How to explore Female Domination (Femdom)

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Episode Transcript

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Are you curious about exploring female domination but don't know
where to start? Have you ever thought, could I
really step into that delicious power?
Or maybe you have thought, what does it really mean to fully
surrender? I've got you because I'm gonna
give you 3 simple beginner tips that will help you to dip your

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toe into the world of femdom. And trust me, it's a world full
of connection, pleasure and play.
But First things first, Femdom, also called female domination,
is more than just wearing heels and giving commands.
It's about embodying that power dynamic, feeling empowered,

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building trust, deepening connection, and of course,
pleasure on both sides. For the dominant, for example,
it's an opportunity to step intothat power, to really feel
empowered and confident and be creative with play.
For the submissive, it's a chance to let go, find freedom

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and being fully surrendered, andfully submit in a safe and
consensual container. And no, it's not all about
wearing a black full on a latex and having hurting tools unless
that is what you want it to be. It can also be nurturing,
playful, seducing, central or strict.

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It's all about exploring and finding out what works best for
you. What gives you the most
pleasure. You're new here.
Hi, I am the multi award-winninga pleasure and toy queen with a
treasury of over 300 pleasure toys and kinky tots.
I am a certified Tantry King andpleasure educator, a creator,

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reviewer, mentor and so so much more.
I am here to inspire and empoweryou to become your most pleasure
itself. Simply put, I love to spread
pleasure into this world. So here's my tip.
Number one start small and they can build up.
So if you need to fend them you could start with simple task and

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commands. So as a dominant, you could say
massage my shoulders, bring me aglass of water where you think
it's just a task. It's more than that.
For you as a dominant, it's a chance to step into your power
play, to really command, to be in that role of power.
For the submissive, this is the moment where they can start

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letting go and fully surrender to your power.
Remember, it's not about being aperfect, it's about exploring
and finding out what really sparks your interest and what
brings you pleasure. And it's just the start of it.
It's just helping you to step into your role.
My tip #2 is communication and setting boundaries.

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Communication, setting boundaries, setting a safe word.
These are the foundation of every power dynamic play.
So before you start playing, youshould be able to sit down with
your partners, play partners, and really have an open and
honest communication about what do you expect out of Femdom.

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What does it look like to you? What does fully surrendering
look to you? What does being in power mean to
you? What would you like to explore?
What are you curious about? What are you curious about?
What's awful limits completely? What's a maybe?
What is your safe word? How are you going to check in
with each other while you play to pause and to stop?

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What is your aftercare need? What do you need to feel
supported? What do you need to feel safe?
So there are quite a few questions that you should answer
with each other open and honestly as the foundation.
And trust me, clear, open, honest communication prior isn't
just only necessary and essential, it is also very, very

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sexy and can be such a turn on to get already into that play,
that anticipation of what's about to come.
My tip #3 is about embodiment practices and this has been huge
for me over the last couple of years.
So not just hearing something, reading about something and

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knowing the theory, but also actually putting it into place.
This is where embodiment practices can be so super
beneficial and delicious. So as a dominant, you could for
example stand up tall, shouldersback, chest open, chin slightly
up. You could imagine being a queen

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and walking into a grand hole and you're commanding respect
and worship with every step thatyou take.
Also, the Superman pose can be very beneficial to really step
into that power dynamic, to feelempowered, to feel confident.
As for the submissive, you want to feel relaxed, you want to

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trust. So a relaxing position that is
also below as a submissive. So kneeling pounds open, you
could close your eyes, taking deep breath, feeling if there's
any tension anywhere, exhaling and really relaxing out those
tensions. And then imagining that you are

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feeling really relaxed and you want to surrender.
You are trusting your partner and you want to give up your
control and you want to fully surrender.
So stepping into that surrendering, relaxed, trusting
energy. Now these are my three simple
beginner tips for you to start exploring Femdom.

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Remember it's about being curious and open minded and
start exploring to really find out what sparks your interest
and what brings you the most pleasure.
Did this make you curious to explore even deeper the world of
Femdom? Then I highly suggest you join
my Pleasure and toy school whichwill give you access to my

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Femdom Master class. Well, we explore Femdom
archetype types, different kindsof plays style, but also the
different kind of Subs, more embodiment practices, journal
prompts to really help you explore the world of fandom,
which trust me, is a world full of pleasure, empowerment and

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deeper connection. Above that, within the pleasure
and toy school, you get access to various other master classes
on different kings play fetishesand Polito toys and tools, and
with that you can unlock new pleasures and deepen and widen
your pleasure potential. I will see you within the

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Pleasure and toy school with love and pleasure.