Tackle'em Tuesday (Recorded LIVE on 10-15-24)

Tackling the topics you want to hear about. Just remember that no matter what you may think at some point THIS MIGHT HURT!!!

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Episode Transcript

Speaker 1 (00:00):
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Speaker 2 (00:39):
Y y yo.

Speaker 3 (02:03):
What's good. It's a big coldly on of this My
Heir podcast coming to you live from you know wherever
it is. We're alive from. You know how we do
it tonight. Let's let's strictly get right to the point.

(02:30):
We weren't here last week. We had a couple of
things we had to deal with, so it was, you know,
circumstances beyond our control kind of ship, you know what
I mean. But we're here now, and let me bring
in my co host. Oh he just left. Okay, you

(02:54):
know what, what's up? Anybody out there in the chat
room have anything anything on their mind? You want to
start us, You want to start us off with anything
you might wanta, you know, discuss, but you want us
to discuss something that maybe you know, something you're going through,

(03:20):
something you wanna you want to hear us speak about whatever.
Just throw it in the chat room, you know what
I'm saying, and we'll take it from there. As far
as I'm concerned, I've had I had a good week,
had a great weekend, good week last week. Tuesday to Tuesday.
Were in here last week, so you know, everything, everything

(03:40):
was cool, everything was good, and then so Lady G
won't be joining us tonight. You know what I'm saying,
Let's keep her in our prayers. She's having you know,
surgery and everything. So you know, just wish Lady G

(04:02):
speedy recovery, you know what I mean. And I'm expecting, uh, Simon, Phoenix,
Dubs A, Dawn and TG Love to pop in at
some point, some some points tonight. So with that being said,

(04:27):
I wanted to discuss something that's near and dear to
my heart, which is mental health. You know, I Uh,
it's just a topic that's that's something that is definitely
near and dear to my heart, you know what I'm saying.
I mean, I I feel like it doesn't get spoken

(04:49):
about or it doesn't get talked about enough, but it's
important and it's something that, uh, that people need to
be aware of, you know, because you know, there was
there's a couple of situations that that have happened recently

(05:09):
in the news about people who are suffering from mental illness,
and some of these cops, man, they don't they don't
understand that, you know, when someone is under not under attack,

(05:29):
I mean, when when someone is is not feeling feeling well,
you know, that it takes a cop with experience and
a cop with the knowledge to handle someone who who
is under distress from mental health, from mental illness so
to speak. So you know, you know, you get situations where,

(05:54):
you know, you call up the police and you want
to do a wellness check on someone who has mental health.
You know, you get a police officer that comes and
and just doesn't give two ships, you know, like, yeah,
why am I here? You want to check on somebody
who has mental illness, you know, and they don't. They

(06:16):
don't give too shits about the patient. They don't give
too shits about the people who want to check on
this person, you know. And I think first responders, you know,
whether it be police, firemen, e m t s whoever,
need more training when it comes to dealing with people

(06:38):
with mental illness, because some of them don't have that training.
And what sucks about that is if you don't have
the training and you get put in a situation where
someone with mental illness is is you know, in danger
of hurting themselves or someone else, you know, the first

(07:01):
thing they do is pull out their gun, like put
the fucking knife down, or you know, shoot them or
I mean it's crazy. There's no certain it is crazy
because a lot of towns, a lot of towns may
bring my co hosting real quick, hold up, hold on you,

(07:22):
I can't hear you. You can't hear me.

Speaker 4 (07:26):
I can't hear you. Hold on, but okay, hold on,
I hear nothing. I can't hear you. Can you hear me?

Speaker 3 (07:34):
I hear you? Yeah?

Speaker 4 (07:36):
I can't hear you.

Speaker 3 (07:39):
Oh no, why can't? If anybody can anybody hear me? Am?
I can you can you? Can you hear me? Can
somebody tell me if you can hear me or not?

Speaker 2 (08:00):
Oh?

Speaker 3 (08:00):
Man, don't tell me. They can't hear me. I haven't
hold on. Hold on testing testing, Yeah they should. Nobody

(08:26):
can anybody? All right? Yeah, so you do? Can you?
Can you you hear me? Thank you, Kara. I appreciate that. Yes,
we can hear you. Thank you. He had me worried
for a second there. I thought I was yapping away
and nobody can hear me? Yeah? Can you hear me now?

Speaker 4 (08:48):
All right?

Speaker 1 (08:48):
Yeah? Yeah?

Speaker 3 (08:48):
Yeah?

Speaker 4 (08:49):
You no difficulties beyond thinking as will not be performing
with us. You have me worried for that.

Speaker 3 (08:59):
When you say couldn't hear me? I had to ask.

Speaker 4 (09:01):
Not not not not not not. I knew what it was.
It was like you know what I'm saying, Like like
I totally forgot that I had a Bluetooth typhone on,
Like yeah, yeah, you know what I mean. So look,
if you hear like, you know, child things going on
in the background, you know, my little beautiful toddlers up

(09:23):
right now? Oh yeah, man, So like you know, like
if you hear Miss Rachel and stuff, you already.

Speaker 3 (09:30):
Know mm hmmm. So real quick, just to recap what
I was talking about because you didn't hear what I said.
I was talking about how first responders meaning police, firemen,
and and e ms got the most stressful jobs bro
deal with people with mental health. They got some of

(09:52):
the new training.

Speaker 4 (09:55):
I think, yo, yo, I think that. I think you know,
I'm saying police department at least training the most because
it's like because like you know what like like some
of the like police shootings and stuff. You know what
I'm saying, it's due to like mental health, Like you
know what I'm saying, like God suicidal, so your system
you see what I mean. Yeah, it's like yo, you

(10:16):
know what? All right? So perfect example, I was going
through a dark time, right before my son was born,
and and like like yo, I was like so depressed.
I wasn't even sleeping, Like yo, I kept on taking
town on PMS to sleep and and like and like

(10:36):
my body got so adjusted to the town no PMS,
like I couldn't sleep no more. So then you know
what I'm saying, Like I'll have like these days where
I was like these nights where I still awake like
non stop. And it got to the point where like
me being so tired, I started like you know, hearing
voices saying no, kill yourself. You know what I'm saying.

(10:58):
But like it was you know what I'm saying, Like
like you know, like I was just like a loosening right,
and all I wanted to do was sleep.

Speaker 3 (11:07):
So like.

Speaker 4 (11:09):
I took you know what I'm saying, I took more
time off PMS, and like I pretty much you know
what I'm saying, Like one so like one of those
like like yo, if you take if we take like
enough to down know PMS, bro, you'll be feeling like
a zombie.

Speaker 3 (11:22):
Yeah know what I mean? Mm hmm.

Speaker 4 (11:25):
So I walked out, you know what I'm saying. I
walked down my house with a knife in my hand
and like walking like you know, cops came or whatever,
like like everything was like sketchy and stuff like like
you know, and you know the cops where we lived at,
you know, like they knew who I was because you know,
with the little group you know what I'm saying, little
group that was chill with right right right you know,

(11:47):
so mhm, you know, like I know some of them
were you know what I'm saying, I wanted to look
off a shot because I was. I was toughing mad,
you know what I'm saying, mad jump to them. But
there was one cop that my mom knew and don't
he was going My mom knew him is because his sister,
God bless a beautiful soul was my mom's coworker, so

(12:09):
he knew me in a way, right, he got this
passive scene or whatever, like you know, like, Bro, I was,
I was on the edge, you know what I'm saying,
because because like I was saying that yo, you know
what you know, like suicide by cop, you know what
I'm saying. Like I was even saying right like I
watched I'll just shoot I'm gonna do you know, Like

(12:30):
I was so out of it, bro, I'm saying so
depressed and I don't even know why, you know, m hm,
and this cop you know what I'm saying, you know,
like that's my mom's friends now, you know. He talked
me down and then I was like I snapped out
of it. I was like, all right, I'm going home.
He's like, no, you can't. He's like, listen, you either

(12:52):
go to jail or go to the hospital. One or two.
I was like, I can't let my mom know I'm
bugging out. Right, It's like, yo, either it's ways she's
gonna find out, get the jail or the hospital.

Speaker 3 (13:01):
Shoot. Yeah.

Speaker 4 (13:03):
So I was like, all right, you know what, I
go to the hospital, you know, like a right, I'm here,
dazed out, signing some paperwork or whatever. Right esco up
to the second floor, right, and once I heard that
door close, I'm here trying to sneak out those magnets.

Speaker 3 (13:21):
I was like, no, yeah, once you're in there, like yo, I.

Speaker 4 (13:25):
Was like yo, yo, bro, I started like wilding. I
started wilding in there, right to the point where like
they have to hit me with a tranquilizer and put
me in a straight jack in the seclusion room. You
know what, I'm saying. Yeah, So it's like it's like, yo,
you know what, some of the cops was ready to shoot,
and then other ones wanted to talk me down, you

(13:46):
know what I'm saying. And the ones that I and
the ones that that knew who you know, that that
that you know new to click, those were the ones.
Those are the ones like, Yo, Yo, chill, bro. You
know what I'm saying, you bugging. You know what I'm saying, Like, Yo,
put you know what I'm saying, put that, you know,
put that thing down. Let's talk about it, because you
know what I'm saying. I remember, I remember, like you

(14:08):
know what I'm saying. Throughout my rant, I was crying
and laughed at the same time, you know what I'm saying.
And I and I kept on saying aswer, yo, life
being worked to shoot, you know what I'm saying, Like
I was really so far gone bro, and yo, you
know what, and I'm thankful to you know what I'm saying.
The cops that thought they were going to shoot, they
didn't shoot because Yo, you know what, they were scared.

(14:30):
You see what I mean, they were scared, you know,
they were scared out what you know what I'm saying,
but like I wasn't because I wanted to. I wanted
to go that night, right No, And so like, yo,
you know what, I have a love you know what
I'm saying. Well, I ain't gonna say I have a
love hate relationship for cops, but I have like a

(14:51):
certain you know what I'm saying, a certain respect and
a certain disdain for them at the same time, Right,
you see what I mean? Because like because like now,
like you know, like I'm older, and they have to
deal with a lot of people. You know what I'm saying.
They see shit that you know, they see stuff that
you know what I mean, like like you know, like
that babies and stuff, you know, like they get close

(15:12):
to that, you know, like that's stressful.

Speaker 1 (15:15):
You know.

Speaker 4 (15:15):
Like listen, I worked the Port Authority and I've seen
people get ran over by trains when I was working there,
you know, people getting hit by trains, and that alone
was stressful for me. So and it's not every dingy
people get hit by trains. These guys gotta deal with homicides.
These guys gotta deal with you know what I'm saying,
mentally the range people you know, like like yo, you

(15:37):
know like like I can kind of understand why they
take the job home with them, but I don't understand
you know what I'm saying, what's these of beating on
your wife? You see what I mean?

Speaker 1 (15:47):
Like? Yo?

Speaker 2 (15:48):
You know what.

Speaker 4 (15:49):
They Yo?

Speaker 1 (15:50):
Yo?

Speaker 4 (15:50):
Yo?

Speaker 1 (15:50):
You know what?

Speaker 4 (15:51):
They need therapy as well, all the for all the
nonsense they go through, especially in the big cities, right,
you know, like a any therapy as well.

Speaker 1 (16:01):
But like.

Speaker 4 (16:03):
Yo, who might have say anything about that?

Speaker 3 (16:07):
Gg?

Speaker 1 (16:07):
Love?

Speaker 3 (16:08):
What's up?

Speaker 1 (16:09):
Hi?

Speaker 2 (16:11):
Hi?

Speaker 1 (16:13):
Reading?

Speaker 3 (16:14):
Oh? Yeah, what's up?

Speaker 1 (16:19):
That much? I came into some hard reality truths. I
guess I don't know what to say.

Speaker 3 (16:29):
Mm hmmm.

Speaker 5 (16:31):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (16:31):
We would just I was just we would just. I
started off with how first responders like police, firemen, E, M,
T and MS and all of them should there should
be more training. There should be more training to deal
with people with mental health.

Speaker 4 (16:46):
But yo, you know what, Yo, I want to give
a shout out to the first responders down to Florida
how they handle that no situation, because you know what,
my daughter lived in Gulf Court and she ain't evacuate.
But thank god, like the flood waters only reached like
two blocks. You know what I'm saying, Like it was
two blocks from her house, so she ain't get flooded
and nothing. But mind she's yo, golf courter is right

(17:08):
there like on the water.

Speaker 3 (17:11):
Yeah, that shit curved a little bit and spared my son.

Speaker 4 (17:17):
Some so yeah and yeah, and it slammed the rightness
of my daughter. Yeah, you know what I'm saying. So
but like, yo, you know what, I'm just thankful that,
you know what I'm saying, Like, like, no, they ain't
sustained no damage or nothing, you know, like the first
but like yo, they said that the first response was
like right after the storm, they were right there, like
within like an hour. You know, everybody was right there,

(17:40):
like National guards and everything. You know what I'm saying,
trying to fish everybody out. They told people down there,
like to stay away from the flood waters because like
the gators and sharks. Gators and sharks, mind you gators
and sharks. You know what I'm saying. Whatever, bulk stricters
are down there and stuff, you know what I mean.
So like so like what do you call it? You know?

(18:03):
Like so like they told him stay out of the
flood waters and whatnot and all that extra stuff and
hold on, man, come on, hey, why are you peting
on the floor, bro? Like the pad is right there,
brother son.

Speaker 3 (18:16):
Hold on man, man, so tz how are you.

Speaker 1 (18:23):
Okay?

Speaker 4 (18:24):
Yo? Yo?

Speaker 6 (18:26):
This dog bro like like you know what I'm saying,
I'm petter. She's she's all excited and she peas, oh boy,
and I'm here just looking at her like the pad
and then she goes to the pad and he's like, yo,
this dog is tarted.

Speaker 1 (18:38):
Bro.

Speaker 4 (18:40):
I love it man, but she's tardant.

Speaker 1 (18:42):
She's uh slow, It's better true.

Speaker 4 (18:50):
Nah, she's the tarded you know what I'm saying, Like like,
you know what, but I love it though, you know
what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (18:57):
Like, so, so, how was how was your How was
your week off? Gg?

Speaker 1 (19:09):
Well it wasn't off, but yes, uh that wasn't anything special.
I'm not I don't do anything that. My life is
pretty boring right now.

Speaker 3 (19:26):
Why is that?

Speaker 1 (19:28):
It's like I basically work and do other things, but
I watch TV. I don't go out a lot. I
mean I I did go to the ASPCA in Harrisburg
with a friend of mine. They were thinking of getting
a cat, and the kiddies are so cute and it's

(19:48):
like so hard to like not want to meet them
and play with them and stuff. We didn't meet any
and I'm grateful for that actually, because they probably would
have tried to just like steal one or something, because like, what's.

Speaker 4 (20:00):
Mike Big the adorable?

Speaker 1 (20:03):
No, don't ruin something beautiful for me. No, we're not
speaking of which I'm not gone. They were doing free
adoptions because they were making space for the animals from
the hurricanes, so they but you still have to pay,

(20:27):
so it is like free adoption fee was but of
course you still have to pay for other things whatever.
But I don't think my friend realized that, and we
wound up leaving, which is good because I was either
just like, oh there's older ones too, they deserve all.
It's just like, oh my god, I can't be in

(20:48):
those places.

Speaker 3 (20:50):
Mm hmm.

Speaker 4 (20:51):
Speaking of which, Mike was making a movie, also going
to having part two storm No, No.

Speaker 3 (21:04):
All right, so real quick? So who who who here
enjoys the fact that they get the day off on
Columbus Day?

Speaker 1 (21:17):
Who gets I don't get off even though it's celebrated. Uh,
most people go to work, except like, I don't think
there's mail.

Speaker 3 (21:28):
Maybe the banks, what'd you say? Dogs?

Speaker 4 (21:33):
Columnize the day.

Speaker 1 (21:35):
You know, Indigenous Day.

Speaker 4 (21:38):
Yeah, that's like.

Speaker 1 (21:41):
Celebrated during the same time. But c g R. Yeah
you tired, tired, had all day? Man?

Speaker 4 (21:55):
Check or drink? I have water.

Speaker 1 (22:02):
I don't have tito.

Speaker 4 (22:03):
Sorry, she's the stuff, sobriety check.

Speaker 1 (22:15):
I'm just tired.

Speaker 3 (22:18):
Right now.

Speaker 4 (22:19):
In her mind, she was like, I swear to drunk.

Speaker 1 (22:21):
I'm not God, I have a long week ahead of me,
you know, not Like, but I don't know what were
we saying now we're talking about Columbus Day. Oh yes,
Indigenous People's Day. I mean, I still don't understand why

(22:42):
we would celebrate Columbus after now knowing more, now that
we're able to educate ourselves and actually no truths that
were with hope from us in school when we originally
learned about Columbus and the Nina Pica and the like. Yeah,

(23:07):
they white watched so much of history because what they
really should have told us was about how many Europeans
actually did go discovering and looking to colonize and brought
all their damn diseases and killed so many freaking native
people they killed like because of this, Like I think

(23:32):
almost a third of populations are more were wiped out
in like in a decade, so like this was more
than colonizing or discovering. This was yeah, it pretty much
was like and it's not a joke at all. And

(23:54):
a lot of these people were enslaved, you know, Like
the reason why there so many slaves back then was
because of sugar. Sugar was like hot commodity to have.
It was like when salt was discovered and all the
uses of salts and also was something that people with

(24:18):
money had. So it's it's I don't know. I got
to go to that museum in DC, the African American
Museum Smithsonian, Uh, and I didn't even really get to
read everything, but just seeing what I saw and read

(24:40):
it just like really discussed me, like how many countries
took slaves basically, and you know the way those people
were treated, they were treated like they were people. They
were basically used women, men, and children. They were proud

(25:01):
of it. It was like a very disgraceful time to me,
Like in my mind, it is not a time to
be proud of. So it's like, so why are we
proud of? For me, a holiday is someone we should
be proud of, Like I am proud of Martin Luther King,

(25:22):
Junior and what he was able to accomplish and do
it in the time that he was here before he
was taken from us. And that's a holiday I wanna
you know. And of course I love our commercial holidays
because they don't in facts, they are celebrating a specific person.
I mean, of course for the Christmas lovers who thinks

(25:44):
it's about Jesus. But like basically there is like I
don't know. You tell me bag Si yo yo.

Speaker 2 (25:57):
You know what.

Speaker 4 (26:00):
Did you when you were in the Smithsonian did you
see about sarah apartment? You ever heard of Sarah apartment?

Speaker 1 (26:09):
So you know what I saw and heard of many
memes that day and I don't remember specific There's.

Speaker 3 (26:16):
Like, wow, I think that. Do you not remember anything?

Speaker 1 (26:21):
Yeah? No, While I was going through there, uh, I
was just trying to process shit.

Speaker 4 (26:28):
So I think trying to process words. Right now it
sounds like, yeah.

Speaker 1 (26:32):
Well I was, No, I'm not. I haven't had to
drink a really long time. Actually that to the point
like I I could have like a drink and I
would be like slashed because I haven't drank in that long.

Speaker 4 (26:49):
But you know what, put it this way right, and
Coleon could tell you I would drink and drive. I
would drink like but there with no problem. No, you
know what I'm saying now, Like like my mom gave
me all a couple like a couple of months ago.
Like my Mom's like, oh, try this ice cream. I

(27:10):
tried it, and I'm like, yeah, you know what I'm
saying that, Yo, that's how you know. That's how long
it's been since since I since I, Like, you don't
say I had anything, So I forbid if I also
drink something right now, I will be you know what
I'm saying right because the.

Speaker 1 (27:28):
Tolerance is so low. Like I think about like in
my twenties and my thirties, how I would drink and
I would go out drinking and stuff like that, and
what I guess I was able to handle compared to now. Man,
there's no way, like I'm the cheapest deep because like

(27:50):
there's just no way that I can drink the way
I could say we used to drink, because I feel
like there was a time where many of us kind
of would drink. You would just get fucked up drunk
together like and have fun and hopefully get home safe

(28:10):
in one piece. You know. But that was like for
me anyway, the most. I mean, I know people who
were like it shit crazy with drugs and stuff like that,
but I would not venture into that. But still like
there's a big difference between what we were able to

(28:30):
do and like what the tolerance level today is. It's
like a sippet and I would be like this, So
this is how you know I'm fucking tired, Okay, because
I te like I'm drunk apparently, and I haven't had
a drinker in a long time. I actually wouldn't mind

(28:52):
having a martini.

Speaker 3 (28:53):
You know that that John Lick was almost specially the
until History of Latinos. Have you heard that? Sound like
he has a PBS special called The Untold History of Latinos?

Speaker 1 (29:08):
Didn't he also? Was it a movie or a documentary
or something that he did that was all that? This show?
It was like what the one man show type thing.
There was one that he did. I think he told
the story of Latinos a specific part or something. I

(29:30):
don't remember. I don't even think I saw that.

Speaker 3 (29:34):
The one, the one that that's the newer one is
a PBS special.

Speaker 1 (29:38):
It's really good PBS.

Speaker 3 (29:40):
Yeah, good old PBS.

Speaker 1 (29:42):
Right.

Speaker 3 (29:43):
But yeah, so so let's what is this I don't
know what that was going on with my all right. Anyway,
you know, I was I was scoping out some some

(30:05):
topics and stuff and I came across I came across.
I was just gone, oh no, I came across.

Speaker 1 (30:15):
This.

Speaker 3 (30:16):
I want to know if you know this. This woman
is TG hold on, Hey, yeah, that's all right. Somebody
put me up on this lady called what's her name?
Hold on? Let me see. Her name is Kaylee Cresta.

Speaker 1 (30:36):
I don't know.

Speaker 3 (30:38):
You don't know where that is the c A Y
l E E c r E s t A.

Speaker 1 (30:48):
Okay, yeah, And.

Speaker 3 (30:54):
She she speaks, She speaks a lot about relationships and
men and women. And but she she's really good. She's
really good. I watched a couple of her videos. They
make a lot of sense. Some of them.

Speaker 4 (31:11):
Okay, sense.

Speaker 1 (31:16):
Nonsense. I'll tell you if it's nonsense.

Speaker 3 (31:20):
And then there's also a video out there of men
trying out what it feels like to have menstrual cramps.
There's they put these probes on them or whatever.

Speaker 1 (31:36):
No, it's not menstrual cramps. It's for them to feel
what labor, no dilation, no, no, no.

Speaker 3 (31:45):
What I'm looking at it says. It says menstrual cramps.
They put to they put a woman, they connect the
woman to it and a man, and what they do
is they start upping up the pain tolerance level. And
a woman is like, oh, yeah, that's normal for me.

Speaker 1 (31:59):
And yes, so I'll explain why you will say labor
because it's actually dilating. Uh, that's what cramping is. It's dilating.
The whole dilating process is when the cervix goes from
being like that and then becomes like that for the

(32:22):
head to come out, okay, stretches and stuff, and the
cramping is the dilating part that is this like compared
to menstrual cramps. So when a woman puts it on her,
for her, it feels like menstrual cramps, which is what

(32:42):
we're used to. When a man puts that on, bitch,
that's what it feels like to have a menstrual cram.
So good, what that shit hurts? Don't talk to me
about pain anymore because now you.

Speaker 4 (32:55):
Know, Hey, look you know what.

Speaker 1 (32:59):
Y'all get crying like when you get sick, like you're dying.

Speaker 4 (33:03):
Hey, look you know what, First off, I had kindystones,
So that's okay, wait, wait, wait.

Speaker 1 (33:10):
Hold on, wait, wait, hold over, wait wait you know
it's painful.

Speaker 4 (33:12):
Yo, hold on, hold on, let me finish, Let me finish.
You know what I'm saying, and that you know what
I'm saying, just like push you know what I'm saying.
Pushing the stone out was like the most painful, the
most painful, violate. I felt violated, right, no, dead ass,
you know what I'm saying, Like I really felt like
you know what I'm saying, My body violated me. You

(33:33):
know what I'm saying. And come to find out, you
know what I'm saying, that's only a tenth of what
you know what I'm saying. A woman has to go
through to push out of a pound eight to ten
pound baby seven to ten pounds.

Speaker 1 (33:46):
Again, that's a different pain point, you.

Speaker 4 (33:49):
Know, point ten percent. You know what I'm saying. So
like if so like I'm so, I'm here like you
know what I'm saying, you know what I'm saying, trying
to piss the stone out, grasping the air, but I
was streaming, like you know what I'm saying, tears of
my eyes just to pass something that's like just like
you know what I'm saying three millimeters. At that three millimeters,
you know, so the pain was ridiculous, you know what

(34:10):
I'm saying, Like it went from my kidney all the
way to my wreath. So if I'm here crying about that,
I can't, Yo, I could imagine what a woman goes to, yo,
like you know what, No, no, yeah, but still you
know what I'm saying, But that's just this is.

Speaker 1 (34:29):
The thing, like that tiny little thing. And I get
what you're saying. You're trying to make like a comparison
and pain, like that's a lot of pain. I get that,
but you also have to figure are so tiny.

Speaker 4 (34:43):
But but you know what I'm giving. But what I'm
trying to say is I'm giving women women in general,
like their proper dude because you know what, because because yo,
you know what, man like that pain was the worst
man And mind you mind you under morphine when that happened.
You know what I'm saying, Like they gave me a

(35:04):
shot of morphine and I piano trying, you know what
I'm saying, trying to fish out the stone right, and
the morphine was kicking in because I was like, hoh, ship,
I could see why, you know what, I'm saying, I
can see why there's you know, I'm saying, yeah, man
like look man like I said, I felt fine.

Speaker 1 (35:25):
Yeah, not the same, but I get it. But two
like that is pap. There are things though they're super
freaking painful, like gunshot wounds I'm sure are very painful,
trying to compare with anything, but like you know, there's
a lot of things out there that the body. And

(35:47):
think about it, the body could take a lot of
things too, like if you give it time.

Speaker 4 (35:52):
To heal, Like the body pushes out the bullet.

Speaker 1 (35:55):
It's interesting what it what our bodies, How our bodies
can regenerate in a way, you know, like it's not
a superhero power, but it sort of is in some ways.
Like it's pretty cool what our human bodies can do
on their own, given obviously little nutches of medical health.

Speaker 4 (36:22):
Right, yeah, what's called the body pushes out the bullet
like over time, I.

Speaker 1 (36:29):
Mean, depending where it is. Sometimes it just stays where
it is and scar tissue is around it or whatever.
But yeah, well the body knows when an object doesn't belong,
so like a certain times it will kind of like
dispense whatever's out there. But unfortunately that doesn't happen with everything?

(36:50):
Could you imagine if that shit did?

Speaker 2 (36:52):
Though?

Speaker 1 (36:52):
Like everyone in that was just coming out your arm?
What is that for me? Like all of a sudden
coming out of your cheek? Like why.

Speaker 4 (37:10):
Work Gere white?

Speaker 3 (37:12):
Get white white?

Speaker 1 (37:15):
Oh? That would be weird.

Speaker 3 (37:19):
But yeah, So who who was Who was your your
go to drinking partner as a in your twenties or
whenever you started drinking? Who was the one person that
if every time was like we're gonna drink, We're gonna drink,
We're gonna drink.

Speaker 1 (37:36):
It wasn't just one person, that's the thing. It was
a bunch of girls. Uh. And I had different groups
of friends. So I have friends that lived like in downtown.
I had friends that were from Hudson County, you were
from Bergen County mm hmm, or people who like lived

(38:00):
in Jessey City or whatever. And we would meet up
and Hoboken and back then we would go to like
trying to think of the name of the place base
like was it Bahama Mama's.

Speaker 3 (38:10):
Or Cadillac Bar Boo boos?

Speaker 1 (38:13):
Yeah, those places we would go to because they always
had like those two dollars shots or whatever, and the
what else the tube shots I remember, and they had
the like iced teas that were liquor.

Speaker 4 (38:31):
Like d.

Speaker 1 (38:34):
No, they were in a bottle, but it was like
alcohol iced tea, twisted tea, like a twisted tea. But
I don't know if that that was the brands that
always had it. I don't know, I gotta look it up.
But yeah, I would look forward to that. But then

(38:56):
that died quick though, like I feel like I only
did that for a little bit, and then we started
going to like an Elks lodge. So yeah, I had
a mix. We called out little like old people, not
because we wanted to, because they were just there and
just a group of people. But yeah, when I would

(39:17):
go out and then when I would drink at my
house at that time, my boyfriends, my brother lived and
I lived together, so my brother's friends would come over,
our friends would come over, and we had a lot
of mutual friends. Uh so yeah, that was just crazy.
We would drink every weekend like like it was our

(39:40):
job to drink, and then we were were all of
the days we weren't working, Like it's just crazy. And
today I would like get sick, like even smelling or
thinking about what I was drinking and how much I
was drinking. We were like, oh, that's gross. Like I

(40:02):
don't think I could or would want to be drunk
anymore because the hangover is so bad that it's just
like it's like not not worth it.

Speaker 4 (40:15):
It's not worth those times, those times like I'll wake
up drunk and like just go right to the fridge.
You know what I'm saying, because like I knew I
was hungover, right, I'll go right to the fridge, pop
open and still reserved. Yeah, but you know what I'm saying.
For the morning, drink that. You know what I'm saying,
and go to work.

Speaker 1 (40:32):
Right, The best way to the cure of the hangover
is to drink again. You're you're kind of like it's
almost like you're you're down and that you need more
of the downer to get you up. It's freaking crazy.
But you know what else works? Like lots of water. Uh.

(40:55):
Like I remember always taking Advila or whatever and something
great see like either like I would go to Spa diner.

Speaker 3 (41:05):
Was the greatest.

Speaker 1 (41:09):
Uh. Always love their cheese, workers bacon, cheese, whatever it was.
They would throw it down and quick. I'm so sad
when I heard they closed that place. I was like, no, man.

Speaker 4 (41:22):
Like yo, you know what, COVID killed the spot. Man
like COVID kill a lot of diamonds, man, cod.

Speaker 1 (41:30):
People would just wor really going out.

Speaker 4 (41:33):
I mean it was a one time. I was can
tell you, like, yo, what you're doing around here? As
I'm bored. There's no there's no way, there's no way
that you're gonna tell like you know, I'm saying, you're
gonna tell me I have to be inside. I said,
I don't listen to orders. Bro, you know how I
feel about that. You ain't gonna tell me what to do.

(41:55):
I'm gonna be outside. And that I was outside every day, Bro,
I couldn't during the COVID on lockdown, I couldn't take it. Man.
I felt like I was in I felt like I
was a prison in my own house.

Speaker 1 (42:08):
Yeah, well most of us did, like it was.

Speaker 4 (42:13):
That's what it was.

Speaker 1 (42:14):
Unfortunately for quite some time.

Speaker 4 (42:17):
You know what, I didn't listen I did what of
course you didn't, You're horrible. I did what I want.
And guess what I ain't catch I ain't catch COVID.

Speaker 1 (42:27):
Then it don't matter. You probably spread it.

Speaker 4 (42:31):
No, no, no, no, no, you know what. You know what,
I call it COVID. You know what I call it COVID?
I called you know, I called COVID, right because what
journal crazy? I was drinking like crazy journ the whole lockdown,
Like you know what, don't you find the weird that
they closed everything down but the liquor store.

Speaker 1 (42:51):
No, people have addictions and that is a legal addiction
to have. Just as cigarettes, every wah wah was open,
every sheet probably was. Like all the places that were
open twenty four hours, that would have cigarettes, that would
have beer, that have alcohol are always going to be open.

(43:16):
So like yeah, so like so there are people who
would die if they didn't drink.

Speaker 4 (43:24):
So yo, you know what, Like during the COVID, you
know what I'm saying. I used to be like, yo,
you know what, alcohol kills germs?

Speaker 1 (43:31):
And yeah, okay, yeah no it doesn't. The crazy thing
is that, yes, alcohol can actually kill yours on the surface,
but alcohol actually makes your uh what's.

Speaker 4 (43:46):
It called immune system?

Speaker 1 (43:49):
Your immune sys suppress your immune system so that you
do get whatever is out there, and you are vulnerable
actually and you are not at your best to you
know what, John, whatever bacteria comes into you. This is
why you shouldn't be sucking them dirty bitches when you're
drunk out there, guys, because.

Speaker 4 (44:15):
Well, you know what, shut this out, right. So I
caught COVID like like probably like a year later, you know,
And that was after and I caught it back too,
because not chill bro. You know what I'm saying, Like,
not chill bro. You know what I caught COVID went on?

Speaker 1 (44:33):
Is that okay with that rumor or lie going around?

Speaker 2 (44:39):
You know what?

Speaker 4 (44:39):
Like I caught COVID when when I stopped drinking actually
you know what I'm saying, Like I was like, yo,
you know what, like I try to, like, you know,
turn my life around, vivid.

Speaker 2 (44:49):
And.

Speaker 4 (44:51):
I started coughing, like I actually went to church. Yeah,
I go to church, right, and like the following week,
I started coughing out. And I remember it was on
a Friday. I just you know, like I had a
cough that I couldn't I couldn't stopped. I couldn't stop coughing.
And my boy Jay, I'm in the car with him
and he was like, COVID, I said, you don't play,
stop playing like that, right. So then Saturday, right, I remember,

(45:12):
I told her to call Leon and I was coughing
cough and coffee, and he called it out. He was like,
he's like, bro, it's not like you catch it COVID.
I was like yo. I was like, yo, do we
putting that hex on me? Right? That Sunday I woke up.
You know, I was called for so much that I
felt like I was doing an app. You know what
I'm saying. I was working out my abs. That's how
much I was coughing, right, and like I just felt like,

(45:34):
you know, like fatigued out. I'm like, damn, I just
feel tired, like I just want to sleep right. And
I remember it was a Monday. I woke up that Monday,
and you know, I felt like death. I was coughing NonStop, right,
and I remember, you know what I'm saying, that's my
parents house. Like my mom she was like, maybe you
should call the doctor. I'm like, yeah, I'm about to

(45:55):
call him. So I called the VA right and said, hey,
you want me to come in. They're like, hell no,
you know what I'm saying, go right to the emergency room.
So I was like, all right, bet right, I take
my fever right, I'm at a hundred. I'm like, oh yeah,
you know what I'm sick with something. I go take
a shower, right, and this you know this how COVID?

(46:15):
This how bad COVID Like really messing me up? Because
I come off the shower, right, I'm throw on some
shorts and then I throw on like mind you, this
was in December, right, I throw on, like you know,
my sweats and a hoodie. I want to go through
all my timberlance right now, mind you. I'm sitting in
the living room. I throw all my timberlands and I
fell asleep with one timberland on.

Speaker 3 (46:34):
Right.

Speaker 4 (46:35):
It was like around twelve o'clock. I was supposed to
I was supposed to be in then er by at
least like twelve thirty. Right, I wake up and I'm
feeling worse. I'm like, yo, i gotta go bro because
i feel like I feel like I'm dying.

Speaker 1 (46:45):
Liv What is the point of you bringing up you
having COVID?

Speaker 4 (46:50):
Yo, I don't know. I just want to talk about
that that it was funny.

Speaker 1 (46:53):
You've shared this story before. I don't want to go
back to the past. Yes, and COVID was like a
hard marble time and it's still around and people still
get it.

Speaker 3 (47:04):
So I want to I want to talk about what
I want to talk about. Yes, or are some of
our names under our names?

Speaker 1 (47:14):
I don't even know what I put.

Speaker 3 (47:16):
Yeah, that's why I want to ask you what does
yours mean?

Speaker 1 (47:21):
You know how people say, like what did I put
lover to to? Yes? You know how they say I'm
a lover not a fighter. Well that's what I'm saying, Like,
I'm a lover to most people, but you know, don't

(47:43):
f around and find out.

Speaker 3 (47:47):
Shit.

Speaker 1 (47:48):
I couldn't think of anything in the moment, So that's
what we are.

Speaker 3 (47:53):
Oh shit.

Speaker 1 (47:54):
Yeah, I was like, I'm not trying to be creative
right now, and I can never beat them anyways, So
on my phone it's like small and then I would
literally need to put readers on right now just to
be able to read that or get far. Yeah, I
don't have a laptop. My laptop is not usable for that.

(48:19):
Remember that ship. I know New Jersey is not that cluse,
but I will get there because I need to. I
gotta take care of that. But besides that, that's what
you wanted to bring up, was the name that was

(48:39):
the topic. That's right, I'm a lover to most most
people unless you unless you get right, and I tell
you fuck around and find out, and some people will
try to fuck around and find out real quick. Yeah,
because they forget, they forget that I'm from good old Jersey.

(49:01):
Then I'm a Jersey girl.

Speaker 4 (49:04):
Yeah what like like like it's funny that you say that, man,
because we have that reputations just being rude, like like
you know, like like yo, you know what like if
you go out of state, especially down south, right, they
say that, you know, New York and New Jersey people.
Sounds not that we're aggrested, it's just that everything moves

(49:27):
quick up here, yeah, everything around.

Speaker 1 (49:32):
And then the on the West coast is the same thing.
It's pretty slow, laid back, and we're very fast paced.
I mean, if you're gonna live in a city that
never sleeps and it's constantly on the go and things
are always happening, then you're not going to be like
laid back and chill like right when everybody's on the

(49:53):
girl all the time, your as is gonna be left behind,
like all right.

Speaker 3 (49:58):
Knowing your by that that's the ship is shit. It's
moving so fast even time. Everything is moving so fucking
fast these days.

Speaker 1 (50:07):
Man, doesn't matter if you're having fun, or you're bored
at work or you're having time. It ss like time
is going and then it's like but before I know it,
I'm like, this weekend's coming. I've been waiting for Philly
Fat Com this whole time. Now it's coming. I'm not ready,
like at all for it. So I'm just like, God, damn,

(50:29):
what am I doing? Because I don't have much time left?

Speaker 3 (50:32):
When is it?

Speaker 5 (50:34):
It is?

Speaker 1 (50:34):
It says Friday night. Technically it's Saturday all day Saturday.
Then there's a burlesque costume party, party whatever extravaganza at
eight o'clock, and then Sunday in the mid morning is

(50:56):
the clothing swap. So that's when people their own clothing
that they don't want stuff in there. You're only last
from like twenty pieces or something, and then you put
them out on the tables and then you pick out
the ship that you see you like, that fits you
where that works for you when you take it. I
actually got some bomb ass dresses that way.

Speaker 3 (51:17):
Okay, yeah, I've I don't know. It's it's interesting how
how how it's set up, because I know you have
to do what you do to get there, to get
in there, and I mean I don't know how much
it costs is to get in there.

Speaker 1 (51:37):
Well, I want a scholarship ticket to go, but like
a VIP ticket was like three hundred. I think, wow,
but this is like three days' worth of things that
you're getting as well though, And with the VIP you
also get like a bunch of swag and stuff that
they give you, and you get to meet the people

(52:01):
the panel, like the people who are coming and talking,
like you actually get to have lunch with them in
a different room or whatever. I don't know that's how
they did last year anyway. But with my tickets, just
an all access so I just get to go to
all the things, but all together. Like I think, yeah,
we're talking almost like three hundred dollars for all.

Speaker 3 (52:24):
Time you're staying in Philly. You're not going back and forth.

Speaker 1 (52:28):
So I reserved a room under their like blocked thing.
But I thought I was gonna be going with someone
or someone was coming with me, so it was gonna
be splitting the costs. But now I can't afford that.
It's like one hundred and something dollars on night, and
I'm saying Friday is shunt to Sunday. I'm like I
don't even think I can really do that. And it's

(52:50):
thirty nine dollars a data park in their parking lot
a hotel. I was like, Yo, Philly, that is rude
as shit, Like how up are you going to have
a parking lot in your hotel and charge me to

(53:11):
keep my car parked on a lot that you have?

Speaker 3 (53:15):
And your room already.

Speaker 1 (53:19):
A night? You're paying a night and it's not like
they're giving you fucking anything or have anything that special.
If it is, they're not fucking making me an omelet. Okay,
it's gonna be some probably continental bullshit that is most
places give you. Or are they up it with some

(53:39):
cereal I don't know, like what silly corn flakes? Always
they got them corn flakes. But yeah, so I'm rethinking
the accommodations because I'm just like, that's just insanely expensive.

(54:03):
So worst case scenario, I will just go down Saturday
morning and stay the whole day at the event and
maybe go to the evening thing but not get dressed
up for it and just go home after that and
miss the clothing swap. But that's the thing, like I

(54:24):
wanted to do it at all. I want to do
the welcome party. Then I want to go to the
things and then you know, so I have to see
I might if I can actually get rid of this reservation,
maybe find an airbnb that's not too far that has
parking on the street or something, because the thing is

(54:45):
too like, I don't know where Philly this is. There
are some shady parts of Philly. I don't know where
I'm going to be, you know what I'm saying. No,
that's not true, and I just got to make sure,
like I'm so nearby wherever this the place is too
so I don't know. I'm trying. I got to really

(55:08):
figure that out right now. I think it's stressing me.
So that's also making me tired because I'm just like,
can I go? You know, I have a ticket. I
just need to figure out where to stay.

Speaker 3 (55:24):
So right, that's that's crazy. Thirty nine dollars a parking
car in a place.

Speaker 1 (55:30):
Where you're in the car, And I'm thinking, like, if
I if I get there Friday nights, they're gonna charge
me thirty nine dollars to keep my car overnight or
something like. That's what I'm thinking, And I'd be like, oh, well,
it's staying overnight like what, like, oh my god, how

(55:50):
do they.

Speaker 3 (55:51):
How do they expect people to stay at that place?

Speaker 1 (55:56):
I don't get that whole paper. Parking in a park.

Speaker 3 (56:00):
Now that's that bullshit. Yeah yeah, imagine that.

Speaker 1 (56:07):
Yeah what hotel wasn't it's a Hilton and Express I think,
or Holiday and Express. I don't know. I can't go
and check puts it out, but either way it doesn't matter.
It's ridiculous because actually, when uh, when I was in
Philly in April for the our Hobbie and Eyes immigration

(56:33):
interview that we had, he uh, he got a hotel,
but it was on a site, a third party site,
not like the hotel site. He wound up getting it cheaper,
and because of how he did it, we didn't have
to pay for parking if we would have went through

(56:54):
the thing, because we found out after the fact. They
were like, oh, you were supposed to pay for parking,
and we were like, oh supposed to. Oh well then
like what the hell is that? Like, I'm not paying
a parking your want? That makes no damn sssity. It's
not like you have a security guard. It's not like
it's heated. It's not like I need a key to

(57:16):
get into the park. Any fucking body can park there.
It's so weird. I'm just like, this is just I.

Speaker 3 (57:25):
Can't damn, that's fucked up.

Speaker 1 (57:31):
That's fine, man, Philly, You're you're making us upset.

Speaker 4 (57:37):
Now, what's call it? Did anybody see that video of
that Baltimore Raven fan beating the dogs? Shout out the
mom washing? Yeah, all right, you know what the dude
name is, Jackie Tallis. He worked for the shirt he worked.
He worked his work for an insurance company. Social media,

(58:01):
you know what I'm saying, made sure that he ain't
have a job. Social media made sure that, you know
what I'm saying. His mom and his girlfriend found out
social media. Man, hey, man, you know what social media stated.

Speaker 3 (58:13):
Once the video came out, they found.

Speaker 4 (58:17):
Oh man, yo, you know what this dude I think
had to restrain in order because he placed his balls
on a special needs person's play. Like he's a disgusting character.
He's a disgusting character. Right, And this dude was working
at an insurance firm, So you know what I'm saying, Like,

(58:38):
and like if you went on this Facebook page, right,
you know, like like he's there, like you know, like, oh,
you know whatever, right, but you see the video and
you could tell that he grew up entitled all his life.
You know what I'm saying. So the action that he pulled, right, Yeah,

(59:00):
it's the guys that yeah, you know like like and
and and what messages me up is like like it was,
it was basically for no apparent reason whatsoever, right like
the Ravens.

Speaker 3 (59:14):
The Ravens.

Speaker 4 (59:15):
The Ravens beat the the Ravens beat the Commanders. You
know what I'm saying, So like, what do you what
do you like knocking these dudes out for? Man? Like,
you know what I'm saying. One, you know what I'm
saying that what's wrong.

Speaker 1 (59:25):
With you people talking ship? Who knows? You know, you don't.

Speaker 4 (59:32):
Just walking down the street, just walking down the streets
minding their own business, minding own business man like like like, yo,
you know.

Speaker 1 (59:40):
What, it's a guy who just came up any random person.
So they were just having a moment that person was.

Speaker 4 (59:49):
They were playing a knockout game. He was playing a
knockout game, you know.

Speaker 3 (59:55):
But like, now you know what I'm saying, So let
me tell you. Let me tell you, but.

Speaker 4 (59:58):
Hold on real quick, now you know what I'm saying.
Social media knocked them out of his job, you know,
because like, yo, you know what the you know what
I'm saying, like that video reached there, I'm saying, his boss.

Speaker 1 (01:00:11):
Play games find that one.

Speaker 4 (01:00:14):
Yeah, you know. See, that's why you gotta be careful
what you do out here, man like, like you know.

Speaker 1 (01:00:22):
It's not it's not like when we were young in
our twenties and could get away with doing things because
there weren't cameras unless and if there was a cameras,
you could see the camera. It's like, actually big ass camera.
It wasn't some phone that they're holding and ship we
we knew we were being recording. It was like either

(01:00:44):
plugged in the batteries were bigger than the camera itself, so.

Speaker 4 (01:00:49):
You know, for real, you know, like the cameras look
like jump ropes for real.

Speaker 1 (01:00:59):
Especially when like to go into the VDR the TV.
It's just so you can gook back or play it
or the ones that you had that the it was
different and you had to put it in another cassette
thing to play it. Oh my god, we're talking. We're
I'm aging myself. But yeah, they're so many like videos.

Speaker 3 (01:01:22):
Actually, the eight millimeters cassettes that there was this big dada.
You had to put them into the vhs CA set
with the little and then put it in the VCR.
I remember, right, I actually have a couple of eight
millimeters cassettes. There was some stuff on it.

Speaker 4 (01:01:37):
Man, let me tell you what beta.

Speaker 1 (01:01:40):
But that's the thing, like even if you did stupid ship,
like there's one copy, it can be destroyed and that's it,
you know what I'm saying, Like there isn't a million,
Like you deleted the video on the internet. Guess what,
too late, some one already screenshot it. It's already somewhere else.

(01:02:03):
It's been downloaded, it's been open saved. You're all over
the place forever. That's the scary thing about the Internet.
And like the thing that we're lucky we didn't have
to go through when we were kind of growing up
during that time where it was kind of pivotal when
you're an adult, like you're doing stupid shit and you

(01:02:23):
know it. We knew we were doing stupid shit, but
it was also a time to be like, hey, are
you gonna learn and grow from this or are you
gonna keep being an idiot? Right Basically now, I'm scared
if any of like if we have phones with cameras
in and videos. Oh bad stuff.

Speaker 3 (01:02:44):
Yeah, terrible, terrible, terrible And yet.

Speaker 1 (01:02:52):
And I think too, like bullying and stuff like that
was different as well then because it was more in
per person and it's kind of stayed in person, or
if they called you, it was on a phone. It
wasn't like you were on your phone on your page
and someone sending you DM. So you have random strangers

(01:03:15):
saying things to you or putting nasty comments on things,
or like you know, everyone being a keyboard warrior on
other people's ship. Like it's just crazy today, like what
the internet has become from us dialing in to get
on AOL to read email and chat, you know, because

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that's what we could do.

Speaker 4 (01:03:40):
Yo. Think about the funny thing about dialogue is God
forbid and your mom and dad picked the phone, get it.
You're like, yo, what are you doing? See you that

(01:04:01):
AOL stuff?

Speaker 1 (01:04:02):
Me?

Speaker 4 (01:04:02):
I want a lot to go pirate music?

Speaker 1 (01:04:05):
We get everyone did that too, nas.

Speaker 4 (01:04:10):
Download the virus of Bill Clinton on it? Oh god,
the virus is yo, you knew what it was. Virus right,
And you're like, oh man, hell you know what I got?
Clean out this computer?

Speaker 1 (01:04:32):
But crazy times, and now it has gone too far,
I think, and I think that they've even said it
in documentaries and the creators of the thing things of
Facebook have even said that children should not be on
social media or really like on their phones doing things

(01:04:54):
they just should not. There's so many predators out there, Like, oh,
but I don't know, it's so easy to pretend to
be someone online than it is in real like in
real life, in real person. You can you.

Speaker 4 (01:05:14):
Mmm, they got Roadblox accounts and everything, these predably. Yeah,
it's crazy, it's disgusting.

Speaker 1 (01:05:24):
I know that they got YouTube videos of guys going
out there trying to catch these people too, But it's
still like, I'm still just like this is oh man,
Like it is a problem. And I just recently watched
a series on what was it Hulu? Yeah, Hulu is

(01:05:46):
called Betrayal. There's a podcast called Betrayal and he did
this show and it was about this woman married to
this man. He has a daughter with her. She has
a daughter and son from a previous marriage when her
daughter was like her oldest was like sixteen. She finds

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that he's pedophile, that he has been looking at all
these photos and delloony photos not only had that, he
had started having videos of her daughter. He wasn't doing
anything to her or with her, he was just videoing
her changing her like up her shirt when she wasn't looking,
or up her skirt when she was like just so

(01:06:33):
it was like her story and like also just the
the fact that she had no clue and no one did,
and like all this other stuff. And he wound up
serving some time in jail, but because he never acted
on it or did anything physically or anything like that,

(01:06:53):
he only got they're like thirteen months in jail or
something like that. Then winds up going for trying to
get parental rights to see his youngest daughter because it's
this biological daughter and stuff like that. So like this
affects the whole family in so many different ways. But
it's just like, holy shit, Like I didn't know where

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the secret was going, you know how they built up
shit in a show, and I was just like, what
are they gonna say? Like what did these guys do?
Like in my mind, I'm like, hey, oh he cheated.
Oh he cheated, that's what happened. I'm like, oh God,
this is worse. This is worse. Finding a folder your
husband's computer filled with child porn and shit is just

(01:07:36):
not okay, Like that's definitely beyond game changer. That is
like changed my life traumatic forever, Like wow, wow, how
do you trust anyone ever? Again?

Speaker 4 (01:07:52):
Don't you think it's past your bedtime?

Speaker 3 (01:07:54):
Uh oh, somebody's in trouble.

Speaker 5 (01:08:00):
Yeah, so crazy crazy all right, So we're gonna go
around the room, okay, having room around the room, and
then I'm gonna ask a question okay, and then we're gonna.

Speaker 1 (01:08:20):
Say good night.

Speaker 3 (01:08:21):
Yeah yeah, because.

Speaker 1 (01:08:25):
My cat is already like on the bed showing me
how comfortable it is, dove.

Speaker 3 (01:08:32):
So let's start with you, yo, give the fans a
show that they should be watching right now.

Speaker 4 (01:08:42):
Damn, I don't even watch TV like that, you know,
but I would say, there's a couple all right, the wire,
that's one rewatch it because like the wire, the wire,
Like watch it.

Speaker 1 (01:09:00):
If you've never seen that ship what.

Speaker 4 (01:09:02):
I'm saying, and if you if you watching, you know what,
we watch it again because you know what, like the
older you get, the more you look at the wires,
the more you're like, wow, you know what, like there's
some things that you missed you called onto it. The Sopranos.
That's another one.

Speaker 1 (01:09:25):
That was too you said too and they're both old.
You got no new ship?

Speaker 4 (01:09:30):
God, bro, Yo, you some stuff for you, yo? You
know what besides that, you know what I'm saying with Thrones,
you know what I mean? Like House of Dragon still old?

Speaker 1 (01:09:41):
Okay? How to dry? All right? Now you're recent.

Speaker 4 (01:09:44):
Like you know, like like you know what, like like
I have to catch up on Power, you know. But
but but but see the problem with Power to me
is that there's no way in hell that this niggas
getting away with so much murder, No way and no
figuring that exactly.

Speaker 1 (01:10:04):
Yo.

Speaker 4 (01:10:05):
You know what, It's unrealistic, you know what I'm saying,
like like yo, you know what and today's age and
today's age.

Speaker 1 (01:10:11):
You're like, no, no, there's just no way this can happen.

Speaker 4 (01:10:15):
Yeah, well, yeah, you know what I'm saying like like
like like, yo, you know what, especially today's age with
all the technology these cops got, you need to tell
me that this little this little kids get away with murder.
I'm like, yo, come on, man, like, like yo, you
know what. Your Power is a great show, don't get
me wrong, but it has a lot of G T
F o h moments.

Speaker 1 (01:10:37):
Isn't that a good Well, there's.

Speaker 4 (01:10:40):
A lot of get the fuck out of here. There's
a lot of get the fuck out of here moments.
And I'm like, that's why I haven't really watched it.

Speaker 1 (01:10:47):
I said, it's not realistic. I can understand that. I
wouldn't be able to get into that way.

Speaker 4 (01:10:55):
Nobody like, you know what I'm saying, tell me what
show is good?

Speaker 1 (01:10:58):
It's you, damn what is calling you? I think, while well,
whatever you like? Fourteen shows there, for the love of god.
Uh hmmm hmm, I'm watching Murders in the Building. Yeah,

(01:11:22):
I recommend I. Well, I'm a huge fan of Steve
Martin and Martin Short, so if you are fans of theirs,
they're definitely golden and amazing in this too. It's good.
It's witty, and it's like a mystery, you know, trying
to figure out who killed whoever in the building and then.

Speaker 4 (01:11:44):
Ship.

Speaker 1 (01:11:45):
It was at the top of a like tip of
my tongue. I was just watching Oh the masd Singer.
I love that freaking show. God, oh my god, I
love but I love music and singing and stuff, so
I think it's fun to try and figure out who
people's voices are. But I tell you, unless they're a

(01:12:05):
very specific person who would to have a specific voice,
I can't figure that ship out. Like some of these
people just sing really good, and I'm like, who the
fuck is that? Like, so I like things where I
don't know and then trying to find out. So I

(01:12:27):
mean I lost my Peacocks subscription. I can ever say
that word right? Yes, and so I can't watch am
I any of my Law and Orders or.

Speaker 4 (01:12:40):
So I gotta figure that out because I see that's
see I have a problem law and Order. You mean
to tell me at the end of the show, my
man's there crying all emotional snitching. You think I'm going
to snitch on myself? You know what I'm saying. If
I committed a homicide. These dudes are like you did
it with with with the with the suspenseful music in

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the background.

Speaker 1 (01:13:02):
Well, sometimes the people are proud. I like, sul.

Speaker 4 (01:13:11):
Hey man, you know what be in real life out
about this? Yeah, we know you did it. Uha, lawyer,
you know what I'm saying, Lawyer.

Speaker 1 (01:13:21):
Sometimes sometimes people on this show, like you know, in
the episode they asked for a boy, which a lot
of people do a ulty person, it's definitely gonna lawyer.
But I'm like, nah, I didn't do that on the.

Speaker 4 (01:13:37):
First Yeah, bro, you know what, you'd be surprised how
many people snitched, you know what I'm saying, just to
get that piece of chicken, Like, hey, you're hungry.

Speaker 1 (01:13:46):
There's a lot of people that are hungry though they.

Speaker 4 (01:13:49):
Don't deserve, and they know, damn well, that's gonna be
the last big back you whole say, like, you know,
damn well, they're here eating is like, yeah, I did
the crime. You know what I'm saying, It wasn't me alone.
I ain't gonna lie, you know what I'm saying. I'm
the one that snitched. But Jamal from down the block
for me, you know what I'm saying, Like he had
the hammer and you know he was letting off shots too.

Speaker 1 (01:14:09):
But you know, I say, look, if I go down,
Jamal's going down to fuck that ship because he's the
one that thought this was a good idea. So no, Javal,
you're going you know what I'm saying, If anything, he
becomes the leader. He's the one that came up with
the whole plan.

Speaker 4 (01:14:28):
I'm just stupid, a long.

Speaker 1 (01:14:31):
Type shit that's what This is what happens when you
watch too much law and order shows because you're like, see,
we know he went wrong already. He didn't wear gloves,
his hair wasn't tied back or anything.

Speaker 4 (01:14:45):
So when he gets we shave your head, you shave you.

Speaker 1 (01:14:48):
Listen, I'm not shaving my hand. It's why you wear
a cap or something and your hair in and you
have gloves or not, and other things too. I can't
share all the secrets because then people are be getting
away with murder.

Speaker 4 (01:15:03):
If not cut your fingerprints with raising the blades, it
may hurt.

Speaker 1 (01:15:11):
You're going too far. Now, You're going too far.

Speaker 4 (01:15:14):
Hey man, you know what I'm saying, all right, so
you know if you really want to thump the cops
to wear boots to you know what I'm saying. Two
sides bigger than your sage shoe like you wear sa
actually I have wear it.

Speaker 1 (01:15:32):
Actually, they would be able to tell with forenasis that
you're wearing shoes that were too big for your feet
because of the impressions of where you step. See. Science
is very smart. So sorry you lose right there. Well, actually,
you know that sounds like some that you're trying.

Speaker 3 (01:15:50):
You know what, you know what?

Speaker 4 (01:15:52):
Then't see.

Speaker 3 (01:15:55):
You.

Speaker 1 (01:15:57):
You gotta come up with a good slogan and then
more like oh ship, and then that's it's all about
miasonable doubt.

Speaker 4 (01:16:05):
You know what, I got the good slogan and the
shoes don't fit. You can suck his dick, remember, like,
who sir, it's too far. We're gonna hold you a contempt.

(01:16:27):
My cousin Benny, The Two Youths. You know, I will
watch that movie right now just because I.

Speaker 1 (01:16:36):
Love what he says that the you two?

Speaker 4 (01:16:39):
What the you? Yeah?

Speaker 3 (01:16:45):
Alright, so.

Speaker 4 (01:16:48):
You know what, get a lawyer, but like, yeah, this
guy's this guy's full of ship.

Speaker 3 (01:16:52):
He's lying.

Speaker 1 (01:16:55):
Like that's the kind of lawyer we want. We gotta
get your prescient Yo, you know what. My cousin's Vinnie
or no one else.

Speaker 4 (01:17:03):
I used to be like, yo, Joe Peshi's my spirit animal.

Speaker 3 (01:17:08):
All right. So one show I just started watching. I
think it's really good. Since eight have you ever heard
of that? What it's called? Sense eight?

Speaker 1 (01:17:22):
Sense eight?

Speaker 4 (01:17:25):
What's it about?

Speaker 3 (01:17:27):
So it's it's weird. It's a really weird show, but
it's getting really really good. I mean it's about these
eight people from around the world. They're connected somehow. I
haven't gotten to how they're connected yet. I started watching it.
It's on Netflix. Yeah, I think I'm seeing this and

(01:17:48):
they're connected through this woman who they could all see,
and they start to after a while, they start to
see one another in these visions. It's weird, it's fun,
but it's really good interesting.

Speaker 1 (01:18:07):
I think I know what sure you're talking about. I
haven't seen it, but I think I've seen, like the trailer,
the previews for what is this coming out? Actually stanger
next year?

Speaker 3 (01:18:21):
Next year. These kids are gonna have kids by the
time they fucking y you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (01:18:29):
You know what? You know what.

Speaker 4 (01:18:31):
The reason why I like Stranger Things because like it's
so nostalgia, you know, it really is.

Speaker 1 (01:18:39):
You hit very well, like.

Speaker 4 (01:18:42):
Especially especially season was the season two, season three when
they were all yeah, yes, yo, the same goodie part.
I'm like, you know, I used to work there, you know,
I used to the same goodie part of you you
know what they have that doesn't even exist no more.

Speaker 1 (01:19:04):
Right, you know? And I was like, wow, yo, and
more joining the list, Yeah, there are more and more
or they're cleaning bankers, and then and hoping that other
stores will build them out, bail them out or help
them or join for us or whatever. But yes, it's crazy.

Speaker 3 (01:19:22):
Yeah all right. So with that being said, what's your
final thought of the evening dubs?

Speaker 4 (01:19:30):
Many even? Man, it's just you know what I'm saying,
continue to keep your head up, you know, like, if
you're feeling down, man, just keep your head up, man,
Just try you know.

Speaker 3 (01:19:42):
That's it. One, that's a good one. TG the lover
to most.

Speaker 1 (01:19:47):
Yeah, just pray for me. I'm hoping I get some
money for this trip. If everyone wants to Vemo tried
cash apt this bitch, I don't even know that they
is my thing. I think being her now is one
of them. I don't know either way. My mind is
really just one track right now, and it's my trip

(01:20:08):
and hoping I make it. And when I talk next Tuesday,
it'll be about the things that I got to do
and not how I was home crying about the fact
that I had no money. So we'll see.

Speaker 3 (01:20:22):
Damn. Oh ship. Well, with that being said, I'm just
gonna tell everybody that don't eat yellow snow.

Speaker 1 (01:20:35):
Oh man, it's not even snowing yet. You could have
held on to that one.

Speaker 3 (01:20:39):
Not yet, not yet exactly. Well, yes, my dog, my dog.
I just want to let everybody know I have a
well behaved dog. This this, this, this this chick she
she don't she barked once. I don't know if you
heard her, but whenever I do, whenever I'm on here
doing the show, you don't fucking know. She's in the house.

(01:21:02):
She's watching she she's over there watching liver in Shirley,
nice morny, happy days and ship. She's chilling, she's having
a good time. She don't bother me.

Speaker 4 (01:21:11):
Oh well, the dog I have, you know, like, she
gets like, she gets excited when I'm better, to the
point of peas on the floor, and I'm like, come on, man,
but but but then again, you know what, But but
then again, you know what. She's ten years old, so
it's like, oh yeah, you.

Speaker 3 (01:21:28):
Know, sometimes we don't deserve so I have to beat her.

Speaker 1 (01:21:37):
Shut up. Well, my cat is over there just taking
up space, all right, All right, well wait.

Speaker 4 (01:21:46):
Wait, hold on, hold a way, way, hold on real quick.
You know what I'm saying. Since we're talking about animals, right,
so autside of the cat in the house to right,
and the dog. The dog be minded her own business.
The cat. The cat just looks at her, come by,
look at her and like four slaps. You hear the
dog like right, and I'm here looking at it right,

(01:22:09):
and the dogs looking at me like yo, do something.
I'm like, bro, you're the dog.

Speaker 1 (01:22:17):
What do you want me to do?

Speaker 4 (01:22:19):
And mind you you know what I'm saying. And just
for some context, you know what I'm saying. I'm surrounded
by the by the female gender. Everyone in the house,
but every living thing that's in the house is female
but me. Wow, cat, the cats are female, the dogs, females.

Speaker 1 (01:22:35):
Are crazy in that house.

Speaker 4 (01:22:38):
And then and then last night, you know, the cat,
you know, decides that she wanted to join the Olympic
team and ship because at three in the morning, I'm
hearing and like nails like you know what I'm saying,
scratching the floor. Then and I'm like this fucking cat, Bro,
you know what I'm saying. I woke up at three
in the morning right to see to see the cat.

(01:22:59):
You know what I'm saying, zoom on by, and this
cat scared the ship out of me because because I
woke up the bathroom and like you don't say, like
a little bit I was like, oh.

Speaker 1 (01:23:09):
I can't even see him.

Speaker 4 (01:23:10):
Yo, I'm not gonna lie yo for real. But like
cats are amazing going away man, because like because like
the pupils like you know what I'm saying, Like they
like like I don't understand, like you know how they
see so clear at night. You know what I'm saying.
They have like like yo, you know what, They're amazing,
but I don't.

Speaker 1 (01:23:31):
Like, right, we'll leave the cats alone then, yeah, all right,
that's t G.

Speaker 3 (01:23:41):
Love, that's Dove's dawn. I'm big cole on and always
keep in mind that at some point like my back, good,
good night and

Speaker 1 (01:23:55):
Cool