Mental Health Awareness Month (Recorded LIVE on 5-28-25)

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Speaker 1 (00:11):
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Speaker 2 (01:00):
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Speaker 3 (02:06):
Hey, what's up? Everybody? It's been called on whether this
might hear podcast coming to you live. I want to
bring my co host the episode Informative, Intuitive, Intelligent, all

(02:27):
that good stuff by doctor Lady g Hi. Hello, Oh
I'm here. All right?

Speaker 1 (02:41):
Everybody was up.

Speaker 3 (02:43):
I was kind of like, oh, I'm here, I'm here. Yeah,
all right, So here we are again. It's Mental Health
Awareness month and we can't. We can't go the whole
month without speaking on it. You know how we do here.
So how was how was your last couple of weeks?

Speaker 2 (03:08):
They've been okay, they've been okay, busy, busy, but they're good.
They're good.

Speaker 3 (03:13):
Okay, that's good. Good to know that things are going good.
You know what I'm saying. I mean, it's always always
a bright spot when things are okay, right, yeah, okay.
So with that being said, I'm I'm I'm doing I'm
doing pretty good. I mean I'm good. Family is good,

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kids are good, of course, everybody's every everybody's good. I mean,
you know, you gotta you gotta be have a little
bit of oomph, be signed this good behind this good stuff,
you know what I mean.

Speaker 2 (03:58):
But you know what I have to admit today is
one of those days that it's okay to not be okay.

Speaker 3 (04:04):
You know, it's it's definitely okay not to be okay,
but it's not okay to not be okay and not
want to talk about it because you know, you have
people that care and people that want to help and
want to, you know, do what they can do to
live up the situation, you know what I mean?

Speaker 1 (04:25):
Yeah?

Speaker 2 (04:25):
Yeah, So.

Speaker 3 (04:27):
What can Charles Saint do for you? How you feeling?
What's up?

Speaker 1 (04:32):
What can who.

Speaker 3 (04:35):
Charles Saint? That's that's my spy name. You didn't know that.
I didn't tell you that. That's my international spy name, Charlest.
So whenever I go up to the to the bar,
or to to a desk and they say, who the
hell are you, I say the name Saint, Charles Saint
double O nine.

Speaker 2 (04:57):
You are a mess?

Speaker 3 (05:00):
Am I am?

Speaker 4 (05:01):
I really?

Speaker 3 (05:02):
Yes, yes, but I'm a good mess though, you know
I'm I'm a pretty darn good mess. Somebody's mess.

Speaker 2 (05:12):
But oh yeah, somebody's mess.

Speaker 3 (05:16):
I'm somebody's mess, you know what I mean. So anyway,
I have I haven't aviwer email, but I'm actually waiting
for TG to get in here because this one is
specifically for her. It's yeah, it's it's uh, it's right

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up her alley, so to speak. So she'll she'll, she'll
get a kick out of it. I got a kick
out of it when I read it. So, but let's
talk a little bit about Mental Health Awareness Month. As
we all know, mental health is a really really big
deal to us here at the show. We believe that

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mental health shouldn't have a stigma on it, and apparently
in some places it still does. Nobody understands what it
means to be mental. Had to be aware of what
mental health is, and we got something new going on

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on the on the page too, So everything that now,
I don't I don't have to hit anything on the screen.
You can see the screen, right, DYG. You can see
that the the messages are popping up on the screen now,
oh at the bottom.

Speaker 2 (06:41):
But they're really little.

Speaker 3 (06:43):
Yeah they do look a little little. But as as
people start commenting, it'll start lifting up more and more
and more. So it'll pop up. And if if you
can't see it, I'll just I'll just put it on
the screen. No big deal. But I'm a big believer
that what's up mike Vic oh Man, Mike Vic, Mike

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Vick is a trooper, I'll tell you that. But we
all believe here in the show that I'm a big
believer in checking on your strong friends, on your checking
on your friends, that you know there that always you know,
there for everyone, who's always available for everyone, you know

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to everyone, and that it's important to check on those
that check on you because you never know what their
struggles are, you know, And it's important to show love
to those people, you know what I mean, show love

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to and also show love to yourself, because if you
don't love yourself, it's it's it's terrible. It's it's terrible.
If you don't love yourself right, you know, you gotta
you gotta find it within you to love you and
to love others and to be able to help one
another and pull one another out of there there's slumps.

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I'm gonna put on the bottle of the screen the
number to the Mental Health Suicide and Crisis Hotline. So
there it is. There's the information you need and you
can text or call, go to their website and you know,

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get the help you need. So I want to give
a shout out to the dubs. He had surgery again
and he's he's recovering right now. He's not one hundred
percent sure if he's gonna make it in or not,
but he's gonna say, he said, I'll try, right, but

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we'll see, we'll see if we see him tonight whatever. So,
but uh, all right, so let me hold on. I
had had a bunch of my dog took it. The
dog takes your homework.

Speaker 2 (09:29):
Yeah, you got homework, have homework.

Speaker 3 (09:32):
But but anyway, I had this whole thing set up here.
Now the paperwork I had is gone, So now I
gotta off the top of the head.

Speaker 2 (09:43):
Now I'm good with that.

Speaker 3 (09:46):
I know. Sometimes it's hard for people to express how
they truly feel about what they're going through, you know.
And sometimes.

Speaker 2 (10:03):
Don't blame IV.

Speaker 3 (10:05):
Sometimes it's it's difficult to express what one person its
struggle is. Yeah, and when when someone is going through
a struggle and they look like they're not, but you
don't know what's going on in the inside. So it's

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good to ask questions, you know, it's good to to
to talk about what it is, you know, to show
your support for one another, you know what I mean. Yeah,
And I think it's important to be able to speak
on those struggles, because the more you speak about what

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you did, you're going through, the more your friends and
whoever it is that care about you can understand what
you're going through and they can find ways to help you,
you know. And I just think that in today's society,
it's it's difficult for people because people are afraid of
what they don't understand. So if they don't understand what

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it is that you're going through, you know, it's right
away it's like, what's your problem? What the fuck is
going on? Why are you going Why? Why are you
putting yourself through this? You know? Why? Why is it
you're you're you're going through what you're going through? Can't
you just snap out of it?

Speaker 2 (11:29):
Well, it's not that it's not that easy.

Speaker 3 (11:33):
If if it was that easy, I mean, did the
world be a much better a much better place, you
know what I'm saying? And yes, mental health is one
real thing. And and people are people are afraid of it,

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you know, and and and and and it's true. They
people don't want to feel vulnerable, you know. People don't
want to feel like they're going to be criticized and
they're gonna be talked about, and they're gonna be pointed
at like, oh, you're the you're the crazy one, or
you're the one that nobody you know, nobody really wants
to suck around, will to deal with or whatever. You know,

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I completely understand nobody wants to feel like they're a
burden to anyone else, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (12:21):
So, yeah, something else I want to say. Ye, sometimes
in that we do things, like we're all human and
so we do things, and sometimes I don't think we
realize how that affects not just us, but others. Right,

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Like like I did something today and it's something I
do all the time, right, and and I told the
person that I did it, and it upset them, you know,
and I understand, I understand why. And the funny thing

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is like I'm not sorry that I did it, because
I did it from my own safety, from my own security,
from my peace of mind, you know. But I also
felt that I needed to hear the other person and
their point of view, you know, like because they were upset,

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and so I needed to hear them to be upset, right,
And I understood and I respected that they were upset.
It didn't change that because of things that impact our
mental health. It didn't change that I still needed to

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do it and and that you know, I did it
for me and my safety, my security, but also in
the long run, I also think I did it for
that person. And so that's something I'm sitting with right now,

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and and that does impact like mental health the way
I feel right now being on the show.

Speaker 3 (14:26):
You know, I'll hold your thought one second. Just let
me Yeah, TG, you good?

Speaker 1 (14:35):
Yeah, I mean you can't hear me. Ye, I don't
have my headphone, so I'm just using my phone.

Speaker 3 (14:42):
All right, So go ahead, lady, G. What's up?

Speaker 2 (14:46):
I mean, that's that's just it. It's like, yeah, that's all
just I'm I'm not sorry that I did what I
had to do to protect my mental health to protect me,
but I am sorry that what I needed to do

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potentially hurt somebody else, you know.

Speaker 3 (15:11):
I mean, I completely understand that, you know, doing what
you have to do to keep your peace and your
sanity intact is important. You know what I'm saying. I
understand that, and that's and that's something that everyone at
some point in their life should realize that being at

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peace and knowing that you're in a safe space within
yourself is important. Yeah, you know, and you know you
shouldn't you really shouldn't feel too bad. I mean, I

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know you don't like when you say you don't like
the fact that you hurt someone.

Speaker 4 (16:03):
Yeah, but.

Speaker 3 (16:05):
Sometimes you know, yes, yeah, just like just like Melissa said,
sometimes you have to love yourself more. Yeah, you know.

Speaker 2 (16:16):
I mean it's like I'm always saying, you know, things
that are meant to be will always be, and things
that aren't, you know, because we need to be our
genuine selves, you know, and we need to do what
what helps us. I guess I guess I just I

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don't want to say I assumed, but I guess I
thought being honest about it and letting them know would
open a conversation, you know, about wanting to trust and
you know, just sometimes you have to be selfish. Yeah,

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I mean that's true too, that's true too.

Speaker 1 (17:07):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (17:08):
But also I don't do anything without respecting and accepting
the consequences for what I do, like I'll take accountability
for it.

Speaker 3 (17:21):
I mean, I mean, I don't. I don't want to pry,
but can can you want to talk about what happened?
Or you want to like, you know, I know you're
going through it. But I mean, if you want to,
you want to share, you can. If not, it's okay,
I understand. Yeah, no, I know, because I'll be honest

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with you. You you really, you really don't sound yourself.
You don't sound like Lady g You sound like you know,
I don't know what I could tell something a little defeated.

Speaker 1 (18:02):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (18:03):
Well, and at the same time, right after I had
the conversation with the person, right and you know, you
guys know me, I'm a thinker. I'm always thinking. And
I happened to have been driving at the time, so
ye know, I was just contemplating. And wouldn't you know,

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as soon as I hang up the phone, I get
a flat tire and it's pouring rain outside. And then
as I pull over to check out the tire, something
hits my windshield and cracks it.

Speaker 3 (18:44):
What the fuck is going on here?

Speaker 2 (18:48):
I know? And I guess because you know, you guys know,
I'm kind of like a loner, like I really don't
I don't have friends and stuff like that.

Speaker 3 (18:58):
Hey, I don't like that comment.

Speaker 2 (19:01):
Well, oh yeah, just in the moment, in the moment
where I was okay, in the moment where I was
mentally emotionally, you know, like it was just like dag trish,
look at me, look at me giving people's names away.

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It was just like wow. And then to pull over,
have a flat tire. It's pouring rain, and I mean
it chose that very moment to like pour down, like
open up and pour down.

Speaker 1 (19:39):
Uh.

Speaker 2 (19:40):
And then my windstreal cracks. So I get out to
change the tire, and I mean, ain't nothing wrong. I've
changed tires. It was just that moment. And the funny
thing is so many people passed see me in the ground,
like trying to change the tire whatnot, and nobody stops.

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But I guess, out of iron like irony, I texted
the person that I had just hurt, and I took
a picture of the tire, and I.

Speaker 5 (20:16):
Was like, I guess, yes, I was like, I guess
I got. I was like, I guess I got what
I deserved, and and I thought it was kind of
funny though, even though like I said, I'm not sorry
I did it, and I don't think that I did
anything wrong, but I could definitely see how what I

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did hurt them, or at least upset them. Not necessarily
hurt them, but like upset them, made them angry, and
I'm not sure i'll ever know which one it was,
you know, but uh so I just texted them that
I was like, I guess I got what I deserved.

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And so I got wet, and of course, as soon
as I'm done changing the tire, and of course I
have work clothes on, so they're not like sweatshirt and jeans.
It's dress pants and a very flimsy blouse.

Speaker 2 (21:17):
And no jacket. So the guy stops, he's like, you
need help. I'm like, no, I'm good. I just I
got I'm over, like I just finished and whatnot. And
then that person texts me back and they actually offered
to come help me, and they're like I was already

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because I got lost while I was on the phone
with them, because you know, like I was talking and
I wasn't paying attention, so I ended up getting lost
like an hour and a half further away from my house.
So it was just like things at that very moment
just started piling on and piling on, talk about mental health,

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like struggle, like crisis, right, And they actually texted me
at that moment and asked if I needed help, and honestly,
I was like, how are like, how am I going
to get help? First of all, you live already an
hour and a half away from me, and if I'm

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an hour and a half away from my house, that's
like a two hour drive at least. So I'm like,
you know, I just finished. I wouldn't want to do that,
you know, to anybody. But then it had me wondering, like,
are they just that nice of a person or you know,

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has a little bit of time passed and now I
don't know, maybe they're not so as mad as they were.
I don't know, I don't know, but I thought it
was really nice that they did that, that they offered.
But you know, I had already finished and I wasn't
going to make anybody drive out here in this rain,
especially because I had already changed it, and you know whatnot.

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So like right now, I'm just I'm just feeling a
little stuck, a little torn, a little you know, like,
am I right? Am I wrong? Am I just human?

Speaker 1 (23:20):
You know?

Speaker 3 (23:20):
Well, first of all, you're just human? Right, yeah, You're
just human? You know what I mean? I mean, you
can't you can't really beat yourself up and fool yourself
or doing what you feel you needed to do to
protect you yourself, you know what I mean.

Speaker 2 (23:39):
Yeah, And I mean the truth is we don't really
know each other well. So I mean it's not like
we were friends or close or anything like that. And
this is like, you know, like a bad hurt, you know.

Speaker 4 (23:55):
Like a.

Speaker 2 (23:57):
Betrayal or anything, because we don't know each other that well.
You know. But you guys know me, I just don't
like to I don't like to hurt anybody, not on
purpose anyway. Wow, you know, but our our our traumas,
our baggages are and I'm and you guys know like

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I'm good, you know, like I've done my work to
heal and and do all those things. So it's not
about that. But it's about like what our experiences, uh
teach us, you know, about what we want in our
life and what we don't want in our our life.

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And so you know, it's just a part of who
we become, you know. And it's not about punishing anybody.
It's not about you know, it's just about you know, again,
like they said, being selfish and making sure that we're okay,
because if we're not okay, nobody else is going to
be okay either. Yeah, because we can't care for people
if we don't care for ourselves, right, you.

Speaker 3 (25:07):
Know, absolutely, yeah, it's all about it's about peace of mind, yeah,
you know, and being in that safe space within yourself,
you know. And what some people don't understand also is
that when you get yourself involved with someone, or even

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if you're just communicating with someone, talking someone whatever, it.

Speaker 2 (25:32):
Is, friends, family, everybody.

Speaker 3 (25:34):
Yeah, whatever it is. But I mean, but I mean,
I mean, I mostly mean as far as like dating
or seeing someone, as being with someone or whatever, getting
getting to know someone, you have to understand that. I
think I said this before but I don't remember. But
there their life experiences and and and their life doesn't

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start when you meet them, right right, they have an
entire lifetime of experiences, hurts, traumas that come with me,
especially at our age. I'm not I'm not aging myself.
I'm just saying that we all know that we're old.
So but I'm just saying that it doesn't.

Speaker 1 (26:19):
You maybe.

Speaker 2 (26:22):
What you mean, TG what you.

Speaker 3 (26:24):
Mean, don't don't don't don't don't do that anyway.

Speaker 1 (26:29):
Today someone told me, I was I look like I'm
in my thirties. I was like, I'll tell you.

Speaker 3 (26:35):
I would. I would take it too.

Speaker 4 (26:37):
Yeah.

Speaker 2 (26:37):
People tell me that all the time. I'm like, oh
I wish.

Speaker 3 (26:41):
Yeah when I when I when I tell people sometimes
old and they're like, what the fuck out of here?

Speaker 2 (26:45):
No, because you'd be using them filters.

Speaker 1 (26:47):
Bro.

Speaker 3 (26:51):
Right now, this is, this is what it is.

Speaker 1 (26:54):
They're more like they're like, oh, you're not sixty.

Speaker 4 (26:57):
You will oh the same time.

Speaker 1 (27:06):
Nah.

Speaker 3 (27:06):
But like I was saying, that, their life doesn't start
when they meet you. Everything, every every hurt, every trauma,
everything that they've gone through is there when you meet them.
It's all about how they want to pursue and go
about expressing and telling you and sharing with you. You

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know what what it is those traumas, know those things
were you know what I mean?

Speaker 1 (27:32):
Or are.

Speaker 3 (27:35):
You can't You can't expect someone to just show up
and I'm here, let's start all over, let's start.

Speaker 1 (27:42):
You know.

Speaker 3 (27:42):
It's no, it doesn't. It doesn't happen that way. Everybody
has baggage at disease, you know, and sometimes it pops up,
sometimes it doesn't. Sometimes you share, sometimes you don't.

Speaker 2 (27:57):
But I I don't know how to keep my mouth shut.
I always got to share.

Speaker 3 (28:02):
Yeah, Well I'm not saying you keep your mouth shut.
I'm just saying that, you know, it's important that you
share because when you share, you get if you get feedback,
sometimes you get you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 2 (28:16):
And the funny thing is like people don't want to
be lied to, absolutely, and so you try, you know,
so to prove to them that you don't want to
lie to them and you are transparent. Then they're like,
I wish you would have just did it and not

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told me.

Speaker 3 (28:38):
Like, look, no, no, I want to know what's up.

Speaker 1 (28:42):
Oh damn.

Speaker 3 (28:43):
I mean you don't have to. But I'm just saying,
I mean, you know, I don't know, you can speak
on it. You don't have to speak on I'm just saying.

Speaker 1 (28:51):
Oh my god, no, I mean I don't mind because
to me, like I said, to me, it's not a
bad thing, you know.

Speaker 3 (29:02):
But so all right, So so you guys know that.

Speaker 2 (29:07):
I'm single, and so uh in this dating world, in
this dating pool, people not just women, but people need
to be careful. So anybody that actually wants to meet
in person all this stuff, and you know, I have

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a teenage daughter and you know, uh, not everybody knows
what I do for a living. But you guys do.
So I run a background check.

Speaker 3 (29:39):
On somebody, oh man.

Speaker 2 (29:42):
And I run a background check on everybody who wants to.

Speaker 1 (29:51):
Friends us.

Speaker 2 (29:54):
Do you think I haven't run background checks on you guys?

Speaker 3 (29:59):
Did my? Did? Did me? And did my?

Speaker 1 (30:02):
My?

Speaker 3 (30:02):
Me? Being on the on the federal list? Come up?

Speaker 2 (30:08):
I ain't gonna all right, but yes, I want background
checks on everybody in my life. And yes, yes, part
of that is trauma based.

Speaker 1 (30:24):
Absolutely, and and and.

Speaker 2 (30:26):
I don't lie about that, Like I am self aware.
I I take full responsibility for my stuff, for my baggage,
for my you know, insecurity, for whatever.

Speaker 1 (30:42):
But also against baggage or insecurity. I just think that's
you protecting yourself. Yeah, because you can't trust people. They're
unfortunately a lot of people out there lying. So I
would rather know up front so I don't waste my time.

Speaker 2 (31:00):
Yes, And so there's that part of me that is like,
are they upset because I found stuff out? Oh well huh?

Speaker 1 (31:10):
I said, oh well yeah right, huh. I mean it
comes with it. You if you do a background check
on somebody and shit pops up and you see things
you know you could tell them, you know, I do
this to you know, for myself.

Speaker 2 (31:28):
And I did. I did.

Speaker 1 (31:30):
But then when you want to divulge.

Speaker 2 (31:34):
They felt like it was a betrayal of their trust
and they were like, you didn't give me a chance
to tell you, right, And I was like, you know, okay,
that you know that is possible, that is definitely possible.

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But at the same time, like that's why I'm telling
you that I did it, because I don't. I don't
want to lie to you. I don't want to hide,
you know, like you're asking for you're asking for someone
in your life to be honest and to be loyal
and to be your ride or die and and so

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that's what I'm trying to do, right And because I
could have easily not said anything and just known and
just known what I know. But on top of it all,
it's not even like private it's like public information, right right,
you know, like just google yourself and be surprised at

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what you find.

Speaker 3 (32:45):
You know, how many Charles Saints are out there nowadays?
You can try googling me.

Speaker 2 (32:53):
And yeah, you put you're gonna.

Speaker 3 (32:55):
Find wow, a lot of Yeah. But but it's look
look me. So when you if you if you do
that to someone as far as running the background check
and doing you're doing that stuff just to make sure
you don't end up with convicted murderer, yeah, or a rapist,

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a molester, right, you know what I'm.

Speaker 2 (33:23):
Saying, and a wife beater.

Speaker 3 (33:26):
Domestic violence, you know what I'm saying, DV cases and
stuff like that. You gotta you gotta do that stuff. Yeah,
you know what I mean. I mean, do you know
and now if if he got a speeding ticket, a
couple of speeding tickets, you know what I'm saying, it
went to jail for not paying form or child support,
and it went to jail for not paying child sport.
There's a couple of red flags there. But I mean,

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you know, I mean, he's not not any fella.

Speaker 2 (33:53):
He's not.

Speaker 3 (33:55):
Right, He's not a He's not one of them.

Speaker 2 (33:57):
He's just a human being that don't know to pay
his stuff.

Speaker 3 (34:04):
You know what I'm saying. But I don't I'm not
going to pry too much. But I'm thinking you found
something you didn't like.

Speaker 2 (34:11):
No, not necessarily, I just found something, so I questioned it.

Speaker 3 (34:17):
Mmmm, he got offended big time? Right?

Speaker 2 (34:20):
Well, I mean I don't think it was. I don't
know if it was offended. I don't know if it
was her. I don't know if it was angry, but
it kind of I guess it triggered him to be like,
I'm not a child and I don't need this in
my life. And I'm like, what, like, like, I respect it,

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I understand it. But at the same time, you're telling
me I didn't give you a chance, but you didn't
give me one either.

Speaker 3 (34:49):
Right, yeah, yeah, Because you know, if somebody says to me, well, look,
I ran a background check on you, the first thing
I'm going to say is I hope you did not
see the file on the bodies they found in the park.
Please tell me, you know what I'm saying. I mean,

(35:12):
but let's let let's ask let's ask the community. People
the community, yes, the people of the chat. Would you
be offended if someone did a background check on you
and then told you that they did? And well, we'll
talk as you know, they they line up and say
whatever they're going to say if they do. But yeah,

(35:32):
if somebody ran a background check on you before they
they wanted to get involved with you? What what? What?
What do you think of that? How do you? How
do you guys handle that?

Speaker 4 (35:41):
All? Right?

Speaker 1 (35:41):
I'm good I'm a good girl. So except you know,
unless there's some sex videos out there, I don't know
what about Oh.

Speaker 2 (35:54):
Oh ship, I'd never tell TG No, I think I would.

Speaker 3 (35:59):
Not just playing video. Oh no, don't say that. I'm
not probably of the poly program over here.

Speaker 4 (36:12):
Program anyway.

Speaker 3 (36:15):
So but yeah, I mean, yeah you wanna let's let's
let let's talk about it. I mean, anybody can run
the background check on anybody, you know what I'm saying,
especially if it's public, especially if it's let's see what
this one says.

Speaker 2 (36:33):
Before you do it, so as to be transparent on
my part. Yeah, but then that's like, that's almost like
I don't know, it's like the only reason you're telling me. Now, Okay,

(36:55):
we're in it. Let's talk about it, as long as
you come correct exactly. And I thought I was. I
don't know, I thought I was coming correct, but I
think you did.

Speaker 1 (37:06):
And I just I don't like his reaction.

Speaker 3 (37:07):
I would reaction, Yeah.

Speaker 1 (37:12):
Yeah, his reaction. I would be like, really, all right, bro, Like,
let me let you think that over so that tomorrow,
when you read that again, you realize how stupid it was. Yeah,
Because then a few minutes later you're you're okay to help,
So maybe you know, he just has to like sit

(37:32):
on it for a minute and realize that it really
isn't that big a deal, because it isn't. Let's just
be clear, it is not a big deal. Unfortunately in
today's day and age, in this dating world, it's what
people need to do.

Speaker 3 (37:48):
Yeah, yeah, you know.

Speaker 1 (37:53):
And and as a woman especially, I need a minute
to take that in. Yeah, exactly, like he reacted instead
of like processing, and I mean, I'm.

Speaker 2 (38:11):
Okay, it comes if he comes back later and it's like,
you know what, I needed a minute. Yeah, you know,
but but I don't know. I don't know. I guess
I just have to Well we'll see.

Speaker 1 (38:26):
Yeah, it's on to the next if not.

Speaker 2 (38:30):
But that's the thing. I wasn't even looking when this
person came along.

Speaker 1 (38:36):
Well that's how things happen.

Speaker 3 (38:38):
Yeah exactly. It's just just just pops up. People just
come in and out. Yeah, you know, it's it's fun.
It's fucked up as as it is. I mean, you
you gotta you gotta, you gotta protect yourself. And then,
like like you said, you have a you have a
teenage daughter, and you you don't want to want to
make sure you know it's the person come into your life.
Isn't one of those feelings, you know what I'm saying.

(39:01):
I mean, you got you want to make sure you
don't want to put anybody else in danger.

Speaker 1 (39:05):
That's fair.

Speaker 2 (39:06):
And I told him, I was like, hey, I'll be uh,
you know, ask me what you want, I'll provide you
my record. I'll provide you what you need because again
I'm trying to establish trust and transparency. So it's like,
just ask you want a copy of you know whatever. Okay,

(39:28):
I don't dish it if I can't take it. You know, Look,
no one wants to relive their mistakes. But but but believe.

Speaker 1 (39:39):
It or not, But who's mistakes?

Speaker 2 (39:42):
Like, yeah, we're not reliving the mistakes, but the choices
we make in our mistakes contribute to who we are
as people. Yeah, exactly, they won't because I can't. I

(40:03):
mean I've talked about like different situations on here and
how people go this extra mile to create these fake lives,
like they just be doing too much for something that
they're not getting anyway. So it's like, dude, you don't
have to put up this fake life for me. You

(40:24):
still ain't getting none like just because you try to,
you know, inform me or try to lull me into
this positive thing doesn't mean you're getting anything. So yeah,
so I mean it's like, why create.

Speaker 1 (40:43):
These Get over yourself? Man? Okay, I've done embarrassed and.

Speaker 2 (40:54):
Maybe maybe that could have been it, you know, like he.

Speaker 1 (40:58):
Felt, Oh man, the ego was hit. Get over yourself
is here? So I need to know.

Speaker 2 (41:10):
Yeah, Douves would be all over this. Oh my gosh,
how do you know he's not?

Speaker 1 (41:17):
He would be calling him a simp? You know, because.

Speaker 3 (41:23):
That is true.

Speaker 4 (41:24):
That is true.

Speaker 3 (41:26):
That is true. Yeah, but yeah, you got you got.
You gotta protect yourself and your family and your people
and your state of mind, your your peace of mind.
You want to make sure that you're not rolling with
somebody who's gonna get pulled over and let me check
your your ID and guns get drawn. Like yo, who
we were looking for you on the fucking floor the rest?

(41:48):
Who are you? Who are you? You're an accomplished funk.

Speaker 4 (41:51):
That ship, you know what I mean?

Speaker 3 (41:58):
That's crazy. You don't want any of that ship not
in your life, you know, I mean, I I feel
I feel like you know, running running running background checks
is a normal thing these days too, you know what
I'm saying. I mean, you could, ladies, she said, she

(42:20):
done ran that ship on all of us.

Speaker 1 (42:22):
So there you go.

Speaker 3 (42:23):
You know, all my alias has probably popped up. She
finally realized that my last name is Goldberg.

Speaker 1 (42:39):
You're Jewish, narrow wonder that, Oh.

Speaker 3 (42:46):
Man, maybe the problem really wasn't me you, oh man.
But no on the real though, you know, I mean,
it's it's it's hard, It's it's really hard.

Speaker 2 (43:01):
You know.

Speaker 3 (43:01):
I think when you find when you finally find someone
that that you you vibe with, you know, and there
they don't have a record, I think you hold on
to them, you know what I mean, because sometimes you know,
you you go, you go through through different people and

(43:22):
you realize that everyone at some point, oh oh she
didn't pay her bill.

Speaker 1 (43:29):
I'm still here.

Speaker 3 (43:31):
Not you, she didn't pay.

Speaker 1 (43:37):
Her I thought I left For a second.

Speaker 4 (43:39):
I was like, oh, like.

Speaker 3 (43:42):
Doc thought I didn't pay her WiFi bill.

Speaker 1 (43:46):
Remind me I gotta pay mine too, So.

Speaker 3 (43:51):
Oh ship But but but but I mean, you know,
when you when when you do that stuff when you're dating,
when you're dating someone is seeing someone, you know that
there needs to be there needs to be more than
just compatibility. You know what I'm saying. There needs to
be more than just okay, we have these things in common.

(44:11):
You know, there needs to there needs to be levels
of you know, awareness and compatibility. You know what I mean.
You just you just you just can't walk down the
street look at somebody and say, you know what it's
all about you and me. Let's go now. I don't
work that way because you need to. You need to,
you know, be able to check on somebody and see

(44:34):
what they're about, you know. And and I got an email
for you. Okay, all right, So before before we get
into that, how have you been, Like, what's up with you? You're good?
Like what's going on?

Speaker 1 (44:54):
I've I've had a crazy month and worked a lot
of extra hour and dealt with some bs. Uh, But
I am good. My birthday's coming, so I'm really happy
and excited. I'm off Friday to Monday. I'm I'm just

(45:17):
gonna eat whatever I want, wherever I want. Okay, Oh
that's my plan.

Speaker 3 (45:25):
That and it sounds like a good plan.

Speaker 1 (45:27):
I'm good. I'm basically gonna try and take advantage of
whatever free shit I can get this weekend, Like if
they're giving me something, I'm going to get it. So
I'll have a checklist and maybe I'll keep tabs on
the Facebook and be like here we go. I did this,
but there is a bunch of stuff. So I'm like, yeah,

(45:49):
I need to get my free shit and just chill. Basically,
all right, sounds good. Yeah, I'm too old for anything
else these days.

Speaker 3 (46:02):
So I told you said you were thirty something.

Speaker 1 (46:05):
Yeah, but you know what the body feels it it's hurting.

Speaker 3 (46:12):
Oh man. Yeah, I was having some what I'm having
some back issues. My mid my mid back is a
a not back there. Check this shit out. I went
to go for a fucking MRI, right yeah, And I
told them specifically I need an open air MRI. I'm
a bigger dude, you know what I'm saying. Right, And

(46:35):
I get there, no open MRI, and the nerve of
these people try to squeeze me into that fucking machine.

Speaker 1 (46:43):
The worst, It's the worst.

Speaker 3 (46:45):
I was like, what are you doing? She was like,
raise your arm, raise your other arm above your head,
and they're trying to squeeze me into this machine. I'm like, yo,
I'm not going into the fucking machine and stop it.
Already I'm like, no, it's not going to happen. So
now I gotta, I gotta, I gotta call this place
in in in Clifton. They haven't opened them right over there,

(47:06):
and I gotta make an appointment, and I gotta do
all this other ship and everything. So I gotta get
that that that not worked out in my back, yo,
because it's it hurts. They got me on the proxy
and and uh flexio flexo something like that.

Speaker 1 (47:19):
Yeah, you need to find out first what it is,
if it is something, and then you physical therapy will
probably be the best route.

Speaker 3 (47:28):
Yeah, hold on one second, back No, not her?

Speaker 1 (47:34):
Oh damn. We were in the clear now yo.

Speaker 4 (47:41):
Yeah, what up?

Speaker 3 (47:42):
Man? What's up?

Speaker 4 (47:44):
You know? Bro?

Speaker 1 (47:49):
Hold on, I'll be back.

Speaker 3 (47:51):
Hell.

Speaker 4 (47:51):
First off, real good man, I don't feel the pain
that much at all. This ship is actually working.

Speaker 3 (48:03):
Good. That's that's it's doing what it's supposed to.

Speaker 4 (48:05):
Do, right yeah, man, Like like yo, you know what, yo?
You know what I'm actually testing? You know what I'm saying,
Like like I was the guy you want then to
go outside, walk to the car or whatever. But I
didn't notice that there's like like the other injury popped up,
you know, what I'm saying, like like.

Speaker 3 (48:22):
The like, uh he froze. Okay, she's gone, he froze.
Lady g she disappeared. She didn't pay her WiFi bill,

(48:43):
so that leavest me for now. Oh he's back. Yeah,
you're frozen. This is ridiculous. Yeah anyway, so oh okay,

(49:04):
people keep we have a room, a separate room where
the co hosts and stuff popping and out and I
have to let them in. You're good now, yeah.

Speaker 4 (49:16):
Man, I'm good?

Speaker 1 (49:16):
Bro?

Speaker 4 (49:17):
What's call it?

Speaker 3 (49:19):
Like?

Speaker 4 (49:19):
Like you know what?

Speaker 6 (49:20):
So I had the Wi fi connected and like for
some reason, like the more the more, like you know,
like you know.

Speaker 4 (49:27):
How Wi fi are?

Speaker 3 (49:29):
Yeah, what's up?

Speaker 4 (49:30):
Guys? What's going on?

Speaker 3 (49:33):
Yeah? So we're talking about, you know what, the fun
we're talking about you in the room the whole damn time.
You know, we were talking about.

Speaker 4 (49:39):
Of course of course you know like of course I
did you know what I mean?

Speaker 3 (49:44):
Like, so, what's your what's your take on it? What
do you what do you think about people doing background
checks on people? And like I mean, look.

Speaker 4 (49:52):
I mean look, you know what, I've got nothing to odd.

Speaker 6 (49:54):
So you know what, before you do the background check,
I'll tell you about it myself, right, like I have
nothing hid, you know what I'm saying. And besides that,
you google my name, you're gonna, you know what I'm saying,
You're gonna find some ship.

Speaker 4 (50:05):
But let me tell you the story first.

Speaker 6 (50:07):
Before you go google the name. Though, give me, yo,
you know what, Give me that grace period. You know
what I'm saying, because like, all right.

Speaker 3 (50:13):
So you think you think a grace period should be given?

Speaker 6 (50:16):
Yeah, you know what I'm saying, Like, if a grace
period is not given, then then you know what I'm saying, Like,
I don't means you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 4 (50:22):
Run that.

Speaker 6 (50:22):
You know what I'm saying. Run the name, you know, like,
but I can't. I got nothing to hide at all. Right, Okay, yo,
how is it? How is it dawn there at June
and it's fifty degrees?

Speaker 3 (50:41):
Yeah it happens like that makes Yeah?

Speaker 4 (50:47):
You know what else?

Speaker 3 (50:47):
You gotta make sense? You know what it's gotta be
made sense of? What's up? Do you know that an
egg is still fried chicken? Make it makes sense?

Speaker 4 (50:58):
Also eggs is an aboard defeating.

Speaker 3 (51:03):
I don't know what to tell you, but fried chicken
and agis still fried chicken.

Speaker 6 (51:11):
Like like, yo, you know what, a woman, A woman
probably invented fro chicken because like she was like too
lazy to be freed in the Roman soldiers.

Speaker 4 (51:17):
She's just gonna dip this bitch and oil.

Speaker 1 (51:20):
You're all weird. Back to my car in the rain,
I just passed the frog you pass?

Speaker 3 (51:27):
Yo? What the fuck are they doing to the cokies
and Puerto Rico?

Speaker 7 (51:30):
Yo?

Speaker 1 (51:30):
What happened?

Speaker 3 (51:32):
Yo? I heard that there there's a bunch of people
coming to visit or people buying properties out there there.
They're they're they're spraying the cookies man with pesticides and
ship killing them.

Speaker 1 (51:46):
Yeah, that should be irregal.

Speaker 4 (51:51):
You know, the colonizers.

Speaker 3 (51:53):
Yeah, that's crazy. When I heard that show at those
fucking frogs along without those frogs, they ain't Puerto Rico exactly.
How the hell are you gonna try and kill then
indigenous animal? That's crazy? Anyway. Did you hear about the
ship going on down the seaside over the weekend?

Speaker 2 (52:10):
No? What?

Speaker 1 (52:12):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (52:12):
There was like twelve stabbings and somebody got shot and
they were thirty something dudes.

Speaker 6 (52:18):
Like, yo, you know what, nobody got shot? You know
what I'm saying? Like that was this room when someone
got stabbed. But I mean, yo, but but but hold
up though, you know what I'm saying, because like to me,
it's like like we've seen the same ship when we
were down there. You know what I'm saying, the same
thing when we were down there. You know what I'm
saying the whole time. It's just that we wasn't We

(52:39):
wasn't on.

Speaker 4 (52:39):
You know what I'm saying. We wasn't on that time.
And then like you know when we.

Speaker 3 (52:44):
When we when we went down there, we went down
there the chill. We didn't go auf there a while
hout and act the fucking fool though.

Speaker 4 (52:51):
Because yo, another thing too, because because yo, you know what, yo,
you know what we knew that, you know what I'm saying,
Like like you know what I'm saying, like the the
history of that area, you know what I'm saying. Like
first off, we went down there when bail was a thing.
You know what I'm saying, Where like if you got
locked up on the more day weekend, you ain't seen
the judge on Tuesday. So we had that ship in

(53:12):
month for a long time ago. And then like you know,
Barnagat is not too far from seaside and Barnagat.

Speaker 6 (53:18):
You know what I'm saying was a KKK stronghold back
in the day. So but yo, that's what it was.
You know what I'm saying, that's mentality I went down
there with.

Speaker 4 (53:29):
So I stood the funk out out the way man,
you know, like, because Yo, you know what the last
thing I wanted to be locked up is. I want
the last thing I want to do is be locked
up in Ocean County.

Speaker 1 (53:39):
Yeah, that is true to this email.

Speaker 3 (53:43):
Oh this email. Oh man, all right, check this ship out.
You know what, I might have to turn the light
on for this one because I can't see the print.
Hold on.

Speaker 1 (53:53):
All our eyes are like a mess.

Speaker 3 (53:55):
All right, here we here we go. All right. So
I've been seeing this woman for the past couple of months.
From the beginning, there was crazy chemistry between us, intellectually, emotionally, physically.

(54:19):
What are you doing? All right, chill out, Okay.

Speaker 4 (54:26):
I'll switch I'll switch it to the other one. All right, yeah, man,
like it was too high, okay.

Speaker 3 (54:33):
All right. So intellectually, emotionally, physically we had a long
we have we had We've had long, honest talks about
everything from childhood trauma to our weirdest dreams, and yeah,
we've slept together more than once. And it wasn't and
it wasn't just sex. It just it felt real. We connect.

(54:55):
We connected, at least at least I at least I
felt we did. I was starting to think this can
actually become something serious. But then she set me down
and told me she's polyamorous. She wasn't weird about it. Actually,
she was super respectful and upfront. She told me she's

(55:19):
always she's always been this way, that she believed love
and connection shouldn't be confined to just one person. She
even mentioned that she's still seeing a couple of these people,
though she said she's really those She said she's really
into me, And now I'm stuck. I'm not naive. I

(55:44):
know relationships can look kind of weird these days, but
this is new territory for me. I've always believed in monogamy,
that and two people against the world kind of love.
That's the kind of love I'm looking for, the two
people against the world. I don't know if I'm just
being closed minded, or if I'm compromising something in my

(56:08):
core to who I am by trying to adjust the
sex is great, the connection is real, but I don't
know if I can share, and definitely don't want to
pretend it's okay. I just don't want to pretend I'm
okay with it and just keep just to keep her around.

(56:29):
So here's the question. Has anyone ever fallen for someone
who's polyamorous when you're wired to monogamy? How do you
handle the jealousy, the insecurity, or even just a confusion.
I'm trying to be open minded, but I also don't
want to lie to myself just because I'm scared to

(56:50):
lose her. How do you know if this kind of
relationship is something you can grow into or if you're
just not built for it?

Speaker 1 (56:59):
All right, that's beautiful, great question. Let's unpack in what
he was saying already. He is uncomfortable with it, like
he would much prefer He wants a bonnie and clad situation, right,

(57:19):
He wants his ride or dies. What he's saying, me
and her against the world type thing. But you're not
going to get that with a poly person. So if
you want to give it a try, then communication needs

(57:41):
to be very open and honest. And and and I
would say to him, like the jealousy is is natural,
like it's natural to be jealous of someone of someone

(58:01):
else or or just someone else getting the time with
your person. But it takes a big level of trust
and love for someone to be okay, because in a
poly love, you know at the end of the day,

(58:23):
that person is coming back to you, right like it will,
it'll it's always going to be between you and and
that person. But it also like it all depends because
there's different ways of doing things. People do things differently, right,
maybe she, you know, she is somebody who wants a husband,

(58:48):
but she wants to have other partners. Maybe she wants
him to have other partners, like it really all depends.
But if he wants that kind of love between two people,
like I'm gonna tell you right now, this isn't for everybody,
it really is it. It takes a lot of understanding
and patience and trust, and if you don't have that

(59:13):
then it's doomed. So I don't think that he should
pursue something with her because I feel like he wants more,
And I don't think you should go into something hoping
someone will change. So you need to accept someone for

(59:33):
who they are. If you can't accept for who she is,
how she is. Then you know, even though you had
a connection and everything was great, that's great, but it's
surface level at this point, and the real deal is greater,
bigger than he was expecting. And it seems like, you know,

(59:58):
maybe he can't handle it. That's totally okay. Like, like
I said, this ship ain't for everybody. It really isn't.
I'm just reading the comments so well, you cannot change
who you are, what you believe in. If you continue
with her, then you and all her other planmates are
going to end up together. Let yourself more and stay
true to your beliefs. Those insecurity are not gonna go away.

(01:00:22):
You give yourself time and see how you feel.

Speaker 6 (01:00:26):
He really sounded like he was really gonna sacrifice his
morals for a piece of ass.

Speaker 1 (01:00:31):
Say that it's not a piece of ass for me.
That very clear that it isn't.

Speaker 4 (01:00:36):
But that's the whole.

Speaker 6 (01:00:37):
But at the end of the day, I mean, I mean,
all right, you know what from you know what I'm saying,
I'm gona speak a little you know, niggers if you will.

Speaker 4 (01:00:45):
Yeah, I'm gonna let my girl cup, you know what
I'm saying, go out. You know what I'm saying. Get
you know what I'm saying. Get you know what I'm saying,
Join a game, bang and come home and be like, hey, babe,
how's your day.

Speaker 3 (01:00:53):
That's not what it is? Not bro, No, that's not
what I No, that's not not gang.

Speaker 4 (01:01:02):
Hold hold up, hold a hold up, yo, I just
have to let that round off.

Speaker 6 (01:01:06):
But you know what I'm saying, just to be ignorant,
you know, I mean seriously, though, you know what I'm saying, Like,
if this man is.

Speaker 4 (01:01:12):
You know what I'm saying, like, Yo, you know what
he sounds like, he's morally conflicted.

Speaker 6 (01:01:15):
You know what I'm saying, Like if it's morals, ain't
you know what I'm saying, If he has you know
what I'm saying, if it's morals, is not built on
that part where like you know what I'm saying, like, yeah,
you know what, you know, I'm willing to give it
a try, but like you already know that you're gonna
be jealous and all that stuff. Don't even don't even
bother man, because like you know what I'm saying, Like

(01:01:37):
you're gonna do you know what I'm saying, You're gonna
drive yourself crazy doing it.

Speaker 1 (01:01:40):
I don't think it's a moral's thing. He's open to
her life and understanding it. I just think that when
but when you want something, if you want a certain
kind of relationship and that's what you're seeking, then that's
what you should do. But if if he's if this
girl means that much to him that he wants to

(01:02:02):
give this a try, then have a conversation with her first,
see what that is like, what what does her ship
entail like? Who is she seeing? And what what is like?
How does she see the future? What is it that
she wants? You know? And if her answers are not
equating with anything that you can align to or be

(01:02:22):
okay with, then there's your answer, like it's and it's okay,
Like it's unfortunate that you made a connection with this person,
but they're not your person.

Speaker 4 (01:02:36):
Wait wait hold wait wait wait wait wait.

Speaker 6 (01:02:38):
I just thought about something right now, right because I've
done a plenty of times. I was a I was
in multiple partly you know what I'm saying, relationships. It's
just that my partner didn't know it.

Speaker 1 (01:02:48):
No, that's not the same ship. Okay, there's a level
of trust and respect and a relationship, cheating, there's.

Speaker 4 (01:02:58):
Cheating on their know what I'm saying back then, you
know what I'm saying, Like, yo, you you know what
I mean? I mean, you know what if you want
to make it.

Speaker 1 (01:03:09):
Down to that you were just being a player and
they didn't know about each other, that's different.

Speaker 4 (01:03:14):
Yeoh, you know, like I'm just saying, you know, like
I was like, wait, wait a minute, you know what,
but but but but tg.

Speaker 3 (01:03:21):
Don't you think? Hold on, dumbs, Hold on a second,
don't you think. Don't you think because he said that
they've been seeing each other for a couple of months,
do you think this is something she should have explained
to him prior.

Speaker 2 (01:03:33):
No?

Speaker 1 (01:03:34):
No, no, because it's a couple of can mean different things.
What if they saw each other once a week? What
if they you know, are they talking on the phone?
How serious is it? In two months? It could just
be like I see you here and there and talk
to you and stuff like, you don't know the extent
of the relationship. Two months doesn't mean ship. In two months,

(01:03:56):
you better not be telling yourself you love someone, okay,
because no, you need to really get to know somebody,
and in two months you don't really know that person.

Speaker 3 (01:04:09):
She said, the past couple of months. Yeah, I don't
know how many how many months has been.

Speaker 1 (01:04:14):
A couple of months. It's it's it's new. It's obviously
a new thing because they're kind of contemplating, so it's
new and it's new for them. But I wish them luck,
like if they want to pursue that, Like you want
to try to be open and be open, but you
know you're going to need to understand what it entails

(01:04:36):
and what it is.

Speaker 3 (01:04:38):
Yeah, communication, understanding, transparency, all that shit needs to come
into play.

Speaker 1 (01:04:46):
Right, I mean, this should be in all relationships.

Speaker 3 (01:04:48):
But you know, when it's absolutely.

Speaker 1 (01:04:51):
Something like this, I mean, it really has to be
very open and you just there can't be hiding in
lying because then it be come something else.

Speaker 3 (01:05:01):
Right, Absolutely, absolutely, And I think and I think also
dealing with a relationship like that, I think you have
to be able to understand what another's needs and wants
and how the inner workings of the way she deals

(01:05:25):
with it is. Because apparently she's the one with the
multiple multiple dudes, you know what I'm saying. I don't
know if the other dudes that she's with, it could
it could be, it could be one whole fucking ship
show over there. I don't know what you know, what
I'm saying, it could be. It could be one whole
big fucking exactly, you know, fucking fucking fuzzy walls and fucking.

Speaker 1 (01:05:54):
I mean, they're women who have two boyfriends. They live
in the house together, like you know, sometimes they sleep
with just one in the same in the bed or whatever,
and they'll fuck the other person sometimes or whatever.

Speaker 2 (01:06:11):
Like.

Speaker 1 (01:06:13):
But again, these three people are agreeing to this, and again,
these people are fulfilling specific needs for each other. That's
why it makes sense.

Speaker 3 (01:06:25):
For them, right, And he has to understand.

Speaker 1 (01:06:32):
What all that should have been discussed from day one.
I mean, I don't know, I don't know the extent
of the conversation. I don't know if he like it
could have been like a hooking up thing for all
we know, and you know, he got to know her

(01:06:53):
more and more and in the process. Again, I don't
think two months is a lot of time. I feel
like people are like looking at this, like, again, we
don't know the extent of the relationship, and I don't
I don't know. I don't know many people who are
like dating every fucking day, see each other every day

(01:07:15):
or like you know, multiple times a week or whatever.
Like people have jobs, people have shit going on.

Speaker 3 (01:07:23):
But yeah, yeah, I mean and me personally, you know,
I can't do that shit, you.

Speaker 4 (01:07:35):
Know to jel you know what, Yeah, you know what,
I can't do it.

Speaker 6 (01:07:39):
You know what I'm saying, Like, because believe it or not,
I got to draw the line somewhere, you know what
I'm saying, Like my morals will take over man, Like
like yo, you know what I mean Now, probably back then,
like twenty years ago, I wouldn't give a shit out,
but like gay, you know what, let's go to a
party together.

Speaker 4 (01:07:54):
But now it's like different, you know what I'm saying,
Like like you know, like what the hell I mean?

Speaker 3 (01:08:05):
Yeah? So you really you really, you really gotta and
and there's a lot a lot of things that that
a lot of the inner workings of this type of relationship. Man,
you know, I mean, you have to be able to
to be open. You gotta be able to be like listen, babe,
I'm gonna go spend the night in John's house. I'm
not gonna spend it with you tonight. I'm going to
go with the John's crib and then Thursday, I'll be

(01:08:27):
over at Mike's crib and then I'll come by your
house Saturday.

Speaker 4 (01:08:33):
You know what I mean.

Speaker 1 (01:08:35):
Schedule and this is where you fit in this schedule.

Speaker 3 (01:08:38):
Yeah, that that's I can't that that wouldn't be me. Now,
that would not be me. I am not part. I
will never be part of a poly program, especially a
poly schedule. That's not it's not it.

Speaker 4 (01:08:51):
I don't know.

Speaker 3 (01:08:52):
I can't because I tell you something right now, you
will have to run a background check on me if
you ever me in that kind of situation. You know
what I'm saying, that's what the background background check.

Speaker 1 (01:09:02):
We only need background checks, you know what I'm.

Speaker 3 (01:09:06):
Word because that that would that would not be me
man some something.

Speaker 4 (01:09:10):
Yeah, that's just you know what I'm saying, like like
you know what personally, like I can't do.

Speaker 3 (01:09:16):
That, you know, like because because because like me personally,
like if you try and if I knew, if I
knew that the woman I was seeing I cared about
and then it was with some other dude on Thursday
and then another dude Saturday. But I'm waiting to Sunday
to see her. I would be fucking bouncing off the

(01:09:37):
fucking walls. I'll be bouncing off. Ivy would be like,
what the fuck is going on with this motherfucker?

Speaker 4 (01:09:42):
Man?

Speaker 3 (01:09:43):
I mean i'd be I'd be bugging the fuck out, Yo,
I'd be bugging the fucking.

Speaker 4 (01:09:50):
Excuse me real quick, you guys, hear that noise?

Speaker 1 (01:09:54):
Noise?

Speaker 4 (01:09:54):
I don't hear nothing, all right, but sounds like a horner.

Speaker 6 (01:09:58):
Like a car horn is going off, right, I'm like,
that's what I'm looking around. I'm like, just because you know,
I'm in the park and stud and like, all right,
there's a car all right, never mind?

Speaker 3 (01:10:11):
Yeah, yeah, but I don't. I can't. I can't do it. Man,
if you're not, if you're not going to be, if
you're not going to be Bonnie to my Clyde, I don't.
I don't want it.

Speaker 1 (01:10:28):
I don't want it.

Speaker 3 (01:10:29):
I don't want it.

Speaker 1 (01:10:31):
I don't need it.

Speaker 3 (01:10:33):
I don't need it either, you know what.

Speaker 1 (01:10:36):
I just want to say, like, I don't know what
happened to Lady G but I hope you're okay.

Speaker 3 (01:10:43):
And she was kind of she was kind of off today.
She was kind of off to that feel bad like
WiFi went off and the bill on time. I don't know,
I hope she's good. But anyway, yeah, that was that
was that was that was good. Yeah, it was a

(01:11:04):
good one. It wasn't It wasn't, you know, anything too crazy.
But yeah, that's that's that's how that's how it is.
I got so many emails I just had. I saw
this one and I was like, TG, I said, she'll

(01:11:24):
be able.

Speaker 1 (01:11:25):
To I'm glad that when you see anything relating to Polly.

Speaker 7 (01:11:29):
Relationships speaking answer that not an expert of any kind,
but yeah.

Speaker 4 (01:11:42):
He.

Speaker 6 (01:11:44):
Actually got the cross report. Oh yeah, so so what
do you call it? On the Doorsteck Parkway, Like May ninth,
I'm driving. Something told me not to take the parkway,
but I just wanted to go home because, like, you
know what I'm saying, Like I wanted you know what
I'm saying. I wanted to do the Walmart shopping.

Speaker 4 (01:12:05):
You know, I wanted to feel like a man's man,
you know what I'm saying, despite the fact that you know,
like it's raining and I'm in pain and stuff. I
wanted to feel like, you know, I'm contributing this stuff
to the family. So I hit the parkway right and
something told me, it's like, you know what I'm saying,
I had like a real uneasy feeling. I'm telling my girl,
I'm like, yo, something telling me to get the whole
off the parkway man. You know, like so everything's bottlenecked,

(01:12:28):
you know what I'm saying. And like that uneasy feeling.

Speaker 6 (01:12:30):
Didn't go away, and I'm like, you know what, I'm
gonna get off right here on on, you know what
I'm saying, in Bloomfield whatever.

Speaker 4 (01:12:36):
And I just cut through and just hit twenty one,
no biggie. So I get to the lane I'm about
to exit, and all of a sudden, boom. I was like, shit,
I know it just didn't get hit. And it was
a yo, it was a pretty decent hit. I was like,
I was like, yo, I know, I just didn't get hit.

Speaker 1 (01:12:55):
Man.

Speaker 4 (01:12:55):
So like I pulled to the side or whatever, right
and I see another car pull over behind me. I
was like, no fucking way, man, Like I'm like, yo,
this this can't be happening, man, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 6 (01:13:09):
And mind you, like two days before that, I had
got the confirmation that my surgery is gonna be on
the twenty first, which was last week. So I was
like all happy, and then this happens, and I'm like,
of course this will happen, right, So I get out
and like my like my back is like you know
what I'm saying, Paul, you know what I'm saying, Like
you know, the driver's side of my stuff is like

(01:13:30):
like dented in, and you know what I'm saying, And
like some of us popped up and my trunk dropped,
and I'm here looking at the lady.

Speaker 4 (01:13:37):
I'm like, you know what I'm saying. I was like, Yo,
what happened? You know what I'm saying? Like like first
I was mad, right, and in my mind, in my mind,
you know what I'm saying. I saw myself slapping the
dogs shit out her, right, but accidents happened.

Speaker 6 (01:13:50):
So at first I was mad, but I was like
what happened? And she was like no, you know, like
go because because the person in front of me kept
on like.

Speaker 3 (01:14:00):
Checking, bro, and.

Speaker 4 (01:14:02):
Like mind we bottle necked. We are bottle neck on
the on the parkway.

Speaker 3 (01:14:06):
Bro.

Speaker 6 (01:14:07):
You know what I'm saying, Like it's three o'clock. You
know what I'm saying, like like three fifteen around there,
and you know what I'm saying, Like the parkways, like
you know what I'm saying, like jammed up, like from
from the exit to from the two eighty exit all
the way up to like you know what I'm saying,
like from East Arm to the two eighty that.

Speaker 3 (01:14:20):
Part that's that the orange is always like.

Speaker 6 (01:14:23):
That, yeah, always, and now and and yo, you know what,
and then like you know, you know, look at the time.
It's three o'clock on a Friday. Where you know what
I'm saying, teachers, everybody, Yeah, exactly. So you know, she
was telling me that, you know what I'm saying. She
was like, Yo, you know, I saw opening over here,
so I want to go. You guys were going then
all of a sudden you stopped it and it was

(01:14:43):
too late. I was yeah, because I got in front
of me stopped. So you know, like it was you
know what I'm saying, Like it wasn't her fault. You know, well,
I mean accidents happened, right, So I tried to back
up my car and lo and behold man, like the
impact must have my whole like backing up system, right,

(01:15:05):
you know, so, and ain't my car It's not me.

Speaker 4 (01:15:14):
Back there from my fault, you know what I'm saying,
Like you know, autographs, nah, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 6 (01:15:21):
So like so like what happened was you know, you
know what I'm saying, she must have like my whole
parking system and stuff, right, and then like you know,
you know that that was like one thing, and then
like another thing was like you know what I mean,
Like my mom had like surgery, right, but she kept
on bleeding out right up until the point where like

(01:15:41):
she passed out in the bathroom and then we have
to rush into the hospital.

Speaker 4 (01:15:44):
This is like all happened within the days of each other.
And then they had to keep it for a couple
of days because she lost a lot of blood. You know,
she takes blood in this and he told us all
that stuff, so you know, like she needed She ended
up getting a blood trans for you man like and
then like you know, we bring our home and she
couldn't walk, you know because like you know, her legs

(01:16:06):
and stuff. And then the final day we end up
taking her back to the hospital. I was like, yo, girl,
you know what I'm saying, Like, like yo, you know what,
talk about some mental health stuff. I'm like yo, and
I'm here like keeping this all in and stuff.

Speaker 6 (01:16:17):
I'm like, bro, this is not it so for every
good thing that was happening, like three bad things were happening,
and I just like, you know what I'm saying, Like
onto mental health stuff. I'm like, yo, you know what,
I'm about to get surgery soon, and all this bullshit
is happening.

Speaker 2 (01:16:32):
Right.

Speaker 6 (01:16:33):
So the day of my surgery, right, I was gonna
have my son, you know what I'm saying, drive me.
But I was like, yo, you know what, I'm just
gonna give him. I'm saying, give him, give him a
rest time or whatever.

Speaker 4 (01:16:44):
No, biggie, I go. You know, I go to surgery,
I'll wake up. I'm like, yeah, I'm ready to go home.
You know what I'm saying. Like I'm hungry. First off,
I'm hungry, you know what I mean. So I'm hungry.
I'm thirsty. So like I come outside and see my son,
my sons like I've gone to an occident. I'm I'm like, damn.

Speaker 6 (01:17:07):
You know what I'm saying. I'm like, a yo, you
know what's try to go home. So we get in
this car and whatever he turns it on. We start,
like you know what I'm saying, not not we even
we ain't even pull out the freaking on park a
lot of the surgical center and I see smoke and
I smell the radiator.

Speaker 4 (01:17:25):
I'm like, I'm in your mind. I'm still I'm high
as ship still before because like defending on the anesthesia.
But you know, I looked at them. I was like,
I'm like, bro, you cracked your radiator. Man. I was like, yo,
you know what, you got to pull this over.

Speaker 6 (01:17:41):
So I'll call corleone because you know what I'm saying,
Like the surgical center was like right next to his house,
probably like three miles now, and I told him what happened,
so you know, you know, like a good brother, you
know what I'm saying, Like you know what, like a
good friend.

Speaker 4 (01:17:55):
Like his name is State Farm, because like a good
front State Farm is there.

Speaker 6 (01:17:59):
So so we ended up we ended up like trying
to trying to go and come, oh it's a fire alarms.

Speaker 4 (01:18:12):
You comment on the screen, Bro, Yo, you know what
that's that's the hospital right there. We ended up taking
her back, you know what I'm saying, And it kept
her till and they kept her till what they was

(01:18:35):
that Saturday. No way, she came home that Monday. My fault.

Speaker 6 (01:18:39):
She came home that Monday because like, you know what,
she started walking around, you know, she started walking around
and stuff.

Speaker 4 (01:18:44):
So you know it was good, you know what I mean,
Like it was good. And then like.

Speaker 6 (01:18:50):
That Tuesday past, of course I want to go visit
my mom. You know, like then I have to like
do things, you know, prep for the surgery. So once
they you know what I'm saying, once they came by,
and you know, I want to get surgery, and then
my son gets into an accident and then like you know,
fast forward to that. You know, like his car was
gonna make it so corleon't have to drive me home, right,

(01:19:10):
and I'm high as ship, you know what I'm saying.
Oh oh, and the bed frame, you know what I'm saying, busted,
you know what I'm saying. So I'm like, you know,
everything's happening, you know what I'm saying on that day,
right And the first thing in my mind I'm saying
to myself is, thank God the span all is working man,
because because Joe does it. Thank God, you know what

(01:19:32):
I'm saying, the anesthes of fethanol is working right now,
because like everything that's going that could go wrong went
wrong that day. But yet, you know what i made it.
But yeah, I made it work because Yoe, you know
what the men, the men. I walked inside, you know
what I'm saying, and saw my daughter and like her
face that glit up that that I'm like that right there,

(01:19:53):
like you know what I'm saying, Like like everything else
was null and void. I was like, you know what,
everything else, I'm gonna wing it now, you know, like
I wasn't even supposed to be outside the final of
the day of my surgery and stuff, but like seeing
how my seeing how my lady was struggling, Like you know,
like like the minute I got home, it's like I'm na.

Speaker 4 (01:20:09):
Catered to you and the baby, this, that and the
third blah blah blah blah. Right, I woke up early
that next morning, right, and you know, I went to go,
do you know what I'm saying, you know, show up
with my parents house real quick, let them, you know,
let them see me so they're not worried. And I
get yelled at, Right, you're not supposed to be outside. Bah,
he is supposed to be festive blah blah blah blah.

(01:20:31):
I'm like whatever, so hold on, you know what they
were supposed to keep My mom right, like real shit,
they were supposed to keep my mom like you know,
like like it was two doctors. I was like determining
whether my mom left or she stayed right one like

(01:20:56):
you know what, Like one doctor was like, oh nah,
you know what call it? She's good, right, but like she.

Speaker 6 (01:21:04):
Couldn't really walk, yo, Like I have to like literally
fire fireman carry her up the stairs, you know, like
mind you like my mom is four eleven, you know
what I'm saying, she's like in her seventies and stuff.

Speaker 4 (01:21:14):
And to see her like struggling crime, you know what
I'm saying, Like like yo.

Speaker 3 (01:21:18):
Wait hold on, hold on, they let her go like that, yeah, bro.

Speaker 6 (01:21:23):
Like I was like, yeah, I was confused about it,
you know what I'm saying. Like I was like that
you know what I'm saying, You're not gonna like something's
not right here right I said it.

Speaker 4 (01:21:33):
You know what I'm saying, you.

Speaker 3 (01:21:35):
Talk about did you talk about getting a nurse?

Speaker 1 (01:21:39):
Phil?

Speaker 4 (01:21:40):
Bro? You know what when yo?

Speaker 6 (01:21:42):
You know what I was like, Yo, you guys are
gonna swallow your pride, you know what I'm saying, Like
I know you know you know, like this is like
it's been your too for so long.

Speaker 4 (01:21:51):
You know, we do this, we do that, if we
if we driver, if we need to drive far, we
call you the stands that I get that part, But
you guys gonna have to like you know, like get
a homemade health or something. So like right now that
you know what I'm saying, like that they're talking about that,
right they're even there.

Speaker 6 (01:22:07):
They're even talking about move like you know what I'm saying,
the possibility of move into a to a building with elevators,
you know, like to see the citizen homeless stuff. But see,
the thing is, you know what I'm saying, Like I
feel bad because like like when it comes to like yo,
you know how YO call especially you know how I
am with my parents.

Speaker 4 (01:22:24):
You know what I'm saying. I joke around, you know,
like talk ship to their face or whatever. Get slapped
to this day right by my mom a little four eleven.
You know what I'm saying. You know what I'm saying,
but joking with jokingly and stuff.

Speaker 6 (01:22:36):
Right, but like you know how I am with them, man,
Like like you know, like if I could do whatever
it takes, you know I'm saying, I'm gonna do whatever
it takes.

Speaker 4 (01:22:44):
So like they're talking about like like you know what
I'm saying, like possibly moving to a senior citizen building
and stuff. You know what I mean, because like you know,
but see what happened was like with my mom right
the the home nurse king and she thought that it
was something with her, you know what I'm saying, Like

(01:23:05):
because she had blood cloths before. Mm hmmmm mmm. I can't,
y know, I don't know for somebody all right now
I'm seeing it. No, that's what they're doing right now,

(01:23:29):
you know what I'm saying. Like they got physical therapy
in the house right now, you know, like you know what,
Like I think she has like Medicaid de sign medican.

Speaker 1 (01:23:39):
I don't know, it depends makes a difference.

Speaker 4 (01:23:44):
But but but like but like you know what when
when like the home health nurse was like why did
you even discharge? You go back? So they send her
back and whatever and come to find out that you
know what I'm saying, They ran her test with I
ever see shot blood classes like yo everything that she
didn't have blood clots or whatever, but her magnesium was

(01:24:04):
low and like the thing, you know what I'm saying,
and like you know what I'm saying, Magnesium is what.

Speaker 6 (01:24:10):
You know, what I'm saying causes. You know, I'm saying
brings about heart attacks. I didn't know that, like low magnesium.
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 4 (01:24:14):
I didn't know about that. You know, you learn something
every day. So they kept it for that, They kept
it for the weekend. Oh hell though, if I'm gonna
put my mom in a home, and if I'm gonna
put my parents in the home, it's gonna be my home.
You know, Like I don't care like y'all drive me crazy.
I don't give a shit. You know what I'm saying.
At the end of the day, I still love you,
you know, like, nah, man, you know what I mean,

(01:24:37):
Like like there's too much hard, there's too much like
you know, videos of you know what I'm saying of
like elderly is getting.

Speaker 1 (01:24:45):
Like you know, a beauty.

Speaker 6 (01:24:47):
Yeah, you know, like you know what you laying hand
on my mom and my dad. You know what I'm saying,
Like I'm laying hands on you. You know what I mean,
Like you know what you're You're gonna be at the
bottom floor, crippled for life, learn how to walk. Yeah, man,
don't playing with my parents? Yeah but yeah, but but
but yo, you know what, That's what it's been.

Speaker 4 (01:25:08):
You know what I'm saying, like like, yo, you know what,
like my mental health you know what I'm saying, from
the time of the accident all the way to the
day of my surgery was like it was going right.
You know, I gotta ask my mom. You know what
I'm saying. I gotta ya, you know what, I really
got to ask my mom about that.

Speaker 3 (01:25:30):
You know, Like.

Speaker 4 (01:25:32):
That's interesting. I'm gonna ask my mom.

Speaker 6 (01:25:34):
You know what, I'm going to talk to my parents tomorrow,
ask them, you know, you know, like what they get,
Like you know what I'm saying, like who's their insurance
and stuff?

Speaker 3 (01:25:41):
You know?

Speaker 4 (01:25:43):
But yeah, man, like after that, you know what I'm saying,
like like, Yo, it was like my mental health was
going bro, you know what I'm saying. I just didn't
say nothing about it.

Speaker 1 (01:25:54):
You're supposed to say. You're supposed to talk about it.
Remember you were gonna work that, so.

Speaker 4 (01:26:02):
Yo, what happened was like it was like, yo, you
know what happened was the whole thing. I'm like trying
to process.

Speaker 6 (01:26:08):
Everything that was happening, right, It's like it's like doing
that process one thing another thing was happening.

Speaker 4 (01:26:13):
I'm like, you know what I'm saying, I'm just staring
off like I like, I'm like, bro, Like it was like, yo,
is this really happening? You know what I'm saying?

Speaker 6 (01:26:22):
Like nah, man, you know, and like come June third,
I will be without a car because I gotta take
the car back. You know what I'm saying, to go
get fixed seven grand working damage.

Speaker 4 (01:26:31):
You know what I'm saying. Yeah, man, so you know
what I mean, like like the whole point, you.

Speaker 6 (01:26:35):
Know what I'm saying, Like I can't even reverse my
car like properly without it stopping out of nowhere.

Speaker 1 (01:26:41):
Yeah.

Speaker 6 (01:26:42):
So so it was like so it was like all
this happening and yet you know what, my d you
know what I'm saying, like just seeing my daughter's face
just like you know what I'm saying, like kind of
no and void everything.

Speaker 1 (01:26:54):
You know, that's power returning.

Speaker 4 (01:27:06):
Yeah, you know what I'm you know what I really
I think.

Speaker 3 (01:27:11):
That's sounding you should think you're talking about?

Speaker 4 (01:27:13):
Bro? Yeah, Yo, you know what. I never thought about that,
you know, like you know because because yo, you know what.

Speaker 1 (01:27:20):
It's like this right now when they get old, especially.

Speaker 4 (01:27:23):
Yo, Yo, it's like this right, like like, you know,
I look at my parents right and it hurts, you
know what I'm saying, like I don't want to like
thanks coming, Melissa Robber saying goodbye to the end.

Speaker 3 (01:27:38):
Melissa's gotta go.

Speaker 4 (01:27:41):
Oh, twelve hours, good luck?

Speaker 3 (01:27:45):
You know.

Speaker 4 (01:27:47):
You know what yo, what yo? We used to keep
me going for like sixteen hours was met? You should
try it just like.

Speaker 6 (01:27:55):
This place with twelve hours, man, like like, yo, you
know what, h yeah, I don't like I don't miss
those days.

Speaker 4 (01:28:05):
Yeah, so so so.

Speaker 3 (01:28:08):
Yeah, so I gotta, I gotta, we gotta find out
what happened Lady G. Man, I know, you know, I gotta,
I gotta reach out.

Speaker 1 (01:28:20):
Yeah, what happened to Lady J.

Speaker 4 (01:28:23):
That's how.

Speaker 1 (01:28:27):
It's like a mystery dinner we just had.

Speaker 3 (01:28:33):
Yeah, all right, so with that, yo, you.

Speaker 4 (01:28:36):
Know I'm gonna pick you be hoppening in the mystery machine.
All right.

Speaker 3 (01:28:42):
So with that being said, great episode. I'm glad everybody
came through. We'll have to find out what happened to
Lady G. Well hopefully she's she's all right. Well I'll
reach out to in a minute. But yeah, I'm glad, Doug,
I'm glad you got outside and came in and and
and you know, enjoined us.

Speaker 4 (01:29:02):
Man, Yeah, yo, bro, you know what that comment?

Speaker 3 (01:29:07):
Real quick?

Speaker 4 (01:29:12):
Oh she's from drink Oh I I holler at you
definitely definitely like yeah, yoh oh. One more thing man, Yo.
They took out the staples today.

Speaker 6 (01:29:32):
You know what I'm saying, My stitches and stuff, right,
And like I didn't feel nothing until like they got
to like the little part of my back. That's when
I felt everything. Like you know, I was like, oh, whoa, whoa.
I was like, Yo, hold up, you know what I'm saying.
And then there's yelling thers like she knows what she's
joking around. She was like, she's like, bro, it's not
your first time. I'm like, pause, you know what I'm

(01:29:54):
saying because you're standing behind me. I was like, you know,
joking around and stuff right.

Speaker 4 (01:29:57):
I was like yo. I was like yo, she was like,
it's not gonna I was like, bro, everything, yo, you
know what everything that you know what I'm saying, Like
like like you ever you ever't like been hurt so
bad that your mouth got watery like you know. I
was like, yo, that's what it was.

Speaker 1 (01:30:15):
That like like yo, sensory overload everywhere.

Speaker 2 (01:30:20):
Like.

Speaker 4 (01:30:21):
Yo, you know what the last three stitches right?

Speaker 6 (01:30:24):
You know what I'm saying, because like because like when
it started healing, like the first three of the first
like bottom three of the of I cut right, it
was like deep in my it was deeply embedded than
my skin, so it healed around it.

Speaker 4 (01:30:36):
So she had to yanked out right, and I'm like,
I'm like, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 6 (01:30:41):
And the third one, I was like, you know what
I'm saying, Like I just like I started like breaking
a sweat, you know what I'm saying, Like that's how
that's how, that's how much it hurt.

Speaker 4 (01:30:48):
But I kept it down. I was like, you know
what I'm saying. I was like, I was like yo, h.
I was like, Yo, you know what I'm saying. I
was like, bro, you know what I'm saying. Like what
are you doing? She was like Yo, what it's like?
Like Yo?

Speaker 6 (01:31:01):
She told me that the last three you know what
I'm saying, It was like embedded, you know what I'm saying.
Like it he was like around the scar and the skin,
the scar tiss you and all that stuff.

Speaker 4 (01:31:09):
So set the yanke it out and I'm like I'm like,
damn man, I said, Yo, you couldn't use a cutting.
She was like, Yo, you're still standing right, Yo, she's
one of them nurses. You're still standing right. I stop complaining. Yeah,
you know, like I was like, ship Man, Yeah, but
real but hold on real quick. Yeah you know what
I mean, real quick?

Speaker 3 (01:31:27):
Right.

Speaker 4 (01:31:29):
So this is what well, this is what I gotta
use for the rest of my life. These things right here,
this charges my back. The battery in my back.

Speaker 3 (01:31:40):
Wow, he's bro cool. Yeah.

Speaker 4 (01:31:44):
Yeah, tell you know what when when people when people
be like you got a battery in your back? Yeah?
Literally almost a wire too, yeers like Iron Man? Yeah, yeah,
pretty much.

Speaker 3 (01:31:56):
So with that being said, stopping by, Yeah, TG, thanks
for coming through, Lady G.

Speaker 4 (01:32:07):
Yeah, we love y'all. Feel better and.

Speaker 3 (01:32:11):
Get that WiFi bill paid and we'll be back next
week for the week after ye hopefully. Yeah, we'll be
back to keep you guys informed of the tamed and
Talking ship.

Speaker 4 (01:32:29):
You know.

Speaker 3 (01:32:30):
So once again, I'm big hole on. That's t G Love,
that's dub don aka signed Phoenix, Simon Phoenix. We love
our fans, Keep it up, keep on coming, keep talking ship,
keep doing what you do. Stay safe, hit us up,
and at some point

Speaker 4 (01:32:52):
Good night, all right.

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