Beyond the kink: unseen benefits TO YOU when you serve a Femdom Mistress

Mistress Demi joins us today to talk about some of the things you might not think about when you serve a Mistress, Femdom and/or Goddess.

What does the submissive get out of the D/s relationship?

In previous episodes, we’ve talked a lot about the physical benefits of BDSM: stress relief, relaxation after subspace, endorphin release from pain play, etc.  Today, we switch things up to have a conversation about benefits you might not have thought of.

Goddess Demi brings up a great point. A lot of her submissives are in dominant roles in the rest of their life so submission becomes a break from having to be in charge.

Some of the topics include:
Submission as a way to let go of life’s responsibilities
How working with a Pro Domme can allow the sub to explore all kinds of things (sexual and non sexual) without judgment.
Personal growth because the submissive is a reflection of his or her Domme and the sub is therefore working to make his/her Mistress proud


Greater intimacy with the primacy partner (wife or girlfriend).
Learning the importance of communication in BDSM, carries over into other areas of life.
Using BDSM kink relationships to break away from shame, guilt and the pressures of trying to conform.  This is especially true for feminization and sissy training.

This wide-ranging conversation about kink and the intersection of BDSM and trust, vulnerability and discovering a sense of belonging.

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