want you going nowhere. I don't want you working for
nobody else. How much is everything? I need you to
come and do everything for me. We wasn't just talking, motherfucker.
You just was using that as an excuse and a
loophole for still being able to cheat until I madeo
ass steel like you got me fun to go because

(28:19):
that bitch can have your ass. But then you decided
that you didn't want to be left out there in
the cold because you know that it was only one
R and B.

Speaker 14 (28:29):
Mother fuck.

Speaker 7 (28:32):
I think that one hand and one hand.

Speaker 9 (28:37):
So you agree with this, barn.

Speaker 2 (28:38):
So you this is this is what you were talking about.

Speaker 9 (28:41):
A fight back, man, fight back.

Speaker 2 (28:46):
We got there. We got I'm about to ping wat
R and B ping him, backing him.

Speaker 3 (28:51):
Up his statement. We go cook with this last statement.

Speaker 34 (29:01):
Now, I don't agree with most of that, but the
last statement was right, was real. I'm gonna monopolize your time,
so once I see you and we like guys and
we and we trade numbers. If another nigga can talk
to you, I be impressed. Oh Jarvis, that means I'm lacking,
because any moment you get free, I need that to

(29:24):
be with me.

Speaker 3 (29:25):
You need to you need to run to the gas station.

Speaker 36 (29:27):
Cool.

Speaker 34 (29:27):
I need a gas too. You run into the grocery store.
Guess what, I need a grocery too. I'm trying to
get with you every free Jarvis understands.

Speaker 9 (29:37):
Wait a minute, one minute on, Jarvis, you guys need job.
Wait a minute, go ahead, Jarvis, Michael Leah.

Speaker 34 (29:48):
You think it sounds crazy, but that's how I got
that woman. When we finished lunch, every place she win,
I was right there with from years.

Speaker 14 (30:04):
I know what it is.

Speaker 9 (30:06):
So Aliah, he locked eyes. Did you hear Jonvis? I
want to repeat this. He locked eyes with her.

Speaker 2 (30:12):
It was just every day ever since then.

Speaker 9 (30:17):
Yeah, especial cases like this.

Speaker 23 (30:22):
He hain't never been married before. What happened to all
the other women hen locked eyes with that? I what
happened with all the other one hundred and fifty that
he locked eyes with held hands with?

Speaker 14 (30:42):
Probably what happened with them.

Speaker 7 (30:45):
That they never happened?

Speaker 11 (30:47):
What right?

Speaker 7 (30:49):
I started when you walked through the door, baby the
first time?

Speaker 2 (30:54):
Yeah, first, exactly, first everything first breath, first, eye lash, eye,
lashed back.

Speaker 7 (31:02):
Look, had me breathe, having breathing like I was crumb dancing.

Speaker 23 (31:10):
Yeah, listen, Rico said, you got fifty meggas to figure out.

Speaker 14 (31:18):
Figuring out.

Speaker 2 (31:23):
Look, if you guys are just now joining we've been
talking about. Is the talking stage just the loophole for cheating?
When I first opened up this room, doctor Varng was
giving me a lot of pushback, right and and the
rest of the ladies trying to jump me. I got jumped.
You understand, I said, the talking stage has to be exclusive.
As soon as we lock eyes, soon as we lock in,
it's over. We're going with the flow from there. You

(31:45):
got a lot of you giving me pushback. Life is short.

Speaker 9 (31:49):
I don't care. Give me the ex it don't matter
to me. I don't care. I'm still standing over what.

Speaker 15 (31:53):
I stand on. We locked eyes, were locked in, So
that's what it is.

Speaker 9 (31:57):
Man, it's over.

Speaker 5 (31:58):
We could get married if you want to.

Speaker 3 (32:00):
What you want to do?

Speaker 9 (32:01):
What the listen?

Speaker 18 (32:03):
Hold on?

Speaker 9 (32:04):
I am not finished.

Speaker 15 (32:07):
As soon as we lock eyes and I see you were.

Speaker 9 (32:11):
Taking off exactly.

Speaker 2 (32:13):
That's just what the energy speaks for itself. You know
what I'm saying, y'all do y'all ain't never had the energy.
We're like, Okay, we're about to get Wenna get married tomorrow.
You know what I'm saying, Like, what's going what happened? Yeah, well,
I guess if you know you know the floor is open?
Is a talking stage just a loophole for cheating gender
wall floor.

Speaker 10 (32:31):
Let's go where the cheating come in? And I'm with
We locked in the immediately on site, were together like
soul mates. But where the cheating come in? I'm not Polly,
I'm one woman man. We don't.

Speaker 7 (32:58):
Changed my life.

Speaker 10 (32:59):
I've really been delivered shown your way. I'm here for
like the next woman I see. We get married, I'm
off the market.

Speaker 36 (33:10):
Tomorrow.

Speaker 10 (33:11):
I'm threaking. I'm taking care of her whole. She got,
she got, she gets written into the trust.

Speaker 7 (33:20):
I'm getting her name on my.

Speaker 10 (33:24):
I just I just wasn't brought the room.

Speaker 9 (33:26):
I'm ready.

Speaker 10 (33:27):
But but you don't want to get married because if
you want to get married, let me know.

Speaker 22 (33:34):
Please, You're gonna hit him with the next day because Sean,
if you married me today, and you say you want
a second wife tomorrow, I'm gonna beat.

Speaker 10 (33:42):
You for sure once once we get married, no other
woman exists but your mom and my mom.

Speaker 7 (33:53):
I'm saying no. But listen, once we start meeting your
other personalities, all that is not. All you got to
do is switch the wig like listen, you go for now. Listen,
be raving to day and robbing numbers even on Sunday. Baby, listen,
all fascets to you. It's all it takes to wrangle
lyn chick bo. That's all I'm saying. Whatever it takes, baby, you.

Speaker 10 (34:15):
Y'all over whatever you want?

Speaker 32 (34:17):
Overthinking, Okay, hold on what like over the light skin bended?

Speaker 3 (34:22):
It's back over overthinking?

Speaker 15 (34:24):
Over go ahead, we go.

Speaker 37 (34:28):
By weeks in a ring shopping. I'm sending to you
haul to grab your things. I don't need nothing else.
It's over with me and you are there.

Speaker 9 (34:36):
We together.

Speaker 37 (34:37):
Don't don't vet all this ship about. You have to
find find out what that ship. You know we are together.
That's what's wrong with y'all. The fear has put a
parameter around y'all that y'all gonna end up talking y'allself
out of a good thing. I don't have to do
all that.

Speaker 7 (34:52):
I know.

Speaker 14 (34:52):
I like you.

Speaker 37 (34:53):
I know we'll work out the fucking all the other
ship later that should have fallen in place right now,
come on, things, come on to grab your things, and
then I'm gonna work you into what's going on. And
I'm also monitoring, monitor at this point even the men
within your life that you keep contact with. So that's it.
Stacks that what you said me and say all the time.
So who I've seen? I knew I had seen my wife.

(35:15):
That's why can't I say the same thing.

Speaker 9 (35:17):
I agree with you, motherfucker, I understood, get it.

Speaker 7 (35:20):
Why the fuck is it different from me?

Speaker 8 (35:22):
Why haven't y'allid that yet?

Speaker 11 (35:23):
Then?

Speaker 8 (35:24):
So y'all just not seeing wives out here?

Speaker 14 (35:26):
They all.

Speaker 23 (35:28):
All them ray right now or or they're all eighty
two percent blind and boat.

Speaker 9 (35:33):
Now I will get off.

Speaker 21 (35:36):
We go.

Speaker 16 (35:37):
Ain't lying the rest of these.

Speaker 21 (35:39):
Because light skin.

Speaker 8 (35:41):
Can't you see him crying?

Speaker 7 (35:42):
Yoah yo, bro, It's not my fault that I have cataracts.
And here my guy doog.

Speaker 14 (35:52):
I'm trying to find that.

Speaker 7 (35:53):
Little motherfucker that nigga then ran out because he saw
a squirrel. But see he came back though, don't worry
about it. But is he But once I get there,
once I see the catastic is gonna miraculously get removed. Baby,
That's all I'm saying. I hear some voices right like
ray Chel's. I need to feel your wrists, y'all.

Speaker 22 (36:12):
How I know, Yo, This is how I know. Women
get got by y'all on a daily basis, and they
getting sucked over because I know this shit is working
on some stupid ass women.

Speaker 10 (36:28):
All of Daniel, all my brothers, all my brothers have
we are excited about the next time we experience butterflies
and get weak in the knees and the hero on
our back, our next starts standing up because once she
look at us and she make acknowledgment, the pregate is
gonna open up and an angel gonna get their wings

(36:48):
and we start in that life. We already got a
pictures board off our future.

Speaker 22 (36:51):
To get y'all a little bit too traumatized to see
women and feel like that.

Speaker 2 (36:55):
Now.

Speaker 10 (36:55):
No, man, we excited, man, I mean, matter of fact,
I'm looking at the stage. I see something I might
feel that way right now. I'm home on the edge.
I'm on the edge I'm ready to go.

Speaker 22 (37:04):
Look, I'm on the you're trying to have a kid
before forty and I'm already about to be thirty seven,
So i gotta follow.

Speaker 10 (37:11):
We can we can get married. If it's you, we
can do it next week. I'm moving wherever she at.
Wherever she at, we can move next week by a house,
little house home period.

Speaker 7 (37:22):
I'm an or dame minister.

Speaker 27 (37:24):
Bro.

Speaker 7 (37:24):
You know what I'm saying you need is a brown Bible,
and I got.

Speaker 23 (37:26):
The all with your white dressy, we ain't getting no younger.

Speaker 7 (37:33):
I wear many hats, bro. I'm an dame minister too. Right.
All you need is a brail Bible because I've been
forgetting the word. But like I got you, I got you.
It's nothing all.

Speaker 5 (37:43):
You should just gone and marry him right now.

Speaker 7 (37:45):
Bro. You know, as matter of fact, we've all.

Speaker 20 (37:51):
Yeah.

Speaker 5 (37:52):
Ready, she got a wedding dress on her ptr.

Speaker 7 (37:56):
To me, low key, I'll be seeing niggas, And I
know sometimes some of us, like our heads being the
skyion ship, we don't really be seeing y'all. We're looking
straight tripper nigga, Like, stick your leg out, baby, I'm
trying to fall in love, respectfully.

Speaker 9 (38:10):
I will be.

Speaker 7 (38:11):
I will be okay.

Speaker 16 (38:12):
Everybody is not as tall as you. Some of these
men are five nine.

Speaker 7 (38:15):
That's why I said something bad. You right, queen, my bad.
I'm just saying, tripper nigga and make him fall in
love for sime.

Speaker 22 (38:24):
I can't say that he didn't see nobody because you
out love what everybody?

Speaker 7 (38:28):
If he five nine, tackle that nigga. But listen, all
you gotta do is get.

Speaker 5 (38:35):
These women is five to five four five days. The
man that's five nine is taller than you. What not?

Speaker 16 (38:43):
When I put up, we were talking because chig is
six seven, so he's talking about he can't see nobody.

Speaker 10 (38:49):
He's not the average.

Speaker 7 (38:52):
Not you niggas out in my business.

Speaker 23 (38:54):
Hello, I'm five You walk around with nobody.

Speaker 7 (38:58):
I'll be trying to remind myself to look down, but
sometimes I'll be having around the cataracts of my lenses.

Speaker 26 (39:04):
This is why these were they got their standards is
too hot, bro, don't don't even make.

Speaker 23 (39:09):
Some Hey listen, y'all need to stop that because when
it comes to men, y'all don't compromise on looks. Y'all
don't compromise you not looking at no Big Bertha and
being like, you know what, I could do something with
that and could bring up to something what y'all y'all
go by what y'all see, So stop the cap winner woman.

Speaker 31 (39:29):
Black men love big girls, Leah.

Speaker 36 (39:32):
They love big girls.

Speaker 14 (39:34):
Anything that look ugly and sweaty. Though they're not going over,
but they love big girls.

Speaker 5 (39:42):
She had a problem and these women got a hold.
They listen to.

Speaker 26 (39:47):
Steve Harvey in that three month rule with shit, but
this nigga, like, man, fifteen minutes is.

Speaker 5 (39:56):
All y'all fu.

Speaker 16 (39:57):
We are not forty five year old women.

Speaker 5 (39:59):
We had literally.

Speaker 15 (40:04):
Hey, hey, listen, listen, listen.

Speaker 9 (40:06):
Let's let's let's.

Speaker 2 (40:07):
Yeah, hold on, hold on, hold on true Okay, yeah,
any words before I do this new topic? Bro, I
want to get into a new conversation. What's up, Bro,
I can't hear you?

Speaker 15 (40:21):
Why he ain't so far? Yeah, I can't hear you.
Yeah you sound man.

Speaker 9 (40:28):
Far bro for me.

Speaker 16 (40:32):
Name for him.

Speaker 9 (40:33):
Yeah.

Speaker 15 (40:33):
I don't know what's going on, but I got a
new topic I want to talk about.

Speaker 7 (40:36):
That's what I want to talk about.

Speaker 11 (40:38):
Oh yeah, yeah, ahead, you're talking ship for here far.

Speaker 15 (40:42):
Okay, come damn, that's crazy, bro.

Speaker 11 (40:48):
To protect the chick, get out the way.

Speaker 7 (40:50):
I'm getting out the way, sir. I'm getting my knees
as I slide.

Speaker 2 (40:55):
Y'all are crazy. Look, I want to do a quick reset,
ping the room up, share the room up. But I
want to talk about do men only open up when
women are about to leave?

Speaker 15 (41:03):
Right when the women is about to leave? Do they
only open up to ya? Tati? I want you to
talk about.

Speaker 2 (41:09):
Yeah, YouTube gone, Dan yell r and d leah oh ya, Yeah,
do they open up?

Speaker 9 (41:16):
Oh my god? Do they come running back?

Speaker 5 (41:17):
Yeah?

Speaker 15 (41:18):
This is what the fuck I want to talk about
picking this ship up.

Speaker 14 (41:21):
I'm not done king it up. Not enough he's selling.

Speaker 38 (41:31):
Niggas left, but it's not enough.

Speaker 14 (41:32):
You Ben never raised that, but not enough. Say nigger
than myself, but it's not enough.

Speaker 9 (41:39):
Nobody got annoyed.

Speaker 14 (41:40):
I mean nobody got anoyed.

Speaker 10 (41:42):
I pad man, watch your nigga joy.

Speaker 14 (41:45):
He survives outside off from the music. Nigga w They like,
what do you own? This is a alphant nigga, miss
welcome home?

Speaker 2 (41:53):
This is not his own.

Speaker 6 (41:55):
This is a revelation. How they get a nigga gone?

Speaker 22 (41:57):
He's your baby.

Speaker 38 (41:58):
I don't unders man, babby them make you feel to
tell that like I can battery teach.

Speaker 19 (42:02):
You something in this correction that's the playing baby don't
want your life, and where.

Speaker 38 (42:05):
Nigga's like, it's not enough, not enough you men, but
not enough, say Nigga n myself, but it's not enough.

Speaker 9 (42:18):
I want to continue this ship.

Speaker 2 (42:20):
Do men only open up when the woman is about
to leave? Floor open popcorn style?

Speaker 20 (42:28):
Yeah?

Speaker 31 (42:31):
Go, I'm god, I don't. I'm not going back to nobody.
You know what I'm saying. I'm I'm sadistic though, like
I'll play with the idea I'll keep your hopes up,
but deep down inside, I know I'm not taking you back.
And you know, I know it's not right. Before everybody

(42:52):
be like, oh my god, that's so fucked up. Yeah,
but it's like I don't really give a fuck. I'll
be bored sometimes, and you know, I'd rather take myer
out on the person who hurt my feelings than to
you know what I'm saying, fuck with other people's heads.
You know, why would I fuck with a new person's
head if i'm you know, you get what I'm saying.
So I'd rather fuck with that person's head. So I'm

(43:13):
over them and then we move on. You know what
I'm saying. So even if that's like, oh yeah, we
can get back together whole time, nother fuck or not
I know or not, you know what I'm saying, And
that's just what the fuck it is.

Speaker 16 (43:25):
There are some men who got that standby ring, that
just in case you try to leave me ring, and
as soon as she gets you, yeah, he'd.

Speaker 14 (43:33):
Be like, no, baby, I was gonna propose to you.

Speaker 5 (43:36):
I want you.

Speaker 16 (43:36):
It reminds me of this video. I saw this dude
on a plane just yesterday. He was the I guess
the girl broke up with him while they were in
the air. On the plane, this man is in the
aisle on his knees with a random ring. She's like,
where did you even get his ring from? He's like,
I don't want you to leave me.

Speaker 14 (43:51):
I want to spend the rest of my life with you.
The lady said, I don't want to spend the rest
of the flight with you. What are you talking about?

Speaker 10 (43:56):
Oh yes, I've most definitely seen that. Damn bad hey
exact what's side were taking? We were saying, man, what
were doing?

Speaker 9 (44:06):
You? For sure?

Speaker 15 (44:07):
You take this ship anywhere you want to take?

Speaker 9 (44:09):
You any side? You won, all right?

Speaker 10 (44:16):
Y'all need to vote. What's tide? Am I taking? Tell
me what?

Speaker 9 (44:19):
Yeah? Put a one or two in the chat?

Speaker 16 (44:20):
It no matter what are the options he yes or no?

Speaker 10 (44:24):
Do man do? Open up?

Speaker 16 (44:27):
Okay, you're gonna be on the stance of yes, all.

Speaker 2 (44:31):
Right, put it yes, yes, people saying yes, yes, Okay, No,
there's no let's let's put a couple. Let's let's vote
in the chat. Get up in the chat real quick.
Should for Sean do the yes or no?

Speaker 39 (44:40):
No?

Speaker 9 (44:41):
Let's see where we're at. Should he do it yes
or no?

Speaker 3 (44:44):
It ain't gonna be real shock?

Speaker 14 (44:46):
Why we debate on that? I think it depends.

Speaker 9 (44:49):
Let's go.

Speaker 23 (44:50):
I think it depends because I've literally been proposed to
when I was already limping out the relationship.

Speaker 14 (44:55):
But it's like, nigga, now you're trying to open up.
Now you're trying to it's too big. Listen.

Speaker 23 (45:00):
It was way too late, and it's like, wait a minute.
I was creating space the whole time for you to
let me know what's going on, and here you go.
Now when I don't even like you no more, when
I don't rolled and died, I had like three candle
lights already, absolutely not, But then that's in an unhealthy situation.
In my current situation, my person open up all the
time because you know it's a healthy situation. I create

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that space that he knows that he could trust me.
He know I'll go to war for him. So it's like,
you know, he shared a lot of deep stuff with me.
So I think it depends on where you're at. If
it's a healthy situation, he can. But a lot of
times they do wait till you ready to go, and
especially if they know in they chests that you really going.
You're not playing this time. Now, all of a sudden,

(45:43):
you caught a conscious Now, all of a sudden.

Speaker 14 (45:45):
Let me tell you how I didn't get love when
I was younger. My mom preferred my brother.

Speaker 9 (45:51):
Now you're the therapist, Leo.

Speaker 2 (45:57):
I feel like they want therapists after Lee and now
they want event ship. When I'm about to leave, Why
didn't you break down on your knees.

Speaker 24 (46:05):
Yo, b I bought two rings, two rings, bro. I
thought that she would have said yes the second.

Speaker 9 (46:14):
Yeah, you brought fucking loans, that's what.

Speaker 3 (46:22):
That's what.

Speaker 24 (46:25):
And then you know I dropped down on my knees
during what's the call that's that the first the first
of the year.

Speaker 11 (46:35):
Yeah, I did that. Ship recorded that on New Year's proposed.

Speaker 24 (46:43):
Did She gave me a hug in front of everybody
and took me outside and said, why then did you do?

Speaker 9 (46:50):
Yo?

Speaker 31 (46:50):
Yay?

Speaker 15 (46:51):
What the fun?

Speaker 11 (46:57):
Y'all y'all know I'm real.

Speaker 40 (46:58):
Y'all know I'm real, right, So I'm not let me
ask you this, Let me ask let me get I
don't kiss my black ass, right, so.

Speaker 11 (47:14):
Remember that.

Speaker 24 (47:17):
You gotta remember that I don't. I don't ran this
lady to the mud. So I really kind of knew
what was gonna happen and ship like that. So yeah, yeah,
and I knew she was leaving at this point, you
know what I'm saying.

Speaker 23 (47:28):
So yeah, yeah, how many times she called you cheat?
And be honest, how many times?

Speaker 14 (47:35):
Let me have this.

Speaker 39 (47:39):
With me? Yeah?

Speaker 14 (47:40):
Relax, you gotta relax your nerves.

Speaker 11 (47:42):
Yay, let's be the fun I needed trouble for. I
was listen, bro, like, we need to look up anyway?

Speaker 14 (47:50):
Many times she caught you cheating?

Speaker 11 (47:51):
Yeah, just let me get it out.

Speaker 24 (47:55):
You called me like, I don't know, I forgot.

Speaker 27 (48:02):
It was that much, you damn nigga that you.

Speaker 11 (48:07):
Know what you know.

Speaker 9 (48:11):
I already know.

Speaker 10 (48:12):
I already know, not too much, not too much. He
was a change man. He has repented, and he was going.

Speaker 6 (48:23):
He was showing him seriously.

Speaker 7 (48:24):
He was.

Speaker 10 (48:27):
Twice like he was. He was willing to commit twice.
He proposed twice. How many niggas y'all got willing to
propose to y'all? But he's committed, he's repented. If God
forget he proposed, he want two ways. I don't even
know if I'm.

Speaker 24 (48:45):
A controlling my situation because I put your name in
the motherfucking title and in front of you for the
whole year.

Speaker 10 (48:51):
Here here it is, yeah, I mean here it is yeah.
Here This that absolutely man way to end because it's
the Harold Mary. But this is where the empathy got
to come in. Men have to wait to open up
because opening up is so dangerous, and until he enters
around where he might lose her, then he has to

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say that last hell, Mary to help her understand what
was going on, and she can come back in and
embrace them and be of support and have understanding on
the reason he performed so bad. So that's where the
forgiveness come from. And then she had more insight and
then from there it sets the tone for him to
do it again because like, right, I'm gonna make a

(49:35):
mistake again, But now she understands where the mistakes come from,
and she can be more understanding, right, because now she
know that she's she's the nurturer that God shent me.
So absolutely, I'm gonna wait to the end to I
don't want her to hurt me with this information too early,
because I don't know if I can trust her yet.

Speaker 22 (49:58):
I want you to hold my hand, Okay, I like
understand what right? I understand, I understand you keep walking
with me right walking up you step through, step through
this door real quick. I'm gonna flam that ship in
your face. I can understand you. I'm still leaving nobody

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gotta keep no guess what why you're standing outside.

Speaker 21 (50:31):
I'm gont.

Speaker 10 (50:36):
No, So look, no, I'm that serious though. So here's
the thing. We wait to the end because we don't
we're afraid of you being being able to manipulate too early,
like you all are manipulators. We understand that we don't
want to change you, but we don't want to give
you too much ammunition before It's like before the fourth quarter, right,

(50:56):
We don't want to load you up too early. So
you know, at the end we gotta tell you we
we gotta open up and be That's when the actual
wanner really come. And it ain't. You know, that's a
safe that's a safeguard, that's like an emergency, that's like
the you know, life jacket, you know, and we need

(51:16):
a little bit of buoyance here at the end of
the relationship. You know what I'm saying, Fuck with me.
You know, you gotta forgive me, right where are that
godliness that you had in there?

Speaker 8 (51:26):
I can forgive you and still remove your access to me.

Speaker 10 (51:28):
No, but I don't think that's how God work. I
thought you was a good Christian woman, motherfucker. That ain't
what the Bible said saying it did not Jesus said,
turn the other cheek.

Speaker 23 (51:43):
What I want to ask the man, like why are
we why are we entertaining women that why are we
not using.

Speaker 14 (51:50):
Discernment more and and and indulging with.

Speaker 23 (51:53):
And entertaining women that really rock with you and really
like there for you, whether it's physically emotional, the whole nine,
the whole you know, component of it, Like why is
it just okay? She might be here physically or partnering
financially or whatever.

Speaker 14 (52:09):
And all right, now we're in a relationship.

Speaker 23 (52:10):
Why don't more men kind of like deal with women
that they know is in a healthy mindset and a
healthy place that could actually, you know, like be that
support for them and they could be vulnerable with them
and know that she ain't gonna throw that in your face.

Speaker 14 (52:24):
Like, how are we not? Aren't y'all the leader's what's
going on?

Speaker 15 (52:28):
Oh?

Speaker 10 (52:30):
Women are really really so so stat We are designed
to serve women and see them in the best life,
and we want to believe that they would never manipulate us,
but we also have to protect ourselves just in case
it happened. So you know, we don't.

Speaker 9 (52:47):
We don't.

Speaker 10 (52:48):
We don't want to think about let y'allo manipulate her
cheat on us. We try to put y'all on the
pedestal so we can't have decernmon if we got to
be delusional about how wonderful you are, discernment is going
off the window. Facts.

Speaker 26 (53:04):
I agree with that, bro, because men love harder anyway,
and we take the most risk when it comes to
love and relationships.

Speaker 5 (53:11):
The men always get our heart, bro. These women are savage, bro,
y'all listen to these women, bro, They savage. We want
to get our hearts bro, bro.

Speaker 23 (53:21):
Well because if okay with that logic, then it would
make sense that you get some discernment. Then if men
love harder and y'all fall more harder and it hurts more.

Speaker 14 (53:32):
Not that I agree with it with the premise, but
let's rock with it.

Speaker 23 (53:35):
If that's the case, then if I know that I
am one of those lover girls, guess what I'm gonna do.
Make sure that the man that I'm indulging with make
sure that he's healthy enough that he gonna love me back.
Because I'm a sore loser. I don't like losing nothing
in life. So why and if y'all have the access
to the relationship, like I've heard it before, we have

(53:57):
access to the sex. But y'all got that y'all hold
the access to the relationship, why are you not making
sure that the woman that you are giving this said relationship.

Speaker 14 (54:05):
To qualify on every level?

Speaker 20 (54:08):
Like?

Speaker 14 (54:08):
What is what's happening?

Speaker 10 (54:10):
The sex is too good? Once we once y'all let
us have the good sex, we no longer have dis sermon,
I'm stuck, I'm in.

Speaker 14 (54:17):
Love, ladies, y'all hear that. That's a load of money.

Speaker 22 (54:23):
In love with the couchie, not the person whatever it is.

Speaker 23 (54:28):
Oh, for Sean, it's a troll, Danielle, it's a troll
right now.

Speaker 5 (54:34):
It's absolutely not every that's one of your.

Speaker 23 (54:38):
Manipulated on top of things.

Speaker 22 (54:41):
But a minute, y'all, get a whiff of some couchie. Now,
you the stupidest motherfucker in the room.

Speaker 2 (54:49):
Y'all, hold on, I want to cook. Hold on, I
want to hear from yo. I want to hear what
Daniell saying. Sod yell so you said as soon as
they get the cat, they are delusional, they get a
little crazy.

Speaker 9 (55:00):
What do you mean?

Speaker 8 (55:04):
I mean, it just doesn't make any sense. Y'all keep saying, well.

Speaker 10 (55:08):
Now and gave me some coochie.

Speaker 14 (55:09):
I don't know what to do.

Speaker 21 (55:11):
Like I thought you were a logical man.

Speaker 14 (55:13):
I thought you were.

Speaker 10 (55:17):
Y'all y'all get y'all get digmatized, We get clickmataged like
you ain't never heard of drunk in love? We we
like we love drunk because we've been waiting all our
life to take care of you and we and we
don't want to scare you away with our like deep feel.

Speaker 23 (55:39):
Know the trolling is on ten and they're not really
good to the troll. Let me tell you why the troll.

Speaker 14 (55:44):
It is on ted.

Speaker 23 (55:45):
I don't believe nothing these niggas saying in this conversation
right now, Because a man's ability to smash a woman
and then walk away from her, a man's ability to
have sex with a woman, deep passionate sex all in
her kidney and not even like her.

Speaker 14 (56:01):
It's topped here.

Speaker 23 (56:03):
So I'm not gonna be convinced now that all of
a sudden, this pucie is so elite, dispens is so
elite that now you ain't got no brain cells right now.

Speaker 14 (56:18):
There's a lot there's a lot more women.

Speaker 23 (56:21):
Though, there's a lot more women, though I'll say this
that they do get digmatized, especially that nigga hitting them corners.
She she's more likely to be a little bit more
into some ship. But men have that ability no matter
how bad that chick is, no matter how wet the
sloppy is, they have an ability to fuck you today,

(56:41):
not even answer the phone, them all block you and
all the ship.

Speaker 14 (56:45):
So I.

Speaker 7 (56:52):
So li, I mean, clen, let's let's just think about
this right, Just take a deep breath if you damn
so like think about this right, we already the studies
have been done, right, A lot of these niggas ain't
getting kucci. It's been months, if not years, right for
a lot of these niggas. And that's not even saying
that the shit was good. Then all of a sudden,

(57:16):
not Lea because Leah's married, but Jia from down the
street from Leah, Yeah, come through with that glamorous I
didn't even know this was here, coucie Like I didn't
even know they made this kind of couchie after it's
been months of drought for this nigga's like, that's like
going to the Sahara does it? Going to those tribes
and you didn't just bring water bottles, You brought enriched water.

(57:38):
They not gonna know what to do. It's upside niggas
will be upside down. And a lot of niggas no
matter how much money they make it. I don't know
why y'all think niggas that get money all of a sudden,
like you don't really be knowing what they do. You
know what I'm saying, really be getting kuchi like that,
that's not always true. But like y'all, niggas be flipped
upside down all over the place behind extraordinary couchie. Extraordinary
couchie is so rare. That's why it's extraordinary. You get it,

(58:00):
I'm saying, And I get it. It's not that every
woman has it, but sometimes, right, niggas do get caught
with some ship that's a little bit too rich for
their blood and it just takes a long time for
them to jut. So, yeah, they be lost in the sauce.
And if she plays our cards right, baby, you own that, nigga.
Have you ever seen a nigga in love? Nigga in
love is the most foolish, illogical, nonsensible nigga on earth.

Speaker 9 (58:24):
That they do be insane, I'm not gonna lie.

Speaker 7 (58:28):
They do.

Speaker 9 (58:28):
They do be crazy, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 7 (58:32):
Anything except for you don't want that you don't love him.

Speaker 10 (58:38):
They don't understand the want to accept the fact that,
like we save, we don't even realize that she about
to leave, that we got something that we actually value.
That's that's what the real truth is. We sometimes don't
realize how fantastic she was until she so fed up
with our ship. That she leave, and we thought we

(58:59):
had time to fix ourselves, we can get to it later,
and it's like, oh, she really packed her ship, she's serious,
or you know, here's the other things that we found
out that she cheated, or she's talking to niggas in
our dms, and then we like the reality hit us
and we're like, oh, fuck, we gotta we gotta hit that,
Like we gotta hit that emergency card. You know, you

(59:20):
gotta pull that ripcord, you gotta pull that band aid
off and like let it know, like how you really
feel about her. That's what it is that year. You know,
sometimes we don't we don't even be really knowing that
you really fuck with us like that.

Speaker 22 (59:32):
But for the problem is, though, and I can see
how I can understand that to be true for y'all, right,
but the problem is is like by the time a
woman is actually packing her ship, she.

Speaker 14 (59:43):
Already been ready to leave your ass.

Speaker 22 (59:45):
So it's like nothing you can do at that point,
most of y'all, when a woman gets to that point,
that ship done, like.

Speaker 3 (59:53):
You.

Speaker 10 (59:54):
But what we're trying to do though, right because we
know if you if you if you physic leaving, we
know you've been going for a minute like mentally right.
But what we're trying to do is prolong it because
now that we had an actual, real problem, if we
can fix it and make it through this, it's gonna
make us stronger, you know. And if we want to

(01:00:16):
give you the opportunity.

Speaker 14 (01:00:18):
I can hit you real ud.

Speaker 41 (01:00:22):
Behind you and I feel like Jesus, I'm with it's bitch,
I'm out, just cut order.

Speaker 3 (01:00:30):
I feel cut, y'all, come cut my head. I got
my head.

Speaker 20 (01:00:39):
Pushing my line about flying over.

Speaker 15 (01:00:44):
Y'all be just letting.

Speaker 9 (01:00:45):
Anybody on the stage had.

Speaker 10 (01:00:48):
Three hundred and eleven print, bro, who is.

Speaker 2 (01:00:52):
Gosh listen, if you guys are just joining we're talking about.
Do men only open up when the women is about?
Matter of fact, that's going the ping park. Be real quick,
let's pick this ship up for Sean, I appreciate you,
R and B appreciate you. Since then y'all talk to
the Yeah, Arthur Vron deal, Matt.

Speaker 9 (01:01:09):
Stun a chip on team. What we're doing.

Speaker 15 (01:01:12):
We go on a warrior like Shorty, but let's go
up real quick. Let's do let's pick this up.

Speaker 11 (01:01:18):
Niggas sweat it past us.

Speaker 19 (01:01:19):
They doing too much having done my taxes. I'm too
turned up, Margie kind of tiend might risk doing nothing,
so niggas call.

Speaker 9 (01:01:27):
Me slipping once. Okay, so what someone hit your block up?
I tell you if it was us man our house
and roads.

Speaker 3 (01:01:33):
Well, this shit too plush.

Speaker 19 (01:01:35):
Say my day's a number. But I keep waking up.
I know you see my text. Baby, please say something
fine by the glass man A chiefs came home. Niggas
gotta move on my release, stay home.

Speaker 14 (01:01:48):
This is fame, not cloud.

Speaker 9 (01:01:50):
I don't even know what that's about. Watching mouth.

Speaker 15 (01:01:53):
Baby got an ego twice the.

Speaker 36 (01:01:54):
Size of the crib.

Speaker 9 (01:01:56):
I can never tell the ship.

Speaker 19 (01:01:57):
It is what it is, said what I.

Speaker 14 (01:02:00):
Add to and jib what I did.

Speaker 19 (01:02:02):
Never turn my back on ebg got Virgil, got padded
on my wrists doing front flips. Giving you my number,
but don't hit me on a dumb ship working on
a weekend like its your.

Speaker 20 (01:02:15):
Man.

Speaker 19 (01:02:16):
Make it swear they passed us. They doing too much
having done my taxes. I'm too turned up, Sergio risk.

Speaker 2 (01:02:25):
Let's continue this ship because y'all been having some good shares.
But I want to hear from some more people. Do
men only open up when the women is about to lead.
As soon as she's about to leave, y'all break down.
Y'all want to tell him everything. Y'all want to vent
This is this ship. I want to hear from this.
This is the conversation.

Speaker 9 (01:02:40):
Ping this ship up.

Speaker 2 (01:02:42):
Everybody on your list, Ping party, Ping party, even if
you at the bottom, help me grow this ship. Do
men only open up when the women is about to leave?
Popcorn style the room, It's open, Let's go, who's coming
in next to grab this mic?

Speaker 15 (01:02:55):
Let's continue to come home?

Speaker 26 (01:03:02):
Yeah, Bro, To be honest, I don't think man have
a problem with pouring their heart out standing out in
the in the motherfucking rain, knocking on a woman's mama's
dough and she had left the nigga like, bro, Niggas
do this ship all the time.

Speaker 5 (01:03:17):
Bro, So this is a real topic.

Speaker 26 (01:03:19):
Niggas do do this ship, y'all talking about brou if
a woman is on that man. When a woman leave
a man and he really in love, he gonna go
to every extreme to make sure that woman is not
fucking going nowhere like this motherfucker he had dead nearly

(01:03:42):
have to get a.

Speaker 5 (01:03:44):
Restraining order and all kind of ship.

Speaker 7 (01:03:46):
Bro.

Speaker 15 (01:03:47):
That's how okay, Well that's how some people end up jail.

Speaker 2 (01:03:49):
You're gonna take it to that limp or that kind
of crazy trying to go to jail and ship.

Speaker 9 (01:03:59):
Haitian this nigga, right man?

Speaker 42 (01:04:01):
Hey listen, bro, I'm married.

Speaker 6 (01:04:05):
I don't think like this bro. This ship crazy.

Speaker 42 (01:04:08):
Man, there's nothing that's gonna keep a woman if she
don't fuck with you, she just don'na fuck with you.

Speaker 6 (01:04:12):
Close to throw real quick before she hit me.

Speaker 7 (01:04:16):
Man.

Speaker 42 (01:04:16):
Hey, if a woman gonna fuck with you, she's gonna
fuck with you till the wheels fall off.

Speaker 6 (01:04:21):
That's that's on everything.

Speaker 9 (01:04:22):
Man.

Speaker 42 (01:04:23):
If she listen, if she feels like there's chinks in
the armor, right she if she she has doubt, right,
she's not sure?

Speaker 6 (01:04:33):
Bro, you good as you good as just replaced already?

Speaker 36 (01:04:36):
Right?

Speaker 42 (01:04:36):
Beyonce said it. Don't you ever think you ever get
Don't you get to thinking you irreplaceable?

Speaker 6 (01:04:42):
You know you know that song?

Speaker 27 (01:04:45):
Bro?

Speaker 42 (01:04:48):
Don't you So they understand them? Hey listen, they understand
the assignment real quick. So why can't you have the
same mindset the way ship?

Speaker 7 (01:05:02):
Man?

Speaker 42 (01:05:02):
If she ain't fucking with you, man, you replaced? That
What the fuck going on?

Speaker 5 (01:05:06):
You know? How?

Speaker 6 (01:05:07):
Many women in the world, bro like you, not much
fishing to see if my wife help got crazy enough
to leave me?

Speaker 42 (01:05:14):
You think I ain't gonna get another one.

Speaker 9 (01:05:19):
We're on the wall floor.

Speaker 42 (01:05:20):
Hey, man, I don't know. I'm a different type of brother. Man,
So she because for me, I would I'm not like
even like that type of person that even would have
thought I'd be married with children, a family man and
all this whole crazy shit. I did that ship because
I felt like I was starting to get old. I
can't be fucking around life. In short, I'm gonna be

(01:05:41):
in my casket soon. Let me just go ahead and
you know, settle down, and you know, stop playing these games,
these reindeer games with Rudolph.

Speaker 6 (01:05:53):
Ah, that's pupped up.

Speaker 35 (01:05:54):
So you didn't know because you're married, because no ass
was getting old and didn't nobody else.

Speaker 42 (01:06:05):
He man, Hey, all that married for love? All that
married for love? Ass ship, that's like, oh ship, that
ain't you know? Hey, listen, I ain't gonna lie to
you ship. She married me for convenience. I came with, huh,
what do you said?

Speaker 43 (01:06:24):
I said, open that door, and said, so she can
hear you.

Speaker 42 (01:06:27):
I open up this goddamn though she let me make
sure this ship close to stay in your car.

Speaker 6 (01:06:41):
That's why I come on here. I come on here
to say all the ship to you did. I can't
say you think I'm gonna stupid motherfucker. I got a
good situation going on. Man, the fu.

Speaker 9 (01:06:56):
Is nuts.

Speaker 42 (01:06:56):
But what I'm saying, listen, I'm saying, this ship a
business bro like you gotta you gotta choose a partner
that's you know, a good business like choice, bro, Like,
this is what I mean.

Speaker 6 (01:07:06):
Come on, bro, this is what the fuck is? Who
the fuck just.

Speaker 42 (01:07:08):
Getting married off straight pure love and ship like just
pure love like a mother ain't got ship like they
just they just just you just love them, Like come on, bro,
ain't nobody getting married for this? No fucking pure It's conditions, bro,
It's convenience. It's conditions. It's it's something that to gain
from the ship and my trip conveniently love you.

Speaker 6 (01:07:31):
Yeah, convenience, that's convenience. Yeah, because motherfuck got a job ship,
you know, ship.

Speaker 42 (01:07:37):
But you can't tell me if a motherfucker was a
midget that you would just be trying to love me
for love? Like what the fuck if I was quasi motile.
You wouldn't just want to love me for love?

Speaker 3 (01:07:48):
Right?

Speaker 6 (01:07:51):
Yeah?

Speaker 42 (01:07:55):
Oh yeah, man, that's in the movies and the fair
tales make you think a uggly. Hey, listen, if Quasimoto
get a bitch, he got himself some money, even the
Beast from Beauty and the Beast he had money. He
had a little talking ship, little talking dishes and shit.

Speaker 9 (01:08:11):
Al Right, look, hay shan, real quick, real quick.

Speaker 3 (01:08:13):
I want to look.

Speaker 15 (01:08:14):
I want to do a quick reset.

Speaker 9 (01:08:15):
Yeah, real quick?

Speaker 2 (01:08:16):
Do men only open up when the women is about
to leave? I want to stay on the topic too.
I want to give my sisters and order some space
to talk to. Invite here and royal chig everyone, let's
pring the room up. So thank you for being his bag.
But so you ought to have a question for you, sister.
Do men only open up when the women is about
to escape from their arms? They fucking run and they've

(01:08:36):
they've Now you want to open up? What if it's
fucking too late? Sis, s yoda? What if it's just
too late? The women don't want to hear this ship?
Can I hear what side you're on? Today's sister?

Speaker 44 (01:08:48):
Thank you for joining under Do I want to be
on the men's side or the women's site.

Speaker 9 (01:08:54):
What's up for Sean? Where we want her to go?

Speaker 3 (01:08:55):
Bro?

Speaker 2 (01:08:58):
Okay, you want the man, so okay, going to women's side,
men's side. Okay, you're on the women's.

Speaker 45 (01:09:04):
Side, on the women's side today, God damn okay, okay, okay, okay,
So I'm on the men's side today.

Speaker 8 (01:09:17):
So this is the thing, Stack.

Speaker 44 (01:09:20):
Men don't open up when women are about to leave.
They actually open up all the time. However, women want
men to open up. How they want them to open up,
that's themselves. Okay, stroll that these women have all right, Stack.

Speaker 11 (01:09:43):
Gee, that's what they're saying. That's what I say, you men,
I don't know why you're afraid to open up.

Speaker 24 (01:09:56):
You men need to open up, y'all, y'all hold up
all these feelings.

Speaker 11 (01:10:00):
No, motherfucking man don't need to open up. They open
up just the way they want to open up and
take it or leave it.

Speaker 3 (01:10:04):
That's how.

Speaker 10 (01:10:07):
We actually don't open up enough, because if we did,
our women wouldn't be upset, unhappy with us and trying
to leave. They wouldn't cheat on us in the first place.
Like if we were more transparent and just more honest
about where we at, what we're trying to do. Women
would have no reason to treat semption or cheat on us.
Not too much on the simps, because this is the way.

Speaker 11 (01:10:29):
Last time, I remember you said very men were simps.

Speaker 10 (01:10:34):
Remember that's impossible. How are you? How are you? How
are you a tent for making your woman.

Speaker 24 (01:10:40):
Said it and got doctor Mel was pissed off at
me and got at me.

Speaker 10 (01:10:44):
How how is you?

Speaker 3 (01:10:45):
How were you?

Speaker 10 (01:10:47):
If you're not willing to open up to your woman,
let me get to the top.

Speaker 11 (01:10:52):
I'm who is this new guy on the stage?

Speaker 9 (01:10:56):
Bro can let him cook? Let him cook?

Speaker 10 (01:11:00):
I thank you, thank you. I love this topic. By
the way.

Speaker 3 (01:11:07):
Man, shout out.

Speaker 10 (01:11:08):
To my boys, stacks, let's work.

Speaker 9 (01:11:11):
Let's work.

Speaker 11 (01:11:11):
Bro toy to.

Speaker 10 (01:11:14):
Mars for sewing, R and B. Listen fifty to fifty men.

Speaker 29 (01:11:19):
I'm always gonna open up, man, because I don't even
got enough money to pay all the bills.

Speaker 10 (01:11:26):
Thank you.

Speaker 28 (01:11:27):
If I had enough money to pay the bills, I
wouldn't open up nothing.

Speaker 10 (01:11:32):
I wouldn't say a damn thing.

Speaker 3 (01:11:34):
I would move in solence.

Speaker 6 (01:11:35):
I would come home and I feel like I'm fifty fifty.

Speaker 29 (01:11:39):
I gotta be transparent. I gotta tell about my daddy's shoes.
I gotta bay while I got a desire to go back.
I gotta tell her a shit.

Speaker 10 (01:11:53):
About me and my baby mama going through.

Speaker 29 (01:11:55):
I gotta tell her everything, you know why, because I
can't pay the cost of the bus. But when I do,
I'm speaking lest I ain't saying shit. Really, I wouldn't
say a word. Really, this is the type of man
that women like y'all liked us emotional half on the bills,

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paying handsome niggas.

Speaker 10 (01:12:20):
No Canary from.

Speaker 6 (01:12:21):
From they actually prefer.

Speaker 42 (01:12:24):
They prefer you not to say ship and act like
you don't have feelings too. That's what they really prefer.

Speaker 41 (01:12:28):
No, no, yeah, but that doesn't work with Canary.

Speaker 10 (01:12:31):
No, you're tripping, man. Look Canary from a hundred nothing
man to a fifty to fifty man. Even when you
get up to her to a hundred nothing. You can't
be expecting too much from her. God, she can have babies, okay,
she shouldn't have to worry about nothing else except for
being happy. And you got to open up and pay
all the bills and be on her back and call like,

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if you're not making money for the house, you need
to be readily available for her. And that includes you,
like expressing your feelings and your concerns and not hiding
anything inny, your your your phone need to be open
to her. Your social media if if she allowed you
to have some need to be opened up for you
for her right because this is the only way she

(01:13:16):
can trust you. So when you're paying you the boss,
the boss has to be transparent. Come on, man, man up, brother, you're.

Speaker 36 (01:13:29):
Right, I need it. I'm tired to open it up.

Speaker 10 (01:13:34):
Coming to the brother circle. We got something for you.

Speaker 11 (01:13:37):
I'm going to the brothers circle, fucking open it up.

Speaker 10 (01:13:41):
But why do you open?

Speaker 6 (01:13:46):
Women don't be giving a fuck to be honest, at.

Speaker 29 (01:13:48):
The end of the day, when you ain't got enough
money for the bills, you're gonna start seeing ship Like look, baby,
I'm trying.

Speaker 36 (01:13:54):
It's hard out here, and that like cause the dog
get out the part.

Speaker 42 (01:14:06):
That's the part where she stand down her nose at
your ass, like is this mother?

Speaker 3 (01:14:15):
Mm hmmm.

Speaker 42 (01:14:16):
They don't give a fuck. Women don't give a fuck.
That's one thing I learned throughout the years. Women don't
give a farth about no goddamn man feelings. Yeah, that's
a that's a reality, right, Like, let's be honest, what's
you opening up gonna do. She's gonna all of a
sudden be understanding to your knees as a human being

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as well. No, bro, don't show no chinks in the armor. Bros,
keep that ship like stow it. I don't show no emotion.

Speaker 10 (01:14:46):
That's the problem right there. I cold on that as
ain't no armor when you're dealing with your woman.

Speaker 42 (01:14:52):
Now, brother, listen, listen, listen this.

Speaker 6 (01:14:55):
You think your woman is special from all the other
women in.

Speaker 46 (01:14:58):
The world, all the other believe once a month, the
moment you open up, she's gonna weaponize it and use
it against you and remind you.

Speaker 42 (01:15:10):
And I'm telling you, mane it.

Speaker 10 (01:15:17):
An argument you me and keep me a single lad.

Speaker 9 (01:15:28):
Wake it up now, he's let's talk about.

Speaker 14 (01:15:32):
What he's saying.

Speaker 21 (01:15:33):
It comes from.

Speaker 25 (01:15:34):
It sounds like an unhealed place, you know, because any
woman that you're dealing with, you're gonna want to be
open to her.

Speaker 21 (01:15:42):
But a woman has to.

Speaker 3 (01:15:43):
Allow you to be vulnerable.

Speaker 25 (01:15:45):
If you truly and think that, if you're really going
to be in a relationship with the person and think
that you're not going to be vulnerable with them. That
is ridiculous. That is an unhealed place that you speak of.
And then to give an opinion like that, Lord.

Speaker 42 (01:16:04):
I'll shed my tears in the darkness every single time.

Speaker 10 (01:16:09):
You got to do it in the light with your wife. Man,
mind if you if if if you can't, if we
can't trust our women with our with our deepest, darkest emotions,
right like, how is she?

Speaker 3 (01:16:35):
Hey?

Speaker 7 (01:16:35):
Man?

Speaker 10 (01:16:36):
You know, but she's gonna be the She's the mama
to my cheek exactly.

Speaker 42 (01:16:38):
And I'm glad you said that because one thing you'll
notice is your mama can have your blood line.

Speaker 6 (01:16:45):
She has an obligation to love you, even down to
your children.

Speaker 42 (01:16:48):
Right, they have your blood right, your wife don't have
your blood brother.

Speaker 10 (01:16:52):
But I don't have to important thing as a man.
This is my job to love her better than she.

Speaker 42 (01:16:57):
Loves bro if she if she Okay, what I'm trying
to say is your wife is not always going to be.

Speaker 6 (01:17:05):
Tied to you, right if you don't have to.

Speaker 10 (01:17:08):
Keep my responsibility forever?

Speaker 6 (01:17:10):
Oh my god, this is wild. Listen. What I'm trying
to say is your mother. You only have one mother in.

Speaker 42 (01:17:16):
Your life, right, That's what the fuck is this?

Speaker 6 (01:17:22):
So made bullshit? What is going on?

Speaker 10 (01:17:26):
Once we once we listen, bro, you got to be vulnerable.

Speaker 15 (01:17:35):
That's Susan, get in there after you all done for
Sean to.

Speaker 10 (01:17:38):
Be vulnerable, make you strong, bro, ship.

Speaker 9 (01:17:43):
Susan in, let's go.

Speaker 8 (01:17:45):
Let's okay.

Speaker 25 (01:17:46):
So here's the thing. He tries to say, your mother, right,
but realistically, your mother is not the person that you're
romantically involved with. That's why I said, as a woman,
you have to allow man to be vulnerable. So go
around thinking like I can only be vulnerable to my mother.
It is just crazy to me because you are not
laying down in bed with your mother at the end

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of the day. You're laying down with your spouse.

Speaker 21 (01:18:11):
Soul.

Speaker 25 (01:18:12):
I would about that you're in a relationship that you
don't treat your spouse like that, because that is that
is an odd way of thinking, a very odd way.

Speaker 6 (01:18:24):
I'm a pee retired.

Speaker 42 (01:18:28):
I ain't got time to be pouring out my heart
to a woman who don't give a fuck at the
end of the day.

Speaker 6 (01:18:33):
She's not my mama.

Speaker 42 (01:18:34):
See my mama what she used to do when I
was a little boy. She put candy in my hand
when I start to cry, right, she rubbed my back,
tell me to keep my head up right, she'd even
lift me up by my chin, tell me to keep
my head up. Let's go, you know, be a big boy.
That was my mama's duty as mommy. Mommy did right

(01:18:57):
by me. The I only have one mommy. Anything can
happen with my wife.

Speaker 10 (01:19:03):
So people, you don't call you so you don't call
your wife a little mama.

Speaker 6 (01:19:07):
I do sometimes, but she ain't big mama though.

Speaker 9 (01:19:11):
Wow, what she.

Speaker 42 (01:19:15):
Don't compete this big mama, the big yeah, the big mama,
My first love to my dad, so that my heart beats.

Speaker 36 (01:19:24):
Ain't nobody replace my mama?

Speaker 5 (01:19:27):
What?

Speaker 6 (01:19:29):
Ain't nobody gonna ever replace my mama?

Speaker 7 (01:19:32):
All right?

Speaker 2 (01:19:32):
You need some new speakers. Who's coming in next? That
he shouldn't land that Zoe going.

Speaker 9 (01:19:38):
Let's go. How you feel about this topic.

Speaker 47 (01:19:40):
It's about to be a diaspora war. But I feel
like Caribbean men are quick to be husbands over the
black American.

Speaker 23 (01:19:49):
Why Zoey wasn't have to do with the topic, honey
a lot?

Speaker 2 (01:19:53):
Okay, then, so tell me how is that? How does
that have to do with opening up and the women leaving?
Because I want to make it incent.

Speaker 47 (01:20:00):
You open up to their women right about how she's
gonna go. There's more clarity. There's clarity versus I don't
know what he's talking about. I've been around them. They've
always opened up to me.

Speaker 7 (01:20:15):
So that's how I see it.

Speaker 48 (01:20:19):
Okay, light Skin, I've had.

Speaker 15 (01:20:30):
Who's coming where that Senyoda one mic on my sister Stack.

Speaker 8 (01:20:35):
This is the problem.

Speaker 17 (01:20:35):
You see the problem right here.

Speaker 45 (01:20:38):
When women try to control a man opening up.

Speaker 49 (01:20:41):
They try to pin other brothers against other brothers. Do
you see the problem?

Speaker 9 (01:20:46):
Yep, I see that.

Speaker 15 (01:20:47):
I see that.

Speaker 9 (01:20:47):
That Shi it's not you, Okay.

Speaker 47 (01:20:55):
I want to say, I haven't been to one foundational
Black American. I've been to a bunch of Jamaicans, Haitian Africans,
but never a foundational Black America.

Speaker 50 (01:21:13):
I was like, whoa. I'm like, hold on, I'm noticing
the trend, right I don't. Yeah, I've never gotten an
invite like oh, I'm gonna marry Chanta or Chante. I've
never gotten.

Speaker 20 (01:21:27):
Yeah to the courthouse.

Speaker 11 (01:21:31):
No, man, that was disrespectful, motherfucker.

Speaker 14 (01:21:34):
So it's real, I haven't been to one.

Speaker 8 (01:21:38):
They go to the courthouse.

Speaker 6 (01:21:39):
That's why.

Speaker 17 (01:21:44):
These women don't require weddings. They're just happy to have them.

Speaker 15 (01:21:50):
Oh, hold on, hold on, not your expanding you what
do you mean by that?

Speaker 21 (01:21:55):
Not you before?

Speaker 20 (01:21:59):
And the woman was saying it's a waste of money,
and right, they don't want to be queen for a day, right,
And the men were saying, they don't really care about
the wedding ceremony anyway.

Speaker 8 (01:22:12):
So yeah, so.

Speaker 20 (01:22:14):
Women, they're not requiring their wedding if the man is,
you know, if they do get the man to propose,
they're happy with the courthouse stuff.

Speaker 43 (01:22:23):
So that's why she has So you've noticed it too, Okay, Oh, of.

Speaker 42 (01:22:27):
Course, I ain't gonna lie.

Speaker 6 (01:22:28):
The wedding is really for the woman. For the bride
always asked.

Speaker 20 (01:22:32):
I was like, how come we always have funerals?

Speaker 3 (01:22:34):
In ain't gonna lie. We did.

Speaker 6 (01:22:39):
We did courthouse wedding, ship and that's one good thing
about marrying a Black American woman. You ain't gotta have
no big ass wedding ship man. See, don't hate some women.

Speaker 42 (01:22:48):
They want a big ass wedding them all of one
want the big ass wedding this ship.

Speaker 6 (01:22:52):
Man, I ain't got nobody trying to do all that shit.

Speaker 9 (01:22:58):
Let me hear from Tai.

Speaker 23 (01:23:00):
Hold on, hold on dollars, different dolls.

Speaker 41 (01:23:05):
It depends on where you're married.

Speaker 2 (01:23:07):
You right, hold on, Tati been trying to come in,
bro Ta, gohead.

Speaker 13 (01:23:14):
I just wanted us to get back on the tip.

Speaker 9 (01:23:17):
Go ahead, tak to get us, get us back, But I'll.

Speaker 13 (01:23:19):
Browhead and you know.

Speaker 12 (01:23:23):
Answer.

Speaker 13 (01:23:24):
When Senora spoke earlier, I agreed with her that it's
not it's really not hard for men to open up.
They just don't trust a lot of these women based
off their character. If you if they trust you, it's
it's not hard. They would easily open up to you.

(01:23:46):
If a man don't open up to you, that's a problem,
check yourself, or he just don't really like you like that,
and it is.

Speaker 9 (01:23:54):
What it is.

Speaker 13 (01:23:55):
I agreed that a man will open up on his
own time. When you rush him, he definitely not gonna
open up whatsoever. Just let it happen and let it
happen naturally. And then men can tell that if you're
not a safe place either. So if you're not a
safe space for them, they're definitely not going to open up.

(01:24:16):
And that's something you have to like be within. So yeah,
that's all.

Speaker 6 (01:24:22):
She's not your mama, pro don't.

Speaker 9 (01:24:24):
Through it.

Speaker 7 (01:24:27):
Anyways.

Speaker 13 (01:24:27):
Yeah, like I said, that's all stacks. You got it.

Speaker 10 (01:24:32):
That's my that's your little mama. Booskie butt man. You
gotta give her everything, brother.

Speaker 6 (01:24:38):
No, sir, absolutely not.

Speaker 10 (01:24:44):
You gotta play every nineties R and B song every
night whatever, whatever she feeling, and you gotta sing it
word for word while you cooking.

Speaker 42 (01:24:58):
Only time, only time when they get played as in
the bedroom.

Speaker 10 (01:25:02):
Oh no, she might not feel like it, bro, She
might only feel like it two times a month.

Speaker 11 (01:25:07):
Brother.

Speaker 42 (01:25:08):
No, we be like we like two to three times
a week. We go at it two three times.

Speaker 10 (01:25:13):
Third body her choice.

Speaker 5 (01:25:15):
Bro.

Speaker 42 (01:25:16):
All right, she a horny told just like me, we
do three times a week. I take magnesium two ends
and I took some to day.

Speaker 7 (01:25:24):
Yo.

Speaker 15 (01:25:24):
Hey, let's get back yo, let's get on topic.

Speaker 39 (01:25:26):
Bro.

Speaker 2 (01:25:27):
Do men only open up when the men when women
is about to leave? Let's get back on track. Do
men only open up when the minutes when the women
is about to leave?

Speaker 9 (01:25:37):
Is it too late?

Speaker 2 (01:25:38):
Sometimes? Sometimes it's too late to be bagging and ship ron?
Did we prove our point? I think we I think
we want I think the men won. I think we
I think we got to the point on this, you understand.
Do men only open up when we're about to leave?

Speaker 9 (01:25:55):
But I can't hear you, Vron, Actually we can.

Speaker 15 (01:26:00):
I couldn't hear you. Yeah, that means she lost for Sean,
it's over that.

Speaker 10 (01:26:05):
That vulnerability got her? What think that too much? Thick
vulnerability clogged the air?

Speaker 2 (01:26:16):
Who else want to jump in with the topic? Do
men only open up when the women is about to leave?
But we got Connie on the stage. She carry ECMD
haitian narcissist PhD just pulled up KT diego, let's continue.
Go ahead, Notty, you can jump in. Whoever else in
diego after your place?

Speaker 9 (01:26:32):
Let's go?

Speaker 20 (01:26:33):
H man only up when the woman is about to leave?

Speaker 9 (01:26:37):
No, okay, explain that, Let's go?

Speaker 14 (01:26:40):
No man.

Speaker 20 (01:26:41):
You know, men are typically very logical, reasonable, realistic, and
to the point. And at the beginning they tell you
what it is, and they tell you how it is
and how they are. Women just usually don't believe them,
or they they want to fix them or think they're
a pet project. Right, and then you know the woman
wants to leave and all of that, and then he's

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not opening up.

Speaker 8 (01:27:04):
He's just reiterating. If you even get that he might
just ghost you.

Speaker 20 (01:27:09):
But a lot of these women don't listen the first time,
so they just they just assume that he's just finally
opening up.

Speaker 8 (01:27:15):
But that's not the case.

Speaker 20 (01:27:17):
You know, women some kind of we're emotional for some reason,
like we want we want the drama, and then we
want the drama.

Speaker 10 (01:27:27):
That's so not so you're saying, y'all want the drama.
So y'all, So y'all drag y'all be causing, confusing so
we can open up. So you be working towards so
is you is you leaving? Real or fake?

Speaker 20 (01:27:45):
Now we're real. It's just for us, Like that's how
we associate with care.

Speaker 8 (01:27:52):
Right if you we think that that's caring.

Speaker 20 (01:27:55):
Oh okay, okay, But to y'all, caring is laying it
all out on the table.

Speaker 8 (01:28:03):
That's too easy.

Speaker 20 (01:28:04):
So you we want to we want the series every
you know, sixty minutes show.

Speaker 10 (01:28:10):
So y'all be y'all just be y'all just be pressure
checking us when y'all about to leave.

Speaker 8 (01:28:15):
Yeah, that's why it comes with an ultimatum.

Speaker 10 (01:28:21):
I mean, but we should take the ultimatum, right because
I always respond to the ultimatum.

Speaker 11 (01:28:26):
Of course you do.

Speaker 8 (01:28:26):
That's what it's I.

Speaker 15 (01:28:31):
Think Diego wanted to come into it was my sister, Diego,
are you here?

Speaker 50 (01:28:37):
Ye?

Speaker 15 (01:28:38):
Appreciate you, sister.

Speaker 2 (01:28:39):
I want to ask you a question, Diego. Yeah, so
I want to ask Diego a question personally, right, Diego?
Do do men only open up when the women is
about to leave? Because I see a lot of situations
where it's too late for the man that oh, now
they want to beg and cry when the women's about
to leave, But they didn't have that energy when it
first started, or maybe in the middle, or maybe when

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that women needed that closure or needed that communication. Now
you want to do it when it's too late, when
she's sped up. How do you feel about that, Diego,
let's continue this conversation.

Speaker 51 (01:29:08):
I think men play those games when it's a woman
they don't value. I have never had an issue with
men opening up or wanting to share, you know, how
they feel or their emotions and vulnerability. But I also
make it very clear within just my character and who
I am as a person, that I will never then
turn around and use whatever you've shared.

Speaker 21 (01:29:28):
With me again.

Speaker 51 (01:29:29):
She I think the reason why men do not try
to be vulnerable with women is because they are genuinely
terrified of what happens when that woman makes a decision
to no longer respect them, Because now shit gets a
little dicey when she doesn't respect you anymore, and not
a mouse starts to fly off the handle a little bit.
And I think men get a little nervous when it
comes to that. Also, I honestly believe I say it

(01:29:54):
all the time when I hear women say, my man
has to be vulnerable with me. Any woman who is
demanding a vulnerability from you is a predator.

Speaker 21 (01:30:05):
That is a predator.

Speaker 15 (01:30:08):
A man or.

Speaker 21 (01:30:15):
A man to be vulnerable with you is a predator.

Speaker 51 (01:30:19):
Move back in the day, you know how people found
out what their man's vulnerable.

Speaker 21 (01:30:26):
You're not gonna believe this, right.

Speaker 51 (01:30:28):
But back in the day, you found out what he liked, dislike,
what made him mad, how he was vulnerable. You found
out all of that shit by simple observation. But because
we now live in a microwave society where y'all want
to take these love language pusiness so you don't have
to have the conversations, so you don't have to do
the observation. Now it's like we're asking for things that

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take time to open.

Speaker 8 (01:30:51):
Up and give.

Speaker 21 (01:30:51):
We're asking for them on the third day.

Speaker 8 (01:30:54):
It's not realistic.

Speaker 51 (01:30:55):
Stop being a predator, right like, stop trying to siphon
the the fucking feelings out of a person when they're
ready with time. If you are the right person and
you created a faith for them, they're going to open up.
But you cannot demand it, you cannot rush it, you
cannot force it. And anyone who tries to do so,
man woman incredible.

Speaker 36 (01:31:16):
Boom.

Speaker 15 (01:31:16):
But hold on, Diego just cooked it, Thank you, Diego.

Speaker 9 (01:31:20):
Hold on and she cooked it.

Speaker 11 (01:31:22):
She cooked it.

Speaker 9 (01:31:22):
Hold on.

Speaker 2 (01:31:23):
Nope, no, nothing else. But we're doing a quick reset
and we have a new topic. So ping the room up,
share the room up. Thank you, Diego. I wanted that
to be the last submission before we start to move
into this new topic. Are most people in love were
just afraid to be alone by the goddamn self. Yeah, yeah,
that's what I want to talk about next. But ping
this shit up, yo, though, thank.

Speaker 11 (01:31:43):
You for that.

Speaker 2 (01:31:44):
You're on the fucking warlf floor, man, gender warf floor.
You know what time it is going up? Standing at your.

Speaker 19 (01:31:51):
Dress because it's seems though something not of shit that
children being though, say it you a lesbian girl mean, so, hey,
girls want girls I'm from many A. Yeah, girls won't girls?

Speaker 9 (01:32:04):
Girls want girls.

Speaker 3 (01:32:05):
Where I'm from? Hey, girls want girls?

Speaker 36 (01:32:08):
Hey?

Speaker 9 (01:32:09):
Well, girls won't girls where I'm from?

Speaker 3 (01:32:11):
Hey?

Speaker 11 (01:32:12):
Can I play a player?

Speaker 10 (01:32:13):
Baby?

Speaker 19 (01:32:14):
I grew up with dr face. I don't see the
realist ones. Commonly, A crazy way had to take my spot.
It wasn't something they just gave away. Sorry on my face,
I might have gone me on a crazy day. Fo
if your niggas think it's trying to block me on
a fade away, I've been on this shit.

Speaker 11 (01:32:27):
I only five with a payday.

Speaker 9 (01:32:29):
Say you go that way?

Speaker 15 (01:32:30):
I guess we both go the same way.

Speaker 3 (01:32:32):
Girls won't girls where I'm from?

Speaker 16 (01:32:34):
Yeah?

Speaker 19 (01:32:34):
Yeah, where we both from? They you just got to
Miami ne hotel rooms. Niggas tell you that they love you,
but they feel thue. So you shot forty two because
you Hey be throwing on the dress because of see dude, Yeah,
tell me now the ship that you and I been
through texting me and say I.

Speaker 9 (01:32:52):
Need to see you. Hey, let's continue this conversation.

Speaker 2 (01:32:59):
I think the diegot cook the last one, but I
needed that last submission. Pick the room up, Share the
room up. But this is what I think. Are most
people in love or just afraid to be alone? Okay,
I feel like most people are afraid to be alone?
They settle all right, Oh yeah.

Speaker 3 (01:33:15):
The shit.

Speaker 15 (01:33:16):
Maybe I'm getting a little older, man, I'm getting a
little bit more washed.

Speaker 9 (01:33:20):
Maybe a man. You know what I'm saying. Maybe nobody
really wants me anymore, and now I want.

Speaker 2 (01:33:25):
To settle for this person. Right, But then you got
people you know, they are really in love. I see
some genuine shit out here, right, But then you got
people that's you know, afraid of all man, let me
all love bubble, let me just choose up?

Speaker 9 (01:33:36):
Time is it?

Speaker 2 (01:33:37):
The time is now to choose? Right, Let's continue this shit.
Were on the war floor. Also check out some of
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Are most people in love or just afraid to be alone?

Speaker 15 (01:33:56):
The floor's open. Who's coming there first, let's go.

Speaker 43 (01:34:00):
I don't know, most people are afraid to be alone
because people got options.

Speaker 15 (01:34:05):
Oh so you're saying you got options? What you're saying
and talk to them.

Speaker 43 (01:34:08):
I'm saying like most people got options. They can say
like they want to be one person, But who are
you sleeping with when the person not there?

Speaker 6 (01:34:17):
Nah, that person got AIDS you tripping? Ain't no options?
That person got STD.

Speaker 43 (01:34:24):
What about dating someone out of state?

Speaker 41 (01:34:27):
Well, that brings the polydynamics into play. You've got to
be transparent, even down to regularly testing yourself or making
available the results of an annual physical.

Speaker 5 (01:34:42):
That person is not telling you what's going on.

Speaker 41 (01:34:45):
You don't need to be with.

Speaker 42 (01:34:46):
Him, But why are you even testing and all this
other ship?

Speaker 46 (01:34:50):
Like?

Speaker 6 (01:34:50):
What the fuck testing Raw's law?

Speaker 16 (01:34:55):
What are you talking about?

Speaker 41 (01:35:00):
If we know that a regular basis.

Speaker 42 (01:35:06):
No no no part of listen, one of the benefits
of being with one partner you get to come inside.

Speaker 6 (01:35:11):
Of it with nobody.

Speaker 9 (01:35:11):
Are you fucking kidding me?

Speaker 3 (01:35:13):
Right now?

Speaker 9 (01:35:13):
Jayhi, get the fuck back on track?

Speaker 5 (01:35:15):
Bro?

Speaker 9 (01:35:16):
Can we tell you on topic? Bro? Are most people
in love or afraid to be alone? What the fuck
are you talking about?

Speaker 2 (01:35:22):
If you dewail that shit one more motherfucking time, I'm
gonna have the Mond squad boom you bro.

Speaker 15 (01:35:28):
Come home, BROD, I'm.

Speaker 2 (01:35:30):
Playing with me, Bro, Are most people in love or
just afraid to be alone?

Speaker 7 (01:35:33):
Stuff?

Speaker 42 (01:35:35):
Now, man, look all that being all madly in love shit,
that's like teenager shit. That's when you're in your early twenties.
When you're in your thirties, man, hey, listen, man, you
know you're not a virgin no more, yo. Like you're
not gonna marry somebody who's a virgin. You're not gonna
lose your virginity to somebody, you know, when you're in

(01:35:56):
your thirties or that in love shit?

Speaker 6 (01:35:58):
If love was being in love was really like a.

Speaker 42 (01:36:00):
Thing like that, you would have just married the person
that popped your cherry, right or that first time you
know you lost it?

Speaker 2 (01:36:10):
All right, thank you very much. The mod squad got
rid of you.

Speaker 9 (01:36:15):
Mother.

Speaker 2 (01:36:16):
I'm telling patient, it's over for you. I'm tired of it.
Get back on track. Are most people in love or
just afraid to be alone? Can somebody with some fucking
sense take the fucking mic, susane please before I fucking start.

Speaker 9 (01:36:34):
Just that's go.

Speaker 25 (01:36:37):
I think a lot of it has to do with convenience.
People are more afraid to be alone than to be
by themselves, so they do it out of convenience you
do have some people that are genuinely in love with
each other, but majority of the time, when you're getting
with someone in a relationship, you're not in a relationship
with them because you love them.

Speaker 11 (01:37:03):
Hm.

Speaker 15 (01:37:04):
How else do you guys feel that is now? Okay?

Speaker 2 (01:37:08):
Oh yeah, yeah? Are most people in love or just
afraid to be alone?

Speaker 7 (01:37:11):
Yay?

Speaker 9 (01:37:11):
Huh? Are they afraid to be by theirself? Yay?

Speaker 18 (01:37:15):
I think people. I think people get complacent. I think
they just get used to each other. And of course
a lot of people don't want to be alone at
the same time too.

Speaker 5 (01:37:22):
Bro.

Speaker 3 (01:37:22):
I'm just gonna keep it buck.

Speaker 15 (01:37:23):
Why bro, Bro, why can't you just do the self
development with.

Speaker 18 (01:37:26):
The self development at what age you're talking about now?

Speaker 3 (01:37:31):
Because like what age you're talking about.

Speaker 10 (01:37:35):
If it's never been done, it got to be done
at whatever time they got to be done.

Speaker 18 (01:37:39):
But I think we need to start having conversations about
the motherfucker age troops that's in these rooms.

Speaker 9 (01:37:43):
Bro.

Speaker 11 (01:37:45):
Narrow ship down.

Speaker 7 (01:37:47):
But yeah, no to the.

Speaker 3 (01:37:48):
Title, Yeah, are most people in love or just afraid
to be alone?

Speaker 18 (01:37:54):
I think it's more. I can't quantify, but a lot
of people are afraid to be alone. That's why you
find situation where people just be going at it and
then they're together, then it's toxic. That's what a toxic
relationship come in that. But yeah, that's how I feel.

Speaker 10 (01:38:08):
Yeah, I'd say anybody that's saying in love are in love,
sometimes people are love alone And that's actually okay, right,
people we confused, like we think that you have in
love has to be a state of that we both

(01:38:30):
have to have at the same time. People that's been
together ten plus years have reported that they've been alone,
They've been in love with their partner at different times
and at the same time. The longer you've been together,
that will happen. This is the actual thing. Stack Most
people have never actually been in love. They've confused, infatuation

(01:38:54):
or all that other shit. But to the alone afraid
of being alone really is Are most people truly in
relationships that they're happy about and that brings them joy
and fulfillment or are they just afraid of being alone?
And absolute fucking lutely brother, most people can't afford to

(01:39:16):
be alone. Abs A freaking fucking litely.

Speaker 42 (01:39:21):
Bro that that being mad being love shit is for
stupid people, naive people.

Speaker 6 (01:39:26):
I'll say, not even stupid, just naive, bro.

Speaker 42 (01:39:28):
Like the point of two families coming together, right is
to build legacy, Like nobody can make it in this
world by themselves. Like a motherfucker bring you a whole
std you'll take that motherfucker back, Not because you love
that motherfucker.

Speaker 23 (01:39:48):
Yeah, who got that before me?

Speaker 14 (01:39:54):
My hand was on the trigger.

Speaker 23 (01:39:56):
I was just trying to see if they're gonna if
you're gonna bring it back.

Speaker 14 (01:39:59):
But yeah, thanks so to the topic.

Speaker 23 (01:40:03):
I do think a lot of people I don't know
the number to quantify it, but I do know there's
a lot of people that are in relationships, even marriages,
that are just there because they don't want to be alone.
I think a lot of people don't know how to date.
A lot of people don't know how to prepare themselves
or even qualify themselves for marriage or for love, or

(01:40:25):
to attain the things that they really genuinely want. I
don't think a lot of people in relationships, if you
gave them an opportunity to build a perfect person that
they think would be perfect for them, I don't think
a lot of people are with that person right now,
married or relationship right I think a lot of people
settle where they act because once again, they don't want

(01:40:47):
to be alone, they don't know how to be alone,
and they looking for somebody else to make them happy
instead of being happy being by yourself. And so when
you do get with somebody, you just merging that shit
and amplifying it more. Not a lot of people are
happy with themselves. Not a lot of people are happy
with you know what. I like a relationship, But even
without a relationship, I still feel fulfilled. I still feel

(01:41:10):
like I'm valuable. I have a lot to give to
the world. Not of people are in that place, And
most people, I would dare say most people don't qualify
themselves for what they claim they want. So even if
they have a particular standard or they're looking for a
particular thing, most people will never attain it because you
don't even know if you're your preference preference, So you

(01:41:31):
end up in the at least situation, at least we this,
at least be that we've been fucking around long enough.
We might as well be in a relationship. We might
as well go together. That's what I think is happening.
Most of these things are not deliberate and on purpose.

Speaker 41 (01:41:45):
Well, I'll say this.

Speaker 52 (01:41:47):
I ever heard of that service called rent yay for
the day. If you feeling lonely by yourself in the house,
all by yourself, that long call ya for the day.

Speaker 11 (01:42:00):
I would make you happy.

Speaker 41 (01:42:10):
Yeah, I will say this on the topic. I have
been engaged like thirteen times. A couple of them were
just pranks. But once I matured two things I did.
I didn't depend or expect anything from anybody, and I
learned to trust myself and enjoy myself. So I've never

(01:42:31):
been legally married. And plus I didn't believe in given
the milk from the cow without the guy behind the cow.
So you know, you know, I wasn't into shocking. But
you have to take you have to look at a
page back in the nineteen fifties. Homosexual white men and
homosexual white women. They were marrying each other, but they

(01:42:54):
were not changing their preference or persuasion. And it only
makes sense to be un to cover because that's your
business and this is you know, how they you know,
continue to you know, progress. So you know, there's a
lot of different strategic uh you know, plans out here,
but I would never you know, you know, Mary for

(01:43:22):
you know, loneliness.

Speaker 11 (01:43:23):
But I did.

Speaker 41 (01:43:24):
I was one of those girls. That's how I got
all those engagements. I talked trash and put the pressure
on the guy to see where he was coming from.
Because I wasn't going to keep dating him if he
wasn't going to marry me. I yield my mic.

Speaker 21 (01:43:38):
But Connie, even though you didn't want to be married,
that was important to you.

Speaker 41 (01:43:44):
I believe it is important because it's divine order. But
at my age, you know I'll be having a birthday
next week. I'll be sixty. I the average life span
in my family is ninety two. I think I want
to just chill out do me the next thirty two years.

Speaker 21 (01:44:03):
No, but I mean, like, because you said before that
you've never done it's.

Speaker 41 (01:44:06):
The divine order. I think that there's you know, I
should have never known, I should have never kissed or anything.
I think I should have went strong. Yes, I made
a mistake.

Speaker 21 (01:44:19):
So you regret not getting married, Yes.

Speaker 41 (01:44:21):
But I don't regret it because I don't feel like
any of those thirteen engagements, including a prank, but I
needed thirty agents.

Speaker 11 (01:44:33):
What the fuck are we saying?

Speaker 3 (01:44:35):
This sounds ridiculous, brouh.

Speaker 36 (01:44:40):
Do that?

Speaker 10 (01:44:41):
Why are you here?

Speaker 11 (01:44:43):
This is this is not a conversation for your people.

Speaker 53 (01:44:45):
Twenty five, twenty one, another, No, twenty three another, could
you leave, nigga.

Speaker 2 (01:44:51):
I'm really married in real time like before you, nigga,
what are you talking about?

Speaker 3 (01:44:54):
Respectfully?

Speaker 7 (01:44:55):
Fuck are you talking about?

Speaker 53 (01:44:56):
I'm gonna show you'll respect your little stinking dirty ass.
Shure you, nigga once stopped coming to our room spaces. Brother,
I appreciate you like God got rid of him.

Speaker 3 (01:45:07):
Damn I wanted to. I wanted to do it.

Speaker 11 (01:45:10):
Damn y I did it already.

Speaker 3 (01:45:11):
Go ahead, y'all, I had just growing full conversation.

Speaker 43 (01:45:15):
I think that people just are afraid to be alone.
Because the man who told me that he loved me,
that I've known for years, I took two pregnancy tests,
and two weeks after actually like one or two months
after that, another female was had flown out there to
see him and she was in bed with him, and
he posted on his story and said something real quick.

Speaker 16 (01:45:37):
Can we can we not overshare tonight?

Speaker 21 (01:45:39):
Like, oh no, you're not about.

Speaker 14 (01:45:43):
To You're not about to take.

Speaker 33 (01:45:46):
I'm sorry, okay, have a town had Oh my goodness,
let that lady silence you that And I'm let that
lady silence you you're.

Speaker 43 (01:46:02):
I was just saying, like he said, he loved me
and he would do anything for me. We slept together,
I took some pregnancy tests, and then two months after that,
he posted a picture on his story where he was
laid up with another female. So I think that they
just all of you. I don't think it's bell love.

Speaker 41 (01:46:18):
Yeah, I don't even think it's over sharing. I think
sometimes when you talk about it, it's good therapy, good
or good trouble, you know, like that, because when I
started not expecting things, I okay, I didn't expect things,
but the more I talked about it like she's talking about,
the more I got through it.

Speaker 23 (01:46:44):
So so in this thirteen instances, did you ever felt
like they loved you?

Speaker 14 (01:46:52):
Like any one of them? No? Great talk? WHOA?

Speaker 11 (01:47:00):
So what.

Speaker 23 (01:47:06):
I'm confusion because as much as I know that majority
people you know are in they just don't want to
be alone. I want to make space for the people
that really are in love, in relationships that they really
love they person like. I really want to make space

(01:47:27):
for that because and YEA, don't dare come off the
mic talking, but I'm exceptional.

Speaker 14 (01:47:34):
I really want I really want.

Speaker 23 (01:47:37):
To make space for the women or the men that
are with people that they genuinely love and genuinely love
them back. Like you know that if you had to
do it over again, this is the person you're gonna
choose because you didn't just settle for that person. You
qualify yourself, you position yourself, and that person showed up

(01:47:57):
as the person you wanted them to be, and that
is person you chose, and you would keep picking them
every day a matter of fact, you get up every
day and choose them. I want to make room for
that because there's a lot of that out here.

Speaker 14 (01:48:09):
There really is.

Speaker 23 (01:48:10):
And unfortunately the loudest ones. Oh god, I got my
popcorn diego.

Speaker 7 (01:48:26):
Yeah.

Speaker 20 (01:48:26):
Well, I would choose my husband over and over and
over again. Uh too bad. He wasn't my first husband.
And if I had married him when I married my
first husband at twenty five, I would have given him
as many kids as possible, trying to get to ten.
So yeah, that's I wish i'd met him sooner. And

(01:48:47):
first well I did. I met him in high.

Speaker 8 (01:48:49):
School, but it didn't stick.

Speaker 14 (01:48:51):
So I don't know.

Speaker 23 (01:48:57):
I just don't want it to be because I know
the majority of the sentiment everybody got do them in
gloom situation.

Speaker 14 (01:49:02):
Have I been heartbroken before?

Speaker 23 (01:49:04):
I don't think I've been hard and broken before, but
I've been disappointed by a partner or two before.

Speaker 14 (01:49:09):
But it's just I don't know.

Speaker 23 (01:49:11):
A lot of times it gives people don't qualify themselves
for what they say they want, so they end up
in situationships and then these things mature into quote unquote relationships,
which I don't even believe that because you know that's real.
But you end up in these things because you don't
want to be alone. You don't even know how to
be alone. You're not even happy and fulfill and contented
to be alone. So now you're fucking on somebody that

(01:49:33):
you already know you really don't want to be there,
and you know you might be able to do better,
or you should be able to do better, but you're
just settling here because you don't even know how to
enjoy being by yourself.

Speaker 14 (01:49:43):
Skip a dick or two or nine like what. I
don't know, But why is.

Speaker 20 (01:49:47):
That supposed to be enjoyable? We are a social species,
right we are. That's kind of what Don was saying
before he got kicked, because he was talking crazy, right,
it's normal for us to pair up and be in
families and social situations. That's abnormal too, to say, well,
just be alone, right, And the only reason that you

(01:50:09):
can do that is because of you know, the society
that we live in, the technology, the modernity, and the
fact that this is such a developed country that protects
everyone's rights and you know the value of the dollar
most importantly. But without those things, you know, we'd have
to actually be more human.

Speaker 14 (01:50:29):
And no, no, no, I think you're missing what I'm saying.

Speaker 20 (01:50:32):
I think that that is when a person says, oh,
I'm just happy to be alone, like the title, are
most people in love or just afraid.

Speaker 8 (01:50:39):
To be alone?

Speaker 20 (01:50:40):
I think there's something wrong with desiring to be alone.

Speaker 23 (01:50:44):
No, no, it's not a desire to When I said
be alone alone, don't mean lonely. That's the first thing, right,
And I think it's a mental issue if you can't
be alone and be happy, but then you expect to
get into our relationship. Those are the more miserable people
to get into relationship because you're depending on somebody else
to make you happy. You're depending on community and everything

(01:51:08):
outside of you to make you happy. And so there's
a very, very limited threshold for disappointment, right, you're easily disappointed.
What I'm talking about is somebody that has such a
fulfilled life that when you walk into your house, you
don't feel depressed because you got so much going on,
and you have family, you have friends, you have acquaintances.

(01:51:29):
You got so much going on, and life is so
fulfilled that you are not dating from a desperate place
or from a lonely place. When you decide to engage
with a man or a woman, you're dealing from a
healed place, or from a place that you didn't even
have to heal from because you was healthy in the
first place. But you're dating from a place where I
like you, and I want to be here. I like you,
and this is fun. I like this, But when I

(01:51:51):
disengage and I go back home, I.

Speaker 14 (01:51:53):
Also like what's there too.

Speaker 23 (01:51:55):
Too many times you find that people don't even know
how to do that. You don't even know how to
be alone owned for a particular period of time. You
always got a monkey bar from one relationship to another
because you got the fear of abandonment, and you got
all these things where you need other people making you happy,
and or things outside of you making you happy. I
think that's a mental illness. I think that's on heal.

(01:52:17):
And there's a lot more on here, people walking around
here because society says you should make me happy. The
man that I just started dating, he should make me
happy instead of me coming to this situation already happy.
And now we're just partnering, and now we're just blossoming
through that.

Speaker 14 (01:52:34):
Right, that's what I mean.

Speaker 23 (01:52:36):
I mean, it's okay, you happy being with your nine
cats at sixty Right, I'm literally talking about just being
okay with being you, getting up, having a skincare routine,
having a job, having a business, whatever it is, how
if you make your money, but just having things that
you do outside of a relationship and outside of a
desperate place.

Speaker 14 (01:52:56):
I listen, Oh my goodness, I don't know.

Speaker 8 (01:52:59):
Oh I'm saying it is.

Speaker 21 (01:53:00):
What you're talking about is normal.

Speaker 8 (01:53:02):
That's the bar.

Speaker 20 (01:53:03):
That's the standard, right, having a skincare routine and some hobbies,
with a job. You probably did that at eighteen. How
are you forty and still healing? That's all I'm saying.

Speaker 14 (01:53:18):
Healing is a process. I don't think it ever stops.
I don't know.

Speaker 23 (01:53:23):
It's just one of those things with people, people that
I stay away from, even females that feel the need
that we gotta you gotta validate the friendship and all that.
I like people that are naturally happy and chipper the
people that have to depend on other people for their
happiness or depend on their relationship for their happiness. If
the nigger don't answer the phone on time, he might

(01:53:44):
be at work and miss the call. Now you drag
it a nigga like that type of codependency, That shit
is draining.

Speaker 14 (01:53:50):
I don't know.

Speaker 23 (01:53:51):
I think when you when you naturally come into something
where you fulfilled and you want to be there, and
you don't have to be there through desperation or because
you're afraid of being alone, I think that's the most
healthier dynamic when you can actually say, yeah, I love him,
I love being here, but I'm okay being alone like
for a while. And I'm not talking about, like I said,
ten fifteen years of just being alone. If the people

(01:54:12):
that know what I've talked about don't talk about it's
just gotta we gotta change our mindset when it comes
to happiness and how we actually you know, engage with that.

Speaker 41 (01:54:23):
Yeah, And that's the thing that I had to work
on not expecting anything because my feelings would get hurt.
But that's the thing I had, you know, had to
work on, is you know, trusting myself because if you
don't tru if I don't trust me, then I can't
be alone, you know, with me, and you know everything
worked out, but you are so right and you could

(01:54:44):
and I mean that's one of my positive man interests.
If you're not having fun with yourself, why would you
think anybody else would want to have fun with you?
If you don't know how to love yourself, how you
think anybody else can love you? And that is just
so powerful? You know, Good job, miss giff.

Speaker 11 (01:55:04):
I think.

Speaker 3 (01:55:07):
Hi everybody, I'm back. Hey.

Speaker 54 (01:55:09):
I think that one of the one of the past
of healing is to find something to do. And I'm
not talking about just busy work. I'm talking about sit
down and taking inventory of your life and say what
is it that I want to do? What am I
good at? I think I said in the first room
about being an asset and the blessing? Who can I
be an asset and the blessing to so to the
point that you all are making about healing, healing is

(01:55:30):
something that that that that benefits the inner person, but
then but can be impacted by the outer world, or
gives you a vehicle by which you can impact the
outer world. Because sometimes people's healing and if it's not
a misplaced healing. And this is one of the dangers

(01:55:51):
that that that people who have ah that uh attachment style,
that insecure attachment style, you can falsely seek a sense
of healing and fulfillment from others, from receiving from others
as opposed to what you give to others.

Speaker 3 (01:56:11):
So and it's a challenge because.

Speaker 54 (01:56:13):
It can be draining. You know, how can I interface
with the world in such a way that everything that's
good about me can be manifested in a positive way?
That's a healing thing. This is one of the reasons
and I'll land with this. This is one of the
reasons why when we're working with people, we tell people
and it's difficult, so it's easier said than done. When

(01:56:35):
someone is suffering from depression, they're usually they're in the house,
they have all the lights out, most of the lights out.
They may have the blinds closed. They may have the
blinds closed, they may have the windows shut. You know,
they may have the curtains drawn, you know, because they're
isolated and they're in a dark place. But one of

(01:56:56):
the past to healing is to not only absorb like,
to be in a place where you can receive like,
but in a place where you can let your light
shine on to others. And that probably sounds like some
corner corny platitudes, But y'all know what I'm saying.

Speaker 6 (01:57:11):
I Land Scott.

Speaker 8 (01:57:13):
Can I ask you a quick question before I bounced
out here?

Speaker 3 (01:57:16):
Come on, talk to me, sister.

Speaker 49 (01:57:18):
You're asking a bunch of people on clubhouse. Are most
people in love were just afraid to be alone?

Speaker 8 (01:57:25):
I wanted to know. I wanted to know.

Speaker 3 (01:57:26):
Ye, talk to me, sister, what do you feel like?

Speaker 49 (01:57:30):
So let me just let me just get this for clarification.
You're asking a bunch of people who are obsessed with
fifty to fifty in submission. Are most people in love
were just afraid to be alone? That's what we're doing?

Speaker 3 (01:57:46):
Yes?

Speaker 8 (01:57:48):
Yes, okay, I just I just wanted to know.

Speaker 9 (01:57:50):
I'll listen, I'll wow.

Speaker 2 (01:57:53):
So Senor is kicking the table over right now? Are
most people in love were just afraid to be low?
Who else wants to chime into this? Topic, Connie, I
appreciate you, Peter and a notcho check diego yay, doctor
Vaughan Leah, is there any more chiming to the subject.

Speaker 3 (01:58:13):
Who's here?

Speaker 21 (01:58:14):
Let's shake it up a little bit, shake it up
just a little bit.

Speaker 51 (01:58:17):
I think in all actuality, a lot of women are
in fact marrying for love, and that's why they get
the work so quickly.

Speaker 2 (01:58:27):
But I feel, I feel that, diego, they marry only
the for the for the wedding, Diego.

Speaker 21 (01:58:33):
No, I think I think they married for the romance.

Speaker 51 (01:58:36):
They married for they want the romance, they want the love.
Then they get married. It's a bunch of duty, obligation,
minimal romance, and they're like, oh no, this is not
what I found it.

Speaker 15 (01:58:47):
It's not what you thought it was gonna be.

Speaker 7 (01:58:49):
Huh.

Speaker 2 (01:58:50):
Why So they are, are you guys feeling about what
the angos that? I appreciate that, diego, because I definitely
agree right, most people in love are just afraid to
be a definitely marrying for just the love, diego, for
the romance, just to be wind and die. But then,
like you said, when the hard work comes in place,
when it's time to wash a dish, communicate it's out.

Speaker 3 (01:59:12):
Of the window.

Speaker 2 (01:59:14):
Let's continue this conversation. Who's there, who wants to talk
about this?

Speaker 3 (01:59:18):
Who's away? Talk to me? Flows open? Oh, y'all sleep?
Or y'all done?

Speaker 2 (01:59:25):
I think they sliced and dice this one, diego most
people on love or I think y'all sliced that.

Speaker 3 (01:59:31):
I think y'all killed it. Damn, y'all killed the topic fast?

Speaker 11 (01:59:37):
The hell the hell?

Speaker 3 (01:59:39):
What the hell?

Speaker 9 (01:59:41):
The hell you doing?

Speaker 39 (01:59:43):
The fuck is.

Speaker 11 (01:59:47):
Bro?

Speaker 2 (01:59:48):
This is this is why I be bad. This is
why I got a lot of people on my block list.
When they do ship like that, you just go to
the block list. I don't get it, you know what
I'm saying. Don't come up here with the music, with
the fucking loud, ghetto music.

Speaker 15 (01:59:58):
I don't know what the fuck up?

Speaker 3 (02:00:00):
What the fuck was that?

Speaker 2 (02:00:00):
A boombox chick? He's bugging chick? How you feel man?
Did we wrap this up today?

Speaker 3 (02:00:05):
Brod? How do you feel about this topic?

Speaker 5 (02:00:07):
Man?

Speaker 3 (02:00:07):
How you feel like we did today?

Speaker 7 (02:00:08):
Man?

Speaker 3 (02:00:09):
Talk to me.

Speaker 7 (02:00:14):
From what I'm a bad I was doing a couple
of different things, but from what I was hearing, I
feel like we were kind of getting towards something. There's
a little bit of cap but that's it's just me.
Are most people in love are afraid to be alone?

(02:00:35):
I think most people. I think most people do be
married for their feelings, to be honest, right, But then
I think a lot of people are genuinely like especially
people that kind of get married a little later. I
think at that point they just kind of gave up
on like whatever that dream was they was holding on to,

(02:00:56):
and they just kind of was like, I'm gonna just
go ahead and find somebodter thug this thing out with.
So they don't really be given you know, they don't
really give it, you know what. But I think it's
just a matter of perspective, Like a lot of this shit,
a lot of this stuff just be some people that
don't know that they have privilege, and then other people
who kind of got beat up, you know what I'm
saying out here in the game, Like the game was

(02:01:17):
a little it was more like blitzed than a real
NFL game, you know what I'm saying. So they kind
of got soup lex a few too many more times.
But I mean it was a good conversation. Though I
was enjoying what I was hearing. It was entertaining for
sure you were in a good room.

Speaker 11 (02:01:30):
Brother.

Speaker 39 (02:01:35):
I think that most people are just afraid to be alone.
M hmm, like what he was saying.

Speaker 20 (02:01:54):
But I think, but I don't know about you as
the check, but I'm definitely afraid to be old alone,
Like I don't want to be. I couldn't imagine being
fifty and sixty out here in these streets dating.

Speaker 8 (02:02:07):
I mean, I'm forty.

Speaker 20 (02:02:08):
Four right now. Like, I couldn't imagine being back out
there in the streets and the dating scene like.

Speaker 17 (02:02:14):
That would be insane. So I see he changed the topic.

Speaker 7 (02:02:24):
Yeah, that's a crazy thought. Trying to reset and find
somebody who be somebody boyfriend in fifty five a boy
like a boyfriend. Hello, at this point, I'm trying to
be somebody granddaddy, Like what are we doing? You know
what I'm saying, or at least like pushing towards that.
I'm not trying to be out here trying to date
and decipher this old ass woman likes me or not.

(02:02:45):
That's that's insane.

Speaker 8 (02:02:47):
Yeah, because let.

Speaker 20 (02:02:47):
Me tell you, if I did end up in the
streets again for any reason, let me tell ya, I'm
gonna be dating ten to fifteen years younger than me.

Speaker 8 (02:02:56):
I'm gonna be a cougar.

Speaker 17 (02:02:57):
Yea, no meat, yes, because I'm not going to be
trying to date no old man, no no, no, no.

Speaker 10 (02:03:06):
No.

Speaker 11 (02:03:09):
Wow.

Speaker 2 (02:03:09):
So how do y'all feel about constant hustling? Diego Nacho
Tati April, no more friends paying the room up, share
the room up. But how do y'all feel about constant hustling?
Is it killing the modern love? Killing people that are,
you know, trying to get into situations because y'all so
focused on hustling. What happened to the building in the bond?
Is constant hustling killing dating and modern love? Let's talk

(02:03:31):
about it the floors over.

Speaker 39 (02:03:32):
I feel like it depends on the person, because there
are some people that, yes, they're hustling, but they want
to be with someone because they know they can get
something from them. So it's just like it depends. Everybody's different.

Speaker 6 (02:03:48):
I don't know.

Speaker 7 (02:03:49):
I was in a.

Speaker 39 (02:03:49):
Situation when I was in an accident, and when I
was recovering from that, I didn't talk to a person
for nine months, and when I try to rekindle, things
are not the same. And it's just like, can I
brow fifty dollars for my currente Oh so why do
I have to keep hearing that you're financially struggling. So

(02:04:13):
it's just like, yes, people are hustling, but people also
want to see what they can get from you.

Speaker 7 (02:04:22):
Yo, stack low key. In today's age, bro, love is
the new hustle. Oh shit, yeah, like love it is
the new hustle on the pool like before, if you
I mean me, I listen to a lot of like
not just my family, but you know some of my
friends over here is family, like you know my people
from back home who like moved over here. Like like

(02:04:45):
people were looking for compatibility first and then saying, Okay,
this is what we got. These the tools we got,
the skills we got. All right, cool, we can build
with this, Like this is how we're gonna build. It's
based on what we got. Nowadays, people are getting married,
trying to do their little two to five years bed
and trying to see what they could come about that
John with like making.

Speaker 3 (02:05:05):
Sure yo check you go over to the big like
it's prison, bro, brother.

Speaker 7 (02:05:09):
They doing five years and two months and one day
and being like, yeah, nah, I got to you know
what I'm saying, I got I had one or two
of your kids. Bro, I need at least I need
that pension and I need something to walk away with
for show. But I'm you know, you gotta take care
of little Juju bean, you know what I'm saying. Like
I see a lot of that, bro, And it's crazy
because it's not even just with like celebrities. I see

(02:05:30):
that shit in real time lawyers, doctors, engineers like hell,
some entrepreneurs like they just some something.

Speaker 5 (02:05:40):
Not all.

Speaker 7 (02:05:40):
I'm not saying I'm not painting all the women or
the breat with a certain brush, bro, but a lot
of sisters, especially when dudes making a little bit of money. Bro,
it's treacherous waters, brother, because you people really are doing
five years in a day. You know what I'm saying,
Like that's it's it's crazy work out here, Like love
is the new hustle. Ain't uh look at Dwhight Howard

(02:06:02):
that nigga married or girl whatever her name is. Bro.
They said six months they were married for a hot
six months, surely trying to get something paid back paid
to her like she like she built something. I don't know.
It's just me though.

Speaker 16 (02:06:16):
It sounds like marriage is the new hustle, not love.
I mean, based on what you said.

Speaker 7 (02:06:21):
It's the illusion of love, like love is the game.
Like you know, these niggas won't love right, they're looking
for somebody or whatever whatever. You know, nin niggas are wired.
But you know what I'm saying, this is the era
of This is the era we don't really like them
niggas for real, like not really. That's why I say
this shit in a bunch of rooms.

Speaker 5 (02:06:40):
Bro.

Speaker 7 (02:06:40):
The only true loves that I really acknowledge for real
is old love and broke love. Cause if you broke
and I broke, nigga, you love me for me cause
I ain't got shit ouse for you. You can't be
trying to come up off of me. Baby. I ain't
got nothing but these draws in these clothes. Man. But
I mean, I'm being funny, but you know, but that
whole I'm doing well, and I'm out here, at least

(02:07:01):
from a man's perspective, I'm out here and I'm doing well, bro.
Like you see, you got that shit on. It's hard
to tell. Sometimes I'm not even gonna lie. It's just
you know, I mean, ladies, some of y'all got some bread, right,
Do you think that some of these dudes are out

(02:07:21):
here liking you, trying to come up off of you,
or you know, is this on the chair in your
realm that y'all are experiencing or witnessing anyway it.

Speaker 43 (02:07:33):
Can be, But I don't know.

Speaker 8 (02:07:36):
Men are definitely go diggers. Don't get it twisted.

Speaker 7 (02:07:39):
Do you have a real life example or is this
just a narrative that we're going with.

Speaker 17 (02:07:44):
I mean, they were just talking about it in the
other room, biggie.

Speaker 20 (02:07:47):
They were just saying that, right, if a woman can't
meet them where they are. He's just saying, I don't
want a woman who can buy me a pair who
can only buy me a pair of socks for my birthday.
He was bragging that this woman him a ten thousand
dollars something for his birthday, and a lot of men
were sounding off like yeah, even Stax even said it

(02:08:07):
that he doesn't if she can't do for me what
I can do for her, then I don't want That's
what they said.

Speaker 3 (02:08:16):
Is that really for you?

Speaker 7 (02:08:17):
I mean, I guess, But what I'm saying is, how
do I wear this? They're looking for men to have,
I mean, naturally, they're looking for men to have way
more than them right to go ahead and get in
a little nest deck to like leave out that motherfucker
with and get some support for the upcoming years. Not all,

(02:08:38):
but there's a set that that's happening. It sounded like
even what you said, stacks and big stacking, Biggie and
them said, these brothers still spend bread on these women
on a regular basis, Biggie, Like every other month I
hear Biggie talking about him and this girl went on
a trip to somewhere and she ain't put up. She
she ain't open a wiley for that, because you know,
the sister deserved that sister, you know what I'm saying.

(02:09:00):
And you know, I'm sure she do her own little one.

Speaker 5 (02:09:01):
Too deserve that.

Speaker 7 (02:09:08):
You deserve that, you know, the system sisters taking care
of you in school. But like these are none of
these men were talking about. Yeah, like she's supposed to
like support me, and then like you know when I
every once in a while, I'll like do a one too,
Like these dudes spend money on they women on a
regular basis. You get what I'm saying. So it's not like, oh,

(02:09:30):
you gotta have something I don't have. It's just like
I just need you to be able to do something.
To be able to do something, shouldn't need be Like,
ain't no reason I should be getting some regular sacks
for fucking Christmas. You know what I'm saying. But I mean,
that's what I heard. Anyway, I'm talking about men. It's like, Yo, look,
I ain't got a whole lot of baby Listen, I'm
gonna reach over. I'm gonna touch every corner that.

Speaker 3 (02:09:58):
I don't know why you got take me.

Speaker 21 (02:10:01):
I hope that wasn't just song because.

Speaker 3 (02:10:02):
It was trash. Yeah, that was pretty bad.

Speaker 51 (02:10:07):
Patch that up, like open your bible or something, do
something else, anything else.

Speaker 20 (02:10:14):
But you know when I hear that, when I was
listening to that conversation, I was kind of quiet because,
right that was new for me. I'm not used to
hearing men like really talk about what kind of Christmas
gifts of Birthday gifts they want.

Speaker 8 (02:10:29):
I just I'd never experienced that.

Speaker 20 (02:10:30):
My grandpa, my dad, none of the men who were
ever important in my life wanted me to reach down
into my pocket to spend money on anything frivolous for them.
And so that's just a very hard concept for me.
But I hear it, I hear and I see it.

Speaker 7 (02:10:49):
But you know what, it was not your overhead.

Speaker 2 (02:10:52):
No, I was saying, that's crazy, not your that's deep,
but chick too, Like you said, man, you gave me
an idea. It's loved the new Hustle's marriage the new Hustle. Yeah, bro,
let's let's keep diving into this. Not sure, I appreciate you, April, Connie,
everybody in the room. Let's picking the room up and
share the room up.

Speaker 3 (02:11:07):
We on the wall floor. But it's love the new hustle.
What's going on. Let's talk about it.

Speaker 7 (02:11:11):
I mean, like, but even what you were saying, not you,
like you didn't hear your definitely didn't hear your grandpa said,
because you didn't talk about anything relevant like that except
for what was going on with you. Right, But if
you went to that, if you put on a mustache,
put on a hat, and winning that barbershop, I'm pretty
sure you was like, I can't believe this motherfucker went
and got me some damn socks, Like what the hell

(02:11:33):
out of ABC? Indeed, we didn't DoD d da da
dah yeah dah daa.

Speaker 14 (02:11:38):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 7 (02:11:38):
They didn't ran there. That's the thing. This is why
the only good thing about this generation of men, for real,
is that some of these men are actually tell you, like, yo,
what's up with you? Like you know what I'm saying,
Like I don't you know what I'm saying. We didn't win,
You didn't win in for your birthday, winning for this
and that she's got you graduated from whatever you was doing,
whatever program we celebrated that, we celebrated. You know, I

(02:12:00):
go all out behind you and you are here half
answering with me, like what's up with that? Nigga? These
men will actually ask you, like what type of time
you want? Our fathers and uncles and grandpa and them like, bro,
they just told the bros And like the women never knew,
Like these conversations, how we having them right now? Stack?
Curating this shit stack? And yeah, you know what I'm saying.
We didn't hear men and women are hearing each other's perspectives.

(02:12:20):
This is new because a lot of men have been
here forever. We know what y'all want, We know what
y'all expecting, mass, we know what time it is. Y'all
have no idea how dudes feel about how some of
the shit has gone in past generations. But some of
us that grew up in a barbershop, we know, those
of us that used to hoop or some shit like
you know, be at the gym and all that. Like, Yeah,
them conversations was had.

Speaker 14 (02:12:42):
God.

Speaker 7 (02:12:43):
The only reason we had it amongst ourselves is because
we know we can't bring it. A lot of us
couldn't bring it to y'all back then. Niggas didn't want
to smoke.

Speaker 20 (02:12:52):
But what's bizarre, first of all is my grandpa was
a barber for fifty years down on the five points.

Speaker 8 (02:12:58):
So when you said the barber, I.

Speaker 5 (02:13:00):
Was like what.

Speaker 20 (02:13:02):
And secondly, he did have those conversations with my mom
was his only child, and he he didn't hesitate right.
And when he even sins that I was so you know,
generous and gracious that that I would basically like share
my money with.

Speaker 8 (02:13:19):
My man, he did.

Speaker 20 (02:13:20):
He pulled me to this to the side, this man
born in nineteen twenty five textar Cheme, Texas pulled me
to the side and basically told me you do not
give a man your money. He told me that a
man has to have his whole house running before before
you even get there. Okay, okay, Love you too. He

(02:13:43):
told me that. Okay, thank you.

Speaker 8 (02:13:46):
He told me basically, if you pay.

Speaker 20 (02:13:48):
A light bill or utility, that's fine, but if a
man requires money for you to live there, then he's
not the right one, and don't give him your money.
My grandpa told me that, and then and all the
little father's days and stuff will come around.

Speaker 8 (02:14:02):
I'd like, what do you want? Grandpa owed nothing? Keep
your money, Keep your money.

Speaker 17 (02:14:07):
So when I hear y'all talking about that, it's just bizarre.

Speaker 31 (02:14:10):
Me.

Speaker 8 (02:14:11):
Let me go say by to my husband appropriately.

Speaker 7 (02:14:18):
What do you other ladies think? What's up? PhD? What
do you other ladies and gentlemen think?

Speaker 16 (02:14:29):
I was gonna say, my experience was similar. My dad
taught me similar. I think that was not cho that
was speaking to not give my money or nothing.

Speaker 3 (02:14:37):
To well you about to open that person.

Speaker 16 (02:14:44):
No, not I do. I'm actually very generous. That's that's
a downfall of mine.

Speaker 7 (02:14:49):
But I.

Speaker 16 (02:14:53):
Can if my dad knew, he'd probably be cussing me out.
But yeah, no, yeah, I think.

Speaker 7 (02:15:02):
That's dangerous and that's nasty word. I ain't gonna hold you,
but I mean I do understand what she said though.
When Pops was like, yo, make sure he got his
ship in order. Like for him, at least his ship
is in order before you step up in there. I
wouldn't tell my sister to be out here trying to
save niggas nah, But if his shit is in order,
love and he be showing you love on a regular basis,

(02:15:22):
and that nigga birthday come and you think buying that
nigga sixty five dollars video game is enough, and this nigga,
this nigga went off for your fucking birthday. I'm gonna
look at you sideways as your brother. I'd be. I
would be like, yo, I don't know who raised you
like this. I told you this was enough or this
was cool, but this is crazy. Like, don't be shocked
next year when that nigga buy you ass some lipstick
and be like every birthday, baby, don't don't throw a fit.

Speaker 10 (02:15:54):
Love is, in fact a new hustle, go crazy.

Speaker 2 (02:15:57):
Yeah, let's talk. Let's talk about it for Sean on
this from me a little bit. Bro, get the conversation,
roller paint the room up, share the room up. Is
love the new hustle. Are y'all just getting into this
to hustle people out of their resources or what they
got or what.

Speaker 3 (02:16:08):
They can do for you. Let's open up the conversation.

Speaker 2 (02:16:11):
PSD Welcome back, Sonner, welcome back, Mac, welcome back.

Speaker 3 (02:16:16):
Just love the new hustle. Turn this sh up, man.

Speaker 2 (02:16:21):
I think people are hustling people out of ship that
like get into these situations. It ain't really for the bond,
ain't really for the you know, to build some long
last thing. Y'all are doing it because it's a hustle
and maybe it could be looked good on social media,
or maybe it's just an image.

Speaker 3 (02:16:34):
That you're trying to persuade. I don't fucking know, but
let's let's explain this conversation.

Speaker 10 (02:16:37):
It's love to be hustling, absolutely man loove man. Man
is conning women out of pussy every day with the
love gesture. You know what I'm saying, niggas is paying
and love women women is uh? They They is a
hustling niggas out of out out of money for the
attempt to love. Right. They they're telling the idea of

(02:17:01):
purity and faithfulness just to get that bag so we
all weither everybody on both sides. It's just fake, fake, fake,
presenting love so he can get what they want and
everybody falling for it. You know what I'm saying. The
fuck the fucked up part is it's always one person
on the other side that's getting for this. I'll be

(02:17:22):
trying to figure out why ain't the finessers getting together.
They can finesse each other, let that shit cancel out.
But it's all if the dude really want to really
want to love for real, he getting he getting finessed out,
that fucking bag and she cheating on dog the whole
way through. If the girl really want the love for real, man,
the dude is just fucking the dog ship out of her,

(02:17:42):
selling her a dream.

Speaker 2 (02:17:44):
Wow for Sean Wall mm hm.

Speaker 3 (02:17:50):
But the thing this conversation is love the New Hustle.
Who's coming in next? Thank you for that for Sean.
Let's open an open floor now, popcorn styles, Love the
New Hustle.

Speaker 10 (02:18:04):
Not all at once, y'all afraid to tell y'all truth,
Tell somebody else truth.

Speaker 20 (02:18:08):
Man, I didn't hear the question I was saying by It's.

Speaker 10 (02:18:16):
The title.

Speaker 8 (02:18:19):
Is loved the New Hustle.

Speaker 20 (02:18:24):
Hmm, that's the old hustle.

Speaker 2 (02:18:29):
Say more, Oh, there ain't nothing new on that under that?

Speaker 20 (02:18:35):
No, no, you know people, people have been using love,
that's why people are so afraid of it.

Speaker 8 (02:18:42):
Who was that talking earlier?

Speaker 20 (02:18:44):
I think it was mad. God.

Speaker 8 (02:18:46):
Yeah, people are afraid.

Speaker 20 (02:18:47):
They're afraid of love because they don't want to get hustled.
They're afraid of the vulnerability. And when you're vulnerable, someone
can take advantage of you. That's how you get hustled.

Speaker 8 (02:18:57):
And you got the love con out here, that's a thing.
I think men are just hip to it now. And
because y'all have.

Speaker 20 (02:19:04):
The Internet, you have a bigger pool of women to
choose from. But y'all been getting hustled with love for
since the beginning of time.

Speaker 10 (02:19:18):
The beginning of time kind of crazy because if men have,
if men been getting hustled as hard as you say
they would, women live wouldn't have to exist, like feminism
would have been a thing. I think women are horrible
for Neesser's collectively, y'all, y'all, y'all, y'all, y'all are y'all

(02:19:39):
are hustling backwards for real, y'all, y'all give it all
up just to get a little.

Speaker 3 (02:19:46):
Bit Damn for y'all, they're giving up their.

Speaker 55 (02:19:51):
Own I have a whole different aspect to this title.
Stax right, A lot of people out here fate loving
hustling the love pressure because they're having pressure from other people,
family members, friends.

Speaker 5 (02:20:08):
You just want to be in something.

Speaker 13 (02:20:10):
They are hustling it just to look good, you know,
to other people.

Speaker 5 (02:20:15):
It's not even about what they're getting. It's about the status.

Speaker 43 (02:20:19):
What do you think about that?

Speaker 3 (02:20:21):
I think it's the status too, stunning.

Speaker 2 (02:20:23):
It's like, Okay, people will use you for what you're
going to all the potential of where you became.

Speaker 36 (02:20:28):
You could be going.

Speaker 2 (02:20:29):
So that's the way you did that because definitely people
are you know, with people for status or what they
got going on, and maybe they can benefit to catch
a little way too.

Speaker 3 (02:20:37):
So thank you for that. Stunning is love the new hustle.
Let's continue this conversation, y'all.

Speaker 5 (02:20:52):
So loud, y'all got to relax.

Speaker 3 (02:20:54):
So why might look cy.

Speaker 16 (02:21:10):
I'm so I'll come in. I think.

Speaker 3 (02:21:14):
They've flipped the dimeon the stage and went to sleep.

Speaker 20 (02:21:18):
Everybody's taking in.

Speaker 3 (02:21:20):
How you napping in the war.

Speaker 16 (02:21:21):
You're gonna die, oh dear, But now I think it's uh,
what was I about to say? Oh, relationships are new
social currency. So if you could tell people you in
a relationship, or you married, or you have all of
this experience. Because we're at a place where there's a
deficit in the area, people are going to see you
as wise and all knowing. Uh, So they're just getting

(02:21:44):
into these relationships for social social currency too.

Speaker 8 (02:21:53):
Well, that's women have always married for status. That's how
we get our status.

Speaker 20 (02:21:59):
You either born into a family with status, you marry
and you get the mrs in front and that's your status,
or you get a degree and that changes your status. Right,
So women were always trying to get the status into
your question for sean since the beginning of time. That's

(02:22:20):
why the patriarchy has tried so hard to put their
foot on the woman's neck, right since the beginning, since
Adam got cursed essentially for listening to her, it's been
a problem. So yeah, y'all, y'all are afraid of love
because you don't want to get hustled. But me, me,
I love love, which is probably why I stay married.

Speaker 14 (02:22:43):
I know.

Speaker 20 (02:22:55):
And I'm telling you, if I had to get married
again and again and again, I would I'd be.

Speaker 8 (02:22:59):
Like Liz Taylor on y'all. I would get married eight
to ten times if I had to.

Speaker 20 (02:23:05):
What not, Because I'm not going to be dating unintentionally
right never. I'm a wife, So whether if it's this
man or that man or the other, I'm a wife.

Speaker 8 (02:23:19):
Always be a wife.

Speaker 2 (02:23:27):
I want to know if love is the new hustle.
Nacho said, it's the old hustle. She flipped it right
back in my face. But I feel like it's new
to some people, Nacho, because they'll figure it out and
then they'll hustle people with the love. It's manipulation at
his finest. I would like to continue this chick.

Speaker 7 (02:23:46):
Brother. The only reason now is a hustle manipulating my bad.
The only reason now it's a hustle is because there's
no intent of giving what you even what you the hustler.
You even think it's equitable, like exchange right before it's
fair exchanged. No right, you get you know what I'm saying,
Like you know you marry me for station. You know
what I'm saying. I get. You know, I get children

(02:24:06):
of a certain pedigree out of you. You know the
resources I got. Take care of y'all. Make sure you
straight well. I tell I take care of you, take
care of my kids for exchange right, let's just say
I didn't even love you for real, but you know
we did what we did. We we both got children
that we love. I do what I do for them.
You do what we do for him. I do what
I do for you. Make sure you protected me. Sure
you gucci right, you do your little one two? You
know what I'm saying. Probably, even though you don't like

(02:24:27):
me like that, you like what I did for you
or what I do for you and the kids. So
you kind of you know, you don't love me, but
you like me. So every once in a while we
get a cracking you know what I'm if I need that,
you know, and then we just try not to like
publicly fuck over each other. Now, nigga, you got to
you got the Jada pinkets. These motherfuckers are pulling jack
getting you know what I'm saying, or whatever. The niggas
they both got kids. Then once they once they got

(02:24:49):
everything they need out you the kids grown. Bro, It's
like you just disregarded they Are they married it? I
told you about the five year rule a couple of
months ago, right, are they doing a five minute five
year rule? You know what I'm saying. If you're making
enough money to child support. It be enough. I at
least ain't gotta work, even if I'm not living crazy luxury.
You know what I'm saying. It's it's it's it's interesting
work out here, bro Like when if you watch it

(02:25:11):
for what it is, it's just it's a robbery on
some g ship, it's a well, it's it's like the
gentleman thief. It's if it's not gentlemen, it's general. You
know what I'm saying, not so genterle women. Diego would
be disgusted words to Diego. I mean, if I'm wrong,

(02:25:36):
let me know.

Speaker 3 (02:25:37):
But I think y'all fucked the world up for the day. Check.

Speaker 2 (02:25:49):
I think it's no, no, no, not not not not in
a bad way. I'm trying to think it's up, like
y'all the wars glow up. I did what y'all had
to do today. Y'all came by with your bulletproof vest
y'all guns, y'all shot up the damn floor.

Speaker 3 (02:26:03):
You did a very good job.

Speaker 2 (02:26:04):
Today, Doctor von Do you feel like it's a rap.

Speaker 16 (02:26:08):
For the day.

Speaker 2 (02:26:10):
It's a rap because we did two back to back
and we'll be back in with another ward.

Speaker 3 (02:26:17):
But I think this one is a rap?

Speaker 2 (02:26:19):
Any last words, Doctor Vaughan TALKI not diego PhD Jay
before I close this and go make some money on crypto.
Who's here? Who wants to come in with any last words?
Of course, you're just all dreamed out. You've been fighting
all day, chick, diego the last words.

Speaker 7 (02:26:42):
I know Doctor Vin has nothing all right, but y'all
can listen to doctor Vin if y'all want. Like I
said earlier about bullying, we just following stacks of leading
being gentlemen. We let y'all have, you know, catch a
few punches, feel accomplished. But y'all know who won in
Tupac voice. It's not the girl with the curl It's
not the ones with the curls worth of chick. But

(02:27:06):
it was a good trital. Y'all did a good job.
I felt the punches in my little hip, you know.
I felt a couple of y'all's knuckles break. But it's cool, Yeah,
it was. It was light. It was cute. You know.
You know how the lion when he wrestling with the
little cub and the cub bite the bite the daddy
lion and the lion if.

Speaker 3 (02:27:22):
They didn't have Diego and Lea. They would lose.

Speaker 7 (02:27:25):
Exactly every Really, Monkey Stone, yo ain't lead was the
one that really, you know, gave y'all a couple of
you know what I'm saying. But even there, you know,
it was just like when the cub bite the bite
the leader of the prize, you know, the male line
just be like ah to make him feel accomplished.

Speaker 3 (02:27:41):
Yo.

Speaker 20 (02:27:43):
Yeah, I'm gonna need some kind of rubric or standard
of measure because every night y'all are talking about the
man one. But we still I still don't understand the
system of scoring.

Speaker 3 (02:27:54):
Yeah, we gotta get it.

Speaker 16 (02:27:56):
Is having a penis, Doctor.

Speaker 3 (02:28:00):
Ron Ward, Then what do you guys?

Speaker 16 (02:28:04):
Gotta have a penis? That's why they say we didn't
win because you.

Speaker 7 (02:28:08):
Have to just actually answer questions directly on my disappoints
or like, you know, keep the goal post where's at?
Because now stack, they got us kicking to the right
side of the stadium instead of up the middle. We confused, Yeah,
the goal post and moved and moved again like the
wind in them curly dreads. You got just just the blowing.

Speaker 2 (02:28:35):
But nah, okay, October for the warfloor, Thank you very much, chig.
Doctor Vron, Diego, Notcho. We've did it today. I'll be
back in with another show.

Speaker 3 (02:28:47):
You know. We're coming back in tomorrow, the Women one.

Speaker 8 (02:28:49):
I don't care what they say.

Speaker 7 (02:28:52):
I couldn't hear you up here.

Speaker 3 (02:28:54):
Yeah yeah, Diego, you're in the matrix, Diego, I can't
hear you.

Speaker 7 (02:28:58):
Hold on, stack, Let's grab our knees and might be
to hear better. Hold on what you say, Ladiego.

Speaker 3 (02:29:07):
We'll be back in again. I appreciate you guys. Let's
go
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