What Makes You The Perfect Partner? (Club House Recap)

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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Damn. We about to go in over here, right, I
told yea, this on it popping right, Oh my god,
We're gonna go up up today. Right. I've been handling
a lot of shit in the background, but we're gonna
go way up today. I told yeah, I'm going crazy
on this topic today, right. What makes you the perfect partner?

(00:22):
What makes you the perfect partner? In today's time? Yo,
We're gonna go all the way up, super super up right, Like,
It's gonna be a great conversation today, right, very great
conversation with the team. I got a lot to talk about.
I got a lot to do, right, wife, be with

(00:44):
me first. Yeah, we're gonna go all the way in.
What makes you the perfect partner? I'm gonna start it
up before the crew come over here. I feel like
it's communication. If you guys got communication, you are man.
You know I'm gonna dive in heavy, heavy. It's gonna
be a lot to talk about. Waiting for my brother, yay,
waiting for Juliet, waiting for the team. We're gonna bring

(01:06):
everybody over here so we can have this conversation. Respectfully.
I like having these fire conversations with everybody, and we
get to just dive in and dive in and dive
in and dive in. This is what it's full, you know,
expanding media, mentors, we mentor people here. You guys, can

(01:28):
you know tap in with me. It's a lot of
things we can do, you know, outside of this. But
we're getting busy right and we're gonna go all the
way in right today about yo? What makes you the
perfect partner? What makes it right?

Speaker 2 (01:46):
Like?

Speaker 1 (01:47):
Come on, this is what I want to talk about today?
What makes perfect hot? Yo? Yeah? You know what we're doing? Man?
You know how you am? I loud and clear up here?
Can y'all hear me? Yeah? I'm loud and clear. He
was gonna go get everybody. Y'all know that have a
great conversation.

Speaker 2 (02:05):
Didn't that you did that? I get my long way
from calling black any posepping girl?

Speaker 3 (02:21):
You dead?

Speaker 1 (02:21):
I'm mind, yo? What we got you you hear me?

Speaker 4 (02:24):
A mon?

Speaker 1 (02:24):
Let's go? You want me to go down?

Speaker 5 (02:27):
No mind.

Speaker 6 (02:29):
That you you knew?

Speaker 1 (02:34):
No want you?

Speaker 7 (02:35):
You know what?

Speaker 1 (02:35):
That girl is not ready? Whoa why? Any let me work, Canary,
I'm about to work. Go on and let's go. No,
No you want me to go down?

Speaker 8 (02:55):
No mind?

Speaker 1 (02:56):
Need you you knew. I want you to know that
girl is not that what's up? You are? What's up?

(03:22):
We should have to ask y'all y'all pin this ship
out when y'all come in, When y'all coming over, we're
gonna ping this ship out. We're gonna have a great
conversation today, right, But I really really really need y'all
to ping this motherfucker up. Right, y'all want to talk
about this ship today? And your pa up? Girl? You dad,

(03:48):
I'm barbaret. No, you won't me to go down no matter.
Pick this ship up. Let's know wan to know that
to what's up? Ah, I wanna get into it real

(04:17):
quick though, while we're waiting for some people and shit,
I want to get into this conversation and shout out
to everybody that spent you know, supporting the conversations over
and stop deflecting Plan B four hundred club right, shot
us to everybody that comes through the space and also
is respectful. Right, you guys can bring up people. We
gonna see what's going on, right, and we're gonna be real, real,

(04:38):
real limited on the moderation situations because I need this
room to be ran. Right, But I want everybody to
still come up and chime into this conversation because it's important, right,
what makes you the perfect partner in today's time? We're
not talking about you know, oh you know what I
mean talking about right now?

Speaker 9 (04:55):
Right now?

Speaker 1 (04:55):
What do you guys see right now? I'm gonna put
the first thing out there. I feel like it's communication.
If you guys are not on the same page, and
what the fuck are we doing? Right? If we can't
see eye to eye? We can't just like because it's
okay to you know, disagree, right, everybody can disagree on
some shit. But when you can come together and communicate
and solve that issue, it shows partnership. It shows more love,

(05:16):
it shows more strength and unity. And that's what me
and a man to do all the time too. Like communication,
work on that shit. I had to work on it myself.
I wasn't perfect with that shit, like with the communication,
but when you sit down and really understand what that
shit can do in the future, definitely, definitely, you know,
communication is gonna be the first one for me, right
And I want you guys to chime in. Shoutout to

(05:37):
Juliet wife he a man de Rowan Charmaginne chig Sherry wrote,
everybody right, pin this shit up. Bro, We're about to
go in today every time I go, and we're gonna
be turned and nothing but energy on this stage, right,
So I want to open it up. I want to
pass the mic to whoever. What do you guys think
about this topic? What makes you the perfect partner in
today's time? I think I'm starting off with communication, but

(05:57):
what you guys think, Let's go communication.

Speaker 10 (06:00):
But I'm also going to say patience. Patience is a
big one for me. We live in a very microwave society.
Everything fast, everything is now, everything is instant, and I
think people expect interactions and relationships to be the same,
including conflicts, to the point that nobody has patience for anything.
They don't have patience to understand, they don't have patience
to work it out. People don't understand processes anymore, which

(06:24):
is why I admire people who go to the gym,
because for me, it's a mindset. You understand the patience
and the time it takes, so that I think mindset
has to be involved with relationships. You got to understand processes,
You got to let people go through things in the
relationship and not decide that it's over now, and you
got to let them come around even when they're wrong,

(06:46):
when you're wrong, whatever. But patience is a big one
for me.

Speaker 1 (06:51):
Who agrees with that. I feel like patience is big too. Right.
If one person has an you know, not enough patience,
shit can blow up. You can she shit get and derailed,
and you know, like damn, A lot of arguments like Dan,
why can't you know somebody got to have patience in
this situation. If you put both, y'all ain't got patience.
This shit is not going to work.

Speaker 11 (07:09):
So thank you for that.

Speaker 12 (07:10):
Ship.

Speaker 1 (07:10):
Let's go, he's coming in, he's going.

Speaker 13 (07:16):
I gotta go back into work. But I put mine
in the chat. I said, I communicate very well. I'm
very big on communication. I'm trustworthy, consider it motivated. I
love catering to people and my family and people I love.
I'm very kind, understanding, and I just like love love

(07:36):
all around. So that's my share.

Speaker 1 (07:41):
Nah, thank you for that for one. It's all about
you know, you gotta spread more love. How you feel
about that, Charmaine, I feel like, you know, communication spreading
more love? What's up? You gotta know that?

Speaker 14 (07:51):
I think for me, the biggest thing that I've learned
is just being able to I used to be able
to not take constructive criticism at all. So I think
for me, just realizing when I'm not right, when I
need to relax, and kind of like just really understanding
how to like be able to cater to a man

(08:12):
what they need, how they love because every man needs
to be loved differently. I had to understand that too,
And just just I think for me is just being
able to take constructive criticism and just being able to
say I was wrong about something that was very, very
hard for me. I used to think that I was
always in control. I run shit, because I do run
shit in other parts of my life. So I think

(08:33):
that's something that that was a big deal for me
to be able to overcome. So once I was able
to overcome that, I've learned that even in my relationships
with not just men but women and just relationships in general.
BUTLA it's made my life a lot easier and it's
made things more cohesive when I'm dealing.

Speaker 15 (08:47):
With people in general.

Speaker 13 (08:51):
That's a great one, sure mean, And.

Speaker 1 (08:54):
You know what's crazy. You can't think you run every situation.
I feel like to have a healthy bound lens. You
gotta let your partner you know, all right, you got
that right, because it's gonna be too much friction if
you think you're going to be able to control everything.
You know what I'm saying, Charmine, Like, if you think
you're gonna overper you can't overpower each other, especially if
you were strong, you know your energy. Strong can't overpower

(09:15):
each other. You gotta find some type of balance. So
thank you for that, Charmiane. Who else want to go in?
Let's keep this floor rocking, Let's keep the you know,
the conversation going. Who's next floor is open?

Speaker 16 (09:25):
I just wanted to say, like for me, attentiveness, it
kind of goes back to what you just said, is
like being willing to learn from your partner and active listening.
I think all of those play a role in communicating
because you got to be aware. You know, you need
to be aware of your partner, aware of their moods,
their love language, things that set them off, things that

(09:49):
you can do, specifically you that set them on a
you know, like a high plane where they're just excited
and exuberant. I think a lot of times we missed
the simple things like that extra little pepping is that
that someone could give you just walking out to say
that right thing at the right time.

Speaker 17 (10:11):
I think that's important.

Speaker 1 (10:14):
Right thing at the right time. I feel like that's
important too, Like hearing the right words from the right individual.
It'll always, you know, set you on fire or set
you where you need to go.

Speaker 8 (10:24):
Right.

Speaker 1 (10:24):
If you guys are just joining, we're talking about what
makes you the perfect partner in today's time, I feel like,
you know, maybe not anyone's perfect, but I feel like
we can work on it. We can go towards it, right,
especially if you want to, you know, be with that person,
see yourself with that person the future. Right, you know,
what makes you the perfect partner? What can you guys do?
I already put out communication. I heard Patience, right, I

(10:45):
want to hear some more. Who else want to go
in for me? The floor is open, let's continue this conversation.
I'll say that for me. So, yeah, I heard, I
heard Phil. Let me hear Phil Kirk and then over
to you, go ahead, Phil, over to your brother. Yeah.

Speaker 18 (10:58):
I was just saying for me that I'm very observant
of every relationship I've been in, and I think that
that's very helpful. Because we can only experience people. At
the end of the day, what I know is that
what's for me is for me. What's not for me
is not for me. So being able to figure out
and identify, like through the powers, who likes you, you know,

(11:21):
and where you can take things, and the consistency it
really helps. So being observant to me has just always
been something that's been helpful because not everybody is gonna
click with you, you know. And then on top of that,
like you'll get in some dating situation you realize it's
not for you. So being able to exit out of
that peacefully it's also a good thing too.

Speaker 1 (11:41):
Nah, I love that. And then I'm gonna go to Kirk,
and then I want to hear why Ryan says he's
not the perfect partner. You're gonna wake that up, Ryan,
I got you over to you, Kirk. I've seen you
coming in before. Phil. Let's continue this conversation. Brother, let's
go okay, Stag. This is the thing when you're getting
ready to.

Speaker 8 (12:00):
You hear me.

Speaker 1 (12:01):
Yep, you're good. Yep, you gone now, Kirk, come back, bro,
I can't hear you. Man, come back to the conversation.
It's all good. He must have swiped if anybody can
bring him back up if he comes back. And Ryan,
why do you say that? Man? Let's get right back
into it right. You said you're not the perfect partner.

(12:24):
Tell us why we want to have a conversation today
and stuff?

Speaker 4 (12:27):
Why? Because I like me, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 19 (12:30):
But if so, if another woman don't like me, then
I'm not changing, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 4 (12:34):
So I'm not gonna be perfect. But I like where
I'm back.

Speaker 19 (12:36):
You know what I'm saying, and I like, you know,
things that I can approve here, so where I evaluate
myself and saying I could change that for me?

Speaker 4 (12:43):
Did I do that for me? You know what I'm saying.
But I'm not gonna be the perfect partner for some
What else they gotta like before? Where I'm back right now?
And I have to like that for where they at?
You know what I'm saying. Then what if we get
together there we can make those changes together. But I'm
not changing for nobody.

Speaker 1 (12:58):
No, So Ryan, y'all feel like maybe ahead, Julia.

Speaker 20 (13:02):
No, I'll jump in there. I'm gonna say loyalty. That's
what I'm gonna say, because respect communication all those things
you should have basic But a lot of people aren't loyal,
and I'm loyal to the tea, So what makes me
the perfect partner? I'm loyal, So no matter what happens,
I'm gonna try my best to come to some type

(13:24):
of resolution so we can grow together. But loyalty, I'm
always gonna stick beside you no matter what happens. If
you can't walk anymore, you can't talk anymore, I'm still
gonna be there.

Speaker 1 (13:36):
So loyalty, I feel like that's a big one too.
How y'all feel about that. Who's coming in? Yeah, if
I can.

Speaker 21 (13:45):
You know, I had got cut off with a phone call.
But the thing that I was gonna say, genuine. It's
just not a lot of genuine people left. And the
second thing I'll say is this, when you're talking about
trying to be married, you have to be real to
go in your own direction. Okay, you know, we're gonna

(14:05):
always respect mom and dad. We're gonna, you know, some
of the things they tell us, but some of the
things don't fit our life. You have to really be,
you know, willing to listen to each other and not
listen to all these outside influence I've seen more outside
influences their relationships than their own problems.

Speaker 1 (14:25):
So being genuine and.

Speaker 21 (14:29):
Really being able to listen to each other, having a voice.
Your wife should have a voice. You should have a voice,
and even your kids should listen to your kids as well.
If you have a having a voice means a lot.
And you know, I just want to add that, you know,
before I got cut off stack.

Speaker 1 (14:47):
Not passing, Nah, I definitely definitely definitely agree with that. Right,
if you guys are just joining, what makes you the
perfect partner in today's time? I heard you know a
lot of different you know shits. You know, I had
a lot of good things communication, patience, respect, loyalty. Right.
I want to hear some more shares about this too,

(15:08):
because you know, Ryan came in and said he ain't
the perfect partner. He ain't changing for shit. He said,
I'm not changing. I'm not. I don't want to you
know what I mean. I don't want to change.

Speaker 4 (15:20):
I don't want anybody else.

Speaker 1 (15:21):
You know what I'm saying? No, Because Ryan, why you
feel like maybe sometimes you gotta change for someone. Maybe
he said some shit ain't good for that person, and
maybe you want to mess with that person to get along.
Why you don't want why you ain't open to change?

Speaker 19 (15:34):
I mean going on, you know, like it's someone who
was really took the time to know me. Then I
can sit up here do that.

Speaker 4 (15:41):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 19 (15:41):
But I'm not just changing just to be changing, No,
because it's certain things.

Speaker 4 (15:45):
About me that I like. You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 19 (15:47):
If I like it, and then if you don't like it,
then we're gonna have to bump his because if I
like it, I'm not changing just like certain things, I
don't want you to change.

Speaker 4 (15:57):
You know what I'm saying. So ain't nobody perfect?

Speaker 19 (16:00):
But if I like it, I'm not changing for not
for soul, because I'm be lying to myself. Then I'm
gonna be saying too because I'm not being my.

Speaker 4 (16:08):
Full self and I want to be my you know,
my full self.

Speaker 14 (16:14):
But there ryan how you gonna grow That's not even
just in relationships, how you gonna grow in life if
you're not open to anything different.

Speaker 19 (16:22):
I mean, I would have to make that determination. If
I want to open up. I am very open, but
I would have to make that. I would have to
make that determination. World, Okay, I can make some changes.
I mean, I do make changes for myself, but it's
because I want to make changes for myself.

Speaker 4 (16:38):
It has to start me first. I would have to
want to do that for me, you know first, Because
it's like saying, it's called self preservation. Yeah, it is.

Speaker 22 (16:49):
It is self preservation because I think those that are
willing to change for so many people around them are
actually the ones that are not changing for the best way.

Speaker 23 (16:57):
You know they say, they're actually.

Speaker 22 (17:00):
Like what you're saying, that bro, That's what I was
picking up from what the bro he's walking in rooms
ask himself when other people are walking in their rooms,
trying to be ditto and copy what everybody else is doing,
or just get along to go along, to get along.
I feel like that has been a detriment to most people.
Most people that people pleasing, uh vibe that has destroyed

(17:21):
more their life than has has helped them grow.

Speaker 23 (17:24):
If you want to be honest, I'm.

Speaker 14 (17:26):
Not talking about people pleasing. I guess y'all haven't been
around people that made y'all.

Speaker 15 (17:29):
Stretch y'allselves, Like, no, I'm a man. Well, what I'm.

Speaker 14 (17:34):
Saying is like, sometimes when you meet certain people, they
it's kind of like you're forced to kind of be
different and change up, like you shouldn't change for other people,
but like you shouldn't just be like, man, I'm not changing.
I'm just gonna stick with what it is. And if
she don't like it, then bucket, that's what it is.
That shouldn't how.

Speaker 15 (17:50):
I don't know. I just think that mindset is kind
of like I don't know, but.

Speaker 22 (17:55):
I don't think that's what the brother Ryan was saying,
because he actually said it was if it was.

Speaker 23 (18:00):
Somebody that he really he really had.

Speaker 22 (18:02):
A don't don't let me miss quote you, Ryan, but
it sounded like if it was like somebody that was
close to him and they had said something like he
would make that switch up. But like he's just not
switching up just because you got a pretty face or
you might be the flavor of the week.

Speaker 23 (18:15):
Like he's not just switching up. He's gonna stay in
and what it is that he is.

Speaker 1 (18:20):
But not what you said, Ryan.

Speaker 19 (18:23):
I said, if I was in a long term, committed
relationship and if I value that person, y'all can make
those changes. But even then I would have to realize that, Okay,
I do need to make those changes. It's still up
to me to make those changes, because even if I
have a partner and if I like who I am,
I can if I'm not going to change it, then
I'm not going to change it.

Speaker 4 (18:43):

Speaker 19 (18:43):
Just because I'm in a relationship, I have to see that. Okay,
I can make those changes. But see, most people ain't
being honest, you know what I'm saying, because you have
to be who you are. Because guess what if I
got with a woman and she liked it for who
I am?

Speaker 4 (18:58):
Why you want me to change it?

Speaker 12 (19:00):
Why?

Speaker 1 (19:00):
Exactly?

Speaker 16 (19:01):
I totally agree with you, Ryan, because it's to me,
it's like that come to me like you come to Jesus.
You know, Yeah, I want to go to him and
your all nakedness and you're all everything, So why not
come to me like that? I think understanding that judgment
be placed on like relationships is like a hindrance to

(19:21):
some people just being themselves. You get what I'm saying, Like,
if you, like you said, you're walking into every room
being yourself, I totally appreciate that.

Speaker 17 (19:31):
It's refreshing. I love people to just be.

Speaker 16 (19:34):
You know, if anything I'm doing is making you change,
then I know at some time or point.

Speaker 17 (19:39):
If you take on that change, it's like an addiction.

Speaker 16 (19:41):
You're going to have a relapse, right, It's going to
put strain on your body. You don't really want to
do it until you're ready to do it. And when
you're ready to do it, that's when it'll stick. You
get what I'm saying. And and and with relationships, especially
with a lot of women.

Speaker 17 (19:56):
I notice no shade, ladies.

Speaker 16 (19:58):
But I've witnessed it over my life with older women,
younger women. You know, some people, they just get so
lost in trying to change someone. And it's not that
I know, it's not initially you're trying to change them.
You just love them so much that sometimes you want
them to see you in a way that they just
don't see you in that way yet.

Speaker 17 (20:17):
And that's where growth comes in.

Speaker 16 (20:19):
And I think that when people are really seriously talking
about relationships and getting into them for the longevity, you
have to think about how long you want to stick
with a person and if you're willing to actually compromise
the factors of you and their traits together as a unison.

Speaker 4 (20:35):
I'm a complete I say this a lot of that, y'all.

Speaker 19 (20:37):
I have it. I never say I will never be perfect,
but I'm just honest and that's what I lead with.
You know what I'm saying, honestly, can can be worked on,
can make changes, but I'm not going to see a
period is coming to think I'll.

Speaker 4 (20:49):
Supposed to be missed. It perfect for you. I'm coming
as me, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 19 (20:53):
Now we grow and be together, then those tests can
be made changes. But I ain't coming there, you know
what I'm saying, and trying to be perfect you off
the gate, No, not doing that. I'm coming in as me.
I know how I got flawed. I know that about me.
I'm honest with you, you know, and I'll walk in
my truth and most people are not doing that. Most
people are trying to adjust it. You know what I'm saying,

(21:14):
what the person may think of them. I don't give
a fuck what you take about me. I care less.

Speaker 16 (21:20):
And they're walking in fake truths with representatives that aren't
exactly and that doesn't really grow a relationship, right, Like,
how are you sitting here taking the mask off a
year down the line, two years down the line, and
then that person that loved you is like, oh, they
don't know you no more.

Speaker 17 (21:40):
So that like I used to wonder why adults said.

Speaker 16 (21:44):
That when I was younger, like, oh, I don't know
them no more, I don't know where anymore. It's because
they were never who they really were in the beginning.
But then again, people do change and they evolved to
do and want different things out of their life. And
if you're going to be dedicated to a person out
of loyalty like Juju is ling, then you're supposed to
ride along with them for that ride and not be

(22:04):
their harsh mate, but their helpmate.

Speaker 22 (22:10):
They're trying to make it seem like men and women
are the same, and it's really not the same.

Speaker 8 (22:15):
The woman has to adapt to the man's situation, not the.

Speaker 1 (22:19):
Other way around. I land on that.

Speaker 16 (22:21):
So there, I agree with that, and that there is
no balance, there's no compromise there. I mean, of course,
every woman wants her man to be a leader, right,
she wants to be guided by you. Right underneath that
household you should be you know, the party. Like I
always say, a man that is yelling is not knowing

(22:43):
how to actually communicate, because even when you're upset, you
should know how to talk to your mate with respect
and kindness still, you know what I mean. A man
that's yelling isn't really leading, I feel unless he's yelling
amongst men, I feel like and I don't think a
lot of men understand that to certain degrees, because I

(23:03):
feel like, if we're doing this thing called relationship and
I'm showing you the type of partner I want to
be with you, then there are things that I'm going
to have to compromise with you.

Speaker 17 (23:16):
Maybe I'm not.

Speaker 1 (23:17):
Used so you feel like cherry real quick. So you
feel like it should be more compromised in today's day
and age, like you know, more understanding.

Speaker 17 (23:24):
So I definitely feel like it should be more understanding.

Speaker 16 (23:26):
But then again, what is understood for me might not
always be to my partner.

Speaker 17 (23:31):
Right.

Speaker 16 (23:32):
My grandmother told me when I was younger, what is
known isn't always understood, and it's not meant for us
to understand everything with everyone that we meet. Some things
are just left because what's known doesn't need to be mentioned.
And I think with certain relationships and the chemistry between
people and partners, that certain things don't need to be mentioned.

(23:54):
I love that men have a dynamic of themselves, like
a trait where they just be and you just know.
I think men who are very little for words are
very I like to watch them. I learn a lot
from them. I just think I've probably started late in

(24:18):
my intermingling what relationships and actually knowing how to relationship.
As for myself, I'm not speaking for every woman. I'm
just speaking for herself.

Speaker 17 (24:26):
So maybe sometimes I don't know how to interact.

Speaker 16 (24:29):
I know what I want, yes, But does it mean
that the communication between me dating and trying to get
to know people to see where we can go with
it if the right dynamic is for us? I do
always feel like a man chooses the woman, she doesn't
really choose him. She might think so, but I just
don't really believe that. I think that when you're with

(24:51):
the man and the man is chosen.

Speaker 1 (24:53):
Five more second, we got you go?

Speaker 8 (24:56):
All right?

Speaker 1 (24:56):
Look, if you guys are just that's a great share
too share. But I just want more more people you
know to come in too, right? What makes you the
perfect partner? We were talking about communication, respect right. I
need you to pick this ship up, Sean. They need
to pick this shit, O, wife, they need to pick
I don't know what you're gonna do ping this shut up?
Real quick. We ain't having no more ship. Ping it
up a little bit, get some more people in here

(25:17):
or something. I don't know what y'all gonna do it,
Gonna have a great conversation. Don't need me shure, I
don't men neednn for new men.

Speaker 24 (25:25):
You know, job.

Speaker 1 (25:31):
He live, bite, he bites my monkey move.

Speaker 2 (25:36):
I gonna speak fris too five believe it.

Speaker 1 (25:44):
I'm monkey move.

Speaker 2 (25:45):
I gonna speak frisk supervis go believe it.

Speaker 1 (25:49):
Dropped out of school.

Speaker 6 (25:50):
From the first day, my de joll look at b
that I'm my dad's got must in the gone man,
I said my jock.

Speaker 2 (25:57):
I must ball on this Sunday. Hello forgot said chain
with this money walker, drop the rose.

Speaker 1 (26:20):
We're gonna have a great conversation. What makes you the
perfect partner? Y'all been saying some good ship?

Speaker 8 (26:26):
You know.

Speaker 1 (26:26):
I've been hearing Ryan to Ryan's you know, it's still
thinking on my mind right like fam like I want
to change though for my partner though, you know what
I mean. If it's some ship that's not messing and
I really want to be with this person, I'm change
in some ship. I don't know. I don't know what
Ryan's talking about. I'm pushing his ass all the way back.
I'm gonna push back on that, respectfully, because there's nothing

(26:46):
like being with a person that's fucking hard headed or
don't want to listen, or give you a headache every day,
or that's draining. Right, Like Ryan, I'm not Bro. Imagine
being that dude that go to a girl, bro and
don't wanna and don't want to change. You're not gonna
have that for too long, especially if you see value
y'all building together, y'all doing some shit, Bro, that's gonna
fuck up a lot of relationships. Ryan, I'm gonna keep

(27:08):
it a hunting with you, Bro. You gonna fuck up
a lot of shit, bro, especially if you don't know
how to, you know, come to some type of like
Cherry was saying, some type of compromise. There's no way
I'm not compromising with my lady, especially if she's willing
to compromise for me. You know what I'm saying. So Yo,
just be open to change, right. I want to continue
this conversation. Pin some more people in here shout out

(27:29):
to the family. Let's go.

Speaker 4 (27:30):
Let's say this, my bag. I'll say this. Everybody wants
on one side that compromise.

Speaker 19 (27:36):
You know what I'm saying. Nowadays, You know what I'm saying,
It could be whether a woman might want the man
to change and she don't want to change, a vice versa.
You know what I'm saying. You got to know who
you really dealing with. See, I'm not afraid to tell
you who I am good or bout it ugly, because
guess what you gonna find out eventually. So I could
put some things out of saying, Hey, this is who
I am. You have a choice, you have an option.

(27:56):
You know what I'm saying. You know, but maybe later
on in life. You know what I'm saying, I'm ready
with that person. I already dig of that person.

Speaker 4 (28:02):
Then the change might just happen naturally because I just
want to be there. You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 19 (28:07):
I don't put the pressure on nothing, and a lot
of things is more simple than complicated.

Speaker 4 (28:13):
But people, we make it complicated.

Speaker 19 (28:14):
So we gotta be really are we really being ourselves
around our partners?

Speaker 4 (28:18):
You know what I'm saying. For real, I'm gonna be
regardless whether.

Speaker 21 (28:23):
If I wanted to add to what Ran I think Ryan,
if I even say this to Ryan, guarantee you agree
with me. Rian is saying that he's not gonna change
who he is as a person. But I truly believe
Ryan will make some adjustments in the relationship.

Speaker 1 (28:42):
I guarantee you Ryan agree with me that.

Speaker 4 (28:44):
Yeah, I mean assessments and change that are different. You
know what I'm saying. I'm not changing my personality now
changing Okay, maybe not yelled at you.

Speaker 19 (28:53):
Yeah, I can say I can talk more so often
to you, but I'm still gonna have mybe. I'm still
gonna say what I meant. I could just be more
tble with it. You know what I'm saying. That's adjustment,
but changing. No, I'm not doing that, No, but I will.

Speaker 17 (29:07):
You know what's funny, I was.

Speaker 16 (29:11):
Like when you whenever you get that, you won't.

Speaker 17 (29:16):
Even realize you're changing, like it had just happened.

Speaker 16 (29:19):
Like I really feel like that with different people, Like
you know, like some people, they don't have to nag you,
they don't have to keep repetitioning you like you're a
second grader. You just do because it makes you feel
great to do it for this person. Like sometimes you
just do and you don't even realize that this is
what you're doing, and you turn around and you're looking like, damn,

(29:40):
I don't grown a little bit.

Speaker 17 (29:42):
I like this, you know what I mean?

Speaker 14 (29:45):
Said keep been on clubhouse? He kept it because I
used to couldn't stand your ass when I first seen
you on the clubhouse, Like, what the fuck is he
talking about?

Speaker 8 (29:52):
You?

Speaker 14 (29:52):
Not like you have totally changed. So I don't even
know what you're talking about.

Speaker 25 (29:57):
I don't know if you did it.

Speaker 1 (29:58):
No what it is.

Speaker 4 (30:01):
I'm balanced, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 19 (30:03):
You like some what I said that you liked, but
I always stand in my truth and there's some things
that you're just not gonna like. See it's both, you
know what I'm saying, because I'm being still being who
I am.

Speaker 4 (30:14):
You know what I'm saying. I just see shit in
a balanced way. And I just don't shoot on women
because it's a.

Speaker 19 (30:19):
Lot of shit that I do agree with y'all women on,
and it's a lot of shit that I don't agree
with guys on. But I'm just being myself and you
just like that about me. It's cool, but I'm still me.

Speaker 3 (30:31):
Ryan, would you say you're giving your given one percent
of yourself.

Speaker 4 (30:36):
All the time. You know what I'm saying, And does
it work all the time, No do people do? People
like it?

Speaker 3 (30:41):
That's well, that's that's the point that I was bringing
out the other day because I'm gonna have to bounce
pretty soon, but I just want to bring out this
point because I was ridiculed the other day on this topic, right,
and I said, what if you know everybody gave one
hundred You know a lot of times people talk about, yeah,
give fifty to fifty.

Speaker 9 (31:01):
The man give fifty, the woman get fifty.

Speaker 3 (31:03):
But you know, when you think about it, you're only
giving fifty percent.

Speaker 9 (31:07):
And what does one hundred percent mean? It means you're
giving your.

Speaker 3 (31:11):
Best at all times, your best thought into it. You know,
your best effort, okay, and whatever the case may be,
you know, may maybe maybe you've become sick and you're
not able to give, you know, but you're still giving
one hundred percent of your ability at that particular time
in your life, regardless of how you're feeling. So imagine

(31:35):
two people that are given one hundred percent. And that
was my point. But I was ridiculed, you know, like
by both sides, you know, man and woman. You know, like,
what the fuck is somebody? You know he's drunk or whatever, whatever, whatever, well.

Speaker 1 (31:47):
Works for me.

Speaker 9 (31:49):

Speaker 3 (31:49):
And so when when I you know, I'm in a
relationship now right right, and and you know I say
to her, you give me a hundred I'm giving you
one hundred percent. So it's one hundred percent of thought,
it's one hundred percent of being thoughtful. It's one hundred percent.
You see what I'm saying of just putting into the relationship. Now,

(32:14):
does that mean that you don't focus on anything else
in your life? No, that that's not what it means,
you know what I'm saying. But if you think about it,
when when you when you just when you just say
fifty percent, fifty to fifty, that means you're only giving
fifty percent. And why because you're demanding that the other
person give fifty percent?

Speaker 9 (32:35):
Right, and then y'all meet in the middle.

Speaker 3 (32:37):
But what if you you know you're in a committed relationship,
you love this person, and you demand one hundred percent
because you're willing to give a hundred percent. And that's
all I was saying the other day, you know, when
someone tried to clown me, But I was being serious
about you know this thing, This is my theory I'm drawing.

Speaker 9 (32:57):
This is my theory one hundred percent.

Speaker 3 (33:00):
It's not really a theory, but it works because if
when you love a person and you're committed, you know,
you're only gonna commit yourself to somebody.

Speaker 9 (33:11):
That you really feel is that person.

Speaker 3 (33:14):
In your life, So why not give a hundred and
expect one hundred percent from them because this is your
life partner, all right? So but if it's not, you know,
and you're just fucking around, you know what I'm saying,
You just a ship that's passing in the night, then okay,
I can understand that fifty percent, right, you know, And
then you both know you know, we're just trying to

(33:35):
get from you. You're just trying to get from me,
you know what I'm saying. And then we're gonna pass
and somewhere along the line you're gonna meet that person.

Speaker 9 (33:44):
So that that's where I am.

Speaker 3 (33:45):
So you know, when you don't want to change, you know,
then you're not willing.

Speaker 1 (33:51):
To be a hunter.

Speaker 3 (33:53):
And you know that's right at the end of what
you said, you said, I'm keeping it a hundred, I'm
keeping it a hundred.

Speaker 9 (33:59):
Okay, Well let's talk about keeping it a hunter. What
does that. What does that really mean? You know what
I'm saying. So thank you for allowing me to get
that off my chest.

Speaker 4 (34:11):
Yeah yeah, what's up?

Speaker 8 (34:15):
Appreciate that, bro? So what makes you the perfect partner? Ship?
I can't even say partner a perfect partner, but this
is one thing I know about myself and all my
little past relationships and stuff like that. I dig at
the time.

Speaker 26 (34:27):
Get some time to sit down and just analyze all
the things that went wrong where I could have compromise that,
where I was lacking that with myself, if it was
me I was unhappy, or if I was taking this
one drama.

Speaker 8 (34:40):
I went through all those.

Speaker 26 (34:40):
Things and needed to say that I took the time
to find out who I was right.

Speaker 8 (34:48):
Well, you not.

Speaker 26 (34:48):
When you don't know who you are, you can't expect
something perfect out of.

Speaker 1 (34:53):
One in the chat.

Speaker 23 (34:54):
If y'all agree with yay, let's turn that ship up.

Speaker 1 (34:55):
Yeah, let's go.

Speaker 8 (34:57):
If you don't know what a where? Can I respects someone?
Can you? Nigga? Nigga?

Speaker 26 (35:04):
If you don't agree, hr finished and you can make
it a first you can have this conversation further Further,
I disagree and I like what we disagree.

Speaker 8 (35:10):
It's fine if you don't agree. Put to in the shot.
Black folks. I love y'all, but I hate y'all.

Speaker 26 (35:16):
Listen, you can't expect the best out of someone else
if you don't know who you are.

Speaker 8 (35:20):
If you're still trying to figure out who you are.

Speaker 26 (35:22):
You're gonna be stuck and that person gonna be complacent,
and the first probably even get worse.

Speaker 8 (35:27):
So if you don't know who you are, you know.

Speaker 26 (35:28):
What I'm saying, Like, you can't sorry, if you'll know
who you are, you can't expect someone to fully come out,
fully come one hundred or fifty percent on any of
those type of things.

Speaker 8 (35:41):
Reflection, that's what makes me the perfect part of the day.

Speaker 1 (35:45):
So just reflection, yay. Just like knowing who you know you're,
like being better than you was twenty four hours ago,
knowing that you fuck exactly, knowing that this was you
know what I'm saying, like red facing that ship, Like
you know what I was wrong in that situation? Man?
How could I have been better? A lot of people
don't do that shit. A lot of people don't you know,
correct their self going forward. They'll be fucked up in
their ways. Yeah, and we've seen that ship. Yeah, a lot.

(36:07):
You know, we chop it up. Yeah, it's like we
see people be stuck in their ways and people won't
move forward and change. What the fuck is wrong with
some people? How about y'all sit back, look in the
mirror and see what's going on, so that way you
can change. I bet you you'll get more life results,
you'll get better positions, you'll get better relationships if you
just sit back and do some self reflection. Yeah, I

(36:28):
appreciate that.

Speaker 27 (36:29):
Man.

Speaker 1 (36:29):
Well, honey, let's yo, let's keep this conversation.

Speaker 26 (36:32):
Oh so to do that that disagree your head and
shoot your shit.

Speaker 8 (36:37):
Bro's okay, you know, I don't you know the entirety
your own opinion.

Speaker 12 (36:43):
Some people influence people to be better people.

Speaker 28 (36:47):
Like a lot of people are like, oh, you got
to be the perfect version of yourself and know.

Speaker 12 (36:51):
That the date.

Speaker 28 (36:52):
Nah, you won't always be. You won't don't always meet
the right people at the right time. Sometimes can meet
a person, that person gonna influence you good, gonna guide
you on the right path. It's gonna make you grow,
make you evolve. Sometimes a person can fix you. And
I know it's a lot of we live in an

(37:14):
individual individualistic society that wants you to do everything by
yourself and be lonely.

Speaker 12 (37:21):
But nah, humans are not lonely creatures.

Speaker 28 (37:25):
We're actually social animals, and we actually are influenced constantly
by the people around us to be better versions of ourselves.

Speaker 12 (37:34):
And it's okay if somebody can help and guide you.

Speaker 28 (37:37):
If it's a father or mother, a friend, the lover,
you know, that's that's normalst Okay, you don't have all
the answers. It's okay to allow a person to come
into your life and make sure better for you.

Speaker 12 (37:51):
That's fine, That's perfectly fine.

Speaker 4 (37:53):
A definitely hold on, hold on.

Speaker 1 (37:55):
I definitely agree because there's some people that come in
your life and teach you lessons. For the fire mo
g Ina chat if you guys agree and share this
shot out to the more people so we can have
more people come. But I feel like people come in
your life to teach you a lesson. It's either going
to be a blessing or a lesson, you know what
I'm saying. Sometimes it's both right. You'll be like damn,
or I'm glad that person got out of my life

(38:17):
before I got here, or I'm glad that door closed
before I got there.

Speaker 4 (38:21):
Yeah, I definitely agree.

Speaker 1 (38:24):
There's some people that come in your life and you're like, Yo,
you know what, man, I'm glad I ducked that bullet,
or I'm glad I dodged that ship, or I'm got
that bullet, because you gotta dodge bullets in life. A
lot of people that don't know how to dodge the bullets,
and they get hit with all types of consequences. So
let's continue this conversation.

Speaker 8 (38:43):
Bullets, bullets.

Speaker 26 (38:46):
I don't dodge missiles, the new Clear, the New Clear.

Speaker 8 (38:50):
I don't got on the bunkers, my boy, Like, man,
I don't guess what I do with y'all.

Speaker 26 (38:57):
At the end of the day, show somebody hold up,
you listen. Let me tell you something about right, I'm
sticking your ship. I tell you what, I'm sticking your
ship because I talked to you the other day and
you said you don't want to you don't want to
be in no relationship.

Speaker 8 (39:10):
Why are we trying to influence people to be in
relationships trust women?

Speaker 26 (39:15):
And now you telling me, oh, I'm gonna get into
this relationship and I'm not gonna change no relationship.

Speaker 8 (39:21):
You don't want a relationship.

Speaker 26 (39:26):
Lady, This man doesn't want no relationship.

Speaker 19 (39:29):
Still, here's the deal you just want to pump into Listen, Hey, listen,
I say this. I don't because I already know who
I am. So why would I say a lot of
myself that. I know that my ways is going to
fuck it up? And I know that that's on me.
I don't blame a lot of women for who I am.
I put it all on me, and I made this.

(39:51):
I created me, I created my mindset.

Speaker 4 (39:54):
You know what I'm saying. I did this. I don't
blame women for nothing. You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 8 (39:58):
But you're still out there out there?

Speaker 26 (40:00):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, here's the deal.

Speaker 19 (40:06):
I'm not out there left. I'm not even doing I'm feeling.
I don't really chilling. I really just live in life
and just having fun with it. But I know I have.

Speaker 8 (40:18):
Tell you, do we gotta match made in Heaven? Do
we got to match make it Heaven?

Speaker 1 (40:23):
Know his deal?

Speaker 4 (40:23):
I'll be honest, No, I haven't his deal. But I
think is this.

Speaker 19 (40:28):
I can't miss something I never had, right, And that's
a lot of people's problems. See, people are so mostly
attached to an ideal of love. You know what i'm saying,
never really experienced true love. You know what I'm saying.
I believe that you know what I'm saying. I haven't
experienced it either for myself. But I'm honest enough to
say that you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 23 (40:46):
You haven't given you.

Speaker 1 (40:50):
Here's the deal.

Speaker 4 (40:50):
Let me finished.

Speaker 19 (40:52):
You know what I'm saying, a lot of people can
talk themselves out of ship too, because you, I mean,
well multiple emphasized certain things. I don't fuck with it.

Speaker 1 (41:00):
Here's a deal.

Speaker 19 (41:01):
If I know the ship's gonna go bad, why would
I even start when I know the end is gonna end?
Why would I put myself to a situation? Why would
I put myself in turmoil?

Speaker 4 (41:09):
What I know?

Speaker 19 (41:10):
The turnmoils right in front of my face. I don't
even know what the red flags. I am not smarter
than none of y'all. I just see ship and I
go the other way. I don't have to deal with ship.
See people want to deal with.

Speaker 4 (41:21):
The red flags. The red flags are there in the beginning.
Why the fuck you just didn't.

Speaker 8 (41:25):
Go around that ship.

Speaker 15 (41:28):
I'm no relationship.

Speaker 4 (41:35):
Here's the deal.

Speaker 19 (41:35):
I'm not smarter, y'all. Y'all is more emotional than me.
I'm just more logic. I'm not smarter. It's not about
who's smarter. He's just more emotional. You just you know
what I'm saying, you carpet fantasy lad about love, I
just see it for what it is.

Speaker 4 (41:49):
There is not that much love, you know.

Speaker 19 (41:54):
I'm talking about I'm talking about most people in life.
I'm not talking about this individually.

Speaker 8 (41:58):
On this app.

Speaker 4 (41:58):
It's a lot on this app. It's a lot in
the world.

Speaker 7 (42:01):
It's a lot of it in the world on this app.

Speaker 15 (42:04):
You know you don't believe love is real. That's what
you're saying.

Speaker 1 (42:07):
Look, here's the deal.

Speaker 4 (42:08):
Most of it is not real. Most of it is
based in Lusk.

Speaker 1 (42:13):
Real quick, real quick, Ryan, real quick, real.

Speaker 8 (42:14):
Quick, exact, fighting for his life right now?

Speaker 1 (42:19):
All right, Ryan, I don't know if you don't. I
don't know if you experienced this or not. But when
you get the one, you know, the best of.

Speaker 19 (42:27):
The best, that took the top tier, you know, yeah,
your top at top of the top right right, the experience.

Speaker 1 (42:37):
You know where I'm going with. When you get the
best of the best, you're not gonna say ship like that, Ryan, Bro,
You're gonna be open to every change. Bro, you know
what I'm saying, Bro, I feel like once you come
across someone that can change your mind and what you've
been thinking. Bro, you ain't gonna be saying this ship. Bro,
it's gonna be a whole different.

Speaker 11 (42:59):
Deal.

Speaker 1 (42:59):
Lit little to hold hold hold on, different ball game, Ryan,
You're gonna find something going like, damn, don't want to
do this. I want to go get her nails done.
I want to do this, I want to pay. It's
one you're gonna want to do that, but you got
to experience it with one person, Bro. Don't spread your
energy everywhere, Brody in this one. In this one, you
gotta focus on one bro.

Speaker 29 (43:21):
One all I'm saying, hold on, and I want to
talk to my brother nick y'all see my brother Nick
here too.

Speaker 1 (43:31):
I want to check on him too. And ship was
trying to get in here for honey. Right now, I
want to check out.

Speaker 26 (43:39):
Check the bron We touch one punch line?

Speaker 8 (43:44):
Stack? What punch line? You can't teach this ship to
serial data. You can't do it, ad Chake.

Speaker 1 (43:52):
Okay, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

Speaker 4 (43:55):
What's what's the word?

Speaker 8 (43:57):
Oh? So many things.

Speaker 24 (44:01):
To what the dude was just talking about them?

Speaker 1 (44:03):
Right?

Speaker 30 (44:03):
I gentually agree with Passport except for the fact that
people can't make you change, they inspire you. People can't
change you, they inspire you to change yourself. Right, So
that's my opinion on it. I'm certified a lot of
my life, I was a certified fuck nigga, right, if
she was nice, whatever, whatever I'm bagging, I'm tagging, you know,

(44:24):
it is what it is, right. But at the same
at the same time, there have been times in my life,
even in my fuck nigga though, where I came across
a woman that was truly solid and I immediately, like
unintentionally switched everything out. Now, all of a sudden, I'm
only talking to as one person or two people, depending
on the situation I was in. But you know, I'm
only doing with these people that that I have encountered

(44:44):
that were different than the rest. Right inside, every fuck nigga,
for every fuck nigga there is out there that's all
here just rat bagging and tagging. There's a few women
out there that when they come into contact with them women,
all of a sudden, they have no urge to fuck
with anything else, right because what she presents is just different.
It hits different for that man, right, so I honestly

(45:07):
don't even think this kind of is gonna hurt some feelings, right,
but everybody not her, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 4 (45:13):
As far as Mango, so like yeah, like you.

Speaker 30 (45:17):
Like, oh he was a fucking nigga, he judgoooooo noah love,
he was easy Gucci.

Speaker 1 (45:20):
He was just something to do.

Speaker 30 (45:21):
Unfortunately for him, right before another man, you might be
the krim della krume. You might be the greatest thing
he ever seen. You get what I mean? And for
some people, you're not that to nobody and the same thing.
Can we see it from man? Some dudes are just
not him. That's why you're the food nigga. That's why
you and her phone saved as dominoes. You know what
I'm saying, Uber eats. It's just a fact of life.
I think people needs to come to grips with that, right.

(45:42):
And it doesn't make them gay because they don't want
to fuck you. It doesn't make her weird because she
didn't make you, you know, want to be your girlfriend
or anything like that. It doesn't make her whole. You
just didn't invote whatever that is and her that made
her want to slow down. It's simples and it's true
on both sides. I think it's a certain humility that
people lack, right because the ego stroke, their ego slap
of like, yo, what you.

Speaker 4 (46:02):
Mean you don't want to cuff me?

Speaker 7 (46:03):
What?

Speaker 4 (46:04):
Why are you not answering my calls?

Speaker 30 (46:05):
Are you serious?

Speaker 23 (46:06):
Right now?

Speaker 1 (46:07):
They be hurt hurt?

Speaker 30 (46:09):
I just me, bro, I ain't gonna say they never
happened to me. I just took my shit in my role,
you know what I'm saying, Shorty on a different type
of time or even or even where she's just like
I just didn't do it for her like that, right,
And it's not even like something, you know. I think
a lot of people take the ship to heart too
much though, stat like you know, they really be hurt
about it for a long time. And too, I'm gonna

(46:29):
say this, we got to your title.

Speaker 24 (46:34):
I'm not a perfect person.

Speaker 30 (46:35):
I don't think I'll be the perfect partner, but I
think that my pursuit of perfection right the consistent that
somebody said discipline earlier, Right, I feel like it's my
dude to keep improving and to pay attention to you
as you grow, right and you change, because they say,
you know, the smart people said that women change almost
completely every five to seven years. When you were twenty five,

(46:58):
she was on a balcony with you. She beat you
to the belcony and was waiting on you. At thirty two,
she she'll fuck with it sometimes. Now she only want
to fuck with it indoors at ford it. She's like, bro,
I'm not fucking on no balcony, on a boat, on
a on a yacht in the hotel nowhere. You get
what I'm saying, Like, you know, people just change, and
you got That's why people need to consistently like listen
to understand. Don't just assume that you know this person right,

(47:21):
because they're growing, they're being exposed to things. There's certain
things in their mind that as you grow in your
relationship stright from being long winded, that those things evolved.
Things that you know, things that they have she's had
conversations about, or he's had conversations but heard about. He
wants to try, so keep dating, like keep having those
real conversations. Ask him, like, you know, what's something new
that you want to try that you know that we
never did. A place you want to go eat, you know,

(47:42):
a place you want to go get freaky like a
different with style of dress. You know, come on, people
just doesn't saying I think these a lot of these
relationships go to hell after so many years because people
stop dating and they stopped like once they get to
where they figure like we're good, we're married, or we're
in a relationship, we're living together now.

Speaker 1 (47:58):
I ain't got to do no more work than no
learning ship chack, come.

Speaker 8 (48:01):
On, you know.

Speaker 30 (48:03):
So I'm just I just encourage people to like keep listening.
You know, you got two ears and one month for
a reason. Like listen twice as much as you speak,
and always seek to do better. And remember that you
signed up for whatever situation you in, so honor your
duty whether you mad or not. That's the last thing
I'm gonna drop with. Appreciate you, nah, check, I appreciate you.
I need y'all to ping up.

Speaker 12 (48:21):
Yo.

Speaker 1 (48:21):
I'm gonna check on my brother Nick, and I know
some people want to come in, but I want to
give him some space in here and brother for Sean
and a couple other people that whoever want to jump in.
It's a great conversation, but ping it up and share
it up so we can have some more people, you know,
come through right now on this ship. Like what y'all doing.
Let's keep going, big pack, Let's not takes the pick

(48:41):
up the what nothing do.

Speaker 23 (48:49):
Nothing but do it but nothing bumping the move not
like my life.

Speaker 1 (48:52):
You'll be smart and my lives. Chris smiles that glass.

Speaker 6 (48:55):
Give me listen this switch down, which is I'm being
able to see if it's Chris minds and the grasses
them not even Christians click band, but it's thinking that
the quick, sir, see that full of black of goodister.

Speaker 31 (49:08):
And if you make coming on the enemy, they mean
the nurse away for me. People are basking coming back
than we meet him bloody Ga'm seeing calamaty and so
we should talk and figure Canada became our experienced no gaping.

Speaker 1 (49:28):
Violent people like that. Should I keep in your bad
gus Taliban's than my mad work. You keep playing this
ship up, let's go. But that's where we end, as.

Speaker 31 (49:39):
I should people, and I'm in a red grass Taliban's
like the show guns.

Speaker 7 (49:45):
May you not sleep by your yard in a four months?

Speaker 31 (49:47):
And so we make people and more no like get
down my house the basketball a year than shure about
and if a semeter about with that INIX and no
politician with manias for a killer for see down four votes.

Speaker 1 (50:06):
We got to having a great, great, great, great great
conversation today. Everybody's been jumping in, right, what makes you
the perfect partner? We in the media mentors mega mansion.
Please click the link at the top. If you guys
are not a part of the house, so that way,
when we have conversations like this, you can be, you know,
a part of it. Me and brother Yeay said, man,
you know what we coming over here today. We coming

(50:28):
over here to talk that shit. So we've been having
a great conversation. But I want to check on my
brother and Nick because I want to give him a
space to come in and chime in. What makes you
a perfect partner? What he got it? You know what
I mean to chime in? It's my brother. He helped
me build this media military mansion over here. You know
what I'm saying. So I want to give him some space. Brother, Nick,
are you buy your mic right now?

Speaker 11 (50:46):
Man?

Speaker 4 (50:46):
Over to you, man, I'm here, brother.

Speaker 9 (50:49):
What's going on?

Speaker 12 (50:50):
Man?

Speaker 4 (50:50):
How's everybody doing today?

Speaker 1 (50:51):
Happy? Oh? Nick? How you feel about this topic today?

Speaker 24 (50:53):
Mam?

Speaker 32 (50:53):
Brother, I'm good, man, I'm good.

Speaker 8 (50:56):
I'm good.

Speaker 32 (50:56):
It's pleasure to be in this space. I love the energy,
I love the conversation. I'm gonna keep it very brief
and this is just my personal take. So whoever comes
and you know, throw some kill shots at me, I'm
ready for it. I'm ready for the heat. But this
is just my personal take for me. And you know what,
I'm gonna change the word perfect. I'm not gonna say
perfect partner, because there is no such thing as a

(51:17):
perfect partner. Everybody has their flaws. Everybody got their imperfections,
Everybody got things they need to work on. Everybody needs
some healing. I'm gonna throw a emphasis on the word
healing because everybody needs some healing. Everybody needs some self
identity work. Everybody needs to figure out who they are
and what they are. And to me, what I've learned,
I'm only twenty nine. I've been through a little bit

(51:37):
at my age, but I've experienced a lot of women
for me, were not trustworthy, they weren't loyal, They didn't
protect my name in private as they should in public.
They would constantly destroy my image when I wasn't in
the room. And to me, that's something I cannot tolerate.
Is somebody that wants to be a part of my life,
live my lifestyle, add to my quality of living, but

(52:00):
destroys my image when I'm not in the room because
they only they only see you for the accolades that
you've obtained, but they don't fall in love with your heart. Now,
where I'm going with that is a lot of people,
and not just women. I see some men doing it too.
Sometimes we fall in love with a person's hand and
not their heart. And I think that's the biggest misconception

(52:21):
we cannot do, is we got to fall in love
with somebody's soul and what they bring to the table
rather than what you rather than what I can give
to you by holding my hand out. And I'll yield
on this point because I feel like I've already said
something that I've that I've learned that really made me
understand the importance of relationships is who's gonna be with you?

Speaker 4 (52:42):
Like I think it was the Brother Chick that just
mentioned it before me.

Speaker 8 (52:45):
Who's gonna be with you through.

Speaker 32 (52:47):
Your darkest times, through your darkest moments when you're going
through your struggle trying to figure your life out and
build your dreams and aspirations. Who's gonna be there with
you when you got no money to your name, when
you're still figuring your life out, when all your friends
don't left you, and that you're no good, this, that,
and the third.

Speaker 8 (53:01):
Like, there's so many.

Speaker 32 (53:02):
Factors to take into account, but I think it's really
important and truly important. All you're done this stack. It's
truly important that we fall in love with somebody for
who they are and what they are, and not for
what they can be. I'm gonna say that again. It's
important that we fall in love with somebody for who
they are right now rather than what they can be,
because sometimes we fall in love with the image of

(53:24):
what someone can be, not realizing that it takes time
to get to that image or build that image.

Speaker 8 (53:30):
So that's just my two cents.

Speaker 32 (53:32):
Brother loved the conversation, and that's just how.

Speaker 8 (53:34):
We do it.

Speaker 1 (53:35):
Man. I appreciate my brother Nick, and you know we
coming from the same city. This is someone I know
in real life. So when he come through, this is
real shit, real brotherhood, real shit. You know, Nick, I
gotta chop it up with you soon. But you know,
you know what it is, bro locked in. You know
me and Nick met man, he came up to the
radio station to show me love. You know what I'm saying,

(53:56):
Like he could have been doing anything else, but Brody didn't.
He pulled up on me while I was doing an
interview live in Boston. He said, Yo, let me pull
up stat So I appreciate you Nick, you know, for
always supporting bro It's a great ass conversation. I want
to continue this conversation with you guys in the media mentors.
Megan mentioned right, what makes you the perfect partner? Yay?

(54:18):
What's up? Brother? What's good now?

Speaker 26 (54:20):
I'm just sitting here thinking about did I hear you
know what I'm saying something to the to the point
of someone saying transaction, just like in the business. In business,
you can't say I'm using you more than you're using me.
We both exchanging resources, all.

Speaker 8 (54:40):
Types of stuff like that. I never hear, No, I've
never heard of one say that yet, you get what
I'm trying to say.

Speaker 26 (54:45):
So, if I'm showing you love, you know, reciplicating it,
then how the hell do we supposed to say? Okay,
we're both in this together, we're both in the one
hundred percent.

Speaker 8 (54:57):
I haven't anyone mentioned that.

Speaker 22 (54:58):
Doesn't doesn't the death of the relationships show that if
you're not reciprocating and you gotta love one person's got
a lover heart always pouring in someone, their cup's gonna
become empty. And they're not gonna be around somebody that's
gonna pull back into their cup. They never was, They
never was groomed for that, and that never was how
they walked into your life. So to expect your cup

(55:19):
to get filled off someone who's just been around for
the vibes, we no longer vibes day out of it
because they only came along for the vibes. And that's
what I feel like a lot of people in relationships,
they're not really focused on that. I think being around
reciprocal energy is essential for everything you do in life,
Like you shouldn't be pouring into nothing that's not pouring

(55:40):
back into you in some fashion.

Speaker 1 (55:42):
Like that's how I feel you, Farma, Farma, I feel
where you coming from. I feel where you're coming from, farmer,
Because there's no way you're gonna pour from an empty cup, right,
put a fine emogi if y'all agree with that real quick,
let me see what's going on. There's no way you
could pour from an empty cup trying to get into
some other shit, right, and I feel like, you know
a lot of people gott to go do that brings

(56:03):
it back to the work part, going to go do
the work, make sure that you're hell, making sure that
you yeah right. So let's bring it back to that,
going to go do the self work.

Speaker 19 (56:12):
Let's go, and it's gonna be controversy by God said,
most people don't deserve love in the world, for real.

Speaker 23 (56:27):
That's why this suit when he fucked up people out here,
because they.

Speaker 19 (56:33):
I'm gonna most people don't deserve love because you went
around here taking advantage of people who have shown you
love and who do love.

Speaker 8 (56:42):
You at the while, you don't deserve that ship people have.

Speaker 4 (56:45):
I wouldn't say that those people and miss here's it
and most people have taken that ship for granted.

Speaker 19 (56:52):
You misuse it, you did not respect it, you did
not appreciate it, and people have poor love into you genuinely.

Speaker 4 (56:58):
At the end of the day, you don't deserve ship.

Speaker 19 (57:00):
You deserve to die by your motherfucker youself and pissing
in with that ship because people are really poured into
your ship and really gave love and genuine for the heart,
not just giving you money, being there, being supportive, being
in the hospital with you. If you will say, all
the ship and you took that motherfucker for granted, So
most of mother.

Speaker 23 (57:20):
That's fair, that's fair, but it's not a win little and.

Speaker 1 (57:25):
It's extreme from.

Speaker 23 (57:26):
It because I agree with a lot of what you said.

Speaker 22 (57:35):
But it's just like I think that you do gotta
have some you don't that you do hold up, hold up,
I'll let you get yourself you got.

Speaker 23 (57:44):
There's some people.

Speaker 22 (57:44):
There's some people that are redeemable because they never ever
seen love. All they know is, you know, take living
survival mentality. They've never been able to get outside of that.
So sometimes they just acted off just primal instinct until
you put them in a new city situation and then
they see that they don't have to be in survival
no more than their brain expands. There's some people that

(58:08):
are like that that do need that grace. But I
agree there's some people that know that they getting grace
and they're gonna abuse that. So like you hitting, but
I also think that you gotta have that grace in
there for those people that are just dealing with ignorance
of life. You know, they're young, they're not really experienced,
so they fucking up. But there's some people that learn

(58:28):
from them fuck ups and step up to the play
like a.

Speaker 4 (58:31):
Yeah, I was.

Speaker 1 (58:37):
NA, I'm all right, so pete, pete check check me. Yeah,
let me let me get KB and then let me
get doctor Jadath in here because she's been waiting to
so KB and they passing to Jada. We're going to
contelet my sister, Lesca.

Speaker 7 (58:53):
What makes you a perfect partner?

Speaker 27 (58:56):
Honestly, being honest, I don't think is nobody out there
that's perfect you feel me.

Speaker 7 (59:02):
I think that people people got the idea.

Speaker 27 (59:05):
Of a perfect partner you feel me is nothing is
no such thing as perfect. It's what you tolerate, you
know what I mean. Ain't nobody gonna tolerate disrespect and
all that shit. Nobody's doing that. But what I can say,
the perfect partner is close to a perfect partner is
a partner that's there for you. They hear your cries,
they know your mood from your mood, they know you

(59:27):
not okay, Like it's a person that pay attention to you,
you feel me. But to expect perfect from somebody, that's
like shit. You see in a movie or signing, like,
let's be realistic. Nobody's perfect, bro, And a lot of
people get that shit confused. Like that's why a lot
of relationships don't work because people be so caught up
on the internet and society and with what rappers doing

(59:49):
with people and all this shit like that. People get
so caught up on that and they want that life story.

Speaker 23 (59:54):
But you don't know what they going.

Speaker 27 (59:55):
Through behind closed doors either. They probably don't got the
perfect partner either. You feel me, and I don't speak
from experience, like you could do everything for a person
to you black and fucking blue. And guess what if
it's not in them to appreciate you, they're not gonna
appreciate you.

Speaker 7 (01:00:09):
So guess what you're gonna do. Hey, listen, it's not
it's not on you.

Speaker 8 (01:00:17):
It's in you. Bro.

Speaker 27 (01:00:18):
You can't teach nobody how to how to how to
be perfect. You feel me if it's in you to
go into a relationship and be there for your partner,
and that's it. You can't put no title on that
as perfect. You feel me like, so me speaking from experience,
like you could do like I said, you can do
everything for a person and the motherfuckers still run all
over you. And then they say, oh, I was never

(01:00:40):
taught how to love, but you know how you want to.

Speaker 7 (01:00:42):
Be treated, So that's bullshit. Like if you know how
you want to be treated, right, why.

Speaker 27 (01:00:47):
You're gonna treat somebody different than you want to be treated.
Then when they treat you how everybody else treat you
is oh, you don't love me, nah bitch, when I
was treating you right, guess what you want paying attention?
You appreciate it now that I want a type of
I mean, like everybody else on I'm not the perfect partner, Like,
make it make sense, man. People gotta know what they want,
and people be going into situations with baggage.

Speaker 7 (01:01:08):
Lead that ship at the door. If you not heal,
don't come here. It ain't gonna be perfect. It's gonna
be arguments, it's gonna be uh.

Speaker 27 (01:01:16):
You you're getting accused of shit you're not doing all
because of what somebody else did.

Speaker 7 (01:01:20):
Like, we be dealing with hearts we ain't we ain't break.
You feel me, and you can't ever.

Speaker 1 (01:01:24):
Get dealing with the hearts.

Speaker 8 (01:01:30):
You be.

Speaker 7 (01:01:30):
We be dealing with hearts that we ain't break.

Speaker 27 (01:01:32):
Man, We be trying to love broken people. You feel
me and they don't be healed. Not saying you gonna
always be heal. You feel me a bit of walk
that path with you as long as you're gonna have
your shit together. You can't say you want great, you
want a good marriage, you want this, etcetera. And you
you you you giving me twenty five percent?

Speaker 7 (01:01:51):
Like how the fuck that work?

Speaker 8 (01:01:52):
You feel me? So?

Speaker 27 (01:01:53):
Like I said, it ain't such thing as perfect, but
it's people. You just gotta know what you're tolerant. You
gotta know what you want.

Speaker 8 (01:01:59):
Feel me.

Speaker 27 (01:02:00):
If you don't know what you want, then guess what
You're gonna be confused. They're gonna be confused. And the bitch,
it's gonna be a fucking circus.

Speaker 7 (01:02:07):
That is what I got to see.

Speaker 3 (01:02:09):
Nah.

Speaker 1 (01:02:09):
Shout out to my sister k B Right, hold up,
hold up she she is another member that helped me
over here with the media mentors Mega mansion almost every
day mentor and you know coming over here with people
always fire ass top as well. So KB, I appreciate
you sis coming through, pulling up, chiming into this conversation, right?

(01:02:31):
What makes you the perfect partner? KB? That ship was
fire right, we gotta chop it up. I'll call you
to KB. What do you guys think about this topic?
I need you guys to share it out though, right?

Speaker 4 (01:02:41):
Yay?

Speaker 1 (01:02:41):
What we doing?

Speaker 4 (01:02:42):
Man?

Speaker 1 (01:02:42):
We need a reset of some ship. What's up?

Speaker 7 (01:02:48):
KB?

Speaker 30 (01:02:48):
Talk to me?

Speaker 1 (01:02:49):
You got it?

Speaker 20 (01:02:50):
Bro?

Speaker 8 (01:02:50):
Amen?

Speaker 7 (01:02:50):
What the fuck y'all doing is a lot of y'all
in here? We got nine fucking shares, bro. If you
got a pink ticket, man, turn that ship in then
y'all know how we're going up? Media mentor and you
ain't here re shit.

Speaker 1 (01:03:03):
Yo, Yeah, I'm about to go up. It's time to
go up.

Speaker 9 (01:03:06):
You ain't.

Speaker 1 (01:03:06):
Let's go pick this ship now. Bus on.

Speaker 6 (01:03:14):
A long way from line traders ain't rights here, phone,
I ain't got no service. I'm on a PJ shooting
nights went from fifty dollars till my name to fifty
kre night.

Speaker 1 (01:03:22):
You want to pull up be saung baby, you can't
even scale height. I want to take you to the
sixtieth flow and fuck you in a pink man.

Speaker 6 (01:03:28):
Man, move on mass for me, baby, five pay or
been ten windows on the rent on not un less
than five or the niggas ain't bawling.

Speaker 1 (01:03:36):
He need be on a beach like it'll be on
the sideline. You ain't getting no planning time.

Speaker 6 (01:03:41):
I'll be with them ship papers, ice on on outside,
pockets full of cheat nigga, frush of them for breeze,
niggas smelling like some creed niggas. Head to toe Selene nigga,
real solid, screaming Nigga's in my eyes, boy, come in,
get in with you.

Speaker 1 (01:03:54):
Slippery should have changed a line, boy, Well, I'll.

Speaker 6 (01:03:56):
Screaming Fox twelve to they free the guys.

Speaker 8 (01:03:59):
Buddy.

Speaker 1 (01:03:59):
We ain't gotta put me in the game because I'm
starting five. Boy, but this ain't a game. That's how
I live.

Speaker 9 (01:04:04):
Ain't dead.

Speaker 1 (01:04:04):
I'm dead for real. I'm in a big body switching
gills niggad and risks on Zephyrhills.

Speaker 6 (01:04:08):
Now I'm from awkward Feeno baby like and Steve like
Serena baby, pull up in that yeah here, I'll pull
up brand new beano.

Speaker 25 (01:04:14):
Baby.

Speaker 6 (01:04:14):
I wanna came a long way from lunch trades and
in and rice here phone. I ain't got no service.
I'm gonna PJ shooting Knight went from fifty dollars till
my name or fifty k at night you want to
pull a big some baby, you can't be scared of house.
I want to take you to the sixty floor and
fuck you in a pink move on bass for me, baby,
I'll pay your windows on the rent over wow wow wow, whoa.

Speaker 8 (01:04:39):
Here?

Speaker 1 (01:04:40):
Yeah your penlic ship? The fuck up?

Speaker 8 (01:04:43):
Man?

Speaker 1 (01:04:43):
What ch'all doing?

Speaker 8 (01:04:44):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (01:04:47):
I can make the note screen, I can teach finance,
and I'm about my chick.

Speaker 6 (01:04:52):
You better come crazy, you go state chop screen on man.

Speaker 15 (01:04:56):
I'm gonna pack move, I'm gonna weed lose.

Speaker 24 (01:04:59):
I can meet then, no screens.

Speaker 1 (01:05:01):
I can teach for the accident about my team. I'm
gonna pay move.

Speaker 7 (01:05:10):
I'm gonna wait you.

Speaker 1 (01:05:12):
Hey man, y'all, y'all, y'all been y'all. We've been going then,
right we in the media mentors Megan Mansion. I've heard
some fire ass shares from everyone. Can somebody keep this
energy going? Who the fuck? Yay? What's going on?

Speaker 11 (01:05:26):
Man?

Speaker 1 (01:05:26):
It's over you?

Speaker 6 (01:05:27):
How bro?

Speaker 8 (01:05:27):
I'm saying here thinking about what the sisters says. Say
some profound shit. She actually said, says some ship that.

Speaker 26 (01:05:32):
Made me think about the things that b Mitchell realization,
and I was reflecting for myself. She said, you know,
you want somebody to treat you the same way you
want to be treated. And I was sitting there thinking
about the situations that I was putting through, and at
one point, I ain't gonna lie.

Speaker 8 (01:05:46):
I got lost in the street, y'all ready in my background,
I got lost in the street. I was a.

Speaker 26 (01:05:50):
Fifle mold gang banging jokes. I was doing all that
frezzy ship. So I got a little wise and all that,
but I didn't give a ship about the next person.
I wasn't treating like the person I got like I
wanted to be treated treated. So then it came to
a situation where if you don't want to treat me
like that, it's an I fi I at this point,
and that's what it got real. So it shouldn't have
took me to get hurt broken down to understand that

(01:06:12):
I need to straighten up as a man.

Speaker 8 (01:06:14):
But hey, man, it happens, right, But yet, treat people
like you want to get treated.

Speaker 1 (01:06:17):
I got a question for you, A, I got a
question for you ya. So you feel like if you
would have, you know, known that earlier, you could have
changed a lot of different situations and directions. Bron you
the thing is.

Speaker 8 (01:06:28):
I knew it earlier, I just didn't put it into effect.

Speaker 26 (01:06:31):
You know what I'm saying, Like I started saying to myself, man,
you know, act like I was really a product of
my of my environment. But d Indeed, when I was younger,
I was, I was going to church. I knew these
type of things, you know what I'm saying. But like
I said, that's the Bible mode got me where I
was at. If I would have sat there and thought
about that earlier, like yo, bro no better WHOA, then

(01:06:52):
I would have been you know, I would have been better.

Speaker 1 (01:06:55):
I would have been better.

Speaker 8 (01:06:56):
So that's the only thing I could really say about that.

Speaker 26 (01:06:58):
And my you know what I'm saying, teach my youngest
children the same thing that I that I went through
before they end up in a place where they.

Speaker 11 (01:07:04):
Don't want to be.

Speaker 8 (01:07:05):
Ultimately, so welcome to the medium.

Speaker 26 (01:07:06):
The media mentors make a mention and bro Stax got
the sister man that Juliet jigg got.

Speaker 8 (01:07:14):
Quite so we got Jada in the building was going on, Yoli.

Speaker 1 (01:07:18):
I think I think Jada was next to it's going crazy.
You know, I'm passionate now four hundred. We appreciate you too.
You know, collabing with my brother. Yay, we're gonna do
some fire ass topics coming up, you know and in
near future, so make sure you'all tap in with ya too,
my brother four hundred house. We're going all the way
up up right. So look right after KB came in

(01:07:41):
with that fire assh. You know that's my sister mad
Love right. I want her to pass it right to
doctor Jadas because she wanted to get in the queue
right after doctor Jada. The floor is open. Y'all can
attack it. Y'all can get it, do whatever y'all want
to do, and popcorn after Jada, Jada over to you
and the popcorn. Let's do.

Speaker 14 (01:07:59):
It.

Speaker 1 (01:08:00):
She's still available. Jada might not be our mic, but
we might have to do popcorn. So who's coming in next?
Who want to take this mic? About this?

Speaker 7 (01:08:12):
I'm in the zone.

Speaker 5 (01:08:13):
We might as well keep going.

Speaker 7 (01:08:14):
You feel me, like you said for Henry, you feel me.

Speaker 8 (01:08:18):
It's a good thing that you learned. Though you feel me.

Speaker 7 (01:08:20):
It's a lot of people that's in.

Speaker 27 (01:08:23):
Our generation who still haven't learned. Who's still using they
passed trauma as crutches. You feel me, so they think
it's okay to treat a motherfucker wrong, like you know
what I mean.

Speaker 7 (01:08:34):
So, like I said, you know how you want to
be treated.

Speaker 8 (01:08:37):
You feel me.

Speaker 7 (01:08:37):
And even though people knowingly.

Speaker 27 (01:08:40):
They don't want to be treated back, or they want
to be loved, or they never had love before.

Speaker 7 (01:08:44):
They still treat people like shit.

Speaker 27 (01:08:47):
Like a lot of people wonder where their karma come from,
but it's how you treat people. You feel me like
you're gonna get what you give to the universe. You
feel what I'm saying like you're gonna get that back
if you if you cross somebody out when it's time
for you to really settle down to be like, Damn,
I'm a genuinely loved person, I'm gonna be there for him.

Speaker 7 (01:09:05):
I'm a white day tears, et cetera, et cetera.

Speaker 27 (01:09:08):
You might get that heartbreak you feel me and it
be like damn, like I did everything right, but at
one point.

Speaker 7 (01:09:16):
Of time you was doing everybody wrong. Who was doing
you right?

Speaker 8 (01:09:19):
You feel me?

Speaker 7 (01:09:19):
So that shit come back and then trying you cold.

Speaker 27 (01:09:22):
I've been there before and I always be like damn,
I done did a lot of females dirty. But now
I'm ready to settle down to be the perfect partner.
How I idolize it and everybody want.

Speaker 7 (01:09:34):
To play games, But damn, I'm treating people how I
want to be treated. At a time I wasn't. I
was running over people thinking because oh yeah, they like me,
and I'm this something that I can have forever. I
want playing the game. But now I'm chilling in the
game the game playing me at the moment you feel
me like, So it's like you give what you get.

Speaker 24 (01:09:54):
You feel me like.

Speaker 7 (01:09:54):
You can't be taught none of this shit.

Speaker 27 (01:09:57):
You gotta learn this shit step by step, and it
takes some of us longer than usual to you know
what I mean, know how this shit goes.

Speaker 7 (01:10:03):
So man, all like to say is listen that shit
come back.

Speaker 12 (01:10:07):
Man.

Speaker 7 (01:10:07):
So if you know that you don't want to be
playing a game, you don't want to be cheated on
none of that.

Speaker 27 (01:10:12):
Shit, you better get that shit right, bro, or somebody
else gonna get it right for you, and you're gonna
be replaced.

Speaker 7 (01:10:16):
It's that simple, Okay, But here's nothing right.

Speaker 25 (01:10:22):
Because I've been listening, I think people got to understand
something like, because I think people push everybody into this
healthy relationship aspect when that's not how that works obviously,
just like you know Farmer was saying earlier, you can't
lay somebody poor if you're cup inty into your cup.

Speaker 7 (01:10:38):
But this is the thing is is that the thing
is just that if somebody was dating somebody that.

Speaker 25 (01:10:43):
Did not know like they know that they don't really
have nothing to get them, they don't have no wisdom
to share.

Speaker 7 (01:10:47):
That's on those people.

Speaker 25 (01:10:49):
I wish y'all stop projecting pushing people to have these
relationship perspectives, I mean, these healthy relationship perspectives that they
are not destined for that comes with growth. People are
not just gonna wake up one day and be in
healthy relationships.

Speaker 7 (01:11:04):
That's on them.

Speaker 25 (01:11:05):
If they gotta get walked through mud and blood and
walk seventeen ways for Sunday, that is on them. Y'all
have to stop pushing people to think that they deserve
better and they don't think that for themselves.

Speaker 7 (01:11:16):
That's not y'all fucking job.

Speaker 25 (01:11:19):
And honestly, y'all take away from y'allselves by trying to
push this shit into other people, and you don't even
have your own problems fixed, honestly, Like, I'm not worried
about who is not in a real healthy relationship and
who is I feel like, wherever you at in life,
it says a lot about where you at in life.
If you ain't healthy unhealthy relationships, that's where you supposed

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to be. This is what you allow your self worth
to determine. This is where you're gonna be at. So
ain't nobody gonna come in and deterred at Like, and
I agree with something she had said. People can only
encourage you to fix yourself. Nobody is in this fucking
room fixing anybody.

Speaker 4 (01:11:56):
No, you are not.

Speaker 25 (01:11:57):
You are just an encourager and an influencer. You who
do not fix anybody unless you are therapists.

Speaker 7 (01:12:03):
I don't think you're.

Speaker 25 (01:12:04):
Fixing anybody, honestly. So I wish people focus on their
own journey instead of trying to tell people, oh, well
you can do that, you can do that. No they cannot,
So shut up, Brittany. But at the end of the day, No,
that's my sister, y.

Speaker 7 (01:12:20):
I'm sorry. But at the end of the days, that's
what I have to say. Like, I just feel like
if people is there's.

Speaker 25 (01:12:25):
No actual way healthy people are in relations with unhealthy
people and there's nothing wrong with that healthy projective.

Speaker 7 (01:12:32):
That's so called healthy person. That don't happen like that.

Speaker 25 (01:12:35):
I wish y'all stopped making that a real thing, because
if you are the person that come out to mic
right now and say.

Speaker 7 (01:12:40):
I was a healthy person and I was in a
relationship with a healthy unhealthy person, you're not a healthy person.
I was toxic.

Speaker 15 (01:12:50):
I don't think nobody's trying to fix anyone.

Speaker 14 (01:12:52):
I think we just having a conversation about things that
are positive, trying to give our perspective for things that
we've been through in life. And I feel like nobody's
even trying to fix anybody.

Speaker 1 (01:13:00):
But when maybe Canary, hold up, bron I'll let you work.
I'm gonna let you work in a minute, man ar Man,
go ahead.

Speaker 14 (01:13:10):
No, I don't think none of us are trying to
fix anybody, but just giving our perspective the things that
we've been through, trying to maybe give somebody some insight
on things that they can't avoid, things that they go
through later so they don't have to maybe go through
ten years or five years of the same bullshit.

Speaker 7 (01:13:29):
Hold Canary, I'm.

Speaker 1 (01:13:31):
Gonna tell you when it's time to work. Go ahead, Jada.

Speaker 25 (01:13:35):
So the statement was said, it may have not been
said by you. So that's why it's a disagreeance. So
I'm disagreeing with it. You do not give the perspective
so regardless, and that that may not actually be true,
that there may be actually people in here that think
that they can fix people. I'm trying to deter them
from that because it's unhealthy and they'll constantly place themselves

(01:13:55):
in unhealthy cycles thinking that they can fix people like
that's not that's not a real You can only encourage
people to do better. But if you putting yourself in
a position to fix her, you're gonna put yourself in
a lifetime of bullshit.

Speaker 1 (01:14:09):
Mm, Canary, you ready to work, man? I know you
were trying to work. Man, get in, Let's get it.
Let's get it work.

Speaker 11 (01:14:18):
Now.

Speaker 33 (01:14:18):
Everybody know, if you've seen that movie Hose with Stanley Yale,
nance any woman ever coming to my life.

Speaker 8 (01:14:27):
I can fix that. Let me work.

Speaker 33 (01:14:31):
I turned the single mother into a woman with no worse,
not at all. Baby daddy abandoned the child. Now you
feel love and appreciate it. Let me work, man, the work.

Speaker 1 (01:14:45):
Canary work?

Speaker 33 (01:14:48):
Talking about I can't fix people on this app, I
rekindle relationship.

Speaker 1 (01:14:52):
That's my boy. For one hundred. Let's go, Canary work.

Speaker 8 (01:14:56):
Let me work.

Speaker 4 (01:14:59):
I turned the whole.

Speaker 8 (01:15:00):
I went to an honest woman. She ain't cheat on
me in four years. Let me work.

Speaker 9 (01:15:04):
Let's go.

Speaker 33 (01:15:07):
This woman being giving her body up for years before
she met me, me work. It's wrong with her talking
about I can't fix nobody as long as she got
two feet in a box.

Speaker 8 (01:15:23):
I'm a fixer. Me work.

Speaker 33 (01:15:27):
Now, listen, some women do need direction, and everybody is
entitled to a perfect relationship. You know what I'm saying,
Canary on which physical abuse on no woman? But mental abuse?
Hell yeah, he need to tear you down. You talk
too much.

Speaker 12 (01:15:45):
I'm sorry.

Speaker 33 (01:15:47):
He need to make you feel less than a woman
sometime because you're getting on my nerves on his app.

Speaker 1 (01:15:55):
Canary is time to work. It's time to work, right listen, Brothers,
the work.

Speaker 8 (01:16:01):
The working man, the belistening y'all.

Speaker 33 (01:16:03):
Now, what what makes me the perfect partner is?

Speaker 12 (01:16:06):
You know?

Speaker 33 (01:16:06):
I'm accepted flaws. You know, I understand you had a
child before me. I understand your child fall not really
in the life, look right right, need to learn how
to play with a football, or your daughter needs somebody
to sit with her through gymnastics.

Speaker 1 (01:16:21):
Let me work.

Speaker 33 (01:16:23):
You know what I'm saying. So I'm not gonna pay
a hundred percent of your bills. If your rant fifteen hundred,
I'm gonna give you six hundred. I'm gonna just give
you something that your child father never gave you, some
type of help.

Speaker 8 (01:16:36):
I land, thank you.

Speaker 1 (01:16:38):
Listen, Canary, he's working. Yeah, can there, y'all. I appreciate
you putting that work in in the media. Mentors, thank you. Listen.
What y'all doing? Man? We end up four hundred? What
were doing? Man? I need I need y'all to I

(01:16:58):
want to continue this converse station, but I need some
more people in here too. Yes, so yeah, who want
to come in next after the Yeah? Do you want
to come in after that word?

Speaker 9 (01:17:15):
You know what?

Speaker 34 (01:17:16):
Until the other day, I didn't believe it about breaking
somebody down, right, But I've heard a woman with the
plod of a fucking lion ego, and sometimes you gotta
let it know.

Speaker 26 (01:17:29):
Hey, baby, like you a little to above this guy
right now? You need to bring it down because this
is our reality. You need to humble yourself. You're a
ready know we come from humble beginnings, right, So why
at this point do you feel do you better than
you can just say what you want to say and
be disrespectful and then expect me to respect you.

Speaker 4 (01:17:48):
So I'm not.

Speaker 8 (01:17:49):
It's kind of hard. It's kind of hard to really
agree with bro But Brod has had some strong points.

Speaker 1 (01:17:56):
Uh oh, yeah, he's agreeing with that. He's agreed with Listen,
I want to know who got some pushback for this?
Who's coming in? Right? I want to know? Right, let's
ping it up. Let's share that. But I want more
people to come in. How y'all feel? What makes you
the perfect partner? We set everything from communication, loyalty, respect

(01:18:18):
that we got Canary's perspective. Yeah, he agrees with it.
Let's go, who's coming in next?

Speaker 12 (01:18:25):
Man?

Speaker 1 (01:18:25):
This floor is open, man, let's got.

Speaker 28 (01:18:28):
Me.

Speaker 1 (01:18:28):
Let me hear, let me have Brock Canary. Then I'm
gonna come in with you. Brock. What's up?

Speaker 14 (01:18:32):
Brother?

Speaker 1 (01:18:32):
What you gotta say? What's up?

Speaker 11 (01:18:33):
Stat man?

Speaker 35 (01:18:34):
Salute to the room. Just to give answer to the question,
I'm not going to go off on a lot of
other things. Uh, what makes me the perfect I wouldn't say, uh,
I'm the perfect partner. I would say I'm a perfected partner.
I'm being perfected all the time. Nobody has it all

(01:18:56):
together all the time. We all go through life, We
go through different aspects of we deal with different situations.
We all are experiencing life. And the thing is, what
I've realized in my journey is that you know, this one,
this one friend of mine, we talked and he says
to me, he says, you know, he used to hear

(01:19:20):
people say they found themselves. And even when people find themselves,
they're not through evolving. You're gonna evolve some more.

Speaker 8 (01:19:31):
So.

Speaker 35 (01:19:31):
The thing that that I realize is that even when
I have made changes things that I was made mistakes
in things that I didn't do well in those perfected places,
come into that realization. I realized too that I'm gonna
change some more. I'm gonna evolve some more. So, I

(01:19:53):
would say, what has helped me to be a perfected
more of a perfected partner is that I realize I'm
not through changing. And that's until the day I leave here.
We all are going to be evolving. The thing is,
though I'll say this and our end on this note,

(01:20:14):
I come to you know, I come to believe that
love is a choice. People choose to love you. People
choose to hate you, people choose to treat you bad,
people choose to treat people choose to treat you good.

Speaker 11 (01:20:26):
But whatever it is that you know, the person does,
they choose to do that. And for me, love has
become choice.

Speaker 35 (01:20:38):
All the people it is that I love, I chose
to love them a feeling, just as they chose to
love me. What the thing is with people that you
come to love, you realize that they do that consistently,
and that may be where some of the emotional aspects
come in. But above all, I believe love is a choice, period,

(01:21:00):
no matter what, it's a choice.

Speaker 11 (01:21:02):
I am.

Speaker 1 (01:21:04):
Man. If y'all are just joining, you're talking about what
makes you the perfect partner? Right y'all been in here
going crazy? Right your canary, Let me get some more
work before this next reset, Bro, I'm doing a reset after.

Speaker 8 (01:21:17):
And relaxed man, put to see better Mac.

Speaker 1 (01:21:21):
I got you, brother.

Speaker 8 (01:21:21):
I don't charge the n MAC.

Speaker 1 (01:21:23):
For the work.

Speaker 8 (01:21:26):
You feeling me.

Speaker 33 (01:21:27):
You tie some of this Canary mag work, But listen,
I think what makes me a better partner? Feelas we
gotta start like for real and no trouble because I've
been doing this for two years, like we gotta start
looking at Russell Wilson Instagram.

Speaker 4 (01:21:43):
Fam Hey, let me work.

Speaker 33 (01:21:46):
We gotta start like reading his captions when he talked
about his woman and his family famly like because we
gotta start understanding that.

Speaker 8 (01:21:56):
That nigga for real.

Speaker 33 (01:21:58):
Let me work like for real, like I read something
he said about future sign that shit made me damn
their crop like for real, like I still be trying
to love my step child like.

Speaker 8 (01:22:10):
That without plan.

Speaker 33 (01:22:13):
Let me work, so you know, I got to learn
how to socially accept the woman like Russell did, man,
like for real, like I feel like if Sierra leave him,
I cheat on women forever. Work Like I'm so serious,
like if Sierra leave him, I would cheat on every

(01:22:34):
woman ever in kind of.

Speaker 11 (01:22:36):
My life for the rest of my life. You feel me?

Speaker 33 (01:22:40):
Because this is a real man.

Speaker 1 (01:22:42):
Right there?

Speaker 12 (01:22:43):
Man?

Speaker 1 (01:22:43):
Five more? Five more seconds?

Speaker 33 (01:22:46):
So Canary transition into an honest man?

Speaker 8 (01:22:49):
Man?

Speaker 33 (01:22:49):
I want to know how I feel to where my
woman on my sleeve like the good Russell Wilson.

Speaker 1 (01:22:55):
Yo, listen, try to ping this up and ship yourself.
I know y'all want to get into conversation. I'm check
on my brother Matt God too and I know Jeannie
came back. I want to get all y'all in the conversation.
I'm gonna have my brother. You ain't come in, so
I need to check on my brother for Sean too.
But I need y'all to pick the room out and
share the room out to some more people. I don't
know what y'all. You know what I'm saying, what y'all doing,
but pinic ship out. Let's go, mother, I'll let your

(01:23:18):
mother not go.

Speaker 19 (01:23:19):
Go on, you go go.

Speaker 1 (01:23:21):
I see if there you're talking, you little go go
to your lit go go go.

Speaker 11 (01:23:24):
It's that yo go.

Speaker 1 (01:23:26):
I need you look future hooko shuggko my local I'm.

Speaker 2 (01:23:31):
Goboy lit been me the baco for I know that job.
Feel like a jim fiey be mohs, I can come
and leave.

Speaker 1 (01:23:44):
Need casting it back backside, my little tough numb my
numb numb out numb, my mean, I'm nobody, bring me
tipping onlyting my knee, then me tipping. He put it

(01:24:05):
out in sharp on me.

Speaker 2 (01:24:06):
Cat richally gotta be for us signed to live, be
like the right from the one, because I'd like to
make sense.

Speaker 1 (01:24:11):
One or two girls and now one of them lit
cat dog pick me ship out what y'all doing. Let's
go because my brother Dad made me like to make friends.
One's in there yet, try to live la off? What
you got fresh?

Speaker 2 (01:24:23):
Fs me hardy to go find out the ring man?
Nobody listen me the bet I'll.

Speaker 9 (01:24:30):
Go for her.

Speaker 36 (01:24:30):
Lord go like a chimfy is t motion time? Hord
te in my knee, Honey tells the lit by biddy
with him. Ma'm gon talk numb man, numbnum, look, numbnum.

Speaker 1 (01:24:54):
Numb Hey, y'all, you know what You're gonna go all
the way in right, because I've been hearing a lot
of different, you know, good perspectives on this ship too, Respect, loyalty, honesty.
There's been a lot of different shares coming in and
I want to continue this conversation too. Right. I'm gonna
let my brother, Matt God get in here. Right then

(01:25:16):
I'm gonna pass it back to my brother four hundred
so we could, you know, get back on track. But Mac,
what's good? Man? You buy your mic? Man? What's going on?

Speaker 8 (01:25:22):
Brother?

Speaker 1 (01:25:23):
Let's go in where you are? How you fuck about
this topic? Man? How you're doing?

Speaker 35 (01:25:29):
Good?

Speaker 1 (01:25:29):
Matt, thank you for coming to support brother. Let's go.

Speaker 24 (01:25:34):
You want me to tell you what makes me the
perfect partner?

Speaker 1 (01:25:36):
Of course, man, God, let's turn this ship up, bro,
let's get it in.

Speaker 24 (01:25:41):
Well, it's two things that make me the perfect partner.

Speaker 37 (01:25:43):
Three excuse me. I'm resourceful, I don't give a fuck,
and I never commit.

Speaker 8 (01:25:53):
What the fuck I mean?

Speaker 1 (01:25:56):
Let's see.

Speaker 37 (01:25:57):
Let me ask you something all y'all think is trying
to be pop you love amongst the women, or all
y'all trying to keep them because like they tell y'all
what to do for y'all to be popular amongst them,
And that's fine, But if you want to keep them,
you know one of the most vial men, and I'm
gonna uote them. We date them like we hate them,
treat them like we don't need them, treat them like
we need them, and never give them freedom. That's the

(01:26:18):
nigga that always held on to.

Speaker 1 (01:26:20):
All his women.

Speaker 24 (01:26:21):
So you want me to listen to these women or
you want me to listen.

Speaker 37 (01:26:23):
To the nigga that keep all his oaths. I thought
this was a results based world. We live in the
niggas that's getting results and the ones that ain't. So
I want to keep my women happy where they never
leave me and they'll stay with me. I mean, I
don't want to do the things he did to keep them,
but you know, it is what it is. So what

(01:26:44):
makes me the perfect partner is that I know I
ain't perfect, So that automatically makes me the perfect party
because I know I ain't perfect. I know I fuck up,
I know I do some bullshites sometimes, but I also
know what I bring to the table.

Speaker 24 (01:26:57):
I love myself and.

Speaker 37 (01:26:59):
I'm gonna love them my partner the way that it
is supposed to be loved.

Speaker 24 (01:27:02):
So that's what makes me perfect or whatever.

Speaker 37 (01:27:04):
And also the one thing that makes me perfect is
knowing that ninety seven percent of these women on clubhouses
looking for a fixed and I got it. So I'm
perfect in the aspect of I understand the market. Right
y'all niggas don't understand the market. You got niggas that's
highly valuable settling for one mediocre nah man.

Speaker 24 (01:27:22):
All you hot value niggas.

Speaker 37 (01:27:24):
Run it up on this app make it good for
the lower level niggas to where is they tired of
dealing with the high level niggas, And then that's how
we make.

Speaker 24 (01:27:30):
This world perfect again.

Speaker 1 (01:27:32):
Freedom MacGuard Yo Mac I appreciate you for coming through
and speaking your truth. Right. If you guys are just
now joining the media mentors, we're talking about what makes
you the perfect partner? You know, media mentors Megan Manould
make sure you guys click the link at the top
and also, you know, join the house. We've been having
some great conversations about this, and I like to expand.
I like to have great debates respectfully. Nobody you know,

(01:27:54):
disrespects each other. We all come in and speak to
the topic. Four hundred. How you feeling, man about this?
What's going on?

Speaker 4 (01:27:58):
Brother?

Speaker 1 (01:27:59):
You buy your mind.

Speaker 8 (01:28:02):
Ship That happened earlier in the room today.

Speaker 37 (01:28:06):
It's a perfect example of a human being that good results,
perfect example Sack.

Speaker 1 (01:28:12):
Look for women.

Speaker 8 (01:28:17):
Hey, hey, hey, you loud mouth, got a rat? What
the hell are you doing right now?

Speaker 12 (01:28:21):
Now?

Speaker 24 (01:28:21):
I'm just saying, bro, you my brother. I'm just saying
that if you ever do you see when you tried.

Speaker 5 (01:28:27):
To be a good.

Speaker 1 (01:28:30):
When you tried to be a good man?

Speaker 8 (01:28:32):
Care about three? Yeah, but I don't what I'm care about.

Speaker 26 (01:28:34):
I don't think about that going to be I am myself, Okay,
young man, That's what I'm saying.

Speaker 8 (01:28:39):
You trying to be don't you mute up shirt. Hello,
I'm like what I'm saying.

Speaker 24 (01:28:44):
We have in a conversation.

Speaker 26 (01:28:45):
If you want to, if you want, if you want
to jump out of my daddy's penis and into my
mother's belly and then be born, Yay.

Speaker 8 (01:28:52):
You can do that. If you can do it, he.

Speaker 9 (01:28:54):
Can go to what he called.

Speaker 8 (01:28:56):
He called cat Yay he caught Yay.

Speaker 3 (01:29:00):
It ain't going Yeah, Mar, niggata controller, nigga, controller.

Speaker 11 (01:29:06):
Control.

Speaker 8 (01:29:08):
He's got them heating this animal.

Speaker 24 (01:29:09):
You can, nigga. You gotta be boring there.

Speaker 1 (01:29:12):
Listen.

Speaker 8 (01:29:13):
I'm not a dirty Mac.

Speaker 11 (01:29:13):
I don't do that.

Speaker 1 (01:29:15):
Listen, both of y'all. You know I rock with you.
I rock with Mac. Let's do this. Respect Okay, let's
do this. No, no, no, Mac, Mac, we gotta move on. Mac.
We can't do this.

Speaker 24 (01:29:27):
My girl said that to you yesterday, said you must
be right.

Speaker 8 (01:29:30):
What you want, what you want, what you want to
Mac versus j What you want to do?

Speaker 2 (01:29:37):
What you want to do?

Speaker 23 (01:29:38):
Instagram blog?

Speaker 24 (01:29:39):
Because I just got some money, so I want to
go on love you want to right now?

Speaker 12 (01:29:46):
Oh?

Speaker 8 (01:29:46):
So what we're doing we're doing book for book.

Speaker 37 (01:29:48):
Now, niggas what we're doing or not I got an
insane amount of large amount of money on my bed.

Speaker 24 (01:29:53):
I want to show you. Let's go live.

Speaker 8 (01:29:56):
You ain't gotta show listen, show the lady the game.
I'm gonna take them from you just by going lock
go stop.

Speaker 18 (01:30:03):
Look at this back.

Speaker 8 (01:30:07):
To day.

Speaker 38 (01:30:09):
Hey man, money money, I'll beget chicken, probably getting money, Mac,
So listen, O my.

Speaker 1 (01:30:25):
God, please, I just want to know. Do you only
follow this.

Speaker 8 (01:30:29):
You model them?

Speaker 4 (01:30:31):
Mac?

Speaker 1 (01:30:32):
Can we get some order, please, everybody in the media
mentors Megan Mansion, Please, can we have some order? You know,
we don't get down like this over here. We have nice,
respectful debates, you know what. I want to have a
nice I'm gonna check on my sister, Lindsay. She's gonna
switch the tone up for us. You know what I mean, y'all,
y'all crazy? Four hundred, everybody shush, everybody be quiet. What

(01:30:54):
makes you a perfect partner? Right? I want to check
on my sister and I want to go to her,
and she's gonna, you know, get us back on track
with good energy. Please everybody stay on mute. Lindsay, are
you buy your mic right now? Sister? Please? Can you
are you? Are you here with us? Are you by
your microphone, lindsay? And if she's not by her microphone,
it's okay because I want her to chime in for

(01:31:16):
Sean Over to you, bro, because this is getting crazy.
What's going on?

Speaker 8 (01:31:20):
Man?

Speaker 5 (01:31:20):
Peace, to the guys, cheeks, to the rubs. What's happening?
They sound like a Fun'm like, oh, by having a
good time?

Speaker 1 (01:31:28):
So what makes you.

Speaker 5 (01:31:33):
Slash me the perfect partner? I think my ladies would
say that I'm with they request. The fact that I'm
what they requested makes me ideal. You know what I'm
saying that's particularly relevant to them. I can't say I'm
the perfect partner based on my standards. The market says.

(01:31:56):
If I'm the perfect partner and for the women that
I like to deal with, that's what they say. And
from what they're saying, I'm what they ask for, Like
I meet their standards and their preferences right, And I
meet their preferences because I meet my preferences. They want
the same thing for me that I want for myself.

(01:32:18):
They require the same thing from the world that I
give to myself that I require for myself. You know,
I dictate the circumference of who I am, and they
particularly are looking for things like that. It's just like
looking for a car or a home. You know, people
go on the market and they look for a house.
They have an idea. Some people don't know what they

(01:32:40):
want to, just want a house they wanted to work.
Some people have a really you know, specific idea, what
typ of home they want, where they want it, what
type of history they need with, you know, all of
the things.

Speaker 1 (01:32:52):
And you know, I'm a did we lose for Sean?
Did we lose for Sean? The audio went out? Now
he's still here. It's just as audio went out for Sean.
Come back, bro, We want you to finish what you

(01:33:12):
were saying. But what makes you a perfect partner? Yet?
What's something?

Speaker 8 (01:33:15):
Man?

Speaker 1 (01:33:15):
How you feeling?

Speaker 4 (01:33:16):
Yeah?

Speaker 8 (01:33:17):
You know I gave him on my take on already.

Speaker 26 (01:33:20):
You know what I'm saying Like, it's definitely throwing money
in people face, women faces, as if that's going to
take away the ugly you know.

Speaker 1 (01:33:26):
What I'm saying. Damn right, Listen, Jeanie, you got anything
to say about this? I know Jeanie came in here
with us, Genie, you got to want to ask her
to the perfect Yeah, Genie, are you buying with us.

Speaker 35 (01:33:41):
Are you in here?

Speaker 39 (01:33:43):
I sure, am Hey, guys, Hey, i's been a minute.
Thank you, Stack and Amanda. I haven't been in here
for a long time. What makes you the perfect partner?
I'm gonna be honest. I'm not perfect, but I'll definitely
be a perfect loyal partner. I got a lot of
shit going on, and I hope myself accountable. But first

(01:34:03):
and foremost, in the past, for me, I was just
looking to fuck first.

Speaker 8 (01:34:09):
But now.

Speaker 39 (01:34:11):
Now with my ripe age, I need to change my intentions.
So I want to be friends first. So that's why
I'm a perfect partner to most men, because I'd rather
be your friend first than anything. Secondly, I'm a good listener.
I will give you my undivided attention so we can
work on things together because I recognize and appreciate imperfections,

(01:34:32):
right because none of us are perfect. So I'll give
you my time and I'll give you a quality time
as well, because I want to spend time with you.
And Lastly, my love language is acts of service, so
I'm very submissive to my partner, so I'm definitely going
to take care of you.

Speaker 17 (01:34:50):
I'm nurturing.

Speaker 39 (01:34:52):
I am a submissive person, and I know that I
would be a good wife and a partner in the future.

Speaker 1 (01:35:00):
You for coming through, Genie, coming through, giving us that,
you know, the intake, chiming into the conversation. And if
you guys know any more people that want to talk
about this topic today, what makes you the perfect partner?
Share the room to them, ping the room to them
so they can come in here and have this conversation going.
For Sean, you did cut you did cut out, Bro.
We heard you a little bit, but then you cut
off towards you know, towards the end, so we had

(01:35:22):
to swing it to somebody else. But if you're buying
your mic, you could definitely come through, bro and finish
with what you were saying over the year.

Speaker 8 (01:35:27):
Brother.

Speaker 5 (01:35:28):
Yeah, I left the room, came back. I'm an audible now, yes, sir. Yeah,
what's the last thing you heard?

Speaker 1 (01:35:37):
I forgot cut? Somebody's so my back.

Speaker 25 (01:35:42):
Said that you you said people wanted to buy a house,
and some people just want to buy any all kind
of house.

Speaker 40 (01:35:48):
That's the last thing.

Speaker 5 (01:35:48):
Oh yeah, I was just saying, we come with you know,
I come with certain amenities and I'm a well built
out property, you know something, you know, as always I
speak about what people can afford. You know, people get
what they can afford, what they in the market for.
And for the people that's in the market for what
I have to offer, you know, that's what makes me perfect.

(01:36:09):
Have you ever went to go like get an item
and that's that's that's that you wanted, that fit, that
fit all your requirements. You know, that's what makes me,
you know, perfect to the women that choose me, I
don't decide if I'm perfect the market. Does you know
what I'm saying? So those women say that I fit
them perfectly, But I'm not perfect for everybody. Some women

(01:36:31):
don't want me at all, you know, can't stand me.
They my voice day. I think what I have to
say is horrible. They don't like the way I address
and I'm too short. But for the women that that's
in the market for me, I'm everything. Damn Did I

(01:36:52):
go out again?

Speaker 3 (01:36:54):
Now?

Speaker 12 (01:36:54):
No?

Speaker 11 (01:36:55):
We can?

Speaker 7 (01:36:55):
You damn sure?

Speaker 9 (01:36:58):
Are you?

Speaker 1 (01:36:59):
I ain't think five.

Speaker 5 (01:37:00):
Nine I'm not short. I'm just not taller. I mean,
I didn't say it's not I'm not saying it's short,
but it's not tall. You know, women, you got sisters
say that if he ain't six two then you know
it's a no.

Speaker 8 (01:37:16):
Maybe.

Speaker 5 (01:37:17):
You know if if he's not, if he's not taller
than her, fake heal fake height, then you know it's
a problem. You know, I'm just saying.

Speaker 15 (01:37:28):
I get it.

Speaker 5 (01:37:32):
And with that said short man until mac comeback, I
mean still that comeback. I'm also not even mad at
women like who want taller men, Like it's it's understandable
a woman't want to a man that's taller than her,
And it's understandable why man will a woman that's shorter
than him, because there's a chemical response that happens when

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a woman has to look up thirty degrees or more
at her at her man, it creates this this superior
or submissive chemical response and her and when he has
to look down at her, it creates a sense of
responsibility and protection that both parties need from each other.
So I'm not mad at that. It just gets a

(01:38:15):
little weird when you need a brother to be taller
than your fake he'll hype you know, I need you
need him to be extremely tall, like you know, you
want him to be towering over and you want him
at your you want to stand at his belly button.
I'm like, you want some you want some different, but.

Speaker 14 (01:38:32):
You knowshon Also, I feel like it's about you know
how this well, I mean you probably feel like this
about there are certain men that have like that energy,
that has that still that dominance neck even when they're
not six four, they still have that same energy because
like I said, I be knowing who to play with
and who not to play with.

Speaker 15 (01:38:49):
I definitely do you know so I don't know what
I get what you're saying.

Speaker 24 (01:38:55):
No, that's a fact.

Speaker 5 (01:38:58):
But welcome to media Mentors. Man, if you want to
come up on stage, raise your hand one of the
MASA bring you up real quick, and you know, if
you want to share, go ahead and share. Make sure
you follow the house. Media Mentors makes you follow stack
in any of the mas on stage. You want to follow,
That sound good to you. Ain't gotta follow me, but

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you know, follow some of them and come up and
join the party.

Speaker 1 (01:39:22):
I appreciate you for Sean. I was on the phone
real quick. Look, if you guys are just joined, we've
been talking about what makes you the perfect partner. We
can continue this conversation. I know Andrea just joined the stage. Chira,
Robert right apples still here, like we can still go
in and do this right now, right, we can go
in and get busy. Who wants to talk about this

(01:39:42):
topic right now? Who wants to go in? Who's the
next person that wants to talk about this? I like
when we were talking about I got you, Jada. I
liked we were talking about earlier about you know, patients too.
Like remember earlier when we chimed in about that you
ain't got patience, then it's going to be a rap.
You got to learn how to work and compromise. I
was saying that earlier too. If you ain't got no
type of patience, ain't shit gonna work out right? Especially

(01:40:04):
as a man too. I think you got to have
more patience as a man, you know what I'm saying,
Because you know, women can blow up, things can get
out of it. You got to be the one to
be like it's okay, calm down, it's all good, right.
You got to be the one to be balanced out.
You can't be you know, having no patience and you know,
blowing up like your woman and shit, right, you got
to learn how to control who you are and balance.

(01:40:24):
So I think patience was a real important one that
I've heard earlier and jadath over you, so we can
continue this conversation, and whoever else wants to take the mic,
let's continue, and I might change the topic in like
ten minutes, refresh and then we're gonna ping this room
up and see what's going on. I'm gonna change the
topic me and yay, but I want you to continue
with this one, so jadath over you, and then whoever

(01:40:45):
else takes the mic after that, let's go. I want
to hear from track too, Let's go.

Speaker 7 (01:40:49):
That's all okay, if y'all want to go before me,
she cause whoever okay, well excuse me.

Speaker 25 (01:41:00):
One of the things I was gonna say that I
haven't heard nobody say on the stage, and they submission
is what makes him a personal personal perfect partner for me,
it's being flexible, like I feel like so like since
I've been on this app, all I hear is talking
with people talking about if you can't date them, you
gotta make a honey k you gotta have your own
this and all this other crap. Understand that there's fundamentals

(01:41:23):
or whatever the case. People may say, may need to
come with an adult person if they're wanting to date.
But one of the things I've also learned on this
app is a lot of y'all don't even have the
shit that y'all want people to have to date. Y'all,
you want a man and make the honey k, you
want a woman to make the honey k, or whatever
the case may be, but you short you thirty k
off for that number yourself. That's why I think, like

(01:41:45):
for me, it's being flexible, like I'm open to stuff
like wish what Sean was saying. You may want a
man that's six too, but I'm okay with a man
that's five eleven cause he's still taller than me.

Speaker 7 (01:41:57):
He doesn't have to be six foot and to be honest,
like he will be up here saying, okay, we want
men that make a huney k. I'm okay with a
doe that makes seventy K. I live in the state
of Michigan. You make seventy K, you're above them, You're
up in the higher earning people.

Speaker 25 (01:42:11):
So I don't need a man to make a hundrey
k for us to be okay and live like we
want to live in Michigan, you know what I'm saying.
So to me, it's just like being flexible like there
aren't things I obviously want, and I came into the
daily market. Want you know what I'm saying in my relationship,
like I want the man exactly kind of like most people.

Speaker 7 (01:42:26):
That's why I'm cloonmost me for it. I want the
man that make a honey k and all this other crap.

Speaker 25 (01:42:30):
But I actually got to see, the more you become
flexible in that stuff, the easier it's gonna be for
you to find your man. And also to me, you
gotta look for stuff that produces longevity. Does he have integrity?
Does he have work eatthic? Does he have ambition? I
think as long as he has those kind of qualities,
you will always be straight with that man because he

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never gonna let you go without without him making a
honey k. You know what I'm saying. So I look
for stuff that are gonna be more intrinsic values, and
I'm flexible to it, Like, all right, I'm met a
dude I mean to do. He may make ninety K
ten k off the hunding k standard that women are
out here preaching. Okay, we'll work with that, because if
I'm ambitious too, we coming together. He gonna make that

(01:43:12):
hundrey k. We gonna make that hundre k in our
household before this should go over with. It's not even
gonna be no no timely to that, you know what
I'm saying, Because we're both messing together with our ambition.
So I feel like women, you know what I'm saying,
Like women and men be out here saying the ambitious,
but they don't want broke people, or they don't want
people that don't make what they make.

Speaker 7 (01:43:28):
But it's like, obviously you not that ambition because of
ambitious Because in a.

Speaker 25 (01:43:32):
Marriage, y'all both are intertwenty y'all businesses and finances, so
we both got good ideas our business, our empire is
gonna rise, We're gonna come up with business opportunities. So
at the end of the day, I just feel like
a lot of y'all are not flexible in y'all dating.
Y'all are not adaptive. Y'all don't adapted change. Y'all are
not open to things that extend outside of what you
think is gonna be what's best for you. And a

(01:43:54):
lot of times you don't even know what's best for
you yet because growth comes in and changes everything that
you think is what's ask for you in a moment,
so that'll be my submission.

Speaker 7 (01:44:03):
That's what makes me.

Speaker 25 (01:44:04):
I'm not even gonna say the perfect partner, but the
workable partner. I'm open to change and I'm flexible.

Speaker 1 (01:44:10):
I like that part too, being flexible. Right, If you
guys aren't flexible, shit ain't gonna work. That goes. That
goes hand to hand with the patient's part patient's inflexible.
So you guys aren't patient inflexible, ain't shit gonna work? Like,
come on, man. Being able to help somebody increase connections resources,
that's like the biggest thing. I feel like resources too,

(01:44:31):
Like being able to exchange resources. I haven't heard you know.
You know a lot of people talk about that one too,
exchanging resources. A lot of people are stingy nowadays. They
sit on information. They know a lot of shit. They
can help a lot of people, and they'll sit on information. Nah,
media mentors, anybody that come in here. I help people.
I teach them information. Y'all should be doing the same thing,
but teaching information, not being stingy. Being able to exchange

(01:44:53):
resources as a partner, that's what being a partner is like.
All right, I got this or this can help you,
or this can do this for you? This can you
know what I mean? Or I know this person that
can do it. It's about extending resources with your partner.
And I feel like that's going into perfecting, you know,
the partnership, not being a perfect one, because I like
everybody was saying, no one is powered. No, I mean,

(01:45:13):
no one is perfect, but you can use that power
to become perfect right giving out information, exchanging resources, giving
it to different people, letting people know that you know,
it's all right, the shit information. So let's continue this, right,
I want to I want to check on brother, see
see are you by your mic right now?

Speaker 11 (01:45:29):
Brother?

Speaker 1 (01:45:29):
Are you here on this right now? How are you
feeling about this topic? Man, if you're around see, I
don't think he's around right now. But if anybody else
wants to chime into the topic, I'm gonna leave it open.
What makes you a perfect partner or what makes you
you know? What type of things you think you know
go into being a perfect partner. So I know a
lot of people you know can talk about this topic

(01:45:51):
or chime in or understand or relate right, And it's
nothing like having a partner that you know always can
support that one. I think I heard it earlier, but
the support part, seeing the potential before someone gets to
where they need to go.

Speaker 4 (01:46:07):
Support support is key.

Speaker 8 (01:46:10):
Right.

Speaker 1 (01:46:10):
If you ain't got support, you ain't got nothing. You
ain't got a backbone, you ain't got nothing. Right leaving
the cup and we can go popcorn stuff? And now
what makes sure you're.

Speaker 11 (01:46:20):
You know?

Speaker 5 (01:46:20):
You know, like the concept, but like what makes you know?
I didn't go into detail because I'm more sure one
to cover like the concept overall, but like a lot
of people don't realize that what makes what qualifies you
as a good romantic participant is the quality of health
that one has when oneself you know what I'm saying,

(01:46:43):
Like we be thinking that we can come into relationships
and we got a lot of shit fucked up and
out of place. It's like, how you gonna be a
better you in a situation with somebody else when you
not a better you in a situation by yourself? Like
that's why you know, most relationships fail out of eighty

(01:47:05):
percent rate. You know, people don't like when I say it,
but most people fucking suck, bro. And that's not to
be mean, that's to try to shake us out up
and call us up to the calls going like you know, mentality.
I'll tell the brother straight up, man, stop fucking trying
to date. Nigga, you're not valuable yet, go get your

(01:47:26):
shit together.

Speaker 1 (01:47:28):
Damn that's deep for Sean. You're not valuable yet. It's crazy, Brook.

Speaker 5 (01:47:34):
No, people don't be valuable, bro. People do very basic
shit in the world and be like I deserve everything,
And it's like, how is the world better because of
your existence? See with me? Where women get to live
in a fantasy because patriarchy we've allowed, we've propped women
up just off their existence. But realistically, if they was

(01:47:57):
really as valuable as men, try to finesse them and
them feel like they are, they have what they want.
Men wake up every day and get reminded by the
world kicks us in our balls every day, like nigga,
you ain't did shit, you don't deserve shit, and that's
how it should be. We're not even mad about that.
It's nothing to be mad about. I only should get

(01:48:18):
what I deserve to have.

Speaker 12 (01:48:20):
Right.

Speaker 5 (01:48:21):
If I don't work, I don't eat. Work includes getting
up and becoming valuable, and eating means I get what
I do. I get what I caught. You know what
I'm saying, I can't be like it ain't no good
women out here. If I can't, if I'm not even
a space in a space to have good women, right,
how do you know it's not enough good women out here?

Speaker 4 (01:48:44):
Right?

Speaker 5 (01:48:45):
And that goes for women too. But you know, I
like to you know, I ain't trying to fix them.
Somebody else got to help them out with their problems.
I'm here to help the world through men, and like
Fellas week, it's good advice for everybody. Like you ain't
climbed high up enough up the mountain? How can you
be upset? And climbing up the mountain represents what type

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of work have you done? What type of heart should
have you overcome? That's what men have to do. Our
value is developed, it's not preserved. A woman's value is preserved. Right,
we get this, We get this confused. We think women
suposed to climb the mountain like men. They can't. They
supposed to stay at the top of that. Motherfuckers they preserve.

(01:49:27):
So the Fellas Fellas is taking this idea that they've
accepted through feminism, that he supposed to be equal to
a woman. So somehow he just supposed to get what
he wants. It's like, no, you have to earn it.
You gotta climb, fall, break some shit, fix it, heel
and keep going. And the farther you get up, the
better access you have to higher quality things because your

(01:49:49):
higher quality.

Speaker 8 (01:49:50):
You know.

Speaker 5 (01:49:50):
The weird thing about the word standards. People don't realize
that the root where the standard is stand and your
standard can't be higher than you. I'm gonna say that
in because I know that's crazy whenever I say it people,
your standard can't be higher than you are. Your standard
is something that you have to stand on. So that

(01:50:11):
means you can only build your standard up as far
as you can climb, and in that event, you can
stand on that and you can build a new standard,
but you have to be able to build it to
where you can climb on top of it and stand.
That's your standard. Many of us think our preferences, which
are things that are away from us our pre We

(01:50:32):
think our preferences are standards. And that's what a delusion
and failure to you know, integrate into strong relationships and
identify them come from.

Speaker 1 (01:50:43):
But I digress. What makes you the perfect partner? If
you guys are just now joining. We're in the Media
Mentors Mega mansion. We've been having this conversation, you know,
for two hours now, and I want to continue to
have this conversation. I want to check on my sister
Angelica too to see if she wants to chime into
this conversation, because I want to talk about it. What

(01:51:04):
makes you the perfect partner? Extend on this conversation, Make you,
guys think some more, dive in, some more angelic? Are
you there sis right now? Are you available with us
right here?

Speaker 12 (01:51:13):
Yeah?

Speaker 9 (01:51:14):
You caught me before I was getting ready to get on.

Speaker 1 (01:51:15):
Another chiming into what you're even talking about so far?

Speaker 41 (01:51:23):
So what makes you the perfect partner? Well, first of all,
I really don't think anyone is perfect. We all need
grace and we all need consideration. I think, you know,
I try to steer away from the whole relationship talk
thing because I feel like it's.

Speaker 8 (01:51:38):
Enough podcast that do that, It's enough people that do
it on this app.

Speaker 41 (01:51:42):
But in my own personal opinion, when it comes down
to quote unquote the personal partner, what I believe is
that you should be open, and you should be teachable,
and you should be coachable y'all so should have great
communication because communication can make and break relationships or or
you know, in any type of partnership, I really you know.

(01:52:05):
I know for me personally and Jolaha Williams, I have
done a great amount of work. I have made a
lot of mistakes in life. I don't look down on
the next person just because I know where I've come from.
I know what I have endured, and so I see
life a little bit different than others may see it.
But I do know in order to quote unquote be

(01:52:26):
perfect or even I don't even want to use the
word perfect, to coexist with someone, to grow with someone,
to evolved with someone, you got to be open. You know,
when you get in relationships, you can say, you know,
I've done a lot of work on myself.

Speaker 7 (01:52:41):
I've done a lot of work.

Speaker 41 (01:52:43):
But you don't know how much work you've done until
you are with someone and they actually see the work
or that work is being quote unquote tested. Because we
are in our own skin, in our own mind, and
we think we are. And when you're in your own
self and you don't have anyone around you to judge
if you are, if you have become better in certain areas,
then you know, it's just your opinion.

Speaker 17 (01:53:06):
I have dated, I have been in relationships before.

Speaker 41 (01:53:13):
Right now I know, like emotional intelligence wise, I probably
can't stand a relationship right now. That's just me being
real with myself. Like a lot of times we can
want companionship, which I do. Do I want to be
in a relationship, yes, But right now I know that
it's not a great time for me just because of
what I'm doing. And I think if a lot of
people are more real with themselves and not string people along,

(01:53:34):
you know, we won't have all these podcasts talking about
this and then also all these lists which I ain't
gonna go there. Like I said, I don't even like
talking about relationships like that. But again, what I think
makes the perfect part is somebody that has great communication
or you understand their communication style. You pay attention to
their needs and wants. Body language is a form of communication, believe.

Speaker 15 (01:53:54):
It or not.

Speaker 41 (01:53:55):
And then you're also being open being able to be
teachable and coachable because you if you think you know
everything and get somebody that probably knows more than you
and they probably can teach you something. My grandma used
to always tell me that and when it comes down
to this male female dynamic.

Speaker 17 (01:54:13):
It's so muddled and I'm so old school.

Speaker 41 (01:54:16):
But I'm old school, but I'm also modering and don't
nobody to say shoot me. But I have values that
are from my upbringing and they're very old school, they're
very traditional. But then I'm also a modern woman too
that knows that I might delegate some stuff out, so
I might might might not be the traditional quote unquote housewife. Okay,

(01:54:37):
because I might. I might not want to cook every night,
I might not want to do whatever. So I think
it's just understanding who you're with. I cannot speak for
every woman on the stage or in the clubhouse or
in the world. I can't speak for every man or nothing.
I only can speak for me and what will work
for me and my partner. And once we get to
the conclusion of what works best for us and tune
out the outside noise, and you'll feel like what makes

(01:54:59):
you person for them and then perfect for you, and
that works in harmony. I'm always about harmony and peace.
What brings me peace, what enhances my piece because I
have peace with them myself. So again that's just my
take on it. I really don't like the relationships talk, brother,
But I was here to support you and just putting
a little input.

Speaker 1 (01:55:19):
Let's go now. I appreciate you, Angelica for turning into
this because you know, I like hearing your voice on
these topics, any topic that we have in the media
mentors great having you here, Angelica? What makes you the
perfect partner? Who's coming in next to take the money?

Speaker 10 (01:55:37):
And I wanted to speak after Angelica because the whole time,
you know, I was in here when it first started,
and I mentioned the patients. But Angelica mentioned a lot
of things that was crossing my mind because a lot
of people focus on the word perfect, and I haven't
heard anybody focus on the word partner. And a lot
of what she said was traditional modern. She said, I

(01:55:58):
may not want to cook every night, you know. So
I think what would make someone a perfect partner is
understanding that they are a partner.

Speaker 41 (01:56:09):
Okay, now that's good partnership. And I said, not even
even in business partnerships. You got people that what makes
you a perfect business partner? What makes you the perfect
relationship partner? And I don't even like to work perfect
because we all make mistakes. We all need grace, and
we all need understanding, But what works best for that partnership,

(01:56:31):
that ecosystem, what makes that ecosystem go around to produce things.
That's what we should focus on, because what may work
for the next person ain't gonna work for me. I
look at other people relationships. They are not my goals
because I don't know what they went through to get there.
You gotta tune into what works best for you and
your partner. If he makes one hundred and fifty thousand

(01:56:53):
and you make two hundred thousand, it don't make him
any less.

Speaker 7 (01:56:55):
Y'all. A partnership, y'all working towards a common goal.

Speaker 41 (01:56:58):
Maybe you can help him flip his one hundred and
fifty thousand because you got to where you are.

Speaker 7 (01:57:03):
So we have to focus on the word.

Speaker 17 (01:57:05):
Partner more than perfect in my opinion, damn.

Speaker 10 (01:57:12):
And after that, I'm sorry that one more thing, one
more word that came to me was understanding, because I
think we're very fixated on what we feel, what we think,
our perspectives, our experience, and we don't give space to
understand the other persons and where they're coming from, even
when we don't agree.

Speaker 8 (01:57:37):
Geh.

Speaker 1 (01:57:39):
We even having a great conversation in here what makes
you the perfect partner? If y'all want to continue to
talk about this conversation, let's go what makes you the
perfect partner? What do you?

Speaker 12 (01:57:50):
Just?

Speaker 1 (01:57:50):
Like everyone was saying, no one's perfect, No one's the perfect,
No one's perfect, there's still things that you can look
at and say, you know what, I could have did
this better? Well, I could look at it. You know
what I'm saying, no one's perfect. So I definitely definitely,
definitely like where you guys came from with that, like
knowing that you know, there's not a perfect partner, but
I can work towards perfection. And that's you know, a

(01:58:12):
great part of the conversation that I've been liking a lot.
So if you guys still want to chime in, you
guys can chime in. If not, I'll be shutting it
down in life five minutes so that way I can
hop on some calls in some meetings because I have
some things to do shortly. But if you guys want
to hold this conversation and hold it open, I will
keep the space open so that way you guys can

(01:58:32):
chime in, give your inputs, and expand on the conversation.
So if you guys still want it. The floor's open.
What's going on? What makes you the perfect partner?

Speaker 40 (01:58:48):
I'll give you guys one. I'm definitely going to look
at everything from a team aspect and not necessarily just
the game of myself. In regards of like business talking
about cod colaborating, I'm always trying to find a way
to write or I guess get content on other individuals
which is potentially going to benefit them. But if it's

(01:59:10):
in like a business orientated vibe, I think that I'm
never I've never been greedy. I've never been like a
person who's going to try to like take more than
what's deserved. And I'm going to put in the work
that I am though I agree, you know what I'm
saying one percent? You know what I mean, because that's
huge And if you are not like a greedy individual,

(01:59:32):
that's going to be respective, and that's going to be
You're going to have so much more abundance in any
business that you have. And then just making yourself holding
yourself accountable. I like to hold myself accountable on any
of the work that I do so I can know
I earned what I'm getting or what I'm requesting or
what I'm demanding because then I did the work, I
did the agreement, you know. But I'm never going to

(01:59:54):
be greedy. So if I'm demanding anything, it should never
come off as being rude.

Speaker 1 (01:59:58):
This is business.

Speaker 40 (01:59:59):
It should never come off as being like me being
rude to you. I'm just demanding what I said that
I was going to do. I'm demanding my pay, I'm
demanding my residual, or I'm demanding the agreement. So yeah,
I mean, it plays a favor in not being greedy
and so many different aspects you don't even know.

Speaker 1 (02:00:17):
And you can and la wron you know what's you
know what's you know what's crazy too?

Speaker 12 (02:00:21):
Bro?

Speaker 1 (02:00:21):
Let's talk about this because when I first met you, Bro,
you gave me resources off with right without even asking
me for anything. You was like your stack here's you
know what I mean? So now you know what I
mean and I want you to expand on that because
it's like yo, you can give things and you can
give out without expecting ship back, yeah, and without expecting

(02:00:45):
it just giving it.

Speaker 7 (02:00:47):
Hey, look look reality whoa ship?

Speaker 4 (02:00:49):
That just that just woke me up?

Speaker 1 (02:00:51):
And I gave you that stack?

Speaker 8 (02:00:52):
What did you do to me? Bro?

Speaker 40 (02:00:54):
You wrote me a whole article, bro, And you didn't
even realize that was at a time that I just
got hired for the company that i'm that I'm that
I was working with at the.

Speaker 12 (02:01:03):
Time, and I was probably.

Speaker 8 (02:01:08):
Bro and it was just like love you know what
I mean.

Speaker 40 (02:01:10):
And that was so valuable to me because I was
able to utilize that in so many other formats. And
when they seen that, they were.

Speaker 8 (02:01:16):
Like, Yo, look well what else could you do?

Speaker 40 (02:01:17):
Let's help you get here, Let's help you do that.
And then they explaining me through their company in different
ways because they seen what I was, what I was
trying to go for, you know, So that kind of
ship you can get a lot more in abundance and
just being so and just not being greedy man, being
a real team player.

Speaker 1 (02:01:32):
That's all, being a real team player, That's what it's about, yo.
And I appreciate you man for that, because a lot
of people, you know, aren't team players, right. They want
to see what they can get, right. I like I
like people that could, you know, because that's what I do, laurn,
the same thing that you do. I see how I
can add to someone before I can see, yeah, what

(02:01:53):
I can get? What's up. I'm adding value before I
can see you know what's going on, right, and you
guys went all the way in today. If you guys
still want to talk about it, I'm gonna leave it open.
If not, y'all already know where I'm going, I'm gonna
shut it down. And then you know, I don't know
when the next time we're gonna have one, but I'm
gonna plan it out to see when we're gonna have

(02:02:16):
another fire ass conversation. Right, put a fire emoji in
the chat. If you guys enjoyed you know this conversation
today when we went all the way in with everybody
that you know came in earlier from right now right,
And if you guys have any last words, you guys
can definitely chime in. But it's definitely definitely looking like
I'm about to be out because I never getting a choice.

(02:02:38):
That went all the way in. All y'all did every
you know what I'm saying, when all y'all ship everybody
went in. I appreciate y'all for coming through. This is
what it's about, coming on here, talking, giving good insights,
and everybody being respectful too. That's why I really like
having these conversations because when y'all come through, y'all be
very very respectful and never attacked anyone, and y'all attack

(02:03:01):
the point. Y'all get to the point, right, we handle
their business, We get to the point. So that's why
I love having these conversations. Right click this link at
the top two book a fifteen minute call with me.
So that way, with the level up on all social
media platforms, I don't know what you guys are doing,
but I want to do some more articles. I want

(02:03:22):
to bring more people on the podcast show. I want
to turn up with some more people too, So let's
do some more work for you for that podcast though, Okay, yeah, yeahah.
Put them on this schedule, send them this link right here,
so that way we can get together because we went
all the way in bro today, this whole room. It's
gonna be my wife for sure, I say less. And

(02:03:44):
then we'll do some work and see how we can
do some fire ass work. But if anybody wants any
last words, y'all you know what I'm saying, it's on y'all.
If not, I'm going I'm out what y'all gonna do.

Speaker 40 (02:03:56):
And y'all want to hold it down in here and
what's up?

Speaker 1 (02:03:59):
What's up? Lron, It's on y'all bro. If not, I'm
shutting it down.

Speaker 24 (02:04:03):
Bro.

Speaker 1 (02:04:04):
Hold on matter of fact, all right? You know what
It depends yo, You know what Laurn. It depends on
how how hard they ping it up. If y'all ping
it up hard enough, I'll keep this ship open. If
they pick it up hard enough, I'll keep it open.
When you pass up. And girl, you did my mom
b know you want me to go down?

Speaker 2 (02:04:28):
No, midey, you cat you die, you knew me.

Speaker 1 (02:04:33):
See, I want you to know that girl is not
that what's up? You are

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