Why Do Friends Fall Out After a Disagreement? (Club House Recap)

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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Yeah, I got a great question for today. I really
want to know this shit right here. Why do friends
fall out after disagreement? Is there no loyalty? Like what's
going on nowadays? Like what's going on nowadays? On you know,

(00:21):
everything that's going on, Like is the loyalty going? Is it?
Like what's popping nowadays? Everything is? You know, this is
a question that I got, So welcome to the media
mentor about huge Pharrell just came through and we're gonna
start this ship up the right way, right the money
records way you dig and we're gonna go all the

(00:43):
way in today about you know, why do friends fall
out after this agreement? Is then no loyalty? Is there
no solid shit? Like if we're gonna really really wake
it up today, right, We're gonna go all the way in, right,
gonna wait for some friends to pop by me and
Farrel came through early, and it's gonna be really a

(01:05):
great conversation because I've seen a lot of different people
just fall out because they could have just used damn communication.
It's all about the communication. So welcome to the room file.
I'm waiting for some friends to buy pop up. I
just opened this bad Boy up. But you want to
chime into anything? Brother, you got anything for me before
we get started starting?

Speaker 2 (01:28):
Well, it's up stas how you're doing what.

Speaker 3 (01:31):
I love this fucking title, this title right here, I
can already see what's going down all right, like I
already feel it.

Speaker 2 (01:41):
Shout out to Jared.

Speaker 3 (01:41):
Being the first one in here and all the other
people popping on in here see what's going on. But yeah,
why do friends followed after disagreement? It's because they're thickheaded people. Now,
you can't get your daughter through to them. Okay, likes,
someone told me years ago that you know, you can't
save everybody, all right, you just can't.

Speaker 2 (02:04):
Some people just can't be saved.

Speaker 1 (02:07):
Shout out to you, hold on, hold on fire, you seys,
just some people just can't be saved. So you're telling
me that there's just certain individuals that's not gonna be
trained with me, not gonna be coachable, and we're not
gonna be able to get through them. That's what you're
telling me, is that is that the right way.

Speaker 2 (02:26):
One million percent.

Speaker 3 (02:28):
They're not gonna be able to change someone that does
not have change inside of them.

Speaker 1 (02:34):
I agree with Farr one hundred percent. You can't change
someone that doesn't want to change themselves. All right, If
I'm surrounding myself with individuals that want to change, that
want to be different, right, that want to attract different,
why why why why would I want to surround myself
with you and you're and your negative They gotta be

(02:56):
nothing but positive vibes. I feel like a lot of
friends do fall out fire because Yo, it could have
just been simple communication, or you could have just been
more coachable. Certain people need to just fall back fire
and be more coachable. I feel like when you listen
more than you talk, you'll always get to the next level.
Listening before I talk always got me to the next level,

(03:19):
or listening to some people that's always been here before,
or trying to train right, or mentor like literally sitting
here being a fucking mentor. That's the shit that got
me to the next level is actually listening to others
and listening to people and shit, I say, Yo, you
know what, bruh fuck is we talking about? I really

(03:40):
really really really have to I can't skip over good information.
That's another thing that you know, I learned from Firol
tools like YO, you can't skip over good information. Don't
skip over good information real quick fire. Can you chime
in on that? Like skipping up. I feel like when
we say things, some things go over some people's heads,
so skipping over good information. Can you touch on that?

(04:00):
And then I'll continue this ship man, welcome brother Nick,
Let's go.

Speaker 2 (04:04):
Yeah, so pretty much you can try.

Speaker 3 (04:07):
If you have the opportunity to speak to someone that
has a very wide knowledge of certain things, you have
to you know, they have to open up their minds, okay,
because they don't open up their minds to understand and
the stept that people can change and take that information in.
Like every time I network with anybody, go out introduce

(04:29):
you know, I always you know, you gotta listen to
what they say. You gotta you never know what you're
gonna learn. You can learn something new every day, and
people have that going one here and go out with
the other one. That's why I said earlier some people
you can't change people that don't want to be changed.
They have to be ready for change in order for
them to accept this. That's why I said some people

(04:49):
can't be saved until they have to take the first
steps in themselves.

Speaker 1 (04:54):
The first step is always yourself. It's never gonna be
no one else that's gonna change you. It's always is
gonna be you know, you doing the self work or
you doing something to go back in the mirror and
be like, you know what, I need to change this
about myself, or I need to do this about my
or I need to alter this. So I like the
fact you said that too far, because it's always going

(05:14):
to be the self work. That's why I love when
you know, sister and Za it comes through because we
do nothing but self work in the morning all the time,
like really really really self work, Like all right, what
we're gonna do? Are we gonna dive in with this?
And you gotta look at the problem. Sometimes sometimes you're
your own problem. I say this shit time and time again.
You could be your own roadblock, or you could be
your own thing, you know, keeping yourself behind. But Yo,

(05:37):
a lot of friends fall out fire and they're not
They fall out because there's no communication and the other
person on the other side may not want to hear
what that person has to set. I've seen that a
lot of times, Like yoall I'm not hearing you right
now or now I don't want it, you know what
I'm saying. So you gotta be open to hearing, open
to feedback, open to criticism, open to everything, especially you

(06:00):
know when it comes to these friends and these fallouts
and these you know what I mean, no loyalty, and
there's a lot we gonna talk about today. But welcome
my brother Nick. Nick, you want to chime in real quick, man,
I'm gonna do it well. I'm gonna play some music
real quick before these people come by. So my brother's here,
you can chime in real quick. Nick.

Speaker 4 (06:17):
If you in the building, Hey, what's up, brother?

Speaker 5 (06:20):
How you feeling?

Speaker 1 (06:20):
Man? Little bit? Now? You good?

Speaker 6 (06:22):
Bro?

Speaker 1 (06:22):
We just sitting here, Man, popped it open. How are
you feeling about this conversation or this topic today?

Speaker 5 (06:26):
I'm good, brother, I'm good man.

Speaker 7 (06:28):
You're speaking right out of my ally, man, because I've
experienced this far too much.

Speaker 8 (06:31):
You know.

Speaker 5 (06:32):
It's funny. I've come to the philosophy as.

Speaker 7 (06:34):
Time went on that if a conversation or a friendship
or a bond was so quick to fall out over
one conversation, that bond, friendship, or title was never strong
to begin with.

Speaker 5 (06:45):
You know, I always talk about foundation.

Speaker 7 (06:47):
If the foundation is not strong enough, If the foundation
was never strong enough, it was it was.

Speaker 5 (06:53):
Never real to begin with.

Speaker 7 (06:54):
And I'm a firm believer in that because if people
fall out over something so petty, because people stack, you
know what's funny. People love people, some people like confrontations,
some people avoid it. And when people know they did
you wrong, they avoid you. And that's the crazy thing,
because you could be the kindest, most loving, respectful, supportive person.
You could be a good friend to somebody look out

(07:14):
for them all the.

Speaker 5 (07:15):
Time, not because you do things because you want to.

Speaker 7 (07:17):
You want to, you kind of want to like spend
the block back and say, oh, well I did this
for you and I helped you out with nobody was
looking out for you, and this that and the third Well, listen,
people don't understand the value of true friendship because real
friends like.

Speaker 5 (07:31):
Us, real people like us, we're very far and few.

Speaker 7 (07:34):
Because some people always want someone to cater to them,
wipe their feet, always look out for them, always take
care of them. Listen, It's like you just said, if
you can't take care of yourself, don't expect somebody else to.

Speaker 5 (07:46):
Never never be so loyal to somebody that you end
up betraying yourself because a lot of.

Speaker 1 (07:52):
Times, oh man, Nick, bring that back. Never be too loyal.

Speaker 9 (07:58):
Let Nick say that again.

Speaker 7 (08:00):
Too loyal, because because you're gonna end up betraying yourself. Man,
it's just it's just common. It's just common reality. Like
I've given like, for example, there have been times in
my life where I get so much of myself as
somebody else, not realizing it was doing more damage to me,
and not realizing that person was only using me for
the info, for the resources, for the energy that I had.

(08:21):
They didn't really care about me as a person. They
only cared about what I had to offer. And that's
why you have to be very cautious and vet people
like me talk about because there's so many people that
only want to be around you because they got some
things that they're not looking to look within themselves, so
they want to be around somebody like Ustack, Like let's
let's let's use you for example. You got a ton
of resources, man, you got all these great things going

(08:41):
for yourself. People only pobably want to be around you
because you can offer that to them. But once you
limit that access, now you think to yourself, Okay, well
so and so is not really real like they likely,
you know, like I thought they were so and so
is not really credible, and so and so it's not really.

Speaker 5 (08:55):
Genuine and so it all well comes to intention.

Speaker 7 (08:57):
If somebody's intention is not real and down to earth,
I just don't want to be around it. And if
we fight, if there's more stress then peace in our friendship, Ormond, whatever,
whatever the case may.

Speaker 5 (09:08):
Be, that's not something I want to be around.

Speaker 7 (09:10):
I don't want to be around too much chaos because
it's already enough chaos in the world. You're adding more
chaos to my life. You're adding more negativity and stress
to my life. Why would I want to continue to
be around that? If our foundation breaks after one small
transactional conversation.

Speaker 5 (09:26):
There's no there's no room for growth there.

Speaker 7 (09:28):
And people like people like to argue and be bitter
and be jealous all the time and always get mad
about little things like it's just to me, it's not
worth it, Like why are we exhausting so much energy
and effort into trying to prove our points from reality?
People don't want to People don't care about what you
have to say. They don't care about how you present
yourself or how you how you give feedback. People don't

(09:48):
care about that. They only care about what you can
give to them, and if you can tell them what
they want to hear and not what they need to
I've experienced too much of that with people, and that's
why I'm just very selective who I give my time
and energy, because again, people are not real, they're not foundational.
Like if we don't have a strong foundation or strong
friendship or strong conversations, it's just not something I engage with.

Speaker 5 (10:11):
I'm too old for that.

Speaker 7 (10:12):
I'm twenty nine years old. I don't got time for
the crap. I don't got time for the wishy washy energy.
I don't got time for people that want to be
half in, half out my life. It's either you're all linear,
all out. There's no one between, there is no jumping
between lines. Either you want to be a part of
my life or you don't want to be a part
of my life. Either you want to be a part
of my journey from rock bottom, don't be a part
of my journey when I get to the top, because

(10:32):
that at that point I lost all faith.

Speaker 5 (10:35):
I lost all respect for you.

Speaker 7 (10:36):
Because if you don't respect me in my lowest you're
sure as how I'm not gonna respect me in my highest,
So great conversation, brother. Too many people lack loyalties, principles, boundaries,
core values. People like that you got to stay away
from because once they start realizing how good you are
and how dope you are. Man Like I told you,
they're gonna use everything, They're gonna use it and abuse you.

(10:56):
And once you allow that too much, you're disrespecting yourselves.
So great convo, brother.

Speaker 1 (11:03):
We don't allow people to use and abuse you. I
love that, share, Nick, do not allow others to use.
I can understand getting used, but not misused, right, But
once you start misusing people, and that's where things start
to get a little tricky, like all right, why are
you you know? Like we gotta come to some common grounds.

(11:25):
So Nick, I love that.

Speaker 6 (11:26):
Man.

Speaker 1 (11:26):
If you guys are just joining with in the media mentors,
picking this room up, share this room up. Appreciate you guys.
I haven't cracked the room open in a while because,
like I said, I've been handling shit behind the scenes, cryptocurrency,
becoming a new partner with different projects, some signing things,
doing this, and I'll be back in New York to
be on TV. So it's a lot of different shit

(11:46):
about to go down, and that's why I haven't been
able to start these rooms. But you know what, we're
gonna ping it up. We're gonna allow more people to
come in because guess what it is Friday. I'm gonna
stay in here for a little while. Nick I think
I'm just I'm gonna rock out in the media mentors today.
Bro At, let's come up here, man, Jay Massey, I'm
about to start this ship up. Let's just see who

(12:09):
we can get in here. Brother yo far let's go
bro Uno, the find.

Speaker 10 (12:17):
That another.

Speaker 11 (12:25):
So when you started that with the start, I love you.

Speaker 1 (12:31):
Uh, let's.

Speaker 12 (12:44):
Let's come on.

Speaker 13 (12:52):
Damn.

Speaker 1 (12:52):
I'm ready to go crazy. Now let's go the seconds
that you.

Speaker 12 (12:58):
Pick up do let that like do do say I
do nothing but the joove and not up in the morove.

Speaker 1 (13:08):
Not like my life.

Speaker 14 (13:09):
No, be smart my last Christmas and have a glass
can men listen, We'll the switch down to some people
numbers see this Christmas and then my grasses, much of them,
not even Christians click band, but they thinking that the
quick jams see that full love.

Speaker 15 (13:22):
I'm like I've got nister, and if you come in
on the enemy, they I mean the nurse away for me.
People la ball and that's being coming better than we mean. Bloody,
I'm seeing a Lamath and so we should.

Speaker 16 (13:35):
All be and fing make a less.

Speaker 12 (13:42):
Love and people like that should I keep in your
bad guys.

Speaker 1 (13:53):
I want to get back into the conversation to make
sure you guys clean the room up, share the room up,
so that way we can get some more individuals here
so we could talk about this conque. Nick had a
fire ass share and he's with saying something about, you know,
not letting people use you like this is what you
gotta be careful of. You gotta be careful of the
energy that you spread out to other people. Your energy

(14:15):
could be you know, sensitive like me Pharaoh and Nick man,
I don't know about that. That shit ain't failing too
right right. It's all about your gut feeling and knowing
what's right for you and what's wrong for you. Great share, Nick,
Alicia's here, Emon's here, go ahead and Nick over to you, brother.

Speaker 7 (14:31):
Yo, bro, you know what's crazy. I was literally just
thinking about that when you were speaking man like. I'm
sure I'm sure we've all realized as we got older,
it's okay to have disagreements, like if we're having a
like a small exchange of energy, and we're like, we
don't agree on the same thing.

Speaker 5 (14:43):
It's okay to have the difference of opinion.

Speaker 7 (14:45):
But I think where people go wrong is people stay
seem to have this ideology like you have to agree
with me, but you know, like my opinion is low.
I'm always right. People that think they're always right. I
can't be around like if you're not open minded or
open to a new perspective of a approach, that's not your.

Speaker 1 (15:01):
Nigg You expand on that, like not being you know,
easy going at times, always wanted to be difficult. We
can talk about that. Let's open that up.

Speaker 7 (15:10):
And again I'll make this quick, man, because I'm out
here and I'm actually out here in New Jersey and
joining the weather man. Make sure you guys go outside
and uh get some get some nice get some nice
weather out today.

Speaker 5 (15:20):
It's nice out. But uh, you.

Speaker 7 (15:21):
Know, I'll say this, brother, real quick. It's it's funny
because growing up I.

Speaker 5 (15:25):
Used to be very hard hit and stack.

Speaker 7 (15:28):
You know, as men, sometimes our ego can get the
better of us at times that we've all been there before.

Speaker 5 (15:32):
It's all happened.

Speaker 7 (15:33):
But you know, one thing I will say is you know,
sometimes you gotta admit when you're wrong, because you know
there there's moments in life where someone's gonna challenge you
and challenge your perspective, and you're gonna think, oh, now,
well that's not right. You know, you know, you know,
like my way is the high way, this, that and
the third. I used to think like that when I
was younger, but I realized, like that's.

Speaker 5 (15:49):
Not always the case.

Speaker 7 (15:50):
Like it's okay to have a disagreement, it's okay to
not always be right. It's okay to have a conversation
with somebody, but not get disrespect. I think sometimes when
people challenge your perspective and challenge your approach, you start
to get a little bit, you know, riled up in
your emotions. You think, oh no, hell no, that's not true.
You know that can't be true. But I think if

(16:12):
we learn as human beings to just kind of take
a deep breath and understand it's not intentional. Like I
don't think people have bad intent. We can have a
good dialogue, We can have a good conversation without letting
our emotions get attached to it, because sometimes people's emotions
get way too tired to a conversation.

Speaker 1 (16:28):
I like that, Nick, because you have you seen any
situations like that with you? Real quick? Nick? I know
you got to go, but have you seen any situations
like that in your life where you had to you know,
move with that or use that.

Speaker 10 (16:37):
Bro.

Speaker 7 (16:38):
It's so crazy because, like, especially in the world of entrepreneurship,
there's so many entrepreneurs that have such a hard headed mentality,
Like they think they're always right.

Speaker 5 (16:47):
They think that their attitude is the right approach, and.

Speaker 7 (16:50):
You know, like it's funny when when you share your
certain dreams or visions or aspirations with them, they look
at you sideways or funny you think, oh, well, who
the hell is this guy?

Speaker 5 (16:58):
What the hell was he talking about?

Speaker 7 (17:00):
But that's how you know they're not open minded because
that's all they know is their own way.

Speaker 5 (17:04):
They don't know anybody else's way. They just know their way.

Speaker 7 (17:07):
And I think when you learn to become open minded
and be a sponge and not act like and know
it all, you can understand that every approach is right.
There there is no wrong approach, it's just everybody's. Everybody's
approaching attitude is different. But just because it's not your attitude,
and approach doesn't mean it's wrong, Like I think that's
how I learned as I got older, Like it's okay
to be open minded, It's okay to be like, Okay,

(17:29):
you know what, maybe this person might be right, Maybe
this person might have something different that I can learn
and apply to my life instead of thinking that it's
not right, Like I just think we got to learn
to be open minded and understand that everybody's perspective is different.

Speaker 5 (17:41):
Like it's okay to have a difference of opinion.

Speaker 7 (17:43):
It's okay to be, you know, in a space where
people don't always agree like this sometimes, like especially sometimes
like sometimes with my boys, I'll be honest, like we
don't always agree on everything, but that's okay. We can
have a dialogue and conversation and not let our emotions
get attached them because especially being men, and we always
want to be confrontational, we always want to let our
get our emotions attached. Like there's no need for that

(18:05):
to be the case.

Speaker 1 (18:06):
So I just and Nick real quick, how many times
have we seen situations and we just chopped it up
and it was just like it's over. You know what
I'm saying. You got to be a real man to
be like, yo, let's let's talk about this and let's
and let's put this to the side.

Speaker 7 (18:19):
You feel me, ah, bro, And it's crazy because like
like me, man, it's like I just said, I think
you can't be so loyal that you betray yourself.

Speaker 1 (18:28):
Man.

Speaker 5 (18:28):
I think that you have to be loyal to yourself first.

Speaker 7 (18:31):
Before you you can expect loyalty from other people because
not everybody stands on the same morals and principles that
you do, so you can't expect you out of other people.
And I think when you become a lot more mindful
like that and be aware of what you give your
energy too, because everything we do is an energy exchange.

Speaker 5 (18:47):
Because you can't just give your.

Speaker 7 (18:48):
Energy to everybody because then at that point you're allowing
them to disrespect you, to abuse you, to use you,
to mistreat you. You have to be very cautious of
what you give your energy to because, especially on Clubous
being on here for years, I've experienced so many different
mood types and personalities.

Speaker 5 (19:06):
At some point, you don't.

Speaker 7 (19:07):
Know what's genuine, you don't know what's real, you don't
know what's intentional, and at that point it just starts
to mess with your your better judgment like and I'll
yield on this right Like I said, stack, you just
we just gotta be mindful of everybody's approach and attitude
and not think that everybody's way of living is wrong
or incorrect. But it can actually make us think and
challenge our perspective and think, Okay, you know what, me,

(19:29):
you know what.

Speaker 5 (19:29):
This, This is something I could probably implement to better myself.
It may not be wrong.

Speaker 7 (19:33):
So I think when you have an open mind and
lead with an open heart, you could still disagree and
still be kind to somebody. You don't gotta let your
ego get in the way. So again, great conversation, brother.
I just want to add it on top of that
pre appreciation.

Speaker 10 (19:46):
Nah.

Speaker 1 (19:46):
I love that because Nick had a fire share right
before y'all came in and he was talking about all
of this shit, wrap it up all in one. Appreciate that.
Make sure y'all go download the OTM app to look
if you guys are just joined it. We've been talking
about why I do friends fall out after a disagreement,
no loyalty. I've seen a lot of different friends like
you say you my friend, we say we friends, but

(20:09):
If we try to hold people accountable, if we try
to talk to people, shit starts to fall out. People
start to you know, shit starts to get tricky. If
I can't hold you accountable, if I can't come to
you as my friend or my homeboy or my homegirl
and hold you accountable, then we're not really friends. There's
some shit's gonna fall out. So I want to check
on Alisha, Emon, my brother, Chris Cavs, I got coach here,

(20:31):
and Madam Boston just pulled up. Ping the room up
and share the room up so we can have some
more people come through. But I want to talk about
this topic right here, right Why do friends fall out
after a disagreement? Ping this up? Have more people come through? Alisha?
Are you by your mic right now? Before oh Pharrell,
talk to me real quick, real quick, Alicia, Let me
get my brother King and King we got anything, real quick?

Speaker 10 (20:51):
Bro?

Speaker 1 (20:51):
Before I go to a Lisha, what's up? I thought
he was coming in my bad Alisha, over to you.
He got his mic off. Over to you, sister, and
then we'll continue discuss. I'm sorry for messing up too.

Speaker 17 (21:03):
No worries, no worries, I think, and just in my
personal experience when I observe people are too quick to
call each other friends before having somebody earn that title,
and so then it becomes there's disappointment when you set
those expectations on somebody that doesn't even know that they're
aware that they have those type of expectations. For me,
I don't give people that title really quick, and even

(21:25):
when I do get that title, very I communicate what
my deal breakers are and once that person understands those
deals breakers, there's no there's no excuse for them at
that point, you know. But also people don't understand how
to accept people have different aspects of them. So when
they meet them, they're used to this one type of person.
Then when you see another type of person on different days,

(21:46):
we're different people and that's okay. And I don't think
people can understand that they're used to seeing you one way,
so when they see another aspect of you, it causes
a problem for them.

Speaker 18 (21:55):
And I think that's one of them.

Speaker 1 (21:57):
Hold on, so you're saying it causes a problem, it's
some type of friend in there, that's what you're saying.
Have you seen that in your life before? Sometimes? Un
m h.

Speaker 17 (22:06):
Most definitely I have it quite often, just because I
have certain expectations and certain standards, and I let people
know this is me today, this is me tomorrow. You
might see another part of me in business because I
have a construction company. So don't be surprised, don't be
off put because that's not the same person that you're
gonna see as your friend.

Speaker 10 (22:24):
So yeah, I do have that experience.

Speaker 1 (22:26):
Nah. I love that, Alicia, thank you for coming by
and sharing. Why do friends fall out after a disagreement.
I'm hearing a lot of different stories too. I want
to hear some stories. Y'all gonna come up here. I
haven't cracked the media mentors open in a minute, but
when I do, we're gonna have some real fucking conversation. Chris,
what's going on with my brother? Before I check on sister? Emn, Man,
let's talk brother. Let's wake it ups that now it's

(22:47):
a dope topic. Man.

Speaker 19 (22:48):
You know club bous is not the same. So we
just saying we hop up and show WoT only way
we see a good topic facts. Chris said, Nah, because
I'm just protect my p my energy, my intellect, everything
about me, you know what I'm saying, are precious At
this point, so why do friends fall out after a disagreement?

(23:11):
I personally, you know what I'm saying, Because I'm getting older,
I mean, like I say, more mature, you know, I
start to understand life better, you know, like I start
to prioritize what.

Speaker 11 (23:21):
Makes sense to me mentally speaking.

Speaker 19 (23:24):
You know, I'm learning how to talk to God more
often than rely on people that also have their own
problems going on.

Speaker 11 (23:32):
So I think I never had friends growing up. Bro,
you know, I came from it.

Speaker 19 (23:38):
I mean, I'm not trying to blow my own trumpet,
but I came from a very wealthy family. You know,
my parents been having money since I was a kid,
so they never allowed me to go outside to make
some friends.

Speaker 11 (23:48):
Oh no, who's on my door?

Speaker 1 (23:50):
Oh Chris? You got robbers at the door. What they're doing?

Speaker 20 (23:53):
Man?

Speaker 11 (23:54):
No, man, Amazon, shiit Nah.

Speaker 1 (23:58):
I got you. I got you. Chris. Come right back,
Come right back, come right back. I appreciate you for
coming to I got my brother. The home came through.
Chris came through, Madam. You see, man, he got people
coming at the door and ship. We're trying to get
it in. Chris, come on, man, sister, come in. Yeah,
it's all good. It's all good. You want to you
want to wait a minute, Chris, or you want to

(24:19):
come in?

Speaker 13 (24:19):
Man, I was flowing, no, let me let Chris go?

Speaker 11 (24:24):
Should I go? Okay? You know I'm not going to
take long?

Speaker 19 (24:27):
I mean, you know, so basically, my my, my, my
parents never let me go outside because my parents felt like,
your influence is right here.

Speaker 11 (24:36):
What I'm saying, you see how it works usually how
making my money.

Speaker 19 (24:39):
Watch me be inspired. Your friends they have nothing for you.
That's what my dad told me at the very early age.
Bro like as seven years old. He told me, you
don't need friends, you need connections. You need people that
can help you grow. And also, I mean, you know,
vice versa. So I grew up with that. So now
going to cool. You know, I never felt the need
to fit in or to be a part of a claque,

(25:01):
because I felt like, what's the point, because my dad
told me connect only with those that can help you
make money or you guys can build together. Because my
dad he became a millionaire at thirty seven, so I've
seen him making money pay people. I'm yo, shit, And
he never had friends because every time when he went outside,
he went for business and when he came home by

(25:23):
nine or ten pm, dinner time, family time.

Speaker 1 (25:26):
And that's it. So I grew up with that.

Speaker 19 (25:28):
So now I'm dealing with people who think that I'm
cut throat or I'm too harsh.

Speaker 11 (25:33):
Nigga, I don't need you to be my friend.

Speaker 19 (25:37):
What do you have to offer? You know what I'm saying.
If I can't bald with you, I don't want to
be your friend. My friends are people that happen to
make money and vice versa. So if we have disagreement
and then your first option is to walk away, clearly
you will not my friend. But again, I've been with
people were we have a strong disagreement. But I understand

(25:59):
that that's one perspective out of millions. So I honestly
with you because I believe and respect your value. People
are too quick to walk away. One they don't respect you.
Two they don't believe in your value. That's what they
are quick to walk away. So I think the loyalty
comes from understanding and respecting people's value.

Speaker 1 (26:21):
Yo, I appreciate that share, Chris. If you guys are
just now joining, why do friends fall out after a disagreement?
Chris was saying something like I said, if I can't
hold you accountable, if I can't come to you right
and we can have a conversation, you you ain't really
my homeboy. We ain't really cool. We ain't really like
how we see. We ain't really like that, you know
what I'm saying. We ain't really like that. Bro. I'm

(26:43):
gonna go to my brother the home. You know I'm
coming to you next.

Speaker 4 (26:45):
Bro.

Speaker 1 (26:46):
I just want to ping the room up and share
the room up real quick while we're here, right, Let's
get some more people in here so that way, you know,
we could get the vibes up. Media mentors. Man, let's
keep this rock and I'm coming to the home next.

Speaker 12 (26:58):
Take us to come to And didn't know again anything
that I do can't like belusive? And I know do
they gould say? I do nothing but the truth and
not stop up in the roof, not life, my life,
not being smart. And remember last Christmas, it's at the glass,
get me the place.

Speaker 1 (27:14):
Will you switch down to some people not see this
Christmas up? Man, we'll be doing man ship.

Speaker 12 (27:21):
But they're thinking that the quick sim that full of goodnister.

Speaker 15 (27:26):
If you make coming on the enemy, they I mean
the nurse away from me people are ball and that's
being coming better than we meet him. Bloody, I'm seeing
calamaty and so we should talk and figure Canader became
other experienced?

Speaker 11 (27:39):
No gabty say.

Speaker 12 (27:43):
When when I by your life?

Speaker 1 (27:47):
People like that?

Speaker 12 (27:48):
Should I keep in your bad gasbams the my mac
work when I love when I but that's the way
we end us?

Speaker 1 (27:57):
When I should people being in a red cross? Hey man, hey, listen,
why do friends fall out after disagreements? Why can't it
just be communication? Why can't we just talk so that
way we all can get you know, even ship out
or get to the next level, right, Like, why can't
we just speak?

Speaker 10 (28:18):
Right?

Speaker 1 (28:18):
I want to talk to my brother to home, and
I'm gona pass it to Eman. I'm gonna pass it
right to you, but I want to get to brother
to home because I think he has a short window.
So the home over to you, brother, and then I'm
gonna go to my sister. Emon. If you're by your
mic the home you here? Brother? Yeah? Brother?

Speaker 6 (28:31):
Yeah?

Speaker 1 (28:32):
You all about this? Talk?

Speaker 9 (28:34):
Man, bro. I don't think.

Speaker 21 (28:36):
I don't think people if people really mess with you,
people really rock with you, I don't think they would
do any type of fake shit to tarnish your name
or your brand. But most of the times, like like
you said the title, there's really no loyalty in this game.
I treat life like it's a game, and all these
people are just characters in my world.

Speaker 1 (28:52):
Right.

Speaker 21 (28:53):
However, it doesn't mean I'm self centered. I give more
than I do receive. So what I do is if
you don't match my energy or or reciprocate the vibes
that I put out into the world, like I really
can't even rock with you, And so if it means
having two or three friends, I'm really gonna keep it
that way. Most of the times, a lot of people
be fake. So falling out over a disagreement, that's that's

(29:16):
the first step of the game. They're gonna do work
far worse just because they know so much about you,
they they feel like they're entitled to sharing opinions to
the world about you just because they've been around.

Speaker 9 (29:28):
Like it's like, it's so weird, it guess so weird.

Speaker 1 (29:30):
So dahome. Have you seen any situations in your life
that that that went down like that where you're like, damn,
I thought this person was my friend and now we
falling the fuck out you got any you got any
situations like that you've seen.

Speaker 9 (29:43):
It's too many to count, bros, too many to count.

Speaker 21 (29:46):
But sometimes okay, for example, say you look, you give
somebody some some bread or something like that, some basic shit.

Speaker 9 (29:52):
I'll give you some bread.

Speaker 21 (29:54):
And the moment you tell me, oh, I got you
next next Friday time, when the time comes, it's time
to really, like, you know, stand on business and just
be a good man of principle and morals. You don't
want to stand up to that and pay up or
you know what I mean. It's at the end of
the day, it's not really about the money. It's more
so about the principle. Can I trust you with like
long term?

Speaker 1 (30:15):
We can? We can we.

Speaker 9 (30:16):
Build something long term.

Speaker 21 (30:17):
And if if if a simple fifty dollars that you
can't pay back isn't gonna be one of those factors.
It's gonna be one of those factors that makes me
realize that you're not one of those people that I
can build with, then it's gonna be that. It's not
really even about the money. But for me, my principles
are very very strict and just straight straight out there.
So I think people, hey man, and not everybody's gonna

(30:40):
win win with you at the top.

Speaker 9 (30:41):
Brother, That's all I can say. Do you know what
I'm saying?

Speaker 1 (30:43):
Bro, my brother the Home. Make sure y'all follow the
Home and follow Plan B too, because they got some
fire ass content going down over there. We're gonna be
doing some good casting calls and some damn role plays.
We got a couple of scripts in motions, So shouts
to my brother and also he came on the podcast
as well. Go check out his music. Go check out

(31:05):
Waste the Time, all all platforms, Apple Music. We appreciate
you the Home Man, for pulling up and chiming into
the conversation, being on the lookout for us doing more
collabs and more good shit right on and off the app.
This is what it's about. Connections. Y'all know what we're doing,
the media mentors. We've been making connections. We've been doing
this shit. But make sure you make this shit outside

(31:25):
of the app so that way you can, you know,
have some motion, get your business ruling, get things to
the next level, right. Shout outs to you, Shout outs
to everyone that just came to the stage, Annie Mark,
Madam Chris for my brother for sewn just came through
right two point Oh's here, and my sister Cynthia Fox
is here, Chris Caves came back, coaches here, and my
sister Emin is here. So before I check on you

(31:45):
know some more people on the stage, I want to
give my sister Eman some space. This is my sister.
She's been supporting me for years on the app and
she's alway from Cairo, Egypt. Half of us ain't never
been to Egypt, right, So every time she talks, I
listen to the to what's going on, the vibrations, the spiritual,
you know what I mean, what's going on over there.
So Emon, I'm gonna pass it over to you and
then we can continue this conversation with everybody on stage

(32:07):
about you know, vittle friends fall out. Thank you for
being his sister, love you.

Speaker 13 (32:11):
Love you too.

Speaker 10 (32:12):
Brother.

Speaker 13 (32:13):
Well, hey everyone, this is even here all the way
from Cairo, Egypt, isn't it? And you know what this
topic meant to be done today because this is what's
going on really and in my life, this is what's
going on. Why do friends fall out after agreement? Or

(32:37):
let me let me just just a little bit and
say that when you start to step into your excellence track,
the mediocres fall off.

Speaker 1 (32:53):
Say that again.

Speaker 13 (32:54):
I gotta say that again. I know I get to
say that again. When you start to step in your
track of excellence, every single mediocre will fall out. And
and let me let me give you an example about that.
Do you know the boosters that in the end of

(33:16):
the of each rocket, those boosters are there for a
particular time and they fall off after that. And when
when when people go in the rocket, they know that
it will fall down. So sometimes you feel, you feel bad,

(33:37):
you feel hurt, and it's okay, but just don't don't
stuck there because that area is very very dark. I
do get too to that.

Speaker 10 (33:52):
Fact.

Speaker 13 (33:52):
But after too many trials, and especially when you don't
harm people, when you don't do anything thing wrong, when
you support and love and give everything that you can,
and the the other side is just try to find
a way to fall out. Let them go, Let them go,

(34:16):
because I think I'm not sure. The gentleman was saying
that his father told him to make connections, and yeah,
I'm not really I'm going to agree with that one
hundred person, But I do need both of them friends

(34:40):
that I can that that can help hold me accountable
friends that can be my mirror when they hold my hand,
they have my back. But if I'm doing something wrong,
will be my mirror and say, between me and you, girl,
you're doing wrong, this is not right. I need those.

(35:05):
I need someone who can tell me, can cheer me
up when I win, and can cry beside me when
when i'm when I feel bad. That that's a friend,
someone that you go to without even thinking. Twice, do
you remember that day Stack when I called you in
the morning. I don't. I don't really, I didn't really,

(35:34):
So back then, what time is it, ah at your end?
I'm it was eight o'clock in the morning here and
you're You're the first one those to go to.

Speaker 10 (35:49):
So that's a friend.

Speaker 13 (35:50):
You get, You give support, you ask for help without
even thinking. Because even when we disagree, we still holding
each other accountable, We still loyal. If there is someone
who's not loyal to you, that's not a friend. And

(36:12):
I do agree with Alicia, don't give that that name
friends to people without earning the because it's it's a
place in your in your heart. It's not a description
for for someone. For me, a friend is it has

(36:34):
a place in my heart in my life. So don't
give that place in your heart to someone without making
sure that they are really loyal to you. And if
they fold down, they fold down. It's okay, it's okay,
we will come and go. But as long as you
don't compromise your your ethics, your moral your principles. You

(37:03):
don't compromise your values. You didn't do something wrong, that's
that's that's it.

Speaker 22 (37:13):
What is important is how you deal with people.

Speaker 13 (37:18):
Yeah, I love your brother.

Speaker 1 (37:20):
Now, I appreciate you eating alway from Kyro Egypt. I
always love giving you the space to talk, cause you know,
we already know where we come from, all the way
back to you know, XP days with we've been rocking
out on this app. You're just helping out a lot
of people. So even I appreciate you. If you guys
are just joining. Why do friends fall out after a disagreement?

(37:40):
Picking this room up? Share this room up? We want
some more people in here, and all my sustantce y'all
look at this showed up. Oh y'all in for some shit,
y'all lean for some shit. I know she gonna bring
the fire right, So shout out to my sister. I
need y'all to pick the room up and share the
room up more though we a media.

Speaker 20 (37:56):
Mentor, it's God, damn it, let's go scared it come.

Speaker 12 (38:08):
I don't know why because they dime.

Speaker 23 (38:09):
Show twenty ten Winter Time Pelione. I got a master call.
She had a room on my cousin, a snug, a
toe on my head, a gun.

Speaker 5 (38:17):
I do believe in my spirits can hop on the spirit.

Speaker 2 (38:19):
That's fight too long.

Speaker 5 (38:20):
You two niggas trying to when you can never last long.

Speaker 22 (38:23):
Not too much your finess when they're gonna signing, when.

Speaker 2 (38:25):
Niggag, I'm glad you're gone.

Speaker 4 (38:27):
If you got a name and you still don't manage,
you couldn't be the first to fall.

Speaker 22 (38:30):
Broke got a body, but Brodie got full body.

Speaker 23 (38:32):
See the first to toe for my back as a
bird bruin the car and I did it on bird fell.

Speaker 5 (38:37):
Then it's suburban brewing the trigger and you hop on
the curve.

Speaker 23 (38:40):
Then Brotie moved back to Bertie started lacking just off
his girlfriend.

Speaker 1 (38:43):
I was stacking head to step.

Speaker 12 (38:44):
On the match.

Speaker 23 (38:45):
His nigga ain't parafe take him out the slide. He
can't even focus thigging what his girl did. I can't
even lie in a lot of the guys. Then we
made the Reld spin on the jail call. But we're
still risk because he got emerging.

Speaker 2 (38:56):
They're proposed to guns.

Speaker 23 (38:57):
That's really involved because they lurk and I'm from you
don't get old.

Speaker 5 (39:02):
I know some killer that told I know see me
than nobody know.

Speaker 23 (39:05):
Pray for me. I'm on the roll.

Speaker 1 (39:07):
Give it all.

Speaker 2 (39:08):
Know for my bro.

Speaker 8 (39:09):
When you're keeping your mouth close, I ain't knowing what
again they scared to come out side. I know the
years when you could be scared to out the day,
back in the day when it was selling fifty minimum. Wait, wait,
I was bad, Mama, send me to Michigan to get
out the way.

Speaker 23 (39:24):
I ain't know what to say.

Speaker 1 (39:25):
I know he was there when they pick this up though,
what we're doing. Why do friends fall out after a disagreement?
I want to know this topic. Today. It's Friday. We're
gonna be rocking out in the media. Mentors. You know,
I've been busy with these crypto projects behind the scenes
and also supporting my other friends that are on the
app doing fire ass topics. So I've been really really

(39:48):
busy handling shit behind the scenes. But I'm always gonna
come back inside the media, mentors and make sure that
you know we get out these topics. We talk about this,
checking on you guys that really get up in here, right.
So why do friends fallout after a disagreement? I want
to continue mid swipe? Is crazy? You back? You back,

(40:12):
you back?

Speaker 24 (40:15):
I slipped up again the matrix.

Speaker 1 (40:20):
Nah, they swipe me out it way back, my bade.
I click somebody. That's why I don't wave when you're
in the room, because it'll swipe you out. Don't wave.
So my bad about that. Let's continue this. I got
a sister Cynthia in here, right. Can y'all hear me stuff?
I want sister Cynthia to come to you off here
in the building audible over to you.

Speaker 22 (40:38):
I'm in here, hey, guys. This is a good topic,
A great topic, super good topic.

Speaker 10 (40:48):
For me.

Speaker 22 (40:49):
For me, I look at if the relationship or person
has with themselves first, That's what I look at, because
however you are to yourself, you're gonna be to other people.
And I don't have a lot of friends. I've been
through a lot with people, but I can associate with

(41:10):
a lot of people. But I always look at the
relationship that you people have with themselves, because if you
respect yourself, you're gonna respect other people.

Speaker 6 (41:20):
You love yourself.

Speaker 1 (41:21):
You're gonna say that again, says, hold, are you going
to you call you coming in too hot? Cynthia, you said,
if you know what, you're gonna do what I said.

Speaker 22 (41:29):
I always look at the relationship you have with yourself.
If you respect yourself, you're gonna respect other people. You
love yourself, you're gonna love other people. If you're honest
with yourself, you're gonna be honest.

Speaker 10 (41:43):
With other people.

Speaker 22 (41:44):
If you try to hide from you and hide those
obvious things and try to make it pretty and pretty
it up, you're gonna try to do the same thing
with other people. And then when you get called on
yourself on your stuff, you're gonna be feeling some kind
of way. You're gonna be all in your feelings, and
then that's where the problem arises. So you have to

(42:05):
look at yourself first.

Speaker 10 (42:06):
In the mirror.

Speaker 22 (42:07):
And I love this same here to thine own self
be true. And when we can do that, if any
relationship that you're in, whether we're close on a scale
of one to ten, it will be okay. Be a
natural spiritual, mother, daughter, sister, friend, dogcat.

Speaker 6 (42:25):
Worm bird.

Speaker 22 (42:26):
I don't care what it is, it will be okay
because it's already the foundation is laying. I personally don't
have time. It just depends on what it is to
baby someone. If you've grown, you grown, If you out
there in the world and you're doing grown up people's stuff,
then act grown, be grown, because otherwise you get grown

(42:46):
people consequences. You can't handle it, then don't be as
they say, don't be playing.

Speaker 4 (42:53):
I don't have time for it.

Speaker 22 (42:55):
You know, when you're out here in the real world
and you're trying to, as they say, make moves and
do things and meet people and grow and do and
be in life, and you're trying to handle your business,
go get some business about yourself. And I feel some
kind of way about this because i'dne been through so
many things in life, so many betrayal, and getting close
to me is just like, excuse my language, it's like

(43:18):
getting into bed with me that ain't happening. We know
that you got to go through a whole lot of fire,
walking on coals, bare feet with glass, so you know
that you got to go through a whole whole lot.
Everybody doesn't get the privilege of being that close to
me to call me friend. Everybody doesn't do that, And
I think people are so quick to do that because

(43:41):
then that's when you set yourself up for failure. Just
send people through a system. Do the checkbox, take out
the time to put the work in, do the background checks,
read the backstory, read the face, check out the eyes,
the smile lies, and don't let the lipstick fool you
because we got to put the work in. Don't be
so desperate for a friend that you pull people so

(44:02):
close to you, and then if you don't do the
work up front, you're gonna end up doing the crying
in the back, the regretting it in the back, the
arguing in the back, the suing you in the back,
you cursing people out of the back. Ain't nobody got
time for that. If you're about business, you don't have
time for that.

Speaker 25 (44:19):
You have no time for that.

Speaker 22 (44:20):
So put the work in. And that's kind of what
I go by. We're grown people. Grown people need to
act grown. If you are, if you're a cee of
your business, if you're handling business, and how do y'all
say that thing? If you standing on business.

Speaker 5 (44:36):
Stand.

Speaker 22 (44:36):
I think that's how you say you standing on business.
That's what you do, you represent, that's what you do.
We're grown because if you if you're making moves and
you got your time, it's a lotted to different things.

Speaker 6 (44:49):
I don't have time to be playing with people.

Speaker 22 (44:52):
I don't play with my kids, I don't play with animals,
I don't play with grown people. So that that's kind
of the way I've done it. My time is important
because once it's gone, you can't get it back. You
cannot get that back. So you know, when you get older,
you'll appreciate that every second means something because you could
be doing something, And even when I don't want to

(45:13):
do something, that's still something because that's my choice, that's
still my choice and nobody's going to take that from me.
Thank you so much for llwing me to share.

Speaker 1 (45:23):
Damn Cynthia coming in high already picking the room up.
Share the room up. If you guys are enjoying this
conversation so far, Sister Cynthia always been someone that's been
supporting me off the app and seeing you know how
many people we've been helping. Our heart the true hearts right,
So Cynthia fire ass shared you done came through and
blazed it up. If you guys are just joining. Why
do friends fall out after a disagreement? Alicia? Are you

(45:44):
still by your mic? Right now? Are you here? I
want to ask you, how's this conversation going so far?

Speaker 18 (45:49):
Before conversation?

Speaker 9 (45:52):
It's going.

Speaker 17 (45:54):
I like the conversation. Let's keep it going on says
we're holding each other accountable at this time.

Speaker 10 (45:59):
I like it.

Speaker 1 (46:00):
Pat Cynthia, you went in right. If you guys are
getting on the stage, make sure you'll ready to charme
into this conversation. Two point oh? Are you buy your
mic right now? Are you here before I check on
my brother for sean? Two point oh? How you feel
about this conversation and what we've been talking about so far?
And why do friends fall out after a disagreement? Let's go,
let's continue.

Speaker 10 (46:20):
It's a great, very great insight, very very great insight.
Why do friends fall out after a disagreement? Maybe because
I don't know. What comes to my mind is like
jealousy or envious to the other friends.

Speaker 26 (46:34):
You bring light that they can't never you know, they
don't know how to so there's something around you that
they want.

Speaker 10 (46:43):
Knowing that they can get the same thing, but they
don't know how. They hate how you impact positivity in
other people's lives as well as your own. So maybe
it's that and I'm saying based out of experience, I've
seen that.

Speaker 1 (47:01):
To two point zho like some people be you know,
afraid of you know, your light or your talents or
your energy or the things you bring to the table.
And they could be kind of afraid of that too,
So appreciate that two point oh. Anything else you want
to say, uh, I think that's it. So look, it
could be your energy, it could be anything that you
bring to the table that could disturb somebody else. And

(47:21):
if somebody else is jealous of you, that means that
their energy is not healed or they didn't go do
the work, or they didn't go do self work or
go out there and be like you know what, I
know who I am. So when I see other energy
or other people doing they thing, I know how to
appreciate that or I know how to uplift that. So
it's it's all about you know how your mindset is
and where you're coming from. So I love that two
point oh. And I want to check on brother for

(47:43):
Sean while we continue this conversation about why dose friends
fall out after a disagreement, no loyalty ping the room up,
share the room up. If you guys are just joining,
but we having this conversation today. If you guys at
the bottom coming to the top, so we can you know,
share this energy. See what's on your mind for the Friday. So,
but sean over to you, brother, if you're buy your mic,
I'm checking on you right now. How are you feeling, brother, man,

(48:05):
Peace to the gods. What's happening are you feeling about
this topic? Brother?

Speaker 24 (48:10):
Man? I'm rocking with it. Brother, It's really important. Man,
we have enough science behind the understanding how to solve
the problem and how to identify cope with the results.
You know, it's important that people someone earlier mentioned the

(48:31):
sister earlier mentioned about people having access to you and
how we use the words you know, you know me man,
We have to use precision of language and being peccable
with our words right, And a lot of times we
use things got of context and loosely, and they lose
their validity, right, they lose the gravity in which they hold.

(48:54):
Calling somebody a friend means that y'all have gone through trauma, turmoil,
and hardship and come out of it.

Speaker 20 (49:05):
Right.

Speaker 1 (49:05):
That's a friend.

Speaker 24 (49:07):
That's what builds loyalty and trust that will build community
and family.

Speaker 10 (49:10):
Right.

Speaker 24 (49:12):
Falling all over a disagreement to the point where the
relationship is harnessed, it's usually something more deeply rooted, and
we have to we have to also address this based
on gender. I know we don't like to do that
because feminism has told us that women are equal to
men and men are equal to women. But even the

(49:33):
standards that we live by don't produce that right because
women don't want to be treated like men at all
and they don't want to lose their privileges, and men
don't want to be treated like women. So it's not
about equality, it's about leaning into the fact that we
understand that we're different. Through sociology and psychology. We understand
that when we watch little boys develop, when they get

(49:55):
into conflict, they are able to work through that conflict
even if they have becomes it becomes combative, and they
learn how to move forward whether they're going to get
over the issue and continue to build together or they're
going to disassemble and they're not going to be friends
at all right, but they want it on backstab and stuff.

(50:17):
They don't become conniving. And typically boys will figure it
out because that's how the that's how they're wired.

Speaker 1 (50:24):
Women.

Speaker 24 (50:25):
On the other hand, when we watch little girls go
into disagreements, they hold on two things.

Speaker 10 (50:30):
Right.

Speaker 4 (50:30):
If you watch little girls play.

Speaker 24 (50:32):
In at the park and they get into a conflict
with each other, they will hard. They will hold onto
that energy, and they will typically break up in the
groups based on another little girl's disagreement.

Speaker 4 (50:44):
They will bond in that point.

Speaker 24 (50:48):
I don't know, man, Yeah, listen, man, I've been I've
been studying this ship most of my life. Bro Like
friendship is communities based off friendship. Families are based off friendship.
RACI relationship based off friendship. Companies based off friendship. Right,
So when we talk about a disagreement, that disagreement needs

(51:09):
to be earth shadowing, right, and typically it's because one
person or both people are complete assholes if we're gonna
be honest, and if it's with guys, typically when guys
get into a disagreement or something that's worth changing a relationship,

(51:30):
it's off principle. I need y'all to hear me, because
we operate off logic, And when a man is operating
off logic, he's based in duty and principle right, straight
up merit not his feelings. He's going to struggle with
the decision because of his feelings, but he gonna make
the decision because of his principal. Women, on the other hand,

(51:51):
they will end the relationship because they did it didn't
feel good and they didn't like how the thing felt.
It could be the truth, they could be wrong, but
because the way that they felt about it, they felt
like the other person shipping and did something, or they
feel like they was this no facts involved, they will
be willing to walk away from that or they'll keep

(52:12):
the relationship. But harness this weird energy until the next
time they have a debacle. You know, and don't believe me.
Why is our relationship structure this way? Why is divorce
that it like this? Women leave because of how they feel, right,
Men stay because of duty? Right, So we can see

(52:33):
that in friendship. So really, what you and when I
say that we're talking about lower forms. A woman that's
elevated never operates like this. A woman that's elevated, a
wife is dedicated to her family on duty and her
friendships in her sisterhood is based on duty because they
hold each other accountable. It's not too often you'll find

(52:54):
a woman that's a wife in company with women who
are not you know what I'm saying. Same thing with fellas.
Every guy not a man, but but but guys go
through that go through manhood, that become a men, become men.
They not in company with other dudes that don't stand
on the same principles because it's dangerous and it's unsafe. Right,

(53:16):
So men cut men off because he not a brother,
He not holding this, he's not olding his shield up.
I gotta I gotta depend on the man to the
left and the right of me.

Speaker 1 (53:25):
You know, friendship is super holding them accountable, holding your
friends accountable. So I love that. I love the fact
you said that because a lot of people don't want
to get held accountable. Now you know what I mean?

Speaker 24 (53:38):
And you know one more thing, man stack, because it's
a great conversation, bro. People think that these outside of friendship,
there are levels of loyalty in the process of discovering friends. Right,
How we become friends is how you how you act
in the process. And on club housemen, I watch people
do ship that I'd be like, Damn, you've been around

(54:01):
way too long. You've been around that person way too
long to handle this situation. You just did like like
watching somebody else, like holding space for other people to
get like dragged. That's the suppost that you've been rocking
with for a while, hearing some wild stuff about a
homie and like not standing with them until you until
y'all learn the truth. You know what I'm saying, Uh

(54:23):
putting putting, your putting your homies business out in private,
and it's going to somebody that's really that's really messy.
So now it's outside. I'm like, I was like, man, like,
how did y'all get here? You know what I'm saying,
Like I watched people not staying on business. That's the
sister said earlier. Quite often they think, oh, this is
just the Internet to discredit, and this grows across the

(54:43):
board for like the clubhouse and social media in general,
to discredit the validity of these relationships because it's on
the Internet. It just shows people are not intelligent at all,
and they're trying to say that because we're talking through
our devices that somehow it makes this experience not real.

(55:05):
And I don't know about y'all, but I'm a real
person on this side of the phone, with a real voice,
with a real life, with real information that's coming from
real money that was spent on a real college, real university,
real life experiences. So to say like, oh, it's just
the Internet or it's just an app, it's like, no,
you just a fake, you know, like the people that

(55:27):
say that just fake and they just they just here
to become somebody that they not because their real life
ain't ain't dope, but they're not lit. But you know,
you got to be lit in real life, man.

Speaker 1 (55:40):
And then.

Speaker 13 (55:42):
It's the intention when you start, when you start the
relationship thinking that it's not going to be real, it's
not going to be real. You think that it's not
real because you think that it is. But on the
other hand, I'm here thinking that it's real. So who's
gonna be hurt the person that calls it real?

Speaker 1 (56:04):
So you're right, completely right, you guys are just joining
this conversation getting hot, right. I got Pierre on the
stay hold on, I got Pierre on the stage. I
got wifey Amanda that just pulled up my baby. Make
sure you'll follow her. And also got everybody else, still
got Angelica, I got for Sean, got Cynthia two point zero, Marcus,
Jose Mark Goldie, look ping this room up, Share this

(56:27):
room up so we can have more people come through
and share this ship. I got my sister hot Girl
in here as well. O g member season one. You
feel me, She's gonna chime in too. We're gonna have
a nice conversation today. I've seen Pierre coming in right
after for Sean. Let's continue this and then we're gonna
pass the mic around, picking the room up. Share the
room up while we're in here today media mentors wide

(56:50):
open today. Love you guys. Let's go here over to you. Hey, Stach,
I was gonna take good morning, good morning, afternoon, whatever
you want to do.

Speaker 27 (57:02):
And hell was probably a little bit simpler. I want
to build a little bit on what Sean was talking
about that at the end. I caught a bit of this,
but I liked how he summarized the whole idea that
you know, you're still a real person on here. I
think part of the problem with the devices and a
little bit about some of the arguments is that it's
sometimes people say things on through these apps that to

(57:26):
be quite honest with you, I'm pretty sure that if
you were face to face, you probably wouldn't be that
deep into it. So it says a little bit about
how you know there are real people with real emotions
to it. And then I think one of the problems
is that sometimes people when you argue with people through
a device, whether it's a smartphone, laptop, I sometimes spend

(57:50):
time between both, it's hard to see how people are
reacting to something, so it's really easy to kind of
create a deeper offense than what you than and what
was intended. I'll give one thing with social media with
a particularly with the live chats, is that the nice
thing is that at least we can kind of hear
each other. Something about having a voice makes a big,

(58:12):
big difference, and so sometimes you can kind of catch
yourself a little bit and try not to go too
deep into the weeds on something. But to the topic about,
you know, why do friends fall out after a disagreement?
I think for Shan talk talked about something I thought
that was important. Although I don't think it's just about men,
you know, on the whole thing about principle, I think

(58:33):
women also have a sense of principle as well too,
And it just depends on what we're talking about in
an argument. Sometimes people fall out because they've had repeated
series of arguments or repeated series of discussions where one
person is just being a little bit too petty about
something and keeps coming up over and over again. Some

(58:55):
a lot of people don't survive that very well, and
so the mechanism in the US is to kind of
keep some distance from that. It's all possible, you know,
a lot of times for the elections and stuff, there
are some people who are posting memes talking about how
well we can agree to disagree and still be friends
at the political discussions. That's not always true. And I

(59:17):
think if you're a person of color, you kind of
understand this. We've always understood our debates when it came
to politics, that when somebody was attacking a politician at
a certain level, it becomes a backhanded statement on a
woman in office or a backhanded statement of a black
person in office. I remember when Richard Hatcher, who was

(59:40):
the first black he and Carl Stokes were the first
black mayors of a major metropolitan city back in nineteen
sixty eight. Hatcher was from my City, Gary, Indiana. Stokes
was for Cleveland, and I grew up in an area
where when people were talking about Hatcher, I had to
watch and listen and see are they are they really
talking about policy they disliked, which is fine, or are

(01:00:03):
they just disliking the fact that there's a black man
in office or that there's a black administration. Some people
during the seventies and eighties really had a tough time
with that. This is why we had suburbs and white flight.
So I say all this to say with you know,
with Harris and some some is definitely with some e
sent with Obama. This is the first time our nation

(01:00:24):
has had that type of debate. And then on top
of that, with social media, we connect with each other
and talk and we get you know, sometimes we get
people who troll or sometimes people who just want to
hate them. Oh yeah, So so it becomes this sort
of you know, this is it's a little bit of
a moment in history for for collectively, for all of us.

Speaker 9 (01:00:46):
But at the same time, for a fallout.

Speaker 27 (01:00:49):
If you have a fallout for something like that, it's
hard to kind of come back and be friends with
somebody if their outlook, which is what politics is if
your outlook towards the people is very very negative, or
to a group of people is very very negative, and
we're seeing that playing out for everything ranging from immigration, lgbt.

Speaker 1 (01:01:07):
Q, and so forth.

Speaker 27 (01:01:09):
But to keep a friendship, you have to kind of
call out what is that really ties you together. You
have to call that out. They're the people who were
different from me politically. There were other things that they
could call out that was that made it a little
bit better to keep a friendship. But the people who
couldn't do that politically, they fell out. So so I

(01:01:33):
say all this to say, you know, friends fall out
for a lot of different reasons. But I think if
you're trying to hold things together, you need to kind
of spell out. I need and spell out means actually
going to that person and saying, hey, this is what
we have in common to keep it together, because otherwise
the disagreements do constant. Even if they're small and petty,

(01:01:54):
they it's prolonged long enough, it'll create that big wedge.

Speaker 1 (01:01:58):
I'm gonna let the mic go. I know I talked
a little bit by Pierre. We needed that good input.
Everybody that's enjoying this conversation share a room out. Put
a one in the chat. If you guys are enjoying
the conversation, Pierre, I love that. Also want to get
you know, the female's voice in here. That's why I
got my sister Hot Girl in here, right, and my
sister Angelica, and I got wife of your man and
Cynthia two point zero, and I got email everybody in

(01:02:19):
the building right picking the room out, share the room out,
shout us the farmer for just pulling up. Jose came through,
Marcus right, share the room out, pinging the room out
so we can have some more people in here. But
I want to go to my sister hot Girl and
get you know, a female's perspective on this. Why do
friends fall out after a disagreement? No loyalty? I want
to continue this conversation while we're still here and then
and then I'll do a quick reset after hot Girl

(01:02:40):
so we can continue. So sister over to you, let's go.

Speaker 11 (01:02:43):
Thank you for coming through, Thank you, shout out to
you Stack.

Speaker 28 (01:02:47):
I love being here. Hey, everybody. My input on why
do friends fall out after a disagreement is because everybody
can't handle the truth, you know, or the way that
a person says it. But some people just can't handle
the truth. Some people can't accept constructive criticism. They think

(01:03:08):
that everybody is just out.

Speaker 10 (01:03:10):
To get them.

Speaker 28 (01:03:10):
You know, if it's your friend, your friends should be
able to tell you how they feel, any type of
way they feel.

Speaker 22 (01:03:16):
You know, they should feel open. That's the point of
calling them your friend.

Speaker 28 (01:03:19):
That's why I tell people you gotta separate your friends
from your associates, from your business partners, because they all
ain't gonna mix. But if it's your friend, that's your
friend that you're supposed to be open and able to
tell them things. But some people can call theyself your friend,
but they can't accept constructive criticism. They can't accept them

(01:03:40):
not being right. They can't, you know, everything is a
one way streak. And then as far as no loyalty.
That's why I tell people, that's why I got that song.
You gotta watch them because sometimes you.

Speaker 1 (01:03:59):
Got a song. Yeah, sometimes you gotta.

Speaker 28 (01:04:02):
Yeah, you gotta watch them because your friends sometimes they
ain't your friends. And some people think they enemies is
their enemies, and sometimes it really ain't like that. Your
enemies sometimes ain't your enemies.

Speaker 29 (01:04:14):
So you gotta watch them.

Speaker 22 (01:04:16):
People that you call your friends because now you got your.

Speaker 28 (01:04:19):
Enemies telling you what your friends is doing, which make
them not your enemies because they keeping it real what
you're letting you know what's really going on, which they
know they trying to hurt you, but at the same
time they letting you know what's going on. So sometimes
in every situation, your enemies might not be your enemies
your friends.

Speaker 10 (01:04:36):
Yeah, I got a song.

Speaker 28 (01:04:37):
It's called watch Them, and it's on all platforms. It's
been out for about four years.

Speaker 1 (01:04:41):
Now drop that link, hot girl. Put that link up there. Man,
that what we're doing. I want to see that. You
know what I'm saying. Put that link up there, put
it in the chat. Whatever you want to do, let's
go keep going, hot girl. What daught you gotta say?

Speaker 28 (01:04:53):
Yeah, So as far as no loyalty, that's why I
say you do gotta watch them because, yeah, your friends
sometimes ain't your friends, and you know when they ain't
your friends, because loyalty go a long way. Your morals,
loyalty that those are.

Speaker 11 (01:05:09):
Things that's in you. They ain't on you.

Speaker 28 (01:05:11):
They ain't something that you can show a perception of.

Speaker 2 (01:05:13):
If you ain't got it, you just ain't got it.

Speaker 28 (01:05:16):
Yeah, you gotta watch them. But that's how I feel
about the situation, Cynthia.

Speaker 1 (01:05:21):
What you gotta say about that? We gotta watch them.

Speaker 10 (01:05:24):
I gotta watch them.

Speaker 28 (01:05:27):
And I'm putting the link in the chat so that
if anybody want to go check out the video.

Speaker 9 (01:05:33):
The video is on my YouTube.

Speaker 1 (01:05:35):
Channel and I'll put the link in the chat. You
can put the link at the top too, how Girl,
we gonna all check it out. That'll be fired. We'll
all support you. Love that, okay, okay, and make sure
y'all tap in. Who else want to come in? I've
seen somebody want to come in after how girl? Who
want to take the mic? After that?

Speaker 10 (01:05:51):
Hey? Bro?

Speaker 28 (01:05:52):
And not to get off subject, but today August second,
my song is on my new song I just dropped.
The new song is on iTunes, is in an iTunes store,
is not on Apple Music and Spotify, and the platforms
don't drop until next Friday. But I typed it in
in the iTunes store and I pre ordered it. It's

(01:06:12):
a dollar No.

Speaker 1 (01:06:14):
I appreciate you, how Girl. Make sure y'all go tap
in and support my sister, someone that's been supporting me
off on and off the app. So appreciate you.

Speaker 6 (01:06:23):
I appreciate you.

Speaker 1 (01:06:24):
I got you hot girl who wanted to come in?
That was what was it? Fabian? Fabian? Over to you, brother,
Let's continue this then I got Farmer coming up next.
Let's go. I'm gonna do a preset after Fabian. Let's go,
hot girl.

Speaker 30 (01:06:37):
Yes, thank you so much, man for the room. Yes, sir,
I do not think this is a gender thing here.
I think that's the easy argument to make, that men
are like this and women like this. Let me tell you, bro,
some of the most petteous emotional folks that I've been
around happened to be dudes.

Speaker 11 (01:06:57):
Man.

Speaker 30 (01:06:58):
It's a lack of mature already, is the common thread here.
Got nothing to do with gender. Women are like this,
men are like this. I know that's that's been to
go to conversation for for for ages. But we need
to take a closer look at things, man, and just
and call them for what they are. If your relationship
is built on sand, sooner or later, it's gonna come apart.

Speaker 6 (01:07:21):
Okay. If your relationship is built on a lack of grace.

Speaker 1 (01:07:26):
And the first again say that again.

Speaker 30 (01:07:32):
If your relationship is based on a lack of grace,
it will not stand the test of time. Okay, so
you can be friends with X person for how many years?
They do one thing. Now, obviously everything has its levels,
but they do one thing. You know, you got to
really take a look at it, man, and say, hey,

(01:07:54):
where they just having a bad day or they're just
going through some crisis.

Speaker 6 (01:07:57):
Ship, but you know what we want to do now,
we want to cut them off with a quickness. Man,
that's what we want to do.

Speaker 4 (01:08:03):
You know.

Speaker 30 (01:08:04):
So I believe that every relationship has its seasoned brother.
Whether it's your lady, whether it's your homeboys. It might
be a week, it might be thirty years. Sometimes it
just it just dies on the vine, bro, Like there's
nobody to how about that. Sometimes there's nobody to blame.

Speaker 1 (01:08:26):
Hold up about the bars.

Speaker 30 (01:08:30):
Bro, Sometimes it's nobody to blame. It's just you know what,
you grew this way. I grew this way, and it's okay.
But we always got to we've got to crap on everybody.
It's no longer in our life, man, That's my thing. Man,
there's no need for that. This person might have been
a great friend for X amount of time and something
happened and y'all just.

Speaker 6 (01:08:50):
Go in different directions. And that's okay too. That's okay too,
you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 30 (01:08:55):
So anyway, I just want to say that, look, man, relationships,
if your relationship hingees on full agreement, you're not in
a relationship.

Speaker 6 (01:09:05):
You're in a hostage situation.

Speaker 1 (01:09:10):
Faby in coming in and h make sure you guys
pin this room up and share this ro I want
more people in this conversation. Okay, up here, more deep
like fabyan in here.

Speaker 6 (01:09:19):
Rickon, Hey, Bridchard, Hey Bradchard. Let me tell you something.
Let me tell you something.

Speaker 21 (01:09:23):
Man.

Speaker 30 (01:09:24):
If you cannot disagree with a friend, if you cannot
at times.

Speaker 6 (01:09:30):
Move on to the next subject, it is a fake relationship. Bro.

Speaker 30 (01:09:34):
Real relationships have disagreements, they might even have a temporary fallout.

Speaker 6 (01:09:40):
But if your your relationship is all about always.

Speaker 30 (01:09:45):
Agreeing and always kumbaya and always hope, that is a
relationship that I don't want.

Speaker 6 (01:09:51):
Serious talk bro.

Speaker 1 (01:09:55):
No, no, I appreciate you for that. Make sure you
guys share the room about pain the womb out. You
guys want some more energy in here, right, y'all?

Speaker 2 (01:10:02):
Want more, more, more more.

Speaker 1 (01:10:04):
You know what I'm saying. What you're gonna do? I
need some more people in here.

Speaker 6 (01:10:07):
Let's keep going.

Speaker 1 (01:10:08):
We'll Recclet go keep going. That's a show yet looking
like ice cream. I said, if you're meaning to breath
disgusting this.

Speaker 12 (01:10:15):
Nothing, jump lap a lot one side and lock the
little stop and the little shop.

Speaker 1 (01:10:20):
You know, das found.

Speaker 6 (01:10:28):
If Dan, he will Jack come.

Speaker 1 (01:10:31):
That's what I try to finish it. I'm going and
I'm Jack got something.

Speaker 4 (01:10:37):
I'm dumb.

Speaker 1 (01:10:37):
That's the last five. Who can't damn man? Who he can't? Chao,
who you can't.

Speaker 6 (01:10:48):
Who you can't, who you get can't?

Speaker 1 (01:10:52):
Mama shall by come back on. Let me just stand today.

Speaker 12 (01:10:57):
Start to day.

Speaker 1 (01:10:57):
I lock him because you knows about being Hey, let's
continue this conversation. Why do friends fall out after a disagreement?

(01:11:19):
Communication is every day. All we gotta do is communicate.
All we gotta do is communicate. Sometimes they take it
just a little bit of communication, right. Shout out to
Coco Mark Angelic Vibe, Steve Farmer. I've seen some people
coming in. Let's let's keep continuing this conversation. Farmer, I'm
gonna pass it to you, bro. I've seen you coming in,
and then I know Alicia wants to come back into
before I seen you coming in, bro, and then Marcus too.

(01:11:41):
So let's continue this conversation. Farmer, you by your mic,
Let's go, what's the word?

Speaker 24 (01:11:45):
What's good?

Speaker 1 (01:11:45):
Stack?

Speaker 31 (01:11:46):
What's good?

Speaker 6 (01:11:46):
Everybody?

Speaker 29 (01:11:47):
I think one of the one of the reasons why
people fallout is because they're calling a friend. They're calling
acquaintances friends or associates friends. I think one of the
biggest parts of a friend is you. You guys can
disagree and a build off of disagreement. It's not that
the fact that y'all agree on everything is what makes
y'all friends. Is the fact that y'all can get through disagreements.

(01:12:08):
Y'all gotten through some tough things in life that build
on that friendship. So if I ever see somebody breaking
up over a disagreement, unless there's some high level disrespect,
I just don't see that as a friendship. It was
just an acquaintance or associate.

Speaker 1 (01:12:26):
Fama, you ever seen something like that in your life,
man with you know you had to, you know, kind
of maneuver around or any examples. Let's let's wake it up, bro,
you got anything else from Yeah.

Speaker 4 (01:12:36):
Yeah, I've I've seen that many times.

Speaker 29 (01:12:40):
Especially I was saying my younger years when your friends
was basically who you grew up with. They were the
people that was in your community and not so much.
You really didn't have like a code that y'all was
built off. Maybe y'all would fight with other individuals like that,
you protect each other, y'all played on the same sports team,
things like that. It was just whoever was in close

(01:13:00):
proximity to you that was your friend. But once I
started getting into college, it was more so based off
of you had to move a certain type of way
because you know, I started to notice that having certain
individuals in your in your friend friend group could be
a detriment to you. So that's one thing I always
stood on. I always tell my friends, I hold you
to a higher standard than everybody else. So if you're

(01:13:22):
not looking to be held to that highest standard, then
we can't be friends. To be honest, I let them
know off the rip and there's nothing wrong. We could
still be associates. But I just think, you know, being
a friend of me is is a good thing because
you know, I ride and die for my friends, so
I hope that you know they do the same thing
for me.

Speaker 1 (01:13:37):
And if they don't, that's cool.

Speaker 4 (01:13:38):
We could be associates.

Speaker 1 (01:13:40):
N feel morning everybody?

Speaker 25 (01:13:42):
Good morning, Mac.

Speaker 1 (01:13:43):
What's good? Bro? Howre you feeling?

Speaker 6 (01:13:45):
Bro?

Speaker 1 (01:13:45):
You're you're gonna behave on this stage? Mac, you understand,
Brodie who's talking to me? Oh? Yeah, Bro? We having
a good got the pink ticket because you already a
part of it house, Bro, You already part of this ship? Max?

Speaker 6 (01:14:02):
Oh my bad?

Speaker 1 (01:14:03):
No, Max. So we're having a great conversation about why
do friends fall out after a disagreement? No loyalty. I
want to hear from you too, Bro, but I just
want to, you know, give everybody the space to talk
real quick. So just sit tight, my brother. I appreciate
you for coming through and supporting you did. Look, why
do friends fall out after a disagreement? We've been hearing
some great inputs, some great shares, Hot girl winning for

(01:14:24):
Sean winning earlier, even winning, everybody already winning, Pia winning.
Now I'm gonna give it to my brother Marcus, and
I'm gonna check on my sister Angelica because I know
she's been waiting. So Marcus, are you by your mic
right now? I've seen you coming in brother, and check
on Mac. God, let's go. Yeah.

Speaker 6 (01:14:38):
So it's pretty simple with me man like.

Speaker 32 (01:14:41):
One of my favorite things are quotes to tell you know,
the egotistical people that think they right about everything. It's normally,
if you surrender being right, you can find the right solution.
I'm gonna say it again, if you surrender being right,
if we surrender being right, we can find the right
What happens, there is a lot of people go into

(01:15:01):
situations going through life thinking that they saw right about
everything that they never surrender that word. It's like, just
surrender that man, you're not You're not. Nobody's right about everything. Nobody,
no one person knows everything where there's a decision, an opinion,
a quote, or you know, which your direction to go.
And what I've seen in business, especially a lot of leaders,

(01:15:24):
they just want you to get in the car with them,
you know, just get in the car and put your
seat but on, shut up, just.

Speaker 1 (01:15:28):
Ride and unfortunately ask me questions.

Speaker 32 (01:15:32):
Right, yeah, yeah, we're not those type of people like
other than when you come across around other leaders, you
gotta talk about the details. You can't just say getting
the car, put your headphones on and ride with me.
And so when you asking those different leaders those types
of questions, some people they get flustered, frustrated. Oh you're
you're in disagreement.

Speaker 10 (01:15:50):
It's like, no, I just need you to.

Speaker 32 (01:15:51):
Tell me what's going on, and if I don't like
what's going on, and I'm gonna tell you what we
can do or what we can do or what I'm
not gonna do. And then and it becomes a disagreement
when for me it's like, hey, I'm saying I'm not
gonna do that. You can still go that way, you
can still do that, but I already told you just
a line on the other side of that door, so
you can go figure that part out right. But again,

(01:16:12):
if you surrender being right, you can find the right solution.
And then most people let a situation ruin their relationship
all the time. I don't think anybody should do it.
You should never let a situation ruin the relationship if
it truly is a relationship, if it's just nothing, then
any situation.

Speaker 1 (01:16:32):
If it really means something to you, you should save
the shit before it goes.

Speaker 32 (01:16:35):
Yeah, sometimes it's not even worth bringing it up, or
it's not even worth going back to the topic or
the discussion. It's like, how much do you value the
relationship versus just being right. And then again, some folks
just can't apologize, right. You'd be surprised how many people
just can't say my bad, I'm sorry I was wrong.

Speaker 6 (01:16:58):
And.

Speaker 1 (01:17:00):
To Marcus, that'll fix a lot of shit. Yeah, but
they never do. They never do.

Speaker 32 (01:17:03):
They just want to move forward and act like it
didn't happen, or act like the conversation didn't happen, or
act like, you know, maybe the other person was right,
and they just kind of moved forward and walk into
the room or walk into the space or walk around.

Speaker 1 (01:17:22):
Marcus, your audio went out, brother and muted you. If
you're still here, Marcus, you by your mic. It probably
muted or went into a bad section, but Marcus was
going in. It ain't just me right, his audio went out,
So Marcus, come back, bro, whenever you can, so that
way we can canny.

Speaker 25 (01:17:38):
That was God saying that. The Mac goddess turns to.

Speaker 1 (01:17:42):
Mac God, I got you after Angelica, Bro, Angelica, you
buy your MIC's sister? Are you here? My sister Angelica
going once? Oh she ain't buying Mike Mac Delica's here. Dang,
thank you, Jelica, you saved me.

Speaker 6 (01:17:56):
Sis.

Speaker 1 (01:17:58):
I'm coming to Mac right after the look Angelica, I
love you, says, please chime into this conversation. You've been
here since the room started. Why do friends fall out
after a disagreement? Right? And shout out to my sister
a Jelica for support. She've been supporting me for over
down four years. He understand. So all love to you, says,
Let's get it in.

Speaker 10 (01:18:15):
Dang, it's been that long.

Speaker 24 (01:18:17):
Geez.

Speaker 26 (01:18:19):
I'm gonna say this, So, first of all, you gotta
be careful of who you put a title on as
a friend. I think that as we become ourselves and
we evolve over time, we realize who our true friends
are because they are the people who hold lot of
core values. So I am not particular in everybody calling
everybody friend. I'm not even particular in calling everybody row

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or sists Like, you really gotta have that connection. And
I feel like when you are true friends or whatever space,
you should be able to have a disagreement and still
be back like you never left. Because if you are
in relationships where it's a yes person, yes person, yes person,
then you never grow in that friendship. You never evolved

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in that friendship. It's almost like you stay the same.
Like I look at over time of how I've evolved
as an individual. My friends in elementary school were not
my friends in middle school. Some of them, some of
them from when from middle to high some didn't, somewhere
from high school to college some didn't, and from college
into adulthood being in the entertainment industry doing what I

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do as an entrepreneur, everybody, you know, it's not my friend.
I have associates, though I have people that I network with.
I have people that I know, I have connections, I
have relationships with them. But the people that I call
friend are the people that see me in my highs
and lows, and they still know who I am when
I'm low, and they, you know, pushed me even further
when I'm high. And so we have to be careful
on who we put that title in as friend. And

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then also we have to understand that we do have
people that come in our life for a season to
teach us something, to help grow us, to help collaborate
for a certain project, and when that relationship ends, it
just means that we're going in two different directions.

Speaker 18 (01:20:02):
It's no need to bash that other person down. That
other person. I feel like when people you.

Speaker 26 (01:20:07):
Know go into the disagreements and get really really mad
about these situations.

Speaker 18 (01:20:13):
I feel like it's a lack of maturity on that
party's we have.

Speaker 26 (01:20:17):
Or whoever, because I feel like we are grown enough
to know that everybody not gonna go with us, and
as we grow on evolves or.

Speaker 1 (01:20:26):
Chat if you agree, say that again says not everybody's
gonna go with us. I had to learn that shit too, Sis,
But wake it up a little bit and dive into
that not everybody.

Speaker 26 (01:20:33):
As much as we want to take people with us,
staying as good of a hard as we had, as
much we want to help everybody, everybody can't go with
us because guess what, they probably don't have the same
capacity that we have. They probably don't have the same
vision or have the same belief system that we had.
They probably were good for the moment, but then as
we go on evolved, their season was probably up, and
their season is not like Summer's frame went to fall
four months, you know, in the year, I mean three

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months in the year. It could have been five years.
It could have been ten, it could have been fourteen,
it could have been twenty. But when that season is up,
you'll know, because it'll be time for them to exit. Now,
it's also people that are meant to be with you
for a lifetime. And those are the people again that
will see you in your highs and lows. They won't
talk about you. They won't tell your business. They won't
you know, oh I've seen them and they they they

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doing this. They won't spread those dirty details about you.
They're gonna talk about how, yeah they was dow, but
they overcame. They're gonna also celebrate in your victory. I
used to classify, you know, growing up, where I put
quote unquote friends and what spaces they hold. And I'm
gonna say this, and I'm gonna land this in my book.
There's three types of friends. You got the apple friend,

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the egg frind, and the tennis ball friend. That the
apple friend is the friends that when you fall they're
gonna tell all the juice details. They're not gonna tell
how you overcame, but they're gonna tell all the bad
stuff because they just like the gossip. They're literally the
dog that carries the ball and brings the ball. That's
the Apple friend. The egg fram is when you do
have a fallout, they're going to tell every secrets that

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you had been confiding in them in all the ideas,
they were gonna talk about you in a bad way
when you like have a disagreement. Those are the people
that have no loyalty. Those are the people that they
was just waiting on the opportunity to tell all your business.
That's your egg friend. But then you got your tennis
ball friend. And your tennis ball friend is when you
are at your lowest when you lost. Listen, I have

(01:22:21):
lost twice in life and in business, lost everything, and
I had friends that saw me at my lowest and
gave me a handlef and knew how I was right,
and knew that when I got back on top, I.

Speaker 18 (01:22:31):
Was gonna take care of them too. And along the
way they were encouraging me.

Speaker 26 (01:22:35):
They were telling me that I'm still great because you know,
I don't know about y'all, but I am my own
worst critic. When I lost everything, even though a lot
of things was out of my control, I beat myself
up about it. But I had friends that kept reminding
me to give myself grace. You know what, you built
this before, you've done this, before you.

Speaker 18 (01:22:51):
Can do it again.

Speaker 26 (01:22:53):
They were the ones that held my secrets. They were
the ones that allowed me to tell my testimony when
I was ready. They were the ones that allowed me
to tell my narrative when I was ready. They were
not going around spreading things around town. Those are my
tennis ball friends. They saw me at my lowest and
they helped bounce me back into who I was, and
they helped me to become better because they knew that
we were better together. And so when you are looking

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at people coming into your circle, I am not of
the theologian of Drake West says no new friends, because
I believe that as we go to new levels, we
are going to encounter new people that will become our
friends and that will be there for a lifetime, and
we have.

Speaker 18 (01:23:27):
To be open to that. But we need to ask ourself.
This is what I asked when I meet people, who
are you?

Speaker 33 (01:23:33):
Who sent you?

Speaker 10 (01:23:33):
And what you want?

Speaker 26 (01:23:34):
Because and if I'm like that, I'm on I have
my guard up a little bit because I'm watching your movements,
I'm watching how you talk. Like even on this app,
I learned so much about people through their conversation because
it's only so long You're gonna tell a lie before
I figure out who you are and so and so
when you are listening to people, and we were like, okay,
who sent you? Because everybody didn't come with the intent
to help make you grow. Some people came with the

(01:23:57):
intent to bring you down because they were jealous of it,
of you, and you just never saw it. But if
you really sit back and don't be in a rush
to be if to have a friend or a sister
or bro and you sit back and watch their movements,
and you sit back and watch their conversation, you'll pretty
much know where you can put them, and you pretty.

Speaker 18 (01:24:12):
Much know what you can trust them with.

Speaker 26 (01:24:14):
So therefore, if they ever told your business, it did
not hurt you in a way that you it probably
should have, because you told them what you wanted to hear.
I tell people all the time, you cannot beat me
at my past. You tell people about my past, I'm
really gonna laugh because I really tell people what I
want and I tell my own verage way I want to.

Speaker 18 (01:24:30):
I went through what I went through on my own.
I lost twice, I cried many nice I could believe.

Speaker 26 (01:24:36):
That I was in a position that I was in.
I can tell that story. I don't need nobody to
tell it for me. And when I tell other PEOPLE'SLFF.
I tell them what I want them to know, because
I can tell I know they are mootimoule, and I
know if I hear it again.

Speaker 18 (01:24:46):
I know where it came from.

Speaker 26 (01:24:47):
So don't always be in a rush to call people
your friend, but make them earn that spot. People gotta
earn that inner sanctum of you, that those inner thoughts
that n be. They gotta earn that.

Speaker 18 (01:25:00):
I can't just give people stuff that they can earn.

Speaker 26 (01:25:02):
So I am very conscious of who I call friend
and who I call family, because I ain't got family.
That's not even my blood stack is my brother four
years going in because we rock like that.

Speaker 18 (01:25:14):
And if you're going to encounter people that are good,
genuine people, but there are also.

Speaker 26 (01:25:19):
Some people that will watch you from afar and try
to figure out a way to get in. It's the
saying to say, keep your friends close and your enemy
is closer. Your enemy will present themselves as a friend,
and then how they do that so they can get
in and get collect intel. Not once five'ever none came
in and made you see that there was a spot.
They came in and they looked like and presented themselves
as something.

Speaker 18 (01:25:39):
That you thought that they could, you know, let your
guard down.

Speaker 26 (01:25:42):
And so when you have a disagreement with a quote
unquote friend and y'all fall out, they probably never was
your friend in the first place.

Speaker 18 (01:25:49):
So be cautious of that.

Speaker 26 (01:25:50):
Really analyze people, and don't be so giving of yourself.
I'm telling you this from a sample of someone who
was so giving of myself, giving people to show off
my back at telling them things, helping them with so
many things.

Speaker 18 (01:26:02):
And they like, they did me dirty. They did me dirty,
They like had me questioning myself.

Speaker 26 (01:26:10):
But I had to understand that I had to take
some accountability because I didn't really vet them. We talked
about vetting people in romantic relationships, but you need to
vet people in every relationship that you're talking about, establishing, friendship,
business ships, whatever. Vet them, see what they're about, listen
to their conversation, and therefore you know where to place them,
what you can share with them with. But I'm telling you,
when you have friends that are just like family, there

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it's a beautiful thing because they may have something that
you needed, you may have something that they need, and
you can grow together.

Speaker 18 (01:26:38):
So don't be of the mindset. That's why I don't
trust people now, that's why.

Speaker 26 (01:26:41):
No, it's just certain people you can't walk with, and
that's completely fine because that's just who they are, and
if you sit back long enough, who they really are
will present themselves very quickly. I'm gonna land mind playing
right there, brother.

Speaker 1 (01:26:56):
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and I started rocking with my brother King Foure, I
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this conversation about why do friends fall out after a disagreement?

(01:28:04):
Is they no loyalty? What's going on? Matt got over
to you, brother, thank you for supporting. Let's go, oh
good morning.

Speaker 16 (01:28:12):
From my experiences, like mostly large in part, men fall
out over over principal women fall out over jealousy, Like
that's just like my My.

Speaker 25 (01:28:24):
My experience is.

Speaker 16 (01:28:25):
Like most men, when men are friends and we can't
see eye to eye, it has something to do with
principal integrity, like it usually is that. Like when women
fall out, it's usually some jealousy shit, like one girl
was in competition with the other girl and the other
girl never got the memo because she was genuinely that
girl's friend. So like, and my experience is that's usually

(01:28:46):
what it is, you know what I'm saying. Like, that's why,
like if you see most girls when they go to Miami,
they don't come back friends because usually women go to
Miami with other low vibrational women. And what happens a
lot of times is and is a bi product of
real society. The girl with the least amount of money
a lot of times have the most fun, and then
it be resentment, you know what I'm saying, Because now

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she told her friend before they left that she was
short on fronts, and her friends said, I got you
right now that they out there and she having a
good time, and the lit dude want her friend.

Speaker 25 (01:29:18):
Now she hating, like, oh this bee is broken all
this other stuff.

Speaker 16 (01:29:21):
So I just think that when we talk about friends
falling out over disagreements and stuff, girls fall out over jealousy.
Like it's usually always one friend that want to be
the other friend and the ones that ain't like that,
they usually be lifelong friends forever. They be sisters, right,
But usually friends, especially now, women bond through hoen, they

(01:29:42):
bond through mutual shit.

Speaker 25 (01:29:44):
Interest what they do for a living. They don't bond through.

Speaker 16 (01:29:47):
Integrity, camaraderie, principal, moral respect, family. They don't bond through
that anymore. They bond through low viperational shits. So a
lot of them be expecting principal from hoes and then
would wound up happening this. You can't get principal out
of holes because they don't have it, so they'll do anything,
So they wind up doing some shit that's low Carober,

(01:30:08):
and then you'll see that that woman secretly don't like
you like you know, how many females I know went
and stopped being friends with a girl and told her
boyfriend that she cheated or she did some shit.

Speaker 25 (01:30:18):
Is always that.

Speaker 16 (01:30:20):
It's always competition at the end of the day. Us dudes,
we don't think like that. We fall out when when
a motherfucker principal base like yo, that motherfucker got on
that witness stand and told I ain't fucking with him, Yo,
that motherfucker ain't taking care of his son. I ain't
fucking with him, Yo. Man, he moving WACKI like he
owned dudes money out here and he gambling flexing on

(01:30:40):
the Instagram.

Speaker 25 (01:30:41):
I ain't fucking with him.

Speaker 16 (01:30:42):
It's some principal base shit when we really stop fucking
with dudes, you know what I'm saying, Like, because we
don't really fall out with our friends over dumb shit
like too tough. We don't even really fall out with
our friends over money. Even the things involving the money
usually come down to the principal you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 25 (01:30:59):
But because you'll like it's just like Stack.

Speaker 16 (01:31:02):
Stack can tell you right now, one is homie, say, yo,
let me borrow two bands right now, I need two bands.

Speaker 25 (01:31:07):
He'll probably come through for him.

Speaker 16 (01:31:09):
What his issue gonna be is when you tell him
I'll give it to you on Friday and then he
don't hear from you for a while.

Speaker 25 (01:31:15):
That's principle. Has nothing to do with the money.

Speaker 1 (01:31:18):
When you start playing golds Duck Dutch, Yeah, when you
start doing that.

Speaker 16 (01:31:21):
So you know what, Stack gonna stay all right, I
got rid of this nigga for two thousand cool. You
know what I'm saying. He can't get nothing else from
me now, mind you. Right when Stack don't want to
give him money no more, Stack is not that gonna
be like, Yo, that's still my man. I'm just not
giving him money no more. Right, the nigga that he
don't want to give money to no more, he's gonna
have a problem because he gonna say Stack is moving

(01:31:41):
funny because he set boundaries.

Speaker 13 (01:31:43):
Right.

Speaker 16 (01:31:44):
So I think principle is deep rooted than men. Women
generally like they're not loyal. Women generally are not loyal
like they are mutual beneficial people. It's just like it's
just like a man in relation relationships. Men we love unconditionally.
Women don't. Women don't love unconditionally. They love with conditions

(01:32:07):
that you are providing or doing something that they think
is relevant to their life.

Speaker 25 (01:32:12):
That's just how it is.

Speaker 16 (01:32:13):
Men, we'll we'll love you with four kids that ain't ours.
Anybody's telling you us you a whole will love you
through all that ship. We'll go against the world for you.
Women that ain't really it. That ain't really how that works.
So I just think that friends don't really fall out.
Friendemies fall out motherfuckers that be faking like they're your

(01:32:35):
friend and they be looking.

Speaker 1 (01:32:36):
For a reason to hate.

Speaker 25 (01:32:37):
So in land, don't call out frenemies friendly enemies.

Speaker 1 (01:32:45):
Man.

Speaker 16 (01:32:45):
And what I what I was saying, what I was
about to say, is that like and like all my friends. Right,
I've come full circle. Right, I just lost my granddad.
You know what I'm saying, like one of the closest
persons to me in the world.

Speaker 10 (01:32:58):
You know what.

Speaker 16 (01:32:59):
I look around that motherfucking funeral and guess what stack
I done. Came and I then went all over the
world and didn'to math shit. The motherfuckers that was dead
was the ones that's always been there. Those are the
ones that took off work, flew in, came and showed
their love and respect, bro, And it gave me a
whole nother perspective. That's why when I seen this title,

(01:33:20):
I didn't even know this was your room. I just
came in here because I seen the title. Because a
lot of the friend is the most misused word in
the English dictionary. Like a friend one for their mother
with I mean one for their brother, what they want
for theirself. A friend called their mother your mother ma,
my best friend. I call his mother mam.

Speaker 1 (01:33:38):
That's my mother.

Speaker 25 (01:33:39):
That's her, that's my mom. She called me her son.

Speaker 16 (01:33:42):
If you call her right now, she got two biological children.
She got a daughter and a son. If you asked
her and say her son, she gonna say I got
two sons because that's my brother, that's my real.

Speaker 25 (01:33:55):
Life friend, good bad, on different.

Speaker 16 (01:33:57):
And I'm gonna tell you another thing, Stack, If you
and your friend don't argue, y'all ain't friends.

Speaker 3 (01:34:02):
Nah.

Speaker 1 (01:34:02):
That's a fact, Mac, And I was saying earlier before
you came in. If y'all don't argue, and if y'all
don't like it, gotta be at a point too, Mac,
where y'all can argue. But then the ship gotta come
to some communicative because I've seen some people. I've seen
some people, you know, address certain situations and then all
of a sudden, we spiraling that, we arguing, that we
calling each other.

Speaker 5 (01:34:22):
No, no, friends, don't do that.

Speaker 1 (01:34:24):
You know what I'm saying, Don't do that?

Speaker 16 (01:34:25):
Yeah, Because let me tell you something. You know how
many times I disagree with my best friend Stack, mag
times he tells me something I disagree with him. But
I'm gonna tell you one motherfucker thing. Right when I
go home and I lay down in that bed and
I stay at that ceiling, I'm gonna think about what
he said.

Speaker 9 (01:34:42):
Now.

Speaker 25 (01:34:42):
Whether I agree with him or not, I still might
not agree with.

Speaker 16 (01:34:45):
Him, but I'm gonna consider what he said, because I
have that so much love and respect for him. He
not gonna tell me something passionately that he don't know
what he's talking about. Right, I don't always agree with him,
but I'm gonna consider what he said because I know
he won't was better. That's from me, you know what
I'm saying.

Speaker 25 (01:35:01):
So like, I think that we.

Speaker 16 (01:35:03):
Don't honor our friends enough because we really have this perception,
especially when you start doing real well in life, that
everybody love you and fuck with you, and it's not
true like your real friends.

Speaker 25 (01:35:14):
And I'm gonna tell you something else to stack.

Speaker 16 (01:35:17):
My first love, my girlfriend, right, my first love, she was,
she was, she was one hundred percent you know what,
she was, one hundred percent on stack. Everybody she told
me was fake. Some of them was two years down
the line.

Speaker 1 (01:35:31):
Ten years. You know, women right about every life. Wom'uition
always hit mag No no, no, no.

Speaker 25 (01:35:36):
No, you're staying intuition.

Speaker 1 (01:35:39):
It's funny.

Speaker 25 (01:35:39):
They just don't tell you.

Speaker 1 (01:35:40):
Yeah, true, But this women's intuition is always there too,
mag You gotta you gotta admit, bro, it's always been.

Speaker 16 (01:35:47):
But let me tell you what I'm saying, though, Bro,
You one hundred percent right. But I'm gonna tell you this, right, stack,
like a nigga like you, right, you stand on principle
you valuable.

Speaker 1 (01:35:54):
Right.

Speaker 16 (01:35:54):
You know how many times nigga's been around you and
probably try to highlight your girl, and she didn't say
nothing about it.

Speaker 25 (01:35:59):
She's just them just because she want to protect you.

Speaker 16 (01:36:02):
That happens, bro, Like, she don't want no bullshit, So
she just curved niggas and don't even come tell you
because she know you gonna want to squash a nigga like.

Speaker 1 (01:36:09):
A bug for the disrespect exactly.

Speaker 25 (01:36:12):
So that's what I'm saying. So sometimes she.

Speaker 16 (01:36:14):
Might not even come and tell you, Like, she might
just handle the disrespect and keep it moving, but it'll
be a situation that you might need clarity on that
she might tell you.

Speaker 25 (01:36:23):
I don't really know about him.

Speaker 16 (01:36:24):
Trust me, that shit comes from a place. It comes
from somewhere, bro, it comes from somewhere. Because I'm gonna
tell you something. My best friend to this day, me
and him had a real falling out and me and
my girl was arguing one day, Right, she said, that's
your fucking problem. You only get a wrong with people
that want to tell you what you want to hear.
She said, Look, all these niggas you run around, these

(01:36:46):
niggas is all these niggas is fake. The motherfucker you
beefing with right now, that's your real friend, nigga. That's
the one that really love you. That's why you and
him ain't speaking right now because he on your ass
about some shit that you dead wrong about.

Speaker 25 (01:36:58):
She told me that shit, And yes, what.

Speaker 1 (01:37:00):
So, Mac? Let me let me come in right here
holding them accountable? You feel me holding people to put up?
Put something in the chat real quick. If y'all agree
with accountability, let's get up in the child, let's share
to rule, my Mac. You going in, do you think, bro?

Speaker 4 (01:37:11):
You know? Nah?

Speaker 1 (01:37:13):
Look Pard, it's right there holding people accounted. If you
can't hold your friends, your family, the people that's in
your circle, the people that surround you without shit blowing up,
that ain't your people. Holding people accountable. Let's get it popping.
It's okay to hold people account It no't matter how
much money they got, It don't matter about their fucking status,
It don't matter about anything. You can still hold people accountable.

(01:37:34):
And get up in there and be like, yo, you
know what that wasn't right or I feel like this.
Don't be one of the people that get walked all over. Either,
talk up, speak up. If you feel like it's disrespect,
then you talk up and speak up. Mac got I
want to continue this conversation with some more people, right,
I got Laron on here, Crypto.

Speaker 6 (01:37:49):
Do you help me accountable?

Speaker 25 (01:37:51):
When I came in this room though you told me
you're mac gonna look me it's.

Speaker 6 (01:37:54):
My room or running my shit?

Speaker 14 (01:37:56):
I know you like to do X Y and Z.

Speaker 16 (01:37:58):
I love you, broke, but this how I run my
that's man shit. That's accountability. You didn't wait till I
left to say that shit. You didn't tell ver Shan
the proval with your nigga, macgarby Dirt. You told me
straight up, mac God, this is the kind of room
I running here. You my brother and all that, but
there's some rules in this motherfucking I need you to
act accordingly. That's that's I know you a real nigga.

(01:38:19):
Just like that, something simple and stupid like that.

Speaker 9 (01:38:21):
I'll let you know. Not only is a nigga a real.

Speaker 16 (01:38:23):
Nigga, he really fuck with you because he told me
straight up for the door, like look, this is how
I go.

Speaker 6 (01:38:28):
Bro.

Speaker 1 (01:38:29):
Appreciate you man, word real. I appreciate you Max for
coming through you even charming into the conversation. Next time
I come to New York, Man, if I'm out there,
I'll hit you so I could we could link up
see real life. Right motion Shouts to Mac, Shouts to
everybody on the stage.

Speaker 3 (01:38:43):
Right.

Speaker 1 (01:38:44):
I want to continue this conversation with some individuals. I
want to go to some individuals. Let's ping the room out,
share the room out before I do another reset. I'm
loving this conversation. Make sure you guys read this new
magazine feature. It came out yesterday from the Shard mag
They put me on the cover. I also post it
on my Instagram as well. It's going crazy. So shouts
to everybody that's showing love, common and supporting and putting

(01:39:05):
on their story. I love you guys. Thank you for
the support. And we got some more features coming out,
you know before twenty twenty four is over, so let's
continue to rise up and do our thing. Lauren Brother,
I heard you, you know, chiming in. Man. I've seen
you swipe yourself to the bottom and came back up.
Can you chime in for me?

Speaker 25 (01:39:20):
Brother?

Speaker 1 (01:39:21):
Before you know, I go to my sister Beth. I
want to check it with her too.

Speaker 4 (01:39:24):
No, it's good, Bro.

Speaker 31 (01:39:25):
I feel like, you know, when you fall out with somebody,
sometimes you don't want to put in the effort to
actually find the solution to whatever the problem was.

Speaker 4 (01:39:33):
And that's part of a personal thing.

Speaker 10 (01:39:36):
You know.

Speaker 31 (01:39:36):
Sometimes you might not want to have those hard conversations
with some of your partners or your friends, but you
might need to. Like I think Mac God and you
was also just saying you should be able to hold
each other accountable.

Speaker 4 (01:39:47):
And sometimes people don't want to even go through that.

Speaker 31 (01:39:49):
They just want to avoid the problem and say, you
know what, I'm going to make this a situation to
where I don't have to face the situation and handle it.
I'm just going to make it to where I don't
talk to this individual anymore. I'm going to remove myself.
And you could be missing out on a blessing like that.
So sometimes I think we need to hold ourselves accountable
and figuring out whatever it is, you know, to keep
these relationships intact. Because Man, I got friends right now

(01:40:13):
that I've had for like I don't know, like thirty
something years, bro, and I respect them and they respect me.
We hold each other accountable, and sometimes when we have
these conversations that we don't want to have, that shit
actually helps us.

Speaker 1 (01:40:25):
Man.

Speaker 4 (01:40:25):
So yeah, sometimes you need to do that and stand
on that. I'll leave it there.

Speaker 10 (01:40:30):
Nah.

Speaker 1 (01:40:30):
I love that, Larn. Sometimes you got to hold yourself accountable.
That's what I was saying earlier before you came in.
I said, sometimes you got to look in the mirror, bro.
Sometimes over times you could be your own you know
shit that's keeping you back. So do the self work,
don't forget to meditate, do your own thing right, be
by yourself, learn how to you know, be comfortable on
training that brain. Right. So love that, Lron.

Speaker 4 (01:40:50):
Hey, congrass on that freaking publication. Bro, that's huge. Everybody
go check that out right up at the top here right.

Speaker 1 (01:40:56):
Yeah, yeah, yeah, I appreciate you, brother, And I made
the cover too. They did one on the site and
then I posted the cover on my Instagram. So appreciate you.
Let's continue this conversation about why do friends fall out
after a disagreement? No loyalty? Right, I want to continue.
I want to check on sister Beth. She's been in
here for a while. I don't want to see if
she's by her. Mike, Beth, are you here today with

(01:41:16):
us checking on Beth? Going once?

Speaker 2 (01:41:18):
I am here, Stak, what a great topic.

Speaker 1 (01:41:21):
How do you feel about this? Beth? Over to you.
Let's go. Yeah, No, I love this topic.

Speaker 33 (01:41:28):
One of my first business partners that when I went
into entrepreneurship, right we were best friends and I had
to tell them I've got to walk away because I
want to stay your friend, but what you're doing right
now isn't working for me. So in order for us

(01:41:50):
to be friends, I've got to walk away from the company.

Speaker 5 (01:41:55):
It just is what it is.

Speaker 33 (01:41:57):
And we're still extremely close, but there's times you have
to walk away. But I'm going to tell you what
most people in this world and I was trying to
listen while I was cutting a grapefruit, but most people
that are going to be your biggest cheerleaders in this
world are probably not going to be your family and friends.

(01:42:20):
They're going to be people that you haven't even met,
Like they're going to see you here, you talk to
you at a restaurant or at a venue or a
conference or something, and they are going to support you
one hundred percent. And you know but when a friendship

(01:42:41):
falls apart, it's really hard because you're like, what do
we do now? Because I don't even care friendships. Losing
that is worse than losing a marriage. It is like
you're just sitting there like that was my best friend.

(01:43:05):
That is the person I told.

Speaker 1 (01:43:06):
Everything like you lost your puppy, right, Yes.

Speaker 22 (01:43:10):
Exactly, Stack, That's how it feels. And I was about
to lose a best friend two years ago.

Speaker 33 (01:43:17):
I had loaned her and her husband five thousand dollars,
which her husband is a business partner of mine, and
they had not repaid me. And I was ready to
lose her as my best friend.

Speaker 5 (01:43:31):
Because fuck this shit.

Speaker 1 (01:43:34):
Hunhback Yes, because.

Speaker 33 (01:43:37):
She was posting on Facebook and social media like I'm
going here and I'm going there, and I'm like, motherfucker,
you got my money, when ain't you gonna pay it back?

Speaker 22 (01:43:48):
Like uh huh, So you gotta just.

Speaker 33 (01:43:53):
If you got to cut the strings, cut the strengths,
walk away because somebody else is there that is probably
to make your life way more amazing.

Speaker 22 (01:44:03):
And that's what I have to say, Stacked, Nah, I
love that, Beth.

Speaker 1 (01:44:06):
Thank you for coming through the support. Make sure you
guys follow Beth. She's always in some great space. We're
always in those morning rooms. I love that energy over
there too, Beth, So make sure you keep that up
over there. Make sure you guys follow everyone on the stage.
If they resonate with you. Somebody resonated, if you heard
something that you like, follow them. You never know what
somebody got going on, or you never know how somebody
can collaborate with you on stage. I'll be doing a

(01:44:27):
networking room too. We're business owners. I'll be doing some
topics running media mentors back up because you know I'm
doing projects behind the scenes, but I'll be doing pop
up rooms here and there. So make sure you guys
tap in and also be a part of the mega
mansion at the top if you're not a part of
the media mentors. Because conversations like this always go down.
Why do friends fall out after a disagreement? No loyalty?

Speaker 14 (01:44:49):
Right?

Speaker 1 (01:44:50):
I want to continue this, right, whoever else wants to
grab the mic, It's on you guys before we you know,
get up out of here. I know we've been almost
been in here for two hours. I usually only do
a power hour, right, But if you guys still want
to continue the conversation. You know, somebody take the mic?
Whoever else wants to go get the popcorn style? What's
up to run on?

Speaker 4 (01:45:08):
We'll say, I will say this brother.

Speaker 31 (01:45:10):
Uh, we all just got to make sure that we,
you know, appreciate you and say we we thank you
rather for creating spaces because you know, Clubhouse says it's
rhetoric towards so negative. But bro, you stay coming in
here with shit that's going to uplift you. You talk
about stuff that's you know, that's motivational, and we're talking
about a bunch of solutions. We're talking about positive energy
in here, and that's what we need more of. So hey, man,

(01:45:32):
we appreciate you Stack.

Speaker 1 (01:45:33):
Thank you man. No, I appreciate you the run for
saying that.

Speaker 10 (01:45:35):
Man.

Speaker 1 (01:45:36):
We're going to continue to do more positive spaces, more
and more conversations, more things that you know, get the
brain working, get the brain, you know, rolling right so
that way we can have these conversations on the floor.
Shot say everybody for coming through too, if you guys
want to continue the conversation is popcorn style? Who want
the mic? Next? Who wanted Farmer Coco? DJ Maddison, Who
wanted hot Girl? Who wanted for Sean, it's on y'all

(01:46:00):
or I'm about to get up out of here. It's
on y'all. What y'all want to do.

Speaker 4 (01:46:02):
I know, for Sean got some he already dropped.

Speaker 1 (01:46:05):
Mad know you missed it, bro, You have to go
back to the replaces, Laura. He already flamed this shit
up already earlier when he first came in. You know
what I'm saying. So if nobody else wants to go,
make sure everybody you know, tap into the article, follow
me on Instagram, follow the house, follow everyone on stage,
and then you know, I'm gonna pop up with some
more conversations. And then whoever else wants to get inside

(01:46:26):
of these conversations with me and help me run the
media mentors while I'm behind the scenes doing my thing
with the crypto stuff, hit me up Instagram, dm me.
We can do some topics together. Shout out to Emon.
At least he is Cynthia two point zero for Sean,
Angelica wifey Amanda, Hot Girl, Beth Farm of Crypto Laurn,
My brother Dohome just came back. Coco Madison, DJ presss

(01:46:47):
we was in this motherfucker flaming it up. The whole time.
Why do friends fall out after that disagreement? It's the loyalty.
It's the loyalty part. That ain't really your homie, that
ain't really your friend. We done got to this today.
If you fall out after a disagreement, that ain't really
your friend, that ain't really your people, that ain't really
who you think it is right, That ain't really Oh yeah, nah,

(01:47:10):
y'all ain't really cool? Is what you thought?

Speaker 6 (01:47:11):
Right?

Speaker 1 (01:47:12):
There's plenty of situations I've had in my life while
that like, oh man, this person wasn't as or who
I thought that you don't know. And also click this
link at the top fifteen minute call anybody on social
media that needs help with marketing, getting on podcasts, billboards,
coming on my show, just stepping outside of this shit too,
because you know, clubhouse is cool, but if you guys
are not making connections outside of this shit, then what

(01:47:33):
are we doing? Right? Get on the call with me.
I'll help you out with social media and everything else
above and also with crypto as well. So I love
you guys. I'm rolling out of here. Great conversation today,
We're gonna have another one. We'll pop up media mentors
and go in again, but I'll see you guys. Make
sure you guys have a good weekend as well. I'm
out of here, Love you guys, a big pack.

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