Tactical Tuesday (Recorded LIVE on 9-10-24)

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Speaker 1 (00:07):
One years.

Speaker 2 (00:18):
Has Has Has has Has said, Yo, it's good everybody.

Speaker 1 (01:48):
This is big, coldly owned this my heard podcast come
to you live from wherever the fuck. You know what
I'm saying. You know how it is from where We're
live from here exactly, bringing my co host Lady G.
Lady G was good, Hey, hey, hey, hey, how you doing.

Speaker 3 (02:09):
I'm wonderful.

Speaker 1 (02:11):
That's good, that's good.

Speaker 3 (02:12):
How are you me?

Speaker 1 (02:14):
I'm ships and giggles man, you know, I'm good. I'm
all right, glad, Yes, i am. I am all right.

Speaker 3 (02:31):
So so I'm here. We're competing tonight with the debate.

Speaker 1 (02:36):
Yeah, actually we are. We are competing with the debate,
which is which is fine. I mean, I'm went into
watching ship shows, so you know, I didn't. I didn't
even know there was a debate tonight. Till till t
g oh you know the baits tonight, I'm like, oh, okay,

(02:56):
you know, trying one night.

Speaker 3 (02:58):
We decide to do it early, right, And.

Speaker 1 (03:02):
That's what's crazy, right, It's the first time we decided
to do early and fucking debates on it.

Speaker 4 (03:05):
Well.

Speaker 3 (03:06):
Well, I'm sorry, I'm just an old lady. I can't
be up till five o'clock in the morning.

Speaker 1 (03:13):
Word, it's all right though, So it is what it is,
what it is. Doesn't be here soon. He just he
just hit me up and said he'll be he'll be
here soon. So how is your How is your week?
Tuesday to Tuesday?

Speaker 3 (03:29):
It's always wonderful every day I wake up.

Speaker 1 (03:33):
All right, that's that's a great way to look at it,
you know what I mean? Absolutely, football season. I know
we don't talk sports much, but football season started Thursday.

Speaker 3 (03:48):
Guys doing your fantasy stuff.

Speaker 1 (03:50):
Yeah, absolutely, yeah, we we started that. And I actually
I'm in five leagues. I run four and I lost
in four only one in one league.

Speaker 3 (04:06):
Wow.

Speaker 1 (04:07):
Yeah, I really crap the fucking bed this week.

Speaker 4 (04:10):
Man. Uh m hm yo, yeah, it's nine o'clock. It's
nine o'clock. Things a little better because you know why,
I'm not even find my sleep old stuff.

Speaker 1 (04:30):
Oh, we're live, Yeah, we're live.

Speaker 3 (04:32):
Bro.

Speaker 4 (04:33):
Uh oh oh hey, what's up? Man?

Speaker 1 (04:39):
We're already five We're already five minutes in bro.

Speaker 4 (04:41):
Oh yeah, my bad, my bad.

Speaker 3 (04:46):
Freezing.

Speaker 1 (04:46):
So you're it looks like your WiFi, your WiFi, your
WiFi is trash to night bro.

Speaker 3 (04:55):
Yep, look who else is messing the bed.

Speaker 1 (04:58):
Yeah word mh but that.

Speaker 4 (05:03):
You know how that goes.

Speaker 1 (05:04):
You might have to to start up again. It sound
good you keep freezing yep hm hmmm. Yeah, he's he's frozen.
I don't have to figure he'll have to figure that

(05:25):
out anyway. So yeah, my my week, as far as
my week goes, it's who's a good week? Went too bad?
You know what I'm saying. I had a couple of
all right, he's back, let's see. Yeah, man, was that
missus softy that just passed by?

Speaker 4 (05:46):
Yeah?

Speaker 3 (05:46):
Man, oh man, See he made up that he was
freezing because he wanted to stop the softy trick. I
saw him wiping his mouth.

Speaker 4 (05:58):
Yeah. Yeah. First off, first off, you know what, I'm
not paying nine dollars for ice cream cone, Like that's crazy.
It's literally like like seven eight dollars just for ice
cream cone.

Speaker 3 (06:10):
Bro. You know what I was thinking about stuff like
that on my way home from work today, Like, how
in the world did everything get so freaking expensive? Like
when I think back just a couple of years, how
how not that it was cheap, but how much cheaper
things were just in the last three four.

Speaker 4 (06:32):
Years, you know, because corporate greed. Man like like you
know what, every you know what I'm saying, Like the
one percent makes the rules, they charge everything, Like for instance, McDonald's,
Why am I going to spend twelve dollars on an
unhealthy big mac when I could just go to the

(06:55):
buffet eat unhealthy but limited? You know what I'm saying,
Like unlimited? You see what I mean. It's like you
know it's like bro like like like yo, you know
what if you come think of it? Every you know
what I'm saying, Like we're in a recession right now.
A lot of people you know what I'm saying, Like
some people acknowledge it, some people don't. M you know

(07:17):
what I'm saying because like what do you call it?

Speaker 3 (07:23):
What was that increase of minimum weight?

Speaker 4 (07:29):
Yeah? Like like like yo, you know what's funny, man?
The funny thing about it is that it's that you
know what I'm saying, Like see d CEOs don't need
You know what I'm saying, could increase minimum ways to
still get paid, but it's greed. You know what I'm saying,
Like you know, like like you know what for instance, exactly,

(07:54):
then give you a perfect example, how like Netflix? You
know what I'm saying basically kill TV.

Speaker 3 (08:01):
Mhm.

Speaker 4 (08:02):
But you know what I'm saying, Like, so that so
that's the reason why, like Cable and Verizon Files and
all them, it's so much you know what I'm saying,
so much money nowadays just to have it, you know,
because like because like because you know what what else
Satellite files and you know what I'm saying, And I mean,

(08:24):
it's Comcast for you, but it's optimate for us. Right
when it was just like those three competitors, you know
what I'm saying, Like Cable was like like you know
what I'm saying, TV itself was it was doable. It
was like what like one twenty for like a full package,

(08:44):
you know, like and plus they you're doing the Wi Fi.
Once Netflix came in, you know what I'm saying, Netflix
killed a whole game. And now every and now every
now and now everybody else is modeling after that. So
you know what I'm saying, Like it's it's always someone
with a bright idea that comes in with the whole

(09:06):
purpose to take what I'm saying, monopolize and then doing
so cause of recession, like you know what I'm saying,
entertainment wise, right and like now you know, like like
you know, like the way the way the economy is
right now, you know, like you see like really like

(09:27):
you know what I'm saying, inflated prices. You know, like
like I studied real estate even though like I ain't
go back to classroom yet, but you know, like on
my downtime, I'm looking at real estate and stuff, right
and I'm looking at houses where I used to live
at in Florida. Now, mind you these houses, you know
what I'm saying. Like if you look at it, you

(09:49):
know what I'm saying. In your mind, You're like, I'll
pay two hundred and three hundred grand easy on that house. Bro.
They selling these houses. They're trying to sell these houses
right now for like a million and change. Yep, you know,
just because you know, like it's yo, the economy is bad, bro,
Like you know, and and you know what, you could

(10:10):
point fingers at what political party you want to be
point fingers to b At the end of the day,
they're both at fault. That's my opinion, you know, like
like you know, like to actually believe that one political
parties is for the people and the other one is
for corporate It's totally stupid when at the end of
the day, like in my opinion, these people be you

(10:33):
know what I'm saying, be having the same you know
what I'm saying donors basically.

Speaker 1 (10:40):
Because when Midnight says these kids of McDonald's getting paid
more than sixteen thousand hours there for big max of twelve,
someone has to pay their salaries.

Speaker 3 (10:50):
Yeah, And I was reading something today talking about, you know,
the kids to pay twenty dollars an hour with a
hold three dollars an hour work ethic.

Speaker 4 (11:00):
But but but but see now, but see now here's
the thing though, right, you know, like yeah, they yeah,
they rose been with wage when you know what they did,
they made everything computer rize, so it took them out.
You know what I'm saying, like like yo, you know
what what Like Yo, you know what, I ain't gotta
go to you know what I'm saying, Like, you know,
like I go to McDonald's like half the times, I
ain't even gotta go to the front line. I could

(11:21):
just go right to the key oscar order my stuff.
You know. So it's like all right, you're gonna all right, yeah,
we're gonna raise women with wage, but we're gonna eliminate
some workers. Yeah, you know what I'm saying. So it's
a win win for them, regardless of win. And yeah,
you know what, and let's raise the prices on these
grade E beefs, you know what I'm saying, not even

(11:43):
a starve animal. But we're gonna serve it to the
public because you know why not, bro like McDonald m
McDonald's food does not decay, you know, like, and if
it does, it takes a real long time for it
fast and furious. I'm telling you, man, someone gets into

(12:08):
an accident in front of me, right, you know what
I'm saying, I moving like it ain't gonna make its
a fast and furious twenty one.

Speaker 1 (12:14):
Yeah, yeah, so yeah, that that minimum wage ship. You know,
it's it's true what they're saying, like they're they're like
they're computerizing everything and making everything digital and and hands on.
So the people who people lose their jobs anyway, So
will minimize minimum will minimize the staff computerized, digitize everything,

(12:40):
and we ain't gotta pay many people.

Speaker 4 (12:42):
And and you know what, it costs less the filth
of chiosk one time than it does to pay an
employee every week. It's a win win.

Speaker 1 (12:56):
Mm hmm.

Speaker 4 (12:57):
You know like like like another thing too, Like if
you notice that there's like a lot of work from
home jobs now, so like a lot of a lot
of you know what I'm saying, like a lot of
like like a lot of them like downtown buildings or whatever.
They're starting to become vacant because you know what, people

(13:20):
used to travel into the city. Now people ain't gonta
travel to the city. You could just work from home.
Like bro, you know what if I if I go
to New York and apply for a job and I
get that and it's a work from home job, I
can move to Pennsylvania and be at EA's just be
at the office twice a week. Yeah, you know, all
I gotta do is just drive in. You know what
I'm saying, part of carne to my parents' house. And

(13:42):
you know what I'm saying, how on the passages go
in the city, show my face like twice a week
or twice a month for that matter, you know, like
like yo, you know what, it's it's amazing, But see
like half of these, like you know what I'm saying,
office buildings and something become empty, like like they're really
trying to like look at you know what I'm saying,

(14:03):
look to see, like if they could turn if they
could transform the office buildings of what they used to
be into apartments, because you know what, you know what,
the owner of that building got to get paid somehow, right,
So like so like, yeah, man, every everything's collapsing a
little by lettle.

Speaker 1 (14:24):
Yeah, that's what sucks. That's what sucks because it's like
you you you build something and it's just it's successful.
But then over time, due to the way society chooses
to run their ship, it collapses anyway.

Speaker 4 (14:46):
You know what, Like a lot of people that moved
to Florida to retire, Oh, that's crazy. They they're the
ones that are selling their homes.

Speaker 1 (14:58):
You know, I heard. I heard there's there's insurance problems
in Florida too. Nobody wants to bro as.

Speaker 4 (15:03):
First off, you know what I'm saying, That hl way
is a freaking joke. You know what I'm saying, Like
you have to pay them too, yep. Plus you know
what I'm saying, Like you gotta pay for don man Like,
like you know what that Homeowner's Association man like if
like it's it's a scam opinion, because you know what,
you're paying them and they could dictate you know what,

(15:24):
I'm saying, what you.

Speaker 3 (15:27):
Can and can't do and you own your own freaking home.

Speaker 4 (15:30):
That's ridiculous, exactly what I'm saying, like paying them.

Speaker 3 (15:35):
Like six seven hundred dollars a month just so that
they can tell you what you can't do.

Speaker 4 (15:41):
That that that home. That home own association is basically like, yeah,
you bought the house because you're still paying rent? Yeah,
you know, like it's it's a scam, bro.

Speaker 1 (15:53):
You know, I know, I know a president of a
homeowners association and it's it's not it's it's it's it's something.
I mean, they do, they do. They tell you how
how you you know, how you set up the front
of your house. They want everybody to make sure the
house looks good and ship. But I don't think it's
like seven eight hundred dollars a month. So that's not
what it is.

Speaker 4 (16:13):
My father, bro, lives in a way, yo, you know what.
You know what, Like let me tell you also depends
on where you live at like down in Miami. Well,
she's saying in Florida in general, since Florida, since Florida
is such a hot destination that everybody goes to go retire,
you know, move and start a new life and retire
and stuff. They could, you know what I'm saying, they

(16:35):
jack up the prices for the for the hoas and
everybody's okay with that, you know what I'm saying, because
like because like you know what, there's no there's basically
no hoay up here. So like they're they're like kind
of new to that ship down there, you know. They
they're new to that whole, to that whole. Oh holdown association.
Oh yeah, that's not bad. You know. Like my like

(16:57):
my brother in Texas, like he's on the it's away.
I was like, Yo, why don't you build a pool
in the back. It was like, oh the home it's
a way, I said, what they won't let you do anything,
so like no, you know, you have to get permission
from them, and just that that's what that's reason why
there's a community pool. It's like they want it's like
you know what, it's like a bunch of houses that
you buy, but it's still being owned by the person

(17:18):
who purchases that land. That's what it is. So it's
like it's like you basically live on a compound with
a bunch of strangers. You see what I mean. It's
just like a little village, a little compound or whatever
with a bunch of strangers and stuff, and they want
everything to be in uniform. Mm hmm, you know like

(17:43):
it's it's it's it's like, you know, like what like
what like what Lady G was saying? You know what
I mean, like they tell you what to do. It's
just that. That's why I said it's a scam. It's
like it's like yo, you know what it's like. It's
like yo, you know what I present you and leady
Lady gmpie right, I'll tell you guys to eat. You

(18:05):
know what I'm saying. You know what I'm saying, tastes,
but don't chew. Chew, but don't choose too much. Chew
a little bit more, but don't swallow. Pause. But that's
what it is. That's what they do.

Speaker 3 (18:22):
But like my father, he he you know, is looking
to buy a condo. You know, he already lives in Florida,
but he's looking to get a condo and h away
fees are seven hundred dollars a month. So I want
to do it so that he can purchase the condo.
Outright to to help him with his limited fixed income.

(18:48):
But for him to pay that seven hundred dollars a
month for h away fees, like that's pretty much taking
most of his social security.

Speaker 4 (18:58):
For what for what?

Speaker 3 (19:01):
Because it's not gonna it's not gonna benefit him in
any way.

Speaker 4 (19:05):
Oh no. And then like you know, and and then
like you know what you know, and then like he's
responsible for all the repairs, so like a lot.

Speaker 3 (19:13):
Of so a lot of he owns the property so.

Speaker 4 (19:17):
Exactly, and a lot of condos and a lot of buildings,
a lot of condos, you know what I'm saying, Like
like you know what they're like like two thirds of them,
I think, like from what I understand, seventy five seve
of them are deemed functionally obsolete. So they got to
pour like one hundred thousands of dollars to get it
up to par, you know. And and plus like you

(19:42):
know what I'm saying, you're paying hoay fees too, and
plus like you're pumping like let's just say, you know,
like three hundred grand for a condo to get it
functionally up to par because most of those condos like
thirty years old, okay, so it so so so it

(20:05):
was like it's like yo, like like everything everything you
know what I'm saying, Like everything is like it's like
you know what I'm saying, like inflated. So you know, yeah,
I would you know what's just well on the topic, right,
I about to go buy some beef the other day, right,
you know, like the actual ground beef that's in the pack,

(20:26):
because because I usually get the one that's like you know,
tied up and whatever. You know what I'm saying, the
little like yeah, so I actually wanted to get you
know what I'm saying, a you know, fresh ground beef
and stuff. Right, and I'm here looking at the price
and I'm like I looked at the shop right worker,
I'm like, yo, excuse me. It's like again, I was like,
what's up, man, Cow's going extinct to something? He's like

(20:49):
what I was like, a cow is going extinct? Because
it ain't no way beef is this expensive? Bro?

Speaker 3 (20:57):
You know, like eggs are five dollars carton.

Speaker 4 (21:00):
Now yeah, man, look you know milk milk and CBS
costs like six ninety nine seven dollars. H you know
what's crazy? Yeah? You know, like like you know, like
if I'm we spending that type of money. Man like it, yo,
it better be the type of milk that gives me powers,
like move a rain into something.

Speaker 3 (21:24):
I'll buy a share of a cow.

Speaker 4 (21:28):
The only no, yo, yo, The only thing, the only
thing that I know that still has stayed cheap. Gas
what well, and this well and and you up here?
Gas is like two eighty nine.

Speaker 1 (21:44):
Now, oh wow gas, So I saw too, I saw
two ninety like like.

Speaker 3 (21:52):
The gas it is down here.

Speaker 4 (21:55):
But then but but see the only reason why it's
cheap in Jersey is because we got the all you
know what I'm saying, the gas reserves around here, and
like you know, the transportation is not that much. Had
it been like Pennsylvania or something like that, you got
to cross state lines. You're paying those taxes.

Speaker 3 (22:11):
Yeah yeah, and they're up in the the toll another dollar?

Speaker 4 (22:20):
What to again?

Speaker 3 (22:21):
Yeah it's going to six dollars? Is the Philadelphia Breeze?

Speaker 4 (22:28):
Yeah? Yeah, complaining about six dollars? Yeah, first off, the
GWB is like twenty damn near twenty dollars.

Speaker 3 (22:34):
But they're near New York. We're not in New York.

Speaker 4 (22:37):
Say, if there was a Lincoln tonnel on the Holland tunnel.

Speaker 1 (22:40):
Yeah, it's like seventeen dollars. Eighteen dollars.

Speaker 3 (22:43):
Yeah, but this is not New York City, guys.

Speaker 1 (22:45):
This is but going into Phillies that are going into
the city, right.

Speaker 3 (22:52):
Well it is, but still I mean okay, so yes,
New York is like fifteen to twenty dollars. But the
thing is when you're used to something and then the
price keeps going up so soon, because it wasn't even
that long ago we started paying five dollars, right.

Speaker 4 (23:12):
Hey, look you know what like like you know what,
like there's like one thing I noticed that when I
was working with Port Authority over here is that the
rule of thumb is this, Right when the MTA in
New York decides to raise their you know what I'm saying,
raise their prices, port Authority in Jersey Transit in't too
far behind, like, you know what, they're doing the same

(23:34):
thing too, Like like I think the MTA is like
two ninety five portoo, the pattern should be two ninety
five right about now too, like three dollars, you know,
And it's like it's like, you know, like like everything's
like so inflated, man like like even to by like
a twenty thirteen car. You're paying like ten grand a

(23:57):
twenty thirteen car car that's eleven years old, like at
least ten grants for it, depending on the mouths.

Speaker 1 (24:04):
Yeah, all right, so yeah, h so we got a
question from a fan of the show, pease are not

(24:29):
compare and see the Philly Okay, your.

Speaker 3 (24:36):
Front year in the NYC area midnight.

Speaker 1 (24:40):
So I got a question from somebody I'm a fan
of the show. Stupid. I don't know, I'm I don't
want to call any questions stupid, but it was actually
aimed towards towards It was like, for Simon Phoenix, a KA.

Speaker 4 (24:57):
Is a stupid question because because I'm be saying a lot,
super Shi probably the question.

Speaker 1 (25:02):
Let me let me, let me get the question exact.
I wrote it down.

Speaker 3 (25:05):
Hold on, so he can't even let you ask the question.

Speaker 4 (25:08):
Yeah, I'm excited someone asked me a question.

Speaker 1 (25:11):
Yay, So for now but for now on, I'm gonna
put I'm gonna put this up. Hold on for now on.
All questions are to be email to the co host
host directly. No more that, just just to let the
emails are on the bottom of the page, the bottom

(25:33):
of the screen. You want to write to the co host.
That's the email address. But anyway, what's your take on
pegging during b DSM encounters?

Speaker 4 (25:48):
Whoa whoa whoa?

Speaker 1 (25:50):
Yo?

Speaker 4 (25:51):
First off, first off, you know what, there is no
pegging allowed. You know what I'm saying, Like like, yo, ya,
what you think this is? You know what I'm saying,
pope fiction. You know what I'm saying, I'm not. I'm
not Marcellous Wildace Man Like, nah, bro, you know like that,
that's just weird. That's just weird, bro, Like I'm insulted, bro, yo,

(26:22):
and yo, And to think that, you know what I'm saying,
there's men out here that actually like that.

Speaker 3 (26:27):
Hey, don't not get unless you tried it.

Speaker 4 (26:29):
I ain't trying, trust me, So.

Speaker 3 (26:32):
Then you can't talk trash about the people who like
it because they tried it.

Speaker 4 (26:37):
Yeah. No, you know what, you know what I'm saying
like that, that's a that's a huge you know what
I'm saying, that's a huge for me.

Speaker 3 (26:46):
Yeah, you guys expect women to be okay with that?

Speaker 4 (26:50):
Bro, Like You're like, like, yo, first off, you know
what woman to do with what the hell she wants
to do?

Speaker 1 (26:56):
Just god, I'm not a fan. I am definitely not
a fan.

Speaker 3 (27:03):
I'm sorry. Our holes are just the same size as yours.

Speaker 4 (27:07):
So whatever, I'm not a fucking fan and I'm not nah,
you know, like so so what do you think?

Speaker 1 (27:16):
All right? So fuck forget about the fucking Peggan bullshit
to forget. But what aspects of bds M do you
think you'd enjoy? Anybody that the floor is open?

Speaker 3 (27:34):
Trash talking to me about no BDSM, I got.

Speaker 1 (27:38):
Trash talking talking to somebody in football?

Speaker 4 (27:43):
Yeah, you know what I'm saying, like like like yo,
you know what? You know what I'm saying, Like you know,
like you donkey punching them and stuff. You know what
I'm saying, Like that was great. I'm just playing. I'm joking.
I'm joking. I'm joking. Oh I don't know, man, like
like yo, you know, like I mean, I can go
on the women, but like, you know what, I just
want a midget and dominatrix suit. You know what I'm saying?

(28:05):
With steel toe boots kicking me in the nuts for
eight hours is better than you know what I'm saying.
Listening to Taylor Swift's.

Speaker 5 (28:11):
Album Boom God BDS and Domination, Oh my god, bro, you.

Speaker 4 (28:23):
Know Meanwhile, you know like I wear throngs that's just
Doug Life in the front and Rome stones with my
Timberland boots on. Yeah, b d S.

Speaker 1 (28:33):
Whoa that that's that's a that's a big thing, man,
especially especially in in certain circles. Bro, I mean.

Speaker 4 (28:42):
Yeah, you know what, you know what you'd be surprised,
like you know, like you know, like what's the politics
into that ship? You know what I'm saying, Like what
what public figures like, you know, into that little freak
stuff like that. You'd be surprised, you know, because like

(29:02):
I mean, whatever fetish that is. I mean, you know
that's your fetish, you know what I'm saying, Like I'm
not you know, first off, you're not gonna First off,
I don't like to be dominated pervot you know what
I'm saying, Like no, you know, like like yo, imagine
you know what I'm saying, Like, imagine you know, having

(29:23):
a woman dominate you or she's sucking on your nipples
when it's suposed to be the other way around. Like Bro, but.

Speaker 3 (29:31):
Again that's so one sided.

Speaker 4 (29:34):
Duve, Like like, yo, you know what I'm saying, Like there.

Speaker 3 (29:37):
Are so many different people in this world. You have
no idea why certain people like certain things.

Speaker 4 (29:47):
Yeah, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 6 (29:50):
About the foot fetish man like, yeah, no, man like,
it's just it's so funny.

Speaker 4 (30:01):
How you know what, it's not so.

Speaker 3 (30:04):
Funny, duves how guys I don't like the same things
that they're taking. And it's not all guys, but some
guys don't like the things that they be trying to
talk the ladies into. So what makes it good for
you but not for us?

Speaker 5 (30:21):
Oh?

Speaker 3 (30:22):
Good question, because let me tell you something. If you
could dish it, you need to be able to take it.

Speaker 4 (30:29):
I don't take ship. I ain't taking ship, trust me.
You know what I'm saying. I mean, I take this ship.
You know what I'm saying with my stomach curts, but
I ain't taking ship never, you know, like like like
you know what, all right, if that's the kids, let
me grow my hair out, and you know what I'm saying,
to have my girl pull my hair. You know what
I'm saying. And you know what I'm saying, to smack
me around and call me Susan. I will love that ship.

(30:53):
It's just you know what I'm saying, like like you know,
like I'm.

Speaker 1 (30:58):
I'm not into anything I can get charge of a
felony with bro.

Speaker 4 (31:02):
Yo, I'm not you know what I'm saying. Yo, Yo,
you know what? Yo? Know what like like you know what,
I'm not into anything that. You know what I'm saying.
It's gonna have me. You know what I'm saying, It's
gonna you know what I'm saying, it's gonna have me.
Like yo, if I if if a girl's got something
like you know what I'm saying, Oh, choke me, spank me,
pull my hair?

Speaker 1 (31:23):
Right, that's a felony.

Speaker 4 (31:26):
Yo. Hello, you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 1 (31:30):
Get that in writing, Broet.

Speaker 3 (31:34):
You know what I'm saying.

Speaker 4 (31:37):
I'm gonna have to film that.

Speaker 3 (31:39):
Oh my gosh, you.

Speaker 4 (31:41):
Know like because yo, you know what like like whoenmen
get carried away. It's like, oh yeah, I said, choke me,
not freaking break my trick. You know I'm like, well,
I mean, you know what I'm saying, like make up
your mind, you're not doing harder.

Speaker 3 (31:55):
This is when I can't stand you, dub.

Speaker 4 (31:57):
You know what I'm saying, You're not doing harder though,
nest thing, you know it? You know what I'm saying.
And went from Live action to you pumping up. You
know what I'm saying a corpse and that's necrophilia.

Speaker 1 (32:09):
Like no, man, like I said, you gotta get that
ship in writing.

Speaker 4 (32:16):
Kobe, Yeah, yeah, that's that's the peous man. But like
like nah man, like it's just mm hmm yeah.

Speaker 1 (32:28):
Yeah. I mean you know because it's it's tricky. It's
tricky that the life style. It is tricky, bro.

Speaker 4 (32:37):
You know like like like you know what, like maybe yo,
you know what, maybe on some like you know, on
a drunken stupord. You know what I'm saying that I'm not.
I'm not getting pegged, you know what I'm saying, but
on a drunk and stupid. But it's like you no better,
I'm sober enough. You know what I'm saying because like yo,

(32:59):
because like yo, you know what to what you're saying. Bro, No, no, no,
listen you mic oh gosh, I know what I'm saying.
Like like like yo, you know what.

Speaker 1 (33:10):
You said made like during a drunken stupor.

Speaker 4 (33:13):
But I don't drink.

Speaker 1 (33:14):
No, But I'm just I'm just telling you rephrased what
you're saying because you know that it doesn't Bro.

Speaker 4 (33:20):
You know what I'm like, Yo, you know what I'm trying.
I'm trying to die into a person's mind, Like you
know what I'm saying, Like, how could one do that?
Do you know what I'm saying? Do anything like that?
Soaper you know what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (33:31):
But like you know what I mean, Like you don't
know the reason why people do that. Okay, So childhood
trauma has a lot to do with the way people
react to certain sexual behaviors. Okay, so if you have, like,
let's use a woman for instance, right, because I'm a woman,
you know, I guess it's better that way. But so

(33:55):
when a woman might have had some kind of a
sexual abusive experience or something like that, it could be
one of two ways. Either they kind of shy away
from the act and are a little bit more conservative,
or they just go full blown. You know what, I
just lost my mind. Everything I've ever valued is gone,

(34:17):
and then they just go crazy. Right. Then there are guys,
for instance, a lot of the guys that like to
be dominated. It's because they have high power positions where
they're the ones who are in charge all the time,
and so for some reason emotionally it turns them on.
For them to be dominated because they spend ninety percent

(34:40):
of their life dominating. And the truth is they want
a moment where they don't have to and they can
just be the submissive.

Speaker 4 (34:48):
Right.

Speaker 3 (34:49):
People have different reasons for enjoying different things.

Speaker 4 (34:54):
That's like the equivalent of like cocold and you know
what I'm saying, being a cup.

Speaker 3 (34:58):
Hey, but some people people that turns them on. For
some people.

Speaker 4 (35:02):
They yeah, oh yeah, I'm you know what I'm saying.
It turns me on the goal. You know what I'm saying,
see my wife. You know what I'm saying, get banged
from here to timbu to know.

Speaker 3 (35:10):
That that's you, dubs, that's.

Speaker 4 (35:14):
You know what I'm saying, Like, Yo.

Speaker 3 (35:16):
You expect you from everyone else.

Speaker 4 (35:19):
That's something you know what I'm saying, Like, that's some
weird That's that's weird to me.

Speaker 3 (35:25):
That's why. That's why you have the women and men
who are a part of the swinging lifestyle, who are
a part of the switching lifestyle. You know, like again,
each people, each person's experiences, each person's fetishes turn ones.
You know. That's how we have sociopaths, psychopaths, dominature, you

(35:49):
name it. That's why That's one of the good things
about the I guess the US is the diversity of people, right.
But when you have the diversity of people, that also
comes with the differences of lifestyles, likes, dislikes, and all
of that. So you can't we can't as a whole.

(36:09):
We can't sit and judge other people.

Speaker 4 (36:12):
But but see, now here's the thing, right, you know
what I'm saying, like, like, you know what I like?
I ain't never you know what I'm saying, I ain't
never been married or nothing. Right, So when I do
get married, I'm gonna get that serious. You think that
I'm gonna poll you know what I'm saying, my all
into someone to just be like, yeah, I want to
be a cook down. You know what I'm saying. Hey,
you you know what I'm saying, mister Schlang king Schlong.

(36:34):
You know what I'm saying, real, arrange my girls guts.
That's fucking weird, bro.

Speaker 3 (36:41):
For you, it's weird, But no, it is.

Speaker 4 (36:44):
Because because because you know what marriage is a union?
You know what I'm saying, Like, no, no, you know
what I'm saying, like, I can't y you know what,
I will not watch the woman I love you know
what I'm saying. Get you know what I'm saying, gang
Bank like she's like like she lives in Chicago, go
in l a No man, nah, like that's not me.

Speaker 3 (37:06):
And and that isn't you. That isn't you, dubs, and
more power to you.

Speaker 4 (37:11):
I can't do it. You know what I'm saying. I
won't do it.

Speaker 3 (37:14):
Well I wouldn't either. I mean to me, marriage is
sacred as well.

Speaker 4 (37:17):
How well exactly see, we can't play.

Speaker 3 (37:20):
We cannot judge.

Speaker 4 (37:22):
I'm not I'm saying by me. You know what I'm saying,
like I don't understand, like you know how like you
know what I'm saying, like like you know what I'm saying,
I could like like see here's the thing, right, you
know what I'm saying, like I can't you know what
I'm saying, Like if you could do it, that's more
power to you. You know what I'm saying, like like Yo,
you know what, but I've got some dignity man, Like
you know what I'm saying, Like like Yo, you know

(37:42):
what I got. You know what I'm saying, I gotta
kiss your mouth the next morning?

Speaker 3 (37:46):
Yeah, hey, honey, Well I mean couples that are what.

Speaker 4 (37:49):
They say, like like, yo, you know what you know
what I'm saying, Like like like like, Yo, I gotta
kiss you in the morning. You know what I'm saying, like, oh, hey, honey,
tyrone kids on your top top lips. You might want
to you know what I'm saying, wipe it off before
I kiss you.

Speaker 3 (38:06):
But what she don't realize, Dubbs, is any woman in
your words with whether it's why you were together or not,
you're still sleeping with all the people she's ever slept with.

Speaker 4 (38:18):
All right, I understand that. But you know what, though,
you know what I'm saying, I don't know who the
hell they are. You know what I'm saying, I'm not watching.
You know what I'm saying, I'm not you know what
I'm saying. I'm not I'm not there in a hotel room,
you know, sitting down like, oh, you know what I'm saying. Coaching,
You know, coaching is dude, Like, oh, yeah, you know
what I'm saying. Bang her away, you know what I mean,
don't stop till you reach the back of her teeth.

(38:39):
You know, Like, I'm not doing that. Sorry, you know
like I said, Yo, you know what more? Yo? You
know what to those who swing. You know what I'm saying, Like,
you guys must have like a real deep understanding because
I couldn't do it. I can't believe me.

Speaker 3 (38:57):
Does I'm totally I understand and I agree with you
because I'm not that way. You know what, because I've
done therapy, marriage therapy with a lot of different people.
It exists, you know, like the people, the people who
are in those marriages or relationships. The ethical nominogamy, you know,

(39:20):
like I don't. I can't say that I understand it
or I agree with it, but it exists and some
people really are successful with it.

Speaker 4 (39:30):
Yeah, I mean, yo, you know what I mean. That's
that's pretty that's pretty amazing. How like how like one
person you know I'm saying, how like two people okay
watching their partners, you know what I'm saying, Just like, okay,
you know what switch you know, and they're probably high
fiving each other and all that. Yo. It's it's it's

(39:50):
it's a weird space for me personally, you know what
I'm saying, Like it's actually.

Speaker 3 (39:54):
Bring a third party into their marriage or fourth Yeah,
usually the three for I forgot what they call them.

Speaker 4 (40:05):
But the try factor playing the triple play.

Speaker 3 (40:09):
I don't know, yeah, but I mean like that yeah
yeah that's yeah.

Speaker 4 (40:16):
But but but but see you but but but but
see you know what the thing is though, like like
you know what like name name one, Name one Politicans
relationship that like lasted more than like twenty years.

Speaker 3 (40:31):
Twenty is still a long time though.

Speaker 4 (40:34):
Yeah, but still though you know what I'm saying, Like, oh, yeah,
you're right, You're right, you know what I'm saying, because people,
babe the last two years with each other. You're right.
But like, but still though, it's like I just can't
you know what I'm saying, Like me on a personal level,
right and understandable, I'm not you know what I'm saying,
knocking nobody that's like into you know what I'm saying,

(40:56):
into that world or whatever. It's a different world for me,
you know what I'm saying. It's a world that I
won't travel to. You know what I'm saying because like
because like that world right there is you know, like
it's it's like.

Speaker 3 (41:10):
It gets into values, and yeah, it's about people's values more.

Speaker 1 (41:16):
We need we need to get we need to get
a professional massacres or some ship on board. So we
can like question them and find out what the fuck
is going on.

Speaker 4 (41:29):
Just get that.

Speaker 3 (41:31):
It's the thrill, it's the adrenaline.

Speaker 4 (41:34):
Let's just get us a gimp.

Speaker 3 (41:38):
And for some people it's the it's the excitement of
the taboo.

Speaker 1 (41:46):
You know.

Speaker 3 (41:46):
It's the excitement of going against the grain, of doing
what other people won't do, of experiencing something that you
wouldn't normally want to be a part of.

Speaker 4 (41:59):
Right, you know what I'm saying, If you want to
do that, you know what I'm saying, Like co go
to one night stand, you know what I'm saying, hopefully
you know what I mean, Like you might just get
to get threesome going. You know what i mean, Like
do something like that, because threesomes aren't planned. It just happened,
you know, stuff like that. You know, like like like
like you know, what if if if I would ever.

Speaker 3 (42:25):
You do realize that that's that's exactly what you were
just talking about.

Speaker 4 (42:29):
If yo, you know what I'm saying, Like if I know,
if I was ever, you know what I'm saying, if
I was single and I was ever, like delve into
that world. You know what I'm saying, Like my you
know what I'm saying idealistically, it would be that way.
You know it would be that way. But that's because
wait a minute, hold hold wait, wait, hold up real quick,

(42:53):
I'll explaining why it's not because you know what I
You know what I'm saying, Like I have feelings for
my wife, I'm not gonna let her do that. You
know what I'm saying. Like it's different. You know what
I'm saying, like a one night sting. You know what
I'm saying, The only feelings you have is to bust
of une. You know what I'm saying this one. You
know what I'm saying, Like I'm in love with you.
You know what I mean, Like there's a union involved,
like things. You know what I'm saying. No, you know

(43:15):
what I'm saying with no you know what I'm saying,
No string, no motions at tax is probably one thing,
probably my best probably besides that, you know what I'm saying,
Like by the time I'm done, I'll have one sper
I'm self left and he'll be lonely. Damn.

Speaker 1 (43:33):
That's a sad story.

Speaker 3 (43:37):
Conversations.

Speaker 4 (43:39):
It's just a little bit over too much now. But
like all jokes aside, though, it's like it's it's like, yo,
you know what what I'm trying to say is this right?
You know what I'm saying is that my you know
what I'm saying, my heart and my emotions would not
allow me to be a cup. I can't do it.
I won't.

Speaker 1 (43:57):
But what I want, what I wanted, what I wanted
to say, was this, all right, I have I have
a couple of friends that I know, I have a
one of a friend of mine. They they they they
they're swinging. They were swinging. I don't know if this

(44:18):
swing is now. But the problem with that, the problem
I have with that is that when you bring in
and allow that ship in your relationship, I mean, it's
it's bad, man. It's bad because you're allowing, you're you're

(44:38):
allowing i mean.

Speaker 3 (44:39):
You know, right, bringing opportunity to step out and stay
out of a relationship and a marriage.

Speaker 4 (44:48):
It's basically supervised cheating.

Speaker 3 (44:50):
Yeah, And it's attemption, temptation to to actually switch permanently.

Speaker 1 (44:56):
What ended up happening was the as far as I know,
his his wife went off and stepped with the dude
that was with that that was married to the other chick,
and behind the behind their backs like and fucked around,
and they wanted to go ahead and and and fight.

(45:17):
He wanted to fight, and he was like, what the
fuck that's my wife this and never you invited that ship?

Speaker 4 (45:21):
Yep, you open like like like, yo, you know what. See,
that's the reason. That's the reason. That's the main reason,
you know what I'm saying. Besides you know, besides the love,
the love I would have for my wife. That's about
be another reason, you know what I'm saying, because.

Speaker 1 (45:39):
Like, yeah, you can't you can't invite you can't invite
other people into your relationship, you know what I'm saying,
and expected.

Speaker 4 (45:49):
To you can't invite people to other people to your
bedroom what I'm saying, and and and still you know
what I'm saying, because because yo, you know what, a
lot of lines get crossed, you know. I mean, like
just like just because you know what I'm saying, you
guys broken the deal. Oh yeah, you know what, we
could do this together, you know what I'm saying. And
it's like you've done it so many times, like you

(46:10):
know what it's usually you know what I'm saying, Like
in one one or the other's minds, like well, I
mean you say I fuck this person where she's there.
You know what I'm saying, as well, just do it
one they're not there, you know what I'm saying, unsupervised.
What's the difference?

Speaker 1 (46:25):
Right?

Speaker 4 (46:27):
That's crazy, Yo, it is bro Like now I'm good,
you know, Like, yo, you know what, I got too
much dignity in the corn for that one, you know
what I mean? Like like, yo, you know what, my
pride will allow me to allow that ship.

Speaker 1 (46:48):
And sometimes it's hard enough working on a relationship one
on one. Just imagine having all that.

Speaker 4 (46:56):
Yoh exactly man like like like yo, like I said,
you know, saying, like the keyword with me is my
pride and my dignity would not you know what I'm saying.
Besides my heart, my pride and my dignity would not
not allowed that to happen that way. I can't do it,
you know. But however, more power to the people that

(47:20):
actually do it. And still, you know what I'm saying,
It still happen to be happy.

Speaker 1 (47:24):
I don't know how, but that's like that's their thing though,
That's that's what it is.

Speaker 4 (47:31):
Yeah, you know what I'm saying, like like, you know
what I mean, Like I mean, hey, you know what
I'm saying, more power to you. But nah, you know
what I'm saying. Besides that, you know what I'm saying,
I got back problems. Imagine me. You know what I'm saying,
trying to care to the two women I'm having one time,
I'm having a hard time trying to cater to one.
You know what I'm saying. You know what I'm saying,

(47:52):
like like, yo, you know what, I got her need
of this. You know what I'm saying, I gotta go
to the next room and finish this one off. Yeah yeah,
by that time, you know saying, I'm gonna be crippled.
You know what I'm saying, be in a wheelchair with viagra.
The fuck damn.

Speaker 1 (48:08):
The crazy. The crazy thing about it too, is that
it's it's not always when you're thinking with threesome. It's
not always two women and a dude, you know what
I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (48:17):
Sometimes, but if if a woman were to want to
introduce another dude, the guys go so freaking ham it's ridiculous.
So it's okay for two women, but it's not okay
for two men.

Speaker 4 (48:32):
Now, you know what with the two men and one girl.
You know what I mean like it's all right. See no, no, no, no,
you know what this is words complicated, It's not you
know what I'm saying because like like you know what,
like with men out here, you know, I'm pretty sure

(48:54):
you know what I'm saying. They don't want their girl
to be messing with another dude. But if they're with
their boy and they me the girl at the club,
you know what I'm saying, And then you know what
I'm saying, like it's like you know, oh yeah, you
know we're gonna toss her up. Okay, you know what
I'm saying, Like it's you're right, it is double standards.
I'm gonna agree with you on that part. You know
what I'm saying. I can't you know what I mean,

(49:16):
I can't you know what I'm saying, like like sit
here literally and lie like it's not a double standard.
It is a double standard, like like you know, like
like but that's but that's how these dudes think, you
know that they rather I don't.

Speaker 3 (49:29):
Want to be messing around with another.

Speaker 4 (49:31):
Woman, you know, like you know what, Like but see,
you know what the thing is though, most dudes out here,
if they don't care about that woman, they're not gonna
want to have another dude come involved. You know what
I'm saying. Period. You know what I'm saying, like for
some reason, you know what I mean, Like having a
dude there. You know what I'm saying, it's just weird.

(49:51):
You know what I'm saying with you with your girl,
with your girl or your wife, you know what I'm saying,
or your wife or whatever. But the double standards this though,
and this is where I agree with you with if
it's a total stranger that you meet out in the
club or bar in the street or whatever, or even
if you're paying for it, you know what I'm saying,
it's like it doesn't matter, you know, because there's no

(50:15):
like there's there's no attachment evolved. That's no, that's an
emotional attachment of all.

Speaker 1 (50:22):
That's why I would never ever go that route, because
there's always at the end of a situation like that,
there's some emotional ship going on in your head, in
your heart, in your soul that it's gonna fuck with you, bro.
You know what I'm saying, Like, it's it's something something

(50:44):
is gonna make you, something's gonna make you go nuts
over that ship.

Speaker 4 (50:49):
Well, actually, actually you know what though, like I said,
you know what, like let's just say, you know, let's
just say, you know, like for instance, you and I,
you know, like you mean some god the bar or whatever, right,
and she's like, you know whatever, We're just hanging out
with her, and like, you know, all of a sudden
she wants to come home with us.

Speaker 1 (51:09):
I'm not doing it.

Speaker 4 (51:11):
I'm not, you know, like and all of a sudden,
you know what I mean, like like shit just starts happening.

Speaker 1 (51:18):
She just I'm just gonna start happening because I wouldn't
allow that ship say, I wouldn't get involved with something
like that. I mean, I guess he's listening to the conversation.
He's like, Yo, what the fuck you guys talking about.
I don't know. The guy just honked his fucking horn
like that.

Speaker 4 (51:36):
Nah man, it's Ne's to Kennedy, Bro, you know how
it is.

Speaker 1 (51:39):
Yeah, But what I'm saying is, I'm not I'm not
one to put myself in a situation that that that's
gonna end up happening. I'm not the.

Speaker 3 (51:47):
One because we're in we're in charge of our own
decisions and choices.

Speaker 4 (51:53):
You guys, you guys are not understanding what I'm saying.

Speaker 3 (51:56):
Yes, I do understand what you're saying. But any man
or woman who allows themselves to be in those types
of situations, that's their issue. Like that's something they need
to get taken care of.

Speaker 4 (52:10):
Now. You know what, All in all, illness lickor plays
a huge part of that because.

Speaker 3 (52:16):
You know why, I don't want to hear it. I
don't want to hear it inhibited. It makes you uninhibited. However,
you can still make choices.

Speaker 4 (52:25):
Yeah, but you know what, it's always that prim or urge.
Always that always plays the part though, you know what
I'm saying, The primal urge becomes a choice.

Speaker 3 (52:34):
Yeah, and we all have control over our choices. We
choose not to have control.

Speaker 4 (52:45):
No, that's not true. Mm hm no, it's not.

Speaker 3 (52:50):
When we allow ourselves to be in situations that have
potential to turn out negatively, we are making a choice
what yeo?

Speaker 4 (53:01):
Yoh? But but but hold on though, you know what
I'm saying before, like you know what I'm saying, Like
I see what this conversation is going. I'm saying though,
like that's you know what I'm saying, Like I'm just
saying like you know, like that's that's this double standard
where most dudes might probably take it, you know, as
opposed to like letting your girlfriend or letting your wife.
You know what I'm saying, hook up with some random

(53:22):
dude to me while you're there. You know what I'm saying,
hooking up with her at the same time, you see
what I mean? Like, like I said, you know what
I'm saying again who you know what I'm saying, whoever
is like involved in that lifestyle more? You know what
I'm saying. And you guys are still going strong, More
power to you. But nah, you know what I already
You know I already got problems as already. I already

(53:46):
got enough problems in my hand. You know what I'm saying, Like,
I don't need an actually, especially one that's gonna, like
like emotionally and mentally bring me down.

Speaker 3 (53:56):
Mhmm.

Speaker 4 (53:56):
You know I may sound like a sympate. I don't care.
You know what I'm saying. I do not care, you
know because at the end of the day, you know
people could like you know, tell to well she does
she doesn't? You know she does that she does. I
don't care, bro, Yes, you do. Shut up? You know
what I'm saying you you do care? Yeah, you know,

(54:19):
shut up.

Speaker 1 (54:19):
If you don't care, you got a problem exactly.

Speaker 3 (54:23):
So then explain this to me. And it's not about
the sharing and all that kind of stuff. How how
can people or guys I can only speak, you know,
from the girl's point of view? Then how do guys
have friends with benefits and not want to be in

(54:46):
a relationship with that woman, like have intimacy with her,
So she's good enough to be intimate with, but she's
not good enough to actually have a relationship with.

Speaker 4 (55:00):
That's one of them.

Speaker 3 (55:01):
Fear of what.

Speaker 4 (55:04):
Fear of like like see you know what, it's like
this right like us, like you know what, I can't
speak for every man every man out here, and I
pretty sure, but I'm pretty sure most men out here,
you know what I'm saying, they let their dick dictate

(55:27):
their heart instead of like you know what I'm saying,
and bypassed like the clear red flags that's like right
in front of them. You know that's not she's not
saying anything about no, no, no, no, you know what.
I'm gonna get to that all right, right, so getting
you know what I'm saying, getting like you know, what
I'm saying, what you what you want to do? Gets

(55:48):
like the short end of that stick, you know what
I'm saying, And it's like constant you know what I'm saying,
like like everybody like everybody moving crosses right, you know
what I'm saying, So like sex, you know what I'm saying,
becomes like oh well it is what this? I like
spend the time with you. I like being in your guts, right,
But you know what, I don't think I want to
see you every day because you know what, you know

(56:08):
what I'm saying. Like we can make thousands of excuses
by the end of the day. One of them, one
of them is I don't want to go all through
all this shit again and end up replaying what happened
the last time. I don't want to deal with a
different person, the different person, a different a different face,
and still the same results. You know.

Speaker 1 (56:30):
Like to be honest with you, bro, I don't know
where the fuck you're going.

Speaker 3 (56:33):
Yeah, I'm like, what is he saying?

Speaker 4 (56:35):
Bro? Pay attention all right? You know, like like yo,
you know what it is? The fear you know what
I'm saying, fear of Like you know what I'm saying replaying,
you know what I'm saying, replaying like, yo, you know what,
fear of a man getting heartbroken again?

Speaker 3 (56:50):
But isn't that kind of sort of what you're doing
when you have a friend and then you cross the
line into friends with benefits? So you have to care
about this person because they are your friend, so you
do care about them, but then you cross the line
into the intimacy. So they're good enough to give part
of your most intimate you know, secretive body parts and

(57:15):
piece of your soul essentially, but you're not willing to
be in a relationship with them. So it's like, these
are not total strangers. I mean, if it started out
that way, that's one thing. But when you're friends with somebody,
you guys cross that line and then it just it's like,

(57:37):
I just don't understand how you can cross that line
to be intimate with that person, but then you don't
want a relationship with them. So essentially you potentially ruin
your friendship to be intimate and you do care about
the person, but you don't want to be in a
relationship with them.

Speaker 1 (57:58):
You don't, you know, all right, I'm I'm I'm gonna
speak on this. I'm gonna speak on this, so let
me let me, let me, let me, let me get
my thoughts and check here, because all right, so.

Speaker 4 (58:18):
Look at your notes.

Speaker 1 (58:20):
No I don't. I don't have notes for this one.

Speaker 4 (58:26):
Look at the telepropet I'm put your glasses off watching
black see Man of Men. And relationships are like Jupiter
and Saturday and old ship and comments about that reading
for the Teleprompeter, get the book, Get the book.

Speaker 1 (58:45):
Get the goddamn book. Nah, but some all right, So
what I think happens is this, What I think happens
is the thought of being intimate with someone is always,
you know, it's a good thing. When you think about

(59:06):
being intimate with someone, you know you you you're sharing something,
you're sharing a moment, you're sharing time, you're sharing your bodies,
you're sharing your souls. You know, whatever it is, what
it is and and what ends up happening is sometimes
depending on the moment in time when this happens. Sometimes

(59:29):
people can be ready. Sometimes people aren't ready.

Speaker 4 (59:34):
Sometimes people are scared.

Speaker 1 (59:36):
And not that that that that that it's about being scared.
It's just that.

Speaker 4 (59:42):
Fear is a factor and a lot of different things.

Speaker 1 (59:45):
But what I think, what I think is going on
is that the the unknown is is what what gets
what gets me a lot of a lot of of times,
Like you know, if you're intimate with someone and you share,

(01:00:06):
you share that passion, you share that that good, that
that good good, you know what I mean?

Speaker 4 (01:00:14):
And yo, you just have to flash back on somebody
else three weeks, three weeks earlier.

Speaker 1 (01:00:34):
But I'm just you got to throw it up, bro. No,
but I'm saying you three and.

Speaker 4 (01:00:43):
Says so so educating. You know what I'm saying so
professionally three weeks earlier. Let me pregnant your throat?

Speaker 1 (01:00:52):
Oh my goodness.

Speaker 4 (01:00:54):
No, but I'm saying you.

Speaker 1 (01:00:56):
You you share, you share moments and ship, you share
things like that, and the thought of being with someone
on that level after such an encounter, you know, sometimes
they think to themselves or they say to themselves or
it would be like that, you know, what if what

(01:01:16):
if we did get together after this? Is it going
to be based on this action? Or are we going
to take the time to build something beyond that action?
You know what I mean? Like if if you have
a friend and you're having sex with your friend, which

(01:01:39):
is a friendly benefits situation, you know, is there enough
information there to to be able to say we can
build on this, this, we can build a relationship off
of this. Sometimes after a friends of benefit situation, you know,

(01:02:00):
if a relationship is wanted, or if a relationship is
something that is being sought out, I think that you
should be able to communicate that and determine whether or
not it can move forward beyond the friends with benefits thing.

Speaker 4 (01:02:17):
You know, in other words, play play it how it goes.

Speaker 1 (01:02:21):
It's not it's not it's not even just play how
it goes. But you want to You want to be able.
You want to be able to build something with someone
you know, but you don't want it to be based
on that encounter. You want to be able to build
outside of.

Speaker 3 (01:02:35):
That, something deeper than that, right deeper, which I think
that if you were friends, the fact that you cross
the line into that something more would be the thinking
that you could build something deeper. But in the same token,
it's like, so if you think about the relationship thing
and it's not what you want, then why continue to

(01:02:58):
have the benefits with.

Speaker 4 (01:02:59):
The because everyone has needs. I guess, I mean it
sounds my stuff, but it's true.

Speaker 3 (01:03:10):
Yeah, But there's also that like what if the woman
what if the woman catches feelings though right you know
she has feelings for you, you apparently don't like those
feelings or don't want to entertain those feelings. And you
know that that's who the woman is, and you know
to continue is going to hurt her, but you still

(01:03:31):
continue to do it knowing that it's going to hurt her.

Speaker 4 (01:03:36):
You See, It's it's either two things, you know what
I'm saying, Like, either you know, like the sex is
good enough, but you know what I'm saying, like so
you're unfortunately gaslighting her, or you really, you know what
I'm saying, you really feel bad about the line being crossed,
Like you don't want to hurt this person's feelings. Yeah,
like you're trying to like you knows line, Yeah, yeah,

(01:03:59):
you know what it's Yeah, you know what, It's just complicated,
you know, like it really is. I mean like like
like you know what, it's something, it's something something we
hold on. We hold on though it's something so simple
to do, and yet it's so complicated to do it
because you know what I'm saying, Like, at the end
of the day, you know what I mean, Like nobody

(01:04:21):
wants to be the bad guy. You know what I'm saying.
Nobody wants to be the villain in anybody's story, you know,
trust me, I'm a villain and a lot of people's
story a lot of people admitted, Yeah, of course of course,
but but like you know what, you know, you know
what the things I've done stuff like this before, you know,

(01:04:42):
and it's like in my experience, you know what I'm
saying when I was being the villain of someone's story
is that it's just you know what I'm saying, it
was just you know what I'm saying, like another you
know what I'm saying, another notch on the belt. But
I wasn't trying to be the bad guy. So it's
like it was like a catch yo, yo, you know what, No,
check this out. It was a catch twenty two, you

(01:05:04):
know what I'm saying, Like like, yo, you know what,
I got myself stuck between a rock and a hard place,
which I always did, you know what I'm saying, Like
no matter what, you know, like there was like you know,
like there was no winning in that situation, you know,
like because you know what, even when things were fall
you know what I'm saying, Even when things fell apart.

(01:05:25):
You know what I'm saying, I was a feeling to
someone's story and at the end of the day, I
end the feeling bad for it. But I never said that,
and I just kept it moving. But yeah, you know
what regrets.

Speaker 1 (01:05:39):
Yeah, so yeah, you have a lot of people have
a lot of regrets in certain situations.

Speaker 4 (01:05:47):
Yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:05:47):
But like, but like I was saying, you know, I
I just think that if your friends and you cross
the line and that something is there, something, yes, you
have you have to Yeah, you would, you would think,
you would think.

Speaker 4 (01:06:04):
Because something has to be there, you know what I'm saying, Like, yeah,
like like yo, you know what, and and and and yo,
you know what? And whether the woman or the man
saying oh yeah, you know what I'm saying. I just
felt comfortable with you. You felt comfortable with them for
a reason, right, you know it's just that, yo, you
know what, It's just that, It's just that, you know
what I'm saying. When it comes to like, you know,

(01:06:25):
a getting with your actual homegirl, like you know what
I'm saying, or a homeboy or whatever, is that you
you know what I'm saying, No matter how much you
guys talk. The following morning about how you guys are
gonna play things out. It's not gonna happen again. That
happens again. There's like, you know what I'm saying, the
stand of third. No matter how much you guys coach

(01:06:47):
each other, like Yo, you know what, You're still going
to be normal the standard third. It's never normal after that.
It's never it's never normal after that, you know, Like
it's always you know what I'm saying, Like like, yo,
you know what, Like you can't be around that person
and like your phone rings and there's actually somebody else
and that person. Don't you know what I'm saying exactly,

(01:07:09):
vice versa, back and forth, you know, like either either
you guys, you know what I'm saying. You know what
I'm saying. Work, you know what I'm saying, Work to
where your heart is at. And stop what I'm saying
stop like you know what I'm saying suddenly and short,
you know what I'm saying, stop selling each other short
or let it go mhm, you know, like because like

(01:07:34):
nobody wins in that situation. Everybody loses. You know, there's
no there's no winners in that It's it's like it's
like John Wick pointing pointing a gun to child, young
fat and the killers too, who's gonna shoot first? I'm

(01:07:55):
saying there's no winners in that.

Speaker 1 (01:08:00):
Yeah, you know, there's there's somebody out there for everybody.

Speaker 4 (01:08:06):
Yeah, you know what I mean, and whether.

Speaker 1 (01:08:09):
It's your friend.

Speaker 3 (01:08:10):
My message to any man who ever wants me, do
not light a fire for my love if you have
no intention of keeping it alive.

Speaker 4 (01:08:27):
In other words, poor, another words.

Speaker 3 (01:08:30):
My future husband, if you have no intention of loving me,
don't look at me for the.

Speaker 1 (01:08:37):
Good good.

Speaker 4 (01:08:43):
To my future x wife. Now let me stop, Let
me stop playing. You know what I'm saying, because.

Speaker 3 (01:08:48):
You start off on the negative future ex.

Speaker 4 (01:08:51):
To my future ex wife, and I'm just playing like
like you know what the person I wish she already
knows what the dealers she breast the pot roast me fighting.

Speaker 3 (01:09:00):
Oh god, period, I don't want another ex.

Speaker 4 (01:09:05):
How I feel about my pot roast is how I
feel about my pot roast feels me.

Speaker 1 (01:09:12):
Oh my god.

Speaker 4 (01:09:13):
Yeah, you always have teeth degree not like not like yo,
you know what I mean. You know, like nobody wants
to be an ex wife or ex husband, nobody unless
your partner did. You're wrong, But like like at the
end of the day, you know, like I imagine people
don't get married just to be like yeah, you know, like, yeah,

(01:09:36):
I'm gonna get married, but i know it's not gonna work,
but I'm still gonna do it anyways, just for the experience.
Nobody wants to. I'm going to get married for the experience,
you know what I'm saying, like or not, like what
you know what I'm saying, like like like what you're
gonna put that shirt on the job description married for
five years? Divorced? No, yo, Like Likeliseabith.

Speaker 3 (01:09:56):
Taylor, she did that bad Boy eight times.

Speaker 4 (01:09:59):
She got more rings and Tom Brady same thing with
j Loo got more.

Speaker 3 (01:10:06):
No, she just keeps going back to the old leftovers.
Yeah she's checking out a Rod again.

Speaker 1 (01:10:15):
Yeah. They got pictures of them together recently.

Speaker 4 (01:10:17):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (01:10:20):
So I guess everybody gets second chances.

Speaker 4 (01:10:23):
I guess so, right, Yeah, but like you know, like
when you passed around like a basketball, I mean, yeah,
that's not my consign, that's my belie because you know what,
because you know what, at the end of the day,
you know what I'm saying, everybody's recycled, you know what
I'm saying, Like at our age. Everybody's everybody's recycled goods.

(01:10:47):
You know what I'm saying that, Yo, you know what
we may you know what I'm saying. We may be
for raries, but we got mileage on us, so we're
not top tip. You know what I'm saying, We're used.

Speaker 3 (01:10:59):
I'm sorry, I'm may be used, but I'm still a ten.
I don't care.

Speaker 4 (01:11:03):
It may be messed up, but like it's the truth though,
like like you know, like but you know what the
thing is though, if we if we go, if you're
gonna put it level, if you know what, if you're
gonna put it, if you're gonna put it in automobile analogy.

(01:11:25):
You know what I'm saying, Like like I may be used,
I'm a classic, limited edition vintage. You know what I'm saying,
Like a like a sixty six of Polor. Hell yeah, no,
I'm not limited, but I'm limited right now. You know
what I'm saying, Like sixty six of Polor. You know,
like like one of those were like twenty thousand miles.

Speaker 3 (01:11:43):
On twenty thousand better.

Speaker 1 (01:11:48):
That back?

Speaker 4 (01:11:49):
No, no, no, all right, twenty five. But you know
what though, like like think about it, do you know
how hard it is to get a sixty six of
Polor with twenty thousand miles on it, vintage everything. It's
damn there impossible. It's damn there impossible. You know most
people out here, they're just refurbished.

Speaker 1 (01:12:13):
Let me tell you something. Mm hmm, I know, I know.
It's it's it's hard for a lot of people to
to to deal with you know, friends and and relationships,

(01:12:34):
and it's just it's just it's just that. It's it's
it's it's it's not it's not complicated, bro. You just
you just gotta know what you want. You know what
I'm saying. You just gotta know what it is. You know,
you're striving for your your your goals, your wants and
your needs need to align, you know what I'm saying.

(01:12:57):
And there has to be communication understanding, bro.

Speaker 4 (01:13:01):
I mean you know what though, sometimes yon instead of
like you know what I mean, Like sometimes it's like
see a lot of people, you know what I'm saying.
Like one thing, one thing that actually works for me
is that I played it like it's like a lot
like a lot of women do not want to hear it,
but I'm gonna say it. You're playing how it goes.

(01:13:23):
In other words, you what I'm saying, go with the flow.
That's what it means at the end of the day.
You know what I'm saying, Like like, yo, you know what,
there's like a ten foot wave and you know how
to surf. What you're gonna do? Go guess the way
where you're gonna surf that way you're gonna ride that wave.

Speaker 3 (01:13:35):
Yeah, everybody doesn't come with a well intentioned wave. You
want to go with the flow, but the other person
has noing.

Speaker 4 (01:13:44):
Be cautious though, but see you know what, how do
you go.

Speaker 3 (01:13:47):
With the flow and be caught at the same time.
That's that's a oxymoon.

Speaker 4 (01:13:51):
Not not really, not really, not not really, not not really.
You want to know why, because you know what, you
always listen to what the person the same and how
they're saying tones, you know what, Like.

Speaker 3 (01:14:03):
You know, I mean, like go with the flow, doves. Remember,
But you.

Speaker 4 (01:14:07):
Know what I'm saying. It's called acting. Sometimes you got yo,
Y'll see, you know what the problem is? You know
what I'm saying, Like most these people out here, they're
showing you you're representative, and you want to show the
real youth. Sometimes you got to show your representative to
see who that person really is. And that's slowly you
know what I'm saying, Master, I.

Speaker 3 (01:14:21):
Have no energy to show a representative. I am what
I am at all times. I don't need to be
faking around nobody.

Speaker 4 (01:14:30):
Well it's Halloween, Solleen in October.

Speaker 3 (01:14:36):
But I guess that's why I'm probably single for the
rest of my life. I ain't trying to be nobody's representative.

Speaker 4 (01:14:46):
I don't know, you know what I'm saying, because because
because like yo, you know what I mean. But then again,
i mean, like in all honesty, you know what I'm saying.
You know what I'm saying, Like like everyone always has that,
you know what I'm saying, Like you meet someone, you know, like, yeah,
you know what I'm saying, you're into them, whatever, But
like if you have like a little like we're feeling
in your stomach, you treat them a caution, you know

(01:15:09):
what I'm saying, intuition. Everybody has that. Then if they're not,
you know what I'm saying, Like, if if they're not,
you know what I'm saying, if you're around them and
like you're you know what I'm saying, you're just like
fifty percent easy around them. You know, then guess what,
you know what I'm saying, you cut that shit off, period. No,

(01:15:33):
you know, you gotta listen to your intuition. Sometimes see
a lot of people don't listen to their intuition.

Speaker 3 (01:15:38):
Cutting both of y'all off.

Speaker 4 (01:15:40):
Oh yeah, you know what I'm saying business literally you know,
but like it's but like you know what, man, like
you gotta listen to the you know what I'm saying
the putt of your stomach sometimes, you know, like that
feeling where you know it's like, oh, you know, yeah, man,

(01:16:02):
this person, you know what I'm saying, Like every time
around this person, this person makes to feel this way
or whatever. Now I'm about to close this person off,
you know, like.

Speaker 1 (01:16:12):
Yeah, everybody has that one person. You know what I'm saying,
And this is this is what this is what makes
me feel like immune, not not immune. But everybody has
this one person. Whether it's someone that they care about,

(01:16:37):
or someone that you know they're friends with, or someone
that they've been involved with, whatever the case may be,
there's always one person that makes you feel a lot
better about who you are, about where you are in life,

(01:16:59):
about just everything. They just make you feel good all around,
and that person could be it could be anybody, somebody
that you know, you're cool with, your friend, whatever. But

(01:17:20):
you you you look at this person and you know
that you know something, something should be going on, but.

Speaker 4 (01:17:35):
You just.

Speaker 1 (01:17:37):
You're just stuck, you know what I'm saying. Like, it's
it's it's it's it's a it's a bad it's a
bad feeling, you know what I mean. When when you
know there's someone there, and you know that there's someone
that you want to be with, you want to make

(01:17:58):
things work with, you want to be you know what
I'm saying, And and and there's just like a fucking
mental block, bro, like a fucking brick wall that you're
trying to get through to get to this person. And
you know, and the ups and downs and and the

(01:18:19):
constant confusion and thoughts.

Speaker 4 (01:18:22):
And all that, that's when you concentrate on yourself and
everything else play its part.

Speaker 1 (01:18:28):
Yeah, But I mean, it's it's it's not it has
it's not that it has to do with It doesn't
have to do with you know, you not knowing you know,
you know what it is. You're trying to get there,
you know what I'm saying. But this, it's just a

(01:18:50):
couple of obstacles that just have you you know, no no.

Speaker 3 (01:18:58):
People in that spend so much time looking for the
perfect moment to do something, and the truth is there's
never a perfect moment. Sometimes you just have to jump.

Speaker 4 (01:19:10):
Hey man, you know what you either you're either gonna
land on that trampoline or you're gonna land on the ground.
But like you wouldn't known because you ain't jumping.

Speaker 3 (01:19:20):
Yeah, worst case scenario and you're no worse off than
you are before it happens.

Speaker 1 (01:19:29):
But that's the ship though. You you you wanted you
wanted to work out, you know what I'm saying, And
you wanted you wanted to to to be what you
wanted to be. And then you get to the point
where it's like all right, you know, let's you know,
and then all of a sudden it's like, nah, I'm good.
What you do the scooby dooe, you know what I mean?

Speaker 3 (01:19:52):
Like you like, well, you also can't be you also
can't be leaving people hanging out there for so long
that they just move on, you know, because people have
done that, Like they it's like they keep you at
arm's length for so long and you hold on, and
you hold on and you hold on, and then all

(01:20:13):
of a sudden they become ready. And at that point
you're like, dude, you left me out there so long.
I'm wrinkled like a prune, you know. Like, so it's like,
what what do you do with that?

Speaker 1 (01:20:29):
Yeah, you're right, what do you do with that? Every
I guess I guess it's you can't do much right.

Speaker 3 (01:20:38):
No, because it's like you left them out there dangling
for so long.

Speaker 4 (01:20:43):
And at the end of the day, it's your fault there, hm,
you know, like you know what at the end of
the day. See this is where they.

Speaker 3 (01:20:53):
Say you missed the moon looking at the stars.

Speaker 4 (01:20:58):
You miss you're looking at the moon.

Speaker 1 (01:21:00):
I think, whatever, whatever it is, And it sounded like that, m.

Speaker 4 (01:21:07):
Hey, you know what I mean at the end of
the day. I mean, at least it's pouring up in
your hand. You ain't got to worry about your hand
cheating on you, you know what I mean. Like you're
handing your hand, they're gonna step out on you. You're hand,
They're gonna ask you for a plan B. You think, no,
you can't get your hand pregnant. M hm mm hmm. Anyway, nah,

(01:21:36):
but but but like yo for real though, like look,
you know what see at the end of the day, man,
like sometimes you know saying when I say that, play
how it goes? It's like so all.

Speaker 1 (01:21:47):
Right, so so you let's let's yeah, so let's look
at it. Let's let's let's try this. Let's look at
it like this. You you meet someone, you have a
good time. You know, things are cool things. You know,

(01:22:08):
conversations are flowing and things are all right, and you know,
you start to develop these things, and you know, over
time you start to realize that damn, you know, I

(01:22:28):
do I do? You know, I do want to be
with this chick. You know what I'm saying. I do
want to be with this dude. You know what I'm saying.
I do want to be with whoever the fuck you
want to be with. And you know, how do you know?
How do you know that your feelings will be reciprocated
if you stepped forward and said, listen, this is what's something,

(01:22:50):
is how I feel, this is what I think we
should do, this is what I think should happen. How
do you how do you know.

Speaker 4 (01:22:58):
That You're not supposed to know? You just go you
know what I'm saying, like you just bro, I mean,
you know what I'm saying. The most.

Speaker 1 (01:23:07):
That's that, that's my problem. My problem is I will,
I will.

Speaker 4 (01:23:11):
You you you wanna bro? Then yo? Yo, you know
what certain things? You know what I'm saying, like like, see,
here's the thing.

Speaker 3 (01:23:17):
Right if you've risked nothing only nothing.

Speaker 4 (01:23:21):
Like Yo, you're not supposed to know. Just take You
know what I'm saying. Take. You know what I'm saying,
Like like, Yo, you do what if we're down by
three and I'll give you the ball to take the
half course shot? What you're gonna do? Pass it the meat? No, man,
take the half court shot. Bro, it's a fifty to
fifty chance. You're gonna make it. A note, you know

(01:23:43):
the game's on the line. Take the half court shot.
You know what I'm saying. If you lose, If Yo,
we lose, yeah, we're gonna ridicue you. You're a dork.
You know what I'm saying. At the end of the day.
You know what I'm saying. You took the chance. You
know what you're gonna do. Just stand there. You know
what I'm saying. Be stuck on stupid nobody. You know
what I'm saying, like, go for it, bro, you know,

(01:24:05):
like another example, we have to go on it and
I'm giving you know what I'm saying, And I'm giving
you the ball, whe the plate, whether where the plant?
You know what I'm saying. The play wasn't designed for it.
Are you just going to stand there and be like,
h you know what I'm saying, get tackled behind a
line of scrimmage? Are you're just going to run in?

Speaker 3 (01:24:24):
But here's another point of view. If you're having such
difficulty with that, do you think that that that's what
that woman or that man wants in their life. Someone
that they're not sure they can count on to tell
them how they feel, or to do what's necessary when

(01:24:49):
it's necessary. Uh, somebody who is not going to keep
getting stuck when there's things they need to do, you know.
Like again, like like Doves was saying about that self awareness,
like talking to yourself, being with yourself and working on yourself.

(01:25:11):
It's like there are so many factors that are that
are playing into it. So it's like, does anybody want
to be with someone who's afraid to take a chance?
Because then because like me as a woman, if there's
a if there's some dude out there who has feelings
for me and it's taken him forever in a day

(01:25:35):
to actually approach me about it. What if I need
to count on him for something because he's not sure?
Is it going to take him forever and a day
to come through? Can I depend on that person? Can
I count on that person? You know?

Speaker 4 (01:25:50):
Like it just it just sounds want to compare rejections?

Speaker 3 (01:25:56):
Yeah, and so does somebody want to be with somebody
who's always afraid to be rejected? Or do they want
somebody who's gonna take things as they come and process
them as they go.

Speaker 4 (01:26:06):
And make it work and your make it work in
your way either even though it's not supposed to work
in your way, you still find an angle to make
it more.

Speaker 3 (01:26:13):
Find your way, finding the compromise.

Speaker 4 (01:26:18):
You know, like like like yo, you know what it's like.
It's like working the room's cube or something. You know
what I'm saying, Like sometimes you know what I'm saying,
Like like you know, like you have to twist you
know what I'm saying certain angles or whatever. You know,
you're still gonna make it work your way, you know,
Like like yo, you know what anything could be worked
your way. Man. It's just that you know, you gotta

(01:26:39):
find you know what I'm saying, Like I ain't gonna
say like, you know what I'm saying, fine back doors
or whatever. You just gotta look at the puzzle very clearly.

Speaker 1 (01:26:46):
That's you know what I'm saying, ship bro.

Speaker 4 (01:26:49):
Not Yeah, yeah, sure does, this sure does. But like
but like, yo, you know what you just gotta you
know what I'm saying, Like Yo, you know what? All right?
You know what I'm saying. Like some people look at
like a Picasso drawing and be like, what the hell
kind of ship is this? Others look at it like,
you know what I'm saying, it's art because they see the

(01:27:11):
art in it. You got to see the art in
your problem, you know what I'm saying. And then painted,
you know what i mean, Like, you gotta master you
know what I'm saying. You gotta master that situation either
which way, whether something small or something huge. You know
what i mean, master that problem. You know what I'm saying,

(01:27:31):
take that risk. You know what I'm saying. You know
what I'm saying. Billionaires. You know what I'm saying, billionaires
didn't start. You know what I'm saying they didn't come
a billionaire overnight. They took some heavy losses before the
even responsors that I actually work.

Speaker 3 (01:27:48):
Right, Well, that's what they say. You can't you can't
grow if you never fail.

Speaker 4 (01:27:53):
Hell yeah, and I'm a failure. But yet, you know,
I'm saying, I'm still here.

Speaker 3 (01:28:02):
Failure is a part of the process, not a part
of the problem. You gotta fail for things to succeed.

Speaker 4 (01:28:09):
Because jo you know what, if you succeeded the first time,
and you know what I'm saying, and you keep succeeding,
and guess what, it was way too easy.

Speaker 3 (01:28:16):
It is nothing challenging and it's not worth it.

Speaker 4 (01:28:20):
Exactly because if it's easy for you, because it's easy
for somebody else.

Speaker 1 (01:28:27):
Mhmm. So a lot of a lot a lot of
viewers have to think about these days.

Speaker 4 (01:28:34):
Yeah, you know, you know what, I'm pretty sure they know.
It's just that they want us to say it.

Speaker 1 (01:28:39):
Yeah, they want us to say it. That's the thing.
They want the host of the This My Heir podcast
and give them their relationship advice.

Speaker 3 (01:28:48):
Well that's what I did.

Speaker 1 (01:28:54):
Yeah, so but so yeah, I mean, you gotta I
guess you know, you gotta take that leap of face
and see what happens.

Speaker 4 (01:29:03):
Right, Yeah, Yo, you know what, let me give you
a perfect example of a leap of faith. A couple
of years ago in Jones Square, somebody jumped off the
tenth floor, the ninth floor, tenth floor window and no lie,
he can landed on top of a car a BMW
happened to be illegally parked. You land on top of

(01:29:24):
that hood, you know, Yeah, he was messed up, but
he lived. You know, he took a leap of faith.
You know what I'm saying, You're either gonna hit the
ground or you're gonna hit the car and live. You know,
it's it's messed up to use that, to use that
analogy in whatever. But I'm just saying, though, you know,

(01:29:46):
like you know, he lived, you know, and mind you
we're talking like like ninety feet onto a car a
BMW at that. You know, was he messed up?

Speaker 1 (01:30:02):
Yeah?

Speaker 4 (01:30:03):
He probably Know what I'm saying, he probably got all
physical disabilities to this point, you know, till this day, right,
but end of the end of the day, he survived.

Speaker 1 (01:30:18):
So I mean, I guess I know what you're talking about.

Speaker 4 (01:30:23):
Yeah, I know. I'm saying, though you know what I'm saying,
Like I'm saying like like you know, like I mean,
obviously obviously this man want you know what I'm saying,
this man thought that that day was his last day, right,
you know, God, God in the universe said otherwise, I
got a good note.

Speaker 1 (01:30:44):
I ain't know they had.

Speaker 3 (01:30:46):
Four maybe five years ago. I took a leap of
faith and I took a two hour drive to meet
somebody I never met before. Things went well, feelings were had.
I took the leap of faith, and I thought that
he was into me too. We're still friends, but to

(01:31:10):
this day, he's never done anything. He's never made a move,
he's never changed, he's never changed the scenario.

Speaker 4 (01:31:24):
He's gay. So I lost. He could be.

Speaker 1 (01:31:29):
You never know.

Speaker 4 (01:31:31):
I'm just joking.

Speaker 3 (01:31:32):
I'm I'm I'm no worse for whear you know, Like
I took that leap and it didn't turn out the
way I hoped.

Speaker 4 (01:31:42):
Mhm, But get another friend. Yeah, so now I have
exactly so so so so you know what, so even
when you think you're losing, you're actually winning. You know
what I'm saying, Like you lost that what you lost
at the expectations, but to gain some of the tal Yeah,
you know so, so it's it's kind of like a

(01:32:05):
win win in a way, just not what you expected,
but it's a win win.

Speaker 1 (01:32:11):
Yeah.

Speaker 3 (01:32:14):
Yeah, but I wasn't. I would never have gotten to
be such good friends with that guy if I hadn't
had taken that leap, you know. And there's always there's
always a chance of rejection, But if you can't be afraid.

Speaker 4 (01:32:36):
Of rejections, rejection is a part of the game. Injections
a part of is a part of the game, you
know what I mean, Like, like, you know how many
times I've been rejected.

Speaker 3 (01:32:47):
But I don would think if you know yourself, like
if you love yourself, if you are sure of yourself,
I think the rejection doesn't hurt as much because you
know your value you and so regardless of whether other
people see it or not, you your value is still

(01:33:07):
the same, whether other people can see it or not.

Speaker 1 (01:33:16):
I got something. I got something to say.

Speaker 4 (01:33:18):
It's getting a little too hot of there, Yeah.

Speaker 1 (01:33:21):
I got something to say. I make a banging banana pudding.

Speaker 4 (01:33:27):
Yo, you do.

Speaker 1 (01:33:29):
Okay, it's banging. I made some more.

Speaker 3 (01:33:34):
You're not supposed to be eating banana pudding.

Speaker 1 (01:33:38):
Yeah, my daughter loves it. Sorry, I make it for
and I also make sense for myself.

Speaker 3 (01:33:45):
Yeah, and to make yourself sick and not.

Speaker 4 (01:33:47):
Saying it's not called. It's not called I need.

Speaker 1 (01:33:53):
No, it's not. Well. Any final thought us for this
evening does? I'm gonna start with you. I'm gonna start
with you for your final thought before we go.

Speaker 4 (01:34:05):
Almost got hit by a car. That's nice.

Speaker 3 (01:34:07):
Mm hmm.

Speaker 4 (01:34:10):
That really would have been my final thought.

Speaker 1 (01:34:15):
Yeah, real quick, real quick, before you're going.

Speaker 4 (01:34:17):
To man, just keep pushing it. You know what I'm saying,
Take that leap of faith. Man, what I'm saying, take
a leap you know, like if you you know what
I'm saying. If you miss, you miss, if you you
know what I'm saying. But sometimes the unexpected miss is
that it's a very expected game. That's all.

Speaker 1 (01:34:35):
Hold on, all right, lady g what's your final thought
for the evening?

Speaker 3 (01:34:43):
My final thought for the evening, I would say, live
each day to the fullest, and if it's meant to be,
it'll be, and if not, I won't.

Speaker 1 (01:35:00):
Okay, that's a good one.

Speaker 3 (01:35:04):
Mm hmm.

Speaker 1 (01:35:06):
Alright, I'm sorry, go ahead, Yeah.

Speaker 3 (01:35:08):
No, no, no, you just you know, just remembering that
the people that that you're still valuable whether we win
or lose. You know, it's it's that we just keep
getting up. That's all right.

Speaker 4 (01:35:23):
Sometimes a loss is not really a loss, you know what.

Speaker 3 (01:35:27):
Keep your little uh not making sense rhymes and riddles
to yourself.

Speaker 4 (01:35:35):
No, actually does make sense though. A loss is not
really lost because in your head, no, it ain't, you
know what I'm saying, because like because like yo, you
know what, what you think you're losing is not You're
not really losing much, all right.

Speaker 1 (01:35:53):
So my final thought for the evening is I make
a banging banana pudding. If anybody wants a banana putting,
hit me up. I'll make something for you, no doubt
about it. I think. I think that there's sometimes in
your life, some things you go through that open your

(01:36:16):
eyes and help you to understand better. And don't don't
let those things scare you. Follow your heart, follow your gut,
follow the banana pudding.

Speaker 4 (01:36:35):
Yeah, notice you said follow your gut and follow the
banana pudding. It should be follow the banana pudding, follow
your gut, follow that bathroom that smell.

Speaker 3 (01:36:49):
Anyway, each a bana pudding, I'll be.

Speaker 1 (01:36:51):
In the gym anyway, always remember people that at some point.

Speaker 4 (01:36:58):
This my like, Hey, I'm not outside by the way, man,
it's beautiful out here. This September weather is beautiful. Man.

Speaker 1 (01:37:07):
Wow, everybody, have a good night. Have a good night.

Speaker 4 (01:37:11):
That's enough for the weather report. I ain't the Weather channel.

Speaker 1 (01:37:13):
Yeah, have a good night, be safe. We love and
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