In a Relationship with a Narcissist? End this Toxic Relationship! ASAP!

Female narcissists are often skilled at masking their narcissistic traits, so identifying them can be tricky. But there are some tell-tale clues to look for that reveal their true nature. Listen carefully as Jayden Miller educates you on how to cope with the narcissistic woman in your life and why you should leave this toxic relationship.

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Episode Transcript

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Good day, Good day. Thisis Jaden Miller coming back to you on
the podcast that I have not beenon in quite a while. But in
any event, please check out mywebsite at www dot Jaydenmiller dot com www
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Amazon Podcast, and podcast Addict.I hope you guys are doing well.

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It has been since April when Idid a podcast, and I am really
saddened by that. It's been somekind of year for me. It has
been some kind of year for me. Change jobs, got divorced, so

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so many different things have been happening, and so I'm back. Hopefully I'm
back for good, and I willstart bringing content a whole lot more often
than I have since April. Todayis August the thirteenth. It is a
hot Sunday in the Phoenix metropolitan areaand it has been that way all summer

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long, one hundred and twenty onehundred and eighteen. I mean, it
has been hot I think today itwill be one hundred and three degrees.
I cannot wait to get into maybelate September October, where the temperatures will
begin to moderate, which I amso looking forward to. But anyway,
as I started off, it's beensome kind of year. Uh, lots

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of lots of things have happened.I am in a good place. I
am in a very very good place, and so I'm not unhappy. I'm
not sad. I am just ina really good place and looking forward to
move to moving forward with my lifeand and doing good and being good for

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others, and uh, and lookingforward to people coming into my life that'll
be good for me. Today,I just want to talk about, uh,
narcissist. I want to talk aboutspecifically narcissis, narcissistic I always I'm
so hard. This word is sohard for me to say. Narcissistic personality

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disorder INPD, narcissistic. Oh,there we go. Narcissistic personality disorder.
I want to talk about that today. I have learned a lot being married.
I've learned a lot, uh nowbeing divorced, about certain traits and

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individuals that you really really need tolook for when you're about to get into
a relationship. So this podcast isfor men and women. While I'm I'm
really gearing it towards men, thesesome of these same personalities can be found,

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you know, in women that aredating men as well. And so
I'm not discriminating, you know,but because I am a man and I
date women, or you know,I've been married to a woman, you
know, that's really where I'm going. And so what I want to do
today is I really want to wantto give people some insight and what you

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really ought to look for in arelationship and what you ought to be careful
of, Okay, because I don'twant you to make mistakes. I've made
mistakes in relationships in you know,choosing too quickly and not really identifying who

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I'm with, And so hopefully thiswill be some good information for you and
that you won't make similar mistakes andthat you will find really good trusting relationships.
Really. Narcissistic personality disorder is apersonality disorder characterized by grandiosity, entitlement,
and an excessive need for external validation. All right. While female narcissists

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are less common than male narcissists,they put they possess some tell tale traits
that can be used to identify them. So again, men, I really
want to help you, because sometimeswe can be very superficial in who we
choose as they mate. We wantsomeone that looks good and makes us look

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good, and someone that is funand exciting at least appears to be.
But we really have to learn tochoose carefully. And sometimes we as men,
don't choose carefully, and as such, we get into relationships. Sometimes
they can be lifelong and cause usso much pain and hurt, and it

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causes us to settle, okay,And then there are those of us that
are lucky enough to find out thesethings and to get out of those relationships
as quickly as we can. Ifyou choose to stay in those relationships,
then there is definitely some therapy orcounseling that you need to try to get

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your narcissistic mate into or you're goingto continue to have some really really bad
issues, all right. So whatis MPD? What is narcissistic personality disorder?
While people with MPD can be superficiallycharming and likable at first, this

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false persona wears off quickly. Narcissiststend to be hyper sensitive to criticism and
highly defensive when they're offended, whichis often how their difficult personalities are revealed
to others. When offended, someonewith MPD will often become highly defensive,
reactive, and even aggressive or hostile. According to current diagnostic criteria, MPD

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is characterized by five or more ofthe following. So I want you to
listen to these and again, menand women, because some of these characteristics
can be found in man as well. But for the man out there,
these are some things that you reallyreally need to watch out for, all
right. Grandiosity or an excessive senseof self importance, fantasies of powerful success,

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beauty, or importance. A beliefin being special or exceptional, sometimes
with a desire to network with peopleof similar high status or importance. An
excessive need for validation, praise andadmiration from others. A sense of entitlement
or feeling like one deserved special treatment. Exploiting others for personal gain that can

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be financial, that can be anumber of different things, or selfish reasons.
Lacking in empathy or unwilling to identifywith the needs of others. Now,
sometimes people with narcissistic personality distorted canbe impaths. They can be empathetic,
okay, but they lack empathy foryou. Okay. They want you
to be empathetic towards them, okay, but they lack empathy towards you.

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Being envious of others or believing othersare envious of them, that's another one
that you've got to work watch outfor. And then arrogant or hotty behavior
or acting better or superior to otherpeople. All right. Some experts believe
that there are distinct subtypes of MPD. While the same criteria that I just
mentioned is possible for a person todisplay, there are slightly different traits and

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tendencies depending on certain subtypes. Allright, and I'll go through these with
you as well. So the commontypes of narcissist narcissists include the overt narcissist
and overt narcissist displays most of thetraditional narcissistic traits and tendencies, including grandiosity,
entitlement, and behaving in a boastfulmanner. All right. So now,

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just because your wife or your girlfriendor significant other doesn't have this one,
there are other ones, okay,and some of them cross over into
other ones. Okay, So youknow in here I can give you a
good example of how a narcissist wouldreact to this. I mean, if
you told them, well, youknow what, it seems that you have
this grandiose narcissist sick behavior, thenthey all want to argue with you and

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say, nope, see I'm nota grandiose yeah, but you are these
other things that that I'm getting readyto mention. Okay, all right.
Number two is the covert narcissist.A covert narcissist can be harder to detect
because they may appear shy, humble, reserved, or even insecure to other
people. That is one that thatyou've got to watch out for. Okay,

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that covert narcissist. To everyone else, Okay, they act, they
seem like they're reserved. Okay,they seem like they're humble. But when
you are alone with them, whenyou are in a relationship with them,
you know, uh that that covertnessbecomes very very overt in in a hurry.

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Okay, really, as you allget to know each other, you
know, you get to see thatyou know, this person is not really
humble, this person is not reallyreserved, especially when you criticize them or
when you try to hold them accountable. Okay. Next is the communal narcissist.
A communal narcissist is someone who appearsselfless and generous with their time,

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money, and resources. They arelikely to be very active in charities or
in churches or other good causes,but use these roles to promote themselves,
form a favorable impression, or createa reputation for being a good person.
Okay, the communal narcissist. Peoplelike them, people you know see them

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as all while you've been victimized oryou know you've suffered trauma or you know
you are the one treated badly inthis relationship. No, that's what they
want you to think. Okay.They try to form a favorable impression.
Okay, They try to create themselveswith a reputation for being a good person.
They are not. Okay. Soagain, men and women out there,

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as you are looking at a spouseor thinking about getting into a relationship,
or if you are in one,Okay, you need to really really
check these things out. You reallyreally need to identify these things. Okay.
Again, someone that's active, youknow, in charities. Another one
is church. Someone that's active inchurch. They want to be in church,

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because then everybody gets to see howgood they are. They're not good.
Okay, this is an act.This is a role that they play.
Number four malignant narcissist. A malignantnarcissist has traits and symptoms of both
narcissistic personality disorder and anti social personalitydisorder. They are considered dangerous because they

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display a lack of empathy and apattern on praying on others. Okay,
you've got to watch alph this men. This happens also often to us.
Okay, these people are dangerous.These women are dangerous. Okay. They
will stalk you. They will alwayswant to see what's happening on your cell
phone or on your computer, okay, so that they can track you.

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Know. These are people that arereally really suspicious of you, Okay,
when in essence, in actuality,they're the ones that need to be watched.
They are the ones that display alack of empathy to you. These
are the ones that use certain methods, okay, like guilt tripping and manipulation
to prey on you. So it'sso important for you to be, you

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know, watchful for these things,all right. And then another type of
narcissist is the healthy narcissist. Someresearchers argue that there is a healthy narcissist
subtype that describes people with high selfesteem along with other MPD traits that do
not interfere or cause problems in theirlives or relationships. All right, so

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we're getting into and we're talking aboutnarcissistic behavior in women, and so this
podcast is really geared towards men.Women, these same things can happen to
you as well. So if youhave a male that you are dating or
thinking about getting into a relationship,if you're married to someone you're starting to
wonder, or if you are alwayswondered, Okay, you need to really

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listen in and do some research onnarcissistic behavior. Okay, I want to
give a little bit of advice tohere. You know, take your time
when it when it when it comesto starting a relationship, and get to
know someone. Okay, that's amistake that I've made. Okay, you
know someone allowing someone to rush mealong in a relationship because you know,

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and if you don't, if youdon't you know, say that, hey
we're boyfriend and girlfriend, or ifyou don't you know, say that you
know we're engaged, you know,or you want to be married in a
certain amount of time. Then theywill guilt trip you, okay, because
they'll say something like, well,I don't need to wait that long in
order to know I know that Iwant to be with you. Know.

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What they want is they want tobe able to control you. Okay.
They've probably been in a relationship before, okay where they were either so controlling
or they were controlled. Okay.Some women that have this narcissistic behavior have
had really really difficult issues in theirchildhood. You know, perhaps their father

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wasn't around or he ignored them.Okay. Maybe their mother, you know,
wasn't as motherly or mothering you know, you know, as she could
be, not as caring, youknow, because you know, maybe she
had other things going on in herlife, so many different things, and
that has a major effect on peoplein childhood. Okay. And I think

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that's why people that have had thoseissues should be able to notice the problems
that they have in relationships and notjust romantic relationships, relationships with others,
okay, and that they ought todo something about that. We are not
at fault for how our parents treatedus, Okay. We are not at
fault because our parents divorced, oryou know, our dads didn't want to

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be around, or our moms weren'tthere. That's not our fault as children,
okay, but those are issues thatwe need to work through, and
many people have not worked through thoseissues. All right. So but it's
very important to make sure you getto know someone very very well. All
right, ask questions, watch certainbehaviors. Men, I'm telling you you've

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got to do this because you don'twant us to live a life of sadness,
of heartbreak, of stress, okay, of nagging, of always being
guilt tripped or manipulated or controlled.That is not the type of life for
anyone to have to live, menor men or women. Okay. And
so it's really important that you reallylearn about who you're going to be dating,

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looking to their family background, andyou know, that's really important.
You know, you know, arethey easily Are they able to forgive?
That's a big one, you know, if they're not able to forgive even
the smallest thing, even things.You know, when people have have you
know, when parents have stated thatyou know that I'm sorry, or you

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know, I know I wasn't agood parent. You know, I was
going through some things, all right. Well, you know, we go
through things as individuals. So dowe hold that grudge against our parents,
you know, for years? Ordo we try to work through those things
like adults, you know, becausenow we're adults. Your parents can't send
you to your room now, okay? So do we just not talk to
them for years? You know?Do we try to do something? Do

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we get upset, you know,when someone says, you know what,
you need to put that behind you. Yeah. Female narcissists do they get
upset because they can never admit anyof their own fault, all right.
It's always someone else did this tome. They aren't able to listen to
your pain because their pain always trumpsyour pain. So it's so important again,

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all right, that you become awareof these traits all right, And
so I'm going to go through someof them with you, all right.
So one is being self centered orself absorbed, all right. Self centeredness
is a hallmark sign hallmark sign ofMPD in both men and women. A
female narcissist may spend a lot oftime talking about herself and her life without

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thinking to ask how others are doing. When people do interject to talk about
themselves. The female narcissist may showlittle interest and quickly turn the conversation back
to herself. All right, ifyou are with someone that is self centered,
you need to do something about that. Okay, you need to either
get out of that relationship or youneed to talk to them and tell them
or explain to them what they're doingand how that self centeredness is a problem

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for you, and that it needsto move from being self centered and being
one in which both of us canshare and both of us can have a
conversation, and that it's not alwaysall about you. The second one is
never admitting fault. Oh my gosh, this is a big one. Another
tale tale sign of narcissism is neveradmitting fault or apologizing, and this is

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a big one. Instead finding waysto project blame outwards onto other people or
situations. All right. For example, narcissistic women will often deflect blame by
making excuses for their mistakes or findingways to twist the situation and paint someone
else, meaning you, as thebad guy. Come on, how many
times has this happened to you men? Okay, how many times has this

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happened to you? Women? Butagain, I'm really primarily gearing this towards
men. How many times has thishappened to you? Okay, Now you
are an a fault, You've donenothing wrong. You bring it to it,
because the narcissists will always say,well, you know what, let's
talk. If you have issues,bring them to me so we can talk
about them. But as soon asyou bring it to them, okay,

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then they can never admit their ownfault. They can never see that they
did anything wrong. Oh my gosh. They will not apologize, okay,
but they will find a way,okay, to guilt trip you, to
manipulate you, and project the blameback onto you as though you were the
one that did something wrong. Thatis a tale tale sign of a narcissistic

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woman. Be careful, You've gotto move away from that. Men do
not stay in a relationship where youare unhappy. See you know today,
you know, social media and mediain general, it makes it seem as
though men now have to take aback step, you know, to the
needs of women. That's not right. We all are equal here, okay.

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In a relationship there's there needs tobe equality, okay, especially when
it comes to people's feelings and howpeople are treated. Okay, that is
so important. Okay, men donot have to step back, you know,
because women were treated as second classcitizens in this country or in the
world prior. That's not our fault. That is not our fault. Okay,

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that is not our fault. Weare in this relationship and in this
relationship. You can't treat me secondclass just because men should be. Men
have always been first class. No, absolutely not. So you'll hear stuff
like, you know, the honeydude, I've got a honeyde list for
him. You know. Uh no, you know I'm gonna make him sleep

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on the couch. Wait, thisis my house. I'm not sleeping on
the couch. And if you wantto sleep on the couch, you sleep
on the couch. Okay. Menhave got to stop being sissified in relationships.
Okay, we can act like men. Okay, that doesn't mean that
we need to be abusive or anythinglike that towards women. But we have
to honor our roles. Okay.We can still be sensitive, we can

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still be loving, but we donot have to be second class in a
relationship. You do not have toSo again, if you are with the
narcissistic woman, who deflects blame bymaking excuses for their mistakes and finding a
situation, twisting the situation to makeit seem like you're wrong. You need
to get out of that relationship.That is not the type of person,
man or woman that you want tobe with. Number three is pettiness and

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inability to see the bigger picture.That's another one, a big one.
Narcissistic women can have a tendency tobe petty. Are you with someone that's
petty? They often get stuck onsmall details or perceived wrongdoings of other people,
even when they don't really matter.Oh my gosh. Imagine being in
a relationship with someone and having aconversation with them and telling them about something

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that happened to you, whether itwas good or something neutral, and then
you say one thing, and ohmy gosh, they lose it on you.
Why because now they're upset of becauseof their pettiness. Okay, they
can't see the bigger picture. Theycan't see that. You know, you're
trying to share with them something greatyou know today. Don't let it be

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something that happened in your past thatyou didn't share with them. Oh my
gosh, something that may have happenedforty years ago and you didn't tell them.
They get stuck on those small alldetails or perceived wrongdoings of other people,
even when they really don't matter.I'll give you. For instance,
a female narcissist may be unable tostop obsessing over the smallest criticism or slight

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and may even become hyper focused ongetting revenge. That revenge can be a
number of ways, and it canbe denying sex, denying romanticism, denying
going out with you, denying ina whole bunch of ways. That's how
they get their revenge. This inabilityto let go of small grievances can become
problematic for the narcissistic woman, makingher seem jealous, petty, and bitter

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to others. But again, remembermaybe not bitter to those church people or
those charity people, or her friendsor her family, But it is to
you, Okay, it is toyou. Number four. Obsession with social
status, being shallow or superficial isa common trait in both female and male
narcissist and I'm in with NPD.That's narcissistic personality disorder. This might show

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up as a tendency to be overlymaterialistic or preoccupied with brand name, luxury
items, or other status symbols associatedwith being wealthy. Other times, this
may include excessive concern about social status, reputation, social media, or appearances,
all of those things. Obsession withsocial status. What do my friends

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think? What will my family think? What about on social media? You
can't like these things because if youlike these things, then other people might
see them and they might think badlyof me. Okay, you can't appear
a certain way because if you do, then I don't have an impact on
me. You know, your reputationis my reputation. You know, do
you need to really leave that joband take this job? You know,

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I mean all of that obsession withsocial status. That's another major major concern.
Again. Men, if you arewith someone that is materialistic like that,
someone that is so so obsessed withyou know, social media appearances and
impressions or appearances, that's you reallyneed to check. You need to check

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on that person. You need tocheck on your own self. Men,
do not be afraid to check onyour own sanity. Okay, because you
can get go insane, you canreally really get upset. You can be
so stressed out, which will affectyour health dealing with the narcissistic woman.
Okay, there are so many otherpeople out there. There are so many

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women out there that do not havenarcissistic behavior. Choose one of them.
Okay, it is not wrong foryou to leave a relationship. You know.
One of the other things problems thatI've always seen. You know,
if you've watched talk shows, youknow, and some of the the the
host will get on men because theydecided to break up with the with the

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what you know, the person they'reinvolved with, their with their girlfriend or
wife or what have you. SoI asked the question, if I'm not
happy in a relationship and I ama man, what am I supposed to
do? Am I supposed to stayin that relationship with the woman? Because
if it's reversed, women tell womenall the time. Girl, you know,
if he's not the one for you, if he's not doing this for

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you, if he's not this,then you need to leave. Well you
know what you need to leave tomen? Okay, do not be afraid.
Okay, trust me, there areplenty of other women out here that
will love you, that will carefor you, that will be concerned for
you, that are not narcissistic women, you can find them, trust me

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all right. Next would be addictedto social media. All narcissists are self
absorbed, but this can be exhibiteddifferently in female narcissists than in males.
Women with NPD may be more likelyto get wrapped up in social media,
post selfies and become obsessed with gettinglikes and followers online. Oh my gosh.

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Some may even be addicted to socialmedia and unable to pull themselves away
from the virtual realities they've created online, So they are addicted to social media.
But oh my god, man,if you pick up your phone to
look at social media, they getupset with you because see, they're the
ones that addicted, but they wantto turn it around to make it seem
as though you are. So ifyou're not paying full one hundred percent attention

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to them while they're on social media, then something is wrong. Why don't
you love me? Why aren't youpaying attention to me? Why aren't you
sitting up under me? Okay,that's because I have a life too.
Okay, you're all wrapped up insocial media and obsessed with getting likes and
followers online that you have no timefor me. Okay, or you use
me in order to help get youlikes and followers online. Again, that

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is that behavior where women will turnit around on you, okay, and
make it seem as though what's yourfault is deflecting. So when you're on
your phone, that's a problem,okay, when they're on their phone,
that's okay, because I'm trying toboast myself on my social media platform.
Men, again, my warning toyou, okay, do not stay in

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a relationship with the woman that isa narcissist. There are plenty of others
out there that are not find them, they are there, trust me,
all right. Number six exploitative ofothers. Narcissists are known to exploit other
people for personal gain or self servinginterests, but men and women may have
opposing ways of doing some so.For example, women with NPD will often

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use manipulative or passive aggressive behaviors tofulfill their needs, while narcissistic men may
use force, intimidation or physical aggression. All right, again, I've mentioned
these words as well when it comesto narcissistic women, all right. Manipulative,
yes, they will attempt to manipulateyou. And then men, we
fall for the manipulation because we're morevisual. Okay, all right, there

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are things that we see that wewant. We see this beautiful woman,
we think, oh my gosh,my best friends, my friends see me
with her, you know. Andso that's why she's so able to able
to manipulate you, because she knowsthat you aren't going anywhere. All right.
These passive aggressive behaviors, all right, you guys know what passive aggressive
behaviors are, all right, Givingthe silent treatment, giving backhanded compliments,

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using sarcasm or snarky comments, subtlyor politely talking about topics, knowing it
makes you uncomfortable. Okay. Theydo this all of the time, all
right, you know. I meanjust imagine being at work all day and
you come home and here they areready to talk politely, okay about topics
that they know will make you uncomfortable, okay, pretending you don't know how

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to do something to avoid it.That's another thing that they do. They
will weaponize in competence. Okay.All right. Again, man, it's
so important that you do not fallfor these types of women, okay.
And again, if you have fallenfor them, then you really need to
consider your options, all right,next being overly vain. While both men

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and women with MPD are prone tovanity, research shows that women with MPD
are more likely to be preoccupied withphysical appearance. Also, women with narcissistic
personality disorder may be more sensitive tocriticisms about their physical appearance, weight,
or attractiveness than men with the disorder. Narcissism and women may lead to excessive

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cosmetic procedures, extreme dieting, oran unhealthy obsession with the parents or wait,
there you go again, being overlyvain. Let me stop for men
and just remind you guys to pleaselike, share, and subscribe on my
YouTube channel, and like, commonand follow on your favorite podcast platform.

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Check out my website at www dotJadenmiller dot com. Here's another one,
using sex appeal to coreers. Womenwithin may be more likely to capitalize on
their sex appeal or physical attractiveness.Recent studies have found that many female narcissists

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dressed in sexually provocative ways, likedressing and revealing clothing or wearing a lot
of makeup. Some may use sexualseduction as a way to manipulate or financially
exploit others, or engage in sexualnarcissism. They may even become involved in
parasitic sexual relationships with people who cansupport or help them in some way.

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All right. That's another thing.You guys got to really be watchful for
men. You know, we arevisual and the first thing we see is
physical attractiveness. That's just it forus. Okay. We see a voluptuous
woman, a beautiful woman, andwe think, oh, I need to
be with her. Okay, becausethat's what we do. We see,

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we visualize. Okay. Women areso much better at this because they can
see a handsome man. Okay,but they know, look, aren't everything,
okay, And you really got toknow a person. You've got to
know, you know their likes andtheir dislikes and their personality. There's so
much more to physical attractiveness. Andthat's something you learned men with age.

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Okay, you learned that you know, what looks good ain't always good for
you. Okay, all right,because we can eat a whole bunch of
candy and cake and cookies. Ohit certainly does look good, but it
ain't good for you in the longrun. Okay. All right, So
we've got to be very very carefulwhen it comes to the sex appeal.
All right, so yeah, youknow she looks good, but that's just

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the shallow and superficial part of us. What does she have to offer?
What does she have to bring tothe table? Okay? Does she have
any education? Does she have anyintelligence? Okay? All of those things
play a part in it. Isshe loving, you know? Is she
caring? How does she feel aboutsocial issues? Those are some things that

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you really ought to know it aswell, Okay, other than just the
sex appeal, all right. Next, seeming insecure, shy, or reserved.
Gosh, this is a big one. You've got to really watch out
because this is how they are covertand hide who they truly are. Women
with MPD are more likely to displaysigns of covert narcissism, experiencing traits that

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differ from the stereotypical portrayals of narcissism. A covert narcissist may not seem arrogant,
grandiose, or entitled, and mayinstead present as shy, quiet,
and even insecure. When insecurity andlow self esteem are coupled with other signs
and traits of narcissism, this oftenindicates covert narcissism. I like to say

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that the covert narcissist is the worstof all of them, okay, because
you don't know. They present themselvesas shy, so at first they're shy,
they seem to be quiet. Ohmy god. Insecurity is a big
part of them. Okay, Butthey will unleash a hell on you that
you could not ever imagine, perhapsstalking, perhaps criticizing everything you do,

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perhaps drinking too much, you know, perhaps destroying things. There can be
other types of aggressive behaviors of physicalviolence, throwing things away, breaking things.
All of these things you can find. And a covert narcissist, trust
me, that shyness and that quietness, and that seemingly insecurity is just a

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cover. That's why it's called covert. Is just a cover. Next,
we have sensitive in reactive. Femalenarcissists are often more emotional than their male
counterparts, which also makes them morelikely to be sensitive and reactive. While
all narcissists tend to be sensitive tocriticism, female narcissists may be more prone
to being hurt, offended, orupset by others. This can also make

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them more likely to let out,become moody or emotional, or shut down
when upset. Imagine I want youguys just to imagine this for a moment.
Imagine that you've gone through something traumatic, you know, something that has
really, really hurt you. Okay, that female narcissist will find a way,
okay, to turn it around andmake it seem as though you hurt

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them. Now you might be dealingwith some major issue in your life.
Okay. Let's say that you forgotto do something or forgot to share something
with them, and oh my gosh, the attention is now taken away from
what you're going through to now whatthey are offended about. Okay, they
are not empathetic towards you, Okay, in this time of need, they

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need you to be empathetic towards themand apologize to them and make them feel
better about themselves when you are tryingto deal with a horrific whatever it is
going on in your life, okay, sensitive and reactive and see a lot
of people will like to try tosay that, well, you know,
there's nothing wrong with being sensitive.Okay, No, normally there isn't.

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But when you are a narcissist andit's coupled with being insensensitive and being reactive,
then there is a problem. Okay, if you are so prone to
being I mean, I'm not talkingabout stuff that men do that hurt women.
I mean just just the silly stuffthat men forget to do. I'm
talking about stuff that no one everwould think of. Okay, let's say

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that you I mean, you aren'teven trying to be hurtful. It's just
something out there that happens. Andthis person will I mean, they will
target you. They will be sooffended and you're wondering, what the heck
did I do? Okay, thatagain, that leads to stress in your
life. Man, you ought tobe and you should be with the woman

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that makes you happy, a womanthat makes you feel secure in a relationship,
a woman that makes you feel comfortablein a relationship. You should not
have to be in an argumentative relationship. You should not have to be into
relationship where you have to walk oneggs. Who wants that for themselves?
You would be better off being byyourself. Okay, then being with the
female narcissists that is so sensitive,that is so hurt by the smallest of

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things, that is so offended whenyou don't even know how you offended them,
that is so upset by others whenit's so little. Okay, you
can do so much better because thesepeople will lash out at you, they
will become moody, they will becomeemotional, and they will shut down.
And you do not have to dealwith that kind of mess. Men and

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women, but again I'm primarily talkingabout men. You do not have to
deal with that mess. Move on. There is someone more beautiful. There
is someone that is more caring,There is someone that is more loving.
Leave her in her insecurities and inher narcissistic behavior by herself. All right.
Next, we have dependency or neediness. Female narcissist may display needy or

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dependent patterns in their relationships with others. The female narcissist typically needs a lot
of validation yep, a lot ofpraise yep, a lot of reassurance from
her friends, family, and lovers, which betrays her underlying insecurities. Without
this validation, she may become jealousyep. So let's say men that you

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work with women, okay, andyou come home from work and you talk
about a woman employee. Then guesswhat, all right? Now here you
are getting ready to talk about somethingsimple, all right, something at work?
Okay, This is not a love. I don't. I'm not trying
to be with this person. Butyou're just talking about something normally that we
talk about at work. Okay.And before you can get even further,

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okay, now you've got to tellthis person, this narcissistic woman that you're
with. You know, well,who is she? You know? Why
are you talking to her? Well, I'm talking to her because we work
together. Okay, that's why youknow, I should have just kept my
mouth shut and not share it withyou. But see, then if you
come home and don't share with thenthat's a problem too, all right,
see what I mean. You know, that's why it's so important man,

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that you check yourselves, Okay,that you check who you're with, and
that if you're in a relationship withsomeone that becomes jealous at the smallest things,
upset, moody, brooding, orexperienced emotional outbursts, oh my gosh,
you can do so much better.And when I'm talking about jealousy,
I'm not talking about some stupid thingsmen do. I mean, you can't
be eyeing and oogling a woman infront of your your your wife or your

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girlfriend. That's just not cool,Okay, I mean it's twenty twenty three.
That did that stuff back in thefifties. We don't do that today,
all right, because that's not good. That does lead women to become
insecure. Okay, but that's notwhat I'm talking about. Okay, I
am not talking about that. I'mtalking about a man that wants to come
home and share his day with hiswife and because or his girlfriend, and

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because he didn't tell her about someinsignificant woman at work. But now today
something happened, happened with the insignificantwoman he wants to share it. Now
becomes jealous and upset. Well,why didn't you tell me about her?
Because she was insignificant, there wasnothing for me to tell. But today
I wanted to share something with you, But now I know that I can't
share anything with you. Next,we are playing the victim card. Here

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we go, men playing the victimcard. All right, this is another
one, and I know many ofyou all have experienced this, all right.
Playing the victim by being submissive orseemingly helpless may be a tactic that
female narcissists used to get things theywant or lure people in. Once they
do, they will often use themartyr or victim card to exploit people or

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convince them to do things for them. This tendency is one of the more
common traits of a narcissistic woman,which may be due to societal expectations and
gender roles. Okay, Well,you know, I have been watching and
reading a lot, okay, andthere are a whole lot of women out
there that are committing a criminal acts, you know, and sometimes getting away

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with them. Okay. There area whole lot of Karen's out there that
engage in stupidity and then when someonecalls it on, calls them on it,
they want to play the victim card. Okay. These are narcissistic people,
okay, and because of societal expectations, we've allowed them to get away
with that. Well see, Isay again, if it's good for the
goose, it's good for the gander. So men, you know, we

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have to step down off of thoseroles that we've had in the past,
you know, where you know,we are bullying and manipulative and powerful over
women in that way. Okay,But then women can't be playing the victim
card, okay, crying, youknow, getting upset, you know,
you know, making it seem asthough all Okay, well this is the
worst thing. Nope. See nowyou're just playing the victim card, you

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know, so that you can getout of the situation, or so you
can get something that you want.Men, if you are in a relationship
again, and I know I keepharping on this, if you are in
a relationship with someone that does thatto you, you are you are in
for a shorter lifespan because all ofthis negativity, all of this heartache,
all of this stress has a majorimpact on your body. Okay, It

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has a major impact on your mentalmentality. Okay. It will affect you
and your relationships with your friends.It will have an impact on your relationships
with your family, It will havean impact on your relationships at work.
Get out, all right. Next, Passive, aggressive, and manipulative.

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Yes, indeed, and I justtalked about these. I'm to talk about
them again as we get ready toclose. Research on the sex differences in
narcis narcissistic personality disorder have consistently foundthat female narcissists are less physically aggressive than
male narcissists and more likely to usepassive aggression. I told you about those
a few minutes ago. And manipulationto coerce other people. For instance,

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a female narcissist might manipulate others byplaying the victim, going behind someone's back,
or using tactics like guilt tripping orgiving the silent treatment. Guilt tripping,
Oh my gosh, yes, guilttripping is a form of emotional manipulation
meant to modify someone's thoughts, feelings, and behaviors by creating a powerful emotional

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response. People who are likely theguilt trip include spouses or romantic partners.
Okay, they will guilt trip you, all right. They will make you
feel They will make verbal statements thatdirectly spark a guilty reaction. This person
makes sarcastic or unclear statements. Theyuse nonverbal communication styles like crying, not

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speaking, or seeming disconnected or distance. You feel guilty if time goes by
without a lot of communication. Youfeel guilty when you think about the person.
You avoid any contact because you suspectthey will make you feel guilty.
They will also gas like you.I mean so many different things that this
narcissistic woman will do in her passive, aggressive and manipulative manipulative behavior. And

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again, men, okay, andagain, I'm primarily addressing man. But
this is for women too. Ifyou are in a relationship with someone the
guilt trips you, that gas likesyou, that gives you the silent treatment,
that is passive, aggressive and manipulative, you need to get out.
Now let me say something about silenttreatment, okay, because what the narcissist

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will do is they will come backand say that, well, because at
a certain point, as a man, you're going to be quiet, okay,
because now you don't know what tosay, okay, because you might
tick this person off. So nowyou're quiet. So now this is how
they guilt trip you. Okay.So now they'll come up with terms like,
oh, well you're withdrawn, andnow you're giving me the silent treatment.

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Know what I'm doing is I'm notsaying anything else because if I continue
to talk, then all you're gonnado is continue to guilt trip, manipulate,
or gas like me. Okay,So don't let them fool you with
that one. Oh he's withdrawn.Oh well, now he's being silent.
No, I just need to shutup because I may say the wrong thing
to you, okay, And infact, anything that I say to ans
narcissistic woman seems to be the wrongthing. Okay, so men don't fall

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for that. Yes, I'm beingquiet. I need time to think.
I need time to reflect. Ineed time to consider. That's what I
need time for. I'm not beingsilent, I'm not withdrawn. But I
don't want to be guilt tripped.I don't want to be manipulated. I
don't want to be gas lighting.Okay, all of these different things,
those are the report responses that youneed to have. Another response is to

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just leave. Okay. Bullying orbeing a mean girl. Just because narcissistic
women aren't as physically aggressive doesn't necessarilymean they're any nicer or less dangerous.
Okay, female narcissis. Narcissists mayuse different types of aggression like gossiping,
spreading rumors, gas lighting, namecalling, or giving people the coach shoulder.

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What they'll do is they'll they'll talkto their friends about you, Okay,
they'll say little things like that,or their children. Okay, if
their children are older, you know, they'll gossip to them. You know,
they'll say little things. You know, all of that, you know,
that's that's a form of bullying,that's a form of being a mean
girl. Just because you're not beingphysically aggressive. Words have always seemed to

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me to hurt a whole lot morethan a fist. You know, it's
just me. Okay. Words canbe damaging, you know, words can
be damaging for years. I mean, think about things that you know your
parents may have see it to youas little children, okay, and that
still stay with you. Think aboutwhen you were in in in middle school,
you know, or maybe even youknow before that, or even in

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high school. Okay, And doyou remember some jock or some girl or
you know that was on the youknow, the palm Palm squad, or
a cheerleader, or she was likethe you know, social media queen,
you know, and she's said somethingugly to you, or he said something
really horrible to you. You neverforget that. You never forget that.

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You don't. And that's the samething with this narcissistic woman. They will
say so many things to you thatthat's so not nice. But again they're
deflecting. Again, you're the wrongperson, all right. And then lastly,
instability and work life or relationships.Yes, this is another one to
watch out for. It As ageneral rule, it's possible to gauge the

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severity of narcissism by the overall levelof functioning of the person. Female narcissists
with more severe versions of narcissistic personalitydisorder will usually show more instability in their
personal and professional lives and relationship.Does she have a job? Can she
hold a job? You know?Does she have a job for a couple

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of months and then leaves it?You know? That's part of that,
you know. I mean, doesshe come up with this grand idea about
how she wants to make money andthen a couple of months later it phizzes
out? Okay, that's that instabilitythat we're talking about. That's that instability
even in their relationships. Okay,So they might be unable to hold down
a steady job maintain their finances.That's another one. Does she have money?

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You know? Is she making moneyyou know? Or does she always
come to you? Does she expectfor you, okay, to carry the
load. Let's say that she haschildren as well, and you're in a
relationship with this woman and she haschildren, Okay, does she expect you
now to take care of her andher children, you know, without without
helping, you know? Or doesshe find an excuse when she can't help,

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you know, when actually it's verysimple. You know, go find
a job, you know, findan additional way to make income, you
know, not some pipe dream,you know, but something that can sustain
us. All right, right now, Okay, we can do all the
other things together at the same time. You know. But again, you
know, this is someone that isunable to develop healthy, lasting friendship and

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romantic partnership. Okay, this issomebody that you need to watch out for.
You know, they are in stable. They're not stable in their work
life or relationships. Let's say thatyou know, you're with the woman u
that you're married to or a girlfriend, and she has other children, and
she has problems with her children.You know, maybe some of them don't

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like her her or some of thethings that she's done, or because they've
seen, you know, some ofthe manipulative behaviors in the past, they've
seen some of the narcissistic narcissistic behavior, maybe some of that controlling behavior that
they just want to step back.They still love you, you know,
but sometimes you have to love somebodyfrom a distance, even if it's a

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family member. Sometimes you have toSometimes you just have to step back,
you know. The narcissistic woman willnot only have problems in her own relationships,
family friendships, but then we'll causethem in yours, okay. And
so now you may have friends thatyou've had for a lifetime, but now
the narcissistic woman, who is soinsecure and so controlling and so manipulative and

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so guilt tripping, you know,causes you to abandon those relationships because she
needs you to focus primarily on her, okay, because she's self centered and
self absorbed and insecure, all right, and petty all right. So again
you have to be very very verycareful, all right, very very careful.

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How do you deal with the narcissisticwoman? So I've given you all
of these things, you know whenit comes to their traits, But then
what do you do? What doyou do? How do you deal with
the narcissistic woman? All right?So here I've already shared this with you.
Dealing with the narcissist is often difficultand stressful, all right. So

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having some tips on ways to interactwith these challenging personalities can help. If
you have a female narcissist in yourlife, there are methods to try that
can protect your mental health. Again, then we have we have mental health
as well. Okay, we do. Sometimes people don't feel as though men
should, but yes, we need, we need, we need to make

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sure that we protect our own mentalhealth as well. All right. This
is about being equal in society,so it can be Oh, women have
mental health and men have to justdeal with it. No, men don't
have to just deal with the womanthat has a narcissistic attitude. Okay,
all right, So you know,we've got to we have our mental health
and we should not be in arelationship where we are sad all the time,

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don't want to come home, wantto hang out with our male friends,
because we do not want to comehome and deal with that narcissistic woman.
Have other relationships, because then that'swhat some of this leads to.
It leads to then now because you'rein a relationship with this narcissistic woman,
now you develop emotional ties with otherwomen. Okay, all right, And
again I'm not justifying that, butwhat I'm saying is there's cause and effect.

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Okay, And sometimes people don't wantto realize that. They want to
blame because oh, well he didthis, yeah, but why did he
do it? Okay? Because that'spart of the problem as well. All
right. We need to understand theunderlying reasons for why people do things and
not just get on them for whatthey did. Okay. It's the same
thing with children. So we canreact to our children, and we can
punish our children for what they did, but don't you want to know why

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they did it? I think that'sso important to know why? All right.
But again, you know, wedo have mental health, we do,
all right. So there are somemethods to try that can protect your
mental health as well as provides somedistance from any toxicity. Man. Toxicity
is a big word, okay,all right. One of them is to
learn her patterns. Now, thisis for those of you that decide that

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you want to deal with a narcissisticwoman. Now I'm sharing these with you
because my hope is these are tipsto deal with her while you're finding a
way to get out of that relationship. Okay, because unless this person,
this narcissistic woman, is going tochange, if she's going to really go
to some kind of accounseling or tosome kind of therapy, you know,

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then that needs to happen. Theproblem with the problem is is that a
narcissistic woman, but most often willnot. Can't realize this. Okay,
you try to tell them, andthen what do they do. They'll deflect
and next thing you know, you'llbe going to counseling. You'll be going
to therapy because you are the problem, not them. Okay, that's why
I'm saying. You know there aresome ways to deal with a narcissistic woman,

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But then you need to be planningyour exit strategy because you men and
again i'm talking primarily to men,but women you don't either. Okay,
you don't need to deal with thismess, all right. You need to
learn her patterns, all right.Narcissists use different patterns and tactics to manipulate
and coerce other people. Paying attentionto the special tactics she uses, like

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playing the victim guilt trips, canhelp you quickly identify when she's up to
something. Next, checking your expectations. Narcissists are often incapable of being emotionally
mature, genuine, and selfless.By keeping your expectations of a female narcissistic
narcissists realistic, you can avoid thefrustrating ups and downs that came. I'm

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sorry that come with being constantly letdown, disappointed, or blindsided by her.
Dudes, I can't even tell youhow many times I was blindsided,
disappointed, let down. So I'msaying the same thing for you. Okay,
don't be blindsided. Check your expectations, all right, all right,
keep this person at day, allright. Next, limit your interactions.

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Limiting how often and how much youinteract with a female narcissist is also a
good idea and can prevent you fromgetting too close, becoming a target,
or getting wrapped up in her drama. Next, keep things superficial. It's
also a good idea to keep yourinteractions with female narcissist friendly but superficial.
Giving her lots of personal information isa bad idea, as she might not

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might will use it against you lateron. Do not share information with her.
Do not share personal stuff. Youknow, I gave you the perfect
example. You know about work.Okay, So you come on from work
and you want to share something.Okay, and let's say that you're the
employee that you're sharing about just sohappens to be a woman. Okay,

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So here you've shared this, allright, So now I'm telling you with
the narcissistic female, She will usethat against you later on. Huh,
well, you're probably dating that personat work. What kind of relationship did
you see her today? All ofthat kind of stuff, all right,
So I'm telling you don't share asyou continue to work your way out of
that relationship. Next, don't fallfor her act. Female narcissists can be

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charming, seductive, and skilled atgetting people to believe them. Keep a
safe distance and remind yourself of hertactics, narcissistic gas lighting, love by
all of those things to avoid beingfooled by them. Okay, again,
they fooled their friends, they foolsome of their family members, They fool

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some people, some of their peoplethat they volunteer with, They fool some
of the people at church. Don'tlet them fool you. Okay, don't
fall for her act. Next,don't feed into her need for validation.
Narcissists rely on external validation to feelgood about themselves, So giving them too
much attention, praise, or validationcan make you a target. And I

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hope you guys are seeing these termstarget. You know you become a target,
all right? These people are dangerous, all right. They can up
end your life. In many instances, men have been killed. You know,
family members of these narcissistic women havebeen hurt severely. So again it's
I mean, you men, youcan be hurt financially if you're married to

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one of them, and even ifyou're not married to one of them,
you know, it can. Imean, it's just so much that can
happen. And that's what I'm saying. You have got to figure out a
way to get out of that relationship. Refuse, I'm sorry. Don't threaten
her self esteem. Female narcissists areoften highly sensitive to any criticism or perceived

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slight as it threatens her fragile selfesteem. When possible, avoid criticizing,
threatening, or challenging her to lowerthe chances of becoming a target of her
narcissistic rage. Yes, target rageof physical I mean aggressive behaviors, bullying,
being a mean girl. Okay,all of these different things, all

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right, all of these different thingsare these traits of a narcissistic woman.
Refuse to compete with her. Narcissisticwomen can be highly competitive, but it
usually isn't a good idea to playthis game with her. Doing so makes
it more likely that you'll be seenas a threat and susceptible to additional abuse.
There is another word abuse. Okay, this is abuse. A narcissistic

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woman is being emotionally abusive to you, man. Yes, men can be
abused. It's not necessarily the physicalabuse. But narcissistic women can be physically
abusive as will. But it's notabout the physical abuse. It's this mental
abuse that they continuously target you andput on you and threaten you with,

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and gaslight you and guilt trip youwith and manipulate you with. All right,
that causes so many men to goto an early grave. All right,
don't do it. Try to findwin win solutions. Win wind solutions
are the ones where no one losesand are often the best way to negotiate
with the narcissistic female without risking anarcissistic injury that could trigger abusive behavior.

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Yes, you know, there's thisthing out there that women can't be abusers.
No, Ask children that are goingup today, all right, Explain
to them certain circumstances and situations thathappen in their younger lives, and then
give them a description of what thatis when it comes to abuse, and

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they will tell you, yes,that was emotional abuse. Yes, so
women can be abusive. Men canbe physically abusive and mentally abusive and emotionally
abusive as will. Okay, SoI want to make sure that my naysayers
out there that try to come atme and like, oh, well,
you're you're trying to target women.No, I'm not. What I'm doing

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is pointing out the misbehavior of women, okay, that are narcissistic. I'm
also saying that I believe that theyare beautiful, wonderful, great women out
there for men that want to bein a solid relationship with someone, not
in one where they're being emotionally abused, in one where they're not being manipulated,
In one where they're not being gaslightedor guilt tripped or made to give

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up financially. No, no oneshould be in that kind of relationship,
man or woman. Lastly, keepyour cool. Narcissistic women can be difficult
and frustrating to interact with, butlosing your cool only places more power and
control and her hands don't do it. See, that's what they do.

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That's how they trigger you. Okay. They say things to get you upset,
to get you frustrated, because theythrive off of that, okay,
because now all of the attention ison them. All of your attention is
now on them, okay. Andso now if you lose cool, you're
cool, all right. If youlose control, then they've got the control
and they've got the power, becausethat's what they're seeking, power and control.

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Narcissistic women want to control you.They want to control your life.
They want to control your finances.They want to control who you talk to.
They want to control where you go, they want to control who you
go with. They want to controlhow long you're gone. They want to
control every single aspect of your life. Gosho, men, you do not

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need to be in a relationship likethat. Letting her upset you gives her
more knowledge about how she can pullyour strings and set you off in the
future. Avoid giving her this upperhand. All right. So I'm gonna
say this final thought to you menout there, if you've been in a
relationship or if you are in arelationship with the narcissistic woman, it is

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time to start thinking about how tomove forward. Okay. All right,
men, if you need to goto counseling, if you need to go
to therapy, because this narcissistic personalitydisorder that can be found in women can
be damaging to you. Okay,So it'll make it difficult for you for
you to trust the next woman thatcomes along, because you'll be looking for

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all of these same behaviors. Okay. You'll be looking for her to do
this, looking for her to dothat, looking for the guilt tripping,
looking for the defensiveness, looking forthe gas lighting, all of those different
things you'll be looking for instead oflooking at this person as while you know,
maybe now I'm in a great relationship. All right. So if you

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need to men again and women,but if you need to men, you
need to go seek help. Andthat help doesn't necessarily have to be a
professional. It can be your mom, you know, as long as she's
not a narcissist. It can beyour mom. It can be an aunt,
it can be a friend, okay, someone that is willing to listen

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to you, okay, someone thatyou can share with, someone that simply
wants to listen okay to what you'regoing through, and when they when you
seek advice, they're willing to giveit because you don't want to go to
someone that's going to continues to giveyou advice, advice you didn't ask for.
Sometimes you just need to talk.Sometimes you just need to share.

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Sometimes you just need to let offall of that stuff that is on you
because oh my gosh, I'm inthis difficult relationship. Okay, then you
sho seek counseling. That counseling canbe in those forms, but if you
need someone that is professional, thenmen, I suggest you go see a
counselor go seek therapy. There isnothing wrong with it. It is a

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great idea. Okay. It isnarcissistic. Women can push men to suicide.
They can. Okay, Men,if you are contemplating suicide, please
call, Please seek help. Okay, seek it because you don't want to
make a permanent situation out of atemporary problem. Okay. The permanent situation

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is your death. The temporary problemis this ridiculous narcissistic woman that you are
trying to get away from. Okay, So don't do it, because even
in your death, the narcissistic womanwill find a way to make it about
her and not about you. Okay. Alright, So again, all right,
find some help, seek some help, and then this is the main

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thing for me. Okay, ifthis person with the narcissistic personality disorder is
not willing to to do some reflection, seek counseling and change. Men.
You have got to go. Youhave got to leave. There is no
shame in divorce. There is noshame in saying, I'm sorry that this

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relationship is not for me anymore.I've got to leave. Okay. There
is no shame in calling the policeand asking them to help you as you
move out, or to help heras she moves out because you need some
protection. There is no shame inletting other people know that you are in
a narcissistic relationship with someone that isthreatening and abusive. You ought to do

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it. Do not keep it toyourself. Let your friends and family know.
Okay, you have to. Youhave to let them know, because
the narcissistic personality and a woman willchange it around and the next thing you
know, you will be in somebody'sjail. You will be in somebody's mental
mental health facility. Okay, Soagain, do not let this happen to

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you. This is my warning.Okay, but this this is also my
offer to help. Okay, thisis my also my offer to share all
right, some really good information withyou that I hope that will be helpful.
My name is Jaden Miller. Pleasecheck out my website at www dot
Jadenmiller dot com. Please like,share, and subscribe on my YouTube channel,

(01:04:26):
and like, comment and follow onyour favorite podcast platform. You can
find me once again on Spotify,Apple podcast Spreaker, Google podcast cast Box,
iHeartRadio, good pods, Podvine,Amazon products, and I'm sorry Amazon
podcast and podcast Addict. Okay,again, this is Jaden Miller talking to

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you about what to watch for ina relationship, specifically the female narcissist.
All right, so listen, Iam going to do my best to come
up with more content. I knowI have been errant, you know,
since April. All right, somuch going on in my life. But
let me tell you it is somuch better, all right, so much

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better. And for you men thatare struggling, that are depressed, okay,
because we suffer from depression. Wehave walking depression. We may not
look depressed, we may have asmile on our face. Everybody thinks we're
kind and wonderful, but deep downand side, you know, we are
dealing with some real major issues,some major depression. All right. So

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again this is my way of helpingyou, all right, so please.
Life is meant to be loved.Life is meant to be lived happily.
Is meant to be one of sharingand of caring, and of love and
concern for one another. Not onein which you do not want to come
home, Not one in which youare constantly threatened and abused. Okay,

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life is too short. Find someonewho you really truly want to be with,
and someone who truly wants to bewith you. All right, I'll
see you next time, and Ihave a great day.