Stack Pack Does A Basic Training For Entrepreneurs 101: What Have You Learned?

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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Okay, I think it's about that time. You know what
I'm saying. I think we're gonna go crazy on this episode.
It's all about you know, the network, the media, mentors
like I think I wanna go all the way up right.
I went for my brother Jason to come through the
rest of the family. I think it's about really, really,
really getting to the next level at the end of

(00:21):
the day. If we ain't focused on getting to the
next level, then what we doing together? What we doing
at the end of the day. If we get to
the next level together, we will be there. It's all together.
I'm trying to tell y'all like I never been. You
know what I'm saying. I like to be around people
that want a network. I want a network with a

(00:43):
lot of people. Today I'm gonna be going through you know,
some mentorship stuff, madness, how to avoid the dangers, and
I'm staying away from all dangers. I don't wanna be
around the dangers. I want to be away from the dangers.
You know what I'm saying. If I'm away from the
dangers and I stay away from the dangers, guess what,
it's gonna keep my experience better. It's gonna keep my

(01:06):
experience on clubhouse better if I stay away from the
dangers and also a lot of different things on social media.
I don't like to be around, you know, negative energy,
and that's something that we're gonna get all the way
into negative energy, keeping that out of your keeping that outside,
keeping it out of your range. I don't want that around,

(01:27):
No negative energy. I'm not focused on negative energy. I'm
focused on positivity, how to get there, how to level up.
I want to focus on more different individuals that want
to see others win. I feel like too many people
aren't focused on seeing others win, like genuinely seeing others win.

(01:47):
Like anytime I do something, anytime I you know, collaborate
with somebody, I always want to see them win from
like a genuine place. And this is why you know,
I've made the room. I wanted to do the room
today and just go all the way in with my
brother Jason, digital stack pack in the family. That's gonna
pull up. But I just you know, I've been feeling good, right,

(02:09):
I've been feeling like positive. The positive vibes are everything
for me. If it's not positive, then we then what
can we do together? Come on, man, positivity is gonna rule. Jason.
Thank you for being here. Brother. Can I get some
you know, some intro words? Bro, You got anything that
started us up up subway before I get into this
talk to me?

Speaker 2 (02:28):
Yeah, of course, man, Brother, thank you so much for
having me here today. It's a pleasure to be working
with the Stacked Man. We have something special going on
with Circle of Friends Club, and I think that we
have a tremendous amount of value between both of us
to give to people. Man, when it comes to business
experience and working with social media, and when it comes

(02:52):
to mental health, that takes a toll on people's mental health.
So I think that we have a lot to give
to people.

Speaker 3 (02:59):
Man.

Speaker 2 (02:59):
Thanks for having.

Speaker 1 (03:02):
We got a lot to give, y'all, especially when it
comes to you know, the whole circle of friends outside. Yo.
Last time I was up here with my brother, we
were definitely talking about just mental health. What does it take?
Like who's in your corner? Right? Like who's really gonna
be in your corner? I've always wanted support, right, And

(03:26):
I don't think when you're coming up there's a lot
of support, Jason, there's not a lot of support. You
gotta go out there and find your tribe. This is
another thing I like to do, finding my tribe. Right,
So I had to find my tribe, found who I
aligned with. And this is why I'm doing this right here.
It's because alignment is everything. If we're not aligned to

(03:46):
do anything, if we're not aligned to you know, connect up,
then we then we're just not aligned to connect up.
And that's how I feel about you know, a lot
of different situations because you know, energy is real, real, real, sacred. Right,
You guys gotta protect yourself, protect your energy and protect
the people that you surround yourself with.

Speaker 4 (04:08):
Right.

Speaker 1 (04:09):
But we in the building media mentorship madness. I want
to talk about, you know, the dangers. I'm sharing this
room out right now to some friends. I want you
guys to share it out to me and Jason. You know,
we're gonna be brainstorming. We're gonna be coming up with
some cool things. I'm gonna be talking Jason real soon.
I'm gonna start it up, man, ping the room up.

(04:29):
We're gonna wait for some mentorship to pull up. Let's go.

Speaker 4 (04:34):
We're going up.

Speaker 5 (04:44):
Money.

Speaker 6 (04:45):
Okay, you mess my five, I want money, You mess
my five. I don't wanna be I want to be
with you, spell, thinking about oil, still thinking about You'll

(05:07):
tell me how you go band crazy?

Speaker 5 (05:09):
How you turn into a dog when to the band?

Speaker 1 (05:11):
So I got real one with me? We were doing
real my whole clue after.

Speaker 5 (05:16):
Myself.

Speaker 6 (05:17):
Its goal could have been more folly, that's true, have
been so fair, got swabs and the changing niggas be wearing.

Speaker 1 (05:24):
I don't know.

Speaker 5 (05:26):
The first time you take strong me?

Speaker 7 (05:30):
Had you got your body? Had you got your body?
Had you watch your body? Had you watch your body?
Had you watch your body?

Speaker 5 (05:38):
Had you got your body?

Speaker 1 (05:40):
Ay? You know what I'm gonna start this? Shut up
the way I the way we need to do it.
Shout out to DJ band it real good brother, talk
to me, bro, we we end up building today. I
haven't even talked about this. I haven't started, but we're
gonna be talking about, you know, avoiding the dangers on
social media. Brother, heck to get up here, man. You
know what it is. We always in spaces together. You

(06:02):
know what it is. I'm up pay it to the
media mental titles like it's a real convo about to
be had. Bro, Listen, I want to avoid this ship bander,
Can you got any words for me? Bending? Before we
dive in, bro, how do you avoid? How you avoid
the dangers? Because I'm avoiding all the toxic shit, I'm
throwing it out the window. But talk to me, brother,

(06:23):
how do you?

Speaker 8 (06:24):
I mean I could speak, you know, like there's a
lot I can speak on on this topic today. But
I've had multiple experiences just becoming a public figure, dealing
with social media as a main outlet for one of
my businesses, you know, with the agency, and with as
a producer. Like what I've seen over the last few
years is like the level of the scamming, the positioning,

(06:49):
you know, the opticity and the way people flip and
switch on social media has gone up like dramatically. So
I think it's really important for everyone to sort of
set guardrails and really start operating, you know, in this
new era that we're in on social media, like like
the Instagram of today and the socials of today, and
the way people are operating is not even what it

(07:10):
was like like five seven years ago. Like the way
it's it's exponentially changing. So I mean, on my personal side,
I mean, there's a lot of stories I could dive into,
but the main thing is I would say is.

Speaker 1 (07:20):
That Yo, can you give us a story? Bandit? We
got we got time today? Yeah, well, I mean if
you could give us a short one, bro, you don't mind,
because I'm about to go crazy.

Speaker 8 (07:28):
There's some stuff I can't even really get into specifics
on just you.

Speaker 9 (07:32):
Know, out of certain things.

Speaker 8 (07:33):
But what I can say is that like I was,
I was personally like I was basically at one point
I was actually targeted for identity theft on social media,
like fools were peeping.

Speaker 9 (07:44):
My my my brand, people like that.

Speaker 8 (07:47):
I had done the Forbes that I've been featured with
my businesses, and we're using you literally using social media
to try to gain info on me and to try
to get in with me to try to do identity theft.
And luck, I have a super super smart team, a
whole security operation that clocked the whole situation and debted it.
But after that, I moved so different. It taught me

(08:10):
that there are like you gotta be so careful. People
are asking you about what services you can offer in
here to literally jack and clone your whole LLC and
do like like corporate synthesis. Like there's so much crazy
stuff going on, or people are gonna try to partner
with you, like, yeah, I love your idea, this is
this is dope I could bring into the table. I'll

(08:31):
put some capital into it. And you know why they're
trying to do that. They're simply trying to create a
new entity with you so they can scam you and
run your credit up and do like all this stuff
shit behind your back. So I know a lot about
this topic. However, I can help anybody. I you know,
I literally have huge experiences working with law enforcement, digital forcement.
There's so many different things that you need to understand

(08:53):
about what's happening on social media today. And it's not
all negative because you can obviously, I mean, Stack is
a great example. I feel like, I'm sure the other
moderates in this room are where you can have made
success with social media. But you just got to be
super super careful and uh yeah, just watching your operating
with it. Be careful with like everybody needs to get
ndaight up. Make sure you have your contract signed, make

(09:16):
sure you have noncompete, don't be sharing personal business information
unless it's somebody who's vetted and that you have agreements with.
Just move different out here these days. That's the main
that's the main point I want to say, but we
can dive into it.

Speaker 1 (09:27):
More appreciation.

Speaker 5 (09:28):
More man.

Speaker 1 (09:29):
Listen, my brother, my brother DJ Vander and that god
damn building. This is someone in the industry that I
seen like do dope ass shit, like like Sword of Heights.
So I'm like, yo, you know what I'm gonna get there.
I'm gonna do that shit because you know, me and Bander,
we was in the same circles on season one when.

Speaker 4 (09:47):
He first came on the app.

Speaker 1 (09:48):
So I appreciate you for, you know, always standing in
the network, Bander, you know, reaching out bro, showing love
on Instagram. It's just the little things that matter, Bro,
the digital currency, right, So I appreciate you fit you,
you know, coming into space rocking with us. Look, if
you guys are just joining, we're talking about how to
avoid the dangers on social media. I feel like not

(10:12):
disrespecting people. Let's get into it. I want to, you know, disrespect.
I feel like I feel like everyone takes disrespect different
as well. When you disrespect someone, when you do right,
everyone takes that different. It may not be hold on,
it may not be you know, as sweet as it was.
You know what I mean for someone that or shit

(10:33):
like that. Right, So let's talk about the respect, real one.
You got anything to say about that real quick?

Speaker 10 (10:38):
Sis?

Speaker 1 (10:38):
Can you chime in on that? About respect like it's common,
it's basic respect. If you respect me, I'm gonna respect
you straight up.

Speaker 11 (10:45):
That's a fact I notice, especially on audio apps, there's
a lot of lack of respect, a lot of opinionated people,
judgmental people, grown folks trying to tell other grown folks
what to do and how to be and how to think, and.

Speaker 3 (11:08):
It tends to take a toll.

Speaker 11 (11:10):
It's taking a toll on me. I've noticed a lot
of that lately. So I have to take breaks every
once in a while. I just I just don't understand
why people can't just learn to agree, to disagree and
just respect each other's opinions.

Speaker 1 (11:26):
That's what I'm about.

Speaker 11 (11:28):
So I like to uplift, encourage, validate others. I don't know,
I don't get it. I don't get it. I'm taking
a little bit of a break except for your room.
I meane it a point to come to your room today.
So thanks for having me.

Speaker 1 (11:47):
No, we appreciate you real for you know, fulling up
coming through that wife.

Speaker 12 (11:52):
Of the Amanda in the building, A Senior.

Speaker 1 (11:57):
I got hect to head. Yeah, I got for Sean
and the build. He had a great mentality room last night.
Shout out to my brother for Sean. We're gonna be
doing more of those space We're gonna take that in
here too, for Sean. Turn up, you know what I'm saying.
Media mentors, dude, I got two point zero. I got
Morris right. I think Jason he said he's he's in Columbia,
his service and his power was coming out. So soon

(12:17):
as he comes back, he'll have the conversation with us.
But I felt like just basic respect, like you know,
people don't take you know, disrespect like somebody might not
take it the next way. Somebody take it so disrespect.
And that's one thing real One always showed was, you know, respect.
We've been in multiple many hundreds of spaces together and
she showed nothing but respect. You know what I mean.

Speaker 5 (12:40):
Respect.

Speaker 11 (12:41):
So I respect you as well.

Speaker 1 (12:45):
And y'all was pouring into me yesterday.

Speaker 5 (12:47):
Took me.

Speaker 1 (12:47):
Had a nice little room yesterday too. Right on the
side right show shout out Steven Jani, Shout out to
you know, everybody that's doing the thing. Listen, let's get
back into the conversation. I want to talk about, you know,
how to avoid the dangers, how to stay away from
the dangers. Stop stop getting in things that you know
that's not your business. Talk about that too. So I

(13:08):
feel like a lot of dangers come from, you know,
people being nosy, curious, curious georgees huh, let's talk about that.
You took like, sometimes you gotta just mind your damn business.
Everything is up there ain't for you. Everything that's there
ain't gonna be your business. You can't take on all
the damn battles. Everybody always trying to fight shit. Sometimes

(13:29):
you gotta fall back and let shit be with it. Yeah,
you got anything?

Speaker 9 (13:33):
I say, one hundred percent.

Speaker 8 (13:34):
Dog. And another thing is man, this is like a
new rule, yo, Like on that mar Bill maher new
rules twenty twenty five. Stop phishing people's networks, Yo, dead dad.

Speaker 9 (13:45):
That is played out like and that is a big.

Speaker 4 (13:49):
Yo.

Speaker 8 (13:49):
Don't be fishing my networkers. I'm gonna clap back straight up.
You want to connect with anybody in my network? One
hundred percent, I got you. I'm here to help everyone build.
You want to connect with somebody, You see me posting
me working with tap in with me, I'm gonna make
the meet and happen.

Speaker 9 (14:04):
We're gonna all build together.

Speaker 8 (14:05):
What I don't like is this new like sus little
side moves that people make where you post somebody they
like and they comment or they see you operating, and
then all of a sudden, like you hear from that
other person or that label or that company, Hey you
know this person or like this person tapped in or
they just or people are trying to undermine you behind
your back. You don't necessarily hear about it, but you

(14:26):
kind of get a feeling of something's going on because
people are trying to undermine your business when they see
you popping, and you gotta be really really careful of that.
So another thing is like I'm I used to be
way more like, oh, I love people giving people shout
outs on my pages, and that I only do it
with specific people like like stack, people I know I
can build with who've been through the trenches in this,
and I know if somebody was tapping in or was

(14:46):
trying to undermine business, they're gonna hit me up direct,
because it's like a certain vibe you here from people.

Speaker 9 (14:51):
But that's another thing, like.

Speaker 8 (14:52):
Don't be overly trusting and overly sharing and being quick
to be doing partnership posts and cross tagging with everybody
because it's gonna just blow up your whole thing. And
next thing you know is like all these people are
moving and operating behind your back and you're like, how
that happened. It's like, well, that's that's where we're at
right now going into twenty five. So that's why i'd
be like, yo, give that respect to other people, and

(15:13):
you know, hope you put out that energy to get
it back.

Speaker 1 (15:14):
You know what I'm saying, stop fishing my network. I
like that one bander, don't fish and like we post
to connect up together.

Speaker 7 (15:21):
Yeah, you're right, Yeah that'll be back.

Speaker 8 (15:24):
I'm not gonna bless y'all with my network. But it's
like at the same time, it's like if you move
like that, if I hear like someone telling me you
tapped them with them and you didn't even like ask me, hey, yo,
like I saw that you're working with this person, what's
the deal? And we're the main Like you following me,
like you're supposed to be my peopils. Now you're like
tapping in on the side. It's like, Yo, why would

(15:45):
I even now I'm definitely not going to recommend you
for whatever biz thing was going on.

Speaker 1 (15:49):
This is crazy.

Speaker 8 (15:50):
So you know, that's the type of thing where I
think that it's just you know, when people talk about
common courtesy and respect, that's a big part of respect
to me. It's like, how you move behind my back
means everything. That's how I look at it, how you
move and how other people when I find out, oh, yeah,
you know, I actually I met this person, I'm to say.

Speaker 4 (16:06):
He said, you're a real one.

Speaker 9 (16:07):
He said, he really appreciates you.

Speaker 4 (16:08):
That's how you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 8 (16:10):
I know that when whether I'm in this room or not,
that's how stats will speak about me because that's what
a real one does. And so respect is about that.
It's not just about bullying and all that. It's about, YO,
make sure you putting people in the correct light when
they're not in the room.

Speaker 9 (16:23):
That's what really matters.

Speaker 1 (16:25):
Putting people in the correct light when they're not in
the room. And also, I want to bring back to
something you said too, bend or It's like, yo, if
we're going to build together, and you know that's my network,
we build that network together. I hate when people have
you know the secret intentions. I was chopping this up
with my brother Jason. You know what I'm saying too.
I say, Yo, there's a lot of people that have
secret intentions behind people's back, and you can't we come on,

(16:49):
we If we can't be transparent, then there's no need
to work. I want to. I want my brother to
talk about this too. Jason, are you by your mike?
I know that the service is going out in Columbia,
but brother, I want to get you in here. It's
much as possible, but fishing the network what Bander said
this topic avoiding dangers? You got anything for me?

Speaker 4 (17:05):
Brother?

Speaker 1 (17:06):
Over to you?

Speaker 2 (17:09):
Yeah, you gotta be careful, man.

Speaker 13 (17:11):
I think it's really really important to know from whoever's
on your team, if it's a partner or whatever, that
you're on the same page, that you're trying to basically
build each other's networks.

Speaker 2 (17:24):
That's how I am.

Speaker 5 (17:25):
Man.

Speaker 2 (17:26):
If you introduce me to somebody, I'm going to turn
right around and introduce you to somebody. And that's the
way I've done it. You know, for the past ten years.
I've been on LinkedIn for fifteen years now, and people
look at my numbers and say, you know you have
almost thirty thousand followers.

Speaker 13 (17:46):
Well, that didn't happen overnight. I mean, I've been doing
this for fifteen years. It takes time to.

Speaker 14 (17:50):
Build a network.

Speaker 13 (17:51):
And I think that if you're honest, you're upfront with people,
you let people know that you're not trying to go
behind their back, that you're on the same page. You know,
God is gonna bless that He's not going to let
anything destroy your business or have somebody undermine you or

(18:12):
anything like that. So that's the way I look at that.

Speaker 1 (18:16):
And I like something you said too, is like when
you introduce me to somebody, I'm gonna turn around and
introduce you, like the same thing with bended, Like if
we connect o somebody like, Yo, that was a fire
ass connect. I got something else. I like playing that
game though, bander. Oh yeah, I got somebody better for
you to or I got this, or I got It's like, Yo,
but you gotta do that with the right people. Let's
talk about it.

Speaker 8 (18:36):
Yeah, no, one hundred percent. And it's like that's it
was rare what your man said. I agree one hundred percent.
It's like it's about having people vetted and it's about
having people in your circle that are tight and making
sure like I mentioned earlier, that all your agreements and
how you move or tight so.

Speaker 9 (18:50):
That you can almost expect that.

Speaker 8 (18:52):
Like I'm at a point now where I build my
situation where I know, like, Okay, if I'm gonna end
up posting that I'm working with this company or I'm
working with this brand or this artist or whatever, I
already know that someone in my network that acts like
they tend toast for me is going to act funny.

Speaker 9 (19:05):
Like That's where we're at now.

Speaker 8 (19:07):
So how it also is is make sure you build
your structure, your LLC's, your structure of your companies and
your management or your team, your partners, whoever speaks for
you and everything like that, that you' all have a
system in place to deal with that sort of thing happening,
so you're not surprised by it and you have a
code and an operational strategy to deal with it. You know,

(19:28):
and definitely vet people before you start interacting with them
in the DMS.

Speaker 9 (19:31):
If people are coming at you, hey, I can do this.

Speaker 8 (19:33):
There's a lot there's so much scam out there, Like
I get hit up all the time my message requests,
like you know, what I'm saying, like, oh we can
you know, do this, or we can get you on
this or can I get your number?

Speaker 9 (19:42):
Like nah, like not necessarily.

Speaker 8 (19:43):
Let me see what my team says first is run
everything by, make sure it's all clear. I'm a reverse
phone number, check all that, like we're not playing, you
know what I'm saying.

Speaker 9 (19:51):
So that's that's just one thing.

Speaker 8 (19:53):
Just be cautious and be careful like everyone's saying, and
just you know, you know, really just unfortunately we had
a time that where you have to just sort of
like you got to be cautiously optimistic as well about
every opportunity, no matter how exciting something may seem, or
a new client they got a bag, or this new
deal other rest ofments. You just you know, just because
you out it can check everything out.

Speaker 1 (20:16):
Be cautious of the network. And that's it, because everything
that glitters ain't gold. Bender. I feel like when people
see opportunities, they're like, yeah, let's have on, let's do yo.
Sometimes you gotta relax, right And you know when you
were saying about vetting with me and me, you know
me and farrel know something about that. I don't know
if he's by his mic right now. But we've vetted
out a lot of people in the industry. I've vetted

(20:37):
out a lot of different people in the industry. When
I get it, Yo, I'm telling you, we vetted out
so many fucking people. But you can't be around the
wrong people banding you was just saying it. We've vetted
out so many people, bro that I know who I
want around me and who I don't want around me
every fucking time. Because guess what the intuitions telling me, bro, Yo,

(20:58):
take this away or put this away or go with
you know what I'm saying, Like you know, Parah, come
in from me real quick.

Speaker 14 (21:04):
Brother.

Speaker 1 (21:04):
Then I'm gonna check on my brother, Mike, wifey, Amanda, Morris, Anthony,
y'all know what it is. Man, We're gonna have respecting.
Here is structure, So look over to you, Pharaoh, and
then you know, have this conversation growing. Brother, Let's go,
are you here?

Speaker 15 (21:19):
What up stacks? We got stacks in the bill, all right?
So how to avoid danger on social that is very easy.
A lot of us that are awoken have a mindset
and we can feel energy. Always feel out that person.
If we ain't growing together and you ain't bringing some

(21:39):
type of positive energy around me. Okay, then we ain't
gonna work and you can keep yourself far away from
my circle. But that's how you know when dangers coming.
You know, sometimes I learned to saying it says, you
can't save everybody, and sometimes the people around you may
drag you down. You gotta elevate just like your mindset,

(22:00):
and always elaborate and collaborate with people where you guys
can grow together because in this world there's no eyeing
team and that's why you gotta grow. And you know,
be be loyal, be honest, and respect you show that
you solid.

Speaker 1 (22:18):
Nah, I appreciate you. And y'all know, my brother Pharaoh
was first person to believe in this whole stack shit,
the music. Right he's already in the industry, so he
believed in my shit. So every word that he's saying
is hitting right now because when I first came in
the game, ain't nobody believed in my shit, you understand,
And nobody believe in the music production. And you know

(22:42):
they used to say, yeah, we fuck would you stay?
You're doing good? My man's really poured the business shit
into me yo, So Pharrel, you know I got your
back forever broke to the Promised Land. You know what
it is. Right. Look, if you guys are just joining,
I'm talking about how to avoid dangerous on socials. I'm
staying away from people I don't aligned with. I'm staying
away from situations I don't align with. And I'm also

(23:04):
staying away from you know those links. You know how
y'all like to click links and it hats your page
and logs you the fuck out. Stay away from that too,
because a lot of people are getting hat Bander. You've
seen that Pharaoh. You've seen that, Mike, I'm pretty sure
you've seen that last crazy. We've seen this ship. You
click on links and it'll sign you out. Bander, talk
about this ship, and then I'm gonna do a quick
reset and I'm gonna check on my brother, Mike the
advisor in fact or whoever. Man, we're gonna go crazy.

(23:26):
We need a nice conversation.

Speaker 15 (23:28):
Let's not yeah, hold on, hold on, let me just
say what out DJ.

Speaker 8 (23:38):
I know we all gucci, bro, I know we been
needing to catch up. Man, got I got to see
you dog the sing yeah bru so yeah, no, my
own thought. I was just telling people you know I
told this actually the King a bit. We actually were
talking about this a little bit as.

Speaker 9 (23:53):
Well as so Stack.

Speaker 8 (23:53):
But yeah, I mean I'm not even gonna dive into
long story because if I that literally could be a
whole hour to our room where I just tell everything
this insane thing that happened, where these fools were trying
to scam me and do this identity that. But what
I can say is definitely definitely like make sure you
guys have a lot of make sure you guys are
always on your VPNs, always doing two factor, always changing

(24:15):
your passwords using a password manager sometimes, or even just
do an individual like having a system, having a and
somewhere and that's not every like don't be keeping your
passwords like inside of your devices, Like you got to
have a place where you can write stuff down old
school and keep that safe and locked up, and just
you know, don't click links. And another smart thing is

(24:36):
if you ever worried about you being hacked, every few months,
I always do a whole iPhone reset, so I back
I save everything, and then I back everything up from
the cloud again and that'll flush out anything on your phone.
Because one thing I'll tell you, and this is The
craziest thing that I learned from Investigator is like, dude,
they got to They got stuff out there, like your
iPhone messages, I messages. That's none of that stuff is safe.

(24:59):
None of that stuff is private like you think it is.
And it ain't just the government that can see everything.
Like it's crazy, but that technology is out here and
those type of people are on Instagram trying to get
your information.

Speaker 9 (25:12):
Why do you think they're asking for your phone number?

Speaker 8 (25:15):
You ever notice how you have a conversation with some
of these people in the DMS and then they ask
for the number and it's like why, I'm not talking
about like dating or like you know.

Speaker 9 (25:22):
You asked for a girl's number, blah blah.

Speaker 8 (25:24):
I'm talking about like a business situation where the conversation
is going total and then all of a sudden, like yeah,
let me get the number, and it's like kind of
unneeded at that moment. A lot of times it's because
they want your number because they're gonna they're trying to
fish in and get your information.

Speaker 9 (25:37):
They peep that you have something going on. They want
to see what's going on, So just be cautious. You
can often a lot of.

Speaker 8 (25:42):
Times make sure you have a business line number that's
separate from your regular number, and you know, take conversations
there if need be, or if somebody really wants a number,
like just you know, make a Google number.

Speaker 9 (25:52):
Just move very careful.

Speaker 8 (25:54):
I've actually been thinking about side we got talking about it.
I was thinking about we should even do like like
a podcast series about this, about internet security and about
social media security, because it's such a big issue that
people you can't even really even delve into it. You're
not even scratching the surface in the clubhouse room. It's
that deep. And I even thinking about writing a book

(26:15):
about it from my experience as a producer in the
industry now, and like, I have some security consultants that
want to help me maybe with this, so Stag, I
love to get to involve Pharaoh too in that project,
because you guys are both huge influencers with big networks,
and you know, I would love to get you know,
real people who are doing some industry to get involved
and talk about this because people need to be educated
and the future is only going to get scarier. Like

(26:36):
the biggest thing that freaks me out my last one,
this is the AI and what they're doing is and
the way that they can literally duplicate and replicate and
edit and manipulate audio and video like that's crazy. Like
it's gonna get to the point where if somebody has
video footage of you just standing and talking, they're gonna
be able to make an AI video of you, like
running into a seven to eleven with.

Speaker 1 (26:58):
Yo in the music videos. It's a rap bro like.

Speaker 4 (27:03):
Video.

Speaker 9 (27:04):
It's about to be crazy out here.

Speaker 8 (27:05):
And like so I'm like, also shit where I'm like, Yo,
don't even film me without permission. You're signing contracts to
even film me, Like I actually understand, Like I've worked
with some major artists, like these guys have famous decks,
different fols. They would be bugged out when anybody would
even pull out a phone like no, like don't be filming,
like you got to sign this and not to even
like shoot anything. And and I remember when I was

(27:25):
younger at the time I was dealing with it, I
was like, and there're being a little extra about this,
like chilbro, like we're just doing this footage for the.

Speaker 9 (27:31):
Team, like we're gonna post anything.

Speaker 8 (27:32):
But now, after the experiences I went through with the
security breaches and things, I completely understand it. This is
why celebs are all weirded out when you're being filmed,
because because they'll say one thing like I didn't like that,
and then like the next thing, you know, they have
there's a video with them saying like man, this people
like this are all crap and it's just because they
were able to manipulate the audio. They didn't even say that.

(27:53):
So watch what you say and watch who you say
things around because they can cut and edit and chop
everything up and that's only gonna get crazier.

Speaker 1 (28:03):
Damn if you guys are just joining that mentorship madness,
I'm doing one quick reset and then I'm getting right
back into this conversation because I'm not over. I want
everybody hold tight. It's not over, yo, We're still going
bed that. I appreciate you, man, fucking conversation on right now.

Speaker 5 (28:21):
Let's go.

Speaker 16 (28:24):
Knock Juicy hok you Chicky damn onstchik mans hook you.

Speaker 17 (28:46):
Chicky dive ont Jube lasting, Jude do Lasting g Jiggy
damn all bost Jiggy damn all.

Speaker 1 (29:09):
No no no, hey, bandon, you know what you know
what you made me realize. Stay away from the foolery.
Stay away from the all the all the weird ship
we have you brother, you know what I'm saying. Yeah,
I want to check on my brother Mike real quick,

(29:31):
right because I know, you know, my bro's been going
through some ship. I'm seeing it on the app and
ship and I know that. You know, you gotta avoid
certain ship, stay away from certain ship, stay around you know,
good energy. So I just want to talk to, you know,
my bro Mike if he's by the mic, about you know,
just the conversation about today, you know, avoiding shit, avoided day,

(29:51):
just social media on and off. Right, So Mike, if
you hear, Bro, Mike's over to you, man, if he's available,
let's get it. Man, what up?

Speaker 5 (30:00):
Stack?

Speaker 1 (30:00):
You know if I'm audible, Man, I can hear you
loud and clear. My brother Mike is yours, bet Listen.

Speaker 10 (30:07):
I can't really give you advice on it because I
like to compartmentalize. That's the best way to do it.

Speaker 4 (30:12):
Man.

Speaker 10 (30:14):
You know when it when it gets when it sometimes
when you when you let things get a little personal.
You know, when you're single and it's just you, you
can do whatever you want.

Speaker 1 (30:21):
Right.

Speaker 10 (30:22):
But as a man, I can't speak for women. But
as a man, when you have someone that you want
to you know what I'm saying, especially a lady you want,
I want to make sure it's protecting in some form
of fashion, or at least lets you let her know
that you don't play about her. There's a way you
got to move. But outside of that, you still have
to learn how to compartmentalize. Right, So once you log off,
are you still angry? Are you still having conversations or
is it actually messing up your real life? My life

(30:44):
is way too good to be angry with y'all, or
keep it right. I've always been this way in my life.
I never like to hold grudges to the next day.

Speaker 4 (30:51):
Right.

Speaker 10 (30:51):
I thought with one of my good brothers the other
day on a on a public stage, right when we
message each other back channel, we good right because of
me out and all. And I don't got to be
the one to say something back to him specifically and
get that low because the end of the day, nobody's
gonna move my standard of of what comes out of
my mouth. Right, I'm not the one who slings the
bees and the s's and all the other shit. And

(31:12):
because because I don't believe in that, right, Now, just
because I forgive doesn't mean I forget.

Speaker 1 (31:16):
So you have to hold on, Mike. Let's dive into
they thought you were a slick hold on, Mike. Just
because I forgive does not mean I'm gonna. I'm always
gonna remember the ship you did. You think I'll remember.
Let's talk about it. We see everything. I remember that ship.

Speaker 5 (31:29):
Let's know.

Speaker 1 (31:29):
That's the fact. That's the fact.

Speaker 10 (31:30):
And it's like again, the reason I don't hold the
grudge is because the grudges is not already for you
is something that's good. It's gonna be the burden on me, right,
I'm gonna be the one carrying that around, right, and
it can inadvertently affect somebody.

Speaker 9 (31:42):
Else around you.

Speaker 10 (31:44):
I love the one a family member, of friend, whatever
next thing you know, you snap it for no reason
and like what's going on and your excuses. I'm just
going through a lot.

Speaker 8 (31:50):
You know.

Speaker 10 (31:50):
I don't me personally don't accept those types of excuses,
but I know they exist. So when I say that
I can forgive, you know, I got some people here
who's you know, I thought I respected on to a
high level to be like, oh bitch ass nigga and
pussy and all that stuff and just because you felt
some type of way for a moment, right, So the
best way to do that, man, is to compartmentalize. That's
the best advice I can give on this or any

(32:11):
type of social media a man. It's just people are
going to always say, what you you know something that
you don't agree with. What do you think Will Smith
was going through? What do you think Chris Rock was
going through?

Speaker 14 (32:21):
Right?

Speaker 10 (32:22):
And they've been in the limelight forever. This is not
the first thing they've been going through, right, But people
go through this type of stuff, especially a lot of
people on social media eventually want to be influencers who
want to be in the limelight. You know, I used
to do music as well. I found out my time
cloud link was was dropped and people were listening to
my shop like for real life. That's they were searching me.
But I didn't care for it because I don't have
nothing to hide.

Speaker 1 (32:41):
Mike the Rapper, Mike the Rapper, I didn't.

Speaker 10 (32:45):
Have really nothing to hide, right, I've been doing music
when I was eleven years old, but I didn't do
that right. I didn't want to step into that thing
because I already see how the industry was, and I
really did didn't know if I was ready to be famous.
To me else with you, I've always be I've always
been good with the limelight in real time, in real life, right,
so public speaking, speaking front of her of people, board members,
corporate events, nonprofits, like that's normally my day, right, presentations,

(33:07):
and that's it, you know. So But the problem is
is that you got to figure out what your boundary is.
You know what you're willing to do, what you're willing
to accept, and certain things. I just I love privacy, man,
I love my privacy, right, not secrecy, but privacy. It's
just it's because I love my piece. My piece is
the most priceless thing. Like I leave everything just for peace, right,

(33:28):
it doesn't matter what it is. So again that's something
that you can't purchase, no matter how much money you have,
you can't purchase peace, right, So because that's internal. So
for me, it's just compartmentalize. I think sometimes when we
get on social we internalize everything. Well that's not me
or I couldn't do this, and why are you saying
odd statements? These are just general conversations orhy are you

(33:49):
worried about what you would do? And this is not
about you, right, This is just about people like that,
or or men like this, or women like this, or
people who think like that. But a lot of times
they internalize it and make it about them, and oh
I can never I just can't make it make sense.
And you're not supposed to make it make sense, y'all
over here solving problems that ain't yours to solve, right,
Just have the conversation move around, Black, that's interesting, Okay,

(34:11):
here's my thoughts on that, and then keep it moving.
So the best thing I can say is compartmentalized, because
people really will go mental and take it, you know,
deeper than what it really is. What it doesn't need
to be right, you know what I'm saying. The end
of the day, long as you can wake up, you
can breathe, you got closes on your back, a place
to sleeping in out under the bridge. I mean, you're
doing better than the majority of the planet, right, So

(34:31):
that's just mine. That's just how I think. That's how
I was raised. So I appreciate you all for the
space man, Yo, Mike.

Speaker 1 (34:43):
We appreciate you bro for coming through and you know,
just sharing the knowledge the energy. Always welcome to the
media mentors. Megan mentioned, you know, come talk with us
though past topics. We have all type of crazy topics.
Tomorrow we're gonna be you know, off clubhouse. Then we're
coming all the way back with Jason with a circle

(35:03):
of friends. Club that mental health, that motivation. That's just
gonna be crazy. I know it's raining out there, Jason
is going crazy, but we've been having a fire conversation.
I know you've been in and out, but you got
any words for me? Brother? Before I continue, because I
want to check on a few people, get to a few,
a few points, you know, just get up in here
and you know, dive into the conversation. Welcome to the stage.
My brother Elijah, Emon's here, Abony right, I got West.

(35:25):
I still want to check on for Sean. I think
he's still busy, wife being man, the reil. Everyone's still here,
but I want to have a conversation. Still continue, So Jason,
are you here?

Speaker 4 (35:35):
What else?

Speaker 18 (35:36):
Man?

Speaker 1 (35:36):
By your mic? Talk to me?

Speaker 2 (35:40):
Yeah, I'm here, Man, So how you been.

Speaker 1 (35:41):
Feeling about this conversation?

Speaker 8 (35:43):
Man?

Speaker 1 (35:43):
About you got any stories for us about you know,
any social media dangers or anything that you had to
avoid out there? Because I know, you know, we were
talking briefly about it. Have you ever tried to get
hacked or anything happened? Because I know you have a
large network on LinkedIn. Have you ever got have tried?
Has it? Has it been tried? Let's get into it now.

Speaker 14 (36:02):
Linkedining brouh. I thank god nothing bad has happened on
LinkedIn man, But on Instagram. Bro Back in two thousand
and twenty two, my Instagram account got hacked. And the
way it happened, man, was that one of my connections,
a good brother from Tampa, he had his account hacked.

(36:24):
And then like a couple of weeks later, I received
this DM and he's asking me something about like joining
a different group, and he left a link, and not
thinking that you know it wasn't him or anything like that,
I clicked on the link and my account got hacked.

Speaker 18 (36:45):
Bruh.

Speaker 14 (36:46):
I wasn't able to get it back and so I
ended up starting a whole new account.

Speaker 1 (36:54):
What I tell you guys about them random links, I'm
glad you said that because I'm staying away from the
random ass link. I'm not clicking on anything you send me.
It's not an email, it's not a cash app and
voice I'm not clicking on it. You understand like that,
I'll be clicking on too many links. So I'm glad

(37:15):
you said that, bro, because I tell people this all
the time, Jayson, when we have private calls, when you
guys talk with me offline, right it I talk about
Oh step my friend Miss pit Brittin too, so bring
her up. Listen, you never know when some shit's gonna
happen for you, especially especially when you just clicking links
and click. Man, you're fucking around and get locked out

(37:36):
your account quick. You'll be like, Damn, why did I
click this link? Or why did I do this?

Speaker 5 (37:41):
Damn I did this?

Speaker 1 (37:42):
Like you know what I'm saying. But nah, I stay
away from all links. It happens on Facebook the most,
and there's a lot of cases that you know, I
hop on the phone people, Jason, and it happens on
face Book. And it makes me so upset because Facebook
is probably one of their first platforms to grow the network. Now,
if you guys are just now joining, we're talking about
mentorship madness and how to avoid the dangers on social

(38:04):
media right, How to get away from the social how
to get away from the dangers, how to stay away
from it, how to avoid everything. I feel like it's
your environment. Let's get back into the conversation about you
know environment. You are, you are, You are who you
surround yourself with. You are who you surround yourself with.

(38:26):
Yeah again, put that will put a one in the
chat real quick. You are who you surround yourself with.
We're going to get into this, everybody you know, put
a one in the chat real quick with it. You
are who you surround yourself with. If you are surrounding
yourself with people that aren't doing anything, most likely you're
going to be the next fifth person, sixth person not
to do anything. When I'm active, when I'm doing things,

(38:46):
when I want to reach new goals, I get around
people that's already doing goals that are better than mine
or just at the same level. So band are over
to you, and then I'm gonna check on my system
misfit bread real fast.

Speaker 8 (38:57):
I'm going to add to that point and the people
that and the craziest thing is that it's your associates
that are gonna be the ones that flip. It ain't
the like, it ain't the straggles on the outside. It's
a lot of times what it is it's the Here's
the most important point is the people who you are
actually keeping in your closest circle who are helping you
build your vision and your brand. You got to make

(39:19):
sure that those people are actually truly adding value that's
leading to financial success and progress for them as well
as you, and that they're not just there because they're
like day ones or people that you.

Speaker 9 (39:32):
Feel an emotional loyalty to.

Speaker 8 (39:33):
Because I guarantee it be those people that start building
a resentment over time towards you as you start growing
and you can say.

Speaker 1 (39:40):
Like, yeah, you're on the team as soon as we
make some plays, or when you.

Speaker 8 (39:43):
Bring something I'm gonna do you know, I'm gonna get
you back on this. It be those people that be
low key hating the most because they're starting to in
their mind, they're saying all like, he don't really even
rock with me like that, even if you're think in
your mind you do. They're gonna start feeling a type
of way. So be very careful as to like who
you're stage and make sure that you're bringing partners with
you that are bringing equal value and that the reason

(40:07):
and for why you're rocking with them is not just
because it should be because of trust, but also that
as well, and a lot of times people just feel
like an obligation to certain people because they've been riding
with him for a long time. And if you look
at all obligation, if you look at the history, if
you look at a lot of major people rappers.

Speaker 1 (40:27):
I saw a whole interview with Jada Kisser.

Speaker 8 (40:28):
He talked about this, It'd be these fools that were
day ones that stayed loyal to him in his mind,
and they were loyal to him, but they were actually
there were seeds of discontent already planted in those people
because they weren't able to help Jada get to the
next level. And so that's a really important point that
I just wanted to piggyback off with Stack was saying,
because it really comes down to that, it's not going

(40:48):
to necessarily be a random outsider far far away who's
gonna be able to access you and mess your stuff up.
It's gonna be the person that knows personal things about you.
It's gonna be the person you can fide in. That's
not all the way ten tos and isn't really gonna
be with you on the on the next ten years
of your journey. So if you don't see those people
being like really bringing the things to the table that

(41:10):
you need over the next decade, you might want to
think about phasing those people out now before there's a cross.

Speaker 4 (41:15):
You feel what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (41:17):
You know, I love that band. Damn banda coming in Bend.
I'm glad you came in because we need this expertise.
We need this in the room, we need this feel right,
I'm talking about support now, right, I want to talk
about support. Right. If someone supports you, yo, you can
avoid a lot of shit, Like y'all know how you know?

(41:37):
It's either I'm busy or I'm with Amanda, you know
what I'm saying, Like I'm not. So if someone supports
you to be, you know, busy, or supports you to
do you gotta have support in your corner. If you
guys are not busy and you don't have support, it's
gonna suck because you're like, Damn, I'm bored. I'm just
gonna get into whatever. Now you're gonna be just going
with the flow and being into random shit. Now, another

(41:59):
thing about support. You guys know how you know? I
made Forbes, right, made the Black Rap and featured on
IT four time. Stuff like that. That's cool.

Speaker 4 (42:07):
Now.

Speaker 1 (42:07):
Support is when your people that off been seeing you grow,
comment on your stuff, always give you love. And you
know who's always done that, misfit brit always comment on
my stuff, always giving me love all the time, and
everybody else that does it too. I see, y'all, But
she's someone that see me come from, you know, XP
mentor and before that at nine to five Talk Club

(42:30):
with Alejandro, So she's seen how many heights I've grabbed
and how I'm maneuver and still continue to grow and
have a fire ass network. And now I'm bringing my
brother Jason in where I just you know, his soul
is sits right with me right. So it's just when
you see people and you you support, you support, And today,

(42:50):
guess what, Britt got her doctorate degree. So I'm gonna
support her. I want y'all to go to her ship
and support her too, and blow up her Instagram because
she got a doctor's degree. I want her to tell
you more about it and expand and talk about her
journey and support. But it's about support. If you don't
support to your people, nobody's gonna you know what I mean,
like especially if you say to your people, so miss
Pritt Brier, I always got you on one call away

(43:12):
you can text me and the other were always gonna
be there. So over to you, sis.

Speaker 18 (43:16):
Let's go listen you already know Stack.

Speaker 19 (43:20):
First, I want to just say congratulations to you, my brother,
for your huge honorary that you receive, Like, come on,
forms Black acceptance. Can you all on this stage unmute
yourself and make some noise for Stack. All the moderators,

(43:50):
I need to unmuting yourself, make some noise for Stack.

Speaker 1 (43:53):
Sack go, oh my god.

Speaker 19 (44:01):
Bro, listen, Stack, we wouldn't even be in this room
right now if it wasn't for your support and your
guidance and your mentorship you all, like I'm telling you now,
clubhouse is a powerful resource. But when you find and
you're able to connect with servant leaders like Stack, you

(44:23):
do not want to miss out. So I just want
to commend all of you all for being in this
room right now because you could have been anywhere. And Stack,
we appreciate you because you constantly pour into us and.

Speaker 20 (44:35):
That's what time it is.

Speaker 19 (44:36):
We have to do that, and it has to be reciprocated,
you know, I'm a firm believer in coaches, having coaches, mentors,
leaders like yourself, having wise counsel. You all, we have
to close the information gap. Every last one of us
in this room right now. You are a powerful leader.
You wouldn't be in here right now if you weren't,

(44:57):
because that is who Stack is connected to, like mighted
individuals like yourself, And because that's you, you have to
own your power. You have to invest in yourself, and
that's how we're able to shift faster into our next level.
So if you haven't yet done so, make sure you
click on the link above our head and get into

(45:19):
mentorship with Stack, because as you can see, this award
that he just received, it wasn't by chance, and it
wasn't by accident.

Speaker 20 (45:27):
It's because he's continued.

Speaker 19 (45:29):
To stay surrounded with positive, positive leaders who support him,
who he supports.

Speaker 20 (45:35):
There is domination in collaboration.

Speaker 19 (45:38):
You all, every last one of us in this room
right now, needs to be supporting the person on the
side of you, the person above your head, the person
below you. Because guess what, we all can help, every
last one of us in this room if we do
the exact same thing. Guess what It's our responsibility to

(45:59):
all ten thousand people a.

Speaker 1 (46:01):
Peace, a peace.

Speaker 19 (46:03):
That's how many people need our help. So continue to
stay surrounded with other like minded leaders like yourself, who
are going to pour into you and get the support
that you need so you don't make the same mistake
that they did. So I just want to just say
thank you, Stack, thank you for constantly supporting me and
everybody who is in this room right now. Those of

(46:24):
you who are listening to Stack for the very first time,
and you're listening to these powerful leaders that have the
green star next to their name, listen, if they have
a green star next to their name, it's not by coincidence.
Because Stack believes in alignment, and so I want you
guys to know that we are all in alignment. And
because of that, you want to make sure that you

(46:46):
are learning, learning from Stack, learning from every person in
this room who resonates with you. Because the support is
gonna go so far. We have to remain students, We
have to remain Stack. And that's one of the reasons
why I am so excited to share with you all.
Like Stack just said, I will be receiving my honorary doctorate.

Speaker 20 (47:09):
Degree this Sunday, yes.

Speaker 19 (47:12):
Inhumanitarianism and the Presidential Lifetime Achievement Award through Joe Biden
and Kamala Harris. So I'm really excited and honored for
that prestigious award and I'm excited.

Speaker 20 (47:24):
To share that with you. So thank you again, Stack.
I appreciate you so much.

Speaker 1 (47:29):
Please go blow her Instagram up for me. If y'all
haven't done this right now, go to her page say congratulations,
go crazy, right, and it's important that further your education.
You see how she came in. She's furthering her education, right,
and that's the step that we all want to do.
Further your education. That's why I always do courses. Misfit Brick,
go into the courses. I'm doing the Ethical Hacking School

(47:50):
right now where we can you know, cybersecurity. I'm gonna
be teaming with DJ Bander on that. I forgot to
tell Bander that we're gonna be doing something with ethical
But blow misfit Brit up. This is col razy. Put
a heart in the chat, share a room out, ping
the room out as well. Please if you know somebody
that wants to talk about this, how to avoid dangers
on socials and come, you know, celebrate what else tell
them to come in here, right, I got my brother

(48:11):
Jason in here, real one, DJ banda wifey, Amanda, Forshan,
my brother, Arther, King Pharaoh, west Ebony, my sister, even
everybody in the building right, ping the room out, share
the room out. Fly ties in here as well. Joy,
Just join the stage, right, this is trainy things. Just
join the stage. Shout out to see you all that
just joined the stage. That's on here with us. But
we were talking about how to avoid the dangers, and

(48:32):
you know, obviously celebrating each other. That's another thing that's
gonna keep you away from danger. It's celebrating people. Don't
be no damn hater. Don't be a hater. Right If
you celebrate people, celebrate, yo, the hater energy has got
to go. Celebrate, dive into people. When I see somebody
doing something great, man, I'm gonna freaking say you did great, man.

(48:54):
Band is always doing something fire man. I always tell
them whenever we chop it up. Man, you already know
what it is, band, right, I already know. I ain't
got to check on you. I already know. Jason, already
know you're doing something good, bro. Circle of friends. Man,
he just started launched off crazy. I know he's doing
great things. Support man, don't be no hater man. You
see people doing great things, you rise up with them.

(49:14):
Same thing with Pharaoh. Man, he seen me. I'm trying
to reach up to the top. I said, I need help.
You know what I'm saying. I need you know what
I'm saying. I need the juice. I got that juice
in the tank and went crazy, right. And Bro always
tell me like, Yo, we're you're going crazy. Bro, you're
doing good. And that's the that's and those are the
friends you want to have by your side to avoid
dangers on social It's like the constant affirmations, the constant

(49:37):
positive affirmations and put a two in the chat. If
you guys agree constant affirmations from your friends. That's how
I'm gonna avoid dangers on social is when you guys
give me constant affirmations like when that, when you hear
positivity from family and friends and colleagues and different individuals,
you're always going to be fired up to do some
more shit. Anytime you guys tell me it's stack that

(49:57):
was dope for you're going and you doing this. Guess
what I'm I'm gonna go do. I'm gonna go do
some more dope shit. And that's the energy that you
want to have. It's like, yo, when someone gives you,
you know, the affirmation and gives you that energy, you
get out there and you make more things happen. And
I feel like that's where a lot of people stay stuck.
Jason and Vander and everybody gonna stay tell me if
I'm wrong. Is when you guys get successes, people will be,

(50:19):
you know, just comfortable with that. Oh Okay, I got
this success, that's it. They won't want to go up
and beyond. But I want to go up and beyond.
What else is after this? I remember when I first
got on TV. Remember that, guys, I got my own
TV deal. I signed it with E three sixty right.
So it's just like when you guys want something, you
do it, You go for it, you figure it out.
But the thing that I don't want you guys to

(50:41):
forget is when you're doing work and when you're going
after a dream or manifestation or anything you want to happen,
you got to be actively doing the work too. That's
just not going to just fall in your lap overnight.
You guys, got to get out there, do work, hustle,
actually make the action steps happen too. That's where a
lot of people go wrong, Jason.

Speaker 4 (50:59):
It like this.

Speaker 1 (51:00):
They'll do work and then but they won't do it.
You got to get out there and do the footwork.
They put the boots on the ground. You got to
get out there and stomp on ship and do ship.
Because if if you're saying you you you know you're
an entrepreneur, but you don't got to offer, then how
we're going about how we're gonna support If you're saying
you you know, uh, you know a music or a
singer or somebody out there, and you ain't got no

(51:20):
tracks online or anything on Spotify, anything on Apple Music.
We can't search you up. It doesn't make any sense, right,
So I want to continue this conversation, right. I appreciate
you guys for coming through to talk about it, but
you know how to avoid dangers on socials. Who else
wants to chime in with me? You know it's Eamon here,
Ebony Fly Training, whoever you know, you guys take them out.

(51:42):
Whoever's here, who wants to turn Egypt.

Speaker 18 (51:47):
Let's hey, everyone here is even all the way from Cairo, Egypt.

Speaker 21 (51:52):
And you know.

Speaker 18 (51:55):
There's a uh story that I'm going to tell you, guys,
uh telling you how much is it important to surround
yourself with the white people. I still remember this since
I was very very young. It was my teacher that
came to the class and she asked every one of

(52:17):
us to with our hands in water colors, and then
she said catch each other. And all of a sudden,
the sudden, all of our clothes got stained from those colors.

(52:38):
And she said, this is a listen for today. Your
friends will wrap off on you. Your circle of influence
will wrap off on you. The people you surround yourself with,
you are part of them, or at least you are
prooing to be.

Speaker 20 (53:00):
Like them, for good or for bad.

Speaker 18 (53:03):
I'm not saying that just for good or just for bad,
it will affect you. Because energy is contagious. And I'm
gonna say this again, because we are here and we
know that we have that churce of energy stack. We've
got that, so energy is contagious. Success is contagious. Failures

(53:28):
as well as contagious, though I don't consider that there
is something called failure. It's a feedback.

Speaker 7 (53:35):
But the thing is.

Speaker 18 (53:38):
Who you're surrounding yourself with you are the next person.
And that's why we keep on surrounding ourselves with ourselves
with people who first of all doing the things that
we are looking to or we are in. Don't go
down Number number two, loyal and loyality comes before love

(54:07):
guys for me, to avoid that danger on the social media,
you've got to be loyal and you've got to be
very smart to know who is loyal and who's not
because you you might get hurt more from people who
is closer to you, who you love more, but they

(54:30):
are not loyal to you.

Speaker 20 (54:34):
Those can hurt you more.

Speaker 18 (54:37):
Haters and naysayers can hurt you from a distance. But
you know, the closest person when he's not loyal, that's dangerous.

Speaker 4 (54:48):
You got to be.

Speaker 18 (54:52):
The closest person, the closest person when they are not loyal,
they are worse and more hurtful than your enemies. The
other night was there's was a lady who was asking
what do you want for your enemies? And I asked
the first, who's your enemies? If you're speaking about enemies,

(55:16):
speak about unloyal friends. Those are real enemies. The outsider
wouldn't be able to hurt you that much because they
don't know the every detail about you as we do
with our closest friends.

Speaker 22 (55:33):
So, guys, look.

Speaker 18 (55:36):
Into your inner circle and see who those you remembers
you when you're sad. Who remember who is happy really
happy for you when you succeed? Because success, as you're
clarifying as well, success show shows jealousy shows real colors

(55:57):
shows support. Yeah, when you're successful, you would know your people.
You would know those who celebrates for you more than
you do for yourself, and would you would know who's
those are the jealous people that feel hate and jealousy
and stay silent and say like you know, it's not

(56:20):
it's not a big deal.

Speaker 20 (56:22):
No, it is a big deal.

Speaker 4 (56:24):
I do.

Speaker 18 (56:24):
I had an achievement and I deserve to celebrate it.
So don't let anyone let you down just because you
let them in. You say this again, Say that again?

Speaker 1 (56:40):
Don't let someone what down?

Speaker 23 (56:42):
What?

Speaker 1 (56:42):
Say that again?

Speaker 18 (56:44):
Let someone puts you down, let you down because you
let them, And people will let you down if they
are not loyal if you let them in your inner circle.
Am I right?

Speaker 1 (57:00):
Let's go try to y'all agree with em. Let's go
all the way from Cairo, Egypt. I ain't been there.
I'm standing on top of the mountains when I go
on top of the pyramids, so welcome.

Speaker 14 (57:11):
You're always.

Speaker 18 (57:16):
Yeah, of course I'm waiting for that. I can't I
can't wait. Actually, it's it's my bliger because Stuck is
my brother and where we know each other for four
years now, and we know that we're loyal. We know
that we support unconditionally. And and there's receipts, guys, and

(57:40):
receipts speaks more than than words. Receipts, uh. People who
situations when you are stuck in something and you got that,
that person comes to your mind the first one, and
you don't hesitate to just whenever reach out. And when
you reach out, you know in your mind that there

(58:03):
will be there for you, if not by doing something tangible,
it's by being I'm there.

Speaker 20 (58:12):
Let me know what I can do for you.

Speaker 18 (58:15):
So that those are the people that you have, You
you deserve and they deserve to rock with them because
when you celebrate their success, it will be bar of
your heart. It's just you know, the night for Black Forbes,

(58:36):
Oh my god, oh my god, I was just my
heart was singing truly and and it was ovious in
my voice because I'm really happy for you. I see
that my brother is going up and and you know,
that's something makes me proud, It makes me feel happiness,

(59:00):
makes me feel cherished because this is my brother, guys,
and I.

Speaker 14 (59:05):
Know that he is.

Speaker 4 (59:08):
We're good.

Speaker 9 (59:10):
It's good, my dig.

Speaker 1 (59:14):
On the stage.

Speaker 18 (59:19):
It's fine, it's fine, it's fine. No worries, no worries.
But the thing is that you have to check people.

Speaker 12 (59:27):
You have to do that.

Speaker 18 (59:29):
De clutter in your as in your house, as in
your friends, as in your relationships, as in your inner
uh emotions. When we feel when you give whatever you
give to the world, and you will have some of it.

(59:49):
If you give love, you will get love. If you
give support, you will get support. If not not the
stating person not the same direction, but it will come
back because karma doesn't lie, and and life teach us.
When people get out of your life, it's God's protection.

(01:00:12):
So they are welcome. If you are with me, aligned
with me, you're rocking with me, loyal, you're welcome. If
you're not, you're welcome. I can love you from a distance,
but stay away from alide. So I love your brother
back to you.

Speaker 1 (01:00:31):
I love email man. She's alway from Cairo, Egypt. I
want to go out there, Like I was telling y'all,
do a podcast on top of the pyramids. And she's
always shown love anything I've done, all the way back
four years ago. She's always shown love and seen my
potential and seeing me shining and helping out different people.
This is one person I could tell y'all straight from
her that I've been helping out a lot of people

(01:00:54):
on and off this app a lot of different people
become who they want to be. Get on boards, come
on the TV, come on the podcast show. It's what
it's about giving back. When you guys get knowledge and
get somewhere, you give back. That's another reason, you know,
that's another reason why I avoid a lot of dangers
on social media. I don't I'm helping out whoever's trying
to help themselves. As long as I see you helping

(01:01:16):
yourself out, I'm gonna rise you up. A lot of people, don't.
You know, a lot of people go wrong where it's
like you want people to help you and you got
your hands out, but you're not helping yourself. You're not
doing shit. You got to actually be doing something for
somebody to help you.

Speaker 4 (01:01:28):
Right.

Speaker 1 (01:01:28):
I've seen Jason doing some l shit. It's over there
with the mental health and anxiety, helping out a lot
of different individuals in his network. What I'm gonna do,
I'm gonna go over there and help him out and
rise it up because it's something that I believe in.
You gotta believe in some shit. Believe in some shit.

Speaker 4 (01:01:43):
You know what.

Speaker 1 (01:01:44):
A man that texts me the other day, Jason wife,
and she says, stand for something, or your fall for anything,
you understand, stand for something, put a heart inner chat
for that real quick. And that's how avoid a lot
of dangers too. You know on socials, is that too,

(01:02:04):
So put a heart in the chat real quick.

Speaker 18 (01:02:07):
Yeah, stand for something that Amanda tells you something. We
women are have that sixth sense. So listen to her, man,
listen to what she tell you about her feelings about people,
because that's ninety nine person, right, So just listen, don't

(01:02:29):
let it.

Speaker 1 (01:02:29):
Go, and sometimes it'll it'll be me. I don't be
wanting to listen to emon. And that's where I gotta
really understand, like yo, she's right right, even like you
gotta be like yo, she's right. So I appreciate you
even appreciate that, but stand for something or you're gonna
fall for anything. Like if you guys are just joining right,

(01:02:51):
we've been talking about mentorship madness. When you guys get
on the stage, please do not invite and controlls on
the stage. We're having, you know, a good dialogue, good conversation.
If you guys want to connect with me offline, click
this link at the top and schedule a fifteen minute
call for next week and I'll get with you guys
on any features, any articles, anything that will make you
pop up on Google, any podcasts, any TV shows, anything

(01:03:11):
you know requiring you know, you to level up. And
also will be onboarding some people inside of Circle of
Friends Club, there's a social media website connected up to everything. Jason,
are you by your mic?

Speaker 4 (01:03:21):
Bro?

Speaker 1 (01:03:22):
To talk about this real quick before we dive into
the conversation. I want to talk about you know, social media,
you know, mental health and all that good stuff, bro,
and what we're gonna be doing over there. So I
appreciate you for being there over to you, man.

Speaker 2 (01:03:35):
Yeah, sure, man.

Speaker 14 (01:03:35):
So we have a platform called Circle of Friends Club
and every week we have an event called Freedom Fight Expo,
which we feature ten speakers over a weekend that talk
about different causes. So just to give you an idea,
a couple of weeks ago, we did an event for
oncology mindfulness. So in September that event is going to

(01:03:58):
be for PTSD and suicide prevention. In October we're doing
that when for breast cancer, and November we're doing that
for domestic violence. So we had some really really heavy
topics that we're gonna be taken on. But you know,
I've been really really happy with the results that we've

(01:04:19):
been getting so far this year with the events, but
with Stack on our team, I mean, it's just gonna
go to a completely different level. I'm so grateful to
be here on Clubhouse. You know, I've never really been
on the Clubhouse. But the event that we had a
couple of days ago for mindset mental mindset when it

(01:04:43):
comes to building your circles, I mean I was I
was really really shocked that we had like thirty people
in the room This coming week, I think it's gonna
be even bigger than that.

Speaker 1 (01:04:54):
What do you think, Stack, Yeah, it's gonna be way bigger.
I want you guys to join that we're gonna be
you know, in your room when we going to the
Circle of French Club. We'll be talking about that and
how you guys can join that and be, you know,
become something, be serious being part of a you know,
a network. Shout out to Bro Canary for pulling up too.
I'll let you, you know, introduce yourself and we could
talk about this topic two men, how to avoid dangers,

(01:05:15):
how to you know, dive into mental health, all that
good stuff. Shouts to everybody else that put up to
my bro Rico Richard's here. Na is here. We was
having a great conversation last room, Na, So I appreciate
you for pulling up and dropping in here. HD appreciate
you King and training. I appreciate all y'all. We're gonna
have a good conversation if you guys are just joining.
We've been talking about how to avoid it.

Speaker 4 (01:05:35):
Early.

Speaker 1 (01:05:35):
I was talking about respect, minding your business, staying out
the way, you know what I mean? Like me, I
barely come on, man, it'd be cool to you know,
it'd be funny to have the shit that be going about.
I got real life shit going on. I gotta handle right.
Like a lot of people need help nowadays. You know
what I'm saying. So I got to help them. And
then teaming up with Jason. It's going to be crazy
because it's a need for mental health, it's a need

(01:05:57):
for all of this stuff. So it's just gonna be
crazy to collaboration. And make sure you guys collaborate too.
If you're not collaborating at what you're doing, if you're
not at the table, you're on the menu. I say
this all the time. Don't let nobody come to y'all
table and take take take, No, see how we can
collaborate together, See how we can add together? Right? A
lot of people? Oh man, well, oh y'all see the value. No,
I'll be quick to see what I could do for
you before you could do it for me. Let me

(01:06:20):
say that again. I'll be quick to see what I
can do for you before you can do for me.
And I want you guys to be that type of
person too. Man, How can I add to this person?
How can I do this right? How to avoid socials?
How to avoid dangers on socials?

Speaker 5 (01:06:31):
Now?

Speaker 1 (01:06:31):
Are you by your mic right now? Are you available
for me?

Speaker 5 (01:06:34):
Yeah?

Speaker 24 (01:06:35):
You know?

Speaker 1 (01:06:35):
Can you chime into this please?

Speaker 23 (01:06:36):
Now?

Speaker 1 (01:06:36):
If you got anything, Yeah, you know what I wanted
to say really quickly.

Speaker 25 (01:06:40):
Another thing that I've been to kind of piggyback on
the discussion we had last week when this topic came up.

Speaker 1 (01:06:46):
Came up.

Speaker 25 (01:06:47):
One thing that I've been very mindful of because I
tend to be very sometimes I don't have a filter.
I'm very outspoken about a lot of topics, especially when
it comes to politics, and it kind of gets me
in trouble. So I've been I have to remind myself often.
I think, before you post, be mindful of the content

(01:07:08):
I share. Avoid posting anything that could compromise my safety.
And I say this to everyone, avoid posting anything that
could compromise your safety, your reputation, and most especially future opportunities.
Speaking of collaborating, you would hate to post find yourself
posting a thought an opinion about any topic on social

(01:07:29):
media and then right risking opportunities with collaborators, risk losing,
you know, kind of building up and building relationships with
bigger content creators online because they see something you've posted
and either they're offended or they judge you by they

(01:07:51):
judge your entire character by you know, three hundred words
or less that they read on Twitter, and oftentimes you
just might be out speak for myself. You get I
get caught up in the moment, I get really fiery
or really passionate about a particular topic, and I'm ready
to jump into the conversation and give my opinion. But
you know, it could be fleeting. I could feel this
way about a certain topic or subject in the moment. Tomorrow,

(01:08:14):
my ideas or next week or even next year my
idea is about these topics might be completely different, and
so I have to be mindful of what I say.
You know, I'll give you a quick example. I'm an
entertainment news reporter. I've worked in entertainment business for people
don't know.

Speaker 1 (01:08:29):
That's why I like your voice. Now you sound like
a damn reporter. We gotta collect me, we gotta collabse,
we gotta come right.

Speaker 25 (01:08:36):
So I've in an entertainment news space or entertainment business
for the past twenty years. Specifically, for the past decade,
I've worked as an entertainment news reporter. Couple was it
maybe within the last year. I can't pinpoint the exact date,
but within the last year someone hit me up on
Twitter and they were ready to cancel me. They were
ready to lead the TQ plus ia movement against me,

(01:08:57):
and they were calling me transphobic. And I'm like, well,
why am I be a called transphobic?

Speaker 26 (01:09:01):
What have I done?

Speaker 14 (01:09:02):
Well?

Speaker 25 (01:09:02):
Someone found an interview. This individual found an interview that
I did maybe in twenty seventeen, twenty eighteen with ts Madison. Now,
those who don't know, Tes Madison is a popular transwoman,
a black trans woman, popular on social media, popular and
reality TV. And I've interviewed tes Madison a handful of

(01:09:22):
times over years. She's a great subject, okay, And when
I first interviewed her, pronouns was not a thing. So
there was no she her, they them, it here, there,
everywhere type of deal going on. Tes Madison back then
did not specify what pronoun to you. So in the

(01:09:42):
article I refer to her as he. And so this
person found the article and cut not too long ago
and went completely off on me online, calling me transphobic,
not recognizing the pronouns.

Speaker 1 (01:09:58):
And I had to be like listen.

Speaker 25 (01:09:59):
So this was way before the trans cop ideology took over.
Pronouns was not a thing. And I would also like
to just kind of fast forward. I eat interviewed Ts
Madison again earlier this year, I think it was, and
this topic came up and Ts had to even say
to me, listen, even she had to be educated by

(01:10:25):
people in her in the gay community, in the trans community,
because she doesn't go along with a lot of the
pronoun agenda. She doesn't go along with a lot of
the trans women are real women, so she has said
she has even been in sparring matches with members of
her own community over the years over how she represents

(01:10:45):
the trans community. So I say all that to say,
you know, I had to check this person before they
let the trans cancelation against Naimagee. And I'll wrap up
by saying, as a reminder to everyone in the room,
if you're at on social media and you're looking for
opportunities to build up your brand and collaborate with bigger

(01:11:05):
content creators, please just always be mindful of the content
you share in anything you post, because especially not only
you don't want to risk opportunities, but there are a
lot of weirdos out there who get very very triggered.
They get so very triggered, and as I mentioned in
stax Lass room, they're ready to come after you. They
will show up at your job, show up at your apartment,

(01:11:26):
show up at your house, hide and your bushes. They're
ready to dox you. They're ready to dox your family members.
They'll harass the And that's another thing. Be careful with
the purse. Protect your personal information, avoid sharing details your address,
phone number, financial information.

Speaker 1 (01:11:42):
I've been in.

Speaker 25 (01:11:42):
Rooms on clubhouse where people will open up spaces to
share their personal information like addresses, health statuses, just to
prove a point, not realizing there are people in the
audience who hate you that much you're not even aware
of it.

Speaker 1 (01:11:56):
Where they're waiting to get.

Speaker 25 (01:11:57):
A hold of the most minute personal information that you
can share because they can use it to go online
and find details about you to lead their efforts to
docs and harass you. So those are my two pieces
of advice. I land on protect your personal information and
think before you posts.

Speaker 1 (01:12:16):
Thank you, I'm done, nah, I love that naw. And
make sure you hit me up so we can collaborate too,
because I like the fact that you're a journalist and
I need more help on media outlets. I own a few,
so I want you to help me with some journalist
you know, we'll do some great writings on some people,
and it might be some entrepreneurs. For this room that's
getting highlighted for me and Na right going on different
articles getting written up, right, This is what I love

(01:12:38):
to do. Write up articles, pop up on Google. Shouts
to everybody that's coming through right, picking the room up,
share the room up, if you know somebody that wants
to talk about this topic, mentorship, madness, how to avoid
dangers on socials, ping it up with having a respectful conversation,
No trolls on stage. It's a serious conversation that we're
diving in. If you guys have not checked out the
Circle of Friends Club, click the link at the top.

(01:13:00):
What you guys think, you know? Really really really diving
into the mental health space with my brother Jason. Will
be coming back on Clubhouse on Thursday with a huge,
huge ass topic talking about unstoppable mindset mental health motivation.
So make sure you guys be on the lookout for that.
In RSVP, I'll put that link at the top. But
this is this is where it's at. This is the
main you know that, this is where it's sat. Circle

(01:13:21):
of Friends Club. I'm gonna be really really diving into
this as the marketing director, thank you for that, Jason,
for giving me that you know that position, Bro, like
diving in and really believing in what I'm doing. You
know what I'm saying, like really believing in stat because
you know a lot of people say they believe in you,
but they you know, you really showed it, Bro, and
you didn't even know me for that long, And that's
code show's true character. So Jason, you already know. Man,

(01:13:43):
we're locked in. But I also want to check on
brother Rico if he's by his mic ricard.

Speaker 7 (01:13:47):
Yeah, I'm driving. I mean, how do I come behind?

Speaker 5 (01:13:50):
Nah? I mean.

Speaker 1 (01:13:53):
You got for me, bro talk.

Speaker 7 (01:13:54):
She pretty much covered all all, you know, all the rounds.

Speaker 27 (01:13:56):
I think I think one fatal afflaw not fatal, but
one big flaw we make is assuming that people, because
you have a cell phone in your hand, you have
an application, that everybody's mental health is on the same levels,
on the same accord. People are very unhinged on social media,
and I think the dangers is just lurking around. I mean,
you know, we talk about therapy all the time, but

(01:14:17):
a lot of people don't actively engage in therapy or
they basically makeshift therapists on the application and people. A
lot of people are one pay check away from being homeless,
or a bad breakup with a girlfriend, or a mother
passed away, or something that they're not dealing with, and
you're engaging with that person not knowing what levels they'll
take it to.

Speaker 7 (01:14:38):
You don't know where they'll go. You just assuming you're safe.

Speaker 27 (01:14:41):
But just like she said, people are always constantly trying
to find out what's going on with some and some
people live vicariously through other people's lives. They want to
actually replace that person and be that person that's getting
that love, that's getting that detection, that attention, that's being
who they are on social media. A lot of people
secretly in their own minds kind of cosplay as you

(01:15:05):
in their mind because of what you represent. And I
think that this, like like you said, that these dangerous situations,
it's not worth it, man, Just check out, Just leave.
You know, you don't have to engage in people these
whole pack ups things, even if you win.

Speaker 7 (01:15:20):
What about your own mental health?

Speaker 27 (01:15:22):
You can have an argument with somebody on social media
and that can play into your whole day.

Speaker 7 (01:15:27):
That can make your whole day go.

Speaker 27 (01:15:29):
Negative because you had a fifteen minute interaction with somebody
arguing about something that wasn't really that in and now
you at work. You gotta deal with your children, you
gotta deal with your own personal life. And now you're
in this negative space for what man? I mean, know
what your limits are and what you're mentally when you
can handle your own capacity, and when you things are
getting too stressful, man, just check out.

Speaker 7 (01:15:50):
But that's all I got status.

Speaker 1 (01:15:52):
I'm listening.

Speaker 2 (01:15:55):
That was great.

Speaker 1 (01:15:58):
When things get stressed, check out. You gotta go take care.
I think self work too rico. When people go out
there and go through the self work that out there
and go do like work on yourself before you get
around individuals. When you pour into yourself, When you pour
into you do that self work. When you get around others,
it's gonna be just natural. Ah cool, right, because you
took care of yourself. Somebody can tell when you're pouring

(01:16:20):
from an empty cup. You say this shit again, somebody
can tell when you pouring from an empty cup. I'm
not pouring from no empty cup. It's like grumpy, like
weird energy that bend. You've seen that shit, ebany, you've
seen that before, like that weird like damn. We can
be able to talk about that man, what like, how
does it feel when someone's pouring from an empty cup?

Speaker 8 (01:16:38):
Bro? Let's talk about well, I think that I think
what you're everyone's been touching on is great, and I
think that it comes you know, for me, what that
means is like I think, you know, not everyone is Again,
I think one of the biggest weaknesses that comes from
being someone that offers value, like when you when you
have either creativity or you have leadership skills, when you

(01:16:59):
do things like what stack does like and what you know,
what I do with Farida's you know, people when you're
helping other people, and what I think happens is the
biggest thing you have to protect your space is that
you almost project that other people are going to be
coming from the same place of depth.

Speaker 4 (01:17:15):
That you are.

Speaker 12 (01:17:16):
And that's a huge, huge, huge reason.

Speaker 8 (01:17:20):
Why good people end up in bad situations is because
you're projecting how you would move onto somebody else.

Speaker 4 (01:17:28):
These people ain't gonna move like you move.

Speaker 8 (01:17:30):
They're not going to appreciate the good things that you
do for them. Like that's the hardest thing to accept.
Sometimes it's like you're like.

Speaker 12 (01:17:36):
Why would these people do me like that? All I
do is help these people.

Speaker 8 (01:17:39):
And what's crazy too, is like when you bring a
lot to the table, if you're nice as well, people
almost hate you more for that.

Speaker 12 (01:17:47):
I don't know, this is the craziest thing in the world,
but I feel like.

Speaker 1 (01:17:51):
There's yo yoda.

Speaker 4 (01:17:53):
It's like you think, this is why, yeah, this is.

Speaker 12 (01:17:57):
Why people keep getting opt on who are good people
who were trying to help others.

Speaker 8 (01:18:01):
Is because it's like you think that let's say somebody
is on the fence with you, they have some you
go you become hey, I'm gonna look out for this person.

Speaker 4 (01:18:10):
I'm gonna help big them up, I'm gonna help them
get some money. I'm give them advice.

Speaker 8 (01:18:13):
I'm gonna teach them about this like I've had this experience,
like I would teach people about finance, give them advice
on how to invest in real estate and all this stuff.
And I'm thinking to myself, Oh, I'm building I'm building
like a like a connection with this person. I'm actually
building my security with this person because they're they're understanding, Okay,
I actually this fool has my back banders looking out.

Speaker 4 (01:18:33):
But it's not like that. Unfortunately, with the right people
it is.

Speaker 8 (01:18:36):
But with a toxic person or somebody who's a naturally
negative person. Instead of them seeing that as you're putting up,
all they're going to see is like, oh, this fool's
got it like that. And on top of that, he's happy.
This motherfucker's happy with himself and he thinks that he
is all that. This fool is happy and wants to help.
The mother got the audacity to try to help other fuckers,

(01:18:59):
you know, and I had to learn that the all
way that like.

Speaker 12 (01:19:02):
You're actually only enraging the bad.

Speaker 4 (01:19:04):
Spirits when you bring that good energy.

Speaker 8 (01:19:07):
So like other people you know, spoke on, just be
really really careful and protect protect that love in your heart,
you know, don't just give it out easily. That it's
nice to want to give a help in hand, but
make sure that you're doing it in a very cautious,
careful way. And like you mentioned about the endy cup,
avoid people like that if you can, and realize when

(01:19:28):
you're dealing with somebody that's playing a role maybe to
appease you or maybe to slide in, but they're not
actually genuine on that.

Speaker 12 (01:19:35):
People will give stuff away, you know, people always have
a tell.

Speaker 4 (01:19:39):
And the more experience like that you go through the
more it's easy to tell.

Speaker 8 (01:19:43):
I just don't want anybody to go through what I
went through, which was really crazy, where like I actually
had people around me who were like full on coming
from my bag, trying to opt trying to do all
this crazy stuff because I.

Speaker 4 (01:19:54):
Was just too nice at that time. You know, like
I grew up in BK.

Speaker 1 (01:19:58):
I've had streets death that way. A lot of people
go wrong. It's like they like to take advantage of
the vice.

Speaker 4 (01:20:06):
Is too obviously in this weakness.

Speaker 8 (01:20:07):
So now you know I've learned that. Unfortunately, you got
to keep that kindness as almost like a that's like
your your ace card in the hole that you give
out after you vetted, after they've shown improved, not before.
The kindness card can't come out right away because unfortunately
we're in a different time, different day and age. And
my last thought I was going to say on this,

(01:20:27):
I appreciate the space this new generation, especially for the
younger heads in the room. Make sure you realize like
when I was, when I was super young, I looked
up to my mentors. I looked up to people in
higher positions of power success. You know, often you know
authority and learn from them and did my best to
like try to soak up information. I feel the biggest

(01:20:48):
weakness of this new generation is these young'uns coming up
is like they don't act like they need mentors. They
act like anything that you can tell them they can
find out themselves on TikTok videos like straight up. That's
why if you look at a lot of these younger
generation kids, they almost like they got their like got
you know, learning disorders, Like they don't even know how
to look you in the eye.

Speaker 4 (01:21:08):
They don't talk to you, they don't ask you anything.

Speaker 1 (01:21:10):
And I noticed that, bro, it's like all iPads and
robots walking around right, talk about it wild.

Speaker 4 (01:21:15):
I was hanging out with these young men at the studio.

Speaker 8 (01:21:19):
And they were really they were really talented and they
were cool and then but like they weren't asking no questions,
and I'm like, man, times have just changed.

Speaker 4 (01:21:26):
When I was eighteen nineteen.

Speaker 8 (01:21:28):
I like I couldn't ask enough questions to the to
the to the thirty forty fifty year olds that I
was around, trying to learn how they were on and
what they had do. And I just think that the
biggest thing is, like, if you're young, what's going to
separate you. Is that you realizing that, Yo, get off
your phone. It's not all in the digital space. Have
real conversations, find real mentors, you know, Cassile, like myself,

(01:21:50):
like Stack, like Pharaoh, other people in this room who
are really you know, experienced and vetted and can actually
bring that leadership to the table.

Speaker 4 (01:21:58):
And don't think like all you know it all, Like
it's okay to not know it all. You know what
I'm saying, I.

Speaker 1 (01:22:02):
Don't want to chat. If you put one in the chat,
if you agree ahead, bandit, cook that up, because that's it.
People are always trying to know it all and shit,
and that's that's really it, man.

Speaker 8 (01:22:10):
You know, I just have people to understand, like yo,
be humble out here, and like yo, I swear like
it kills me sometimes cause I see these young ins
their early twenties. They got everything. They got all this
crazy social media where they can blow up their business.
They have Instagram like all this stuff that we didn't
have when we were eighteen, nineteen twenty, and it's kind
of crazy to me that.

Speaker 4 (01:22:28):
They they don't really even appreciate it.

Speaker 8 (01:22:30):
They spend a lot of their time just just swiping,
watching videos and talking about Oh I'm gonna do this,
I'm gonna do that, and then like you know, like
I remember I was in because yeah, I want to
get into real state.

Speaker 4 (01:22:41):
I was like, oh that's cool. Yeah I do commercial
real estate.

Speaker 12 (01:22:43):
And they just were like, oh okay, Like, Bro, why
don't you ask me something?

Speaker 4 (01:22:46):
Bro? I might have a job for you.

Speaker 8 (01:22:47):
Bro, I might have an internship position, like I'm you're
looking at me like competition. Like that's the biggest mistake,
is like stop looking at people as competition and looking
at them as an as allies and have that ally
mentality not.

Speaker 4 (01:23:01):
A suppressive mentality.

Speaker 8 (01:23:03):
I don't know anybody who studies the ally, the suppressor
and the potential trouble source.

Speaker 4 (01:23:07):
It's the old Masonic code. I can.

Speaker 8 (01:23:10):
I could do a whole room on this stack another time,
but I'm a real big belief out. Yeah, we're gonna
plan that out, but that's for a future convo. But
make sure you always position yourself to find allies and
to be one yourself, and that's what's gonna bring that
positive energy to you and get you and get you
in the place that you need to be.

Speaker 4 (01:23:27):
So bless.

Speaker 1 (01:23:28):
Yeah, positive energy, positive space. Me and band are gonna
be doing some great things. I got to come back
to Hollywood. I haven't been there in a minute.

Speaker 7 (01:23:36):
I got you.

Speaker 1 (01:23:37):
Yeah, let me know, man already know, and we're gonna
do some great music. Ship because you all already know.
I could make beats. Get in the studio. I started
off on fruity loops. Bender, it's fruity loops six.

Speaker 4 (01:23:49):
Man.

Speaker 28 (01:23:49):
We don't cook bro, I want to see I want
to see some cookup. Man, It's gonna cookups. All right,
listen's let's go list go ahead, Rica saying did he
said he was that he held from Brooklyn?

Speaker 4 (01:24:03):
Yes, sir, Ski Park Slow bro flap Bush.

Speaker 7 (01:24:05):
Yes, sir, shout out the bed style. What's going on? Brother?

Speaker 4 (01:24:08):
Oh my g okay, that's what's up. Rico you from?

Speaker 1 (01:24:11):
You're from?

Speaker 4 (01:24:11):
Best?

Speaker 7 (01:24:11):
I heard from Park Slow cool man.

Speaker 4 (01:24:14):
I love it, dude.

Speaker 8 (01:24:15):
Man, that's crazy man. I'm trying to get back there
a little bit later, a couple of months.

Speaker 7 (01:24:19):
Hope you got them boys behind you too. I see
that in the PTR.

Speaker 4 (01:24:23):
Oh yeah, for sure. My genius my studio that I'm
an operator of.

Speaker 8 (01:24:26):
This is actually my new studio that I work out
of down in San Diego, where I got people's and
stuff like that. But I'm based out here in downtown
l A. I'm doing my thing in Cali now. But uh,
you know all up to New York. You you based
out there? You an artist?

Speaker 7 (01:24:40):
Yeah, I spent.

Speaker 27 (01:24:40):
I don't really do what like I used to. Man,
I'm in Florida now, man, but I still dibble and dabble.

Speaker 4 (01:24:45):
That's what's good.

Speaker 5 (01:24:45):
Man.

Speaker 4 (01:24:45):
I'm tapping with you right now.

Speaker 1 (01:24:47):
We'll lock in, yes, sir, make them connections. Lock in.
You never know, you know where somebody's at in their location.
I've always did that too, be like man at or
were you from? And then we'll just lock in when
I come to the city. So that's what it's about, man,
Mutual connections, mutual respect. If you guys are enjoying this room,
put a five moji in the chat. Mentorship madness, mentorship madness,

(01:25:09):
mensorship madness, mentorship madness. Everybody's been just chiming in, going
crazy media mentors. Right, we've been. It's Friday. If y'all
want to keep this conversation, oh man, I'm gonna keep
the room rocking. Shout out to Pierre for getting on
the stage. Phil Kareem Jose's here, HD right, D's here.
My brother Nick just pulled up right, Ebony West Fashan

(01:25:30):
rail one wife, Ya man that Jason. Everybody's in here right,
And make sure you guys are clicking this link at
the top the mental health Motivation. If you didn't listen
to the replay or you didn't listen to the podcast episode,
it's right here and you can click the link and
go right to iHeartRadio and listen to it on your
own time, and it's on our replays on our profile
as well. We'll be doing more rooms in the Circle
of Friends club, just going crazy with mental health. I

(01:25:53):
know Jason got some fire deep topics to dive in
even deeper, and I can't wait to expand that knowledge.
And I'm gonna be planning some rooms out with or
two to give you guys some more information.

Speaker 7 (01:26:03):
I think we need those.

Speaker 1 (01:26:05):
We need those ACEB, especially in the media Mentors Network.
Make sure you guys ping it up and share it up.
Is anybody that I want to take the mic right
now and talk about how to avoid dangers on socials?
Ebony over to you and then we can continue this conversation.
And I'm gonna go to my brother Pierre Ebonie.

Speaker 20 (01:26:18):
Let's go hello you guys. I haven't been in here
for a minute, so it's nice to be in here
and get my cup build up.

Speaker 8 (01:26:25):
I know I need it.

Speaker 20 (01:26:27):
For those that don't know me, I'm a commercial mortgage broker.
I help entrepreneurs get money for their business. I'm just
starting to get into the realm of things and starting
to learn my audience and who I need to be
reaching out to. And I've been a little bit bold,
just kind of reaching out to people on ig and
other things like that, and some people I have learned

(01:26:49):
our strictly by email, and I could actually ruin some
friendships by not approaching situations is the right way, like
we've been talking about. So I definitely needed to learn
the ropes and definitely here because of course we're selling money,
so life is a lot different and people are a
lot more sophisticated, which I'm not used to because when

(01:27:12):
I come in the room, you know, when I'm on
my A game, I'm coming in loud, I'm coming in happy.
I got all the energy and the love and I'm
ready to share. And I got questions as well. Some
people are like no, no, no, no, no, you like
me to email me and we need to talk through
the emails, and I'm like, it's a little hard for
me because I'm old school. I'm like going to be

(01:27:33):
forty four this year. I'm trying to talk to people,
get to know people. I want to hear their voice,
i want to hear how they sound, what are they
doing because I come across a lot of scammers and
playing in the money game, of course, there's going to
be scamming all day long. So it's been a little
bit challenging.

Speaker 1 (01:27:49):
But I have learned that.

Speaker 20 (01:27:51):
You know, I'm here to learn and I'm going to adapt,
and I'm going to learn the email system, and which
I'm learning that too. I really haven't on any emails
for like twenty years, so that'll be great for me
to learn that because we know one of my struggles
is social media, and Stack is here helping me and
gonna be helping me carry on my way, which has

(01:28:12):
been so nice. I've got to jump on a podcast,
we got to do the magazine, and I'm just gonna
continue money, I know, so I'm so excited to just
continue to grow. And one of my partners is from
the XP Mentor group so Carl's been taking me along
his wing, and I've been meeting a lot of people

(01:28:34):
that way, which has been helping me build up my business.
So him and I are talking and collaborating about things,
getting me on a stage one day, which I've never
been in. So so many great things are happening, and
I'm so thankful that I tapped in this room a
couple of years ago. And I've had all the love
and all the hate and all the noise, and I'm
just gonna keep going because this is who I am

(01:28:56):
and this is what I'm doing. I'm here to change
my story and my journey. I have almost nine grandkids
happening this year, so I got shit to do when
I got to turn up the noise, and I can't
do it without you guys. And I'm on the land there.
But oh, in DJ, I heard you talk about real estate,
so I'm definitely going to be reaching out to you
as well. Yes, I love that you said she.

Speaker 1 (01:29:20):
Has nine grandkids. Congratulations, I love.

Speaker 2 (01:29:24):
It that.

Speaker 20 (01:29:27):
Right, Yes, very blessed. My dad's side is a very
large family, and so my grandmother had twelve kids, so
we have over fifty cousins and definitely a very large family.
We're very blessed. And I'm over here doing a lot
of things that us cousins or brothers and sisters aren't doing.
And that's starting my business and starting on my journey.

(01:29:48):
And I cannot do this alone because everybody over here
is like, what are you doing? You're crazy? You don't
know what you're doing. And I don't know what I'm doing,
but I'm learning as I go, and I'm meeting so
many people along the way, so blessed, and I am
so thankful, and I just love it. I'm blessed and
so were you, guys.

Speaker 23 (01:30:06):
And I'm.

Speaker 1 (01:30:08):
You know what, you know? What it is about you
that I like about Ebanie? Is she she you seeing
her help her? Like she stepped up and tried to
help herself. So I'm gonna extend the door. You know,
have you ever seen somebody like that? Real quick? Evan,
you put put her on in the chat all y'all.
Have you ever seen somebody that you you have something
right that can help out them and you've seen them

(01:30:29):
actually take the step to help themselves. That's what Ebane does.
And that's how I feel like you should avoid dangers
on social suit is stepping up and trying to help yourself,
going to get help, going to get saying that, yo,
I don't know how to do this shit, acting like
you know, not having it all fit, not acting like, oh,
I'm gonna know it all. I know this ship well,
I know I don't need nobody's help. That's how a

(01:30:50):
lot of people feel right on their face flat first,
is because you think you know it all. You don't.
Nobody knows it all. I don't even know it all.
I'm still learning to this day, student of the game
right now. So I got to learn. I got to
continue to learn. I got to continue to build. And
a lot of people always act like that, but I mean,
you know when you when you crossed, I never got

(01:31:10):
that from you. You've always extended and seen how you
can help yourself. That's why I'm going to extend. And
that's what you guys who work on extending right, extend correct.

Speaker 20 (01:31:20):
And that's why I keep coming back because I know
that I'm not going to get to where I want
to go without it. So that's why I come here
and I am so thankful and you are exactly right,
and we all know, like the domestic violence was getting
to me for a very long time. And I just
went through this cycle of going back to the job
where all this bullshit started four years ago and ended

(01:31:42):
up in some more bullshit situations that I've ever foreseen.
Coming that almost took a toll again. But the greatest
thing is that I've met so many people at flip
Bought my business where I was sitting in sagnet because
I was too busy over here working with these caddies.
Now I had to completely get here, sit down. Both
my cars are broke down right now, by the way,

(01:32:02):
So then I'm like, okay, now I really get to
dive in. So yes, we're gonna keep going. And that's
all I really can do. And slowly but surely, like
things are starting to fall into play. Finally, you guys,
five years later, So don't give up.

Speaker 1 (01:32:18):
And you know, it doesn't matter how long you say.
Just stay consistent, stay on the journey, stay active, stay positive,
stay motivational, just stay showing up. Man. That's one thing
I love about this journey because you could just show up.
It don't matter who don't show up for you. As
long as you show up. That's a good thing. That's

(01:32:39):
what you got to know about this journey, Jason, tell
me if I'm not man, As long as you know
that there's something for you on this journey, you're not
gonna worry about nothing or how's this going to happen
or how's it going to work out? You already know
that there's something here, right, even if even if you
can't physically see the shit yet, Even if you can't,
you know that there's something there. That's why I'm always
reaching new heights and getting there bringing people with me

(01:33:00):
because I know what I am, I know who I am,
I know how powerful I am. The confidence you got
to have confidence man, right, avoiding dangers on socials, media, media,
mentorship madness. Click the link at the top if you
guys haven't be a part of the network so that
way we can extend with you.

Speaker 4 (01:33:16):
Guys.

Speaker 1 (01:33:17):
Ebany, thank you for that share. I want to continue
to conversation. Sure that what.

Speaker 18 (01:33:24):
She started before she's ready. Don't ever wait until you
think that you're ready, because you will never be ready
in your own perspective. You have to start before you
get ready, and you keep going learning along the way
because that you know everything is that doesn't happen, you

(01:33:46):
will be always learning every day, something new, because literally
there is something new every day happening.

Speaker 20 (01:33:53):
So you will make it, girl.

Speaker 12 (01:33:54):
I am so.

Speaker 18 (01:33:55):
I'm so proud of you because I know you since XPM,
and I know you will make it because you start
before you're reading. You know you're ready or not. You
are doing the work.

Speaker 4 (01:34:08):
Thank you for.

Speaker 1 (01:34:10):
Listen, y'all. Y'all just joining were going crazy right now,
picking the room up, share the room up, we end
up building. HD got back on the stage, Doctor Steve Jose.
Pierre was coming in before you know that. So I
want to get to Pierre and then I want to
continue this conversation. Pierre. Are you buy your mic right now?
Brother Pierre, Yes, I am. I check on Donovan. Over

(01:34:31):
to you, brother. How are you feeling about this conversation?

Speaker 4 (01:34:32):
So far?

Speaker 1 (01:34:33):
So far cool? Can hear me? Okay? I can hear
you loud and clip? Yeah? Over to you man, Okay,
all right, hey, everybody. My name is Pierre.

Speaker 24 (01:34:42):
I do analytics for small medium sized businesses. Love the
chat in this room. I kind of wanted to leave
a couple of things and we'll give it from my
perspective as an entrepreneur and I've been on line since
two thousand and nine, and one of the challenges I
to the topic of the room about mentorship is that

(01:35:03):
particularly it's online, it's hard to read people entirely. Things
like clubhouse and Twitter, spaces and LinkedIn the audio has
helped out tremendously, but at the same time, we can't
always see each other or can't always see what the
other person is doing or knowing what they may be
doing on other platforms, so it creates a little bit
of stress. The things I think that will help out

(01:35:25):
quite a bit to avoid some madness with mentorship. I'll
share a couple of nuggets. I hope this is helpful.
Keep in mind that when you talk to people that
they use tech differently, uh sometimes that you know they're
one person might be on a laptop, another person might
be on a tablet, another person might be on a
on a phone. But each person may be using the

(01:35:46):
technology slightly differently, so they may that might impact how
they communicate or what they choose to share. So it's
it's it's sometimes when you're working with people, it's hard
to kind of know you know, how they what they know,
just and sometimes how they convey it can be based
off in the technology they have, you know, just you know,
take your time with people, look for consistency in terms

(01:36:07):
of how they show up, just to borrow what stack
it said earlier. You know, a lot of times showing
up is very important, but you have to define what
that show up is, and that's gonna get defined by
the tech you use and pretty much, you know, what
is it that you want to do on any sort
of social media platform. It doesn't always have to be entrepreneurship.

(01:36:29):
People sometimes are on here for a lot of different reasons,
and we saw during COVID sometimes it's just connection. So
you be genuine as they possibly can. You know, if
it's a mistake, be right about any mistakes or or
arguments that you have with people. This is not the
thing that kills me about Clubhouse a little bit. Sometimes
I hear people argue, and the first thing I'm wondering

(01:36:51):
is like, why are you arguing with somebody that's not
in the room with you. It's a lot of arguments
that just are not worth it. They might even be
about boundary. It just might be misunderstanding just as much
as it is just not quite you know, getting the
point or maybe getting a point across poorly but it's not.

Speaker 1 (01:37:08):
Sometimes it's just not worth a fight or argument. So
pick your fights and arguments with lock air.

Speaker 4 (01:37:14):
And something.

Speaker 24 (01:37:14):
You know, assume that you may see people in person.
There's a lot of times I talked to folks I
can tell you off the bat. I was in Houston
this week and I saw two people who i've for
the last three or four years. My interactions were totally
based on a combination of clubhouse and Twitter. So you know,
if it's professional, you will probably run into those people

(01:37:36):
at least once. So be cool, be a professional as
you can. And I would also say, as far as
like mentorship and everything else, keep in mind that people
can mentor for a season and not mentor forever, so
you have to kind of define what it is.

Speaker 1 (01:37:51):
Hold bring that back, hold on you ain't slick, bring
that back a little bit about the season and all
that cause put it one in the if you guys
agree as well, picking the room, keep cooking that ship up,
because I want to have a conversation about that, that
seasonal mentorship ship, that seasonal Yeah, let's talk about it.
Let's go.

Speaker 24 (01:38:11):
I'll say, yeah, it's you know, the mentorship. You know,
we always people say they want to look for a mentor,
and there's nothing wrong with that, but they're not necessarily
there forever, and you may not need that type of
help forever. That's okay, but it's important to get that
defined out because otherwise, or at least maybe not to
find out at the beginning, at least some sort of

(01:38:32):
check in with each other and saying, hey, is this
still you know? Is this relationship so serving each other
the way it should be. Doing that helps you to
kind of keep yourself from getting into arguments with folks
about you know, unchecked expectations or unspoken expectations, and it
kind of keep lets you think through, you know, what

(01:38:53):
is it that the relationship is supposed to be about,
how you're on the same page. I had somebody that
did a I'll share this real quickly for laying go
to mic. I had somebody this morning wanting to talk
to me about AI and I don't mind that somebody
that he was trying to do that, but it was
like a series of questions. It felt like an interview,
and it was a referral from somebody that really didn't

(01:39:15):
define what the purpose was and they weren't answering my questions.

Speaker 1 (01:39:19):
Up front.

Speaker 24 (01:39:20):
So I would say for media, you need to kind
of have a very definitive thing. It could be something
as simple as, hey, I need help with understanding how
to do a prompt or I need help with understanding
if AI is a fit for my small business, why
do content marketing? But it needs to be something specific.

(01:39:42):
If it's not, I'm not saying that people are trying
to be bad or eva on here. It's just it
just means that maybe a match that doesn't work out
for you, And I think that's the same thing that
should be help for mentorship as well too. So I
hope all this helps, and I'll let all the mic
stack to let somebody join in listen.

Speaker 1 (01:39:58):
I appreciate you ped a great, great, great conversation. If
you guys are enjoying the conversation, ping the room out,
share it out, bring some more people in here that
want to talk about this conversation. If you haven't clicked
the link at the top, get a free fift team
in the call with me. We'll level up on all
social media platforms, it doesn't matter which one you're on.

(01:40:18):
You want to come on the podcast show, let's go.
I need more guests too, right, we're gonna go crazy, Bander,
what's up before I do another reset, man, because I.

Speaker 8 (01:40:27):
Just wanted to say I'm gonna need to step out
for a one meeting, but I want to say I
appreciate the space all of you. Stack is always for
just killing the game, always having the best rooms, best platform,
and uh, I definitely think that everyone.

Speaker 4 (01:40:39):
You know, I'm going to talk with Stack after this.
We definitely need to have.

Speaker 8 (01:40:42):
A follow up, my g not just about Internet security,
but about a whole range of topics. So stay tuned
for that, because I'm definitely looking forward to putting some big,
big conversations together with you, my guy.

Speaker 1 (01:40:54):
No, of course, it's always going to be great conversation
when we get together, So make sure you hit me Bander,
you got my number, Tech got you, I know, and
put something together.

Speaker 14 (01:41:01):
Yeah yeah, let's tap the top of the week, bro,
text you shooting.

Speaker 1 (01:41:04):
All righting this room up, man, banduring here, we don't
get this is Friday. We're gonna keep this ship. I
don't know what's going on, but I'm gonna keep this
ship open. I'm keeping it open, y'all know what it is.
I'm not I'm not you know what I'm saying, I'm
keeping this ship all the way open, all the way
open for a while. You know what I'm saying. Let's
continue this ship, yo, appreciate you man.

Speaker 5 (01:41:24):
Let's go to what's up? Bulove, what's up?

Speaker 29 (01:41:38):
Abou turning positif defensits and number fine if you're about
think about I'd call you if I did that, it's
nothing then nothing did because I in my long way
from calling you.

Speaker 5 (01:41:55):
Living up God, just between you.

Speaker 29 (01:42:00):
Girls, just shine and just like my friends, if you
welcome to this side, bring your bus up in your
business the number mind.

Speaker 5 (01:42:07):
I beg you up to call you did because I
get my norma, my mother leave and the vibe. It's
between me and you the big dog call that do.

Speaker 17 (01:42:18):
Party my dors.

Speaker 5 (01:42:19):
Just shine and just like my friends if they woke
up to the side to what's up, boughs you are.

Speaker 23 (01:42:38):
Bows hey, Let's pring this ship up.

Speaker 1 (01:42:50):
I want to dive into some more ship too, you know,
and some more people I want to talk to on
the stage too about mentorship madness and how to avoid this,
how they stay away from the dangers.

Speaker 4 (01:43:02):
Right.

Speaker 1 (01:43:03):
We we covered a lot of ship. Y'all went like
absolutely insane y'all covered a lot of things about, you know,
staying away from the socials. I was talking earlier about
that environment too, Remember just watching who you you know,
surround yourself with, being careful of the things you say. Now,
I was talking about that. That ship was good too,

(01:43:23):
about watching what you say on there. It's like, damn,
you don't want to get canceled, right, you don't want
to right, you don't want to do that. Nah, I'm good.
So I want to check on my brother Donovan to
see if he's by his mic. It's been a while
since I chopped it up with him, but I want
to see if he's by his mic right now. Donovan,
are you here with me?

Speaker 4 (01:43:40):
Brother?

Speaker 1 (01:43:40):
My god, my god, you man, I know you've been
busy as hell, but we got to catch up. You
already know, call me after the room or something. But Donovan, you.

Speaker 26 (01:43:49):
Don't even fuck you don't even know, my friend. It's
been great, man, Like I literally was just in a
space with my man Nick. We we came over here,
like you know, legit, came over here to support all
y'all can't do for me. Appreciate y'all gain.

Speaker 1 (01:44:06):
Yeah, man, you know always bro, you know he's got
to show love.

Speaker 19 (01:44:08):
Man.

Speaker 26 (01:44:09):
So yeah, Man, I'm actually head I'm packing up my
stuff in my room in my office right now.

Speaker 1 (01:44:14):
They head up to d C.

Speaker 26 (01:44:16):
I'm about to go meet up with with Nelson Man
Nelson from chatter Bro. We're actually I'm gonna be in
the town hall. He's about to do a town hall
or on Chatterer. So I'm about to be over there.
This is actually my first time meeting him. I'm Mick.
Jonathan is coming down, you know. So it's funny you
talk about mentors and the things that have been happening, Bro.
I think I think that the best mentor is is

(01:44:37):
really your your self help, you know what I mean,
Like you got to go on that journey to identify
find you, man. And that's not saying that you don't
need help, right because I feel as though, you know,
I'm in a lot of I'm in a lot of
different spaces. You know, I'm a real estate agent, I'm
a I'm a I'm a I'm a realtor. I'm a
I'm an investor. Right, I do commercial lending, I do,
I do insurance. I mean, you know, I got my

(01:44:59):
notary business. I have, I have I mean, I had
a lot of stuff going on. I'm getting into podcasting
as well as as public speaking, right, so I have
I have a coach for all those things, man, because
you got to remember that even though I am sharpening
all these tools, it's like I can't rely on one
person to be all those things, all those things for me.

Speaker 1 (01:45:19):
So I have to show up literally as a student
to all these things.

Speaker 26 (01:45:22):
And people forget that you have to follow before you lead,
right because sometimes you have to be in that position
of watching someone and having them show you, walk you
through the things and the steps before you can actually
say that you are a leader.

Speaker 1 (01:45:36):
Hold up, hold up, hold up, bring that back because
you said something that's really important. You gotta say what
before you lead? You gotta gotta follow that day, let's
get you gotta follow before you lead.

Speaker 26 (01:45:45):
Man, The issues that we have within within all within
life right now, if you look at all these these kids, man,
they think they they their first job, they meet their manager.

Speaker 1 (01:45:54):
It was like, oh, yeah, I can do that job.

Speaker 26 (01:45:56):
Yeah you you really can't because you only seen it
from a surface level, you know what I'm saying, Like
you're only you're only seeing what they're with.

Speaker 1 (01:46:02):
How they're managing you.

Speaker 26 (01:46:03):
You don't see all the other things that are going
on and intricate details and the and the after hour,
you know, number crunching and and and the and the
schedules and all the extra stuff that they don't they
don't pay attention to, right because they think they you know,
this is this is the microwave era I like to call.

Speaker 1 (01:46:18):
But you know, you have to lead, you have to
follow before you can actually leave.

Speaker 26 (01:46:22):
And you know, I think that's one of the things
that I've been very passionate in doing, is like I
want to be a better leader, but I gotta be
be I gotta be a damn good follower first, because
I have to watch how other people are doing it
and watch how either they're doing it right or they're
doing it wrong right, because that's how you learn. You
learn from other people. Let those people make the mistakes
and you watch them and follow them. But then you
go off. You gotta make You're gonna make your own

(01:46:43):
mistakes because everything because you're not for everybody, and that's okay.
You got to find your tribe. You got to find
the people that resonate with you, and the ones that
resonate and the people that resonate with you. You gotta
find which ones you like, and they gotta find which
one if you're somebody that they like, and it's okay
if if you're not, and that's that's perfect. That's perfect.
It doesn't mean anything about you, doesn't mean thing about them.
It's just says, you know what you y'all don't resonate together.

(01:47:04):
That's okay, you know, because at the end of the day,
we are all human beings. Regardless of where you're from,
what color you gotta, what you look like on the outside,
that means the color, that means, you know, the religion,
whatever it may be. We're at the end of the
at the root, we are still all human beings. And
I'm I'm gonna land it there.

Speaker 1 (01:47:22):
Bro we my brother telling you, Donovan, you know it's
about the support.

Speaker 10 (01:47:28):
Man.

Speaker 1 (01:47:29):
I wish you nothing but success. Man, go over there
and crush it. You know what I'm saying. I appreciate
you man. Always showing love too, our brother Donovan, ever
since I came across this brother right here, Always show love.
You gotta show love to get love. Man, let's talk
about it, show love to get love. Appreciate you, right

(01:47:50):
we're in the mentorship madness talking about how to avoid
dangers on socials right him? And Brother Nick came right
over here from Chatter, So I want to check on
Brother Nick and see if he's by by his mic.
You know what I'm saying about how to avoid this
mentorship madness and that motivated flavored nigga? You buy your
mic right now?

Speaker 5 (01:48:08):
Brother?

Speaker 1 (01:48:08):
Are you here? What's going on? Family?

Speaker 29 (01:48:11):
How we do and how we doing?

Speaker 22 (01:48:12):
I'm alive and I'm breathing this Friday. I hope y'all
smile today. It's another day above the soil. You know
what's going down?

Speaker 1 (01:48:18):
Listen.

Speaker 22 (01:48:18):
I just had a room over on Chatter and it
was actually our mental health and it was actually talked about.
It's funny that Donovan was saying that we were talking about.

Speaker 1 (01:48:28):
Knowing your worth.

Speaker 22 (01:48:29):
And the reason why I came up with that specific
topic was many different reasons, one being that a lot
of times we kind of wandered through life not knowing
our worth, whether it's on social media, whether it's in
personal relationships, whether it's in conversations, whether it's just in
generally generally speaking, there's multiple times in life where we

(01:48:50):
shrink ourselves to fitting environments and shrink our social media
pages to fit in with people who are temporarily not
supposed to be in our life. And there have been
a multitude of different occasions where I have shrinked myself
to fit in and follow people who I know didn't
resonate with me, didn't speak to my heart, didn't speak.

Speaker 1 (01:49:11):
You don't one in the chat. If y'all agree, go
ahead and Nick keep cooking that. Have y'all did that before?

Speaker 22 (01:49:15):
Let's talk about it, Nick, like, they didn't speak to
my heart, they didn't speak to my soul. They didn't
help me become a better man, a better individual, teach
me something, or give me a new perspective on living.
And there were multiple times, and this is something I
had to learn the hard way. Is that you know,
people know your worth. People see how valuable you are.

(01:49:36):
They just hope you don't keep digging and find the diamond.
I'm gonna say that again. People know your value. They
just hope you don't keep digging and find the diamond.
The only reason why I say that is because I
knew I was a diamond in the rough. And I
say that humbly and confidently. I never come from from
a boastful standpoint. But you gotta believe that you're a diamond.
You gotta believe that you're a diamond in the rough,

(01:49:57):
and that you just got to keep digging. Like I
see these memes all the time with that one person
is close to digging for a diamond, and then that
one person they see you get a diamond, and then
they go over to the other hole that person was
digging at and they say, oh, well, the diamond's probably
is bound to be there, but not realizing that the
diamond was where they were digging all along. Meaning that
if you know something is there, you just got to

(01:50:18):
believe that it's there. You don't need anybody else to
tell you that it's there.

Speaker 1 (01:50:21):
Or to expand on that nick believing, the belief of
believing is there. Bro I like the fact you said
that that hit me. Let's go.

Speaker 22 (01:50:29):
You gotta believe that the believing is there, because if
you don't believe it at first, no one else is
going to see it. And again, Stag, there's been a
multitude of times where especially on social media, and I'll
be very truthful, I am not afraid to say this,
and whoever get.

Speaker 1 (01:50:44):
Hurt by it and it's just what it is.

Speaker 22 (01:50:46):
I mean this in a humble way. I don't follow
a lot of people back. I truthfully don't like It's
not because I don't like it.

Speaker 1 (01:50:54):
Let's break it down, Nick, while you say that, let's
go Nick, you don't follow a lot of people you
like me?

Speaker 5 (01:50:59):
Nick?

Speaker 1 (01:51:00):
No, no, no, bro listen.

Speaker 22 (01:51:01):
And the only reason why, as I've gotten older, I
don't follow a lot of people back. And again, if
you just tell me, hey, like you know you didn't
I followed you like a cool If I know you,
I know you, I'm gonna rock with you. But I
don't follow a lot of people back or even follow
a lot of people because I'm very skeptical and I
protect my energy. And if I feel the energy is
very shaky, if I feel like you're going to be

(01:51:23):
temporary in my life, I know that you're not for me.
I don't want to be around shaky. If the energy
that comes and goes as they please, I thinks they
can be fifty to fifty in my life. That doesn't
engage in my content, only wants to be a part
of my life because of what I can give them.
They fall in love with my hand and not my heart.
I'm sorry, but you gotta go, sister bro to me,

(01:51:44):
it's just not for me, truthfully, respectfully, I want you
to win. I want you to do well. I want
to see you thrive. But like I said, like Sack,
sometimes the stars just don't align with people.

Speaker 1 (01:51:56):
It's just what it is.

Speaker 22 (01:51:57):
Like you can't I've always been a firm believer. Can't
force a conversation, you can't force a friendship. You can't
force somebody to follow you, like Stack when we came
to Season one, man, but what's the one thing people
were doing on Clubhouse? Begging for follows, begging for likes,
begging to be seen, Like it happens all the time.

Speaker 1 (01:52:16):
Like you got to just be authentic.

Speaker 22 (01:52:17):
You gotta be yourself like people will naturally gravitate to you,
Like you don't have to fake a funk or put
on a front to be someone you're not. Just be authentic,
like Donovan was saying, like, just be around good people.
Be around people that feed your soul, that challenge you
to be better, teach you something that you didn't know,
and just help you become a better overall person. Because

(01:52:37):
let's be rare, Like there's a lot of people faking
the funk for social media and trying to be something
that they're not, and in reality speaking, Tom tells all
like Tom tells on people, even when you think it
doesn't like it's it's just the fact of the matter.
And that's why I protect my energy, I protect my space,
I protect my love and the the you know, the
time I give to people, because some.

Speaker 1 (01:52:59):
People don't deserve that.

Speaker 22 (01:53:00):
They really don't deserve all of who you are. And
social media is a big component where like you see
so many people having this lavish lifestyle and they got
all these things going on. And of course, of course
you want to clap for others. Don't get me wrong,
you always want to support people. But if people are
envious of the steps you're taking and the momentum and
the traction that you're gaining, those aren't your people. Listen,

(01:53:23):
those are just your fake fans. They're you're fake fans.
They think that, you know, they some reason they think
they want to see you do well, and that's just
not the truth. Like, I haven't seen too many people
be shaky for too long, and that's why I'm protective
of who I talk to, who I surround myself, with
and again it's nothing personal stacked.

Speaker 1 (01:53:40):
Truth be told.

Speaker 22 (01:53:41):
I really want to see everybody winning. I mean that
from the bottom of my heart. But if you're not
for me, you're not for me. And that's okay. Everybody
is not for you. You can't have a business deal
with everybody. You can't make a business transaction with everybody.
You can't talk business with everybody. You can't talk love
or support or friendship or confidence. Certain days you can't
talk to people about and that's okay. You got to

(01:54:04):
normalize that some people are not for you.

Speaker 1 (01:54:06):
That's just what it is like. Not everybody's your friend.

Speaker 4 (01:54:10):
Now.

Speaker 22 (01:54:10):
Everybody cares about you. Now, everybody wants to see you
do good, especially not better than them. Let's be real,
and there's not much I can add to that, bro,
It's just you just have to take things for face value.

Speaker 1 (01:54:21):
Man. Truth be told.

Speaker 22 (01:54:22):
So, uh, you know, a great conversation, brother. I'm just
saying to add my two cents. And like I said, Bro,
we came over from chatter to support your space man,
because you always holding it down. Brother, support his love
and real real recognize real, Hey brother, you were.

Speaker 1 (01:54:36):
Yoh hold on you pall it to my brother, nick
Man real quick because I like to do that because
he does that to me in his space too. Before
somebody jumps in, he pours into them and likes to
dive in inage. So if you guys are not a
part of the OTM space and what he's doing with
the mental health, go following. But Yo, Nick, it's always support, bro.

(01:54:56):
I say support is free. If y'all could go support
y'all people like a picture, photo, comment, share their content do.
It's gonna mean everything for them. They see the internal
It's about internal support, Nick, I feel you that why
you don't follow people back, Bro, it's the internal I'm
focusing on the internal support. Put a one in the
chat of y'all agree real quick, and then who else

(01:55:16):
is coming in? Y'all could come in, but I'm gonna
need y'all to pick the room up to and share
the room up. You know what I'm saying. But it's
the internal support. I want to see who's the core.
That's why I eliminate a lot of different people out
of you know what I'm doing because it's about the core.
What it's really going on? Not adding no value, You're
not doing nothing right. You got to focus on the core.

(01:55:39):
And I feel where Nick was coming from. Not anything personal,
not anything you know, against any anybody, but you really
got to focus on the core people that are really
you know, like your target that's really focused on you, right,
You focus on who focused on you, Nick, That's what
I got from that, bro. You know what I'm saying, Like,
I'm focused on who focuses on me and the ones
that want to give me energy. I'm gonna give that.

(01:56:00):
So who was coming in right after Nick? Who was
that that came right off the mic that I wanted
to come in that tie over to you, and I'm
gonna do a quick reset. We're gonna continue. We'll probably
keep it open till like four fifteen or four twenty,
good afternoon or morning. It was afternoon here. Just copped in.
Heard what Nick was saying. He's one hundred percent accurate.

Speaker 30 (01:56:18):
Rather, do not, I would suggest, don't ever make yourself
small for any other human being ever, and find your
tribe and circle and support those who support you. And
as you go through life on how old you are
in my fifties, you will find that you'll have a
small circle of individuals who actually support where you're going

(01:56:42):
and leverage, and by leveraging their network, they will be
able to open up opportunities or introduce you to opportunities
that that will be afforded under you. A quick example,
I did a deal last week. We sent out a

(01:57:02):
deck to an investment group of family office in Manhattan
and they returned us back with five other groups of
individual circles of money and wanted we call them up.

Speaker 1 (01:57:15):
It was like we were referred by such and such
and such.

Speaker 30 (01:57:17):
Oh good, we would be interested in hearing what you
want and what you have to offer. We're interested in
that deal. Come only focus on those who want to
support and see you in I Land. So I was
going to go get the link for this date right here.

(01:57:39):
My bad, but I feel everything you were saying.

Speaker 1 (01:57:42):
Brother. I appreciate that those words who's coming in next?
And make sure you guys are RSVP for this one?
Mental health, motivation, unstoppable mindset. Anybody you know that wants
to talk about motivation. You know everything we're doing over
at the Circle of Friends, I would love for you
guys to be there, So RSVP for that, and then
who's coming in next?

Speaker 31 (01:58:03):
HD when it's doing well. I really appreciate the room stack.
You know, one thing I like about you and I
respect about you is that you know, you authentic in
reference to like with what you're doing, and you keep
a good group, a good crowd around that's like minded.
And to be to like a lot of times to

(01:58:24):
like really avoid you know, the dangers and social media,
you have to be around people who's like like minded.
You know, sometimes a lot of times mental health can
hit you like a bear trap. You know, you could
walk into a room and then bam. You know, you
could like easily get hit and not even be aware.

(01:58:45):
So you know, just being around in an environment where
people's like like minded, respect your differences and understand, like
you know, a lot of times I'll be going into
like a lot of rooms sometimes I'd be like, you know,
cracking the jokes and stuff like that, you know, the
sense of humor of the sex dolls and stuff like that.
Some people like it, some people don't. But you know,

(01:59:05):
the people who understand the difference, Like when you try
to be left field, you know, you have to be
around those type of people, people who breathe life into
you instead of like you know, sucking the energy away.
You know, mental health is real serious.

Speaker 12 (01:59:22):
I take.

Speaker 31 (01:59:23):
You know, I do it on a personal and a
professional basis along with you know, dealing in entertainment. And
you know, sometimes people have like real frail egos, you know,
you come. You know, sometimes if you say something that
people may not like or understand, they'll quick to like,
you know, outcast you and everything. And you know, sometimes

(01:59:44):
you know, when you in certain places and environments, you
know it's okay not to be seen or you know,
to like, you know, take a backstep and everything, because
silence can be powerful, you understand, and you know, just
like Kendrick lamar I said, you know, sometimes they got
to pop up and show him, you know, but a
lot of times you just have to be quiet. You know,

(02:00:06):
sometimes it's good to like, you know, be quiet so
that you could see who's around you take time to like,
you know, really observe certain things. It's almost like an
undercover Boss TV show. You know, if you're a boss,
you know, you don't have to always, you know, go
up and show. Sometimes you have to be undercover, put
your ego to the side, see how people you know
will treat you. And just like my man was saying

(02:00:29):
before about a diamond, you know, sometimes you may have
to walk around the world and be that dusty diamond
and people just be like laughing at you. Oh that's you, dusty.
Oh you're a dusty ass person. But you know, but
when you get polished, then you see how people really

(02:00:49):
are and everything. Now people be like, oh, you look
good and everything, but you didn't like me when I
was dusty and everything. You know, it's almost like the
movie Coming to America. Sometimes you just have to like,
you know, you know, not always come out and be
like I'm Prince Hockey. You know, you have to come
out and you know, be a poor person, you know,
portray to be something else to see how people true

(02:01:10):
genuine spirit is. But you know, mental health is real
serious and it's definitely important to like really get therapy
and also be around the right people because some people,
like I said before, some people could either breathe life
into you or people could drain and suck the energy.
You know, you want people who make you want to
live your life, not make you want to commit suicide.

(02:01:33):
So thank you for the room, best wishes for everyone,
and listen, continue to like, you know, reach your goals
and dreams and may not come at that moment, but
you know with consistency, you know, the richest. You got
to be aware of the richest within yourself. It's not
always a financial riches, you understand, So be aware of

(02:01:53):
the richest and gems and within yourself and have a
peace of mind and your spirit. I'll just land right there.

Speaker 1 (02:02:00):
I I appreciate you HD for real coming through dropping that.
If you guys are just joining, we've been talking about
the mentor ship madness, how to avoid dangers on social
ping the room up, share the room up. I'm gonna
have Jason talk about you know, what's going down on
the twenty ninth mental health, motivation, unstoppable mindset over in
the Circle of Friends club collapped up with the Media
Mentors Network. We're gonna be just going crazy, you know,

(02:02:22):
back and forth right, I'm gonna do a quick reset
and then we're coming right back in. Y'all already know
I'm not done. It's friday' I know what it does.
Let's keep going up. Ping the room up. What y'all doing?

Speaker 5 (02:03:00):
Uh Tonami forever.

Speaker 21 (02:03:04):
Baby later Mandal and Jelina whom Angeli and Jelina, oh
me all do how many time I'll ask you for
the club and the television Your Body show. You don't know, sir,
to call particularies our body. You know a fellow vibe,
fellow vibe, a baby by the baby, and I know

(02:03:27):
you shine by its school when we're making.

Speaker 5 (02:03:29):
Love on the loo.

Speaker 3 (02:03:33):
On the loon.

Speaker 5 (02:03:36):
On the loo, only loon on ony loon on onl and.

Speaker 21 (02:03:49):
Jelina the good Madam peatre. If you call, look up
and deliver and looking for your hand never to me
forever h.

Speaker 1 (02:04:08):
And you guys have been going all the way in,
but I want you also right to get ready for
mental health motivation, unstoppable mindset. It's going down next Thursday.
So Jason, are you buying your mic right now?

Speaker 5 (02:04:24):
Are you with me?

Speaker 1 (02:04:25):
Brother? How's everything going down there? Talk to me brother?
What's going down on the twenty knife? Yeah?

Speaker 14 (02:04:32):
So brother, on the twenty nine, we're having a mindset madness.
And what we're gonna be talking about is unstoppable mindset.

Speaker 32 (02:04:43):
So we're gonna be giving everybody some tips on what
they can do to improve their mental health and mindset.
We're gonna be doing this though every Thursday at twelve
pm Eastern, We're.

Speaker 5 (02:04:56):
Gonna have our.

Speaker 14 (02:04:59):
Chief mental health Officer from.

Speaker 1 (02:05:10):
Yo Jason, you went out?

Speaker 5 (02:05:11):
Bro?

Speaker 13 (02:05:12):
Is it just me?

Speaker 1 (02:05:13):
Or is it service went out?

Speaker 4 (02:05:15):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (02:05:15):
I think his service went out, y'all. Can y'all hear me?

Speaker 2 (02:05:17):
Or is he?

Speaker 1 (02:05:18):
Is he still here? Jason? I think your service went out?

Speaker 2 (02:05:21):
Brother, Yeah, I.

Speaker 1 (02:05:23):
Can hear you. Now go ahead over to you. Yeah.

Speaker 32 (02:05:27):
So we're gonna have Sarah Running joining us on Thursday's.
She's a mental health therapist. She's gonna be giving us
a lot of tips and tools as well. So we're
looking forward to it. I hope everybody that's impested in
mental health can join us.

Speaker 12 (02:05:45):
Now.

Speaker 1 (02:05:46):
We appreciate you. It's gonna be crazy rs VP for this.
It's already on the schedule. We already got you know,
some rsv rs vps for it, So make sure you
get up here, click the link, save it, share it
to somebody. But if you guys are just now joining,
we've been talking about, you know, how to avoid the dangers.
You know, early I was saying, mind your business, respect,

(02:06:06):
aligning yourself with those that are aligned with you, being
in the right space is going you know what I mean,
at the right time, opportunities right. You know what's crazy too.
A lot of people can fumble opportunities by not avoiding,
you know, dangers or doing certain things on socials that
everyone else is doing. When I'm talking about socials, I'm
talking about social media. I know Steve was in here earlier.

(02:06:27):
He was kind of confused. Thank you for that, Donovan
for correcting him earlier too. Yeah, we're talking about social media,
how to avoid dangers on social media. So when I
said socials, I meant social media. So I want you
guys to continue.

Speaker 21 (02:06:40):
Thank you, right, go.

Speaker 1 (02:06:41):
Ahead, So Steve, you want to come in. You understand
where I'm coming from. Now, Brother, you want the mic
or do you?

Speaker 5 (02:06:46):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (02:06:47):
I do.

Speaker 3 (02:06:49):
I think the problems with social media can be that you.

Speaker 5 (02:07:00):
Hm can.

Speaker 3 (02:07:05):
From your truthful and then you go up in in
your in your actor self or your ego, and that
can be a problem on social media. To be authentic,
to be yourself, because to be yourself is also to show.

Speaker 4 (02:07:19):
You to think.

Speaker 1 (02:07:21):
I couldn't hate I sound like you was in the matrix.
I wish that you guys had better connection because I
couldn't hear Jason and I couldn't hear Steve at the
connection was going in and out both of you guys.
I wanted to hear what you both had to say,
but I could not hear it because of the connection.

Speaker 3 (02:07:40):
So I was saying that danger in with social media
could be that you go up in that ego self
of yours and in your actor self, and that that
you lose contact with your authentic self with your emotions.
That there is no room or there's no room for.

Speaker 20 (02:08:02):
That in.

Speaker 3 (02:08:05):
The current way of socializing on the internet. So that
should be room for the dark side also without being
pulled down into the darkness of existence, but that should
be open us for the dark side also.

Speaker 1 (02:08:23):
I appreciate that, Steve, thank you for coming in for that. Right,
we've been all we've been going all the way in.
There's anybody else that want to chime into the conversation
before we wind down? I know, I got my brother
for Sean here, Wes Bath just joined. Jose's here, right,
and many let's continue this conversation, Chris, like whoever else
wants to chime in, we can definitely continue this. But

(02:08:43):
for Sean, over to you brother, how you been feeling
about the whole thing and what we've been talking about
so far?

Speaker 33 (02:08:47):
The peace to the guys man, shout out to stack
man for me. It's wrong being so consistent on the
space that's kind of been very violent for the last
year outut for the brothers. Staying consistent, standing on business,
and creating positive spaces for us to get out, you know,
ideas that can propel us forward into the future. As

(02:09:10):
far as this topic goes mentorship, man, that's how to
avoid dangers on socials. First thing first, just like an IRL,
being true to yourself. That means being a good, wholehearted person,
especially as a man, standing on manhood, standing on your principles,

(02:09:32):
morals and ethics. Right, You're required to be a man
wherever you are the end of that. Don't change that.
Standing with integrity and holding your demeanor, demeanor being having
the quorn respect, letting that be your representative, letting that

(02:09:56):
be a part of your reputation. So people build up
identity a character. Your true self is the character that
they connect to, that that they will stand in defensive
you when someone tries to assassinate your character because your
character has been so consistent, minding the space that you

(02:10:17):
engage with, like being around certain people, not associating yourself
with certain type of activity and energy. Right, making sure
that the group of people that you're associated with is
a good match for your frequency. Staying away from certain
people or certain talking points completely in general, and staying

(02:10:40):
out of mess not getting out of cars that ain't yours,
not trying to be messy, being extremely positive, forward thinking, inviting, welcoming,
collaborative right when you, when you, when you're doing good things,
even if somebody try to come assass your assassinate your character.

(02:11:01):
Who you've been will defend you because other people will
stand up for you. How to stay safe using discernment,
knowing who to engage with, what to put out. See
if you're a good person, I ain't talking about just sweet.
A good person that means you make good decisions, very
little bad things are going to come towards you and

(02:11:23):
be successful. Because you're burning light. Everything is gravitating towards you.
But only light can be next to light, only a
fire fire. Everything else get burned up, right, So when
you when you burning, when you lit for real, only
another lit person can come close to you. Every everybody

(02:11:44):
else gonna be repelled. They'll they're watching observation, all right,
So how do you protect yourself and stay and stay
safe on socials? Be be be, be unabridged, be unapologetically lit.

Speaker 1 (02:12:06):
I appreciate you for Sean. We're gonna be having some
more spaces together. Man, we gotta do the arted dating too,
And then we're also gonna do something over in mentality
when we go over there and do some you know,
focusing on the manhood and developing and going crazy. So
I like what we're doing over there. I like the collaboration, right,
wifey Amanda came back, Thank you very much. This is
fire right. We're having a good conversation. I can't wait

(02:12:30):
to dive in with you, all right. I think I'm
gonna wrap it up. So I got my sister Beth
here too. Beth, you want to get in here before
I wrap it up, or Wes or anybody else. We
could definitely, you know, have a conversation for like five
minutes long. I need like one more share. If not,
I'm gonna be wrapping it up. It's over for the day, right, yeah,
stack Now, I just love that share.

Speaker 34 (02:12:50):
Yeah, I just love that share. And it is be yourself,
be who you are, hold your integrity high one other
than your name. You were blessed with who you are.
Integrity is at the top of that level, and it
doesn't matter who you are, there are going to be

(02:13:12):
people that try to drag you down, and you just
stand back and let them do their thing. I dealt
with this yesterday in real lifetime, and I sat and
I listened to a person not even on the app
in my real life here, and I was like, huh, okay,
you're projecting whatever your nonsense is, and this is another entrepreneur,

(02:13:37):
and it was like I just sat and listened, like, Okay,
sounds amazing whatever you're trying to tell me, But keep
your integrity. Don't let anybody around you take that away.
If you need to get up from the table, push
in your chair like a normal human and walk away,

(02:14:02):
there's going to be another circle for you at that moment.
And as long as you do it respectfully, then they
have nothing to say about you. What are they going
to do come up with some weird lies. I mean,
I just let my daughter quit her job because I
wanted her to be a kid for the last part

(02:14:23):
of summer and it's her senior year. I said, don't
you dare walk away without integrity. You let them know
that you are available if they need you to come
back and work or cover a ship for somebody else,
but walk away with integrity and stack. What a great room.

(02:14:43):
I'm sorry I got in here so late, but you
all have an amazing Friday night and keep being amazing.
That's all I can say right now.

Speaker 20 (02:14:54):
Stack back to you.

Speaker 1 (02:14:55):
We had a good room. Thank you for that. Beth.
We went all the way in RSVP for or next Thursday,
me and Jason going back in a Circle of Friends
Club Mental Health. Also click the link at the top
the schedule of fifteen in a call with me so
we could take these relationships to the next level, featuring
people on you know, blogs and all this good stuff.
And I also have a phone call on Monday with

(02:15:16):
the Forbes Council. So cross your fingers, dot your eyes,
and and do your teas here understand. I appreciate you guys.
We had a fire ass room. We're gonna be doing
a lot of things with a lot of friends right
so click this link get inside the media. Mentors if
you're not in here, I appreciate everybody for joining today. Chris, doctor, Steve, Jose,

(02:15:39):
My sister, Beth, Brother, Donovan, nah Emon, Ebony brother for
Sean West wife Y Amanda, love you, Rail one I
appreciate you. Look Eva's a fire ass room. Today we
tore it up. I'll be back next Thursday with my
brother Jason. Y'all know what it is is right Damn

(02:16:02):
Media Mentor's network looking like.

Speaker 5 (02:16:03):
At the t y.

Speaker 35 (02:16:04):
Let's go, ye Jacobs, if you step from ninety fucking thanks,
I'm gonna set the level and I'm anything like this
something bird burn night in the chocolate chain that I
break heart, I'm a problem.

Speaker 5 (02:16:17):
You don't want to play shot his pasture. I would
never run away, Damn dance.

Speaker 35 (02:16:22):
I feel the girls the saying I'm talking ship be extraout.

Speaker 28 (02:16:25):
You knew for what you came.

Speaker 1 (02:16:27):
If you don't, the next one still gonna.

Speaker 35 (02:16:29):
Make becoming science cooking and all the elections nobody.

Speaker 5 (02:16:32):
What's the rap? Me like a test hold the same necklace.

Speaker 35 (02:16:37):
And fucking love her whether the chant her name will
still be sucking about never break trying to show.

Speaker 5 (02:16:48):
Oh that purpose think thank a little bit.

Speaker 1 (02:16:50):
Can look my way.

Speaker 5 (02:16:50):
It's Iran and T shirt saw me and the Yo show.

Speaker 17 (02:16:53):
My hoot get hard or one.

Speaker 5 (02:16:56):
Of the thing I gotta call him and some classic I.

Speaker 35 (02:16:58):
Only want to cut in and it probably she got
check speed. I had to grip her lace. Then I
keep eye and helped her leave. I grid that best right.
If she's got from nothing things, I'm gonna say it,
I love it. I'm gonna tell her anything.

Speaker 10 (02:17:12):
You know.

Speaker 1 (02:17:12):
You're deserve a breaking back now, no chocolate, change breakworts.
I'm gonna she still want to stand.

Speaker 17 (02:17:18):
Charny brash I, but I would never a better way
you nobody's passha.

Speaker 5 (02:17:22):
I feel all these girls the same, talking shippy gash
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