In this episode, Stack Pack breaks down the heated debate shaking social media — is this about fairness, appreciation, or unrealistic expectations? From entitlement vs effort to communication vs assumptions, this conversation exposes how transactional modern dating has become.
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Episode Transcript
Hey guys, welcome back to the Network podcast This Pack Gang,
it's your boy, Stack Pack and get locked all the
way into the Gender Wars audio series on the Network
podcast powered by the Gender Wars Studios, where the internet's
hottest relationship debates gets walked all the way down. Now listen,
this one right here has gender Wars on fucking fire.
And I came across a viral clip that has men
(00:22):
and women absolutely losing it online. A women straight up
said men should be responsible for pre and post cause
dates when it comes to women. She said, here, bake
up nails, Uber rides through safety after the date, we're
gonna see where it's going. Let's go.
Speaker 2 (00:38):
If I window rap By still be rich, mellionnther house
came from the visions ned night. I saw that you
got there cruising it. If I win there, rap By
still be rich rich. If if I about the house
(00:58):
and now I'm true, I can't fuck the hall, they
might try to pull a trick and no slips the
coopan that's out of me selling the pits. I said,
you sally that thing to me, bugging me like I
got a little gorilla.
Speaker 1 (01:18):
I go gorilla.
Speaker 2 (01:18):
I'm part of the bag team fucking dog supre Halo
is a drag queen. Ever since mom titty bit y'all
bagging she.
Speaker 1 (01:30):
Got back on the network, I know what it is now.
The internet was completely slit down the middle. Women jumped
in saying men and benefit from how women present themselves,
(01:50):
so why shouldn't men contribute? But men said, hold up
when dyting turned into a reimbursement program. When some guys
say I didn't you to buy the three hundred dollars lashes,
others said that if I buy you dinner, I'm also
responsible for your uber home, your lip gloss, and your cantar. Yeah,
this is where the conversation gets deep because this isn't
really about makeup or uber. This is about expectations at
(02:13):
the end of the day. Some women are saying dating
costs them before they even step outside, and men need
to acknowledge that. Some men are saying dating already feels
like a damn transactional uh situation, and this just turns
relationships into invoices. There's a real question, you know, when
does cording turn into entitlement? Right? I want to get
(02:35):
into these clips actually see where we at and see
what this lady was actually talking about because clearly everyone
online is upset. She's causing an uproar. You know what
people do when they go they're causing up roar and
then everyone starts talking about it. Yeah, that's what we're
doing right here. Uh. I wanted to get into these clips,
you know what I mean.
Speaker 3 (02:56):
Let's go to my car after going on a date,
right and let me say tell you something. I don't
know what the deal is with like men now, but
I had told him prior that I will be having
pre and post date expenses and is that okay? And
are you going to cover them? And I don't know
if he wasn't listening or like what the deal was
or whatever, but he when I handed him the way envelope,
he looked shocked and then he opened it and it's receipts. Hello,
(03:19):
pre post date expenses? Hello, Like what kind of females
do you be dating? You know what I'm saying. So anyway,
so I handed it to him and he literally looked
shocked at me and said, I can't cover this. It
was four hundred and seventy eight dollars for pre and
post date expenses. You asked me on a date and
mind you, we really didn't even have that good a
conversation because he was on his phone the whole time.
(03:40):
And I have a very strict no film policy on dates. Hello,
you're here to pay attention to me. Look at all
the effort that I had to put into to going
on this date and now you have a problem with
pre and post date expenses. Are you fucking kidding?
Speaker 1 (04:01):
Let's get into this shit because I'm kind of like
just confused at the end of the day. Right at
this point, going all out become pressure instead of appreciation,
because if everything has a price tag attached to it,
then where's that genuine vibe come from? But how we
going to be genuine with each other? Huh? Let me
be clear. This isn't about men versus women. This is
(04:21):
about communication versus assumptions. If you expect pre postate costs,
say that. If you don't believe in that, say that.
But the problem is here when you show up with
silent rules and then get mad when they aren't followed.
This clip has this you know the gender wars and
the studios inbox lit up right now because this is real,
modern data, in real time, unfiltered, uncomfortable and unavoidable. So Packing,
(04:43):
I gotta ask you, is this fair game? Was this
flat out straight delusion? Should they didn't come with receipts
or intentions. You're tapped into the network podcast and Stackpack
powered by the Gender War Studios, and trust me, this
conversation is far from over. We'll be in soon. Let's go,
Oh gad, I know that.
Speaker 2 (05:01):
Bridge that I want my dad. I get that money
level a mad. I get that baby with lit book,
I get that baby a lot. I don't know read
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