Men Get Your Balls Back: Girding Up Thy Loins Part 2

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That's your foundation, that's your foundation. I know. He got his
in his pocket, his usual.The classic barbership, the classic barbershop.
Nice. I'm not going to coconuttoday. Just coconut. Nothing fancy the
coconut, just cocon nice. It'ssubtle, it's not overwhelmingly coconut. You
know, I know some people arebig on coconut, not eating it.

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Oh, I love coconut. Cocayeah, yeah, coconuts, good love,
coconut water, coconut man. Letme tell you, they got this
coconut drink. It's like a coconutmilk, like a crabmu. I'm gonna
se if I find a picture andsend it to these brothers when we went
to Ecuador. But like I can'tfind this anywhere. Like if I could
find it and they can get shippedto me, that's a matter of fact.

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I'm gonna talk to them brothers ifnah, but it gotta be refrigerating.
It's not gonna make it. It'snot gonna make it. It gotta
be refrigerated. It's not gonna makeit. My god. Let me tell
you. I think we stopped therelike two or three times during that week
that we were there the last timebecause it was so good, Like they
don't sell it everywhere. It's likethese little kiosk in them all, and
like we went and like clearing themout, like damn, yeah, yeah,

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we bought them out. We boughtthem out. But like there was
one day we went and everything wasgone. But no, they also got
like the icy they got the icecream, the coconut, they got the
cocoa water, which was good.But the cocoa cream was ridiculous. It's
like the water with the cream init, with the milk a little bit.
I don't know what they did.I'm gonna take a picture of it.
It is ridiculously good, bro.And then like some of the cream

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like a symbols need the top,so like you know, you gotta you
know, it's plastic bottle, soyour first to get to the liquid,
you gotta kind of squeeze that littleman. It's just delicious, But there's
like no shugar that I noticed overthere. They're very everything like on their
wrappers and stuff. They'll tell youlike it's a low sodium or low sugar

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food. And I think I hadmentioned it before, like even the when
we go to restaurants, like Ivery rarely add salt to my food.
It goes to show me like howmessed up, like like taste foods a
real regional as far as like globally, and I think like in America,
Like I mean, I'm sure it'sno surprise to everybody. Very high salt,

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very high sugar content, right,And not that by themselves are those
things bad. There's confounding factors thatgo into it, as a matter of
fact, where it comes to salt, unless you have some sort of blood
pressure thing, most people, especiallyif you're working out frequently, don't get
enough salt. And if you're aman especially she probably could use more salt
if you're a man, you know, and you exercise and things like that.

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That whole two thousand milligrams a daything that's like more like for your
average person maybe somebody who's high bloodpressure, because that exasperates it's not really
the cause of it that exasperates it. But and same thing with sugar,
Like it's all relative member more nutritious, less nutritious, right, I mean
everything sugar at the end of theday, when you eat rice, even

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when you eat look, people say, oh, you eat whole greens and
stuff like, even when you eatwhole greens. In order for your body
to digestion literally means breaking it down. Your body is going to break it
down into glucose at the end ofthe day because that's what it likes to
shuttle through to the different parts ofthe body that it needs. Glucose to
sugar, pure sugar. So whathappens is this just sugar has no nutrition

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at least when you're eating something thatyour body breaks down to glucose, right,
like you know, oatmeal or somethinglike that, Like all carbs,
it's gonna try to reduce it toglucose at the end of the day.
At least when you're eating that stuff. You' getting some vitamins, you getting
some minerals, right, you getsome fiber withitted and things like that.
That's where like the less nutritious thingcomes into play, because there was all

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sugar is more addicting than crack,cocaine and this and that, and listen,
that may well be. I mighthave seen some study. I might
have seen one study that said that. I don't know how true that is.
I know we say that and werun with it, but I don't
know, man, like, likeI can put away to sugar. I
heard once you hit the rock likeyou can't, you can't. I don't
know if it's more addicted. Ithink that's a little exaggerative, right,

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Like I think it's a little sensationalto say it, because people say once
you hit the crack rock once,that's you never getting off. I've gone
without sugar, you know what I'msaying. So you know, I think
that's a little extreme. But remember, we got to stop thinking of like
this extremes on these things because thatcreates disordered eating patterns and things like that.
Just there's a place for all thatstuff, just you know, in

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the pyramid of things and stuff likethat. In Germany, they'd be having
these these cakes and pies, right, they'd be looking good as a mug,
and then when you eat it,right, it's not it's right.
Yeah. Yeah, Like we went. I wanted to try KFC in Ecuador
because I was just curious, right, and it was a little different,
like they like they didn't have mashedpotatoes. They had like the French fries,

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and they were different. They werenot like the potato wedges or even
the fries that they have. Theydon't have biscuits. Oh damn. Biscuit
for them is like a cookie,like a hard cookie. It's not like
it's not like the biscuit like weknow the biscuit, Like it's not like
the buttery. But it's not likethe Chick fil A biscuit. Yeah,
their biscuit is like a biscuit fortea. So we wanted to try it,

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and you know what, surprisingly wasgood, but it was very subtle
and you could tell it was abig drop off in the salt. But
I noticed a lot of their packaging, It'll tell you lot salt, little
sugar. So I think they're they'rekind of ahead of the game on that
sort of thing versus us here whenit comes to that, you know,
hyper palatable foods make you want moreand all that. Like, you don't

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find it as much there on theprepackaged stuff anyway. So but that Coco
water, we had Coco milk waterwhatever they call it? Delicious? Who
are you, sir? Who areyou? Oh, I'm Deacon Yasha from
the Trip of Ephrom. Still waitingfor them to have the little Yeah,
I didn't I say that like amonth ago. At bit everybody's gonna talk

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about all the other offices and everythingelse, and I get it again.
I'm still waiting for them to findthe good rhino sound that I had that
Eli had found for me one time, Yeah, and sent and I sent
it to them, and nobody everdid anything. You know what it is,
because there's really no good boohoo sound. So I think at the time
it was the Mexicans in the booth. I'm sorry the it's on the booth

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damn, damn, and they hadnaYeah, you know what you did?
Hear that? Huh? I didhave. I felt like I had a
reverb on my mic earlier too,I did. I was just trying to
ignore it and see if they fixedit. There's always something going on with
the Okay, somebody posted that,Hey real quick, because I want to
recatch into that. You know,I saw this article. I thought it

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was interesting sleep. Who is heofficer Tobias with with the beard coming in?
Yes? Yes, yes, he'smaking strides. Hey. Get the
article that I posted earlier about thesleep uh in the newsbreak article, I
put it in topic content, soyou gotta should have it up. Yes,

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Okay, let's read. I'm onlygoing to read some of it.
I want to read a little bitof this, right because the titles a
little, the titles a little sensational. Uh. People going read that Doctor
Warren is that it's a bad ideato wake up extra early to work out.
Now, you gotta read the articlebecause then what it's going to sound
like is don't wake up early towork out. What it's going into is

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that what I have mentioned that yougot to weigh it out and if and
if you have a big sleep deficitin your sleep hygiens not good. You
really should probably get that in orderfirst before you, you know, don't
go on five hours of sleep andthen go to the gym stepping to pick
up once in a while. Maybeif that happens and the bigger scheme of
what your plan is, then thenyou do it. But the reality is

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right right, stepping over one hundreddollar bills to pick up nickels. Right,
you're you're kind of messing yourself up, right, and you know you
gotta find a way to do thesleep hygiene. Before we read the article,
put the picture. This was apicture from the article. This was
one quote that kind of sums itup right. Yes, that's it,
and this sleep doctor said, goahead. Sleep is the primary wellness habit.

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End of story period. So beforeyou do your detoxes, before you
talk about sugar's bad, salts isbad, dairy's bad, this, that
and the other bad is bad.Right, and I only do this,
and I'm only gonna do that food, I only do this, But then
your sleep is like crap, noneof it's really gonna matter for you.

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Sleep is the primary wellness habit.End of story period. That's Remember,
that's the one thing that you havecomplete control over. There are no excuses
for you to not have a goodit's it's gonna be how discipline and protective
are You're gonna be around that timeto get the rest that you need.
And I'm telling you it makes abig difference in your folk because if you
think you're good right, because Iremember there was a few people. Man,

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I've been good with five six hoursall my life. How much better
can you be if that's really thecase? How do you know? Here's
here, I'll put it this way. You don't know what normal is un
till you're not in your normal,right, you understand what I meant by
that. So like I'll give youan example with the sleep thing. For

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example, you're thinking you're good forfive to six hours because your body's gotten
used to the body's miraculous the waythe most time made us. He's gonna
make you keep moving forward as muchas possible. A lot of times these
things you won't experience too much laterin life. The longer term impact on
you that you had it can moveforward right borrowing some exceptions and conditions genetically

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predisposed to for example, you won't. You won't realize how good you are
until you try it and step intothat realm consistently. Right. Or for
example, let's say when you getsick for a long period of time,
right, I talk about the pneumonia, because that was like the longest,
like I was like a month.I think I was really jacked up,

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And then I noticed how many monthsit took for me to really kind of
feel like I was before. Youdon't really know what feeling good is like
until you have the contrast with it, right, Like, like you can't
have the sweet without the bidder,right, because if everything you've ever tasted
with sweet in life, then howdo you know how sweet it really is?
Right right, right exactly? Orlike sometimes you put a little salt
in a recipe, that's for sweetness, it's it's to bring it out to

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contrast it. More so, Ithink I'll say that a lot with what's
normal for us. You don't realizethe normal until you have something like that
takes you out of that either makesit better or makes you worse, and
then you realize, oh my gosh, so you know sleep is the primary
wellness habit. End of story.Now go back to the article Real Quick,

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Come On. Were at the headliningready, go ahead, Come on,
doctor Nicole Jay van G share alist of things she'd never do as
a doctor. She advised viewers toignore any influencers who told them to skip
sleep to exercise. Videos of fitnesscreators encouraging people to get out of bed

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are popular on TikTok. Right,so she talks about that, you know,
you got a lot of these peoplethat just tell you, you know,
go u, you know, likeyou're weak, like get up and
do it and so on and soforth, and scroll down. She's basically
saying, you know that's not thecase, like medically, all right,
go ahead, not that you can'twake up early. See the title I
think was just to kind of getyou over get scrolled down. We're not

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gonna watch the video. Come on, we're gonna read this here. Right.
In the video, which received onepoint four million views, Van G
began by saying she wouldn't wake upearly in trade her sleep for exercise,
and warren viewers not to listen topeople online who suggested they do. Do
not let any influencers out here convinceyou that it's best to cut your sleep

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duration short. So you can goto the gym and work out and build
a better body. Right, Sogo ahead, scroll down. I want
to get to the part where tosleep. Ahead, keep going, keep
going, keep going. That's someguy just telling people get up out of
bed. Stop there, Doctor Raj. Doctor Raj That, a sleep specialist
and Associate Professor of Clinical Medicine atthe University of Southern California Kick School of

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Medicine, spoke to CNN in Januaryabout this topic. He told the outlet,
a leak of sleep a lack.He has it covered. Can you
move the arrow from the world.The cursor from a lack of sleep can
stop muscles from being able to recoverfrom the workout. He added that exhaustion
can also lead to an increased likelihoodof an injury as a result of slower

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reaction times while participating in exercise orsport. Sleep is the primary wellness habit.
End of story period. Van Groningenreiterated in her viral video and went
on to offer additional advice too.She said she would never ride a motorcycle
as they lack as they lack thesafety features of cars, or ride a

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bike without a helmet. She's justtalking about other stuff. I mean,
obviously we're dealing with the sleep thing. But she's saying, like, you
know, just as a doctor,like some of these things just don't make
sense to you, right, goahead, come on. She added that
she would never blame someone for theirhealth status, as even the healthiest people
get sick, right, And that'sa good thing to remember, right because
I know, like especially like ifyou're not on board when they need this

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stuff, and you'd be like,oh, why did you get sick if
you're so healthy. I mean,it happens, you know what I'm saying.
So she's saying, you know,even healthy people get sick. She's
not gonna judge somebody's health based onhow they look and stuff. But anyway,
that's it. That's all I wantedat that. All right, said

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you see, but that see,but he said, I don't know Floyd
Maybell was at his best waking upbefo him. Listen, that's first of
all, you don't know how muchsleep he's getting, right because to do
his type of training and stuff likethat. Okay, and you're not telling
me that he's consistently out of whackwith his sleep while he's in a training
camp and stuff like that, LikeI just don't believe it. I know,

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you see snapshots of his lifestyle andhis craziness and stuff like that.
And then even if that was thecase, you're not Floyd Maywell. I'm
not Floyd Mayweather did, right.You know what I'm saying. You ain't.
You ain't running and training like FloydMayweather either. You ain't eating like
him when he in a training camp. You know what I'm saying, You
ain't got the top doctors at yourdisposal with his money, the top specialist

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and coaches and therapeutic methods and thingslike that you and might not have.
He might I'm not saying he usesvoids and stuff like that, but he
might have other type of drugs thathe has access to that helps with recovery
that are not illegal, right,things like that, So that you can't
make a statement like that and justsay that the reality is what the reality
is. You wait till you're inyour forties, fifties, sixties with bad

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sleep habits, and then put ontop of that lack of exercise, not
a nutritious diet, and let's seehow that life span really pans out or
how the quality of life, ofthat life span is as you get older,
because you know, Lord's will lifelast. I would like to live
to what they call a ripe oldage, but I want to live,

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not survive, if it be theLord's will. You know what I'm saying.
A lot of our ancestors was stillin their stature when they transition.
Yeah, say, like we readabout Kale, Yeah, was in his
strength, right right, Yeah,I want to roll like that or freaking
Abraham Bro, he was banging outin his nineties. Bro. You know
what I'm saying. They call itthe Blue Zone. Now there's like a

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whole thing on Netflix about the BlueZone where they found areas of the country
where people have lower incidences of certaindegenerative diseases as well as longer lifespan like
strong, healthy, And they wentaround the world of different play and they
try to look at commonalities for thosethings and see, yeah, there's there's

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a I don't know if it wasjust Zebulon. They do have some northern
kingdom in there. They went toa couple of Edomite places where where they
they did live kind of long andstuff like that and healthy, but very
different lifestyles. Like it's not thetype of lifestyle where you're just in front
of screens all day. And Imean they have access to that stuff,
but a lot of it was,especially once in the Northern king Country,

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it was they're still farming, they'restill work in the fields. They don't
work crazy long hours. So youwould think that as he got older that
he was working twelve hours on thefarm. No, he was doing a
six to ten, and they takeright, yeah he was, but he
was doing a six to ten andthat's it. He stopped his farming or
whatever he did at ten am.He had the other people continue on with
it. But you know, there'sa lot of little things, like the
biggest one was having a purpose tolive, you know, and and that

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could be your job. That couldbe and I don't mean a job like
for somebody else. For these people, it's different, right, They found
something that they have a passion forand that they move with and so on.
But interesting stuff, interesting stuff.But anyway, let's get the sleep
stuff out the way. Let's getthe sleep stuff out the way. We're
talking about Part two. Bring itout Part two. Part two. Damn,

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you know, my shirt is notunroned, it's just it's a wild
angle that I'm at. Goodness,my goodness, I'm trying to I know,
because it gets all crumpled up uphere, right. I was looking
at it now on the screen.I said, Damn, why is it
all crumpled up up there? Anyway? Oh? Damn? Assisted Mayweather had

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to be in bed by eight whenhe woke up back for Look at that
there, you getting asleep, gettingasleep. Look at that now. I'm
telling you there's no way he's doingthe whole training camp, going to bed
at midnight party right and then Nah, there's just no way. There's just
no way. No. Before weget to that, let's let's do a
little of the humor. Hey,So let's open it up with the camp

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man. Have you heard about thatnew flick based on all the stuff that
we've been bringing out about brothers gettingtheir balls back? Right, somebody,
somebody, Marvel's gonna make a movie, right, put that up on the
screen. New superhero we got,we got brothers amongst us, just like
this, Damn camp man, campman. My wife said, no,

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damn, hey, brother, canyou go to camp? No? Can
you travel to teach the words?Now? I can't do it, Damn,
my wife said, no, hey, brother, come on, the
brothers is coming out to hang out. No, damn, you're the camp
man, can't Hey. Sometimes shemight not say no, like you asking
permission. It might be you upunder her skirt. She give you a

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look, she gives you the look, she give you the inflection in her
voice. You know what I'm saying. And brothers that be on the honeymoon
for the first year. See theBible, the Bible had let's get there
what talks about about for one yearhanging back? Yeah, let's get that.
Let's get for these brothers. Forthese brothers that get married, I
tell them, they swear they're gonnabe diligent about it. There's a drop

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off in their performance, bro,there really is. But I've seen it.
It's like never fails. There's adrop off in their performance when brothers
get married. Bro, go ahead, bring that out. You know what.
You know what I'm saying is thatit let me see. Let's pull

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it up, brother camp Man twentyfour and five, is that it?
Let me see, that's it.That's it. Yeah, let's get that.
Let's get that right. And thiswas in this was in they were
still in the wilderness when this wasgiven. So he was letting them know,
no, listen, we're about toenter in there. I got to
give you the rules of engagement.Right, there was a reason behind this.

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Now this don't mean brothers can usethis. What I'm saying is that
that spirit is still there and it'sthe spirit behind it because this was that
physical war. Right, So likeyou know, they were going to battle,
putting their life on the line.And you don't need no cowards,
right, you need courage. Youneed brothers who are going to be valiant,
having faith in the Lord and notworrying about their wife and maybe even

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kids that they had. Right,But that spirit is still here when the
brother gets married. Get read thisthe Book of Deuteronomy, chapter twenty four
and verse five. When a manhas taken a new wife, he shall
not go out to war, whyneither shall he be charged with any business.
But he shall be free at homeone year, and shall cheer up
his wife, which he hath taken. Right, because he knows that you

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you get you just got a newwife. A head gonna be uh in
your new wife. Literally bro,oh snap, bro what it wasn't me
this time? Yeah, but atleast that was lawful he was talking about

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new booties in the booth, right, you know what I'm saying, he
talking about marriage is honorable and thebet on the file. You know what
I'm saying, Like, get somehelp, damn, So Tobias get out
the corner. Bro Ye, you'relike not in the shot. I guess
I don't know. I guess it'sthe way they did the cameras this time.

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No, bro I literally told himto move and he went right back
to the corner. It's always beenright, hey, So like you know
the script, So I I jokewith brothers when they get married. And
then you know, since I saythat, it's kind of a little reverse
psychology. They they're like a littlemore congreszant of it. But but you
can still see a drop off inthe performance because they also said, don't

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put them into any business. Hismind's not gonna be in it. Now.
We don't have that luxury. Nowwe need brothers to stay in the
fight and stay in the battle andall that stuff like that, because the
time is short, you know,so uh, we don't apply that obviously.
You don't get you don't get marriedand be like yo, I'm taking
a year off, you know,what I'm saying. I don't know.
But I had one brother and beinglike, yo, I'm taking a week

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or two off from my responsibilities.I just got married. I was like,
damn, I don't know, bro. I mean, you know,
remember since them that are married shouldbe as they though they are not.

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I mean, like I say thissending it, I just think it's a
little wild, you know what I'msaying, Like you're gonna be like yo,
don't I mean, you know,the weekend? Maybe you know,
okay, shouldn't take like a twoweek vacation. Nah, Now, I
don't think you know, you don'ttake no hiatus like that. I can
understand a few days, man,but you don't take no hiatus like that.
You know. Yeah, that's justmy opinion. You know what I'm

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saying. I'm not saying nobody's gonnademote you or write you up or anything
like that. I'm just you know, So what you're saying is the two
brothers in there with you, theyprobably gonna come to the table and be
like, the can you cover myoffices for a week? Stop it?
Hey, I'll give it. DidElkon come to Monday Night Low after he

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got married? I don't know.I don't think he did it. I
came up for a until like Thursday, whatever his kids was, his kids
was with the sh shot is nothere. He would give us the scoop.
Nobody nobody saw elkonnon he was inthe chats, nothing for like for
like what was the wedding was Sundaytill like Thursday. Hey, I'm mad

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at you know, we didn't seehim to the closing of the what what
what was going on? It was? It was a feast day that night
we saw it may have been Newmoon that night. We didn't see him
until that night. If he listenedlater, he gonna be like, why
brother, you did that? I'mtaking note, man. I'm just saying

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though, like you know, comeon a couple of weeks or a week.
I mean, I was thinking,like to to be honest, where
your heart is, there's your treasure. Brother. Hey, I'm saying.
That's what I'm saying, you know, I mean, I can still do.
But look that's just me talking.You know, that's just me talking.
You know, I'm married already.I don't know what it's good.

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You know, I wouldn't know whatthat's gonna feel like. You know what
I'm saying. I know I gotmarried and I just kept the trucking,
you know, But I mean itwas different. Understanding of marriage was differently.
If anything, I probably would havebeen more excused for it back then.
But I'm just saying, like amI A? I don't know,
Okay, in my is one thingis one thing. If somebody you want
to say, shaloon, you're gonnatext on the freaking group shalon you can.

(26:56):
You can. If you got businessthat you can from the phone,
you can do that. No.I mean, listen, let's say you're
playing something and you're gonna travel.So I understand that, you know what
I'm saying, But I wouldn't totallyI'm just that's just me. I wouldn't
totally disconnect, totally disconnect talking aboutme. You were talking about me totally
totally disconnect. I wouldn't totally disconnect. Nah. Like if you want to

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play something, the ain't no sinning. Now you want to take a few
days and go somewhere or whatever,right, not wrong with that? Fourteen
ain't no wrong with that? Youknow. I don't know. I'm just
I'm different though, Like I wouldstill like, you know, I wouldn't.
I would. I would be botheredby what I would come back to
because I left it for a weekor two. You know what I'm saying,

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I'm leaving stuff I can handle.I don't know, but I don't
think so I don't know. Idon't know. He trying to set you
up early, so that way isno. I think I think you're right.
He's putting the bug in your ear. Now up there, man,
you didn't put the fan remote overhere, sir, I got oh,
okay, all right, that's what'sup. Yeah, it's a little warm
in here. Let's get it.Let's get it. Sloman Israel, this

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one about? Uh no, theone that the one that I tagged about.
Uh, you don't know your wife? I retagged it. It's India

(29:21):
Wila marriage clips. Make sure youdid you look at it? You know
which one it is. I shouldhave titled it married in other countries.
Uh shy, I have put thatone. No, that's not it.

(29:45):
That's not it. It's not avideo. It's like a it's like a
picture. Nah, you didn't haveit up. You missed it. I
tagged them all. I attacked themall. You should have had it.
Is it plugged? It in't?Right? Is the power strip? Bar?
Okay? Okay? All right?Did you see it? Do I

(30:08):
need to tag it again? Themessing up the flow? Brothers right,
he's getting it right now. Ohmy gosh, I did tag it.
I did tag it. Don't bethe camp man, brother, don't be
the camp man. Don't be thecamp man. Hey, So now we're
talking about this here, right,let me know when you got it ready.

(30:29):
You don't got to download nothing.Just click on the link. It's
a graphic. Oh we're doing agraphic. I mean he's saying he getting
it right now? Like do hisclick? Is that the graphic right there?
That? No? That ain't it. That ain't it. All you
gotta do is click, bro,look click is uh? Hold on this

(30:51):
one? Click? Boom? That'sit. Do I need to tag it
again? I need to tag itagain? Oh yeah that one. Yeah,
that's the one. Yeah, sayingyou know here, let me let
me tag it again because you guysare lost. You gotta just be there,

(31:11):
lost, making me wait all thistime. Kill it momentum here there
you go. You gotta do isclick on the link. You don't even
gotta download it, just click onthe link. There we go, My
goodness, Okay, now we gotit. Hey, So I was watching

(31:32):
this and I said, it's hilariousbecause let me tell you something. You
can prove you can follow all thesteps that the Bible says, the stuff
that I did in all the classes, and I still spare you d read
this. Dad. Did you knowin other countries you don't know who your
wife is until you get married it'slike that everywhere, son, dang,

(32:00):
you will not know who your wifeis until you get married. See he
talking about those arranged marriages for peoplewho didn't get the punchline right, He's
like, you know, in othercountries, you don't even know who your
wife is until you get married.It's like that everywhere. Proving will always
be different than the marriage proving.Will somebody finger on the bomb? They

(32:24):
verry enthusiastic about that one. Theyknow, they enthusiastic. They feeling that.
They're feeling what I just said.They feeling it, They feeling it.
The record, damn, you willnot know who your wife is until
you get married. Facts, youknow, and if they listen to that
show you did about the representative rightright, And let me say something,

(32:51):
it's not the same for men.Men are pretty simple. We are pretty
easy. Can you get me theone where with the bearded guy. I
forgot his name. He's one ofthose conservative eatomies, but he'd be on
point sometimes he says some good stuff. I forgot his name. The bearded
brother, Yeah that's him. Let'swatch this and turn it up, all

(33:12):
right, It's not the same formen. Men are very simple. I'm
talking about in the truth, letme just say that you can wind up
sleeping with the enemy and marrying astranger, because if the man is still
carnal, let me give it thatcaveat. Let me say that. Let
me say that you can marry somebodybecause a man deception would be everything he

(33:36):
did to try to win you,and then he's not really like that,
right, because remember, like sidRuper Bell said, and Ezra's a man
will rob Steele, go out ofhis wits for a woman, and then
once he's obtained it, once he'sconquered it, and it might not even
be a one hitter quitter, right, you know what I mean, It
might not even be that he wanted. Because there's some guys that's like that
right in the world. They wantto hit it once and then they're done,

(34:00):
want to keep you for a season, you know what I'm saying,
and then you see the other sideof them. So that is very real.
But generally a man in the truth, what you see is what you're
gonna get, especially if you don'tbackdoor it and you take the time to
prove it. In general, men'sfundamental needs are the same across the board.

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There's variants. There's some that mightlike a little more so, right,
like you know, preferences. I'llgive you an example. I'm gonna
put myself out there, all right, and maybe maybe if leadership happens to
check this out, they might jokeon me. I know a lot of
times you hear a leadership saying,yeah, you know, I don't want
to talk. You know, Idon't want to talk, like just you
know, I do enjoy speaking withmy wife occasionally. Okay, you see

(34:46):
all that talking stuff you do now, y'all when you're proving you can't wait
to get on the phone and catchup and stuff like that, I get
married for a little while, you'renot really nah, the conversation, the
conversations kind of. I got areally nice article that I'll eventually bring out
on another episode. But the conversationseventually lead to more about, uh,

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you know, what's up with thekids, what's up with work, what's
up with what we're gonna do here, what's up what we're gonna do there.
They're not the same type of dialoguethat you had when proving. It
doesn't really it doesn't really go thatway. But I know, like you'll
see, like you know some guys, but I don't really care to talk
to you. I like to talkoccasionally occasionally, right, not not always.

(35:30):
So what I say I make thatpoint to say in general, what
I'm about to show you fundamentally iswhat every man wants. And then the
other little nuanced stuff because its likea scale. Right, there's some things
like you know, you might havea you might have a husband that don't
like touching too much. You knowwhat I'm saying, doesn't like the whole
you know, I'm not gonna cuddlewith you type of thing. And I'm

(35:51):
not talking about like after having sex, right, I'm talking about like in
general, you know you don't wantto sit on that, like you know
it's hot, Like don't sit onme when I'm on the couch watching the
movie is hot? You know ifyou do it, it's like until I
until I get hot, and thenwhen I move, don't be offended,
Like just move because it's hot,right, you know what I'm saying.
Right, Like like like who sleepstogether the whole night holding each other?

(36:12):
Like my arm already sleep just thinkingabout it, right, you know what
I'm saying, The arm gonna goto sleep. You're gonna get hot.
You know what I'm saying, ninetimes out of tennis, because you get
hot. Yeah, you know whatI'm saying. You know, maybe just
the heavy breath, the heavy breatheror whatever it is. You know,
so it's like, you know,give it, give it a rest,
you know, give it a rest. But in general, like I said,
going back to going back to thememe, Okay, my wife said,

(36:37):
five minutes at a time. I'mgood for five minutes of cuddles.
Good for five minutes. That's it. After that is all right. But
we brothers, brothers, We're gonnaput this out there because all we're talking
about sisters. But but it's stillrelates to you as men, okay,

(37:00):
because what we're doing is we're hippingyou to some stuff with the women.
And if you're a man, that'snot sure because many of us didn't have
fathers to teach us and tell usthese things. Right, And it don't
mean we didn't have fathers with usper se. But maybe your dad was
not like that. Maybe this wasn'tsomething that was taught. Maybe you were
more along that macho thing where theemotional intelligence was low, right, and

(37:22):
it was just like you know,don't cry, don't do this just you
know, hide it all and betough, right, don't feel basically right,
But men feel we just expressed different. Let me say that again slowly.
Men feel we have feelings about everything. We just express it different.
And it's masculine feelings about everything,unless you're like a real feminine guy,

(37:45):
because that is a thing. That'swhy it's called effeminate. All right,
But we just expressed different. It'snot the same way women feel, right,
Mamber. At the end of theday, our core is logic is
rational. Right, So we're gonnashow a couple of videos that kind of
backs that up. All right,Let's watch this guy right here. Come
on, here's the walk. Thisis what every man wants. This is

(38:07):
how you make him happy. Hewants to walk in the door after work,
and his children run up to himand say hi, daddy and give
him a hug. His wife comesover and smiles and kisses him. Everyone
is happy and glad to see it. I mean, and that's all.
It really is a simplest Let itback, let it back, I know,
like not even the street, likenot even like yodare on air.

(38:29):
Bro go ahead, sit down,bro. Oh so go fix the camera.
No, they got the video upright now, Yeah, played the
video trying to whisper what man wants. This is how you make him happy.
He wants to walk in the doorafter work and his children run up
to him and say hi, daddyand give him a hug, and his

(38:50):
wife comes over and smiles and kisseshim. Dinner's on the stove. Everyone
is happy and glad to see him. I mean. And that's all it
really is, as simple as that. That's it simple. He's said he
wants to come home from work orwhatever it is he come back. He
wants the kids to run to him, Hi, daddy, we missed your
wife, come over, kiss youknow whatever. How's your day? And

(39:10):
don't expect me to really tell youhow my day was, right, But
it's nice that you ask, right, Yes, like I don't you know
what I'm saying? People, Well, I ask, and you always say
it's all right. Well, becausewe express different, right, we express
different right, And that's really allhe wants. But he's gonna expound a
little bit because there's some variation.Go ahead, come on, there's almost
everything he needs in the world.Of course, not it can't be like

(39:32):
that every day and every family isdifferent, Every situation is different. It
might be a situation from maybe bothspouses have to work, especially in this
economy, maybe the man works adifferent shift, so he's not really coming
home at dinner time. Anyway,My point is simply to convey to you
how easy it is to make aman happy, how simple, how our
desires actually are, how comparatively littlewe actually want, how love and affection

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and gratitude are the things that wereally need in our marriage. So if
you're ho seems bitter, and youmight consider whether you have given him any
of those things anytime recently or atall. Secret I am, or he
said, if he seems bitter,if he seems angry, mm hmmm sometime

(40:20):
again, depending right on the man. Some affection respects at the top of
that list, absolutely, because that'show we perceive all those type of beads,
right, not like the disrespectful way. This guy just walked into the
Damns radio show right like you,walking like cram on Sidefeld. You know,
can give me that clip. I'mgonna show you how a shy wild
thing because it was off camera,all right. First of all, he's

(40:44):
all late, right late, justall but I told you and it was
it was it was to get somethingfor the editing. And isn't that he's
all mad late? All right,somebody get the cramer when Crater opens the
door. If you don't know whatI'm talking about, for Sidney felt,
all right, that's funny. You'retalking to a nineties baby that's on this

(41:06):
computer. Wow, just putting openingopening the door like he knows Google.
You gotta go back to the wayhe slides in there, you go,
that's the what. Let me showLet me show you how, Let me
show you how. Let me showyou how shy I came into the damn
show. So he late, heknows he late. Right, he had

(41:29):
the foresight to say, hey,so I don't interrupt the show moving you
sit on the side there or Tobias, so that I can just come in
off camera and not interrupt anything.Broke down the door and freaking came in
here. Just now, let meshow you how a shy came in.
Go ahead, your he anyway.It's like he's sling them slides up until

(41:55):
show talk about popping. That's it. We don't need no more of that.
That's it. I'm glad to behere. I'm welcome. Hello,

(42:15):
I was listening here. Okay,all praise to the side. So how
many you didn't? Actually I loveyou, I love you, but we
gotta bring it's for the benefit ofthe show. Talk about this. I
think I tried to call him more. I message you know what I told
him wife, only leave them alone, I said, leave them alone.

(42:38):
I think I messaged him, butI kind of left him alone. But
like for like three four days nothinghuh no. So he left his scheduled
me on Sunday. He didn't pickhim up till like Thursday, Wednesday,
Thursday, like night something like.It was a like Friday before the feast.
He picked them up before the piece. I was like, hey,
you're lying. Well you got hecame to my house. I was like,

(43:00):
hey, you're alive. Get wellif you heard we were talking about
Deuteronomy where don't give him no businessand stuff. So, uh, since
to asked the question, So somy child's father would ask about is they
actually does something? Uh, hegives me some intel? Is he making
it up? No? Listen,that's the little variation where I said that
maybe he does want to do that, you know. So that again that

(43:22):
that that's like the more uniqueness ofthe individual there is there is We're not
all the same, right, becausethen what's the point, right, Like
it's this cookie cutter I'm talking aboutfundamentally what we want are these things?
Right? And then inside that's thepart where it should be interesting that it
gets nuanced, that you learn aboutyour husband and what does please them,

(43:45):
what doesn't, and and the harmonyin that marriage really comes in from listen,
the wife has a very big roleto to be the husband. And
think about it. If it's giveme Fiesians five where says it's a great
mystery, but speak of Christ inthe church, all right, And I
don't want to lose my thought,but go ahead. The Book of a
Phesian, chapter five, verse thirtytwo. Oh, somebody said, the

(44:06):
audio keeps coming out. Somebody saidthe audio is off. It's the audio
off. Did you trip one ofthe chords or something when you came in,
Kramer, Can y'all hear us?The audio is definitely not off.
They said it cut out about threetimes, some people saying maybe it's your
internet. I don't know, butit's like three or four different people that
said it. So it sounds likesome android uses a right so to have

(44:31):
harmony. There's some tips, right, There's let me be clear, anything
that I tell you is not thecure, all all right, But these
are things that if applied consistently,you should see improvement in things that are
going on, or if you appliedthem from the outset, you should see
improvement going on. Right. Thisis if one or the other hasn't kind

(44:53):
of lost each other, then youmight need a deeper intervention, right because
along the way, bitterness and distancebuilds up, and if things weren't resolved.
And when I've counseled marriages, oneof the biggest things I see when
they both try to make an effort, okay, is the frustration comes back

(45:15):
right away the minute some of theold behaviors displayed, and the expectation of
how long it should take your marriagedidn't get to that negative point in a
week, So you shouldn't expect theresolution in a week, right, You
have to build upon it. AndI've seen some severe cases where people have

(45:37):
been kind of at each other's throatsfor years and they think even a few
months things should be one hundred percentAnd it's not going to be that easy.
It really depends on where that went, where the feelings went, what
level of bitterness and strife and grudging. We're in both parties hearts in order
for you to overcome that, soit takes a sustained effort. The second

(46:00):
thing I see that makes it inerror before I get back to this,
is that the forgiveness hasn't really happened. And I've said this a bunch before
in general, not just in marriage. Forgiveness is really for you, though
you forgive somebody for the act whowas offended by that act you were,

(46:23):
so forgiveness is a letting go.That's really the root of forgiveness. You
have to let it go. Okay, let it go. You have to
let it go. And a lotof times there's the second biggest sue I've
seen in the marriage versus the timeline. The second biggest hue that I've seen
in marriages that are trying to recoverfrom things and issues is they haven't really

(46:50):
forgiven. They've forgiven verbally, they'verealized that the scripture says this isn't something
that we can be divorced for.So I'm gonna make the effort right because
you know, I'd rather be happythan than miserable. But they don't really
find a place of forgiveness in theirhearts. And it's hard sometimes, right,

(47:12):
because you might forgive some things andnot all. There's always gonna be
and especially women, they got memorieslike elephants when it comes to stuff like
that. You know, like likemy wife will move something and forget where
the hell it is like ten minuteslater, but she'll remember some random thing
from like five years ago that Isaid to offender. I'm like, what
the right right? And then Idon't even remember what the hell I said.

(47:34):
So then I'm like, damn,did I really say that? I
don't say that I'm better than mostwhen it comes to things like that with
my memory. So I'll say that. But and so what I'll see is
that it's not The steps aren't reallyworking because they don't want to play each
of their parts. So if you'vereally forgiven what your behavior in marriage in

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general is never contingent on what yourhusband does or what your wife does,
you still need to play the roleas your husband. And then there's,
uh, there's conditions in there asfar as how you deal how you deal
with it. Uh, But thewife understanding this right. It's really up

(48:23):
to you to kind of have thatto to to keep that harmony in what's
going on. This is why theysay they're a pill of rest, their
strong power against death. Uh.And that's why I say, I know
it's not easy uh for these womensometimes, especially how men have been brought
up mostly to to not express rightor we express it. It's not really

(48:46):
what it is. It's not totake an excuse away from your outliers or
your or your extreme ends of menwho you know lash out with violence.
And I don't mean physic, butyou know, maybe they're breaking things in
the house. Uh, maybe youhave some that are uh, maybe they
go drinking, whatever it is.But the woman has to understand your role

(49:08):
in understanding what we're about to readin Ephesians five. I'm gonna explain this
in a second. Let's read thisreally quick. Okay. The Book of
a Vision, chapter five, versethirty two. This is a great mystery,
but I speak concerning Christ and thechurch. Nevertheless, they keep saying
that my MIC's going in and out. Everybody's here talking about that, and
it's a bunch of people though Igot the headphone. Okay, all right,

(49:31):
Okay, Goehad read this on thetop again, this is a great
mystery, But I speak concerning Christand the Church. Nevertheless, let every
one of you in particular, allright, So he says, this is
a great mystery. He just spokeabout marriage, he says, but I
speak concerning Christ and the Church.So what he's letting you know is that

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if you want to understand marriage,then you really need to increase your understanding
of the relationship between Christ and theChurch, the church being the Israelites.
Right. You read that acts whereit talks about the Church and the wilderness,
right, right, So what isIsrael's role in their relationship with Christ?

(50:13):
Be in service to Christ, beobedient to Christ. Acknowledge that Christ
is your head, and move assuch with joyfulness and gladness of your heart.
Right and learn what is pleasing toChrist. That's the main part that
I wanted to get out of that. You have to know what is pleasing

(50:35):
to your husband, because the marriageis a dichotomy of the relationship between Christ
and Israel. And our job isto learn what's pleasing to Christ, the
things that are going to get usin His good graces, not the other
way around. That's going to leadus to our wellline a little bit when

(50:58):
she says, uh, you know, a lot of you want to husband,
but you don't want to be wives. There's a difference a lot of
your sisters with you know, areyou ready for pre You ready? Yeah,
I'm ready. I'm ready. You'reready for a husband, but you're
not ready to be a wife.Right. Yes, you want to be
married, but you don't want tobe a wife. Okay. Uh so

(51:20):
we're gonna play that in a minute, so you have to understand that piece
of it, right man. Igot annoyed that they're saying the audio is
going in and out. Okay,A lot of people saying it's going in
and out. So that's just thedevil I know. Okay, so let's
play this real quick. I'm jumpingaround. I was gonna still deal with
something else, but let me letme play this really quick. Go ahead,

(51:43):
sis, can I share something withyou. I know so many women
that want to be married. Stop. I know a bunch of women that
want to be married, right right. And this is why I get that
it's well intentioned. Like when we'retrying to get a brother to get married,
or you're trying to get Assistan likeit's well intentioned, but I also

(52:05):
think we're a little brazen when youtry to put and men less so.
But I think, like you know, sisters be on sisters a lot,
like, oh, you should getmarried, you should get married, or
you're ready for marriage. You're readyfor marriage, and that's good. That's
the normal course of things you wouldthink. But I think people who are
cautious about it and want to taketheir time and be a certain way.

(52:30):
I'm not talking about the unrealistic.Get the other one ready with the big
sister, all right, I'm nottalking about the unrealistic. All right,
don't play it. We're gonna playwell the whole way through. I'm gonna
show you the other end of thespectrum. But you gotta really assess are
you ready? Because right, everybodycould tell you, and it's important I've

(52:50):
said this what they want in theirspouse, right, But are you ready?
And do you understand what's required ofyou? Right? And it's not
just like I've said this before,the cooking, the cleaning, like that's
basic stuff, the nuanced thing.And this goes back to the sister's question
about you know, like it's herhusband being or her child's father being sincere

(53:14):
or does he really one event that'syour That's the stuff that only you're going
to really know about that person,right, right, that you need to
learn from him. And the onlyway you're like that is when you're selfless
about what's going on there. Right. I know this may sound a little
wishy washy, but when your focusis on how you can be the best

(53:37):
wife and how you can be thebest husband, and not having to direct
and coach, especially as a man, and teach you how to be a
good wife, You're gonna have moreharmony in the house because now it's selfless
right now, because who benefits,well, they both benefit, but who
benefits directly from if I work onbeing a real great husband, who benefits

(53:58):
most directly from that everybody, butmost directly is the spouse, right,
the wife. Yes, I'm gonnabe right in the side of God above
all things, right, and youas a wife, right, your husband's
gonna benefit when you focus on me. So that's a selfless thing, is
the point that I'm getting at,right, Because I'm not worried about trying
to bring you so when a manhas to I don't want to say overly

(54:22):
but always doing that husbandry of buildingyou up. Then it can very much
seem like there's never any harmony inthe relationship because you've not really taken a
concerted effort to work on those actions. Right. So it's like before I
sow the seed, I gotta getthe soil ready just so right, and

(54:45):
then it has to be you know, planted down deep enough so that as
I water, it takes root right. And then there's different stages. I'm
not too much into agriculture like that, but there's different stages that before I
move to the next something else hasto be fulfilled. Right. Even my
wife's telling me now that it's goingit's not bad now, but she says
it was going out in and outsporadically. So you can't jump any of

(55:08):
those and get to the end result. This is why I laugh at people
that think the solution is to goout on some dates or to take a
vacation and that that's going to solveall their problems and their relationship, and
it doesn't. It's just mask it, right because that you're still gonna come
back to what's the norm and whatreally needs to be at peace is a

(55:30):
lot of that Every day where youboth come home tired from working, or
their wife maybe she doesn't work,dealing with the kids all day, whatever
it is, and not let thosethings disrupt that harmony that you should have
within each other, and especially onthe women's part, because if it's symbolic
of the relationship between Christ and theChurch, then that means the wife needs
to be focused on learning what's pleasingto her husband. And when her focus

(55:54):
is on that and you mix thatwith faith, man, because then you,
oh, well, I did itfor a weekend and it didn't work.
When your focus is on that,you're going to activate more in that
man, by the spirit of theMost High, to be what you want
him to be. But but whatyou're trying to do is get him to

(56:15):
be a certain way, which one, it's not your place to do that.
God's job is to deal with him. His job is to deal with
you. Right, So when whenyou're focused on trying to change him and
you got all these conditions before yousubmit, it's not going to get to
where it needs to be. Whenyou're focused on what and you have conditions

(56:39):
on what he needs to be inorder for your behavior to be a certain
way. You're never going to getto where you want to be. It's
not going to get to where itneeds to be, because it's because that's
against the divine order of what Godhas in store. But a lot of
sisters, that's the mentality, rightthey let me tell you, we're gonna

(57:00):
reads, We're gonna letis play againin a second, get first eleven and
three. I know a lot oftimes we read this, and so yeah,
yeah, I know he's the head, but do you really do you
read? You? You know thatuh the you know that a yellow light
means slow down? But but doyou slow down or do you speed up?
Which one are you? It's likebeat it? I can beat You

(57:23):
know what stop sign means come toa full stop? Do you roll?
I roll? You know? Yieldmeans you give the right away? But
do you do that or do youtry to fight for your laying in the
road at the time? I gotthe time mn. So, So it's

(57:44):
one thing to know what we readhere, it's another to actually abide by
what it says and what all ofthat means. Right, look ahead,
read that the Book of First corinthianshutthe eleven verse three. You know that
the head of every man is Christ, and the head of the world is
the Man, and the head ofChrist is God. Right, so he

(58:04):
says, and the head of Christis God right, but the head of
the woman is the man. Andyou read that and you say, yeah,
yeah, I know that. Iknow that that's the order. Orders
come out until what's expected of youto apply when that time comes, because
it's see, see, faith iseasy when things are going your way.

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Doing what the scripture say is easywhen things are going your way. But
when the challenges come to try us, that's to show whether you're really about
this or that, because anybody canbe what do they call it, a
fair weather friend? What happens whenthe storm comes? Right? Damn right?
That Can you stand the ring?Can? Damn? Everybody loves them?

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Can you stand a ring? Damnright? Can you stand the ring?
Because they will come. So youread this and you think, okay,
yeah, I know that that's theorder. But then what it's really
saying is being subjection. And it'slike, oh, yeah, I'm in

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subjection when he's giving me what Iexpect. And a lot of times their
expectation is not what the scripture says, right right, it's just whatever thing
person was being fulfilled in them.So this is why there has to be
kind of that rigidity as as aman in ruling your house. Well,

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We need your help, helon.Let's get that real quick and jump straight
to the point. One who loleshis own house? Well the Book of
First Timothy, chapter three and five, For if a man know not how
to rule his own house, right, and you would think like look how

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he words that he says. Forif a man know not how to rule
his own house, meaning that thereare men that don't know how to rule
their homes. They don't know whatthat means. Many of us weren't born
into this. So what do wesee growing up? This disfunction? Right?
A lot of us, and I'mnot speaking for everybody, we did

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not see. And even if youdid have the complete family there, Okay,
it was not based on the waythese commandments were, so they was
still dysfunction. You might be astep ahead because you saw a semblance of
that, that companionship, right,that stability of the of the of the
husband and wife together. But ifit wasn't according to these scriptures, then

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it wasn't divine, right, Soso you still had some dysfunction in there.
Right, go ahead, For ifa man know not how to rule
his own how shall he take careof the Church of God? Right?
Because why, let's go back toEphesians five. How should he take care
of the church. We're gonna comeback to Timothy's get the Book of Ephesians,
chapter five, verse thirty two,really a great mystery. But I

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speak concerning Christ in the church,right, now go back to where we
were in Peters of Timothy's the Bookof One Timothy, chapter three, verse
five. Or if a man knownot how to rule his own house,
how shall he take care of theChurch of God? Right? So you
see, now you're starting to seethe interconnections here on why it's so important.

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And let me tell you how severeit is that a woman plays any
type of roag where she's a hindranceto that, because see, as a
man, we still got a riseabove that regardless. Remember I always talk
about that purpose and we can't affordto let any of those things really mess
us up, right, But howmuch of a hinderance are you to the
greater mission by hindering that man?And it don't matter, right, because

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it don't got to be somebody that'sa deacon or whatever. But you have
a man that the Most High isworking on to continue to grow in spirit
as he builds himself up so thathe can fully realize whatever his reasonable services
to the Most highs, and youbecome a stumbling block to that. How
much sore issue that goes back tolast week when we were talking about Isaiah
four. Just take away our approach. It's not just the way you were

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dealing with him, but the largereffect that it has when you multiply that.
Of course, all these marriages andthings like that. Right, this
why says from women came the beginningof sin. But he's letting you know,
but this is gonna be the thingthat you're gonna have to deal with
for you to fully understand what's gonnatake to rule and what my relationship with
you has been like. Right,So what else where's the Probaly says,

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having his children in subjection? Whichversus that verse verse four? Go ahead,
come on, read that verse four. First Timothy, chapter three,
Verse four one that ruleth well hisown house, having his children in subjection
with all gravity, right, meaningwith all seriousness. Don't mean the kids
ain't serious and the kids can bekids. But your children in subjection.

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I'm not saying kids don't do badthings sometimes we all do bad things sometimes,
right, But you can tell somebodywho has his kids in line and
somebody who just has them trained forperformance. Right, there's a difference in
that, Okay, And I'm notgoing to go and compare kids, but
you can look at it. Youcan sit down and I'm not saying that
means they're perfect in all. Butwhat I can tell you is that I

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guarantee that nothing that when it saysn'tall gravity that goes in some rock where
it says do not conquer them all, right, that's going with do not
conquer them? Right? And canwe get the definition of cocker real quick?
Let's get the definition of cocker?Can we can we turn the fan
up a little more, maybe haveit to rotate so that it's going back

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and forth. Oscillate. Let's haveit oscillate, oscillate the fan? You
got it, yes, sir?Thirty and nine? Right, yes,
sir. And get the definition ofcocker not cocker spaniel. You want to
start at verse eight. What's thesecond that's good. It's kind of going

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into being willful. Okay, thebook is a rock. Chapter thirty and
verse eight and horse not broken becomethheadstrong? Right, So first he uses
the example of a horse, right, and he says, if you have
a horse that you don't break that, you don't put those fences up around
that, you don't check that behavior, meaning don't give that water passage,
right, says he becomes headstrong,self willed. Okay, go ahead,

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come on, and a child leftto himself will be wilful do Webster.
Webster has the perfect definition for it, okay, and it says, and
a child left to himself will bewhat wilful? Right? Self willed?
Right, they're gonna they're gonna continueto do their own behaviors right because their
children and children are gonna be uh. It takes a while before they build
up that them social skills and thatemotion intelligence. Because you can have a

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child that I've said this before thatspeaks very well, that even has a
certain measure of comprehension of words andthings like that, but to really have
their grown ups don't have awareness andcontrol of their own feelings very much less
for children, right, and it'sour job as parents to kind of guide
that. Right. So the gravitypart that we read in Timothy's means that

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you don't play with anything, becauseI hear that a lot. And oh,
but this kid's being kids. No, it's not kids being kids based
on what right. Kids being kidsis what the scriptures say. Kids being
kids are right, And it don'tmean you don't have a happy, fun
child. They just know where todraw their lines. And if they don't
they're either able to stop and beself aware or you're able to go ahead

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in gravity. Check it right,go ahead, read on cocker that child,
and he shall make the afraid.Right, he shall make the afraid.
Why sometimes they're gonna threaten you.Sometimes you might be afraid for his
life. Right, go ahead readplay with him, and he will bring
thee to heaven. Right. Andit don't mean play with him that he
wants to play a game or heror whatever it is. Right, it's
talking about don't play with inappropriate behavior. Let's look up the definition of cocker.

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What does it say, cocker,Uh, cockered, cockering, cocker,
indulge pamper, right, So don'tindulge the bad behavior. Don't pamper
him. That's right. Like that'slike when the pharisees thaking when Christ said
you you hypocrites. The law says, uh, if a kid dishonored his

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father and mother, he should diethe death And he says no, But
you guys say it's a gift uhin Mark seven? Right? Right,
Well yeah, you say, yousay, oh, well, I'm a
gift from the lord, right,yeah, because you know the scripture tells
you that, right, children aregift from the Lord. Right, But
then it goes into Remember you onlyhave an avenger that goes back into the

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That's one of my pet peeves,my avengers. Here, he's not an
avenger until you've raised him the waythe scripture says. Right, and and
what and in Summation we read thatin Timothy, read that in Timothy's again
the Book of First Timothy, chapterthree, verse four one that ruleth well
his own house, having his childrenin subjection with all gravitu hunh. Come

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on, for if a man knownot how to rule his own house,
how shall he take care of theChurch of God? Right? Because marriage
is symbolic of that relationship between Christand the Church. So now going back
to what I was saying, goback to have a well lop on the
screen. Many many sisters want husbands, but they don't want to be wives.
Can we put that up? Canyou can you get that? Because

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you're messing me up? Because shehas like something over the screen. There
we go, so we're about toplay it. She says, ladies,
you want to be married, butyou don't want to be a wife.
All right, you want to bemarried, but you don't want to be
a wife bring it out. Tobe married, you have to be called
a wife, but you don't wantto be a wife, right the way

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things are said up now, ifyou want to really go into deep space,
you got to be an astronaut.Right. I want to go to
space because out of curiosity, butI want to be an astronaut. I
can be real with that. Youknow what I'm saying. You want the
title? Right. I love pizza, but I don't want to make it.
You know, you know what I'msaying. Like, I mean,
I do, like I have beenmaking it when I do my officeer thing.

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I'm gonna make some pizzas for you, but in general, when I'm
hungry for pizza, I want tohave to make it. I just want
to eat it. Right. That'sthe thing that a lot of these sisters
are rolling in, right. AndI will say, some of you brothers,
you want a wife, but youdon't really want to be a husband.
Right. But we're gonna deal withthe women's side. It is because

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we're trying to make the men aware, right, right, go ahead,
come on, sis, can Ishare something with you? I know so
many women that want to be married, and marriage is a beautiful thing.
You should want it if you're awoman. But what I find with women
that are already made and those thatdesire to be stopped. So she said,
not just the ones that want tobe married. We're talking about you

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that already married. Damn. Messagego ahead that there's one thing in common.
You don't want to be a wife, at least not a wife according
to God's works. Oh stop,stop, stop stop, I don't know.
I got a question. I don'tknow. We always watch his sister.
She's not in the truth like that. Like if I was a sister,

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i'd be getting cut. I mean, damn, some of them say
they get cut, But I don'tknow. Only the Lord knows an application,
right, his eyes are ten thousandtimes brought it in the sun,
not me. Search. I havea body of things that I've experienced that
I've seen, right, I'm notgonna say. I sit here and I
have something where I've said this before, people like he, are you discerned
spirits? I don't know, sir, I don't even know. I just

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you know, exercise of youth helpsme see things, all right, That's
really how I look at it.Maybe I can, I don't, But
it's like you know, it's notlike Superman when he activates his X ray
vision and I can see your heartbeating and at you lyon because like your
post went up or something like that, Like you know, right, you
know what I'm saying. Told usone time, You're like, sometimes I
just look at your face and thenyour face right sometimes, right, Sometimes

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I just look at someone's face andI just see, like that is true.
Sometimes I can see someone's face andsomething don't look right, you know
what I'm saying. I can't seethat. I can't see that right,
right, I forgot. I thinkI don't know if my face was weird
one day and somebody, oh zarady. The other day, my back was
hurting when I went to pick upmy son, so the officer aroused my

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neighbor. Not like my neighbor neighbor, but like you know, in the
area, in the area, andour sons go to the same school,
so like we'll see each other afterschool, and uh, I don't know.
I guess my demeanor was a littledifferent. I was hungry and my
back was hurting. He was hungry, so you know, he was like,
you are right, are you?I was like, yeah, I'm
good. I guess he was worriedgood. And I was like, yeah,

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so you know, you can't seesomething sometimes and someone's face and stuff
like that. So I get that, but I don't know. But uh,
you know, she said, listen, even you married and unmarried,
you want you want to be married, You want a husband, but you
don't want to be a wife,at least the way the scriptures say.
You want to be a wife onyour terms, right, go ahead,

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come on. God tells us veryspecifically the roles of a wife in marriage.
But culture has made you believe thatyou can be married, do what
you want, go where you want, and say what you want and it's
okay. Stop stop. And byculture she means white supremacy. She means
the devil right. To me shemeans and it's I mean she worships white

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Jesus damn. So I'm surprised someof her stuff. I mean, I
don't know. I don't be upin her comments, but I'm pretty sure
she got some sisters that are madat her for this stuff, right,
you know what I'm saying. LikeBishop did a clip he has this series
going out with this one YouTube guy, and uh, I guess he was
hitting on marriage or something a littlebit and like the sisters and uh freaking

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Jake's sister, big mouth worshiping,freaking uh you know her, one of
her vocap's cronies goes on this wholerant about all this other stuff. And
what's the word that they use.Jesus, Jesus, No, this isn't
a Christian word that that feminist movementuses. Agency, my own agency?

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Right? Hung up? The definitionof agency? This this is a feminist
liberal term. Right When they sayyour agency, basically it means, uh,
it's your body. You do whatthe hell you want, when you
wanted, how you want it typeof thing. Right, Just get ahead,
go ahead, get that, goahead. Come on, I think
we got a clown in the Uhyeah, oh I think they deleted yeah,

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talking about chickens and eggs out ofhere. Uh Nope, that's not
it. There we go. Idon't know you had it. I didn't
see. I didn't say move it. Scroll down. It is the third
one. Yep, a second one. I'm sorry. The second one.
Agency number two the capacity, conditionor state of acting or of exerting power.

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Now wait a second, none ofus has any agency except to give
me don Ecclesiastes twelve thirteen. Thisis the agency that we have, all
right, and even less a sisters, all right, talking about agency,
you hear that word, some ofyou who are familiar with it, you
know what I'm talking about. You'llhear that word. Right. Oh,
So when a woman activates women heragency, they'll use it a lot of

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times to defend being promiscuous. Allright, they'll use it many times,
yes, that see, because that'swhat they use it for. Right.
Let's get this all right, thisis the agency that we have in life,
and then get me the one thatwe are sufficiencies of God. Ok.
Come on the book of Ecclesiastes,chapter twelve, verse thirteen. Let
us hear the conclusion of the wholematter. Fear God and keep his commandments,

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for this is the whole duty ofman. Right, Fear God and
keep his commandments. I think it'sand Corinthians three three and five. All
right, fear God and keep hiscommandments. That's the agency that we have.
We have the power to fear theLord and to keep his commandments with
joyfulness and gladness of heart. That'sthe exerting of our power that we have,
all right, Because the Lord isour strength. Get me that in

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neamyah the joy, the Lord isour strength. And then and then yeah,
after this, hold on, benson, go ahead. The Book of
Second Corinthians chapter three, verse five. Not that we are sufficient of our
self, that we have no agency. We're not sufficient of ourselves. Go
ahead, come on to think anythingas of our self. We should not
think anything of us. Are talkingabout it. I'm exercising my agency.

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Go ahead, Come on. Butour sufficiency is of God. Right,
But our sufficiency is of God.This is the agency that get me that
we're gonna rejoy. The Lord isour strength at the end of it.
Get me first. Corinthia is eleven. Is it around nine? Where since
the woman have power over her head? Right? I want that one.
All right, this is the book, and then I want Genesis three about

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your desire. Be on too,the men, let me show you the
agency that sisters have. Go ahead, come on. This is the Book
of First Corinthians, chapter eleven,verse eight. Well, the man is
not of the woman, but thewoman of the man. This is what
we need to understand. But thenwhen you start talking about agency, right,
what she's doing is invalidating that right, So when she says, a
culture teaches you to be against theway a wife is supposed to be in

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the scriptures, and this is whythe marriages are jacked up, right,
and even sisters that are believing andwalking in here right bring it out and
I'll give a little caviat maybe,but evil communication corrupts good manners. I
would say people born and raised upin this having not partaken in the way

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things are in the world, probablyhave a better success rate than those who
have been conditioned at one time orthe like. We all work right,
right, because we were all onboard with that fifty to fifty thing,
even if we didn't like it.R right by default, by default,
right, it was you know,deep down, I really don't like that,
but I'm at with it. Thestatus quo. It's my attorney to

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do the dishes, honey, right, And like I said, they's nothing
wrong with that if the man wantsto do it, and it's not some
sort of obligation and stuff like he'sdoing it because he like, Hey,
I'm gonna hook you up today.You know what I'm saying, right,
I want to aleviate something for you. Ain't nothing wrong with that. You're
not less of a man. Butif you got this whole, let's split

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the chores and stuff like that.You know what I'm saying, Put up
chor lists and stuff, bloody andstuff. Right. You know, we've
gotten too far away from what's aman's work and what's a woman's work.
You know, go ahead, readsverse nine. Neither was the man created
for the woman, but the womanfor the man, But the woman for
the man. Right, so nowread on for this cause the woman to

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have power on her head. This. Oh so there's that word because agency
says you exert power so that theworld tells you that's that exerting of being
able to sleep with you want,take how many dicks you want? Right,
whatever it is? Okay, Hey, I saw a thing one time.
Man, it's hilarious where he talksabout you gotta think about how much

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how much ride these these sisters havereally had, damn. And he was
like, so he goes and hetakes like the so called average penis how
many thrust it takes on average tobust how many times per guy she does
it? And then he adds upthe mileage and oh my god, my
god, and he and you wantto talk about use on a box,

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my God, and right, andlisten for a sister that might be sticker,
say, well, the dick isused up to listen. Uh.
A lock that opens to every keyis worthless, worthless, But a key
that opens every lock is called amaster key. So you gotta you gotta
realize what's going on there, allright. And it's not to say that

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men should roll that way either.But if the man and the woman should
be virgins, okay, when youget together, that's the real way for
things to be set up, allright. But there's not a comparison in
that, right, So read thislast part again in this verse, Come
on, for this cause the womanto have power on her head because of
the angels. Right, what's thepower for the cause of understanding this?

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In Genesis? Read this, Comeon the Book of Genesis, chapter three,
verse sixteen. To the woman,he said, I will greatly multiply
thy sorrow and thy conception. Comeon, is sorrow that shall bring fourth
children, and thy desire shall beto thy husband. That's the power that
thy desire shall be to thy husband. Read this in Corinthians again, first

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Corinthians, chapter eleven, verse ten. This cause are the woman to have
power on her head for this cause, understanding that the man is not of
the woman, but the woman ofmen. For this cause, you had
to have the power of your headto what of the angels. Of the
angels meaning what the scriptures say asmessengers, and it says just read that

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part, that last part, andthy desire shall be to thy husband.
That's the agency that you have,sister. They know other agency thy desire
to be to that. Let's getthat. Read that. First Corinthius,
chapter seven, verse four. Thewife hath not power of her own body
but the husband. And likewise,also the husband hath not power of his

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own body but the wife. There'sexamples of agency right when it comes to
that belongs to right. That's youknow, like you know when you're talking
in the barrel, Yeah, whoseis it? You know what I'm saying,
Who's is that? Who is this? You know what I'm saying.
That's biblical. That's what the scriptis say. Okay, the wife hath

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not power of her own body stopversus Genesis. And he shall rule over
thee mm and he shall rule overthey. That's the agent. See,
that's why when you go back tofirst Corinthians, eleven. It says for
this cause, read it from eightall the way through ten. Read this
last part again. And thy desireshall be to thy husband and he shall

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rule over thee past the agency thatyou have. This is what Paul is
talking about it. So if youforgot what first Corinthia is eleven and three.
So here, well, hold on, hold on, let's piece this
together. Let's do those pieces together. Benson, can you wait? Yeah,
I'm not you could wait, right? Can you wait? I know
you ring the bell? Oh no, We're good. I had okay,
all right, okay, I'm sorry. Read this in Genesis again, quote

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it and just jump to that partthis chapter three, verse six. Right,
He's jumped it down to the lasttwo sentences. And thy desire shall
be to thy husband, and heshall rule over thee right now, read
eight through ten, first and thenthree. First Corinthias, chapter eleven,
verse eight. For the man isnot of the woman, but the woman

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of the man. Uh huh.Neither was the man created for the woman,
but the woman for the man.Past the ages see that you have,
you were created for the man.This is why I say it's your
job as the woman to find outwhat pleases your husband, right, just
like we were created for the mosthigh in Christ right to serve him.
Now, go ahead, read onfor this cause, the woman to for

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this cause, for this thing thatwe're speaking about. Come on, the
woman to have power on her head. This is the agency, the power
that you have on your head,sister, come on because of the angel.
Because the angels say this verse three. But I would have you know
that the head of it role wasan angel, a messenger. That's not
talking about the angels in heaven.Right in Christianity, do you know they

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teach you that the angels aren't supposedto see the top of the woman's head
like in Pentecostal. I think itis. There's the nominations of Pentecostal.
That's why they because they can't explainthat verse. So they tell them that
because they'll cover their heads the womenthe Pentecosta certain certain because even Pentecostal has
sub denominations and they'll have they'll tellthe women that, yeah, the angel

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should see the top of the woman'shead. That's what that verse means,
right, But that's not what itmeans. Okay, read it again.
But I will have you know thatthe head of every man is Christ,
because the angels polls, and amessenger, an angel, says this,
the head of every man is Christ. Come on, and the head of
the woman is the man. Comeon, and the head of Christ is
God. Right, And so forthis cause, this is what the agency

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that women have. All right,that's the power that they have. All
right. Let's you wanted to saysomething, go ahead, and then we're
gonna play. We're gonna play wellfrom the beginning again, reverse ten one
more time. Verse ten. Forthis cause the woman to have power on
her head because of the angels.Now in the middle of my Bible is
simplifies it too, just a littlebit more. If you don't, if

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you don't fully understand what verse tensays. It says that is a covering
and sign that she is under thepower of her husband. Oh my gosh,
oh my, oh my gosh.Which and the powerful husband is your
desire shall be on your husband,and he shall rule over you, which
was from the beginning Chapter twelve,Verse fourteen. Then said Judith up to

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him, who am I now thatI should gain? Say, my lord,
surely, whatsoever pleases him, Iwill do speedily, and it shall
be my joy until the day ofmy death. That's your agency, your
that's the power that you have.All of us have the power to fear
God and keep his commandments like we'rein a Eclesiastes twelve thirteen. And then

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specifically for the sister, that's thepower that you have, right, that's
the only There ain't no power likeyou know, oh my ladies, the
power. It ain't dealing with thatthat, it ain't dealing with that.
Play well, come on, sis, can I share something with you.

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I know so many women that wantto be married, and marriage is a
beautiful thing. You should want itif you're a woman. But what I
find with women that are already marriedand those that desire to be married,
that there's one thing in common.You don't want to be a wife,
at least not a wife according toGod's work, right there, Come on,

(01:25:11):
no, keep going. God tellsus very specifically the roles of a
wife in marriage. But culture hasmade you believe that you can be married,
do what you want, go whereyou want, and say what you
want. And it's okay because youguys are equal. You guys are not
equal in marriage, you are equalin God's love. You're equal and the
inheritance in Christ. But in termsof God, who stop, you're not

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equaling inheritance in Christ. We wentover that last week. All right,
this is where she gets tripped upwith the white Jesus say, I think
that's what she's saying. Errors.Yeah, but we went over there and
we explained that. Okay, Soif you're confused, all right, we
don't advocate that message unless you gotthe proper breakdown, which we gave last

(01:25:54):
week. So go back and watchpart one. Go ahead, come on.
Her husband is the head of thatrelationship. And if you want to
be married, you must know thatyou must submit to your husbands and everything.
So if you're not ready to submit, then you're not ready to be
married. And if you're already marriedand you're not submitting, you're in rebellion
and need to correct. So thatlast week, right, And what's rebellion?

(01:26:18):
Can we get that? It's asthe sin of witchcraft? Right,
she says? And if you're ina marriage and you're not submitting, you're
in rebellion. Right on First Samuel, chapter fifteen, verse twenty three.
Or rebellion is as the sin ofwitchcraft, as the sin of witchcraft,
it's as the sin of witchcraft.So you know, keep on she talking

(01:26:41):
a little more. I think shetalks about the wife school next, or
maybe that's the end of it withwhat she said, Italy, remember that
today and carry on, right,I hope you enjoyed the vision. Let
me get Revelation twenty one eight becauseit doesn't say witchcraft, but it says
sorcerers, which dealing with the samething. Right, the Book of twenty
one this is where rebellion. Rebelliouspeople go, come on the Book of

(01:27:04):
Revelation, chapter twenty one, verseeight. But the fearful and unbelieving,
and the abominable, and the murderersand horrormongers and sorcerers. And guess what,
if you're rebellious, you're all thatyou're unbelieving. Also true because you
give all these reasons why you can't, why you shouldn't, what's the obstacles
for you to submit? What you'rereally saying is that you don't believe that

(01:27:26):
God can use that, right likethat, Remember going back to what I
said where you got these conditions,right like, yeah, yeah, I'll
do this if he does this,this that in the la no negotiation here,
right, this is a zero sumgame. There ain't gonna be no
I give a little, you givea little. My agency is to serve
God the way he told me to. And if I'm a husband, that
means do that. And as longas I'm fulfilling that, I'm good.

(01:27:48):
It is you that got the problem, right, Go ahead, come on,
and horrormongers and sorcerers and idolators andall liars shall have their part in
the lake which burneth with fire andbrimstone, which is the second which is
the second death, which is seeand that's really in Isaiah for and one
what they're trying to avoid. Yeah, right, that's why they're trying to

(01:28:08):
latch on, say take my reproach, take this away, because they don't
want that second death. Right,that's like shout. He says that considering
not that they should pay for it. After right, they shouldn't write,
but they need to get in line. They need to get in nine for
that. What else we got?What else we got? I posted some
other stuff. What else we got? No? Go to the Oh right,

(01:28:29):
so I said this, I didbring that up. Did they bring
that up? Right? Because Isaid, then the other thing you have
here is you know, remember whenI said, I think I was talking
about expectations, and I said,there's some sisters that kind of understand the
gravity of marriage and men, andthis is why they're not rushing to move
into it, or if they mightat all. Right, because then you

(01:28:55):
have these other ones who actually don'tdo it because they have false expectations they're
looking for. And that's what thissister was doing here. Go ahead,
come on, Yeah, he doeshave to be You're too low, bro,
You guys gotta test volume or something. Turn it up, turn up
the main if you need to turnup the main. Yeah, he does

(01:29:18):
have to be in shame. It'sa low video. All right, turn
off the channel nine, stop becauseI don't want to miss it when we
go over this channel. Yeah,he does have to be in shame.
Stop. So first of all,okay, okay, go back to her

(01:29:39):
man. Come on, no,I wanted to stop on her. Stop.
She says, So does the mainideal man have to be in shape
shape? Yes, he does haveto be. But first of all,
she went pants buttons on her pants. But yes, are thoroughly abused.
Yes, pressure tested, butting aburst, that's button a burst. Nobody

(01:30:03):
does a cold, don't get thatmuch pressure. Damn, what the hell
one of those buttons do to herto be put under pressure like that.
So she's saying, he gotta bein shape. Come on and listen.
Listen. If this is not you, then don't be offended. You got

(01:30:24):
this whole thing? Are you upand arm? Oh you're doing this,
you're doing that. If it's notyou, then don't be offended. All
right. There is nothing healthy aboutbeing overweight. There is nothing. Listen.
They even had to study recently.Again, I didn't have time in
the health show. Well, youcould have good markers and stuff being overweight.

(01:30:46):
Guess what they compare people who areoverweight but healthy, because that's another
thing, healthy fat. I'm fat, but you know my blood pressure is
low. I don't have to be. They try to say the blood work
is good. Right, It's likethat graphic you showed where the fat was
pressed against the organ, right right, right. Here's the thing. Here's
the thing. People who actually havehigh blood pressure, who have diabetes and

(01:31:12):
everything else, by losing weight andgetting into a normal range, actually have
more successful outcomes than healthy fat people. And that sounds like a misnomer.
There's no term as healthy fat pyright, this is not healthy. And
if it's not you, then don'tbe upset. You're you're listen, I'm
barring. Let me say this,barring some sort of medical disclaim thing that

(01:31:35):
that that legitimately maybe maybe limits yourfood or whatever it is. I know
there's some things out there. Iknow there are some circumstances like there's a
what's the one that women get,Uh, it's not co op D.
There's another one pc OS does hasbeen shown to put you in a state

(01:31:59):
where where and it still don't meanyou can't kind of control a little bit,
but it's a lot harder for youto kind of keep weight off and
stuff like that. There are certainconditions that are co factors that make it
that way, like the p cO S. That is true. But
if you ain't one of those,and you ain't got to diagnose that you
want of those, you just notdoing and you don't take it serious enough,
you don't respect yourself enough to dosomething about it. Right. Yeah,

(01:32:23):
p c O S right, thatthat is a real thing, and
that makes it more challenging. Thyroidissues, that makes it more challenging.
Right, I'm not I mean notblanket everybody, but the ones that get
mad. They ain't the ones thathave any of that stuff. They're the
ones that just like to eat.And some of them more secret eaters,
because the same ones that say Idon't eat that much, oh damn,
bring it out and say that theydon't eat that much. Right, So

(01:32:45):
anyway you have some of these sistersthat's just unrealistic. She says, she
wants a man that's fit, andmaybe you might find a brother out there
that like hit the mump. Andby that I don't mean that he has

(01:33:10):
to you know, have the rockhard abs and you know, be looking
like the rock. No. Butfor me, I feel like it does
come down to help. It's notjust about the way the person that if
they're healthy with it. But someonecan be big and they can also be
healthy, So it just depends onobviously how they are and how they decided

(01:33:33):
to live. Yes, do youfeel like you're healthy? Yees wouldn't be
okay with a guy that was biggerthan you as long as he was healthy.
Who run that last part back again? I didn't see she is the

(01:33:53):
point? Because I know some people, they're some sisters with their feelings.
Why that's it with the fat girl. The last part where she says,
would you be okay with somebody that'sbigger than you? Go ahead, come
on, and she said, andwas healthy? Someone bigger than you and
healthy? Go back, go back, go back, go back more more.

(01:34:14):
No, No, that was ityou as long as he was healthy.
No, you gotta go back,go back. But someone can be
big and they can also be healthy. So it just depends on obviously how
they are and how they despard tolive. Yeah, do you feel like

(01:34:35):
you're healthy? Yeah? I'm notnot. Look, it wouldn't be okay
with a guy that was bigger thanyou, as long as he was healthy.
Can we go back to her face? Wookid look at her face?
Bro, But she says no,she had to think about it, which

(01:34:59):
is about right now, watch thishealthy and yes, Prid of nine Heart,
you saw that. I saw yousaw her little? She was like
nope. And what she's like,I know what you're trying to do?
Right? Right? Right? CanI get a scripts like Asalonians to it
too? Oh? My goodness.You know why she said he gotta be

(01:35:23):
smaller than her because she want tobeat his ass up when he want to
go to camp. Yeah, she'sgonna say you can't. Man, she
and she gonna press on him.She sho sit on him, man,
she gotta do sit on his lap. He ain't going nowhere. Man.

(01:35:45):
She don't need one salad. Sheneeds she needs sellers for the rest of
her life. It's a missing firstfly out for button right now, dang
first and second. That's chapter two, verse ten. And with all deceivableness
of unrighteousness in them that parish becausethey received not the love of the truth.

(01:36:06):
The love of the truth. Thetruth is sis needs to lose some
weight, and it's this is nothealthy breed that they might be saved.
And for this cause God shall sendthem strong delusion. She is in a
strong delusion read that they should believea lie. She believes the lie that
she's healthy in the state that's nothealthy. I don't know if she really

(01:36:29):
believed it, because that face thatshe may go back to the defense mechanism,
like you know what I'm saying,she said, because even though I
might not look it, go aheaddepends on obviously how they are and how
they decide to live. Do youfeel like she thought, she I'm sorry,
She's like right, yo, Yes, with the guy that was bigger

(01:37:00):
than you, and as long ashe was healthy, she said, I
might not look like it, butI am. She would be okay with
yeah, because he doesn't look healthy. I would you be with somebody believe
she believes a lie that she wasjust that. Only with her is that
she believes that. Yeah. Youknow what really happened is that she realized

(01:37:21):
all the bullshit she said prior andthey caught up to her. She had
she said, she said, I'mgoing in, she said, fully committed
to this yesterday. That's how DonaldTrump bey will. He be talking sometimes
and he like, oh damn,let me right, and he just keeps

(01:37:44):
talking words, double down on it, dam go ahead. I don't know.
I think he just stays at whatelse you got else? Oh?
Put up the other picture? Letme tell you? Let me yeah that
one. Let's let's talk about there, hold on, hold on for you,
put it up? All right?This is what most women want,

(01:38:06):
right, This is what most womenwant. They think that this is the
cure all to everything. Right.They tell you that if they just had
this, it would be all right. Okay, watch this, go ahead.
I want to hold you Yang accountablefor your actions. Who it's it's

(01:38:28):
like it's like I'll be there liketrying to hold them accountable, you know
what I'm saying for her actions andbe like hey, this, that and
the other. It's like, oh, you know, I just came for
a hug, right If I can'thug you right until I hold you accountable
for your actions? The hell isthis? Whoa, whoa? I'm a
bagaball on this earth. I wantto hold you. Ya. They want

(01:38:49):
to be That's the perfect epitome ofwhat I will. I say, you
want to be. You want tobe there, you want to be you
want to be married, but youdon't want to be a wife the way
the scripture is right, you wantto be married, but you don't want
to be. I want to holdyou yet, because what do they want?
They want the company, they wantthe Netflix and chill. They want

(01:39:10):
the cuddles, they want you know, the warm, their cold fee that
night pic. You know. Theywant you to be able to be like
yeah, that's mine, you knowwho's is it? All that other stuff?
Right, But then when it's timesomething to hold accountable. Oh no,
no, no, I don't know. I do not want this.
I do not want this. No, No, this is not for me.
It's like that video you play witha brother his wife to the dishes?

(01:39:36):
Right then? How am I supposedto be all romantic like that with
the way them dishes? Wasn't thatsink hell out of here? There in
no way else? I am notgoing to be able to relax. Okay,
it's gonna be like, what thehell is this? Man? Come
on, get that out the way. Let's see what else we got.
Let's see what else? What elsedid I say we had? What's this
one? Let me see? Justclick it? Oh yeah, yeah,

(01:40:00):
let's do this and then and thenI think we'll save the other ones,
don't lose them. And we're gonnajump into the meat and Potatoes one right
because we and we're only gonna showsome of it because it's nine of them.
So I guess there'll be a partthree, right, or maybe we'll
call it something else. I don'tknow, but we'll start it. Let's
do this. Come on, Somewomen have a hard time appreciating men.

(01:40:21):
We tend to focus on what isn'tright instead of what is stop big thing?
Right? Ah right, you're atoxic lack of appreciation for a man,
right, go ahead, come on, we'll criticize the ten percent that
isn't working perfectly and ignore the ninetypercent that worked. Stop down, because
I know there's a sister, there'sa sister watching what I will watch and

(01:40:43):
say and say, but what aboutwhat about me? I always feel criticized.
Well, my job is to buildyou up. My job is to
instruct you to build you. Herewe get that in Efesians five, present
it to himself the chapter five andverse twenty seven, that he might present
it to him. Read up versetwenty six, verse twenty five, twenty

(01:41:06):
five, husbands love your wives.He's even as Christ also loved the church
and gave himself forward. Right.They hear that part, and women get,
oh my god, you're gonna diefor me. You're gonna die for
me. Some listen, brothers,if you don't have the horna. Some

(01:41:30):
of them be losing their marbles.You lost your mar marble. They're gone.
What I told you, he's settingyou up. He already showing you
signs. He's dropping his marbles already, He's dropping the marbles. That was
that was, that was I wassabotaged. This was the loose one.
I was a feeling, that onea little, a little broke open like

(01:41:51):
that just says he's the prophet.Read it. Read it again. The
Book of Asia, chapter five,verse twenty five. Your husbands love your
wives even as Christ also loved thechurch. Right, you're thinking that means
lovey w whatever. Right, itsays you think who you're gonna die for
me? Listen, you will likewe read in Revelation fourteen. Right,

(01:42:14):
if you're the file with women,Okay, you gotta get there. There
was a there's like one big assmarble in then. Yeah, man,
oh damn, Okay, it wasa setup. Somebody somebody, somebody messed
up my bag on purpose, willlose their life, but not in a

(01:42:40):
positive way. Right, that's thepoint I was trying to make. If
you don't get your balls back,Okay, But women hear that and they
think that means, oh, hegotta die for me. Right. It's
kind of like did we show aclip last week where it says you want
this, that I want me todo this, you want protection and all
this other stuff too. Right,go ahead, come on and gave him
for it, that he might sanctifyand cleanse it with the washing of water.

(01:43:03):
By the word right, by theword my job is to point out
and show you where you're wrong inthe scriptures. Always, okay, come
on that he might present it tohimself, a glorious church, not having
spot or wrinkle, Right, that'snot your job as a woman. So
when we hear this a nice slayfor those systems that might hear it.

(01:43:25):
And I said, what about you? What about you? That's part of
the problem. That's part of theissue. Finished that verse, not having
spot or wrinkle or any such thing, but that it should be holy and
without blemish. Right. So sameway Christ's job is to build us up
that way, to prepare us toreceive our white robes. Us as the
husband is to prepare you in thatsame manner. All right, go ahead,

(01:43:45):
play this running back from the beginning. Women have a hard time appreciating
men. We tend to focus onwhat isn't right instead of what is.
So we'll criticize the ten percent thatisn't working perfectly and ignore the ninety percent
that worked, and that ninety wasway more than we would have had otherwise.

(01:44:06):
Just to know God. And thatgoes into what I was saying last
week about how women think like well, I got him and he can't go
nowhere unless I sleep with somebody rightnow, realizing that that's an evil thing
and that's going to manifest itself andunder the law that right most I'm not
gonna put us in a position wherewhere you're gonna be bound to a demon

(01:44:27):
like that man for a d forreal though you said the man that fears
the Lord for an escaper, rightexactly? This has bitial is that you.
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(01:45:39):
ahead and subscribe right now. Weneed your help, helon, go ahead,
come on. Every time he didanything for you, anytime he did
anything, you treated it like agift and you expressed lots of appreciation.
See, I would tell you alot of disappointment in life comes from expectations,

(01:46:00):
just expectations, and your expectations areeither misaligned or they're too high.
And if you temper that, you'llbe disappointed less in life. And I'm
not saying that means you settle.I'm just talking about you're able to have
an awareness of where you're at andwhat needs to be done right. And
this goes back to when I earlier, when I was talking about the progression

(01:46:23):
of improving in marriages. The expectationsare too high or the expectations of how
soon it should be resolved are there, right, So if you lower those
expectations, you'll be right. Whatshe's saying is that you should look at
these things instead of as a right, as a gift. And imagine how
from the respect perspective and what aman needs right to function right, how

(01:46:46):
that's going to make him feel right? Yeah, running back just a little
bit. You treated it like agift and you expressed lots of appreciation.
Remember, appreciation is the fuel thatmotivates a man to want to do more
for you. Look at that somewhere. Appreciation is the fuel that motivates a

(01:47:09):
man to want to do more foryou. Appreciation, go ahead, come
on, and you expressed lots ofappreciation. Remember, appreciation is the fuel
that motivates a man to want todo more for you. So without appreciation,
it's all breaks and no gas.Right, that's right, right,

(01:47:29):
Well, and he runs out ofgas. That goes into like maybe maybe
I'll bring it out next week.The article that I got about the and
and there's exceptions to it, butit's like the six phases of a relationship,
especially when you're in the marriage,and how you go from that whole
euphoric thing in the beginning and thenwhat the next phase is, and then
it basically talks about how things getto remain unresolved, what it leads to,

(01:47:51):
and it's it's pretty and I wouldsay for most people that's what it's
like. There's probably some situations whereit does not have to come to that,
but most situations it kind of hasit down, Oh my goodness,
to a tea, to hey,to a t Well, we're going over
and Ephijian sorry Phi chapter five aboutthe woman and it made me think about

(01:48:14):
how husbands love your wives right asChrist also give his life. Y'all gotta
understand like Peter, Peter died andhis wife died right well, his wife.
His wife died first and was crucifiedwith Peter. So your sisters need
to get on that mindset too.Then guess what Peter's wife. I can't

(01:48:36):
forget cat what book? Do youknow what book it says that history,
No, no, I gotta findit. His wife got put to death
right next to Peter. It washis wife first. Then Peter, Peter
was crucified upside now, so yoursisters got to get on that mindset too.
Yeah, that just like yes,Christ died for his his for his

(01:48:57):
people, and we're just like Christ, and we're gonna die for our families
and our wives. You sisters,guess what you guys are gonna get put
to that too, if you believe, and you're gonna get in the right
mindset about that. Hey, andthat I'm interested that you say that I
found something that I'm gonna for afuture show. Remember how we went over
examining christ crucifixion. I got somethingthat talks about how all of the apostles

(01:49:23):
and Paul died, so to kindof put reflection on it. Can I
get scriptures real quick? Is itabout about? Yeah? Okay, Revelation
fourteen fourteen, because we should Ilet him do it. That he came
in on late like that and everything. I'm trying to show some of his
videos so we could wrap the show. Now, bring it out. I'm
messing with you. Bring it out, but I'm not messing with you.

(01:49:43):
But go ahead, bring it up. Fourteen and versus follow with whether he
goes the Book of Revelation fourteen,verse four, which were not defiled with
women, for they are virgins.These are they which follow the limb whithersoever
he goes. So they follow thelamb wherever he goes. Right, give
me John, chapter twenty one andverse nineteen. The Book of John,

(01:50:09):
chapter twenty one and verse nineteen.Yes, verse nineteen. They this spakey
signifying by what death he should glorifyGod. This talking to Christ is talking
to Peter. He's saying, Hey, you're gonna die. In verse eighteen,
he's gonna He's telling him how you'regonna die. He says, this
is the how you're gonna glorify God. The death he should glorify God.

(01:50:30):
Come on. And when he hadspoken this, he's said, that's a
him. Follow me, follow me, whether it's whoever the lamb go with,
he said, follow me. Thisis how you're gonna die. Sisters,
understand, Get on that mindset,get on that that. Get ready
for that stuff that's gonna come.Tod is of lights. Also how they
go get ready for that and theycan't even they gotta get any. Hey,

(01:50:54):
guess what you wanna? You wantthat reproach in Revelation chapter twenty one,
verse ey or you want that death, you want that second death.
Y'all gotta get on there. Yougotta get on there on the train.
That's right, that's right. Okay. So now now we're getting into the
meat and potatoes, the frankin beans, the this video of what we were

(01:51:15):
going to go into. Now,now, what was this video originally titled?
Because I know we downloaded it tome this was no destroying her ego,
destroying her ego and something about thenine reasons. No, but let's
get it. It's that the linkshould be there somewhere. I just want
the title kim wist him. It'skind of quiet, brothers speak of can

(01:51:41):
you get me a script I didwant to say, Uh, we haven't
promoted the Booster Club in a while. The Boosters club about it. Sign
up on the Booster Club, Brothersand sisters. The prophets are doing work,
The profits are out on the streetsthroughout the world. Earth up to
the Booster Club. The Book ofJob, chapter thirteen, verse fifteen,

(01:52:09):
Though he slay me yet, willI trust in him? Just to keep
in mind too, because I knowwhat officer a shot brought out as heavy
and we know that at some pointwe have to present our bodies as a
living sacrifice. Right. But thescripture says, though he slay me yet,
will I trust in him? Read? But I will maintain my own
ways before him. And that's nottalking about your own wicked ways, but

(01:52:30):
walking in God's commandments, continuing tostrive to walk pleasing in the sight of
God on this serf. So somethingto meditate on definitely provides comfort when you
got to really think about those thingsthat you'll find it. I can't find
it, Oh my goodness, Lord'swill the brothers out there being exhorted,
you know, to get their ballsback. Yeah, you know that's needed
in the meaning keeping I'm gonna sendyou your brothers this. Hey, and

(01:52:55):
shout out to I U, IC. Phoenix, the officers and soldiers
out there putting in the work.We're at forty. Continue to keep us
in prayer. Uh more more labors, those willing. This brings more labors
into the truth of us Phoenix.More brothers to come in, ancestors.
Right, I'll praise till most hyerthat brothers out there putting in work.

(01:53:19):
And it's been good. It's beengood, new new levels. Are you
still looking for it though? WhileI showed us, yes, okay,
keep looking for it, keep lookingfor it. Hey, So I want
to I want to update you off. I got to I forgot to do
this. So remember I was talkingabout the days and stuff and different things.
So so check it out, checkit out. Wait, wait,

(01:53:39):
wait, keep looking for the thing, keep looking for the thing. So
I told y'all bishop's wife, motherShamar, she watches the show every now
and then she'll, uh, youknow, hit me like, you know,
hey, this was good or whatever. She'll make a comment, uh,
And she talks to my wife andshe'll mention stuff to her. So
she sent something to my wife andshe said, hey, being that uh

(01:54:04):
deacon was going over stuff with thebdet and everything. She said, uh.
She her she found was on Instagram. She said, hey, I
found like a portable one. Shewas like, you know, I'm rethinking
this whole thing, and I said, damn, I was talking about the
wipes, right, which I wouldstill do because of the minty coolness,
right, but uh, check thisout. So I went and I started

(01:54:25):
looking online. I did not thoughthere was a thing. They have portable
travel bedeys aboum gun. This one'scalled the boom above gun. All right,
can you put it up? Isit up on the screen so they
could see it? Check this out. I don't know how serious you are
about about you about keeping your bumclean. This is gonna be my next

(01:54:46):
level for when I'm like in SouthAmerica and whatnot, because you know what
I'm saying. Well, they couldgive me like the five squares if I
got this right. Check this out. Now, you got this one and
I'll show you the other one.I got them both and I tested them
both all right, not on mybum, but just the water pressure.

(01:55:09):
All right. Okay, okay,you got this already, I asked,
because I'm gonna take it with meon the quest, and I'm gonna take
it with me when I travel fromnow on. All right, go to
the other one. I sent youtwo links, so uh, these have
good ratings, all right. Itried this one. This one is battery
operated. The water pressure is notthat great, so I didn't like.

(01:55:30):
It's not bad, but it's notthat great. Okay. But but if
you don't want to spend I mean, it's only twelve dollars more to the
other one. But let me showyou. The other one is rechargeable USB
B is USBC recharge the cool right, Because I have the beday at home,
like the one that you put onthe toilet and whatnot, and that
thing is crazy. But sometimes Ibe traveling, I miss my But that's

(01:55:54):
let me sell you. That's onething I miss. There's one hotel we
stayed in Ecuador that they have onelike with the holes on the side,
right, so that that's legit.But I'm talking about like I'm straight gonna
fill this up with water before Ileave the damn hotel room. And if
I got to do one out inthe facilities, this one is legit.
Bro It has two You have thewide spread and you could do the concentrated

(01:56:15):
spray. So this is how Itested it. I had like some you
know when you got like food inthe sink, right, I was testing
to see if it moved. Thefood moved. It moved it perfect like
yep, down into the trash compactor. So I said, okay, this
how is gonna work. Moved thefood into into the into the trash compactor.
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two strengths, so it has highand legit. And this one has a
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bottles too, the regular water.So the water hit the camp that be
all cold in the ice chest.If I'm in Mexico, I gotta do.
You can take one of those andquench the fire and quench the fire

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from the hot from the hot chilasthat you had. You can sleek,
slick and discreen. Now is itthe squire this push the squeeze one to
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Watch the price go because they weregonna buy it. But I got

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mine already, so I'm straight inmy car. I got my bound.
Legit, bro legit, all right, take that off the suit, take
that off the screen. I wantto update y'all if you want to go
find the bum gun is dope it? Oh no, you gott I found
the name. Okay, So what'sthe name. We're gonna start this video.
We're not gonna finish it. We'regonna start some of it because I

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think we started it last time.They we didn't finish it. No,
we didn't even start it. No, we didn't. Previous, preview,
previous. So nine Golden rules toshow dominance, all right, brothers,
and maybe we just call it that. Next week, I don't know,
we'll see or the Golden Rules toto show down because maybe maybe we come
up with more than nine. Yes, right, So all of this leading

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up and then next week will bea part three, but we won't call
it part three. We'll change thetitle a little bit. Lowis will life
last? Okay? And uh,we're gonna go over some of these things
because this is what's important. Becausehere's why I tell you why it's important.
And some might look at this andthink it's chauvinistic and stuff like that.
It's not in any way. AndI'm gonna tell you why. It's
not going back to what we saidabout the power of the agency that the

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woman had over her head and herdesire to her husband. Brothers. This
is gonna help you stand out rightmore as a man. Get Timothy's again,
how to rule over you the Bookof One Timothy, chapter three and
verse five. For men know nothow to rule his own house? How
shall he take care of the Churchof God? Right? And part of

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that is also the right. Ittalks about having the children, but it
talks about the wife being in subjectionas well. Right. And as a
man, you gotta get your ballsback because it might not even be your
wife that has them. You gotto realize that growing up in this world
with that feminist movement, gosh,I got well maybe maybe we'll segue into
that too next week. I don'tknow. Now, I got the four

(01:59:19):
ways of feminism that never went overand stuff like that, talking about the
dating and stuff, so a lotof stuff. Yeah, it's good though,
right, It's better than not havinganything. Right. So you got
the you got, uh, yougotta be able to rule your own house
well. And this is where kindof if you can also kind of present

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yourself this way. What it doesis there's something on the spiritual level that
that will activate in the woman tobe led by that as well. Right
now, I'm not saying it'll befool proof, Okay, especially if you've
been with your wife for a whileand she starts seeing you make these changes.
Initially. I know we were talkingabout it for the children. Right,

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Your wife is headstrong because you haven'tput these things into yet house,
right, you haven't. Right whenit talks about the horse, right,
not broken, right, So therehas to be a breaking process. But
if you're consistent in these behaviors,there's something in your spirit that's gonna speak
to her feminine spirit that's gonna bringthis thing. It's kind of like those

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comedies and stuff where I'll give youan example. Maybe this is old people
might have seen, because this isthe best one that I have in my
head. Uh, what's the flickwith Arnold Schwarzenegger that he was with Jamie
Lee Curtis and it was true Lies, True Lies, True Life. That's
a great that's a great Swartz niggermovie, True Lies. Yeah, maybe
the special effects haven't lived up toso he was pretending that he was like

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a dorky computer salesman type of guy, and then she was being seduced by
this other guy who was actually reallya geek but would pretend that he was
macho and stuff, and she waslike drawn to that, so she thought
her husband was like whatever. Anyway, long story short, I don't want
to spoil the whole movie for you. I mean, it's obvious from the
beginning, so it's not really spoilinganything. She eventually finds out that's the

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pointside of the movie, that he'slike the secret agent or whatever like that,
and it kind of excites her andturns her on, and like he
didn't really know that she wanted thatand he didn't And it's kind of like
a satire and wrapped in an actionflick of kind of that whole feminist thing
that you know, women doesn't wantthis. She wants a man like this
and that. And I'm telling youwomen, women want a man that's gonna
lead them, and you know,and not in a not in a crassway,

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right, yeah, not in acrassway, but they want that authority,
right Like you have women out herethat lead me when I want to
be left, lead me when Iwant to be left, right, or
they want like a softer man andstuff like that. But deep down,
that feminine spirit wants that masculine spiritto lead them, like I said,

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but not in a crassway, butnot in a crassway. Right, and
again then there's variations to that,right, like what you build in the
relationship with your with your spouse.Right. But ahead, let's play this.
We'll play a little bit of thisbefore we move to wrap up.
All right, I don't want tokeep late, all right, go ahead,
come on. Women are put ondigital pedestals getting praised just for existing.

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Imagine the ego boost if that wereyou stop. So it's true like
a lot of these sisters will That'swhy some of them they like to post
the pictures or to play the foodand all this other stuff. Right,
maybe they're getting a whole bunch ofpraise at work. They get this ego
boost, and it makes them feellike out of this world. Right,
this goes into the whole thing whereyou know where we went over, like

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your husband is your boss, notyour boss at work. You know,
we've gotten through countless examples of thatstuff. But they'll they'll get this thing
because maybe they're performing well at workor whatever it is, and their head
is gassed, so it's harder forthem to receive what you're trying to do
at home. So, but especiallyonline, you know, they get these

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likes and this and that and whatever. You know, they'll throw these pictures
up, and they'll do these storiesand all this other stuff, and a
lot of it is just vanity.Right, hey, come on set the
balance. You'll be lost in hersea of online admirers. In this guide,
we unveil the nine rules to keepher ego in check. Number one,
recognizing your value as a diligent,hard working man, constantly pushing the

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boundaries and bettering yourself, you naturallystand apart from individuals who simply coast through
life, relying solely on their looks. Stop exactly. So, there's value
in having that type of discipline,right where not only do you have goals,
because we've gotten over this where aman who game you and talk about

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goals and then you learn that heactually just has ideas, not goals,
because a goal, by its natureis something that you actually work towards.
String too. What people think aregoals are just ideas. Is they talk
about that a someday they might wantto do, and then you wind up
being sorely disappointed because he sounded goodwhen he was trying to get into the

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panties, right, and he wastelling you, you know, all the
oh yeah, yeah, I wantto do this and I want to do
that, And what he meant was, Oh, that's what I daydream about.
But I didn't mean I was reallygonna do anything like that, you
know what I'm saying. So youknow that's like Kanye was like, oh,
look at that ambition, right,Like he sounded like he sounds like
he ambitious, and then you realizehe's not. He was just right exactly.

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You got him from wish dot comsomething about superiority but recognizing your own
value and not diminishing it for someoneelse. As he goes stop, so
he said, the first step tokeep her ego in check is to recognize
your value and don't diminish yourself.So that also goes into like that scarcity

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mindset. Don't think that there aren'tsisters out there for you, right,
don't think that because you gotta beable to realize that you're a kind of
first fruits, the scripture says,and that means that you're near and dear
to God. Right, that flockof that pasture are men. And if
you're doing everything that's prescribed in thescriptures that the Most High requires of you

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as a man, there is agreat place for you in the kingdom of
heaven. And while you might notget that honor here, just know that
you will get that honor then shouldyou endure. That's what that Isaiah for
is really going into, right,it was recognize your value, right,
recognize your own value, your ownrecognize your own value a golden God,

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not again, not crass, notarrogantly. That goes into that confidence when
we spoke about that right that there'sa confidence in a man that you could
tell when he's a phonio, whenhe's really confident, or you can tell
where his confidence stems from insecurity,right, like this whole thing of like,
and don't overestimate your value. Thedifference between confidence and arrogance is humility,

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right, right, exactly, Sorecognize your value. That's the first
step in you getting your balls backis recognize your value and how special you
really are, and then how muchmore you can build upon that and be
even better. And it doesn't meanthat you don't appreciate the wife or the

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sister that you're proving, but youreally need to know and maintain that goes
into pre eminence. Can we getthat right? Well, they get that
first. You said crass, crass, crass c r A s S.

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Crass. I'm taking notes, right, So crass is it says lacking intentivity,
refinement or intelligence. Okay, right, yeah, right, okay,

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go ahead read that. This isthe Book of Sarah, chapter thirty three,
Verse twenty two. In all thyworks, keep to thyself the pre
eminence, right, So recognize yourvalue. That's what that's really going into.
In all your works, keep tothyself the pre eminence this morn neck.
Yes, leave not a stain inthine honor, Leave not a stain
in your honor. Reigning your nameis all you got, so you got

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to build yourself up and maintain thatreputation. Right. Pre Eminence doesn't just
mean your authority, It means youYou you move in a confidence as a
man, like I said. Evenother men can sense it and they don't
feel threatened by it. They wantto be around people like that because they
know that you guys can help elevateeach other to go through those type of
things. It's not a competition thing. That's part of the crassness, the

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arrogance of it. Right, Ohyou know I'm a ten or whatever it
is, right, yeah, butwhat does that really mean? Are you
really why because of looks? Well, you might be a piece of shit
and everything else. Right, Soyou got to kind of bring that,
recognize your value, but don't putso much value on that to not think

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that there are other things that needto do or that you don't need to
keep building yourself up. But thatgoes into maintaining that pre eminence. Okay,
go ahead, come on. There'sa perception out there that many women,
unfortunately view an average man as beneaththem. They often dismiss genuine individuals,
labeling them as average or even simps. But isn't it intriguing how society

(02:08:37):
shouts foul when the roles reverse.Factually speaking, there's a term in dating
dynamics called hypergaming. Essentially, itrefers to the idea that women are naturally
inclined to be with men they perceiveto be of higher status. If she
sees you as her equal or worsebelow her level, her interest dwindles stop.
So you hear it so that wholefifty to fifty thing and all this

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other stuff. Right. No,they even even the heavy chick basically showed
you she's hyper gaming, right shesaid, no, I don't even if
he is out there, I don'twant somebody bigger than me. She's looking
she's looking for that for that value. Right. So he says this,
women have this thing and and andthis is what I'm telling you. It's
spiritual. They have these terms forit, but it's spiritual. You gotta

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be able to move in your preeminence confidently, genuinely. Notice the terms
you use. Weren't that back alittle bit? That? This is why
I say it's not crass or arrogant. It's not contrived. You gotta be
it, and you gotta believe it, not just act like it. Right,
go ahead, come on. Butisn't it intriguing how society shouts foul
when the roles reversed. Factually speaking, there's a term in dating dynamics called

(02:09:43):
hyper game act. Essentially, itrefers to the go give me another one
one more? Yeah. I thinkit's therese who simply coast through life relying
solely on their looks. This isisn't about superiority, but recognizing your own
value and not diminishing it for someoneelse's ego. There's a perception out there

(02:10:05):
that many women, unfortunately view anaverage man as beneath them. They often
dismiss genuine individuals, labeling them asaverage or even simps. Stop. So
he says genuine. So you're you'rekeeping to yourself the pre eminence you're recognizing
your value has to be genuine.It's not a puffed up sense of right,

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That's what I'm saying. Like,you know, okay, so maybe
you're attractive, but your piece ofshit and everything else, So what do
you have to really be confident in? Right? Like, there has to
be more substance to it. Right, a complete man is thoroughly furnished into
all good works. Right, andthat has a lot. And you have
a strong foundation by just being bornin Israelite that has that chance to repent

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and be a first fruit to God. Right, you have a strong foundation
and that you're keeping the commandments andthings like that. But then there's other
things that go with it, right, and it has to be genuine.
It can't be something where you justwell, let me act like I'm the
shit. No, you got tobeat a shit. You know what I'm
saying. Go ahead, come on. So a woman can devalue, devalue

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you if she sees you as averageor a simple yes, go ahead,
come on. Isn't it intriguing howsociety shouts foul when the roles reverse.
Factually speaking, there's a term indating dynamics called hypergaming. Essentially, it
refers to the idea that women arenaturally inclined to be with men they perceive
to be of higher status. Ifshe sees you as her equal or worse,

(02:11:28):
below her level, her interest dwindles. So stop, So he says,
if she sees you as her equalor below her level, her interests
will dwindle in you, right andyou know, it's kind of like whatever,
so on and so forth. Nowthat don't mean that she's worth it,
but that's how she sees things.So it'll behoove you as a man,
and part of getting your balls backis to kind of move in that

(02:11:50):
pre eminence. Right ahead, comeon. Pular narrative is that everyone's equal
and on a fundamental human level,that's accurate, but in terms of life's
achievements and personal growth, it's unrealistic. To think everyone's on the same page,
right, you know the way we'reequal in that, in that and
that we all die like men,all right, And that's the only thing

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that it's not equal. There's differentcaliber of men. Look at the kings
in Israel. What did the scripturessay? There was like there was like
three good ones, all but threedeparted from h all but three, damn
all but three. The rest weretrash, all of them the right.
Okay, come on, think aboutit. After grinding hours at the gym,

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holding down a demanding job, andeven juggling aside hustle, do you
view the perpetual couch potato in grossedin video games as your counterpart? You
might say yes to avoid controversy,but deep within you acknowledge the disparity.
Now apply the same logic to anattractive woman who sold card to play.
Is her looks stop? And that'swhat that's all a lot of these sisters
got. And that served them sowell in this feminist movement that they think

(02:13:03):
the box is something magical to beglorified version putting the pe on pedestal.
Right, So I'm gonna stop herebecause we'll we'll we'll put some Pussalaya in
play next week. All right,but this is kind of the vein of
thought of what the next episode isgonna be going into. Okay, so,

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uh, I pray everybody got someunderstanding that you got some juice off
of this. Uh, go aheadand check out a U I see Denver
after this. All right? Yougot Captain gadd on the Natives Hour.
All right, he'll be going livedirectly after we signed off. And we're
gonna continue on with this topic Rember. We got nine of them. We're
still dealing with the first one,all right, So take up pretty much

(02:13:50):
the breadth of the show next week. And like I said, these next
few episodes, I've been trying tobuild. I'm trying not to leave the
threads out there. I'm trying tobuild, build and build back to kind
of the men building themselves up andmoving forward. All right, Let's not
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them, were the salt of theearth. Ai Hey, and we've been
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