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Hello, lovely people. This isNicole and this is Samantha. With the
power of We, we are hereto switch it up and teach you about
business relationships and how to not onlysurvive, but make it in Los Angeles.
In each episode, we will havetop influential guests from the world of
real estate. We work hard,we stage hard, and we get it
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done the power of we. Samantha, Hello, my daughter, How are
you today? I am so goodtoday, feeling good, feeling great and
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happy. How are you? Iam feeling incredible? I have the miracle
mentality? Yeah, what's less?Oh my god? Everything that I believe
in is gonna happen to me.Can you believe that? Can I have
some of it? Yes? Andit has happened to me. Haven't you
noticed? You're born? I amshaking today. I can't even tell you.
We have a lot of great guestson here, but today I don't
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even know where to be. It'syour favorite. Oh my god, you're
saying that on favor. Just behonest, Yes, it is my favorite.
He is changing my life. That'sthrough the world. He is changing
the world. And I mean,we are so lucky. This magic man
has We just went to see himthis weekend on at Aspire. Yeah,
and it was like he stole thewhole show. I'm just gonna say it.
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Oh my god. Anyway, let'stalk about who it is. This
is Tim's story. He's globally recognizedauthor, speaker, and life strategist,
renowned for his groundbreaking concept of themiracle mentality. Through his best selling books
and motivational talks, he empowers individualsworldwide to transcend setbacks and realize their full
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potential. Welcome Tim's story. Ohgoodness, what do you mean. You
know, I got so excited tosee you guys at the Aspire Tour.
But wasn't it fun though too?Oh no, it's so fun. She's
never been and Dosha has never been, and they're like, you know,
oh, I have to get upearly. And then I went to get
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coffee and she's like, mom,get in here, forget the coffee.
You're not gonna believe. I mean, it was so inspiring and just like
the energy there. Everyone was soexcited, motivated, and you were right
about the first speaker. Yes,Tim Grover. I mean the fact that
Tim Grover he coached Kobe Bryant andMichael Jordan, not just as a mental
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coach but also as a strength coach, and he knows how to take people
to the next level. That's agift right there. Yes, I mean
you know how to take people tothe next But I feel like I did
extra better because both of you werethere. Oh I love it. Yeah,
Well we were like they have neverbeen. Sam screaming like she was
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screaming, like freaking out. Everyone'slike, wow, No, I mean
you stole the stage. Come inand here's the thing. It's you and
I love this. It's so powerpowerful. Listen to this. I'm like,
I'm listening, you'll go give memore. So a lot of what
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I do on stage is instinctual.So I've never studied like speakers. The
only people I've ever studied is comediansbecause I think that many speakers that they're
very robotic and they all sound thesame. So I didn't want to mess
up my craft by studying them.So I still don't study them. But
I've learned from the greatest comedians inthe world. I mean I go way
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back, so you could go backto Uh, there's a guy, remember
George Carlin. He was super superfunny. Bill Cosby before I love before
he got in so much trouble.But then you have but he was funny.
Yeah, but then you have guyslike Richard Pryor and obviously today Kevin
Hart. You have and you workfor this funny right, Yes, but
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also let me tell you something.Who's who's better on stage? And people
realize is Jerry Seinfeld? Hilarious?I was still seeing him on my TikTok.
He's super good on stage. SoI study comedians because a comedian they
time themselves that within every minute anda half they're going for a laugh.
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So if you know what I do, is that Like let's say if I'm
speaking thirty minutes, yep, SoI do like fifteen different segments. People
don't know what I'm up to.Like I do like a two minute segment
pause, there's an energy, thenI shift segments boom. So it might
be a story I tell that makesa lot of quo the subject that I'm
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on. But you know what,it's like, I want to hear the
next thing. And with my addI'm usually oh my god, I gotta
get up or do something. YeI'll get a coffee and you're like hey,
hey, I'm like okay, nowwhat he's gonna say, yeah,
I mean right, No, youwere amazing. You were like glued to
your seat. But it's very,very organic. So I overstudy. So
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for thirty minute talk, I studyat least twenty hours. No, that's
incredible, and so at that pointit's coming out of my pores. It's
just so you study. What soyou say, you say that to me,
and I'm like, and I don'tstudy at all. And I literally
have to tell you I have asurprise. I ordered your book without without
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my assistant. I did it allby myself. There is all myself says
I'm gonna actually read, and I'vebeen I'm like, this is my first
thing. I'm going to study,and you're going to sign it for me.
You have one of my best assistants, Dasha's a great assistant. And
the fact that she did order thisright is this amazing. I mean,
this is impress huge for me.I mean, I can't remember the last
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book I read. It was definitelya love story. Showed at the audience
one more time. This is amust have. I'm telling you right now.
What do you think about the picture? So very handsome? What do
you guys think I was in ahandsome mood that day. Yeah, I'm
super What were you thinking about whenyou took this picture? I was thinking
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about both of you. Tell himthe smile. You know, he's good
with people when he says that.No, it's just like you know,
I mean, I'm going to say, I start just I have four coaches.
Do you know that? Four?And when we had you a long
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time ago on the Power for You, there was some kind of connection.
I was like, one day,I was like going through it, I'm
like, I'm just not getting whereI want. I'm always like I get
bored easy. Yes, and Irealize that. So I'm always starting a
new company or doing something new orhiring, you know, new coaches.
And so when I started thinking aboutwhat you're about and how you're really believe
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in what you do and your heartis so big, I don't feel like
you're doing it for money. Ifeel like you're really doing it to help
people. And that's why I startedmy company. Yes, And so I
like connected with you, and Iwas like I was nervous. I'm like,
okay, I'm gonna call him.And then you took me on and
I can already see a switch onhere. Yeah, I can see it
too, because a lot of peopledon't realize is a lot of coaching that
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I do. I do it onthe humanitarian side, the humanitarian levels.
So I continue to go to rehabs. That's amazing. Almost every week of
my life I'm in a rehab.I continue to go to other facilities where
people are challenged. I continue towork in prison reform. Years ago,
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Robert Downey Junior, who's my greatfriend, I brought a few U was
together and we started to do somethings in prison reform. I continue to
do that. So on the coachingside, the only reason I even charge
is so the people will show upbecause what used to happen is I'm so
good hearted. I'd be ready tocoach a guy on zoom. It's eight
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am. Guy doesn't show up,Then the next guy nine am doesn't show
up. So my people that arearound me, like the smart people that
would say, you know, Tim, my god, I mean, for
what you're giving people, you needto keep the standard high, and when
you put a price tag on it, they show up. I have to
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ask you this one thing, andthen you can ask questions. But what
did you learn from Oprah? Yeah? Well, what I continue to learn
because she's one of my best friends. So one of the things I continue
to learn from Oprah is she isa walking library. So Oprah is into
what is called the growth mindset.There's a difference between a mindset, which
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means you just stick yourself at acertain place, and it growth mindsets,
which means you want to continue togrow. Okay, So Oprah is a
friend of mine that loves to growand grow and grow and grow. So
when we have conversations, it's amazing. She's Oprah Winfrey. Probably seventy percent
of the talk is Tim, whatdo you think about this? Tim?
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What do you think about that?What are your thoughts about this situation?
And she's already Oprah. I mean, she's a multi billion dollar lady,
So I learned that from her.But I also learn that she is not
trying to hit singles in life.She's only really going for home runs.
Yah. Yeah, that is forsure, But it seems like you're about
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to hit a home run as well. Yes, I think that I've been
fortunate, but I think most ofthat is the people that I've surrounded myself.
Now, this is such an importanttopic. I'm so glad, especially
because my daughter's here. Yes,because I think you could be around the
right you could be the right person, and you can have the right plan,
but you need the right partners.So I do think that I'm good
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at what I do in the areaspeaking and coaching. I've worked hard.
I have a doctorate degree and soon the educational level, I worked hard,
but I needed the right partners inmy life to really get me to
elevate me. And that's where I'vebeen fortunate since my twenties, where it
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was people who said, we gotto put you on this platform, we
got to introduce you to these people. So that's one reason you always see
me. I'm very laid back,right, Yeah, Like I don't come
in with an entourage. I don'thave an attitude. Thank God. I
love that about you. Thank you, because I really think that it's taking
people like even you two to helpput me in certain environments where I could
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help more people. Well that's Imean, especially about the attitude and all
my that. So what I gotfrom your when I heard speak at Aspire
was you talk a lot about likenot sitting in the setback and coming I
feel like it's a mentality, right, So what is that like mental shift
that you're talking about that makes peoplelike not sit in their come like their
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setback. Yeah, go forward.So number one, great question. What
happens is that there's times in ourlives that we have momentum. A momentum
is an energy or force. Okay, So like you're her mother, even
though you look like the older sister, but so you know when she was
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younger, she had a certain momentumto her. Correct Okay, give me
a time in her life where youthink she had a lot of momentum.
I don't know if it was likethe third grade, fourth grade, fifth
grade, eighth grade, it wasin positive okay, it was in high
school. She joined the flying whatis that called the flying team, and
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she had a lot of she wasteaching herself to be a flyer, and
like, I wish I could havedone that. And I saw a lot
of momentum in you, even thoughI don't know if you felt that,
Okay, I thought, so nowlet's reverse it, so to your mom,
what was the time in her lifewhere you feel like she had a
lot of momentum. A lot ofmomentum could be in business, could be
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in a relationship. I would sayafter your second divorce, when I saw
you like really focus on yourself andyour career, like you really like thrived
and you really just like pushed yourselfin business, Okay, spiritually everything.
Okay, So here's what happens.So there are times in her life where
we had this momentum, this force, this energy. What usually happens is
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a life disturbance. Okay. Adisturbance is like something alarms you, shakes
you. It's like a knock onthe door of something that we really did
not order. Okay. So itcould be an illness, it could be
a bad relationship, it could bean emotional challenge. It could be a
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whole pandemic that hit the whole world. So when there is a life disturbance
or life interruption, most people donot know how to handle it. So
what happens to them is they havea set back. So let's break down
the words set back, because I'vebeen teaching on it for thirty years.
To set something means to fix it, to lock it, to solidify it.
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Watch how powerful this is. Sowhen you set back, you lock
yourself in a behind position. Soeven today, somebody recognized me in the
hotel that I was just in andthey said, oh Tim's story. How
are you doing. I'm a bigfan. And I was talking and so
they were talking about life and Isaid, how are you doing? And
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they said, I'm doing okay.But I just went through a divorce.
So I said how long ago wasit? And they said four years ago.
I said, so it's really notlike you just went through the divorce.
Because I was going to life coachher on purpose, and she goes,
I know, but it still stingsa lot. I said, but
if you're not careful, you're goingto sit in the setback and you're going
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to settle in the setback. Yeah, that makes sense. I you know
what happened. She actually started tocry. She got tears. She goes,
oh my god, I've never heardthat in my life. That's incredible.
And I said, so, Isaid, let's practice something. Because
I was waiting for my car tobe pulled up. I said, when
people ask you are you are yousingle? Are you married? What do
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you say? She goes, Isay, I'm divorced. I said,
let's try it again. I said, are you singlear married? She goes,
I'm divorced. I go, no, let's take that out. That's
powerful love that because you now labeledyourself. So when I say if you're
single or married, you are singlefor four years, right, So I
need to know you're single because whenyou say you're divorced, you are setting
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yourself in your setback. And it'salso a negative word. Divorce. I
hate that word, yes, andI used to never say that word.
So divorce me to watch divided force. So you can get divorced even as
a mother and daughter, because Iknow siblings, they get divorced, brothers
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and daughters, sons and their fathers. People in the job forced, they
can get divorced divided force. Soto sit in the setback is not what
we want. No, to answeryour question, to settle, settle means
oh my god, I've been throughall this stuff. So now you're living
in what I call the land ofokay. How's your life? Okay,
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how's your job? Okay? Werefuse to live in the land of okay.
No, hell no, right,hell to hell No, I won't
go. I mean, so youthink, like the way you speak,
like kind of manifests how you feelin a sense. But I gotta I
have to get you to the pointwhere you actually believe what you see.
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Ye, Can I tell you howthis works? Yes? Okay, So
if you decide to go on likeyou start to become keto like you eat,
you're all about keto, or orif you become like a vegetarian.
So there's people that I know thatthey are like partially convinced that they should
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go on these certain type stop smoking. Yeah okay, So but what I
need people to get when I'm coachingpeople is a revelation. So if someone's
going to do a certain type ofregimen or even stop smoking, we'll stay
on that one for a second.I need you to get a revelation on
why smoking is not good for you. Because watch how powerful this is.
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A revelation leads to conviction. Soit drops twelve inches from your mind,
into your soul and into your heart. Wow. So when it goes from
here to here, gah, yougot it. Revelation, conviction leads to
action, the revelation to action.Yes, that actually it's very cool powerful.
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Yeah, it's like it's like whenI watched the Arnold Schwarzenegger series that
he has like a long documentary,he said there was a time in his
life where he just got like arevelation and decided to become Arnold Schwarzenegger.
And so so to all of usthat are talking right now, we've all
had a time in our life wherewe decided, you know what, I'm
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not going to damn be normal,and you got a revelation led the conviction,
led the action. So let's goto you first. When was there
a time in your life that yougot a revelation that you were not just
going to be normal? After Igot divorced from her father, I was
like, I am not going tosit here in Calabasas. I'm going to
make something in my life and I'mgoing to show people that they can have
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careers, women can have careers instaging. And thank you very much,
and you're one of the best inthe world, not just in California.
Okay, okay, how about foryou? Did you got a revelation revelation
watched? It could be from uh, you were chubby, or you were
too skinny, or you were datingthe wrong guy, or you decided.
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I feel like I've had many likemini revelations. The biggest one was I
went through a really hard, likeI don't know, like assault that happened
to me and it made me realizethat I needed to like change the people
I was surrounding myself with one andjust focus on myself. And it made
me realize that I can, likeI can decide who I want to be
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going forward. Okay, you wantto hear mine? Yes? So mine
was in the fourth grade. Sowe had been I'd been born in Compton,
California, which is an inner city. Okay, down the line,
we moved to a place called Whittier, California. So I was the only
chocolate kid in the whole school.Wow. So but it was elementary school,
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but I was the only chocolate kid. So what happened is in the
fourth grade, they had these desksthat you would share. Okay, I
was next to a girl and she'sCaucasian and I'm sitting there. I was
very likable. People liked who Iwas. It was my first time just
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being to the school, but youknow, I was already nice to people
at that time. Well, shewas there and she seemed very nervous the
whole time that she was next tome for three days. Well, what
had happened? Her parents were prejudiced, so they made her leave that desk
and she moved she changed desks.But it was interesting because the teacher left
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that seat open because out of thethree students that they he asked, all
three said we can't do it becausecrazy prejudice was still real. Yeah,
so teachers so liked me. Thisis when I was in fourth grade.
But let's not give away my age. Come if we throw a year as
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if we throw it a year,then we get to age. But watch
how powerful this is. The teacherliked me so much that she pulled me
aside and she says, Timmy,you're used to being around a different culture.
This isn't now a different culture thatyou're in, meaning you come from
a black and Hispanic culture. Nowyou're mainly amongst Caucasian people. The reason
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these people are not sitting next toyou is because they the way they see
you race. She literally said thatto me in fourth grade. She says,
but I'm no because I want totell you why. She said,
I want to just commend you becauseI think you already know this. I
say, yeah, I do knowthis. I said because I have an
older sister, and I explain whathappened. And my older sister said it's
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probably racial. And she said,but Timmy, You're going to go through
this through your whole life. Andso the way I handled that was like,
okay, bless her heart. Iwas never mean to that girl that
left because I didn't know the otherones that it said that they didn't want
to sit next to me. Butwhat happened to me is it flipped the
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switch in me and I just smiled. I just smiled. So I faced
racism my entire life and I justsmile. But I smile, and I
think to myself, bless your heart, because one day you're going to wish
you sat next to little Timmy.Yeah they're wor right now. Yeah,
trust meetin they're probably in the audiencethat aspired, going wow, that was
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one of my revelations. I wasjust like, bless your heart. That's
amazing, amazing, it is.I believe that. I think we have
a lot of revelations actually, andyou know, once the thing about life
is so strange to me. Andthat's why I'm excited about starting education because
you know, like I started mycompany and then you know, I got
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divorced and then you know, itwasn't going good and I had to like
the pandemic hit and I had tostart all over again. And then I
started all over again, and thenI get to a certain point I'm like,
oh, now what do I do? I always need to be moving.
I need that energy you're talking about. I love that. I crave
that energy. Yeah. Can wetalk a little bit about the miracle mentality.
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That's exactly what I Okay, sohere's what I think. I think
the miracle mentality is innate. Ithink that all three of us here we
were given the miracle mentality at birthbecause I believe that we're made in the
image of God, in the likenessof God, and that I think that
the utmost God did not create almostchildren. Now that's a tim story line,
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right, So most God did notcreate almost children. So we have
a miracle mentality now. So,because I love to research, it has
been proven that children think magical thoughts. Every child. So some have tried
to challenge me when I've said that. They said, well, I was
a depressed child, yeah, andI hated my house. And I'll say,
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okay, so let's break this down. Well, I hated my mother,
I hated my father. They wereabusive, that I said, but
did you ever think of escaping?Did you ever think of running away?
Did you ever think how that wouldbe? And they go yes, I
said, Okay, that's you thinkingmagical thoughts. You thought, how would
it be when I get the hellout of here? Exactly? So they
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were thinking like, there is athere is a place I care something better.
Well, there's something better I know. That's why I'm always like that.
I'm like, okay, I'm thiscompany isn't big enough. I'm not
doing this enough. I always wantto get better. And that's why I'm
so excited you're talking about this.Yeah, okay, So watch so the
miracle mentality is inside of you.We have to break down the word mentality.
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The mentality means mindset, frame ofmind, and disposition. So that
is your mentality. So we havefound that the mindset is ours to set.
Okay, so let's go through bothof your lives for a second.
Let's pretend i'm life coaching you.Okay, where did you learn how to
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have a better mindset as a child? My father? Okay, tell me
about it. So my father wasvery powerful, and when I would come
home and i'd have a bad day, you know what he'd say to me,
what tomorrow is another day? Okay? See I'm loving that, and
that stuck to me. And evenwhen I got divorced, I would be
like, Okay, I can dothis. I can start a company.
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Even if I don't make money,I'll do it the next day. I'll
continue. I don't stop until Ido whatever I need to do. Okay
for you. My grandpa, sameperson. He always said like just have
fun. Wow. Yeah so yourfather so is her grandfather? Yeah so
he had this way about him.Yeah, yes, okay, and he
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even meditated back then he would beone hundred now he even would sit and
meditate when wow, I mean wemeditate now, I mean we learned like
ten years ago. But he wouldsit and meditate and be like what are
you doing? Yeah? So againthe mindset is yours. Just set to
watch. So you have a miraclementality? What is a miracle? Watch?
How beautiful this is? It issomething extraordinary, uncommon, not regular,
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and not the norm. That's bothof you. Okay, you're both
uncommon, not regular, not thenorm. But what's going to happen to
both of your lives and just someonelike myself and all you that are watching,
is it situations, circumstances and peopleare going to try to limit you
mm hmm okay, so we haveto continue to push that away. And
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how do you know when that's happening. That's so good, that's so good.
Okay. The way you know what'shappening is you feel it's happening.
It's almost like being in a goodmood and you're in the airport and then
all of a sudden, you godown this whole aisleway. Okay, you
go through the bridge, and nowyou get on this airplane and all of
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a sudden, it gets smaller.It's limited. Okay, But how about
if you're not in first class,but you're sitting the coach in the center
seat. Watch how powerful this is. So now you're in the center seat.
Okay, this is this is howmost people live. Watch they are
in the center seat of I can'tstand my marriage, my kids are acting
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up, my job is but andit's like Southwest Airlines, they just wait
for the peanuts to come right.Oh my god, this is so true.
This is so true. It's sofunny. It's so true. But
then when you like, when you'reon stage, it was like everything that
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came out of your mouth was sopowerful and so positive, mind and listen,
so many people don't even think positiveever. Yeah, I mean even
you know, even when she wasin high school, the kids were like
negative, negative, negative, Andthen they start thinking, what's the disposition
part? Yes, So the disposition. So the disposition or the position in
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which we set ourselves has to dowith our mindset, the way we view
life. Okay. So like,for instance, okay, there's challenges in
the world. There's challenges, evenin the housing market. There's challenges.
Even in the companies that you do. There's challenges the companies that I do.
So the disposition of a miracle mentalitymindset, like the three of us
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have, is we say that isfor other people. Yeah, okay,
sure there's a problem, but I'mgoing to handle it different. Yeah okay.
It's like if someone comes to meand says, do you know,
Tim, there's a recession coming.You know what I would say back,
Oh, I've decided not to participatein this one. Did you just hear
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what? I get it? Iget it, I'm not participating. That
was me during pandemic. Everyone wasfreaking out and I was like, I
don't care. My coach is methat I'm essential. So I'm going to
I'm on another level. Yeah,I'm thinking yeah, yeah, more magical.
Yeah, and how do I getthere? Okay? Steps number one
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you got to believe, believe,Okay. Number two you have to expect,
expect, and then you have tolearn to receive, and then you
become a miracle and then you releasemiracles. So believe to believe in something
is like the more you're around eachother, right, you learn to believe
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in the things you know they cancome through with, and then you begin
to wonder at the things that youdon't know if they can come up with.
Like, for instance, if shewould tell you as a child,
don't worry mom, I'm going tobe home at ten, you're thinkings of
oh, okay, she usually sherolls in about eleven or twelve. Makes
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sense, Yeah, all right.So the more we build our faith,
we learn to believe in that thing. Okay. So I believe in the
power of mindset. So my beliefgoes from believe to expect. So because
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of my miracle mentality by studying somuch, I go from believing to expecting.
Expecting means you are leaning forward waitingfor something to happen. It's very
powerful. Can I give you anexample. Yes, all right, So
there's something called Amazon Prime. Sothere's Amazon, then there's Amazon Prime.
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Crazy. Amazon Prime is oh mygod, I got Amazon Prime. I
was going to be here and I'mat ten Okay, Brittany, how do
you know that because I have AmazonPrime. Okay. So if there's a
girl named Brittany and Amazon Prime issupposed to show up at ten o'clock,
gets what Britney's going to do.She's going to open the door of her
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apartment at ten am, and she'sgoing to be really bothered if that package
is not there. Okay, youshould get to the point of your life
where you so believe that you openthe door of life waiting for the package
to be delivered. Damn, that'spowerful. Damn you just killed it.
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Oh my god. Well, youknow what. To be honest with you,
you are telling me I'm gonna dothis, so I'm gonna do that.
I'm gonna do this, and everytime I see you, you're like,
guess what I'm doing it? Andthat's powerful. Yeah, But I
only tell you what I'm going todo because I like you. We're friends
to other people. I live ina mystery on purpose, Like I remember
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when I was in seminary and someof the guys were saying, what are
you going to do? But Icould tell they were jealous. Yep,
that's the thing. I'm waiting forit to happen. I'm expecting it to
happen. Okay, thank you.So I would say to them, well,
you never know, you know,step by step. I'm just trying
to get things going. But ifif I speak to another dreamer, see,
a dreamer knows a dreamer, there'sa frequency interesting, a miracle mentality
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knows American mentality. So to peoplethat don't get it, I whisper.
To people who get it, Ishout. So that's so powerful. Actually,
can you say that again? Yeah, to people who don't get it,
I whispered. To people get it, I shout. So one time
I was talking to justin Timberlake andhe was still in in sync and he
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was calling me mister story. Hesaid, mister story, I'm going to
tell you right now. He said, I'm thinking about doing this. He
did it. I'm thinking about doingthat. He did it. I'm thinking
about going into acting. He didit. Yeah, but he said it
in a way with confidence and ashout. You know why, because he
trusted who I am. So whenI have been flowing with Kanye West since
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two thousand and six, I knewso many of his secrets, of what
songs he was going to drop,what he was going to do next,
even about I was there when hewas drawing the yeasy tennis shoe, probably
for the second time. Did heever drew it? Now? Why was
he letting me in? Because heunderstands that I have a miracle mentality.
Yeah, that's powerful trust too.So how so do you think that everyone
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can get the miracle mentality? AndI'm not just talking about like you know,
she coaches, there's a lot ofstylists at her, and it's it's
we're always trying to create a positiveenvironment, trying to get them to work
hard and like motivate each other andof each other. Yes, And I
don't know if it's like females orjust like people in general, but I
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have like a team of twelve ladies, and I find sometimes they like get
like you can tell I can forme, I can feel the energy of
when someone's like the energy Yeah,yes, I don't know. So what
do we do? I hear bothof the So number one everybody could have
the miracle mentality. Now everyone willnot have the same results because they're not
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supposed to. So we believe thatthere's a good idea for your life and
the God idea. Okay. Soso I don't want a good idea,
I want a God idea. SoI love that. So watch so so
Tony Robbins, as far as followers, he's bigger than me. As far
as money, he's bringing in moremoney than me. I do not want
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to be Tony Robbins. That ishis plan for his life. I don't
even want to be Denzel Washington,as good looking as he is. That's
that's God's plan for Denzel's life.I want what I'm supposed to do.
Okay. So this is the powerfulthing. And why don't get jealous of
anybody because whatever they're manifesting, congratulate, damn relations that's what you're supposed to
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be manifesting. So if you're manifestingthis and I'm manifesting that, I'm okay
with you because I just want tomanifest my God idea plan. That's incredible.
Love. That's so you believe inmiracles, you receive, Okay.
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Why is the problem in this receivingbecause most people feel most people good and
also most people think they're not worthy. I was just going to say that
because shame guilt. Ye, yes, and I see that sometimes I can
tell that. And and so whenwe're I'm trying to get them positive and
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coach them, you know, asthe next you know, successful stager.
I try and get under that,you know, and say I'm here,
You're not alone. If you needanything, come to me. I know
I'm tough, I'm a tough boss, but I'm here. Yes, Like
I can't tell you how many timesI've got them coaching or I've you know,
helped them in some way or anotherwith my own money because I wanted
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them to feel worthy. Yes,you know what I'm saying very very good.
And I don't know if it's received, but it's not my place.
It's God's place to see if it'sreceived. But I like what you're doing.
But the way a person can getto a better place to receive,
Okay, okay, is to realizethat we're all undone. We're all undone.
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This is so powerful. You gotto get it. We all go
through recovery and discovery at the sametime. Okay, So even though you
don't see it. I'm still recoveringfrom the fact that my brother died twenty
years ago because he died from addiction. My brother was better looking than me.
Okay, my brother college degree,worked at McDonald's douglas, had a
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drinking problem, but he went hard. He went hard on Friday night,
all day Saturday, half day Sunday, and then went to McDonald douglas on
Monday. After a while, hisbody could not handle it. He died.
Okay, So but I'm still goingthrough recovery from that. Sometimes I
go through pain, Certain things triggerme, certain songs trigger me. Does
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this makes sense? Yeah, SoI'm still going through recovery. But if
I'm not careful, I'll stay inthe recovery zone and won't get into my
discovery zone. Yeah, discovery thebeautiful things that are unfolding. Yeah.
So I have to deal with myrecovery and be open to my discovery at
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the same time. So we believe, we expect, we receive, and
then you become a miracle and you'reopen to your recovery, which you did
a great job with and you know, we work really hard at our recovery.
Yes, And so it's so it'strue. So when you're coaching people,
it's like I you kind of haveto feel where they're coming from.
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Yes, but tell them there isa there's a God out there that will
help them. You know, there'sa God out there that will help you.
And they understand is God is theGod of the underdog. Every person
that God ever chose to do anything, from Old Testament to New they were
challenged people. There were people thatalready had limitations, they had labels,
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but yet he called them to doamazing things. So religion lies by making
it seem like we all have tostep into some place called perfection. It'll
damn never happen. Now, weare all a work in progress. And
when we understand that and we areokay with ourselves and the fact that we're
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all growing, That's why I lovethis statement. You may not be what
you want to be, but thankGod, you're not what you used to
be. That is so true.Oh my God, that's so true.
I'm foiling it down. Well,God, you've been doing so much.
My last question for you is what'snext in the world of stories? So
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I will say what's now? Rightnow? I'm on your podcasts? Yes,
how can more people watch the podcast? Where can they watch it?
They can watch it on Spotify,YouTube, Apple podcasts, Apple podcasts probably
the best way to listen. Yeah. So that's That's where I'm at right
now. Like, sure, there'sother projects, but right now I'm on
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your podcast. Yes, I'm excitedthat we're creating something powerful. Powerful It
has to do with people's miracles mentalityand the manifesting miracles. We are working
together. Yes, So when yousign my book, you're gonna say how
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our dream blank is in Sweden,France, Italy, all over the world,
all over the world. We areworld. We are going to be
all over with this project. Ilove it. I expect it with with
all three of our miracle mentality,It's going to happen. It's going to
happen, all right. So,uh, what a privilege to be on
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the podcast. I'm loving what youladies are doing. I don't know who's
doing your hair. You're both lookingamazing in their hair. Your eyebrows are
on fleek. Your eyebrows, yeah, my eyebrows. My eyebrows are dark.
Are you going to Anastassia too?No? But honest, I likes
me, but I get mine threaded, Oh okay, and then doctor Bojie
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used to do my face. Wowdoctor Boji, Wow, Yeah, you're
bougie. I am a little bit. You know. It's so great to
have you on here. I mean, you inspire so many people just watching
you. I mean, Nicole foryour age group, I mean you were
freaking out, like how amazing honestly. But it's a privilege to be friends
and family with you, guys.I know it's it's you're You're helping us
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so much, and I'm excited foryou to take that back to the team.
I'm excited toe. So it's good. Life is good. Life is
great. Yeah. And if youwant to follow Tim's story, where do
they go? I think just timstorydot com. Timstory dot com, and
we do a lot of cool things. I have a thing called World Shakers
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for Women. It's a it's afemale empowerment group that I teach twice a
month myself. Amazing. That's awesome. I like to have you guys as
a guest sometime. How can theyfind that? So just timstory dot com.
Yeah, and then I have worldShakers for Men, which is super
dope. I heard, Yeah,that is like man, and I make
guys. But I do want todo that world I want to I'd love
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to be on the World Shakers woman. Yeah, so that is super super
good. So timstory dot com awesomeand you see all things that we're doing,
and then where you could see mein a city near you. Oh
yeah, thanks, that's Tim's story.