Media Mentors: Toxic Radar, Spotting Red Flags In Biz & Love

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You know, I'm ready to goon with that toxic radar. Yeah,
toxic radar spoting red flags and bothlove and business. Yeah, it's gonna
be time to go in. AndI'm a wait for some real media mentors
to pull up right now. We'regonna go all the way into that all
the way in love, toxicness rightthe spot in the red flags in both

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business and really like, I'm gonnalet y'all know, I'm not playing today.
Today is gonna be one of themdays. But I just chop it
up only with the rail individuals.I'm only listen. I'm only rocking with
people that really rocking with me.I can feel the energy from a mile
away. Man, I know andthey I know when the I know when
the love ain't real. Come on, man, big pack man, what's

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going on? Man? I'm gonnapick this up, share this up because
I need more people to come through. It's gonna be one of them interactive
rooms where I just go all theway. Ye you know what I'm saying.
It's gonna be a nasty room today. When I say that, it's
like I got a lot of stuffto talk about. I got a whole

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whole list to talk about today,Right, So I'm gonna do I'm gonna
ping this room up and share thisroom up because I need more people to
realize we in the all way mediamentors, just open in the all way,
ping the friends up, share thefriends up, because I want you
to come through. We're gonna talkabout something great today. I told y'all,

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this is like I when I talkabout topics like this, like I
get real passionate. Though I don'tjust want to just you know, okay,
we got a topic. Nah,this is like real passionate for me,
feel me. Like when y'all,when y'all talk about things, I
want you to be passionate too,you know what I'm saying, Like,
don't just speak about things. Whenyou speak about things, you make sure

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that there's something that you have passionateabout. But this one's gonna be about
you know, red flags love business. So I see the lot. I'm
pretty sure you guys seen a lot. I've seen a lot. Man.
If I seen a self love see, I've seen a lot, man.
You know what I'm saying. Andsometimes these things aren't correct for you.
Sometimes these directions that we're going,we got out change them. Sometimes right,

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So look, mis manifests my selflove, how y'all feeling I'm about
to pin this up? Y'all wantto warm it up for me instead?
Talk to me? Yeah, I'ma warm it up, of course I
am. I think my self Loveshe might be away from her phone for
two seconds. So listen, y'all. Everybody should be able to ping the
room out and let everybody know what'sgoing on. Because sometimes the red flags

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that we have around us we don'tsee. Right, It's called blind spots.
My Self Love always tells me aboutthis. Right we're in here,
we have all the abilities to learnsomething new about how to identify red flags.
Red flags is huge to me becausewhy I had to realize that when
I was working with certain people,certain people they will say there was a
coach, but they really had alternativemotives, right either a they you know

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what I mean? They was justnot in alignment with me. Right,
I'm over here talking business, theytalk here relationship or something crazy. And
I used to be like, whatthe heck? So it took me a
long time to really find the rightpeople to work with. It was so
annoying, and I was able togo off of that energy and start to
be able to hire the right people. You know, once I got out
of that frequency, for whatever reason, it was attractive towards me, and

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I feel like that was such ared flag and a lot of people,
you know, sometimes you think thatyou're working with somebody and they you know,
they have your your best interests,and they don't. Right. So
I had that recently, like notrecently, but maybe like a year and
a half ago, like in somechange, and I was just like yo,
and I saw my bro too.I was like, man, it's
crazy how these these mentors be.And I had to pay attention to those

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red flags. And I didn't seethem in the beginning, you know,
But as I identified it, Iwas able to work better with people,
and I learned how to have likea real big guard up so that I
can be able to, you know, allow people to know that I'm here
for business and that's business only.Really, I'll be stepping on business and
I've don't allow anything else to likemaneuver that. So if somebody had alternative
motives for me, it's like Ihad to pay attention to the things that

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they were saying or what they weredoing in events. Now, So when
you work with people, y'all oranybody to replays like, you gotta pay
attention to these things that was mine. That's what I have to say.
What you think about them? Andself loveit look ms manifest coming in high
cause you gotta choose because sometimes it'dbe the people that you think is in
your right corner, Like, youknow what, let me get up here

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and see if who I can diveinto. You'll be like, yo,
you be trying to dive into peopleand the shit don't work, Like how
we gonna dive in? And it'ssomething and something's off, right, because
energy is everything, man, something'soff, something's off about the situation.
Sometimes you gotta move around that mentorand that's a bar right there. Sometimes
you gotta move around that mentor ormove around that situation so you can get

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to a better one. Everybody wantsto get to a better situation. I
don't want to stay in the samespot or I don't want to feel like
I'm stagnant either. I was talkingabout that a couple of rooms ago.
Sis like just staying stagnant, stayingthere in the same position. Not me.
I don't want to stay in this. I want to grow every time
that we do something that we expand. I want to grow on a bigger

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level. Learn more than I didyesterday, Learn way more than I did,
you know a couple of days ago. Don't just stay stagnant on the
same goddamn things. Toxic radar,spot in red flags and both love and
business today, Yo, cling theroom up man, Steve, Welcome to
the stage, my brother, Smith'sself, Love's head tags here like,

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let's seeah, let's start, youknow, pinging it up and starting to
having some people come through. Becausetoxic radar, a toxic radar we gotta
have. We gotta also identify thesethings so we could become better. That's
why I did this room. Wealways do positivity, but I also want
to do something where we identify issues, identify the problem, and then you
can go. You could take thosein then make yourself better, make yourself

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better. This is the point isidentifying those those points and then making yourself
better. Steve, how are youfeeling, my brother? You want to
chime into this? Do you gotanything you want to you know, chip
into this conversation. Brother, overto you, Steve, if you're available,
Stack, you know, I gotfive minutes and I'm in the shift
change and hustling. You know howit is, brother, And and that's
what I'm gonna chime in with.Life is too short to be in anything

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toxic like this. So if Ican spot these signs right away, right
away, I try to look forwardbecause life is way too short, and
I got way too much shit goingAnd that's what I got going on.
And I appreciate it. Brother,take care. Life is too shut y'all
heard Steve, he gonna come inwith it. Life is too short for

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the bull craft too. That's whyI say you surround yourself with the right
people, man. Right that spotthat red flag in business, You'll see
that quick though, like you weresaying, right, Steve, like I
see it quick. The first thingI the first thing I would notice in
my business if it was a redflag, it was, you know,

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feeling stressed out or anxious about work. You know what I'm saying. I
don't want to feel stressed. Iwant to make it feel like it's a
It's like a second nature to meand what I'm doing, you want to
feel stressed. So thank you forthat, Steve. That's one of my
red flags man, is you knowfeeling stressed, bro, especially in your
career. Bro. You don't wantto feel stressed. You want to identify
that you're feeling that way, takeit out and become better. So thank

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you for coming through man, HDspicy, How you guys feel in Tangier?
How you feeling? Anybody can chimein right now and grab the mic
about you know, toxic radar?How are you feeling? Spirting? Red
flags? Let's warm it up,guys, how are you feeling's? Hey,
what's up everyone? I hope everyoneis doing well. I'll say,
like a red flag? And relationshipin businesses intact like for an example,

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right, you know, people iscool when things is good, right,
but when soon when things get likeyou know, heavy and deep, you
know, people want to expose aperson's confidential information and everything you understand.
Like for an example, like youknow, girls like women who knew each
other for like you know, sincechildhood, or like family members and stuff

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like that. You know if theyquick to like as soon as they have
like a a mishap or like adisagreement, they want to expose their personal
business or like oh she has ohI remember when she came to my house
and she had her pees and shegot STDs from this guy, and she
gave the other people that you know, those type of things and like personal

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relationships, if she's quick to dothat to like you know, her,
her her family, her friends,will make you think she's not going to
do that to you. And it'salso like in business as well too.
You know, soon as a personmay have like a disagreement and everything,
they want to like you know,blow up their spot and everything, and
you know that that doesn't really like, you know, show integrity because it's

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saying that, you know, ifyou was cool with the person, you
would like you know, condone thattype of behavior and all of that stuff.
But as soon as things is badand everything, you want to weaponize
it. So I'll say, likeintegrity is definitely important. See how people
treat others when they're mad and angry? Mmm having that cat I'm telling you

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that I radar HD then came inthat character that how you are, how
you are when shit hits the fan, when things aren't you know all you
know, yeah, Age, that'sa fail you HD. That's what we're
here, man, toxic radar mansparting red flags and both love and business.
We're going all the way in manpicking the room up. Here,
the room up. We just starting, miss self Love, you want any
words real quick? I know thatyou know you got a podcast called you

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know the breakup is a wake up. I don't know you're gonna have a
lot to say about this, butmiss self Love, you want to say
anything while we're here and while we'recontinuing in the conversation over to you.
Yes, back with the pack.Thank you for having me. Thank you.
Shout out to media mentors, thankyou for doing these rooms every day.
Back with the Pack is the legendof clubhouse, bringing media mentors back

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and share a room out in painthe room out. Because love and business
is cousins. I was able toonce I learned how to date, I
was able to actually make more moneyin my business. Right. Being able
to learn how to date is basicallyvetting and spotting red flags so you don't
go deep into something, and thesame thing with business. So once I

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learned how to date, I wentI went to learn how to date.
I started identifying red flags. ThenI was like, oh my goodness,
this is the same thing as business. Dating. Vetting and dating and vetting
and business is the same thing soonce I learned how to date and that
in the dating world, I ranback to my business. Triple my income.

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It's all of the same things.Now, men, they may have
an easy time and business. Sometimesit seems like because they've been dating,
they've been getting rejected by femails sincethey were five years old. So if
they're asking people out getting rejected sincethey were five years old, once they're
going to business, they don't careabout a couple of notes. They don't

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care about somebody telling them no.They s they're gonna act again, and
they're gonna act again. And thennow, women, we're not used to
getting rejected. Why are y'all laughing? It is the truth? Why am
I right in this manifast? No, they get all the nose, And

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you know, business is a wholebunch of nose, or it's a no,
no, it's getting whacked. It'sgetting whacked all day with a whole
bunch of nose and nabies. AndI'll think about it and I'll call you
back. People hang up the phoneon you. What's it gonna do with
my hang up the phone on youin the middle of a call and you
try to sell them something? Allright, back, hold on the right

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stuff like that be happident, andmen, you know, are they will
call right back. Some women theymay get in their feelings and they'd be
like, oh, no, shedidn't hang out the phone on't they And
then it's a whole situation. Butall you really got to do is call
right back. So this is thestuff between men and women. Women have

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not been getting rejected. They don'task the dates since they're five years old,
so they don't know how to getrejected and say no. So now
when it comes to the business andyou're like, hey, you know they
have to sell something, it's noteasy for them. So you know,
that's the difference. So I feellike when women learn how to date,
they will be able to, youknow, be better, be amazing a

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business. There are but even withinbown and outbound. Like for me too,
when I paid ten thousand dollars fora coach, I was like,
oh, people have to come tome. I was just used to inbound
and he's like, no, youhave to reach out to people. And
I'm like, I'm thinking, Idon't want to reach out to people.
I don't want to get rejected.I'm not used to reaching out to people.

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This is the difference between men andwomen. So you know, really,
once you n have it, theyyou can't really master business because they
go hand in hand. And veddyis an art and it's necessary to life
and veddy red flags when it comesto romantic relationships and business relationship. It'll
save you time and it'll make youa lot more money. So basically,

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to the women in business, makesure you are you know, you are
reaching out to people. You're notchasing anybody. You can attract people,
Still reach out to them, stillsay hey, how are you still talk
to them? Still message them.This is you know, like the art
of business. So basically as faras yeah, dating a business, they

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go hand in hand. I feelmen that sometimes they can be just a
little better at it because they've beendating since they were young. They've been
getting red rejected since they were young, so when it comes to business,
they don't really have a hard timewith it. And you know, women
kind of carry that sometimes, sowe have to just get used to getting
rejected. See how many nose youcan get in a day, that's a

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thing. How many nos can youget in a day? All of these
things is what's gonna happen in business, and then you'll be able to overcome
that. Are you going to followup with someone that told you no?
You know, things of that nature. You know, even me, I
have to check myself too. AmI gonna call right back when someone hangs
up for me? Am I gonnacall them back when they say no to

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me? Stuff like that. Sojust make sure you're checking yourself in business.
Make sure you're learning how to datewomen, really learning how to set
and really learn how to say andmen as well, because when you learn
that, I'm telling you to comeback to your business and you can make
so much more money when you sitdown and ask the right questions. All
of this is really interviewing. Sodating is just an interview process, just

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about asking the right questions, andbusiness is an interview process. What kind
of questions are you asking? Youask the right questions and you follow suit
with what you're looking for, You'regonna have so many better results. So
that's what I have to say fornow. I'll be back on for that.
Make sure you're clicking the link above. Oh yeah, click the link
above getting the media metortship family,And yeah, I'm gonna hand it back

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to you stack and I'll be backon in a few woo weit. I'm
toxic. I'm telling you myself.Love knows all about it because she's helped
people do this through the radar,sparting, the right fl Yeah, the
Queen shots, the Vision, HDluiz a gga blood, everybody that's coming
through. Make sure you guys comeup to the top and talk about this

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today. Toxic, radar, spartan, red flags, and both love and
business. Right. I want togo to every everybody's gonna have a voice
today. We're going all the wayin today. Angelica, I want to
check on my sister real quick.Sis, are you around to talk about
this? You know, I knowyou've been through some stuff and you've seen
you know, red flags, lovebusiness? Is there any perspective you want

(16:07):
to talk going today? And jelover to you, says if you're available,
I'm available for a quick bolle becauseI got it. I just realized
I had a call today. ButI'm so happy to be with y'all.
It's been crazy with this tax season. Soon happy to be on. I
told you they'll try to call me. Uh, they're trying to get that
trying to take my sister, andyou check your text messages because I called

(16:30):
you, I got you, Igot a new I got a new number.
Y'all, I'm gonna text you rightnow. Okay. But anyway,
this is a great topic. Iremember talking about this some time ago,
like from Clubhouse was at its prime, and I love what miss self Love
said about if women know how todate properly, then it will go well

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in business. The fortunate thing thatI have figured out by myself, and
then I figured out over time.And I'm a church girl and I say
that like I'm a pastor's kid.So when we grew up, you know,
it was a whole thing better marriedthan to burn. And in church,
it's like if a boy is interestedin you, then it's like,
y'all, don't even go through thewhole dating and it's trying to figure out

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if you like him. It's like, oh yeah, we're gonna be married.
Like we go together real bad.And that leaves a lot of heartbreak,
heartache and things like that. Andso as I grew older, because
I had to take accountability for therelationships that I had, and we can
say, oh, yeah, hecheated and he did this, and he
did that, but didn't you seethat stuff before it happened? And I
had to take accountability for a lotof situations that I was in. You

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know, I've been like sex.Hey, I hit through a lot of
things. One of my first likeI had, you know, with my
kids' father's I didn't really. Itwas more so like we was together for
like a month, and then wewas together real bad and then we it
was fast tracked. I'm gonna saythat it was so fast tracked. Didn't
get to know him nothing. AndI think because I was in patient back

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then, everything had to be fasttracked for me. My patience was shocked.
Okay, thank god for my son. He's artistic. I always thank
god for him because he taught mepatience and like to really walk things out
and to really see them unfold.One thing about it, this is not
when they talk about Santa your lane. Sometimes you don't gotta be as front
of You can be the long distancerun. And I prefer to be the

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long distance runner because you'll figure outa lot about a person if you're not
so fast and trying to get intoit. And that's what hold us that
again says, bring that back.So you said you had to you realized
you had to slow down. Ihad to slow down, like because I
think I had such an idea ofwanting a family. It really goes back
to self, right, So itgoes back to yourself. If you don't

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know who you are, you'll betrying to find your identity in somebody else,
and then you try to fast trackthat once you get grasp a hold
to it. Case in point,every relationship that I was in up until
every relationship I was in until theage of twenty nine, everything that was
their favorite was my favorite because Ididn't have no identity stack I didn't know
who I was, and a lotof people won't even admit that. Like

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at thirty years old, I foundmyself in therapy saying what's my favorite color?
And like, what's my favorite food? Like I love every color.
My favorite food is paying Asian food, Like I like I'm cultural. I
thought I like Italian, Like youknow what I'm saying, Like because guys
I dated like Italian. I thoughtpurple was my favorite color because their favorite
color was purple. So I hadto first find my identity. And when

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you're establishing yourself in relationships and inbusiness, you want to know your identity,
who are you, what do youlike? What do you bring to
the table. Because once you getto know all those things, when a
dude whispers at you or a femalesays, oh you handsome, you're not
so fast to want to give themyour number or even feel pressed to have
to do that. That same thingin business, never press tell them ever

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pressed. Let me tell you,like you can get a multi million dollar
client and he's like, oh mygod, that's my client because it's a
multi mean dogar Listen, I've learneda long time ago. I don't want
headache money because I know who Iam. Stat I don't want headache money
because if I feel like you aremaking me or forcing me into a place

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that I don't want to be inbecause you're paying me this much money,
then you're not my client. Becauseevery client flows with me. We vibe
together. You trust me with whatI do, and so you first got
to know who you are. Andwhen you know who you are, you
will see red flash and he's like, you know what, I'm gonna take
a step back. We are youare amazing, I'm amazing. We're just

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not amazing together, and that's okay. Everybody ain't meant to be there for
longevity. Some people never even meantto be there at all. But when
you know who you are, youdon't become pressed. And that's in friendships,
relationships, business ships. A lotof times we accept business because it
be about to hustle. Like whenI was in the music industry, everybody
was my client'stat. He my client, he my client. But I can

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the reason why I never swept becauseI was up trying to produce things for
these demanding clients. And I realizedI became an entrepreneur not to be on
somebody else's watch but my own,okay, And so I had to realize
who I am. I'm not nobodydoormat. I bring a lot to the
table. I'm very thought provoking andinnovative. Like when you figure out these

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things and the traces that you bringto the table, it's not that you're
arrogant, it's not that you're cocking. You're just very confident in who you
are and what you can deliver.And when you're like that, you're not
rushed, because when you rush atsomething, when you try how many times
you're riding down the road on theinterstate and you're going so fast you can't
even take thought in the scenery thatyou're looking. It can be a beautiful

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scenery because you're so focused on yourdestination and how fast the cars going.
All that beautiful scenery passes you bybecause you're going so fast. But when
you take the scenic route, youcan be like, oh, look at
those cherry blossom is a cute tree. Look at that. Like when you're
going at a slow pace. AndI'm not saying like slow in the aspect
of a turtle, but taking yourtime when you can soak it in,

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you can soak it in. Andlet me tell you something. People will
tell you who they are the morethat they talk. We find that out
on Clubhouse every day. We findout that people are not who they say
they are because the more they talk, they have to keep up with what
they said before. And if youare listening and taking your time, you
will pick up on that and youwonna get tied to something that's not meant

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for you. You wonna get tiedto something that will give you a headache.
And and that's like, if youknow, if you figure out dating,
and this is what I had learnedabout dating, I learned that dating
is datting. I am collecting theinformation on you to see if we're a
good fit, to see if Igotta go slow with that. Like you
said, old say that data,I mean dating is battle same thing with

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business relationships. The reason why wehave questionnaires, the reason why we have
discovery calls because I'm trying to seeif you a good fit for me because
I may not. I probably can'tfulfill what you need. I don't care
how great I am, And youprobably won't be a client for me either
because I can't fulfill what you need. And so when it comes down to
day dating, like ms self Lovesaid, if a woman knows how to

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date, she's gonna be excellent inbusiness because in dating, you're like,
Okay, I'm collecting this data.I'm getting to know this person. I'm
trying to see it for a goodfit. Do we have the same values.
Yes, he looks good, he'samazing, And don't just go off
break that down. I undated someof the biggest devils, Okay, I'm

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talking about hard down devils. Theywere very manipulentive, very try to be
controlling, and you can tell intheir actions in their conversation and so if
you're dating somebody, you get totake all that data in. It's not
just about oh do they fulfill sexualneeds because like that's the last thing,
like it's on my list? Butcan you have a conversation besides what you're

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doing? Can you can't? Wereally go I'm very thoughtful vokes, so
I like to I go deep andwhen it comes down like to business,
I just start going to talk offon a tention when it comes down business.
So I need you to understand thosethings. I need you to understand,
like venting versus being a solutionist.And when you are looking at those
persons, matches the things that areon your list, that's beyond the surface

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and they match you in a way. That's the same thing with business.
Do we match in a way thatthis can be a long term relationship.
I have clients clients, mean it'slongevity. The people on my boutique,
they're customers, they may just buyone time. But the people that are
service in marketing, branding, taxes, business and the county, they're long

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term clients. So I got tomake sure that we match and that we
are together real bad in business.So if you know how to date when
you're going through your questionnaire. Youhave your questionnaire set up in a way
that when they answer those questions,it'll be and then you have that discovery
call. You'll know if you're agood fit for them. You'll know if
you're willing to put up with threeor six or twelve months in that business
relationship with them, because you havedone the vetting work. When you're dating

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and you're taking your time, you'revetting, you're collecting that data. You're
seeing if we're good good for businessship? Like what for? Like you
figure what is this for? Becauseeverybody that we meet is probably meant to
just be you know, they're notmeant to be in a relationship. They
may just be associate. Like Ihave a lot of people that I probably
can call on because I networked withthem, But that don't mean we got

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to have a partnership long term.So when you know who you are and
you have your identity, you're meetingpeople in business, you're meeting people in
relationship. You're taking your time,You're taking note, like do they fit
what I have? Do I fitwhat they have? Are we the missing
puzzle to each other? Missing puzzlepieces to each other, like, you

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know the relationship that I'm in dounstack. He is, he works, he
likes to work, but he doeshave an entrepreneur mindset. I would you
know some people like, oh,I want to dat an entrepreneur. I
was like, I just want today who understand me? Because I know
I can be a bit much.I can say that out loud. I
can be a bit much. Itell myself that I'm a little bit extra.
And when you intermit these things aboutyourself, you're like, they gonna

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have to take on a lot ofthings because I take on a lot of
things. And that's on the relationshiptill when it comes down to business.
I used to take on every clientbecause I thought everybody was my customer when
I got there, didn't take onevery energy, says, I bet you
learned from that. Huh, listen. I learned that from the music industry.
Okay, that's the first I left. But the music industry taught me

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a lot of things about not wantingevery energy around you, not wanting every
person in your space, you know, not allowing every person to know what
you're doing. I had and evenin friendships, like I said, once
you know who you are, youridentity. You take your time, you
get to know people, You setup your boundaries for you. I used
to be a people pleaser. Iused to be a yes person. Do

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you know how hard you know howbad that is for a relationship and for
business. You will burn yourself out. Ask me how I know ended up
the hospital twice behind it. Okay, don't end up in the hospital.
Like, learn your lessons. Learnfrom these people that's talking on this stage.
Get you a mentor and coach that'sgoing to be Hey, don't do
that. Don't like set up someboundaries. Set up my big red old

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on temptations. It's funny, andI remember writing an article about this.
He said my office I was anine to five when that guy tried to
come up to him at the partyand just talk to him and he hug
him over the balcony. That rungin my head so much where I tell
people my office ees are nine tofive. Now they'll take me nine to
five or ten to six. ButI'm not doing anything before that. I'm
not doing anything after that. Businessrelated, like with clients, you're gonna

(27:36):
have to respect that. And asan entrepreneur, you have to set these
boundaries. When it comes down tobusiness relationships, you have to set these
boundaries. When it comes down toyour romantic relationships, it all goes back
to identity, knowing who you are, what you want, taking your time,
taking note, taking the scenate route. Stop being so fast. Yes,
we live in a microwave society.Everybody wants it fast. But just

(27:59):
as quick as they go up fast, some of them come down very hard
and very fast. So take yourtime. Build a steady foundation with all
relationships. See if that's what youwanna do as a business owner. Don't
feel pressured to take on every client. I don't take on every client.
I literally just had a seven figureclient come and say, we need a

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counting and we need our taxes donefor the last five years. Stack do
you know? I said, Oh, yeah, I can't do it.
I passed to somebody else. Notbecause I looked at what they had.
I evaluated their stuff was very jackedup for me, and the price that
they were willing to pay versus theprice that I was gonna charge was not

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It wasn't. We could didn't comeinto agreement, but I referred him to
someone that could help him. AndI'm okay with that, and I ain't
gonna lose no sleep now, Madis. If I took him on, I
would have been losing all types ofsleep, okay, and I ain't willing
to do that these days. Soat the end of the day, know
who you are, know what youwant, have your boundaries, and once
you have that foundation, that canhelp you in relationship, romantic or platonic,

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and that can help you in businessbecause you'll say, you know what,
I don't got to take on everyclient because I want to have ten
clients a month that's paying me thisamount of money. Maybe that client is
not my tenth client, but maybethe next person is my tenth client.
You figure out what it is,and you say, I don't want headache
money because you know what headache moneymeans that I cannot enjoy my life.

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And I'm gonna enjoy my life.I believe that there's a set of clients,
a set of people for each oneof us that's a sign to each
one of us, whether it's fora seasonal time or whether it's for longevity.
But I believe that it's a setof people that is them my people,
right, And that even comes downto people that that's employed by me,
same thing I will leap. Ohyeah, you don't align with the

(29:51):
company values. I'm going to haveto let you go. And it's sometimes
hard. It's a small business todo that. I've let go two people
in my lifetime of you know,since I've been having the team. But
when you know who you are,you just know what you're not gonna you
know stand for, and what youwill and won't do. And that's just
knowing. The core of you goesback to identity and you get you're able

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to take your time. You're ableto say no and your no means that
and keep moving and you're yes,it's yes to what it needs to be.
But you're not pressured. You don'tfeel like I have to take them.
I have to be in this relationship. And you've noticed so many red
flashs because your eyes are clear nowwhen you are taking your time, your

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mind is clear, your vision isclear, and you see everything, and
you'll see something and if it bothersyour spirit, if it feels off,
walk away, like literally, likeI ain't gonna tell you to wait for
the second, third, or fourthtime. I probably give people second chances,
but third are because when you showme who you are the first time.
I have to believe you because abit apparently you will showing it to

(30:56):
me before, but I didn't openmy eyes and see it. So know
who you are, know what itis you want, know your goals,
and understand that everybody that comes yourway is not necessarily your client or somebody
you're meant to be in a relationshipor a friendship with. Pay attention to
their movements, pay attention to whatthey say. Sometimes we'll listen to people
and we'll brush things off. Listento them. People can do things all

(31:18):
the time, but listen to howthey talk. I'm gonna say this and
not gonna be done. The lastthe guy that I dated three years ago,
he was consistent. He will callon the phone, but every now
and then he'll say something in hisconversation like, you know, I like
to come and go as I please. I like to do this, I
like to do that. He basicallywas telling me, I am a free

(31:38):
agent even though I'm consistent with you. So if you catch me with somebody
else, I told you, Ijust like to come and go as I
please. So a lot of peoplelike, well, he's consistent, and
he does this. But he basicallywas telling me, like I talk to
other people too, You're not theonly one. And as women, when
we meet somebody we really like,and y'all ain't got any men on this

(31:59):
stage, we were like, Okay, I'm gonna put my energy into this
person and they don't be done.Did the same thing. That's why conversations
have to be had. And hewas basically telling me in so many words
instead of straight out saying it,I talked to somebody else and guess what,
saw him at a restaurant with somebodyelse. And I couldn't even do

(32:19):
anything because he was telling me inso many words. He was consistent,
he did all the things, butevery now and then that conversation would come
up, and I was like,it ain't really about what they do.
Listen to what they say, becauseif I was went up there to the
table start acting the fool. WhenI told you I like to be a
free agent, I told you Ilike to come and go as our please,

(32:40):
he would have put it back onme and I would had egg on
my face and pubblic One thing youain't gonna do is make me look bad.
So I got him after though,okay anyway, but yeah, pay
attention. You'll see all the redflass that you need to see if you
take your time. I'm gonna livemy mic there. Du Jelica went up
put a fire moji in the change. You look at your warm y'all.

(33:00):
Love. I'm telling you this thetype of conversations I want to have in
the club. She went crazy forthe fire emoji and they share the room
out, picking the room out,toxic radar, spotting, red flags,
and both love and business. Everybody'sgoing to have a voice today. Everybody
going in today, Like, ifyou guys come up on the stage,
just come on, let's just chimein, right, both love and business.

(33:21):
We don't talked about some of thebusiness. We don't talked about some
of the love. We don't talkedabout everything. Right. I want to
continue the conversation with you guys.I want to continue to go in.
I want to continue to have peoplecome through and talk about this shit because
it's nothing but fire and Jelic.I appreciate that share system. Fire a
share. Who else want to takethis mic right now? Toxic radar,
spartan, red flags, who elsecoming in? Hot? Who's taking this

(33:44):
We want to take the mic becauseI got gas on you. Man.
I love this, hey Man,appreciate it. Man, that was fire,
Angelica, I absolutely love that.And when you were speaking, I
just, oh, my gosh.I res it so deeply with me because
of the fact that oftentimes when you'retalking about you got to slow down.

(34:07):
One of the things that one ofmy mentors shared with me is you have
to sometimes slow down to speed up. You have to slow down to speed
up. Sometimes we are so fastin trying to accomplish the linear vision that

(34:28):
we have for where we want tobe, we miss the vital steps to
support the vision when we get there. If you don't actually do the work,
the detailed work, and like youwere saying that, Angelica was saying
that her son taught her patients,Well, if you don't develop, the

(34:51):
only way you develop patients is thatyou have to deal with something longer than
you're comfortable dealing with it. Youcan't buy it on the shelf at Walmart,
baby, You literally have to develop. It's a muscle. So if
you are uncomfortable with being uncomfortable,you won't develop patience, and you'll go

(35:15):
faster than you actually can develop.The details to support your dream. I've
done that. I've had the vision, had the idea, had the people
in place, had the funding inplace, and set it up. But
guess what, I wasn't the typeof CEO to run that business because I
lack the personal skills, the softskills, the analytical skills, that tension

(35:42):
of detail to actually maintain the levelof success that I was striving after.
So I had to slow down,and my launch date was six months ahead.
Guess what, I had to actuallyslow down to three years to let
me as a person catch up withmy dreams. And I found the same

(36:07):
thing in love that I literally.I knew the woman that I wanted.
I knew the woman that I needed. I understood the type of woman I
couldn't no shade to anybody. ButI didn't need a W two woman.
I needed a woman that was anentrepreneur because she wouldn't understand my drive,
my vibe. Hold up, ga, ga, you needed a what I

(36:31):
don't wanted to chat man, Goahead, GA, cook it up.
I needed an entrepreneur. I wanteda woman. I needed a woman that
could see my vision. I couldn'thave a wo that vision because see,
here's the thing stack. A womanthat's an entrepreneur understands deferred gratification. And

(36:55):
a woman that's a w two shegets paid every Friday. She don't have
to defer nothing. She couldn't understandthat. She why are you living on
thirty percent of your income for whatreason? Because I'm so inceeed in the
ground not to eat today but formy great grandkids to eat generations down the

(37:17):
road. I don't have to explainit. So I knew I was self
aware to know what I needed.But see, I was so fast trying
to get somebody down the altar thatI actually got somebody down the altar that
had the right resume, but theydidn't have the right skill set. No
shade to them. Fantastic person,But just because they are a wife doesn't

(37:42):
mean they were my wife. That'sa huge difference. So I had to
slow down to speed up. Andwhen I slowed down and say, hey,
hold on for a minute. Wait, wait, wait, wait wait
wait, let me just put thebreaks on dating, Let me just put
the breaks on everything. Let mefigure out who I am as a businessman.

(38:08):
Let me figure out who I amas a husband, because I'm running
into wives. But I ain't runninginto my wife. Nothing wrong with the
women, they just don't fit me. So let me slow down to identify
specifically what I need as a CEOand as a husband. So here's the

(38:28):
thing. When I arrive with theproper tools in hand at my level of
success, when I arrive in frontof the proper woman that fits me,
then I can recognize what I needbecause game recognize game. You feel me,

(38:51):
And that is that's what I founda secret. And let me tell
you something. I'm gonna land withthis. When I found the right one,
I struggle for four years to launchone business. When I met the
right one, in six months,we launch three businesses that are profitable.
Not five years profitable, but insix months profitable. You feel me.

(39:17):
So I'm just saying sometimes you gotto slow down to speed up. And
I land with this just so peopleunderstand. And I talked about this earlier
in the meeting with my team.The weight and the intensity of your struggle,

(39:37):
the uncomfortability, the weight of yourstruggle, of your struggle is a
direct equal correlation to the glory ofyour success. So if your struggle ain't
nothing, baby, your success ain'tgonna be nothing but if you have to

(39:59):
fight for it, die for it, if you have to scrape and claw
for it. I promise you're gonnabe on the top spot on the podium.
So don't quit like geezh geah.If y'all like it, what GA
talking about? Man, put somethingin the chat. Man. If y'all
liking what GA talking about, putsomething in the chat. Y'all liking this

(40:21):
conversation so far, talk to GradarSpartan, red flags and both love and
business. If you know someone thatlikes this conversation, or once the chime
in with us man picking the roomup, share the room up right.
Earlier, my self love was goingin. You know everything right, you
know, breakup is a wake up, that's everything and self love. You
know what I got another question foryou, my self love, real quick?

(40:45):
How do you how do you knowwhen the situation is not right for
you? You know, like,how do you know? You know?
Because I know you taught a lotof people just to break up and then
you know you woke up after thebreakup. But how do you know when
certain situations aren't for you? Let'scontinue this conversation and then a month open
the mic up. Let's go misselfthough, yes, thank you fat with

(41:06):
the pack A great question and greatshare for everyone asked shit, I'm loving
this room, and yes I havethat in questions that I asked, right,
and you have to stick to yourvetting question. So a lot of
the times I noticed that the womanthat I help, they'll ask the questions,
but they won't stick to what theysaid really quickly accessively, like we're
saying earlier somebody looked good. They'llbreak all the questions right, like,

(41:30):
what are questions? We ain't gotno more questions? What are questions?
Questions? Why'd you make those?Right? You just look at all the
looks right, like, what questionsmean? What are how they get questions?
What is that? Right? Right? The questions go out the window

(41:50):
for that, So, uh,that'd be the problem, you know,
So definitely you have the vetting questions, stick to them. That's what self
love is like, angelical saying,stick yourself identic, stick stand your ground.
You gotta stand on business, andyou gotta stand on self love and
boundaries and dating as well. Right, you gotta stand on that. So

(42:12):
stand on your boundaries. If theydon't fit the questions, they don't fit
the question, they just don't fit. And in business as well, you
have to go around, you haveto see what people are doing, review
things of that nature and business justpay attention. Go on Corfie dates in
business mismanifested and I we do youknow low ticket programs because that's a Corfi

(42:32):
date. That's a cour for me. For her it was something different,
but she could talk about that.For me, it was a Coursey date.
Everybody's like, oh, why y'alldoing low ticket I'm going on a
Coursey date. I'm not gonna enrollsomebody into a high ticket program. And
then I got to deal with themand I didn't even get to that who

(42:52):
they are. That's business and relationship. It's a Corfye date. Sometimes a
couple of corfy dates and you cango into a longer relationship with someone.
So I think that's why also alot of people struggle in business. They're
trying to rush to this wrong relationshipand you're supposed to go on QUALSI days
with them, which is aka lowticket. So that's how I date,

(43:14):
that's how I spot, and yeah, definitely take everybody take that into consideration
like that in quality dates and businessas well, and getting to know people
and sticking to your standards. Soonas you go off, it's trouble now.
So thank you back with the pack. Wo misself love because I'm telling
you she got that breakup as awake up podcast, and it's really really

(43:37):
important for people to dive in andyou know understand that you wake up after
a breakup. But you also sparkedthe red flags too, both love and
business. We're in the media mentorshiptoday. Please click the link at the
top. If you guys are justnow joining to be a part of the
mansion, be a part of whatwe got going on. Right, tap
in, tap in, asap.I love this conversation and I want to

(43:58):
continue the conversation. I need youguys to pick the room up and share
the room up and have some peoplecome through. Y'all know what I do,
right, I'm about to turn itdown, big pack. You know.
Let go, let's keep going.Let's not I need you'all to pick
share it U. Let's get thetwenty something, share the room up.
Let's don't get up in the chat. I y'all enjoy me. You know
you know what it is. Hey, hold up, hold up, hold

(44:20):
up. I forgot to tell y'all. The line drops on Friday. The
first thing from the Hymn Company dropson Friday. That's tomorrow. What am
I talking about tomorrow? Let's gocall on me. Got you out to
full speed so bally belly speed boats, Baby wraising my ass. You've been

(44:44):
through the sand and the kit alla cousin what I did on bees?
Baby? I sweet baby, Istop, baby, you just go get
ready we go, Baby, longtime looking for the bouncer, Ozie.
You had a bouncer going stepping,go to stepping calling me value O fat

(45:08):
Street. So you get stopping,go to stopping with Valu. It's gonna
be fired, cuz I can't wait. You know, I'm excited for this
tomorrow. It's going down, youknow. Shout us to the team.

(45:28):
You know I got that call today. I got that call today. Shout
us to Stacey, Shout out theleague, Shout us to Todd, Shout
us to the damn. The gangis behind the scenes working. I can't
wait for them to make that firstdrop tomorrow. So they said it'll be
ready tomorrow. It should be liveon the website. I will have to
lead everywhere the pack brand CB Cannabisaedibules everything for y'all. You know what

(45:53):
I'm saying. Everything gonna be herefor y'all daily. I'm going crazy and
I appreciate all this support because youknow, you guys could be anywhere else
with this, but y'all come throughhere and you know, talk about these
topics with me and the crew.I love it. Let's keep continuing,
right, listen to this toxic radarspotan red flags and business. I'm going
back in and love and but I'mgoing back in with this. I need

(46:15):
this one right here. Let's go. That's what I want to do,
big pack, Let's go peep thisout now. If you guys are feeling
unappreciated and unvalued, then that's thethat's another red flag. You want to
be appreciated. You don't want togo where places where you just tolerated.
You want to go where you congratulatedand where you appreciate it. Goddamn it.

(46:37):
Stop playing with me, y'all know. I don't go to every room.
I don't go down every stage.I don't go in everybody's I don't
do guys, it's real, andthe energy's real. You know I'm saving
it. I gotta preserve the energyfor the right individual. Y'all see me
go to miss manifest rooms because I'mgenuinely want to be there. Y'all see
me go to Miss Cell's Love's roomsbecause I generally want to be there.
Y'all see me in JT's room.I genuinely want to be there. You

(47:00):
understand I'm not going yo. I'mtelling you, man, listen, man,
toxic radar spotting the red flag.You go where you're loved. You
go where people you know really rockwith you. You know that got your
best interest because I'm not surrounding myselfwith people that don't have put a fire
emoji in the chap. Y'all agree, get back up in the chat.
I'm not surrounding myself with nobody ifthey don't got my best interest? Right?

(47:23):
You see me? You know whenyou see me go to Otis James
Room for Data Points because I reallywant to be there, that's a OG
to me, you know what I'msaying. So I go there, I
listen, you know, see thatOTM Nick room pop up. That's that
motivation. Need that running through myblank need that running through my veins.
I'm telling you, motivation, allof it, all the things we cultivate

(47:45):
altogether. You need you want togo where you're you're you're you know,
you're celebrating and where you're welcome andnot where you're just tolerated. So let's
go toxic greater. Who else wantto come in? I love you guys.
Look who else want to you know, talk on this topic and snatch
the mic? I see Angelic Vibes, I see em, I see my
brother Nick put them in the QAngie in the que. I see CJ
and the Q. Lee just goton the stage. I'm gonna see if

(48:07):
Lee's available so she could talk aboutwhat's going down tomorrow with the pack brand
and the CBD hand cannabis. ButI appreciate you guys. Let's go.
I want more people to chime.Who's the lady? Come on Angelic vibus
emon, who's going first? Andthen I'm gonna go to the men.
Let's go. Yes, Yes,this is Angelic Vibes. For those of
you who don't know me. Ihelp people raise their vibrations and manifest the

(48:29):
true power through digital products. Thiswas an amazing room. My chimed in
right when the Angelica was speaking andright on target. Right. I love
all the shares that was shared onhere. This is an exciting, amazing
room right to come in and reallyconnect with like minded individuals. Right because
a lot of people are in toxicrelationships and in toxic businesses without even realizing.

(48:54):
And I always say that it alwayscomes down with not knowing who you
are. When you don't know whoyou are and what it is that you
truly want out of life, youdo not attract the right environments, the
right people to come to you soyou can talk. You can attract toxicity,
especially if you have toxic traits andyou're not looking within and seeing if

(49:15):
you have any toxic within yourself.Because if you say that again, Inelo,
think put a put something that youput a three in the chat of
y'all are Greek, go ahead andjel vibes. Keep yes. If you
are attracting toxicity people towards you,it's because there is toxicity traits within you.

(49:37):
You only attract who you are.Right, So when you're going out
here and you're just trying to dothings, that's the that's the big word
trying. A lot of people aretrying instead of doing so, instead of
doing and becoming and being that versionof you embodying that version of you you
out here trying to do. Andthat's the reason why you toxic relationship,

(50:00):
toxic businesses because you don't know exactlywhat is your worth, who you are,
what is it that you're meant todo here? Right, There's so
many things that you can move past, all these toxicity people, places,
and things when you tune in withwho you truly are. But you have
to take that time for yourself.You got to really know exactly who are

(50:21):
you, what are you meant todo here? Why are you here?
See, we have these questions,but we don't Angelica. Yeah, I'm
sorry demon here. I just I'msorry for interesting, but I want to
I want you to elaborate more onthe difference between doing and trying, because

(50:42):
people get stuck in there. Thisthis silver lighting in here, so we
want to speak a little bit moreabout this. Please back to yes Demen,
thank you, Thank you for bringingthat out, because you know,
when I'm talking, I'm channeling,right, I feel like I get I'm
just channeling. I'm going with theflow, and I'm speaking exactly what people

(51:04):
need to hear, not just whatpeople want to hear. I'm one of
their friends that when you come aroundme, I'm gonna give you what you
want to hear. I might notgive you what you need to hear.
You know, I might give youwhat you need to hear and not what
you want to hear. Right,a lot of people just want to hear
what they want to hear. Butyou're not getting the truth. Right.
So a lot of people with thetrying and doing, trying is just that

(51:27):
you're hoping and wishing for things tohopefully happen the way you visualize it to
happen. Doing is actually taking thatinspired actionable steps that you sat down and
you're really doing exactly what it isthat you said you want to do,
taking that time to take the necessarilyactionable steps. See, with the meditation,

(51:47):
you get the inspired action to takethat to take them directions to take
that path. Right. But someof us we get all bottled up in
our head and our emotions and allthe chaos that we want to do these
things. So therefore we are trying. We're giving it half, you know,
half half stepping. We're not fullycommitted, we're not fully disciplined.

(52:10):
So you're trying to make things happen. When you're trying. You're out here
make things happen, when instead youshould be in flow. Flow is being.
They're doing the heaven all that youtruly want because you are already embodying
that version. You have to embodythe version that you want to see and

(52:34):
let it happen for you. Right, because we out here trying to make
plans, and we have a planshow we want life to go. But
there is a certain way that yourlife is going to unfold, whether you
realize it or not. Right,it's not your way, right, it's
the universe. It's God's way.Whoever you know, whoever you look up
to allow, however you perceive,you know the most high for you right

(52:58):
the universe. You know, whateveryour source, your higher self, whatever
you choose to call your highest power, it is a force out here already
having everything laid out for you.And once you really tune in with who
you are, you're able to seethat. You're able to know that and
feel that. So that's the differencebetween trying and doing. Trying is really

(53:22):
getting in your mind knowing the thingsthat you gotta do and just going after
that. Right, and you're justtrying to make it happen versus doing is
just going with the flow and lettingeverything that's attracted to you come into you.
I know it might sound woo wooto a lot of people, but
let me tell you something. Lifereally does work like that. It does

(53:43):
really work like that. I experiencedit in my life. There's times where
I don't know how things are goingto miraculously change, but I know that
I give it the faith. Idon't even worry about the doubt. I
don't put doubt in my mind.Right, many of us live with doubt,
fear. It does creep in.However, you can cancel it as

(54:04):
soon as it comes in, butyou don't have to program your mind to
even catch that before it even creepsin. Right, So you got to
make sure that you are clearing outany chaos in your in your life,
in your mind, in your environment. Environment is crucial to what it is
that you want to do in loveand business, right, because you can
attract the love that you truly desireand you can feel happy. But is

(54:30):
it really good for you? Isit really good for your growth? Is
it really propel propelling you to yournext level? Right? I heard I
think his name was God. Godsent. I think I'm sorry if I
said your name wrong, but yousaid it best right. It's true when
you're in a relationship with someone who'snot matching the same energy that you are
wanting to get you, they canhold you back. They can put some

(54:53):
resistance into what it is that yougot going right, and it could take
you longer to get the things thatyou actually want to get done. However,
if you around this right environment therelationship, you're gonna move so much
quicker and faster because you're that energyand that frequency. It's real, right,

(55:14):
we're energetically, you know, we'reenergy. We're all energy. So
whatever it is that you want tobe do and have, just remember that
you have to energetically align with thatthat you want. So I hope that
did help someone on the stage today. For those of you that don't know
me, I am angelic vibes.I help people raise their vibrations and manifest

(55:37):
their true power through digital products.Right all through the amazing miss self love
and mismanifest that helped me to getthese digital products to add them in my
business so that way we can flourishtogether and make Oh my goodness, we
got some powerful things going on,right, and we're here to make movement,
really to really shift people's vibrations intheir environments, in their lives.

(56:00):
If you really want to truly bethat version of you that you see yourself
as when you close your eyes,you can really live that dream. But
there are some things that you're gonnahave to do. The first thing is
you're gonna have to choose you firstand know exactly who you are, what
you want out of life, andwhere you're going, and what's the necessary
actionable steps. And that's when you'regonna, you know, really get in

(56:22):
tune with you and start meditating.Take some time to meditate, because if
you're not making time to meditate,then what do you have time for?
Right, Because I like, Iwould like to say, you know,
if you don't have time to meditate, then you don't have time to prepare
your day. And without preparation,you know, you're just out here just
going, just going and going andgoing and doing and doing when you can

(56:45):
just be flowing. So I hopethat helps someone today. And this is
Angelic Vibes thinking Stack for letting meshare that on this stage. I love
you guys, Stay blessed. Geezyou're gonna keep going in. Damn every
yo, keep going there. Puta harder mode in the chap you like
in these shares, Man talks greatoff Spartan red Flags both Love and Business.

(57:08):
I want to continue this. Let'sgo to some more people, man,
I want to talk to you guys. I want to continue the conversation
and dive in. But y'all gotto ping the room out. Share the
room up, man, What y'alldoing? Oh man, get this room
up? Man. I see CJtrying to come in. I see God's
son try to come in. Holdon, y'all got to share it.
Come on, can we ping thisup? What we're doing? Let's pick
this up, man, with youryou know how y'all feeling about the conversation?

(57:31):
First of all, right, becauseMiss Manifest she started it out with
one of the first shares, sis, how you feel about this right here?
Before I go to my brother Nickand a check on Nick real quickly
for Miss Manifest, how you've beenfeeling about the flow spot in red Flags
both Love and Business. I'm lovingthis flow. I think it's important for
us to pay to the energy.Right now in the room, we're learning

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how to identify red flags and businessand in love. So when you put
that energy out there to attract whatit is that you're really looking at.
So what Angelic Vice was talking about, it's like you have to look what's
inside you first, Right, that'snumber one. Number two making sure you
write down these list of things thatyou is non negotiables. Right, so
when you're working with somebody, youalready identify what to expect and what you
should have setting up those boundaries asmyself Love loves to talk about, right,

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because I learned a lot from herwhen it comes to doing business.
You have to have what you aregoing to allow in business and what you
are not especially when you're getting paidyour work. Right, it's a red
flag when people don't want to payyou. I don't care if you're a
friend or not. If they don'twant to pay you, that as a
red flag. Do not deal withpeople like that because if they can't putting

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money back in the chat, ifyou'll agree, shot that up seriously,
Like that's what happened with me becauseI thought I had a bad business,
but it was because I was givingit to my friends as an option so
that they could purchase and they wouldn't. So I'm thinking, dang man,
maybe I have a bad business andit wasn't. It's just that I wasn't
supposed to be giving out my informationto them because that's not my ideal client.

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So when they're not expecting like well, I won't say they're expecting people
always want to work with you,but if they, if they if you
charge them nine times out of ten, they may be upset. They're gonna
ask for a discount. Don't evendeal with things like that because it's gonna
lower your vibration. Then you're gonnastart thinking that everybody's like that, and
strangers in the streets is never gonnabe like that. Period. They gonna
pay your worth. I promise youthe money that I've asked for my friends,

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I've never ever gotten that from themat all. And I'm gonna say
every single one of them, SoI'll tell you that right now. Put
a red flag up for that.When you are trying to offer your services
to friends and family, that couldbe an option if you want to look
out, But don't expect you onehundred percent of your business to come from
your friends, because it's gonna bringyou down, and people and oh,
miss self. Love loves to talkabout that too. Your peers, that's

(59:42):
an issue too. So you mightthink, oh, you know, you
want them to pay for your stuff. They may not look at you like
that. So you know, it'svery important to pay attention to say thank
you, queen. That's so funny. Pay attention to those those red flags
right, and in your mind too, telling yourself, oh, only my
friends are gonna buy my stuff.That's not the truth. So that's what
I had to say all that.I love how this is going. Let's
keep it rocking. Ooit now,listen, we're gonna keep going in now,

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right, we wanna keep this rocking. Talk to Radar Spartan red flags
and come on, you're done talkedabout a lot of different points and don't
want to continue the conversation for aboutfifteen more minutes, right, So let's
go. I want to check onbrother Nick that we're gonna keep it rocking.
Nigga, you around to talk aboutthis or email or so one of
y'all, you know what I'm saying, one of y'all snatched the mic.

(01:00:27):
Let's go. I'm always here,brother, But you know, man,
I wouldn't be a gentleman, ifI don't let ladies go first, what's
up to y'all? What you're gonnado? I mean, no, no,
no, absolutely no, let's go. Let's go next, and then
me, oh Passick, you gottatake the ball, Nick. She passed
it back, bro, you sogo on, you Nick, let's go.

(01:00:51):
Nick. I know you know alot about this because we didn't have
rooms in here with you, bro, and we talked about some of this
stuff, breaking barriers and in differentconversations your club and outside. You know
what I'm saying, So I knowyou're gonna have some good expertise with this.
So over to you, Nick.Thank you for being here. Brother.
Let's get it. Man. Startoff by saying this, peace,
love and progress. Everybody happy Thursday. I almost said Wednesday. That's how

(01:01:12):
you know my mind is running out. I thought it was Wednesday, though.
Bro. If if for some reasonI lose y'all is because I'm driving
through a bad area. So don'tmind, uh, don't mind the blender
trying to pull me under because it'sgonna stop me from being great. But
I'm gonna I'm gonna just say thisright specifically this topic. I resonate heavily

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with this because a lot of times, whether it's business or love, or
casual or personal, we tend tofind ourselves shrinking ourselves to fit in.
And for me, that's not somethingI care to mention because I'm not gonna
shrink my worth, value and mymy intellect just to make you feel better
suited. And people like that whooperate on a on a very low vibration

(01:02:01):
and wavelength, that's not something Icare to indulge in either. Just because
you don't know your worth and valuedoesn't mean I have to forget mine as
well. And people like that theywill make you forget your worth and value
because they don't know anything about theirs. And people people that make you feel
small for saying things that you're passionateabout, or that you care about,

(01:02:23):
or that you that you hold nearand dear to you, I will always
stand up for myself and what Ibelieve in. If someone doesn't what I'm
doing, I'm not gonna make themsee it, because you can't make people
love what they don't appreciate. AndI'm gonna say that again. You can't
make people love what they don't already. Man, you can't make people love

(01:02:47):
what they don't already appreciate. Isay that because I'm sad. I kid
you not, bro, true story. This is a vulnerable moment for me.
I'll hold up. We need afire emoji in the check. Y'all
want to break it down because it'sthe sharees we like. Put Put something
in the chat, man, Mick, you know what I mean. Anytime
brother Nick come and here in myfamily, man, everybody, we make

(01:03:08):
everybody feel comfortable. Man, getup in the chat. Man. If
y'all want Nick to be vulnerable rightnow, y'all want to break it down.
Y'all really want to go crazy?Put something in the chat, man,
right now, go crazy in thechat. Make Nick feel comfortable with
this shit because he can't eather bedoing anything else. You know what I'm
saying. But little come in hereand be vulnerable with us, and everybody
should see this as motivation to dothe same. So ping the room out,

(01:03:29):
share the room out, y'all enjoyingit? Nick? Back to you,
Bro, I think they're ready,let's go. I appreciate that.
Man. That's that's real love rightthere. See see, y'all, that's
that's genuine love right there. Man. If you gotta keep people like that
around you, man, friendship orbusiness, no matter what it is,
you gotta keep it like that aroundlocked in, Nick, you know what
it is. So for me,man, I kid you not. I

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was in a four year relationship andthis was probably the most toxic, most
the probably the hardest relationship I've everbeen in, and I've been in a
few. This woman tried to changeme and tell me to not be an
entrepreneur, go work a nine tofive, be like the norm, kind

(01:04:12):
of make me give up on mydreams. And when I told her respectfully
no, she then went to shamemy character to other people and say this
man abused me, this man wrong, this man did all these things to
me, And she was basically spreadingfalse rumors and lies about me, when
none of that were true. Becausemy mother raised me not to lay a

(01:04:36):
hand on a woman whatsoever. Andit doesn't matter how mad or frustrated I
get, I will never get tothat point. And I was at a
really low point in my life whenthis happens. Back, I kid you
not, because believe it or not, she made me think and believe that
I had to give up on mydreams, my ambitions, my goals.

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I had to let go of thebrand that I built from scratch just to
please this woman who I knew wastemporary. And hold up, Nick,
bring that back, man. Idon't want that. I don't want them
to not hear that part. Expandon that, because you know people are
temporary, you can't give up onsomething longevity. Come on, Nick,
expand on that, you can't makea permanent decision based on a temporary feeling,

(01:05:19):
because and that's what I was in. I was literally in that you
cannot make a permanent decision based offa temporary feeling. And in that moment,
my feelings and judgment were telling methat maybe this woman was right.
Maybe this woman was absolutely right,and it's about time I go working nine
to five and be like everybody else. But in the back of my mind,

(01:05:41):
something was telling me, like,Nick, if you're shrinking yourself to
fit in with this woman's narrative,you're making yourself less of a human being
by thinking that you're giving her allthe power. And in reality stact when
I said, no, I'm notgonna do that, and I stood up
for myself and said, you eitheryou either take me as I am,
or you don't take me at all, and truthfully, I gave her a
choice, and at that point,man, I felt stronger in my willpower

(01:06:06):
than ever because I'm not gonna letsomeone that I know, who may not
be for me fully ever make methink that I have to make a permanent
decision based off a temporary feeling.And that's that's not even just in love,
that's in business too. Because whatI've learned stack and I've learned this
through being in countless relationships. I'velearned one thing and they both tie hand

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in hand. You cannot work witheverybody. You cannot be with everybody,
just as much as you think youwant to, as your as that voice
in the back of your head tellsyou, you cannot work and love everybody.
Not everybody is meant to be abusiness partner. Not everybody is meant
to be a partner. Not everybodyis meant to be loved or seen or

(01:06:51):
any of those things. I learnedthat firsthand, and it was one of
the hardest decisions I had to make, because I'm not gonna what I'm doing
to make you catch up. It'seither you're gonna catch up on your own,
or we're not catching up at all. I'm just at the point in
my life where if you're not bringingany value to my life and you're bringing

(01:07:11):
me more of a headache, Ican get that headache anywhere. If I'm
being quite honest, I can getthat headache anywhere. I don't need someone
that's gonna make me feel clouded andbrain fogged and again making me forget my
worth and value. And it sucks. It sucks when you give so much
of yourself to somebody, whether it'sa bit of love, and they don't
appreciate what you bring to the table. They fall in love with your hand

(01:07:33):
and not your heart. And forme, when you're a good person,
I'm stagg kid or not bro Ilearn, man that when people fall in
love with your hand, they fallin love with with what you constantly give
them. They fall in love withwhat you constantly give them as opposed to
who you really are as a person. And once you take your hand away,

(01:07:58):
they got no choice but to fallin love with your heart. And
if you're not falling in love inmy heart, then at that point you
not for me. Again, Likeat the beginning of my statement, I'm
not shrinking myself to fit in withyou. If you want to misunderstand me,
that's your choice. If you wantto doubt me, that's your choice.
But catch on before the world catcheson. Don't be like that person

(01:08:19):
that starts to love and applaud meand admire me when everybody makes it popular
to do those things. Catch onwhen nobody knows about me. Catch on
when I have no money in mybank account. Catch on before I start
my business. Catch on before itbecomes an LLC. Catch on before all
those things. Because I don't wantsomeone to stack man. I'm gonna drop

(01:08:45):
this jem for y'all, man,and I want you to listen. I
want no credit. You cannot builda kingdom with somebody who constantly craves attention
from the village. I'm gonna sayit again. You cannot build a kingdom
with some Yeah. Did they takeNick underground? Oh my gout, queen,

(01:09:14):
he's cooking yo. They took himunderground. Nick, they took you
in the matrix. Let me knowif you can come back. Man,
you was cooking up. Man.He said he was driving through a bad
area too, So he warned usanyway that he was driving through a bad
area. And Nick, you thereyeah, I'll say this, and I'll
go on mute man. This ismy mic drop. You cannot build a

(01:09:38):
kingdom with someone who constantly craves attentionfrom the village. And I said it
a third time because sometimes the secondthe third time it hits. So that's
my gym for y'all. Yo,stop playing man. We're gonna be having
some OTM rooms coming up next week, so make sure y'all tune in.
You know, with Nick, wegot going all the way this fire shares.

(01:10:00):
You don't want to tune into thosepeople that still need other attention.
You want to come on, man, tune in, you tune into the
energy. That's why I say focuson the inside noise, so you're not
focused on the outside noise. Isay that all the time. I say
that all the time. Nick.And if you're not at the table,
you're on the menu. I forgotabout that one. If you're not at
the table, you're in the menuall the time. Go around. See

(01:10:20):
how much value we get. AdRight, let's continue this conversation. Appreciate
that brother, Nick toxic radar spotin red Flags and both love and business.
Also click this link at the topTop social Audios influences to watch the
twenty twenty four y'all know me andmy friends made this right. You know,
we made the list right. Appreciateyou guys. Let's continue to dive

(01:10:42):
in for two thousand. Let's go, Nick, let's go, and we're
gonna be having some more announcements coming. I know I got lead right there.
She's probably busy, but the cannabisline drops tomorrow. The first stretch
drops tomorrow. The first stretch dropstomorrow, Will Burrow and staying this went
down. Appreciate you guys, Nick, appreciate the ship and Jellybo. Appreciate

(01:11:03):
the shit. Miss Manifests my self. Love everybody that's been going in.
Y'all been doing in. Let mecheck on my brother, oldest man.
See he's around, because I knowhe came through come talk with us,
us about you know, red flagsand stuff like that. Over to you
man, how you feeling, brother? Oh? He was right, man,
he was right. I was waitingfor him to get to the Beware
for people that crave too much attentionbecause those people can back not facts.

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Yeah, and that's a big one. If I look at you know,
if I see you know and thisis it's It's more evident with females because
of how they you know, theypresent themselves differently on social media than guys
do, right, and that canbe misinterpreted. So, you know,
if I see somebody that wants todo business with me, and if we're
putting some money up, then I'mgonna check you out. Right, I'm

(01:11:50):
not gonna take you at first value. Wasn't face value, It wasn't always
like that, but I'm gonna checkyou out. And if you present yourself
like you were just trying to dotoo much, then I'm out, you
know, respectfully, because it's justthere's collateral damage that can happen when you're
dealing with people like that. Now, not everybody, right, some people

(01:12:11):
do that. You know, peopledo that for different reasons, right,
some people, you know, theirself portrait isn't where it needs to be,
or some people think they need todo that to get more business,
or but the people that are justconstantly trying to do that, that's a
big one for me, man,So I'll leave it at that. I'm
on daddy duty, man, I'mabout to change this diaper, so I'm
just gonna be listening. ODIs Iappreciate you brother for just coming in.

(01:12:32):
Man, We're gonna be having someoldest real estate rooms next week too,
So make sure y'all tune in toget into the bag in real estate,
finding the right real estate deals andeverything around real estate. When Oldest comes
through and teaches us and we getthat education and apply and go support the
four data points. They're always inmortgage syndicate. They always got their own
clubs in their room. So tapin to Brother Oldest, please, because

(01:12:54):
we're gonna be doing some great thingsfor twenty twenty four for you guys.
Tune in right Media real Estate.I want to tap into everything everything.
I want you guys to be educated, motivation with Nick real Estate, with
ODIs, miss Manifests, with theManifestation, It's Self Love podcast and Lindsay
and with the brand and everybody comingin hot. I'm telling you, every
anybody that stepped up to the play, I appreciate you. I'm telling you

(01:13:16):
because it takes a Lindsay. Youknow it takes a lot to stay up
to the play. Mismanifest you knowit takes a lot to step up to
the plate. Misself Love. Y'allknow how much it takes to step up
to the play and say, youknow what, I'm gonna be a leader
and go ahead and lead a conversation, leave the community, lead it up,
right, So I appreciate y'all rightfor stepping up man, because we
didn't have some fire rooms. It'ssome firerooms on the podcast, some fire

(01:13:38):
rooms on the replays that, y'all. It's legendary. It's like our voice
will live on forever. It's whyI love social audio and I'm so passionate
about this because every time we comethrough and share, you know, everything
we talk about, it is gonnalive on forever, right, So this
is a fire conversation, otis.I appreciate you. Let me check on
my assister Lindsay, and then I'llcheck on A and Trisha and everybody here
and everybody on the stage. ButI want to give some space to my

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sists, Lindsaya because that self love, that greatness, right, that desire
within yourself, That's something that Iuse within my practice to get to the
next level. But you know,we're sparting red flags and both love and
business. And I know Linzaia,you know she knows about this. She
spots red flags. And we're alsogoing to bring it into the positivity aspect
too. Right, I was sayingthat we can have this room right here

(01:14:23):
about toxic radar, but then wecan also identify the points and then know
how to become better identify those points, but then become better from noticing,
you know, taking accountability, knowingwhat's going on. All right, I'm
aware of what's going on around me, So Lindzaia, I appreciate you for
being his sais always got your backover to you. Let's go, well,
listen, there's a little fomo whenI'm not here, because yes,

(01:14:45):
it does live on forever. Andthe people in here are always sharing gems
and things that I can take awayand apply to my business too. So
you know, they say you arewho you hang with, so get in
the room. Make sure you're piningyour friends too. And in terms of
this topic today, the toxic radarand the red flags, and I love
that you know that positive approach thatyou had stack that you stated that we

(01:15:11):
can come to a place where wehave awareness. A lot of us will
call that our intuition. I wantyou to go throw an exclamation mark over
in the chat if you trust yourintuition, if you yet chat yeah here
listen exclamation mark. If you trustyour your intuition because for so many of
us, and this also can bethe voice of God to you. That

(01:15:33):
is something that others will use toreference that same feeling that you know,
where all of a sudden there isa vibration in your body or you get
an inkling. You know, there'sa lot of ways that we will talk
about this. And so I seeyou Stack and Ga and cj okay and
Tricia too, and god Son Yes, okay. So that intuition is so

(01:15:58):
important to me. It is thedivinity of being human. You know.
They say we only use a verysmall proportion of our brain, and they
also say we have a huge amountof junk DNA. I'd like for the
whole world to recognize that they onlycall it junk or say it's an unusable
space because we don't know what thehell happens over there. We haven't advanced
enough to understand it. And sothe truth of the matter is, in

(01:16:21):
my opinion, that intuition, thatis the part of the brain that we
likely have very little to zero understanding. And so that's where we're being spoken
to. We're being told to payattention aka red flags. And here's the
part where self love and self worthreally changes the game. And listen,

(01:16:42):
I'm on a journey to learn tocontinue to lean into you know, really
trusting my intuition more boldly because I'mhuman too, and even though I continue
to do the work, I'm lovingme. There's a lot of pre programmed
self abandonment. Maybe you can relateto this if you're someone who has abandoned

(01:17:04):
yourself regularly in your life. Iwant you to go put a thumbs down
in the chat thumbs down because ofcourse we want less of that. But
if you have abandoned yourself, ifyou've stepped away from maybe something you think
is in alignment from you, butyou move in a different direction because maybe
somebody told you to, or youthink it's going to be better, even
though your belly says that isn't true. Go put a thumbs down, because

(01:17:28):
those are all self abandonment or oftenhave a relationship to our worthiness. So
we'll do something that is feels moreforeign to us. It doesn't feel like
a good fit, but we'll doit because we think with our brain rather
than feel with our intuition. Andthose red flags the intuition that comes from

(01:17:48):
that, the more that we stepinto loving ourselves, knowing our worthiness,
trusting ourselves deeply, which means listeningto the intuition, allowing for the thoughts
that cross our brain to be witnessed, and to really promise ourselves that we're
going to stop abandoning that gut instinct, that intuition, those you know,

(01:18:14):
the deep knowing in our belly.The more that we step into loving ourselves
and trusting ourselves, we also willstop abandoning ourselves. And for me,
that's a really important thing because I'vebeen burned. If you've been burned in
business, go put some fire emojisover in the chat. If you've been
burned in business where you've lost money. I actually was. You know,
I'm working with a whole bunch ofentrepreneurs. We just had a big content

(01:18:36):
day and the and while I'm there, I'm getting a slew of text messages
because very recently in my world,I've been burned in business and people are
reaching out to me because I'm theperson they always knew that was, you
know, in the place of powerin that company, and so they're reaching
out to me. And I'm havingpeople like literally cry to me and also

(01:18:59):
worry, have fear and losing moneyand all sorts of things. And you
know that it is a really,really challenging place because guess what, I'm
recognizing that I had been abandoning myselfand I had been minimizing and reducing my
intuition because I wanted to give agenerous assumption, something that I've worked really

(01:19:20):
hard to learn how to do.Thank you Brene Brown. Three rounds through
Brene Brown and her company taught mehow to have a generous assumption. And
I realized that sometimes I can placethat intelligence cap on and so I'm like,
oh, I know how to dothis, and so I will choose
to do the thing I know howto do instead of choosing to trust my

(01:19:44):
instinct. And at the end ofthe day, you know, you can
lay on the ground and kick andcry and lose your shit about the fact
that things didn't go your way,or you can pick up from the rumble
the lessons that you learned lie thosein the future, and you can most
importantly, if you're anything like me, and maybe if you really feel in

(01:20:06):
this, I invite you to goput it over as an affirmation statement in
the chad that I am no longergoing to abandon myself or maybe right,
I am going to trust myself.Because the more that we proclaim this out
loud, the more that our eyessee it if we're typing, or our
ears hear it because we're speaking,the more we will have a high level

(01:20:30):
of propensity to behave that way.And so you know, I invite us
all to abandon ourselves less if wecan minimize it all the way amazing and
give ourselves grace. We are humanand that instinct, friends, that instinct
is there for a reason, socall it what you will. I invite

(01:20:50):
us all to make the promise todaythat we are going to listen to that
instinct and when we see the redflags, we're going to trust that we
know rather than believe what they say. And so with that, I'll toss
it back to you. Stack gratefulto be here today. Oooh Linseaiah coming
in hot. I'm telling y'all,this is the shares that I want.

(01:21:12):
I want nothing but fire ass shares. When we come through, I need
like one more fire share before Iget a body here. Though we went
crazy today, we went all theway, and you know I stayed I
don't stay for more than an hourand a half, right, y'all know
I stay all the way for two, and then I stayed three and I
cut it off thirty three thirty themax. Right, So I need one
more fire shares? So on,y'all, who's who's snatching this mic?

(01:21:34):
Who even? Let me come toJT? And then I'm gonna come to
you. I need to get mybrother JT in here. Please let me
get JT because I know he's busy, and then we come to you,
will come to Eman. We'll stretchit out for emit, but let me
get my brother JTA. Let mesqueeze him. I've seen both of y
y'all was the only two that cameoff mic. So it's gonna be on
y'all. So JT, you go, brother, and then E man,

(01:21:56):
you could close us out and theny'all there, Hey, what's going on?
My beautiful people? Listen, everybody'sin a good mood today. The
weather is out here, weather inthe field. This weathering out here,
Jay, Look you hear me,stack The weather is out here weather.
And then you know what I'm saying. I'm feeling good, y'all. Hope
y'all doing good. Y'all know wherewere at Monday through Friday? Media mentor

(01:22:19):
be here or B Square and y'allare squared. Love it, love it,
love it, love it. Butwhat I will say right when we
talk about spotinos, red flax andlove and business, I think they kind
of run parallel. I think theyrun, you know, together, right,
And I think for me, ithas to be people who keep their
word. Man. I don't carewhat happens man, and what I mean

(01:22:41):
keeping your word. It comes alongthe lines with communication because we all understand
lightly life and things happen. Hey, we have a meeting set up for
two o'clock, Hey, or somebodycall you thirty minutes prior. Hey,
man, something came up. Canwe reschedule things like that? Man?
People who keeping their word listen,anything can happen. We could build,

(01:23:01):
We can create any type of thingas long as you a man or a
woman of your word. Man.They say, if you don't have your
word, you don't have anything.So that's number one. That's priority man,
dealing with somebody in a relationship orbusinessman, because we have if we're
building something, if we have youknow, money on the line, we
have properties on the line. Wehave all these things that could make or

(01:23:25):
break as man. We have tobe around people who can keep they word.
And if they can keep they word, man, that's a red flag.
Man. If somebody said they're gonnado something for you, they're gonna
sponsor you, they're gonna be thereto support you, you're at your event,
and they don't show up and theydon't communicate, that's a red flag.
Man. You know what I'm saying. It took me a while to

(01:23:45):
get there. You know what I'msaying. I understand stuff come up.
I'm never mad if somebody, youknow, communicate with me and say,
hey, something came up, blahblah blah. Now, now if it's
a habit, if every time youpromise me you're gonna be there or do
something to me and something always comeup, that's a red flag too,
right. But you know, likeI understand, things happen, man,

(01:24:05):
But keeping your word, I'm reallybig on that. That's all that's really
all I ask. And I thinkthat that parallels that cross line with everything
else communication, honesty, loyalty,things like that, because if all you
gotta do is just let me know, I'm a very understanding individual. I
understand people have children, they haveresponsibilities. Life doesn't revolve around just us.

(01:24:28):
I get that right. But ifyou care about me and you value
our friendship, our business friendship,our relationship, you're gonna communicate to me
and say, hey, look dada da da da da da da da.
And I can respect that. Man. So when we talk about spoting
those red flags, you have tounderstand that your word is your bond.
My bond is my word. IfI don't have my word, then I
don't have nothing. So that's allI wanted to say. I wanted to

(01:24:51):
wake it up short and sweet tothe point. Thank you for the space
stack. I hope everybody enjoyed it. Beautiful day, man, it feels
good outside. And uh yeah,we'll catch you all tomorrow. Oh Man,
make sure y'all tapping with JT FunkTalks. There was a fire conversation
last night that I wish I couldhave chriveed into. But we'll be there
next time. JAT. Make sureyou ping me up man, fire ass

(01:25:13):
conversations in the Funk Talks house right. Share that link in the chat to
JT. Let them tap in.Man, make sure y'all tap into the
funk talks always great conversations. Makesure y'all tap in asad emon. Can
we get the last ship so Icould get up out of here? Come
on, let's go, Yeah,let's go. Well it was amazing,
Groom. Almost all the shares werejust some point kind of this is leading

(01:25:39):
me to my last point, Andwhat Nick was saying is my life story
as well. Just it's just thesame manipulative, disrespectful behavior. And I'm
speaking this out ofans. This isme speaking telling my story in both business

(01:26:04):
and life. Actually being controlling orhaving that manipulative behavior is one of the
no, no, no, whatevercolor you want, all the colors of
a flag for me, disrespectful,having that emotional unavailability all the time,

(01:26:31):
and they're unwilling to resolve all theconflicts you either those people who are about
you either do it my way oryou're out of my way is a big
grit flag. I'm that person thatdoesn't really have to fit in. I

(01:26:54):
don't. I don't and for along time I have to. Let's say,
I had to to shrink myself alittle bit. But when you deny
yourself and you shrink yourself for thesake of things to go better or for

(01:27:18):
you not to hurt anybody's emotions orwhatsoever. That's you hurting yourself. Dis
honesty, was your with yourself.You're just getting out of your own way.

(01:27:39):
And and to be honest, Idiscovered along the journey that our inner
child doesn't really need to be healed. It's not the healing alone. Our
inner child needs to be acknowledged.Okay, Because if you remember when when

(01:27:59):
we were child, and you gojust and you fold down and scratch your
knee and you go back to yourmommy or dad or babies or whatever the
guardian you had, and they cleanit up and telling you, you know
what, you don't have to goout again. You don't play again.

(01:28:23):
No, that's a disservice for you. If you are keeping on just trying
to heal without acknowledgement, that's adifferent story. But when you acknowledge that
we now have cleaned that wound,and we now are able to go back

(01:28:45):
to your swing uh a seat orto the playground and what soever, we're
ready to go do it again anddo it alone without anyone, that's when
you know that you're healed. Andin the business contexts and for the sake
of the room title, you know, unethical and the alignment the people.

(01:29:13):
Those people are not aligned with yourbusiness ethics are always going to have that
conflict with you if they if theyare not willing to solve conflict, if
they are not willing to listen tosome criticism now every now and then,
if you yourself are not willing tolisten to that. And a lot of

(01:29:39):
criticism can be constructive. It dependson who and how and when to say
it. How do you say thecriticism? How to make it constructive?
Is it out of jealousy or outof love? If you want to go
to continue with the partner, eitherbusiness or life, you want to be

(01:30:01):
loving and compassionate when you're doing thisstyle of criticism. But getting out of
my morals, my ethics is ano note for me. So those a
little bit just a glimpse of whatyou guys have said, because we have
said a lot today and it's it'sall constructive and it's all amazing. But

(01:30:27):
for me, I have uh andthis is the secret, guys, I
have a note for media mentors room. I have a no especial note for
you for you and I write everytime every day we're here, I write
notes on it. So that's yours, and I think at at the end

(01:30:47):
of the this month, maybe it'sgoing to be done. It's going to
end, and I will buy anew one. But it's always amazing.
It's always very very constructive, verysupportive. You feel like you're not alone
when you are in the media.Mentors. So thank you so much for

(01:31:08):
being here, for trying to showup for yourself and for all of us
every day. Stuck back to youryear. Woo wit Listen, we went
all the way in. I loveit. Thank you for being here.
Ema and everybody. Renthia Nay namejt oldest Queen is self love, It's
manifest everybody bestre damning a man.Listen, this is the last one,

(01:31:32):
bro, I need I can't.It's over. I say, EMA's the
last one. Bro. I gottahop on a call. I gotta release
this cannabis brand today. I gotthat was the last year. Even with
the last year, I appreciate youGod. So you're gonna have to come
back tomorrow. Tomorrow we're talking aboutself validation, brother, self validation right,
how to find the power without familysupport. That's gonna be the next

(01:31:55):
one. For tomorrow. So I'mcoming and hot with self validation pouring into
yourself, and I know Linday isgonna have a lot to say about that,
because we do a self love roomat seven fifty every day, so
it's gonna be a nice self loveroom self validation. A lot of people
are feeling like, damn, what'sthe support for my family or but we
already say this, miss manifest us. We are always gonna be the outside
world supporting you more. So,dive into that room for tomorrow, RSVP

(01:32:18):
for that room for tomorrow, becausewe're gonna have a great ass conversation.
We're diving all the way in fortomorrow. Right, everyone's diving in.
Everybody has a voice in the media. Mentors. But I've been here for
over an hour and a half.It's three thirty five. Now it's time
to get a body here. Tomorrow. We're going two pm strong. Put
this link at the top, schedulea fifteen minute call with me so we

(01:32:38):
can level up and take these relationshipsto the next level. Social media,
building yourself out, getting monetized,getting to the bag. And I'm also
helping people get approved of the FacebookBonus program. Oh my god, you
know how much money's over there.Don't sleep on the Facebook bonus program,
don't sleep on monetizing yourself, don'tsleep on getting to the bag, getting
on these articles, getting on TV, getting on but every day. Right,

(01:33:00):
I've got a lot of tools thathave my fingertips. But get this
bigteam in a car. I swearI'm a guide you to the next level.
Right, So shout out to everyonethat's been trusted the recent features that
came out and influenced with Andrea atMisself, love with Los Angeles Business,
and a couple of people that's beentapping in behind the scenes with their company
getting published by internet traffic agency TheEmpire. I love you guys. Thank

(01:33:20):
you for trusting me with the media, me with the you know what I'm
saying, getting it to the nextlevel and breaking this shit through the atmosphere
Tomorrow. Self validation, I'm goingin without family support, trying to find
the power without family support. Whathappens when you don't have the family support,
You still gotta self validate yourself,right, so self be in tuned

(01:33:41):
with that. To matter of fact, I'm gonna share right now before I
get up out of here, i'mashared in the chat. So y'all can
RSVP right here. This is whatI'm gonna do because it's gonna be a
lid ass room tomrow. I'm goingin just like how I wait for this
one right This is gonna be fired. Get up in there without the family
support because you never know who's gonnacome through there. There's gonna be a
lot of energy in that one tomorrow. I'm excited for that one tomorrow.

(01:34:01):
If you guys enjoyed this room,put a one in the chat, all
I take us out. Put aone in the chat and get this par
with me. Let's level up.Let's introduce each other to each other's businesses.
It's being complimentary this year, bigpack. Let's go, you know,
always saying we're together. I wantto be a part of flench.
Y'all out telling them sense nigga citizens. The press had a numbers quick on

(01:34:26):
how you're not a fist. BecauseI'm him in the flesh and the same
brother, I can show you howto scam. American expressed, I'm tired
that you're talking about time. Pleaselet my nephew rest. This ain't nobody
doing that all along. Get pressed. Shut it down, baby, shut
it down, shut it down.It's a mess. Look at it.
Bill on me, hit it andtake it up. Path time made me.
Yeah, EPs, don't come around. And if he's standing down,

(01:34:46):
says stand down, get a check. You got this

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