The Relationship Recovery Podcast

Kierstyn and Tiffany discuss the real challenges and joys of blending families and navigating new relationship dynamics. They emphasize that while merging lives is complex, intentional work can create strong, loving connections. This episode introduces a practical "Non-Negotiables & Negotiables" exercise to help couples clarify individual and family needs, improve communication, and build a foundation where everyone f...

In this episode, Kierstyn and Tiffany tackle a crucial, often overlooked aspect of healing after a breakup or divorce: having the energy to actually do the healing work. They discuss how emotional depletion can lead to setbacks (like reaching out to an ex or getting stuck) and emphasize the importance of simple, intentional morning routines to refuel your energy reserves. 

Using a marathon analogy, they explain why preparing for you...

In this episode, Kierstyn and Tiffany delve into the complexities and difficulties of dating after experiencing an unhealthy or toxic relationship. They validate the common struggles listeners face, explaining why re-entering the dating world can feel incredibly hard and offering practical tools to navigate this journey with more safety and self-awareness. They emphasize that healing is possible and provide actionable steps to move...

In this episode Kierstyn and Tiffany discuss common triggers in relationships, emphasizing that everyone experiences triggers and offering insight to help listeners understand what they are experiencing. They stress the importance of not shaming yourself and highlight the significance of recognizing triggers, which often stem from past experiences and unresolved trauma. They share real-life examples and practical tools for navigati...

Feeling stuck in limbo can be one of the hardest and most frustrating experiences. Whether you’re caught in a toxic relationship, struggling with self-doubt, or unsure of your next steps, that paralyzing sense of uncertainty can make even small decisions feel impossible.

We’ve been there. We know how heavy it feels when past choices haunt you, making it hard to trust yourself to make better ones. And if you’ve experienced the trauma...

Are you questioning your relationship? Wondering if you should stay or walk away? This is one of the most common questions we receive at The Relationship Recovery. In today’s episode, Kierstyn and Tiffany are diving deep into how to assess your relationship with clarity, whether you’re noticing red flags, feeling stuck in a toxic cycle, or simply wanting to improve your connection.

They break down four key steps that will help you t...

In this episode of The Relationship Recovery, Kierstyn and Tiffany are diving into the warning signs you shouldn’t ignore in relationships. From emotional manipulation and insecurity to lack of communication and controlling behavior, we’re breaking down the biggest red flags that signal unhealthy dynamics. Whether you’re dating, in a long-term relationship, or reflecting on past experiences, this episode will help you recognize tox...

In this episode Kierstyn and Tiffany tackle the difficult topic of finding your confidence after being cheated on. They acknowledge the hurt, confusion, and self-doubt that betrayal brings and offer practical steps to rebuild self-worth, set boundaries, and move toward healthier relationships.

Key Points Covered:

Emotional Impact of Infidelity
Untangling Identity
Refocusing on Yourself
Addressing Worth Issues
Setting ...

In this episode of The Relationship Recovery we discuss the ins and outs of coaching as a modality for healing from relationship trauma. We break down what coaching is, who it's for, the differences between coaching and therapy, and how you can work with us. 

Key Points Covered in this Episode: 

• What is Coaching?
• The Importance of Finding the Right Coach
• Coaching vs. Therapy
• Who Is Coaching For?
• Changing the relationships you ha...

In this special episode, Tiffany and Kierstyn turn the tables and get interviewed by their friends Frankie and Jess. Join us as we delve into a powerful conversation exploring relationship trauma, triggers, and the path to healing. 

Key Points: 

Behind the Hiatus: Learn about the break from the podcast and social media and how it benefited their mental health.

Trauma & Triggers: Understand how past traumas manifest in re...

 This episode is going to be a little bit different and really special. We're giving you an exclusive sneak peek into our five hour on demand class called Finding Joy in a Difficult Season.

This episode is from Kirsten's talk that she did called Experiencing Joy Despite the Chaos. In this class, we focus on practical tools to help you not just survive but thrive even in challenging seasons. 

Get ready t...

In this episode, we’re diving into the unique challenges of navigating the holiday season while prioritizing your peace and well-being. For those recovering from toxic relationships or managing tricky family dynamics, the holidays can feel more stressful than joyful. We’re here to share actionable tips for setting and holding boundaries, helping you create a season filled with meaningful connection—on your terms.

Tune in to learn wh...

We’re diving into a topic that can add extra stress to an already busy time of year—Dealing with a Narcissist During The Holidays.  Whether it’s grandiose gestures meant to steal the spotlight or covert manipulation that drains your energy, navigating the holidays with someone exhibiting narcissistic tendencies can feel overwhelming.

In this episode we’ll explore the two key types of narcissistic behaviors—grandiose and covert—shari...

The holiday season can be magical, but for co-parents, it often comes with unique challenges. From missed moments with your kids to the emotional tug-of-war that holidays can bring, this time of year can feel overwhelming. In today’s episode, we’re sharing practical tips to help you create a meaningful holiday season—even if it looks different from what you envisioned—and navigate high-conflict co-parenting with grace and clarity.<...

Kids and Divorce. In this episode we dive into one of the most common fears parents face when navigating divorce: how it will affect their children. In this episode, we break it all down. From dispelling common myths about divorce and children, to understanding the impact of high-conflict environments versus peaceful separation, we explore how divorce doesn’t always mean a negative outcome for kids. 
We also touch on the healin...

Why do people go back to their exes, even in toxic or abusive relationships? In this episode we break it all down. From the science of trauma bonds, which can create addiction-like patterns in the brain, making it incredibly challenging to walk away to fear of being alone and more. This episode is a safe space to release shame, gain understanding, and provide support for listeners who may be grappling with the decision to leave. We...

Welcome back to the Relationship Recovery Podcast! In today’s episode, we’re diving into questions from our listeners on attachment styles and healing post-breakup. We explore the idea that sometimes, even in relationships, we can feel alone—and how taking time to truly be on our own can be a crucial step toward healing. If you’ve recently gone through a breakup or are curious about attachment styles and independence, this episode ...

Ever wonder why you’re drawn to certain relationship dynamics or how to move beyond patterns that just aren’t working? This episode is all about the powerful impact of attachment styles—your unique relationship blueprint that can shape everything from friendships to romantic connections. By understanding your attachment style, you can unlock insights to foster stronger, healthier bonds. Let’s explore this transformative path togeth...

In this episode of The Relationship Recovery Podcast, Kierstyn and Tiffany delve into the subconscious patterns that often trap individuals in toxic relationships.

They identify four key patterns:

1.  Low self-esteem, where individuals may accept mistreatment due to undervaluing themselves
2. Unhealthy relationship dynamics learned in childhood, which make toxic behavior feel familiar
3. Hope and denial,...