Media Mentors: Self Validation, Finding Power w No Family Support

Episode Transcript

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Oh man, y'all know what I'mdoing today, self validation, finding power
without that family support. Man,Let's see who want to talk about this
today? Let's see who want totalk about this today? Man, you
know what I'm saying. I wantto see who want to go in with
me today? Today's gonna be oneof them real interactive, real interactive rooms.

(00:24):
I'm not playing those games. Ilove diving into real conversation, real
fire ass conversation about real things.Man, there's gonna be some fire ass
guests coming through, some fireass peoplecoming through, Erica. I appreciate you,
Gregory, I appreciate you. SelfValidation Day today, Today's gonna be
one of those days where I talkabout this self validation and what it means

(00:46):
to me. That's gonna be aphrase, right, I'm gonna wait for
some friends to pull up, right, realize we in the hallway, we
gonna just go crazy because self validationmeans everything to me. Right, If
you can look in the merit andvalidate yourself without having to feel like,
oh my god, I need thisperson to do this, or I need
these individuals to make me feel likethat. You don't need nobody to make

(01:07):
you feel like anything. You willsell self, validate yourself. You put
yourself in a position to win.You don't worry about what others think.
Yo, I tell you if Iwas worried about what everybody thought when I
was coming up, If I'm worriedabout what everyone thought, I'm telling you,
bro, I would have never gotto the next level. Hey,
I would have never got to man. If I'm listening to what other people

(01:30):
thought the whole time, I'm nevergetting to the next level. I tell
people that they don't listen to otherindividuals, no matter what, have these
people be wrong all the time.I gotta listen to myself. Man,
you know what I'm saying, especiallywhen it comes to self validation. I
just remember times right in high school. I tell you guys this story all

(01:52):
the time. I tell a lotof people to start, but a lot
of people they'll just try to justsit there like you're supposed to sit there
and be stagnant like them. I'mnot staying stagnant like you, brom.
I got way more to offering life. I got way more to doing life.
So I can't just be sitting aroundyou feel me ay how you feeling?

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Man, I'm just saying, thankyou. It's cool, bro,
thank you for supporting man. I'mjust sitting here talking about the self validation
until my friends and my family pullup. But I'm just sitting here talking
about this. Gregor, you cancome up, or you can come up,
don't matter. You know what I'msaying. We're chilling. I'm talking
about this self validation because I feellike a lot of people are looking for

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other individuals to validate them. Youcan validate yourself. You ain't gotta you
don't got to look to nobody forno type of validation. Travron, come
up, man, were talking aboutyou don't need nobody for no self validation.
If you can validate yourself, you'regonna be on time. All you
gotta do is validate yourself. Youain't got them, You ain't gotta look

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at nobody else, saying, youknow what, you know what you nah.
You look in yourself, you deep, You grab into what's in your
soul, you grab into what's inyourself, and you've self validate yourself.
But what if you ain't got nofamily that's supporting you won't on this journey.
What if you turn around, Valerie, I see what if people like
just don't want to support you.What if you just gotta self validate yourself?
What if you just got a bigdeep dive deep inside your heart and

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validate yourself? What a family isnot there? Right? Go ahead,
brother, it's on you and theI'm gonnass it to Travaon and Valerie and
see what they think. Gohad oh, we have to people down the save.
I'm sorry, now you're good.Hey, you can be here,
man, come support travonn Valerie.Like I'm looking for self, I'm I'm
doing self validation. I'm not waitingfor nobody to approve me. And I

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know you guys aren't neither you guys, you know you, you know what
it is, have that self confidencewithin yourself. So Travonne, Valerie,
I appreciate you, guys. Canwe warm it up? Mother, thank
you for coming to this day.But can we warm this up a little
bit. Let's talk. You know, I'm gonna let the ladies go first.
Valerie. You know, Martha blessup to you one time. Valie

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if you want to go, Thankyou, King Trayvon. What's up?
Stack? Oh my gosh, mediamentors coming in hot. I have been
m I a for a minute,because I've been having some new blessings,

(04:27):
new beginning, so amazing, y'all. So I'm so happy to be here
today. So shout out, shoutout to all my kings and queens out
there. Wow. Yes, thisis a powerful subject, very powerful,
finding the power with no family support. Ain't that deep? And ain't that

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some facts? Period? Me personally, when I started my business, my
beauty vegan business, my family waslike, what the fuck are you doing?
They're like, what what's she tryingto be? You know? I
was all types of stuck up,you know, trying to be better,

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think I'm too good all that shit, right, And I've been in my
in my business for it's going tobe four years now, so it's been
a long road, right, Butin the beginning it was hard as hell,
hard as hell, especially when you'rethinking the ones that's supposed to be
supporting you, your family, don'teven support you. Man, I would

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have been booming, I'd be themost I'd be the most disappointed shit right
like that. Yeah, period,I would have been booming in my business
since day one if my family wouldhave been down with me, you know,
really trusting me and really believing inme and just get on what I'm

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trying to do and just you know, invest in me. But it don't
go down like that, y'all.It's crazy. It don't go down like
that because man, so I've beenreally just loving my strangers, loving meeting
my new connections, my network,and my network is my net worth.

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Period. So when my family's like, oh, you always you know,
talking on clubhouse or on LinkedIn,because I am elevating to LinkedIn, y'all,
if you ain't on LinkedIn, youbetter go with the bosses is period.
If you ain't over there, y'allget with me. Because I'm connecting
with a lot of people right andI just started and it's a new thing.

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So y'all need to get off ofTikTok and go on to LinkedIn.
But yes, my family, Ijust wish they were there because now my
strangers that I'm just meeting all overthe globe and they're not even here in
my city. Right. I'm fromthe Bay Area, California. Still trying

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to see who the hell's out herereally doing it. But you know,
people who's all in different states threehours away from me, is like believing
in me, rocking with me,you know, coming into rooms with me
and trying to do things big andnetworking. Like it's crazy how people you

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don't even know and they don't evenknow, not one thing about you is
really behind you. How you wouldthink that your family would be But it's
just not like that. It's notlike that, And it's sad. It's
very sad. But like I said, it's been four years later, my
family is starting to believe in mebecause look, I'm still rocking. They

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thought I was about to fall off. They was like, Oh, she's
still doing it. What she's stillselling her products. Oh, she's still
trying to build a team. Yes, because this is what I'm doing.
This is who I think. I'mthankful for my company, who I work
with, They're amazing. Because didn'tnobody in my community help me elevate.
Didn't nobody in my community help melearn about self development, self love,

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self care. Ain't nobody did that, right, So I'm the first person
who's doing it to show my communitywhat I'm all about, what I'm learning,
and I ain't gonna have no stingyenergy. I'm gonna put y'all up
on game now because y'all never putme on it because y'all mean period,
they didn't even start the journey.But it's okay. It's never too late

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to start. Start now, Startnow. And if y'all want to start
rock with me, connect with menetwork. I like me and new people.
I like to help people really elevate. It's helping me, it's helping
you. I'm a real people person. This is what I do. I've
been in the medical field for twentyplus years, right, been knowing how

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to help people. But I reallywant to help my people, my community,
people who who I see every day. You know, they coming with
me with negative vibes, but Iwant to come with a positive So I'm
just here to teach everybody. Butthat's a little something. King tray Von
take over. Oo hold up,man, Val be coming in, Tracy

(09:09):
Hot. That's that break that's whatthat break through. We come back hot.
Huh Yeah, I like that.Chaval she coming in hot man.
If you guys are just now joining, we're talking about self validation, finding
power with no family support, y'allknow, I like these topics. I'na
be coming in next week. Ifyou're doctor Jadens, We're gonna be doing
something fire. We're gonna be playingsomething together, so make sure y'all tune

(09:30):
in. I need to go throughthe topic. She gonna send me like
one hundred topics her. I gottago through and see which ones is fire
for this club, and then I'mgonna just go crazy. We'll have a
topic with her coming up soon,so make sure y'all tap in. Travonne
over to you, bro, andI'm gonna talk about the pack brand because
it's hair, brother, that's stuff. Bless it up, blessing us,

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Shout out with my brother men,stap, what's happening with everybody? Bless
up to all the ladies on thestage. Shout out to my brother me
and Steve Best believed. Shout outto all the folks in the audience.
Love, blessings, appreciation, y'all. Will y'all, I know how I
go with that. You know,I'm gonna keep it relatively brief because I'm
still learning. You know, Ican't learn a little bit of something.
But you know, with that,I like to tell people my story today

(10:11):
is y'all listen tomorrow. So youknow, with that, a couple of
things in which I'm learning the most. My journey first and foremost when it
comes down to it. You know, I would like to mention. First
thing is we are our own reinforcement. You know, I got to saying
that. I always tell myself,I am my own reinforcement. Reason why

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I sign my own reinforcement. Peoplecould only provide you wisdom, advice,
support and resources for so long.Trust and believe that. But at some
point in time, whether it's yourfriends, whether it's your family, whether
it's your strangers, etcetera, etcetera, it could be something aliens from us

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or something like that. Whoever itis that's providing you those things that you
need, you have to be themain one to actually provide yourself there.
I am my own reinforcement. Youare your own reinforcement, especially when it
comes down to her not having family, support, Trust and believe that.
Second thing, I'm gonna actually providey'all. You know what I mean.

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People could give us all the wisdomand support, but there's nothing in this
real that's free. There's nothing inthe real that's free. Everything has a
fee, the same ones the feedus can actually starve us. So eventually
we have to learn how to feedourselves. Trust and believe that. As
a person who at one point intime, I've went to everybody. I

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went to them Google, I've wentto mentors, I've went to family,
I've went to strangers. I wentto random people who are here I don't
even know for resources. At thispoint in time in life, I'm actually
learning that skip all that. Ican watch all these YouTube videos and whatnot,
but eventually I actually have to learnhow to put in the work and
actually go for what I want,because if you don't go for what you
want, you don't ever actually getit. Trust and believe that. So

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with that being said, regardless ofwho you go to, at the end
of the day, it all fallsback on you. Your life is your
responsibility. If you don't take responsibilityfor your life, whose life is you
actually living? There's this sin.Instead of saying whose lying is it anyways?
I like to say whose life isit? Anyways? Trust and believe
that. Lastly, trust and believethat. Lastly, when it comes down
to find a power with no familysupport, you have to realize you are

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the realist one in your corner.Trust and believe that everybody don't want to
see your success, and sometimes theones that is closest to you, even
though a lot of us don't liketo believe it sometimes. Trust me,
heah, I have difficulties believing inmyself at the age of twenty nine.
Trust that the closest ones to uscould actually be the ones that hurt us

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the most. Trust that there's thesin that people used to tell me all
the time. Man, you know, quite friendly speaking. I didn't learn
it until now, And that's everybody'snot welcome to the dinner table. I'm
like, sure, if I gotthe resources, why not. But needless
to say, you can feed everybody, but everybody can't feed you. Trust

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and believe that you can feed everybody, but everybody can't feed you. You
always have to take in account whatit is that you're giving and what it
is that you're willing to receive inreturn. Let's be real about it.
They say, don't have expectations.Expectations lead to disappointment. But let's be

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real, folks. We all havesome type of expectations. To say that
we don't have expectations, it's kindof foolishness when it comes down to everybody
has expectations. Trust and believe that. Trust and believe that, but you
cannot pour into nobody else if youforget about yourself, love hee some blessings.
That's all I gotta say is Iget a Microway y'all have a beautiful
day and continue to pray. Folks. Bless up with it. Wit TV,

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thank you for those words. Man, you coming in super hot.
Y'all know I'm excited today. Thepack bring is out now, God Timmy,
let's go. It's your three packasap man, Damn Burrow Hemp.
Shout us the lead, Shout usto the team, shot us to everybody
that's been supporting. It's crazy.I told y'all that truck was today,

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right, So whatever y'all do,just go support that. Go select your
three pack, go over there andgo get that a sad please. I
appreciate y'all because guess what, I'vebeen putting in a lot of damn work.
We've been going crazy. I'm going, Yo, you know what,
I want to team up with overa million businesses by the time I'm done
with this shit. By the timeI'm done, I want to team up
with them. Yeah, y'all knowwhere I'm going. Let's go straight to

(14:35):
the moon, right the stack,three pack Burrow Hemp. You can definitely
reach out to me at the packbrand at burrowhimp dot com. If you
guys got any bigger orders or biggerinquiries outside of clubhouse, right, big
things right? I need to sitdown with some dispensaries too, So if
you guys know any dispensaries anything likethat, contact me and we're gonna be
shipping it in. Everything's touching everything, The pack's landing you, Eric,

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love you guys. Let's continue thisconversation self validation, binding power with no
family support. I want to seewho else is taking this mic, who
else is coming in today? What'sis coming in after Treyvon, I'm leaving
popcorn for now? Do I gotto call on people? What are we
doing? Who want to snatch itnext? Martha? Hey, what's up
y'all? What's up? Yeah?Greetings to everyone, Greetings to stack and

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everyone in the room. This isa beautiful topic because not only do I
see it when it comes to business, but sometimes other endeavors, like say
like when I moved to Boston,like I didn't get hardly any support.
It was it was kind of crazy. But I'm out here, Martha.
All you gotta do is hit memom. I know, I know.

(15:41):
Oh, it says, poor connection. Can y'all hear me? Yeah,
I can hear you, Okay,Yeah, yeah, it's kind of going
and that, but real quick.Yeah. So for me, it's it's
not only been in business, becauseI've just started this business kind of mindset
and so it's a little slow going. So I'm interested to see what they
have to say. I kind ofknow what some people may say because it's
outside of what I typically do,and it's like, why are you doing

(16:04):
that? Don't don't you make enoughmoney and what you're already doing? Why
are you adding like extra stuff toyour plate? Like why would you want
to do that? So I'm alreadykind of anticipating those and for that reason,
I haven't really shared it like that. So so we're going to see
your maids to be seen. SoI'm definitely excited to be here. I've

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met a ton of people here inclubhouse and I'm ready to do it.
I'm really excited. So thanks forhaving me and peace and love, Martha,
let's go. What's about that support? See Martha says she didn't have
that support. You know what I'msaying, It's okay because guess what you
can get around like my individuals likeus and get that support. Dig it
out, grab it out. Supportis everything, especially like if you surround

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yourself with support and power, andthat's what it's gonna beat you. Dig
So you in the right place,Martha and Ill and the pat brand is
here, just d I'm gonna sayit again. The pack brand is here
yo, three packs yo yo,cause I remember right. Let me tell

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y'all some shit. I remember timesbeing at high school right, not doing
this shit the right way, andnow we're doing it the right way.
You feel me. I'm trying totell y'all somebody used to be in the
hallways doing my thing right South BostonHyde Park High was good, Martha,
you know what that's at you feelme? I was everywhere Mildred Middle School,

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which y'all want to do right,So it's just, oh, I
remember not having it all together,and now that I'm able to launch the
pack brand, it's lit. It'sgoing down right. Let's continue this conversation
though, Thank you for that shareor the self validation finding power with no
family support. What if you don'tgot no family support? What if your
family doesn't want to support you?What if they're like, uh, you

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know what I'm saying. What ifthey're on some weird shit to do that.
I always told you guys, it'sgoing to be the outside support that
supports y'all more, not the family. It's never gonna be your family that
supports you the most. It's goingto be the outside world. I had
to meet a bunch of strangers toget my shit lit. You understand.
I had to meet a bunch ofstrangers and different people that I didn't know

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from different walks of life to getthis shit to the next level. Because
maybe they believed in me more thanmy family. And my family they seen
me grow up, they seen it. You know what I'm saying. Sometimes
your family sleeps on your potential.Oh man, that's just stack. Oh
ah, that's just Valerie. Ohman, that's just Travaon. Right.
The fuck you talking about this?Ain't no little shit over here, especially

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when you because they don't see thework that you put in behind the scenes,
right, Like, nobody see puta one in the chat of y'all
agree, Nobody sees the work behindthe scenes. They only see the shit
when it's done right. Never nevertreat the uncommon life. It's common.
Go ahead, chat chime into thischat how you feel about this conversation over
to you before I rip it up. I'm fired up right now, God,

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I'm good. Can y'all hear me? I just wanted to drop this
little thing in never treat the uncommonlike it's common. Right, So that's
why sometimes your family can overlook youbecause you know they know you right,
You're familiar, right, But sometimesyou got to remind them. You know,
you cut from you cut from adifferent cloth. Your trajectory is larger

(19:26):
than life, so sometimes you justgot to remind people who you are.
That's it caught up chat. Youthink you you remind them who you are.
Expanding that a little bit. Chat, you think they forget a little
bit but who you are and theship you can do in your potential talk
to me, Yeah, I thinkI think people like like I said,
people treat the uncommon like it's common. But in that you you missed the

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uniqueness right of that individual. Right, you miss an opportunity to even support
them. And thing is, ifyou sow a seed, you'll reap a
harvest. But you also like sowingseeds is very important, and so I
think a lot of times we areso selfish that we only think about what
we're doing and how we're moving,but we never think about another person,

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right, We never think about sewinga seed in someone else's life. And
family is the main one, right, the main ones that typically do that.
And so I think people forget,people forget how amazing you are.
People take your talent for granted andto me, in order for you to
prepare yourself forward, right, youmay have to leave some people behind,

(20:41):
and that's okay, and that includesyour family. Damn. Put something in
the chat if y'all agree. It'son you, Jada. I just wanted
to put something in the chat.If you agree with chat, and then
we're gonna pass it the sister Jadaif she's gonna be coming in here next
week with some great topics, guys, so make sure y'all follow Jada.
Y'all already know we chapped. Then, so over to you jadas chat.
Thank you for that, and putsomething in the chat if y'all agree.

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Let's kid, I had so nowyou because I'm I'm driving, that's what
and I'll be driving on my phonein my hand. But it's all right,
okay, so hm, hey,I put you on the spot.

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You better get it better. Iwill say this, I agree most was
what being said here. I mean, I guess okay. So for me,
I'm my story is a little different. I don't have the maternal support.

(21:52):
I actually have paternal support. Iwas not raised with my mother.
She was sitting there her rights foron me. Oh stack, what have
you done? You already? Don'tyou good? Rock out? But my

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mother was sending her rights for mewhen I was three years old, So
never had that support on that sideof it. So, but it's all
great. One thing I would sayis this outside of me agree with most
things here with the family support.I think one thing that people need to
understand is that you can rebuild yourfamily. I actually have a strong,

(22:37):
tight knit family outside of my fatherand them, which is gonna be my
friends. What just happened to thestage, everybody back up a rearraging you.
You're good, You're good, You'regood? Rock out? Okay,
do you want us to put youback into talk? I can drive okay?

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So I mean yeah, So onething I'll be trying to tell people
is that you can reveal your family, Like my new family are my friendships
that I've made over these years.Stack. You making me feel bad.
Let me fucking drown. Go ahead, drop, and I'm gonna ain't come
back up. She going in.I need her to come back up.

(23:21):
Watch your hands on the stage.Everybody gonna get moderated, but don't don't
when you see my profile up here, just be careful. That's all.
We're good. We're gonna keep theenergy flowing. Jadah, go ahead,
and everybody mismanifest and invite everybody backup so we could keep it rocking.
I love y'all. Let's go.Yeah, I'm helping bringing back up even
though I'm driving. Are you good? Go ahead, We're gonna keep it
rocking. A thirty. But so, my new family is gonna consist of

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mostly people i'm friends with. I'vegrown to be friends with, starting with
my best friend. We've been bestfor since I was ten years old,
so she's one of my major supportsystems. Hold up, Jay, it
wasn't you. It was Lee wastrying to figure out some stuff with the
platform. She texted me and said, sorry, So it wasn't none of
y'all. It was Lee trying tofigure it out, so goad okay.

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Yeah, So it just feels kindof different like most of the people,
like outside of my parent and mygrandparents, most of the people you will
see on my important documentation mercy contestsand stuff like that are gonna be people
I became friends with over the yearsbecause this is my new family. So

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one thing I'll try to tell peopleis that the best investment you can do
is yourself, and sometimes invest inyourself is gonna be a single, a
singular act. But I think peoplegotta look at that stuff as though if
this still was a journey that wasmeant to walk along, you better walk
the hell out of it, likeyou on a runway. Hold up,
say that again? Bring it backthrough a little bit though, bring it
back? Hold up? Say thatagain? Why you say that? And

(24:51):
what do you mean buying that too? Jada, explain on that a little
bit and touch on so I.One thing people you get told a lot
coming up, especially as I did, is that your biggest type point is
gonna be your family. Absolutely not, because a lot of times, you
know what I'm saying, family feellike if they don't get a piece of

(25:12):
it, or they can't benefit incentiveit. Most of the time monetary wise,
from your acts or your success.It ain't no real success and they
not gonna be there for it.Like to be honest, at my graduation
mind school graduation, the loudest personin the room was my father, and
everybody else in my family was there. That was the last time I ever
seen them there at any event,you know what I'm saying. That's why

(25:33):
I say it like sometimes this shitis a singular act, like so you
know, it was pretty sad,but I think that was the show and
tells. That's why I try totell people like the investment is you.
You know what I'm saying, Sometimethis journey gonna be a single, it's
gonna be a walk along because alot of people, if y'all agree in
the check ahead Jake Cooking, alot of people need to benefit monetary wise
outside of your aud of your successbecause they really don't see it as no

(25:56):
congratulations or no real achievement for y'all. And at the end of the daybody
that making your family, especially ify'all come from some bad times or some
low environments, the achievement of thenamesake is it matters to the whole family.
You don't say if anybody in yourfamily, if nobody in your family
has been in college. Anybody theone person making to go to college of
your family. That shit is astatement for everybody in your family. And

(26:17):
a lot of times people don't lookat that like that because it ain't them.
So that's why I said, thisjourney sometimes walked alone is the best
journey ever. You better walk thatshit like you in a runway, because
it's gonna be have to be you, and but you're gonna have to rebuild
and you're gonna have to find motivationin that instead of trying to figure out
when can I bring the family inthe family. Don't want to be there,
and stop trying to make it there, because you will hurt yourself trying

(26:38):
to get some people there and allyou got is enemy standing behind you will
fake applause. I'm not I don'trock like that. I don't want none
of that behind me. They betterbe genuine smiles, and the smiles better
meet the eyes. And one thingI know is that's why I'll meet the
eyes. That's when I know it'sgenuine. So that's what I would say.
And after end the day, mysmall little family and my support system,

(27:02):
they have pushed me pretty much allthe way to the tea. I
am newly a admitted admittes. IMabout to say, admitted to the University
of pin to get my PhD inpsychology. At the end of the day,
this is where it's gonna end at. So and I got a lot
to carry for it. But listen, the strongest shoulders, the strongest shouldiers,

(27:23):
it's built for these bowlers. Sothat's what I given to everybody else,
and then that would be my submission. So I hope everybody have a
good day, stay safe. I'mstill gonna be here listening because I want
to hear eybody else story. ButI am driving. So I appreciate you,
Stake, and I appreciate everybody.I appreciate you Jay for coming through.
You already know. And make surey'all tapping with Jade. You know

(27:45):
what I'm saying. That's what we'redoing. We're gonna bring some other different
topics in here that you know whatI mean. We're gonna do some crazy
stuff next week. Expect some Topof the week with Jade shall be coming
in here with something I know.She sent me like over one hundred topics,
so I'm gonna be looking through thoseand see what's the best fit for
Monday and we'll be coming in hot. You heard different voices, different energy,
different everything media mentors. Let's keepgoing look self validation, finding power

(28:08):
with your family support. What ifyou don't got no family support? Miss
manifest what's good says, let's getit in. Oh my goodness, I'm
so hyped to be It's Friday.Can everybody share the room because I feel
like this is a place where everybodyneeds to know that this family thing that
people be worried about not something thattime. I'm hearing this all the time.
My family doesn't support me. Myfamily. I see people in tears.

(28:29):
Get people in here. Let's shareout of the room. If you
share it, won't share it again. This is powerful and shout out to
you know what. I like whatdoctor said. Doctor was like, if
that smile, don't meet the eyes. My mama told me that when I
was a little girl. My mamatold me that I was a little girl.
And I'll say, you know what, So I started watching every eyeballs
this is a little girl and I'llwatching I say, a lot of people
are not. That's why you waslooking at me like that you watched the

(28:51):
eyebook. I'll cracking up. Iwatch everybody's eyes now, I'll be going
around me out. Y'all can seethe fake too, that's it'd be crazy.
I don't say nothing. My mommytold me that. So doctor,
you know she's driving, but shoutout to you and just her powerful story,
like you don't need a little handfull of people, right, you're
not even did you know you gotGod number one? You hear me?

(29:14):
Come second, Like, I'm veryspiritual and I'm extremely, extremely sould on
the fact that we here for apurpose. Right, So let's share the
room out. Let's let everybody knowwhat's going on, because today's a big
day. First of all, shoutout to Stack because he got his his
pack out right. The pack issister Pad. If y'all could hear the
excitement. He's been talking about thisfor weeks now. So today's Friday here.

(29:36):
He was like, wait, tomorrow'sFriday. Like he's so into it
that he forgot towards the next day. It was Friday, Like today's his
day. Like we gotta drop somehearts in the chat, like this is
something that thrives him. Right,he does these rooms. He's living in
his best life, right, AndI tell everybody Like, when you don't
have that support, you can cometo this room. He's gonna support you.
So make sure you I'm gonna getmine. You know, even you

(29:56):
know I'm still support you. Itdoesn't matter, right, everybody should be
supporting because y'all have these rooms andit's so powerful today be talking about self
validation, finding power with no familysupport, you got to support right here.
This is your family, literally,Like when I came to Clubhouse,
like, I feel like this ismy distance family for my virtual spaces.
Right, you have to you haveto take this room. Seriously. I

(30:18):
know I'd be going off, butit's because this room changed my life,
right, and not only this room. Stag has literally been the same person
since I met him. You guyshave to make sure to give flowers where
it's due. Right, if youdon't have that family support, you got
in this room today. I'm sograteful because my mom and my dad adopted
me, right, so they're mygrandparents. I'm the oldest they took me
first. So a lot of myfamily don't bang with me, they don't

(30:41):
rock with me because they feel likeI'm hood rich, right, because I
really got it from the mud andI pushed through, right, I didn't
let it how to push push itthrough when they thought I was hood rich,
right, hood ridge makes if I'mfrom hard of New York. Right,
that's a slang for oh basically,you know that person is getting money
and they just you know, theystill live in the hood. They do

(31:02):
all these things, and they justthink that. That's how my family used
to look at me. Mind you, I had my ged right, I
literally pushed through to get past allthese adversities, you know, bullying and
my family not believing in me sinceI was a little girl, because I
was the first born and I wastaken from my grandparents, my blood grandparents
and everybody else went to a forstonehome. So a lot of people didn't
understand how I was able to likethrive through that. They have a lot

(31:23):
of childhood hurts. And I usedto be like, you can still push
through still, you know, likehow me is just back were talking motivation,
you know how motivation all day.Right. They didn't want to hear
that. Some people don't want tohear that that cringes make some cringe to
start turning into the told you likethe gremlin, freaking out, fizzling it's
like, I don't know what that'sabout. So you know, I had

(31:44):
to like push through and tell peoplelike listen, like my family. Number
one. I didn't expect my familyto support me, but my mom and
my dad, my parents, mygrandparents, they have been taking care of
me since our little girl, pushingme through like it didn't matter. I
used to come home crying upset aboutbeing bullied or you know, my sisters
and brothers not you know, connectingwith me for whatever reason because they felt
in some type of way. Youknow, this weekend that past I was

(32:07):
able to purchase some iPhones, rightI posted it on my Instagram, in
my Facebook, I was able topurchase some iPhones from like digital product money
that I created. And they wascrying and I got an iPhone in the
chat. Yo, put an iPhonein the chat for that, sis,
I need an iPhone because you gotYou know what I'm saying, because I
remember you getting on the app.You know what I mean. You wasn't

(32:27):
able to do this shit. Yeah, that's what I'm saying. Put the
phone in the chat, bro,put an iPhone in the chat right now,
let's go. I'm trying to breakit down to y'all, Like you
may not have that friends and family, but those two they did support me.
My mom and my dad, mygrandparents, they supported me. So
you know what I was like,my mom and my dad know I take
this content stuff seriously. Thank youGod for you know, sending me this

(32:49):
room. Stacked my team because I'mas good as my team. Like it's
just an iPhone to certain people.To me, it was like I made
a way for them to really taketechnology seriously. Now I can FaceTime them,
I could screen share when they're ona situation. I'm like, listen,
this is what it is. Ididn't have the money to do that
prior I was investing in my businesstwenty four seven, I wasn't invested in
you know, just blow things.I would get my hair and nails done
because that's important for me. Youknow. That's about it, but like

(33:10):
really just taking care of Like whatI really wanted to do is make move
my mom out. Make sure Ilevel them up on social media. They
understand the value. My mom knowsall it's content time. When we go
out to a restaurant, pulls outher phone. She ready, She's like,
how did I do this? Pressthe button? We taking content together
because she knows the power of howit is changing people's lives. So now
you getting paid from this since youmonetized with the fire part. You know

(33:32):
what I'm saying, right, Imonetized on it, and you know,
I was excited because I'm like,man, you are a viral whatever.
Like I think I had posted atnine a m. I had like one
hundred views, and I was like, so braveful. I was like,
oh, that's so nice that youknow, I'm inspiring people. There was
writing all of a sudden and Iwent to a thousand views, did a
thousand plus, So what the heck? I said, Man, you are

(33:52):
viral. She's like that way viral. She's like really, I was like
yeah. I was like, theylove you out there. So you know,
if you go see my Instagram,you see my mom and my dad.
You know I say that and say, like, you know, if
you do have that one person supportand you show them love, show stack
love he's giving you out this room. A lot of people don't have this.
That's all I'm trying to say,Like my mom and my dad's my
support system, my business, besteven self love. You know, I

(34:12):
have a handful of people that Ireally bang with. Right, my ladies
that ever came into these rooms inthe beginning, y'all see stack bring this
up, and I'm gonna keep doingthat because I don't think I think people
be sleeping on this room, right, because bro, like this room is
powerful. It's a lot of roomsin clubhouse, but it's not moving like
this, Like this is high vibrational, you know. And then you got
my We do have high operrational rooms, like you know, Queen Valerie,

(34:32):
Liz Zay. But what you know, I'm just like find them, find
those rooms. And but this righthere is a place where you're gonna get
the support, is what I'm tryingto say. I pray that this helps
somebody, y'all some fighters in thechat. You're really serious about this,
change people's lives. Send it toyour friends. Put this in Facebook groups,
Go and send it to your Instagrampeople, put it in your stories.
Let's get it lit, because thisis the number one thing I hear
about people having issues with his familysupport. So I'm gonna land my playing

(34:54):
right here. In Spanish, missmint listen, put the fire emoji in
to chat. If you you guysare just now joined that self validation,
finding power with no family support.It's a fire topic today. I want
everybody to go in right now,let's continue to keep firing this up.
I want to check on my sister, right I want to check on my

(35:14):
sisters. Let's go. Who's comingin, Let's go, Let's go.
It's me, miss self Love.Oh my goodness, mismanifestors drop my business.
Betially just dropped some fires. I'mexcited. Thank you, Stack with
the pack. He's the legend ofClubhouse. We call him because we he
brought back media mentors. These amazingrooms are important, you know, eighty

(35:36):
percent personal development, you know,so very important. So I'm excited about
that. I also, definitely Iam excited about this room. You know,
the detaching, you know, entrepreneurs, we have to learn the detachment
process because family and friends is justthe beginning of detachment. And then again,
hold up and self love say thatagain, because do you talk about

(35:59):
that on your pod cast my selfLove on breakup as a wake up.
Oh yeah, And I've been learningsome new things about detachment and business breakups.
In business, I've been learning somenew stuff. It's not just romance
relationship. I've go listen, detachmentfrom family and friends and to start a

(36:21):
business. That's just the beginning ofthe rodeo. As every new level you
go up in business, you're goingto have to continue to detach. You
will have breakups and business, you'llhave breakup, yeah, breakups and business
breakups and romantic relationships, breakups withfriends, and you're gonna have to continue
to add on because each new levelyou're gonna make people uncomfortable. People are

(36:44):
going to get uncomfortable every new levelyou take this self Love Retreat, Miss
Manifest and I got a lot ofsupport, but some people stay very quiet,
and that's because we got uncomfortable.We made them uncomfortable. They put
us in a box. So whenyou start making people uncomfortable that because it's

(37:12):
truth EMM, people will put youin a box. You will be in
this box like, oh, they'rejust gonna do that. No no,
no, no, no, no, no no no. We have plenty
of the First of all, we'rejust getting started, just getting started.
Miss she got the LA Business magout right now, Miss self Love,

(37:35):
let's talk about it. Let's talkabout And I'm saying that as a self
validation because this is a self validation, right, So I'm saying that in
a self validating way, like literallyand or and yes, we're doing I'm
doing things together on my comfort zone. The Los Angeles magazine will stacked with
a pack. I was in that. I was in that because I wanted

(37:57):
to get out of my comfort zone. I stack with the pack. My
clients. Ninety percent of my clientsfor my podcast come from Los Angeles,
and I gotta hold up miss self. Look how many download you got.
Don't let that go over the heads. You know what I'm saying, Yes,
let them, let them know.There's always motivation. The Breakup is
a wake up podcast has one hundredand eighty seven thousand downloads, and that

(38:17):
came from me wanting to self validatemyself. I named myself miss self Love
because I let people put me ina box and I accepted things I should
have never accepted. So I cameup with a name so I can remember
who I am and I never acceptany less. You know, it's a
boundary name for me to remember thatI'm not gonna accept any less than I

(38:40):
deserve. And that's for everybody inhere, you know. To set that
bound and to continue to level up, you will level up. You will
make people on came. You'll getin magazines. Some of you may be
nervous to get stacked with the packsmagazine because of what your friends and Sam.
We're gonna stay on social media becauseyou're gonna make people uncomfortable. I
have to learn that I used tobe very I didn't want to make people

(39:00):
uncomfortable. I didn't want to shakethe room. I wanted some people please,
I wanted to make everyone happy.It's no such thing. The only
thing is to make yourself happy.And some people will level up with you
and they will get excited because alot of people are looking for the level
of believe it or not and somepeople are not just yet. So each
level you go, you're gonna makepeople uncomfortable, and you're gonna have to

(39:22):
detach from people and break up withpeople and break up with business partners.
The people you start with today,everybody's not gonna be there. Some are
a lot of people who you're sittingnext to today will probably not be there
tomorrow. And that's just the truth. And that's where self validation comes in.
Everybody that start with you ain't gonnago with you. So the next

(39:45):
step, if y'all agree with myselflove put something in the chat. Not
everybody that that you know that's therewith you to the next level. Yeah,
this so this Sam, I meanfriends, it's title bove. This
is just the beginning of your detachment. This is your first level of detaching.

(40:06):
You got so much more detaching togo that it ain't even funny because
if you plan on getting to thelevel you plan on getting too, you're
gonna have to drop so many peopleand add on and drop and add on
and drop and add on. Soif we have to as entrepreneurs, we
have to get used to the detachmentprocess and letting go as soon as possible.

(40:27):
As soon as possible, we haveto let go so we can grow.
So get used to detaching, getused to leveling up, get used
to adding on. These are someof the things that we're talking about.
And the breakup and businesses, that'ssomething that I've been you know that I've
experienced that I didn't think I wouldexperience. So I'm like, oh my
goodness, what's going on here?Like, we can't let any breakups in

(40:52):
business, friendships or romantic relationships stopus from running our business because after breakups,
what do people do you don't seethem anymore. You can't let a
breakup flat line you in your business. You still have to get up.
You still have to do your business, no matter what kind of breakup it
is, and you have to navigateit in a healthy way. You have

(41:14):
we have to how to cope withthese breakups and these detachments from family and
friends and the way more detachments.You're gonna have to go every new level,
every new income bracket, and you'rereally gonna have to self validate yourself
when you get to a new incomebracket. That's a whole nother thing.
But you know, yeah, justdetachment is key. Leveling up its key,

(41:36):
self validation is key. And addingon a new community like this like
media mentors, staying around an amazingcommunity that allows you to grow and to
level up. All right, sovery important. So then you Stack with
the facts for doing these rooms,for allowing growth and supporting and allowing the
people to grow and talk about it. So I appreciate you shout out to

(41:59):
Stack. Click, Oh yeah,get that pack, get that pack,
get the pack back in sack realquick. I just want to announce Stack,
you have somebody that let's go shoutyo, shout out seeing you guys,
I love you. What it's aboutthe support yo, whoever yo click
the link at the top. Man, y'all putting people in the podcast today,

(42:21):
miss out love what we're doing.We're doing podcast sessions. We're doing
this, yo, get up inhere, and if you guys hit me
right. Whoever purchase right is whatwe're gonna do. Whoever get this right
now, send me a message.You're going in on the podcast show today.
We're gonna do an entrepreneur interview.You got a business, you got
a brand. You can come onthe Shove Tech game, support the pack,
support the three pack. You'll comeon the podcast today. I love

(42:44):
you guys, myself love. Ilove that share right. I want to
do one quick reset right self validation, finding power with no family support.
I'll be checking on my sister Linnasay it right after this reset, keep
this fire going. Check on mybrother Norman even quick. Everybody on stage.
Make sure I'll get ready for this. Buy and rain for non leads,
storm lead right, the whole packbrand. I'm not playing for the
none of this. Let's go allthe way to the top right. This

(43:06):
is what I'm gonna do. I'lldo one quick reset of y'all enjoying this,
right, y'all enjoying this conversation.Please put something in the chat.
Please put something in the goddamn chat. Put a five Mochi in the chat
of y'all joy this. You knowwhat I'm doing. Just breathe, let's
come. You got him, Yougot him, so he can't leave what

(43:31):
I'm talking to talking to some suitshatta be twenty man, it's not even
funny. They can't. It's socold type the left looks go right,
you know what you right? Can't? They Heart's place said, they start
chasing moths so fast when I blowfast as they can't. The presence of
the man, your putures little betterthan the past. If you're pleasant with

(43:53):
the man better she can't ship inmy air he walker mile and the pair
I wear and I'm getting better likeyeah, by yeah, like they say,
juande to soun smell me if youbrought the chase lines through? Can
I pay myself? I know thesemoney hungry I want to chase my wealth,
but I keep them on a dietand brace their health, or either

(44:14):
keep them on the quiet and facemyself and just take it. Didn't press
I got him grabbing its causes herand them the sleeve flatman his best.
Hey, hey, you know what, we're going super crazy today. I
want fire shares, nothing but fire. And you know what, everybody that
comes through has the support to youcan you don't do it. You don't

(44:35):
got to be afraid to talk.Everybody that comes to the state, you
got a voice. So come tothe States. Let's talk, right.
I want to check on my sisterLinday and see what she has to say
about, you know, self validationbecause I go to the self love room
as well. I love on myself. I go grab m grab that passion
out and I go love on myself. I practice this every day. This
is a practice that I have withinmy journey with and I do and I

(44:59):
practice self love. So that wayyou can go out there and manifest and
do the different things. But yougotta love on yourself. You gotta look
in the mirror and love on yourself. And this has to do with self
validation. So Lindsaya, how areyou feeling about the topic and you know,
finding power with no family support,sister, If you're there, let's
go. Lensea is probably in thebackground, probably gotta go get Micah.

(45:19):
But make sure y'all support Lindsayah BonusWarriors, always self loved rooms at seven
point fifty in the morning. Alwaysbuy your share. So who else wants
to come in? Let me knowwhen late Zay is back Onnseaiyah. Please
let me know in your back soyou can jime in. Lee, Who's
that is that? All? Isthat you? Let's go? Let's go,
Lee? How you feeling? Yougotta you gotta watch them buttons?

(45:42):
What happened? You got your buttons? It's crazy over look, I know
nothing to look. I'm learning,and I'm so excited about the launch of
Stack Pack pick three today. Guys. We got we got other stuff.
Other packs launch next Friday. Wegot a party pack launching soon, y'all.

(46:04):
We are so excited to partner withStack and promoting this brand. And
y'all, I say, the firsttwenty five orders, We're gonna do a
giveaway. I'm gonna send y'all somelit tac a flower the bulls first twenty
five Stack first twenty five orders.We have a couple of orders come in

(46:24):
already, first twenty five. I'maI'm gonna let you pull pull name and
draw, and we're gonna send thema master sample pack. Master you giving
them a master pack. Oh mygun, Yes, sir, yes,
sir. Look, I love youLee, thank you for being here.
Right if it's the power of knowingpeople the power right, So make sure

(46:45):
you guys clicking this link to stackthe three pack just came up today.
I'm in gratitude. Thank you forthe burrow hnm fhimy. I will be
down at Alabama checking this out rightthere in Alabama. I'm going to the
factory. Man, I'm going outthere. Shit, I'm being hands on.
I want to see what's doing normally. You know you will know what
it is with me. I'm goingdown seeing what's going on. So I
love you, Thank you for beinghere. Let's keep this rocking self validation.

(47:07):
With no family support, We're gonnakeep diving and ping this room up,
share this room up. I wantto check on my brother Norman too,
but I also want to shout outAngie right because I always I just
came out of a fire group,fire ass group where I connected up with
a lot of different individuals that Ididn't know twenty four hours ago. I
didn't know forty eight hours ago,and I'm pretty sure we're gonna be doing

(47:29):
some big ass things. So Angie, real quick, queen, can you
tap in and can we you know, share that energy that we had today
on that call and then I'm gonnapass it to my brother Norman and we
could keep this flow going. ButAngie, over to you and then I'm
gonnass it the Norman. Let's go. Yeah. Absolutely, I'm so glad
that you came on a call today. I have this awesome group of entrepreneurs

(47:50):
that I'm in fault with, Soif anyone else that likes some information about
it, feel free to sha overa message I'll put on the chat.
But it's called Unicorns and I I'mmet these guys at the Channeler International Film
Festival and just their energy is justso contagious. And I was so reved
up and inspired after that festival becausethey had kind of they were doing all
of the after party stuff for thefilm festival. But man, when you

(48:15):
are surrounding yourself with people that putpeople first over projects, putting the people
first over the projects, it changeseverything. When you lead with a serving
heart, it changes everything. Youhelp people get what they want, you
get what you want and all isa circular thing. Giving and receiving is
so important. You have to beable to receive just as much as you
give, but you know what youare giving when you do receive. So

(48:36):
just remember to keep shining, givingthat light. And if any of you
guys would like information about this amazinggroup of networker of entrepreneurs that I'm in,
feel free to shoot me over amessage and I'll get you a link
to sign up for our meeting nextweek is every Friday from ten to noon
ten to to noon Mountain standard time, and we go into different breakout rooms

(48:59):
and you really get to know peopleon a personal level and connect in ways
that you wouldn't in other spaces.So I just would love to send that
invitation to any of you guys thatfeel led to reach out and thank you
so much for being their stack.Everybody love you. Your energy is so
contagious. I'll burn that zoom downfor the rest of the time I live.
I'll keep burning that. You don'tknow what time it is with me,

(49:21):
big pat, I know, aren'tthey amazing though? When you agree
that this is just like a andit's different people every week that come on.
So just an incredible group of entrepreneurs. But uh, and in regard
to the topic today, the selfvalidation is so important. You know what,
no one's going to be able touh believe in your vision if you

(49:43):
don't believe in it first. SoI want you to go take a look
in the mirror today and have thatmoment of like, what is it that
I'm actually trying to create? Whatdo I want to be known for?
What kind of stamp do I wantto leave in the world, And tell
yourself that you're already doing that andstart stepping into that person now you don't
have to wait, and it's nota future date, like you are that
person. So put on your crown, go step out, and go show

(50:04):
the world who you are today becausethat's going to attract all the right things
to you if you show up authenticallyand believe in yourself first. I don't
have a lot of family support.I'm kind of the black sheep. You've
been a very religious home. Butyou know what, I found my people
because I stepped out in my authenticity. And the more that you do that,
the more that you're gonna find theright people. And you know it,

(50:25):
when one door closes, another oneopens up, and you just have
to be aware and present and joyfulin a space of gratitude enough to actually
recognize when those doors are there infront of you. So again, I
will put my information in the chat. If you guys want some more information
about this amazing group of people thatI'm involved with, I would love to
share that with you guys. Andthanks for thanks for the stage deck,
and thanks for coming today, Angie. You are already, Angie, I'm

(50:46):
gonna keep burning that shit up everyFriday. It fit my schedule perfectly.
I was in there for exactly anhour, right before the room start killing
them. You are ready, No, I'm not playing which Thank you for
extending that invite. Thank you forintroducing me to a whole bunch of individuals
that I didn't know yesterday or twentyfour hours ago. Now we get the

(51:07):
network and add value to each other, right, That's what's about. Expand
your network, Angie. Thank youfor that, and thank you for coming
to support. So Norman brother,thank you for coming to the self Validation
Room, finding power with no familyand support. We did a fire media
Mentors Men's Affirmation Room. We didour second one being Norman is gonna coordinate
something together to do another one whenthe time permits. But I want him

(51:30):
to chime in to the topic todayabout you know, self validation, funding
power with no family support and makesure you guys are going there and support
and gratitude with Norman and Abby everymorning. Go ahead, Norman, over
to you, brother, Let's go. Yes, greetings, se every one,
brother stuck. Let me tell yousomething. The firerooms are needed.
The firerooms, yes, indeed areso powerful. Indeed that let me tell

(51:53):
you something. Even after the roomsare finished, people's vans are still bubbling
because of that. I want tosay something. You know, in Jamaica,
we have a two party system,and I'm closer to my mother's side
of the family. And it happenedthat her side of the family they support

(52:15):
one party. However, she hasa brother, Yes, my uncle there.
He boxed up everyone and thought everyoneshould support the same party. I
made a decision to change the trajectory, so I go on the other party.
It happened that nobody was with meso much, and that uncle,

(52:35):
you know, we started to goat logga EDGs. It happened that in
twenty twelve I was nominated to runin the election yes. No, because
of that, the divide was sostrong now because that uncle. Yes,
he was totally against me and hecampaigned against me. What I said to
myself, I was not going todepend on no family member to val me

(53:00):
because I can do it for myself. No, my finding power moment was
this. Yes, I took myvehicle. Yes, I gathered Ooh wanted
to support me. And let metell you something, I made a decision
to do that on my own.When it was time for my nomination nomination

(53:22):
day, the only person who cameto that nomination celebration was my mother.
What I said to myself, itdoesn't matter who support me are not.
I am going to make this happen. And I pulled it through. I
did my thing, and I saidto myself, you know what, I'm
going to just run my campaign irrespectiveof family support. And I did that.

(53:45):
So I got to the point whereself validation is paramount on my list
my power. I have my powerand I exercised it exponentially. Family support
is not that important to me anymore. And throughout this life that's what I
have been doing, riding on myown. Thanks to Abby Oh supports me

(54:07):
so much. Indeed, thank youso much. I am Norman Gordon,
closing his microphones one on one,looking towards Yes, Indeed, Media Mentorship
Men's are for me, Seawan,third time row and brother Stuck. Thanks
a million. Woo. Can youbelieve that I sound like Norman? Don't
know, can you? But look, yeah, we coming in, Norman,

(54:29):
I swear Media Mentors Men's Affirmation Partthree coming in soon. We're gonna
have the women's one. Creep up, Norman. We might as well do
the no, the women's one nextweek. I need to have the ladies
go ten toes down with the women'sone so we can get that one out
the way before we even plan thethird one. So the ladies send me
a message. I know Lindsay ledthe last one. You know what I'm

(54:50):
saying. Any ladies that want tostep up and lead the first and another
one, you guys can do that. It'll be fire right. Wife and
man, I know she's always atwork, so she can't you know what
I mean, she'll be able tochime in and let me know Lee,
even anybody val all the ladies misself, let me know who was going to
lead the next women's affirmation room nextweek so that way we can come in
hot for the ladies. Right,and then we'll plan the next men's affirmation

(55:15):
room with Norman and planning around hisschedule. But we'll have the women's one,
and I'm pretty sure Abbe and himsupport if they have time. It'll
be fire. Right, Let's keepit going. I love this conversation,
and guys, click the link atthe top of the pack brand is out
lead shout outs to you. Leesaid the first twenty five people she's given
a Supermaster pack to, she's gettingit. She's given a Supermaster pack too.

(55:37):
Okay, Lee Lee came in andsaid she's given a Supermaster pack to
the first twenty five people that gosupport the three pack Stack brand today.
From Burrow Him, Shot us toall my partners in California, Shot us
to all my partners in Alabama,Shot us to all my partners in Florida.
Shot us at everyone worldwide. Right, shots everyone that I met today,

(55:57):
over and over unicorns. I cannotwait to meet more people as well.
Let's meet more individuals, Let's sharethe energy. Let's see how we
can be a complimentary with each otherthis year. Right, and also visit
book with Stack dot Com. Getyour free fifteen minute call. We'll level
up together on all platforms and seehow I can dial in your social media

(56:17):
right. And also visit stackpacked podcastdot com because all the episodes from this
room big. iHeartRadio, Spotify,all the big platforms right where I'm monetized,
and we can make the revenue shareright. Cool talking on clubhouse.
But if we're not doing something withthis right, doing something with it?
And what are we doing? Soclick the link at the top. I
love you guys, self validation,finding power with no family support. Let's

(56:40):
continue this room, share the roomout, pick the room out. Let
me get one more share before Ido another reset. Shay, do you
want to come in? I knowI haven't heard your voice. I don't
know if you're in the office ornot, but Shay over to you.
Let's go. Yeah. I cantime, man. I've loved all the
shares. Self validation. It's rightmy alley because if I'm not on my

(57:01):
journey, you know, I can'texpect other people to come in. She's
always coming in. How put afire emoji in a chat for Sha,
say that against shape, put afire, put some hearts when you're on
your journey, I can't expect someoneelse to come on my journey and tell
me where to go, So findingmy power is important. You know.
Sometimes when seeking that inner power orusing your inner power, the support of

(57:25):
who is important. But it's alsothe how. Look at the word who.
It's like, I appreciate it,but how are you supporting me?
Support can mostly be you know,verbal, but it means more if someone
is physically supportive. You know,are you showing up for me? Or
are you knocking on my door whenI need you? Are you purchasing from
me for my business? Are youresharing on social media? I love that

(57:49):
Valerie. I've never met her inreal life, but we share each other's
podcasts on the Stories, and ofcourse I do it for my sister Lindseyah.
But it's amazing how when we canshow up for each each other,
that means a lot. We're we'rebringing in clients for each other, We're
listening, you know, just businessin general and on a personal level level.
Sometimes family won't be the ones tosupport you, and that's okay.

(58:13):
The more you support your dreams,the more you support your business, the
more you support yourself and all thethings that you desire and all the things
that you're manifesting. The real oneswill show up for you and support you
in all the ways. The realones. But again, I'm not gonna
expect anybody to show up for meif I'm not doing it. But if

(58:34):
I'm up late at night something assimple as not even as simple, let's
not even downsize my podcast, somethingas important as my podcast. I'm staying
up editing my podcast. I'm writingthe topics of my podcast. I'm you
know, creating the post. I'mputting in the work. So when something
as simple as sharing my story,you know, when I wake up and

(58:57):
I'm looking at social media and someoneshared my podcast, that means a lot
as opposed to saying yeah, girl, you know I listened to the podcast,
or hey y'all I've been meaning toget to your podcast. And in
my mind, I'm like, butdid you like? But did you?
But did you right? What?Did you really? Are you sure about
that? So? I, youknow, I appreciate the real one showing
up for me, But Shay,you gotta let me know when to come

(59:20):
on the podcast. Can I bea real one to come on? Can
you schedule it out for you?No? I want to look, that's
a technical thing. I gotta learnhow to do it. I gotta get
with Lindseaiah. Please teach her howto to put me to come on in
the show so I can light upher podcast her as the whole community.
I need to get on everywhere.And you talk about support, Lindsaya is

(59:40):
a type. She's probably already sentme a text or she know I'll reach
out to her like, hey,can we get on it, and she'll
get right back like she's all aboutaction. That's another form of support as
well, like can you call ona specific person or a specific group,
whether it's family, whether it's friends. Can you call on those people and
you know they actually show up foryou? But if you know, if

(01:00:00):
I could sum everything up, continueto show up for you, continue to
put in the hard work, andthe real ones, the true, genuine,
authentic ones will show up for you. So thank you for letting me.
Shaw Ooo, we man put somethingin the chat for Shade share the
dang room out. She's always comingin hot self validation, finding that power,

(01:00:22):
no family support. This is thetopic we're talking about today. Man
dive in poor n We love theshares to share these read plays we Love
It lives on Forever Clubhouse. Younever know who's gonna listen to us or
go in the podcast. You neverknow what country is gonna listen to it.
Who's gonna come across your voice.That's why I said come up on
the stage and talk. If youguys are just now joining the media,
mentors self validation, finding the powerwith no family support, none at all?

(01:00:46):
What if you don't have the familysupport? What if you gotta go
out there and extend outside of yourfamily? And nine times out of ten,
if you're an entrepreneur, you haveto do so. Right, I'm
gonna keep the floor open, right, But the way I want to check
out my Ciszlings. I know shegot called her earlier, but are you
there, Lindsay, please come through. I know you probably was picking up
Micah, you're doing your thing,but can you please come in? Yeah?

(01:01:07):
Well, I think you did callme right when I was pulling out
of the driveway, so I waslike, it's okay, it's okay,
it's okay. That's what I calluh. And everyone that's been to my
house they know I live near apolice department, so it's like blackout zone.
Okay, first off, my sisterShay hit every single part on the
nail, and she knew exactly whatwas happening. I was literally writing the

(01:01:29):
text waiting for her to be done, speaking like, already done. It's
easy. It is something that isone hundred percent going to be able to
be applied conveniently, easily all ofthe things, because we see that for
each other in community. And youknow, the other thing I know about
my sister is that she's an onlychild like me. So when people are
like, oh, your family's goingto have your back, I'm like,

(01:01:50):
well, I don't really have any, So if that's what I'm depending on,
we broke forever, because let's say, we'll be flint Plock. So
I'm like, you know when peoplehave said that, and you know,
I come from a single mom.I don't have siblings. I did have,
you know, more extended family untilI learned about that thing called boundaries

(01:02:12):
and really knowing how I'm deserving ofbeing treated and how I'm deserving of how
people speak to and about me.So you know, the reality is like
family is a chosen thing, andit can be a blood thing, right,
Like family is a blood thing.I'll say that actually like it is
an actual thing, and it doesn'tmean that they're there for you. They're
going to have your back, AndI find that with family often it's just

(01:02:37):
like you said, you know,Stack, like how you found so many
people who support you in the newpeople you meet, And it's because for
your family, it's hard for themto see you as the expert you have
become. They saw you before youbecame the expert. They may have even
witnessed the journey, and they'll veryrarely give you a nod in your area

(01:03:00):
of expertise until they see a wholelot of other people edifying I mean my
own family, like the things Ihave done. And it's interesting too because
you know they're out watch like somepeople support certain family members because I'm married,
So I do under stack like peoplewill support other people's things before they'll

(01:03:22):
support yours. It's their own story. Like does it hurt my feelings?
Of of course, I'm fucking human, right, Like I'm human. I'm
not gonna be able to bypass thefeeling thing. And I know it's a
choice of how much power I givethat over me. So I can recognize
the feeling and I can also veryquickly remind myself that that has zero to

(01:03:43):
do with me. It is theirstory and their objective, and it's where
they are on their journey. Andso for me, that is right there
is when I'm enacting self validation.I'm coming back to what I already know
is one hundred percent, absolutely,without a doubt true about me. And
the reason I know that better thananybody is because I live as me.

(01:04:05):
I know the time I'm putting up, like Shehay said, I know the
time that I'm awake until I knowthe way in which I am contributing.
I know the things that I amproducing. I know the way I am
creating. I know the times thatI am networking. Other people have no
idea what I'm doing. They onlysee when it has come to the forefront,
when there's a point of delivering.Even then, are they paying attention

(01:04:27):
to me? Are they listening likeif I was waiting on that, which
I think we all have been atsome point because we have this innate feel
you know, this innate human thing, which is we want to be uh,
you know, we want to beaccepted, we want to be part
of community, we want to becelebrated, Like that's the human thing,
And so yeah, we come intothis world and in a healthy and healthy

(01:04:49):
relationships and in healthy family dynamics thatmay help happen abundantly. And there's a
whole lot of unconscious humans that areare here on this journey, and they
are far from being at a placein which they can celebrate themselves, let
alone anyone else. So why wouldI expect them to say about me what

(01:05:10):
they can't even say about themselves?Oh, lizay, put a put a
put a put a one in thechatter. Y'all look great, plus something
in hod on Lizza. You gottakeep cooking on that one. You can't
say that again. It needs tosting again. She needs to make us
sting again. Listen. To expectsomebody else to say something about me they
can't even say about themselves would becrazy, period, point blank. That's

(01:05:32):
why we have the Daily Self LoveRoom. Why because when I speak the
truths about me and I give otherpeople permission to see, then they can
follow along with me. But tothink that someone is going to take the
charge and be the most celebrated likethat, it really that shit is crazy.
So why are we looking outward forpeople who barely know us only see

(01:05:54):
a smidge of what They only seea smidge. They don't see everything.
Even my husband who I live with, like he goes to work, even
my kids who live in the home, like they go to school. The
only person who knows the full girthof all that I'm doing is me.
And so if I want the worldto have awareness around who I am and

(01:06:15):
what I'm doing, I believe it'smy responsibility and it's my opportunity. Because
it's my responsibility. If that's whatI expect, I can go get it,
and it's my opportunity because when Icelebrate myself, I give other people
permission to see me and to seethemselves in me. See people will hear
me say something then they're like,oh shit, yeah me. They'll be

(01:06:36):
like, oh me too, Ohme too, And like we do this
every single morning. Every single morning, Shay will go say something that's celebratory
about herself and I'm like, ohmy gosh, I never thought about that
for me. Me too, metoo. Okay, I'm adding that that
one's going down for me, likeI'm gonna take im owning that that one
reigns true for me. And ithappens every single morning. Over three years,

(01:06:57):
every single day of the week,and so it's really really important thing
that we validate ourselves because if weare to depend on something outside of ourselves,
we are immediately abandoning the power thatwe have and we're giving it to
someone else. And you know,people are great, people are amazing.
I love me some people. Ohmy gosh, I said, me and
Shay, we are only children.So we have been calling in and craving

(01:07:21):
community and to expect someone else torobustly understand me. If I'm unwilling to
celebrate me, if I'm unwilling tovalidate me, if I'm unwilling to see
the full potential in me, again, I go back to I think that's
fucking crazy, And I've decided thatcrazy no longer suits me, and so

(01:07:45):
I am going to step first.I'm going to speak on behalf of me.
I'm going to be sure that Ilet the world know exactly who I
am and who I choose to be, because in that way that I believe
others are able to come alongside,celebrate, and support in a much bigger
way. So super excited about thistopic. And you guys, every single

(01:08:06):
one of us deserve to validate ourselves. And so let's go do something that's
self validating. Maybe that's a post, Maybe that's a new project, Maybe
that's a new partnership, Maybe it'sa new collaboration. How are you going
to say yes to you today andvalidate that very dream that's landed on your
heart, that came with purpose,on purpose, because you were made to

(01:08:27):
be exactly as you are in thismoment today. All right, stack back
over to you oit make sure,yeah, listen, put something in the
shot off, y'all enjoying us,Put a brain in Moji, put something
into y'all. Y'all learning right fromthis room. Lindsaya just went in fire,
shut it down as you should,left the stage critical. Yeah,

(01:08:49):
I love this. Listen. Let'skeep diving into this conversation. Ping the
romo, share the remo. Makesure you guys clicking the link at the
top and joining the media Mental's megamansion to be a part of conversation,
just like this self validation today,finding power without no family support. Click
the link at the top. Leesaid, the first twenty five people to
support the pack, the three pack. She's sending a monster pack too.

(01:09:14):
You know she ain't playing crazy everything. I think she's gonna throwing some extra
edibles, do all types of stuff. I don't know what type of gift
she's got, but click the linkat the top. Get the pack brand.
It's out today. It just dropped. Oh my god, so excited
self validation though finding power with nofamily support. I want to still continue
with everyone on the stage of you'rejust joining. I want you to go

(01:09:35):
in with me, right fernd Isee you coming in. Let's bout it
to the stage and I'm gonna checkon some of my moderated so for no
over to you and you. Yeah, we bought it's going that. Listen,
we're gonna have to do. Listen, y'all gotta call me. We
gotta do something litt Listen, y'allknow what it is. Call me.

(01:09:57):
I got something specials let's do something. Hit this at the top, go
crazy and make sure y'all support thepack brand. We already got viewed the
ladies already did it. Get thepack brand and then you get this Select
three. Then we're gonna be releasingyou know more next Friday. Lee's gonna
be coming in with some more informantand I'm also gonna be doing wellness rooms
around this too, like around youknow the cannabin noise, what's going on?

(01:10:21):
How to you know? Take careof yourself too. So I love
you guys, Thank you for supportingmyself. Love miss Manifest. I love
you guys. Let's go. Whoelse wants to come in? Who else
is taking this mic today? Fornot over to you? Brother? Oh?
Thank you so much all the wayfrom Daris. Sometimes an I have

(01:10:43):
sat in front of me my values. I share that on my positive informations
for the man, and always I'mnot looking for extent of additions. When
I came to this world, Icame and I will go alone. That
means we shouldn't seek for external validations. We need to stay focus and be

(01:11:11):
mindful for what we are supposed todo. That case, we need to
understand our internal emotion state that willprovide us a space for the internal thrust
that will push us ourselves to leaveto my potential. So we should always

(01:11:40):
try to find that in a thrust, that force which will push you to
your potentials. That power comes fromwithin. When I say we don't need
for external validations, we don't evenlooking for the support of the family,

(01:12:02):
the support of your father, thesupport of your siblings. No one will
be there. Everyone is leaving He'sor our own life. I've learned throughout
my life that I need to standon my own feet. And I do
remember when I was employed and myboss was just fumbling around me, and

(01:12:29):
I told him straightforward. When Iopen up my palm, I can see
money on my palm, there's moneyon it all. What I need to
do is push myself. I needto learn from others and always not to

(01:12:50):
quit. If I meet a downfall, I need to raise up myself,
pick up myself, stand on myown and keep going. The failure is
when you quit. Then why shouldI look for external validations? I always

(01:13:14):
say I need to approve myself.I need to appreciate myself. I need
to encourage myself. Well, ifthat room is there for others to give
that support, I shouldn't be mindfulof that. I need to appreciate that.
But then I shouldn't be in acomplacant to rely on them. Yes,

(01:13:42):
if you start pack, you're offeringto support. Yes, I would
agree with that, but I shouldn'texpect your support. The first priority should
be coming from myself. So inthis life, in this world. Everyone
came on his or our own,and everyone will will leave this world on

(01:14:10):
his or our own. In thatcase, we need to be mindful.
We need to have self compassion.We need to experience our own emotions without
judging our criticism on our own.In that case, we will feel okay

(01:14:31):
and we will pave the way forus to live to our potential. I
raised my mind, man for notcoming in there. Have you ever been
over there? For no? Ilove hearing from for now because he's coming
from all the way from a differentcountry. It's like how imma comes in

(01:14:53):
like their's protective is always important tome. So thank you for coming and
get that opinion. I love whenyou guys because it's from a different country.
Nobody's ever been over there before.I haven't, right, So let's
continue this conversation, self validation,finding power. With no family support,
we're gonna keep going in right,We're going to like three thirty today and
then we're gonna cut off time.So shout out to my brother Greg for

(01:15:15):
just throwing this stage. Arenthia nickwife, he and man the Queen Lee
Norman. Shit, we're going intothat. Muhammed Laurie rain g A pitple
networker, everybody on stage. Iappreciate y'all. Let's keep figuring this room
up and sharing this room up sowe can have some more individuals come up.
You know what I mean. Holdlet me throw some energy in out.

(01:15:35):
They think, hold on, Matt, don't support the pack. The
three pack is out now burrow him. And also you can email the pack
brand at burrowhimp dot com. Stuff. You can stop at Gucci Stu Louis
VI. Call folks, call meeenager, get stopping Boochie stopped at the

(01:16:02):
Louis feel here. Call me guy, you out to press full speed?
It's a vollet belly head speed boatsbaby a naked pitch raising my ass?
You been do the same and akid all a cousin what I did on
peas Baby light sweet baby, Istop, baby, you just go getting

(01:16:25):
ready? We go out, baby, long time looking for the poloser.
Oh h the pouser Colley be ballain't a einger, get stopping Boccie stopped
at the Louis feel here, Callon me, guy, you out to
priez full speed. It's a volletbelly Call me bevall ain't an engager.

(01:16:45):
Listen, get sleping boss. Y'allready listen. If y'all wanna continue to
go in with this room, putit to in the chat. I wanna
see where we at with the room. Let me see if y'all wanna still
continue to go back. Got ashirt ring you got to shake. Let's
see I who still wants to continuethis energy about self validation, finding power
with no family support? Whoever hasn'tspoken you guys can go in, but
let's see who wants to continue theroom. Who still got some things on

(01:17:10):
their heart? Time? Okay,so Rain, it's on you, Rain,
and then I'm gonna come up toemail, check on brother Nick,
brother Greg. I need to checkon sisters, rent, everybody. Let's
go. Let's go. Well.First of all, Hi, everybody.
My name is Rain. I'm fromQueens, New York, born and raised
in Brooklyn, and I appreciate thisroom. It's actually giving me a lot

(01:17:32):
of motivation today because sometimes we needit. You know, I'm not around
like minded people on a regular basisto understand what I understand. So I
tried to stop explaining myself to peoplewho don't understand what level I'm on.
I'm manifesting with mystaff y'all, holdon, don't go so fast. Rain
hold n say that. Let youthink she's slick. If you guys agree

(01:17:54):
with Rain, agree in the chatbecause Rain say that again? Please can
you say that last part? Thisis coming from God. So I tried
to stop explaining to people what Iunderstand that they don't understand. I'm tired
of it. I'm at a pointwhere I've had businesses, failed success.

(01:18:14):
It's all part of the growth,It's all part of who you are what
you are. I'm not explaining myselfto nobody no more. If people are
coming with me, let's go.We're going to the next level. If
you want to stay where you are, please just stay on to the left,
l to the right, cause you'rein my way. I am not
allowing anybody to stagnate my life.I had HIV at the age of thirty.
I'm digressing past it. I'm justlike, you know what, this

(01:18:38):
is my story. I gotta tellit. I had cancer two times,
two times. I'm the one thathad to deal with the chemo, the
radiation, the stem cell transplant.Then I think I'm good. I'm like
your life is life, and I'mbetter. I'm back to the police department
where I was working for. Idon't work for them anymore, thank you
Jesus. And then my partner diesof COVID. Then I lose my business.
I said, you know what ifI can get past all this stuff,

(01:19:00):
and I got your pack by theway, because I support you.
Oh you got the pack? Ring, Oh, Ring got the pack too.
All right, Rain, you comingon the show. Rain Listen,
I'm gonna put book with Stack inthe chat, right, Yeah, you're
gonna come on the show. Igotta figure out what to do with Miss
self Love and Miss Manifest. Wegot we gotta pulling something crazy y out
with them. You already know.But I need you to come on the

(01:19:23):
show because you've never been on myshow. So I'm putting Bootoo Stack in
the chat and then we'll get togetherthis weekend or next week and get you
a special episode. All right,thank you for supporting the pack. Let's
go. Yes, Yes, I'mall about it. When I saw the
pack, I got excited for you. And that's the thing. When we
have somebody leveling up and doing differentthings, we're supposed to support each other,

(01:19:45):
not kick each other down or compareourselves to anybody else. We are
on this journey called life, andI don't need validation from another human being.
A lot of human beings are broken. They's still trying to find their
way. Why don't need validation fromanother human being? Now? I love
this group. I love mismanifest myself love. They've been like guiding me.
They said, they said, whenthe student is ready, the teacher

(01:20:05):
will appeal. Those young ladies arefire. They're always consistent, and that's
one thing I love about them.Their consistency has taught me to be consistent
as well. So each one teachone. But I've had businesses where I
hired family, I won't do itagain. And my brother just literally just
walked away. He was my engineer. I had him recording studio for seven
years. But you think that wasgonna stop my business? Then my family

(01:20:28):
turned around and sued me and putthe business in the fucking suit. Are
you kidding me? They never supportanything that I do. They tell me
they don't believe in it. Youknow what, I'm not allowing any of
that to stop me, because whenI am wealthy, I might come back.
Really, when I am wealthy andI'm the philanthropists and all that stuff

(01:20:48):
they're gonna be all Because my sisternow is chasing behind me. It's weird,
and I know she sees the growthin me, and I listen,
A snake is a snake. Isa snake is a snake. I'm not
even going back there good, youknow what. But I'm gonna keep going
forward because this is my life.This is our lives. Our lives make
a difference for other people. It'snot always about us. We always think

(01:21:10):
it's about us. I used tocry and used to ask God, why
is this happening to me? NowI'm like, oh, now I understand
why you put me through all thisstuff because I was gonna be the one
to talk about christ. I wasgonna be the one to go past all
the adversity, and I'm gonna showother people that you could do it too.
You can do it too if youbelieve. You have to believe a
lot of people are doing stuff andthey don't even Like last year, I

(01:21:32):
didn't know I was homeless. Iwent homeless. I lost my partner in
three weeks of COVID. I lostmy business of seven years. I went
homeless and I was praying. Iwas like, we're the holloo, gonna
go one family member and she willalways have my heart. I'm telling you,
I'm gonna pay her mortgage off.I said, you know what.
She took me in. She waslike, you could stay with me.
I was sleeping on the couch tryingto figure it out. But I didn't

(01:21:54):
quit. I didn't quit. I'mstill here. I have my own new
apartment today and got my new caror a new relationship. God is in
the blessing business, and you gottabelieve in what it is that you're doing.
So Stack, I believe in yourpacks. I showed it to my
best friend, she's all the wayin Pa. I was like, yo,
I need you to buy the Stackfor me, this pack for me,
because I had it right now,I didn't not have it. I
said, I need you to buythis for me. She said, oh
I got you. Boom, let'sgo ooh wait. That's that real support

(01:22:16):
right there. Look, Rain,I appreciate you, and I seen that
LORI got the pack as well.Rain. That was a fire shared Laurie,
You're coming on the show. Anybodythat has purchased the pack besides ms
Manifests and misslf Love, please booka call with me because I gotta figure
out what to do with these lady. They don't support everything I got damned
do so and let's go crazy.Whoever is in this chat right now,

(01:22:39):
go to bookwistack dot com if youpurchase the pack, and I'll be putting
you on the podcast show in thefirst twenty five people. You see Lee
right there, she's giving y'all amonster pack addibles, Thaca Flower's gonta be
figuring out how to get y'all liddy. Let's go listen. I appreciate you,
Rain, thank you for that support. Any last words before I continue
this right? My last words isenjoy your weekend and please believe in whatever

(01:23:05):
it is God has for you.Please believe in it because you are here
for a purpose. On that note, I'll dropped the mind. Wait listen,
I need some more shares up inhere, and I got to turn
the energy up in here or something. What I got turned up and so
doing turn up? Man. Listen. I got Greg in here and got
tod Rohne that just pulled up.Sister Rendia is here, right. I

(01:23:28):
want to continue this conversation, rightdy. I had a good, good,
good conversation with my brother Greg nowtoo long ago, we're talking about how
to get more people to the nextlevel, how to get poor people.
This is what he's doing. He'sgot a hack that he's got coming out
soon that I don't I don't wantto say too much about, right,
Greg, I don't want to exposeit. But I know you got a
hack for your industry and what we'regonna be doing, and I know you're

(01:23:49):
gonna be coming in next week.I'm a'mna try to get Gregor here next
week. I'm manifesting it, pullingGreg in here next week to teach you
guys this hack for wealth. ButGreg, can you please tell us what
you think about you know, selfvalidation and you know us, Man,
our relationship we're gonna continue, man, We're gonna continue to scribe and be
better and just surround ourselves with thebest individual So Greg, over to you,

(01:24:10):
brother, let's continue. Man.How you feeling about this? Man?
What was good? What's good?Man? It's it's always a blessings
to be in the blessings of amazingpeople, miss self love, miss manifest
even Oh my goodness, it's beena minute. It's been a minute,
but I appreciate man. If onething you guys don't know about Stax is
the brother is genuine. He's genuine. And I always say, and I

(01:24:32):
always got to give people their flowerswhen I you know, when I can,
because man, I've been on beenan in and out of clubhouse for
a minute. But you know there'speople like I almost know almost every moderator
on the stage right now. It'sall genuine tyrone pooling and building. What's
up, man, But man intothe topic. Man, it's it's and

(01:24:54):
I'm glad you're doing this. Andfirst I'm gonna give you. I'm gonna
give your credit because I believe rightnow where we are and just where we
are economically, where we are,you know, just as a people,
people really gotta find you know,who they are as a person without like
And that's what I love with withRain just said, without the support of

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anybody else. Now, if youhave other people around you, man,
hold on tight, because there's notvery many loyal people nowadays. But you
gotta you gotta, you gotta surroundyourself around. And I tell people,
I know, I my my successis not that I didn't have support from
my family. I just I hadto go build my own network I had
to go build my own and puta one in a chat of y'all agree,

(01:25:35):
you gotta go build your own network. I didn't have anybody like you
know, you know, stun onme or do nothing like that. But
you know, I just know ifI needed to go to the next level,
I couldn't do it by myself.First and foremost is God. Like
I don't I don't really need toexplain that, but you know, for
for me, God is everything.But outside of that is I also know

(01:25:57):
I had to do the work becausethey say faith without works is dead,
right, So I can't just praymy way into everything. I gotta go
do the work. I gotta goget in the rooms. I gotta network,
I gotta I gotta personally develop,I gotta professionally develop. Right.
So, and but most important thingI tell people is you gotta find a
mentor and you gotta find a coachin your industry and what you're trying to
do. And I tell people that'show I broke into tech, right.

(01:26:21):
I broke into tech one because Ididn't know anything about it. I didn't
know how to get into tech.I just like, man, this is
what I'm gonna do. But thenI realized there's other people who have had
success in it. Let me letme jump into that space. You know,
fast forward to work. You knowin almost every major corporation, from

(01:26:43):
Tesla to Disney to the government.And I was like, man, this
is cool working for other people,but like, let me go build my
own empire. Let me go findthe gap in where people need. And
I was like, shoot, myfirst blueprint work. Let me go find
a mentor coach as well. AndI did it in the finance space.
Now I'm putting people on game onhow to learn about money and insurance,
and you put me onto a lot. Greg, I appreciate you, brother.

(01:27:05):
You know what you're doing. Itell people it's not And this is
like when Rain was talking bro,I was over here going crazy because I'm
at a point now where I've beentrying to teach people that didn't that don't
want to be taught, and I'mdone with it. It don't make no
sense trying to teach people that don'twant to be taught when there's people out
here that would would do anything forthe information because they like to implement,

(01:27:28):
right, Because a lot of peoplesay knowledge is power, and I call
bs, knowledge is not power applied. Knowledge is power. Hold up say
that again because you could. That'swhy I say, don't be the best
kept hitting secret. Greg. Howyou feel about that, bro? No,
Because a lot of people we're insuch a consuming mindset nowadays, like

(01:27:48):
everybody just wants to consume content,information, game, gems, whatever you
want to call it. But onlyten percent of that information has ever applied.
But when somebody does actually take theinformation and apply the information, that's
that's how the one percent is made. Bro. The one percent is not
made because they're specialists. Because theyget the information, they invest in themselves

(01:28:11):
and they actually go freaking implement it. Right. So, if you if
you want to learn how to howto find power within yourself, surround yourself
around other people who were winning,hang on to the coattail because they're going
somewhere and by default you're gonna you'reyou're gonna you're gonna reach a level of
success as well. But that's myTim sach Man. I appreciate you much
love as always, Bro. Listenman, make sure y'all tapping with Greg

(01:28:33):
Man. He gonna be coming inwith some hats, some ticks, and
some tricks to get us to thebag for twenty twenty four. If you
guys are just now joining, we'retalking about self validation finding power with no
family support. What if your family'snot there? What if you ain't got
no damn family support? Right?What if your family's acting kind of weird

(01:28:53):
with it? What if you gottalike hold on? But if you gotta
like do this yourself? What doyou gotta find outside support? Right?
We're gonna be going in today selfvalidation finding power with no family support.
Listen, it's been over a powerhour, right, y'all know, only
stay till like three three thirty,right, put a one in the chat.
Y'all want me to let it rockfor a little longer. I gotta
see where we at first, andy'all gotta share the room out of pick

(01:29:14):
the room out before anybody goes anywhereanywhere, y'all want to continue the conversation
about self validation finding power with nofamily support. Y'all got some more shares.
There's some more power for this Friday. Pick the room out and share
the room out. Get more peoplein here and tell them to talk about
this topics. What it's going righton the Stackpack podcast. Right, media
mentors going crazy. If you guysare not a part of the mega mansion,

(01:29:35):
please pick the link at the top. I enjoy it, appreciate you
guys, and also support the pack. The three pack the Burrow Hemp is
here. You can also email meat the packbrand at burrowhimp dot com for
bigger orders. I'm starting to talkto dispensaries. I'm gonna sit down with
you guys. S y'all can getbunk orders through the door. Right,
Let's talk. Let's really talk nowright. The Pack brand is here,

(01:29:55):
the Stack brand is here. Westepping on business and not letting business step
on you did. Let's go.I'm keeping this floor open right now for
self validation. You know it shouldbe hot enough, y'all see y'all went
in the chat and said, y'allwant to continue this? It should be.
I shouldn't even ask who's next,So whoever taking this mic, go
ahead. Let's go, Yo,Stack, I'm here, Let's go.

(01:30:19):
Hey, man, I love thisone hundred percent. Greg is my dude
from another mother. Man. Iappreciate you, and he hit the nail
on the head. I am atthe place where I will at like like
Rain said I am done with tryingto explain myself to people who are committed
to misunderstanding me. I don't needyour permission. You don't sign the back

(01:30:43):
of the check. I'm not theplace I signed the front of the check.
I'm not the employer. I'm theemployee. I'm driving. I don't
call uber, baby, I'm atanother level. And if you can't come
with me, give me my jerseyback, baby, because you not on
my team. You heard you hearme, man, that's what we are

(01:31:04):
right now, and Yoga tell them, don't take my jersey. If you
ain't on my team, brother,you hit me. Man. You know
I'm only interested in actually feasting withthe people who starve with me. I
didn't pull myself up from abject povertyand losing it all twice in my adult
life for you to play with me. No, we not doing that,

(01:31:28):
baby. At this point, we'renext level, and I firmly believe that
the people that are winning are thepeople that understand the simple facts that that
I don't actually enjoy. I don'tactually talk about the life that I create.
Catch this, I don't talk aboutthe life that I created. I

(01:31:49):
create the life that I talk aboutbecause my words create my reality. My
reality don't create my words. Soif you ain't talking my dreams, then
you need to stop trying to bein my nightmare. Because I'm in the
chat of y'all agree, Man,get up, in the chat of y'all
agree with Ga. Man ping thisroom up. Jay, spit that again,

(01:32:10):
Man, bring that back, man, because I don't want that to
go over their head as well.Let's continue this room, Let's continue,
let's go. Yeah. I believewholeheartedly that we actually live the life that
we talk about. The words comefirst. First, you have a thought,
then you have then you actually speakthe words. The words create the

(01:32:30):
habit. The habit creates the actions, and the actions create your purpose,
and that creates your future. SoI talk what I want and I walk
what I talk, and that isthe life that I live. And I
am done with having conversations about whatI don't want, what I don't have,
where I'm not going, and whoI don't want to be around.

(01:32:54):
I am only rocking with people thatare going from mountaintop to mountaintop. I'm
not rocking with the valley experience.Because I fought too hard, scraped too
hard, fought too too deep,slap up under bridges. I scraped script
and saved and fought everything that wasagainst me to rise above the best.
And I only rock with cream baby. That's what we're doing. That's why

(01:33:16):
I'm getting the pack. That's whywe rocking like we are. And I
love you like a fat kid loveswait GA supporting the pack. Listen,
everybody that's getting on the pack.Man, y'all got a brand, their
business. Y'all coming on the show. So y'all have to schedule out for
next week and you know in betweenthe times at two pm or after or
before that time. But if youschedule a time on my calendar, you're

(01:33:38):
coming on the show. So Iappreciate all the support with the pack,
the borough, hint brand. Mypartner's down in Alabama. It's possible to
get up on here, closed deals, do this shit at a high level,
right, you can do it.It's possible. So I appreciate you
guys. Let's support GA. Ilove that share ping this room out,
share this room or to get ifyou haven't, and let's continue this conversation.
So I'm gonna keep the floor open, even have to access already should

(01:34:00):
be heated up Imon, whoever elsecoming in. It don't matter. The
MIC's open. Let's go. I'mnot gonna and then and then and then
patted the brother Nick. After youpatted the brother Nick. And then I
read to you, I don't knowwhat. Yeah, I want to hear
from brother Nick. After you,let's go, im after after her,
you go, Let's go. Thankthank you, thank you Speke for this

(01:34:21):
room. Sorry, I had acall, but this room is giving me
such a lot of good easy,a lot of good stuff and great to
see such a lot of people inthe air and familiar faces and all that.
And I don't know fregnant greetings,greetings, and guys you were talking

(01:34:45):
about you're in the make she andthe she probably swiped left networker, please
come back up so you can finish. Please, thank you. Networking over
to you. Please what there?So you know what you we're talking about
families and all that. And Iwas just greeting fred Land as well.

(01:35:06):
I'm telling you, guys, Iwas doing some some networking today in other
groups and I realized you people inhere, a lot of you have been
our family across the miles. Ilive in Germany. I'm from South Africa.
We are many many miles away fromhome, you know, and in

(01:35:29):
the pandemic, and right after thepandemic is way gone now, but even
after that, the stuff that allof us have built on our different journeys
in here, it was mind blowing. And it's only on a digital app.
And I want to thank you allfor being part of even our communities.

(01:35:50):
Sometimes people just sit in the roomsand listen, you know, and
you don't realize the impact that youmake on other people's lives. I can
say you have become part of afamily network, even in our network.
So I want to thank the moderators. I mean, who come here.

(01:36:11):
We don't have to do it.I run rooms as well, and I'm
thinking to myself, the hours thatwe have spent on here. You don't
have to be here, you don'thave to do this, but you are
giving from what you have to give, and all that that you give is
going to come ten thousand times back. Because if I look at all the

(01:36:33):
good things that we were able tobuild just from this digital ad, I'm
just thankful and grateful to even saythat I found another family on a digital
format who has been part of ourjourney. What we have built on here,
so I just want to give youyour flowers, Sack, and this

(01:36:57):
year we will be We moved ourInternational Women's Celebration to the twenty eighth,
So if there are more amazing womenon this app who would still like to
be part of our program, Sack, if you have time, I would
like to squeeze you in there aswell. We're also honoring some of the

(01:37:18):
men because there are a lot ofmen because of this format. It's twenty
four hours, yeah, and therewere a few men that we could call
on it doesn't matter what time itwas, yeah, and they were there.
They were there for us. Wedidn't just have positive stories, we
also had negative stories. And themen that we could reach out on this

(01:37:43):
app who looked after our men inour communities. I just want to honor
them this year as well. Thatwe are not just celebrating. We cannot
honor all of you, but Ijust want to give out a shout out
to all the men who has alsosupported all ourum and you're on this app
is doing great things and I'm justso full of oh and everything because what

(01:38:06):
you're doing here today, you don'teven realize what you're doing. Because just
what I've heard listening in my cup. I'm pouring into my cup. I'm
filling up my cup to move tothe next step. So thank you so
much for all that you do.And click that link and join at the
pack because it's a good one.Yeah, and feed yourself and full up

(01:38:29):
your cup. Thank you, sech. Let's go put your network. I
love that because it's like you neverknow who you're going to meet. You
never know the vibe. And Ilove when you guys come from different walks
of life, like all the wayover. You never know where the connection's
gonna come from. The love.That's how you get to the next level,
being international, not staying local,not staying global. I love this.
Let's continue this conversation. If youguys want to continue, put something

(01:38:53):
in the chat. I'm just runningto the bank real quick. That's why
I told you guys to rock itout. So I love you guys.
I think even wants to come.And then I got some more. Yeah,
let's go. I'm gonna come herenow. And then brother, yes,
I know, well, this iseven guys all the way from Cairo,

(01:39:14):
Egypt, and it's it's kind ofaround ten o'clock PM right now here.
But you know what, this ismy daily self support room. That
be it an hour, be itthe three hours. This is something that
I look for each and every dayto really, as Networker was saying,

(01:39:39):
to fill in my cup now.And and by the way, my note
for media mentors is kind of uhfinished, so I'm gonna buy another new
one new notebook that I really loveto write the notes of this family.

(01:40:00):
Everybody has their own stories, theirown wisdom there like we all come here
to be vulnerable with each other,which really makes me feel safe. And
being safe is something rare out insome some places in the world. It's
kind of it's the rare thing tobe safe to say whatever comes to your

(01:40:27):
mind. So today I'm gonna goa little bit back to the shares of
self love. My sister Linzia Shayand a lot of people has mentioned this,
and it's it's amazing how you dowhen you de attach yourself, you
you get the best opportunity to grow. And I'm going to give you an

(01:40:51):
example. It might ladies, youyou will understand this very well. Because
we have to do it. Wehave to do it on uh kind of
weekly paces. As as the maximumtime we have to scrap, scrap your

(01:41:14):
your dig selves. You got toscrap right to and in order to put
whatever skin most trite or seerum,whatever you're using to your skin, you
got to scrap it so it's itbecomes clean and ready to grow, ready
to shine. Am I right?We shine when we scrap, when we

(01:41:40):
de attached, when we when weremove ourselves from the negative surroundings, from
the negative environment, from the negativepeople, be them, be it,
family, friends, any partner,relationships, loves whatever, we shine when
we deattach, we let ourselves grow. We get out of the books self

(01:42:09):
love. Right, we get outof the books. We break that books
and we do attached and we whenwe de attached, we feel free.
And being being free is you givingyourself all the approve that validation needed to

(01:42:34):
be yourself because at the end ofthe day, yourself is enough. God
created you the way you are becauseyou have a purpose to deal with as
you are. You need to learn, You need to do the work,
you need to learn the lessons.You need to go through certain way of

(01:42:56):
life to certain tracks that you haveto do it. But in order to
do something that makes you the bestversion of who you are and believe it
or not if you are anything likeme here and we do this self validation,
we have nobody, especially from ourfamily members, who doesn't believe in

(01:43:19):
us the way we wish they cando. Believe it or not. You're
stronger, You're so smart that youcould do it. Because based on studies,
the relationship between emotional intelligence and love. Self validation is ninety five persons.

(01:43:45):
Why because you can't you have thatself awareness number one. It gives
you they needed the very essential selfawareness. It gives you. It enhances
the emotional intelligence. Because you recognizethe facts about yourself, you have the

(01:44:06):
ability to acknowledge and appreciate and acceptwho you are. Because we're not we
we are not created to be perfect. Nobody's perfect and and it's also for
a purpose to continuing needing each other. If you are perfect, then I
am perfect. I would not needyou. You wouldn't need me in any

(01:44:30):
way, shape or form. Butif I'm not perfect and you are completely
complementing the missing part in me,we need each other. We can grow
together. That's what collaboration is allabout. It's empathy for other for surroundings,

(01:44:51):
empathy for for other people, foryourself and self validation goes handed and
we know that the most emotionally intelligentpeople has the most the higher amount of

(01:45:12):
empathy. So it's it's very Itcreates the resilience and when it comes to
the right ones you need to tocontinue your life. Doesn't have doesn't have
to be your family, doesn't haveto be your business partners that you have
to end this relationship or their partnershipbecause of something out here and there,

(01:45:36):
Because why because we have people fora season. We have people for a
reason, and we have those twokinds of friends six PM friend and three
A M friends. Those who youcan hold them at maximum at sex BM

(01:45:58):
because after that they were they willnot be available for you. And those
who are, oh, you cancall them anytime anywhere and they are ready
to come to come to see youwherever you are, to come to hear
you whatever you need. So definingwho you are, accepting that and de

(01:46:24):
attaching, scrapping the dirt scrapping theydid selves scrapping, or let's say,
de clutter declutter our lives is givingus the whole, the all the opportunities

(01:46:45):
that we need to grow out ofthat set. I'm done speaking for now.
The mic is your brother, nickEmon. Thank you so much.
I appreciate it. Appreciate it.What's going on, everybody, peace,
loving, long jevy, everybody,Happy Friday. We finished the week,
we accomplished our goals, we madesome things happen. We came in the
room today, I'm fired up.Let me tell you, if y'all are

(01:47:08):
liking the energy in this space today, I want you to put a trophy
emoji in the chat clubhouses. Stopwith us from being great so we don't
got the trophy emojia and our ptrno more. But if you liking the
value and the gems and the knowledgeand the game that's being dropped in the
space today, drop the trophy emojifor me. I want to see who's
active. I want to see who'staking part. I want to see who's
bringing some wisdom to the table.As I've already heard already. Let me

(01:47:31):
start by saying this, right,this topic is very profound and I'm gonna
I'm gonna dissect it the best wayI know how. For me personally,
I'm gonna start by saying this,we cannot seek validation from people that are
not even valid themselves. Let mesay it again, We cannot seek validation
from people that are not even validthemselves. And I say that because it's

(01:47:54):
a common human trait to want toget support from everybody we encounter. The
majority of the support that we seekis not genuine support. It doesn't come
from a loving place. It doesn'tcome from a place of empathy or understanding
or consideration, none of those things. And majority of the people that you

(01:48:15):
want to support you, they can'teven support themselves. So you're sitting here
begging and getting out of character justto get people to see your worth and
value. You are diminishing yourself byputting yourself lower. The majority of these
people that you're looking for the rightpeople will support you without even having to
ask, although without even having tobeg. You won't even have to put

(01:48:36):
yourself out there. They'll naturally attractto you because they see what you're doing.
You should, never, in yourright mind, in your lifetime,
ever have to beg for love andsupport. The right people will see you
from afar and they'll, like Isaid, they will naturally gravitate towards you.
They will want to support you becausethey see that your intentions are pure

(01:49:00):
and your heart, your heart isin the right place. People like that
are all right, Diamond. Doesn'tlet me tell you if you are.
If you if you have people family, close friends, or even acquaintances that
support you with no hidden agendas orties attached, those people are a blessing
you and you cannot overlook that becausepeople like that are hard to come by.

(01:49:20):
If you have people around you thatonly want to support you based off
it, based off because it helpsthem, that's not support. That's not
support. That's manipulation. That ismanipulation at its finest. I don't ever
want to make myself feel low orshrink myself just to get people to see

(01:49:42):
how good I'm doing if they cannotsave fact, that's why I never liked
there in my life. Nick,let's go. I'm telling you. I'm
telling you man, I'm telling youfrom personal experience. I have learned from
a mental health standpoint, I havelearned you will lose your identity trying to
get people to see your worth andvalue, trying to get people to understand
you. That is not a battleI care to fight. I'm just being
all the way honest with you.That is a battle I don't care to

(01:50:04):
fight. You got it? Youcould take the dub. I don't want
it. I'll even take the ljust to get out of that situation because
I know what's for me and Iknow what's not for me. And in
that kind of situation where I'm stoopingdown to myself, shrinking my worth and
my value and making myself feel small, I'm not doing that. I'm really
not doing that. And this seasonin my life, I know what's for

(01:50:27):
me, and I know who's meantto be around me, and the right
people, the right people will makeme feel that what I'm doing is right.
They'll see me for what I am, for face value and be like,
you know what I see you.I applaud you. I'm proud of
you. I don't want nothing fromwhat you're doing, but I know I
see you. I see the workthat you're doing. If I going and

(01:50:47):
now I'm going through the tunnel stack, my bad. I'm driving to the
airport right now, man, Soif I go in and out, that's
why my maya about service is actingup. But you know one thing I'll
say right is being an entrepreneur,being a visionary, being a creative is
not for a lot of people,and a lot of people they don't want
to live this kind of lifestyle.And I'm a yield on this, and

(01:51:10):
this may hit home for some people. You ever noticed when you are at
rock bottom or when you're feeling likeyou're on top of the world, how
certain people just kind of distance themselvesfrom you. That's not because they're afraid
of what you can be. They'reafraid because they can't keep up because they
see you doing great things and itmakes them have to work harder. If

(01:51:31):
people like that don't want to bearound you, look at that as a
blessing. Because certain people are noty'all agree, let's go cook up.
Certain people are not for you,and you're not for everybody. You cannot
make every person a part of yourplan, especially when their plan is not
your plan. If you shrink yourselfand feel small to fit in with other

(01:51:54):
people, that's not the kind oflifestyle you should live. And I'll year
with this, I promise. Iknow I'm saying a lot right now.
Will bear with me. One thingI've learned in my journey from being an
entrepreneur for being in the profession thatI'm in. You cannot you cannot let
me tell you this. You cannotthink that everybody wants to see you win,

(01:52:14):
because not everybody wants to see youwin, especially do better than them.
Whether it's family, whether it's closefriends. They may they make fake
clap and fake fake applaud for youand fake hey you know you know I
see you, bro, and you'redoing so many great things. Man,
listen, it sound good, ButI know when intentions are pure and stuff
like that. I see right throughall the fake vibes. Anything that's lower

(01:52:35):
than my frequency and wavelength. I'mnot indulging it. I'm not playing your
game. That's just me. Iam not playing your game. If you
want to make yourself feel small,then that's your life, but not me.
I've come too far. I've enduredtoo much. I've been through countless
friendships and relationships to make myself feelsmall and at this season in my life,

(01:52:57):
like I mentioned, if you donot want you work hard and better
yourself, you cannot be around me. I don't care how long the bond
has been hold up. Nick saythat again. Bro, don't don't let
them. Don't let that go overtheir head. Man, I don't care
what our bond is, what ourtie is. I'm gonna cut the tie.
As quick as it was, asquick as it was built. I'm
gonna cut that tie and cut thatbond as quick as it was built.

(01:53:19):
So that's my ship. Man.I want to chime in and just adsk
some value. Man, listen,Stack, I'll say this too. Don't
apply pressure if you can't take pressurethat's applied. I'm gonna say it again,
don't apply pressure if you can't.Let's go, Let go, let
go listen. Yo, y'all goingcrazy? Bro, self validation finding power

(01:53:40):
with no family support? Who elseis taking this? Mic? Man?
Continue this shit. We're gonna rockout, Lego, Arenthia, what did
it do? Yo? So theNikkei brought up so many amazing points.
I've been sitting in here trying tolisten and just get the gist of the
room here, some of the energythat's happening, and everybody has been sharing
so many mean and points. Iwanted to bring up a point though,

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because a lot of us, thisproblem of thinking that family is supposed to
be the ones leak we're leaning oninitially is because that's how we grew up
and we were trained. I don'tknow about y'all, but when I was
growing up, a lot of myfamily members told me, don't feel like
you sold fully yourself. You're stillgonna need us. Don't get conceded,

(01:54:29):
don't be smelling yourself too much,because you're still gonna need us. And
a lot of that, a lotof that desire and that natural thought process
that we have in our minds thatour family is supposed to be the ones
that support us the most is comingfrom how we were raised, and a

(01:54:50):
lot of us just have to detachfrom that, detach from that mindset,
that thought process, because when itcomes we in the real world. Now
we're not being raised no more.We are literally living and adulting every single
day, and we got to realizethat we cannot depend on those old ideals

(01:55:13):
that we were grown on. Wehave to adapt and detach from all of
that old stuff that we learned whenwe were growing up. Because a lot
of our parents was telling us,don't get fully yourself. Make sure you
know who's boss here, and alot of us need to start really looking
in the mirror and realize that thateach one are our boss. Go get

(01:55:34):
the door from your baby, Goget the door. I think mean is
out the door, But I wantedto bring that point up because I know
for me that was key when Ireally had to turn the tables and really
start understanding that I am the onethat's really holding myself back when it comes
to self validation. I'm the oneholding myself back because I'm expecting too much

(01:56:00):
out of these people who told meto expect a lot out of them.
But as I've grown as an entrepreneur, I've realized, your family don't owe
you nothing. They really don't.They served their purpose. They've served their
purpose with every single one of usin here. Our mothers are our fathers.

(01:56:23):
For me, my mom and mydad. They were in my life
to a certain point. They gotme to where I am right now.
They showed me amazing examples. They'vehelped me grown into the woman I am
today. They've done their part.They don't owe me anything. It's up
to me now to take what Iknow, what I heard, what I've

(01:56:45):
seen, what I've experienced, andI've put it into action. Like Greg
was talking about, they don't oweit's nothing, but they did equip us
with that thought process and the quickerWe let that thought process go and realize
that we are adults now, Weare business owners now, it's up to
us. It's up to us tomake that decision. Now, we got

(01:57:11):
to validate ourselves. And I willsay one more thing that I figured out
and a lot of you brought itup in here. Community. Finding a
community that's going to support you withnot only validating you, but allowing you
to validate yourself. Because sometimes there'scommunities that you go in you can't validate

(01:57:35):
yourself. You can't stand on thestage and say you're amazing at this thing.
People will start to hate you becauseyou're talking about how good you are
at a certain thing. Find communitieswhere you can talk highly of yourself with
the people in there and they speakhighly of you. Find those places because

(01:58:00):
those places are going to allow youto foster amazing relationships, create new and
you know, amazing ideas and offersand products and services in your business.
And they're also going to help youspread the word. They're not going to
be afraid that, Yo, myhomegirl got this amazing product and she needs
to share it with the world.I'm gonna share it with my community,

(01:58:24):
but it's not going to stop myflow. It's not gonna stop my bag.
So I wanted to share that withyou all here today, so many
amazing shares, y'all. I'm EssaCorinthia Duncan. I am a business coach
and a tech entrepreneur. I helpbusiness owners empower themselves in business, create

(01:58:46):
self unding businesses and sixth figure income, and I help you do that with
systems, automation and delegation. Soconnect with me if you're looking to get
systems in your business. But I'mhanding this back to you. You stack,
you got this. I know hein the background doing major things.

(01:59:10):
You know, he's moving and shakingand shaking as as my brother tyrone Pool
would say, work that thing,twop you in the building. Uh,
everybody working. Every It's it's Friday, y'all. It's Friday. Everybody it

(01:59:30):
down. Let's go, let's getit rock and keep talking about to go
down. It's four o'clock's supposed tobe over and rock. No. I
appreciate everybody stacking Nick and Rick.You know, you know, hearing everybody
speak and uh, you know it'suh it's good to be able to hear

(01:59:55):
principal information coming from everybody's different experience. And that's what life has taught me.
Life has taught me to listen toeverybody's experience, but make sure you
extract the principles, because nobody couldbe like nobody in here, right.

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Our experiences are different with the principlesof life. But the principles of life
never change. That's why people whocome over here into this country, they
come over here with nothing, butthey understand the principles. They thing,
you know, boom. So that'swhat life is taught here is to listen

(02:00:39):
to everybody's experience, because everybody gotsomething to say. But make sure you
extract the principles of life. AndI'll just close with this here again a
great, great, great great woundsstack and you know much blessings to you,
Nick, you know my God,Greg, you know everybody in here,
so many people in here. Youknow, I just cover everybody you

(02:01:01):
know of the blessings of God,and you know Christ, everybody just prosper
and everything and even in health,life, love whatever it is. And
I'll say this right here and close. I know the rule is about pretty
much about you know yourself, uh, you know, finding powers within yourself.

(02:01:24):
Well, this is what I've learned, right, And this is a
principle that not only applies to corporateAmerica, but I've seen this principle acted
out in people's lives, and theprinciple which we've all touched on it is
three things you got to know ifyou want to survive and go to the
top of the food chain, andnot only just get in there, because

(02:01:45):
this is what we're missing out ontoo. Right. We're talking about getting
there, right, but the mostimportant thing is to stay there. It's
easy to get a plane, breakit up. Come on, now,
come on, now, it's easy. Everybody talk about, you know,
the takeoff of an airplane. Oh, you know, it's but you know,
the most trouble happens when that pilothas to keep that plane in the

(02:02:10):
air. It's tough to go threehours at thirty three thousand feet. It's
so many instruments that you got tobe checking. So I say all that
to say that a lot of ustalk about getting there, but you know
what, you also want to makesure you listen to people who have stayed
there. They've weathered the storms.You know, they hit that air pocket

(02:02:32):
right and that plane drops, butthey get that plane right back up the
thirty three thousand. So make sureyou in intertwine those people in your lives
as well, so these are thethree things that I say. Everybody got
to know principles. You got toknow who you are, what you have,
and what you can do. Everybodyhere has different skills, but you

(02:02:54):
the ones, the ones who knowwho they are, what they have,
and when they can do. Thoseare the ones that they can lose us
a battle and still win the warbecause they know who they are, what
they have, and what they cando. You see it in corporate America
as well. These companies they filebankruptcy. People's own that company's lost so
much money. They're done. No, they're not. Because what you don't

(02:03:16):
understand is the idea was never inthe building. The idea was in the
people who were occupying the building.So they just gave the building back to
the people who built the building.They went somewhere else and got another building
and started the same process over aunion, just in another name, because
they understand the principles. I leaveit with that. Man, the Stack,

(02:03:38):
great room. Man, you're doinggreat things, Man, great things,
Greg, everybody Man much loved.Nick. Everybody can just go down
the list. Man, y'all opportuneto follow Stack. You know, Stack
gets my voter confidence. Man,So you know, it's like voting for
the Pro Bowl, you know,the Pro Bowl or the NFL. You
know, I played football, soyou know we vote for the Pro Bowl.

(02:04:00):
Uh. And we also vote forlike all pros. Right, And
when you can get validation from yourpeers, that means the most. I
don't care what the fans say.The fan can say whatever can he's not
a good football player. You know, that's just their opinion. But what
matters to me the most is mypeers, the people who I play again.
When they can respect me, that'sall that matters. Nobody else.

(02:04:24):
Your opinion, your your perception ofme is not my reality. I'll age
with that, ALRIGHTA man, appreciateyou as always, Tyrone, coming in
with the wisdom man, two timeSuper Bowl champion. If you guys,
haven't I gotta I gotta plug you, bro, Tyron Pull thirty eight dot
com. Check out the book UltimateSuccess in the Game of Life. I

(02:04:45):
got my three copies, you know, almost a year two years ago.
Man. There's a lot of wisdomthat he drops in that book, and
we talk about finding power within.He teaches you some of his seekers.
But salute to you, man,I'm throwing this mic up, Yes,
sir, Come on, y'all,bet listen, y'all better coming with that

(02:05:08):
heat. Greg, appreciate you,Tyrone. Let's go. Let's continue this
conversation self validation, finding power withno family support. Who else wants to
continue? You guys want to continuethis conversation? Who wants to snatch the
mic? It's been some fire assshares today? Or is the room over
with? Talk to me? Who'scontinuing? I'll go stack. Who's that?

(02:05:34):
Go ahead, brother, It's onyou, and then maybe you'll be
the last year because it don't looklike it's over after that. Go ahead,
Timothy, all right, you're talkingabout fire. My backgrounds being in
the fire service, where I've beenover a decade, finding fire saving lives
is an old cliche. One thingthat I started to find in my journey
is I put way too much validationin others and my family, and at

(02:05:58):
the end of the day, Ifound my self no longer wanting to exist.
Heck, I even tried it.At one point, I got so
low and I got so dark becauseI realized I was alone mentally, physically
and spiritually. Yes, I wasmarried, and I just got to that
point and I started in my darkestpoint. You know what I'm done.
I am done being the victim.I am done saying nobody cares. Let

(02:06:25):
me make them care, Let meactually care about myself. So because I'm
caring about myself now I can careabout other people. Now it can actually
be the change that this world needs. And it starts with me loving myself.
My family said, oh, it'sbeing selfish. No, it's being
self full. You can't pour intoother people if you're not full of yourself.

(02:06:45):
We have to figure out what areall. You have to love yourself
first before other people will love you. And that's how you defensively change.
And you can tell by how soone behaves. It's being the difference.
Being the king maker is Hey,you know what You're amazing. You can

(02:07:06):
do great things if and only ifyou change your mindset and you say enough
is a fricking enough, and Godwill provide and you can do it.
You can do anything. If Ican be telling my wife goodbye and almost
taking my life and going through hellin such a short period of time,

(02:07:27):
you can too. Now I helppeople. I go and talk on stages
as sure in my story and bringpeople back into be vulnerable why. It's
because it's not about me. Itis about we. But in order to
be about we, we have tofirst be about me because then all these
great things happen. And as yougrow, your family and people are you

(02:07:53):
knew are going to say, whatthe hell is wrong with you? You're
not the person that we knew.You're not the one who you're supposed to
be. It's like, you knowwhat, in your eyes, you are
one hundred percent correct. I amthe person that I am meant to be
who I am stepping into. There'sa simple exercise that I went through last

(02:08:13):
year, and it was the speakertold us, all right, close your
eyes and imagine you're at the endof your life. What does that look
like? What is happening? Areyou happy? Are you sad? At
your funeral? Are people showing up? Or is it an empty room?

(02:08:35):
Did you do your purpose? Nowwork back a few years from that,
and your and your older self isseeing you're younger. What word of advice
do they have? What do theylook like? And what are they doing?
And that vision is what's stuck inmy mind to say, you know
what, I have this vision ofmyself and I'm going to step into it

(02:08:58):
every day, even when I don'twant to. When things are going to
hell on a hand basket and it'sa shit situation, I know my future
self is telling me, you gotthis, you can do it, you
can overcome. You have to beyour best cheerleader. And if you don't
tell yourself these things, nobody elsewill. If you look for validation in

(02:09:20):
the dark, and when there's nobody, you're lost because you have to tell
yourself. I love you, Ilove me. You are amazing, you
are strong, you got this.You are stepping into the person that you
are meant to be today, andby doing so, you're going to have
the positive effects. You're going tochange this world. You are going to

(02:09:41):
have an effect. This is howyour legacy begins. And you can use
that to check fact check against everybehavior and every thought that comes into your
world. Say, oh, you'renot good enough. Bullshit. I am
good enough. You don't want toknow why. Because of these things that
I'm doing, because of my mindset, because of my attitude and my behaviors,
I am going to set this worldon fire. I'm going to have
a change because I want better.I'm tired of complaining. I'm tired of

(02:10:05):
playing victim, I'm the victor.To change the mindset from a victim to
a victor's mindset. And that's noteasy to do. Trust me, it's
uncomfortable. It sucked. You haveto embrace the suck and go through the
fire of this life and in yourmind and on the other side, once
that fire is done, you're goingto walk out and say, hell,

(02:10:28):
yes, we slay this dragon.I did this. And sometimes you can't
do it alone. And it's recognizingto find people like this in this group
to plug into when you realize youare struggling and you're needing help. It
is not weakness. And for allthe men in this room, when you
are struggling, it is okay toadmit you are struggling. It is okay

(02:10:52):
to reach out and to say Ineed help. That is perfectly acceptable.
You are not weak. You arestrong. You can do this. You
can and you will overcome because everyonehere is strong. You've got this.
You can do this. And ifyou don't know how, reach out to

(02:11:13):
someone. Find someone who can reachout to me, including my Instagram add
me there. If you are struggling, you want some help, you want
to get an idea, reach outto me, I do leadership training,
consulting. I'm here to help andto change this world for the better.
Timothy. We appreciate you. Man. Listen, me and Timothy meant in
the breakout room today and he wasin there, connected network and can't wait

(02:11:39):
to help more people with you.So thank you for coming through. Timothy.
His first day on Clubhouse, he'sdoing nuts. He's fresh on Clubous,
brand new on Clubhouse. Yeah,I know too, He's like man.
And then I told him he wasin that networking group when when Angie
came in, And when Angie camein, he was in there. I
said, Man, come over tothe media mentors. Man, you'll fit

(02:12:00):
right in with that heat that hewas saying. Right, and look,
first day on Clubhouse, he burntit down. So we appreciate you,
Timothy. Let's go. There's beena fire room. If there's any more
final shares, take the mic.If not, you know, I'll close
us out. Whoever else watch somemore shared Laurie. And so when you
get in the path of Laurie,get on the schedule so you can come

(02:12:22):
on the show. I've already I'vealready scheduled. I've already scheduled. I'm
looking forward to the conversation. Myname is Lorie Hopkins. I am a
simple aspiring everything out of Memphis,Tennessee. I have consulted with some people
and help them successfully establish their business, and what I would like to share

(02:12:45):
is there there are a few thingsthat I wanted to point on. The
only way out is through and whenwe are looking for expert advice, we
have to sometimes control ourselves because weare the authority in our lives. We
cannot have expectations from others that wedo not have from ourselves. And having
expectation in the first place is somethingthat garners pain in your life. And

(02:13:09):
if you're not self reliant enough tostep away from others expectations of you and
having expectations of other that it cancause your devise. Everyone does not have
the heart that you have, youknow, and everyone is not going to
feel the things that you feel.And you have to find your power,

(02:13:33):
your voice. You have to focuson yourself sometimes and that is not like
Timothy was saying, that's not selfish, that's not selfish at all. So
I just would just like to addthose little gems and say thank you so
much for an inspiring and wonderful spacetoday. This is my first time in
this room. I followed miss selfLove and here, and I'm very thankful

(02:13:58):
that I did. I'm very happythat I was able to support and I
look forward to speaking to you stack. Y'all have a blessed day. I'm
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Man, Want'm gonna come back inthere. Man, I got some
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(02:17:43):
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