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April 21, 2025 32 mins
What do you think of when you hear the term cock control? Mistress Erika says there are very few things more powerful than a man’s biological directive. She’s right and this episode is all about Femdoms who enjoy controlling a man by controlling his orgasm (or lack thereof).

But, we’ve had questions asking if cock control automatically means chastity. Short answer, no, but the longer answer is much more fun!

Let’s talk cock control:

What does this term mean?
What is the difference between cock control and guided masturbation?
Is edging and JOI (jerk off instructions) considered cock control?
Are remote controlled sex toys part of cock control?
Where does gooning fall in these various types of masturbation sessions?
What about the role of chastity or even a ruined orgasm for controlling that cock (and man)?

What are some examples of cock control in a session?

What makes someone a fun playmate for a Mistress?
Why would a man want to turn his orgasm over to a woman?
What is it about orgasm control that makes it so much fun for women?

Hear personal stories about kinky playmates including how one man went from “if I’m paying, I’m spraying” to hands off orgasm control by Mistress Erika.Does someone have to be submissive to enjoy edging on command? 


We want to hear your stories and experiences so get in touch!


Mistress Olivia’s blog: Experienced Mistress

Mistress Erika’s blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy


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