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Speaker 1 (00:00):
Hey guys, welcome back to the Network podcast where.
Speaker 2 (00:03):
We go all the way in the gender Wars.
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Baby we go.
Speaker 2 (00:09):
Crazy this episode. I'm not even gonna lie.
Speaker 1 (00:13):
This one's not even funny. It shit got stackpacked. And
today I'm here with my homegirl and we're gonna fall
the way in and we got a story that's got
the Internet divided. The mother gets arrested after allegedly leaving
her children inside of anoober for a couple hours, not
minutes hours.
Speaker 2 (00:29):
Let that shit sit.
Speaker 1 (00:31):
Let it sit, and we'll be coming in shortly.
Speaker 2 (00:34):
Talk about this episode of these clips. Let's go. You
got my point this besides the nigga. You can't even sit.
Speaker 4 (00:40):
Down there beside a nigga.
Speaker 2 (00:42):
May so, how shit I fuck hurt her? Her almost mesh,
you o't fred present.
Speaker 1 (00:47):
This shit mushed you.
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And now you ain't my day.
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After my all sens and they ask the ships to
tell them, mony ain't get me something. It's not gonna
do something.
Speaker 4 (00:59):
Let him go something like everybody, it's still alive.
Speaker 5 (01:04):
When I'm gonna go, I've got to my niggas real.
Speaker 2 (01:09):
I don't think gonna do the mos everybody. Let it
take a toast. I feel alive. Y'all know podcast, Let's go.
I don't think gonna do the phone. Get me wrong,
I might fucking out. He's looking good. Shot out this one.
Shake back in the day's chat.
Speaker 1 (01:25):
Put me out. I put it on her knees and
I'm putting it up.
Speaker 5 (01:28):
I got a fresh outfit, and I must say when
I stand.
Speaker 2 (01:31):
In it, bitch, don't touch me when I'm standing.
Speaker 3 (01:33):
In the man, don't be.
Speaker 1 (01:37):
Touching my ship because I'm a kick.
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We'll go back to the network where we go all.
I told you this episode is not funny. This one's
actually insane.
Speaker 1 (01:52):
I can't believe the woman left her kids for a
couple of hours.
Speaker 2 (01:56):
We're getting into the clips.
Speaker 5 (01:57):
Now, let's go sit down because you just left your
kids with an uber and we're all all over town
looking for you. It doesn't matter. Do me a favorite
and sit down. What's in the backpack? Any weapons or
anything like that? Okay, do me a favorite. Take it
off and just set it to the side. Don't go
(02:19):
in it, just set it to the side. You left
your kids for two hours. It's been over two hours.
Do you know where you left them at? Where did
you leave them at? Where were your playing where were
(02:41):
you going? H So you're just gonna leave the Uber.
Speaker 3 (02:47):
And walk home?
Speaker 2 (02:49):
But I.
Speaker 3 (02:52):
Understand that, but your number one priority should be your case.
Speaker 4 (02:57):
Oh god, I don't I'm not from I'm here.
Speaker 6 (03:03):
I'm sorry.
Speaker 4 (03:05):
I will cooperate.
Speaker 1 (03:06):
Whatever it is.
Speaker 2 (03:07):
What he is? My bad? I'm sorry.
Speaker 4 (03:11):
Screezed was.
Speaker 6 (03:17):
My name? What's going on?
Speaker 3 (03:25):
Okay?
Speaker 6 (03:27):
What else to be honest about? Like it is what
it is?
Speaker 2 (03:32):
I don't talk to us.
Speaker 6 (03:34):
My kids were with me earlier.
Speaker 3 (03:36):
I got a ride.
Speaker 6 (03:38):
They did kate over here.
Speaker 3 (03:41):
I came back.
Speaker 2 (03:44):
Ride was waiting for me. I'm here now, forty kids
with it over? Is there any reason why I left up?
Speaker 4 (03:54):
I didn't leave.
Speaker 5 (03:55):
Them, so explain to So your kids were at karate here?
Speaker 3 (04:02):
From here, you guys got in the Uber, right?
Speaker 5 (04:05):
Do you remember what color with the car? Would you
remember the bodystyle of the car? White car?
Speaker 4 (04:10):
No, listen, like I get.
Speaker 2 (04:12):
A whole bunch of Uber?
Speaker 3 (04:13):
Is this okay?
Speaker 5 (04:14):
So you guys leave here in the Uber? Where was
the destination from here home? Did you add at any
point tell the Uber driver to go somewhere else a
different route?
Speaker 4 (04:26):
My phone died?
Speaker 5 (04:27):
Okay, but that's not answering my question. At any point,
did you tell the Uber driver to deter your route
away from your house somewhere else?
Speaker 4 (04:36):
No, just my phone was just starting to be honest
with you.
Speaker 3 (04:40):
I don't know, like being an asshoor.
Speaker 5 (04:41):
Or be like me, but like, yeah, my phone was
at But what does that have to do with Uber
getting you to your home if you already had your address?
Speaker 1 (04:49):
Because I don't have my actual phone, I don't know
my car, I don't I'm not in control of my
situation none with my.
Speaker 4 (04:54):
Kids, I got yeah, right, what's going on?
Speaker 3 (05:10):
Is you deserted your.
Speaker 2 (05:13):
For two hours.
Speaker 3 (05:14):
That's what's going on. You deserted your kids for two hours.
That's what's going on. That Uber driver has been sitting
with your kids waiting for you to come back for that.
Speaker 1 (05:25):
Damn. She deserted the kids for over two hours. Deserting
the kids for two hours. Imagine deserting your kids for
two hours.
Speaker 2 (05:42):
They have no.
Speaker 1 (05:45):
You have no clue what's going on. It's pretty nasty work.
This is nasty for some people. This is crazy. I
can't even believe what is going on right now. And
when you think about it, it's like, damn, can.
Speaker 2 (06:04):
You really.
Speaker 1 (06:06):
A picture leaving your kids in the car. Can you
really picture that shit? Like, what's really going on?
Speaker 2 (06:14):
Can are you? Would you want to do some shit
like that?
Speaker 1 (06:18):
Would you let some shit going on like that?
Speaker 2 (06:20):
Like?
Speaker 1 (06:21):
I can't believe it, It's kind of insane. I got
route coming in. How do you feel about this episode?
In these clips that we heard, are you in the
building over to you?
Speaker 6 (06:33):
Yeah? Crazy. I've never seen a person so the fluctes
of questions that are being asked to them. Literally, this
lady was act three times. Well, there was probably more
than dream but her main response was that she sent
her phone with dying. They asked her, did she ever
think about de turning her out? And all she can
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stay with her phone with dyning? She actually, I don't
think she wanted to do damn kids that she didn't
want to be bothered with them, and she don't have
child care. And that was the closest thing to a breakin.
He was drunk.
Speaker 1 (07:07):
That was crazy, rute. And then from the reports, the
uber driver realized the kids were still in the vehicle
and the mother wasn't coming back anytime soon. Police got involved,
charges got filed, and now the internet is split. And
now the internet is split, and they're picking sides without
that confidence. Some people are saying she needed a break
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rout and others are saying that's child endangerment. So let's
unpack it the right way. How do you feel, rute?
Do you feel like it was child and dangersment? She
needed a break?
Speaker 2 (07:36):
What the hell was going on in this clip?
Speaker 6 (07:39):
Man? That's tud endangerment? What the hell she left her
kids who are stranger? You don't have to be all
the things that they say about Uber drivers that is
going around and how they're taking people and and sex
trafficking them, and this is what she does. She leaves
her children like that. That's crazy.
Speaker 2 (07:56):
Yeah, I think that's crazy. I think that's yeah. I
think that's insane as well, to leave your kids. Now.
Speaker 1 (08:01):
First things first, and Uber is not a babysitter right route,
it's like it's a ride share service. So that driver
didn't sign up to supervise the children for hours. And
we can't normalize dropping responsibility onto strangers. That's not fair
to the driver. That's not safe for kids, and that's
not responsible parenting. How do you feel about that route?
Speaker 6 (08:21):
Not definitely what you said, that's not responsible parenting. But
that's not even that's you know what that is. That's
just short of I don't give a fuck, that's what
that is. There's nothing around that that irresponsible parenting. Anybody
with the same mind, who cares enough would know that
that's that's his ridiculous work. She was drunk, she was
ready to hang out. Nobody was trying to take them kids.
(08:43):
She did what when nobody would ever do? I can't
even deal with the next question where nobody would ever do?
And she took that type of risk and I feel
like she doesn't even need her kids back. They don't
tell you what else she'll do if she gets if
she gets that desperate, they're on telling how far she
will take it when she really wants to get away
watch peple like.
Speaker 2 (09:02):
That's exactly route. Now, hold on, I'm not.
Speaker 1 (09:04):
I'm not because I'm not going to just attack the
mother without acknowledging something real parents and it's hard. Single
mother's got it even harder, no village.
Speaker 2 (09:12):
No support, no help.
Speaker 1 (09:13):
Sometimes people break, Sometimes people do terrible decisions under pressure.
But here's the key word, decision. Stress explains behavior and
it doesn't excuse it. How do you feel about that route?
Speaker 6 (09:25):
I agree she could have did anything she was, but
I've asked a neighbor. Yeah, I would rather her ask
the neighbor. She could have got a YMCA membership and
took the kids to WYOMCA for two hours. They're watching
there for two hours. You could have went sat in
the corner and pride if you needed ten. There's no excuse.
She knew how to get up and go to the ball.
She don't have to drive with she said, all the time,
I got ubers all the time. I wrote in so
many different ubers, her cars and so whatever she got
(09:47):
going on, which seems like a lot. My first mind
wouldn't be to go somewhere in an uber and leave
my kids. I'm a single mom too. I'm not going
to get up and just leave my kids. No, I'm
going to have to either tous it out or find alternative,
like I said, the YNCA, finding other community. There's the
people being out there as the village. But if your
neighbors know you, or someone knows you enough and they
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still okay, I know she's trying. There's help. People just
have a lot of pride. It's a prise thing exactly.
Speaker 1 (10:15):
Now here's the deeper issue that nobody's talking about. Rute
why so many parents isolated? Why do we live in
a society where people feel like they can have no
one to call, no family support, and no community structure,
no emergency plan. We've lost the legit, we've lost that
village concept, and now the children paid the price.
Speaker 2 (10:32):
Let us be real. Anything could have happened.
Speaker 1 (10:34):
What if the driver had an emergency, What if someone
tried to open the door, What if the kids got
scared and tried to get out. We can't gamble with
kids and children's safety, not for errands, not for importments,
and not for mental breaks. Now, since this a gender war,
was I want to ask you all tough question if
this was a father, would the internet be more outrage?
Would they would be calling him reckless, irresponsible, unfit? Or
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are we softer when it comes to a mother. Let's
be on this. Accountability should not have agenda. What do
you think about that route?
Speaker 6 (11:05):
Accountability shouldn't have agenda. But I do remember a man
had did something similar. I have to go get some
research on that, but I believe a man did something
kind of similar A lot about it because he wanted
to break And either way, whether male or female, it's
irresponsible just to leave your kids at anybody, it's irresponsible
to have children and you know, not know what you're
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going to do next. Because like I said, I'm a
single mom, and I get it, there's some people don't
have a community, people don't have a family. But as
a parent, when you know you're what you're up against,
you find off her and if you find ways, you
look for waves, you're proactive. There's no excuse. I think
that people use that, oh, i'm a single parent excuse
too much. Be coactive, find something, find ways, find help,
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do what you gotta do. Nobody wants to do that.
They want handout. People are not. They want to want
to as fire for them. Now that she's done that,
people are gonna have scrimpathy for her and they're going
to try to get her resources and help her out.
But in reality that she should have been looking for
that for her. So I don't have I don't have
any for that exactly.
Speaker 2 (12:03):
Now.
Speaker 1 (12:03):
The takeaway isn't to drag the woman, is to learn
if you're if you're overwhelmed, asks for help, build a circle,
create an emergency backup plan, and if you don't have one,
start building one now. Because your kids deserve stability, even
on the worst day. Now, I want to hear from y'all.
What was the arrest justified or does it highlight a
bigger picture of society failure. Drop your thoughts because these
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conversations matter.
Speaker 2 (12:25):
Now. This is more than the headline.
Speaker 1 (12:27):
This was about responsibility, community and protecting the next generation
is stack Pack. I did an episode with my Homegirl
to root Pack gang. Let's talk about it Gender Wars
audio series on the Network.
Speaker 2 (12:39):
I will see you guys next time. Y'all out of here.
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