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October 9, 2025 53 mins
Toxic masculinity, is it actually true?

Today, we’re joined by leading Christian intellectual and author Nancy Pearcey. 
Nancy is the author of The Toxic War on Masculinity: How Christianity Reconciles the Sexes, as well as Love Thy Body, The Soul of Science, Saving Leonardo, Finding Truth, and Total Truth. She is professor and scholar in residence at Houston Christian University. She has been quoted in The New Yorker and Newsweek, highlighted as one of the five top women apologists by Christianity Today, and hailed in The Economist as "America's pre-eminent evangelical Protestant female intellectual."

Get Nancy's book, The Toxic War on Masculinity: https://www.amazon.com/Toxic-War-Masculinity-Christianity-Reconciles/dp/0801075734
Discover more from Nancy Pearcey: https://nancypearcey.com

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If you’re questioning what real masculinity looks like in a world that’s confused, hostile, or suspicious toward men… if you’ve wrestled with shame, regret, or silence because of false narratives (inside and outside the church)… or if you long to discover God’s design for masculinity and leadership—THIS is the episode you don’t want to miss.

In this honest, hope-filled conversation with Nancy Pearcey, you’ll get:

  • Real DATA that smashes cultural myths about Christian men, church attendance, marriage, and abuse (it’s not what you’ve been told)
  • How secular and biblical “scripts” for masculinity diverged, and why reclaiming the GOOD “software” of manhood matters for generations to come
  • Nancy’s insights on the modern “crisis of men,” the dangers of the “manosphere,” and how young men are turning to false teachers like Andrew Tate
  • Proven ways churchgoing men can shatter stereotypes by becoming the most loving, engaged husbands and fathers (the science backs it!)
  • Why history, sociology, and Scripture agree: men are biologically, spiritually, and relationally built to provide, protect, and prosper others
  • Practical encouragement for dads and sons: How to build deep connection in an age that mocks and sidelines fathers—and how the “dad brain” is real
  • How fathers matter more than ever in shaping faith and character—and the surprising lifelong power of a present, loving dad
  • A biblical call to root our identity, strength, and tenderness in Christ—becoming the kind of men, husbands, and fathers our culture desperately needs

WATCH NOW if you want to:
  • Understand the culture war on men and how to rise above it, rooted in God’s truth
  • Get equipped to disciple men on the “fringes” and draw them from nominal faith to authentic transformation
  • Find your voice, calling, and mission as a Christian man—without shame, confusion, or compromise
  • Pass on a legacy of courage, wholeness, and Christlike leadership—for your marriage, your kids, and your community


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Discover more from Nancy Pearcey: https://nancypearcey.com
Get Nancy’s book, The Toxic War on Masculinity: Available on Amazon, ChristianBook, and all major retailers

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