The Richmond Weaver Show 2025-6-27

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Speaker 1 (00:01):
Exploring the latest headlines and in depth conversations. It's the
Richmond Weavers Show on one oh four nine Fox Sports Substate,
presented by Ingles Low Prices, Love the Savings, Now for
riches take on Sports. Here's Richmond Weaver.

Speaker 2 (00:19):
Ready to roll this Friday. And we have made it
to Friday right here on one o four nine Fox
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(01:02):
full force, mister Trey Falco behind the board and behind
the mic as always, and I will go ahead and
say programming note. Next week, it's gonna be a little
bit of a condensed week. Well, shortened week, will be
off on Monday. I'll be in Greensboro for the National
Sports Media Association banquet that they have each year. Yeah,

(01:22):
so I'm definitely looking forward to that opportunity and honoring
some of the best individuals in sports media and especially
Hall of Fame type of people. I An Eagle's going
to be there and getting another National Award, you know,
all those type of activities going on. So I am
looking forward to that. And then also we do have
Fourth of July next Friday, so we will turn here

(01:44):
be off on Friday, celebrating the birth of this incredible nation.
So we'll only be on the air for three days
next week and John ellis with Game On. He'll be
on vacation the entire week, so just know that. Yes,
but we will be giving away gift cards, yes we
will do. Not forget about that. The Auto Bell twenty

(02:05):
five dollars gift card for car wash services here in
the Upstate. There's one on Woodroff Road, there's one in Greer.
So you do have the opportunity of making sure that
your car is nicely washed and waxed, shined, all of that.
You have that opportunity twenty five dollars gift card. So
we'll be having some trivia coming up. And I dug

(02:26):
a little deeper this time. Oh okay, I did. And
again when I say maybe digging a little bit deeper,
it's relative to me at this moment right now. Sure,
because I'm still I think we're still and we talked
about it, Trey. We're still testing out the waters, so
to speak, as far as the knowledge of the listeners,
the investors out there. And I'm just tiptoeing, you know,

(02:49):
just a little bit by a little bit, moving to
the shallow end of the deep end. Yes, exactly, we
get ready. I think next week, I think I'm going
way deep. Oh okay, way deep. Yes, that's okay. I
want to test the knowledge again. There's something about I
know you can easily go out and find the answers

(03:09):
through Google. Oh sure, Alexa, whatever it is. But I
do believe I think there's a lot of listeners out there.
And again we call them the investors that they take
pride and they want to know the answer. They want
to be able to answer it immediately and not have
to use a crutch and not have to go to Google.
Because think about it, how long our life has been well,

(03:32):
it's a little bit different for you. You've had Google.
I remember life before Google exactly. We didn't have that opportunity, right,
I mean, you had encyclopedias that you had to go
look atlopedia. Okay, you're close the cusp, You're right there
on the cusp. But I do remember, I mean, that
was it. And I do also remember growing up that

(03:54):
the encyclopedias that we had at the house the copyright
so when they were printed it was like nineteen sixty two. Yes,
now I was born in nineteen seventy one, so it
was already a little bit dated at that point, but
you still that's what you had to use. That's all
you had. And so my point is is that I
think there's enough pride in competing and want to be

(04:17):
able to know the answer. Because there's one thing that
I do know about sports and sports fans. It's one
thing that you want your team to win, you want
your team to be the best that they can be.
But also as a sports fan, you also want to
be that person that knows a lot of that information

(04:37):
and that could rattle off that information. And unfortunately, I
just gotten to the point where there's so much on
my hard drive. I can't remember. I can't recall a
lot of the data that I used to remember. I mean,
good life. Well, I hope so. And it does get
frustrating though, But I would have to say that I

(04:58):
think there is listener out there, the investors that you
will be tested. So just know that. And again, hey,
maybe not this question today in terms of being really tested,
but I'm going to start ratching it up a little
bit and I think next week we're really going to
hit it pretty hard. But we do want you to
be an active participant, So just remember the text line
is eight six four triple seven ninety five ninety three.

(05:22):
Again the text line eight six four triple seven ninety
five ninety three. And well, we will be having some
trivia coming up, so the opportunity you can win a
twenty five dollars gift card from Autobil car Washes here
in the Upstate. Next segment, also we will have Brian Kite, Yeah,
our coach to the coaches, so to speak, talking about

(05:43):
the behavioral performances and sports performances and how the mindset
has to change. And this is an opportunity where it's
been a huge impact in my life, and it always
has fascinated me because we talk about how much the
mind and can play into success, especially we see it

(06:05):
in sports, and how we saw it with JJ Spahn
in the US Open, and even how we saw it
didn't happen with Tommy Fleetwood missing the putt at the
Travelers Championship, and even you can go down the line
all of these opportunities where you have to be mentally
strong to get through some of these things. And I'm
even looking at like Tyrese Halliburton knowing that he was

(06:27):
oh so close and that was an event he couldn't
control right exactly. It just happened, And so now how
does he put that in the rearview mirror but also
use it as an opportunity for the windshield mentality and
use that as motivation to get back and have that

(06:48):
opportunity to try to go win an NBA championship not
only for him, but also for the city of Indianapolis
there and the whole entire Indiana Pacers organization. So I'm
fascinated by that. So I'm definitely looking forward to talking
with Brian Kite coming up in the next segment. Again,
he's the author of the Daily Discipline newsletter and you

(07:08):
can find it at Dailydiscipline dot com. And I also
want to tease this a little bit, and I typically
don't do that. Now, yes with a trivia question, Oh yes,
maybe a little bit. But I came across Marcus Lattimore.
Oh yeah, former running back for South Carolina and all
that he has done for the University of South Carolina

(07:31):
and just a devastating injury that he suffered, and I
do believe he would have had an amazing NFL career
and he was definitely one of those players for South
Carolina that I was like, Oh gosh, as a Clemson fan,
how are we going to stop this guy? I mean,
he was just so good and he's reinvented himself and

(07:53):
people probably already know that. I mean, he's a poet
these days. So I've got a poem from Marcus Lattimore
coming up that I want to say because I think
it deserves its own segment. Okay, I really do, so
I want to save that for the third segment to
because it is so good. And yet I'm not necessarily
like a poem type of guy because I don't have

(08:15):
that creativity. I don't have that ability and so I
probably haven't really ever gravitated towards that aspect, but there's
something about Marcus Lattimore in this poem I can't wait
to share exactly, So we definitely have to be able
to do that. But real quickly, I did want to
share something that I saw on EA Sports College Football

(08:37):
twenty six and now they have come out with their
list of the top twenty five toughest places to play
in college football. And obviously we know college football is
coming here we go, We've talked about it. July fourteenth,
SEC Media Days down in Atlanta, and you know what
also found out. I didn't realize this that same time

(09:01):
period that the SEC Media Days is going on in Atlanta,
the Major League Baseball All Star Game is going on
in Atlanta. Really yes, and now I know this is
not like the SEC Championship and you're, you know, for football,
and you're going to have all of these sure large crowds.
But that's just interesting that I wondered why it looked
like it was going to be jam packed in terms
of I was looking at hotel opportunities. Okay, something else

(09:26):
is going on. Then I realize it's a Major League
Baseball but anyway, So here's the top twenty five toughest
places to play according to EA Sports College Football twenty
six And I'm only going to name off a few
of these, but I will look at the top ten. Okay,
So down at number twenty five you have Davis Wade Stadium,

(09:49):
Mississippi State. I've never been there. I don't know how
crazy that place can be. Now, I have been to
the number twenty one Notre Dame Stadium, and there's no
doubt there's some mystique there, there's history there, touchdown Jesus,
all of that. But I would agree with them. I
don't know if it's one of the toughest places to play.

(10:09):
Now they have it in the top twenty five, and
I think that's about to accurate from that standpoint. Now
they do have at sixteen Williams Bryce Stadium Willie B
And I think that is too low. I think they
should be higher than sixteen. And when I say higher,
I mean within the top ten. I'm not saying a

(10:31):
higher number. I'm saying a lower number because that place
can get crazy. You talk to anybody, anybody that has
played there, yeah, and they will tell you that that
place can absolutely go berserk. But Number ten is Michigan Stadium.
I've been there and that place is definitely loud. It's

(10:53):
a bowl. But I would have to say this about
Michigan Stadium, and I think for all of these stadiums,
to be honest with you, and maybe it does. I
guess there's a few stadiums that it doesn't really make
a whole lot of difference. But I truly believe that
there is a scenario that it's not sometimes just about

(11:16):
the stadium and the crowd that's there. It's about your opponent,
and that plays a major factor. Because I've been to
Michigan Stadium and they played Minnesota and that's just not
a big rivalry, and it was a little bit of
a letdown in terms of I wanted to see the pageantry.
I wanted to see how loud Michigan Stadium could be

(11:36):
one hundred thousand fans. You think that it would be
where you couldn't hardly hear. But its Minnesota. It wasn't
the same type of environment that you would have, say
against Ohio State. Totally of that nature.

Speaker 3 (11:48):
Right.

Speaker 2 (11:48):
Number nine is Outside Stadium in Oregon. I've heard that
place is absolutely crazy. Number eight you have Oklahoma Memorial Stadium.
I've been to Oklahoma. It's Oklahoma, and Florida State played
there and it was hot and it was loud, and
there's no doubt that's a tough place to play. Number
seven Ben Hill Griffin Stadium down in the swamp, Florida Gators,

(12:13):
and I've been there also. I would have to say
that some of these places, yes, the crowd can be
part of it, but also depending as far as being
a tough place to play, depending on what time of
the year you think exactly. Yea in Gainesville, flor early games. Yeah,
in of August, early September. My gosh, you're talking about
humid swamp. It's a swamp. Yes, it is name appropriate.

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Number six Memorial Stadium, the Clemson Tigers, the Death Valley,
as we would like to say in this part of
the country, and obviously as a Clemson grad, I've been there,
but I would have to say it definitely holds true.
I've been to so many games there. Obviously depends on
the crowd, right, I mean, depends on the opponent. It does.

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There's games where it's lackluster and that can be disappointed
as at times that you don't have the same energy,
but I get it. It's a different type of feel
when you've got Louisville and Lamar Jackson rolling into town.
And I can guarantee you August thirtieth with LSU come
rolling in town, that's going to be a little bit different.
Number five Bryant Denny Stadium, Alabama. I think it's just

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more not even so much about the crowd just because
it's Alabama, right, it's Alabama effect. It is the Alabama effect,
just because we're still just relying on what has happened
in historically from that standpoint. Number four Sanford Stadium, the
Georgia Bulldogs. I've been in that stadium too, and yes,
that place can get loud. Number three Ohio Stadium, the Horseshoe,

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Ohio State. Haven't been there, but I do know that
that place can be very, very loud. Number two Beaver Stadium,
Penn State. I've been there Penn State, Alabama, and it
was absolutely crazy. That was the last season of Joke
Turno up. Inn State. Yes, that was a little bit different.

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It was before everything happened, so everybody was still into
it and they love them some Nitney Lions there. And
Number one in the SEC Tiger Stadium also known as
Death Valley LSU, and I've been there for a night game.
It was LSU Auburn and that place was bananas. There's

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no doubt and I do believe that that probably is
accurate that that might be the toughest place to play,
because it does seem that it doesn't matter about the opponent.
Those raging Cajuns, They're going to go crazy regardless of
the opponent. All Right, So that's some of the top
twenty five places toughest places to play according to EA

(14:44):
Sports College Football twenty six. You can join the conversation
in just a little bit and we'll get some of
your thoughts on that as well. But coming up, it's
our time with Brian Kite, author of Daily Discipline Newslater,
and you can find that at Dailydiscipline dot com. Much
more of the Friday edition of the Richmond Weaver Show

(15:04):
presented by Ingles Markets. Right after this, the Friday edition
of The Richmond Weavers Show presented by Ingles Markets continues
right here on one oh four nine Fox Sports Upstate.
We are in full force, broadcasting live from the Ingles
Studio right here on North Main Street, Downtown Greenville, mister
Trey Falco behind the board and behind the mic as always,

(15:27):
and it is our opportunity to bring in our good
friend Brian Kite, author of Daily Discipline newsletter and you
can find it at Dailydiscipline dot com. And just an
easy way to remember is that he is a coach
to the coaches, and again we've talked about it last week,
helping coaches build discipline cultures and aligning behaviors to achieve results.

(15:50):
And one of the things that Brian, that we've talked
about also is just having the opportunity to understand the
correlation between your equation E plus are equals zero, event
plus response equals outcome, and how that can apply to
our lives. But I think we might have some breaking
news though, that you might have had part of that

(16:11):
equation that you were having to go through when you
were thinking thinking about shaving your beard that you've had
for five years. So tell us how that happened, my friend, Listen.

Speaker 4 (16:20):
I wish I had a better story for how, but
I was, I was here, and I just lashed across
my mind. I asked both my kids. My son said
do it. My son said no, my daughter said yes,
do it my wife was gone, and I went with
my daughter's opinion, and I surprised my wife would have
when it came back. So you know, chalk it up
to chalk it up to summer, and you know all

(16:44):
those different things. So we'll see how it goes here
for a week or two and make a determination about
whether it stays off or whether it comes back.

Speaker 2 (16:50):
Yeah. Now, how in terms of were you surprised how
you look without the beard? Or was your daughter or
your son or your wife or surprised at how you
look without the beard?

Speaker 4 (17:01):
Now, brother, I am forty three years old, and I
just took at least fifteen years off my daughter. Anytime
I trim anytime I trim my beard, my daughter will
like see me and she'll say, oh hey, and she'll
ask me. And she's done this multiple times. She'll say,
you know, man, our dad, are you becoming a grandpa?
And she's five. For the record, she goes, are you

(17:22):
becoming a grandpa? And I always said I hope not.
And then and I say why because of my grays?
And she says no, because you're white. Ooh no, I've
got I got plenty, you know, I got that clooney white, gray,
whole thing going on, except he's quite a bit older
than me, so you know it's distinguished. That's her one
side though. When I take it off, brother, I am,

(17:43):
I'm like, I'm back, Like you know, I'm back to
twenty eight man, I'm living.

Speaker 2 (17:47):
I love it well. The reason I ask this, and
this is more of a selfish thing, is because I'm
jealous to a certain degree. Because I can't grow a
beard like you have. I can't connect. And I think
there's something about me just being Envia and Trey Falco,
the producer here, he has a great beard also, and
one day I would just love to be able to
grow a beard, just for the hell of it.

Speaker 4 (18:08):
I'll tell you what, man, Like you know, if you've
got a window, give it three months, you'll be surprised.

Speaker 2 (18:13):
I don't know.

Speaker 4 (18:13):
You've got to let it do it, sting.

Speaker 2 (18:16):
No, But I your three months is different than my
three months because my three months, I mean, your three
months would be equivalent to nine months for me. And
that's the problem because it would take so long. All right,
enough talking about beard, it's like anything else.

Speaker 4 (18:33):
This transitions into equal circles up. It's like anything else
that the fundamental human challenge is being urgent enough today
and patience enough for the outcome. That's the fundamental human challenge.
And whether it's growing beards, building a business, winning a
golf tournament, uh, you know, trying to affect a relationship

(18:56):
of some kind, it's that combination of urgency right now
and then recognizing that there's no amount of urgency you
can put in today that is going to deliver a
result that takes one year of urgent work to create.

Speaker 2 (19:11):
Okay, so how can you as we're talking with Brian Kite,
author of Daily Discipline newsletter, and you can find out
all of that information on dailydiscipline dot com. All right, So, Brian,
just in terms of simple execution, because that's the one
thing that we do like to focus on here on
the show is easyps, trying to the kiss principle, keep

(19:31):
it simple, stupid, those type of mindsets. And I know
you buy into all of that, and that's what I
love about your equation E plus R EQUALSZ with event
plus response equals outcome. But what are some of the tactical,
easy things that we can do to try to get
into that mindset of having the urgency but waiting on

(19:54):
that outcome.

Speaker 4 (19:56):
Well, you know, I think there's a couple of things, right,
I mean, you know, immediately what comes to mind is,
you know, in my newsletter, every newsletter starts with the
same sentence at the top, and that is, today is
the most important day of your life. Yes, And when
you take a step back and just think about that
for a second, today is the most important day of

(20:19):
your life. And you know, ninety nine percent of people
don't know the day on which they're going to leave
this earth. Percent of people die believing they had another
day at least. And so the first part is just

(20:44):
the recognition and every sort of part, right, you know,
be in the moment's day in the moment, and we
get that, right, You don't need to hear that anymore.
And you know, yes, we're managing taxes and bills and
all the rest of the stuff. Of course we all
know that, but also recognizing that tomorrow it's only built
on we can execute and what we do today. And
when I talk about say like urgency and patience, you know,

(21:05):
I do think one of the really interesting things is,
you know, people want tactics, but if I'm going to
rewind us just for a second, bridge of this if
we don't, if we don't, they put it this way
until we understood the physics of how gravity worked and
how inertia worked. Right until Newton discovered I didn't create,
but discovered the three laws. We couldn't execute tactics because

(21:30):
we didn't understand the physics. That makes sense. We didn't
even understand physics. So everything we tried to build on
planet Earth was guaranteed to fail tactically because we didn't
understand the physics until Newton discovered them. And then we realized, oh,
objects in motion tend to stay in motion. You know,
every every every action is met by nico opposite reaction. Right,

(21:52):
they have this as three laws. We won't cover all
of them today. But so here's the physics of urgency
and patience, and you guys can answer these questions. Think
about when you want to increase your urgency, what do
you do with your patients? Do you raise it or
do you lower it?

Speaker 2 (22:13):
And now I would say my patience goes. I'm less
patient when I'm more urgent.

Speaker 4 (22:20):
Okay, And when you want to increase your patience, what
do you do with your urgency?

Speaker 2 (22:25):
Yeah, I lower the urgency.

Speaker 4 (22:28):
Here's My question physics. Whoever told you that urgency and
patience draw from the same source, where increasing one requires
the decrease of the other. Why do we think that
they operate on a teeter totter. They don't. They're separate sources.

(22:48):
You can be one hundred percent urgent today and one
hundred percent patient for that urgent work to deliver the payoffs.
That's the different diference. If we are still treating urgency
and patience as trade offs, there is no tax, there's
no tactic that will solve it. And so take the

(23:09):
common things, right, building a team, diet, exercise, driving your relationship,
growing a book of business. You know, the things that
listeners are listening to, but also watching other stuff, right,
like getting in shape, getting stronger, raising your kids. Right,
what's the big issue with raising kids? The people are urgent,
and then what they want to do urgent. They want

(23:29):
to have one two conversations, teach a point, whatever it
happens to be, and then they're you know, I'm raising
a five year old daughter. Right there, there's kind of there.
There's very few things on this planet less patient than
a five year old little girl. And the only thing
less patient than a five or old little girl is
an eight year old boy. So and I've got both
of those. And so what I know is that my
job is to be urgent in all of my interactions

(23:50):
with them, but recognizing how long and how many, how
many touch point of urgent attention right, whether it's you know,
love or support or help or guidance or structure or
corrections or you know, every now and then some punishment
right that needs to come in. It's it's it's gonna
need two decades worth of that urgency. And even then

(24:16):
they're going to be eighteen and twenty, and what will
they even know then? Like I hope that we will
have been able to put them in some positions. But
the point is, if I flip those and think about this,
what we do if I flip those, If I'm too
patient in my day and then I bring too much
of an urgency to what is going to take a

(24:36):
year or two or ten, I'm literally creating my own anxiety. Yes,
I'm too inactive in my day or in my hour,
and I'm and then I'm too rushing. What demands more
than a day or a week or a month of
effort in order to get and this is the thing

(24:58):
that we do. You know, do it in every scale
you can imagine. So the first thing before it's even tactics, right,
is if you jump into tactics and you don't understand
that and you're trading off. So think of them as
rather than fifty to fifty, and you don't go sixty forty, seventy, thirty,
eighty twenty. You don't do that. Think of it as
one hundred hundred. Think of them on a barbell instead

(25:21):
of on a teeter totter. They go up at the
same time. You want them to be equally weighted, right,
equally weighted, and you move them at the same time.
And what you're trying to do is you're trying to
keep adding more weight on that so I can add
more urgency, more patients, more urgency, more patients, more urgency,
more patients. And I don't want to minimize this, right Obviously,
I'm building tools and structures and systems to keep it

(25:41):
simple for people. But this, I mean it when I
say that is the fundamental human challenge. And so a
word of encouragement to everybody is don't get down on
yourself when you find that this is difficult or a
year from now, if you're working on it, you're like, man,
why am I not? Why am I not crushing it
on this? And it's because human nature. We don't beat

(26:03):
human nature, right, We just get strong enough to overcome
parts of it. But we were always up against some
friction with those two things. And so you know, learn
this and then go out and try to apply it.
And there's all kinds of tactics you can use, and
you know, I teach some of them a lot of
people with each others. But get that mindset and that
understanding of the physics of human nature. Get that understanding

(26:24):
in and then from there you can build on it.

Speaker 2 (26:26):
Yeah, And we see this, I think in sports, Brian,
especially from a fan perspective, as we know these coaches
and you can take like a Shane Beemer at South Carolina,
Dabo Sweeney at Clemson, and you know their sense of urgency.
They know they've got to win because the fan base is,
you know, wanting that. They have no patience whatsoever. They

(26:49):
want wins right now. And that's what I've been saying
for quite a while. Fan bases have to realize that
these things don't just happen overnight, which you're describing. And
so I think this is very impactful to try to
understand that it is two separate things, and hey, that

(27:10):
it is going to take time to put these things
in place in order to get to have or I
should say, to have that patience to see the success
down the road. If that makes sense.

Speaker 4 (27:25):
It does. And you know, we can air anybody. You know,
individuals and groups can air on both sides, right, we can.
We can be putting in all the required urgency. Uh,
but we can we can make mistakes of not being
patient enough. And that's a very common thing, like, uh,
you know, giving a coach two years or three years
and then saying, well, you didn't get there in time.

(27:46):
It's like, well, you know, uh, Kirby Smart down in Georgia.
You know, his record against Alabama is terrible and he's
a great coach, but it took him. It took him
five years to get there right right and day in
Ohio State he was getting crushed. He's seventy and ten.
It took him five years to get to the championship
as well. So the other side, though, is we are

(28:07):
overly patient and there's not enough urgency where you'll never
get there so if you're too patients, and this is
where you'll see this a lot of times, like with diet, exercise,
and this is how we kind of get out of shape,
is we have an excess of patients and an under
execution of urgency. And so we can air on both

(28:27):
sides of this, and the natural inclination for people is
to kind of go halfway on both. And I want
to just encourage people, if you want to be one
hundred percent of each just because you have an excess
of patients, don't lower your patients to gain some urgency.
Just increase the urgency to match so that you can
be very confident your patients is going to pay off.

Speaker 2 (28:48):
You don't want to be passive with it, no question.
Brian Kite is our guest author of Daily Discipline newsletter.
You can find it at dailydiscipline dot com. Make sure
you sign up. You can get a newsletter deliver to
your email every morning during the week and it's absolutely fantastic,
a great read, and a lot of resources there at
dailydiscipline dot com. All right, Brian, The other thing that

(29:12):
when you're even looking at this from a urgency and
patient standpoint, and it made me think too just as
we had. We're texting back and forth. Now I'm looking
at it again and like Tyrese Haliburton, the injury he
suffered there in Game seven and knowing how hard it
is to get to that point in your career and

(29:34):
being oh so close to an NBA championship and now
having to have that urgency to get back to where
he was, but also being patient enough that he can't
just miraculously come back from Achilles injury.

Speaker 4 (29:51):
No, I mean, I mean, you know, rehab from an
injury is one of the prime urgency and patience examples.
And you know, whenever I describe urgency and patience, the
tagline that I use to represent it is one that comes,
you know, from the newsletter of Daily Discipline, but it's

(30:13):
the tagline around urgency and patients is this discipline is
the shortcut. The fastest path from where you are to
where you're trying to get is the path of discipline,
because every other path will take longer, and sometimes the
shortest possible path is still a relatively long one, So

(30:33):
you take rehab. Of course, he would like to come
back mid next season, and you know, you look at
what Aaron Rodgers did from his off season. He came
back very fast. You know, you look at however quickly
somebody can come back. Kobe was notoriously back fast from
his achilles, and that can only be accomplished through urgency
and patients. It's only if you are urgent enough in

(30:56):
your rehab and all of the work that's required, which
most people are not right. They're too slow and too
you know, they have too much patience in their day
and then they and then they put too much urgency late,
and that's how people get reaggravated, re injured. And so
for say, you know, a Haliburton or a Lillard, and
then somebody else for their achilles as well in these playoffs,

(31:17):
which opens up this whole other conversation of the youth
sports side, you know, putting these guys through too much
early and their bodies can't handle it, because there's no reason,
you know, three NBA all you know superstars should be
tearing their achilles in the same playoffs. And it's crazy.
But but the rehab that all these guys are going
to be going through is waking up each day being

(31:40):
a long way away from where they want to be,
and they're still having to put the urgent work in
today and not seeing any progress. You don't see progress
when you're rehabbing. You don't see progress on the first
Wednesday of your rehab or on the second Thursday, or
on the fourth Friday. You know, you don't see progress,
but the days are still going by. And so the
challenge is waking up not seeing any external real signs

(32:05):
of progress, and putting in urgent work and reminding yourself
stay patient with this. Be urgent right now, but stay
patient for the payoff. I know you don't see it yet.
And then at some point you wake up and you're
four months down the line and you're like, whoa, look
at that. I'm walking and I haven't felt pain in
two weeks. Oh, look at that, I'm I kind of
hustled up these stairs. Look at that. And then and

(32:26):
then being smart enough to not you know, to not
over urgent and under patient. And this is why it's
a constant strain. But this is where it comes back
of how quickly those guys come back to the court
and how strong and safe and healthy they are when
they come back to the court. It will be determined
by the amount of discipline that they put into daily

(32:49):
urgency and then patience over the course of the rehab.

Speaker 2 (32:52):
Process, no question. And part of that also is they're
being able to use the E plus our equals OH
equation throughout the entire process. It's not just a one
time and that's what I'd love that you talked about
last week. It's in so many things and maybe just
almost every decision to a certain degree that we make

(33:15):
or that we're involved in. If you can apply that,
then you can have an opportunity of trying to focus
on the best outcome possible.

Speaker 4 (33:27):
Excuse me, Yeah, there is no scenario that E plus
r GLEZO does not apply to and it doesn't overlay
on You're only limited, just like me. We're only limited
with our willingness to apply it and remember it. And
it doesn't mean we walk around like robots either.

Speaker 2 (33:43):
Yeah, that's right.

Speaker 4 (33:45):
E plus articles owing every single thing, so at some
point it operates. It's like software. I would describe it.
It's like you know, you got your iPhone or whatever
phone you're using, but you know you have a operating
system that operates in the background at all times, humming,
making sure everything is running once you Once you operate,
it's like walking like if you had to stop and
re explain and refigure out walking or a better example

(34:06):
of this, it's like a traffic light. Like you don't
evaluate a traffic light when you walk through it. You
don't go back and have to remind yourself what red
and yellow and green mean. You already know, right, green
means go, red means stop, yellow means speed up. Right,
we know exactly what those three first for some people,
we know what those three mean. But if you had

(34:28):
to stop and recalculate what those three mean and then
turn it into some action and go back, you know,
traffic would would would completely bog down. And equal cyclesz
OH works the same way once you once you internalize
this and you're using it, it starts to operate like
software in the background and everything is equal cycle zh

(34:49):
And then sometimes you know, your awareness gets tightened or
you really buckle down because you are you know, you're
trying to figure out how to respond to a particular
question your kid asked that was really important, or you
know your had you know, failed a test, or their
boyfriend or girlfriend broke up with them, or you know
you just got a cancer diagnosis or what you know
when that when like the the meaningful heavy stuff starts

(35:10):
to hit, of course you crank it up. But when
the daily stuff hits, you know, I was sitting on
the you know, yesterday, I was flying back from Washington, DC,
and I got onto our plane and we landed on
the tarmac, or we we got on a plane, got
on the tarmac, and we just sat there. There were
some storms going on, and we just the captain didn't
say anything. We sat in the tarmac for two hours, right,

(35:30):
and you know, this is a good example. Nobody complained
when the shoot was like ninety eight degrees yesterday, so
you know, we're shutting the shades and all this different stuff,
and we we kind of sat there and I just,
you know, I didn't sit and like consciously eat plus
ar equals oh myself. But I kind of sat there
and said, all right, well, I'm going to miss dinner
at home. And I just text my wife and then
I'm like, okay, well, I'm sitting on this plane and
I'd either be spending this in at my house, or

(35:54):
I'd be sitting in the airport, or I'd be spending
it in my own office. I just sat and I read,
I send out some emails. I sent some I just
did the work I'd be doing in another place in
that way, and I easily could have looked like maybe
some other people might haven't been all upset about the
delay on the tarmac, but ultimately complaining about being on
the tarmac doesn't make the plane take off. No, it

(36:17):
didn't get me out of my seat. So I just
said to myself, Okay, I'll just do this. And I
wasn't conscious, if you will, of the E plus or
equal zo, but I just E plus or equals O
my way through it because it operated like the software underneath.
How should I respond to these circumstances to create the
best outcome I can create in this window of time?
And at some point I just punched out and said,
you know what, the end of the day, it's like

(36:40):
sixt thirty or whatever. It was seven o'clock, I'm going
to watch a little movie. And guess what happened. As
soon as I put a movie on, the sit back
and relax.

Speaker 2 (36:46):
Yeah, of course time to take off.

Speaker 4 (36:47):
That captain said we're taking off.

Speaker 2 (36:51):
Exactly.

Speaker 4 (36:53):
So that's how it works, right, Everything is E plus
R equal zo, and then it just sort of varies
with the you know specific sharpening of attention and the
level of discipline we're applying to how we use it
in that given.

Speaker 2 (37:06):
Moment, no question. Well, Brian, we appreciate it that you've
been able to join us and helping us understand the
difference between urgency and patience and how they are not
tied together in an inverse type of relationship, that they
are their own, separate and you can lift them both
up at the same time. And we definitely look forward
to chatting with you next week as well, because I

(37:29):
am going to next time. I've got to get you
to help me dive into how a person ask me
about do I like mondays? And I surprise them with
my answer. And I think this you might be able
to share with our listeners also that type of mindset
and what that looks like. So definitely looking forward to
diving into that. And hey, I can't wait to see

(37:50):
the picture without the beard now that you're twenty eight
years old, my friend.

Speaker 4 (37:54):
Yeah, man, listen me too. And what I'll tell all
you guys out there is this. If you want to
know how to the first place apply urgency and patients,
it's this. Tell the college coaches that your fans of
to be urgent and their revenue share and nil. But
be patient for it to pay off. Everybody. Okay, there
you go and bring it in patient for it to work.

Speaker 2 (38:14):
I like it. You've heard it right there from Brian Kite,
author of Daily Discipline newsletter. Find it at dailydiscipline dot com.
Bk thank you so much, my friend.

Speaker 4 (38:23):
We'll see you guys.

Speaker 2 (38:24):
Yes, that is again Brian Kite. You can follow him
at dailydiscipline dot com. All of his information is absolutely fantastic,
so make sure you do that. And again, it's one
of the segments I love, and hopefully people out there
just maybe even take in a few minutes just to listen.
That's that's all I'm wanting to be able to do,

(38:46):
because there's a lot that applies not only in sports,
but also in our daily lives as well. As we
will continue this Friday edition of the Richmond Weaver Show
presented by Ingles Markets. Right after this trivia time right
here on the Friday edition of the Richmond Weavers Show
presented by Ingles Markets, your opportunity to win a twenty

(39:07):
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(39:29):
to this trivia question. So that is part of it,
all right. So here's the trivia question. From nineteen eighty
six to nineteen ninety seven in the NBA, it's twelve years, okay,
the NBA scoring champions. So ten out of those twelve
years Michael Jordan was the NBA scoring champion. Makes sense? Hello,

(39:52):
goat yes, all right, So ten out of those twelve years,
you need to text in. Who you were the other two
players in the NBA that won scoring titles in that
time period. There's two players. There's two players there. Again,
Michael Jordan, ten out of twelve years was the NBA

(40:14):
scoring champion from nineteen eighty six to nineteen ninety seven.
Who are the other two players that had a scoring
title in that same time frame? So again takes that
into eight six' four triple seven ninety five ninety. Three all,
RIGHT i do want to play This Marcus lattimore clip
because this is absolutely fantastic and Former South carolina running

(40:35):
back and now he's a keynote. Poet he actually has
a book out that just came out Called Scream My.
Name and here's a poem that he put together About.

Speaker 5 (40:46):
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(41:10):
and green and their mascot goes quack. Quack another team
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(41:34):
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(42:44):
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Speaker 2 (42:58):
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THAT i love is that as a, storyteller AND i
KNOW i can tell right there From Marcus latimore as a,
poet you want to take the audience to a place
they didn't. Expect, Yes and as he's leading it up
and then he, ends ever so eloquently With, MARCUS i

(43:21):
mean With Leonora sellers owns the end Of, november alluding
to both times That South carolina has Beaten clemson In
clemson and obviously this past season With Lenora sellers Doing
yeoman's work. There AND i think it's absolutely. Fantastic and
that's why we love this, rivalry and that's why we
love the pageantry between the two, teams and obviously the

(43:44):
pageantry of college. Football All, right the trivia question is
still going. On your opportunity to text in eight six
four triple seven ninety five ninety three the scoring champion
from nineteen eighty six to nineteen ninety, seven twelve Years
Michael jordan won it ten. Times who are the other
two players in that time period to win THE nba scoring?

(44:09):
Title text in right now eight six four triple seven
ninety five ninety three your opportunity to win a twenty
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(44:32):
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i might be on to something, here stumping some. PEOPLE
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Years who are the other two players to do it
in that twelve year time? Period, yes a little bit difficult.

(44:53):
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any time you want, to my, friends especially when you
deliver those type of mic drop. Moments. Man thank, you.
Sir you stay cool out, there.

Speaker 3 (45:49):
Do Rich we'll be tuned in like.

Speaker 2 (45:51):
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pan out other Than Derek. Coleman all, right that IS
otd and that is This friday edition of The Richmond Weavers,
show presented By Ingles. Markets we will talk to you On,
tuesday