Media Mentors: Why Are There Traumatized Entreprenuers?

Episode Transcript

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I know what happens inside the mediamentor shit mega mansion, right, why
are there traumatized entrepreneurs? It's gonnabe one of those ones when I go
all the way yep. You know, when you go all the way,
yep, you ast all your peopleto join you, Like, Yo,
let's actually turn this shit all theway up to the next level, Like,

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let's really see what's the problem.What's going on? One who feels
this e same exact way, right, Like, I really want to dive
into that, right, media,mentorship, stack pack media, everyone that's
been supporting. I appreciate you guys, because guess what, it never goes
unnoticed, ever ever, ever goesI'm telling y'all, it never goes unnoticed.

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I'm not playing no games, especiallyon this journey, especially around this
time around, right, because timearound is gonna be you know, nothing
but fire right. And I lovethese topics because we get the whole thing.
We all get to go back inthe back of my minds to say,
you know what, what is theproblem why there's so many traumatized on
entrepreneurs? And I can't wait totalk about this, Rocky, how you

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feeling? Can you introduce yourself ifthe people don't know who you watts this,
How are you feeling? How youfeeling about today? How are you
feeling in Oh, good afternoon.This is an interesting topic traumatized entrepreneurs,
and there's the reason why we're traumatized. Hey everyone, my name is Rocky.
I am in Instagram strategists social mediastrategists, and I have a marketing

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agency, and I do social mediamanagement and there's a lot of things that
I do entrepreneurship. I'm not goingto answer the question now because no,
you're gonna get to the conversation.But yeah, this should be good.
I can't wait to hear about ittoo, because I've seen so many people
Rocky just be damaged from things thathappen into their lives or maybe you know

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a lot of different situations didn't godown the way they wanted it to.
And it's okay. It's okay thatsituations don't go the way you need them
to. You wanna know why,because it's always gonna be a chance to
shine like a champion. I don'tseen people go through to some of the
toughest, toughest battles, Rocky,the toughest battles and then come out on
top, like it's okay to gothrough some things. It's normal. I

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feel like we need it. It'sokay, rocky, Like we're gonna face
some challenges. We're gonna face someroadblocks, but it's up to you to
get up in there and be like, yo, I'm gonna be a champion
the next day. I'm still gonnathrive. Nobody's gonna take my energy from
me. I gotta pour the energyall the way in. It's up to
you. You gonna It's like,for real, the trauma's either gonna make

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you or break you. Let mesay that again. It's either gonna make
them or break them. I don'tknow what the trauma's gonna do for you,
but it's gonna motivate me. IfI go through something, or I
go through a little trials and tribulations, I'm just gonna I'm just gonna wanna
hop back in and go hard,or wake up the next day and say,
you know what, I can bea strong entrepreneur, or I can

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still you know, walk in mypassion and not let the trauma take me
off course. This is why Imade this topic because I feel like a
lot of people let the trauma scarethem away from a lot of business deals
too. Don't let that shit scareyou away from no business deals. Don't
let it. Don't let it takeyou off the track. I've seen this
before. I've seen things let peopleoff track. I've seen people get your

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mindsets get fuzzy. No, don'tlet your mindset get fuzzy up here.
Trauma. I feel like trauma's supposedto make a warrior. Trauma is supposed
to make you a warrior, right, Like, if you go through something,
it's really really shows in your characterhow hard you're gonna bounce back,

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hold on ms benefits. They Idon't think they said bouncing back, getting
back on your feet, not justlet's see the trauma, but they actually
like, you know what, Iwent through some trauma, But you know
what, I'm gonna dive way backand harder and really show people what are

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made of why I should be anentrepreneur or why I should be at the
table. Right, It's all aboutyour mindset. How many mindset rooms we've
done had in here, I talkabout mindset twenty four to seven. Mindset
is the key mindset's gonna get you. But you can't let the trauma scan
you. The trauma scin if thetrauma scared a lot of people, you

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wouldn't have a business. Let mekeep it real. If the trauma is
gonna scare you, you might aswell just get out the business or you
or you're gonna let it trumble,right. Come on, I need you
all ladies to heat it up forme. Guys. I appreciate you,
pa two a missa. Look howyou guys feeling about it up? I
need you guys to warm it upfor me. Why they're traumatized entrepreneurs.

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We're breaking barriers today, but Iwant to know why are there? So
once you clarify what trauma like.It could be your past, it could
be clients, your pass from whenyou were younger, whatever, and it
could be leaking out today. Itcould be leaking out in your business and

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affecting you in some way. Howare you feeling about that? Rock?
I like what you said earlier whenyou were talking about letting your trauma push
you, because I realized for myselfsome of the trauma was holding me back,
but I used it to motivate me. Like a lot of us have
money traumas. Anytime you open yourmouth and say I can't afford or no,

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baby girl, we can't get thisbecause or you know, anything like
that in terms of money. Forme, the money mindset part was the
traumatic piece for me. Now asfar as having toxic clients and stuff like
that, I've been there before whereI've had clients that were super toxic and
it made me stop being a socialmedia manager altogether because I always tell people,

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don't get it twisted. You know, I am the expert. I
work for you, but I don'twork for you, to be clear.
So there's a lot of different thingsand you know it, really say that
again, Rocky, don't let thatgo over the head. You said you
work for them, but you don'twork for them. Kind of clarify that
up for us today, absolutely so, especially with social media managers or any

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any coach or service, someone thatprovides a service, Oftentimes we get treated
as if we're their employees, andin reality, we're helping you out through
our service, so we are servingyou, so we're supposed to work together
as a team. I don't workfor you like I'm your employee. It's
kind of like, you know,my biggest trauma is people hiring me.
But then telling me how to domy job, because why did you hire

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me? You knew I was theexpert when you hit that button, when
you called me, when you setup the appointment. So now that I'm
doing the job, now you wantto tell me what I'm doing right and
wrong. It doesn't make sense.Make it make sense. So I had
to kind of get over that andrealize, really it comes down to you
choosing who your clients are. They'reinterviewing you, but you're interviewing them as
well, because you don't have totake them just for the money. So

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that was my little trauma spiell thatI had to get over. Wow,
Rocky, look if you guys agreeingwith Rocky, put it one in the
shop. Let's start heating this up. Let's start picking the room up,
sharing the room up. Let's go. I want to hear from different mindsets,
Rocky, thank you for that,miss manifest You got any words to
chairman with? Just let's keep thisfire. Can y'all hear me clearly?

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You know? Oh baby, I'mexcited about this because a lot of people
don't realize that trauma and entrepreneurs comesfrom imposter syndrome. Also, right,
imposter syndrome, not believing that youcould actually do the thing that you said
you're gonna do. Not having thecoaching course. Maybe you don't have the
clients right away. You're calling themclients, but they're not paying, right,

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So that's a trauma. You're like, dam, I'm not making no
money, but I have clients.So it had to help people through that
because I went through that, right, I can only help with what I
went through. Shout out to y'all. Thank you, Queen, Queen and
Rinthia misself love, thank you everybodybeing in the room, y'all. Let's
go. Let's sing off the room. This is big sist. Before you
do any bombs, they gotta getit up to like ten. You're about
to go crazy. You went crazyyesterday and renting. I gotta hold her

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back. Yeah, can we getthe shares up because they gonna as soon
as my siss start firing up.Y'all already know what's going on. Yeah,
share this out before we get anywhere, because I already know you already
know. When Miss Manifest get busy, it's gonna be crazy. Matter of
fact, put a fire moji inthe chat. You know what I'm saying.

(08:30):
Put a five moji in the chat. Real good, actually about to
turn this riddle. Let's get overit. Let's get over thirteen. Look
we already did. Let's still let'sturn off waves. But the best switch
like like crash. I still likeinfinite. Hold on, hold on,

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hold on, hold on, y'alldid that ship Before I could even say
nothing, y'all went crazy. Letme get fifteen. Let me get fifteen
at least before my sys go crazy, because y'all know what you about to
burn this shit up. That's whatI'm talking about. It's Manifest. I
think they ready for you. Youknow what I'm saying. I just need
to get a little turn before yougo in. Let's go everybody while I'm

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talking, Let's get it up totwenty, right, because I feel like
this is about to be an amazingroom like per as per usual. Let
me know if you can hear me, or I start breaking up because I
see a red bar. But listen, y'all, Miss Manifest. I teach
everything about having one hundred percent faithin anything that you do. With imposter
syndrome A lot of us have youever felt like, man, dang,
I don't know if I could dothis I don't know if I can manifest

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a client pain me right. Haveyou ever felt like that one time in
your life? Put a heart inthe chat because my heart goes out to
you because I remember that feeling.That feeling wasn't good. It wasn't I
had to literally come over a podcastand really show what I was to the
world through a podcast because I reallydidn't know how to speak because my friends
and family didn't believe in me.So my trauma came from my friends and

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family as well as my childhood.When I was younger, my kindergarten teacher
bullied me for I speak in Spanishbecause I'm Afro Latina, right, so
my mom is Puerto Rican. Mydad was black, right, and I
was also adopted, so I neverspent time with my biological mother and father.
I spent time with my grandparents.They adopted me when I came out
through whom I was given to mygrandmother, So a lot of people didn't

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like me. My family didn't likeme because I was the first bolls taking
it right, so they didn't.Then my kindergarten was bullying me. That
was trying. I didn't really becauseI was just felt like dang my kindergarten
teachers crazy, you know. AndI grew up through the bullying stage from
the beginning kindergarten to the high schoolopped out and I went in occasional school

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and I got and that's when Istarted to really learn. Let me know,
if you came and I see ared bar, you good now?
Okay? All right? So thetrauma from that, I literally was able
to learn myself by going through thethings that I went through. Right,

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So the bullying turned me. Beinga turned me into a powerful speaker because
once I finally started speaking, itcame out. It came out like water.
I had so much to help,Like a lot of people didn't know
I was helping people Like I literallybeen coaching since I came out the room.
Like, seriously, I've always wantedpeople to be better. I'm a
Capricorn, so I'm always have adream. I'm like, how can I
help you get to the next level? You feel me the Michelle Mochelle Obama

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is a Capricorn, right, SoI always felt like I had that presidential
energy because I looked at the peoplethat was doing amazing things as a Capricorn,
and I was like I could bethe next person. And that's what
I did. So I pushed hardin my business to be imposter syndrome and
going through the bullying stages and listeningto myself to be better and listening to
positive information. Y'all gotta get tothis. You gotta listen to positive information.
You gotta stay in these rooms becausewe believe in you. Stack is

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not doing his room just for hishealth. It's to be able to help
y'all become leaders and be better.So it's important for you to share the
room out. That's why we hittwenty shiars. Right, Let's get it
up some more. Share with yourbusiness, besically shared with your friends.
Let's get to it because you don'tknow what traumas they're going through. So
if you ever been bullied or yourfriends and family was like literally doubting you,
or they just been misbuted by abusingyou and misusing you, this is

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a rumor you could be yourself.Drop some fighters in the chat. You
love what I'm talking about and thatyou were ready to take yourself to the
next level. Let's go, y'all. I'm gonna give it back to you,
bro, Stack, Thank you somuch for doing this room I'm excited.
Let's go. That's the energy you'resupposed to have right there. I
appreciate you. Look, if youguys are just joining, you're talking about
why are they traumatized? Entrepreneurs?Doesn't matter who goes in. Y'all can

(12:35):
take this mic. We don't wantto go, but I want to go
die. I want to dive indeep today. So everybody that's on stage
boor man, how y'all feeling aboutthis? Right? How is everyone feeling?
I want somebody to get the fireand going your self love? Is
that you's good? Yeah, I'mgonna go really quickly. I think you're
back with the pack. Yes,business bastly. I love your share mismanifact.
It's so right about imposter syndrome.And then you're back with the pack

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for doing the media mentors room.This is a deep discussion, you know,
trauma and entrepreneurs. I didn't realizethat. I at first, I
only took it from a breakup aspectas to people going through breakups. But
then I realized when I started workingwith entrepreneurs that a lot of reasons why
they're struggling in their businesses is becauseof trauma. And it really went really

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deep as so far as they're intoxic relationships romantic friends, you're not gonna
make it as an entrepreneur sleeping inbed with the enemy. You know,
I realized they have a lot ahard time and letting go so they can
grow. You have to let goso you can grow. You cannot be
the you cannot change and stay thefame. You cannot change and stay the

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same. You're going to have tomake a change in order to grow,
which means letting people go so youcan grow, letting things go so you
can grow, and adding on thecauld you guys agree with myself love put
it on in the chat discuss thatright they're they're fighting with the detoxing and
detaching. They expected that their friendsof sam we're going to support them,

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and then when they did it,their friends and family are not signing up
for their programs, but their friendsof family are signing up for other people
that sell the same products. Sothey're getting upset with that. So that's
causing trauma. They expecting more support. So going through that detatched process of
realizing that you're outgrowing people and peoplecan't go with you is causing a lot

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of trauma. I noticed in thetoxic relationship is causing a lot of trauma.
So really the detachment is what entrepreneursdidn't really expect that they would have
to go through. And then wherethey're going through it. Yeah, then
when they're going through it, Isee that that's where they're trauma's coming from,
and they're kind of getting stuck rightthere. So I would have to

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say it, stay around positive people, accept the detachment, Embrace it.
Embrace it because entrepreneurship really opens youreyes. So who really is supposed to
be around you? It's self love, it's growing, So embrace that detachment
process and welcome in your new self, your higher self, and new people.
So do that. Everybody in here. You got this thank you sack

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with the package, doing this roomand letting me speak. I appreciate all
of you. Look detaching from thetoxic things. Miss off Love. She
said it right there. Sometimes yougotta let these situations go. It's okay,
not everything's gonna work out. Irealized that early on. It's okay,
put a fire emotion to chatter ofy'all agree, everything's not going to

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work out. It's okay to readjustthe circle readjust the plan, readjust the
mission to get to where you needto go. I'm telling you it's okay.
Not everybody's made to go through thedoor with you. That's why a
lot of people be looking back,like then, why they Why don't got
this so and so around me?And why this person ain't around me?
It's because, guess what, thejourney's only made for you. The journey

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was made for you. It wasn'tmade for everybody else was. You came
here alone, You're gonna leave alone. I realized that switching, switching different
situations, going to different companies,working with different It's okay. You're gonna
find different situations. What's made foryou will be for you. That's what
I got from that. Miss self, love, love me. If you
guys are just now joining, we'retalking about why are they're traumatized entrepreneurs,

(16:22):
mis manifest within mis self, lovewith it, and I want you guys
to go into This is going righton the podcast on stackpack podcast dot com.
It's gonna be right on iHeartRadio,Google podcasts, viral everywhere. I'm
going on every platform. But Iappreciate you guys for the shares and for
being here who else would like totake the mic and go in about why
are there traumatized entrepreneurs? Is anopen floor. See angelic vibes coming through

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when I see Pierre, So Pierreover to you and then we can come
up to angelic vibes after god perOkay, all right, can you hear
me? Okay you Claire brother,let's go oh okay, good afternoon,
everybody. My name is Pierre theboys at Zamana Analytics. I work with
small medium sized businesses on their analyticsdata, helping them improve their businal marketing.

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Uh to the topic of the room, why are there traumatized entrepreneurs?
I can I can probably tell Ican probably summarize it, give it to
it. Yeah, one word,it's it's basically you don't. It's it's
basically it's very hard to be anentrepreneur. But if I had to put
a word on it, it's thatyou don't you can't reflect probably touch two

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words. I'll take that. It'svery hard as an entrepreneur to kick back,
look at and assess your life,particularly the first two years you're spending
a lot of time building a business. Building a business is not easy.
If I'm coming to Stack and saying, let's say, if I if I'm
coming to Stack and say, hey, Stack, I'm Per. I do
all analytics. Stack still needs toget to know me to make a decision

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to say hey, I like Per, but I need to understand what's his
service, and it's his service rightme. That takes time to do.
It takes your eye off the balloff of personal things, which I think
for a lot of people is helpfulwhen things are going great. But the
downside is that you can't really beYou can't be in a corner being existential

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and thinking about your life until thesethings come up. I think, I
think what Rocky brought up is alittle bit true, and I believe it
was miss uh this this self.I hope I didn't. I hope I
didn't mess up the name love,thank you, thank you. I thought
they brought some really good points.You know, your friends and family they

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loved you in a certain capacity,and that's okay to to what to what
Stack has been saying earlier, that'sokay. When you start a business,
you you move differently. You haveyou just don't have enough time for you
may not have enough time to hangwith people in certain situations, you may
not have enough time to recognize whensomebody is being supportive. I think the

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real toughness is when people who dosupport to you at the beginning may not
be the right people to carry youinto the next level. Y'all agree with
pa put a one in the check, cook that up, Pierre, and
that and to bring the stacks pointat that is okay because they may not
be that. They may your friendsand family might be able to support you.

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Let's say, if you're opening arestaurant. Yeah, they might eat
there at first one or two times, but it's also not You can't expect
them to eat at the restaurant allthe time. It would be nice too,
but sometimes they can't. My mother, I love very dearly ninety two
years of age, grew up ata different time where yes, black entrepreneurship

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was important, but it's not ashyper or as direct as it is now.
And when I first started, shedidn't quite understand why I was doing.
She was trying to figure out whyI wasn't the engineer. More like
it was at Ford for eight years. When I did a presentation, I
think I was at least I've beenin business for fifteen years. I was
at least maybe eight years into it, And I'll be honestly, that's still

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a very good moment because that afterI did that presentation, she was in
the audience, she got to seewhy I did and started to ask questions.
Now, don't get me wrong,I still love my mother. I
don't think there's any brother out herewho dis loved his mom. But sometimes
even the closest of us, whohas supported us in certain roles, can't

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may not understand what you're doing.And it can be very tough because you
know that they mean well, butyou also know that that that meanwhile,
isn't you know what you need?Like sax says, you got to bring
the fire. You got to throwyourself into the business. You got to
throw yourself into understanding your revenue,understanding your cost, and what your business
model is. And some people maynot be able to understand it. So

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the advice I would give very quickly, I'll release the mic in a bit.
I'll try to make into three things. Umber One, when people are
being toxic, decide what the levelof toxicity is that you can deal with
and what you can There's gonna besome comments that really to be honest with
you. You just need to letthat be what it is and keep yourself
rolling. Your customers are looking foryou. If Stack was looking for someone

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to do analytics, and I'm theright person, I cannot waste my time
being existential and trying to think overand reflect over some somebody's you know,
forgive the language bumfuck comment, youknow for something else. You know you
got, you know, stacks dependingon me. Your customers are depending on
you. So that's the focus.That's the that's the high order. Second

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part of it. I mentioned about, you know toxic. For me,
it was basically let the small commentsgo toxic. Like I said, you
got to think about who you know, what the what the toxicity is,
and that could be just as simpleas somebody directly telling you that you can't
make it, and I can tellyou off the bat. I've worked with
small business owners where they were toldthat. I've seen women, ladies,

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whoever you marry a date. That'sgonna mean to my next point here,
Sometimes those people who wanted to putthe ring on your finger, they may
not be able to be the rightpeople to support you when you waunt your
business. I've seen women kind ofget kneecapped the business. Yeah, so
so you have to you know,even your partners, you have to think
about you know again you know,the time, commitment, everything that you

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put into it. And then thethird thing is if you know that you
got some people that you're trying tofigure out how to if you know self
care is important. Don't get mewrong, self care is very important.
But think about you know, ifyou know some people who who arguing positive
with you, find one or twosimple things that you can do with them

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that might be a great way tostay connected. But uh, but not
so much. Not that's not thatit's so traumatic or so much a big
effort to put together and I couldbe just simply having a meal at a
restaurant just for an hour. Keepthose things simple, particularly in your first
year, you're not gonna have alot of time to think over anything.
You're not gonna have a lot oftime to uh. You may not have

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a lot of time for be foryourself, but there may be one or
two people who really still need tokind of sit down and just maybe talk
about something that just isn't about thebusiness for that moment. That those sorts
of simple things can help you andI think it will help you to to
not I'm not gonna say you're notgonna be traumatized, but you have to
know how to manage people. AndI think it just takes time to figure

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that out. But but enjoy theride, enjoy the success that you gain,
and like like like like Stackingston's tellingyou, there's just gonna be some
things you just need to kind oflet roll off your back because people really
are depending on you, and yourcustomers need to see and hear how you
delivered. That's the stuff that theywant to see in here, and sometimes

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that can be just enough to getyou through the day when you are feeling
bad. I'm gonna release the exjoin in and thank you for allowing me
to speak. I love that,Pierre. Look we're going all the way
in. Man, put a hardin the chat. If y'all joined this
conversation. I love this. Righthere. I touch up on some things
that you know. Pierre said,you're sleeping with the wrong person. You

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marrying the wrong person is gonna getdownfall to the business. They ain't gonna
understand the grind, ain't gonna understandthis shit. We can't be on two
different Oh, my god, Ican't stress this enough. Thank you for
saying that, Pierre. And anotherthing that I wanted to address that he
said is, you know it's okaysometimes your family and your friends, man,

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they may think this shit's a jokepeople around you. And gotta be
the outside world. I told y'allwhen I got on Clubhouse, I got
the distribution deal, the record labeldeal, I started the market in the
business. Yes, I had toget on the outside world. I couldn't
just stay and looking at the shipthat I was used to. If I
kept looking at the ship that Iwas used to, I would have never
got to another level. You gottastay get outside the box. If you

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want to become something, you can'tstay looking in the side the box.
You gotta get outside that shit allthe time. So Pierre, thank you
for coming in here. Man Mediamentor Mega Mansie, You're always welcome.
Please plick the link at the topoff your Guy's not a part of the
media Mentors because we want more entrepreneursto go hard, going hard in your
business. We want results, wewant you and if you got any questions,

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it's always an open stage reach outto us. Let's get it in.
Look who else wants to take thismic and talk about this right now?
Well, go ahead to our risks. Yo, why are there's so
many traumatized entrepreneurs. I'm gonna touchon it like this. I gotta get
going, but I'm gonna touch onthis. Successful people are people who learn
to solve problem. Saying say itagain, I said, successful people are

(25:45):
people who learn to solve problem.The chat, do something in the chat
if y'all agree while he's cooking upman. A lot of the times we
have people in these opportunities and theyenter these opportunities with ego. What's important
that we all understand is that theego is a resistance against what is.
Okay, that's what the ego is. It's a way that the mind and

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the body resists life as it is. Many entrepreneurs, we will get into
business, and I can say webecause I've been in this before. So
we get into business and we don'tconsider a lot of things. We don't
consider the demand, right, wedon't consider the process. We don't consider
the people that we may or maynot have to go to to ask for
help. Ego isn't a thing,it's more of a verb. It's the

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pushing away or pulling towards. Manyof us are fighting with ourselves because we're
afraid. We're afraid of what lifemay trigger. We're afraid of what life
may bring our way. We're afraidof filling our emotions. So when we
go into business, we go intobusiness with a lot of preconceived notions.
What's important understands that the world istwo things, objects and space. Okay,

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that's what it is. You havean opportunity to make things happen for
yourself if you indeed want them.Okay, you got to focus on what
you want. You have to bein ten about your personal growth. When
it comes to being an entrepreneur,you also have to tune up on your
personal health, your spiritual health.How you gonna how you're gonna expect to

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have a great business and not bein good health. You're putting in all
this work, you may not bearound to even reap the benefits of all
your work, all your labor.But when it comes to when it comes
to recognizing the traumas, first recognizeyour trauma. Trauma is power if you
give it a moment, give ita chance, go into those dark corners

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of your mind and acknowledge where youare, even the broken parts of who
you are, make of who youare today. Don't evade and avoid that
stuff. Don't pick and choose whatyou want your dreams to be based on
how stressful they may or may notbe. Understand you can be a student.

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Those who are students we are awake. But those who stay awake we
become teachers in this space that weare in as entrepreneurs or entrepreneurs alike.
It's important that each one t twenty. It's important that we take that time
to center up, to ask ourselvesthe tough questions so that we can move
above and beyond. And therefore wecan lift as we rise. When we

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talk about our traumas, we aretaking back our power. That's all I
got for right now, Lift aswe rise, Savar. As you went
in, man, put something inthe chat of y'all agree, man,
blow this chat up, share theroom up, man. We should ask
over twenty five. He went allthe way in. Damn media mentors.
There's always some powerful shares. Iappreciate you guys for joining mis manifests my

(28:44):
self. Love Beth, Erythia Shay, Queen Angelic Vibes, Taja Linsayah Kirk,
Andrea Crypto, Valerie Angelica, Stevesantos Emon and everybody else on the
stage. Blow our rocket ship.No, let's go, let's keep going
on. Y'all know what it is? Why are they're traumatized entrepreneurs. We're
breaking barriers today. I love thesestrong shares we're coming in with. That

(29:08):
wants to come next to that isthat Queen Orrinthia. Let's go. Let's
go listen. I'm hopping in herebecause I just wanted to piggyback off of
what Tavaris has said. And youknow what that moment when you actually give
your trauma a moment to process,that's called you actually doing the shadow work,

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given that time for that darkness toprocess. Because all of us,
every single one of us in here, we don't even really realize that a
lot of the things that we gothrough that's really empowering us to move forward.
It really becomes a seed that weplant that's going to be like,
oh, because of this thing,I'm not gonna let this thing happen.
To put something in the chat.If y'all agree with Arinthia, I like

(29:51):
that that plant and their seed.Let's go plant that seed that's taken from
the trauma, and now you usethat seed, you water it, you
worter that problem that you had,and now that problem turns into a solution
because now you are the proof tothat actual problem. Like I went through
this thing, now I can tellyou how to get out of it.
And every the same problem can cometo fifty different entrepreneurs and it be handled

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in fifty different ways. I hopey'all know that. So every trauma is
not going to be embraced or it'snot going to be processed in the same
manner for every single entrepreneur. It'sgoing to be a different journey forward for
every single entrepreneur. It's not goingto look the same. But there will
be people that are looking for youto share that unique experience and that journey

(30:40):
forward so they can get through howthey need to get through. And I
think the reason there are so manytraumatized entrepreneurs is, I mean, everybody
in here hit the nail on thehead with what you all were saying,
but a lot of us we justdon't give ourselves a chance to really just

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fail and be comfortable with that rightthere. A lot of us just we
feel like we're supposed to be onit all the time. You know what,
I'm an entrepreneur, I'm a boss, I'm this, I'm back,
and yeah, it's it's awesome toaffirm that about yourself. But what you're
also not allowing yourself to do.While you're affirming that, you're not allowing

(31:23):
yourself to bump your head all down, schedule me get back up. Feel
empowered that you know I'm gonna I'mgonna use what I've learned in this perceived
negative moment to now propel me forwardand help other people, because a lot
of us see our negative moments sayslike F on our report card. Ain't

(31:45):
no way I could show that tomy mom, No way I could show
that to the people who you knowbelieve in me, are supposed to push
forward with me, right, Buta lot of times that F on your
report card is actually helping people figureout how to move forward, how to
take what they solved with shoe andnow put that into action for themselves so

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they don't do it in their ownlives. So I just encourage every entrepreneur
the journey. It's not easy,but let me tell you, the journey
is always going to be worth itif you're truly dedicated to what you're doing,
if you really have a solution toput out into this world. Because
Tavars right, there's successful entrepreneurs havea solution to a problem. Now,

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how deep that problem is, wherethat problem goes, how many people are
suffering with that problem. It's totallyup to you as an entrepreneur. What
means you're picking to get in andwhat problem you're devoted to solving. But
find the problem that you are asolution to, and you will be successful
now or later. So I'm handingmy back to you. Smack crazy,

(32:59):
got somaris every quick and then I'mreal said, go ahead, brother yo.
Arenthia Queen well Well said give back. In the ring of life.
It's gonna be hard. It's yourdream, and your dream is hard,
so handle it. Acknowledge that lifeis hard. I love what Orinthia said.
She said, We're gonna bump ourheads, look y'all, it's gonna

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happen. Acknowledge that life is hard, so that when it gets hard,
you've already prepared yourself for it.To be forewarned is to be forearmed.
When we seek the easy road,that's when we are evading our own greatness.
Do not evade your own greatness.It takes courage to live. Let's
all agree on that. Hands down, it takes courage to live. Handle

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it. It's life. We makeit harder on ourselves when we don't plan.
I'm gonna say that one more time. We make it harder on ourselves
when we don't plan. You're gonnamake some mistakes. That's okay. Give
yourself grace, show yourself patience.Okay, most people don't have vision,
but I believe the people in thisroom we all have vision. Otherwise we
wouldn't be here. Stick to yourdream and have patience. Plan your work

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and work your plan. How youspend your time speaks to who you are.
Okay, work hard and develop yourself. Jump out there and say I
am here. Don't let life intimidateyou. Thanks stats. Come on,
man, we in the building.If you guys are in enjoying us,
put a one in the chat allrnthy. I love what you said.
Bump your head, you know,do that a little bit so you can

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learn. I remember doing that asa kid. Man. It's okay.
Doing these little mistakes. Coming inthere like that, right, so you
can learn what to do better nexttime. It's all right, it happens
like I feel like that makes themost champions. I ain't gonna live with
you. It makes the most championsevery time. It makes the like when
you make a mistake and they knowhow to bounce back harder. It always

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makes champions, all the time,every time. So Rinthy, I love
what you said, Tavarus, Ilove what you said. Man. Let's
do one with recent painting. Thisroom up, man, share this room
up. Me and the media mentorstalking about why are they traumatized entrepreneurs.
Plick the link at the top.Look at some of the partnership schedule to
call when we get a fifteen minutecall level up on all social media platform

(35:14):
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beach raising my hands. We've beenthrough the sand and a tie. All
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long time looking for the boxer.Osie had the bouncer come on me,

(35:55):
Bellrdingager, you get stopping, Guccistopping, Luis call me folks, you
get stopped, call me fo knowwhat I just thought about. I just

(36:19):
thought about, like really really reallyreally understanding that it's okay to mess up,
like a Rendia. Got that onmy heart right now, like it's
okay to mess up. It's okaythat you know, things don't go all
right, It's always gonna be anotherday to shine like a champion. Look,
if you guys are just now joining, we're talking about why are they're
traumatized entrepreneurs. Everybody's been going allthe way in and I want to hear

(36:40):
from some people that I haven't heardfrom. I want to still going.
Andrea, do you have anything tosay about this topic? Thank you for
the flying it will be going,you know, or the media Mentors podcast
on the Snack Packed podcast. Iappreciate you. Are you in the building
chimement about this? Andrea over toyou, Oh yeah, thank you.
This sub to such a deep subject. And there's words that really jumped out

(37:06):
to me today, which was courage, right, so when we're evaluating what
the question, which is why arethey're traumatized entrepreneurs? One thing that I
that really spoke to me here isthat when we're living, you know,
it's a verb, right, Soit means that we are I am,

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you know I was, And whenyou become an entrepreneur, right, because
we're just human beings, and whenwe take the title as entrepreneur, we're
changing. It's a disruption, youknow. And when we're disrupted, there's
something that happens inside us. Right, there's a transition from one state to
another, which means that we haveto decide at that point how we respond

(37:53):
as human beings. Are we goingto respond in a state of fear or
in a state of courage? Right? And so and many of you may
have read the book or you know, read her, the author Brene Brown,
and she talks about the root wordof courage. The Latin word is

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core and the original use was totell one story from one's own heart,
right, So it's connecting your mindwith your heart or the sense of vulnerability.
And I think that there are alot of traumatized entrepreneurs because when we
transition from one state of being toanother, we're disrupting our path like that

(38:39):
serenity, and we have to choose, and some of us fall into the
choice of fear versus courage, youknow, because there's always one extreme or
the other. Right, so whenwe make that choice to choose courage,
to tell our true story, connectour mind and our heart, then we're

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living in a state of abundance,and so we do not have to contend
with fear. Right. Fear bringstrauma, brings burden, there's a lot
of negative things in that state ofbeing, whereas courage brings vulnerability, vulnerability,
it brings triumph, it brings acceptance, right and love. And there's

(39:24):
an exercise that I practice where youclose your eyes and you because at the
end of the day, love isthe strongest motivation for peace. Because people
always laugh when I talk about happiness, But the reason why I talk about
happiness is it's not some fruitfru thing. Happiness is so important when you're doing

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something because it's a strong emotion andlove equally right, even stronger, probably
the strongest unconditional love. And soif we imagine and what brings us closest
to unconditional love. As an entrepreneur, we can shift our state of being
from fear to abundance in that instantbecause that emotion. And so if you

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close your eyes and you just imaginethe face of a person and a being,
a sentient being just giving you thatunconditional feeling of love, and then
imagine that it just vibrates and resonatesout from that person to your deepest enemies,
to your biggest competitors, to yourbiggest naysayers, and all you can

(40:35):
feel for them, all these people, from the people who love you to
the people that hate you. Right, all you can feel for them is
love. And that fear and thatstate for fighting to transition from one state
to another all of a sudden becomesobsolete and you can live in that true
self of sense of compassion and loveand happiness. And that's the point when

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we are no longer traumatized by ourown prisons, our own expectations that we
set upon ourselves. So why areso many entrepreneurs like traumatizing? Why can't
we break barriers? It's because wedon't realize that we are changing from one
state to another and that we havea choice to choose how we change,

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choice to choose. If you guys, agree, put a one in the
chat, go ahead under it.Oh that's all. We have a choice.
First acknowledge that choice exists inside yourself, and then choose where you want
to live. You know, that'sit. I love that Andrea. Choose
where you want to live, Choosewhere you Everybody has a choice. That's

(41:43):
what I'm saying. Why there's somany gen authorized entrepreneurs look breaking barriers,
wearing the media mentors shit mansion.Please click the link at the top.
You guys have not got a partof the club, so that way you
can get part of conversations like this. I love how are like these deep
conversations things that make people think?Right? Who else wants to take the

(42:05):
mic? Why are there traumatized entrepreneursCentOS over? Do you don't a check
on my system and say hi,Stack and everybody. First of all,
I really appreciate this room because itgives me a lot of energy in the
morning, because it's a morning timehere six forty three am here in Sydney,
Australia, and this this room runsexactly perfectly for me, I guess

(42:27):
because a lot of power, alot of power on this room, because
you know, I grown up myselfwith the media in my initial career advertising
marketing, adrases and media and allthese things. They are very keenly connected
with me. That's the reason Ireally like this room. I always come
in here or sometime i'm a gymlistening. Sometimes i'm driving listening. Sometime
I got a chance to talk.Sometimes I don't understand the topic, I

(42:50):
don't want to talk. But thistopic is really great topic for me because
I'm not only an entrepreneur, I'ma sociologist as well, So I look
at the thing in a very sociologicalperspective. And I'm in the business for
the last twenty years, and Ihave experienced back my home country, running
a business in thought world countries,and running a business in Australia, one
of the strongest economy is frail here. So you know how I interpret is

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I have seen a lot of entrepreneursin my twenty years superior right, A
lot of entrepreneurs, different types upto the billionaire I have made. Right.
But the thing is what I realizeis there are two types of entrepreneurs.
Number One, entrepreneurs they always focusabout the success. They always focus
about the dollar. They always youknow, they always think about, you

(43:37):
know, expanding, expanding, expanding, expanding and expanding, go hard and
hard and hard. The other typesof entrepreneur they expand, but they look
at the other thing as well.Right, life is so beautiful, right
there is. We can't calculate yoursuccess only how much money you have,
how many business you have, howsuccessful you are. Right, you have

(43:59):
to look at the thing in aperspective, balancing perspective. What is that
You know? Your health is important, right, you have good health,
good education. You're surrounding society,community and business of course, right,
So different people have different priority intheir life. But end of the day,
what is most important is yourself.So whatever you do is should revolve

(44:22):
around you. What does that mean? Revolve around you? Means like you
drive a good car, right,you live in the good house, You
have enough time for yourself, Youfulfill your hobby, you travel, you
read good books, you have agood relation around your you know, territory.
So these are very very important foryourself. Like you know, I

(44:45):
want to give you a very solidexample, very very hot example recently happened
they before us today. I wasI was sitting in my store, Flower
City News store here in Maryland's NewSouth Wells and I call one of my
friends. He came. I don'twant to tell the name of my friend
is a close friend of mine.He owned a couple of businesses here and

(45:06):
there, and he got a lotof workers. And we had to talk,
and he came to my store andwe had a cheat chat. When
you come in, start to bombardits phones, you got a phone calls.
Then after he got a call fromNepal. He got her own business
in Nepal as well. This andthat. He came for one hour hardly.
We talk five minutes and then Itold them, my friend that please
don't come next time if you haveso many work, because you are an

(45:29):
entrepreneur. Everybody entrepreneur, they haveto manage their time, right, So
when you are alloted your time forsomething, you have that freedom, that
liberty to do so. Right.So as an entrepreneur, if you cannot
control your time, you cannot controlyour you know, requirement, whatever needed

(45:50):
for you. That's not a pointbecause money, money and the business is
one thing. Life is another thing. That's why I take the other route
that you know, trying to balancewhatever I can so I have enough time
to play with my kids. Ihave enough time to take my daughter to
school. I have enough time totake my son for tennis class. Right.
I play cricket with them, backout, cricket at my home and

(46:13):
all these things. And I haveplenty of time for holidays. I go
frequently here and there because why that'shappening because I'm in control. I'm the
in chace. So I have todo what suitable for me, not suitable
for other people. Right, Sothat's what that is. That is the
entrepreneurship, real entrepreneurship in my opinion. And a lot of people they don't

(46:34):
know the definition one way. Theyare going all the way. I've seen
a lot of broken families. Thesun doesn't respect daughter, doesn't respect their
parents because they don't have enough timebecause they are going one way highway.
They are going, going, going, They don't have any time. So
that's why we have to be unbalance. We have to hold control ourselves,

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right because money, success fame isnot only only goal of life. We
have to live in a life ina holistic way. So I don't have
much money. I do not claimmyself I'm very very rich, but I'm
very rich in overall perspective. Sothat's what I would like to share.
And if you do so, likeyou know, if you manage, you

(47:15):
control even you can do a lotof things right, but you have to
have a control over it. Ifyour time, whatever the time, you
a lot for the business. Youwork in a very smart way. You
use tools and techniques, and yourely on your staff. You have a
good system, then you can growbigger. Not any problem, but the

(47:35):
thing first of all, you haveto look at yourself first. That your
family is okay, your kids areokay, you have enough time for them,
Your health is okay. You arefulfilling your hobby and interest and desired
and all these things. So ifyou do that, then you'll be a
good entrepreneur. That's what I believe. That's what I implement every day.
Thank you very much, Stack andeverybody. You guys are amazing. You
give empower the room and you knowI story. You know gender studies in

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my master's degree in sociology, soI give a lot of value to gender
equality. And it's perfect gender equalityat my home. Thank you very much.
I'm done for now, coming inhot Santos. I gotta make those
Stack flowers. I want to checkon my system and say and see how

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she's feeling about this topic. Whythere's so many traumatized entrepreneurs. Let's keep
this fire going. Appreciate that shit. Santo's Wednesday, Are you here over
to you says? I am?I am, and yes, Santos,
that was a powerful share, definitelyreminding us where we get to place value,
like what it is we choose tohave value in when we become entrepreneurs.

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And really that's any point whether you'reyou know, a employee or not.
The reality is that it really isimportant what is it that we value?
And I think that you know,traumatizing happens in the entrepreneurial journey because
is you know, there's like therecan be a lot of time in which

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you feel that you're in it oryou see the vision alone. There can
be a lot of times in whichyou're seeking to be understood or you're looking
for people who will come alongside andcare deeply about what it is that they're
contributing. You know, I dothink it's really silly to expect others to,
you know, see your company astheir company. And I think that

(49:27):
it's important that if you are theowner of something, that you're the one
that is doing the most. That'show I truly believe. I'm very much
a Gary V follower in that mindsetand belief. And I also think that
when you build a dream, andif your dream is collaboratively, if you're

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envisioning something that really gathers incredible humans, that you make it mutually beneficial,
that you really do help rise oneanother up. And so so building a
dream big enough for others to havetheir own independent dream alongside and within it
is essential to me. And Ithink what happens is there's a lot of

(50:09):
scarcity out in the world. There'syou know, people have had experiences of
trauma. I mean, goodness,I'll be really honest, I'm walking through
one professionally myself at the moment,you know, having gone all in on
someone else's company for fifteen years,having built the US market, having trained
the teams and the sales teams andput together all the proposals, and witnessing

(50:34):
that they can do it more affordablywith someone I trained than they can do
with me, because I'm not goingto work at that level for that amount
of pay and have them continuing toadd things. And so I think it's
you know, I think there's thisidea that you know, we can have
these experiences and then they lead toscarcity mindset, and when we are looking
at things from a place of scarcityrather than abundance, we're going to be

(50:59):
attracting that exact scarcity that we're sofearful of. And so it's so important
that you know, we we recognizeour traumas, we also allocate those.
So for instance, how one persontreats me is not indicative of how everybody
will treat me or how everyone willsee me, and not every human will
have the same level of integrity.So for me, it really is about

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coming alongside humans that have high levelof integrity. I'm looking at my sister
Shay right now. You know,I've I've collabed with Angelica and here Stack,
I've met you and we've done somebiz together. Andrew Andrea just like
literally put me in her in herbeautiful review and named me as one of
the up and coming twenty twenty foursocial Oh yeah yeah, put that at

(51:44):
the time, So please somebody putthat at the top. People been blowing
me up with that. Put thatarticles it. I just I just shared
it in my story too, Soyeah, real love, you know,
So again we get we get traumatizedbecause there are people out there that were
and behave from scarcity, and sothey may do some dirty things. And
it isn't promised to be an easy, comfortable or always optimistic journey. However,

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there's always an opportunity for us toembody the energy that we're seeking,
to get more clear on our boundaries, to learn from our trauma, and
to ensure that we become the attractionmodel so that we attract in incredible human
beings like my sister Shay and ourwhole Wellness Warrior flock, like really attracting

(52:34):
humans that have powerful missions, havebrilliance that live within them. And we
also all know that we're greater togetherthat you know, for our book club
for instance, like if Shays gointo a concert or a basketball game,
or I'm going to a speaking engagementor you know, someone is she's going
to create the recap and Leela's goingto create the question. Like when you

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come into things collaboratively, it's greaterbecause now it has the lens of everybody.
So I believe that trauma exists becauseof scarcity and then that competitive nature.
I believe when we get back intoabundance, and we also really think
about how we can add value independentlyto make it more abundant for everybody.

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That's going to be the way throughit. So that's what I feel on
this topic, powerful topic, andstack back to you. You going all
the way in love that line say, I'm man sure you guys go be
a part of the Wellness Warriors collective. I love going in in the morning,
calling things into my life. Speakingthat into existence is what it's about.

(53:39):
Love that, lindsay. I lovethat. Share picking the room up,
share the room up. This articleat the top, This is what
I want to talk about real quick. I want you to really understand.
So it's right here. Yeah,I like this. Who's responsible for this?

(54:01):
Who put this thing together? Andrea? Who put this thing that got
I love it? Yeah, everyonein the community put it together. The
collective energy. Because if I didn'tmeet you all, it wouldn't happen.
So I just aem so grateful tobe around so many awesome individuals doing their

(54:24):
thing making an impact. And Iknow it's going to continue to grow and
evolve and become something even more fantastic. So yes, I'm really excited about
that article. I love this article. Make sure you check this article out
asap, and make sure you alsogo check out the article with myself Love.

(54:45):
She got featured in Los Angeles magazinethanks to internet traffic agency The Empire.
She trusted in the company, sheused the tools that was at her
fingertips. She got featured on that. So shout out to my self Love
and shout us to Andrea forgetting thetop social audio influences to watching twenty four
published. Yeah, this is whatthe media Mentorship's about. I love you

(55:08):
guys. Let's keep going and Iwant to check on a few people.
Shay are you there? And thenI'm gonna go check on the EMA and
Shae, are you in the building. How are you feeling about this right
here? I love this because asa up and coming entrepreneur, I'm gonna
go ahead and call that in.I love that. Andrea was speaking of
the etymology of words, so Iwas like, let me go ahead and

(55:29):
look up the etymology for trauma andthat word is Greek and it means womb.
I was like, so the waymy mind thinks, it's like,
how many wounds do we have thatwe are still healing through? That we
are still walking through that are impactingour businesses or impacting especially someone like me

(55:53):
who's like taking small steps at atime, but you know, at times
may be afraid to take bigger steps. And I was like, let me
go a little bit deeper, andit may be some wounds that I'm still
working through. So I love thatthat work came up. Even when I
think of wounds, think of thinkof your traumas, and think of what

(56:15):
triggers may be connected to those traumas. At the end of the day,
it all points to getting into analignment with who you really are. Like
those I'm not pushing those things upunder the rug. I'm not pushing the
traumas up under the rug, butthey happened. So what can I do
with where I am now, withthe resources that I have right now?

(56:39):
Because I know what was promised forme. So creating this space where there's
honesty in the healing, Like weknow that there are things happening and there
are things transpiring, but are webeing honest about those things? Like I

(57:00):
know what I need to heal from, so am I saying, Oh,
I get to it later, ButI'm trying to get to my business Oh,
I'll get to that hurt later,but let me work on my business.
Oh I'm getting through that hurt andthat sadness and what this person did
to me, But let me getto my business. How can I truly
be available for my business if Ihaven't healed through certain things. Some things

(57:29):
may take more time than others.And that's okay. And I love that
Stack reminded us it's okay not tobe okay, but let's be honest about
where we are. Because when weare honest during the healing, we can
become the best entrepreneurs. We canbe a part of this list that Andrea

(57:49):
just shared. We can use ourvoice a little bit louder, we can
speak out a little bit more,we can do more, we can call
in more when we get into alignmentwith honesty, take a take a closer
look at some thing. But someones in the chap, y'all agree that
that getting in line with that honestythat up. Yeah, don't you know?

(58:10):
There are a lot of things thatthat we're working through. Right.
Everything is a process, but youdon't have to carry it along. There
are too many resources out here tohelp us heal through those very same things
and It's up to us to beresponsible for our own healing. It's our
businesses that we're carrying, right,so it's our responsibility to take time to

(58:35):
heal. But be honest, behonest. You know that you are still
upset or sad about something that hastranspired or something that is happening. But
I'm inviting you guys to dig alittle bit deeper, get closer to who
you are, and take the timeto do the work in those things.
And it may not be easy,or it may be easy, but take

(59:00):
the step, honest step, behonest with yourself and what's really happening.
Take an honest step towards healing,and we could become or I will become,
or I will be or I amthe best up and coming entrepreneur.
There we go. Then we cancall in those true words in real time,
real life. So thank you forletting me speak. OO. We

(59:23):
in the building. Media mentorship allthe way in click the link at the
top. If you guys are notpart of the house or that way,
it can be a part of conversationsjust like this. Click the link at
the top also to check out theaudio to influencers to watch in twenty twenty
four influence. Appreciate you guys.Look, let's keep going in. Who

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wants to take the mic next?To continue about this right here, about
why they're traumatized, entrepreneurs breaking barriers. Who wants to go in? Who's
that in? Who's that? Goahead? Who's that? Who's that me?
But there was another voice, Soif they are in a hurry or
something, you can of course goout first. Thank you. Well,

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I have to come right away aftermy sister sh I just finished because I
was almost thinking about the same verything. How many wounds and I'm not
gonna speak now about trauma, buthow many wounds we have to justify because

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and just because we love the people, the person who hold the knife.
You know what, it's a shockingquestion, but kind of did puts in
the mirror sort of sometimes we holdthe knife, we hold the knife and

(01:00:55):
we just keep holding on when inreality, some at those moments, all
you need is surrender, do whatyou have to do, do your best,
but but don't hold on to theresults. Sometimes it's not the right

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time, it's not the right way, it's not the right partner. All
of it gets you to the pointto stop and through my journey of being
an entrepreneur, I've learned a lot. I've like, I'm not gonna say
that I lost a lot of money, but I win a lot of listens

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and God has protected me so manytimes. And here comes the point where
you, as I was saying,you don't have to keep going when you
when you can't, when you feellike I can't, I just can't.

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I'm tired. You don't have togo on all the time. Sometimes you
have to stop, reflect on whatyou have, admit that you have trauma,
you have wound. Imagine if youhave a wound on your shoulder and

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you keep covering it with a longsleeve. Sure, people keeps coming hiding
at you, and you're hurt becauseit hurts, but they don't know it's
your own fault. You got tostop. You gotta heal this wound first

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and keep going. And the secondtime you're going to be stronger. The
third time you're gonna be more stronger. If you're not dead yet, you
are stronger. Even when you're tired. You're stronger. Even if you feel
like I don't want to go anymore, You're stronger. The fact that you're

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still here, telling you something thatyou still have time, you still have
opportunity, but you have to bevery mindful, very mindful to the listens
that God brings on your plate,because that's that's got protection all the time.

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So a lot of times we thinkthat this is rejection. Now too,
I want this too much to happen. We fall in love with our
ideas, our thoughts, especially asan entrepreneur, because basically I see entrepreneurs
as solutionists. You focus on what'smissing and create solution for it. You

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find the mistake and you're correct it. Solutions are happens, are skilled that
we keep developing. But sometimes thesolution is within you. You need to
do the mistake once, maybe twice, but not more over than this.

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You have to learn and the timefor reflecting the traumas and the mistakes.
And it's a very very rutsful time, very developing and improving because if you

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sew it from another lens, fromthe lens of what did I learn here?
Where did I go wrong? Notto regret it, not to keep
blaming yourself, not to feel guiltyabout it, but not to the only

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purpose of this is not to dothe same mistake again. Is to know
people and understand that we are different. We have to embrace our differences.
We are so unique in every singleway. Do you guys agree? Put
a one in the chat. Everyone'sunique. You're not. I know that

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you you are. That's everybody uniquein their own way. This uniqueness can
suit can can suit you well,and cannot suit me, and that's okay.
It doesn't mean that they are wrongor neither me. Nobody should be
wrong. But the only meaning isthis person is not for me, and

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and follow stop and start a newline, new chapter. Life weighs nobody,
really, life waits nobody. Doesn'tmean that we don't love people,
we don't value them, but wedon't have to keep involving them in our
lives to keep hurting us, tokeep negatively affecting us. The only way

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to do it is to keep yourpersonal vorders. Learn how to say no,
because a lot of traumas comes whenwe cannot say no. If you're
agreeing that, but a heart onthe chat because that's my favorite. So
I'm done speaking for now. Backto STECH. Thank you. We in

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the building. We've been going allthe way into that with the media mental
shit right, going all the wayin everybody went all the way in today.
I love you guys. You guysalways go in everybody. Look are
they any final shares or anybody thatwants to go in about the traumatize entrepreneurs

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messengers? All right? All right? So Tavares and even when I was
talking about solution and I put itin the chat solution or soul solution.
But then solution is about overchieving obstacleslike Tavares was speaking of, and those
obstacles we look at them either asproblems or challenges, both the same same
concept, problem or challenge. Andthen with the word challenge, there has

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word change. All right, Sothere's that part. But then to go
from the beginning about traumatized, Well, there's not a person I've ever met
that has not had trauma that cannotsay they have trauma. So trauma doesn't
discriminate, It hits everybody, doesn'tmatter who you are, what you are.
So and now when I think ofentrepreneurship, myself and other entrepreneurs I've

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met and doing so, there's Ithink there's another dramas that there's two types
of two types of entrepreneurs. Theremight be more, but to the two
ones, that I've seen are onesthat are opportunists and they go for the
opportunity that they see in front ofthem. And then there's other ones that
go for passion. But where's passioncome from and normally comes from that early

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childhood trauma. That that that firsttrauma that we've encountered in our life,
we was fuel for our fire,fuel for our fire, and so that
trauma to overcome that trauma, wesaw something that needed to be changed,
and that was the challenge we tookon. Did our soul take it on?

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I think so? But so indoing so, we found a solution
to that, to that challenge tochange it. So our first entrepreneur activity
initiated the route could have been thattrauma. Because a lot of traumas I've
seen help mold people, as howmany lawyers are out there because they wanted
to make a change. How manypeople became police officers because of a bad

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cop or because something of that ormaybe something happened to them or a family
member. How many people became nursesin the hospital because someone was sick in
their family or something of that nature. So, in doing so, these
traumas helped mold us. Once weovercome those things. Now we're gonna go
through it no matter what, Nomatter what, we're good. But it's

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our choice to either go through itor grow g r ow growth through it.
And so so there's so that partof the trauma why there's so many
traumatized entrepreneurs. I was like,well, all right, one for me.
That that's part of what made memy entrepreneur in the moving is in
the moving industry was traumas of whenI was a child, as people saying,
hey, stop moving, sit down, sit down, chill out,

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bro chill out. Well all right, well I don't want chill out.
I want to keep moving and grooving. So I started moving company. I'm
gonna get I'm gonna move no matterwhat somebody as we'll get paid for it,
right so, and I'm good atit, all right. So so
there's that part all right now nowalso knowing that my trauma helped make me
who I am today in doing soor one of my traumas now the traumas

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of happening that all right, Sothe control that needs to happen and in
building a company, so and andnow the traumas that happened as an entrepreneur
is again, we came from apassionate spot, we had a passion or
we saw the opportunity. But again, do I have all the pieces of
the puzzle to answers? No,I don't, so now I'm doing so.
I've also heard many entrepreneurs that havebeen but they trusted somebody, They

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trusted the accountant, they trusted somebody, and then that trauma. But in
the doing, in the in thebossness and the busyness of that company too.
To be able to play all thepositions and wear all the hats,
that's ridiculous. It's ridiculous to dothat. I've tried, and it's or
at least for me. For atleast for me, it's ridiculous. I
don't want to play all the Idon't want to wear all the hats.

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I want to play. I wantto wear my hat. And so so
in doing so some of those traumas. As now it keeps going, keep
building, building, building, keepdoing, and so so again, trusting
other people is a very difficult thingbecause the communication and all that, and
so getting lost in the sauce,in the sense, getting lost in the
mix of the everyday doing instead ofbeing and appreciate that there was another gentleman

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from Australia was talking about how Godappreciate it, and I could say,
I know at times I got lostin that even at that so I know
I was divorced during my entrepreneur timewhile building my business, I got divorced.
Why because I was I was sofocused on the company. I lost
track of what was at home andand that part of that. So that

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was a trauma. And then whenI talked to many other entrepreneurs after the
fact, they're like they all acknowledge, like, yeah, yeah, we
know, we know. Yeah,it happens to all of us. I'm
like, man, what, butno one ever talks about that part.
No one ever talks about that part. Normally they talk about it, you
know, so they support the businessside of things, but then they don't
support all the other parts. Sothese traumas. But at the same point,

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like you said, breaking barriers,So all these traumas. Again,
the beautiful part about it is asan entrepreneur, we find solutions and so
and if there's no trauma, thenhow can we find solutions. So most
entrepreneurs are solution based, so theylook for trauma. They feel the trauma,
whether it's my trauma, your trauma, his trauma, hurt trauma,

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you know those traumas. Once youfind a solution, there is gains to
have, whether it's gains in thepocket, gains in the heart, gains
in the soul. But either way, there's games once you find the solution.
And that's well respected all around theall across the board, media mentorship.

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I've been going all the way intoday day Danny was good, man,
talk to me before I get aboutof here. Let's go talk to
me. What's going on, Danny, how you feeling about this? Popped
in? I popped in and sportsthis man. We're talking about why they're
traumatized entrepreneurs. Everybody been going in. It's just been a lot of talk

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about why they are, why peopledon't step up to the next level.
You know what you got to sayabout it? Danny talking to me,
man, I don't uh man,you know, and you know I've been
around look for those that don't knowanything about me, like I uh.

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I start I own and operate threebusinesses now our partners with Grand cardon UH
and others. And I started first. I came from the street life,
and I mean street street life,like you know, I see more shit
out there than shouldn't even be seen. So that was traumatic itself. And

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then I and then I jumped intothe boxing world and made a career of
that for eighteen years. I've beenin there with the best in the world.
And then and then transitioned over inthe music industry because you know,
I met a lot of people inin through you know, through boxing and
and and just being around people likethat that build great relationships. And uh,

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and then I transitioned over in business, uh, from from the music
industry, and I transitioned more intocore for business. And what I can
say is throughout all the throughout allthe people that I've met, I mean
again some of the biggest names inthe world. Uh, every single one
of them had something in common.And it's they all had stories as far
as traumatic experiences that they've been throughthat gave them the courage or gave them

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the momentum they needed to keep pushing. And I tell this to people all
the time, like in in inthe boxing world, like there's there's levels
to the game and then the higherup you go, like I know a
lot of people see you know,everybody posting stuff on Instagram now looking cute
and and and trying to you know, do stuff for for for for for
likes and stuff like that. Butthen there's a whole difference when you get

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in there and you got somebody that'strying to take your head off, like
for real. So you know,there's there's two parts of the game.
And you know when you're at thatlevel, it's you go places mentally that
people don't normal somebody normal would notendure. Like you know, I tell

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this to people you want to youwant to really get an in depth idea
of what it's like, like themindset of a fighter. You listen to
Mike Tyson, that dude, he'sthe most outspoken. Mike's coolest, hell
too, but he's the he's themost outspoken fighter. I could say that
could actually put things into a perspectivewhere people can actually understand, but then
they label him crazy. But thefact of the matter is is that you

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know, we go through a lotof we go through a lot of shit.
So for us to get in thereand and and do what it is
that we that that we do toentertain, you know, people dying.
I think it's an average of thirteenfighters that die every year inside the ring.
So you know, we even startlives to to entertain people, but
you have to go someplace mentally thata lot of people aren't willing to go.

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And all I did was I tookthat and I transitioned that over into
my business life. And you know, I mean, I don't there's nothing.
There's not I tell these people allthe time, there's nothing out there
that scares me. Nothing, nothing, I'm not afraid of nothing. I've
seen it all. So what I'mgetting at is is a lot of a

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lot of times people don't really harnessthe trauma that they have and put it
towards like something. They allow itto hold them back. And I'm not
speaking like on a side. I'mnot a therapist or anything like that,
so I can't really speak on that. But what I can say is if
people could find a way that theycould take post experiences that they've been through,

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learn from them, and then usethat as fuel, then you'll be
much more powerful than than uh thana lot of other people. Because that's,
like I said, all the successfulpeople that I've been around, like
I'm talking about again, some ofthe most successful people in the world,
they all they that's all they did. They just they transformed whatever it was

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they were going through, and theyand they catapulted it up and everybody scratches
their head like, how the helldid they do that? And that's exactly
how Floyd talks about this. He'slike, he's able to go places mentally
that that a lot of uh,a lot of other fighters are not able
to go so and and I mean, you know, it's I always I
always say this is a lot ofa lot of things that that that people

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do in life. Like I broughtthis into sports, but even in business,
a lot of is mental. Soyou can have the best skill set.
We used to say this. Weused to say this in the gym
all the time. You got afighter, he could be he could be
so talented, he could be soskilled. I've seen it happen so many
times. But he's not He's notthere mentally, and he's done. You

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know, you put a guy inthere that has more heart, more courage,
and he's just he just he justyou know, he just clenches down
in his mouth feast and he wantsit more and he's gonna win hands down.
So you know, I always sayit's eighty percent metal and twenty percent
physical. That's definitely used to say. And it's the same thing in business,
like you have the best skill set, you got the best business,
you got the best everything, butyou know you're not You're not right mentally.

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It's done. So I would say, I mean, you know,
I mean, I'm not. I'mjust using my story and I hope that
you know it's able to touch somebody. But you know, at the end
of the day, I can't reallygive advice on that. What I can
say is, you know, whateverit is that people go through, if
they learn how to transform that,you'll be a lot more powerful than your
thing. Danny, where you at, Man, you're going in. It's

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over you already, keep going.Come on, man, look Danny,
let's tap in. Yeah, let'stap in. Danny called me bro this
week. Let's get together. Yeah, we can get late. You know
what you're saying, We're gonna getlady, you gotta talk about Go ahead,

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bro, I'm closing in about fiveminutes there. Uh So, Dingy,
you spoke on trying to figure away out to filter the things that
go on in your life so thatway it doesn't consume you and I can
just say from my own experience,you know, being a new entrepreneur to

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the game, coming from the nineto five into you know, my own,
my own business. It definitely takesa special individual that takes a lot
of the negative criticism, the negativethings that come along with it and trying
to mold it and use it asfuel. And I can honestly say I

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come from a background where a lotof sarcasm, a lot of criticism that
was unconstructive, and a lot ofjust negative, unsupportive people. And I
had to take that and I hadto find a way to turn it into
fuel for myself. You know,I have a background in real estate investment,
but also I have a military background, so I had to pick up

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the tools that was gifted to meand installed in me to keep pushing forward,
to keep moving forward. And onething I can say being an entrepreneur
is that I'm learning a lot onself development. And the one thing I
learned is that fear really grasps alot of people and it prevents them from

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wanting to move forward in their business. And I'm learning at this stage now
that there's a cure for it,and it's action. Action cures fear.
So instead of just staying stagnant andstaying in one place, you got to
you have to take action, becauseif you don't, then that trauma that
you're dealing with and that you're goingthrough mentally, it's going to keep you

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stagnant. And there was some thingsthat I had experienced and I didn't know
how to get out of it.But once I was introduced to taking action,
I said, Yo, you knowwhat I know how to do that.
I know how to take my rightfoot and put it in front of
my left. I know how totake my left and put it in front
of my right. I know howto put my head down and say,
screw the all the distractions, andI'm gonna just I'm gonna just push forward,

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push. And one of the biggestmodels in the military in my unit
that we had for my company wasseize the high ground Buffalo's and so that
was one of that was one ofour things that we stuck by. Under
any circumstances, doesn't matter what itis, we're gonna we're gonna capture that
the high ground. And once wehad the high ground that we everything else

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becomes ours. And so I say, I say this stack I appreciate careering.
I appreciate everybody's sharing. I've beensitting here listening and Danny, you
know, you dropped it. Youdropped a lot of gems, and I
appreciate you being able to get onthe mic and actually, you know,
speaking about where you come from andthe things that you've learned, and the
fact that you know, I wasable to latch onto that one little piece

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and I just wanted to shed somelight on it and definitely come in here
and show some support to Stack's room. He's always talking about his rooms and
he's always getting the word out.So you know, it doesn't cost me
anything to come in here and supportone hundred and fifty percent. So you
know, I appreciate this room,Stack keeping going. Listen, man,
I want to tell you. Iwant to tell you thank you. You

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know, I appreciate your service.You know, thank you for your service.
And we actually got if you dmme, we actually have cardon University
for vets. So if you ifyou DM me, we'll I'll hook you
up with a card on you forfree. We give back to the to
the vets. Let's go, Danny, I love that Broye. You had
a fire ass room. Who's thatall right? And I just want to

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say, you know, to yourpoint, you know a lot of people
with the year, a lot oftimes it comes from what other people think.
And you know, I I usedto I used to think that way.
I used to. I used toworry a lot about and think of
a lot about what people thought ofme. And and I tried to.
I was a people pleaser. Andyou know my older brother, mister Cheeks

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and the Lost Boys, I gottaI gotta plug man, you know.
He he he told me they allcall me Champ. And he was like
Champ. He was like, whyare you worried about what they think about
you? He's like, they're gonnasay something regardless. And I was like,
yeah, you're right, and hewas like, dude, do you
He's like, don't worry about that. And ever since that day, like
I just stopped caring about what peoplethought. I don't like, I don't

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care. There's nothing like, youknow, I really don't care if people
talk about me. I hope theydo. You know that that way,
that way I can share whatever itis they're saying and what people know about
me. You know, that's mythat's my goal. Now, it's just
to get as many people to knowabout me as possible. So you want
to talk about me, go forit. Talk about me. You know,
I am who I am and Itell people this all the time.

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I don't change who I am.I am who I am you, even
fat Danny, we don't never change, bro exactly, even gonna like it.
You're not like I push people,you know, and my co I
got over one hundred people under meand growing in my consulting business, and
I push people and I tell them, I'm like, listen, there's two
things that's gonna happen. You comework for me, You're gonna be better.
Are you gonna leave? And that'sit. There's no like. I'm

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real hard on people. And Ihave the permission to be hard on people
because I'm a hard on myself.But you know, bottom line is I
stop. I stopped worrying about whatpeople thought about me a long time ago,
and that's what holds a lot ofpeople back. To be honest with
you, they all try to pleaseeverybody, and they're like, you know,
I want this person like me toit. I don't care, like
you know, there's so many peopleout there and I got and I have

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and what I've learned is the moreI'm myself, the more people like me.
Anyways. So it's like, Okay, I'm not I'm not. You
know, I say I say messedup stuff. You know, it is
what it is. I'm trying towatch my tongue on here, but you
know, I say messed up stuff. I slip a lot, but whatever,
I'm human And if you're gonna penalizeme for that, then all right,
col penalize me. You know,it is what it is. But

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make sure you look at yourself inthe mirror and you're able to and you're
able to say that you're perfect becauseyou ain't gonna you know, you can't.
You can't do that to me.So I mean, that's just and
that's just you know what I wantedto go off of that, like you
know, don't you know? Thecriticism is always gonna be there. Hey,
this is gonna hate facts, Danny. I love that share man.
Shout us to everybody that pulled uptoday. Shout us to my shit shar

(01:25:26):
in the building too. I haven'tseen in minutes that bubb in the building.
I appreciate you shars out here workingreal hard on that real estate doing
goddamn thing. You can't wait tilyou come back to Boston. Shar.
If you if you're around, youcan chime into the topic. If not,
I'm gonna take us out because wewent crazy today. But we were

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talking about traumatizing entrepreneurs breaking through barriers. Danny went in, It's manifest winning,
everybody went in, miss self loveAndrea man I heard from everybody,
So Shar, if you want togo in, you can. If not,
I'm gonna take us out, saysI Love y'all. No, but

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this is okay, so we canjust end it real quick. This is
such a good topic. I wasmeeting some ladies at coffee today that are
currently traumatized entrepreneurs, and I wastelling them, like people can dismiss you
know how people are church hurt,people are business hurt as well, and
that's a real thing that people totalk about. I think what's happening is

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there are individuals that are joining intodifferent fields and different industries who want to
be taught by somebody, and sowhat they do is mistakenly they look to
that person that's encouraging to them.They look to that person that's like a
role model and mistake them for havingquality leadership skills. So they submit underneath

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these individuals who don't know how tolead a team or lead people, and
they get hurt from that. Isthat person a bad person or not?
They might not be. But whenwe are impatient or make premature decisions based
on what looks good on the outside, because this person's making this many transactions
or they look like they're doing greatbusiness and we aren't discerning to whether they

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could lead us properly in the industrythat we're in, you get business hurt
or you are traumatized as an entrepreneur. And so I was just encouraging the
ladies, you know, not todon't hold it against them. They might
still be good people. They don'thave quality leadership skills, move around,
maneuver, and go the opposite route. And so the Bible verse that I

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receive today on this specific topic isJeremiah twenty three one through four, and
I'm gonna read it and I'll bedone, and it says, what sorrows
awaits the leaders of my people,the shepherds of my sheep, for they
have destroyed and scattered the very onesthey were expected to care for. Therefore,
says the Lord, and he saysthis to the shepherds. Instead of

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caring for my flock and leading themthem to safety, you have deserted them
and driven them to destruction. NowI will pour out my judgment on you
for the evil you have done.And this is where the encouragement comes in.
But I will gather together the remnantof my flock from the countries where
I have driven them. I willbring them back to their own sheep fold,
and they will be fruitful and increasingnumber. Then I will appoint responsible

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teachers who would care for them,and they will never be afraid again.
Not a single one will be lostor missing. So while you may be
traumatized or you may have experienced badleadership, they're still a good leader out
there that can lead you to successin your industry. Or you can just
go and kill it yourself. Thanky'all. Woo my sus Sea. I

(01:28:42):
can't wait till you come back toBoston. Please let me know when you're
in town. Go crazy, man. I loved you. Put your fun
yo, let's get it, yousaid we in the building. I appreciate
y'all. Y'all enjoyed the room today. Put a one in the chat man
we went. We was in herefor over an hour and a half,

(01:29:03):
all the way till two, andit's over for me. Click this link
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Get a free fifteen minute so wecan level up on all social media
platforms. But I'm gonna let thelast person because I've seen how I come
back. How can you get aquick share in? But so I can
get up out of here, let'sgo before I leave. Hey everyone,

(01:29:28):
oh my battery's about to die,but yeah, give a quick one here.
Listen. You know entrepreneurs got traumatized. You're choosing the wrong audience,
You're choosing the wrong buyer. Youknow how many times do we do the
right things, and there are sometimes some people just don't get it right.
Some customers just come in, theyjust want it for themselves. They
don't understand your value. It's soimportant to understand what your values are and

(01:29:55):
align yourself with customers that align withHugh. Not so much if your product
is ten dollars or twenty dollars orwhatever, but if your products are any
more than ten thousand dollars or more, pay attention because you know, I
just the other day, I'm thinkingI'm doing I always do the right thing,

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giving the right people and giving themthe right path. Right. And
I am expensive, I'm very expensive. But you know what, if you
want two hundred million dollars, it'sgonna cost you five hundred thousand dollars to
put up. But you know,then she tells me, I got somebody
your pick that is willing to ischarging eighty nine dollars. I'm like,
okay, you have a good day. You want the eighty nine dollar path,

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Go take the eighty nine dollars path. And I just told her,
congratulations, good for you. Youshould take the eighty nine dollar path.
That'd be a great fit for you. She didn't like that very much.
But it's okay. The problem withpeople is that you don't know when to
cut people off. It's okay toturn down, love down people. It's
okay to take the product away fromthem. It is okay, hey to

(01:31:00):
say no. That's what I'm sayingto you. So I appreciate that.
And another person I want to gettoo high before I get out of here
is Consuelo, because she's already supportanttoo. You guys, don't really get
to hit from Consuelo, but she'salways here, so the swallow if you're
around you got any words for thetraumatize on entrepreneurs and the topic today over
to you. Thank you for comingtoday, Cuzuelo. Well, I think

(01:31:24):
it's if you're a really good leader, you'll be able to really understand the
people your team and understand where they'regoing in their path. And I think
what you know, the value thateverybody provided today, from Danny and Shah
and even Hi I came in alittle late for me, it's about you
and what you can you can moveforward with your core values. If you

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don't have your core values understanding whereyou're aligned with your core values, as
you know, similar to what hassaying, I think you're just going to
be totally lost and you won't bea good leader. And the fact of
the matter is trauma is trauma.I mean, if you cannot overcome a

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traumatic situation, there's always people surroundingyou that can assist you in so many
ways, and so many great leadersout there, but you have to choose
the right path, the right peoplesurrounding yourself, with the right network,
and it's about collaboration. You know, I come in and travel industry,

(01:32:30):
where I go to so many eventsglobally and network myself with the right people.
But I'm not going to provide mystaff or my people the wrong products
the wrong way to sell something.You know, you are selling something to
people, and when it comes downto it, some people are traumatized by

(01:32:51):
the fact that people say no noto you, but has nothing to do
with you. It's probably what you'reable to sell. And that's going back
to what your core values is aboutyourself. Understanding that you have a lot
of power and a lot of resiliencewhen it comes to understanding your your products,

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the knowledge of of your network,and also having understanding of what it
is that you're actually selling about you. And in order to overcome any trauma,
you really have to take the timeto have some self care and some

(01:33:39):
self love and just breathe. That'sall I gotta say. And swello,
we love it. Look we hada fire room today. Tomorrow, Otis
James will be in the building withus. Just breathe like a swallows,
Just breathe. The Otis James willbe here. We'll be talking about how

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to find the right real estate deal, and then we'll be going in next
week with some more talic, somemore fire stuff, trying to manifest some
stuff, trying to do something tocasting. Tomorrow we're going all the way
in with how to find the rightreal estate there or RSVP and that going
to club RSVP for that. Wedon't stop. We had, Yo,
we went crazy for over an hour. If we went crazy for over an

(01:34:20):
hour, yeah, I gotta playbreath you see see look Danny just did
it, Danny do I gotta playbreathe for him, Danny. Oh Man,
Danny said that I haven't heard that. It's so long, Danny,
Danny, you just told me topray breathe by fabulous Bro. Oh my

(01:34:41):
god, Bro died about that.Bro Bro. Listen, I'm about to
take us out with fabulous breath becausebecause Swellow told us to breathe. You
know what I'm saying. Because Swellowtold us to breathe today, you know
what I'm saying. Everybody, Yo, make sure you're tap into the media.
Mentors Megan Mansion every day Monday throughFriday, two pm E Tea.
We got fire Ass toppings with fireAss guest. It's going right on the

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Stackpack podcast dot com right on iHeartRadio. Make sure you tapping with me with
everything else you guys may need onsocial media, podcast and billboards. We
done did a lot and we alsosigned the contract with Burrow Himp My Cannabisiness,
CBD, Lible, d here A, Sam Damn. I appreciate you

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guys for you know, supporting everythingthat I got going on everything, and
I love to help others out too. Shout us to mis self Love.
She got featured on Los Angeles businessmagazine Do the Internet Traffic. Shout out
to everybody that came through last week, the week before that. This week,
like you know, we just wasgoing in every room we did.

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This week was fire every room andit's always packed too. We always go
crazy. Shout out to Miss ManifestKirk Andre and Crypto wife he a man
that Danny can swell, Oh,Beth Santos, Miss m tavar is hk
the message in many Ga, Saundia, everybody else in the room. I
appreciate y'all. Make sure y'all pullup at two pm on time. Otis

(01:36:08):
James to be at how to findthe right real estate deal sheh, And
that's gonna be crazy I can't waitto see what we get into tomorrow.
Can't wait to see what what elsewe call into ore like, Oh yeah,
make sure you wake up in themorning and join Lindsay's room. Get
up in there for that seven pointfifty self love, self care room right.
Calling a lot of things in mylife by doing this shit right.

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Shout out to Helium Mobile as well. We signed the contract with that company
as well. If you guys arelooking to save on your phone bill,
get with me with that. I'malso ramping the TV show backup. You
guys know, I got to dealwith E three to sixty network. I
signed the contract right before my birthday. I'll be putting more people on TV.
You know what I'm saying. We'regonna be seeing who else want to
get on there. I also metmore people for the billboards, so I'm

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trying to put people on you know, they brand right there in front of
eyes. And also the magazine hasbeen doing great, more, more publications,
more than it's just gonna be moresuccess. That's what I call into
my life every time. So Iappreciate everyone that stepped into the building today,
tapping with anybody that you may nothave tapping with and ship, big

(01:37:14):
pack. Let's keep going in y'all. See y'all at two pm tomorrow.
Man stack packed, media, media, mentorship, every part of your things.
Let's just keep going crazy. I'mso excited because the cannabis lide is
here. Ship push your pe everywhere. Let's go. When I'm coming to
off into the suns. Let listento the fight. You know what you

(01:37:43):
right? You can't, Jaws said, they start chasing them off, so
classed when I blow them past thatthey can't. The presence of them shoot
too. Two in the bull queenand the poor h Then you gotta breathing.

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You want too until you gotta believe. Then you gottah. Then you
gotta u s can thae When Icome to home to some shoes, gotta
be twenty man, It's not evenfunny. They can't. It's so close
to me. Type the left booksto the right. You know what you

(01:38:27):
right? You can't. So theyhearts. But should they start chasing But
I'm so fast when I'm talking fastthat they can't. The presence of the
man. Your futures a little betterthan your past. If you're pleasant with
the man. Better she shit inmy head